Marriage in Vietnam Goes HORRIBLY WRONG! (Think TWICE before doing it)

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  • Not only autorities can repossess your house and assets! When marriage in Vietnam goes horribly wrong, your Vietnamese wife (or husband) can take away all your money too! That’s exactly what happened, and in this episode, Attorney Ken Duong shares his first-hand experience about money scams and property loss in Vietnam when you buy real estate in Vietnam under your Vietnamese wife name. Does this sound familiar? Watch out before you make a decision to invest in Vietnam. But Attorney Ken also discusses how you can you protect your assets before & after marriage in Vietnam. Don’t say YES to the dress before watching this video! Let's get started!
    00:00 Bad Experience Getting Married in Vietnam
    02:15 A Big Red Flag right from the start
    04:45 Major Differences between Vietnamese laws & U.S. laws
    07:20 How can you claim your assets & properties in Vietnam?
    09:04 Paternity Test Scam: How Vietnamese Woman sued our client for $40,000
    10:00 How an American invested in Vietnam’s Real Estate under his Vietnamese wife name
    10:37 Divorce between American & Vietnamese goes horribly wrong
    11:47 Attorney Ken Duong's opinion on being married in Vietnam as a foreigner
    14:29 How can you protect your assets before & after marriage in Vietnam
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  • @staceylam762
    @staceylam762 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    This could happen anywhere and not just Vietnam

  • @tonyly408
    @tonyly408 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    this problem exists everywhere not just in Vietnam! Gold diggers are everywhere!

    • @titikati
      @titikati 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      VN is no longer a paradise on earth ? What happened to HCM's "grand kids" ?

    • @tonyly408
      @tonyly408 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@titikati VN is an awesome country on earth. I dont keep track or care about HCM’s grand kids!!!

    • @titikati
      @titikati 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@tonyly408 "Awesome"? You must be kidding dear. So many VN folks are still trying to leave that awesome country of yours.

    • @tonyly408
      @tonyly408 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@titikati 43 plus years in America. I can’t wait to retire in Vietnam one day!!!

    • @titikati
      @titikati 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@tonyly408 Good 4 U! Just make sure to hang on to your US citizenship cause you will need to go back to seek for medical assistance like many of VN retirees like yourself. BTW why wait til yr retirement ? Need to take advantage of few more benefits from the US? Good luck

  • @user-pv1ee5os2g
    @user-pv1ee5os2g 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    My friend went to Vietnam. Got married and then when she landed in Los Angeles, she disappeared and left with another guy. For the guys out there. Think twice before you commit to a relationship.

    • @charleswynn9920
      @charleswynn9920 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      The run away spouse will not get green card and will be deported

    • @charleswynn9920
      @charleswynn9920 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The run away spouse will not get green card and will be deported

    • @monstaro19
      @monstaro19 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Keep them in there country. Same things happen in the Philippines and in Brazil

    • @HoaAnhTuc0205
      @HoaAnhTuc0205 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You don't have to think twice, just try to bargain the price 20% as much, if she runs away, you still have another 4 wives to get married with. Don't tell me you guys want to spend your whole life with one woman. It is really a nightmare. Trust me. 😂

    • @seanymac242
      @seanymac242 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@HoaAnhTuc0205trade in that lease 😅😅😅

  • @qn5947
    @qn5947 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    Don’t get marry oversea.
    Don’t buy properties oversea.
    Best to rent and live with your girlfriend.

    • @ikeskifan
      @ikeskifan 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      I agree 100% never get married ever again I did it twice what doesn't work out the man loses and the woman wins.
      We have a saying she starts planning her divorce the day after her wedding

    • @searchersearcher8286
      @searchersearcher8286 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Best to rent housing and girl friends

    • @TAMTRAN-nu9si
      @TAMTRAN-nu9si 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I agree, never and ever again ( Gold Digger, US citizen, child support, Starting work over again = Hell ) Stay with your Girlfriend the best

    • @playwithpets
      @playwithpets 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Whenever the girlfriend tries to bring up a conversation about marriage, distract her and change the subject. :)

    • @ishakshamsudin8585
      @ishakshamsudin8585 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@playwithpets She may do embargo and you are left flat.

  • @smokingun397
    @smokingun397 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I'm Australian and 12 years ago I married a poor Vietnamese woman. When she fell pregnant I built a house just outside Saigon which was meant to be kept for the kids future. I brought her back to Australia where after 18 months she decided to divorce me and took the children. Last year she decided to try and sell the house and cut me out totally. I'm going through court in Vietnam now. I luckily have a lot of evidence of money showing I paid for everything and my lawyer seems fairly confident that things will work out OK. What a lot of people don't know is that the Vietnamese laws changed in 2014 regarding family law and particularly property ownership. Basically all assets acquired after the marriage is automatically 50/50 even if one is a foreigner. A prenuptial is definitely a good idea and would save a lot of headaches but the best idea if one wants to marry a Vietnamese is to marry one that doesn't need your money. I have a really good lawyer in Saigon. Michael

    • @duongglobalbusinessconsulting
      @duongglobalbusinessconsulting  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Does that mean we are not a good law firm to recommend?

