Honestly, I’m a little miffed at how she said her worst fear is not being home with her husband and future kid. I’m a critical care nurse who worked exclusively as a heart failure and transplant coordinator. You know what real fears are ? Living in the hospital while you wait for a heart, knowing that someone has to die so you can live. Watching someone you love struggle to do anything and knowing you can’t help. Worrying that you won’t be able to afford the lifetime meds you’ll need. That girl needs a reality check.
Yes! Friend!! OR nurse at a level 1- I literally watched this and out loud said “THATS your biggest fear?? I could think of at least 99 other things scarier than that!” We’ve seen shit that haunts you, and she is scared she will have to put her kids in daycare for a few hours 😂😂 Stay strong sister, times are rough ❤
@@mayvel1537 I agree. Although I also think she’s ridiculous for it being her biggest fear, she’s young and sheltered and untouched by tragedy and trauma. Eventually, she’ll have those serious experiences and realize how silly her “biggest fears” are right now. I think about what I thought was upsetting when I was newly married…and it was silly stuff. There’s always someone out there who has it worse, who has “real problems”, etc. My mom has a really bad pain disorder. It’s really bad. But because of that, she disregards any type of problem anyone else has. Broken leg? “Oh, at least it’ll heal and you won’t have to live with it forever.” Being hurt or upset isn’t a competition.
What's really funny to me is that it sounds like her husband has a "regular, corporate" job. ie: he leaves the house and works for someone else. And she's like, "we can go out on the weekends" or "he comes home and we can hang out!"...because of the freedom Monat provides?! Ma'am. Like...you're SO close. Your husband has a corporate job AND he has "time freedom" to be with you during nights and weekends! Whaaaaat?! Y'all can be the couple you want to be, even though one of you works one of those icky, soul-sucking, time-eating CORPORATE JOBS?!! Monat didn't save you. Monat didn't make this possible. Your husband is proof. The call is literally coming from inside the house!! You can have a "regular" job (corporate, WFH, or otherwise) and still have nights and weekends and vacations and dates and family time. Girl. SO close.
I was so confused when she said 'we want to spend ALL of our time together' and then in the same breath 'when my husband gets home from work'. Ma'am do you hear yourself?
"That's why I took the risk" says the woman who just acknowledged that her husband's single income can cover all their bills and then some. Doesn't sound like much of a risk 🤔
You gotta give the girl props though for coming up with an original but corny rags to riches story. I hope she can read a room and knows the IHop customers are not going to listen to her shampoo sales pitch. They want their 2 sunny side up eggs, a side of bacon and to be left the heck alone.
Just about cringed out of my skin when she said “pray about it” and “ talk to your husband about it” . It’s giving codependency and the patriarchy vibes.
Me too!!! “Make sure you get your husband’s permission!!”🤢🤢🤢🤢 One of my friends bought a new house without even involving her husband. His response was “Oh yeah, it’s nice” and they moved in! Then he brought home a rescue dog!! They love that dog!! Seems much more healthy than this poor girls ideas about marriage.
@@piperjaycie I mean those are two things my hubs and I do as a team, but it's a two yes or one no situation. But different things work for different marriages! I definitely don't need my husband's permission for anything tho.
It’s actually incredibly self centered to not consider having a conversation with your spouse about huge life changes. I’d be PISSED if my husband joined an MLM and lost thousands of dollars without having us had a conversation about it first.
She just confirmed exactly who an MLM is for…a gal with a husband that makes $100K plus annually. MLM money is side cash, an extra $500-$1000 monthly to pay for some fun things. It’s a side gig with side cash. Any corporate sales job pays you more than well and you have a ton of freedom. We never miss school activities, sports games, etc., with a corp sales job 😁
As a mental health professional, THANK YOU for being so open about your struggles, your boundaries, and your participation in therapy. You are modeling so much positive self-care to others. ❤
My husband and I were like ships in the night for four years. Daycare is expensive, he worked days, I worked nights, we both took care of our son. It was hard, but we did it. I’m now working days, and get to be with my family every night. I work for one of those “Bad corporate companies” and honestly, I feel like I’m living the dream, we take vacations too.
As a hairstylist, I would just like to clarify to this hun. We do not want to talk about your Monat shampoo for your appointment in a nice salon. We are licensed and take a multitude of product knowledge classes among many different lines of products. So when a hun comes in to your salon that sells high quality products to talk about how their monat shampoo is better its terrible 😅
Just had my 21st wedding anniversary last month, so I’m saying this as someone who dearly loves her husband (he’s legit my best friend) but IMO if she was really sitting on her bed crying at just the thought that they might not get to spend ALL their time together after they were married, that strikes me as a sign that she wasn’t emotionally mature enough to get married in the first place. Seriously, tell me you’re in a co-dependent relationship without *telling* me. I also find it funny that she said her love language was quality time, when we know that she’s more than likely on her phone working her “business” the majority of her waking hours…that’s not *quality* time, ma’am.
100%. I’ve only been married to my husband for 12 years, but we’ve known each other for 23 years (best friends for 7 of those years before starting to date). Her need to be basically attached to her husband’s hip (figuratively) is not a healthy thing. But, people thing we are weird for taking separate vacations, allowing each other space when needed, and having our own sets of friends and interests.
