YOU WILL LOVE TO LIVE ALONE, After This | Power of Being Alone |
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.ค. 2023
- A motivational Buddhist story in which a Buddhist monk tells a man what are benefits of living alone. And why should we learn to live alone in life. This story will tell you about the power of being alone. This inspirational story will tell you what is importance of solitude in our life. In this story eight benefits of living lonely has been explained. These benefits are very important in our life. Watch this story and take advantage of these benefits of living alone. Thans
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Living in the midst of chaotic society ,having time alone is a privilege and a great blessing.
Your so right
lynap1011: Did you experience being alone?
It is not as easy as it is being said. I am telling you from my encounter.
@@terefefeyssa877
Let say this living alone is a worth while
Pleasure. I enjoy it maybe you had a bad experience but we all do some where down the road.
Nobody is going to rain on my PARADE
BC I LOVE. IT.
I WOULDNXT TRADE MY LIFE FOR A
DECENT MAN OR A MAN WHO CHEATS
OR ABUSES YOU. I'm a strong woman who lived that damn life bc I was afraid to leave.
Now I'm not afraid it made me a strong better person.
Only the STRONG SURVIVE.
As long as I believe in God I will be alone
Living with some one is not my cup of TEA.
Absolutely.. 🕊️🙏✨
@@JuilaDavis-ec2nsneeded to hear tjis
I love being alone and living alone.
PEACE and SECURITY.
Another benefit of being alone is it enables you to have less contact with the energy vampires or killjoys who like to destroy our happiness. I live alone with my cat and I know in my heart that living under the same roof with another person is something I can't do but despite this truth, I'am as happy as I can possibly be in the 21st century 💞💕❤
dont u live with your family?
@@Indiangamer-qr4so No, I don't live with my family. If I stay under the same roof as my mother and stepfather for too long, I end up feeling drained and suicidal .
I am very pleased you chose to hear yourself and shared it with us
Me and my cat....so happy!!🙂
Living alone can gave some 'me time '. I 've learned to like my own company being alone in the lockdown during tbe Pandemic. THABK GOD FOR SMALL MERCIES😂😂
If you want to stay alone enjoy your own company and love your self ass much you can❤
38yrs alone and happy...I'm now 59...❤
Alone, I'm never lonely. Instead, I've become more productive and self-aware, my thoughts have clarified and my emotions have stabilised.
Correct ❤
Same here.
Same
Very good to know 👍 kudos to you. P.s. I'm trying to do the same and believe in the positivity 😇
This has proved so true for myself. My marriage of 27 years ended 3 years ago and at the time it felt like the worst thing in the world. I’ve lived alone since it happened and I’ve never felt in a better place, I was also on antidepressants for around 13 years and decided to replace them with music and looking into things like spirituality and philosophy and all of a sudden things began to make sense.
After 27 years divorce, it is very difficult and rare in lndia, l am wondering after this long years.....🤔 I will tell these 27 years relationship was absolutely fake, no l am not wondering because all these are happening in West but nowadays in lndia also divorce rate and extra marital relationship is high, l am not blaming but telling only mere facts because look at French president's wife, she divorced his husband after 30 years marriage, after she married her daughter's classmate, remember my dear "our human mind works in such a way" "No relationship is permanent" this is a basic fact , we need a guts if we need a permanent relationship, a great courage is necessary, Buddha says that change is the basic nature of life, each moment everything changes, except change everything changes, so our relationships also, we must understand and accept this reality first, we all are came here alone and we all are go alone from here between this our relationships make our life difficult, we can live alone, in fact l forgot human kind except those who deserve our love and help, don't think about people who have everything except people who have no food, shelter, clothes and such who affected war and other problems, in my personal experience l learned l don't need to care or think about people who have enough food to eat in three times, good house, vehicle and money and everything, l completely avoid such people from my life because they use us and only exploit us, we will become heart broken, see always remember Jesus's words, to know the tree according to its fruits, good tree gives good fruits bad tree bad.
Forget the people who don't want you, please don't remember anymore about them, still you think about them, it is a great sin you do to yourself, first priority in your life is your own peace of mind only, so you are responsible to keep that , your peace of mind, take responsibility of your mind, do not allow anybody to ruine it, like Osho says no compromise with anybody, don't allow anybody to take away your inner peace and happiness, like Buddha says be a light unto yourself.