    • @smokingun397
      @smokingun397 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm really sorry Bro, I thought you were in the business side of things and not involved with Family Law stuff. I just took it out@@duongglobalbusinessconsulting

    • @seattlerain8655
      @seattlerain8655 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’d like to know who that is @smokinggun397.
      And of course I’d still consult with Mr Duong’s law office. I unfortunately forgot how to private message people on TH-cam. Is there a way?

    • @seattlerain8655
      @seattlerain8655 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@duongglobalbusinessconsultingno it does not. I’d appreciate an interview with your law office Mr Duong!

    • @Chr1s8o8
      @Chr1s8o8 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That’s good. Glad you got everything sorted out. Take it as a life lesson my friend.

  • @jeffkassel1457
    @jeffkassel1457 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The host of this show is very good at what he does. Lots of information and he seems credible. I loved watching it. I've never been to Vietnam.

  • @user-hjsjdhs23sdf
    @user-hjsjdhs23sdf 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    It's too bad this video left out the most critical discussions about marriage between a foreigner and Viet with respect to assets. I know this topic well because I had to learn it on my own after trying to get help from both VN and USA attorneys. Unfortunately, I found no attorneys that understand the full picture. Let me help you all out.
    If you are a foreigner and you marry a Viet, whether you get a pre-nup and where you get one depends on where the marriage is registered and where the assets are or will be during a divorce. If you stay married in VN but never register the marriage in the USA and your assets are in the USA, you will be protected from VN divorce because your assets are in the USA and VN has no jurisdiction there (and vice versa).
    If you register the marriage to your state of residence in the USA and you get a divorce in VN, your assets are also safe from any judgment from VN courts as long as the divorce is not filed in the USA. Each state has different laws regarding requirements for divorce. For instance, some states require that you live in the state for at least 60 days prior to filing for the divorce. That would make it difficult (although doable) for your VN wife to file for divorce in the USA even though she would have no trouble getting in (since the marriage would have been registered in the USA so she would have a green card or similar).
    If you get a divorce in the USA, no pre-nup will save you. So, it's best to never register the marriage in the USA and stay in VN. And only bring as many assets or buy as much property in VN as you can afford to lose in divorce. You don't want to bring much to VN anyway because you can easily lose it all through fraud or bank failures since there is practically no depository bank insurance like FDIC (VN banks only insure depositors up to around $3000).
    You can also have a legal agreement written up for each property stating that it belongs to you in the event of a divorce if you brought the money from the USA (i.e. already had the money prior to marriage) to buy it. Pre-nups in VN are a waste of money because the attorneys are incompetent, but they charge crazy prices for anything related to foreigners. A basic pre-nup in VN will cost between $1200 and $3000, which is not a lot higher than in many places in the USA. But the USA has rule of law. VN really doesn't.

    • @smokingun397
      @smokingun397 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm going through this stuff right now and I have a good attorney in Saigon. If you need one I can introduce

    • @user-hjsjdhs23sdf
      @user-hjsjdhs23sdf 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@smokingun397 Thanks but after reading my comment, do you really think I need an attorney? It should be obvious that I know more about this topic than every attorney in Vietnam and most attorneys in the USA.

    • @nelsonbakhtiari86
      @nelsonbakhtiari86 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very nice information that you input in the comments section

    • @user-hjsjdhs23sdf
      @user-hjsjdhs23sdf 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@smokingun397 I checked with the best attorneys in Saigon. They are clueless as far as the big picture. I was not even able to find a US attorney who understood the full picture with regards to US law and VN law and jurisdictional issues. You will be wasting your money with Viet attorneys. They learned how to rip foreigners off just like US attorneys. If you read my full comment above you will see that I explained everything one needs to know and I learned all of this on my own. I do not need an attorney since I know more than them on this issue.

    • @smokingun397
      @smokingun397 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-hjsjdhs23sdf Do you know the 2014 Family Law amendments?

  • @luvincent5251
    @luvincent5251 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    i grew up in the state! but i been back jn mainland vietnam countless of time! and the things i've seen, the attitude and culture! the toxicness is above the roof

  • @voice.of.reason
    @voice.of.reason 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Whatever you do, NEVER GET MARRIED

    • @Mateo-dq4rc
      @Mateo-dq4rc หลายเดือนก่อน

      Trusting a Vietnamese is like trusting an 8 year old.

    • @SUNTZE13
      @SUNTZE13 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are a very WISE MAN,

    • @Epicface888chu
      @Epicface888chu 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You will be a lonely person when getting old. I had friends that passed away early because of no one to talk to and they were bored to death.

  • @marvinfok65
    @marvinfok65 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Damn! Doung, you have all my respect to tell the truth that 70% of the transnational marriages breaks down, divorce within 5years and the Vietnamese wives got all the goodies in the deal!

  • @ABC-hi3fy
    @ABC-hi3fy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Getting married is the price you pay to have kids. It is a very heavy price and often destroys the man. Everyone mist understand that the marriage is not about love, but rather about 1000s of big lawbooks lawyers nasty judges. A relationship is far more stable without marriage. If you need to marry then marry a woman who has more money than you and earns more than you.