@@keisakura9014 oh yeah, I know people like that too. They also get weird when my husband and I go on vacation without our son. We went to Ireland back in 2017 and one couple friends of ours were like, “You’re going just the two of you?! We could NEVER leave our kids behind.” 🙄 He was 8 years old and we paid for a plane ticket for my mom to come stay with him while we were gone. He was fine. Honestly, he probably had more fun with his grandma than he would’ve had touring old ruins and castles and stuff. 😂
@@hope3067 first, thank you! Like any relationship, there are ups and downs, but the ups vastly outnumber the downs. 😄 Secondly, I don’t know you or your situation, but don’t let yourself get discouraged. I got lucky and married my high school sweetheart and it worked out. You’ll find your person! 💜
What the heck is a full time family? My family is always full time and my hubby, my kids, and I all have jobs and/or school, and we don’t spent every waking minute together. That’s called attachment issues my girl.
I love this video. Sassy CC. What I don’t understand is if Monat is so great for hair, idk why this girl’s hair isn’t done for these videos. She’s missing that marketing opportunity, but it goes to show Monat is not about the products, only recruitment.
CC saying "sometimes we feel more sploy than spicy" made me think of the pug who has "bones or no bones" days. I love the idea of "Is today a sploy day or a spicy day".
i love that i get to enjoy these videos while i work from home at my job that i enjoy (despite how frustrating it can be) building websites with people i enjoy for a company who gives me a regular paycheck and health benefits
Honestly Mormons are so successful in MLMs because of how big their community of people is. I grew up LDS, and you have a HUGE outreach of people in your area. Most Sunday meeting groups are around 100 people- the same 100 people weekly who you know by name who live in your neighborhood. Then there are also greater area activities where again, you'll know everyone. They do things in huge groups so its really easy to find people to sell to its bonkers.
Nothing was ever expected but in my area it was very common to buy from friends in MLMs on a regular basis. My mom and all her close friends bought Mary Kay make up, Tupperware from an MLM rep, Pampered Chef and so on.
I can attest to this!! I grew up mormon as well, and it's wild how well MLM's thrive within the culture. It's no wonder there are so many MLM headquarters in Utah.
Especially that young. Imagine what would happen to this girls mind if they grew apart over the years. That sounds the start of a downward spiral that might end up on a true crime show!!
You know what makes me cringe and would make me feel a pit in my stomach and dread waking up? Having to listen to her everyday as my upline, and knowing that doing this to recruit is what would be expected of me if I join. The job shaming is unacceptable
My husband and I have been on opposite schedules for years now. He has a typical 8-5 M-F and i’m a night shift nurse. Since I usually work 3-4 days a week, we still get quite a bit of time together on our days/evenings off. We also try to have weekly date nights, whether it be at home or going out. When you’re in different career paths, you sacrifice what you have to and make the most of the time you have with your spouse🙂
thank you uploading chelsea!! i know you’re somewhat evacuated rn so this was not expected but very appreciated! also have you ever thought about doing a satirical video or short/reel/tiktok on like “how to get to the top of an MLM” i think it could be funny but actually have factual information. or like a “what MLMers say vs. what MLMers mean” just a thought no worries if you’re not interested😅
The extreme codependency and anxious attachment on her spouse and kids is sad to hear. I hope she one day gets help to be able to cope with that anxiety 😕
"You have weekends and days off together"…not if you're in the lower tiers of an MLM. I'm pretty sure when MLM huns say you'll have "time freedom" they mean freedom from having any time to yourself because they're also always screaming and yelling and crying at their downline to work harder.
Girl, if you don’t actually have to work/work part-time, come back to me about crying in the car when you have $2 left in the bank and have to use that for gas to get to your 12 hour shift instead of food.
First off you should be able to go to work and leave your spouse for a few hours. Her story sounds like she is trying to make a Cinderella fantasy out if reality. There is a reason they stop the story at the wedding 🤣🤣 Also why does every single person in an MLM have some sob story to sell stuff
I love her using fetching instead of saying f#*king because it completely changes the meaning of her sentence since fetching means attractive. She received an attractive (or fetching as she said) hot tool 🤣😂😂
Aww Mykeighlah, it sounds like she needs a social community outside her husband but her extreme codependency holds her back… so the best she could do was join a commercial cult 🥴😬
As someone who does work remotely, this is just cringey as hell. I cannot travel with my remote job because of HIPAA. I do get the weekends off. My job preaches work life balance. We aren’t allowed to work on the weekends unless we have OT. Also I still feel some of those same feelings like she said. Also I do get a bonus for recruiting people, but I don’t need it to support my income. Also the faking your personality thing. I do try to be as professional as possible, but the beauty about working from home is I can also be myself.
LOL FULL TIME FAMILY. That’s us. I’m eating in bed with my dogs 🤣🤣 and I have 2 jobs outside the house and school and my husband works 😂 and 2 kids lol. What is she talking about!!!!
"just sitting here thinking of all the things that are scarier than not being able to spend time with your spouse and your kids" LMAOOOOO I CANTTTTTT BREATHE
I feel like going to the hair salon should be an enjoyable activity as the customer, you shouldn’t feel like you have to work from your phone during it. I get my hair done and it’s fun and I talk to my hair stylist and it’s a break from work, why would I wanna spend that time working?? MLMs take the fun out of everything by saying you can work from anywhere, anytime.
Also I can’t imagine any decent or reputable hairdresser wanting to be spoken down to about how Monat is the best thing for hair and they are using all the wrong products on their clients.
For real. I go to the salon to relax and let someone else fuss with my hair, and chat with my stylist about random topics. Even when I did freelancing as a side job, I wouldn't dare take messages about possible jobs during my time at the salon.
How the hell was she stuck in a job when she says that her husband provides for her, that she only worked part time, and that before she joined Monat she "knew how to make money" in direct sale and had "been in direct sales"? All of this contradicts itself.
