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Been three years, I dont feel sad anymore. I still get intrusive thoughts sometimes but what I feel is Hate, Animosity, Revile and Hostility. I'm looking forward to the day when that's gone too and I will be finally at peace. Time.
Yep, I completely get what you’re saying mate, it’s been a little over a year for me & I wish I was at the stage you’re at, but unfortunately I’m still at that heartbroken stage. I’m hoping I will feel the anger & hatred soon to be honest.
4 years for me. Not really sad anymore. But I do think about my ex from time to time. I imagine running into her. I imagine what I would say or how I would act. I hear she’s in a relationship and very happy. I haven’t contacted her 3 years.
Hey Rory my breakup happened in September and it was a 3 year relationship. She’s not coming back but I’ve pretty much recovered. Intrusive thoughts still come and go I try and not dwell on them tho.
These have been so helpful to me. Im in separation from my husband that ive been with 17 yrs and im confused and heartbroken. Joining this discord thing now. Helps to know youre not alone ❤
Oh and with all that being said yes I went ahead and got back into my figure ice skating and actually a new roller rink just opened up and I just ordered my new roller skates so that's my gym❤😊
I guess it hurts more when not only are you in the same Christian community as your ex (we are both Seventh Day Adventist, a denomination of Christianity that is notoriously small) but we share the same community of people and family friends, I pray I continue to stay strong as I am currently 6 months of no contact on both ends, I am proud of myself for having this self control and not contacting her, but also the recurring dread that in the fall, we will be at the same grad school together.
I still get these thoughts and cry and have a hard time looking at anything that we experienced together and the breakup was last May 30th. On-and-off I'd seen them but realistically the second week of October that's when I initiated no contact and I've heard from him I think it would be considered bread crumbs other than almost 4 weeks ago where I got a text out of the blue at 3 and it said hello and how are you I was in our town earlier today and I had flashbacks of last winter together I hope you're doing okay with a 👍 I then responded something casually and lighthearted and funny and here we are on going on the 4th week and nothing from him.❤😢
It has been 3 years !! i cant believe how desperate this sounds and i think i am admitting it for the first time, mind u i consider myself doing very well in my life, leading a promising career, taking care of my family, just bought my fisrt car and trying my best to improve my life but still i feel like i am a looser since i c ould not get my self back since we broke up, i have been following up with him indirectly and he is doing so much better, got in a new relationship and moving to his second relationship and yet here i am watching all of this unfold infrot of me, my ego is soo bruised and i feel hurt and neglected. We did not have the healthiest relationship and it was my decsion to leave but part of me was hoping to see him try harder and live up to his words and promises !!! anyway , it gets easier but it get harder at the same time !
Yeah it hurts. But I'm getting there. He made me feel useless. Thinking all the time about the fun we had together. I find that walking aexercises dancing and good friends. I am really working on myself. He can go on doing all the foolish crap he is doing. I just want to live my best life. Oh he isn't on any petistal in my life. He is hanging by the ass of his pants with his partner. She is his boss mama knows best. Love ya thanks . Hugs💕💕💕💕💕
Can you help me what happened to me ? I have a girlfriend from six years ago out of nowhere that came back to my mind and since then I can't get her out on my mind. I am 100% sure i'm fully moved on because in the last 4 years I haven't thought about her at all. I am very confused why all of sudden, whenever I wake up she's the first thing that always hits my mind. And mind you, there are no triggers around me that's the thing that worries me.
I’ve been in contact for for over 2 months. I knew about the no contact rule, applied it and though I am feeling better I still have her in my mind. Especially the fact that we have twins that aren’t even 2 yet. Good thing is my parents help me with the babies so I don’t have to deal with her at the moment of pick ups and drop offs. I’m not sure how she’s taking it. More than likely better than me because of all the options presented through social media boost her ego.
