likely hot, masculine and successful guy - she is just trying to rationalize it in way she doesnt come up as the immoral person who is cheating and looking for upgrade. The more women use these general nice words...the more it is just about f instinct. They cant admit that is the case, but because there is nothing else in it - that sort of generalities are all they can say. really the paternity testing should be legally obligatory, but that will never be the case because it would be against womens interest. I think there was court case or something about this in the past and the reason to decline is that "Obligatory paternity tests would break up families". /facepalm
Reminds me of my house mate when I was at university. He said if he ever has kids he wants a paternity test. Especially as his future career in the merchant navy would involve lots of travelling. We thought he was a mysoginist pig. But now I realise how smart he is.
Women would get in contact with nurses to falsify the results very regularly. It would be very naive of us as men to trust people who regularly break vows they make infront of God for money.
@@olglez9230 ,as an American merchant sailor I can attest that it is easy for women to deceive us if they want to!! That's not to say I didn't let it happen or failed to stand up for myself until later in the game, but when you're gone for 1 to 4 months it makes it easy for them to cheat and cover up the evidence. You just don't have the opportunity to find out like you land dwellers do simply because we're thousands of miles away!!!
RedPilled Bachelor, I'm likely done with relationships but if I ever went down the rabbit hole again I would tell them upfront that if she ever got pregnant I would always insist on a paternity test!! Even if (admittedly unlikely) I got married I would STILL INSIST on a paternity test!! If they don't like it I'd say my life was fine without you before. It can be just as fine again!!!! The ex-girlfriend pulled that crap on me. I finally got to the Division of Youth and Family Services in New Jersey to find out since I couldn't get a straight answer or proof from her. I didn't want to break up and then find out 10 years later I was the Dad and owed an absurd amount of child support!!!
Read a story recently where the wife left him, regretted it, and wanted to come back. They met to have "The Talk", and while she was explaining her actions he was writing. Turns out he had done online research into breakups and had created a spreadsheet for himself listing all the various reasons and excuses women use to justify it to themselves. When she finished what she had to say, he congratulated her on only missing excuse no.5 out of the top 20. Then he gave her the spreadsheet, got up, and left without further comment. Needless to say, he did not take her back - Good for him
Notice how she had no career path, required a house, then a bigger house, contributed nothing because she didn't like the path SHE had chosen-switched jobs multiple times. His work and responsibility allowed her to waste years and tons of money while spending all of his money HE had sacrificed for.
Yeah the fact she uses protection with her husband but let's a complete stranger bust inside. Imagine someone who loves you handling you with rubber gloves but bare hand high-fiving everyone one the street.
The whole "missing your 20's" thing is BS. A mate of mine got a start up company going during high school, and juggled a full time job with school. Years later he sold it for millions, and one day said to me that he regretted how much he missed growing up, and all the good times our mates had that he wasn't there for. I laughed and asked him what he thought we were up to? Did he think we were dancing with models on yachts? We were just normal kids/adults. Hanging out, playing video games, going to pubs, mediocre house parties etc. I had a decent time, don't get me wrong, but nothing that made it worth missing. Hollywood glorifies this crazy youthful time, but the reality is 99% of us are just living normal lives that are fairly uneventful.
Not to shit on your post or to say that it was the better path but from 18-30 I had the absolute time of my life. College, raves. Awe yeah. 41 now and happy I don’t have many regrets from that time. Selling Bitcoin I f ing regret that
My exw wanted a Divorce, I told her to think long and hard because I don't do take backs. It was amazing telling her off a year later when she called asking me to take her back. I told her "You didn't want me when you had me. I warned you."
"I moved out with a lump sum from my husband" really says it all. Guy did nothing wrong by her account but still has to pay for her wanderlust. Marriage is dead
unbelievable, gut gets f***ed in the a** and then he needs to pay for all the mistakes he NEVER did? WTF is this...insane world. We're going down, bug or not....
By the time most women figure out that a decent stable guy is what they should go for, they have been riding the carousel way too long. By then their pairbonding is shot and your dealing with all her past issues to boot.
I agree thats how is my ex because she going realize way far too late because could of had everything now here I am Leveling up through my job making more money its like whatever now. lol
I was listening to an old Molyneux podcast from 2006, he said something interesting about cheating: "You have 20 minutes to fix it." and his reasoning was that if she hides it for like a week not only does she not regret it for real but if you didn't suspect a thing then she's also an expert liar. How can you trust someone like that again? You can't.
Love how that first chick called Jeff her “soulmate”, then when she told him she’s pregnant with his baby he ghosts her and requests a work transfer 🤣, sounds like a true soulmate there! 🤦♂️
I think they might really be soul mates; they are both horrible people that like lying, like shagging behind people's backs, and are desperate to avoid responsibility.
The man who invents the anti agin formula will crash the market😂. I wonder how that will play out with only young looking men and women walking around who live up to 300/400 years.
I remember a female coworker cheated with another coworker, but it seems that her husband find out about this, and, one morning, she was crying at job because her now ex husband kicked her out from home. She is a "drama queen" kind of woman, complaining about everything that don't suits her needs. What a fuc... nightmare she probably was when that pour guy was married to her. That is what I'm saying to myself when I look at her now. Imagine all the bull sh... she says all week long.
My ex found someone who wanted her, and then several other guys that wanted her. And now she's hiding at a friend's house because the most recent one was a serial naughty man that beat the ever loving shit out of her. She's been using the whole experience to try to get me back because I feel bad for her, but I've basically just been feeding all of this to my divorce lawyer.
This story is exactly how it was with me and my ex. I took her out of her lousy life. Put her in a beautiful house, helped finance her new car, helped pay off her student loans, paid for 90% of the household upkeep, etc. Even though she made 30K more than me, I kept the ship afloat financially. After 10 years of marriage, she meets some dude in a bar on one of her "girls nights out" and gets into a one year affair. I eventually found out about it, paid her off for her share of the house and she moved out & continued the "relationship" with her new guy (who was also married at the time.) After a couple of months, he dumped her and she tried to get back with me and back into my house. By that time, I was hip-deep into the red-pilled lifestyle and it was over. She they began with the smear campaign. "He hit me" "He's gay" etc, etc. I saved so much money without her, so much so, that I was able to retire early. Now I have all kinds of single mothers after me, but with the knowledge I now possess...NO WAY. Stay single, brothers. Life is so much easier that way.
I don't know about you guys, but ever since elementary school it's been hammerred into me that "girls are so mature, girls grow up quicker" And now it seems to me that for them, growing up ended at about 18 years old. And it shows.
She actually said she “resented” her husband after she found out she was pregnant and then Jeff ghosted her after finding out about this. Suddenly she loves her husband? No, she was hoping to get a favorable response from Jeff to maybe leave her husband and then got afraid of being a potential single mother after Jeff ghosted her. She’s pathetic, another reason I don’t plan to marry. Thanks for the good work on these videos!
It's very common for young women to get a divorce because "they didnt get a chance to party." My ex did the same. She was a mother at 19. I met her a year later, I was 22 she was 20. We fell in love got married and I adopted her daughter by the time I was 23 she gave birth to my son. We were together for 5 more years. I found out our relationship was over when I came home from work and our apartment was completely empty except for a pile of clothes in my living room and my then 8 year old daughter and 5 year old son sitting on the clothes saying "Mommy left with her friend she said to wait here she'll be back..." I was devastated. Everything I bought for my family (she never had a job ever) was gone. My kids and I waited in that empty apartment for a week waiting for her to come back. I lost my job because I had no one to watch my kids, I waited because I wanted answers at least. My Father ended up calling me and setting me straight telling me I had to be there for my kids now. He moved us to live with him in Florida. He was a god send. 5 months later my Father came home from work as I was arriving home after picking my kids up from school. He said he had a voice mail I needed to listen too. It was from my ex. It simply said "you are a good parent, I never was able to grow up. You never took me to bars or clubs and now I can do that. Tell the kids I love them and miss them." I didn't. I was mad and wouldn't hurt my kids by telling them mommy loved them. One month later I got a call from a sheriff. He informed me that my ex was found dead of a drug overdose on the side of a freeway... I regret not telling my kids there mommy's last words were that she loved them. But I still refuse to tell them. Even though they are both adults now. They still believed their mom was around somewhere. And wanted nothing to do with her. But justifiably they called me wondering sometimes. I only recently told them she had passed away. But I still keep that last voicemail to myself.
_"I don't need to understand women. WOMEN understand women and they HATE each other!"_ *Al Bundy* All you need to know as a man nowadays and this show was full of such wisdom. Little did I understand back than that this was much more of a docu than a sitcom.
Neighbor girl got leukemia, they tested the whole family for a possible bone marrow transplant. SURPRISE, The girl was only related to mom and the old man that lives on the corner... after raising her all her life dad found out just before she died.