My dear, forget humanity and look at outside you can see the presence of God silence, no animal, no tree, river, or rain or sun ir moon nothing make our life difficult, nobody is going to depress a dog said this , a cat cheated, a cow hurt, a tree did this and that , so you must aware about human beings nature, because nobody have the power and control over himself instead our mind always works in opposit way, even if we try our human mind will destroy our good relationships, mind called in old days devil or satsn, a few people won the victory over mind, like Buddha, Jesus, Osho and some others. So forgive and forget the person you had relationship in 27 years, he or she is unable to give good things because his or her mind acted in such way, but you don't find excuses to remember them again, one day, time, good or bad both memories will betaken away from us, so forget them and you go your own way, throw away your anti depressants, do good exercises, eat good health food, at least one hour sit silently, then your inner voice will speak you , you can hear that voice, that is God he was always there we don't have time sit for him, we are always with other people, wasting our life, so look at outside you can see many different type tress, plant, flowers, everything is different and unive in many ways, leaves different, flowers different, smell different, taste different, colour different, see how wonderful all these, how great life, who is behind this God, look at pets and animals, their love , they will never disbelief us, if we love once they will love us always, but we and our human mind is cunning and tempts us to find human love, please never ever want human love, it is temporal and makes great agony.
Best wishes dear.
Yeah, it takes a minute to remember who you are without someone else being part of your identity. Took me five years to get over my divorce
Similar experience. Continue your good attitude and things will always improve.
@@karmasutra47741:30 a
Divorce sucks bro. Just now bouncing back.
I love solitude I honestly would be happy to live on a deserted island as long as I could take my cat. I have mostly lived alone for the last 16yrs & have never been bored or lonely. Actually the only time in my life that I have felt lonely was at the end of a terrible marriage before we separated since then all good! I feel very protective of my solitude & wouldn't give it up for anyone now. Love 'n' Light everyone xxx
Iv been on my own also for 16 years--- love it and will never go bck--- I love solitude
Yes, our cats!
I live with a cat but am I alone ?
@@mvnorsel6354NOPE XXX
I have been alone since June 28th 2016, this is the happiest I've ever been in my adult life.
I love solitude, I have nice neighbours and friends but, the time spent alone is certainly highlighted in this video, and is beneficial in all the ways mentioned.
Kudos to you for being strong minded in doing so. I'm currently trying to do the same, hence I've been alone some of my life, if not, the majority. But thanks for your comment.
Great video! Love it! Thanks for sharing this to the public. We were born alone & will depart this physical world alone & go back to our Creator alone. So there’s nothing wrong with being alone or living by yourself. I love connecting & being with like minded people to learn & grow but I truly prefer to be alone because I’m happier that way; more creative juices, solitude & inner peace makes me calm & comfortable.🙏🏽🌷
Yes! Unfortunately, our culture tells us that being a twosome is the best way to live. Especially mental professionals.
I presume you are still young person in his 30ties or even younger. But if you spend your 50 or 60 years by yourself you might feel lack of communication with other humans or presence of even an animal in your life. I am not saying any human will do. But a friend of the same kind is always helpful. Complete isolation from external world may prove your solitude is your greatest weakness an attempt to shut down the social life and escapism into world of fantasy. If you are working on Zen or Taoism, Yoga or Science, then it is helpful. But if you are lost, in thoughts and conflicting emotions this aloneness might lead you to nervous breakdown in 5 to 10 years or will make you restless with panic attacks. Buy a dog or a cat at least to have companion of an animal if humans are too difficult for you to contact with. When you get sick or paralyzed who will bring you groceries or cash welfare cheques...?
@@esperanzamunoz2725Those profs are trained by the same society that fails those who chose to be single. I could NEVER live with the draining energy of another human in my space as I am an empath.😊 Solo living since 1988.
@@esperanzamunoz2725 Well said & I agree with you 💯 but we shouldn’t be brainwashed by our society all the time, they are not 💯 right. We must follow our hearts & souls as our guides then we will be happier. Have a great one.
@@dtseringdorje thank you for your awesome wisdom. I totally agree with you 💯 very well said in all angles but my focus lies on both sides. I’m 62 & married & have the Zoo. I love life & people who are @ the same page with me. I never been alone in my life, always surrounded with families & friend’s & acquaintances. My point is that “being alone” is not bad especially if you love animals & you have great communication skills with anything that lives & enjoy great activities & a life learner (taking classes & other courses)Let’s face it whether married or not at some point we will loose our love ones by death/divorce, we better accept aloneness moving forward in life & eventually because of our wonderful personalities & kind attitudes we will be a magnet to a person who wants to be in our life so we will not be alone. Have a great one.
