Therapist Reacts to His Own Deepfake Scandal

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  • @MendedLight
    @MendedLight  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Help us help others! Play here: mendedlight.agave.live/

    • @extrovertedintrovert2900
      @extrovertedintrovert2900 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I can't get a number to appear for me. I just keep getting the spinning circle, no matter how many times I press the button, open a new tab with the link, restart my browser or even change devices! Did the website crash or is it just me?

    • @mathmusicreading
      @mathmusicreading 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@extrovertedintrovert2900 It's stopped working for me too

    • @lucyairapetian407
      @lucyairapetian407 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Enter giveaway button is not clicking :c

    • @mathmusicreading
      @mathmusicreading 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It wasn't working for me earlier this morning, but now it is.

  • @sameaston9587
    @sameaston9587 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +259

    I think it's safe to confirm the channel isn't hacked, because a hack-fraud wouldn't turn a sour situation into a learning moment and make a video of it. Take care Jono.

    • @MendedLight
      @MendedLight  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      Thank you! It's what I'm here for :)

    • @LVLifeguard
      @LVLifeguard 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Very true! Hackers usually promote their own scams... not the channels legitimate give aways and content consistent with the channel brand 😊

    • @sibyllehildebrandt5462
      @sibyllehildebrandt5462 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@MendedLightthat's the nice thing about being a therapist: you can work with almost everything and make it a chance to learn and grow 😅

    • @ceterisparibus8966
      @ceterisparibus8966 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@sibyllehildebrandt5462Everything?

    • @vvelvettearss
      @vvelvettearss 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      this kinda made me cry

  • @Uncle_Smidge
    @Uncle_Smidge 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

    Concerned viewers: "That's not Jono! Those eyes look soulless!"
    Jono, feeling a little wounded: "Dude. I'M JUST A TIRED, BUSY DAD! ...rude."

    • @naturallyamused
      @naturallyamused 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      It's like when I don't wear make up, and people ask if I'm sick 😅

    • @Trysaratop
      @Trysaratop 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂

    • @joeychen3946
      @joeychen3946 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@naturallyamusedYES! When people ask if I'm tired, it's utaully because I forgot to draw my eyebrows lol

  • @JustClaude13
    @JustClaude13 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    Jono is real, but Alan was actually created in Jono's secret lab in Transylvania.
    The book will be released next year; "Making Friends in Your Basement With Ingredients Found Around the House."

    • @masmith8308
      @masmith8308 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      #CryingWithMonsterAlan

    • @kpopf4nmom
      @kpopf4nmom 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂😂😂

    • @VarianAlastair
      @VarianAlastair 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Is this part of the same series featuring the old cannibal classic cookbook "Having Friends For Dinner"?

  • @moreanimals6889
    @moreanimals6889 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    I have a relative who has a 100% bought into all kinds of conspiracy theories and won't listen to anything I say, in an attempt to calm their fears. I have given up responding to them because it is pointless. If they go on a rant, I have to either watch them spiral or leave the room so I don't have to watch them spiral. Thank you for your channel and your willingness to do something kind.

  • @brittanywilcox7377
    @brittanywilcox7377 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    Not being believed is a big fear of mine. Also, people are wild😂

    • @MendedLight
      @MendedLight  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      I feel that!

    • @sparklefairy34
      @sparklefairy34 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same!

    • @LVLifeguard
      @LVLifeguard 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ain't that the truth!

  • @WhatsAModderU
    @WhatsAModderU 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

    I don’t know how Jono can literally go through the #2 most stressful event according to a public poll (divorce) and see so many fans turn on him and still have the strength to make it humorous (amazing emotion regulation skills by the way from the DBT handbook) and still take thirteen minutes to calmly confront the rumors! Also Emerald City ComicCon sounds kickbutt. Road trips will actually mess with your head and can confirm the remark about typos.
    Please continue doing Mended Light and CinemaTherapy! It actually keeps me as well as others from wanting to stay in a place of self-loathing and utter disgust. People are so mean and it’s just not okay to take it so far as to remove Mended Light from public view. I mean there’s no excuse to disregard people’s feelings like this.

    • @LVLifeguard
      @LVLifeguard 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's a great point! I don't think any of them plan on quitting anytime soon! You're in good hands 😊

    • @isa196954
      @isa196954 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      What do you mean divorce? 🙃

    • @WhatsAModderU
      @WhatsAModderU 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@isa196954 Jono and Alicia bravely announced that their marriage would be more a close friendship and that they would continue doing Mended Light, just not as a married couple.

