Allah Pakistan me barti hui begrtiyaan khatam kare aur Pakistan me mujood toxic bandon par azaab ae aur hum sab ko Hazoor Pak (S.A.W) k ehkaamat par Amal krne ki tufeeq ata farmaye, Ameen
A superlative degree of toxicity is when the women in man's house e.g mother, sisters know more than the man himself and tell him whom should he like or not like !!
bilqul 😂😂😂 mujhy hansi is bt py i hy k mard ka orat ky peson py haq nae . han manta may hu k sub kuch mard ko krna chaya lekin jb orat k peson py mard ka haq nae to equality ke bt Q krti or job Q krna chati hen
it was a great time with you guys, I read the quote "Beautiful souls recognize beautiful souls. Keep being genuine. Your people will find you" but some of us need support please still waiting for the who was written for you a thousand years ago.
Nice to see a platform where discussions like these cultural taboos are being talked about and with good reasoning and experience solutions are provided
The most important thing she said was how her father told her of the important qualities of her potential husband which she could not have assessed herself. And as she mentioned females can be manipulated with emotional games. That is exactly why Allah made the guardian male (father, brother etc) a deciding factor as they can judge what problems lie in this world and what games men play. The answer to a few of the things they've said happen but don't know why, is that it's human biology. A man wants her wife to be Feminine and a woman wants her husband to be Masculine. It's just human nature. Of course this nature needs to be tamed by the will of Allah.
حضور ﷺ کی حدیث ہے کہ جب تک کسی کو غصے کی حالت میں نہ دیکھ لو اس وقت تک اسکے اخلاق پہ بھروسہ نہ کرو۔ہم لوگوں نے اپنے معیار بنا ئے ہوئے ہیں۔ جب کہ اپنے بارے میں بھی یقین سے کچھ نیہں کہ سکتے۔
I'm 25 honestly me aj tk kisi relationship me even kisi female se friendship bh NH ki Kai bar Dil krta h kasam se but Apne emotions ka khayal krte hue in chizon se dur rehta hun
Aik achay bnday bykea rider ne kaha thaa k jo shadi Allah aur uss k Rasool ko chor Kr ksi material cheez ko rakh k shadi karain gay to yaa to ap k sath dhoka hoga yaa wo shadi chal nahi payi gee. Because saaree cheez faani hay except the Allahand his noor in this world 🌎 in the form of Hazrat Muhammad S.A.W.
Some of the crazy Girls out there, listen you have your life once and you have to perform in it to please Allah. You dedicate this life to toxic haram relationships where the guy never intents to marry you, keeps you hooked and addicted with his toxic disrespectful behaviour followed by temporary love periods, what are you expecting by staying in this type of relationship? This will exhaust you emotionally and you will be used for his sexual desires. Secondly don't expect to change or fix his behaviour he's never gonna change for you becajse you never mean anything to him. Don't fall for temporary fake praises.
Boys should be learned that if they love, should respect girl and always offer her marriage. But as I see, boys are learned that girls are only things (for uy, use or throw to rubbish and next, next, like in shop with toys!) If she not agree she not serious and bye, next. Parents and families should be more open and understanding love of their sons or respect sons choices. But they strict and conservative so it causes hiding girl from family and haram relationships.
I don't know that I'm toxic or something but when ever I talked to a girl she was toxic and felt like she was attracted to me because I'm her toxic boy. So, I ended with all of them and only because of these girls. And I have a doubt that I might have a red flag girl with me.
@@MuhammadAliSalman-uo4vj if you disrespect girls and they are still attracted to you or chase you they are validation seeker toxic girls and you are toxic too because you disrespect them
Dating and meals payment here is my opinion, for wife, no question i will pay. But if my wife want to pay. But if its strictly early dating, lets either take turns or pay for ourself. If its first date, then pay for our own food. Then subsequent dates, it can be turn based. Also try to avoid bringing extra freeloaders to a date unless both parties have a person with them
Ajj kal ke larkion ke halaat dekh ke mene shadi se toba kar li hai. Afsos ki baat hai is generation mai shadian kam hongi. Jab sab pata hai uni aur offices mai kia chalta hai tou jab rishta ata hai trust issues shuru hojatay hain. Khaas tour pe larkion ka aik entitled attitude dekh ke.
