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it’s easier to fake a smile than explain why you’re sad. i don’t think people know how hard it is to explain something that you don’t understand yourself.
1. They feel emotions on a much deeper level 2. They are less positive and optimistic 3. They are obsessed with being the best 4. They have sudden mood swings 5. They started abusing drugs or alcohol 6. They’re always out of it lately 7. They feel bad about asking for help 8. They always try to look or act happy
Ed Paz It is very helpful yes but sometimes I wish you could make a comment non visible unless you tap on it because sometimes I scroll through the comment section while watching the video and then I see one of these comments and it kind of spoils it. :
There was a boy I liked very much, and I know he has depression. He always makes cynical, nihilistic jokes, and I worry about him sometimes...He pushed me away because I developed feelings for him, and he did it quite abrasively. It really devastated me. But deep down, I really hope he is alright. He is so smart, and has such a great future ahead of him
Idk if it is too late but what I want to hear from others is just something normal like - Hey let's both have fun together Or You are really special to me or just somehow make him feel that he is important to at least someone.... Also if you have even the slightest feeling that he likes you back then don't give up .I understand him pushing you away cause he might feel that if you come in his life n he does something wrong it will make you sad too n its the worst feeling but if you really stay by his side n not leave eventually he might give up on pushing you outside his world...Plus for a depressed person its the best feeling when someone does not give up for them n they most probably feel that now they can't give up so easily too... Well it's only my point of view of how I want others to treat me and I'm not sure if it'll work but I really hope you luck...
Be careful and don’t try to force your feelings on him. He also might be an asexual/aromantic. Show him friendly support, let him know that even if he doesn’t share your feelings you’re still his friend and always ready to help. To some depressed people (I’m not talking about all of them) relationships are quite a scare, and a bother. If he doesn’t want that kind of relationship try to understand him and be friendly
you can have some hints about it in this channel, try to recgnise what you are feeling and how long you have been this way if you know a little of what depression is and feel you might have it, it's not something to ignore, it's a big deal of how you are living I found out I was depressed only after feeling good for some moments, enough to recognise that what i was feeling wasn't right. I got used to feel this way and forgot how I used to be, so being depressed was fine, 'normal' but it's bad, and we don't always realize it (even close people might not notice)
Gabriella Martins Freire i can relate to almost most of the things i watch on this channel but idk no matter how much i can relate to it i don’t wanna self diagnose myself you know? plus i always be wrong 💀😭
Sometimes it's okay to self diagnose yourself when you're unable to find the resources to accurately diagnose you. If you feel you truly relate to a lot of the signs shown in these videos then perhaps you could have it without knowing it
My mum actually bought me a jacket that said lazy in big writing in the front when I was 16. She said “it’s just like you.” I did think I was very lazy until in my late 20s I realised I was just depressed the whole time.
@@melissaa4918 I recommend a supplement called SAM-e. It is a miracle. I have treatment resistant depression and always felt sad all day everyday with constant negative thoughts and had no motivation to do anything. Meds don't work for me. It also has no side effects for me. Please share this because people need to know about it. It took me a lot of digging. It's relatively cheap as well. About $20/month. It is the most prescribed medication in Europe and is a supplement in the U.S.
if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help.
Relatable I once tried to explain it to my friends and family but they started laughing at me called me lazy , a fool , stupid , loser , weird they said I am overreacting it's better to just keep quiet
I have also tried to tell my problem to mom but insted of helping me to get out of depression she told that" You should have died during your birth" I was really shocked to hear that.
Reading these comments I relate to one in particular. “I sometimes feel like I have depression but I don’t want to self diagnose myself because then I think, oh I’m just overreacting. People have it way worse than I do. I’m fine. Everything is good. Even though I know it isn’t.” Is that a problem?
I don't want to self-diagnose either but someone decided "Hey, let me make fun of her for the way she dresses (baggy clothes), she wants to be emo!" Her exact words: "So you self-diagnosed yourself with depression and anxiety? Haha, that's great!"
@@iterashai to who ever said that tell me their address I'll go there and have a chat ( first part joke ) but seriously ppl tell me that all the time don't listen to them
I have had friends (back in 2011) & family members whom I’ve spoken to about events/situations/emotions, and I’ve always heard the same response, “everyone has gone through this”, but not in the way I see/feel. I now have a new set of friends that I feel more fulfilled with happiness, because they understand the struggles I go through. With my family, it’s been very difficult for me to even approach them about such matters, due to years of hearing that statement. It’s not even me pushing them away, but rather whatever I’d say doesn’t matter. It really saddens me that my own family does not see the struggles that I go through when I seek help, to the point where I don’t feel like I’m progressing in life. I’m not sure if I’m alone on this, but it sure hurts like thousands of needles piercing my heart.
yeah mate, you're not alone in this. I dont think I have been depressed, but I do understand the sadness of close people not seeing that you sturggle and stuff But the best thing you can do is talk to them about the problems and stuff, because if you dont the things bottle up and get worse or something, thats what my psychologist said, but what does she know anyways Drink water mate
*God, seeing all these depressing comments about their parents saying the whole depression thing is just a phase and stuff make me feel disgust that parents are really that blind.*
Sometimes parents dont always have the tools or the know how , to deal with these issues and as a result of that they fear what they do not know and attempt to avoid the seriousness of it becaise they feel helpless.
xXKatPlayzXx I feel like I have depression and axietiety but I’m only 10 and I don’t wanna tell my mum or dad cuz I know they’ll be like “ your to young to be depressed” “ oh your being dramatic”
@@neddynedstar1060 I just hate people like you I bet when you were young you felt the same,saying that just shows how little empathy you have. DO NOT respond to this in anyway that continues on with what you said, just let yourself think about how you once were depressed.
For the person who's in a hurry: • They feel emotions on a much deeper level • They are less positive and optimistic • They are obsessed with being the best • They have sudden mood swings • They've started abusing drugs and alcohol • They're always out of it lately • They feel bad about asking for help • They always try to look or act happy
Well on the Internet or just telling someone randomly it kind of seems like you’re just doing it for attention even though you might be actually depressed you should talk to a therapist you should just ask for other people
Other me: "You are a horrible person, whose death shouldn't be mourned. That exactly what they said. Very honest. Very clear. Oh, and they also said that they weren't your friends all along, because how unlikeable you are. Unlikeable - liked by no one. Bitter, salty, ugly unlikeable loner. Who will die alone. ... Good job by the way. Maybe your skeleton will be stood at museum as an example of very poorly build human. Don't be upset. At least they wouldn't able to see your face. That is very good news for them, they eyes wouldn't be damaged by your... good not good look. ... Congratulations, now you know why most of your "friends" wear sun glasses, every time when they meet with you. Ha ha."
Me: *want to do something and trying* Other me: "It isn't brave. It's murder ... of your self-esteem leftovers. ... I don't mind of your business but if it were me, I will leave that thing alone. Stand still and think about it. ... Well, i must confess, that I am kind of impressed by your stubbornness... and fatness. ... Where are we even now? Can you stop? ... Why just not give up? STOP TRYING. IT WON'T WORK. YOU ARE NOT SMART. YOU ARE NOT ERUDITE. YOU AREN'T SPECIAL. Well... maybe special... sort of... ha ha."
@@daycc9913 thank youu it’s just I feel that if I ask for help that I’m asking for a lot, and I feel bad or embarrassed when I ask for help but I don’t know why, and I know people are willing to lend help when I need it but I feel I’m asking for too much so I keep everything to myself :(
@@keishasmith2067i can relate but, you have to remember that you are not worthless you have the right to call out for help we are all equal no one is lower or higher, and theres many people out there who loves to help out people cause it help them feel happy you know :> you are not a perfect you dont have to hide your weakness we humans are weak anyways, if someone ask me to help them i would feel honored! so dont be embarrassed! >:D
@@stanfatou2002 I understand. My mom and I in a conversation two days ago. "There's this quote that goes 'inside every anarchist is a failed dictator.' " "Inside every anarchist is what?" Louder I said, "A failed dictator." "What about them?" "That's the quote, mom!" "Alright, why are you so pissy with me?!" I wish I was kidding.
“Mum I get bullied” ‘Then make friends’ “I have no friends” ‘Then talk to them’ “Mum I feel sad” ‘Give me your phone’ “Mum I have no friends now” ‘Then talk to someone, that’s how you make friends’ “I’m depressed and I have anxiety” Everyone : ‘same’ or ‘your dramatic’
Me: *clinically depressed and grieving* Parent: “you’re lazy” “it’s cause of that phone” “get off the phone” Edit: Everyone I love you please take care of yourselves. Sending love to all of you and remember that you’re worth it and I love you and that everything will hopefully be okay one day. Have to keep telling myself that too which isn’t easy to apply but the fact that we are still alive even from constant battle going on inside our heads, means we’re all strong. For my things personally i can’t remove my mental illness cause it’s a trauma from seeing death and it’s pretty complicated but it still falls in the depression category because of how I feel so even on anti depressants the trauma won’t go away which is normal but whatever you’re going through pls know that you’re not alone and that it’s temporary. The thing that helped me cope with my mental illness was to talk to my parent or text my friends or research on mental illness and comment (just like this comment haha) and sometimes talking to other people going through that same thing as me. So if you’re feeling like that please talk to someone about it. Could be a family member a friend or a specialist it’s still gonna help and you’re gonna feel better. Remember that you are loved. Take care❤️
Yasssss! I grieve over my friends fighting over me and my parents think "You spend to much time textin" when I'm really trying to think of something to say to stop the fighting..
Yasssss! I grieve over my friends fighting over me and my parents think "You spend to much time textin" when I'm really trying to think of something to say to stop the fighting..
"You just want attention" "You don't have depression" "It's just hormones" "People have it worse" "You're just being dramatic" I get told this when I tell anyone. I can only trust one true friend with this. Everyone else thinks I'm a happy bubbly person. I'm not suicidal, but i do get thoughts that I don't belong on this world. That I'm not good enough to be alive. My insomnia doesn't help, as I get no more than an hour of sleep each night at most. I ask for help and no one offers help. So I stop asking. No one can see my true emotions. No one can see I'm not happy and perfect. No one can see that I don't think I 'm good enough. That my mask hurts to wear more and more each day. That every day I'm living less and just going through the motions more and more. Because if I show this i become a failure, and that's my biggest fear.