    • @hotdogworld8907
      @hotdogworld8907 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Jono is divorcing?

    • @WhatsAModderU
      @WhatsAModderU 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hotdogworld8907 yeah…

  • @WishfulThinkingArt
    @WishfulThinkingArt 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Wow, that DID escalate quickly. It sounds like it’s been quite the roller coaster, Dr. Decker, and I’m so sorry it’s been so stressful lately! I hope you’re still taking care of yourself and know that you and the communities you and all the Mended Light and Cinema Therapy teams created are much loved and appreciated! Big hugs to you guys and hope you have a good time at Emerald City Comic Con!

    • @MendedLight
      @MendedLight  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thank you!

  • @Oracle_Ocelot
    @Oracle_Ocelot 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    what?! I didn't catch the last few videos, I feel like troy walking in with a pizza on community. amazing that you not only rode the wave of such a wild event but turned it into a helpful dialogue

  • @debkunkel5840
    @debkunkel5840 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    I have to admit, when I went to the actual game site, and the way that the game is structured to repeatedly click, then sending you to "survey" questions in between made it seem a little off to me, So then went back to the video and started to wonder. As someone who has had emails sent to people in my name saying "I am in a meeting and need you to go buy $500.00 worth of gift cards for me" and then had to try to track down everyone who got one to let them know it was not me, and comfort one or two who did do it, I can be suspicious if things are off. And those "little" things you mention are the red flags I was told to tell people to watch for, so put together, it's not surprising people insisted it was a fake. And I'm am someone who is usually the debunking/"no, no, that's a hoax/not true" camp. Perhaps if you do this again, announcing the contest is starting on Patreon/TH-cam the prior day (even if you don't give any details other than- "watch for our next exciting contest starting tomorrow") would make it easier for people to check what is going on? In these days of AI and cloning of accounts, there is going to be a lot of suspicion if things look off. And will share it to try to keep the vulnerable from being conned.

    • @LVLifeguard
      @LVLifeguard 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's a great point! Alot of channels give some lead in or announcement of "coming attractions" or giveaways... I'm sure they'll do that next time (maybe for more than one video!) to avoid this "kerfuffle" as Jono put it, again 😂

  • @TheSolXP
    @TheSolXP 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Firstly: it makes me sad that this got out of control so quickly because your first contest was how I won a consoltation to get the help that I need and have made astronomical progress in the last year or so.
    Secondly: kinda sad that this is how I find out you're in my backyard at ECCC and my work prevents me from attending to personally Thank You.
    I have hopes I will one day shake your hand as an extent of my gratitude. Until then, may your family get some peace after this ordeal and I hope you enjoy our wonderful Emerald City.
    Namaste.

  • @jadehartleycreative
    @jadehartleycreative 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Well done Jono, for facing such a stressfull situation with such resilience and turning it into a teachable moment! This is proof that his advice is well worth listening too, because he's not only telling how to respond to difficulties in the best manner, here he's demonstrating it.

    • @MendedLight
      @MendedLight  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm touched. Thank you!

    • @mishetorah
      @mishetorah 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! It's a rare thing where you can actually see people literally practicing what they preach in real situations, much less on an online platform. This is the only place I've seen that done

  • @kory_misun
    @kory_misun 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    It is somewhat of a relief that the misinformed users called the whole situation a hack, rather than calling you, Mended Light the channel and you Jono, a scam artist. That would have been so much worse. Thank you for coming on and explaining what's really happened, and I'm happy you survived those nasty weather conditions on the road.
    I also Edit my comments a lot, in case I misword or have more ideas to add. Oh hey, I'm doing that right now!

  • @m3ntyb
    @m3ntyb 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Finally someone using low-key the familiar way.

  • @juliethomas3523
    @juliethomas3523 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for being a great example of conflict resolution, and for explaining about confirmation bias. Confirmation bias is indeed dangerous.

  • @cynthiaarcher6602
    @cynthiaarcher6602 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Debriefing after something like this (which is essentially a betrayal) is catharsis.
    Thank you Jono for humbly and honestly engaging with that. Being vulnerable is strength.

  • @tyleremery7088
    @tyleremery7088 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I saw the giveaway video in my feed but didnt watch it, saw the confirmation video but didnt watch it, and at that point I was super confused (Why the heck does he have to say it's not a deepfake?). I had no clue this drama was even occurring; that's insane. Major props for not only getting things back under control but also turning it into an excellent learning moment and discussion of confirmation bias.

  • @tomburns7544
    @tomburns7544 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Hard lesson learned. Thanks, Jono.