    • @donkeykong516
      @donkeykong516 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'll take close to equaling you financially. At least one motive is out the door.

  • @caribbeanexpat3927
    @caribbeanexpat3927 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    See how some women wicked with fake paternity tests... Smh

  • @Ytd69257
    @Ytd69257 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Marriages in worldwide should have inbuilt prenuptial. Prenuptial should be not only for prior assets but also for post marriage assets. Men need those resources to move on.

    • @SayNoToIdiots
      @SayNoToIdiots หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Dumb comment. Dream on.

  • @Dadoy1775
    @Dadoy1775 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I think these type of issues are not unique to Vietnamese women. I heard many similar or even worst stories about Philippine women too.

    • @dre7018
      @dre7018 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      In the Philippines and most latin countries they might just kill you to get out of marriage...

  • @po350
    @po350 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    The ugly side of marriage. Always protect yourself no matter where you live.

    • @jeffjohnson5053
      @jeffjohnson5053 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      99 percent of American men, and anyone who grew up in America is trained to think marriage and Asian grew up women are like them. But, in fact, Asian people who grew up in Asia are ALL financial PREDATORS. If you are foolish enough to transfer any money to Asian women account. HA HA HA, in any Asian country. You are just asking for trouble!!

    • @seattlerain8655
      @seattlerain8655 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They say “you cannot cheat an honest man.” If you, as an older man, wants to scam young women for their youth and beauty then be prepared to pay for the equivalence in dollars.
      Men and women’s values are not the same in the dating market as it is in the workplace. Unlike US currency, Women’s youth and beauty have a limited shelf life and must bargain for the best deal your US dollars can provide.

  • @michaelseah9617
    @michaelseah9617 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I have a sucessful marriage in Vietnam. I am singaporean and staying in Vietnam 7yrs and counting. I have heard nasty story from both man & women.
    Two important point, before you marry that women, 1. take a good look at her parents & silbings. 2. Does her family have non-working no income members?
    I had a few years my wife have been helping her family. To a point where my father in law asking us to sell our house to pay their gambling debts. He even brain wash her must help family get out of debt no matter what. Even she can divore to get $ to help family.
    The method I use is dragging time in infuse them i will help. Their debt ballon to a state that, selling two houses also cant pay their debt. Then my wife realised, she die also cant help. Thats when father in law family totally broke up.

    • @duongglobalbusinessconsulting
      @duongglobalbusinessconsulting  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True. Thanks for sharing.

    • @thethaovatoquoc312
      @thethaovatoquoc312 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Gambling has been a HUGE problem in Commie Vietnam, for decades, infected not only citizens (stake up to hundreds of thousands of dollars) but also regime government officials (stake up to tens of millions of dollars). Search "vietnam cong an bat song bai" to see 500 million search results. Enjoy!

  • @dejilaoye3675
    @dejilaoye3675 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Quite educative piece!

  • @partsandlaborgroup
    @partsandlaborgroup 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great episode!

  • @deyangkyipo2687
    @deyangkyipo2687 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This is called Hurry makes Worry. A man who cannot control his lust is stupid and will suffer in the end anyway.

  • @thaido3220
    @thaido3220 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Be careful when you’re successful and make lots of money in VN. It’s time to take it and run before the government thinks about it. They will find all the possible reasons to apply their time-convenience laws to take away your assets. So just take to money and run.

  • @thomassmallwood2728
    @thomassmallwood2728 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Very informative TH-cam video.

  • @JC-Finance
    @JC-Finance 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Unfortunately many people nowadays are materialistic so having a pre nup will test the individual. If the person really loves you and you love them for sure you’ll leave them with some $ as a beneficiary.

  • @luvincent5251
    @luvincent5251 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    if your looking to have a good time, Vietnam is the place,, but if your are seeking for real relationship and build family, the odds are bad in Vietnam

  • @louiskats5116
    @louiskats5116 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Goodday Ken,
    As always a very Educational video.
    I bet you would have alot of interesting stories to share at Christmas lunch and dinner.
    Cheers
    Louis Kats your number 1 Fan in Melbourne, Australia 🇦🇺 🇻🇳

  • @tonyly408
    @tonyly408 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    i understand the culture very well since i was born and raised in Vietnam. it happens in every country just got to learn how to protect yourself from the gold diggers!!!!lol

  • @Kinai89
    @Kinai89 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your info is very useful, thank you!

  • @madalachandrasekhar733
    @madalachandrasekhar733 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Very very very useful video.. thank you so much....the future foreigners will be careful

    • @duongglobalbusinessconsulting
      @duongglobalbusinessconsulting  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you..

    • @thethaovatoquoc312
      @thethaovatoquoc312 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Beware that it's absolutely not true for either Vietnamese or foreigner to own land in Commie Vietnam (or any Commie countries like China or North Korea, for that matter). The utterly corrupt and brutal Vietnamese Commie regime can kick you out anytime, especially after your properties substantially increase in value. Do your research!

