Great advice! Wish I would’ve listened to this a year ago! My wife is very combative. She’s not disrespectful but she thinks her emotions and feelings are the most important thing in the home. I thought by telling her over and over how she’s wrong was me letter her know what’s right and wrong. I’m realizing more and more it will never work. This method sounds fool proof. She will probably get irritated at me but I won’t allow myself to go there. Once I say “I understand what you’re saying but I’m not going to argue with you” she will then try to get me to explain and prove I understand by her asking numerous questions. I’m going to keep it short and simple and calm. Thank you!
I was out jogging around Lake Kittamaqundi in Columbia last night when I saw a young brother arguing with his woman. First, I think it's worth mentioning that he was fit and put together. Meanwhile, she was out there looking like a busted Pillsbury biscuit can. It looked like she was flipping him major attitude, and he was visibly frustrated. I badly wanted to call out the Cal Mo Show or AMS to this poor guy, but I didn't want to muck things up for him any more than she had already. By all observation, he was the prize but was lowering himself to her level, dwelling in her emotional world, and losing to a 2 at best. Unreal.
Unfortunately my mother behaves in an angry, aggressive manner. When I was a pre teen she tried to groom me to behave like her but I fought hard against it. I was determined to think, act and behave the polar opposite of how she does.For so many years of my life I had to act like a parent and apologize for her atrocious behavior one time my mother got into an argument with a big and tall man I tried to explain to her that a woman should never verbally + physically challenge a man (the exception is if this woman is in a serious life threatening situation) she cursed me out. So many women in this community see femininity, vulnerability and friendliness as a major sign of weakness instead of a vital survival skill.
i dont know what u mean but im physcially jacked been going to the gym for 10 years and black belt in wing chen kung fu but there are women who can still beat me without trying
And that, my friends, is the gospel truth. Women don't care about reason or logic or the facts or the truth. So us men will always lose and argument with them. With them it's not about being right or wrong, but about wearing you down til you just give up your position.
I really love your delivery. I'm not sure where I have been and what's changed or going on in the world. I am now hearing so much about women with masculine energy. I am so thankful that I do not have characteristics of a combative woman. This is the first and only video of yours that I have listened to. Thanks so much for sharing. I will definitely listen to more, share, and subscribe.
Thank you. I’m about to have a baby in less than a month and I’ve just been trying my hardest to make me and mommas relationship work but I’m just so don’t trying and arguing and trying to explain myself when I’m not even in the wrong
I Never Argue With Women And Feed Their Egos And Their Shit Tests, I Caught On To Their Game Back In My Teens And Seeing Other Men Deal With Their Women, I'm 55 Years Old, Single, No Kids, No Baby Mama Drama, No Child Support Payments I Have To Make Every Month From The Court System, No Alimony Payments, More Freedom, I Keep My Sanity, No Complaints!!!!!!!
You remind me of Outkast Big boi. I used to work with a really nice looking 1.. heard her say she bosses around her guy.. they enjoy that, I even told her that wouldn't fly with me I wouldn't argue with her.. gotta check em quick n smooth bc they drain u like u said I agree with the whole video 10/10
New Subscriber here, looking forward to watching the growth of your platform with these gems and messages so many young men and men in general need to hear.
This man is slept on he really helped me out. There’s this really masculine chick in my group project and it’s been two days of me dealing with her back and fourth. I guess I already knew how to handle masculine women because halfway towards the end of each project session I tell her calmly “look I get that _____ is bothering you but I’m not going to argue with you”. She usually talks to herself but she just looks more and more like one of those crazy cat ladies if you know what I mean Earned my sub
Appreciate this advice bro! I had a woman that was extremely combative, she man me feel like I was crazy. She was older and realized she had past trauma that she was projecting into the relationship. I eventually left but it really exhausted me and deterred me from my purpose.
Solid insights and advice. First of all, the shit test is a workhorse tool in the feminine arsenal. You correctly identified the effectiveness of "amused mastery" in handling personal put-downs or jabs. Lateness is another big one in her toolkit. They blow past meetup times on purpose to see how willing you are to assert yourself. Plus a woman who shows up late signals that she is not interested enough to risk that awkward few minutes of waiting alone if you happen to be delayed. You are also correct in pointing out that women will first try to bring you onto their home field of emotion before holding court. "Hold your position" is excellent advice. I would like to put the cautionary point you made into different words: when you hold your position, pull back your engagement, and state that you're not going to argue, expect the Jezebel Spirit to come out of her for a bit. You will take incoming. Just keep your heads down and weapons on safe. It'll pass. And then yeah, what do you do when she continues to step to you? Put her back on the streets--the relationship is over. A man MUST have peace, quiet, and freedom in his home or else he has NOTHING. Keep pushing out content brother. Kick it up a notch or two even. This red pill thing is about to get lit.