    • @MendedLight
      @MendedLight  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      In my experience those are the ones that stick. My love and gratitude to you.

  • @KirstenWakiesa
    @KirstenWakiesa 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    As a fan of Cinema Therapy and a member of the Mended Light membership site, I can tell that the Jono we saw in the giveaway video was the purest, lovely, hyperactive goofball we can get in videos like this😆. He's a lot like this in the CT commercials and that bookshelf is also well known from those videos. Sorry buddy but those people who reported it as a AI Jono don't know you 😂.
    I remember, that when the channel got hacked I've reached out to TH-cam and you on Twitter (X) and asked what to do to be able to help.
    Let me just quick tell you that I love what you do at mended light and all. Thank you 😁 love you 💚 and have a great time 😊 even though you're just an AI 😜 I'll shut up now 😂

  • @liljabee
    @liljabee 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It was a really interesting phenomenon to watch (as a Sociologist) seeing the social contagion aspect of misinformation happen in real time. It gives you a good sense of how moral panics and social panics happen. It uses some our best human nature - the stuff that allows society to happen- against us. I agree, confirmation bias is a big part of this but it's also about this loss of shared reality. Durkheim talks about the importance of a collective conscious - we must have a shared world view to function as a society. What gets me is that the "post-truth" era amplified by these technological leaps, it is eroding collective conscious.

  • @KitCat898
    @KitCat898 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    HUH?! I didn’t click on a few videos and all of a sudden there was chaos!!! How crazy.

  • @jilljmj
    @jilljmj 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel so bad for you, this sounds so stressful. I really hope you’re able to get some rest in-between all of the things you have going on in the near future. Take care and stay safe! 💗

  • @PungoGlenn
    @PungoGlenn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I didn't give my phone number, but my Wife did, and she said someone from ML called and she was suffering from a migraine and told them it wasn't a good time to talk, but the telemarketer kept pushing and it triggered her PTSD and she pushed back and told them AGAIN she had a migraine and couldn't talk. After the call she reported to ML the incident. So while it's not a scam, it was followed up with an aggressive marketing campaign. I love the ML & CT channels so I still support you, but just FYI about the follow-up telemarketing.

    • @SReads-dh4rr
      @SReads-dh4rr 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tell her about the hang up feature

  • @evelyneverdeen7971
    @evelyneverdeen7971 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so sorry to hear that you (and everyone else connected to these two channels) had to go through that! It sounds incredibly stressful. But I'm glad that it's getting cleared up and I hope you'll still have an amazing time at the comic con and doing everything else that you planned for this trip and that no further negative surprises will come up, at the very least for the duration of this trip!

  • @scaliedog2777
    @scaliedog2777 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm sorry you had to deal with this, Jono. Sending internet hugs ❤

  • @mishetorah
    @mishetorah 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love how you're taking real life situations in your life, stressful situations into teaching moments for others. Thank you for taking the time, I appreciate you and learned so much :)

  • @polarberri
    @polarberri 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sorry you had to go through this - that sounds immensely stressful, and you are doing such a nice thing for us and for people in need! Thank you for turning this into such a thoughtful and informative discussion.

  • @jennifergwyneth9546
    @jennifergwyneth9546 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I wondered at first, but I recognized the bookshelf. (I'm a Librarian. I recognize many of those books.) With a lot of these kinds of things, I go to the source. In this case, I'd go check the websites to see if it's mentioned there.

  • @authorsamanthakroese555
    @authorsamanthakroese555 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow. Just wow at the entire situation. Hilarious but also terrifying and how frustrating when you were just trying to help people! Thank you for all you do. You're amazing and you help so many people. I'm so glad it got sorted!

  • @rebeccatompkins
    @rebeccatompkins 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love CT and ML. I'm grateful you are safe and still here.

  • @dominic_19077
    @dominic_19077 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    One thing that seems odd to me that *I* would've done if I'd actually watched the comments for the giveaway, is that I'd have ran over to the CT's Discord server to find out if the channel *had* been hacked or not. Because, even if hackers had gotten control of the YT channels, the discord server has a full staff of mods and admins to keep it safe, and would certainly know for a fact if the channel had actually been hacked or not.
    Also, that's kinda literally the reason I joined the discord server. I like to follow my fave content creators on more than one medium, just in case something *does* happen, then I can ask. And generally just to keep up-to-date.
    That's also why I'd asked in a live Q&A with you and your wife, if Mended Light had a discord server too.
    Anyway, wow. That was a wild journey, LOL! And I am glad you could sort it out before any damage was done. And that you could turn this into a topic for Mended Light, that's great too!
    And this is enlightening about the strange side-effects of the AI debate. + Quite an unforutnate series of events, LOL!

