I learned this as a boy from my father. He is a kind man, but he also does not tolerate bullshit in any form. Always had command of any conversation because he never became emotional even in the face of disrespect. Great video Coach.
@@garrettdanielsii2305 Happy to explain. He addressed conflict head-on but in a calm manner. You could feel his intensity through his eyes and his serious tone. Never emotional but he didn't let disrespect slide.
@@chromaticsoundco.7664 So like a dad. Yup. The more I see what's real, and I see that previous generations of men were right in how they treated others. At least not the bad parts, like machismo, but the quiet as power dad look thing, or saying less,. We saw "toxic masculinity" and traded our manhood and what works for us as men.
@@chromaticsoundco.7664 If someone screams at you, that’s the equivalent of them punching you in the face. If you don’t block that strike, you’re just taking a punch to the face. Your father took the punch to his face.
@@Skjeggspir Screaming at someone is not equivalent to physical violence. You’re exactly the type of person who has trouble controlling their emotions.
This is best analysis & reasoning I’ve heard to not match someone else’s energy. “Some people use you to further their sickness” Be the dictator of your energy, reactions & responses when interacting with people. A helluva gem!
Coach, you’ve just described a woman almost exactly I met on a dating site a few months back, who was very confrontational and dramatic, so I ghosted her to avoid getting into further squabbles with her that were pointless except her trying to always validate she being right, and “toxic” would be the word to describe her personality. So the more I ignored her, the more she came back trying patch things back up but the convo always ends up sour again, so I had to block her and move on.
know what u mean.. I completely cut off one of the most attractive women, I have known for this same reason, she was super badd, but real mouthy,, Dueces...didnt look back..isn't worth it.
Happened to me today, I blocked a toxic woman, Tried my best to keep the relationship going but she is just cold and very passive..things becale boring and lifeless between us so I deleted her respectfully and calmly, no drama no fight and moved on
With women in my observation. You never get a 2nd chance to make a 1st impression. However you respond to her the first 2-3 disagreements is Precisely the energy and attitude she will shit test you with for the remainder of her stay. Stay Frosty.
Literally real time. I’m in the middle of a situation… this video popped up. I was able to watch, craft my response, de-escalate the situation all while maintaining frame and showing leadership. There’s no doubt my wife and I will sit down in the next week or so and end our 21 yr marriage. But we can keep it cordial and minimize the bs. And I get my life back at age 51 with plenty of time to still achieve my goals and sprinkle in some younger Tang here and there. Thanks EO.
as the Bible says a soft word turns away wrath my brother not matching negative energy temperance I have that in me also coach I appreciate your advice
Coach EO Is correct in his assertion. My analogy would be a moving freight train. In order to be a freight train, all the wheels must stay on the track even when forces are exerted even in curves. If you allow the side forces to become too great and the train jumps the tracks, then the train ceases to be a viable train. “All this to say guys, when external forces are exerted on you, stay on track”!
I have done this, control my energy on different situations. Always maintain yourself men, we're hunters so patience is a requirement from us. You gentlemen will be surprised how another person looks once they see no emotions or attitude came from you based on their behavior.
I saw Everett for the first time yesterday due to this video coming up on my feed for some unknown reason. I watched the video and thought what he said was worth a try, but I wasn't that impressed and didn't bookmark the video and I didn't Subscribe. So I started last night using Everett's idea with my normal interactions with my sometimes dysfunctional, combative wife. I was amazed with how well the night went and how calm and confident Everett's idea made me. And all day today it's been the same great results! Wow! So I went through my TH-cam History this evening and found this video again and bookmarked it. Oh yes, and I Subscribed too! Thank you, Everett! I might add, some of the comments for this video are also very good.
If someone screams at you, that’s the equivalent of them punching you in the face. If you don’t block that strike, you’re just taking a punch to the face.
Love this information. I had a ordeal where I. Was met with some frustrating energy from my women this am otw to work. I can tell she was frustrated from things the previous night before. And I used as you said solution based mindset . And yes things ended up smoothing out before I left for work. Appreciate this and all that you do coach Everett. Your a champion man. With a mindset to match. Salute Brodie 💪🏿💯🧘🏿♂️
I am suffering from hot and cold behaviour from my gf and i can't figure out what do to. Find this video. very informative . Thankyou from the bottom of my heart.
You see something in the fridge that isn't yours of course you shouldn't eat it, but you should be aware that if you put something good in there expect for it to be gone😂
The worst thing you can do is match someone's energy? In this situation, yes. But, in many other situations it is the right thing to do; in particular, developing rapport.