  • @MultiCoolzero
    @MultiCoolzero 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    JUST DO FOR YOUR SELF AND DO NOT GET MARRIED , MARRIAGE IS A SCAM

  • @BS-my2ky
    @BS-my2ky 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Duong, I admire your style of delivering these talks! every videos is interesting. How can I be a good speaker like you?

    • @HenryTTo
      @HenryTTo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You need to do a course name as ToastMaster which will teach you how to talk in front of a crowd confidently. Once you have completed this course, you have to practice at where you work by talking in front of a big crowd confidently without mumbling. It is not easy and requires extend practicing.

  • @user-hp1gn5mg7c
    @user-hp1gn5mg7c 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    In 2023, can't really blame anyone for not wanting to get married. Risks are everywhere, you might have to factor in the possibility of losing 50% of your assets if you get married. Even if you don't get married, watch out for "common law marriage" definition", if it applies or will it apply it. I've seen people considered married under the government's eyes just because they live together for a certain amount of years and/or have kids.

  • @ChatGPT-xm7xs
    @ChatGPT-xm7xs 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    hmong woman or montgard woeman farmer is best for man in vetnam life, heart of gold, live u long time and give u gold. go to dalat and meets them and b happy for u long times. papa will give u 2 cows and goat if marry her too. specially good for foreign man, taiwan man, hong kong man and other tipes.

    • @donkeykong516
      @donkeykong516 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Until they Vietnamized... Lol

    • @SayNoToIdiots
      @SayNoToIdiots หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Shows your naievity 😂

  • @thaido3220
    @thaido3220 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    If the law doesn’t allow people to get married without a prenup then the problem is solved for everybody. No question asked, no embarrassment, no taboo! That way people will think twice to get married because they will find out that getting married is not that easy like getting a divorce.

    • @tonydimartini
      @tonydimartini 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree. Think hard before you marry. Why should their be a prenup?

  • @markgorhk
    @markgorhk 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I am married to VN national... we are living in VN... I bought an apartment before we married and put in her name.. as wedding gift, and for her security and our potential future children... unfortunately within a year of the marriage, showed herself to be one of the worst, most abusive materialists I have even encountered... or even heard about... so I guess the apartment I bought would be treated as pre-marital asset and the local courts would not include in the supposed 50/50 distribution.. however, during our marriage, my wife became the owner of another real estate property... so, being consistent, I assume the court WILL include that real estate as part of 50/50 distribution of assets.. would it be correct to assume that? and... we have two children... 6 and 4 years old... as I understand.. they are essentially marital "assets" and would also be divided 50/50... is that correct? I have been following your business related videos for a few months now... but maybe I will need to consult you on divorce matters too... thanks Duong!

    • @duongglobalbusinessconsulting
      @duongglobalbusinessconsulting  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not even that. If the property is a house or villa, it belongs to her, as foreign citizens cannot own land in Vietnam unless you find a way to negotiate. If you need an expert's opinion and assistance, please feel free to send us an email to contact@duongbusinessconsulting.com

    • @thaido3220
      @thaido3220 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Too late now. You should think over this before marrying her. Good luck anyway. Even God couldn’t save you.

    • @tednguyen7258
      @tednguyen7258 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      why would u even go to a foreign country and marry.....

    • @SayNoToIdiots
      @SayNoToIdiots หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Very smart of you😂😂😂

    • @markgorhk
      @markgorhk หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@SayNoToIdiots very

  • @John_DaMan
    @John_DaMan 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    great video

  • @tanyeekai1263
    @tanyeekai1263 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love is blind.There are many ugly things to settle if relationship turn sour😂😂

  • @nathantrinh324
    @nathantrinh324 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Just don't get married. Problems solved.

    • @voice.of.reason
      @voice.of.reason 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Marriage is the work of the devil

    • @annle9671
      @annle9671 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      In Canada, 2 yrs living together still get you 1/2 of the assets . If there is no pre-nup. You don’t have to be married.

    • @Mateo-dq4rc
      @Mateo-dq4rc หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@annle9671Canada is a cuck country.

  • @philmister
    @philmister 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very interesting.... Thanks.

  • @4985muhammadali
    @4985muhammadali 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Gold diggers are everywhere so choose wisely, Ken sir thank you so much for sharing such a informative video

  • @alanha7163
    @alanha7163 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Damn, that sucks to be in his shoes at this moment. Best of luck to him. I've been lucky for more than 15yrs of marriage because I kept remind myself not going back to VN to find one. We both are vietnamese american.

    • @difencrosby
      @difencrosby 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You’re lucky. I so bad want to marry Vietnamese but I know it’s a loose loose situation if I went to Vietnam. I want to marry a fellow Vietnamese in the US

    • @marvelcomiks8078
      @marvelcomiks8078 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Its called Guerilla Warfare, Marital Version staged by Vietcong Women. You must be able to watch out for the landmines, bamboo spikes that will impale you and poison gases and snakes inside their caves.