I wanted to live like my friends and have freedom. This reminds me of an ex gf who came to me one time complaining that I was holding her back she wasn't free with me. I said "free to do what"? "see other guys, you're stopping me from doing that" I said "really? you think I"M stopping you? I'm not stopping you, YOU are" "what do you mean" of course YOU are stopping me" I said "wrong, your feelings FOR me are stopping YOU. YOU are in control of what you do and who you do it with, not me" "so you'd be ok wth me seeing other guys"? me: I didn't say that. But I'm certainly not stopping you. "so if I went with other guys, what would YOU do"? Kick you to the curb of course...SEE you're controlling meee no, YOU are....you want the commitment from me AND the freedom to do what you want, that's not how life works. Yeah, we broke up soon after because I KNEW she'd be cheating on me if she hadn't already.
@P that's just it! they DO....they are taught from an early age that men are like plow horses, put a carrot in front of us and we'll pull that plow all day long....but we aren't!!!
I made the marriage mistake. I'm paying for it. It was the most expensive mistake of my life. I will never make that mistake again. A woman telling you that you matter to her is not worth everything you will ever own or your sanity. Stay free. Love yourself. Marriage is slavery.
I seriously don't want to be too hard on you, but you should have known it earlier. Marriage is a very risky trade for a man and a woman should never be center of your life, instead just a nice little addition. Basically you play roulette with your life and bet on red or black when going into marriage. I don't feel pity for you - you learned it the hard way. No it's time to move on and don't look back!
it is cheaper and better to pay someone to clean your home do odd meals than have a wife, I have a lovely couple who go around cleaning houses they do mine the lady walks my dogs her husband is a fantastic cook and ofter puts meals in my ref for me they are like great friends and I pay them its great my stuff is mine I will never lose it to some woman if I want sex there are enough massage parlours to fulfil that need never get married if you want to keep stuff and continue to have fun and socialise into old age
I found it interesting that she didn't say her husband's name, but when she brought Jeff into the story, it was by name. Clearly her husband is a possession of hers, and Jeff is an actual person, even after the facts are laid bare.
Women using protection and only having conservative sex with their husbands is one of the self repeating jokes of life. With random strangers they do all the things, they never do with the person they claim to love.
@@taekwon_therrien Game can help you hitting on women, but it is an illusion to think it wouldn't mean that you dance by women's rules and that your game depends on 90% of your looks, face, money and status.
From the movie: As Good As It Gets with Jack Nicholson and Helen Hunt Jackie: How do you write women so well? Melvin Udall: I think of a man. And I take away reason and accountability.
Regarding the affair with her coworker, this lady made it happen. Hurricanes happen to people. Tornadoes happen to people. Cancers happen to people. This pregnancy did not just happen to her. She made it happen. There's a huge difference.
She didn't even need that sentence. "I went to his place. We had sex". But she decided to put some ramble in-between that added nothing and explained nothing.
It’s always a coworker, “I’m missing out,” it was always “after a couple of drinks,” I use every excuse in the book to ride the CC, and it’s ALL your fault
consider that the problem is women working AWAY from husbands, away from the 18th century farm. Technological society = couples see each other 10% of their lives and don't produce together. Yes, women are clingy, because biology gave them a natural fear of abandonment. Our work environment forces the man to 'abandon' her for 10 hours a day and either traps her in the home alone or pushes her to work for 8 hours with other men. Society is fundamentally not healthy, antihuman.
@@mrgomelonsolaris yes this is correct. couples that choose to go against this are few and far between, basically farmers, have a lot of challenges from society
She doesn't love her husband, she loves the security that her husband provides. She decided that she wanted Jeff. She turned away from her husband. She wanted her, "soul mate." She just said that her husband isn't her soul mate.
Girl is a liar, no way she loves this poor bloke she is deceiving, if her soulmate had not legged it, she would be with him in a heartbeat. She is not just a liar, she is a compulsive liar. This kind of shit should be made a crime.
This story reminds me of the character from the TV show "Friends." Rachel from that show was going to get married to a dentist and she ran out on the wedding because she wanted to live. If I remember correctly she said she went from her fathers house to about to be the wife of a dentist so she ran out before it was too late. That's when she met up with Monica in the coffee shop and they helped her start her life of independence. Her life of independence included Carlo an Italian guy, Russ, Ross, Joey, and many other men until she returned back to Ross - her safety net. Wow, this makes me see Rachel in an entirely different light.
It's like the movie Titanic and the chick is jumping in and out of life boats. Yeah, the ship is sinking, lets play musical life boats (because she's special there will always be a life boat waiting for her). Chicks love this.
The women in these stories were never going to be satisfied with anything because they were focused on happiness rather than personal growth. You don't have to love your job. Just be good at it. You don't have to resent your husband. Rather, count your blessings. To get everything you want and never be happy because you are chasing happiness rather than purpose...what miserable people.
If you try to live a life pursuing happiness you'll mostly end up miserable. Now if you create your purpose and constantly pursue it, it should lead to satisfaction.
Sounds like my soon to be ex wife. No matter what she was never happy and only wanted more. Also shocked me after the divorce papers were filed she wanted a 5 year birth control implant, but never took the bc pills for a year while we were married and not through divorce.
An older man in his 60’s told me something similar when I was 18. He said, “Women are child-like.” I didn’t understand what he said until 5 years later after a long term relationship.
untill they have children the oxytocin kicks in and THEN they biologically develop a sense of loyalty even stronger then men’s loyalty....but I never said loyalty towards their husbands just their kids...so it’s extremely rare for even an older woman who has kids with her husband to have true loyalty and never hyper socialize again, just regular socializing but young girls........it’s never possible for young girls to have loyalty.....never.....they will be loyal....but still talk to other guys.......that’s their sense of loyalty.....theirs no young girls in this dimension who will completely RESTRAIN and NOT talk to other guys if she’s in a relationship that’s just a quantum impossibility....
she used protection with her husband. but not with jeff? aka chad because she never seen herself carrying her husbands baby. imagine being married to a wife you use protection with 🤣
9 times out of 10, the person who cheats never uses protection. Talk about having the risk of paying child support for a kid that's not even yours in marriage. Paternity Fraud at its finest.
Bro I've been trying to wrap my head around this like the whole purpose of being in a relationship is I get to pop that rubber off with no fear of catching anything
And as from the very beginning, women make the easiest dupes. That's why God ordained men to make all the decisions, even the decisions for women. They can't be trusted to make good ones themselves.
She only loves her husband for all of the things he does for her, not for the person he is, and she only realized that she loved him when she had no one else to run to. That isnt love
Screwing over men and locking them down for child support is good for the state to keep them off the welfare rolls. The state has no interest in making sure the alleged father is the actual biological father. So the only logical move for men is to not get involved in this bullshit at all. Leading to further declining birth rates and the kids that do get born being born to single moms.
She's lying to her husband, lying to herself, and now she is in a situation where she has ruined her life and her husbands. She's not deserving of that relationship.
And more importantly, she (probably) ruined the child’s life. Unless that child has some deep self realizations in their lifetime, the cycle the mother started will continue on for generations.
@@lizardry54 I am that man who was a child who had to have some deep self realizations about my parents. Let me tell you, it does fuck you up when you're parents are still grown up children. This society's punk generation of gen z are here because of shitty millenial and gen X parents.
@@lowsi3153 it’s awful to have to experience that, but at the same time it’s such a blessing because you become aware. You have an opportunity to help make the world a better place because of your newfound perspective. Like you, I also hit very deep/harsh realizations, and that shattered what I thought was the reality of the world. However, I know that people like us now possess the ability to break the cycle. I hope you do great things. I wish you all the best in life.
My ex wife pushed us to move in together, pushed for marriage, did things that helped her get pregnant... and after cheating on me, blamed me for making her grow up too fast.
No, she probably thought chad would take her in when her husband left her for cheating, but she learned where she really stands and what her "soulmate" really is when she told him she was pregnant... now she's afraid to face the music for what SHE DID.
@@rosebarnes9625 LOL a woman would say this you don't have protected sex with your husband of all people and unprotected with some FWB by coincidence, she was at least subconsciously trying to get the "alpha" seed and protecting herself from the "beta" seed
There is a comedian called bobby lee, he is ugly, his wife of 12 years doesnt want to have his children and have aborted a few times, i promise you if a good looking guy plows her she will change the no children rule, i promise you.
It’s incredible that paternity fraud isn’t taken more seriously, a child will grow up with zero biological family on one side but will believe it has , it’s a massive lie that will destroy the child the day it finds out the lie .
"I'm 28 years old and pregnant with a kid that's not my husbands. How do I move forward?" It's moving forward that's caused the problem ... well, forward, then backward, then forward, then backward etc. fairly quickly.
And then people find out that their the same person. Because life choices don't become any clearer by acting out..someone won't suddenly know the answer to any of lives questions by getting drunk and sleeping around.
@Al Kirk I'm actually religious so I do believe that for every man there is a woman and for every woman a man. Although I have the suspicion that the moment my soulmate's heart heard who it was going to, it up and died
Hmmm... I am 71. With all five 'serious' relationships, four ended by the woman, every woman came back and asked to get back together with me. I said 'no' in every situation. That and a bit of self evaluation provided me with closure.