Personally if I saw pizza in the fridge that wasn’t mine I wouldn’t have eaten it unless if found out who it belonged to and if they wanted it or not. This problem could have been entirely avoided by having a little better awareness and consideration.
Oh yeah I work with people like that toxic personality misery loves company when they try to get a rise out of me I don't deal with them I just walk away and nod my head.I know that slice of pizza looked very tempting you can't assume it was for the taking is like that old-school saying when you assume you make an ass out of me and you.👍
I still think if someone approached you EO wanting to fight and you spoke the way you are now, you could easily diffuse the situation. (Most of the time )
Mashing her and living in her dwelling place temporarily is suicidal. He should have smashed once his house was completed. I think he thought he had smashing privileges under her roof. Basic roommates rules: no sharing of food unless consented by both. All he did was left us with an overtly masculine woman still jonesing for pizza. However, I am impressed, EO, how you gave him techniques to smash.
Because there’s two people in the house, he should’ve just asked her if she planned on eating any pizza. Both need to be considerate to one another. It doesn’t hurt to be considerate.
I am not sure if this is the best advice to deal with modern aggressive women. Maybe once it’s ok , maybe two or three times but also men need to have back bone and set boundaries. Women tend to be aggressive and men violent, however women tend to be more aggressive verbally in relationships than men because also they know nothing happens
Invaluable stuff right here, we can't all ball but yknow I may work on this one myself this I ate yo pizza baby chill this should be a saying or something
I appreciate your wisdom. But check this out. Communication rule the nation and the best nation is donation, and if you ain’t donating you’re rotating. Peace be with you. Inshallah.
That's 100% me. And I even told the b that thats how I was and I even said I need to work on it to where I can be my own mood and don't worry about her talking about how she don't want to do life anymore she always tired sleepy hurting ahit like that lol I guess I'm weak but I has to block her from all forms of communication cuz it's all the time it's everyday fuck that shit
How to respond to an aggressive, bossy, narcissistic behavior female? Just house mates but not obligated financially in any other way beyond rent & utilities
How do you deal with a woman who puts her grandkids before you? Now Coach I said grandkids. Don’t get me wrong I care very much about the kids but her daughter is litteraly running her into the ground when the kids is her responsibility not the grandmother? What should I do? Also my dumbass propose to this woman that I’m with and I Don know where she lives? This woman has red, green, brown, and black flags. Coach is it time to step away. I love her but dam she’s killing us quickly. Check it, she called off the wedding because it was so stressful and her family wanted it more than she did. Coach what should be my game plan.?
Yep don't let anyone change your mood They are not that important. Don't be minipulated ...it's witchcraft
A man is the mountain that can’t be blown around by the ever changing winds. Great advice coach.
I learned this as a boy from my father. He is a kind man, but he also does not tolerate bullshit in any form. Always had command of any conversation because he never became emotional even in the face of disrespect. Great video Coach.
Mind explaining how he didn't tolerate bullshit but also never became emotional against disrespect?
@@garrettdanielsii2305 Happy to explain. He addressed conflict head-on but in a calm manner. You could feel his intensity through his eyes and his serious tone. Never emotional but he didn't let disrespect slide.
@@chromaticsoundco.7664 So like a dad. Yup. The more I see what's real, and I see that previous generations of men were right in how they treated others. At least not the bad parts, like machismo, but the quiet as power dad look thing, or saying less,. We saw "toxic masculinity" and traded our manhood and what works for us as men.
@@chromaticsoundco.7664 If someone screams at you, that’s the equivalent of them punching you in the face.
If you don’t block that strike, you’re just taking a punch to the face. Your father took the punch to his face.
@@Skjeggspir Screaming at someone is not equivalent to physical violence. You’re exactly the type of person who has trouble controlling their emotions.
Leaders don't match energy, they set the tone...others either follow or they fired 😂, these shorts are gold 🔥def feel for this brother
Say it again, say it again.....in Pinky's voice!!
@@MisterE1976 😂
This is best analysis & reasoning I’ve heard to not match someone else’s energy. “Some people use you to further their sickness” Be the dictator of your energy, reactions & responses when interacting with people. A helluva gem!
Coach, you’ve just described a woman almost exactly I met on a dating site a few months back, who was very confrontational and dramatic, so I ghosted her to avoid getting into further squabbles with her that were pointless except her trying to always validate she being right, and “toxic” would be the word to describe her personality. So the more I ignored her, the more she came back trying patch things back up but the convo always ends up sour again, so I had to block her and move on.
know what u mean..
I completely cut off one of the most attractive women, I have known for this same reason, she was super badd, but real mouthy,, Dueces...didnt look back..isn't worth it.