I can totally relate, except its not anyone else telling me those things. its me telling myself those things. but hey, feeling that way doesn't make you a failure. im sorry that no one helped you when you asked for it, and if it makes you feel better you can always comment here and im sure someone will help.
Or like my mom said when she seen my cut wrists "you have no reason to be depressed ", or" I buy you everything you want you should be the happiest kid on earth " or even " you got so lazy over the pass few years" etc
GABand GIO I’m afraid that I’m all making this up and that I’m an attention seeker. I hate bothering others with my problems so I just tend to shut them away and keep a smile on my face, although that smile ain’t real.
Yeah, I’m afraid of being rejected or denied help, because my dad will day, “oh it’s in your head”. “Just don’t be sad.” Thanks dad, maybe I’ll try that when it’s possible
ikr.. I’ve noticed most “happy people” or the “therapist friend” are usually the ones who have suicidal thoughts or are depressed. Which is really sad..
or: you have too much time to be depressed or: it's because you watched movies about depressed people and now you exaggerate and think you are depressed too. I haven't seen you sad for years
It is because society is constructed that way. Even if you think about the question: how are you. A question that is asked to indicate politeness and showing that you care superficially about the other. The answer that is taught to people from a young age is always: good. We are instructed to act as if everything thing is fine, because that is acceptable.
I got that all the time, but I finally got the nerve to tell my best friend. She deals with this kinda stuff too, and right now she’s helping me to try and tell my family.
When I told my mom about my mental health, she responsed: “I don’t understand. How can you feel depressed when you don’t have anything to worry about?” 🙂
Okay now mine : *me overthinking all day and being anxious and not wanting to talk* Mom: WHAT IS WRONG WITH U IM DONE OF YOU ALWAYS WITH YOUR GRINNY FACE SMILE OR TALK DONT BE LIKE THAT ARE YOU AUTISTIC OR CRAZY ???!!!! (This literally happened today) Sorry mom I’m just sad today and don’t feel like talking. I’ve lost my reason to smile or be excited. I’m trying, trust me I’m trying to change myself, to smile more, to be all joyful but... I can’t.
yxnna time to take out mine “it’s that damn phone” “How are you depressed, what do you have to be depressed about?” “You aren’t stressed” “Don’t say ok when I talk to you” (Bish what? I say alright and she still flips out) “You are being dramatic” “Go read” “You’re stupid” (And so on and so forth 🙃 )
Hi E E, I have started a project on Instagram to promote mental health and creating a supportive community where everyone can freely talk about how they feel. It is called @lifestories0250 and I am trying to find stories of others at the moment. I would love if you could check it out and drop me a message with anything you might be feeling. It's hard to talk to others because we often feel like nobody understands but the reality is that so many of us go through the same feelings but struggle alone. Would be so happy to hear from you :)
I've been cutting myself for years and whenever I'm at school I get asked are you OK and every time I do I end up breaking down bc I feel like if I talked to someone they wouldn't listen or would just thing I'm an attention seeker.
@@ruluked3473 well, for me, i don't have interest in social media. I only use youtube XD. People is agressive. That can also cause depression, at least in rare cases.
Does anyone else ever just cry for no reason. Like you know you have friends who care and you know you matter but you just feel so alone for no reason at all? It makes me feel like I’m overdramatic and I tell myself that I should be happy because I have more than I need and so many others have it so much worse. But then again I feel like I have it too good and don’t deserve as much as I have. Does this happen to anyone else? Edit: WOW I genuinely didn’t know so many people felt the same way I do. This actually makes me feel a whole lot better... If any of you guys want a friend to talk to ill give u my discord :)
Oh yes. I think that's just part of being human in our current world. We all feel alone sometimes. I think the way we are so busy, fragmented, hostile, stressed, not to mention the impacts some must go through with racism, poverty, all the -isms... This world is not a healthy place. I think/hope that's part of what we're all realizing right now, and I hope the energy to keep at it, for ourselves and for future humans, will continue. 💗
Yeah, I feel that way a lot too. I also feel like a lot, if not all of my friends actually don't like me and just stick around because they feel bad. This may seem meaningless coming from someone like me, but know that you deserve all the friends you have and people love you. If you feel like you need someone to talk to, I can try to be here for you. You can dm me on Instagram if you have it and need to @jigglyjohn0. Theres no shame in asking for help if you're having a hard time. You can rant to me and ill listen. If not, that's cool too. I'm sorry you're struggling. If i could, i'd give you a big hug. Hang in there! I know you can make it through this! (p.s, I love your profile pic. Is that a pan flag? If so, i'm pansexual. Happy pride month!)
@ It's ok to not feel like talking about it. Please try not to beat yourself up about it! You have people to talk to because they care about you, and I bet you're an amazing person! Its not ungrateful to be lonely! Remember, there's no shame in asking for help, but if you don't want it, thats ok. If you want to rant to someone I can listen to you. (@jigglyjohn0 on Instagram, or if you want to contact me in another way just reply) If not, no pressure! Only talk if it will make you feel better. Theres nothing wrong with feeling or lonely, even when you feel like your feelings are not justified. You have every right to feel down, you don't need a reason. Its not selfish not to understand your emotions. I just want you to be happy. Hang in there!
SAME bro when I was 11 and started cutting myself my mom was like "you have no reason to be depressed I buy you everything you want" and it's like have you ever thought that you might be the reason that I'm like this?
Most parents will have the delusion: "My child is living under a roof, going to school, has something to eat and clean water to drink everyday! No way they can be depressed!"
@@YuukiMarvellGames-Art Yet it's also kinda hopeful... if most real people don't care enough to understand me, at least AI does :) Can't wait to have AIs that are capable of real conversations.
00:41 They feel emotions on a much deeper level 01:12 They are less positive and optimistic 01:34 They are obsessed with being the best 01:58 They have sudden mood swings 02:31 They've started abusing drugs and alcohol 02:57 They're always out of it lately 03:30 They feel bad about asking for help 03:56 They always try to look or act happy
here's why I watch your channel: 1. I have Depression 2. Your awesome 3. my life has been not going well and everything is wrong Edit: oh I forgot 4 and here's 4: why is my life becoming a bruh moment
RealMiniMello, don’t worry it will be fine. Trust me. I have had to hide my depression for months and almost finally gave up. But I didn’t. I told myself it will get better, just wait. And it is, well kinda- All I’m saying is that you’ll get here. Don’t push yourself. It will get better.
Hi there, I have started a project on Instagram to promote mental health and creating a supportive community where everyone can freely talk about how they feel. It is called @lifestories0250 and I am trying to find stories of others at the moment. I would love if you could check it out and drop me a message with anything you might be feeling. It's hard to talk to others because we often feel like nobody understands but the reality is that so many of us go through the same feelings but struggle alone. Would be so happy to hear from you :)
I recall a really sweet and friendly guy who worked at a Starbucks years ago. He was the kind of person who always remembered your name, remembered what you liked, etc. Then one day, I heard he had committed suicide. I was stunned...and terribly sad. He was absolutely brilliant at hiding his depression.
I remember watched a short buzzfeed video similar to this. A visible depressed guys, doing his groundhog day routine. Always got a cheerful good morning from a coworker that brighten his day a bit. Feel so lonely till a woman coworker told him that our good-morning-guy just committed suicide.
My both parents suffered severe depression and I helped them put of it with all I could and now thankfully they're both healthy now. But the thing is I've been depressed since way longer but they never do anything about it. Instead they bash me with those problems saying I'm older enough to help then out or understand even though it has nothing to do with me. I sacrifice so much for them, materialistically or emotionally. But they don't even bother returning half the favor. I wonder if I'll ever be happy again.
The real question is why aren’t we all depressed? The reality is most of us are and that’s ok. Being forced to hide the pain is actually worse than the depression itself.
seriously, and so many people feel the need to pretend like its all okay, when really its something that needs acknowledged, and worked through. I just wish it weren't like that, and that people weren't ashamed of it, or made to feel they should be. as a society, we have a long way to go in making mental health an open topic, and less judged. people have it, and we need to be able to talk about it.it really is nothing to be ashamed of
I wont say I’m depressed because I saw someone said: “She’s depressed? Well no she’s not.She’s young she’s just overreacting.She’s just pretending.She needs attention thats why.They dont know what is depression haha”
Same my classmates also make jokes about people being depressed and doing it for attention but how am I doing it for attention when LITERALLY no one knows I’m depressed..
I just don't like to talk about how I am feeling with anyone, even if someone really wants to help,I just don't wanna talk,talking about it makes it real and it makes me sadder
Zesksaken Self diagnosing can be ok sometimes like when you are realizing you need help, I have self diagnosed depression and anxiety but I am trying to get a therapist to confirm. But there are certain things not to self diagnose such as DID and schizophrenia
After seeing all the comments, I can say that the 9th sign is: Mostly, depressed people are sarcastic or humorous. Sarcasm helps in expressing your actual feelings without getting the others concerned.
@@gracehettinger3980 plzz dont ever do tht agn !!! Call me fake or crazy whatever but it kills me!! Take care and if you ever feel lonely im here in this comment sect.I really recommend you the book you are a badass its empowering and good!! Stay away from toxic ppl and media..and throw thr frgn knives and blades use plastic forks..I dont know what exactly you hv gone through but i pray tht you will be more and more stronger!!! Take care Grace You are AWESOME !!!! 🌸
Im a guy who’s always quiet because I’m scared of being judged and always lonely and cry myself to most nights I feel like if I told someone they wouldn’t understand and laugh at me
I didn't have the same thing for me with school but since quarantine happened,i felt my friends become distant and I'm slowly starting to forget who i am and what i am here for. I sometimes cry but it's rare cause i got it in my head that i can't cry or i show weakness
I am the same. but also- I never want to go on vacations or anything because of anxiety. And depression is something I just have. I have visited no friends in quarantine while I just watch my brother go to his friends' houses. I had no friends that I visit before quarantine either. Probably why I've never been grounded in my life, there's no point.
This is the poem I wrote when i feel depressed: Oh, why I feel so empty inside? I wanna go far far away and hide Clean and swept away my troubled mind And the peace I hope I can surely find. Oh, dear life why you are so difficult? Why i feel like this is all my fault? I wanna escape the tormented past I had That keep taunting me and it really makes me mad. My mind is so messy, i just want to lay Keep my eyes close and sleep all day Thinking it is just a dream or bad fantasy Put it in my mind that it is not a reality. But, no matter how many times I lie at myself I ended up realizing it is real and not imaginary My messy world actually exists And my fantasy is no more in help.