May i translate that whole first Article for everyone: Hi, im married but met Chad. I thought i could get an Upgrade from my Husband because it got a bit Boring. So, i slept with Chad without Protection in Hope of him staying with me if he hears im Pregnant from him. That didnt work and now i know im fucked up, but, i dont want to feel bad about it. Can all of you please tell me that it is totally ok to lie to my Husband so i have that Provider in my life and dont have to be a Single Mom?
My Wife cheated on me. We had a family 3 kids. So she ends up marrying this guy 2 kids to him. Then she cheated on him.what goes around comes around. I laugh at him now.
They only fear a drop in status, ease of life, etc. Knew a woman who went for the bbd, roughly 10 years later and remarried, she is still talking about how easy life was with the past husband and how she didn't have to worry about funds, etc.
Know a chick who left her blue collar husband and two kids for an unemployed 18 year old boy that was an acquaintance. At least the courts had the sense to give her husband custody.
Something my late father always said to me, when I was growing up: "THINK, Boy! THINK! Think, before you say something, or do something! Be sorry BEFORE you say, or do something!" Another thing he said to me was, "Just because you can, doesn't mean you should. Never go to bed with a girl you wouldn't want to marry!" Also, "Never shoot dice on a blanket".
That is the problem, she made herself available for approach, when he approached she let him talk, when he went the sexual route he let him go on, when he wanted her alone for lunch she said yes , she said yes again and again knowing exactly where it is going the invitation to dinner is a result not a process
And this is why, in today's modern circumstances you NEVER GET MARRIED. All she needs is one excuse and her vows are trash. With no fault divorce she can cheat till the sun comes up and still take your kids, and half your assets. Save yourselves gentlemen.
@@noexplanationowed3525 Of course. She made a few bad choices and has seen the error of her ways. Now all she needs is prince charming (simp) to come along and take all her troubles away. That is until Chad comes calling.........
@@Gunsight-One n after chad comes along, she'll suddenly find her life is boring,prince charming doesn't perform well in bed, doesn't pay her attention......she and chad starts going at it,then when Chad's done n throws her into the bin, suddenly she'll realise how great of a guy prince charming was,how she hurt him due to her FOOLISHNESS,how he took care of the bills,n will DO ANYTHING to be given a second chance ( provided prince charming grows a spine n ends up ditching her)🤣
Notice the "He's held me back from experiencing..." in her statement? It's as if her family sold her, without consent, to the man to whom she's married. The poor little thing just had no choice. The reason that there is "a Patriarchy" is because most women seem congenitally incapable of taking responsibility for their own lives and choices.
No. The title is _fine_ . He is saying women do NOT regret their decision after making it. It is only after that decision destroys a man in a way that is made clear to the public that sees that it is HER fault, that she feels regret. And even then, she is not thinking about _him_ , at all. Title is on point.
I get asked quite often : Why don't you have a girlfriend? - The more you know about women, the less interesting being in a relationship seems to be. I had a few Gfs in my teens and 20s and I try not to make the same mistake twice...
@Milan Vukovic Don't tell people you're not interested in dating. Tell them it's personal at the moment you would rather not discuss it, and that's it.
@@lowsi3153 there is a simple answer to the question say: I don´t find the right one. the stop asking or ask why. if you say its personal many people got courius.
There's one problem: it isn't his. THIS is why public flogging should be brought back. This is where the law is fucjed up. If he kicked her out? He'd still be on the hook for 50% of everything plus alimony. Plus he'd probably have to pay child support too!
Unless he could prove he wasn't the father and identify who the father was he would most definitely have to pay child support. They were married a short enough time that, depending on the state, he might not have to pay alimony but that's probably why he ended up paying her a lump sum. That's what happened to me even though my ex lied about the alimony and said she wouldn't make me pay it if I agreed to other demands even though she wasn't eligible for it. Women have no problem lying and cheating on the men they claim to have loved.
@@Linkmegax It actually wouldn't matter if he could prove he wasn't the father, there have been numerous cases where someone finds out his wife cheated on him and had a kid he thought was his only to have it tested and find out it isn't. He still had to pay child support as "he was theoretically the father". There was a case settled recently here in Canada where a guy wasn't even married to a woman, nor did they live together and he still had to pay alimony. The worst part? He'd asked her to marry him and she said no.
I know a guy that went to marriage counselling and recorded a session. He played it to me and a few other single guys in our group and scared us into being really cautious. It was 1 hour of the woman complaining with vague notions about "gut feelings" but nothing actually wrong then the counsellor proclaiming he needed to work harder to keep her in his life. He was much like the guy in this video and we all agreed that her life was 50x better than if they weren't together. Lots of women have no logic and get bored easily.
i think the big problem is, its feels like 1 of 100 counsellor are working against the man. And the one who do great work will often hear from woman side: he is not the right for us (cose she have to do something)
She never loved her husband, he had to wear protection for 8 years. After Jeff ghosted her now she loves her husband. She didn't love him when she was getting raw dogged. Edit: women now a days have no shame. Shame is what kept their hypergamy in check. Now it's you go girl do your dang.
Exactly. Shame and ridicule is the control knob for their minds. Not ethics or guilt or trust or any kind of negotiated commitment. They hate being outgrouped - shame is worse.
thats why War Brides, had their hair cut off and were publicaly shamed, after allies reclaimed their lands, and men returned home from war, to find out their loyal wives were banging nazis. There was no internet back then, yet men intristicaly understood that true female nature has to be absolutely suppressed or else it will collapse civilizations.
You know I've heard back in the 1700s when a woman didn't know who the father if the child wad they'd bombard her with the question during child birth. Idk if true but that had to be embarrassing for them to have a bunch of people grilling them on who's the father while trying to deliver a child.
@@nineteeneightynine432 we have the technology today to be able to tell who the father is. Or at least, to be able to tell if the man listed on birth certificate, is the actual father. But these misandrist western societies, have found a way to shame men who ask for a paternity test, including mothers predicted reaction, when the man asks for one. I encourage all men to paternity test their kids, without mothers knowledge. Even when you are 100% certain that the kid is yours, we need to set a precedent for men who are maybe affraid to ask for one. Any long term GF ive head, knew right away that I will paternity test every kid, should she get pregnant. They dont take it very well, but i couldnt care less
These women riding c*ck-carousels till they’re 30 and then hitting the wall wanting kids is the main reason for the push for socialism and UBI. They know they can’t compete in the workplace with a man in his 30s without the burden of being a single dad. So they either hunt for a simp or vote for socialism. We need to wake the men up, especially the young ones in their 20s, to be able to fight it. 👊
Knowing them, the title would be "Men caught cheating wife, and he divorced her because she's pregnant with another man child" - The argument : Why leaving your cheating wife is bad - The conclusion : Men got cheated, Women most affected
You can have kids, no problem. The problem is if you expect her to be chaste when you meet her, and stay that way after you marry. Its possible, but only a small chance.
In 2009 my ex treated me like crap and goes with some other guy. She tried to hurt me during the break up telling me she loves the other guy. In 2013 I’m married to a good woman who loves me and respects me. I have a new job and I’m in college. She gets in contact with me wanting to get back. She ended up getting pregnant by some other guy who wouldn’t work and left her with a 8 month baby. I told her that I wanted nothing to do with her and to leave me alone. Over the years she still calls and I keep ignoring.
Similar story happened to me. My gf and I always used protection, she had a one night stand with a douchbag and didn’t use protection and became pregnant. She confessed everything to me cause she said she truly “loved me” and in her mind I was the bad one cause I couldn’t forgive her and accept to take care of a child that was not mine. These stories are REAL!!! Beware!!!
It’s called being a giant sized baby. Women want every right and privilege with none of the responsibilities and consequences all because she “just a woman”. After years and years of “its ok sweety, it’s ok” simply because she’s an adorable little girl teaches her to use her innocence and beauty to get by... to learn how to pull on peoples heart strings to get by. I’m a girl so if I just cry people will listen to me, and feel bad for me. Now she’s used to getting what she wants. She has no care for the consequences of her actions and TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR IT... majority of their life someone else is picking up the slack for them. They’re so used to it. And they can no longer tell the difference between right and wrong. Even when they are crying or feel bad about a decision they made... they are more sad and emotional that they were found out or that they are embarrassed by the public eye of people. They care about people’s thoughts so much, so if that is in jeopardy it will hurt. Women cannot live a lone. So they need the Camaraderie of women. Anyone seen the Rick and Morty episode of “I’m here if you need anything” ? Lol They can only see what they want and how/when they want it.
Thank you feminism. You continue to save millions of young men from the true female nature. Not only you expose low-quality women on our behalf but expose marriage for the greatest scam it is. Thank you.