  • @sarahmeagen
    @sarahmeagen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Only an evil robot would say they're not an evil robot 😂 i joke i joke! The contest was soo fun! Thank you for the opportunity to participate!

  • @stephaniecarlos2215
    @stephaniecarlos2215 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love that you turned this into a lesson we all need to think about. Thank you

  • @stevezytveld6585
    @stevezytveld6585 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think this was a snapshot of what the coming year is going to be like. Take care and stay safe.
    - Cathy (&, accidently, Steve), Ottawa/Bytown/Pimisi

  • @queenannsrevenge100
    @queenannsrevenge100 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You poor bastard. ❤ I hope this has finally calmed down for everyone’s sake.
    Perhaps next time interact with items from the background 😂

  • @kurtsiecolferites2160
    @kurtsiecolferites2160 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sheesh. I missed this whole shennanigan. I'm glad it got resolved, though. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. This whole AI thing with Hollywood, etc has me very on edge. Glad to know you weren't hacked!

  • @dusty_sea330
    @dusty_sea330 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Confirmation bias is why I find the tv show "The Traitors" equal parts fascinating AND a bit depressing. It's basically all that that "reality game" relies upon.
    But also, Cinema Therapy is coming as speakers at Emerald City Comic Con?!?! 🤩 I've thought about going to it before, but haven't ever done so. That might actually get me to go this year! 😃 It's been at least 7 years since the last time I attended a con, and that had been all way down in Orlando!

    • @dusty_sea330
      @dusty_sea330 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ....Or are you (Jonathan) and Alan simply going as attendees for fun and that was a mistake for you to have mentioned?

    • @LVLifeguard
      @LVLifeguard 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I believe they were invited and will have a Cinema Therapy panel during a time slot there.... but I could be wrong 🤷🏼‍♂️

  • @PoltergeistTears
    @PoltergeistTears 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Wow , I’m sorry this happened to you 😢 with everything going on for you at the moment, as we say in the UK 🇬🇧 you needed that like a hole in the head 😅 people are very quick these days to jump to conclusions and quick to believe there own lies which could have damaged you and your livelihood I just wish these key board idiots would just think of what there doing 😢I hope this situation has got sorted out Jono I really do , this upset me greatly ( I actually cried because I thought these idiots ruined it for you and everyone that entered the giveaway ) 😢

    • @MendedLight
      @MendedLight  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It sucked at the time, for sure. Now it's a little bit funny. What a story!

    • @PoltergeistTears
      @PoltergeistTears 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@MendedLightI’m glad you can see the funny side to it now even though it wasn’t funny at the time my heart sank literally, sounds silly but I thought I’d never see you guys again 🥴🥺😅 definitely though what a story indeed 😅

  • @yaizajarabo7701
    @yaizajarabo7701 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I'm so sorry but it's also funny, sometimes people Lost their north and get justo craaaazy

    • @MendedLight
      @MendedLight  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Our tendency to latch onto conspiracy theories is wild!

  • @MelissaHogwood
    @MelissaHogwood 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I didnt even know this happened. People are nuts.

  • @KxNOxUTA
    @KxNOxUTA 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Oh goodness, Jonno :'D I am really really sorry that happened. By the time I saw it you had posted videos of everything being OK and I was very stunned. Then again, it was not the first time I saw ppl freaking out over sth. possibly being Ai generated and me shaking my head cause ppl underestimate how much effort that stuff thankfully still takes nowadays to get done.
    But I guess .... "welcome in the next generation of trust issues" (ToT)
    The whole "Fake news" drama was already bad enough. Now it's AI. This is what happens when you treat reality in disrespectful manner and then proceed to roll out disrespectful tools to general public which is in the mids of all sorts of crisis and by no means emotionally regulated enough to handle any of this well. Also that it's technology that was instantly adapted and abused by the pornography industry should have been all the necessary warning you'd need to know this all is a terrible idea.

  • @extrovertedintrovert2900
    @extrovertedintrovert2900 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    At first, I completely believed the giveaway. I clicked on the link and went to the comment section to talk about how excited I was. Then I read the top comment that was nitpicking every single detail and "proving" that it was deep faked and I got nervous. I rewatched the video, and I could see where they were coming from, but it seemed so real to me. When Jono said that the last giveaway was still up on the chanel though, I immediately looked for it and when I found it that was proof enough for me to keep playing. After a bit I caught the last little bit of the live he made, and I went down to defend Jono in the origional video. That was such a big thing, but I'm glad it ended well!

