Robert Waldinger: ON How To Nourish Your Meaningful Relationships & The Power Of Quiet
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ม.ค. 2025
- On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Robert Waldinger. Robert is a Harvard psychiatrist, psychoanalyst, and Zen priest. He’s the director of the longest study on adult life and happiness.
Robert reminds us that having a person you can call in the middle of the night when you are scared or sick is what keeps us happier and healthier. He shares that it takes vulnerability to have meaningful relationships, but the rewards are always worth the risk of rejection.
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13:56 When you are arguing, don’t forget that it’s not you against each other, it’s both of you against the problem 🤯 I LOVE THIS 💙
Great message ! Seeing yourself as a team is very important
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Comprehension, support , compassion, kindness, communication and being able to listen will always nourish a relationship ♡ before reacting towards something that you don't like, take a minute, find assertive words to Express your feelings always showing respect for the other...
Yes so true
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This is one of the best podcast episodes I've ever heard. It's something I'm definitely going to listen to again and again while having a morning walk in the nature.
The audio quality on this is amazing. Feel like y'all are right in my ears
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This man is amazing! I could listen to him forever. Beautiful topic. I enjoyed imensely.
The quality of our relationships directly affects the quality of our lives. Appreciate this interview with Robert!
I love that bit where Jay talked about having different friends for different roles in his life...some friends are daily friends, and some you see once a month or once a year - ALL are valuable and meaningful though, and I think a lot of people forget that.
*When you value yourself, others will be forced to do the same.*
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Thank you for inviting Robert Waldinger on your podcast. I meditate everyday and walk in nature. This is so beneficial in being in the moment with no thought. Just be! Much gratitude joy and more podcasts like this.
I heard this episode first on the podcast where I wasn't able to leave any comment, then I came here, just to say thank you and this is probably one of the best podcasts I have listened to (They are all very good! Just this one is really awesome!) Doctor Robert Waldinger's way of describing his research and his opinion is so objective and clear and informative. Love your work Jay! Appreciate that you're doing it for everyone.
I saw you with Russell Brand. I have been a follower ever since. Your vision for creating movies and such with a positive vibe really resonates with me. I am 65. When my children were little I was always looking for programming with a higher vibration. Let's enhance love and compassion in programming. starting from a young age. I predict a brighter future for us all if we do. Your You Tube videos appeal to the older generation too. I thank you for that.
I always listen to your podcast in the morning while making breakfast. I want to say that this episode was one of the most profound so far. It really spoke to me. 💜 Thank you.
Your Podcast is genuinely maturing us in all fields. Thanks. Two lovely advice in relationship :
* We have to strike the iron when cold , not hot.
*Relationships are like physical fitness and requires consistent maintenance.
Robert is a wonderful, insightful person. Thank you so much for introducing me to him.
"Change begings when you realize that you aren't what you yourself wanted to be"
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You know when you have a good relationship with someone when you can just hangout and say very little. But just enjoy being with them.
Yep words are not necessary then
Amazing Jay ! Thanks for bringing these inspiring guests consistently 💓🙏
This. 👏👏👏👏😊 Happy Monday, everyone! I hope your week is extraordinary ♥️
I love this Podcast with Dr Robert so calm and soothing Awesome job Jay it was a blessing indeed 🙏♥️♥️
I love your videos. My mediation place is the beach. I think the best there. I have gone several times this year since I have been listening too you. My other meditation place is cutting grass. I know strange. But it does help.i have grown so much much since I started listening too you. You have helped me alot.
Great interview by all means ..
You are nature,and through serving others we can allign with it.. .full of energy and presence.. .loved it..
Thanks Jay for inviting a person like Robert I like your both conversation it's very inspiring and much helpful you're the best Jay like your speech you're really amazing💖
This is one of the best podcast episodes I've ever heard. Beautiful topic. I enjoyed immensely.
What an amazing conversation! Thank you for this!
Amazing episode..loved all Zen practices and was very peaceful and spiritual talk of both of you..Thanks for sharing this video.
Can't believe I missed this one! So glad I got to catch it because the conversation was so great and meaningful to me.
I really enjoyed watching this conversation , thank you Jay for everything you are doing
Thanks Dr Robert and Jay.
Im glad I watched this, thanks for sharing guys😊👏🙏✨
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Great guest
Omg Jay I can give my feedback here please please tell me that you read it. I am new on podcasts and I have been listening to all of your podcasts from 2 month. And you what man you have changed my perspective specially regarding relationships. I am so grateful to you you made me realize my mistakes and helped me to end that vicious circle of all that hurt that we find in relationships but you opened my eyes I don't know how I can thank you I wish I could give a hug and you would see what you have given me. And one more thing that I want to tell you that there is something in your voice that tells me that you genuinely want us to grow that what I hardly found in anyone. Thank you so much thank you so much ❤️. Please let me know you got my feedback 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
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Its all about managing the tension between the absolute present and the plays of the mind...which are always past or future. Being present seems to require a lot of effort...which is scarry. But actually it is quite the opossite. Being present is the absence of any possible effort.
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That part 'secured attachment for risk taking' catches my attention. I feel we are often lacking in this, "a ladder/channels out there to reach out to desperate people to help them transform their lives. For eg, learning play by ear music could be a choice of many but there ain't alot of opportunity to learn it for a social purpose rather than commercial one. I would love to join a band & display my singing talent or learn percussion/piano fun-playing so as to build my self confident/worth but these opportunities are scarce..
This is gold ❤️
Very beneficial
Enjoyed this, soo many things we can learn in regards to many kinds of relationship.
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You shouldn't. He steals them. Watch D'Angelo Wallace's video about him. Fuckin hypocrite
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I feel you should start relationship counseling online for genuine people.
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I wish my X husband had seen that in a relationship. Instead of believing what the other told him him.
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So, once a year contact isn't acceptable? You don't take risks, when you expect to fail.
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The largest study of adult ... MEN. More than half the population has been left out. That doesn’t mean it isn’t important. It is. However, think of the massive amount of population that has been left out of this study. People of color and women.
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