9 surprising mistakes men make when sliding into women's DM's

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  • @Daybreakhasme
    @Daybreakhasme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Rejection is your friend..seriously. It's a life saver in disguise.

    • @shandaysplays5642
      @shandaysplays5642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yup that motivates u to better yourself and be on your grind

    • @maxwell3814
      @maxwell3814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kind of positivity I need

    • @floyd_mph
      @floyd_mph 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts

    • @shandaysplays5642
      @shandaysplays5642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Ricky Anthony no better yourself for your sake don’t do it to be seen or to be accepted by anyone do it for you.

    • @randybrown1225
      @randybrown1225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How IF I REALLY LIKE HER N SHE REJECTS ME, ITS LIFE CHANGING, FUCK IM 😠,

  • @Ben256MB
    @Ben256MB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Ever since IG existed i have never even thought of sliding into any IG model DM because it's super lame to me . I'm more old skull as hell ! The most cost effective , easy and enjoyable way to holla at chick is to approach them in real life . Approaching women in real life on the streets, shopping malls and anywhere is invaluable because you will build a lot of confidence . It forces you to be a great at conversations, you will be able to read women and your flirting skills also improve . You learn nothing about women DM'ing and going to on dating apps . Even if you get a woman on a date you wouldn't be able to navigate the interaction into a flirtous vibe!
    Men are just too scared of rejection which is a feminine trait! Men are supposed to be emotionally resilient and not care about what people think about them , if you have problems approaching women in real life then you're not ready have a girlfriend or a wife! Approaching women in real life is the easiest part . The difficult part is maintaining a situation with a woman .

  • @gregorycampbell3828
    @gregorycampbell3828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi Jessica, my name is Greg, and I just started watching you yesterday and is it too soon to say I Love You. Well I really love what you are doing because we as men need this and have been needing this for a long time. I really love the way you speak, so very clear and precise. That’s beautiful. Keep up the good work, because the guy you end up accepting had better know Respect from the get go. I’m willing to bet that he would be the luckiest man on the planet. Pay attention men, to this woman and others like her, they are very special and deserve to be treated as such . Anything less, and you’re a total slacker. Keep representing Jessica, I’m with you 1000 percent.

  • @BervieReviews
    @BervieReviews 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh my! 🤣😂🤣 It's your gestures for me with those pickup lines🤣

    • @jasonaddo1360
      @jasonaddo1360 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My God! I had to watch it again.. 😂 😂 😂

    • @BervieReviews
      @BervieReviews 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jasonaddo1360 She got me there🤣😂

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣

  • @davedeluxe6196
    @davedeluxe6196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I like the fact that you show how men embarrass themselves from a woman’s perspective. This is my second best video after the “if your woman does this, leave her”

  • @jamesnjenga5776
    @jamesnjenga5776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That Gnarl there 3:06 literally cracked me up, hehe. I didn't see that coming.

  • @PajonHd
    @PajonHd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i love this lady one one single reason.. she only gets better

  • @geoffreyapenya551
    @geoffreyapenya551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I cannot think of anything YOU DON'T HAVE. You're INDEED GOD SENT!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @TheTMontgomery
    @TheTMontgomery 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When you are past that age of modern communication it’s amusing to hear all this.
    It took a while for me to work out what a DM was lol
    Well done again Jessica .
    Have a great day.
    Never knew so much information was published by persons .

  • @VVS30187
    @VVS30187 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Women are a whole lot of work . Just move on and make money .

    • @willenskyakangwa8248
      @willenskyakangwa8248 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      hahahahhaha

    • @Adepentane
      @Adepentane 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Simple... Just make money, Live fine, be happy and they will do the Sliding into Your DM's and start validating themselve.

    • @alrangele9915
      @alrangele9915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep. Create youre gool! Woman comes and goos

    • @sahittafolli3007
      @sahittafolli3007 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      A women can be, the key for your succes, keep that in mind!

  • @gamechangertmc3994
    @gamechangertmc3994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey Jess honestly I don't wanna just slide into your dm but into your life....you seem to be a really strong smart intelligent black woman

  • @davisuduak2324
    @davisuduak2324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Some of us guys would realize how much time we could save and make productive if we adhere to this knowledge and practically live it. Thank you so much Ma

  • @danielwilliamceau4282
    @danielwilliamceau4282 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's a question of education... You're such a great and wonderful communicator... Be blessed lovely woman and i wish you happiness!