Being a paksitani we r confused nation we say we r muslims But we also like dating and zinah astaghfirullay W are munafiqueen and there is a punishment for munafiqs
First thing is a man only needs children from a woman nothing else a woman is not in his house to steal his money. If she wants to live in his house she should learn to respect rules of that house.
Jaanne ki baat lambi karna bekaar hai. Best hai na ki sab apni character pe kaam kare aur aaj kal nahi par thode saal me hi sahi overall society ka situation bahut behtar hojaye.
ulta bol raha hay arrange marriage ke bare mein statistics love marriage ke against hein from USA census bureau media wale arrange marriage couple sirf 2 percent hein poore couples ki amount mein se. (media hype)
Mr host, kudos to you, your speaking, listening and (way of disagreeing with your guest is quite adaptive) so Keep it up. Even though this podcast was good, I would really appreciate you bringing somone "Who has experience in Pakistan Dating" perferably both male and female perspective and those who've married by dating. This guest, expalined women and male nature well. But you get my point right. She isn't a right candidate to talk about dating. SO please bring someone who has extensive experience in "D A T I N G" Thanks Alot.
How about discussing talking stages? I think it can be very harmful for people who are looking for long-term commitment. Often, girls prefer this kind of situation, which can lead to unnecessary emotional stress. It would be great if you could address these factors to educate those who don’t realize the negative impact of this behavior.
Mard ko khud kamana chahiye aur aurat Ka ka uski 100% dawlat par haq hai lekin mard pe larki bilkul kharach nhi Kar sakhti. Aur phir upar se mard Ghar k kaam bhi karay 😮. Okkk
Do away with marriage and have a yearly renewable contract. All will be well for everyone. If the girl is nice the husband will behave, if the husband is good the wife will work at it.
Pakistan me is tarah ke podcast bhi hote hai? I thought like Pakistan me sirf politics terrorism aur gurbat ke alawa kuch discuss hota nahi😂😂😂 and ofcourse military dictatorship as well.
Dosri baat larkiyooon ko aj kal paisa chaiye simple..... Jis larkay k paas paisa ho wo beshak larki ko chaparen maray... Larkiyaaan uss k sath khush rehti hain.
Iss bandi ki baaton sy jo mujhy smell ayi ha wo paisay ki hai.............iss bandi ko b paisay sy pyar lgta ha aisa feel ho raha ha iss ki baaton sy.....I mean khud bol rhi ha.....paisa ho banday k pass..separate ghar ho aur larkay k ghar walon k lye koi kaam na karna paray. aur larkay ka paisa biwi ka paisa aur biwi ka paisa b biwi ka paisa uss par larkay ka koi haq nhi hota....aur bills b larka pay karay etc..........Mera opinion ye hai k jab larkay k pass paisa ho....har cheez mil jati hai usko phir aur iss har cheez mein larkiyaaan b cheez ki tarah shamil hoti hain wo khud 1 nahi 3,4 aa jati hain uss k around phir larkay ko to kuch krnay ki zrorat nhi parti.Aisay larkay k phir affair chaltay hain.
Ye moosof ka khud ka selection itna kharab tha ka khud hi Keh rahi Ke bht ghalt Hoti agar apna Banda khud select Karti is ki ye auqaat ha AUR dosre BAAT isko apna Banda shorhar is leye Pasand ha k ye Jo kamati ha aur bahir jati ha us pe koi rok tok nh ha koi gharat mand ye bardahst nh karsakta AUR mard ka right ha k us Ke ijaazt Ke baghir koi job nh kar saktai AUR jab wo ijazat deta ha to kehti Hain mard ka aurat Ke paise par koi haq nh Nikaah ka Matlab ha do Jan aik roh har kaam mard Ke mushwre SE karo magar Kaya do paise aaya fame Aya mard ko Bure alaqab SE pukarna shru kartain Hain Khuda Ke LEYE in hassas topic pe mukamal Islam ka opinion bhe lena chahye ache kapre pehne vloger Jo batye Kaya ye sahi hota ha? Afsos kis mohabat Ke rishte ko kis tarh galez kar dya ha is tarh nikkah nh Zina hoga
A bravely mannered and intellegent lady. wish you a happy life.