I'm am actual self employed person, working from home and pretty much pick my schedule. I can start early or late if I want, I can go exercise in between and walk my neighbor's dog because she has health issues. I'm actually taking a 3 week vacation right now. And I make more than 99% of these Monat people. Oh, and I like what I do! Yes, there are other options, hun 😂
I love how often they out themselves, they start with the money changed my life blah blah but then reveal their (nearly always) husband earns enough that they don't have to work for financial reasons. Whichever MLM they're in they can treat it like a hobby & they wont suffer.
“I love that I don’t have to do work because I work for a MLM and my husband is the only financial income we got for our 5 kids, that’s all we need, because we can travel, I get to be lazy all day” Yeah the first woman sounds like she is very depressed, I feel bad for that girl.
I feel bad for this chick. It definitely sounds like they took advantage of her in a vulnerable time in her life and that she is brainwashed. She sounds so young. I hope that she gets out of it soon.
What’s ridiculous is that the majority of these anti-corporate boss babes have NEVER even been in a corporate role. Having an hourly retail/fast food job is a lot different (not job shaming, just stating the obvious) than the benefits that come with having a “cOrPoRaTe 9-5” job & they conveniently forget that Monat is a corporation, where people work 9-5 & get benefits and PTO 😂😂😂
I’m so confused about why she’d think she’d see her husband less after they lived together. Does she live somewhere where you’re mandated to work more hours after you’re married?? 🙄 I’d think not having to commute between houses to see each other would equal things out, even if she had to change shifts or jobs due to her location.
mikayla is going to be so surprised when se realizes what a drag it is to spend ALL your time with your spouse and hw quickly that can lead to resentment
Thoughts: 1) I bet her linked in that says she worked for the LDS church was for a mission (which is unpaid labor for 18-24 months and aspects of it fit the BITE model perfectly) and not an actual job. 2) The way she talks at the end of the first video, and baring a testimony of Monat is exactly how I, and other sister missionaries sounded when we’d bare a testimony of the gospel. I hated how we all sounded like that but there was something culturally ingrained in all of us to teach like that.
these mlm girlies have such an impressive way of drawing their points out so unnecessarily, it’s like they’re grasping at every straw possible to convince people to join. like did we rlly need that long of a video for her to make 3 points. it makes me feel like they’re targeting women who will sympathize with their situations are insecure about their marriages failing .
Could you imagine, coming home to your spouse, showing them a tiny bottle of basic oils (not even good for skin or scalp, don’t get me into lemon peel and bergamot), then them asking you how much it was and you say $100……. 😂 could you imagine being a consumer and paying for that over Olaplex which is the only scientifically proven to repair hair bonds? Oh and Olaplex is a fraction of the price 🤦♀️
"I don't have to wake up early. I don't have to put work clothes on. I don't have to dread going. I don't have to hate my boss. I don't have to stand a lot. I don't have to..." WE GET IT.
Utah is beautiful! Don’t let that stop you from visiting. Although there are A LOT of people in MLMs, not everyone is Mormon and not every Mormon is “crazy”. There are a lot of nice people here!
Ugh the girl in the first video IS THE IDENTICAL DOPPELGÄNGER to an Arbonne hun I used to work (a 9-5 job!) with. I needed therapy from the awfulness that ex-coworker made me go through and this Monat hun?! Yikes- just brings all that awful painful memories back 😱
Yeah because they have so much control being in a MLM 🙄. BTW, my daughter walked by and asked who I was watching. I told her your name and what you do content on. She said, "oh, she's pretty"
That's what I never got. I literally went into a corporate remote position (with full benefits, reliable salary, AND I make my own schedule) so I could move anywhere (since my husband's in the military). These jobs are A LOT easier to find now, especially jobs where you have weekends off? Like, you don't have to join an MLM just so you can spend time with your spouse 🙄
Nice. My husband got out of the Army in 2011, after 3 Iraq deployments. But I was a freelance content writer during his service, so I could work online, anywhere.
Other than the MLM piece, she made me want to barf when she said “I didn’t want to be stuck working”. I happen to love my corporate job - pays me well, provides health care, & the opportunity to take time off when I want to decompress. Lordt.
I will say, if I'm going to be going to a job for 40 hours a week it *does* have to be interesting and fulfilling for me. With my personality I don't think I could be someone who is content with having the fulfilling things only outside my work life! But I totally get that might not apply to everyone. I do hope everyone can have a job that they at least enjoy and get something out of considering we spend so much time working. I'm lucky to have found that :).
As a restaurant worker (fine dining not iSLOP), this job on your feet ain’t for the weak, but it sure pays a lot more than MONAT. This woman talking about crying in the bathroom had me LOLing. I’d rather bust my ass for $30 an hour than sit on my phone begging people on Instagram to join my scam 😂 these monat girls really take the cake
I also have a special hate for monat. I bought the shampoo and all the products bc my brothers ex gf sold it. I saw Snooki used it and thought it would be good for my hair. NO. I saw all the lawsuits about monat and I realized that’s why my hair actually got THINNER using the shampoo. Everything went in the trash, and I decided to actually deep dive and educate myself on MLMs.
So here's the thing. I live in Utah and I grew up super Mormon, and honestly it's no mystery to me why Mormons and MLMs are so closely tied together. The religion itself honestly is set up just like an MLM. You want to convert people and if you dedicate yourself enough you'll be able to make it to heaven and if you can't keep up, it's your fault. It's really messed up and kind of a red flag that a MLM is set up like a religion and it's messed up that a religion is set up like a MLM.