OK, I'm gonna say it: The first anecdote about "we got married about 8 years ago and it was OK at first but now I want my freedom..." Allow me to explain a little bit of "reality" to those who clearly lack an ability to grasp it. This is a pointless effort, but maybe someone will take something from it. If you *choose* to do something, you are eliminating your ability to choose anything else. That's what *choice* means. You choose something at the expense of anything else. This is *literally* in almost every form of "wedding vows" present in western culture. "...and forsaking all others, and keeping yourself only for them." YOU MADE A CHOICE. You stood in front of friends and family and said you were dedicated to that person. Over a long enough timeline, every relationship will hit a point where they no longer want anything to do with the other party. A marriage is meant to be an accountability clause that *forces* us to do something that we don't want to do. We do it because we have faith that our choice is correct, even if we may feel differently from time to time. This relationship only holds value if trust is in place and consistently held. When the choice is made, it comes at the sacrifice of ANY OTHER CHOICE we could have made. No. If you say "yes" when someone asks you to marry them, then you do NOT have the outlet of saying "but I wanna live my life". That IS your life now. You were asked, and you answered. If you cannot stick to your own choices, then that is a reflection of YOU.
The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Until you jump over that fence. Then maybe that grass is not quite as green as it looked. And maybe it now looks greener on the side you just left. Humans are rarely satisfied with what they have at the moment.
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They don’t regret the deed. They regret getting caught. End of story.
🙌🏻💯
It's a simple truth
Mic drop 🎤
saved me the time, thanks.
They knew they messed up, now they're just trying to lessen the backlash of their actions. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
"Jeff is such a great guy". Yet he f*cks around with married women and bails when they get pregnant? Yeah, such a great guy😒
likely hot, masculine and successful guy - she is just trying to rationalize it in way she doesnt come up as the immoral person who is cheating and looking for upgrade. The more women use these general nice words...the more it is just about f instinct. They cant admit that is the case, but because there is nothing else in it - that sort of generalities are all they can say.
really the paternity testing should be legally obligatory, but that will never be the case because it would be against womens interest. I think there was court case or something about this in the past and the reason to decline is that "Obligatory paternity tests would break up families". /facepalm
"soulmate"
How dare you!?! Jeff is her SOULMATE! LMFAO!
Watch out for a troll named dekannea
Jeff might well be married too.The article didn't say.
I've been saying this for years: there should be a law that require DNA testing before the father signs the birth certificate.
Women get the right to choose, men get the right to know. Seems fair to me!
Reminds me of my house mate when I was at university. He said if he ever has kids he wants a paternity test. Especially as his future career in the merchant navy would involve lots of travelling. We thought he was a mysoginist pig. But now I realise how smart he is.
Women would get in contact with nurses to falsify the results very regularly. It would be very naive of us as men to trust people who regularly break vows they make infront of God for money.
@@olglez9230 ,as an American merchant sailor I can attest that it is easy for women to deceive us if they want to!! That's not to say I didn't let it happen or failed to stand up for myself until later in the game, but when you're gone for 1 to 4 months it makes it easy for them to cheat and cover up the evidence. You just don't have the opportunity to find out like you land dwellers do simply because we're thousands of miles away!!!
RedPilled Bachelor, I'm likely done with relationships but if I ever went down the rabbit hole again I would tell them upfront that if she ever got pregnant I would always insist on a paternity test!! Even if (admittedly unlikely) I got married I would STILL INSIST on a paternity test!! If they don't like it I'd say my life was fine without you before. It can be just as fine again!!!!
The ex-girlfriend pulled that crap on me. I finally got to the Division of Youth and Family Services in New Jersey to find out since I couldn't get a straight answer or proof from her. I didn't want to break up and then find out 10 years later I was the Dad and owed an absurd amount of child support!!!
Read a story recently where the wife left him, regretted it, and wanted to come back. They met to have "The Talk", and while she was explaining her actions he was writing. Turns out he had done online research into breakups and had created a spreadsheet for himself listing all the various reasons and excuses women use to justify it to themselves. When she finished what she had to say, he congratulated her on only missing excuse no.5 out of the top 20. Then he gave her the spreadsheet, got up, and left without further comment. Needless to say, he did not take her back - Good for him
Link?
Holy fuck, what a legend. I would also like a link.
Please give the link mate.
@@arkm7792 I will try and find it, but I have looked at hundreds of videos since
It is like they are all reading from the same script.
"I love my husband" - No, you love the benefits of his income.
Notice how she had no career path, required a house, then a bigger house, contributed nothing because she didn't like the path SHE had chosen-switched jobs multiple times. His work and responsibility allowed her to waste years and tons of money while spending all of his money HE had sacrificed for.
Yeah the fact she uses protection with her husband but let's a complete stranger bust inside. Imagine someone who loves you handling you with rubber gloves but bare hand high-fiving everyone one the street.
@@ragnarok7976 She belongs to the streets.
That's not love. Simple as that.
My wife makes her own money.
Lol. She only loved her husband and didn't want to lose him after she was ghosted by Chad!
she loved her husband means: she loved his money LOL
"Chad dumped me, GREAT, now who's gonna pay my bills?"
What gets me is she used protection with her husband but not with Chad. That’s crazy.
@@thehawk5141 right!?! Completely back asswards.
@Ranx Orox Totally agree. Women only see men as a resource to be used up.
When a woman says "I'll love you forever", she means "I'll love you forever... Right now."
or it means "I'll love you forever until your are providing enough money or i get bored or until a Chad comes along"
I think everybody think that way
It's the human nature
Now is a mountain of glory we should all climb...love pales in comparison to truth
And even for that short time, it's a damned lie. She means she will pretend to love you.
For me, it's "I'll love you forever and ever... until I find someone better."
This is why you never take her back. She just sees you as her best respawn point.
One of the best comments on TH-cam...respawn point
..I'm going to use that..give it 6 months the manosphere will co opt this term
Yes to women it is a game.
Awesome analogy.
Again, no mercy.
Or maybe a quick save...
The whole "missing your 20's" thing is BS.
A mate of mine got a start up company going during high school, and juggled a full time job with school. Years later he sold it for millions, and one day said to me that he regretted how much he missed growing up, and all the good times our mates had that he wasn't there for. I laughed and asked him what he thought we were up to? Did he think we were dancing with models on yachts? We were just normal kids/adults. Hanging out, playing video games, going to pubs, mediocre house parties etc. I had a decent time, don't get me wrong, but nothing that made it worth missing.
Hollywood glorifies this crazy youthful time, but the reality is 99% of us are just living normal lives that are fairly uneventful.
Well seems you went to alot of dull parties myguy
@@U-Trance At least he got to go to parties at all.
Dude your friend missed nothing compared to what he accomplished, what a legend
big true. my time would had been worth it if it wasnt a lying cheating gf xD ngl made me allergic to many girls
Not to shit on your post or to say that it was the better path but from 18-30 I had the absolute time of my life. College, raves. Awe yeah. 41 now and happy I don’t have many regrets from that time. Selling Bitcoin I f ing regret that
My exw wanted a Divorce, I told her to think long and hard because I don't do take backs. It was amazing telling her off a year later when she called asking me to take her back. I told her "You didn't want me when you had me. I warned you."
Nice! Well played, sir - I'm sure there was immense personal satisfaction in your words.
My hero 💯🙉🙈🙊
Fair warning given, and ignored... good for you on not bending when it inevitably blew up in her face.
"I moved out with a lump sum from my husband" really says it all. Guy did nothing wrong by her account but still has to pay for her wanderlust. Marriage is dead
unbelievable, gut gets f***ed in the a** and then he needs to pay for all the mistakes he NEVER did? WTF is this...insane world. We're going down, bug or not....
"lump sum" lol. She uses the legal term like it's a lottery payout.
@@JR-hw7bk it is, the problem is, in that lottery women hardly(if ever) lose
I'm surprised she didn't get the house and his balls.
@@JR-hw7bk For her, it IS a lottery payout. Except her chances of winning are much higher than the actual lottery chance.
Women only want the nice guy providers when it’s far too late.
and then only approach them in disgust, because they know it is settling down as compensation prize instead of their alpha...
By the time most women figure out that a decent stable guy is what they should go for, they have been riding the carousel way too long. By then their pairbonding is shot and your dealing with all her past issues to boot.
I agree thats how is my ex because she going realize way far too late because could of had everything now here I am Leveling up through my job making more money its like whatever now. lol
They will use you financially and abuse you financially.
@aussiebear22 4. Gtfo.
They don't feel bad because they made the decision. They only feel bad when they get caught, or face other consequences.
Like when you tell the kids. Are you sorry?, or after you sorry you got caught?
Long term thinking is not their strong suit. It's always about how they feel in the moment, consequences be damned.
I was listening to an old Molyneux podcast from 2006, he said something interesting about cheating: "You have 20 minutes to fix it." and his reasoning was that if she hides it for like a week not only does she not regret it for real but if you didn't suspect a thing then she's also an expert liar. How can you trust someone like that again? You can't.
Watch out for a troll named dekannea
Truth.
"I resented my husband when I slept with Jeff, but now I realize that I still want him to pay for me."
Love how that first chick called Jeff her “soulmate”, then when she told him she’s pregnant with his baby he ghosts her and requests a work transfer 🤣, sounds like a true soulmate there! 🤦♂️
Sounds like he became real damn smart real quick.
I think they might really be soul mates; they are both horrible people that like lying, like shagging behind people's backs, and are desperate to avoid responsibility.
@@b.calvinsaul1909 😂😂😂😂 right?
