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Don't marry, at least for the sake of your parents. Todays girls are not made for marriage. One more thing: Jo baap apne beti se 30-35 saal naukri karwa ke uske paise pe jeeta hai wo beti shaadi karwage apne damad ke paise bhi loot ta hai aur damad k ghar rehta hai aur damad ko uske parents se relation rakhne nahi deta. This is just another form of prostitution enforced by girl's parents. Ab to ye ladke ka gotra change karwane ka system le aaye hai. And those girls who are giving sex in exchange of some favours are already prostitutes.
Clarity of youth but you have limited charity so let us ask you why Congress could not get Gdp growth when the Congress were in power 65 years why India was behind Pakistan why when Modi govt came to power Pakistan and UK bankrupt
I am a girl, and really thankful for your video. And you're right sir. We men and women both have to make good community. Both are responsible for that.
I have always lived by the values and thought process. I have been called old school and everything. I don’t care. I know what’s the right thing to do. Thank u Guruji for making my own thought process 10 times stronger now. Thank u so much for making this video. It was long due.
इतनी गंभीर बात आप सोच रहे हैं और बिना गलत शब्दों को इस्तेमाल किए आप समाज में लड़के और लड़कियों को मार्ग दर्शन दे रहे हैं यह बहुत ही सुंदर बात है। आज की जनरेशन को यह समझ कर अल्पकालिक विवादों के विद्रोह स्वरुप में अपनी जिंदगी बर्बाद ना करते हुए पहिले से चली आ रही परंपराओं को मानते हुए उन्नति की ओर अग्रसित होना चाहिए।🎉
I thought the term "Body Count" was meant for the number of people killed or dead. Never knew it had multiple meaning. Excellent video sincerely meant for today's generation. Thank you guruji 🙏
What you are saying is 100% true sir. I was literally thinking..ke Thank God i have a Dad who told me this my whole life. And i was able to stay away from predators and womenizer guys. What you are doing is seriously noble for those girls who dont have a father in their life 🙏🙏🙏
I m a woman and I agree this . Nowadays girls are presenting themself infront of boys as if they are some sort of sweets. I feel very irritated when teenager girl change their whole attitude when any boy comes. Kya ho gya is generation ko?
You are doing samaj- seva sir. Y baate parents ko baccho ko smjhana chahiye. Bt shram aa jati h . Grt respect for you sir. May god bless you!! U r taking lots of risk being youtuber.
27 and still a virgin and dont even have boyfriend or any bad habits. But the problem of the society is such people like me are treated like behenji and people dont include us in any conversations, so some people take wrong ways in order to look cool.
Sir what you ve said is absolutely right . But one thing I don't like when you said "25 Tak shaadi karlo koi pati kitab nahi cheen Raha", i mean really?? You should ask any married woman, she will say it's tough because it is tough. & What about if the female is virgin & male has 3-4 body count , same thing applicable to women also. To isliye shaadi kar le ??? & Sir what about marital rape or all that adultery stuffs. You can't deny on that. It's not a solution to get married early, instead of this we focus on build our career then we will decide do it or not do it, take that decision wisely . I am okay with what did you say , bt aapne bhi sab sahi nahi bola hai to flow me cross check Kiya kare that what am I saying...
After marriage women will take care of children no matter how smart she is, how independent she is, she will be a mother and have motherly feelings and afterwards her career will sink instead of taking off she will not get a fair chance to build up a career.
Prime age to have kids is 20-30. I am asking you if a girl want to continue job till 30 then won’t that will also be effected when she will be pregnant? She will drop that job to take care of baby. One way or other for some period of time a woman needs to take a break or leave job. You can do that earlier in a healthy way or later like others and have complications and run to doctors.
Thank you Uncle. I'm a 21 yrs old woman & it might be offensive for people of my generation because last thing they want to know is the reality. Sex isn't solely magical, it's pleasuring when done with comfort, commitment & care. And anyone who sees you as replaceable isn't going to give you any comfort, commitment or care. This was for both genders
I m married gone through everything in life right wrong This person is giving you the life lesson To all the young women I hope you understand He has not ridiculed but guided you
Believe it or not, but there's a group of girls between the age of 30-40 with zero or no body count, but they never married due to various reasons, not saying they're happy, their number might be less, but it exists
They are more happy than married one, they have freedom to make mistakes or freedom of choices......and also take responsibility of their actions, social media is a becoming a centre for Brain drain these days....
True what this uncle is saying is not true for millennial girl and some girls are fat not because of high body count but due to pcos which is completely different
@@simratikaur5226 I am 26 years old. And I have zero body count. I am heavily inclined towards spirituality and I don't think I am ever going to marry because the idea doesn't resonate with the kind of life I want and I am not making these choices out of trauma or life experiences. It's just what my heart beleives in. Yes you're right, we exist. Generalization doesn't work all the time.
Hi di I'm 23 A boy I loved left me as he wanted sex but I want to do it after marriage,i know I did right thing by saying him ni,but I still miss him,He said I am immature as I don't approve of this and left,as you are older than me and more mature than me can you give me advice?am i immature to say no to sex before marriage?@@vedangigarg
Excellent vdo. You are talking exceptionally truth. As a practicing Gynecologist, i am facing this daily. I keep telling these girls about same. High time , you are bringing this issue in the public domain. They are least bother about health issues, STD's, mental and emotional trauma. Good parenting is very important. So called partially educated , 20-40 k salaried girls are indulging in these activities more than well educated, well employed girls with good salary. Excellent, educative vdeo
Sir i was the guy who would not go into GFS Just because I was so sure that I will do it with my wife only..... My friends made so much fun of me, as they would be going for hunt.. I am blessed to have met a good girl as my wife... I follow spirituality, I read good books meditate and life is bliss
Very Good ! Actually ye bat aap par charitharth hui "jo jaisa hota hai use vaisa hi milta hai " aap achhe hain so aapko acchha partner mila ,har kisi ko apni virginity sirf apne partner ko hi deni chahiye .
it's an era of dating apps, bollywood which is big part of consumer market & as long as they will exist, hook up culture can't be controlled. It's actually a worldwide issue. Government may not ban these apps, bollywood due to financial concern. Sir, you should include point no. 31 in your marriage consultant course:- Have a medical test before marriage because you don't know what disease your future partner is carrying
Very well pointed out. Someone needed to address this issue. I'm a modern well-educated woman from a broad minded family, yet I always felt disgusted at the way girls nowadays devalue themselves in the name of freedom, equality and modernity.
Menstrual cycles have become much more sensitive compared to previous generations. Being a doctor I myself agree that such abortion pills and hormonal pills definitely affect the body in a negative way...
Menes became sensitive due to IT job long working hour limitless stress a doctor saying that and giving a certificate to.girl is really a shameful at and that the reason young girl suffer but not come to gynics
@@soumendash3911 because now a days most of us are having poor lifestyle and additionally if we consume such hormonal pills it becomes even more difficult to get cured.
@@roshinitoenlightenment may women around you will go through this way but stress specially work life balance is effect majority health whether physical mental.sexual or emotional regardless of male or female .
Really appreciative video Guruji. Women engaged in non relevant aspects of gender equality and fails to understand female body and hormones worked in different manner .It is female who bear the consequences of child birth & abortion. I am in health care sector from 15 years and posted in Govt PHC .I 100 % agreed with you in video. Ethics & morality of society saves us from many future troubles especially in reproductive health.
This was a much needed video. It has become a pandemic specially in cities like Delhi. I work as a non teaching staff in one of the prominent colleges in Delhi, and what he has said about today's boys and girls are 100% true.