I've felt like this for over a year and today I just told my friend how I feel she is trying to help me and she completely believes me I feel proud and brave because I am not a type of person tht likes to show my feelings
everyone thinks i’m the happiest person with an amazing life. i have an anxiety disorder, adhd, and got diagnosed with depression today. you never know what people are going through.. edit: thank you everyone for the amazing advice and kind words. this made me the happiest i’ve been in a while. thank you so much
when you decide to open up you’re labeled as “depressing” and avoided because people don’t want to deal with your depression 🙃this is why you don’t tell anyone
Personally I thought this would happen a lot more than it actually has. It might have to do with different surroundings as well, but I haven’t had anyone ghost me because I’ve told them about my mental health. Most of the time people are actually very supportive, telling me I can always text them if I need someone to talk to. Take into consideration that it could just be you’re negative outlook on a situation that makes you think people would avoid you, instead of a rational train of thought (that’s what happened with me).
Don't worry there always someone who can make you happy again, believe me even though I'm also depressed, it's better to help someone because God can see it and when time comes God will grant you a reward
I stopped pretending I’m happy cause I realised they don’t see the difference anyways. My mom insists I should go to the church and I’ll immediately see there’s nothing wrong with me and my life... Spoiler alert: it didn’t work
@@camisk1305 I hope so much that you'll be okay. All of you, who are struggling with such terrible things. The fact that "maybe someone has it worse" doesn't mean you don't have it bad or that you have no right to feel bad. If you feel bad, sad, if you're depressed, you deserve to feel like that. You're not doing it only for attention. You deserve to show it. And others should accept it and help you as much as they can. (Maybe you find this stupid, but that's what I really think and maybe it'll help someone at least a bit to hear it...). You have the right to feel bad. But I'm thinking about you, praying for you and hoping it'll get better.
Depression is also an emotion that we possess for a reason. People should retain the natural right of suicide as it could be one’s only relief from “suffering”.
My depression feels like anger and rage in my chest. I feel it in my temples. I am high functioning and work multiple jobs, more than full time student, and tend to be a very outwardly positive person. I hate asking for help. I just feel so angry and I recognize it so I actively try not to react in a major way. I just cry because I'm frustrated and don't want to be mean. Selfishly, I hope other people can relate. If you do. You aren't alone. I'm sorry you feel this way. I am sending good energy your way.
"8 Signs Someone Is Secretly Depressed" Summary with time stamps: 1. They feel emotions on a much deeper level 0:40 2. They are less positive and optimistic 1:11 3. They are obsessed with being the best 1:33 4. They have sudden mood swings 2:00 5. They've started abusing drugs or alcohol 2:32 6. They're always out of it lately 2:57 7. They feel bad about asking for help 3:30 8. They always try to look or act happy 3:56 I recommend watching the video for more info and details. (also it would be nice if Psych2Go put these kinds of summaries along with time stamps in their description so that it would be easier to find what we are looking for if we don't have the time to rewatch the video).
My best friend always jokes about killing herself saying “I wish I could drown myself but I could swim”. Whenever she would do it she would just laugh.- I really need help on how to help her stop joking like that. Can anyone reply with advice? Edit: thank you guys so much for the advice, it really helped. I talked to her for a while, and she seems a lot better. :)
They don't take you seriously I'm sorry to say but if they were you're friends they will think this seriously not laugh bcoz the real friends will listen not talking
i have the same problem. i’ve even told my closest friends to stop, and they get mad and say “i’m just joking”. i hate it. just ask them to stop. if they dont, they’re not worth your time.
she is your friend and she probably is having a hard time expressing her feelings without joking around. i would confront her and ask her if she needs help or if there is anything you can do next time she makes one of those jokes.
if she is not dealing with depression then please tell her to use an alternative joke. if she has/had depression support her. if she continues the jokes and you still feel uncomfortable with the jokes after you have talked to her then just tell her you aren’t comfortable. if she is a true friend she will respect your comfort.
I tried coding to block it all out but it got me always stressed out and unable to focus on school anymore. I like knowing that I’m not alone but I’m going to miss you guys after I’m gone. Enjoy every moment of life while you can!
@@Serena0_0usai hi I'm David, I've read your previous comments on both your site's, I do understand, but I'm sad that both you & Petunia think that you have no one to confide in. There are a lot of people that do understand, mainly because we went through the same thing when we were your ages!! it's not an easy journey, but eventually you will pass through it, the reasons you both feel as you do are complex, & often manifest themselves differently in each individual, because you are all individuals! You are no longer children but young adults experiencing the same situations & emotions that full adults have to deal with. Love, breakups, death, bust ups with friends, you are having to cope with these without the necessary experience of how to deal with them, let's be honest many adults often can't handle these situations, what chance have you got to get it right every time. However do not bottle things up, talking about what concerns & stresses you out does help! You may need Professional help, you might not, but you both need to start the talking process without delay. Regards David.
It normally can be because of devices, the media sheds so much light on terrible things that too much consumption of this information can leave one under the weather without you even realising it. Id suggest going outside with a few friends and hanging out, youll see its a great break from it all. Sitting in the same room for hours on end doing the same things tends to strain the joy out of life, keep ya self occupied with new things lad.
My wife committed suicide. So many said "I had no idea she was suicidal, she was the light of the party and was always so happy". I knew she wasn't happy in reality. She would not accept any advice from me to seek counseling. Hard years for me. Dangerous years too.
It’s kinda sad that nobody is paying attention to the others to see if that’s a fake smile or something more because I’ve been through depression and i had this constant feeling that nobody cares about me but in the same time i felt like bothering everybody if I wanted to tell them what’s wrong. I am happy that i am better, the fact that i am not stressed anymore about school or about how i need to present myself at school helped me a lot too but the truth is my parents never knew about this and their attitude towards me was really bad and not supportive at all because they thought i was just acting up and that hurt me the most. Thank u for reading this tho🥰
People aren’t mind readers, and they do have their own lives to worry about. That’s the truth of the matter. It’s not that they don’t care, it’s that they don’t know. It’s not that they’re selfish or ignorant, it’s that you tell them you’re “tired”, and because they don’t want to see someone they love hurting, they believe it.
@@katie5998 wrong. There IS a lot of people who just dont care. Ive been depressed since I was around 15 and today Im 39 and Ive had time to know different people. The ones who really care will notice. And suddenly you get a call when you least expect Just because someone felt like cheering you up. And there are the ones who will demand why you are not paying attention or putting you down because you are wearing an old shirt to go to the coffee shop without actually bothering to notice you just feel too bad about yourself to care for your own appearance. And I Just felt like I was too especific 😆😆😆😆
Yea my parents say it's that phone and it's cause your hurting inside and my mom said that my dad is C H E A T I N G and I cried like why would a "father" do that and my sis helped me get better but Im still hurting inside but I gotta start sleeping at 10pm cause I have school at September 8 and yea I'm fine for now.....
I want to tell my perents that I'm depressed but I think they will say= "there's nothing to be depressed of or you can't be depressed you have a great life "
hi :) this is random but I just wanna share my problem to someone who can understand me because my family and friends won't. You're also in this video so I think you can listen to me and understand me. So I always feel sad for no reason and constantly crying because of the pain and worries on my head, and I dont even know what im worrying for, I spent most of my time in my room and my family thinks Im a lazy person, I'm actually not lazy, I just want to have a peaceful day so thats why Im always in my room. I always feel tired but I can't sleep. Thats so hurt, I can't sleep because Im thinking of a problem that I dont even know what it is. But I never tell my family nor my friends about this because I know they're gonna think Im just being dramatic so I just act fine in front of them. I think Im still strong cuz I never feel about suicide cuz I know its not how we stop this thing, I just wanna live a happy life with my family and not thinking about any problems at all, I hope my dream will come true one day. If you're going through the same thing I hope we'll get out of this feeling one day. Stay strong ✌
My family sucks and dont give a fuk,they were the ones who gave me every disorder I have right now including skin picking disorder,anxiety,depression and just a few moments ago Im emotionally wounded!! Woah so fun 10 out of 10
Its really sad to see this comment section....i can relate to you guys but not anymore bc i was healed... by someone who really loves you guys! you may not believe in me but God, demons, angels really do exist and they are constantly around us, you guys are effected by demons ( believe me i see and heard them before) if not by other problems, if you wanna ask why God doesn't help you guys then i must say because you didnt find him yet but he is still there waiting for you guys to let him in your life, blessing you guys in ways you yourself cannot tell or see. So what i am saying is God loves you guys, and know you more than anyone, he is always there watching you guys ( not in a creepy way) he feels your pain, so turn to him and all will be good. It is okay if you guys dont believe in me, if you dont here is a little virtual hug for you guys! :> you guys are not worthless you have the right to ask for help thats why there is other humans >:D im very proud that you lovely humans did not get defeated and still kept going on with your lives! THANK YOU! THANK YOU FOR EXISTING! I LOVE YOU GUYS, im always here for you guys ask me questions if you want or just let out your anger on me i wont get mad :3 wish you guys the best! God bless!
I honestly think my sister is depressed. She doesn’t talk to anyone in my family, she just stays in her room and isolates herself. She constantly says she hates how she looks and her hormones aren’t helping the situation. She isn’t eating and is loosing weight so fast. I just found out she has to go to the hospital and im so fucking scared for her🥺
𝖊𝖎𝖘𝖍𝖆 don’t worry she has anorexia which is when the brain tells the body “ your fat ugly and stupid” so the brain drives them to starve themselves to death...Literally
True.. Same with me.. But who told me , knew me better.. I said to another one that My studies are not going well nowadays.. Same reply.. He even knew me.. I expected something else.. It hurts.. I just replied like hm, .. Ok.. I should silent my phone and keep it in another room during this.. Sometimes it's like don't tell others..
The last 2 really resonate with me, I have an anxiety disorder and when no one knew, I try to send subtle hints that I am suffering to my friends. I also acted cheerful and happy all the time and felt embarrassed to cry, I only cried when I was alone
You’re not depressed unless you’re actually prescribed and diagnosed as depressed, If A doctor has not told you you were depressed and then you are not maybe you’re just really sad maybe if you want to talk we can
@@misatoholic Oh my gosh!! Chill!! I was only saying most of them apply to me!! Plus, you have no idea what has been happening in my life, so just leave me alone!! My god
I just feel lazy. Lazy to get out of bed. Lazy to get dress. To eat, to shower, go to work, to drive. I feel extremely tired of everything everyday. There isn't something I am doing to make me feel this way. But there is nothing that is bothering me also... I just feel tired 24/7. I think I may be depress.
