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- Have you ever wondered which little habits or behaviors you could implement to attract people your way? There are some subtle behaviors that are often seen as sexy, some of which, you can make a habit of. You may be wondering what these are. Well, here are a few sexy habits that drive others wild with attraction.
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Rane, Z. (2020, September 12). 8 Science-Backed Habits to Become More Emotionally Attractive. Medium. medium.com/mind-cafe/8-habits-of-emotionally-attractive-people-faaafc5c9c44.
Asurion. (2019, November 21). Americans Check Their Phones 96 Times a Day. www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/americans-check-their-phones-96-times-a-day-300962643.html#:~:text=Americans%20now%20check%20their%20phones,tech%20care%20company%20Asurion1.
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Ty!
no because i’m in love with anime character
Yes, just yeet yourself into the anime world. And you'll make people drool without a single effort 🙂
*Greetings!! ^^*
@@GrustaniaNicko True, but my first crush on 3D man is Akaashi's stage actor 😩✨💕
1. Always learning
2. Relaxed and calmed body language gestures
3. Be mindful during discussions
4. They don’t check their phones 24/7
5. Don’t try to be perfect
6. Say their name often
Blessings and love to all who ready this ❤️ everything in your life will work out soon enough, manifesting it for all of you 🙏🏼
thank you!
Thank you :)
Yess the comment I was looking for 😂
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_Say my name, say my name._
"do you use your hands dramatically when you talk?"
me, an italian: 👁️👄👁️
Lmao I just remembered that meme of the Italian footballer arguing with the ref.
@Holl ywood don’t spam again or I’m gonna report
@Holl ywood was why am I talking to a bot
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@@nerfcontent9429 just report
Everyone agrees that her voice is as smooth as a hot knife through butter
Psych2Go's videos are always smooth as butter.
Probably one of those habits
Thats fake. A fake persona. Not only that, if a man talked that way, that would be sexist and sexual harassment. Especially around children. Todays male is downsized to belittlement.
sMoOtH liEk butTaH liek a criminal undercover
@@alliara289 BRO I THOUGHT OF THAT TOO I SUNG IT AS SOON AS I SAW IT-
For those who don’t think intelligence is sexy, try going out on a date with a stupid person who thinks they’re smart. Then tell me how attracted you are to them.
that's called the Kruger effect tho, basically a dumb and arrogant person
you can be not that smart and accept it
True. Intelligent people usually regard themselves as stupid but curious.
@@janbo8331 Lmao that is so true
ngl that kills attraction faster than an F1 car...
It's adorable, It's in the matter of perspective. Unless you meant the really arrogant and garbage ones then yeah they are unattractive
I 100% notice if someone is constantly picking up their phone /looking at their phone. Unless you're on call for your job, I don't see a need to have to always look at your phone especially during a date which is only an hour or two!! I just find it so so rude
@Holl ywood Hey buddy nobody fucking asked
this makes me feel bad about my first date 😭 but i mean we ate and then he kinda just sat there cuz he was too timid and i felt like i was saying random stupid stuff just to keep the convo going
Ooooh yea this is a huge redfläg.
Always on the smartphone and not participating hah. To tze streeets
@@nicolem9930 Hmmm, I tend to also ramble on and on if the other person doesn't really talk / is too shy. Idk if they actually like to hear my random thoughts
@@thorstenkehl3687 there have been times on dates where the guy would literally just be on their phone and half talk to me. I was like wtheck?!
Hygiene is a top quality
Factssss
@@dailybikes668 🧼🧽🛁🚿
Well, sure being clean and fresh is all good. But nothing heats my blood more than the scent of another person. Not perfume or any such thing but someones natural scent. Don't know how this is from a woman's perspective but from a guys, our instics are still there, and if every inch of you smells and tastes of the finest French perfume I'm gonna be disappointed.