First and the foremost stop telling women that they need male support to feel safe and achieve things in life. Treat women like normal human beings. That mental dependence has to go. And women need to be told that a man being a good friend or a good human being in general isn’t something to go nuts over. Problem is that the bar is set too low for women. So a man being a decent human being is idlolised. Hence women feel obligated to return favour. I admire your guts Sir. Someone needs to discuss these so called Tabboo topics
I m a modern working woman in big city and yet I believe in old school romance.. Body count was still an alien topic for me 😅 but I use to feel in this generation how will find a partner who is like me.. But touch wood I did find someone like me... And Now we are happily married for years and still very much in love.. Eventually I feel u will attract ur own tribe.. ❤. it may take time but u will find someone who is perfect for u in the right timing... But you don't have to lower your standards .. And ppl like us also exist
Sir mai apka subscriber hu kaafi purana Ab tak ka ye one of the best video hai apki taraf se . Mai apne Papa Mummy ki itni baat nahi maanta hu jitna apki maanta hu aapse kafi relate kar paata hu mai aap dost jaise lagte hai mujhe Jo life me apko sahi le jaaye sahi raasta dikhaye. Thank you Sir ❤
I dont think youngsters will wait till mariage for sex. In fact several dont even consider marriage as a goal these days. Sex is considered necessary as a component of wholesome healthy living and medically it is said good sex gives one, male or female, that glow & shine of health, that happy outlook of mind. But the flip side, the reality, the practical situation is that socio economic and social security set up , the social outlook in India in the most parts,with respect to sex & sexuality, are still poorly developed , medieval and generally no where near how they are in the evolved western, advanced country status. These are disruptive times for young Indians and your advice is quite valid for this category of the young Indian. 😊
Couldn’t agree more sir , whenever I watch such kinda videos, I get emotional because I have been taught all this from childhood by my parents , and I instantly feel grateful for their teaching and values they gave to me , whatever u told has been taught to me since 6-7 standard , and these things just got engraved in my system. Having multiple sexual partners not only affects your physical health, it also greatly affects your mental wellness . I am myself a doctor (so I definitely agree with your STDs and other diseases part )and I feel happy that I am still a 27 year old virgin.
Thank you, sir, for being brave enough to speak on this topic. While industries like Bollywood and Hollywood seem dedicated to destroying the sanity of youngsters, someone like you is speaking the truth. 'In times of universal deceit, speaking truth is a revolutionary act.' - George Orwell
Sahi kaha aapne.. apni life me maine isi principal ko use kiya.. ek bande me apni energy invest karna chahiye. Physically aur mentally 100% ek hi aadmi me invest karna chahiye.
Today 's generation should listen to Munshi Premchand ki kahani .There are many stories of him revolving around relation ship of husband and wife . The author uses words like "Hridyeshwari " for portraying hero's love for her (wife )in the story meaning goddess of my heart . In return the wife calls him PRANESHWAR . AT first I was getting laugh but then I felt how much depth it gives to a relationship . This kind of respect you can get from a man only when you deserve it .. When you are high value high calibre person you attract people with high morale . Otherwise only luccha lafangey will come in your life who will use you and throw you .
Being a Gen Z I'm telling....Gen Z girls are having physical relationship in their very early days like in schoolday and at their teenager stage. I live in city called patna (hub of students) here students of class 11 & 12th comes here for the preparation of IIT & neet but they are being trapped in the situationship ( mean having sex, with no intension to marry).
In working life we see, given example - if A single girl working in office mostly prefer taking lift from office colleague who is married instead of unmarried man, they have excuse that married man hai toh sharif hai single hai toh galat samjhega. At the end mostly we find person who was married is ending with extramarital affair with same girl or married man wife always fighting with him saying why you are helping her 😂😂😂. This we see in daily life as example
Why to give and take lift if you are working and independent. If people are involved in giving and taking lift that definitely means they have bad intentions.
After ages you made such a sensible & much needed video, this is spreading more faster than pandemic, thank you for taking the effort to make this video
I am from 80’s Born… Shahrukh khan ke dialogue brain mai embedded the.. Pyaar ek hi bara hota hai.. 😂 type.. And full emotional and respectful towards Girls 🙏🏻… Hamara Generation Girls se Baat karne se darne ka!! Kya Jamana Aaya hai bhai 😵💫.. I hope Meri beti badi hone tak sab trends change ho jaye.. back to our Generations.. 🙏🏻
I'm from Gen Z generation and telling you payar ek bar nahi bar bar Hota hai...kyuki pahle payar lesson deke jata hai ki 2nd payar ko kaise handle karna hai Payar is the just way to know the girls whether she is fit for us or not. After knowing each other for 7 to 8 months we decided whether to keep this relationship going on or should find someone better. Us 7 to 8 months me bhaut kuchh ho jata hai jo nahi hona chahiye. Ese hi relationship chalte rehta hai jab tak kisiko so called perfect partner nahi mil jata hai.
Every sentence said by you is so true. This issue is growing serious with each passing day. Bahut zarurat hai esi valuable seekh dene ki aaj ki generation ko. Irrespective of gender and age, everyone must watch this masterpiece. I appreciate your thoughts and thank you for bringing out this video. 🙏🏻
Our body is the temple of God. We need to keep our spirit, soul and body pure. Wait for the person who is your legal husband or wife, become emotionally connected to their spirt before connecting with their body.. Pls don't do casual sex and most importantly doesn't murder ( abortion) innocent baby because of your wrong choices.
@@MeditationMelodies962 that is way it is said to choose ur partner very carefully.. if a couple is in a sexless marriage, its either one person's problm might be wife or husband.. talk to that person before getting marriage without involving in any kind of sexual activity, having a deep conversation can understand about ur partner well. We should be mature enough choose our partner carefully. We should not mess up our body by having sex before marriage. This is applicable to both men and women. Respect our body and wait for the right person for marrying.
@@Peachykeeen that is very unfortunate for those who are raped and impregnated them by some monsters. If a girl is a victim of a sexual assault, it doesn't make them, loose their dignity or respect. They come back and become stronger. God will be make them strong enough to get over it, it doesn't mean they dont have a life ahead, they too have life.
Awesome video, Bhai Saab, God bless you long life, Very important points you have discussed, Not everyone has the guts to talk about the real issues troubling our society,
Sir, pahli bar kisi ne itna acha video banaya. Bilkul sahi. Thank u sir thank u. I start proud of my self again becoz so many girls around me told me that I m a old school nd so many things. I always thought that I m not belong to that generation. But thank u sir for mentioning the point of high value women. And u were right high value women always find a high value men. I got a high value men. Not a bodybuilder, not a handsome hunk but a very responsible men who always valued me, exactly my father. Sir bht Acha content h aap ka. Aap nhi jante per high valued women ko bht niche samaghti h ye body count type ki girls. But is trha ki videos se hmara confidence badhta h. Thank u sir.
Hi Sir Such an eye opening video. These days it is very common and I have 2-3 girls in my friend circle only who are not virgin and use bumble ,tinder etc. They all are from good family backgrounds and are engaged in these kinds of activities . One of my friends is regretting a lot after the break up and she is emotionally and physically disturbed. Another one is also regretting but she has become extremely negative and manipulating other girls around me to have sex before marriage or there is nothing wrong in having multiple partners as she herself is "BARBAD " . She tried manipulating me as well but I never had any physical relationship with anyone , and I am proud of that. I am 27 years old and preparing for competitive exams . And I have cut her off from my circle. But these days every 4/10 of the girls are not virgin & these girls try to manipulate other girls to be like them.
@@ayushisrivastava5278 this is true girls who loose their virginity tell others girls that they will go mad if they donot have sex 😂 One of my non virgin friend seriously told this to me . It is better to be a virgin all life and be mad rather than have sex with a low life who has no plan to marry you I am same age as you And the pressure on us is real sis
I live in US originally from India. I visited India after many years for a wedding. I was shocked to see women/girls in India wearing almost pornographic clothes even in weddings. I was like wow, people in the west do not wear such sexualized clothes but indian girls think that this is modernism. In US only poor women without much going on for themselves wear such provocative clothes. Good women always wear very covering and nice clothes. Def a shocker for me! 😂
Yes, this has been noticed, specially in the north, many women are wearing highly revealing clothes, might be the women think they are looking modern and sexy and not like some behenji type, but to be modern you dont have to expose, there are so many pretty clothes which are modern as well as give decent covering. The thought process these days for many people( including parents) seems to have yo yoed from too conservative some years back to too exposing these days.