I'm not suicidal, but I see this as the most logical and fitting statement ever. "No one commits suicide because they want to die, they just want the pain to stop."
Do you know anyone who might relate to this video? Do you mind sharing this with them? We feel that the more awareness that we can build around the topics of depression, the more lives we can potentially reach. If you did, that would mean a lot. Also, we did a video on things to avoid when depressed: th-cam.com/video/lHYo8YvhgkM/w-d-xo.html
Yes, multiple of my close friends. One of them is professionally diagnosed.
Yeah, me.
Thank u so much was waiting for this vidio
Why can't I just get help..?
Me
it’s easier to fake a smile than explain why you’re sad. i don’t think people know how hard it is to explain something that you don’t understand yourself.
Basically... yes
Yes that and most people don't really care. A lot of people will simply tell you "it gets better" and "you'll be fine".
this is true :(
Amen to that
Because even your own parents will just trash you for being depressed and dismiss it like nothing. *So there's only 1 option left.*
"The worst part about having a mental illness is that everyone expects you to act like you don't"
- Arthur Fleck/Joker
Its true mam :(
@@carelessislanders
mam?
@@Pupuh sir?
@@carelessislanders I think you meant ma'am
I think this is the only joker quote that is used correctly and not in a weird cringy way
1. They feel emotions on a much deeper level
2. They are less positive and optimistic
3. They are obsessed with being the best
4. They have sudden mood swings
5. They started abusing drugs or alcohol
6. They’re always out of it lately
7. They feel bad about asking for help
8. They always try to look or act happy
there is always that one guy who sends the summary of the videos this youtube channel posts. This is really helpful btw.
Thanks ❤
Ed Paz It is very helpful yes but sometimes I wish you could make a comment non visible unless you tap on it because sometimes I scroll through the comment section while watching the video and then I see one of these comments and it kind of spoils it. :
Well GREAT.
tks so much
There was a boy I liked very much, and I know he has depression. He always makes cynical, nihilistic jokes, and I worry about him sometimes...He pushed me away because I developed feelings for him, and he did it quite abrasively. It really devastated me. But deep down, I really hope he is alright. He is so smart, and has such a great future ahead of him
hopefully his alright, and u too
Idk if it is too late but what I want to hear from others is just something normal like -
Hey let's both have fun together
Or You are really special to me or just somehow make him feel that he is important to at least someone.... Also if you have even the slightest feeling that he likes you back then don't give up .I understand him pushing you away cause he might feel that if you come in his life n he does something wrong it will make you sad too n its the worst feeling but if you really stay by his side n not leave eventually he might give up on pushing you outside his world...Plus for a depressed person its the best feeling when someone does not give up for them n they most probably feel that now they can't give up so easily too...
Well it's only my point of view of how I want others to treat me and I'm not sure if it'll work but I really hope you luck...
He’s protecting you from himself
Be careful and don’t try to force your feelings on him. He also might be an asexual/aromantic. Show him friendly support, let him know that even if he doesn’t share your feelings you’re still his friend and always ready to help. To some depressed people (I’m not talking about all of them) relationships are quite a scare, and a bother. If he doesn’t want that kind of relationship try to understand him and be friendly
i feel like im depressed but at the same time i feel like im overreacting
you can have some hints about it in this channel, try to recgnise what you are feeling and how long you have been this way
if you know a little of what depression is and feel you might have it, it's not something to ignore, it's a big deal of how you are living
I found out I was depressed only after feeling good for some moments, enough to recognise that what i was feeling wasn't right. I got used to feel this way and forgot how I used to be, so being depressed was fine, 'normal'
but it's bad, and we don't always realize it (even close people might not notice)
Gabriella Martins Freire i can relate to almost most of the things i watch on this channel but idk no matter how much i can relate to it i don’t wanna self diagnose myself you know? plus i always be wrong 💀😭
Sometimes it's okay to self diagnose yourself when you're unable to find the resources to accurately diagnose you. If you feel you truly relate to a lot of the signs shown in these videos then perhaps you could have it without knowing it
I always feel like that maybe im just overreacting and i haVe no right to feel bad cuz other people who is around me was in worst situation than me.
I always keep thinking "What if I have depression...? But then what if I'm just overreacting...? Am I good in life or no...?"
"Its beacause of that phone."
"You're just sad."
"Stop being dramatic."
"Same."
Same
@@randomboss683 yeah u'r just being dramtic!!!
ITS BECAUSE OF THE FREAKIN ELECTRONICS IMMA TAKE IT ALL AWAY
Most Moms,since the beginning of electronics~~
Accuracy :)
same freaking thing
when you're depressed people think you're just lazy
that hit me on a different level
damn that hit hard---
My mum actually bought me a jacket that said lazy in big writing in the front when I was 16. She said “it’s just like you.” I did think I was very lazy until in my late 20s I realised I was just depressed the whole time.
Well yes but actually no
I can't like it's at 69 :(
Me realizing a TH-camr knows me better than my family and friends: 😱
Exactly and also better than anyone you try to talk .....
Same
It’s been a while since I realized it and it only makes it worse…
Really
🎯
"They feel bad about asking for help"
Now that hit in a personal level
I felt that too
@@mincy605 ikr
I don't ask for help bc of this and if I do I say sorry for bothering them.... so I get that
same, ive litteraly tried... but something always stops me at the last second.
@@zuzkaholanova2220 ughhh I feel all of you guys
My mind: You're not depressed, you've just been having a bad day for the past 8 years
Your good day will start the moment you read this comment 😊. I pray for your healing and happy life. Om shanti 🙏🏼.
ikr! People would say its just a bad day, it would pass but it didnt and it wont 😢
@@melissaa4918 I recommend a supplement called SAM-e. It is a miracle. I have treatment resistant depression and always felt sad all day everyday with constant negative thoughts and had no motivation to do anything. Meds don't work for me. It also has no side effects for me. Please share this because people need to know about it. It took me a lot of digging. It's relatively cheap as well. About $20/month. It is the most prescribed medication in Europe and is a supplement in the U.S.
@@ankitakar7777 lol chill out she propably watches anime and listens to billie eyelash
Ikr this is exactly how it is and every time I try to say I think I’m depressed it’s either “don’t self diagnose” or “your just overreacting”
"Shy people are not noticed, yet shy people notice everything"
-quote
"I observe and remain silent"
- Elizabeth I
@@samuellorin984 ok?
THATS ME
Its Nats I’ll rather die
So true.
Thank you for the first cry I've had in months. It's good to feel again.
if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help.
the worst part of being depressed is no one actually believes you.
Im just being quite in school and i don't wanna tell my friend that i have depression,just sitting and do nothing :/
Edit: *Ah i want to end my life but shitty anxiety stuck in my head-*
Relatable I once tried to explain it to my friends and family but they started laughing at me called me lazy , a fool , stupid , loser , weird they said I am overreacting it's better to just keep quiet
I told my friends, but they didn't care..
I don't believe to myself.
Once, I've told my mom i need help
I'll never forget her eyes that day, she looked at me with disgust and shame. No wonder even i laugh at my pain
am your new mom
Im sorry about that also I like the name
lol*
I have also tried to tell my problem to mom but insted of helping me to get out of depression she told that" You should have died during your birth" I was really shocked to hear that.
@@dipanjaliborah6996 WTF, thats not normal at all .
Reading these comments I relate to one in particular.
“I sometimes feel like I have depression but I don’t want to self diagnose myself because then I think, oh I’m just overreacting. People have it way worse than I do. I’m fine. Everything is good. Even though I know it isn’t.”
Is that a problem?
yes
Anuj 6000
Oh. Well I guess it be like that ya know?
Yes
I don't want to self-diagnose either but someone decided "Hey, let me make fun of her for the way she dresses (baggy clothes), she wants to be emo!"
Her exact words: "So you self-diagnosed yourself with depression and anxiety? Haha, that's great!"
@@iterashai to who ever said that tell me their address I'll go there and have a chat ( first part joke ) but seriously ppl tell me that all the time don't listen to them
I have had friends (back in 2011) & family members whom I’ve spoken to about events/situations/emotions, and I’ve always heard the same response, “everyone has gone through this”, but not in the way I see/feel. I now have a new set of friends that I feel more fulfilled with happiness, because they understand the struggles I go through. With my family, it’s been very difficult for me to even approach them about such matters, due to years of hearing that statement. It’s not even me pushing them away, but rather whatever I’d say doesn’t matter. It really saddens me that my own family does not see the struggles that I go through when I seek help, to the point where I don’t feel like I’m progressing in life.
I’m not sure if I’m alone on this, but it sure hurts like thousands of needles piercing my heart.
yeah mate, you're not alone in this.
I dont think I have been depressed, but I do understand the sadness of close people not seeing that you sturggle and stuff
But the best thing you can do is talk to them about the problems and stuff, because if you dont the things bottle up and get worse or something, thats what my psychologist said, but what does she know anyways
Drink water mate
*God, seeing all these depressing comments about their parents saying the whole depression thing is just a phase and stuff make me feel disgust that parents are really that blind.*
Its because they're teens, they overreact alot
Sometimes parents dont always have the tools or the know how , to deal with these issues and as a result of that they fear what they do not know and attempt to avoid the seriousness of it becaise they feel helpless.
xXKatPlayzXx I feel like I have depression and axietiety but I’m only 10 and I don’t wanna tell my mum or dad cuz I know they’ll be like “ your to young to be depressed” “ oh your being dramatic”
@@neddynedstar1060 I just hate people like you I bet when you were young you felt the same,saying that just shows how little empathy you have. DO NOT respond to this in anyway that continues on with what you said, just let yourself think about how you once were depressed.
Abort the parents
For the person who's in a hurry:
• They feel emotions on a much deeper level
• They are less positive and optimistic
• They are obsessed with being the best
• They have sudden mood swings
• They've started abusing drugs and alcohol
• They're always out of it lately
• They feel bad about asking for help
• They always try to look or act happy
bless your soul
@@neva_ssorts6110 thanks❤
*this needs more likes*
@@msmventures799 thanks❤
Make this the top comment
I’d guess that most people aren’t watching this for another person, but for themself.
and
Not really but all 8 traits legit just described me and like wtf maybe I should go see a doctor or somethibg
I need hekklp
Help*
Ahrceon these don’t mean you’re depressed
This just answered so many questions I had about myself, especially crying over small things.