Very true lol I used to go to war with my ex... kicked my butt... I was late for work I was so tired smh.. now nope ain't got time for that. Not arguing anymore.. she heard what I said so I'm not going to argue.
I have done this. Turns out, shutting the fuck up and saying "I understand" is worse than actually using my wisdom to speak and guide us to safety, as speaking using logic and understanding can draw up an argument. Catch 22. Hurts my head, makes me feel as if I'm depriving my knowledge an intelligence just to hold this structure together as well as feeling like I care more, having had more structured/layered discussions that aren't vague, but in depth; using words, tones that are conducive to intellectual odds. Idk...sometimes I wish I knew how to just stop looking for nails and put down the hammer. I have a defensive female & she smokes weed which further decreases her emotional intelligence. P.S I wrote this only a couple minutes in and it matches up with the rest of the video. Ha. You spoke on logic etc.
I'll laugh at the joke abt me being 5'9, and tell her " Thanks for the compliment actually I'm 5'3 with high heels on' and finally while smiling hit her with, 'You're so manipulative, reminds me of my infant little sister when she feels powerless to me'.
Thanks my brother, I always set myself up for failure by going back and forth , or if I say something that upsets her even though I'm right it will open up the door for her to turn into the victim.
All good advice but my only question is how do you deal with a combative/masculine woman that is your boss? Is the man screwed at this point and needs to find another job? Way too many times I've been in a situation where my boss is a combative/masculine woman whose manipulative, quick to jump to conclusions without real proof, and passive aggressive that is almost to the point of crossing the line of them being disciplined for harassment. I've literally had to rethink my choices of career to fields not known for having women in them to avoid conflict with women in the workplace because it seems to be from my experience that most of the women in high positions tend to be this way. My wife is very respectful to me and everyone one else with very little exceptions. I don't understand the hate and disrespect from women going on today. It used to not be this bad. But lately all I have to do is walk in an apple store like I did the other day to get a new phone to only have a a young 20 something get all disrespectful/passive aggressive with me because I had questions about their product compared to their competitor. These were simple questions about their product and their competitors and she was acting like it was some kind of personal attack! Like wtf!?
Daswjon 1- me as well, I always thought arguing back and getting loud makes them back off but it's the total opposite, now I have went in hard at times and she ended up being quite but then here comes the silent treatment or a FUNKY attitude, so now politely saying , I'm not engaging or arguing with you and keeping true to those words will leave them by themselves in their on feelings.
@@ignoranceisnotatrend4669 most definitely bro, I’ve also learned that it’s better to leave gems throughout your argument for them to pick up instead trying to force Feed your point in the disagreement… Also now I know most women naturally refuse accountability so we have to be extremely patient and compassionate to that point, it’s not easy though lol
@@daswjon when you say gems, do you mean like saying something to the effect of.........when I feel like you're are being combative for no reason its setting us back from establishing healthy communication within our relationship. Something to that effect. 👍💯
@@ignoranceisnotatrend4669 exactly dawg, something for them to critically think about when you calmly walk away… i find that works way better than yelling
@@daswjon thank you brother, I'm really going to work at re-training my mindset on how I deal with arguments. Stay strong my brother, sometimes I cry just thinking about how black people have been set up and set back from not having the resources and being denied the things that make us better people amongst ourselves. 💯💯💯🙏
Best way to deal with them is NOT to deal with them. I said this 9 seconds in.
LET THE CHURCH SAY.........🙏🏽😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Yeah, I dont really want a masculine woman, same way a woman doesnt want a feminine man
😂😂😂
Cha-Ching!!
💯
Great advice! Wish I would’ve listened to this a year ago! My wife is very combative. She’s not disrespectful but she thinks her emotions and feelings are the most important thing in the home. I thought by telling her over and over how she’s wrong was me letter her know what’s right and wrong. I’m realizing more and more it will never work. This method sounds fool proof. She will probably get irritated at me but I won’t allow myself to go there. Once I say “I understand what you’re saying but I’m not going to argue with you” she will then try to get me to explain and prove I understand by her asking numerous questions. I’m going to keep it short and simple and calm. Thank you!
Yes, avoid them. It will save you many arguments and headaches.
Just don't deal with them. That's easy.
