You right is scam that males are loosing against females all over the world. example here is theUSA most businesses managers and supervisors and higher wages earners are females. But on the other hand I would rather have a female manager than a male manipulated by a female. Is nothing more disgusting than a male manipulated by females and that’s the society in USA totally Betha🤔
1. She never pays for anything. 2. She always needs financial bail 3. Relationship is surface level 4. You're literally going broke. 5. No source of income but lives lavishly 6. Scrutinize her dating history
I know a guy who bought a house with a gf they were together for 5 yrs she doesn’t help pay any of the bills . After they bought a house together 2 yrs later she had a baby with the bf then that yr she met another guy and cheated on bf with the new guy and had a baby with him now she has 2 kids with 2 different guys so messed up lol 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️
1. She never pays for anything. 2. She needs a financial bailout. 3. When you realize your relationship is a surface Level. 4. You're literally going broke. 5. She has no source of income but living lavishly. 6. Scrutinize her dating history.
Yep, 25 yrs marriage and successful construction company owner. I finally caught her cheating on me. I gave her everything she wanted. i even bought her purses and some that cost as much as a house...she's in her 40s. I bought her 3 Porsches and supported her.....I wouldn't take her back. Now I'm free and will never trust a woman again. She went with the guy who dresses sharp but had nothing.. she's getting nothing from me now..
But yes. You will be happy. I left many women out of my life because I already know it is not gonna work. I don't like my money being sucked. Even though I am not rich.
I said this before, and I'm saying it again that you're one of the most talented content creators out there. Now, this version comes out as a surprise for me compared to your other videos. You used more advanced presentation techniques like lighting is insane, eye-catching camera focus, and the content has more value than a 50-page psychology article. Just keep the good work!
A girl I know asks for money everyday....I actually thought she was broke, but after listening to some of the things you mentioned, I have just realised that she's after the money. She's a gold digger.
Truer words spoken! 👍. I call them Gold diggers!. Some of them are terrible and smart. They're also highly manipulative, they Black mail you emotionally and always play the victim especially if they realize you Like them alot. If you're not cautious, they will drive away your friends who tend to spot their strategy. Unfortunately, these ladies dig fellow women too..most times you may not even realize that they're gold diggers until they drain you. Do not get carried away because some may even buy you something or a gift, but watch their trend carefully, they trade 5 Dollar for 500 dollar, for every gift you received,you Will vomit it in 100 fold. It's also difficult to send them away, cos they occupy a part in Your heart. I was once a gal-friends supposedly ATM machine 🤣 until my friends fought her. Just pray they don't emotionally damage you🤭. Nice one Jessica.
I like how she is not bias. She balances various perspectives. That's awesome. Most people in their quest to protect gender or otherwise overstate certain things. Jessy does not do that. She maintains the balance and gives you an open option to think as well! God bless you! Bless you paaaaa
This is why women with a huge credit card debt is a huge red flag. A girl like that tried to use me to pay down her maxed out credit cards. She even said "but babe, can't you lend me the money? it's only 5000$". Me: You already got yourself in trouble by spending a lot of money you didn't even have. No, you got yourself into this trouble and it's your job to get yourself out of it. Get a job! She was literally furious and ghosted me when she understood I wouldn't change my answer.
I started following you as part of my search for ways to understand my girl, then I found myself following you as a friend and I am sure that all of your followers consider you a friend, because you are honest, real, educated and convincing, and I wish you all the best, greetings from Morocco.
Women who are only with guys for their money sure do have a sad life, tell them they aren’t worth it and that you would never spend a penny on them, gifts aren’t necessary in relationships
I like the way the presenter brings reality home without blinking. Many nuggets of lessons for men and women on how to relate. You are doing really well here as you help us all. Keep the flame burning brightly. Cheers.
Regarding the woman who never pays her own way, it depends on the culture. In South America, for example, the man ALWAYS pays the bill - whether the purchase involves his own interests or not. The man can either deal with that, or he can spend Saturday night alone.
Great piece, Jess. Men are naturally supposed to love and women are to be submissive. One thing we must understand is that giving your partner money in a relationship is not obligatory for men neither is it for women.
