S1E10: This Person Went VIRAL After One of the Worst Boss Calls EVER… and I Spoke to Her.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 เม.ย. 2024
- She went viral the other day after recording a call with her boss when she was trying to quit her jobt. In that call her boss called her work terrible, called her a liar, a cheat and accused her of being lazy. In short, he was despicable.
I have a conversation with her to find out exactly what happened, the context behind it to try and finally understand once and for all. We spoke about what it was like to be in that position as well as her having some great advice for those who are also sitting in a similar position.
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She looks a lot healthier, probably the best thing that could have happened
She loves the place she is currently working which is great news
I was thinking the same thing. It's interesting how a bad work environment affects you
She looks so much better now ❤
My first thought too, it's amazing the effect that our work life has on our health
@@IanM-id8orI had the same thing. As soon as I left I looked a millions times healthier
This manager/CEO is the classic example of "people quit Managers, no jobs".
I know I have. Had a couple jobs I quite enjoyed and was exceptionally good at, but worked for a crappy manager and left. One was for a large national company, not that my job was way up in the company or anything, but they would do their exit interviews by phone, and it would not be someone from the local office giving it. They would honestly take your input into consideration and also indicated if they would re hire you. That manager was moved. Likely not demoted, but definitely not in a management position. They also told me I would have a job with them any time I wanted to come back. I know they moved the manager because I had several friends still there. Several people prior to me had very similar exit interviews.
Gillian Welch wrote it into her song "Everything is Free": "I never minded working hard, it's who I'm working for."
Saying “Why would you quit a 30k a year job” like it’s 200k with equity 😂😂.
The delusion.
one could say thats above national average but in reality is quite low
@@lama2584 $30,000 is barely over $14.00 an hour. The national average is much higher than 30K. $30k is basically the poverty level or below, and is below minimum wage in a lot of states in the US.
@@RiverWoods111in the UK it is above average, but not by much - you'd easily find another job at the same salary or more.
@@RiverWoods111 you americans keep forgetting that we europeans dont need to earn hundreds of thousands. we have healthcare and (compared to you guys) very affordable rent. if you didnt have to pay 4k per month to afford your apartment, and wouldnt need to fork out hundreds of thousands for a hospital visit, you would be very happy with a 30k job as well. the area i live in currently (glasgow scotland) has raised rent quite a bit over the past 2 years, but still, 800 bucks per month affords you a 1 bedroom flat.
@@RiverWoods111 but it’s not in dollars - this woman is clearly in England, so it’s in pounds sterling and £30k isn’t a bad salary.
wait wait wait....he gets given 1 week notice, he decides HE's making HER notice 4 weeks long before she's "Allowed" to leave??? Oh HELL to tne NO.
My response to that would be, "If you don't like one week notice, I can make it immediate."
Contracts in the UK and EU are different. Many of them have a required notice period.
I'm in America, companies here, after decades of "right sizing" and firing people without a hint of notice, are LUCKY if an employee gives then 2 weeks notice.
I had a boss tell me in a face to face that I should be in a job with no human contact because I was too stupid to talk to anyone. That was 45 years ago and I still remember how I felt and the fact that I stood up without a word and walked out to my car and drove away.
Good for you👏
I would have done the same, but blood would be dripping off my knuckles..... I applaud your composure!
Don't let him stay in your head another day. He's not worth it.
Oh man I'm so glad you left!
Well done. That’s all you can do with people like that. I’m sure you’re wonderful, and as someone that CANNOT handle stupid people, you are certainly not that. 🫶🏻
"Allowed to resign"? They have NO CHOICE in the matter.
They've never been held accountable before, they have no reason to assume they will be now.
Exactly, what is this, the military?