    • @Crawfish411
      @Crawfish411 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Divorce rate in the U.S. is 50% also lol

    • @jeffjohnson5053
      @jeffjohnson5053 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      99 percent of American men, and anyone who grew up in America is trained to think marriage and Asian grew up women are like them. But, in fact, Asian people who grew up in Asia are ALL financial PREDATORS. If you are foolish enough to transfer any money to Asian women account. HA HA HA, in any Asian country. You are just asking for trouble!!

  • @thaido3220
    @thaido3220 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Community Property means in most countries that assets during marriage are divided equally between the 2 parties. However in California it means that the wife Gets the Property 😆and the husband May Live in the Community if he wants to.😢

  • @johnle7667
    @johnle7667 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you for telling the truth

    • @jeffjohnson5053
      @jeffjohnson5053 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      99 percent of American men, and anyone who grew up in America is trained to think marriage and Asian grew up women are like them. But, in fact, Asian people who grew up in Asia are ALL financial PREDATORS. If you are foolish enough to transfer any money to Asian women account. HA HA HA, in any Asian country. You are just asking for trouble!!

  • @brucevannguyen
    @brucevannguyen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    no thank you. there's a saying in vietnamese AN BANH CHA TIEN. best to eat cake when ever you want and pay for your cake. never have to worry . be smart guys. especially the older lonely ones. always hold your pot by the handle.

  • @michaellaforte6964
    @michaellaforte6964 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My wife is Vietnamese now with US citizenship. We married legally in the US in CA first and then again with a big family and what seemed like half her town in Vietnam. I’m an American. For years I’ve asked her as to what my status is with the country. IDK if the marriage was even registered in any way there, I’ve never been able to get an answer, either she’s clueless and doesn’t know, or she’s been withholding info, I can’t quite tell. I do recall a friend of their family who wore local police or military uniform, and I think he only was an MC for the banquet, held at a local resort.
    We’ve lived in the US our whole marriage, and now have two children, US born.
    Does anyone know what my, and my kid’s status is in Vnm? I don’t have any Vnm marriage certificate record, just photos, but surely something would be searchable from the town we were married in?
    I suspect her family has very intentionally never recorded officially so as to ensure her inheritance assets are never in jeopardy

    • @SayNoToIdiots
      @SayNoToIdiots หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And u expect an accurate reply in a TH-cam comment??
      😂😂😂

    • @YouDcm
      @YouDcm หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If you go by the informative comment above, since your marriage is registered in the US, she can get your US assets in a US court.

    • @michaellaforte6964
      @michaellaforte6964 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@YouDcm I know. I was inquiring about my status in VNM, not hers in the US

    • @michaellaforte6964
      @michaellaforte6964 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@SayNoToIdiots LOL

  • @skydvlful
    @skydvlful 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Women in Asia are the same, if not worse than Western women. It is good to see someone covering this.
    Vietnam has become just like the West when it comes to dating/relationships.

    • @stevens1041
      @stevens1041 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm not sure if I would go that far. The worst dating scene in Asia by far, in my humble opinion, is Japan. Those ladies there are just like Americans now, lots of divorces, stealing the kids from husband, a lot of partners and cheating from the woman, no good at all.

  • @daklakdigital3691
    @daklakdigital3691 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    NOTE: THE TERM "PROPERTY" DOES *NOT* INCLUDES LAND. LAND IN VIETNAM IS THE PROPERTY OF THE STATE, IT IS LEASED TO THE USER. THINGS PLACED / BUILT UPON THE LEASED LAND CAN BE OWNED BY THE OCCUPANT.
    THE LEASED LAND CAN BE "HANDED DOWN" OR TRANSFERRED TO OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS.

  • @thaido3220
    @thaido3220 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fair enough. Anyway it’s wise for everybody to double check before engaging into something that you regret later on. As I know marital laws in the US and VN are not exactly the same as people thinks. So, don’t be shy, ask when you are in doubt.

  • @luckybiby8968
    @luckybiby8968 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Rent don't buy..... No headache. It's cheaper to rent than owning a property and pay the mortgage.

  • @brianchang7710
    @brianchang7710 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like this channel.

  • @CRAZYCR1T1C
    @CRAZYCR1T1C 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That model dug the guy like a goldmine.

  • @haylspa
    @haylspa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you I was wondering if there was any Benefits to looking for Wife in Vietnam but clearly between the last video I have seen and this one there is not 70% in the first 5 years!!! looking to make a family not set up some ones account for life!!

  • @wheresliam
    @wheresliam หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ken thanks for sharing your perspectives about life in Vietnam. In your opinion, are college educated Vietnamese women open to dating guys from different cultural / ethnic backgrounds, who are well educated professionals? Also what is considered an upper-middle class net worth in Saigon? As you say, knowledge matters.

  • @lkjanuary0323
    @lkjanuary0323 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sir Ken,may i ask? How much to pay work.permit in Vietnam

  • @newhorizons898
    @newhorizons898 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How about Australian law? Would like some oversea experts not answerable to the legal system here to provide advice!