@@DWPersianExcursion then at the end a little splash of cologne 🤤
@@dailybikes668 🥴and freshly shampooed hair,that air drys into his own handsome scent🥴
1. 0:22 Always Learning
2. 1:14 Relaxed & Calmed Body Language Gestures
3. 1:57 Be Mindful During Discussions
4. 2:32 They Don't Check Their Phone 24/7
5. 3:15 Don't Try To Be Perfect
6. 4:30 Say Their Name Often
Here before people say "how did you comment that before the video released" LOL 😂😂😂
Lol
@@nakshatramusic21 bruh
Thank you 😊
Thank u fellow time traveller
I never thought I'd see the day psi used the word Sexy lmaoo
IKR
lol
It's a channel orientated more towards adults yet that isn't really their audience. You can see them talk about things that most adults do sometimes, e.g. alcohol, full-time jobs.
Yep, me neither
I love your pfp of techno xdd
Lol
I find it so attractive when a potential love interest has a pulse and warm skin. I don't think I have high standards at all
Preferably someone who does not put me in mind of a blow-up doll. Though I have slightly higher standards.
I have cold hands☹
Presumably not because your heart has stopped circulating blood
So you like people who are alive? There's plenty to go around!
What in the necrophilic hell is this?
I think the calmness is very attractive, but I also think a 'bubbly' personality attracts a lot of people. Sometimes at parties when I was trying to attract a certain person, I just laughed loudly (which is how I laugh naturally) and then be expressive and happy with the people I'm with. I've attracted a lot of people this way and it draws in people because of how open and nice you seem :)
It makes you seem cheerful which can be seen as more approachable and less judgy because you feel more comfortable being goofy and energetic with them. Someone who is too calm can seem to lack energy and you can sometimes feel you have to suppress your energy to match theirs because you don't want to be overbearing and scare them off.
Bubbly personalities tend to be people-pleasers.
Sure it attracts people, initially, but, it's actually a red flag, long-term... And it is actually alienating to people who can't help but see through it, because to them its disingenuous. :P
So it turns out, you're only attracting shallow people, which is bad for the bubbly person, because those are not the kind of people you WANT to attract... But those are the people you can't help but attract, thanks to your pathological people-pleasing. It's a bit of a shtshow. xD
So, you sound like you have confirmation bias, honestly.
@@SillyRamen Sounds like you're not a good match for that person, so the healthy option to admit that, and leave them alone... You're not necessarily overbearing, but, the fact that you feel pressured to hold yourself back, out of fear of being overbearing, means you and that person are inherently incompatible, socially... Simply because you don't feel comfortable around them.
That's not good or bad, it just is what it is... And that's okay. :)
@@MyouKyuubi That's not entirely true. Feeling pressured to hold yourself back sounds like a form of anxiety, you will only find that you are compatible or not if you let go and be yourself. I am a quite lay back, chill and quiet person, but without any pressure i automaticaly much others peoples energy if it's cheerful and bubbly. Just be yourself and judge afterwards if that relationship is compatible or not.
@@minjo582 "Feeling pressured to hold yourself back sounds like a form of anxiety"
Indeed, there are multiple forms of anxiety, and anxieties created from social pressure is different from internalized anxiety.
It being anxiety, doesn't refute what i said, lol. And FYI, i'm very familiar with anxiety as part of my autism diagnosis. :P
"you will only find that you are compatible or not if you let go and be yourself."
No, some people simply expect certain things of you, and treat you with less respect if you don't meet said expectations, that produces the type of anxiety that makes you feel compelled to to MEET their expectations, even if they're totally unreasonable... Social anxiety.
Typically that's a sign that the person you're trying to impress, is a n*rcissist... That's an incompatibility... And being yourself, is going to make them treat you even worse. :P
I know this from personal experience. xD
I learned how to be myself and not give a fck what people think of me, after i figured out that i wasn't ABLE to meet their expectations. ;)
"I am a quite lay back, chill and quiet person, but without any pressure i automaticaly much others peoples energy if it's cheerful and bubbly."