British innit
I'm gone at the end of the week, no you have to stay 3 more weeks. Okay, but you are not going to enjoy those 3 weeks as much as I am 😈
Yeah I was being harassed by a direct co-worker and went to HR and they didn't do s*** about it. Nobody was helping me. It was making me physically and mentally sick. My doctor signed me off for a 3-month medical leave and at the end I called the current manager to tell him I quit I'm not coming back. He was so pissed he was trying to convince me to come back. Dude this job is killing me and none of you are doing anything about the man harassing me so that is a hard no. My husband at the time worked there and he goes running to the husband trying to get him to convince me to come back. You're all acting like you can't live without me but the two years that I've been showing up to an abusive toxic place and nobody gave a s*** about me. Just stop the absurdity. After a total of 22 years of which I highly enjoyed the first 20 you will never see me again.... my kids very briefly worked at the same store in high school but ended up quitting and getting jobs getting paid better. They were making more than their dad working there and he had worked there for 36 years.
She doesn’t even look like the same person anymore. Shows how terribly her job was effecting her. Fair play to her she looks much happier
She seems to have lost weight.
@@anthonyrispin9778People respond to stress in many ways, biologically and psychologically. In grad school I gained 20 pounds and lost it the first year out.
@@anthonyrispin9778 Stress can make people gain weight. High Cortisol levels can do a lot of harm long term.
@@hollysmith1347 Yeah or lose weight. However I found I could not be complaining about it, and going to the doctor for it was assinine I was told. That I lost around 17kg in 4 months was a 'good thing'. For the full picture I was on a good normal weight when it started.
No it was not, it was taking a sledge hammer to my muscles and I got nerve damage by being underweight. Heck, I even got specialized food to gain weight and it took me almost three years to gain enough to be out of the danger zone and on a healthy level.
@@madjack7777 yes high Cortisol can do a lot of harm.
Most gain weight, but there are others that lose weight.
It's terrible. Hair loss, acne, brain fog, more prone to getting sick, fatigue, mood swings etc. Are some of the other symptoms.
It's not good.
As soon as he said, "Imma make it four weeks," I would have replied, "And I've just made it four seconds. I resign."
Brilliant. The kind of thing I always think of a week after I needed it 😂😂😂.
But she needed to get paid
Always remember: They want you to live as though that job is the most important thing in the world, but when they need to cut costs they'll throw you away and forget you without a pause.
100% agree!
Absolutely. They want you to live for the company and give everything and maximum effort at all times but the company will fire you / make you redundant with barely a second thought.
Yes!!
Exactly my experience!
I have worked for large impersonal organisations as well as small /family-run companies who know all their employees by name, but in general I have always found that the employee is expected to be loyal and completely invested in their company, the employer and their role yet the reverse is that when they are no longer needed they are to leave immediately with no fuss and - if required - no paid time to attend interviews or for their pay packet to include full wages covering any contested hours/ days of the notice period.
Basically exactly as you stated in your comment, despite it being unfair and far harder for the individual to bounce back and get through the situation unscathed and stress-free.
It’s disgusting how companies can do this almost universally and that it’s expected - even accepted due to how common it is - even when the employee feels taken advantage of but still goes that extra mile to remain professional and generous (because of their integrity) and tries to ensure a smooth transition even though it only benefits the employer.
I’m glad stuff like this is called out and bad practises exposed. They deserve to be. I haven’t listened to the entire story and background, only this video, so not sure if the particular person or firm can be identified, but in my opinion she has every right to reveal any events and harmful incidents involving her as long as she is honest and doesn’t declare anything illegal or intend to deceive regards the other party.
My job that I just left was so toxic and I am still suffering. I phoned in a couple of weeks ago with a severe migraine and my boss swore at me. I have a witness to this and several other things. My boss stole money from our charity box for coffee money and various other personal stuff. I worked free during each Covid lockdown. I am taking this human piece of garbage to court because she created the toxic work environment. I actually had to take a 4 month sick leave. What bugs me is that I went out my way for this company so many times and I get treated like garbage. I can hardly wait to go to court. Everything is documented and dated and I have secured a labor lawyer.
In the US I think people, young generation are finally changing this. They will not take the toxicity anymore and neither should anyone else
The boss sounds like a classic narcissist.
Agreed
To me, he sounds like a cokehead I used to know.