  • @chuckkiephan6880
    @chuckkiephan6880 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Alot of Vietnamese people depending where they live, hate living in another country and get depressd and want to go back to Vietnam

    • @jasonphang3596
      @jasonphang3596 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That applies to all foreign women! The novelty wears off and they yearn for the old way of life when they were young!

  • @farmerj1
    @farmerj1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Anyone who thinks this is not equally as big of an issue in the United States is deluded. You could replace An with John and Thuy with Madison and put both in any US state and Madison would clean John's clock, with the biggest difference being they were only married two years (and not ten, which is a common cliff in the US). That might impact the division of assets but not custody. An/John can say goodbye to the kids if Thuy/Madison wants to screw him in court. His mistake was thinking with the little head and not having a prenup.

  • @intheworkscamp-inrv1147
    @intheworkscamp-inrv1147 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It is possible that the husband used his wife name on most/all of his properties was to get more property tax benefits. The irony is that when his wife is remarried, the other guy will enjoy the benefit and the hard works.
    When I was young, a friend advised me to be careful when falling in love with a beautiful girl and don't "che^'t vi no^n." This is a classic and out of proportion.

    • @chinaboss6683
      @chinaboss6683 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Chet vi lon 😂

    • @laogia69
      @laogia69 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chinaboss6683This happens to men everywhere and ever since human walk the earth 😂. The dumb ones always fall.

  • @starbattles1
    @starbattles1 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Pre nuptial agreement in America is normal. Very common. Rich guys, men with homes and assets must always get a pre-nup. Be smart guys.
    Fly thee, meet her. Bring her back to America before you marry her and get that pre-nup, in both languages.
    Actually, if you're super wealthy, don't get married. Just stay together as boyfriend and girl friend. If she insists, tell her take a walk. You have enough money to go find another any time.

  • @Huynh374
    @Huynh374 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Totally true

  • @dericdinh9926
    @dericdinh9926 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    so what happens when you buy property in Vietnam and leave it to your sibling and your sibling takes it? you are not Vietnamese citizen, is there are ways to take it back?

  • @matthewqtran1318
    @matthewqtran1318 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Do you know any more details of the case such as whether the properties (or some of them) were acquired before marriage? Even though VN is a community state, properties acquired before marriage are not included. I'm just trying to visualize the scenario. They got married and then spent the next 2 year pushing out 2 babies and buying 39+ properties all under her name?

    • @davelawson2564
      @davelawson2564 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      watch full video

    • @PTL4179
      @PTL4179 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nobody knows all the details but in general, as the foreigner and by Vietnamese law, he can’t own properties. He could have owned properties before marriage under different names and transferred to her name after married and continued acquiring more properties after and they were all under her name. I believe the latest ruling from the Vietnamese court was to split everything in half.

    • @davelawson2564
      @davelawson2564 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@PTL4179 He deserves to loose everything ...as he did not think of this possibility in this day and age nor consult a lawyer on the rules concerning divorce and asset laws

    • @trangnguyen-yx9px
      @trangnguyen-yx9px 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, even they know that for sure, but the Viet government is not going to protect the foreigners!

  • @CosmosChill7649
    @CosmosChill7649 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Divorces are 70% in any affluent society, including India. Alimony is pretty outdated practice since mostly the wives marry upwards and dividing property is cruel on males

  • @chihai_tran
    @chihai_tran 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Arent there multiple forms of marriages out there? In the netherlands we have a form that not everything is split 50/50

  • @youaremytube1974
    @youaremytube1974 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Too late for me now…I’m already being chained down 😂😂😂

    • @Chr1s8o8
      @Chr1s8o8 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hopefully you made her sign a prenup

  • @daklakdigital3691
    @daklakdigital3691 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I, AM A CANADIAN MARRIED TO A VIETNAMESE WIFE, AND WE HAMMERED OUT AN AGREEMENT. THE MONEY WAS EASY. Y WIFE IS THE REGISTERED OWNER OF THE LAND. HOWEVER, NONE OF OUR PROPERTIES CHARACTERISTICS, BE THEY LEGAL OR PHYSICAL, CAN BE MODIFIED IN ANY WAY WITHOUT PRIOR CONSENT. AFTER 25 YEARS OF MARRIAGE WE ARE STILL TOGETHER.

  • @Dalenguyen001
    @Dalenguyen001 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The women mentioned in the video hired a Viet attorney in the U.S to handle her divorce and he married her. The guy hit a jackpot

  • @edwardmr5852
    @edwardmr5852 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    HAKIMI should give this man a masterclass.

  • @jkryptos
    @jkryptos 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is there such a thing as a post-nuptial agreement, agreed after marriage, but before assets are purchased? Thanks

    • @duongglobalbusinessconsulting
      @duongglobalbusinessconsulting  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, you can also draft a post-nuptial agreement under specific set of circumstances.

    • @Mastersinbaking
      @Mastersinbaking 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Most of the Vietnamese families wont agree to a post nuptial agreement.😮

  • @LocTran-ws2ip
    @LocTran-ws2ip 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    TÀO LAO!

  • @eurobonus6969
    @eurobonus6969 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am thinking of investing in Vietnam. First thing is to buy an apartment. Is that possible in Vietnam without a Vietnamese partner?