Ghostmate
@@JodyBruchon damn Str8. Because she would have done the same thing to Jeff.
If women like this could somehow stay young and beautiful, the party would never end. They only seem to gain "wisdom" after they hit the wall.
That is SO. TRUE. They do this as long as they can, NEVER until they _learn_ how wrong it is!
I think their plan is for Mr perfect to sweep them off their feet the exact day they hit the wall.
100%
They may also gain a social disorder or two (ghonaherpasyphalaids).
The man who invents the anti agin formula will crash the market😂. I wonder how that will play out with only young looking men and women walking around who live up to 300/400 years.
Women regret nothing. As a side note guys whenever a woman cheats on you 9/10 she will never use protection. Don't take her back ever.
Perfect number of likes 🤣🤣🤣
Women don't feel any regret about what they did ,women feel regret losing something because of it
They don't feel sorry because of what they do.
They feel sorry because they got caught
I remember a female coworker cheated with another coworker, but it seems that her husband find out about this, and, one morning, she was crying at job because her now ex husband kicked her out from home. She is a "drama queen" kind of woman, complaining about everything that don't suits her needs. What a fuc... nightmare she probably was when that pour guy was married to her. That is what I'm saying to myself when I look at her now. Imagine all the bull sh... she says all week long.
Once had a girl tell me “people can change”. Nah people don’t change they just run out of options.
People do change though. That doesnt mean they also dont run out of options.
People absolutely CAN change. They just typically dont.
"If you truly love someone let them go, if they return to you it means no one want`s them, so set them free again!",...............
IKR! 😂😂😂
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My ex found someone who wanted her, and then several other guys that wanted her.
And now she's hiding at a friend's house because the most recent one was a serial naughty man that beat the ever loving shit out of her.
She's been using the whole experience to try to get me back because I feel bad for her, but I've basically just been feeding all of this to my divorce lawyer.
This story is exactly how it was with me and my ex. I took her out of her lousy life. Put her in a beautiful house, helped finance her new car, helped pay off her student loans, paid for 90% of the household upkeep, etc. Even though she made 30K more than me, I kept the ship afloat financially. After 10 years of marriage, she meets some dude in a bar on one of her "girls nights out" and gets into a one year affair. I eventually found out about it, paid her off for her share of the house and she moved out & continued the "relationship" with her new guy (who was also married at the time.) After a couple of months, he dumped her and she tried to get back with me and back into my house. By that time, I was hip-deep into the red-pilled lifestyle and it was over. She they began with the smear campaign. "He hit me" "He's gay" etc, etc. I saved so much money without her, so much so, that I was able to retire early. Now I have all kinds of single mothers after me, but with the knowledge I now possess...NO WAY. Stay single, brothers. Life is so much easier that way.
all those single mothers want you for support, not love.
@@peterbanh1364 Exactly. I'm not financially supporting some other guys kid.
Thanks you for your confession
@@SelfimproventandDevelopment You're welcome, brother
Pretty similar to my own story. And probably 80% of the other divorcees in the West.
I don't know about you guys, but ever since elementary school it's been hammerred into me that "girls are so mature, girls grow up quicker" And now it seems to me that for them, growing up ended at about 18 years old. And it shows.
all lies
Their bodies mature faster, but the mentality continues into pre-adolescence!
@Steve Johnson I want a source for this, please....
@Steve Johnson i too want that source
Girls grow up quicker, but then they turn sixteen and stop growing and start aging
She actually said she “resented” her husband after she found out she was pregnant and then Jeff ghosted her after finding out about this. Suddenly she loves her husband? No, she was hoping to get a favorable response from Jeff to maybe leave her husband and then got afraid of being a potential single mother after Jeff ghosted her. She’s pathetic, another reason I don’t plan to marry. Thanks for the good work on these videos!
“My husband wanted a baby so I had someone else’s, and the baby daddy ghosted me.” That poor guy, she deserves all the crap she gets dealt
i hope he finds out.
It's very common for young women to get a divorce because "they didnt get a chance to party." My ex did the same. She was a mother at 19. I met her a year later, I was 22 she was 20. We fell in love got married and I adopted her daughter by the time I was 23 she gave birth to my son. We were together for 5 more years. I found out our relationship was over when I came home from work and our apartment was completely empty except for a pile of clothes in my living room and my then 8 year old daughter and 5 year old son sitting on the clothes saying "Mommy left with her friend she said to wait here she'll be back..." I was devastated. Everything I bought for my family (she never had a job ever) was gone. My kids and I waited in that empty apartment for a week waiting for her to come back. I lost my job because I had no one to watch my kids, I waited because I wanted answers at least. My Father ended up calling me and setting me straight telling me I had to be there for my kids now. He moved us to live with him in Florida. He was a god send. 5 months later my Father came home from work as I was arriving home after picking my kids up from school. He said he had a voice mail I needed to listen too. It was from my ex. It simply said "you are a good parent, I never was able to grow up. You never took me to bars or clubs and now I can do that. Tell the kids I love them and miss them." I didn't. I was mad and wouldn't hurt my kids by telling them mommy loved them. One month later I got a call from a sheriff. He informed me that my ex was found dead of a drug overdose on the side of a freeway... I regret not telling my kids there mommy's last words were that she loved them. But I still refuse to tell them. Even though they are both adults now. They still believed their mom was around somewhere. And wanted nothing to do with her. But justifiably they called me wondering sometimes. I only recently told them she had passed away. But I still keep that last voicemail to myself.
Tbh with you if she would have truly loved her Kids she wouldnt have left and stayed out of their life.
I hope your life is still going Well
i am so sry for your family and proud of you and your father to be the best for the kids!
Tell them
@@escanorlion9621 why?
That's smart or they'll have a severely dysfunctional view of love. She did not love your children. She loved herself.
There was a show in the 90's called "Married..with children". It was called a sitcom, but in reality was a documentary!
love and marriage love and marriage, goes together like a horse and carriage, this I tell you can't have one without the other...
_"I don't need to understand women. WOMEN understand women and they HATE each other!"_ *Al Bundy*
All you need to know as a man nowadays and this show was full of such wisdom. Little did I understand back than that this was much more of a docu than a sitcom.
It was a great sitcom but now in retrospect it's a well thought out view on marriage
I remember all the simps who looked at me in shock when I told them how true that show was.
Al Bundy was a hero to millions of men. He saved many from the horrors of marriage. You can still see it in reruns on cable.
Because they're losing a provider
Beta bucks, Alpha fucks
She wanted to keep the alpha for the thrills and her beta husband for her bills....she deserves to lose both!
Bruh
"I love the security that my husband provides."
Yep. Not my husband, himself; just his provision.
Should only be four words instead of twice as long.
Aka I love his money
She shoulda just married his bank account.
Imagine that. Till bankrupt do you part.
@@nate7LP_my_dog_found_the_knife But the bank account isn't going to keep working to put her in a second larger home.
This is like hearing a serial killer talk about how he tortures and kills his victims
Neighbor girl got leukemia, they tested the whole family for a possible bone marrow transplant. SURPRISE, The girl was only related to mom and the old man that lives on the corner... after raising her all her life dad found out just before she died.
If there were any justice in our family law system, the mom would be criminally charged.
@@Brentisimo You’re SO right-IF!
I hope the father suffered a bit less, knowing it wasn’t his child he lost, harsh as it sounds.
@@theguybehindyou4762 i think he will suffer 3 times more. 1 he lost his child, 2 he lost his child again, 3 he lost his wive.
@@Barlmoro Yeah, you're probably right. :/
I wanted to live like my friends and have freedom. This reminds me of an ex gf who came to me one time complaining that I was holding her back she wasn't free with me. I said "free to do what"? "see other guys, you're stopping me from doing that" I said "really? you think I"M stopping you? I'm not stopping you, YOU are" "what do you mean" of course YOU are stopping me"
I said "wrong, your feelings FOR me are stopping YOU. YOU are in control of what you do and who you do it with, not me" "so you'd be ok wth me seeing other guys"? me: I didn't say that. But I'm certainly not stopping you. "so if I went with other guys, what would YOU do"? Kick you to the curb of course...SEE you're controlling meee no, YOU are....you want the commitment from me AND the freedom to do what you want, that's not how life works. Yeah, we broke up soon after because I KNEW she'd be cheating on me if she hadn't already.
what a shit show. sorry excuse of a human being. hope you found better
@@PapaJoJ better in some ways worse than others lol
@P that's just it! they DO....they are taught from an early age that men are like plow horses, put a carrot in front of us and we'll pull that plow all day long....but we aren't!!!
She was already cheating on you.
@@miguelfilo962 that was my thought at the time as well.
I made the marriage mistake. I'm paying for it. It was the most expensive mistake of my life. I will never make that mistake again. A woman telling you that you matter to her is not worth everything you will ever own or your sanity. Stay free. Love yourself. Marriage is slavery.
Damn right. Marriage contract is a SLAVERY contract.
Never sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it!
Feel your pain brother; same thing happened to me as well.