It would be really interesting if you interviewed Sam Vaknin about this.
1000%
Narcissistic sociopath.
I was the target of gaslighting, narcissistic behaviors from a supervisor. I had to go the therapy to heal. Now I don't tolerate any of this behavior anymore. No job is worth it.
I went through something similar, but in my case the term is "and then we got new management."
Same.
She should name and shame the guy just in case he tries to setup another startup.
Defamation.
@@LeMerchonly if it’s untrue
@@TheJaydeRavenThat’s a rule in the US, defamation laws are different in the UK.
He’s acting like 30k a year is an absolute fortune, which it’s really not in the UK when you factor in cost of living…
Gosh… I wish I could earn 30 k in the uk!
@@aprilapril2 you needed 30k to live most places in london 20 years ago.
A smidge under £30k a year was the entry level salary for the Met Police 20 years ago. Adjusting for inflation, that's over £50k today. £30k isn't even the median average for the most deprived parts of England today (NE England, £31k); In London the median is up to £45k!
Utterly delusional man.
I worked at a small business out of college. Soon after I started the business was taken over by the narcissist son. He was beyond awful. I tried for a year & then professionally gave my notice. He was so angry he told me I had to leave at that moment and wasn’t even allowed to pick up my stuff. Not long after I left, so did almost everyone else. A year and half later, the business went under. Bosses like this shoot themselves in the foot. They’re scared & incompetent & take everyone else down with them.
Good for this woman!
So many so called managers these days can't even manage their own lives and cause so many mental health issues . In my day (1970s) you had to work your way up the ladder so that you could appreciate the work done by the lower but essential staff. I am so glad I am now retired .
Oh, those weren’t mistakes. That is his astonishingly egotistical, narcissistic personality.
One of my favourite phrases I've ever come up with is "I don't know why you think it's okay to speak to me this way" It has all sorts of helpful uses in various contexts.
Yeap, same.
No. Bc this kind of tool will say "that's bc you're too Stoopid" what you want to say is "I don't care why you think it's ok to take to me like this, but now ya know it's not ok to talk to me like this"
@@carlamarlene2927Sadly, I have to agree with you here. You can't give them that big an opening to say "I know why, it's because "
@@TimesUp8888 and we can't say "I don't know..."bc we ALL know why
@TimesUp8888 The response to that is, "That wasn't a question. I am appalled that you are like this."
Sleeping in on a Sunday day off is a lifestyle.
I call this lifestyle "work/life balance" but hey I'm a total Slacker that way 😅
How disgusting! What a feeble excuse for a human being.!
The fact that she looks stunning now (compared to the older clip) shows how badly the job was affecting her.
She looks much healthier and happier now, well done to her.
She'd only been there 4 months, she's just lost a ton of weight.
You can put on a lot of weight in a stressful environment in 4 months.
She looks stunning now? Harsh. She looked as stunning before. In your eyes she’s stunning because she’s slimmer, shallow Al.
@@Carole.Pno she didnt, she looks much better now. It's not harsh to point out the obvious. Well done to her though, shes done really well
He was a bully. He saw her as a small woman he could say what he wants to. No suprise his company went under. He has no idea how to run a company and manage people. No doubt he's the reason it went under. She looks so much healthier and happier now. Doesn't even look like the same girl. Went from a defeated looking girl to a very attractive, happy looking woman. I hope whoever he is sees this video and all the comments stating what an absolute weapon he is.
I was very impressed at the way she challenged him. She did keep her cool until he tried to break her. Won't allow myself to say what I think of him.
"You're terrible at your job!"
But also
"You have to work four more weeks."
I quit a designer job without a backup a couple of years ago. I worked for a Jekyll/Hyde manager who was grood to chat to, but an utter bellend five minutes later.
I got back after Xmas break. Caught flak straight off the bat, so quit the next morning.
The relief was incredible.
Why the hell does he care if she was looking for other work? Its not illegal
Narcissists demand total subservience. Legality simply is irrelevant to these dictatorial tyrants.