Being alone gives me peace and set my mind free i think is good for my side
Being in solitude is a life style to me. I grew up in loneliness just because I was always hurt by members of my family and beyond. People judged me my looks and give me the impression that I don't reason right and also saw as not fit to work in other words, am lazy. But they got it all wrong. That's why I always say people should learn how judge others from what they can do not from their looks. How good is it to be alone ! First by being alone, I became fastest learner of my time in school which left people to become very amazed and their way thinking towards me. Be alone caused me to become very focused and to avoid making wrong decisions in life. Living alone made me to love myself, stay from unnecessary problems .
Be true, love you. N from New Zealand.
Amen.
@@nicholaskearney678Amen.
True words & very wise. Hugs from Australia XXX
this has proved so true for myself. My marriage of 27 years ended 3 years ago and at the time it felt like the worst thing in the world. I’ve lived alone since it happened and I’ve never felt in a better place, in my sancturary
❤ I’ve always wanted to live in the mountains by myself and feel the peace and joy of being so close to nature 🌳⛰️
Me to---- just to be around nature and tweeping birds 🐦---- listening to the water falls---- listening to rain pour on the roof as I sleep---- a short bush walk into the gas station to buy milk n bread--- and bck home for a cuppa and some toasties---- less is more by far---- oh not forgetting to take my 3 dogs on their walk with me---- time now to light a fire to keep warm
@@cheryl1909 sounds so peaceful 😊
@@cheryl1909 sounds good to me !
And behold the obnoxious Christian Rant.
Verily I say write endlessly about your little god so we can know the wacko world we escaped.
@shemnetto4128Always wondered why Cristians like to keep on having a go at converting others to their particular faith? Don't get me wrong though, am not an atheist, just like to make up my own mind as to what religion or meditation to practice.
Living Alone is my PASSION ❤😊
As an Extreme introvert, Number one. I am always alone, even when I am in a crowd I am alone, but being alone with nobody around the hours fly like minutes, and I can never get enough of it.
Me too 😅
You have described it really well-such a strange feeling that you are in a crowd but still feeling alone.
You have nailed it 👍🏻...I'm also an extreme introvert crowds terrify me...
Living alone is safe💃
I live alone,but my garden and pets are very important to me.Animals and plants really fill in a lot of the blanks.
Even as a child aged about 7 years I made a discovery about myself which is to say I loved being alone Now and then all the others would be out for several hours and I could relax and being only seven I just knew I could handel it well
Me too. Loneliness makes us turn to dream time and enlighten us and make us immortal, and all our uglinesses becomes swirling intoxication of something not human, but dragon
I lived alone over 10 years. When my daughter and grandchildren grew up. I decided to go my own way Until now I’m lived alone
Living alone has enabled me to gain peace and my sanctuary is my little heaven.
"Whatever the present moment contains,accept it as if you had chosen it...This will miraculously transform your whole life".-Eckhart Tolle .
God bless
Thank you ...
That's what sanatana Dharma told 1000s of years ago.
God bless
Thank you ...
@shemnetto4128 maybe you should just make your own video. Nobody's got time to read all this. In fact, I've heard it all before. If anybody in this country wants to understand Christianity, there's a church or two in every neighborhood. Thanks for trying.
@@samsilva3625 if it works for you great
Great thought! Thank you for throwing it out there! Gladly caught it and definitely live by it! One day at a time! 😊❤
Be happy within oneself! Better Focus! Creativity! Thanks. Sir!🎈
More people living alone these days than in any time in history
I enjoy my own company. I learn more about myself without distractions of others in my space. . I am a better friend and partner when I have time to recharge giving more quality time to others. Overall I am a more balanced , caring and appreciative person...❤❤❤
Nice video. I have been struggling with depression and anxiety for over a year now. This video has been of help and has helped me get better.
Very nice video.
This is about understanding the difference between aloneness vs. loneliness.
it took me a few years to understand this when I deliberately chose to live in solitude. When you chose to live alone in solitude and practice meditation, your whole perspective on life changes.
In fact, when you come back to society, people start seeking you because of the reasons explained in this video . Which can be a headache when you want to go back into your practice of aloneness and solitude!
Yes! I don't feel lonely living alone at all. I keep myself busy doing what I need to do and with what I enjoy doing.
Agree 100%
Whenever I turned stress, depression and sad I used to go somewhere where there no peoples because I love to live alone in that moments😊😊, 💚 it's turn me huge thinking about the suffering of my life
Liveing alone i find i am happier and content, i can please myself what i do, and it shows me who i am, it gives me peace of mind and this is good for my mental health, thankyou for your vidio, very grateful for it. Rose 👩🔬🌹
You have great bhuddha in yourself.
God bless
Thank you...
@@thembinkosidube3918 thanks a lots 💚💚 I'm very grateful
@@thembinkosidube3918
What are the benefits of being Buddhist??