"Pasand Karna aur Pasand karte rehna" mein boht fark hai. Absolutely
Allah Pakistan me barti hui begrtiyaan khatam kare aur Pakistan me mujood toxic bandon par azaab ae aur hum sab ko Hazoor Pak (S.A.W) k ehkaamat par Amal krne ki tufeeq ata farmaye, Ameen
Ur sister also
turns out he had other ideas, hazoor has doomed pak
Thanks for articulating the socially taboo issues so openly - thanks - appreciate it !!!
A superlative degree of toxicity is when the women in man's house e.g mother, sisters know more than the man himself and tell him whom should he like or not like !!
Didn't expect Pakistani to comment like this.
ExMuslimSahilUncensored
Iam a religious person but iam impressed seriously..sahi nabz pa hath rakha ha wo kehty hain na k dill ke bat kahe ho kisi ny..wasy..p
bilqul 😂😂😂 mujhy hansi is bt py i hy k mard ka orat ky peson py haq nae . han manta may hu k sub kuch mard ko krna chaya lekin jb orat k peson py mard ka haq nae to equality ke bt Q krti or job Q krna chati hen
Very nice initiative for corrections and betterment of our fake social culture. Keep continue. Jazakallah
it was a great time with you guys, I read the quote "Beautiful souls recognize beautiful souls. Keep being genuine. Your people will find you" but some of us need support please still waiting for the who was written for you a thousand years ago.
Nice to see a platform where discussions like these cultural taboos are being talked about and with good reasoning and experience solutions are provided
The most important thing she said was how her father told her of the important qualities of her potential husband which she could not have assessed herself. And as she mentioned females can be manipulated with emotional games. That is exactly why Allah made the guardian male (father, brother etc) a deciding factor as they can judge what problems lie in this world and what games men play.
The answer to a few of the things they've said happen but don't know why, is that it's human biology. A man wants her wife to be Feminine and a woman wants her husband to be Masculine. It's just human nature. Of course this nature needs to be tamed by the will of Allah.
Best comment in the entire section.
Its not just women but men can also be equally manipulated. You live and learn with experience.
حضور ﷺ کی حدیث ہے کہ جب تک کسی کو غصے کی حالت میں نہ دیکھ لو اس وقت تک اسکے اخلاق پہ بھروسہ نہ کرو۔ہم لوگوں نے اپنے معیار بنا ئے ہوئے ہیں۔ جب کہ اپنے بارے میں بھی یقین سے کچھ نیہں کہ سکتے۔
Manahil's thoughts are so powerful I agreed with her... I'm also old school of thoughts person ... 🎉
کیا آپ شادی کرنا چاہتی ہیں
@@arslanlawtips lol pesa ha?
@@Richie_Nefariousbhai k hair dekh k lagta ha ambani yhi ha
ExMuslimSahilUncensored
Enjoyed this podcast 😍 very realistic talk
کیا آپ شادی کرنا چاہتی ہیں
To all the men out their, respect such platform as they bring raw truth for you. Let women be offended. Improve yourself and be respectful
I'm 25 honestly me aj tk kisi relationship me even kisi female se friendship bh NH ki Kai bar Dil krta h kasam se but Apne emotions ka khayal krte hue in chizon se dur rehta hun
👍
they cost you 25 k admission feee and after rishta done they get 25 more so total 50 k total thats basic and premium is 1 lakh.