In his sad, immature little mind that would count as a betrayal, having nothing to do with 'legal' or 'illegal'.
Totally - especially if she was on annual leave. Who the hell does that monster think he is? I would love it if someone recognised his voice and told everyone who he was as he needs to be named and shamed. What a disgusting person.
I was fired by a psycho for looking for a new job on my lunch hour.
@@kathylovesmk Disconnected behavior
I worked for a jerk like that for nearly 10 years (no HR dept there either) because I didn't value myself enough to get out; and my husband at the time, instead of supporting me, threatened me by saying things like, "don't you quit your job!" Praise to her for taking care of herself.
Going forward..never, ever think any company's HR is on your side.
4 weeks notice. He'd get 4 minutes , and they would be full of abuse. How dare he!
She acted so professionally. She is a gem
She's a great example of someone who took the bad experience and took the best out of it. Both mentally and physically. Standing ovation!
She comes across so well in this interview. No wonder her boss set up another meeting to say he couldn't do without her. He was clearly in his ego in that meeting where his "feedback" was basically abuse.
Glad she's somewhere she feels appreciated!
What an awful man. Imagine what he's like at home.
I'm glad the young lady looks so much better. That job and guy were making you ill.
Are you serious? I really hope that what we see now is just bery bad lighting.
Not gonna lie, I laughed my a$$ off when that boss' company, his baby, his memorial to his daddy, went belly-up. Dear CEO, when you're a b#tch, so is Karma. What's the bet the partner DID find out he was funding an ahole. I'm sorry the boss left the team in the lurch like that, but I'm really glad this chick turned sh#t into manure and is now thriving, and I hope the rest of that team is too. As they say, success is the best revenge.
This was easily one of the worst clips I've ever seen, great to hear the full story and so glad she's doing well now!
Couldn't agree more!
People need to name these companies and managers. Shame is the only thing that will change them.
Leo Skagerlind
@@SamSera-sq3qd Assuming this is correct, no need to name and shame. The company went bust shortly after the conversation, with this pretty scathing review from his investor: "I took quite a hit personally on backing Leo and the business, and I was very disappointed on the costs and progression on sponsorship, it was not at the level I was led to believe."
@@joepieklI disagree. He obviously has no shame! However, I (and many others) would want to know the name whether investing or working.
@@nancycariker-moon9890 Exactly! People should know whom it is worth (not) to work for.
As a father myself it would break my heart to hear anyone do something like this to my daughter, also I would like her to not be broken by it like this girl seemingly didn’t.
The gaslighting, no, no, no! You’re an incredible person that dealt with a very difficult situation with grace and professionalism.
Hopefully that boss has a great job cleaning toilets with his tooth brush.
Godddd what an awful, abusive and pathetic man! I am sorry for anyone who had to deal with him. Absolutely not!
I love how the boss brags about a 30k job... that is basically poverty level today.
I don’t earn that much!
@@aprilapril2 so what?
@@aprilapril2it's low for a professional job, and one with management responsibilities (teaching the university students). Edit: maybe you're worth more than people tell you. ❤
30,000 pounds is around 37,500 dollars. But still, nothing to brag about.
@@carbine090909 I earn 40k dollars as a warehouse worker... in Sweden...
Sure, my role is a little bit advanced but, still, they're acting as if they're some kind of saint for that 30k job.
What a cracking young lady, and a horrible boss. So glad to hear she's doing well now, and good on her!
It's easier to look back and see what went wrong and how you should have dealt with it. I wish I had the wherewithal to record my boss when she was having a go at my abilities. I ended up doubting myself, and (I can say this now), even thought of driving my car down a steep embankment! I was a nurse in the NHS, I knew my stuff, but lost all confidence in my abilities. Well done to the young lady for coming out stronger.
Sometimes we are like fish in water - we can't see the medium in which we swim. Often there are traumas in our lives which go back to childhood and we channel that. Setting boundaries can be hard but when done once it becomes easier and easier, and eventually automatic.
Also, it sounds very likely that the boss was breaking UK law. If a student is producing work that is going to be used by a company then they are entitled to minimum wage. Work experience normally means unpaid.