    • @duongglobalbusinessconsulting
      @duongglobalbusinessconsulting  29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Please watch our latest video on how to buy real estate in Vietnam, as we lay it all out.

    • @Chr1s8o8
      @Chr1s8o8 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Don’t do it…just rent it’s cheap enough

  • @nhuhdoify
    @nhuhdoify 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    RED PILL everywhere.

  • @donnguyen8443
    @donnguyen8443 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The Vietnamese Government has unilateral power to take away any property from anyone, foreigners even more powerless compared to locals and that isnt by much.
    Now getting married to a local Vietnamese is almost nearly as high-risk as buying property. If your local Vietnamese wife divorces you, you can be sure ALL of your holdings will go puff in smoke. Pre-nups in Vietnam are unenforceable. Local possession is more than 9/10ths of the law in Vietnam. You as an attorney should know that if married to a local Vietnamese in Vietnam she (or even he) can still hire an attorney if thinga go sour and pursue all her rights in U.S. courts as well, after all, you have married so she gains rights as a spouse.
    Better re-brush up on that legal info. 😊

    • @duongglobalbusinessconsulting
      @duongglobalbusinessconsulting  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That is inacurrate. To be valid and enforceable, prenuptial agreements have to be notarized in both Vietnam and foreign country. Then, the agreement supersedes traditional marital regime. And, as a law firm, we not only draft prenuptial agreements but also represent clients in divorce cases, as mentioned by our Attorney in the video. Hope it helps

    • @thethaovatoquoc312
      @thethaovatoquoc312 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "The Vietnamese Government has unilateral power to take away any property from anyone, foreigners even more powerless compared to locals and that isnt by much." Indeed. Search "cuop dat dan" (Translated "robbing land of citizens") right here on TH-cam to see countless clips of land-robbing of citizens by the utterly corrupt and brutal Vietnamese Commie regime. Apparently being married or not, and/or to whom, has never been part of the consideration.

    • @donnguyen8443
      @donnguyen8443 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@duongglobalbusinessconsulting Maybe in the U.S. drafting pre-nups are legal and Court enforceable but in Vietnam the legal system is different. The Vietnamese Courts won't enforce a U.S. prenuptial. The laws are different governing these instruments, and there is also an immigration status and rights issues. If you think you are safe in Vietnam just because you are an American citizen doing business in Vietnam and then divorcing a local Viet good luck, you will need it. And if she is in any way connected to the officials, God won't even be able to help you. I have personally known of horror stories from recent Vietnamese immigrants to California who have lived all their lives in Vietnam only to be so happy their number and family reunification sponsorship was approved by USCIS after decades! Yes, you guessed it, they gave up on the unfairness of the Vietnamese "legal system". Is there a Vietnam State Bar like that found in the States? If yes, are you included Ken Duong in that Vietnamese Bar Association?

    • @thaido3220
      @thaido3220 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The marriage certificate should have a clause explaining the risks and potential problems for getting a divorce. The plain declaration for “better and for worst” is not enough. Easy to say not easy to do.

    • @donnguyen8443
      @donnguyen8443 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thaido3220 Many women marry specifically for the purpose of divorcing to get rich down the line. Vietnam divorce rates are steadily approaching the rates seen in the West as they become more developed. They all want the material luxury items. So much for Communism and Socialism, huh?

  • @mishomishev3283
    @mishomishev3283 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    great

  • @diemvan1666
    @diemvan1666 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's sad, scam!

  • @quynhmailuong171
    @quynhmailuong171 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's fair enough because she raised 2 children and she was a famous person when she married him, she also contributed to making money in Vietnam, increasing his profits.
    For example: He invested 1 VND, she earned 4 VND, it is the effort of both sides. In this case, you are not right

  • @didineerod4371
    @didineerod4371 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well, serve them right! Tax avoidance got them into this situation.Ffrankly it could happen any where in the West not just Vietnam.

  • @NaiSaetern-tp6fi
    @NaiSaetern-tp6fi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    All man should be smart enough NOT to buy property in ANY women NAME.

    • @vanessajoycecollett6607
      @vanessajoycecollett6607 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True guys please dont be so taken by beauty that u lose ur heads over a woman.Something similiar happened to my God father

    • @seattlerain8655
      @seattlerain8655 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They say you cannot cheat an honest man. If you, as an older man, wants to scam young women for their youth and beauty then be prepared to pay for the equivalence in dollars.
      Men and women’s values are not the same in the dating market as it is in the workplace. Unlike US currency, Women’s youth and beauty have a limited shelf life and must bargain for the best deal your US dollars can provide.

  • @selvasegaren1385
    @selvasegaren1385 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved a Vietnamese lady and after 15 months in realtionship she asked for breakup. She said have no feelings with me. The real reason she found someone in UK and he is a Vietnamese. Vietnamese ladies some are crazy mind.

    • @ishakshamsudin8585
      @ishakshamsudin8585 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Trouble is you didn't treat her well i suspect.I may be wrong.