I’m sorry, she literally wants to like live in her husbands body. She wants him around her 100% all the time. That’s not feasible or healthy for any relationship. Her biggest fear is not being around for kids that don’t even exist? The fantasy world she living in where that’s her biggest fear, I want to go there
I don't have to sit in my car on the parking lot and cry any more, now I have to sit my car on the parking lot to record videos and lives. I occasionally have to drive my car and make lives just so I can look really busy, but no I don't cry on the parking lot any more 😜🤣🤣.
I married my husband because I love him. Have I seen him a lot in 26 years (he’s been in the Army for 27 years). Nope, but that has made our marriage stronger. We know we don’t have to spend every second together. It’s healthy to have your own time, your own interests.
OMG! She's getting on my last nerve talking about crap!!!You just feel the pit in her stomach, you can feel the fear she's not going to convince anyone!!!! She just talked to much, and pissed me off!!!!
I hope to GOD that Makayla didn’t say she “worked” for the LDS church because she did an 18 month voluntary mission, in which you pay to go. While I’m sure proselytizing to people all day long for 18 months isn’t difficult, it is absolutely not a job.
I noticed this when I was in Younique... Most of these people who are trying to recruit you always say I can sleep in every day, I don't have to call in sick, blah blah blah 😑 But most of them have husband's who pay the bills and they are stay at home momsb who do this for fun. It's all a lie!
It’s a Utah Mormon thing. Growing up Mormon we would replace the F bomb with a variety of similar sounding words but not the actual word because somehow that was better than saying the actual word. Examples: flip/flipping, freak/freaking, fetch/fetching, Fry sauce, etc.
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No matter what month it is, this is the best month to QUIT Monat.
Yes!
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I read the title as “Monat morons” and didn’t think twice about it
Girl same 🤣🤣🤣
Me too! Lol!
I was still thinking it did until I saw your comment and had to read the title again 😂
I LAUGHED WAY TOO HARD AT THIS 😂 Thanks for sharing! Lmaoooo
Same! I was like DANG CC! Not holding back today🤣🤣
Honestly, I’m a little miffed at how she said her worst fear is not being home with her husband and future kid. I’m a critical care nurse who worked exclusively as a heart failure and transplant coordinator. You know what real fears are ? Living in the hospital while you wait for a heart, knowing that someone has to die so you can live. Watching someone you love struggle to do anything and knowing you can’t help. Worrying that you won’t be able to afford the lifetime meds you’ll need.
That girl needs a reality check.
Yes! Friend!! OR nurse at a level 1- I literally watched this and out loud said “THATS your biggest fear?? I could think of at least 99 other things scarier than that!” We’ve seen shit that haunts you, and she is scared she will have to put her kids in daycare for a few hours 😂😂
Stay strong sister, times are rough ❤
Thank you so much for what you do!!
Iv a feeling the personality type it takes to stay in an MLM for any length let alone be successful rank wise isnt the type to be an organ donor.
Everyone is entitled to their own fears, I don't think it's fair to compare when it's a very personal feeling.
@@mayvel1537 I agree. Although I also think she’s ridiculous for it being her biggest fear, she’s young and sheltered and untouched by tragedy and trauma. Eventually, she’ll have those serious experiences and realize how silly her “biggest fears” are right now. I think about what I thought was upsetting when I was newly married…and it was silly stuff. There’s always someone out there who has it worse, who has “real problems”, etc. My mom has a really bad pain disorder. It’s really bad. But because of that, she disregards any type of problem anyone else has. Broken leg? “Oh, at least it’ll heal and you won’t have to live with it forever.” Being hurt or upset isn’t a competition.
Mormons and MLM? Shocker! Utah cranks out both like crazy.
What's really funny to me is that it sounds like her husband has a "regular, corporate" job. ie: he leaves the house and works for someone else. And she's like, "we can go out on the weekends" or "he comes home and we can hang out!"...because of the freedom Monat provides?! Ma'am. Like...you're SO close.
Your husband has a corporate job AND he has "time freedom" to be with you during nights and weekends! Whaaaaat?! Y'all can be the couple you want to be, even though one of you works one of those icky, soul-sucking, time-eating CORPORATE JOBS?!!
Monat didn't save you. Monat didn't make this possible. Your husband is proof. The call is literally coming from inside the house!! You can have a "regular" job (corporate, WFH, or otherwise) and still have nights and weekends and vacations and dates and family time.
Girl. SO close.
I was so confused when she said 'we want to spend ALL of our time together' and then in the same breath 'when my husband gets home from work'. Ma'am do you hear yourself?
I think this is the best comment I’ve ever seen on one of Chelsea’s videos. Well said!!!! (The call us coming from inside the house ☠️dead) 👏👏
Honestly, what she really seems to care about is that SHE doesn't have to go to work.
"That's why I took the risk" says the woman who just acknowledged that her husband's single income can cover all their bills and then some. Doesn't sound like much of a risk 🤔
You gotta give the girl props though for coming up with an original but corny rags to riches story. I hope she can read a room and knows the IHop customers are not going to listen to her shampoo sales pitch. They want their 2 sunny side up eggs, a side of bacon and to be left the heck alone.
haha
And pancakes…yummmm
I definitely don't want to be interrupted while I'm eating! I get a little feral depending on how hangry I am.
Gotta love life lessons from a 20 year old who's totally got life ALL figured out 🙄
She's tried every job to make sure Monat is the best, you know!
Actually, lots of them do compared to lots of adults.