The sad thing is most people don't really care if you're secretly or visibly depressed..they only care about how sad their own lives are
Well on the Internet or just telling someone randomly it kind of seems like you’re just doing it for attention even though you might be actually depressed you should talk to a therapist you should just ask for other people
That’s not true. I care and we can talk if you want.
@@misatoholic dude chill I don't have depression.. I'm speaking for the people who do have it
@@ijustwanttosleepnow you're really nice ^^ I hope you'll be there for people who need you 💜
I agree with Baldwin. I help my friends who are upset at times though I care little about myself.
Me : " maybe I am actually depressed?"
Other me : *sarcastically* " oh. Dear. What. A. Pity. Never mind. "
Same tbh
Lmao you said oh dear I read this in piglets voice from Winnie the Pooh 😂
I read the other half in Chandlers voice lmao
Other me: "You are a horrible person, whose death shouldn't be mourned. That exactly what they said. Very honest. Very clear.
Oh, and they also said that they weren't your friends all along, because how unlikeable you are.
Unlikeable - liked by no one. Bitter, salty, ugly unlikeable loner. Who will die alone.
...
Good job by the way. Maybe your skeleton will be stood at museum as an example of very poorly build human. Don't be upset. At least they wouldn't able to see your face. That is very good news for them, they eyes wouldn't be damaged by your... good not good look.
...
Congratulations, now you know why most of your "friends" wear sun glasses, every time when they meet with you. Ha ha."
Me: *want to do something and trying*
Other me: "It isn't brave. It's murder ... of your self-esteem leftovers.
...
I don't mind of your business but if it were me, I will leave that thing alone. Stand still and think about it.
...
Well, i must confess, that I am kind of impressed by your stubbornness... and fatness.
...
Where are we even now? Can you stop?
...
Why just not give up? STOP TRYING. IT WON'T WORK. YOU ARE NOT SMART. YOU ARE NOT ERUDITE. YOU AREN'T SPECIAL.
Well... maybe special... sort of... ha ha."
“They feel bad about asking for help”, that hit me in another level
Do you need help? heres a hug lovely human :3 tell me about it if you want >u
@@daycc9913 thank youu it’s just I feel that if I ask for help that I’m asking for a lot, and I feel bad or embarrassed when I ask for help but I don’t know why, and I know people are willing to lend help when I need it but I feel I’m asking for too much so I keep everything to myself :(
@@keishasmith2067i can relate but, you have to remember that you are not worthless you have the right to call out for help we are all equal no one is lower or higher, and theres many people out there who loves to help out people cause it help them feel happy you know :> you are not a perfect you dont have to hide your weakness we humans are weak anyways, if someone ask me to help them i would feel honored! so dont be embarrassed! >:D
@@daycc9913 thank you 🥰
@@keishasmith2067 no problem 😎💞💗 have an great day!
"You just want attention"
"Your faking"
"I have depression you dont"
That last one sounds like a covert narcissist
Living in a body that wants to live,
With a mind that wants to die
I'm sick of this world
🔥
Same!!
Me too bro
Same.
same it hurts
“Does this bring anyone to mind?”
*Myself*
Do you need help buddy? heres a hug :3 tell me if i can do anything that will make you feel better :D
@@daycc9913 awww thank you 😊
@@llleau no problem uwu, have an great day lovely human >:3
Exactly
Thats me
Parents will just think you’re acting up.
Send them this vid...
They thought I just want attention and it's all just drama I make but I'm good
Fr my mom doesn't care she just think I'm being a "bitch". In her own words. I can't wait to move out.
Yeah
@@stanfatou2002 I understand. My mom and I in a conversation two days ago.
"There's this quote that goes 'inside every anarchist is a failed dictator.' "
"Inside every anarchist is what?"
Louder I said, "A failed dictator."
"What about them?"
"That's the quote, mom!"
"Alright, why are you so pissy with me?!"
I wish I was kidding.
Several teardrops rolled down my face 😥 during the end of the video.Thank you so much for uploading this 🙏🏻
“Mum I get bullied”
‘Then make friends’
“I have no friends”
‘Then talk to them’
“Mum I feel sad”
‘Give me your phone’
“Mum I have no friends now”
‘Then talk to someone, that’s how you make friends’
“I’m depressed and I have anxiety”
Everyone : ‘same’ or ‘your dramatic’
I can DEFINITELY relate to the last one
Let's be honest. 99% of people want to die. Some more than others. And for different reasons.
Silly woman you should decompose
@@dalerjonkurbonov2349 same
I'm really sad right now
Me: *clinically depressed and grieving*
Parent: “you’re lazy” “it’s cause of that phone” “get off the phone”
Edit: Everyone I love you please take care of yourselves. Sending love to all of you and remember that you’re worth it and I love you and that everything will hopefully be okay one day. Have to keep telling myself that too which isn’t easy to apply but the fact that we are still alive even from constant battle going on inside our heads, means we’re all strong. For my things personally i can’t remove my mental illness cause it’s a trauma from seeing death and it’s pretty complicated but it still falls in the depression category because of how I feel so even on anti depressants the trauma won’t go away which is normal but whatever you’re going through pls know that you’re not alone and that it’s temporary. The thing that helped me cope with my mental illness was to talk to my parent or text my friends or research on mental illness and comment (just like this comment haha) and sometimes talking to other people going through that same thing as me. So if you’re feeling like that please talk to someone about it. Could be a family member a friend or a specialist it’s still gonna help and you’re gonna feel better. Remember that you are loved. Take care❤️
then they take your phone and you get even more lonely and depressed and they wonder why
Yasssss! I grieve over my friends fighting over me and my parents think "You spend to much time textin" when I'm really trying to think of something to say to stop the fighting..
Yasssss! I grieve over my friends fighting over me and my parents think "You spend to much time textin" when I'm really trying to think of something to say to stop the fighting..
That is so my parents. They take my phone and then they are like “Stop being dramatic and get a life YOU DONT HAVE DEPRESSION!!”
Well got my phone taken it’s not the phone its the person but see i ain’t say nun 😗
Sadness is an emotion
Depression is a mental-illness
[ • DELETED • ] IKR, it’s getting irritating. You can’t just realize it all of a sudden..
So i guess i have smilling depression
How about both are not feel and fake?
Correct things to be considered my friend
It's too often that people confuse the two and it kinda pisses me off
"You just want attention"
"You don't have depression"
"It's just hormones"
"People have it worse"
"You're just being dramatic"
I get told this when I tell anyone. I can only trust one true friend with this. Everyone else thinks I'm a happy bubbly person. I'm not suicidal, but i do get thoughts that I don't belong on this world. That I'm not good enough to be alive. My insomnia doesn't help, as I get no more than an hour of sleep each night at most. I ask for help and no one offers help. So I stop asking. No one can see my true emotions. No one can see I'm not happy and perfect. No one can see that I don't think I 'm good enough. That my mask hurts to wear more and more each day. That every day I'm living less and just going through the motions more and more. Because if I show this i become a failure, and that's my biggest fear.
Same bro.
I can totally relate, except its not anyone else telling me those things. its me telling myself those things. but hey, feeling that way doesn't make you a failure. im sorry that no one helped you when you asked for it, and if it makes you feel better you can always comment here and im sure someone will help.
Or like my mom said when she seen my cut wrists "you have no reason to be depressed ", or" I buy you everything you want you should be the happiest kid on earth " or even " you got so lazy over the pass few years" etc
Me: mom I think I have depression and anxiety.
mom: "it’s because you’re always on that phone."
Same with me even I watch phone for about 2 hours
*We only have phones so we can distract ourselves from reality.*
i agree with ur mom
don't listen to them, you are brave for telling someone about it :D
It's actually possible, since people can attack you on the internet
depressed people dont seek help because they are afraid of getting ignored
GABand GIO I’m afraid that I’m all making this up and that I’m an attention seeker. I hate bothering others with my problems so I just tend to shut them away and keep a smile on my face, although that smile ain’t real.
Yeah, I’m afraid of being rejected or denied help, because my dad will day, “oh it’s in your head”. “Just don’t be sad.” Thanks dad, maybe I’ll try that when it’s possible
Trust me, you will be ignored
GABand GIO and because when we do weve been ignored and put down to many times
ikr.. I’ve noticed most “happy people” or the “therapist friend” are usually the ones who have suicidal thoughts or are depressed. Which is really sad..
90% of the comments:
“It’s all about that phone”
@Sebbo h wut?
Sebbo h say sike
Sebbo h yeah it’s not true it’s all because of a phone lol it’s usually because of the parent which then can be broken down even more.
Sebbo h oHH I THought u were disagreeing lol
or: you have too much time to be depressed
or: it's because you watched movies about depressed people and now you exaggerate and think you are depressed too. I haven't seen you sad for years
"You will never understand the pain of ignorance until you experience it yourself"
Me:I'm depressed
My brain:bruh your faking deppression for attention
@Ony Dupuy i don't know maybe yes maybe no
@Ony Dupuy that’s a terrible thing to say without knowing the other person.
same
Same,I'm just gonna say I'm not depressed cuz
Cuz
it’s easier to fake a smile than explain why you’re sad is the truth. life is weird.
It is because society is constructed that way. Even if you think about the question: how are you. A question that is asked to indicate politeness and showing that you care superficially about the other. The answer that is taught to people from a young age is always: good. We are instructed to act as if everything thing is fine, because that is acceptable.
Not when u have friends.
It’s actually easier to speak out most of the time.
Very easy to fake a smile and I only have to do it for the rest of my life😔
@@shadevi how are you is my most hated question to be honest
Me: I think i have depre-
My brain: no you don't, don't self diagnose. You're just looking for attention
I can relate my brain always tells me that I am overreacting 🙄
I told someone I think I have depression once, my brain started to think that don’t self diagnose they are going to think you just want attention
Romero villajuan?
I got that all the time, but I finally got the nerve to tell my best friend. She deals with this kinda stuff too, and right now she’s helping me to try and tell my family.
Well I also told myself not to self diagnose a few years ago but it’s gotten to the point where I am definitely depressed and also suicidal.
“Does this bring any one to mind?” Yea me.