I feel some girls will be leaving this channel soon because the facts that Jessica has been dropping nowadays are too good. But guys when it gets to our turn let's just stay around and learn wai.
She gives it all to me. She is emotionally there for me. But my problem is she is constantly talking about her financial problems and asking for financial bailout all the time. Even now that she has found a job she is still asking for more bailout. When I ghost her she says she wants me not my money. I am very confused.
As a man trying to figure himself out I can say I have come across this so many times and I have had women leave me because I have certain things I can't do at the current moment as I am trying to build myself and start a business. It's hard for a lot of men out there to get a woman these days because most women especially in my generation (millenials) a lot of us young men are caught up in the idea that we have to spend money to please women and we never go far...I spent a lot of time spending and not focusing on myself which was a mistake on my part to be honest coz I didn't know better...the bad part is I have a woman who shows me she wants to build with me and is pretty much what you described in a woman who isn't after your money, but I still suffer from the idea of not being enough even though I'm a bit better than before because I am focussing on my goals with her support...but this video was very informative because my mind state was really set on the idea that if I don't spend on a woman she has no reason to be with me....and that is a very dangerous mind state to have..thank you for this video.
I just watched your show about "Why Women Want Money Over Love," and this lesson follows that one complementarily. Both shows work together. They do not apply to all girls and women, but many of them have bad ideas about real love.
Good luck bro...my girlfriend thinks that I withdraw money from her.. i am not bad off financially, but even when I do my best, she still sees me as a stingy guy...I am thinking of withdrawing from the relationship before it gets more serious
@@peternjoroge7416 better late than never...wiser to withdraw before you get finacially hurt bad...just as i before...but i've learned my lesson...although men are horny about lady parts...but it's not worth spending your fortunes on it
Thank you Jessica as you may saved me lots money snd heart ache as my friend fits the bill . She is very Pretty and has a nicer car and iphone than me but constantly asking for money. Has all 5 signs and drain my bank account and never gives gives gifts but wants lots of them . I need to run for the hills. Thanks again Jessica as you are awesome. Guys need to listen to your advice.
Jessica you rock! The other day I gave you feedback on the sound levels on your show...and voila! ..You've done it!...it now sounds great and we'll balanced (voice over and music). I must commend your willingness to accept my opinion..am humbled . Cheers
I really appreciate you educating me as a man after being blind three times from three different women especially my ex wife and the young lady I really liked at first until she ghosted me.
Learning is like a journeyer ,Education never ends until you die ,and that is life and if at all you fail to learn you are most likely to be a failure in life and that is it ,We really learn from mistakes , more lectures needed ,thanks a lot .
@@boikanyomolale5548 reverse is a shit don't try that here . Cause you know damn well that 95 percent of the time , it's men who always pay for dates & not women . You just commenting just to make a comment.😂😂😂
Your tips are what I needed right after I graduated from high school in 1971. They would have saved me thousands of dollars so that I would have said "no" empathically to my first "girlfriend."
My ex had this problem. Every time I ask her to buy something she always says yes. So one day we were passing by wendys without stopping. When we got home, she goes why didn’t you asked me if I wants to go get Wendy’s. I was like, why would I ask a question that I already know what the answer is gonna be.
Wow! So brave, ruthlessly frank and simply amazing. I was a fool for this and I have really been bitten by these ladies. Thank you Jessica, I am now wiser
Funny (not so funny) story. I was seriously dating a girl years ago and she never paid for anything and it was becoming tiresome. On one occasion we went to a restaurant and I politely asked her to put down a tip. ($6 or $7 as I remember). She went off on me, literally. It turned into a 3-hour argument. A week later she asked me how much money I had in the bank. My reply: You actually are asking me for the exact digital amount? She said: Yes. She worked and had money in the bank herself. I went no contact with her about a month later. Obviously, there were other issues...
Really talk has a woman, you is one of the best advice, I pray that God will continue using you in other people's life, blessings to you. I from Kingston Jamaica, use to in a relationship , she was using me bad bad , she never love me, she just wants my money, I hope that one day I can tell my story.