Life lessons learned from working at IHOP for a year or two max
I think about the Taylor Swift lyrics "How does a person know everything at 18 and nothing at 22?" That's this girl.
The wisdom 😂
Just about cringed out of my skin when she said “pray about it” and “ talk to your husband about it” . It’s giving codependency and the patriarchy vibes.
Me too!!! “Make sure you get your husband’s permission!!”🤢🤢🤢🤢 One of my friends bought a new house without even involving her husband. His response was “Oh yeah, it’s nice” and they moved in! Then he brought home a rescue dog!! They love that dog!! Seems much more healthy than this poor girls ideas about marriage.
@@piperjaycie I mean those are two things my hubs and I do as a team, but it's a two yes or one no situation. But different things work for different marriages! I definitely don't need my husband's permission for anything tho.
The word co-dependent kept screaming through my head as I listened to her talk. That whole video is one big red flag.
It’s actually incredibly self centered to not consider having a conversation with your spouse about huge life changes. I’d be PISSED if my husband joined an MLM and lost thousands of dollars without having us had a conversation about it first.
It's a refreshing change though, considering I'm used to hearing "If they don't support you...LEAVE THEM!" or "Just don't tell them!"
She just confirmed exactly who an MLM is for…a gal with a husband that makes $100K plus annually. MLM money is side cash, an extra $500-$1000 monthly to pay for some fun things. It’s a side gig with side cash. Any corporate sales job pays you more than well and you have a ton of freedom. We never miss school activities, sports games, etc., with a corp sales job 😁
Bless her heart, she hated being a server and thinks that's every job because her shallow world view from her church made her ready-made to get duped.
Impressive. Even a hurricane couldn't hold Chelsea back from uploading a video. ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe everyone.
Girl almost. The Wi-Fi at my parents house sucks 😂
Stay safe Chelsea! Watching from Houston, Texas! ❤️
@@IAMCCSuarez 😹😘🤙
Stay safe Chelsea!
Stay safe Chelsea!
As a mental health professional, THANK YOU for being so open about your struggles, your boundaries, and your participation in therapy. You are modeling so much positive self-care to others. ❤
Are you talking to chelsea or the crazy girl in video?
100% Chelsea.
@@kalyncofield5363 oh yeah!!! I couldn’t agree more!! 😀😀😎
My husband and I were like ships in the night for four years. Daycare is expensive, he worked days, I worked nights, we both took care of our son. It was hard, but we did it. I’m now working days, and get to be with my family every night. I work for one of those “Bad corporate companies” and honestly, I feel like I’m living the dream, we take vacations too.
But do you pay for your vacations?? 😅 😂 “come work this MLM and get free vacations “ lol
As a hairstylist, I would just like to clarify to this hun. We do not want to talk about your Monat shampoo for your appointment in a nice salon. We are licensed and take a multitude of product knowledge classes among many different lines of products. So when a hun comes in to your salon that sells high quality products to talk about how their monat shampoo is better its terrible 😅
Just had my 21st wedding anniversary last month, so I’m saying this as someone who dearly loves her husband (he’s legit my best friend) but IMO if she was really sitting on her bed crying at just the thought that they might not get to spend ALL their time together after they were married, that strikes me as a sign that she wasn’t emotionally mature enough to get married in the first place. Seriously, tell me you’re in a co-dependent relationship without *telling* me.
I also find it funny that she said her love language was quality time, when we know that she’s more than likely on her phone working her “business” the majority of her waking hours…that’s not *quality* time, ma’am.
100%. I’ve only been married to my husband for 12 years, but we’ve known each other for 23 years (best friends for 7 of those years before starting to date). Her need to be basically attached to her husband’s hip (figuratively) is not a healthy thing.
But, people thing we are weird for taking separate vacations, allowing each other space when needed, and having our own sets of friends and interests.
@@keisakura9014 oh yeah, I know people like that too. They also get weird when my husband and I go on vacation without our son. We went to Ireland back in 2017 and one couple friends of ours were like, “You’re going just the two of you?! We could NEVER leave our kids behind.” 🙄
He was 8 years old and we paid for a plane ticket for my mom to come stay with him while we were gone. He was fine. Honestly, he probably had more fun with his grandma than he would’ve had touring old ruins and castles and stuff. 😂
You give me hope that there *might* be someone out there for me, too. Congrats on your long and (presumably) healthy marriage!
@@hope3067 first, thank you! Like any relationship, there are ups and downs, but the ups vastly outnumber the downs. 😄
Secondly, I don’t know you or your situation, but don’t let yourself get discouraged. I got lucky and married my high school sweetheart and it worked out. You’ll find your person! 💜
I agree with you. I love my husband to the moon and back. I couldn't be around him all the time.
She is near tears about her passion for shampoo. I feel a little sorry for the husband who encouraged her. It is “fetching” crazy. 😉
Probably just wants her to have something to keep her busy while he is off earning those big bucks!!!!🤣🤣😳
What the heck is a full time family? My family is always full time and my hubby, my kids, and I all have jobs and/or school, and we don’t spent every waking minute together. That’s called attachment issues my girl.
Her husband probably wishes she’d get a 9-5 lmao
I love this video. Sassy CC. What I don’t understand is if Monat is so great for hair, idk why this girl’s hair isn’t done for these videos. She’s missing that marketing opportunity, but it goes to show Monat is not about the products, only recruitment.
It's not even properly brushed and tied back.
The little you can see is... not impressive.
That’s what I was thinking lol like no I can’t see the results actually ur hair is a mess
They never do for some reason, it's like the women with the big hats
CC saying "sometimes we feel more sploy than spicy" made me think of the pug who has "bones or no bones" days. I love the idea of "Is today a sploy day or a spicy day".