I seriously don't want to be too hard on you, but you should have known it earlier. Marriage is a very risky trade for a man and a woman should never be center of your life, instead just a nice little addition. Basically you play roulette with your life and bet on red or black when going into marriage. I don't feel pity for you - you learned it the hard way. No it's time to move on and don't look back!
it is cheaper and better to pay someone to clean your home do odd meals than have a wife, I have a lovely couple who go around cleaning houses they do mine the lady walks my dogs her husband is a fantastic cook and ofter puts meals in my ref for me they are like great friends and I pay them its great my stuff is mine I will never lose it to some woman if I want sex there are enough massage parlours to fulfil that need never get married if you want to keep stuff and continue to have fun and socialise into old age
I looked three times but I can't find a single sentence that shows empathy for her husband. This woman must be a psychopath.
I found it interesting that she didn't say her husband's name, but when she brought Jeff into the story, it was by name. Clearly her husband is a possession of hers, and Jeff is an actual person, even after the facts are laid bare.
narcissism
Women using protection and only having conservative sex with their husbands is one of the self repeating jokes of life. With random strangers they do all the things, they never do with the person they claim to love.
Yes I agree
Im glad to know i wasnt the only one. Makes me upset but mostly glad bc now i know how to adjust my game
@@taekwon_therrien Game can help you hitting on women, but it is an illusion to think it wouldn't mean that you dance by women's rules and that your game depends on 90% of your looks, face, money and status.
Uhm no most women dont. Skanks do.
Baffling
From the movie: As Good As It Gets with Jack Nicholson and Helen Hunt
Jackie: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man. And I take away reason and accountability.
Regarding the affair with her coworker, this lady made it happen. Hurricanes happen to people. Tornadoes happen to people. Cancers happen to people. This pregnancy did not just happen to her. She made it happen. There's a huge difference.
She didn't even need that sentence. "I went to his place. We had sex". But she decided to put some ramble in-between that added nothing and explained nothing.
HO HO HO..and not the one santa says!
That’s a Leikes quote.
Nice
Not at all. she just happened to flirt with him at work, go to dinner, sleep with him. what could go wrong? LMAO
It’s always a coworker, “I’m missing out,” it was always “after a couple of drinks,” I use every excuse in the book to ride the CC, and it’s ALL your fault
missing out on Chad...why not marrying Chad then lol.
@@Yellowjackets1900 cause chad dont want any past the 2nd smash. On to the next. Chad's never have to settle
consider that the problem is women working AWAY from husbands, away from the 18th century farm. Technological society = couples see each other 10% of their lives and don't produce together. Yes, women are clingy, because biology gave them a natural fear of abandonment. Our work environment forces the man to 'abandon' her for 10 hours a day and either traps her in the home alone or pushes her to work for 8 hours with other men. Society is fundamentally not healthy, antihuman.
@@mrgomelonsolaris yes this is correct. couples that choose to go against this are few and far between, basically farmers, have a lot of challenges from society
@@zdog3338 best comment
She doesn't love her husband, she loves the security that her husband provides. She decided that she wanted Jeff. She turned away from her husband. She wanted her, "soul mate." She just said that her husband isn't her soul mate.
Its just that their soulmate keeps changing every single time a chad gives them a passing glance.
any adult should be slapped purple, for believing in soul mates, to begin with
@TeleTube or anyone for that matter, may have a difficult time finding a soul mate, considering its fiction.
The best ending line would be why don’t you buy a cat!
so bottom line (she wants a dad)
"Jeff would not take me." That's why she still loves her husband. She is incredibly shallow.
Girl is a liar, no way she loves this poor bloke she is deceiving, if her soulmate had not legged it, she would be with him in a heartbeat. She is not just a liar, she is a compulsive liar. This kind of shit should be made a crime.
This story reminds me of the character from the TV show "Friends." Rachel from that show was going to get married to a dentist and she ran out on the wedding because she wanted to live. If I remember correctly she said she went from her fathers house to about to be the wife of a dentist so she ran out before it was too late. That's when she met up with Monica in the coffee shop and they helped her start her life of independence. Her life of independence included Carlo an Italian guy, Russ, Ross, Joey, and many other men until she returned back to Ross - her safety net. Wow, this makes me see Rachel in an entirely different light.
Wow
Just as poisonous as Sex in the City. TBH Sex in the City is next level.
lol, all this time tv dropping some redpill to us but we're too young too understand
It's like the movie Titanic and the chick is jumping in and out of life boats. Yeah, the ship is sinking, lets play musical life boats (because she's special there will always be a life boat waiting for her). Chicks love this.
@@malcolmapplet4313 we don't see a feminist in fire or sinking ship
The women in these stories were never going to be satisfied with anything because they were focused on happiness rather than personal growth.
You don't have to love your job. Just be good at it.
You don't have to resent your husband. Rather, count your blessings.
To get everything you want and never be happy because you are chasing happiness rather than purpose...what miserable people.
Agreed. Happiness sought from other people, rather than having to find it from within i.e. personal growth.
@@lozy202 this, is the modern woman amplified. They will only get worse.
If you try to live a life pursuing happiness you'll mostly end up miserable. Now if you create your purpose and constantly pursue it, it should lead to satisfaction.
Sounds like my soon to be ex wife. No matter what she was never happy and only wanted more. Also shocked me after the divorce papers were filed she wanted a 5 year birth control implant, but never took the bc pills for a year while we were married and not through divorce.
@Sam Fisher
I lobe it too man, specifically the temporal lobe.
Cause they are children and are not biologically programmed for responsibility and long term planning.
An older man in his 60’s told me something similar when I was 18. He said, “Women are child-like.” I didn’t understand what he said until 5 years later after a long term relationship.
I behoove you to accept the best comment award for the day. I present you the 🏆.
Tbh I'd say men aren't made for it either, but men are more reliably capable of it.
untill they have children the oxytocin kicks in and THEN they biologically develop a sense of loyalty even stronger then men’s loyalty....but I never said loyalty towards their husbands just their kids...so it’s extremely rare for even an older woman who has kids with her husband to have true loyalty and never hyper socialize again, just regular socializing but young girls........it’s never possible for young girls to have loyalty.....never.....they will be loyal....but still talk to other guys.......that’s their sense of loyalty.....theirs no young girls in this dimension who will completely RESTRAIN and NOT talk to other guys if she’s in a relationship that’s just a quantum impossibility....
Daddy's little princess? Give me strength! 👺
she used protection with her husband. but not with jeff? aka chad because she never seen herself carrying her husbands baby. imagine being married to a wife you use protection with 🤣
9 times out of 10, the person who cheats never uses protection. Talk about having the risk of paying child support for a kid that's not even yours in marriage. Paternity Fraud at its finest.
Bro I've been trying to wrap my head around this like the whole purpose of being in a relationship is I get to pop that rubber off with no fear of catching anything
Imagine being married to a wife that goes mental and stays that way for 40 years.
Her lizard brain 🦎🧠 tell her she needs CHAD 🦸♂️DNA. Women take desitions with emotions💘 not reason🧠.
Wow. I have no words. Complete disrespect for her husband.
The idea that a married person is missing out on an awesome life comes straight from the throne of Satan.
And as from the very beginning, women make the easiest dupes. That's why God ordained men to make all the decisions, even the decisions for women. They can't be trusted to make good ones themselves.
"He's held me back from experiencing great things". You mean partying, clubbing and sleeping with chads ? Is this all women want ?
Many women are surprisingly boring people, it seems.
Pretty much
@@iPlayOnSpica I think shallow is the proper definition for women.
@@Observer82AB primitive
@@Dubya9W9 Perhaps. Bet you've never been married to a woman have you?
"I wanted to live my life like my friends, and have freedom." In other words, "I want to ride the CC like my friends."
The ol' 'women are adults' fallacy? Cute, even in 2020.
The ole bait 'n switch! :D
Only their bodies are grown. Their mentality is stuck at 15 for perpetuity.
@@Gunsight-One What do they say, "women mentally mature earlier then men". Perhaps it means they stop mentally maturing early then men
15? Youre being generous. Id say 12-13
Watch out for a troll named dekannea
They regret it when they realize the *provider of their comfort zone* will be removing that comfort from them. 🔥💯
She only loves her husband for all of the things he does for her, not for the person he is, and she only realized that she loved him when she had no one else to run to. That isnt love
“I want a loyal supportive man who lets me sleep with whoever I want” -modern American women
Joker always uploading at 1 am like a true bachelor
i just realized timezones exist im dumb
🤣🤣
He knows his audience well. lol
Midnight here...
Lets get the party started!
It's 7:40 AM on my clock. I'm going to sleep :P
That why DNA should be mandatory at birth
Screwing over men and locking them down for child support is good for the state to keep them off the welfare rolls. The state has no interest in making sure the alleged father is the actual biological father. So the only logical move for men is to not get involved in this bullshit at all. Leading to further declining birth rates and the kids that do get born being born to single moms.
... and migrants... who "somehow"does not have disloyal women...
Exactly
It won't ever will be. Laws will favor women for the foreseeable future.
@Sightless_Seeker of course they try to shame it. They are all lying garden tools.