  • @maximadeofficial
    @maximadeofficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The spotify line got me on the floor whaaat!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @MansaQueen
    @MansaQueen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can’t get over the pickup lines! Parking ticket, fine all over you 🤔😂. That one got me hollering and I Must confess that I like it. Now who’s sliding into Jessica’s DM! 🤔🤔 Love you lady! 🥰

    • @U95735
      @U95735 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you heard of gravity
      Coz am falling for you is a rich one too 😂

  • @prayeracademy
    @prayeracademy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm here for Jess voice❤️❤️👌👌 and the way she speaks so confidently❤️❤️

  • @michealkross3391
    @michealkross3391 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your reactions to the pick up lines is very funny lol😂
    You're the best
    One love from Nigeria ❤️

  • @briceabogo1348
    @briceabogo1348 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jessica, you simply excel in what you're doing. Your voice, gestures, mimic, jokes and all the rest are so nicely harminized that it is a real pleasure watching your videos and listening to you. In fact, one would say that you have acquired the mastery over how to keep the right balance and measure in all those necessary ingredients that make what you do always palatable and agreable. Passion, intelligence and good breeding only cannot account for it ( qualities that shine through every single video you post). A good amount of hard work lies softly hidden beneath such an achievement. Thank you. Wish you more success and love in all your undertakings.

  • @nuellafaith
    @nuellafaith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Those pick up lines got me😂😂😂
    I couldn't agree with you more💯

  • @petercharlery7661
    @petercharlery7661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    A man's biggest problem is himself, his ego and the need to impress the people around him. Men should spend more time investing in and appreciating themselves instead chasing women are not worth their efforts.

  • @bigdreams5175
    @bigdreams5175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    GUYS NEVER LISTEN TO DATING ADVICE FROM A WOMAN. If you want to know how to catch a fish you ask a fisherman not the fish. They are not in your shoes. She tellin you what they want. Women don’t know what they want. She not the one who wants the girl. DONT FALL FOR IT. Stay woke Kings

  • @sadedot
    @sadedot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Big ups to the dude who took the business route to get yo attention. He did get yo attention. Can't Knock the Hustle!

  • @francisvarela9943
    @francisvarela9943 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hahaha😂i love the pick up line part

  • @michaelmanners9244
    @michaelmanners9244 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Whenever I watch your teachings, there's something new to learn. I always wondered why I don't know some of these before now. Thank you Jessica.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're most welcome

  • @stephenmungai2984
    @stephenmungai2984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loving your content from Nairobi, Kenya.

    • @janiferkerubo3552
      @janiferkerubo3552 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And that makes us two

    • @peterkiruru3693
      @peterkiruru3693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wa Kenya kila mahali 😂🇰🇪

    • @janiferkerubo3552
      @janiferkerubo3552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@peterkiruru3693 tutakosa aje yaani🙄😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hello Nairobi!!! Sending love your way

    • @janiferkerubo3552
      @janiferkerubo3552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JessicaOS thanks Jessica much love from Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @ronwalker1975
    @ronwalker1975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jessica...personally I think you're INTERESTING, those videos of yours are needed...you remind me of my GOOD friend Valerie Sistrunk, keep on doing what you do, the WORLD is being deprived if they don't listen to Jessica O.

    • @ronwalker1975
      @ronwalker1975 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eres bienvenido (you're welcome 😁)....that response was swift....may I have your email address if it's possible!?

  • @Lastborn125
    @Lastborn125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Dope pick up lines

  • @temitopeobinna4608
    @temitopeobinna4608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lately TH-cam have been recommending your videos and I do ignore but after watching this I'd say I regret it!!! You're life saver

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol! Welcome to the family

  • @robertomendy7217
    @robertomendy7217 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Av just landed on your platform but my God! i had to subscribe immediately, you are a great teacher, articulate, the accent,oh my 👌🙏🤭, Love from Uganda 👋🤗. Long live madam Jessica.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for the sub

    • @robertomendy7217
      @robertomendy7217 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JessicaOS yo most welcome my friend, it would be ironic if i had not subscribed to your channel. God bless you, Africa is blessed to have you 😊👋

  • @joshuaocansey7285
    @joshuaocansey7285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sometimes, I feel our elder 'brothers' ruined the reputation of all guys on social media. Most girls think all guys sliding into their dm are bad, 'players' or ritualistic and most do not respond. That is so sad. Anyways, we move.

  • @maryagyei3255
    @maryagyei3255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jessy Jessy...the pick up line was hilarious

    • @kobinabreeze572
      @kobinabreeze572 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup. A mix of Tundra, Tacoma and Hardbody.

  • @MrGreen32
    @MrGreen32 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    the quality in these videos are amazing.

  • @Mark-gk1bu
    @Mark-gk1bu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Real advice from a real woman. Keep up the good work Jessica.

  • @s-drileba8872
    @s-drileba8872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I started following you since this month June 10th.... wow I watched all the videos...
    Jessica much love from Uganda 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sending love back

  • @benjaminmartin4835
    @benjaminmartin4835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jessica i must say everything you said was helpful and truthful which of course is the number one thing thank you .