Loved this podcast ❤❤
So sad to see this dating culture now i am afraid of marriage 🙃
Absolutely right deep words💯
Aik achay bnday bykea rider ne kaha thaa k jo shadi Allah aur uss k Rasool ko chor Kr ksi material cheez ko rakh k shadi karain gay to yaa to ap k sath dhoka hoga yaa wo shadi chal nahi payi gee. Because saaree cheez faani hay except the Allahand his noor in this world 🌎 in the form of Hazrat Muhammad S.A.W.
Recommended
Some of the crazy Girls out there, listen you have your life once and you have to perform in it to please Allah. You dedicate this life to toxic haram relationships where the guy never intents to marry you, keeps you hooked and addicted with his toxic disrespectful behaviour followed by temporary love periods, what are you expecting by staying in this type of relationship? This will exhaust you emotionally and you will be used for his sexual desires. Secondly don't expect to change or fix his behaviour he's never gonna change for you becajse you never mean anything to him. Don't fall for temporary fake praises.
Boys should be learned that if they love, should respect girl and always offer her marriage. But as I see, boys are learned that girls are only things (for uy, use or throw to rubbish and next, next, like in shop with toys!) If she not agree she not serious and bye, next. Parents and families should be more open and understanding love of their sons or respect sons choices. But they strict and conservative so it causes hiding girl from family and haram relationships.
What do you mean she is not in a house to take over or steal property. She has her place. If a man does the same how will you react.
Crazy boys also if girls are crazy remain single bro simple
Good discussion❤❤❤
I don't know that I'm toxic or something but when ever I talked to a girl she was toxic and felt like she was attracted to me because I'm her toxic boy. So, I ended with all of them and only because of these girls. And I have a doubt that I might have a red flag girl with me.
@@MuhammadAliSalman-uo4vj if you disrespect girls and they are still attracted to you or chase you they are validation seeker toxic girls and you are toxic too because you disrespect them
What an intelligent girl👍
I agreed with Manahil thoughts and i have seen such things in life
She is so well spoken
but not man
Love,Dating,and Marriage 😢
Dating and meals payment here is my opinion, for wife, no question i will pay. But if my wife want to pay.
But if its strictly early dating, lets either take turns or pay for ourself. If its first date, then pay for our own food. Then subsequent dates, it can be turn based. Also try to avoid bringing extra freeloaders to a date unless both parties have a person with them
My inspiration malkani 🔥
When you making a long 40 minutes 30 minutes long video, make transcript as well ✅
Why scary as a male i feel pakistani females are very decent and nice
Every one is different slect accordingly nothing to scre fear
Either accept or dont
Go for "an anti scicial, intoverd and (even) a mean woman", She will be your home maker, will give you space and will not betray you!
I think you have another podcast for educational purposes it will be helpful for society
Very brave and unique woman
You are right 👍🏻
very informative manahil you rock i recommend make some TH-cam videos for gumrah families who only decide on materialistic things
22:35 absolutely right
Ajj kal ke larkion ke halaat dekh ke mene shadi se toba kar li hai. Afsos ki baat hai is generation mai shadian kam hongi. Jab sab pata hai uni aur offices mai kia chalta hai tou jab rishta ata hai trust issues shuru hojatay hain. Khaas tour pe larkion ka aik entitled attitude dekh ke.
Same here 😢😢
Being a paksitani we r confused nation we say we r muslims
But we also like dating and zinah astaghfirullay
W are munafiqueen and there is a punishment for munafiqs
dating is much better than cousin marriage
Nice one 😊
First thing is a man only needs children from a woman nothing else a woman is not in his house to steal his money. If she wants to live in his house she should learn to respect rules of that house.
Exactly
that's backwards
Jaanne ki baat lambi karna bekaar hai. Best hai na ki sab apni character pe kaam kare aur aaj kal nahi par thode saal me hi sahi overall society ka situation bahut behtar hojaye.