@@RimaDesu00 the vulgar clothes you see in ancient temple sculptures are mainly wore by Nayikas and vaishikas (prostitute) and they were mostly hired by the king for some plesure activities and they were the one who learned the skill of 64 arts of kamasutra and ratishastra... their whole purpose was to pleasure the king or other courtesans in ancient time, in modern day we call them wh*re, not all wormen were lke this, only who were into certain professions..... you should know before commenting..
@@me_debankan4178 Yes, also most of these carvings are the fantasy of men, who carved their fantasy into the stones and made these sculptures, it is not real. Real men and women are full of emotions, and their whole life and actions are guided by their emotions, only if they have satisfactory emotions can they live a fulfilling life and feel a sense of self worth and achievement.
It is almost impossible to study after marriage especially if husband is not supportive and in laws are overpowering..a girl's life take a 360degree turn after marriage... suddenly she becomes responsible for everything, she has to take care of everyone in the family and she has to fulfill the demands of in laws by giving them babies . Plus there is constant pressure of dowry on every festival and occasions.
Thanks for making this video. I really feel there is also peer pressure for girls. Friends laugh at virgins and that makes people insecure, whereas nobody should sleep just to fit in.
Tell them that losing virginity is not a great achievement and it doesn't make anyone cool. They think that whoever lose virginity will get padmashree award. 😂😂
Sir, I agree with most of your points, but yeh jo baat apne bola ki get married by 24-25 career to hota hi rahega, I do not agree with that at all, ajke date mein jo unemployment ka rate hai, usme ek proper career banne mein time lag jata hai! Aur specially larkiyo ke liye Career banana bohot tough hota hai marriage ke baad, kyunki hum sabne apne mummy logo ko dekha hai ki kaise shaadi or bacche ke liye un logo ko kuch bhi karne ka mauka nahi mila life mein, unke pass bhi talent tha par woh log kuch nahi kar paye kyunki unko karne nahi diya gaya, aur jo in-laws hai wo chahte hai ki ladki ki alag koi zindagi nahi hoo, sirf ghar aur bacche samhale, iske liye to sirf ladkiya paida nahi hoti! Aur society hoti kaun hai decide karne wala ki ek ladki apni zindagi kaise jiyegi, jabki wahi society to na to khane ka 2 roti deta hai aur nahi rehne ki jagah, upar se jb ek ladki financially independent nahi hoti hai, uska husband kitna bhi bura ho, in laws kitna bhi bura treat kare, usko mu baand karke sehna parta hai! To isi liye yeh jo aap itne confidently bole ki shaadi karlo pehle, career wareer to chalta hi rahega, yeh baat ap dubara soch ke boliye, kyunki is duniya mein khud ke dam pe paise kamane ke baad hi freedom ke saath ji sakta hai insaan. Waise aap bhi to youtube per videos daalte hai, aur marriage counseling ka kaam karte hai, at the end of the day, yeh sab bhi to paise kamane ke liye hi hai na? To aap bhi to apne financial security dekh rahe hai, to ek ladki kyu na dekhe? Kyunki jo ladkiya shaadi karne ke baad musibat mein parjaati hai, aur unke pas financial strength bhi nahi hota, aap to unka roti Pani ka intezaam nahi kar payenge na? To advice thoda soch kar dijiyega! Baki body count aur casual sex ko leke apne jo bhi kaha I 100% agree with you on that!
I agree get married at whatever age be financially independent but dont loose character or become shameless which is becoming cool thing in todys generation
@@dilpreet63 Yeh at this point I too agree, that sleeping around is not a good choice and it's not even empowerment! It's just ruining lives! Find decent person, with whom you are compatible and get married, but that should be by choice, that should not be forced, because it's a lifelong journey, so the decision must be taken wisely and not in hurry because other friends are getting married or to have kids, even the kid's life gets ruined if parents marriage is not good,
@@anwesamallik6657 I think marriage in India is very risky thing because it is not easy to end it and move on but people find relationship easy because breakup don't cost you money India need better family courts for married people to end it if they don't want to continue it. Untill then youth will always find different ways to sleep then marriage
@@ShyamSunder-yk8zj government and corporate wants to loot middle class men and doing that through our women it becomes easy wives mothers sisters are brainwashed to loot our money
(i hope my comment will not be deleted) - ladkiyan meethay ke jaise sex de rhi hai ladko ko? what do you mean by that? kya aap yeh keh rhe ho ki ladkiyan ladko ko sex deke koi un par upkaar kar rhi hai? yeh toh woh baat ho gai ki ladkiyon ko toh sex chahiye hi nhi aur woh toh sirf samaj seva kar rhi hai, esa bilkul nhi hai, main mumbai mein rent pe rehta hoon aur mere flatmate ki shadi hai dec-2024 mein lekin woh phir bhi ek ladki ke saath casual sex karta hai, kal raat ko hi woh ladki iske room mein aayi thi, maine uss ko puchh bhi ki bhai usse pata nhi hai teri shadi hone wali hai, wo bola ki usko pata hai aur woh toh boli ki shadi ke baad bhi jab bhi uss ko sex karna ho just call her, ab aap yeh bologe ki bhai toh yaha pe toh aadmi bhi harami hai, arey bhai, aadmi ki image toh waise bhi harami hi hai pehle se, baat yeh hai ki aurat bhi aadmi ki jitni hi harami hai if not more or less.
I wish all the Youngsters the best in their lives. Our Youth is the future and responsible for preserving the culture. My Dear Young Brothers and Sisters, please take care of Your selves. A fair advice from Your Elder Brother. God Bless.
Mai picchle 8-9 saal se kehti aa rahi hun, ki there is very less that we have to change in how we used to raise our daughters and too much to change in how we raise our sons. Hum agar betiyon ko beton ki tarah paalne lage toh world war ki bhi zarurat nahi paregi is duniya ko khatam karne ke liye. Hume apne beton ko betiyon ki tarah paalne ki koshish karni chahiye.
Yes. Beto ko betiyon ki tarah palne ki zarurat hai. Isi kami ki wajah se hazaro saal bigda raha. Ladkiya to paanch das saal se Khushi se kar rahi hain। Pehle majboor karke rula ke ki jati thi. Ladke to hamesha karte hi the. Ladkiyon ke saath hi to karte the.
I want to share it to so many people, but sadly can't. However I follow celibacy before marriage, just so I can look myself in mirror, and not do wrong with the mother of my children.
If you watch the whole video till end, you will know how right he is. He is not only telling girls to stop destroying themselves but he is also telling the whole society including men and women to stop.
Shwetabh Gangwar had been a childhood friend of my very dear friend and he literally has bragged about sleeping with multiple girls a million times to my friend and I've heard that.. To social media ke do kauri ke trap me mat fasa karo bhaiyo aur behno
I am 25 year old woman and never ever had a boyfriend for the same reason , cause I understood these things from an early age. And Thanks to my father for always loving me and showing me what true love really is. I a man ever comes to my life he has to have a good character.
👍 every teenage girl must watch, thankful that u shared this video 🙏 not every parents can teach this things openly to their girls but this video is awesome, it will sve many girls n also women from getting exploited ❤️
I'm really glad i found your channel.. Kaash 3 saal phele ye video mil gaya hota sir. I could have saved myself from horrors Ps. I had 2 relationships.. 1 long term. No body count system
@@shipraabrol7059 he turned out to be a psychopath, I was too naive. Relationship started when i was just 18 and i wasn't mature enough. Dint spy on him or check his phone, trusted him a lot and he was highly manipulative. After years when someone sent me stuff i tried to check his phone. Pata chala he was faking everything all the yrs with multiple women, maybe was Spreading STD & that he cannot feel emotions, he fakes feeling emotions. He was just such a seasoned player kabhi shak aane nahi diya. I called all the other girls to save them. He was planning to ruin their lives as well being a future leech. Its so scary what i went through i saw some under 18 pics on his phone too that day, had to take him to police. Mind you everyone from my side had met him, no one caught any red flag. When i confronted, he was blank n gave me a" Psychopathic stare" .. Thats when i realized he can't feel guilt too. He is starng at me almost like a wild animal. Somehow i saved myself n have PTSD every since. Yes I'm never gonna get married.
