With a lot of these polyamory stories, I notice a lot of common threads of things going wrong, specifically these things: One side has to be coaxed into opening up One side already has someone in mind Polyamory can be successful for many couples! But with couples like these it never is.
Therapy is an absolute joke.. Imagine having a person convince you, you've been abused for 12yrs and didn't notice it 🤣😂.. And two months to see a therapist is wild af.. Too many ppl running to cry to a stranger about their life.. This is how weak our society has become.. Mfkr gets on reddit like "Hey I tripped the other day and so many ppl laughed at me".. Comment section: OMG GET THERAPY, YOU PROBABLY HAVE PTSD.. YOU MIGHT NOT HAVE LONG TO LIVE....
Ew. Just be grateful you weren’t psychologically abused and conditioned for 12 years and move on. There’s no reason you should be putting people down for seeking help
You say how weak pir society has become... you realize that the epitome of what was meant to be the strongest people of society, people in the military, are starting to realize the power of therapy because quite literally not realizing when you've been traumatized or when you don't have the tools to process your emotions or things that you've been through or the language to discuss your emotions or things that you have been through literally causes you to want to kill yourself and is quite literally the reason why men are the number one suicide statistic, maybe you would realize that at least, how Society has been going for the past couple of decades when it comes to dealing with traumatic situations and strong emotions, is not the benefit of most people, especially men
Secondly, if you sat down and you talked to anybody who is getting out of a physically abusive relationship. I mean a relationship where your partner is actually beating on you, you would realize just how many excuses the victim will make for the abuser. Mind you, most people are not in an abusive relationship. However, if you talk to people who have been in abusive relationships, it is extremely difficult to get out of it because the abuser, if they're worth anything, are going to figure out how to manipulate and isolate you. Because of those two things there, victims often end up making excuses for their abuser, if not finding excuses for why they shouldn't leave, which is why it usually takes victims at least three attempts to leave their abuser. Also, just as anybody who's been in a regular relationship can tell you, love can blind the hell out of you to really bad behaviors
@@JoeyMarxOh for sure and I feel for those women.. Which is one of the reasons I hate everyone trying to pull the abuse card because when you hear that word, you immediately think of the worst.. Then you dig and its "financial abuse", because dude stopped letting her max out a 5K credit card every month buying a bunch of dumb shxt.. When he's the one that has to pay it off.. Its like no, you're not being abused and you actually dont need 9 Chanel bags.. Abuse has become another buzzword, so when real victims like you mentioned.. Someone whos actually being beat brings it to attention.. Its not taken as seriously....
@@kilamkam abuse is only a buzz word that's not taken seriously on social media. One of the wonderful things about going to therapy is that the therapist can and will absolutely call you out when your self victimizing. A therapist will absolutely call you out if you're refusing to take responsibility for your actions. A therapist will in fact call you out if you're just being self-centered. Things like Financial abuse, physical abuse, emotional abuse all exist. Abuse doesn't need to be the worst thing that you can think of because all abuse is, by definition, is the improper usage or treatment of a person or thing to unfairly or improperly gain benefit. Additionally, it also does more harm when we're trying to scare people away from using tools that have been shown to help people who are victims of abuse, if not help people whose heads aren't on straight and they can't see past their own biases and character flaws. You may not like therapy or agree with therapy, but it doesn't mean that it hasn't helped people, whether it be rebuilding their lives after being abused or getting a wake up call so they realize that they aren't the victim
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With a lot of these polyamory stories, I notice a lot of common threads of things going wrong, specifically these things:
One side has to be coaxed into opening up
One side already has someone in mind
Polyamory can be successful for many couples! But with couples like these it never is.
Oh naw that title 'A good single player game'💀
Edit:man was lovebombing,screaming,gaslighting i hope op is safe
Good thing the other girl had enough wherewithal to dump him when he confessed.
i’m glad OP decided to stick to her guns and divorced ex hubby
Nah man the titles of the stories are getting wild💀
They've been wild for a hot minute tbh
Nah that’s crazy
First pin pls ❤
Therapy is an absolute joke.. Imagine having a person convince you, you've been abused for 12yrs and didn't notice it 🤣😂.. And two months to see a therapist is wild af.. Too many ppl running to cry to a stranger about their life.. This is how weak our society has become..
Mfkr gets on reddit like "Hey I tripped the other day and so many ppl laughed at me"..
Comment section: OMG GET THERAPY, YOU PROBABLY HAVE PTSD.. YOU MIGHT NOT HAVE LONG TO LIVE....
Ew. Just be grateful you weren’t psychologically abused and conditioned for 12 years and move on. There’s no reason you should be putting people down for seeking help
You say how weak pir society has become... you realize that the epitome of what was meant to be the strongest people of society, people in the military, are starting to realize the power of therapy because quite literally not realizing when you've been traumatized or when you don't have the tools to process your emotions or things that you've been through or the language to discuss your emotions or things that you have been through literally causes you to want to kill yourself and is quite literally the reason why men are the number one suicide statistic, maybe you would realize that at least, how Society has been going for the past couple of decades when it comes to dealing with traumatic situations and strong emotions, is not the benefit of most people, especially men
Secondly, if you sat down and you talked to anybody who is getting out of a physically abusive relationship. I mean a relationship where your partner is actually beating on you, you would realize just how many excuses the victim will make for the abuser. Mind you, most people are not in an abusive relationship. However, if you talk to people who have been in abusive relationships, it is extremely difficult to get out of it because the abuser, if they're worth anything, are going to figure out how to manipulate and isolate you. Because of those two things there, victims often end up making excuses for their abuser, if not finding excuses for why they shouldn't leave, which is why it usually takes victims at least three attempts to leave their abuser. Also, just as anybody who's been in a regular relationship can tell you, love can blind the hell out of you to really bad behaviors
@@JoeyMarxOh for sure and I feel for those women.. Which is one of the reasons I hate everyone trying to pull the abuse card because when you hear that word, you immediately think of the worst.. Then you dig and its "financial abuse", because dude stopped letting her max out a 5K credit card every month buying a bunch of dumb shxt.. When he's the one that has to pay it off.. Its like no, you're not being abused and you actually dont need 9 Chanel bags..
Abuse has become another buzzword, so when real victims like you mentioned.. Someone whos actually being beat brings it to attention.. Its not taken as seriously....
@@kilamkam abuse is only a buzz word that's not taken seriously on social media. One of the wonderful things about going to therapy is that the therapist can and will absolutely call you out when your self victimizing. A therapist will absolutely call you out if you're refusing to take responsibility for your actions. A therapist will in fact call you out if you're just being self-centered.
Things like Financial abuse, physical abuse, emotional abuse all exist. Abuse doesn't need to be the worst thing that you can think of because all abuse is, by definition, is the improper usage or treatment of a person or thing to unfairly or improperly gain benefit. Additionally, it also does more harm when we're trying to scare people away from using tools that have been shown to help people who are victims of abuse, if not help people whose heads aren't on straight and they can't see past their own biases and character flaws. You may not like therapy or agree with therapy, but it doesn't mean that it hasn't helped people, whether it be rebuilding their lives after being abused or getting a wake up call so they realize that they aren't the victim