Oh thank God Robert told us he liked the packaging! Let’s join the scam now!! That’s the sign we needed!!
i love that i get to enjoy these videos while i work from home at my job that i enjoy (despite how frustrating it can be) building websites with people i enjoy for a company who gives me a regular paycheck and health benefits
Girl I've cried in the bathroom at a job I love. Some days are just hard, sometimes you're just burned out.
Their videos always turn into a desperation spiel. You can sense their frustration that more aren’t signing up.
Honestly Mormons are so successful in MLMs because of how big their community of people is. I grew up LDS, and you have a HUGE outreach of people in your area. Most Sunday meeting groups are around 100 people- the same 100 people weekly who you know by name who live in your neighborhood. Then there are also greater area activities where again, you'll know everyone. They do things in huge groups so its really easy to find people to sell to its bonkers.
How much money were you expected to spend to support other Mormons and their businesses?
Nothing was ever expected but in my area it was very common to buy from friends in MLMs on a regular basis. My mom and all her close friends bought Mary Kay make up, Tupperware from an MLM rep, Pampered Chef and so on.
I can attest to this!! I grew up mormon as well, and it's wild how well MLM's thrive within the culture. It's no wonder there are so many MLM headquarters in Utah.
Not to mention the church is kinda set up like an mlm. Ex Mormon here!😅
@@Heyitspayt Was gonna say, they're both cults! Said as a former member of a different cult, so no judgment! 🙃
doesn’t seem healthy to want to “always be together” 24/7
Especially that young. Imagine what would happen to this girls mind if they grew apart over the years. That sounds the start of a downward spiral that might end up on a true crime show!!
You know what makes me cringe and would make me feel a pit in my stomach and dread waking up? Having to listen to her everyday as my upline, and knowing that doing this to recruit is what would be expected of me if I join. The job shaming is unacceptable
My husband and I have been on opposite schedules for years now. He has a typical 8-5 M-F and i’m a night shift nurse. Since I usually work 3-4 days a week, we still get quite a bit of time together on our days/evenings off. We also try to have weekly date nights, whether it be at home or going out. When you’re in different career paths, you sacrifice what you have to and make the most of the time you have with your spouse🙂
thank you uploading chelsea!! i know you’re somewhat evacuated rn so this was not expected but very appreciated!
also have you ever thought about doing a satirical video or short/reel/tiktok on like “how to get to the top of an MLM” i think it could be funny but actually have factual information. or like a “what MLMers say vs. what MLMers mean” just a thought no worries if you’re not interested😅
The extreme codependency and anxious attachment on her spouse and kids is sad to hear. I hope she one day gets help to be able to cope with that anxiety 😕
"You have weekends and days off together"…not if you're in the lower tiers of an MLM. I'm pretty sure when MLM huns say you'll have "time freedom" they mean freedom from having any time to yourself because they're also always screaming and yelling and crying at their downline to work harder.
"I remember Robert looking at the Rejuvenique bottle and saying, 'yeah, this is a better company'." -examples of things that never happened.
🤣🤣🤣Or maybe he is just really simple!!😳😳🤔🤔😨😨🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@piperjaycie also a very plausible option🤣
I just assumed so much sarcasm was in his tone when he said it.
@@sarahrose9944 🤣
I enjoy being spicy, but I'm choosing to be sploy. I'm a f'n rebel 🥴🤣
Girl, if you don’t actually have to work/work part-time, come back to me about crying in the car when you have $2 left in the bank and have to use that for gas to get to your 12 hour shift instead of food.
First off you should be able to go to work and leave your spouse for a few hours. Her story sounds like she is trying to make a Cinderella fantasy out if reality. There is a reason they stop the story at the wedding 🤣🤣 Also why does every single person in an MLM have some sob story to sell stuff
Yes I'm single but the thought of being married and being around my husband every moment of every day sounds suffocating.
I was like “here’s the sob story!”🙄
I love her using fetching instead of saying f#*king because it completely changes the meaning of her sentence since fetching means attractive. She received an attractive (or fetching as she said) hot tool 🤣😂😂
“Gretchen, stop trying to make 'fetch' happen. It's NOT going to happen!”
“The best time to join Monat is never.@ 😂
Aww Mykeighlah, it sounds like she needs a social community outside her husband but her extreme codependency holds her back… so the best she could do was join a commercial cult 🥴😬
As someone who does work remotely, this is just cringey as hell. I cannot travel with my remote job because of HIPAA. I do get the weekends off. My job preaches work life balance. We aren’t allowed to work on the weekends unless we have OT. Also I still feel some of those same feelings like she said. Also I do get a bonus for recruiting people, but I don’t need it to support my income. Also the faking your personality thing. I do try to be as professional as possible, but the beauty about working from home is I can also be myself.
LOL FULL TIME FAMILY. That’s us. I’m eating in bed with my dogs 🤣🤣 and I have 2 jobs outside the house and school and my husband works 😂 and 2 kids lol.
What is she talking about!!!!
"just sitting here thinking of all the things that are scarier than not being able to spend time with your spouse and your kids" LMAOOOOO I CANTTTTTT BREATHE
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love your personality. “You act like you’re performing lifesaving surgery on orphans.” 🤣🤣🤣
I feel like going to the hair salon should be an enjoyable activity as the customer, you shouldn’t feel like you have to work from your phone during it. I get my hair done and it’s fun and I talk to my hair stylist and it’s a break from work, why would I wanna spend that time working?? MLMs take the fun out of everything by saying you can work from anywhere, anytime.