LOLLL FR
When I told my mom about my mental health, she responsed: “I don’t understand. How can you feel depressed when you don’t have anything to worry about?” 🙂
Same
That's how my mom would respond too...
Well I mean if you have everything handed to you meaning privilege I could see your mom's view
thats how i think anyone would react if i told them im not happy
@@tahliajohns5906 I can relate that :((
Main Keywords :
“ it’s that stupid phone “
“ stop answering me “
“ go read a book “
“ you need to study more “
“ I’m the only one who will love you “
You are smart hhahaha my friend :)
Okay now mine :
*me overthinking all day and being anxious and not wanting to talk*
Mom: WHAT IS WRONG WITH U IM DONE OF YOU ALWAYS WITH YOUR GRINNY FACE SMILE OR TALK DONT BE LIKE THAT ARE YOU AUTISTIC OR CRAZY ???!!!! (This literally happened today)
Sorry mom I’m just sad today and don’t feel like talking. I’ve lost my reason to smile or be excited. I’m trying, trust me I’m trying to change myself, to smile more, to be all joyful but... I can’t.
‘Go read a book’
‘Your reading too much’
👁👄👁 wh-what do you want me to do mom?
yxnna time to take out mine
“it’s that damn phone”
“How are you depressed, what do you have to be depressed about?”
“You aren’t stressed”
“Don’t say ok when I talk to you” (Bish what? I say alright and she still flips out)
“You are being dramatic”
“Go read”
“You’re stupid”
(And so on and so forth 🙃 )
Oh and also
-puberty
-its part of growing up
“Is there anyone that comes to mind?”
Of course I know him, he’s me
Hi E E, I have started a project on Instagram to promote mental health and creating a supportive community where everyone can freely talk about how they feel. It is called @lifestories0250 and I am trying to find stories of others at the moment. I would love if you could check it out and drop me a message with anything you might be feeling. It's hard to talk to others because we often feel like nobody understands but the reality is that so many of us go through the same feelings but struggle alone. Would be so happy to hear from you :)
@@a4dio580 You don't know him so you don't know what he feels. So don't pick on people who had enough courage to tell other people what wrong.
I laughed at this thanks 💕
made my day
That is the first thing I said OUT LOUD when that was said.
*”Is there anyone that comes to mind?”*
My exact words:
*”I obviously know one, Me!”*
ive never told someone im depressed for 3 years, and now im so broken i cry anytime anywhere and i cant control it
I think it’s been five years for me. Opposite story for me. I can’t feel emotions actually. It’s always emptiness. I hate it.
I've been cutting myself for years and whenever I'm at school I get asked are you OK and every time I do I end up breaking down bc I feel like if I talked to someone they wouldn't listen or would just thing I'm an attention seeker.
A friend once told me this
People lie about depression, abuse and pain
While the people who really need help just stay quiet
**realization**
They are right.
Yes
Totally true 🥺
so true 🥺
(also im your 99th like)
This mindset is dangerous, if someone is really depressed and speaks up you would not believe that person. Right? Stop it.
My depression: exists
My phone: exists
My mum: COiNcIdenCe? I ThINk nOt!
That hurts 🔪🔪
Me: cries because i had a bad day
My dad: Too much playstation there buddy.
This is a joke ok😁
This hits on a personal level
well, if you do spend a lot of time on your phone being on social media, then yeah it kinda makes sense..
@@ruluked3473 well, for me, i don't have interest in social media. I only use youtube XD. People is agressive. That can also cause depression, at least in rare cases.
Does anyone else ever just cry for no reason. Like you know you have friends who care and you know you matter but you just feel so alone for no reason at all? It makes me feel like I’m overdramatic and I tell myself that I should be happy because I have more than I need and so many others have it so much worse. But then again I feel like I have it too good and don’t deserve as much as I have. Does this happen to anyone else?
Edit: WOW I genuinely didn’t know so many people felt the same way I do. This actually makes me feel a whole lot better... If any of you guys want a friend to talk to ill give u my discord :)
Yes! I get the exact same feelings. And then I feel so selfish and worthless because I feel I have no reason to feel this way
100%
Oh yes. I think that's just part of being human in our current world. We all feel alone sometimes. I think the way we are so busy, fragmented, hostile, stressed, not to mention the impacts some must go through with racism, poverty, all the -isms... This world is not a healthy place. I think/hope that's part of what we're all realizing right now, and I hope the energy to keep at it, for ourselves and for future humans, will continue. 💗
Yeah, I feel that way a lot too. I also feel like a lot, if not all of my friends actually don't like me and just stick around because they feel bad. This may seem meaningless coming from someone like me, but know that you deserve all the friends you have and people love you. If you feel like you need someone to talk to, I can try to be here for you. You can dm me on Instagram if you have it and need to @jigglyjohn0. Theres no shame in asking for help if you're having a hard time. You can rant to me and ill listen. If not, that's cool too. I'm sorry you're struggling. If i could, i'd give you a big hug. Hang in there! I know you can make it through this! (p.s, I love your profile pic. Is that a pan flag? If so, i'm pansexual. Happy pride month!)
@ It's ok to not feel like talking about it. Please try not to beat yourself up about it! You have people to talk to because they care about you, and I bet you're an amazing person! Its not ungrateful to be lonely! Remember, there's no shame in asking for help, but if you don't want it, thats ok. If you want to rant to someone I can listen to you. (@jigglyjohn0 on Instagram, or if you want to contact me in another way just reply) If not, no pressure! Only talk if it will make you feel better. Theres nothing wrong with feeling or lonely, even when you feel like your feelings are not justified. You have every right to feel down, you don't need a reason. Its not selfish not to understand your emotions. I just want you to be happy. Hang in there!
I've been telling My parents about my issues and all they say is "why are you sad if you have everything you need" LIKE BRO
SAME bro when I was 11 and started cutting myself my mom was like "you have no reason to be depressed I buy you everything you want" and it's like have you ever thought that you might be the reason that I'm like this?
@@Iloveskibiditoiler yo i’m actually sorry what u have to go through.. i hope your doing okay now nd i’m sure everything will get better soon bro
My mind: "You're so dramatic, people have it way worse!"
"You deserve everything bad that's happening to you."
"You caused this for yourself."
wow i dont even know what to say. because i say those things to my self alot
That's someone else's voice, you've accepted as your own.
@@zs2302 that too
me too, i feel like i don't deserve anything good at all
the only person you cant just kill
Most parents will have the delusion: "My child is living under a roof, going to school, has something to eat and clean water to drink everyday! No way they can be depressed!"
Exactly my parents' words, I can't even- ._.
@@ledith5025 oml same!
They'll never understand....
This should be the top comment
Parents also have the delusion that it is always the child who is wrong and inferior in every conversation
I swear TH-cam knows me better than most of the people I have known for years
Roselita IKR! It’s kinda sad and scary.
@@YuukiMarvellGames-Art Scary?
@@YuukiMarvellGames-Art Yet it's also kinda hopeful... if most real people don't care enough to understand me, at least AI does :) Can't wait to have AIs that are capable of real conversations.
I think so too
Same
00:41 They feel emotions on a much deeper level
01:12 They are less positive and optimistic
01:34 They are obsessed with being the best
01:58 They have sudden mood swings
02:31 They've started abusing drugs and alcohol
02:57 They're always out of it lately
03:30 They feel bad about asking for help
03:56 They always try to look or act happy
here's why I watch your channel:
1. I have Depression
2. Your awesome
3. my life has been not going well and everything is wrong
Edit: oh I forgot 4 and here's 4: why is my life becoming a bruh moment
Keep going , everything will be alright ❤️
Take things step-by-step, you'll definitely get through this, and one day you'll be happy. I believe in you🌺
You can do it . Iknow it's hard but i believe in you❤
Same here pal, same here.
RealMiniMello, don’t worry it will be fine. Trust me. I have had to hide my depression for months and almost finally gave up. But I didn’t. I told myself it will get better, just wait. And it is, well kinda-
All I’m saying is that you’ll get here. Don’t push yourself. It will get better.
"Does Anyone Come In To Mind?"
Hm...Reminds Me Of Myself.
Hi there, I have started a project on Instagram to promote mental health and creating a supportive community where everyone can freely talk about how they feel. It is called @lifestories0250 and I am trying to find stories of others at the moment. I would love if you could check it out and drop me a message with anything you might be feeling. It's hard to talk to others because we often feel like nobody understands but the reality is that so many of us go through the same feelings but struggle alone. Would be so happy to hear from you :)
*I shall join in the clubo*
Exactly..... Its none other than me myself..........
ME TOOOOOO
It reminds me of myself to.
...
(Exempt for the drinking part)
I recall a really sweet and friendly guy who worked at a Starbucks years ago. He was the kind of person who always remembered your name, remembered what you liked, etc. Then one day, I heard he had committed suicide. I was stunned...and terribly sad. He was absolutely brilliant at hiding his depression.
my heart literally dropped when you said he committed suicide. **sigh** you and the starbucks employees family have my blessing ❤✨
That’s so heartbreaking. I hope he gets peace. I sadly act like that.
😧
I remember watched a short buzzfeed video similar to this.
A visible depressed guys, doing his groundhog day routine. Always got a cheerful good morning from a coworker that brighten his day a bit. Feel so lonely till a woman coworker told him that our good-morning-guy just committed suicide.
@Green David I'm so sorry but which is thr video's name?
My both parents suffered severe depression and I helped them put of it with all I could and now thankfully they're both healthy now.
But the thing is I've been depressed since way longer but they never do anything about it. Instead they bash me with those problems saying I'm older enough to help then out or understand even though it has nothing to do with me. I sacrifice so much for them, materialistically or emotionally. But they don't even bother returning half the favor. I wonder if I'll ever be happy again.
You'll be happy one day indeed ☺️
You'll find that the future maybe exiting for you. Talk about it with some close friends
The real question is why aren’t we all depressed? The reality is most of us are and that’s ok. Being forced to hide the pain is actually worse than the depression itself.
So very true, it goes on alot in a lot of families.😑
seriously, and so many people feel the need to pretend like its all okay, when really its something that needs acknowledged, and worked through. I just wish it weren't like that, and that people weren't ashamed of it, or made to feel they should be. as a society, we have a long way to go in making mental health an open topic, and less judged. people have it, and we need to be able to talk about it.it really is nothing to be ashamed of
Because a "normal" part of human psyche is unrealistic optimism that keeps people going against odds
Kevin Peterson, yes honestly I think we should.