She's lying to her husband, lying to herself, and now she is in a situation where she has ruined her life and her husbands. She's not deserving of that relationship.
And more importantly, she (probably) ruined the child’s life. Unless that child has some deep self realizations in their lifetime, the cycle the mother started will continue on for generations.
Some things can't be fixed.
@@lizardry54 I am that man who was a child who had to have some deep self realizations about my parents. Let me tell you, it does fuck you up when you're parents are still grown up children. This society's punk generation of gen z are here because of shitty millenial and gen X parents.
@@lowsi3153 it’s awful to have to experience that, but at the same time it’s such a blessing because you become aware. You have an opportunity to help make the world a better place because of your newfound perspective. Like you, I also hit very deep/harsh realizations, and that shattered what I thought was the reality of the world. However, I know that people like us now possess the ability to break the cycle. I hope you do great things. I wish you all the best in life.
She used protection with her husband and not with Jeff... Men that just hit hard
Her husband is an idiot for having protection in a marriage.
@@ΧρήστοςΔενέχεισημασία If he realizes the kid isn't his before its too late it could be the smartest thing he's ever done
They pressure YOU for a relationship then feel trapped and blame YOU for yall being in a relationship 🤣
Every damn time
My ex wife pushed us to move in together, pushed for marriage, did things that helped her get pregnant... and after cheating on me, blamed me for making her grow up too fast.
A life of never having to take responsibility for their own actions makes them fail to be accountable even to themselves.
once married they have your money whether they stay or leave, cheat on you cut off sex or have another guy's kid.
Yep, so true!
She probably wants the other guys kid, period. Not her husband's.
No, she probably thought chad would take her in when her husband left her for cheating, but she learned where she really stands and what her "soulmate" really is when she told him she was pregnant... now she's afraid to face the music for what SHE DID.
@@rosebarnes9625 LOL a woman would say this
you don't have protected sex with your husband of all people and unprotected with some FWB by coincidence, she was at least subconsciously trying to get the "alpha" seed and protecting herself from the "beta" seed
There is a comedian called bobby lee, he is ugly, his wife of 12 years doesnt want to have his children and have aborted a few times, i promise you if a good looking guy plows her she will change the no children rule, i promise you.
It’s incredible that paternity fraud isn’t taken more seriously, a child will grow up with zero biological family on one side but will believe it has , it’s a massive lie that will destroy the child the day it finds out the lie .
Tell me about it brother.... I always wondered why my supposed father was nothing like me. Then it clicked
Not only the child. If it is a 1/2 known lie (I mean, all know the truth but play dumb) it will destroy also other person in the family. I saw it.
"I'm 28 years old and pregnant with a kid that's not my husbands. How do I move forward?"
It's moving forward that's caused the problem ... well, forward, then backward, then forward, then backward etc. fairly quickly.
😂😂😂😂😂😂👍
women love men that can do that, forward and backward, bait and pull, both mentally and physically lmao
Abortion, and then change. But it's impossible for the cheater to be honest.
I don't get it.
@@VideosdeDomingo it's on biology book, try human reproduction
"How do I move forward". You tell your husband what you've done and that the kid isn't his you PoS and leave.
"I still love my husband."
No. You simply don't want to lose what your husband provides you; you don't love him, himself.
i love the car the house his money
She loves his money.
Hey joker here's a suggestion for the soundboard: Arnold saying "You're damaged goods, lady!" Its a line from 'True Lies.'
Another sound board clip might be " you want the truth, you can't handle the truth" from " A few good men"
"Consider That A Divorce." - Total Recall
That Tia Carerra though, OMG.
The best meme is the “finding myself” trash/recycling can pics.
And then people find out that their the same person. Because life choices don't become any clearer by acting out..someone won't suddenly know the answer to any of lives questions by getting drunk and sleeping around.
But he's my soulmate
@Al Kirk I'm actually religious so I do believe that for every man there is a woman and for every woman a man.
Although I have the suspicion that the moment my soulmate's heart heard who it was going to, it up and died
@Al Kirk the romance industrial complex lol true shit tho
@xxvii xxvii my ex wife literally said that as she left me. “I need to find myself” in another dudes wallet, bank account, etc...😂
Hamster in full overdrive. Husband should leave her as consequence for her impulsive, idiotic and dumb decision she made. Her husband deserves better.
Hmmm... I am 71. With all five 'serious' relationships, four ended by the woman, every woman came back and asked to get back together with me. I said 'no' in every situation. That and a bit of self evaluation provided me with closure.
Every time I see some chick that I dated years ago, I always think, "Damn, she did not age well at all."
I did that on FB the other day. Damn, she looked old for her age! :D
The morale of this story: Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
Moral of the Story: the only way to win is not to play.
May i translate that whole first Article for everyone:
Hi, im married but met Chad. I thought i could get an Upgrade from my Husband because it got a bit Boring. So, i slept with Chad without Protection in Hope of him staying with me if he hears im Pregnant from him.
That didnt work and now i know im fucked up, but, i dont want to feel bad about it.
Can all of you please tell me that it is totally ok to lie to my Husband so i have that Provider in my life and dont have to be a Single Mom?
doesn't it suck to learn what they are really about
@@professorbland It doesn't suck to learn their true nature, It sucks that society lies to men and tries to hide the truth.
@Xelbayria 100%
@Xelbayria problem is with the counterbalance of Simps it going to take a little longer for them to face the consequences of their actions.
Seems legit
A woman has decided that she's having sex before the date has even begun
Always important to remember, she never feels regret for her actions, only for the consequences.
As bad as men can be at times, nothing compares to the evil that lies within a woman's heart.
My Wife cheated on me. We had a family 3 kids. So she ends up marrying this guy 2 kids to him. Then she cheated on him.what goes around comes around. I laugh at him now.
Wouldn't it be him that cheated on her for it to be "what goes around comes around"?
@@kuyt20 Yer your right there. I suppose I mean if you steal a cheatin woman she'll cheat on you.
Same story here. Now I'm free and happy, and she's a miserable shit.
They only fear a drop in status, ease of life, etc. Knew a woman who went for the bbd, roughly 10 years later and remarried, she is still talking about how easy life was with the past husband and how she didn't have to worry about funds, etc.
Know a chick who left her blue collar husband and two kids for an unemployed 18 year old boy that was an acquaintance.
At least the courts had the sense to give her husband custody.
I don't want a burden, life is hard enough by yourself.
Marriage today is like a second job - endless demands and nagging, but you don't get paid and if you get fired YOU have to keep paying
My god, the loyalty of most women can only go so far while the loyalty of most men can can last forever
Being held to standards makes a big difference.
Something my late father always said to me, when I was growing up: "THINK, Boy! THINK! Think, before you say something, or do something! Be sorry BEFORE you say, or do something!" Another thing he said to me was, "Just because you can, doesn't mean you should. Never go to bed with a girl you wouldn't want to marry!" Also, "Never shoot dice on a blanket".
Woman: **gets caught**
Woman: Oh no... so anyways, I started blasting crocodile tears
😂😂
Most underrated comment lmfao
And the child is yours :D
He invited her for dinner? Please. We all know that’s a lie.
That's exactly what I was thinking. Probably invited her to his back seat.
That is the problem, she made herself available for approach, when he approached she let him talk, when he went the sexual route he let him go on, when he wanted her alone for lunch she said yes , she said yes again and again knowing exactly where it is going the invitation to dinner is a result not a process
Yeah, she invited him to invite her.
And this is why, in today's modern circumstances you NEVER GET MARRIED. All she needs is one excuse and her vows are trash. With no fault divorce she can cheat till the sun comes up and still take your kids, and half your assets. Save yourselves gentlemen.
Bro,the dating profile, lmfao 🤣🤣🤣🤣.....she's shouting inaudibly"I want a simp,a cashcow,n a doormat"
@@noexplanationowed3525 Of course. She made a few bad choices and has seen the error of her ways. Now all she needs is prince charming (simp) to come along and take all her troubles away. That is until Chad comes calling.........
@@Gunsight-One n after chad comes along, she'll suddenly find her life is boring,prince charming doesn't perform well in bed, doesn't pay her attention......she and chad starts going at it,then when Chad's done n throws her into the bin, suddenly she'll realise how great of a guy prince charming was,how she hurt him due to her FOOLISHNESS,how he took care of the bills,n will DO ANYTHING to be given a second chance ( provided prince charming grows a spine n ends up ditching her)🤣
She doesn't love him she just wants the security. Nothing more, nothing less...
Notice the "He's held me back from experiencing..." in her statement? It's as if her family sold her, without consent, to the man to whom she's married. The poor little thing just had no choice. The reason that there is "a Patriarchy" is because most women seem congenitally incapable of taking responsibility for their own lives and choices.
Just want to point out that REGRET can only come AFTER making a decision....
That is what it means to regret.
Yeah, admittedly not a great title.
No. The title is _fine_ . He is saying women do NOT regret their decision after making it. It is only after that decision destroys a man in a way that is made clear to the public that sees that it is HER fault, that she feels regret. And even then, she is not thinking about _him_ , at all. Title is on point.