You have no personality, and you blend in by being a chameleon. Like my childhood friend. She transforms her speech-pattern, and mannerisms, and mood, based on who she's talking to (She's a bit of a severe case of chameleon, lol)... She's trying to match the energy of the individual she's talking to. Which is why hanging with crowds exhausts her. xD
Exhaustion is the least of her problems, though. :P
I personally don't change to match other people's energy, for the sake of social approval... At best, i would only not obstruct their energy, 'cus, i don't want to ruin their good vibes. :)
"Just be yourself and judge afterwards if that relationship is compatible or not."
Easier said than done, when you're a people-pleaser.
"say their name"
Me: "Heisenberg"
Them: "You're god damned right"
EREN JAEGER!
@@marcrusselmagsino3164 TATAKAE!
@@marcrusselmagsino3164 Mikaasaaa!!!
@@smg4607 Narutoooooooo!!!
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"Spilling coffe at the end of an interview is sexy"
Me at the end of a date: Coffe mug goes YEET
Lmaooo u got it my brotha
"Say their name often"
My strong forgetfulness : *sweats*
Write there name on your hand. Who's the forgetful one now!
@@Orsabell forgets the he wrote it
@@Orsabell *casually forgets that it was written and sweats until the ink is washed away then actually forgets their names*
Can you link their name to another friend, family member, favourite famous person, favorite character/s in movies books or tv?
Or place or event?
The last point is totally true. It was during my stay in Japan that I learned how important it was to learn people's names and then say their names during conversation. The Japanese culture emphasizes on addressing people by their names instead of a mere Sir or Madam.
The phone one is a big deal. So, so many girls I’ve gone on dates with or just hung out with are always on their phones. I know it’s the same with guys, but the point is, it happens a lot and it’s not really cool. It makes us feel as though you’ve lost interest or aren’t bothering to pay attention, especially if we’re in the middle of a conversation.
Yeah it means they are not interested.
I think it’s quite a negative trait and suggests lacking in interest
if i am by myself or been with someone for hours, then its fine to go for the phone. But it is so annoying when im in a restaurant or in the car with someone and they are constantly looking at their phone. When I am with other people, I do my best to not look at my phone and interact with each other for awhile. The most annoying part is when im in the middle of a conversation and the phone gets whipped out, which my wife does to me more than anybody (prob since i spend a lot of time with her). Sometimes she gets mad when i point it out
Only true Psych2Go fans will find this when it's unlisted 😎
yup
hi i guess
Hi lol
Hello hehe...
This comment gave me such a strong feeling of a community 🥺❤️
I think a lot of this depends on the person. I, for example, thing dumb, goofy men are absolutely adorable. I also find people that communicate with dramatic body language to be really charming and expressive
I have energetic body language, its nice to hear that 🥺
I find it hard to belive you find Down syndrome guys romantically or sexually attractive at all
@@chuckyyes 💀💀💀 I don’t think that’s what he means
Where you at gurl, I'm tired of clowning around by myself. 😂
@@chuckyyes wtf lmao that isnt what i mean
This voice is so soothing..that I am here within 34 seconds..
Uh oh... 34.
@@greatwavefan397 MY MAN.
when you naturally do all the habits but still, nobody likes you: 👁👄👁💧
Then "Nobody" is missing out on someone very nice. 😘🤗
@@luvmyrecords THIS IS THE NICEST THING EVER SAID TO ME I LOVE YOU 😭✨
@@jasmine_ism ♥️😘🤗
Good for me.
I like you
1. Keep learning
2. Relax
3. Mindful during discussion (present at the moment)
4. Don’t check phone 24/7 (emotionally present)
5. Don’t try to be perfect
6. Say their name often (catches interest)
Those 10 people who disliked are the people that got driven wild
edit: I’ve been seeing a good amount of comments saying stuff like “Maybe they don’t agree, and just incase you’ve seen this and said the same thing ITS A JOKE
Maybe they just don't agree with the tips given.
Or maybe they are aroace, who knows?
Or they don’t like the idea of this video being reposted (the animation is different but the audio is the same)
Too sexy for them I guess
Maybe those people are just jealous and can't get over the fact that they aren't "sexy" according to the
tips given in the video, so they just disliked so they think "I am already sexy u-u" Well something like that 😅
Psych2Go: *posts with cute art,voice and an interesting topic also singing a cute song*
Fans: *Happy noises*
@Holl ywood no❤️
Happy noises indeed
Content gets more creative each and everyday, I'm super grateful for this channel!