💯💯💯
Mashallah very good ND excilient show
😂❤ great
Conversation 💯
ulta bol raha hay arrange marriage ke bare mein statistics love marriage ke against hein from USA census bureau media wale arrange marriage couple sirf 2 percent hein poore couples ki amount mein se. (media hype)
Btain lrki bilkul thek kr rai hai i agree
she is relay intelligent .............
The line by Ma'am Don't be a husband and wife if you're not 🔥
How pass a law? Women are not being wife because there is no law to enforce that. If man doesn't want to be a husband there is no law to protect him.
Mr host, kudos to you, your speaking, listening and (way of disagreeing with your guest is quite adaptive) so Keep it up.
Even though this podcast was good, I would really appreciate you bringing somone "Who has experience in Pakistan Dating" perferably both male and female perspective and those who've married by dating.
This guest, expalined women and male nature well. But you get my point right. She isn't a right candidate to talk about dating. SO please bring someone who has extensive experience in "D A T I N G"
Thanks Alot.
Power stays in shadow...
39:00 Pakistan agay kesse jaye ga. Saray Isi se clearance leka aye hoye Hain. Aurat passe kamaye ge tuh kharch bhi karay ge.
Favorite girl 💞💞
100 % facts
Best ever conversation on such topic !!!!! ❤
Remembering Sholays Dialog by Amitab “Bahut Pyare batein karti hain”
Bahut sari batein karti hai 😂
The male host sounds more like the female. He has totally became dominated by her and is giggling like a child.
Please turn on Caption in ENGLISH or ALL LANGUAGES plss
In Muslim Marriage In India As Per Muslim Personal Law Can Legaly 4 Wives..Is It The Same In Pakistan?
Islamic rules are not about regions or countries,
Islamic rules are for all Muslims no matter where they're from .😊
جی، پاکستان میں مسلمان مرد چار شادیاں کر سکتے ہیں۔
How about discussing talking stages? I think it can be very harmful for people who are looking for long-term commitment. Often, girls prefer this kind of situation, which can lead to unnecessary emotional stress. It would be great if you could address these factors to educate those who don’t realize the negative impact of this behavior.
Yeh Sahi hay job milte nhe podcast start kro 😅😅
Shekih atif female Version ❤😂😊
your programme based or represant media personalities marriages.these marriages 97% failed after maximum 10 years. do you knows why.?
Media personalities divorce for publicity and to increase divorce culture in a society.
this girl has a rasgulla innocence to her. makes some sense in her evaluation.
Allah bgrt mrdon ko pouchy ameen
Aur begharat auraton ko bhi
Ameen Sum Ameen
or Baigarat Aurtoon ko bhi pouchy ALLAH Pak
@@Abdullah_Synopsis😂😂😂😂
@@hashiyadataro-bl9ze 😉
I hope feminism takes over and there is only 50/50 culture of expenditures in relationships😂
It is essential if Pakistan wants to progress.
👌🏻
Larki glat kah rahi ha ka women ko pasy dany ka koi haq ne , its wrong ... woemn ko be sath countribute karna chy
Dating 😢😮
The questions he is raising are highly intelligent and mature, but the answers are not aligned with the questions.
In Punjabi we called this tone as bhaka
Reality Check
Mard ko khud kamana chahiye aur aurat Ka ka uski 100% dawlat par haq hai lekin mard pe larki bilkul kharach nhi Kar sakhti. Aur phir upar se mard Ghar k kaam bhi karay 😮. Okkk
this woman has an opinion on everything under the sun!!but she can't tolerate a single word herself
Female version of Bilal Ahmed
Instead laughing too much he must know the religious knwledge
Do away with marriage and have a yearly renewable contract. All will be well for everyone. If the girl is nice the husband will behave, if the husband is good the wife will work at it.
You Made Mistake Mam At Eat Coffee 😭😭
Bohat hi koi sathai lvl ki talk the . Is sa achi podcast to mn kar lun. Or ye bnda mjhy feminist sa lag rha ha
Pakistan me is tarah ke podcast bhi hote hai? I thought like Pakistan me sirf politics terrorism aur gurbat ke alawa kuch discuss hota nahi😂😂😂 and ofcourse military dictatorship as well.