@@hotice8885 yeah I guess
I get asked quite often : Why don't you have a girlfriend? - The more you know about women, the less interesting being in a relationship seems to be.
I had a few Gfs in my teens and 20s and I try not to make the same mistake twice...
@Milan Vukovic Never been called names. But I know that older people think it's ''weird'' not to be or want to be in a relationship.
@Milan Vukovic Don't tell people you're not interested in dating. Tell them it's personal at the moment you would rather not discuss it, and that's it.
@@lowsi3153 there is a simple answer to the question say: I don´t find the right one. the stop asking or ask why. if you say its personal many people got courius.
There's one problem: it isn't his. THIS is why public flogging should be brought back. This is where the law is fucjed up. If he kicked her out? He'd still be on the hook for 50% of everything plus alimony. Plus he'd probably have to pay child support too!
Unless he could prove he wasn't the father and identify who the father was he would most definitely have to pay child support. They were married a short enough time that, depending on the state, he might not have to pay alimony but that's probably why he ended up paying her a lump sum. That's what happened to me even though my ex lied about the alimony and said she wouldn't make me pay it if I agreed to other demands even though she wasn't eligible for it. Women have no problem lying and cheating on the men they claim to have loved.
flogging is a bit far I'd say public shaming with them forced to walk down a street getting pelted with rotten foods or the pillory both work.
@@REDACTED882 death penalty is the punishment for adultery per the Bible.
@@REDACTED882 a la game of thrones? hahaha
@@Linkmegax It actually wouldn't matter if he could prove he wasn't the father, there have been numerous cases where someone finds out his wife cheated on him and had a kid he thought was his only to have it tested and find out it isn't. He still had to pay child support as "he was theoretically the father".
There was a case settled recently here in Canada where a guy wasn't even married to a woman, nor did they live together and he still had to pay alimony. The worst part? He'd asked her to marry him and she said no.
I know a guy that went to marriage counselling and recorded a session. He played it to me and a few other single guys in our group and scared us into being really cautious. It was 1 hour of the woman complaining with vague notions about "gut feelings" but nothing actually wrong then the counsellor proclaiming he needed to work harder to keep her in his life. He was much like the guy in this video and we all agreed that her life was 50x better than if they weren't together. Lots of women have no logic and get bored easily.
i think the big problem is, its feels like 1 of 100 counsellor are working against the man. And the one who do great work will often hear from woman side: he is not the right for us (cose she have to do something)
Wow smh
the rage is ignited by hearing these stories - this is why Old Testament Law was so severe for these things
You mean stoning for Adultery?
No good deed goes unpunished indeed. Husband at fault being a decent human being.
In the beginning when the first woman can’t even find happiness in the Garden of Eden.... you know that most of them are just naturally miserable 😂
That what you get when you created woman out of your rib
Eves bones were left behind
She never loved her husband, he had to wear protection for 8 years. After Jeff ghosted her now she loves her husband. She didn't love him when she was getting raw dogged.
Edit: women now a days have no shame. Shame is what kept their hypergamy in check. Now it's you go girl do your dang.
Exactly. Shame and ridicule is the control knob for their minds. Not ethics or guilt or trust or any kind of negotiated commitment. They hate being outgrouped - shame is worse.
thats why War Brides, had their hair cut off and were publicaly shamed, after allies reclaimed their lands, and men returned home from war, to find out their loyal wives were banging nazis. There was no internet back then, yet men intristicaly understood that true female nature has to be absolutely suppressed or else it will collapse civilizations.
@@Ascension_3030 we need to bring back what we’ve unlearned through the leftist indoctrination the last 40 years.
You know I've heard back in the 1700s when a woman didn't know who the father if the child wad they'd bombard her with the question during child birth. Idk if true but that had to be embarrassing for them to have a bunch of people grilling them on who's the father while trying to deliver a child.
@@nineteeneightynine432 we have the technology today to be able to tell who the father is. Or at least, to be able to tell if the man listed on birth certificate, is the actual father. But these misandrist western societies, have found a way to shame men who ask for a paternity test, including mothers predicted reaction, when the man asks for one. I encourage all men to paternity test their kids, without mothers knowledge. Even when you are 100% certain that the kid is yours, we need to set a precedent for men who are maybe affraid to ask for one. Any long term GF ive head, knew right away that I will paternity test every kid, should she get pregnant. They dont take it very well, but i couldnt care less
I’ll never understand people who “don’t know who they are”
You’re a freaking adult, how the hell do you not know who you are?
That second woman literally mentioned going back to him because he loved her, not because she loved him. What the hell.
Can't wait to see a buzz feed article on this...."Ten reasons you should raise another man's kid"
This isn’t even a joke anymore..
And if you don't support another man's kids you are a virgin incel that hates women. They can miss me with that ish
These women riding c*ck-carousels till they’re 30 and then hitting the wall wanting kids is the main reason for the push for socialism and UBI. They know they can’t compete in the workplace with a man in his 30s without the burden of being a single dad. So they either hunt for a simp or vote for socialism. We need to wake the men up, especially the young ones in their 20s, to be able to fight it. 👊
Knowing them, the title would be
"Men caught cheating wife, and he divorced her because she's pregnant with another man child"
- The argument : Why leaving your cheating wife is bad
- The conclusion : Men got cheated, Women most affected
They'll dip into the usual man shaming language database.
Expect a lot of arguments about how a man needs to 'man up'.
"How do I move forward?"
Toward the door, honey....
Yes SIR!!!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👍
My hopes of having kids with a woman someday are dwindling every day.
You can have kids, no problem. The problem is if you expect her to be chaste when you meet her, and stay that way after you marry. Its possible, but only a small chance.
In 2009 my ex treated me like crap and goes with some other guy. She tried to hurt me during the break up telling me she loves the other guy. In 2013 I’m married to a good woman who loves me and respects me. I have a new job and I’m in college. She gets in contact with me wanting to get back. She ended up getting pregnant by some other guy who wouldn’t work and left her with a 8 month baby. I told her that I wanted nothing to do with her and to leave me alone. Over the years she still calls and I keep ignoring.
Similar story happened to me. My gf and I always used protection, she had a one night stand with a douchbag and didn’t use protection and became pregnant. She confessed everything to me cause she said she truly “loved me” and in her mind I was the bad one cause I couldn’t forgive her and accept to take care of a child that was not mine. These stories are REAL!!! Beware!!!
@Libturds Suck yes! Never saw her again
"I wanna live life and figure out who I am" translates to, I wanna make dumb decisions and get laid
It’s called being a giant sized baby. Women want every right and privilege with none of the responsibilities and consequences all because she “just a woman”. After years and years of “its ok sweety, it’s ok” simply because she’s an adorable little girl teaches her to use her innocence and beauty to get by... to learn how to pull on peoples heart strings to get by. I’m a girl so if I just cry people will listen to me, and feel bad for me. Now she’s used to getting what she wants. She has no care for the consequences of her actions and TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR IT... majority of their life someone else is picking up the slack for them. They’re so used to it. And they can no longer tell the difference between right and wrong. Even when they are crying or feel bad about a decision they made... they are more sad and emotional that they were found out or that they are embarrassed by the public eye of people. They care about people’s thoughts so much, so if that is in jeopardy it will hurt. Women cannot live a lone. So they need the Camaraderie of women. Anyone seen the Rick and Morty episode of “I’m here if you need anything” ? Lol They can only see what they want and how/when they want it.
once they start getting older oh boy are they gonna get mad
So basically...we should all invest in boxed whine and cat food.
Thank you feminism. You continue to save millions of young men from the true female nature. Not only you expose low-quality women on our behalf but expose marriage for the greatest scam it is. Thank you.
How is feminism helping?
OK, I'm gonna say it:
The first anecdote about "we got married about 8 years ago and it was OK at first but now I want my freedom..."
Allow me to explain a little bit of "reality" to those who clearly lack an ability to grasp it. This is a pointless effort, but maybe someone will take something from it.
If you *choose* to do something, you are eliminating your ability to choose anything else. That's what *choice* means.
You choose something at the expense of anything else.
This is *literally* in almost every form of "wedding vows" present in western culture.
"...and forsaking all others, and keeping yourself only for them."
YOU MADE A CHOICE. You stood in front of friends and family and said you were dedicated to that person.
Over a long enough timeline, every relationship will hit a point where they no longer want anything to do with the other party. A marriage is meant to be an accountability clause that *forces* us to do something that we don't want to do.
We do it because we have faith that our choice is correct, even if we may feel differently from time to time.
This relationship only holds value if trust is in place and consistently held.
When the choice is made, it comes at the sacrifice of ANY OTHER CHOICE we could have made.
No.
If you say "yes" when someone asks you to marry them, then you do NOT have the outlet of saying "but I wanna live my life". That IS your life now. You were asked, and you answered.
If you cannot stick to your own choices, then that is a reflection of YOU.
The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Until you jump over that fence. Then maybe that grass is not quite as green as it looked. And maybe it now looks greener on the side you just left. Humans are rarely satisfied with what they have at the moment.