Happened to me today, I blocked a toxic woman, Tried my best to keep the relationship going but she is just cold and very passive..things becale boring and lifeless between us so I deleted her respectfully and calmly, no drama no fight and moved on
Dude exactly same experience here, same details and result. Bye now don't participate in that stuff.
What is their problem? If you ask them to join a boxing gym to fight they never seem to want to but still wanna act like they’re up for fighting
Thing is a lot of these women are highly narcissistic. You did the right thing
With women in my observation. You never get a 2nd chance to make a 1st impression. However you respond to her the first 2-3 disagreements is Precisely the energy and attitude she will shit test you with for the remainder of her stay. Stay Frosty.
Literally real time. I’m in the middle of a situation… this video popped up. I was able to watch, craft my response, de-escalate the situation all while maintaining frame and showing leadership. There’s no doubt my wife and I will sit down in the next week or so and end our 21 yr marriage. But we can keep it cordial and minimize the bs. And I get my life back at age 51 with plenty of time to still achieve my goals and sprinkle in some younger Tang here and there. Thanks EO.
The worst thing that you can do is match other people's energy
as the Bible says a soft word turns away wrath my brother not matching negative energy temperance I have that in me also coach I appreciate your advice
This is great advice, not just for dealing with women, but life.
Coach EO Is correct in his assertion. My analogy would be a moving freight train. In order to be a freight train, all the wheels must stay on the track even when forces are exerted even in curves. If you allow the side forces to become too great and the train jumps the tracks, then the train ceases to be a viable train. “All this to say guys, when external forces are exerted on you, stay on track”!
I needed this. I take the bait and respond in kind too much of the time. I just did it yesterday. Thank you Coach EO
Same. It's appreciated.
I concur. Matching someone is "reactive" in these kind of circumstances.
You’re also falling into “their frame”.
Strongest frame wins.
#Crucial
Great advice, most women, even good ones, will get super emotional to test you unconsciously.
You have to be the rock against her emotional waves.
I have done this, control my energy on different situations.
Always maintain yourself men, we're hunters so patience is a requirement from us.
You gentlemen will be surprised how another person looks once they see no emotions or attitude came from you based on their behavior.
I saw Everett for the first time yesterday due to this video coming up on my feed for some unknown reason. I watched the video and thought what he said was worth a try, but I wasn't that impressed and didn't bookmark the video and I didn't Subscribe.
So I started last night using Everett's idea with my normal interactions with my sometimes dysfunctional, combative wife. I was amazed with how well the night went and how calm and confident Everett's idea made me. And all day today it's been the same great results! Wow!
So I went through my TH-cam History this evening and found this video again and bookmarked it.
Oh yes, and I Subscribed too! Thank you, Everett!
I might add, some of the comments for this video are also very good.
If someone screams at you, that’s the equivalent of them punching you in the face.
If you don’t block that strike, you’re just taking a punch to the face.
Bro this is on point! Matching energy has made me bitter af. I need to get back to my more stoic state of existence.
So basically, just do ur own ting, and if people respek it iz what iz, if they don't, you know who ain't compatible and it iz what iz. 👽
Spot on advice. Not just for women. In everyday life.
Love this information. I had a ordeal where I. Was met with some frustrating energy from my women this am otw to work. I can tell she was frustrated from things the previous night before. And I used as you said solution based mindset . And yes things ended up smoothing out before I left for work. Appreciate this and all that you do coach Everett. Your a champion man. With a mindset to match. Salute Brodie 💪🏿💯🧘🏿♂️
Wisely well said, thanks I need to hear this.
Coach is right. I love it! Stay yourself, don’t change your energy to match theirs. Quality video.
Wow you’re one of the first people I’ve heard explain this like this. Great insight, thank you
Best advice ever, Coach dropping gems🔥
Amen and amen brother 👍👑
Word. This is so important. Great reminder...
I struggle with this problem as well. I will work on it
Thank you..message came right on time
Interesting, never thought about this but does make sense in a way.
Thank you for this wisdom.
I am suffering from hot and cold behaviour from my gf and i can't figure out what do to. Find this video. very informative . Thankyou from the bottom of my heart.
Girl called me ugly, i said thank you, her attitude changed immediately
One of the best lessons this year 💪
Your Amazing coach. Excellent advice
You see something in the fridge that isn't yours of course you shouldn't eat it, but you should be aware that if you put something good in there expect for it to be gone😂
Awesome video 👌, I agree 100%
Great insight EO
I needed this 👍
How is this video timed so perfectly?
Man that is so my Boss right there, trying to push buttons and projecting stuff. Good advice.
Another good one Coach. Keep it going.
The worst thing you can do is match someone's energy? In this situation, yes. But, in many other situations it is the right thing to do; in particular, developing rapport.