  • @vanessaminiatures7023
    @vanessaminiatures7023 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is a very important topic that I dont think enough people talk about. Content creation is fuelled by controversy, and too many people feed it, and their viewers feel like they need to adhere to that point of view. Then they get more content or voices confirming that view, and it grows into strong beliefs. It angered me as a thing that divided my family, and it scares me as an international phenomenon...

    • @MendedLight
      @MendedLight  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Agree on all counts. That's a big reason why, when we address controversies here, it's an attempt to diffuse them.

  • @Sytry6990
    @Sytry6990 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are the best youtuber, I love you so much!!!! Much much support to you! ❤❤❤

  • @Heffeth
    @Heffeth 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That topic jzst gave me such a headache. I had a complete panic attack and meltdown some days ago, not because of this but because the technology is on its way to devide us even further and never trust anyone or anything. As a former journalist, people just ignoring evidence are so scary to me. I quit my job because I didn't have the nerve and it made me ill but I still believe in the importance and responsibility, but the whole system (deadline pressure, less and less people, no time for double-checking) makes it so hard to live up to that. And now deepfake etc ... I'm so, so scared. Internet is such an opportunity and I learn so much listening to people and their diverse experiences, but lately I just want to curl up and shut out the World

  • @baileeridenour8947
    @baileeridenour8947 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow I hadn’t heard any of this but like Ted lasso you can make a learning lesson out of a bad moment. Impressive

  • @elineeugenie5224
    @elineeugenie5224 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a HASSLE guys!!! also, how scary and icky.
    This is me, a real person. Thank you for the video.
    Man.

  • @plantyfan
    @plantyfan 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    10:16 What Alice Forgot is maybe too triggering for some but it's a really good book and the reason I love it is that it removed all context for Alice to continue drawing the same conclusions and allowed her to see it all brand new from a different time in her life.

  • @tmatthewnielsen
    @tmatthewnielsen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Unfortunately, this seems to be what happens when "the quiet guy" presents more "big energy" than usual in a video: people assume something's amiss. I hope this doesn't scare you away from doing the occasional "big" gestures in the future, because that side of you is fun, too! We love professional, serious Jono and goofy, energetic Jono equally, and I imagine even Internet Dads need to hear that now and then.

  • @einavnesher7423
    @einavnesher7423 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    wait so this is what it was all about? I thought the "it's not a hack, it's real" posts were like "we know it sounds too good to be true but it's real" or something. I'm glad it worked out though, would be a bummer if you were taken down. Take care!

  • @Sarah-Jane17
    @Sarah-Jane17 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jono I think you need to make a T-shirt of you with sunglasses saying " Come with me if you want to heal" 😄.

    • @JBUHJBUH
      @JBUHJBUH 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Haha that's a great idea - I would buy that t-shirt!

  • @missnaomi613
    @missnaomi613 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just commenting to show support.
    💖💖💖💖

  • @francleighscarlett
    @francleighscarlett 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There was a chat bot in comments this morning, but it definitely wasn't any of the verified checks of mended light or cinema therapy.
    I still think its wild this happened.
    Ive been in that situation on a road trip where something was blowing up real fast, and I agree it is stressful, esp if maybe youre in a spot with poor data, and cant react in the moment.
    I can't recall, was the giveaway mentioned prior to Monday? I knew there was a contest last year so i wasnt surprised, but im wondering if maybe next year on the content videos, the closing could have "stay tuned next monday about our big giveaway!"

  • @MoonBeamLight
    @MoonBeamLight 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is very scary and the AI stuff is getting too good too fast and there aren’t any rules or laws set to keep it under control, and then you have politicians and corrupt people who will definitely take advantage of this… Anyway, that’s a side thought but I’m so sorry this happened to you guys :/ That’s so stressful, but love how it led to an important topic to talk about and that you connected it to therapy and how we all need to question things, check our thoughts and biases, self-reflect, and aim to grow.

  • @bowtiesrcoolmonksrnot3272
    @bowtiesrcoolmonksrnot3272 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sounds like you had a scary week. Glad this didn’t dim your light too much!

  • @mtorres9069
    @mtorres9069 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow, what a rollercoaster. When I saw it the first time I know that is was real because I teach my students that AI can do and I know that it was you. Thank you for all you do and I know that you were trying to help other people.

  • @mariakai
    @mariakai 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We love you!❤

  • @daleannharsh8295
    @daleannharsh8295 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Personally I am so skeptical these days because so many things and people have been revealed to be fake and scammers that, lol, I'm definitely having trust issues. But, just as on Face Book, I would have reported it to the channel (or page) owner first to let them deal with it.