@@sandeshpandit5540 not easy to believe men, when men keep on boasting that going with girks is something to be proud of। Men need to improve their image by improving Character
Dhanyavaad guruji , es informative video ke liye but ye baaten maine kafi jaldii sikh li mtlb practically nahin balki dusro ke experience se and thx to God mera abhi tak aisa koi experience nahin rha sirf dusro se sikha hai ki,, kya nahin karna hai vaise bhi kisi mahananubhvi ne kaha hai ki __ "dusron ke anubhavon se sikho, apne se sikhne pr puri jindagi nikal jayegi " ❤❤😎😎
Bro keeps dissing Men after every sentence(that is supposed to be a “fact” on Women)so that he doesn’t feel the wrath of angry feminists in the comments.
Sir ladkiyan aapas main competition karke, body count, body count khel rahi hai, virgin ladki ko useless feel karake usko bhi force karti hai damaged goods mahilaye.
Yeh bt yadh rakhe dost glt kam krne ma hi zada support krte hai tum kuch accha kroga toh vo nicha girana ki koshish krenga Aur virgin ladki useless nai hai voh sabse special hai
Khud mai akal honi chahiye vo to , kis cheej se influence hona hai kisse nhi vo sab humare khud k hath mai hai , jo khud galt hoga vo to apni galti kaise na kaise chhupana ki koshish hee krenga , khud ka body count high hai or dusro ko dekha nhi jata ki kisi acchi relationship Mai kyu hai , I had only one boyfriend who is now my husband, I continued dating him because I was sure that he is the person for me to marry , n there were some jealous girls who used to say " tum log ak dusre se boar nhi hote kya " etc etc , because they could not find a single good boyfriend n engaged with many at the same time , wasting their time , effort n emotions
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than how to check/match sexual intimacy before sex/marriage with someone
@@attitude4989 ask your parents how did they found it?
Don't marry, at least for the sake of your parents. Todays girls are not made for marriage. One more thing: Jo baap apne beti se 30-35 saal naukri karwa ke uske paise pe jeeta hai wo beti shaadi karwage apne damad ke paise bhi loot ta hai aur damad k ghar rehta hai aur damad ko uske parents se relation rakhne nahi deta. This is just another form of prostitution enforced by girl's parents. Ab to ye ladke ka gotra change karwane ka system le aaye hai. And those girls who are giving sex in exchange of some favours are already prostitutes.
@@attitude4989 marry someone who is young, preferably below 23.
Clarity of youth but you have limited charity so let us ask you why Congress could not get Gdp growth when the Congress were in power 65 years why India was behind Pakistan why when Modi govt came to power Pakistan and UK bankrupt
This man is more updated than anybody of this generation, really loved to hear it coming from someone in India.
I am a girl, and really thankful for your video. And you're right sir. We men and women both have to make good community. Both are responsible for that.
Again "both". Who will lose more ma'am?
From a girl point of view ,women suffer mentally and physically but i think men also suffer mentally After some period of time.
Os what he saying is true?
@learnenglish7331 im a man. Men don't suffer as much. Pls protect yourselves because its very bad for women
@@doncorleone3901 some men who are spiritual ,suffer in toxic relationship.
Finally someone from India giving importance on this topic 🙏 no one is discussing these topics
Sirhud karla ka videos dekh lo bhai 3rd eye open ho jayega
I have always lived by the values and thought process. I have been called old school and everything. I don’t care. I know what’s the right thing to do. Thank u Guruji for making my own thought process 10 times stronger now. Thank u so much for making this video. It was long due.
Queen 👑
You are not old school, you are mature than others.... trust me ....
sorry you wont get any positive character certificate by writing things here..
She is just expressing her opinion, why do you have to assume that she wants your or somebody else's certificate. @@saikatghosh90
@@saikatghosh90 bangaliyo ko sabse jyada mirchi lag rahi hai 😂
इतनी गंभीर बात आप सोच रहे हैं और बिना गलत शब्दों को इस्तेमाल किए आप समाज में लड़के और लड़कियों को मार्ग दर्शन दे रहे हैं यह बहुत ही सुंदर बात है। आज की जनरेशन को यह समझ कर अल्पकालिक विवादों के विद्रोह स्वरुप में अपनी जिंदगी बर्बाद ना करते हुए पहिले से चली आ रही परंपराओं को मानते हुए उन्नति की ओर अग्रसित होना चाहिए।🎉
I thought the term "Body Count" was meant for the number of people killed or dead. Never knew it had multiple meaning. Excellent video sincerely meant for today's generation. Thank you guruji 🙏
Metoo
I still didn't understand what body count means
मुझे भी आज पता चला
😂😂 true that 😅😅
I thought it was weight
What you are saying is 100% true sir. I was literally thinking..ke Thank God i have a Dad who told me this my whole life. And i was able to stay away from predators and womenizer guys. What you are doing is seriously noble for those girls who dont have a father in their life 🙏🙏🙏
Kudos to your dad
Lucky to have a father who didn't consider you as a burden
Thank you guys! He is the best really. He tries his best to guard me with all his life. Literally. 😊
@@San_home-chef Yes since all the burden is on the male child..
@@San_home-chef Do you know her dad personally ? She has no where mentioned in her comment about her dad considering her as a burden or not.
200% relatable.... aapme hi guts h ye sb btane ka... hats off to you.....
I m a woman and I agree this . Nowadays girls are presenting themself infront of boys as if they are some sort of sweets. I feel very irritated when teenager girl change their whole attitude when any boy comes. Kya ho gya is generation ko?
Bollywood aur web series ka influence..aur parents ka involvement na hona
Hamesha se hi aisi thi!! Don't demean the new ones!! Hamare bhi time pe aaj bhi wahi hota h
A teenager girl some of them, would always be like that. Giggling, trying to attract attention etc.
Boys bhi toh wohi kar rahe hai
You are doing samaj- seva sir.
Y baate parents ko baccho ko smjhana chahiye.
Bt shram aa jati h .
Grt respect for you sir.
May god bless you!!
U r taking lots of risk being youtuber.
27 and still a virgin and dont even have boyfriend or any bad habits. But the problem of the society is such people like me are treated like behenji and people dont include us in any conversations, so some people take wrong ways in order to look cool.
thats so true with me although i m just 18 now but few of my friends say me like behenn ji ho and no boyfriends and all aisa kehte hai
True same I'm 29 virgin and looked as backward
The fact he's our Desi uncle telling us this, I feel soo grateful 😭
I'm 20 yr F and I'm thankful to my father and elder brother who always had my back and I can proudly say that they had made me high value women ❤😊
Sir what you ve said is absolutely right . But one thing I don't like when you said "25 Tak shaadi karlo koi pati kitab nahi cheen Raha", i mean really??
You should ask any married woman, she will say it's tough because it is tough. & What about if the female is virgin & male has 3-4 body count , same thing applicable to women also. To isliye shaadi kar le ???
& Sir what about marital rape or all that adultery stuffs. You can't deny on that. It's not a solution to get married early, instead of this we focus on build our career then we will decide do it or not do it, take that decision wisely .
I am okay with what did you say , bt aapne bhi sab sahi nahi bola hai to flow me cross check Kiya kare that what am I saying...
true
Seconded
After marriage women will take care of children no matter how smart she is, how independent she is, she will be a mother and have motherly feelings and afterwards her career will sink instead of taking off she will not get a fair chance to build up a career.