Waqye it was a brilliant podcast
Is Hijab Compulsory In Pakistan?
Not really in the city's but in rural areas it's apriciated
نہیں، پاکستان میں مسلمان لڑکی کے لیے حجاب کرنا ذاتی پسند، ناپسند پر منحصر ہے۔ ایران کی طرح ریاستی قانون نہیں ہے۔
Who is she ?
What's her name?
There is no introduction at all
Love organza dupetty
Can’t handle them but look nice
19:00 apnay gahak ko kah rahi ke mery passay de ke gaye.
Damm It This ☠️
I am fearful of marriages now. It is very expensive and toxic.
Who is she? Awein ki ko bulaa k bkwas krwa k view leny hn bss👎🏻
🌈BAHRIA TOWN LAHORE
🌈BAHRIA TOWN KARACHI
🌈BAHRIA TOWN ISLAMABAD
🌈BAHRIA TOWN RAWALPINDI
India mein toh arrange marriages ke bahane hook ups chl rhe hin😂😂😂
Why so low reach.
Dosri baat larkiyooon ko aj kal paisa chaiye simple..... Jis larkay k paas paisa ho wo beshak larki ko chaparen maray... Larkiyaaan uss k sath khush rehti hain.
Iss bandi ki baaton sy jo mujhy smell ayi ha wo paisay ki hai.............iss bandi ko b paisay sy pyar lgta ha aisa feel ho raha ha iss ki baaton sy.....I mean khud bol rhi ha.....paisa ho banday k pass..separate ghar ho aur larkay k ghar walon k lye koi kaam na karna paray. aur larkay ka paisa biwi ka paisa aur biwi ka paisa b biwi ka paisa uss par larkay ka koi haq nhi hota....aur bills b larka pay karay etc..........Mera opinion ye hai k jab larkay k pass paisa ho....har cheez mil jati hai usko phir aur iss har cheez mein larkiyaaan b cheez ki tarah shamil hoti hain wo khud 1 nahi 3,4 aa jati hain uss k around phir larkay ko to kuch krnay ki zrorat nhi parti.Aisay larkay k phir affair chaltay hain.
Apki koi behen hay jo ap jaysay khayal rakthi ho
Hr cheez ki baat kr li lakin ya nahi in dono ny kaha k islam ka bhi koi qanoon hy ...islam bhi mater krta hy..
اگر کوئی کہ رہا ہے کہ وہ ہیرا ہے،،، وہ دراصل کھیرا ہوتا ہے۔ 😂😂😂😂
جس نے شادی کرنی ہوتی ہے وہ آپکو پروپوز کرے گا فضول کی گپ نہیں لگائے گا
BAs ho tau koi prado gift kernay wali ho 😂
Jakir Naik se bhi pooch lena😅😅😂😂😂😂
Ye moosof ka khud ka selection itna kharab tha ka khud hi Keh rahi Ke bht ghalt Hoti agar apna Banda khud select Karti is ki ye auqaat ha AUR dosre BAAT isko apna Banda shorhar is leye Pasand ha k ye Jo kamati ha aur bahir jati ha us pe koi rok tok nh ha koi gharat mand ye bardahst nh karsakta AUR mard ka right ha k us Ke ijaazt Ke baghir koi job nh kar saktai AUR jab wo ijazat deta ha to kehti Hain mard ka aurat Ke paise par koi haq nh Nikaah ka Matlab ha do Jan aik roh har kaam mard Ke mushwre SE karo magar Kaya do paise aaya fame Aya mard ko Bure alaqab SE pukarna shru kartain Hain Khuda Ke LEYE in hassas topic pe mukamal Islam ka opinion bhe lena chahye ache kapre pehne vloger Jo batye Kaya ye sahi hota ha?
Afsos kis mohabat Ke rishte ko kis tarh galez kar dya ha is tarh nikkah nh Zina hoga