    • @selvasegaren1385
      @selvasegaren1385 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ishakshamsudin8585 I treated her as my queen. But she was after my money. My business went bankrupt and she ended her drama and had another man with her new drama.

  • @trimap1745
    @trimap1745 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thêm phụ đề tiếng việt nữa chú ơi

  • @xikefocus
    @xikefocus 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Cut your lost and move on... Life is tough.

  • @Loktoris
    @Loktoris 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dude really went and married the first pretty girl he seen and thought it would end well. What could go wrong

  • @TheTruth2505
    @TheTruth2505 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We don't have this stupid law in Malaysia....

  • @monstaro19
    @monstaro19 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You can just date in Vietnam no need to marry they can marry a poor LOCAL IN THERE OWN COUNTRY

  • @BambinoAmericano
    @BambinoAmericano 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Buying in the name of such a woman.. how stupid one can be.. my dad did the same in Korea.. bye-bye millions. Have been building up myself and every time I buy a property in my name, it is finished with my Viet or Thai gold digger. Love makes blind but stay strong. Always buy in your own foreign name.

    • @Cordycep1
      @Cordycep1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      At that time before 2010 , actually foreigner cant own property in vietnam even if they were marry to a local. So the men knew what they were doing.

  • @glengarbera7367
    @glengarbera7367 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These divorce rates are the same as North America.

  • @wojomojo
    @wojomojo หลายเดือนก่อน

    whatever you do, don't hire this man as your lawyer.

  • @davidwollenberg1758
    @davidwollenberg1758 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well the Vietnamese women are very good-looking but the divorce rate is astronomically high amongst foreigners married to Vietminh these women. 75% is on acceptable. Even in your own videos you say that Vietnam citizens have a tendency to lie.

  • @user-vp5vo2gp9m
    @user-vp5vo2gp9m 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That was truth u right I Agreat they want come to America too

  • @tracyrreed
    @tracyrreed 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    ALWAYS GET A PRE-NUP. Not so hard to do in America but there is a specific way it has to be done. If she loves you, she will sign.

    • @xuimod
      @xuimod 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Don't think an American pre-nup will be helpful for property and real estate in Vietnam. The Vietnamese authorities aren't going to care about an American pre-nup.

    • @kinglobo9671
      @kinglobo9671 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      If you are a wealthy man .. don’t to be a fool and get married.. always have a living trust and protect your assets and life.. don’t be fooled by anyone

    • @JustAnAcre
      @JustAnAcre 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @kinglobo9671 except a wife who spends her life with you, is worth every penny and more.

    • @chrishamlin5863
      @chrishamlin5863 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If you feel the need to protect yourself from the person you intend to marry then you sure as hell should't marry that person.

    • @tracyrreed
      @tracyrreed 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@chrishamlin5863 That's not how it works. You don't need to protect yourself from the person you marry today. You need to protect yourself from the person you will be married to in 10 years. That will be a different person. And there's a 50% chance that person will hate your guts and want to ruin you.

  • @Mr69elco
    @Mr69elco 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Trust is very expensive. A good life or a miserable life is just one decision away. If man never invented marriage. Ppl will still fall in love and make babies

  • @Osssssssssssssh
    @Osssssssssssssh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So never marry oversea Vietnam lady?

  • @Bruce_LeRoyy
    @Bruce_LeRoyy 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So are Filipinas!

  • @ongv2491
    @ongv2491 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He teaches everything he know.

  • @theramdonvidd9730
    @theramdonvidd9730 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Money can’t cure stupidity lol

  • @titiung
    @titiung 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Pretty much the same thing in the US. Marriage has no benefits for men.

    • @JustAnAcre
      @JustAnAcre 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm sorry to hear that. I put all my faith into my wife of 23 years and going. The benefits are each and every day we spend together. I wouldn't have it any other way.

    • @_RedWizard
      @_RedWizard 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sour grapes?

    • @coastcity7029
      @coastcity7029 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@JustAnAcre But do you need to be married to enjoy your lady's companionship, or is it just a legal agreement that leaves most men vulnerable to women?

    • @JustAnAcre
      @JustAnAcre 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @coastcity7029 It is a choice to be faithful and vulnerable to ONE woman through marriage. It is also her choice to be faithful and vulnerable to ONE man. The contract/marriage is just how it gets done. Can a couple successfully be together for life w/o marriage? It is possible.
      But my wife is precious, and I want to dedicate my life to being with her.
      It's a personal choice.

  • @stadinh
    @stadinh 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Useful advice. Stay away from these beauties, more correctly “gold diggers”.

  • @dmvlex-kh9es
    @dmvlex-kh9es หลายเดือนก่อน

    In other words, don’t get married fellas!

  • @vanng5689
    @vanng5689 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Seems like this is a rich seam of work for Ken :-) 😂

  • @tuomasholo
    @tuomasholo 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Don’t get married. Problem solved.

  • @LEdiablo28
    @LEdiablo28 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Lucky that i am poor because I will marry a Vietnamese lady 😂

  • @kitlee4486
    @kitlee4486 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I heard Vietnamese women are very good wealth management especially husbands money. So just be careful.