There is no such thing as marital r@pe. Stop destroying marriage.
Prime age to have kids is 20-30. I am asking you if a girl want to continue job till 30 then won’t that will also be effected when she will be pregnant? She will drop that job to take care of baby. One way or other for some period of time a woman needs to take a break or leave job. You can do that earlier in a healthy way or later like others and have complications and run to doctors.
Thank you Uncle.
I'm a 21 yrs old woman & it might be offensive for people of my generation because last thing they want to know is the reality.
Sex isn't solely magical, it's pleasuring when done with comfort, commitment & care. And anyone who sees you as replaceable isn't going to give you any comfort, commitment or care.
This was for both genders
I'm the 22 years man with same beliefs. Thank you for giving me hope that women like you still exist.
I am 24 years old man with same value. You are a queen.
Sx is holy.... Don't do with multiple men.. your body isn't an object
@@loveyourself-n6y yes. Sx is holy. Don't do it with multiple women
I am 28 virgin thnx for reminding
I m married gone through everything in life right wrong
This person is giving you the life lesson
To all the young women
I hope you understand
He has not ridiculed but guided you
Excellent video sir, maine khud ko bahut bahut improve Kiya h pichle kuch saalo me, phle m kya thi or ab kya hu, literally I love my present self ❤
shaadi karogi kya
Believe it or not, but there's a group of girls between the age of 30-40 with zero or no body count, but they never married due to various reasons, not saying they're happy, their number might be less, but it exists
They are more happy than married one, they have freedom to make mistakes or freedom of choices......and also take responsibility of their actions, social media is a becoming a centre for Brain drain these days....
True what this uncle is saying is not true for millennial girl and some girls are fat not because of high body count but due to pcos which is completely different
@@simratikaur5226 I am 26 years old. And I have zero body count. I am heavily inclined towards spirituality and I don't think I am ever going to marry because the idea doesn't resonate with the kind of life I want and I am not making these choices out of trauma or life experiences. It's just what my heart beleives in. Yes you're right, we exist. Generalization doesn't work all the time.
Hi di I'm 23
A boy I loved left me as he wanted sex but I want to do it after marriage,i know I did right thing by saying him ni,but I still miss him,He said I am immature as I don't approve of this and left,as you are older than me and more mature than me can you give me advice?am i immature to say no to sex before marriage?@@vedangigarg
@@vedangigarg india hai behen
Bhot muahkil hai ye faisla
Excellent vdo. You are talking exceptionally truth. As a practicing Gynecologist, i am facing this daily. I keep telling these girls about same. High time , you are bringing this issue in the public domain. They are least bother about health issues, STD's, mental and emotional trauma. Good parenting is very important. So called partially educated , 20-40 k salaried girls are indulging in these activities more than well educated, well employed girls with good salary. Excellent, educative vdeo
What do u think is the main reason ....why is only these girls r indulging in this?
Glad to know the information
Yes , half knowledge is dangerous.
It's so true Amit Ji...i also observe and come across these things while teaching Menstrual health
I hate social media influencer,
but guru ji you deserve to be at top most position in our society
Sir i was the guy who would not go into GFS Just because I was so sure that I will do it with my wife only.....
My friends made so much fun of me, as they would be going for hunt..
I am blessed to have met a good girl as my wife...
I follow spirituality, I read good books meditate and life is bliss
So one has to have the clarity.....
I hated doing sex outside the marriage....
This confidence comes by making good money and following spirituality
Very Good ! Actually ye bat aap par charitharth hui "jo jaisa hota hai use vaisa hi milta hai " aap achhe hain so aapko acchha partner mila ,har kisi ko apni virginity sirf apne partner ko hi deni chahiye .
@@vikramchauhan1831you hated but still did it?
@@ARPITAVERMA-f5y sahi baat hai
Thank god atleast someone like you is there to guide today's generation
Today,s movies r also very derogatory ,,it generalize wrong things
FASHION. Movie thi vo
@@chandrakiransharma9101 That's why i don't watch
it's an era of dating apps, bollywood which is big part of consumer market & as long as they will exist, hook up culture can't be controlled. It's actually a worldwide issue. Government may not ban these apps, bollywood due to financial concern.
Sir, you should include point no. 31 in your marriage consultant course:- Have a medical test before marriage because you don't know what disease your future partner is carrying
Very well pointed out. Someone needed to address this issue. I'm a modern well-educated woman from a broad minded family, yet I always felt disgusted at the way girls nowadays devalue themselves in the name of freedom, equality and modernity.
Menstrual cycles have become much more sensitive compared to previous generations. Being a doctor I myself agree that such abortion pills and hormonal pills definitely affect the body in a negative way...
@@dr_global_herb senstive in the scene,u mean increasing desire
Menes became sensitive due to IT job long working hour limitless stress a doctor saying that and giving a certificate to.girl is really a shameful at and that the reason young girl suffer but not come to gynics
What about 10 boyfriend before marriage
@@soumendash3911 because now a days most of us are having poor lifestyle and additionally if we consume such hormonal pills it becomes even more difficult to get cured.
@@roshinitoenlightenment may women around you will go through this way but stress specially work life balance is effect majority health whether physical mental.sexual or emotional regardless of male or female .
Sex mat do mithai dedo. True.
Can be a good tag line for aggarwal sweets corner 😂
😂😂
😂😂
Really appreciative video Guruji. Women engaged in non relevant aspects of gender equality and fails to understand female body and hormones worked in different manner .It is female who bear the consequences of child birth & abortion. I am in health care sector from 15 years and posted in Govt PHC .I 100 % agreed with you in video. Ethics & morality of society saves us from many future troubles especially in reproductive health.
Yes technology advances have ruined society and females are not designed to be like males yes, excellent video.
This was a much needed video. It has become a pandemic specially in cities like Delhi. I work as a non teaching staff in one of the prominent colleges in Delhi, and what he has said about today's boys and girls are 100% true.
First and the foremost stop telling women that they need male support to feel safe and achieve things in life. Treat women like normal human beings. That mental dependence has to go. And women need to be told that a man being a good friend or a good human being in general isn’t something to go nuts over. Problem is that the bar is set too low for women. So a man being a decent human being is idlolised. Hence women feel obligated to return favour.
I admire your guts Sir. Someone needs to discuss these so called Tabboo topics
I agree. The bar is so low, normal interactions with men feel so refreshing. Theyre always on edge.
I m a modern working woman in big city and yet I believe in old school romance.. Body count was still an alien topic for me 😅
but I use to feel in this generation how will find a partner who is like me..
But touch wood I did find someone like me... And Now we are happily married for years and still very much in love.. Eventually I feel u will attract ur own tribe.. ❤.
it may take time but u will find someone who is perfect for u in the right timing...
But you don't have to lower your standards .. And ppl like us also exist
Thank you mam for sharing such a insightful words of wisdom this will help young men like us who are 23/24 a lot❤
Please motivate other girls to remain pure till marriage..
Agreed. You do find your like minded group eventually.
Thanks for sharing
@@sourabhkumar3852And you please motivate Boys to remain Pure till marriage.
Sir mai apka subscriber hu kaafi purana Ab tak ka ye one of the best video hai apki taraf se . Mai apne Papa Mummy ki itni baat nahi maanta hu jitna apki maanta hu aapse kafi relate kar paata hu mai aap dost jaise lagte hai mujhe Jo life me apko sahi le jaaye sahi raasta dikhaye. Thank you Sir ❤
Hi
Bhot acha video h sir
We men are responsible for everything… do minute ke sukh main bhot barbadi kr rahe h hum sab log
I dont think youngsters will wait till mariage for sex. In fact several dont even consider marriage as a goal these days. Sex is considered necessary as a component of wholesome healthy living and medically it is said good sex gives one, male or female, that glow & shine of health, that happy outlook of mind. But the flip side, the reality, the practical situation is that socio economic and social security set up , the social outlook in India in the most parts,with respect to sex & sexuality, are still poorly developed , medieval and generally no where near how they are in the evolved western, advanced country status. These are disruptive times for young Indians and your advice is quite valid for this category of the young Indian. 😊
This is a showstopper video
Bahut help karega society ko...thanx Guruji🙏🙏
Hy
Couldn’t agree more sir , whenever I watch such kinda videos, I get emotional because I have been taught all this from childhood by my parents , and I instantly feel grateful for their teaching and values they gave to me , whatever u told has been taught to me since 6-7 standard , and these things just got engraved in my system.