Exactly, let them rot
Ultimately, you should leave an unreasonable Woman. Great video.
I was out jogging around Lake Kittamaqundi in Columbia last night when I saw a young brother arguing with his woman. First, I think it's worth mentioning that he was fit and put together. Meanwhile, she was out there looking like a busted Pillsbury biscuit can. It looked like she was flipping him major attitude, and he was visibly frustrated. I badly wanted to call out the Cal Mo Show or AMS to this poor guy, but I didn't want to muck things up for him any more than she had already. By all observation, he was the prize but was lowering himself to her level, dwelling in her emotional world, and losing to a 2 at best. Unreal.
😤😔
That’s sad man
That’s me rn
Unfortunately my mother behaves in an angry, aggressive manner. When I was a pre teen she tried to groom me to behave like her but I fought hard against it. I was determined to think, act and behave the polar opposite of how she does.For so many years of my life I had to act like a parent and apologize for her atrocious behavior one time my mother got into an argument with a big and tall man I tried to explain to her that a woman should never verbally + physically challenge a man (the exception is if this woman is in a serious life threatening situation) she cursed me out. So many women in this community see femininity, vulnerability and friendliness as a major sign of weakness instead of a vital survival skill.
yeah no wonder she got angry at you
i dont know what u mean but im physcially jacked been going to the gym for 10 years and black belt in wing chen kung fu but there are women who can still beat me without trying
Beat you physically or mentally.
"They chose not to listen to that". 100% spot on.
And that, my friends, is the gospel truth.
Women don't care about reason or logic or the facts or the truth. So us men will always lose and argument with them. With them it's not about being right or wrong, but about wearing you down til you just give up your position.
I really love your delivery. I'm not sure where I have been and what's changed or going on in the world. I am now hearing so much about women with masculine energy. I am so thankful that I do not have characteristics of a combative woman. This is the first and only video of yours that I have listened to. Thanks so much for sharing. I will definitely listen to more, share, and subscribe.
I dont play them games i walk away the hell with those tests
Thank you. I’m about to have a baby in less than a month and I’ve just been trying my hardest to make me and mommas relationship work but I’m just so don’t trying and arguing and trying to explain myself when I’m not even in the wrong
I Never Argue With Women And Feed Their Egos And Their Shit Tests, I Caught On To Their Game Back In My Teens And Seeing Other Men Deal With Their Women, I'm 55 Years Old, Single, No Kids, No Baby Mama Drama, No Child Support Payments I Have To Make Every Month From The Court System, No Alimony Payments, More Freedom, I Keep My Sanity, No Complaints!!!!!!!
Why are all of your words capitalized? Is this a Panic! At the Disco song title?
Stay blessed 🙌 😇 🙏 that's some KING shit, feel me? 🙌 😎😎
You are blessed
@@timharris1675 STILL AM NOW 2 YEARS LATER, RESPECT!!!!!!!
You remind me of Outkast Big boi. I used to work with a really nice looking 1.. heard her say she bosses around her guy.. they enjoy that, I even told her that wouldn't fly with me I wouldn't argue with her.. gotta check em quick n smooth bc they drain u like u said I agree with the whole video 10/10
Exactly right. Superb commentary.
New Subscriber here, looking forward to watching the growth of your platform with these gems and messages so many young men and men in general need to hear.
This man is slept on he really helped me out. There’s this really masculine chick in my group project and it’s been two days of me dealing with her back and fourth. I guess I already knew how to handle masculine women because halfway towards the end of each project session I tell her calmly “look I get that _____ is bothering you but I’m not going to argue with you”. She usually talks to herself but she just looks more and more like one of those crazy cat ladies if you know what I mean
Earned my sub
Appreciate this advice bro! I had a woman that was extremely combative, she man me feel like I was crazy. She was older and realized she had past trauma that she was projecting into the relationship. I eventually left but it really exhausted me and deterred me from my purpose.
Solid insights and advice. First of all, the shit test is a workhorse tool in the feminine arsenal. You correctly identified the effectiveness of "amused mastery" in handling personal put-downs or jabs. Lateness is another big one in her toolkit. They blow past meetup times on purpose to see how willing you are to assert yourself. Plus a woman who shows up late signals that she is not interested enough to risk that awkward few minutes of waiting alone if you happen to be delayed. You are also correct in pointing out that women will first try to bring you onto their home field of emotion before holding court. "Hold your position" is excellent advice. I would like to put the cautionary point you made into different words: when you hold your position, pull back your engagement, and state that you're not going to argue, expect the Jezebel Spirit to come out of her for a bit. You will take incoming. Just keep your heads down and weapons on safe. It'll pass. And then yeah, what do you do when she continues to step to you? Put her back on the streets--the relationship is over. A man MUST have peace, quiet, and freedom in his home or else he has NOTHING. Keep pushing out content brother. Kick it up a notch or two even. This red pill thing is about to get lit.