I hope the student wasn’t too discouraged from this too
Christ .... Thanks to your video's I realise how many bad toxic managers I've had in the past years....
Even today; I've worked with a great company the past 6 years, but a year ago the whole Managementteam was replaced, the gaslighting is insane.
Me too, and there are probably millions of us! So many managers just don’t have the ability to be managers.
What she's describing about this boss' behavior sounds like classic abus*er tactics. Especially him saying she wasn't talented - that was his way of making her feel she had to stay because nobody else would take her. AND when he later groveled and apologized, love-bombing her. He expected her to come crawling back. I'm so glad she didn't. His behavior had NOTHING to do with her. He would have done that to anyone. Imagine being in a relationship with him ☠️☠️
She looks so much better than two years ago. That says quite a bit. Good for her. Thanks for sharing.
What an insane story, I didn't think it could get any worse than what we saw in the original clip but clearly it could!
It was a mad one
I have been through this. Too many bosses in the creative industries have such massively unchecked egos. It's an epidemic, and I hate it.
Having worked in esports, it really is an industry full of immature ego babies at the top who bought in early with not a lot of money to go around atm.
I saw the original post in 2021. I'm so glad her life and work is soooo much better. Living your best life is the best revenge.
I was raised where the trend was to always give 2 weeks notice to quit. I have only quit 2 times with out doing the 2 weeks notice. One, I left because my doctor stated that my optical migraine was from the tension in the office and I should consider quiting. I was going on my 2 week vacation, so I turned in my notice effectively the next day with my vacation being my 2 week notice. The second one was a really toxic situation with a man who was the most chauvinistic person I have ever met. I turned in a copy of my resignation to both my boss and the HR office. On advice of the HR office, I met a HR employee and we went thru my file and both of us initialed on each piece of paper in my file. This came into use as they caught him trying to place derogatory complaints in my file, like write ups and client claims.
If she truly didn't understand any of those things, it's absolutely on her boss. Your employees aren't mind readers. Maybe YOU AS A BOSS SUCK AT COMMUNICATION. Or being a leader in any way, shape, or form.
Jacko Willink's book Extreme Ownership covers this topic in detail. It's a fantastic eye opener for anyone, Business or in life.
This girl is so strong. I would have given this boss a piece of my mind out of anger (which is not good). I constantly encouraged the members of my team to reach for the stars and when the opportunities were outside the company we worked in yes I was sad to loose a great person but I also was happy for them. Kindness and encouragement don't cost anything and gain so much for everyone. Also the critic was giving her no information on what to do better. Everything is wrong is not helpful as it doesn't communicate what to expect.
Glad to hear the company went under.
Saves us having to boycott them.
So glad that she has recovered from it. I've experienced disingnenuous managers flipping like this when things don't go their way.
Whilst difficult, you've got to just get out of a bad work situation as soon as you can. Don't try to change things or toxic people, again, get out.
Great advice, thank you!
This applies to relationships too!
Yeah, those experiences can really stick with you. I mean, I changed a toxic work environment in 2021, and I still sometimes have a hard time trusting my bosses, even though they're totally cool. Once you get burned like that, you're extra careful next time. I hope Tara doesn't have to go through that again and the best of luck for her.😊
Love this comment as ever! Thank you!
@Ben-Askins No, thank you. It was refreshing to see that she actually quit a toxic job and got a better one.
The company went under? Gee……….I wonder why? Is his dead father spinning in his grave?
What a great follow up to someone who I was so concerned about! I am so happy that she found a much better job. Her boss was such a manipulative knob and to hear how she is doing now is such a great relief. Thanks, Ben!
He said you were no good at your job but you had to work 4 weeks notice what a git . I hate when any person tries to control another person just because they can . My favourite expression for narcissists and he is ! when someone shows you who they are believe them .
She looks so healthy and happy now. ❤
She was remarkably calm and professional despite the appalling treatment by her erstwhile boss. Glad she had support, so important to talk to others.