Perfect Advice and well said.
Coach you are so smart and wise. I wish you the best in life: success, happiness, peace, wealth, health and a polygamous relationship.
Spot on ! I agree with you 100%. Always be on control, cool as a cucumber!
thought i saw every video
big timing 💯💯
Matching energies is a thing of the past! There's a reason why dirt cannot be cleaned with dirt
Proverbs 15:1 € A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.
Right on..
Great advice 👍 thank you!
Big eye opener
Dude,absolutely amazing advice. . .subscribe 👍🏾👍🏾
man you right asl, checked my shi. appreciate it.
BIG COACH E O IS SMOOTH!
💯 agreed
Lesson learned👍
Interesting perspective.
Great video thanks brother
needed this, thanks.
Oh, this just dropped an hour ago. I've never been this early.
Personally if I saw pizza in the fridge that wasn’t mine I wouldn’t have eaten it unless if found out who it belonged to and if they wanted it or not. This problem could have been entirely avoided by having a little better awareness and consideration.
Very Good Point.
Don't get moved off center. Yes, no and OK are complete sentences.
There’s the door
Agreed.
Coach- yup all very high school maturity vibe.
How is it people haven't learned this by the time the can drive a car?
Bet coach 💯
Oh yeah I work with people like that toxic personality misery loves company when they try to get a rise out of me I don't deal with them I just walk away and nod my head.I know that slice of pizza looked very tempting you can't assume it was for the taking is like that old-school saying when you assume you make an ass out of me and you.👍
keep it 100%
They always wanna get in your face till you rock her shit now all of a sudden she don’t wanna fight, what happened I thought you was tough ?
smooth those waves bro...
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Wise words...
W video and advice bro
I still think if someone approached you EO wanting to fight and you spoke the way you are now, you could easily diffuse the situation. (Most of the time )
If things go wrong, don't go with them.
I'm curious, if it wasn't your pizza why would you eat it? That's dirty frat house boy behavior.
Mashing her and living in her dwelling place temporarily is suicidal. He should have smashed once his house was completed. I think he thought he had smashing privileges under her roof. Basic roommates rules: no sharing of food unless consented by both. All he did was left us with an overtly masculine woman still jonesing for pizza. However, I am impressed, EO, how you gave him techniques to smash.
It’s time to keep it off with a woman when she makes disrespectful comments
Because there’s two people in the house, he should’ve just asked her if she planned on eating any pizza. Both need to be considerate to one another. It doesn’t hurt to be considerate.
This is one of the real "est" videos I've seen you make.
Don't accept bad attitude. It is like accepting or giving a change to misbehave again and again
I am not sure if this is the best advice to deal with modern aggressive women. Maybe once it’s ok , maybe two or three times but also men need to have back bone and set boundaries. Women tend to be aggressive and men violent, however women tend to be more aggressive verbally in relationships than men because also they know nothing happens
If somebody ate my pizza I wouldn't be happy either
Invaluable stuff right here, we can't all ball but yknow I may work on this one myself this I ate yo pizza baby chill this should be a saying or something
I appreciate your wisdom. But check this out. Communication rule the nation and the best nation is donation, and if you ain’t donating you’re rotating. Peace be with you. Inshallah.
That's 100% me. And I even told the b that thats how I was and I even said I need to work on it to where I can be my own mood and don't worry about her talking about how she don't want to do life anymore she always tired sleepy hurting ahit like that lol I guess I'm weak but I has to block her from all forms of communication cuz it's all the time it's everyday fuck that shit
How to respond to an aggressive, bossy, narcissistic behavior female? Just house mates but not obligated financially in any other way beyond rent & utilities
My wife goes crazy over anything and doesn’t let up
Some women deserve the treatment
I thought DJ Khaled was a rapper sor something like that...
4:04 and some of that juicy tender wood 👽😏
🔥🔥🔥🔥
So he eats her pizza and she is suppose to not lrt him know he is a jerk? In summary, don't eat other people's pizza.
How do you deal with a woman who puts her grandkids before you? Now Coach I said grandkids. Don’t get me wrong I care very much about the kids but her daughter is litteraly running her into the ground when the kids is her responsibility not the grandmother? What should I do? Also my dumbass propose to this woman that I’m with and I Don know where she lives? This woman has red, green, brown, and black flags. Coach is it time to step away. I love her but dam she’s killing us quickly. Check it, she called off the wedding because it was so stressful and her family wanted it more than she did. Coach what should be my game plan.?
Imagine two alphas in a relationship 😂
A follower "cannot" be a leader.
Sounds like your letting women go and not holding them accountable
Stoicism, sense of humor and dictate your opinion with your position and availability.