  • @fabianm.2982
    @fabianm.2982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your English command nd presentation thereof is top notch.. And yeah this isn't a pick up line, but rather an appreciation post.

  • @kennethndungu9187
    @kennethndungu9187 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the lighting in this video is delish❤️❤️❤️

  • @spencerway3703
    @spencerway3703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    First rule for men who wants to get a lady do not I repeat "DO NOT CHASE A FEMALE AT NO POINT IN TIME.!"

  • @symlexbrn5396
    @symlexbrn5396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I prefer meeting and talking to real people first then we can use social media as an additional means of communication

  • @fombeedgar9066
    @fombeedgar9066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Those pickup lines though 😂😂🔥🔥

  • @Htman
    @Htman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You hardly meet woman that are this matured.

    • @CCobraProductions
      @CCobraProductions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is a real woman, not a little girl in a woman's body.

  • @risakovzuzu3854
    @risakovzuzu3854 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Those pick up lines are hilarious 😂

  • @nicshun4553
    @nicshun4553 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    😂😂 I like the pick-up lines 😂😂😂

  • @TheSamwonders
    @TheSamwonders 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Godddď... the moment her voice came on,I had Goosebumps... I'll speak like this someday. Awesome content always

  • @simplecomplicatedtruth9064
    @simplecomplicatedtruth9064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bumped into one video, watched 3 and subscribed. You are appreciated.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate the support

  • @perrylups
    @perrylups 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I haven't missed any video here.. Keep going higher Jessi🚀🚀🚀✨✨

  • @JoelSam
    @JoelSam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh those lines were gold!!! 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

    • @sadedot
      @sadedot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "Gold, Jerry. Gold!"

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣

  • @Sammiraibrahim
    @Sammiraibrahim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love love your videos so so educative. I can always relate.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good to know

  • @jermaineallen8784
    @jermaineallen8784 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey Jess.. Great video, great channel. Your insight is so real and practical; I share the same sentiments. Before I got married I never tried any of these nonsense some dudes try, I believe your video really helps those guys to be real.
    Keep up the good work... Lots of love from Jamaica. As we say in Jamaica "Big up yu self!"
    Which really means "Lots of respect" ☺☺👏

  • @CocoaKrachi
    @CocoaKrachi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    @Jessica!! Awesome insights. You are always on point. Just when I was planning to sneak into your DM, you provided all these insights... I feel like you already busted my sh*t...lolol...

  • @louissimutenda
    @louissimutenda 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    well, those pick up lines are fire! 🤣..you made my day @jessica

  • @marlonmonsegue5999
    @marlonmonsegue5999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hope everyone has listened to these great tips

  • @thementalist7265
    @thementalist7265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If you are a guy reading this, I challenge you to put yourself in the position such that the ladies you want will dm you instead.

  • @edwardotoo5828
    @edwardotoo5828 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just like the end " if she's not responding, do yourself a favour and move on 🤗"

  • @danieloghenebrorhie2590
    @danieloghenebrorhie2590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is very very informative and instructive. Thank you Jessica Os

  • @McCauky
    @McCauky 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the background music at the start 0:13

  • @olapadeseun8586
    @olapadeseun8586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just like that number 9 statement, very interesting, what man refuse to do, move on... But they won't, I'm a man also , thanks I really appreciate that statement so... much. Thanks

  • @davidiampguy1354
    @davidiampguy1354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Some of those pickup lines lowkey fire tho🤣🤣

  • @georgeokyere3309
    @georgeokyere3309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The pick up lines 🤣😂

  • @waklifit9594
    @waklifit9594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When they reject us, it saves us a lot of money💯

  • @DaringLizard
    @DaringLizard 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The lines😂👌🏾

  • @elunubi2820
    @elunubi2820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The parking ticket line is awesome...can't stop laughing

  • @Debbie_Awurabenaa
    @Debbie_Awurabenaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awwn 💯 true.
    Thank you miss Jess.
    You're really helping us paaaaa
    God bless.
    Ma supa role model
    Much love 💕💕

  • @oscarspringer1260
    @oscarspringer1260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interesting, modesty and self respect, builds genuine charracter. Importantly, avoid disrespect, and being disrespectful.Especially indecent exposure.

  • @o.9763
    @o.9763 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Parking Ticket Line!!! Is Hilarious 😂😂😂😂

  • @sola5229
    @sola5229 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am really entertained by your gift of speech. I also like the way you make references to your personal experiences.