Horrible to be undermined like that.
Success is the best revenge.
I wish nothing but the best for this woman. I hope she's having a fantastic day. Her video literally made me cry. Then watching this, I bawled my eyes out cuz I lost my dad. And him weaponizing his dad who passed, was absolutely D3M0NIC. 😡 I was so angry. I'm glad she's happy and sees how amazing she is. ❤
Recently quit an extremely toxic and stressful workplace that caused me significant amount of anxiety and significantly affected my quality of life. Left the last few days of the workplace crying as the fuckers kept guilt tripping me and FORCED me to work 10 extra days beyond my notice period.
Got hired at an incredible company that values its employees with 3x the pay and also incredible work-life balance.
All I can say is never stop trying for looking for that job that gives you a purpose in life and never give up despite the adversities!
Much love and power to all job-seekers / people who have to put up with toxic workplaces! ❤
How did they “force” you to work 10 extra days?
she looks so much happier and healthier now. holy shit, that job was killing her
Accusing someone of being a liar is just right out.
She looks way healthier now: Her affect, her emotional stability, and not that weight is important, but a lot of times people overeat when they are stressed.
I am absolutely thrilled for Tara finding a great job and she looks radiant and very happy now. Its fantastic. Thank you for coming on and I'm sure your thoughts and advice will be very helpful to others.
Good bosses look after their people. 👍👍
She even lost some weight, probably bcs that crappy job made her anxious. Poor sweat girl 😢 I hope she will be treated better and win the world.
Nah Covid period either people gained weight or lost weight
Camera angle
@@johnmunro4952 Bro, you're blind if you think that's camera angle.
she looks great now, well done for getting out of that hellhole. have a good life,
Glad she landed on her feet. With the professionalism she displayed, she will go far.
I quit a job because one of the higher ups forced me to work a day that I normally had off and that day was also Mother's Day. As a mother myself, I had made plans to celebrate it with my mom and mil and told them that. Didn't matter to them.
So I worked that day and gave my 2 week notice the next day. The OWNER waiting until I was clocking off my last shift to reach out to see what they could do to keep me. In a polite way, I told them 'too little, too late.'
Same same with......a pathetic bar job. The bar manager used to keep me late so I'd miss any transport home and gave to walk home around midnight (I was a 21 years old female). So I just gave a day's notice and he begged me to stay. I'd like to say that was satisfying but at the time once I'd morally won I didn't care any more.
I have worked for small businesses most of my 27 years in the workplace. There seems to be a personality type that start small businesses. In general they never enjoyed working for other people due to the perception that they were being exploited and or didn't deal with being told what to do. They tend to feel that they are in a position where they own you and can treat you in any way they choose. I have learnt a whole lot about poor management of people due to observing and being on the receiving end of that kind of behaviour. The worst was when I didn't have a break for 2 years because the business would crash if I did. All for basically dead end job's with little pay. I now work for a large corporation where we treated humanely.
I wish I could tell about the toxic manager I had when I worked for the UK Government. He was one of the worst people I have ever had the misfortune of meeting and was the reason why I quit. This was many years back now and I doubt I could remember enough of the details. After I left, he eventually got a 'sideways promotion' after a racism incident (that he should have been fired for) that cost the department a great deal of money in compensation to my colleague who suffered the abuse.
This was absolutely mind numbing to watch. That poor lady. He sounds like a full blown classic narcissist.
Several jobs that an Uncle of mine worked he was not appreciated and when he eventually quit they had to hire multiple people to replace his work load. In more than one instance they tried to get him back. One employer even came to his house to ask him to come back, which he turned down as too little too late!
If that young adult was my kid or even my significant other being talked to in this manner would be so compelling for me to humble this toxic boss by giving the him a half a year off from having a broken jaw, arm, leg, and mostly his ego/false pride.
Don't argue with a narcissist. The best to do is ignoring them. They are incapable of empathy so you don't need to pity them. They will never pity you.
One important concept I have learned in my years, which every employee needs to keep in mind, is: you are not your work. You exist beyond your work.