@@papitrapstar1575 without a shadow of a doubt my G I highly dis believe that she’s just sitting around being sad. Just a fact I have to except. It’s been a little over 5 months now and I’ve caught 4 bodies lol so I’m out here putting my self in positions where I get laid too my G. Gym had always been a lifestyle for me but now I go harder. I’ve been also tatting up my skin and it just motivates me even more over all on my physique. I’m also working twice as hard and in all honesty I have the ability to get pussy without the headaches of worrying if she loves me, worrying about trying to keep her happy and maintaining her naw naw fuck all that I get pussy without really having to do much. Of course I love my kids and want the best possible outcome for them in their life so a 2 parent household will be a better option but it is what it is she wanted to leave I let her go.
Oh and yes he proposed to me two-and-a-half years ago and when I exposed him that my daughter found that he was searching up p0rn 10 days before, which in fact was always an open topic to me and I was okay with but he kept saying over and over whenever it came up he didn't want to do that he hasn't done it since we've been together and then when he was found out he pretty much left out the door and and ya never apologized and actually said he was going to apologize for it in the story turned. Anybody has that a clue to what that's about please let me know other than it being borderline personality disorder which I think he does have in different ways not just that. Thank you
I’m kinda scared A week after breakup I agreed in staying friends with my ex. I’m scared now I found out too late that being friends with an ex isn’t a good idea! 😢 Can you make a video on what to do AFTER you agreed to be friends with your ex? HOWEVER I went no contact since then tho
Just dont contact them first, your silence speaks volumes. Dont ignore them though, just dont act like their friend. And if they message you too frequently just tell them you've changed your mind and are not looking for a non romantic relationship.
@@bidotwo But do you recon it is still likely that he will go through dumpers grief after I asked him if we’re still friends? I mean it happened only a week after breakup when HE reached out.
@@asmisamaze1234 yes. Whether you find out about it or not is not guaranteed. But years later i have had exes contact me. I always thought reading comments of exes coming back “that would never be me” but it has been even recently. Too bad I’ve found better connection since him… which now Ive momentarily lost….. but to know exes I’ve never thought I’d hear from again still try contacting me, ones i was so sure wouldn’t, saying they think of me etc. IS INSANE. No contact is the only way! Don’t post on ig or fb waiting for him to see it. Become a mystery and disappear, one day he will contact you and only the universe knows if then you’ll still be inlove. My best friend got dumped soo many times by this guy and she ended up letting go and he came back and they are happily married. He was struggling in himself but he eventually realised she was the best he ever had. I remember her crying on my floor thinking she lost him forever. I could tell as an outside person that it wasn’t so black and white.
I’m only 18, we’re together for a year, broke up 2.5 months ago. Haven’t spoken really since, thinking of her again and I don’t know if I should text her or just continue letting myself move on
I'm unfortunately back on this channel again after 2 years, jee breakup(been together 3 months, not a single fight, she adked for a break, i say okay, she changes her mind the same day and then break up with me 2 days later. She needs to focus on her future she says) Also, im not able to enter the discord channel for some reasons, is it still active ?
Hey Rory! I dumped a guy few months back, because it wasn't working out. However, I do miss him a lot these days (more than 5 months). Should I contact him again?
Honestly it depends on your situation - but normally no I wouldn't advise this. If you're looking for more support we have opened our Discord Community. Here is the link: discord.gg/KUCeXX3uzS
Going Through A Breakup? Work with me!: www.thelovechat.net/coaching
If you would like Professional Therapy: www.BetterHelp.com/Rory (You receive a discount with this link - I am sponsored by BetterHelp and receive a commission!)
Been three years, I dont feel sad anymore. I still get intrusive thoughts sometimes but what I feel is Hate, Animosity, Revile and Hostility. I'm looking forward to the day when that's gone too and I will be finally at peace. Time.
Yep, I completely get what you’re saying mate, it’s been a little over a year for me & I wish I was at the stage you’re at, but unfortunately I’m still at that heartbroken stage. I’m hoping I will feel the anger & hatred soon to be honest.