Ghanian women love money! After 1 week she will be calling you "babe." Then you will hear things like, please, I need help. We don't have this and that. It's crazy. Is the same thing in Nigeria. If a lady starts to ask you money after 1-2 weeks or often run away! 80% of African women is all about money. Their love language is money. It's sickening!
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Weird how women claim love isn't a choice, but they never love homeless men
😂
Love is not a choice.
Relationship is really a scam hmmmm. Continue to coach we the unmarried guys. You are really wonderful 😂😂😂
Forking scam 😒
You right is scam that males are loosing against females all over the world. example here is theUSA most businesses managers and supervisors and higher wages earners are females. But on the other hand I would rather have a female manager than a male manipulated by a female. Is nothing more disgusting than a male manipulated by females and that’s the society in USA totally Betha🤔
Lol
Hahaha😂😂😂
Yes o scam I pity guys that carry woman for head lol
1. She never pays for anything.
2. She always needs financial bail
3. Relationship is surface level
4. You're literally going broke.
5. No source of income but lives lavishly
6. Scrutinize her dating history
Your summary is straight to the point
Thank you so much
I’m not dating a woman if she’s not financially got her life together. A man and woman needs to build together mentally and spiritually.
Men please get out of money toxic relationships..you will never regret it
I know a guy who bought a house with a gf they were together for 5 yrs she doesn’t help pay any of the bills . After they bought a house together 2 yrs later she had a baby with the bf then that yr she met another guy and cheated on bf with the new guy and had a baby with him now she has 2 kids with 2 different guys so messed up lol 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️
@thepoor7680 🙄🙄🙄
👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Hey Jessica .I need some advice
@@flameslove6438 🙄🙄🙄
1. She never pays for anything.
2. She needs a financial bailout.
3. When you realize your relationship is a surface Level.
4. You're literally going broke.
5. She has no source of income but living lavishly.
6. Scrutinize her dating history.
MVP
When a man accepts you and your child or children, that's not a step father, that's a stepped-up respect that man.
Yep, 25 yrs marriage and successful
construction company owner. I finally caught her cheating on me.
I gave her everything she wanted. i even bought her purses and some that cost as much as a house...she's in her 40s. I bought her 3 Porsches and supported her.....I wouldn't take her back. Now I'm free and will never trust a woman again. She went with the guy who dresses sharp but had nothing.. she's getting nothing from me now..
Bro u gotta dress sharp. U got to make ur wife be puzzled when she looks at u.
But yes. You will be happy. I left many women out of my life because I already know it is not gonna work. I don't like my money being sucked. Even though I am not rich.
Damnit your part of the reason why the game's fcked up now 😂😂
A woman that is not interested in your money, she avoid asking you for money at all costs.
I said this before, and I'm saying it again that you're one of the most talented content creators out there. Now, this version comes out as a surprise for me compared to your other videos. You used more advanced presentation techniques like lighting is insane, eye-catching camera focus, and the content has more value than a 50-page psychology article. Just keep the good work!
A girl I know asks for money everyday....I actually thought she was broke, but after listening to some of the things you mentioned, I have just realised that she's after the money. She's a gold digger.
Truer words spoken! 👍. I call them Gold diggers!. Some of them are terrible and smart. They're also highly manipulative, they Black mail you emotionally and always play the victim especially if they realize you Like them alot. If you're not cautious, they will drive away your friends who tend to spot their strategy. Unfortunately, these ladies dig fellow women too..most times you may not even realize that they're gold diggers until they drain you. Do not get carried away because some may even buy you something or a gift, but watch their trend carefully, they trade 5 Dollar for 500 dollar, for every gift you received,you Will vomit it in 100 fold. It's also difficult to send them away, cos they occupy a part in Your heart. I was once a gal-friends supposedly ATM machine 🤣 until my friends fought her. Just pray they don't emotionally damage you🤭. Nice one Jessica.
@Qins - women dont know what they want.