  • @RoarTheRapper
    @RoarTheRapper 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I don't think we have to be afraid of technology. What we NEED to be cautious about is how quickly we just believe everything. Because if we're only able to take a moment, take a breath and realize it's fake, then the technology used in a bad way won't have any lasting repercussions. I'm glad this issue got solved Jono, I'm just sorry you had to have a mini crisis before that was accomplished!

    • @christianseibold3369
      @christianseibold3369 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, exactly! This is precisely the problem. We have AI now and we cannot stop it. We must learn how to detect when something is AI and when something isn't, and also learn to not jump to conclusions. Part of learning how to detect AI is learning where it's current limits are. I am more able to tell if something is real if I know what the limits of AI are - what AI currently cannot do. And this ultimately requires better computer literacy in general.

  • @masmith8308
    @masmith8308 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When you said you all were almost blown off the road, I knew you had to be traveling through Wyoming 😖 Thank you for this video!

  • @devinodonnell
    @devinodonnell 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know when I watched the video in question that kicked off the entire debacle I noticed that the contrasting between the distal-most edges of your shirt, the shelves in the background, and the books on said shelves made it look like you were an additional video layer that was overlaid onto an IMAGE of your bookshelf, but after rewatching it a few times I did notice that while it *looked* that way it actually wasn't, and did not report it despite the comment section raging to that effect.

  • @anyaroz8619
    @anyaroz8619 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a nightmare! I can't even imagine what I would do if this happened to me. It's a terrible story. So happy that it's over and all is well now.

  • @VorpalSnickerSnack
    @VorpalSnickerSnack 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's nice everyone was skeptical, sorry it caused a scare Jono.

  • @lowings848
    @lowings848 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think its Dale Carnegie that wrote you only need one person running the other way screaming and the sheep will follow. Something like that. Wasn't aware of the scandal or that other people actually read comments and take action that sometimes result in consequences. Interesting. Imagine if we could do some good in the world with that. But we probably wouldn't trust that either. Let's keep Mended Light online 😜😆

  • @Baltabak
    @Baltabak 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As a guy who is pretty aware of deepfake visuals & online scammery, I think we can acknowledge that the video was tonally different from the average mended light vid, so i guess in therapeutic fashion, I think it totally makes sense that people's feeling of distrust were going off. combine that with an unusual site interface, and maybe not tech savvy audience wanting to look out for each other, communication attempts to the creator might have been wiser than immediate reporting. like if you actually watched the whole video, you'd think "ok this is real, but a casual acknowledgement and side-humor would off-set the prompter" other parties would also have acknowledged that mended light as a foundation has been around for a while and checking the main site would have shown alignment with the new video and the new giveaway. the info submission & foreign link clicking does make it seem more sus understandably

  • @ParkityParkPark
    @ParkityParkPark 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have multiple relatives who are as confident in their conclusions as they are quick to jump to them. To be blunt, it's so hard to deal with that it's been a majorly contributing factor to my losing desire to spend time with those family members. The only thing that can make talking to someone as unappealing as them being rude is when you feel like you're talking to a brick wall

  • @marlyd
    @marlyd 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As someone super interested in conspiracy theorist and cult mechanics I'm not surprised, as a random human who just watches Mended Light, I am waking up to this and thinking WHAT? Of all the things and people to suspect deep fakes and conspiracy from? Mended Light? Living in this day and age is while AF not going to lie 😅

  • @yoknom
    @yoknom 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    wow, I hadn't seen either of the videos and wasn't aware this was going on! I can imagine how scary this was and am glad you could prevent it from going further.

  • @mybrainlikesthings
    @mybrainlikesthings 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There is a lesson here about the merits of so-called "community," especially when you get into a tail-wagging-dog situation in which viewership gets to control what you're doing. Traditional broadcasting has code of conduct guidelines that include such things as when to leave the mic on and when to not give a platform to the call-ins.

  • @summerskull9379
    @summerskull9379 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I did not think AI Deepfakes could advance this quickly!

  • @andreashelley4870
    @andreashelley4870 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sorry everything got so stressful for you❤

  • @Miss_Lexisaurus
    @Miss_Lexisaurus 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's so scary that it's so hard to know what is true now because of how good AI is getting. It's eroding trust and community faster than ever because of that too which is just heartbreaking.

    • @MendedLight
      @MendedLight  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It is. It's a mess.