  • @vickymawutor5213
    @vickymawutor5213 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The if you were a vegetable line got me laughing 🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂. I'm really learning. Thank you Jess

  • @ibrahimsanni6280
    @ibrahimsanni6280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can't stop laughing with those pick up lines .. llllooooooolllllllll

  • @jacksleazy1426
    @jacksleazy1426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @Jessica Os you never desapoint 💯I love this so much, 😘👌👌

  • @martinschabana9284
    @martinschabana9284 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of your vídeos Just appeared on my suggestion vídeos and after watching Just subscribed immediately. Your tips just deserve an award. You are too articulate. Much love fron Mozambique 🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿

  • @folaranmiadepoju3528
    @folaranmiadepoju3528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very great content for we guys. I’ve learnt a lot from this. Thank you for sharing.

  • @kobbyattafuah2029
    @kobbyattafuah2029 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yet again another pertinent topic. Interesting how you come up with what to talk about. Always relatable content. Big ups 💪

  • @emmanie2748
    @emmanie2748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always a joy to watch you Jess. Kudos!

  • @prayeracademy
    @prayeracademy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What's up Shorty😳😳🤣🤣🤣 hahaha you are hilarious Jess❤️❤️❤️

  • @gaseitsiwemothewe
    @gaseitsiwemothewe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As for the pick up lines😂😂 love your channel, from South Africa. 🇿🇦

  • @prayeracademy
    @prayeracademy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Cutecumber🤣🤣🤣🤣 hahaha this killed me with laughter

  • @SHOWERSTVBIZ
    @SHOWERSTVBIZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice one. Keep them coming. Learning from you by the day

  • @kojoboateng6300
    @kojoboateng6300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I simply like the way u talk , do u even have bloopers ?

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Pleeeeeenty

  • @PT-ChucoTown
    @PT-ChucoTown 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lol, you crack me up on this video. Great stuff

  • @jonahnjoroge3435
    @jonahnjoroge3435 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You flow so well in your passion. Good job Jessica 👏👏👏

  • @josemigel
    @josemigel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'd love to use those pick up lines ..they're hilarious hahaha

  •  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You could be a stand-up comedian you know 🤣

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      In my next life maybe 🤣

  • @AanuoluwaAdebanjo
    @AanuoluwaAdebanjo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The No.2 "pick up lines" got me laughing. Nice as always. Much love💕💕💕

  • @johnandrewservice8598
    @johnandrewservice8598 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice Jessica. You are absolutely correct about this manner of trying to make an acquaintance online. Onelove ❤️💛💚🌷

  • @alozie424
    @alozie424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Have watched a few of your video's some weeks ago but just saw this today and got you a new subscriber :)

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate the sub!

  • @tenesesiyabonga6297
    @tenesesiyabonga6297 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just found myself each time I am knocking off @ work tuning for the new upload.

  • @curiousfox5074
    @curiousfox5074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love ur insightful contents these days

  • @tiahtiasco4717
    @tiahtiasco4717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Friend zone ....is the worse place to start

  • @bluetimothyosadebe-bto
    @bluetimothyosadebe-bto 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The pick up lines killed me 😂🤣😂😂😂😂🤣🤣

  • @chotangandu7231
    @chotangandu7231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are the best youtuber atleast in my own world.

  • @phase2220
    @phase2220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really love this video a lots, thanks for this.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @DjoumyDjoums
    @DjoumyDjoums 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not familiar with IG, but with dating apps if you get a match and the other person doesn't answer your message for 48h, I feel like they deserve some truth going their way.

  • @fifiswz4324
    @fifiswz4324 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🤣🤣🤣The pick up lines part...lol

  • @tendaichinamasa769
    @tendaichinamasa769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent video. But I think is appropriate to give a chance to all DMs and depending on the conversation, then make a decision to continue or the stop interacting. You just never know Jessica.

  • @nyc4max
    @nyc4max 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your insights are surely valid and indeed logical. But at times some men chose which women to approach in these manners which as well reveals their intention Many women will take offense, those with dignity and moral value. Many others depraved of feminine value and self respect would even respond by sending the man a photo of their private part also. I understand that after a relationship has taken deep roots between two people, those exchanges may happen without backfire; But definitely would ruin any relationship at its genesis and it all depends on the woman. Your advises are of great social value and may benefit decent individual with positive vision and aspiration in life. Thank you and excelsior. I wish you success to your emission. God bless.

  • @ahmedonawale9138
    @ahmedonawale9138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jessica: Spitting great advice.
    Me: Only here for the pickup lines. 😂😂😂
    Pun intended.

  • @lorde_b8847
    @lorde_b8847 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "My phone agrees"... ay that killed me! 🤣

  • @maxwellagyei4257
    @maxwellagyei4257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tips for sure ,thanks so much Sis..

  • @eliasabdulbaaki6090
    @eliasabdulbaaki6090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    F*ck boys are taking notes. 😂

  • @ScienceDigestShow
    @ScienceDigestShow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Full support here to the voice of Mama Africa👌💥