I like to cling to hope
I wont say I’m depressed because I saw someone said:
“She’s depressed? Well no she’s not.She’s young she’s just overreacting.She’s just pretending.She needs attention thats why.They dont know what is depression haha”
Punch ‘em
@@blmingwlf7142 yah ur right dude goood advice
Tell me who and I will personally tear out their gallbladder with my fingernails
Same my classmates also make jokes about people being depressed and doing it for attention but how am I doing it for attention when LITERALLY no one knows I’m depressed..
I feel like a karen said this
“Does this remind you of anyone?”
*looks in the mirror*
“No, no it doesn’t, I’m fine”
Maddie Myers don’t lie please I can see you are lying in your words please don’t 😢
I hope your ok and get help if you need it please
That’s dark... I hope ur ok if it’s actually true...
Maddie Myers yep, I hear ya! It does help me understand what is happening! Not saying it’s controllable!
This is so sad! *Play cock and ball torture advertisement.*
I just don't like to talk about how I am feeling with anyone, even if someone really wants to help,I just don't wanna talk,talking about it makes it real and it makes me sadder
"Depression is not wanting to die but wishing you were never born"
True so true
True espacially when gf betrays you
yes and when you think that if you were never born, life would be better for everyone else
oof. Yea, I think of how much better this world could have been if I never existed a lot
it could be both
Before video: "I wonder if any of my friends have depression."
After video: "I have depression."
I know I used to have depression and thought I was better but just felt sad sometimes. I guess I’m kind of in denial.
same
Same
Same here
Zesksaken Self diagnosing can be ok sometimes like when you are realizing you need help, I have self diagnosed depression and anxiety but I am trying to get a therapist to confirm. But there are certain things not to self diagnose such as DID and schizophrenia
After seeing all the comments, I can say that the 9th sign is:
Mostly, depressed people are sarcastic or humorous.
Sarcasm helps in expressing your actual feelings without getting the others concerned.
Bullshit
I think it's true. Then you can say what you want to say but letting it look like a joke.
@@iliketowatchvideos47 No. I did that when I was at my worst stage and cutting myself/crying every single night.
hence memes.
@@gracehettinger3980 plzz dont ever do tht agn !!! Call me fake or crazy whatever but it kills me!! Take care and if you ever feel lonely im here in this comment sect.I really recommend you the book you are a badass its empowering and good!! Stay away from toxic ppl and media..and throw thr frgn knives and blades use plastic forks..I dont know what exactly you hv gone through but i pray tht you will be more and more stronger!!! Take care Grace You are AWESOME !!!! 🌸
This brings so much pain. Remembering someone who was alive and cheerful then suddenly he took his own life. I cried
Im a guy who’s always quiet because I’m scared of being judged and always lonely and cry myself to most nights I feel like if I told someone they wouldn’t understand and laugh at me
Aww I'm sorry for you 😞. I understand what u mean. I went through the same
@Samuiz oof
I'm like this at school but now that its quarantine I feel a lot better than Before
I didn't have the same thing for me with school but since quarantine happened,i felt my friends become distant and I'm slowly starting to forget who i am and what i am here for. I sometimes cry but it's rare cause i got it in my head that i can't cry or i show weakness
I am the same. but also- I never want to go on vacations or anything because of anxiety. And depression is something I just have. I have visited no friends in quarantine while I just watch my brother go to his friends' houses. I had no friends that I visit before quarantine either. Probably why I've never been grounded in my life, there's no point.
This is the poem I wrote when i feel depressed:
Oh, why I feel so empty inside?
I wanna go far far away and hide
Clean and swept away my troubled mind
And the peace I hope I can surely find.
Oh, dear life why you are so difficult?
Why i feel like this is all my fault?
I wanna escape the tormented past I had
That keep taunting me and it really makes me mad.
My mind is so messy, i just want to lay
Keep my eyes close and sleep all day
Thinking it is just a dream or bad fantasy
Put it in my mind that it is not a reality.
But, no matter how many times I lie at myself
I ended up realizing it is real and not imaginary
My messy world actually exists
And my fantasy is no more in help.
To get rid of depprression do something satisfying like putting ur pencil in the eraser i always do that in school
Thanks for the poem ! Its incredibly relatable and kinda makes me feel better.......
Great love..! ✨ You are gonna be alright soon 💫
:0000 its beautiful
Im gonna cry write it on my nootebook and remember it forever il put thats it from the best person ever...now exuse me while i cry TNT
I've felt like this for over a year and today I just told my friend how I feel she is trying to help me and she completely believes me
I feel proud and brave because I am not a type of person tht likes to show my feelings
everyone thinks i’m the happiest person with an amazing life. i have an anxiety disorder, adhd, and got diagnosed with depression today. you never know what people are going through..
edit: thank you everyone for the amazing advice and kind words. this made me the happiest i’ve been in a while. thank you so much
I understand u
Finally then someone who doesn’t self diagnose
I hope things get better for you. You can get through this!
*oh yes*
You aren't alone ☀️
video: “does this bring anyone to mind?”
me: *looks at mirror* yes indeed
Stay strong my friend
Get out of my mind
...
same
I was literally just thinking that
when you decide to open up you’re labeled as “depressing” and avoided because people don’t want to deal with your depression 🙃this is why you don’t tell anyone
Personally I thought this would happen a lot more than it actually has. It might have to do with different surroundings as well, but I haven’t had anyone ghost me because I’ve told them about my mental health. Most of the time people are actually very supportive, telling me I can always text them if I need someone to talk to.
Take into consideration that it could just be you’re negative outlook on a situation that makes you think people would avoid you, instead of a rational train of thought (that’s what happened with me).
RETWEET
me in life rn. I feel like with quarantine everyone just got their own shit to deal with and if I tell them I'd just be bothering.
Very true. I lost three of my close peoples by telling them about me life problems. So this is 100% true for me that nobody wants a depressed friend.
This is real and this is the saddest. :(
me:having depression
everyone:*saying its a joke*
me:i guess im all alone...
Don't worry there always someone who can make you happy again, believe me even though I'm also depressed, it's better to help someone because God can see it and when time comes God will grant you a reward
@@noeporicallan7802 and where is this god when I needed help?
"I wasn't myself for months and nobody noticed"
They noticed but...............
All they noticed was that I was being dramatic and lazy
That hit a spot in my broken heart..
same!
WHAT THE HECK PEOPLE!??
I haven't been myself for 7-8 years and now nobody even remembers the old me
@@CrimsonRain626 Then you try being more yourself and people notice *that* making you clam up, again... Or maybe that's just me.
"it's just your hormones"
"Your just an attention seeker"
"People have it worse"
There all things my family says to me.
(edit: I'm getting help)
I stopped pretending I’m happy cause I realised they don’t see the difference anyways. My mom insists I should go to the church and I’ll immediately see there’s nothing wrong with me and my life...
Spoiler alert: it didn’t work
@@lianhua09 I mean- yeah- I don't even usually try to hide my sadness anymore.
@@camisk1305 I feel so... Bad for you :(
@@camisk1305 I hope so much that you'll be okay. All of you, who are struggling with such terrible things.
The fact that "maybe someone has it worse" doesn't mean you don't have it bad or that you have no right to feel bad. If you feel bad, sad, if you're depressed, you deserve to feel like that. You're not doing it only for attention. You deserve to show it. And others should accept it and help you as much as they can. (Maybe you find this stupid, but that's what I really think and maybe it'll help someone at least a bit to hear it...).
You have the right to feel bad. But I'm thinking about you, praying for you and hoping it'll get better.
@@camisk1305 Sending an online hug to wherever you are🤗😂
"Depression is a prison where you are both the suffering prisoner and cruel jailer."
- Dorothy Rowe
Depression is also an emotion that we possess for a reason. People should retain the natural right of suicide as it could be one’s only relief from “suffering”.
That's deep, man.
It's amazing how accurately true is this statement!
@Samir Dončić ma bit će to dobro aBd
@Samir Dončić istina
My depression feels like anger and rage in my chest. I feel it in my temples. I am high functioning and work multiple jobs, more than full time student, and tend to be a very outwardly positive person. I hate asking for help. I just feel so angry and I recognize it so I actively try not to react in a major way. I just cry because I'm frustrated and don't want to be mean. Selfishly, I hope other people can relate. If you do. You aren't alone. I'm sorry you feel this way. I am sending good energy your way.
"8 Signs Someone Is Secretly Depressed" Summary with time stamps:
1. They feel emotions on a much deeper level 0:40
2. They are less positive and optimistic 1:11
3. They are obsessed with being the best 1:33
4. They have sudden mood swings 2:00
5. They've started abusing drugs or alcohol 2:32
6. They're always out of it lately 2:57
7. They feel bad about asking for help 3:30
8. They always try to look or act happy 3:56
I recommend watching the video for more info and details.
(also it would be nice if Psych2Go put these kinds of summaries along with time stamps in their description so that it would be easier to find what we are looking for if we don't have the time to rewatch the video).
I've six signs
Thanks
Except 5 and 6 I have every sign
Thanks, you saved SO much of my time. Ugh. I gotta go, my dog wants attention.
I got six of them
Me: has depression
Parents: stop being dramatic
this is the reason i just dont talk crap anymore
Same
Oofy 😥😥
Same
@Christina Hu lol ty
My best friend always jokes about killing herself saying “I wish I could drown myself but I could swim”. Whenever she would do it she would just laugh.- I really need help on how to help her stop joking like that. Can anyone reply with advice?
Edit: thank you guys so much for the advice, it really helped. I talked to her for a while, and she seems a lot better. :)
They don't take you seriously I'm sorry to say but if they were you're friends they will think this seriously not laugh bcoz the real friends will listen not talking
i have the same problem. i’ve even told my closest friends to stop, and they get mad and say “i’m just joking”. i hate it. just ask them to stop. if they dont, they’re not worth your time.
she is your friend and she probably is having a hard time expressing her feelings without joking around. i would confront her and ask her if she needs help or if there is anything you can do next time she makes one of those jokes.
@@emyshane368 I think you misread the comment the friend is the one saying the suicide jokes
if she is not dealing with depression then please tell her to use an alternative joke. if she has/had depression support her. if she continues the jokes and you still feel uncomfortable with the jokes after you have talked to her then just tell her you aren’t comfortable. if she is a true friend she will respect your comfort.