Also I can’t imagine any decent or reputable hairdresser wanting to be spoken down to about how Monat is the best thing for hair and they are using all the wrong products on their clients.
For real. I go to the salon to relax and let someone else fuss with my hair, and chat with my stylist about random topics. Even when I did freelancing as a side job, I wouldn't dare take messages about possible jobs during my time at the salon.
Her: "I knew what a good compensation plan looked like."
Also her: *looks at an obviously terrible compensation plan* "This is the one."
Doesn't want to sleep/wake according to someone else's schedule.
Also wants to have kids.
Ma'am..... 🤣🤣🤣
Girl you are really going after Monat.. I love it. You are going to bring them down . You go!!
How the hell was she stuck in a job when she says that her husband provides for her, that she only worked part time, and that before she joined Monat she "knew how to make money" in direct sale and had "been in direct sales"? All of this contradicts itself.
I'm am actual self employed person, working from home and pretty much pick my schedule. I can start early or late if I want, I can go exercise in between and walk my neighbor's dog because she has health issues. I'm actually taking a 3 week vacation right now. And I make more than 99% of these Monat people. Oh, and I like what I do! Yes, there are other options, hun 😂
I love how often they out themselves, they start with the money changed my life blah blah but then reveal their (nearly always) husband earns enough that they don't have to work for financial reasons.
Whichever MLM they're in they can treat it like a hobby & they wont suffer.
“I love that I don’t have to do work because I work for a MLM and my husband is the only financial income we got for our 5 kids, that’s all we need, because we can travel, I get to be lazy all day” Yeah the first woman sounds like she is very depressed, I feel bad for that girl.
I feel bad for this chick. It definitely sounds like they took advantage of her in a vulnerable time in her life and that she is brainwashed. She sounds so young. I hope that she gets out of it soon.
Stay safe Chelsea and thanks for keeping us all spicy and assertive
Ok someone has to tell me how her being married to a long distance husband has anything to do with anything 🥴
“Working hard is hard!”
Wow. Someone get the Dalai Lama on the line, this is some groundbreaking insight here.
🤣😂🤣🤣
What’s ridiculous is that the majority of these anti-corporate boss babes have NEVER even been in a corporate role. Having an hourly retail/fast food job is a lot different (not job shaming, just stating the obvious) than the benefits that come with having a “cOrPoRaTe 9-5” job & they conveniently forget that Monat is a corporation, where people work 9-5 & get benefits and PTO 😂😂😂
I laughed way too hard when you said "girl, should we go check the IHOP you used to work at." 😂😂😂
I’m so confused about why she’d think she’d see her husband less after they lived together. Does she live somewhere where you’re mandated to work more hours after you’re married?? 🙄 I’d think not having to commute between houses to see each other would equal things out, even if she had to change shifts or jobs due to her location.
mikayla is going to be so surprised when se realizes what a drag it is to spend ALL your time with your spouse and hw quickly that can lead to resentment
GIRL. Yes
You’d think people selling hair products would make sure they had pretty looking hair before filming their pitches 😆
She’s like “My hair is amazing!”. Is it? It’s in a ponytail! We can’t even see her hair!!
Thoughts: 1) I bet her linked in that says she worked for the LDS church was for a mission (which is unpaid labor for 18-24 months and aspects of it fit the BITE model perfectly) and not an actual job. 2) The way she talks at the end of the first video, and baring a testimony of Monat is exactly how I, and other sister missionaries sounded when we’d bare a testimony of the gospel. I hated how we all sounded like that but there was something culturally ingrained in all of us to teach like that.
these mlm girlies have such an impressive way of drawing their points out so unnecessarily, it’s like they’re grasping at every straw possible to convince people to join. like did we rlly need that long of a video for her to make 3 points. it makes me feel like they’re targeting women who will sympathize with their situations are insecure about their marriages failing .
Could you imagine, coming home to your spouse, showing them a tiny bottle of basic oils (not even good for skin or scalp, don’t get me into lemon peel and bergamot), then them asking you how much it was and you say $100……. 😂 could you imagine being a consumer and paying for that over Olaplex which is the only scientifically proven to repair hair bonds? Oh and Olaplex is a fraction of the price 🤦♀️
this always reminds me of stores that are constantly having their “biggest sale ever!”
"I don't have to wake up early. I don't have to put work clothes on. I don't have to dread going. I don't have to hate my boss. I don't have to stand a lot. I don't have to..." WE GET IT.
Something about Chelsea is that she gets more beautiful each time I see her. People like this are so rare to me.
Not you congratulating the first girl on getting reported to the Florida AG 😂 took me right out
The “pray about it” is so mormon is hurts lol
These crazy Mormons is the CHIEF reason I will never go anywhere NEAR Utah.
Utah is beautiful! Don’t let that stop you from visiting. Although there are A LOT of people in MLMs, not everyone is Mormon and not every Mormon is “crazy”. There are a lot of nice people here!
This reminds of Narcotics Anonymous emotions she’s having and I know for a fact that’s a cult 😂
Ugh the girl in the first video IS THE IDENTICAL DOPPELGÄNGER to an Arbonne hun I used to work (a 9-5 job!) with. I needed therapy from the awfulness that ex-coworker made me go through and this Monat hun?! Yikes- just brings all that awful painful memories back 😱
I worked at ihop when I was like 19/20 and I was MISERABLE at it. Sometimes you have to work the job to learn you’re not good at it. Lmao.