I wake up thinking of my ex and the first video I see is this one.
4 years for me. Not really sad anymore. But I do think about my ex from time to time. I imagine running into her. I imagine what I would say or how I would act.
I hear she’s in a relationship and very happy. I haven’t contacted her 3 years.
same ere 4 me was ina 6year relationship she's married now n it's been 3years ago since No contact same like U myG staystrong🤘🏽❄️
@@papitrapstar1575 oh yes always .. you too bro
It’s getting better day by day surely, thanks to your vidoes Rory.
Glad to hear it!! Much love
Hey Rory my breakup happened in September and it was a 3 year relationship.
She’s not coming back but I’ve pretty much recovered. Intrusive thoughts still come and go I try and not dwell on them tho.
These have been so helpful to me. Im in separation from my husband that ive been with 17 yrs and im confused and heartbroken. Joining this discord thing now. Helps to know youre not alone ❤
Oh and with all that being said yes I went ahead and got back into my figure ice skating and actually a new roller rink just opened up and I just ordered my new roller skates so that's my gym❤😊
Love you coach thank you for being there❤
I'm so glad to help!
I guess it hurts more when not only are you in the same Christian community as your ex (we are both Seventh Day Adventist, a denomination of Christianity that is notoriously small) but we share the same community of people and family friends, I pray I continue to stay strong as I am currently 6 months of no contact on both ends, I am proud of myself for having this self control and not contacting her, but also the recurring dread that in the fall, we will be at the same grad school together.
I still get these thoughts and cry and have a hard time looking at anything that we experienced together and the breakup was last May 30th. On-and-off I'd seen them but realistically the second week of October that's when I initiated no contact and I've heard from him I think it would be considered bread crumbs other than almost 4 weeks ago where I got a text out of the blue at 3 and it said hello and how are you I was in our town earlier today and I had flashbacks of last winter together I hope you're doing okay with a 👍 I then responded something casually and lighthearted and funny and here we are on going on the 4th week and nothing from him.❤😢
It has been 3 years !! i cant believe how desperate this sounds and i think i am admitting it for the first time, mind u i consider myself doing very well in my life, leading a promising career, taking care of my family, just bought my fisrt car and trying my best to improve my life but still i feel like i am a looser since i c ould not get my self back since we broke up, i have been following up with him indirectly and he is doing so much better, got in a new relationship and moving to his second relationship and yet here i am watching all of this unfold infrot of me, my ego is soo bruised and i feel hurt and neglected. We did not have the healthiest relationship and it was my decsion to leave but part of me was hoping to see him try harder and live up to his words and promises !!! anyway , it gets easier but it get harder at the same time !
Missing these podcasts 😢
Thanks, your voice is soothing, reminds me of Brian Griffin
Help me, we just broke up last week.. I really feel hurt .. I can't stop thinking of him😢😢😢😢😢, I feel like I'm in the box... I can't breathe.
Yeah it hurts. But I'm getting there. He made me feel useless. Thinking all the time about the fun we had together. I find that walking aexercises dancing and good friends. I am really working on myself. He can go on doing all the foolish crap he is doing. I just want to live my best life. Oh he isn't on any petistal in my life. He is hanging by the ass of his pants with his partner. She is his boss mama knows best. Love ya thanks . Hugs💕💕💕💕💕
Your channel saves me thankyou for existing🥺❤️
I'm very glad to help!!
Can you help me what happened to me ? I have a girlfriend from six years ago out of nowhere that came back to my mind and since then I can't get her out on my mind. I am 100% sure i'm fully moved on because in the last 4 years I haven't thought about her at all.
I am very confused why all of sudden, whenever I wake up she's the first thing that always hits my mind. And mind you, there are no triggers around me that's the thing that worries me.
Could she be dead? Or alive and thinking about you.