I tried coding to block it all out but it got me always stressed out and unable to focus on school anymore. I like knowing that I’m not alone but I’m going to miss you guys after I’m gone. Enjoy every moment of life while you can!
@[ honestly I’m not but it’s alright I’ll figure it out on my own
my problem: i'm too scared to open up, people might not understand or think as if im weird/overreacting
same
@@Serena0_0usai hi I'm David, I've read your previous comments on both your site's, I do understand, but I'm sad that both you & Petunia think that you have no one to confide in. There are a lot of people that do understand, mainly because we went through the same thing when we were your ages!! it's not an easy journey, but eventually you will pass through it, the reasons you both feel as you do are complex, & often manifest themselves differently in each individual, because you are all individuals! You are no longer children but young adults experiencing the same situations & emotions that full adults have to deal with. Love, breakups, death, bust ups with friends, you are having to cope with these without the necessary experience of how to deal with them, let's be honest many adults often can't handle these situations, what chance have you got to get it right every time. However do not bottle things up, talking about what concerns & stresses you out does help! You may need Professional help, you might not, but you both need to start the talking process without delay.
Regards David.
Petunia, please read my comments above. Regards David
@@theprehistoricpoet thank you sir
I won’t open up because I’m not sure who to trust I’ve already lost a friend who turned out to be fake
Video lady: does this bring anyone into mind?
Me: Yeah myself.
Youre not alone
I figured out i have depression now
I have like 5 of those
i feel like i have most of them, i can't remember a thing and recently started zoning out
Same.
Depression: *Exists*
Parents: *Blames it on things that are not related to depression/things that saves you from depression*
My family is like that
Me too
Did you seriously stereotype your own parents?
@@ruckuz4927 but that was his parents
DYANIMA How do you know?
When i told others im depressed they asked me if i actually knew the real meaning of depression and say what I'm going through is definitely not it .
Me: *I feel depressed*
Mum: “ITS BECAUSE OF THAT DAMN PHONE”
RIGHT AND SHE TOOK IT AWAY
Very true
Ok, Mr. Putin
@@srijaallu_ yes.
It normally can be because of devices, the media sheds so much light on terrible things that too much consumption of this information can leave one under the weather without you even realising it. Id suggest going outside with a few friends and hanging out, youll see its a great break from it all. Sitting in the same room for hours on end doing the same things tends to strain the joy out of life, keep ya self occupied with new things lad.
My wife committed suicide. So many said "I had no idea she was suicidal, she was the light of the party and was always so happy".
I knew she wasn't happy in reality. She would not accept any advice from me to seek counseling.
Hard years for me. Dangerous years too.
I’m really sorry, and I wish you the best 🙏 you can get through this
I don't know what to say. I'm so sorry! I hope you're okay and I hope she gets to heaven!
I am so sorry for your loss.... She is in a better place now..
I am so sorry brother!
I’m giving hugs to lots of people, you seem to need one:
*hugs*
It’s kinda sad that nobody is paying attention to the others to see if that’s a fake smile or something more because I’ve been through depression and i had this constant feeling that nobody cares about me but in the same time i felt like bothering everybody if I wanted to tell them what’s wrong. I am happy that i am better, the fact that i am not stressed anymore about school or about how i need to present myself at school helped me a lot too but the truth is my parents never knew about this and their attitude towards me was really bad and not supportive at all because they thought i was just acting up and that hurt me the most. Thank u for reading this tho🥰
People aren’t mind readers, and they do have their own lives to worry about. That’s the truth of the matter. It’s not that they don’t care, it’s that they don’t know. It’s not that they’re selfish or ignorant, it’s that you tell them you’re “tired”, and because they don’t want to see someone they love hurting, they believe it.
@@katie5998 wrong. There IS a lot of people who just dont care. Ive been depressed since I was around 15 and today Im 39 and Ive had time to know different people. The ones who really care will notice. And suddenly you get a call when you least expect Just because someone felt like cheering you up. And there are the ones who will demand why you are not paying attention or putting you down because you are wearing an old shirt to go to the coffee shop without actually bothering to notice you just feel too bad about yourself to care for your own appearance.
And I Just felt like I was too especific 😆😆😆😆
I hope getting you to 100 likes makes you feel better
Erika Fiore Nope a psychology can see you like that but not your friends
It’s because people don’t really care how u feel, we’re humans were heartless creatures
"Does this bring anyone to mind?"
"Of course I know him, he's me"
Me: (Depressed because of stress on jobs, exams, trauma, sadness, having no friends, and moving countries.)
Parents: *it's because of that damn phone*
C. Edith Herrera I JUST WANT TO-
Forget it,
Yea my parents say it's that phone and it's cause your hurting inside and my mom said that my dad is
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and I cried like why would a "father" do that and my sis helped me get better but Im still hurting inside but I gotta start sleeping at 10pm cause I have school at September 8 and yea I'm fine for now.....
I highly recommend this book called "Steps to Christ" this book really help me overcome depression, here's the link m.egwwritings.org/en/book/2017/toc
Every god damn time its "BeCaUsE oF tHaT pHoNe"
Western Parents, dude.
Most of us are depressed because we need someone who we can trust and talk to who really cares and understand's us .
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I would go to God
Yeah… no one
@@stqrbxbies9492 tbh there is someone , we just need to find them
@@ark1243 oh well I never thought about that.. but I bet there just going to make me mad so much.
I know I have friends and family, but sometimes I feel like I don’t have anyone to talk about what’s going on in my head.
I feel the same. Hugs
Same :x
It’s ok you are not alone there are others who know what you are going through
Same
Well I was like this before but then i started taking to stuff, to the sky to my reflection, then I feel much better
Pls dont call me crazy..
I want to tell my perents that I'm depressed but I think they will say= "there's nothing to be depressed of or you can't be depressed you have a great life "
Hunh...my parents dont even know what depression is........i just cant tell....anyone about it..........
My brain: im gonna tell my family
Me: no,no IM NOT GONNA TELL
hi :) this is random but I just wanna share my problem to someone who can understand me because my family and friends won't. You're also in this video so I think you can listen to me and understand me. So I always feel sad for no reason and constantly crying because of the pain and worries on my head, and I dont even know what im worrying for, I spent most of my time in my room and my family thinks Im a lazy person, I'm actually not lazy, I just want to have a peaceful day so thats why Im always in my room. I always feel tired but I can't sleep. Thats so hurt, I can't sleep because Im thinking of a problem that I dont even know what it is. But I never tell my family nor my friends about this because I know they're gonna think Im just being dramatic so I just act fine in front of them. I think Im still strong cuz I never feel about suicide cuz I know its not how we stop this thing, I just wanna live a happy life with my family and not thinking about any problems at all, I hope my dream will come true one day. If you're going through the same thing I hope we'll get out of this feeling one day. Stay strong ✌
@@finn6436 same
My family sucks and dont give a fuk,they were the ones who gave me every disorder I have right now including skin picking disorder,anxiety,depression and just a few moments ago Im emotionally wounded!!
Woah so fun 10 out of 10
@@finn6436 I'm the exact same 😔
Its really sad to see this comment section....i can relate to you guys but not anymore bc i was healed... by someone who really loves you guys! you may not believe in me but God, demons, angels really do exist and they are constantly around us, you guys are effected by demons ( believe me i see and heard them before) if not by other problems, if you wanna ask why God doesn't help you guys then i must say because you didnt find him yet but he is still there waiting for you guys to let him in your life, blessing you guys in ways you yourself cannot tell or see. So what i am saying is God loves you guys, and know you more than anyone, he is always there watching you guys ( not in a creepy way) he feels your pain, so turn to him and all will be good. It is okay if you guys dont believe in me, if you dont here is a little virtual hug for you guys! :> you guys are not worthless you have the right to ask for help thats why there is other humans >:D im very proud that you lovely humans did not get defeated and still kept going on with your lives! THANK YOU! THANK YOU FOR EXISTING! I LOVE YOU GUYS, im always here for you guys ask me questions if you want or just let out your anger on me i wont get mad :3 wish you guys the best! God bless!
I honestly think my sister is depressed. She doesn’t talk to anyone in my family, she just stays in her room and isolates herself. She constantly says she hates how she looks and her hormones aren’t helping the situation. She isn’t eating and is loosing weight so fast. I just found out she has to go to the hospital and im so fucking scared for her🥺
𝖊𝖎𝖘𝖍𝖆 don’t worry she has anorexia which is when the brain tells the body “ your fat ugly and stupid” so the brain drives them to starve themselves to death...Literally
Hope she gets better bub 💜
Omg be there for her!! I feel bad for u
Hope she feels better
Lunatic Moonlight I think jaiden animations had it watch her “why i don’t have a face reveal”
I told someone I was depressed and they asked me how many hours a day I use technology.
are people really that dumb what is with people thinking that fr
Ok then
*_all you had to do is stop using the damn phone CJ!_*
True.. Same with me.. But who told me , knew me better.. I said to another one that My studies are not going well nowadays.. Same reply.. He even knew me.. I expected something else.. It hurts.. I just replied like hm, .. Ok.. I should silent my phone and keep it in another room during this..
Sometimes it's like don't tell others..
Your name is very, familiar
The last 2 really resonate with me, I have an anxiety disorder and when no one knew, I try to send subtle hints that I am suffering to my friends. I also acted cheerful and happy all the time and felt embarrassed to cry, I only cried when I was alone
The fact that most of these apply to me slightly scares me
You’re not depressed unless you’re actually prescribed and diagnosed as depressed, If A doctor has not told you you were depressed and then you are not maybe you’re just really sad maybe if you want to talk we can
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꧁GalaxyKitten 75꧂ please delete this comment your like nine judging by your content. You don’t know what anyone’s going through so please stop
@@misatoholic Oh my gosh!! Chill!! I was only saying most of them apply to me!! Plus, you have no idea what has been happening in my life, so just leave me alone!! My god
@@forbiddenrice-iu4jy xD yup
I just feel lazy. Lazy to get out of bed. Lazy to get dress. To eat, to shower, go to work, to drive. I feel extremely tired of everything everyday. There isn't something I am doing to make me feel this way. But there is nothing that is bothering me also... I just feel tired 24/7. I think I may be depress.
I feel indifferent
Same
I'm not suicidal, but I see this as the most logical and fitting statement ever. "No one commits suicide because they want to die, they just want the pain to stop."
True
“Does this bring anyone to mind?”
Yes myself. Obviously
Yeah