Also, funny story. The ihop I worked at DID burn down, and they just replaced it with a new ihop lol.
From waiting friends I’ve heard ihop is particularly miserable
Yeah because they have so much control being in a MLM 🙄. BTW, my daughter walked by and asked who I was watching. I told her your name and what you do content on. She said, "oh, she's pretty"
You can't see him when he's at work, those attachment issues are serious!
I stay home with my kids at the minute my alarm wakes me up for the school run and if I hear it through the day I still hate it 😂
That's what I never got. I literally went into a corporate remote position (with full benefits, reliable salary, AND I make my own schedule) so I could move anywhere (since my husband's in the military). These jobs are A LOT easier to find now, especially jobs where you have weekends off? Like, you don't have to join an MLM just so you can spend time with your spouse 🙄
Nice. My husband got out of the Army in 2011, after 3 Iraq deployments. But I was a freelance content writer during his service, so I could work online, anywhere.
“Should we go check on that ihop she used to work at?!” 😂😂😂
Other than the MLM piece, she made me want to barf when she said “I didn’t want to be stuck working”. I happen to love my corporate job - pays me well, provides health care, & the opportunity to take time off when I want to decompress. Lordt.
She doesn't want to be away from her husband.... but wants to be a stay at home mom. I.... do not comprehend.
"I have so many hot tools. I don't need you to join!" Hows it going paying bills with all them hot tools? 🤣🤣
Chelsea - your hair looks fantastic! And your eye makeup too. Great video!
Thank you for this video. I needed it. This hurricane Ian is giving me the biggest anxiety of my life. 😵💫
I will say, if I'm going to be going to a job for 40 hours a week it *does* have to be interesting and fulfilling for me. With my personality I don't think I could be someone who is content with having the fulfilling things only outside my work life! But I totally get that might not apply to everyone. I do hope everyone can have a job that they at least enjoy and get something out of considering we spend so much time working. I'm lucky to have found that :).
Hahahahahahaha!!!! I see my husband 3-5 days a month...
Sorry. ...that made me laugh
What about the Younique Mormons? Holy moly... 😳
And the Young Living Mormons! Yikes.
As a restaurant worker (fine dining not iSLOP), this job on your feet ain’t for the weak, but it sure pays a lot more than MONAT. This woman talking about crying in the bathroom had me LOLing. I’d rather bust my ass for $30 an hour than sit on my phone begging people on Instagram to join my scam 😂 these monat girls really take the cake
I also have a special hate for monat. I bought the shampoo and all the products bc my brothers ex gf sold it. I saw Snooki used it and thought it would be good for my hair. NO. I saw all the lawsuits about monat and I realized that’s why my hair actually got THINNER using the shampoo. Everything went in the trash, and I decided to actually deep dive and educate myself on MLMs.
So here's the thing. I live in Utah and I grew up super Mormon, and honestly it's no mystery to me why Mormons and MLMs are so closely tied together. The religion itself honestly is set up just like an MLM. You want to convert people and if you dedicate yourself enough you'll be able to make it to heaven and if you can't keep up, it's your fault. It's really messed up and kind of a red flag that a MLM is set up like a religion and it's messed up that a religion is set up like a MLM.
“If you were to call in sick you’d actually get sick pay.”
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I’m sorry, she literally wants to like live in her husbands body. She wants him around her 100% all the time. That’s not feasible or healthy for any relationship.
Her biggest fear is not being around for kids that don’t even exist? The fantasy world she living in where that’s her biggest fear, I want to go there
It’s like she is playing house. Lol. She is obviously very young and, my apologies, but very immature.
I don't have to sit in my car on the parking lot and cry any more, now I have to sit my car on the parking lot to record videos and lives. I occasionally have to drive my car and make lives just so I can look really busy, but no I don't cry on the parking lot any more 😜🤣🤣.
"You can see the difference in my hair"
Hair: is hiding
I married my husband because I love him. Have I seen him a lot in 26 years (he’s been in the Army for 27 years). Nope, but that has made our marriage stronger. We know we don’t have to spend every second together. It’s healthy to have your own time, your own interests.
OMG! She's getting on my last nerve talking about crap!!!You just feel the pit in her stomach, you can feel the fear she's not going to convince anyone!!!! She just talked to much, and pissed me off!!!!
I hope to GOD that Makayla didn’t say she “worked” for the LDS church because she did an 18 month voluntary mission, in which you pay to go. While I’m sure proselytizing to people all day long for 18 months isn’t difficult, it is absolutely not a job.
sure it is. they’ve got a great thing going here- their employees are paying THEM
Girrrrrl I’m still recovering from the last video! I swear you’re gonna be the one to take them down and I can’t wait for it
Be safe lady!
I noticed this when I was in Younique... Most of these people who are trying to recruit you always say I can sleep in every day, I don't have to call in sick, blah blah blah 😑
But most of them have husband's who pay the bills and they are stay at home momsb who do this for fun. It's all a lie!
Exactly because even if they weren’t in an MLM they can still sleep in if they want. I’m guessing her hubs just wants her to have some sort of income.
"You did that outside of iHop?" IM SCREAMINNNGGG😂
I’m so distracted by how horrified I am about the codependency of this relationship. I just cannot.
Did she just say "Fetching"? She must be a Mean Girls fan.
It’s a Utah Mormon thing. Growing up Mormon we would replace the F bomb with a variety of similar sounding words but not the actual word because somehow that was better than saying the actual word. Examples: flip/flipping, freak/freaking, fetch/fetching, Fry sauce, etc.
She needs to stop trying to make fetch happen. 😉