I’ve been in contact for for over 2 months. I knew about the no contact rule, applied it and though I am feeling better I still have her in my mind. Especially the fact that we have twins that aren’t even 2 yet. Good thing is my parents help me with the babies so I don’t have to deal with her at the moment of pick ups and drop offs. I’m not sure how she’s taking it. More than likely better than me because of all the options presented through social media boost her ego.
Do u think she's wiv Other Men G?
@@papitrapstar1575 without a shadow of a doubt my G I highly dis believe that she’s just sitting around being sad. Just a fact I have to except. It’s been a little over 5 months now and I’ve caught 4 bodies lol so I’m out here putting my self in positions where I get laid too my G. Gym had always been a lifestyle for me but now I go harder. I’ve been also tatting up my skin and it just motivates me even more over all on my physique. I’m also working twice as hard and in all honesty I have the ability to get pussy without the headaches of worrying if she loves me, worrying about trying to keep her happy and maintaining her naw naw fuck all that I get pussy without really having to do much. Of course I love my kids and want the best possible outcome for them in their life so a 2 parent household will be a better option but it is what it is she wanted to leave I let her go.
Oh and yes he proposed to me two-and-a-half years ago and when I exposed him that my daughter found that he was searching up p0rn 10 days before, which in fact was always an open topic to me and I was okay with but he kept saying over and over whenever it came up he didn't want to do that he hasn't done it since we've been together and then when he was found out he pretty much left out the door and and ya never apologized and actually said he was going to apologize for it in the story turned. Anybody has that a clue to what that's about please let me know other than it being borderline personality disorder which I think he does have in different ways not just that. Thank you
I’m kinda scared
A week after breakup I agreed in staying friends with my ex.
I’m scared now I found out too late that being friends with an ex isn’t a good idea! 😢
Can you make a video on what to do AFTER you agreed to be friends with your ex?
HOWEVER I went no contact since then tho
Just dont contact them first, your silence speaks volumes. Dont ignore them though, just dont act like their friend. And if they message you too frequently just tell them you've changed your mind and are not looking for a non romantic relationship.
@@bidotwo
But do you recon it is still likely that he will go through dumpers grief after I asked him if we’re still friends?
I mean it happened only a week after breakup when HE reached out.
@@asmisamaze1234 yes. Whether you find out about it or not is not guaranteed. But years later i have had exes contact me. I always thought reading comments of exes coming back “that would never be me” but it has been even recently. Too bad I’ve found better connection since him… which now Ive momentarily lost….. but to know exes I’ve never thought I’d hear from again still try contacting me, ones i was so sure wouldn’t, saying they think of me etc. IS INSANE.
No contact is the only way!
Don’t post on ig or fb waiting for him to see it. Become a mystery and disappear, one day he will contact you and only the universe knows if then you’ll still be inlove.
My best friend got dumped soo many times by this guy and she ended up letting go and he came back and they are happily married. He was struggling in himself but he eventually realised she was the best he ever had. I remember her crying on my floor thinking she lost him forever. I could tell as an outside person that it wasn’t so black and white.
Just tell him how you really feel. You can’t be friends when it’s hurting you. Let him know and take your leave.
I’m only 18, we’re together for a year, broke up 2.5 months ago. Haven’t spoken really since, thinking of her again and I don’t know if I should text her or just continue letting myself move on
Any update?
I'm unfortunately back on this channel again after 2 years, jee breakup(been together 3 months, not a single fight, she adked for a break, i say okay, she changes her mind the same day and then break up with me 2 days later. She needs to focus on her future she says)
Also, im not able to enter the discord channel for some reasons, is it still active ?
Here you go: discord.gg/P4jQ3KQx
Hey Rory! I dumped a guy few months back, because it wasn't working out. However, I do miss him a lot these days (more than 5 months). Should I contact him again?
Honestly it depends on your situation - but normally no I wouldn't advise this. If you're looking for more support we have opened our Discord Community. Here is the link: discord.gg/KUCeXX3uzS
@@TheLoveChat hmm... Thank you!
Rory, the Love Chad!!