  • @thewunderbart
    @thewunderbart 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    To be honest, the original announcement had me suspicious. And the attempts of fixing it didn't make it better 😂.

  • @amandamarie1180
    @amandamarie1180 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's so sad that in today's society you can't try and do something nice for someone without it either backfiring or someone thinking it's a scam

  • @tellitaMS
    @tellitaMS 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    we are in the era of impulsivity, society need less time in social media

  • @TheOddPixel
    @TheOddPixel 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    To be fair to those who were concerned, a comment saying "this is real, we haven't been hacked" is almost certainly something a hacker would do if they had hacked you...if they'd had access to your account to upload an AI vid, they could certainly respond to comments too and no viewer could know for sure that it was you or not especially once the seed of doubt had been cast in their minds. A live stream/video was a good response because that's a much better way to verify your identity. A really unfortunate situation all-in-all, I'm glad it got straightened out...and sad I missed the window for the competition lol

  • @RainbowSheltie
    @RainbowSheltie 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Personally, I find videos that are “different” aren’t deep fakes, it’s because something went wrong between the filming, editing and upload process (where the creator either didn’t have time or had little desire to fix it). The other reason I assumed it was questionable editing (and not deep faked) is because there had been previous sweepstakes before, I remember a few on Cinema Therapy with different prizes. If I were suspicious, I’d also look for more information on the creators different social media accounts and/or ask them about the sweepstakes.

  • @Prof_Tickles92
    @Prof_Tickles92 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Jono has been possessed by The Thing.

  • @lilycollegemythbusters5532
    @lilycollegemythbusters5532 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    People look for drama because they are usually paranoid in their own life. Don't let your fear control you. People make up fake memes, and fake deep fake videos, and fake posts. It is sad that people fall for it. Stay positive and stay critical. Do not let fear rule!

  • @Battle_Hippos11
    @Battle_Hippos11 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As a person who has had to help stop hackers and have had people deep fake old people into debt I don't believe it's ever bad to be cautious about scams. But yeah the over reaction was a bit much.

  • @Mohenjo_Daro_
    @Mohenjo_Daro_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    There were two main issues here imo: The first is that a lot of CT viewers don't watch ML content, and there is a noticeable audio and video quality different between the sets that they aren't used to; and once people think you're hacked on the internet, it's very hard to prove otherwise since if they're still "in" then they can say whatever they want as the "source". But I agree that friendly fire is a terrible thing to be hit by. Making a comment questioning the validity is one thing, but jumping into every discussion stating for a fact without confirmation is another. This is a very human and understandable response in my eyes, but it's still a shame it went down such a torch burning route even if it had good intentions

  • @ryuguy032197
    @ryuguy032197 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    so wait, you're telling me some people thought that giveaway was a deepfake?.....man, I must be smooth-brained because I didn't think anything of it. I believed it was real just not all that interested in participating in a giveaway

  • @RainbowSunshineRain
    @RainbowSunshineRain 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I only found out about the contest when I saw your video “I am real, not deepfake”😅 so hopefully it raised publicity😊

  • @blueberrydragon5160
    @blueberrydragon5160 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My opinion might not matter in this as I wasn‘t part of it. But in my opinion, the danger to people getting scammed is more severe here than the channel staying up…

  • @JRMcCarroll
    @JRMcCarroll 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm glad I missed all of this until after it was over. It's hard, because AI's are getting better, sometimes at an alarming rate, and we don't always know how to evaluate this kind of claim.

  • @ryabow
    @ryabow 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i was hoping you'd call out some of the funny comments. if I'm being truthful, i was hoping more my capturing, and interrogation of a toaster would make it in there, but ngl, the skynet joke made me giggle. they got my thumbs up, too.

  • @ThatJ0eGuy
    @ThatJ0eGuy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    To those that got swept up in this - be kind to yourself. You almost certainly meant well, and its ok to be wrong if you learn from it - in fact its downright healthy.

  • @Blackcat35938
    @Blackcat35938 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg I’m so sorry. This must be so difficult! I was not sure if it’s a scam or real. It did feel fake. I didnt report it. I was trying to understand. The whole situation is so funny thinking something is fake when it’s not fake and and not so funny, it’s scary a bit for future 😅

  • @whittenaw
    @whittenaw 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow I missed the drama 😢😢

  • @LaPrincipessaNuova
    @LaPrincipessaNuova 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve been seeing a lesser version of this a lot, especially in TH-cam and Reddit comments. Someone will make a legitimate comment, and either it’s a little more verbose than people like, or it has typos, or it sounds a bit academic in tone, and people spam it with replies like “this is a bot”, “I just looked through the account history and they’re definitely a bot, because ”. And the person just replies like “I’m not a bot. Please stop saying I’m a bot.”
    And I’m looking at this thinking that nothing about this sounds like AI to me. This person’s account looks completely normal, and everyone is just seeing what they want to see because they either disagreed with the person or believed the first person to call them a bot.
    And in that case, it’s a little extra ridiculous if a comment online sounds like a bot, because of course they do. Why do you think Reddit locked down their APIs? Because AI was being trained on it and they wanted a cut of the AI money.