Lord Buddha bless you all 🤍
I loved living alone for many years, but one day I fell deeply in love and compromised...now I live with my partner because we are planning a family, but we have established a rhythm so we can have space apart from one another each week. We both need time apart, and when we come back together, it's fireworks.
It's good to share life.
You don't have to look for love when it's where your coming from.
So TRUE 💯 being alone is not synonymous with loneliness 😘
So true.
I have been mostly alone in my life.
I am 100 per cent happy and I appreciate everything I have and all the help I could give.
People want to live in one room like me so they can also travel.
I am so greatful for all the places I have seen.
Never missed a single video of your channel. This is the power of your videos 😊
When alone you can play your music loud and you always sound great😅.
Thank you for sharing. I live alone but I'm not lonely. You are peaceful and have more patience
im being alone in about 15 years after my wife cheating on me and i was alone also hard to forget about her but after time to time i started to leave everyone because i seen people's around me including my family members are a toxic people also those who are around us is not really understand who we are especially inside us. so i start avoiding every event with anyone and just walk alone ride alone and sometimes i only talk to the waiter, grab or uber driver or someone else that i dont really knows but i every started to be more focused and more appreciate my self and i don't need much friend or girlfriend or anyone else because i feel happy and freely enjoy my life alone and everyday i will stay and look to the sky and i feel so good that no one will ever hurt me again😊
Completely agree. Then again i don't always like people so solitude is easy for me.
Nice video it can change my life from depression 🙏🏿
What are the best books of buddha bro
@@trendingmonkey5759 I would say Siddhartha, which is basically the story of Budda.
Thanks for the tips. I hve picked up a few things of spending time alone. I believe it's amazing n lets u know what u want n to do the next what's good for me n gives me a clear mindset. Great 😊👌
i thankyuo for the vidio, and liveing alone can be amazing, and no one can control you, and one can have peace of mind and tranquillity, rose 🌹
It’s sad to be alone but I was happy when I wasn’t now. It’s a different ballgame I just pray I can get by every day ❤❤❤
Try and find someone to share your life.
You will have a more rewarding life..
Turning the key to an empty house,is an empty life.
I’ve been living alone for almost 2 years, i just saw this video, everything whatever he explains, totally true… not even a single error…
Benefits of living alone.
1-it can make you more efficient, your mind is more focused, your energies are not scattered;
2-it sparks ideas & creativity in us;
people who spend time alone are:
3-fast learners; 4-happier than others; 5-good listeners and get respect in society;
6-it improves your relationships;
7-it can improve your brain & mental health; produces less cortisol and more dopamine & serotonin (happiness hormones);
8-it helps you in meditation and increases your self-awareness.
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If everyone lived alone, eventually humanity would cease to exist and then the "benefits" would be meaningless
Thank you so much
"Loneliness add beauty of life it puts a special burn on sun sets and makes night air smell better".
Henry Rollins
I am very impressed with your video . Thank you so much for making this video ❤️❤️❤️
I was really stressed and was feeling lonely but after watching this video I feel Loneliness is the happiness of our joy ,sorrow and everything.Thank you so much for this wonderful video.
God bless you
Thank you so much for this wonderful video❤
Thank-you. I am living alone for the first time for me. I have been today writing humorous stores to my bro-in-law in email about the place I used to live which was packed with many people due to the Pandemic.
It was like an entertaining but useless personal experience. I got little to no benefit from being with those crazy people. I also was getting a little crazy myself. Now I am alone as far as my apartment goes. Also I am sorting everything out mentally.🎉
I'm 71% sure that if I would not afraid off in meditating, I definitely become monk and it's my problem
I have seen videos of this channel and my productivity is increased in just 3 months❤😊
I can look back at an enormously impressive line of great accomplishments.
Most of them, especially the biggest and best happened while I was single.
Now I'm retired and before I go to sleep I can't believe that this insanely interesting life is mine.
My mind goes places where most people would not follow me and the things I did would have looked too risky to others.
I am a very friendly person and in case I want a conversation or some company I know how to get it.
My life is awesome! Thank you God for all of my talents and abilities.
Tried a couple marriages, each with 2 kids from scratch ... Last one lasted 26 years, but then, she (14 years younger) grew bored I guess _ went her own way. So, 76, a bit crippled up from a concussion a few years back. Can use some help with house & grounds, but being alone suits me . Brief assn w Meyers&Briggs suggested the rare IFNJ whatever, but .. .just as well being alone. Most time with most others. Seems insipid, so....bff & buddy died in a car wreck few years ago, no real others, son living with me to help out at the moment, but he can't be too happy suspending his life, but we get along, maintaining the family home we built in the 60's, a few houses back from southern Lk Michigan, so life is comfortable, financially tight in a too-big house (city property taxes are $600 a MONTH keeps me mostly broke with current inflation though I get a pretty good Soc Sec amount, (just over 2K/month) it all goes fast! Even with son working construction jobs ...31 & a very talented carpenter.