@@harvey8829 🤭
Right off the rip I tell a woman I'm broke, and I'm saving everything I make. I never hear from them after that. Oh, I also have 20k saved.
I like how she is not bias. She balances various perspectives. That's awesome. Most people in their quest to protect gender or otherwise overstate certain things. Jessy does not do that. She maintains the balance and gives you an open option to think as well! God bless you! Bless you paaaaa
This is why women with a huge credit card debt is a huge red flag. A girl like that tried to use me to pay down her maxed out credit cards. She even said "but babe, can't you lend me the money? it's only 5000$". Me: You already got yourself in trouble by spending a lot of money you didn't even have. No, you got yourself into this trouble and it's your job to get yourself out of it. Get a job! She was literally furious and ghosted me when she understood I wouldn't change my answer.
Most are searching for money not love
Jessica's diary 👌👌👌
You sound so Jamaican when you said "Yuh done".....love from 🇯🇲
This video is literally RIGHT ON THE MONEY! That has certainly been my experience!
Thanks you, so much!Signs she’s using you for money. I needed to hear this confirmation
Glad to be of help. Thank you too
I never tire of watching this classy, a histrionic,Afro-English girl that lives in Ghana. She is so intelligent and useful as a wise advisor.
You forgot....she asks for money or feels entitled to your money once you are intimate with her.
I'm lesbian... I get asked for money too..
But I don't have money..
Always getting women asking for money or trying to get me to download scams..
I started following you as part of my search for ways to understand my girl, then I found myself following you as a friend and I am sure that all of your followers consider you a friend, because you are honest, real, educated and convincing, and I wish you all the best, greetings from Morocco.
A Real woman's perspective is priceless!! Take one to know one.
Women who are only with guys for their money sure do have a sad life, tell them they aren’t worth it and that you would never spend a penny on them, gifts aren’t necessary in relationships
If the relationship is transactional (you paying to be around her) then get out if your smart.
You look amazingly gorgeous Sis .You only speaks facts and i really admire your personality.
Women thinks Men are fools 😡. Money For Love And Affections 💯🇳🇬
Love how you play around with you background set-up... The cinematic back lighting, background music and of course the content of each video.
If you are a young man she’s totally correct! I don’t care how beautiful that woman is, get rid of her at once!
I should’ve known from the shopping spree, that’s the only time she smiles at me.
I have never commented under your page,this is soooooooooooooo True..couldn't agree more
I like the way the presenter brings reality home without blinking. Many nuggets of lessons for men and women on how to relate. You are doing really well here as you help us all. Keep the flame burning brightly. Cheers.
Regarding the woman who never pays her own way, it depends on the culture. In South America, for example, the man ALWAYS pays the bill - whether the purchase involves his own interests or not. The man can either deal with that, or he can spend Saturday night alone.
Haha I like the way Jessica said,,,"My guy" My guy😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 that was hardcore
This is the most difficult reality to accept. All my relationships. My girls has never bought me anything even pen 😂😂😂
Women are like a car they are expensive
@Gabriel Montano how dare you compare a car to a woman. Cars are infinite times better
@@Eldonvrgaso true
Focus, commitment, and sheer will. A true force of nature on this planet.
Great piece, Jess. Men are naturally supposed to love and women are to be submissive. One thing we must understand is that giving your partner money in a relationship is not obligatory for men neither is it for women.
A gold digger is always looking for a sucker.
I feel some girls will be leaving this channel soon because the facts that Jessica has been dropping nowadays are too good. But guys when it gets to our turn let's just stay around and learn wai.
I agree with you Mr. RichMan 🤣🤣🤣💯✔
Let them leave she speaks the truth I love her.
Thanks for helping me manouver around in life knowing where to place my heart.
You are right, when a woman love you she never want you to squander your resources.
She gives it all to me. She is emotionally there for me. But my problem is she is constantly talking about her financial problems and asking for financial bailout all the time. Even now that she has found a job she is still asking for more bailout. When I ghost her she says she wants me not my money. I am very confused.
She’s telling you that bullishit to keep you hooked. Leave her while you still can. Lead with respect not your wallet.