Having multiple sexual partners not only affects your physical health, it also greatly affects your mental wellness .
I am myself a doctor (so I definitely agree with your STDs and other diseases part )and I feel happy that I am still a 27 year old virgin.
Hey doc ..Can we connect. V complement each other
I have to say this is your best video on today's generation.
You are blunt sir but very right... this needs to be understood by all young people
Thank you, sir, for being brave enough to speak on this topic. While industries like Bollywood and Hollywood seem dedicated to destroying the sanity of youngsters, someone like you is speaking the truth. 'In times of universal deceit, speaking truth is a revolutionary act.' - George Orwell
Well written message indeed.
Sahi kaha aapne.. apni life me maine isi principal ko use kiya.. ek bande me apni energy invest karna chahiye. Physically aur mentally 100% ek hi aadmi me invest karna chahiye.
Today 's generation should listen to Munshi Premchand ki kahani
.There are many stories of him revolving around relation ship of husband and wife .
The author uses words like "Hridyeshwari " for portraying hero's love for her (wife )in the story meaning goddess of my heart .
In return the wife calls him PRANESHWAR .
AT first I was getting laugh but then I felt how much depth it gives to a relationship .
This kind of respect you can get from a man only when you deserve it ..
When you are high value high calibre person you attract people with high morale .
Otherwise only luccha lafangey will come in your life who will use you and throw you .
Being a Gen Z I'm telling....Gen Z girls are having physical relationship in their very early days like in schoolday and at their teenager stage.
I live in city called patna (hub of students) here students of class 11 & 12th comes here for the preparation of IIT & neet but they are being trapped in the situationship ( mean having sex, with no intension to marry).
That missing father figure syndrome , that was on point! And where father is missing, even the mother doesn’t care much.
Absolutely 💯 right
In working life we see, given example
- if A single girl working in office mostly prefer taking lift from office colleague who is married instead of unmarried man, they have excuse that married man hai toh sharif hai single hai toh galat samjhega. At the end mostly we find person who was married is ending with extramarital affair with same girl or married man wife always fighting with him saying why you are helping her 😂😂😂. This we see in daily life as example
Yeah 100% true brother 😂😂
True 😂
Married walo k jyada chul hoti hai dusri ladki ki. Isliye wo single se jalte hai 😂😂
Why to give and take lift if you are working and independent. If people are involved in giving and taking lift that definitely means they have bad intentions.
thank you so much for this video sir... I'm a lady and totally support your vision 😊
After ages you made such a sensible & much needed video, this is spreading more faster than pandemic, thank you for taking the effort to make this video
Kr liya ldkio ko shame kya milega isse ye bhi bola unhone wo ni suna?
Movie name: Fashion (2008 movie)
This video should be shown to girls students.
I am from 80’s Born… Shahrukh khan ke dialogue brain mai embedded the.. Pyaar ek hi bara hota hai.. 😂 type.. And full emotional and respectful towards Girls 🙏🏻… Hamara Generation Girls se Baat karne se darne ka!!
Kya Jamana Aaya hai bhai 😵💫..
I hope Meri beti badi hone tak sab trends change ho jaye.. back to our Generations.. 🙏🏻
I'm from Gen Z generation and telling you payar ek bar nahi bar bar Hota hai...kyuki pahle payar lesson deke jata hai ki 2nd payar ko kaise handle karna hai
Payar is the just way to know the girls whether she is fit for us or not. After knowing each other for 7 to 8 months we decided whether to keep this relationship going on or should find someone better.
Us 7 to 8 months me bhaut kuchh ho jata hai jo nahi hona chahiye.
Ese hi relationship chalte rehta hai jab tak kisiko so called perfect partner nahi mil jata hai.
I think bollywood is the one responsible for this mess love doesnt exist it needs to be created
Every sentence said by you is so true. This issue is growing serious with each passing day. Bahut zarurat hai esi valuable seekh dene ki aaj ki generation ko. Irrespective of gender and age, everyone must watch this masterpiece. I appreciate your thoughts and thank you for bringing out this video. 🙏🏻
Our body is the temple of God. We need to keep our spirit, soul and body pure. Wait for the person who is your legal husband or wife, become emotionally connected to their spirt before connecting with their body..
Pls don't do casual sex and most importantly doesn't murder ( abortion) innocent baby because of your wrong choices.
Respect sister ❤❤
There are many waiting even at 50. That’s the unfortunate truth.
@@rosegold2617 what if a girl is graped and gets pregnant?
@@MeditationMelodies962 that is way it is said to choose ur partner very carefully.. if a couple is in a sexless marriage, its either one person's problm might be wife or husband.. talk to that person before getting marriage without involving in any kind of sexual activity, having a deep conversation can understand about ur partner well. We should be mature enough choose our partner carefully. We should not mess up our body by having sex before marriage. This is applicable to both men and women. Respect our body and wait for the right person for marrying.
@@Peachykeeen that is very unfortunate for those who are raped and impregnated them by some monsters. If a girl is a victim of a sexual assault, it doesn't make them, loose their dignity or respect. They come back and become stronger.
God will be make them strong enough to get over it, it doesn't mean they dont have a life ahead, they too have life.
Awesome video, Bhai Saab, God bless you long life,
Very important points you have discussed,
Not everyone has the guts to talk about the real issues troubling our society,
Sir, pahli bar kisi ne itna acha video banaya. Bilkul sahi. Thank u sir thank u. I start proud of my self again becoz so many girls around me told me that I m a old school nd so many things. I always thought that I m not belong to that generation. But thank u sir for mentioning the point of high value women. And u were right high value women always find a high value men. I got a high value men. Not a bodybuilder, not a handsome hunk but a very responsible men who always valued me, exactly my father. Sir bht Acha content h aap ka. Aap nhi jante per high valued women ko bht niche samaghti h ye body count type ki girls. But is trha ki videos se hmara confidence badhta h. Thank u sir.
Hi Sir
Such an eye opening video. These days it is very common and I have 2-3 girls in my friend circle only who are not virgin and use bumble ,tinder etc. They all are from good family backgrounds and are engaged in these kinds of activities . One of my friends is regretting a lot after the break up and she is emotionally and physically disturbed. Another one is also regretting but she has become extremely negative and manipulating other girls around me to have sex before marriage or there is nothing wrong in having multiple partners as she herself is "BARBAD " . She tried manipulating me as well but I never had any physical relationship with anyone , and I am proud of that. I am 27 years old and preparing for competitive exams . And I have cut her off from my circle. But these days every 4/10 of the girls are not virgin & these girls try to manipulate other girls to be like them.
Very true
Please spread awareness to every innocent girl as these girls come in peer pressure and don't have any knowledge about these kinds of people.
@@ayushisrivastava5278 this is true girls who loose their virginity tell others girls that they will go mad if they donot have sex 😂
One of my non virgin friend seriously told this to me .
It is better to be a virgin all life and be mad rather than have sex with a low life who has no plan to marry you
I am same age as you
And the pressure on us is real sis
Get married
@@ayushisrivastava5278 I appreciate you as you are a true HIGH VALUE WOMAN ..keep it up and all the best for your competitive exam
I live in US originally from India. I visited India after many years for a wedding. I was shocked to see women/girls in India wearing almost pornographic clothes even in weddings. I was like wow, people in the west do not wear such sexualized clothes but indian girls think that this is modernism. In US only poor women without much going on for themselves wear such provocative clothes. Good women always wear very covering and nice clothes. Def a shocker for me! 😂
Yes, this has been noticed, specially in the north, many women are wearing highly revealing clothes, might be the women think they are looking modern and sexy and not like some behenji type, but to be modern you dont have to expose, there are so many pretty clothes which are modern as well as give decent covering.