Also: You have skills a majority of people don't have, which is easy to forget when you mostly interact with people who fill similar roles to you and therefore have very similar skill sets.
Wow, she looks like a completely different person now! Obviously she NEEDED to quit that toxic place.
Unless it's in your signed contract notice is a courtesy to your employer, it is NOT MANDATORY. You can walk away anytime just as they can fire you at any time.
Has the narcissistic boss made a statement about his notoriety? I would love to hear his lame excuses. 😊
She’s amazing. Best of luck to you Tara
Agreed!
Back in 2012 I was on a vacation that had been approved 8 months earlier I got a text from my boss asking me to go out on a job. I replied that I was in Jamaica and that there was no way I could make it in time. His reply was "LOL, sorry forgot." He was a good boss and it became a running joke for about six months where he would call/text and ask if I was still in Jamaica before sending me out.
After years of being both an employee and a boss I can tell you, if you decide to leave because you know it's what's best for you, don't them anyone us aggression or guilt to make you stay. Otherwise a few months later you'll be right back where you started but those few months will have been even worse than before. Also, never let someone's bad behaviour push you to leaving before you're ready. If you know you want to go, figure out what works best for you... if you have no financial backup, stay at the crappy job long enough to secure a new one... and start doing the job you were hired to do. People like this woman are helpful and kind... and end up getting a load of extra work, overtime and unpaid responsibility dumped on them. They'll need someone to take those jobs anyway, best to let them start sooner than later.
Leo is a horse's behind. I'd have told him not to look for me in week 2 - 4. I'd have just removed the job from my CV (resume).
I would not have been in that conversation for more than a minute. It would have been the last time I spoke to anyone at that company. Zero days notice and keep my last pay cheque.
I will say this. This young lady has made changes in her life and it visibly shows. She has CLEARLY set her mind straight and didn’t let this troll damage her, she fought back by bettering herself. GOOD FOR HER! I hope she has found something better and that Karma catches up with this boss.
Wow, what an obnoxious bully.
She looks like a MUCH happier person now than when she was working for that goblin vampire.
Unless we start to name and shame these people they’re going to continue to pull this kind of crap.
People like that boss... holy shit... I seriously hope the worst.
More power to you. That boss/CEO should not be in charge of a shopping trolley.
Love your channel Ben.
I worked in a toxic workplace for far longer than I should have done. I can relate to so many of your videos!
OMG. Girl you dodged a bullet. Only 4 months. I got stuck for 60 years with abuse like that (I'm free now still working boundaries though). So glad you got away and had support. Sheesh!
2-weeks notice is a courtesy. The employer does not dictate how many weeks you have to give.
I’m always amazed how a company can talk anyone into staying for any amount of time after an employee quits. Corporations/companies don’t do that. They fire you on the spot. Yet after treating the employee like 💩 have the absolute nerve to expect the employee to stay?
What quite frankly amazes me more, employees do.
Don’t do that.
So glad that the call was recorded. The lady made a sensible move to leave the company and cover her back. Best wishes to you going forward. x
I've had many bosses who have two modes; 1) Overbearingly saccharine, 2) Utter bastard, and no in-between states.
Love what you're doing with this channel. I'm sure it helps folks learn to say "no" much earlier in life than my generation.
Retired now, but too many memories of awful management (including my own mistakes) and those who'd habitually pass the buck, take the credit and abuse colleagues.
Bosses have told me some crap but that takes the cake.
It’s nice to see a breakdown of the actual situation. Thanks for sharing the story and interview. There’s lots of valuable information here.
No matter how bad your company is doing, it really isn't hard to be a decent human being. I will not excuse her boss because of stress, because maybe the Sunday call might have been stress, but the next day he should have recovered enough to human, and he really didn't.
We all have had bad bosses but we all react differently to the treatment based on the situation we are in sometimes. These horrible people do exist even on high end jobs!
“You’re hopeless and the worst employee that I have ever had, but you are not allowed to quit”. Make it make sense.
“ sleep is a life style thing”.