When a woman gives you peace of mind, you are free forever and ever
They want both sex and money, but worried about the man wanting only sex.
As a man trying to figure himself out I can say I have come across this so many times and I have had women leave me because I have certain things I can't do at the current moment as I am trying to build myself and start a business. It's hard for a lot of men out there to get a woman these days because most women especially in my generation (millenials) a lot of us young men are caught up in the idea that we have to spend money to please women and we never go far...I spent a lot of time spending and not focusing on myself which was a mistake on my part to be honest coz I didn't know better...the bad part is I have a woman who shows me she wants to build with me and is pretty much what you described in a woman who isn't after your money, but I still suffer from the idea of not being enough even though I'm a bit better than before because I am focussing on my goals with her support...but this video was very informative because my mind state was really set on the idea that if I don't spend on a woman she has no reason to be with me....and that is a very dangerous mind state to have..thank you for this video.
Wow, this lady needs more than millions of subscribers
I just watched your show about "Why Women Want Money Over Love," and this lesson follows that one complementarily. Both shows work together. They do not apply to all girls and women, but many of them have bad ideas about real love.
I've been suffering this for 6 years... Finally I've smarten up... I want a girl with a true heart not a relationship based on spending money
Good luck bro...my girlfriend thinks that I withdraw money from her.. i am not bad off financially, but even when I do my best, she still sees me as a stingy guy...I am thinking of withdrawing from the relationship before it gets more serious
@@peternjoroge7416 better late than never...wiser to withdraw before you get finacially hurt bad...just as i before...but i've learned my lesson...although men are horny about lady parts...but it's not worth spending your fortunes on it
@@peternjoroge7416 break up and leave
You’re still looking for a girl with a true heart? Man you gotta be kidding😏
Very true on all point my sista..very true indeed..
Thank you Jessica as you may saved me lots money snd heart ache as my friend fits the bill . She is very Pretty and has a nicer car and iphone than me but constantly asking for money. Has all 5 signs and drain my bank account and never gives gives gifts but wants lots of them . I need to run for the hills. Thanks again Jessica as you are awesome. Guys need to listen to your advice.
Can we just take a moment to appreciate the background👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 Jess you look radiant!
Jessica always put smiles on my face because she speaks too much facts. Reason I watch all your videos 😊
Appreciate the support
Same here jessi
Thanks for these reminders Dear .... we guys need these litte pep talk to keep us alert
You speak for all the men in the world, we appreciate you.
Jessica is 100% right because all what she said has happened to me believe me guys it is real out there
Jessica you rock! The other day I gave you feedback on the sound levels on your show...and voila! ..You've done it!...it now sounds great and we'll balanced (voice over and music). I must commend your willingness to accept my opinion..am humbled . Cheers
We never had sort of youth and relationship program like this before, 100% support to this program.
I really appreciate you educating me as a man after being blind three times from three different women especially my ex wife and the young lady I really liked at first until she ghosted me.
Take your time,don't go for the look!
Learning is like a journeyer ,Education never ends until you die ,and that is life and if at all you fail to learn you are most likely to be a failure in life and that is it ,We really learn from mistakes , more lectures needed ,thanks a lot .
No money no relationship
Chocolate complexion is beauty. I like your complexion Jessy
If a man goes on a date with a woman on a few dates & after a while that woman don't use her discretion by splitting or paying , cut her off .
If a woman goes on a date with a man on a few dates & after a while that man don't use his discretion by splitting or paying😊cut him off.
@@boikanyomolale5548 reverse is a shit don't try that here . Cause you know damn well that 95 percent of the time , it's men who always pay for dates & not women . You just commenting just to make a comment.😂😂😂
A woman will directly tell you she only wants your money, no surprise I can spot a gold digger anywhere.
😂 sometimes you give money . She does not like to spend times with you , and she always has problems to solve
Thanks for educating a lot of guys here. I know these things already but it sure feels good to hear a lady validate what you already know.
Those 34 women who disliked the videos should be rot to hell
Ha, ha, ha.
I love this woman mindset yoooo this is crazy . She so honestly blunt . I love it !