The thought process these days for many people( including parents) seems to have yo yoed from too conservative some years back to too exposing these days.
@@rajanimenon1780I agree 💯
You will find the same kind sorry more vulgar clothes in ancient temples sculptures lol
@@RimaDesu00 the vulgar clothes you see in ancient temple sculptures are mainly wore by Nayikas and vaishikas (prostitute) and they were mostly hired by the king for some plesure activities and they were the one who learned the skill of 64 arts of kamasutra and ratishastra... their whole purpose was to pleasure the king or other courtesans in ancient time, in modern day we call them wh*re, not all wormen were lke this, only who were into certain professions..... you should know before commenting..
@@me_debankan4178 Yes, also most of these carvings are the fantasy of men, who carved their fantasy into the stones and made these sculptures, it is not real.
Real men and women are full of emotions, and their whole life and actions are guided by their emotions, only if they have satisfactory emotions can they live a fulfilling life and feel a sense of self worth and achievement.
Amit sir ji you are really the Virat kohli of these topics in India. Hats off sir.🎉❤. No youtuber comes close.
I’ve been following you for 2 years. Really good Guruji . Blessed to have you. I’m too in college & really got interesting important point
It is almost impossible to study after marriage especially if husband is not supportive and in laws are overpowering..a girl's life take a 360degree turn after marriage... suddenly she becomes responsible for everything, she has to take care of everyone in the family and she has to fulfill the demands of in laws by giving them babies . Plus there is constant pressure of dowry on every festival and occasions.
aaj kal waise nhi hota.. aab toh ladkiyan reverse dowry le rhi hain, alimony ke naame se.. fake cases laga ke ladka ke pura family ko fasati hain..
aap 60s, 70s ke jamane ki baatein bol rhi hain
@@sourabhkumar3852 this Is happening in today's world as well
@@sourabhkumar3852wo cases mostly rich and upper middle class me hote hai...lekin aaj bhi middle aud poor families me dowry, domestic violence comman hai...😅 aur divorce toh bhul hi jao... it's still taboo
@@Ss-ze8ym Rich and upper middle class are even more suppressive. More wealth means more advanced from of suppression.....
This advice should be given to both genders. Both are equally responsible.
Dono ke liye h
Top video and on trend, so practical this person, feminist project is a psychological operation to divide society and is successful.
Why are you triggered?
Thanks for making this video. I really feel there is also peer pressure for girls. Friends laugh at virgins and that makes people insecure, whereas nobody should sleep just to fit in.
Tell them that losing virginity is not a great achievement and it doesn't make anyone cool. They think that whoever lose virginity will get padmashree award. 😂😂
Nope. Not reached that stage in India. You can tell who are shaming just want partner in crime.
Leave that friend group cuz they r not friends
Ek dum sahi hai, Guruji. Bohot necessary topic hai.
Sir, I agree with most of your points, but yeh jo baat apne bola ki get married by 24-25 career to hota hi rahega, I do not agree with that at all, ajke date mein jo unemployment ka rate hai, usme ek proper career banne mein time lag jata hai! Aur specially larkiyo ke liye Career banana bohot tough hota hai marriage ke baad, kyunki hum sabne apne mummy logo ko dekha hai ki kaise shaadi or bacche ke liye un logo ko kuch bhi karne ka mauka nahi mila life mein, unke pass bhi talent tha par woh log kuch nahi kar paye kyunki unko karne nahi diya gaya, aur jo in-laws hai wo chahte hai ki ladki ki alag koi zindagi nahi hoo, sirf ghar aur bacche samhale, iske liye to sirf ladkiya paida nahi hoti! Aur society hoti kaun hai decide karne wala ki ek ladki apni zindagi kaise jiyegi, jabki wahi society to na to khane ka 2 roti deta hai aur nahi rehne ki jagah, upar se jb ek ladki financially independent nahi hoti hai, uska husband kitna bhi bura ho, in laws kitna bhi bura treat kare, usko mu baand karke sehna parta hai! To isi liye yeh jo aap itne confidently bole ki shaadi karlo pehle, career wareer to chalta hi rahega, yeh baat ap dubara soch ke boliye, kyunki is duniya mein khud ke dam pe paise kamane ke baad hi freedom ke saath ji sakta hai insaan. Waise aap bhi to youtube per videos daalte hai, aur marriage counseling ka kaam karte hai, at the end of the day, yeh sab bhi to paise kamane ke liye hi hai na? To aap bhi to apne financial security dekh rahe hai, to ek ladki kyu na dekhe? Kyunki jo ladkiya shaadi karne ke baad musibat mein parjaati hai, aur unke pas financial strength bhi nahi hota, aap to unka roti Pani ka intezaam nahi kar payenge na? To advice thoda soch kar dijiyega! Baki body count aur casual sex ko leke apne jo bhi kaha I 100% agree with you on that!
I agree get married at whatever age be financially independent but dont loose character or become shameless which is becoming cool thing in todys generation
@@dilpreet63 Yeh at this point I too agree, that sleeping around is not a good choice and it's not even empowerment! It's just ruining lives! Find decent person, with whom you are compatible and get married, but that should be by choice, that should not be forced, because it's a lifelong journey, so the decision must be taken wisely and not in hurry because other friends are getting married or to have kids, even the kid's life gets ruined if parents marriage is not good,
@@anwesamallik6657 I think marriage in India is very risky thing because it is not easy to end it and move on but people find relationship easy because breakup don't cost you money India need better family courts for married people to end it if they don't want to continue it. Untill then youth will always find different ways to sleep then marriage
You're right, but after marriage, women are also entitled to husband's property and assets. Indian laws are heavily against men/husbands.
@@ShyamSunder-yk8zj government and corporate wants to loot middle class men and doing that through our women it becomes easy wives mothers sisters are brainwashed to loot our money
Totallly agreed on every point... aur behtareen video ... aapki tareef jitnj kare kam hai guruji🙏
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- ladkiyan meethay ke jaise sex de rhi hai ladko ko? what do you mean by that? kya aap yeh keh rhe ho ki ladkiyan ladko ko sex deke koi un par upkaar kar rhi hai? yeh toh woh baat ho gai ki ladkiyon ko toh sex chahiye hi nhi aur woh toh sirf samaj seva kar rhi hai, esa bilkul nhi hai, main mumbai mein rent pe rehta hoon aur mere flatmate ki shadi hai dec-2024 mein lekin woh phir bhi ek ladki ke saath casual sex karta hai, kal raat ko hi woh ladki iske room mein aayi thi, maine uss ko puchh bhi ki bhai usse pata nhi hai teri shadi hone wali hai, wo bola ki usko pata hai aur woh toh boli ki shadi ke baad bhi jab bhi uss ko sex karna ho just call her, ab aap yeh bologe ki bhai toh yaha pe toh aadmi bhi harami hai, arey bhai, aadmi ki image toh waise bhi harami hi hai pehle se, baat yeh hai ki aurat bhi aadmi ki jitni hi harami hai if not more or less.
Then these girls become sati Savitri when come to marriage
exactly , taali dono haatho se bajti hai
Aur acche ladke fas jate hai@@skyhie2559
Bhai mjhe chakkar aara hai tf I read. Uski hone wali biwi ko pata hai????
@@maishayartonahi ofc not
I wish all the Youngsters the best in their lives. Our Youth is the future and responsible for preserving the culture. My Dear Young Brothers and Sisters, please take care of Your selves. A fair advice from Your Elder Brother. God Bless.