  • @curtin1977
    @curtin1977 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whaaaaat? I didn't even see that

  • @cavemann_
    @cavemann_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm gonna be honest, TH-cam has a nasty tendency to be taken advantage of, constantly plagued by impersonation and other forms of scam artists. Whenever there's a giveaway contest I've been always skeptical, but the presence of AI deepfakes may have just pushed me towards the trigger-happy "yep this is fake" claims. The fact that the video leads towards an external website that contains survey questions had me on full alert. The giveaway/charity hasn't been made public before the video itself, it's been done on such short notice too that you can't help but wonder. These are all the red flags that I've been always looking for, and so far this line of thought has kept me out of harm's way.
    Undeniably though I should've stopped to think. I'm fairly sure that me and many other people wouldn't have been so quick to judge had we stopped to think. But perhaps there's another lesson to be learnt here, perhaps the announcer could've done more to avoid this situation. But with all that said, I know how it feels to be wronged like this, it is very frustrating and hurtful. I don't wish for something like that to happen to anyone, and I wish you the best of luck with your foundation. You're doing a lot of good and I think you should be proud of it.

  • @echognomecal6742
    @echognomecal6742 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Still feels weird when Max headroom pops up somewhere randomly. I'm part of the generation that experienced him...& were surreally impressed.

  • @cynthiaarcher6602
    @cynthiaarcher6602 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This really worries me too.
    It IS scary and our greatest war right now is not with AI.
    It’s with ourselves.
    Second guessing ourselves is not a sign of weakness. Being willing to check ourselves is humility.
    Humility is a very good thing.

  • @vvelvettearss
    @vvelvettearss 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I dont say Im sure Im right either about things anymore
    1 -because it sounds suspicious and unconvincing to people who are putting their trust in you
    and 2 - because Im human and flawed. like every single other man woman and child on the planet is flawed and NO ONE is perfect which I know includes me
    However knowing that cognitively and feeling it emotionally are two VERY different things so just to be safe where I cant tap into that "Im aware of my flaws on a sensory level" i never say Im certain unless I am at that moment in time or im right because...im not I just say things to the best of my ability with what I have learned and have at hand at the time but like you said Jono we are always learning
    Id do well to remember this
    ive got a bit stunted how a days

  • @-mir85-36
    @-mir85-36 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As a friendly suggestion, maybe take this to mean that you need a better recording setup. I've previously found some of the mended light videos hard to watch because of audio/image sync issues/choppiness. It's too bad to have a good message ruined by poor video quality.

    • @samanthanorton4538
      @samanthanorton4538 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I do think a big part was that the audio sounds robotic which does bring AI to mind. Also the giveaway site has a very similar style to fake prize website, so I could see how people put two and two together. I personally didn't see anything until the it's real videos, but I can see how people got there.

  • @TheRentFan
    @TheRentFan 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm not seeing anything about you guys on ECCC's site. When are you going to be there?

  • @biffstrong1079
    @biffstrong1079 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow soul-less eyes. That's a little harsh.
    Dear Lord. Glad you could get it fixed.
    I know you are real.
    But is Alan's Hair real? Cause it seems too lovely.

  • @mangoblaze
    @mangoblaze 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I do have one legitimate but strange problem with the giveaway: I cannot press the submit botton on the site for whatever reason 🤷‍♂ btw have fun battling Skynet

  • @teesh871
    @teesh871 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thats so odd. I was watching a documentary on Netflix when this video came up. Or my ohone alerted me it came up..anyway. It was about actual hackers that ruined a guys life but the point is...I don't know why this coincidentally came into my life at the same time but it's a really good lesson. I feel like human connection is going to be the only thing that can save us from stuff like this. Recognising 'oh wow I'm at an 11...maybe I should take this down to a 2 before reacting. What do I know about this person? Who can I talk to that might know more?' Like you said all well that ends well but people have been hurt by assumptions like this. Romcoms are built on it. Stay safe. Talk to your neighbours. Pat a dog. Stroke a plushie. Youre doing fine.