She is on my level. Women need to realize it takes two to tango
I like before watching the full video coz of the content that awaits. Love from Kenya
Happy Father's Day Jessie, you've always been the voice of the voiceless on behalf of all young men, and we appreciate and celebrate 🍾❤you today.
I am wondering how many women coming after Jessica for exposing their tricks
A lot. She’s an alpha female. She can handle them. 😂
Your tips are what I needed right after I graduated from high school in 1971. They would have saved me thousands of dollars so that I would have said "no" empathically to my first "girlfriend."
"Was she eating" I love it
Jessica you are the Queen of the bunch of female true lovers in contrast to the gold diggers you are exposing and warning men against.Thank you Queen.
My ex had this problem. Every time I ask her to buy something she always says yes. So one day we were passing by wendys without stopping. When we got home, she goes why didn’t you asked me if I wants to go get Wendy’s. I was like, why would I ask a question that I already know what the answer is gonna be.
Wow! So brave, ruthlessly frank and simply amazing. I was a fool for this and I have really been bitten by these ladies. Thank you Jessica, I am now wiser
Peace and love Jessica ❤️❤️💜 thank you for keeping it real, u doing a excellent job 👍👍👍😃😃😃 excellent message
I'm literally experiencing all these things you said... thank you Jessica
Your videos and presentation are top -notch , you are an inspiration
So calm when you talk. Love it
"You give me money, I give you sex." You just summarized prostitution.
That’s what it really is.
I've always enjoyed videos ! They are empowering and act like an eye opener ! I didn't mention the sense of humor 😂😂😂! God bless you
Learnt this lesson FAR too late..😢😢
But.. never again..
Same. She got me for $1400 and still find excuses not to hang out
Jessica, you're doing terrific!
I realize that I shouldn't even wait from you to be clarifying all these truths for my own case. I’m obliged!
Jessica I like this video about women. You said it all, and everything you said was true... 💯
The love I got for you is enormous thanks for your scripts
🥰🥰🥰
I run from a woman that doesnt wanna work but yet always complains about her financial situation....Its her life she must bail herself out
Too much facts Jessica. Mind blowing facts
I got hit with the financial bailout and instantly ran for the hills good video 👍
I have learned so much from your videos. You are an amazing broadcaster👏👏👏.
Funny (not so funny) story. I was seriously dating a girl years ago and she never paid for anything and it was becoming tiresome. On one occasion we went to a restaurant and I politely asked her to put down a tip. ($6 or $7 as I remember). She went off on me, literally. It turned into a 3-hour argument. A week later she asked me how much money I had in the bank. My reply: You actually are asking me for the exact digital amount? She said: Yes. She worked and had money in the bank herself. I went no contact with her about a month later. Obviously, there were other issues...
.... Which other issues were these??
Really talk has a woman, you is one of the best advice, I pray that God will continue using you in other people's life, blessings to you. I from Kingston Jamaica, use to in a relationship , she was using me bad bad , she never love me, she just wants my money, I hope that one day I can tell my story.
Thanks you jessica to reaching out to me comment.
oooh amazing wow we the single men need to listen this again and again 👌👌
Another Masterpiece from you again. Thanks, Mrs Jessica
Miss.
@@JessicaOS ok cool, got it, Miss. Jessica
Chalé, thank you for your Wisdom Knowledge... Lots of love!!!
You're one of a kind, very appealing. Mzuri sana. You have alot of good sense, and seem very grounded.
Ghanian women love money! After 1 week she will be calling you "babe." Then you will hear things like, please, I need help. We don't have this and that. It's crazy. Is the same thing in Nigeria. If a lady starts to ask you money after 1-2 weeks or often run away! 80% of African women is all about money. Their love language is money. It's sickening!
You are very correct
@@chibwekachihili5986 Run away bro!
True
@@amoremediagraphics Just run from them. lol
There going to hell
The closing lines really touch my heart 🥺
I don't expect any man over the age of 18 to fall in to the tricks of a gold digger
What a genuine woman sounds like a angel to me keep preaching the good word.
They will always want money.