You not only not deal with them you use your Passport and go get women who are feminine, fit, and friendly!🤣😂
music and background too loud
Very true lol I used to go to war with my ex... kicked my butt... I was late for work I was so tired smh.. now nope ain't got time for that. Not arguing anymore.. she heard what I said so I'm not going to argue.
Just walk away! bye DEDE!
Ignore and keep it moving and don't bless no broad cashapp!
Just leave the combative women alone. Walk away
I have done this. Turns out, shutting the fuck up and saying "I understand" is worse than actually using my wisdom to speak and guide us to safety, as speaking using logic and understanding can draw up an argument. Catch 22. Hurts my head, makes me feel as if I'm depriving my knowledge an intelligence just to hold this structure together as well as feeling like I care more, having had more structured/layered discussions that aren't vague, but in depth; using words, tones that are conducive to intellectual odds. Idk...sometimes I wish I knew how to just stop looking for nails and put down the hammer. I have a defensive female & she smokes weed which further decreases her emotional intelligence.
P.S I wrote this only a couple minutes in and it matches up with the rest of the video. Ha. You spoke on logic etc.
6:42. Masculine nen dont make social media posts 💯
I'll laugh at the joke abt me being 5'9, and tell her " Thanks for the compliment actually I'm 5'3 with high heels on' and finally while smiling hit her with, 'You're so manipulative, reminds me of my infant little sister when she feels powerless to me'.
I’m the 100th sub!!!!
Thanks my brother, I always set myself up for failure by going back and forth , or if I say something that upsets her even though I'm right it will open up the door for her to turn into the victim.
Great content brotha!
Why is it that your response can’t see that in your attempt to lead you have triggered something that she needs to protect.
Women under the Fire Sign are more masculine
WALK away END OF!!
🏃 🏃 🏃 🏃 🏃 like the devil himself is behind you because SHE IS
All good advice but my only question is how do you deal with a combative/masculine woman that is your boss? Is the man screwed at this point and needs to find another job? Way too many times I've been in a situation where my boss is a combative/masculine woman whose manipulative, quick to jump to conclusions without real proof, and passive aggressive that is almost to the point of crossing the line of them being disciplined for harassment. I've literally had to rethink my choices of career to fields not known for having women in them to avoid conflict with women in the workplace because it seems to be from my experience that most of the women in high positions tend to be this way. My wife is very respectful to me and everyone one else with very little exceptions. I don't understand the hate and disrespect from women going on today. It used to not be this bad. But lately all I have to do is walk in an apple store like I did the other day to get a new phone to only have a a young 20 something get all disrespectful/passive aggressive with me because I had questions about their product compared to their competitor. These were simple questions about their product and their competitors and she was acting like it was some kind of personal attack! Like wtf!?
It’s because they don’t get punched in the face for being nasty. They living life on easy mode.
Thank you bro
Glad I found this video after high stress level arguments with an irrational woman Jesus
Daswjon 1- me as well, I always thought arguing back and getting loud makes them back off but it's the total opposite, now I have went in hard at times and she ended up being quite but then here comes the silent treatment or a FUNKY attitude, so now politely saying , I'm not engaging or arguing with you and keeping true to those words will leave them by themselves in their on feelings.
@@ignoranceisnotatrend4669 most definitely bro, I’ve also learned that it’s better to leave gems throughout your argument for them to pick up instead trying to force Feed your point in the disagreement… Also now I know most women naturally refuse accountability so we have to be extremely patient and compassionate to that point, it’s not easy though lol
@@daswjon when you say gems, do you mean like saying something to the effect of.........when I feel like you're are being combative for no reason its setting us back from establishing healthy communication within our relationship. Something to that effect. 👍💯
@@ignoranceisnotatrend4669 exactly dawg, something for them to critically think about when you calmly walk away… i find that works way better than yelling
@@daswjon thank you brother, I'm really going to work at re-training my mindset on how I deal with arguments. Stay strong my brother, sometimes I cry just thinking about how black people have been set up and set back from not having the resources and being denied the things that make us better people amongst ourselves. 💯💯💯🙏
My sisters
Don't!😐