Wonder how so many even making it as I'm damn tight under pretty fair conditions!
Thank you so much helps a lot☘️
It widens my mind when I read about this! Thanks!
Very Educational! You learn me something! Many Thanks!🎈🎈
Very good statement. This is what the Buddha admonished and admired.
GOD BLESS YOU
I read comments here, and it is very fascinating. Most personal stories are similar to some extent. I may probably have lived being alone once I had been attracted to spiritual world. I never planned to be alone but one situation led me to another one without even knowing it. I couldn't find it easy till these days.
When individuals are in solitude, they have a tendency to enjoy in certain activities.
This is ok advice as long as your take-away isn't to see this as a productivity hack to do more work. Being alone has its own rewards.
I love this video because I love me some me and I love living alone I'm sooo at Peace and I'm by the Water 💦 Falls I pray and Meditate while I'm alone and I don't Watch the News because they lie allot. Thank you. Peace love and happiness to everyone on here 💞 ASE'
Thanku so much, ❤
I always follow the things you teach us to have a better life thank you very much.
Excellent video. I really appreciate your work. Thank you for giving us this wonderful knowledge. All the best for your future videos. Buddha bless you with health, wealth, and prosperity. Thank you.
Very nice.Thanks.Sir.
Thank you for the wisdom, & may everything good keep you blessed.
This is a very valuable video, God bless you
Absolutely true. ❤
There is a war within and everytime you engage it everytime you own it is dream time making you immortal and enlightened
Makes your ugly works insipid and awkward into not your work, but the will of ghosts and the shell of the dragon.
I agree with thee ❤
Thanks 😊
Thank you 🙏
Each and every sufferings Ends within seconds!!!
when You chant the mahamantra "hare Krishna" with love 😊❤. You just need. To love Krishna instead material world or people
Hare Krishna 🙏
Solitude kills your mental fear from all
But those who are imprison struggle with it.
God bless
Thank you...
Thanks for your quote.
Thanks!
Thanks, I appreciate that 🙏
Thank u bro for ur wonderful insights of wisdom ❤
I do and it great. No worries 😊
I live with 2 dogs and a cat the covid isolation was peaceful. Their drama is minimal. Being retired in the northwest
I only count the seasons.
This is so true ❤
This is great!! Absolutely right on!! 👍☺
I love walking out my door without having to tell a soul where I'm going or what I'm doing.
That's not good...
Having someone who cares when you're coming back...is much better.!
Namo buddhaya
I am alone....Try to celebrate silence.❤
Being alone does not mean feeling lonely. Pathetic are those who headed towards crowds. Media shamed loners for reason to promote meaningless spending.
Namo Buddhaya
Thank you
Excellent 💯
My wife and I switched to gather for 55 years, but we always made space in our relationship to be alone by her self. By myself he gave us time to think about what we needed to do for your kids for ourselves and other people it was a good thing. It was a good marriage.
This is all very true
True
I live alone and I love it.
It is said that "Without Effort, Life Tends to Lose Order"
So Life has an amazing tendency to cause trouble and make things difficult.
Problems seem to arise naturally on their own.
The good news is there exists a solution but it will always require your energy & effort!✨🌻
Thats great lesson
It's true ❤❤
Very beautiful presentation.. 🙏✌️❤️
Very nice.Thank you 🙏
When i reach here for the first time... I still remember that, i was like a mad men. Full of negative thoughts and over thinking. At all day i wakeup with a bad mind and i ruin my whole day. It repeat it for a long time it means i spent years like this. Smoking cigerates, addicted to alcohol, porn everything. But once i realized if I'm going like this my whole life becomes a question mark. And also I'm totally out of my spiritual life. Still i remember that day i reach here i was totally broken, and i pray a lot to jesus christ. And ask him to show me a way to out all of this. And i still belive he took me here..... When i watch the first video it touch my soul. Then i started meditation. If you're believe it or not within a week im almost done with all of my problems and addictions. See its nothing about a religion or anything. Its only all about our inner peace and the spirituality. Where you can find a come back from your bad life go for it. Today i can say that I'm totally connected with my parents, neighbors, and most importantly i got the connection with my lord and jesus.
My only word is that....where you can find peace go for it. Don't be shy and affraid it will change your whole life. And it shows the way.
👍👍👍👍
Beautiful thank you