Sir Oyo founder told its used for tirth Yatra😢
😂😂yeah tirth yatra 😂
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oyo is a prostitution business
Mai picchle 8-9 saal se kehti aa rahi hun, ki there is very less that we have to change in how we used to raise our daughters and too much to change in how we raise our sons. Hum agar betiyon ko beton ki tarah paalne lage toh world war ki bhi zarurat nahi paregi is duniya ko khatam karne ke liye. Hume apne beton ko betiyon ki tarah paalne ki koshish karni chahiye.
Yes. Beto ko betiyon ki tarah palne ki zarurat hai.
Isi kami ki wajah se hazaro saal bigda raha. Ladkiya to paanch das saal se Khushi se kar rahi hain। Pehle majboor karke rula ke ki jati thi.
Ladke to hamesha karte hi the. Ladkiyon ke saath hi to karte the.
Women want men with a bright future, but men want women with a clean past !
Thank you so my uncle for sharing this. This is much needed. All the shows and movies and instagram is normalising all this. This is very helpful:) 🙏
All i want to say is thankyou sir. Finally someone called it out with consequences and right advice
18:55 to 19:05 best observation... very true video.......
I want to share it to so many people, but sadly can't. However I follow celibacy before marriage, just so I can look myself in mirror, and not do wrong with the mother of my children.
Pls aise humesha rehna ❤ acchi ladkia bhi hoti hai jo spiritual hai❤
I believe you are the modern day Chanakya. ❤🎉
Shi kha sir, mere hostel ki ladkiyo ki bhi yhi halat hai every month new bf pta nhi kha se dhudh leti hai
Even i lived in hostel par maine nhi kiya
I really liked the content and the manner in which it is presented.
Well done sir.
I think of doing anything after marriage only and guess what I get criticized for that by people of my age.
u r right. They are just playboys or girls who regret after becoming a victim and want you to become one of them
@@XBRupjitDhaliwell said. Because they are feeling like aliens
You are a smart woman. Please share this video to your female friends and in your social circle. It'll be a social service.
If you watch the whole video till end, you will know how right he is. He is not only telling girls to stop destroying themselves but he is also telling the whole society including men and women to stop.
All because of movies and web series
Men
Guruji you are like our father figure. Really great content somebody should talk this subject
@Shwetabh Gangawar also talks about this in great detail
Video title please
I wish Shwetabh reacts to this video
@@shubhamjain931 same bhai
Shwetabh Gangwar had been a childhood friend of my very dear friend and he literally has bragged about sleeping with multiple girls a million times to my friend and I've heard that.. To social media ke do kauri ke trap me mat fasa karo bhaiyo aur behno
@@priyaa8602 shwetabh iss type ka hai , and youtube pe gyan deta hai
I am not a follower of your channel. But bohot hi jyada Accurate chiz batayi hai aapme 3:00 ke bad se ❤
I am 25 year old woman and never ever had a boyfriend for the same reason , cause I understood these things from an early age.
And Thanks to my father for always loving me and showing me what true love really is.
I a man ever comes to my life he has to have a good character.
👍 every teenage girl must watch, thankful that u shared this video 🙏 not every parents can teach this things openly to their girls but this video is awesome, it will sve many girls n also women from getting exploited ❤️
Guruji you r doing great job for humanity..
You have 100000 percent right logic sir. I wish more youth listen to you.
I'm really glad i found your channel.. Kaash 3 saal phele ye video mil gaya hota sir. I could have saved myself from horrors
Ps. I had 2 relationships.. 1 long term. No body count system
Then why you saying that u could've saved urself from horrors ?
I think long term relationships are far better than some casual sex or one nights
@@shipraabrol7059 he turned out to be a psychopath, I was too naive. Relationship started when i was just 18 and i wasn't mature enough. Dint spy on him or check his phone, trusted him a lot and he was highly manipulative. After years when someone sent me stuff i tried to check his phone. Pata chala he was faking everything all the yrs with multiple women, maybe was Spreading STD & that he cannot feel emotions, he fakes feeling emotions. He was just such a seasoned player kabhi shak aane nahi diya. I called all the other girls to save them. He was planning to ruin their lives as well being a future leech. Its so scary what i went through i saw some under 18 pics on his phone too that day, had to take him to police. Mind you everyone from my side had met him, no one caught any red flag. When i confronted, he was blank n gave me a" Psychopathic stare" .. Thats when i realized he can't feel guilt too. He is starng at me almost like a wild animal. Somehow i saved myself n have PTSD every since. Yes I'm never gonna get married.
Unka bf bahut toxic hoga shayad...mental health kharab kar diya hoga@@shipraabrol7059
Bahut badhia information sir , keep on educating the young generation as we require the experience of peoples like you ☺️☺️
Sir this is true ...good girls like us are not getting good prospects...every boy says he is not virgin 😢
Whenever i have say i am a virgin it is not boys but girls who laugh on me.
Lol neither boys are virgin
@@RimaDesu00✅✅
@@sandeshpandit5540 not easy to believe men, when men keep on boasting that going with girks is something to be proud of। Men need to improve their image by improving Character
So true specially in big cities😂 I can relate @@sandeshpandit5540
Dhanyavaad guruji , es informative video ke liye but ye baaten maine kafi jaldii sikh li mtlb practically nahin balki dusro ke experience se and thx to God mera abhi tak aisa koi experience nahin rha sirf dusro se sikha hai ki,, kya nahin karna hai vaise bhi kisi mahananubhvi ne kaha hai ki __ "dusron ke anubhavon se sikho, apne se sikhne pr puri jindagi nikal jayegi " ❤❤😎😎
Hats off guruji
This video can attract enormous amount of hate
But still your talk on this subject deserves appreciation 👍🏻 👏🏻
that's my point of view also about this serious problem..
thanks man you're doing well 👍🏻
True about relatives . Taking help from them compared to your father and brother is completely bullshit !!
Bro keeps dissing Men after every sentence(that is supposed to be a “fact” on Women)so that he doesn’t feel the wrath of angry feminists in the comments.
And when he says fact on men/patriarchy all men bash him in the comment section
Before marriage sex enjoy करने वाली महिलाएं शादी के baad kisi एक के साथ खुश नहीं रहती.
Fantastic video sir🙏...great observation 💯...
Movie Name- Fashion
Men and women both need to watch this
17:35 25% of girls like these , very important observation
And 70% guys
@@RaniS.S01 Make sure you are not in those 25%
@@sourabhkumar3852 and you make sure you are not in those 70% guys
@@RaniS.S01har cheez mein boys se kyu competition lagati ho? Boys ko ipill nahi khani padti 😂
@@memesofproduction3 but boys need to pay maintenance fees of baby per month so be careful men
Sir ladkiyan aapas main competition karke, body count, body count khel rahi hai, virgin ladki ko useless feel karake usko bhi force karti hai damaged goods mahilaye.
Yeh bt yadh rakhe dost glt kam krne ma hi zada support krte hai tum kuch accha kroga toh vo nicha girana ki koshish krenga
Aur virgin ladki useless nai hai voh sabse special hai
Khud mai akal honi chahiye vo to , kis cheej se influence hona hai kisse nhi vo sab humare khud k hath mai hai , jo khud galt hoga vo to apni galti kaise na kaise chhupana ki koshish hee krenga , khud ka body count high hai or dusro ko dekha nhi jata ki kisi acchi relationship Mai kyu hai , I had only one boyfriend who is now my husband, I continued dating him because I was sure that he is the person for me to marry , n there were some jealous girls who used to say " tum log ak dusre se boar nhi hote kya " etc etc , because they could not find a single good boyfriend n engaged with many at the same time , wasting their time , effort n emotions
Aise galat friends se to akele rahna acha hai...be confident and sincere
Then leave that group immediately no need to run after fake validation of 2rs people
Vaise to ladke bhi ladkon ko virgin bolke useless feel karate...unlogon se affect mat ho simple....unki apni life h tumhari apni
I am 29 virgin but don't want to get married ...
Well, sum up all today's generation's situations ❤