Not trying to sound smart 😉 but there is a big difference between knowledge and intelligence that needs to be addressed. Knowledge is comparable to stored information and intelligence is how well we interpret and use that information. Much like a savant might memorize whole books and dates but doesn’t know how to use that information practically much of the time such as new technologies.
I was looking for this comment 👌🏻💕
LOL. "Being smart is sexy." And I'm out.
Me:
😂😂
so faithful to "not learning" , huh..
Exactly after hearing that I thought that too its not that I don't want to learn its just that I find it hard to pay attention and somethings don't come easy to me I'm very slow😔
@@mrcoconut5077 its always taken me alot longer than anyone to learn something and even now I still have issues remembering. Hell my old high school thought I was so stupid that they tried to hold me back numerous times and a few times tried to get me in the special ed classes because my math skills, even the basic ones are atrocious.
LMAOOOOO
I have these traits. I would also add confidence to this list as the most important trait. I have approached, attracted, and had women fighting over me that most people would consider out of my league by just being confident.
pov: you're alredy under my genjutsu
I used to watch this channel in order to help someone, but as time passed I'm watching this more to help myself get better
I needed this. Not to be sexy, but to improve myself. Thank you so much
Can't wait to see people wondering about those time travellers
I’m waiting for my future self or my grandson to tell me to keep going or to stop doing something
it's you *Mihail .you , you right here*
@@theironrubberduck how are you so sure that it's gonna be a grandson? Time traveller yourself?!
"Say their name often". That's an American thing.
In Scandinavia we find that approach seriously annoying and kind of fake.
Yes, remember someone's name, but please don't use it in every other sentence. It sounds rehearsed somehow. Like a salesman trying to make you buy something you don't really want.
I strongly agree.
I agree with that, honestly hearing my name throughout a conversation feels somewhat fake, as if the person is actually trying just not to forget my name, or kinda annoyed at me.
Yes it does sound more like advertising than natural part of conversation. I'd prefer using the name when you have to stress something important.
I agree. It also makes me feel like the person is trying to manipulate me to like them, just because they repetitively say my name in every sentence. It feels too fake and suspicious to me.
I don’t know if it’s an American thing, but I was texting with my crush a few weeks ago and he mentioned my name (for the first time) and I was like ‘OMG He just mentioned my name 😮😍😀’. I was curious and looked it up on the internet if it would mean anything, desperate as I am hahaha 😅 What I found was using the others name in the context of dating and relationships is a sign of respect, that they really care about you. It shows interest and it might even mean that this person likes you more than an average acquaintance. However, to get back to the subject of the video, respect is actually something ‘sexy’ to me.
Thank you! This video actually made me feel less stressed about my appearance❤️
"Don’t try to be perfect"
After all, A penny with flaws is worth more than a shiny penny.
Amazing, but still remember you're perfect just the way you are. There's nothing wrong with talking with your hands, tbh I thing that is one on my benefits- that I have an energy and it is being expressed in my body language. NEVER change who you are to be attractive. I really like the other advices:)
Well, after all, we are here to learn from a calming, respectful and understanding channel, tho probably best to avoid watching while we are communicating with others... Right, Psych2go? 😉
I just want to have someone who can take interest in me, that's why I am here 😭
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ME TOO!
Hey butterylicious hoon, we see you, we hear you, and we're here for you
@@Psych2go thank you so much! 🤍
I'm interested in you. How are you doing?
Unfortunately, I don't like hearing my own name as it almost never precedes a conversation I want to be a part of and usually only comes before a request/order/questioning. Its like a negative Pavlovian response.
same
I mostly just wonder 'why' because I hear my own name extremely rarely. My parents refused to use it for years (my dad gave it to me and he passed away when I was young) and people around me often couldn't pronounce it. (I lived abroad and other than me introducing myself, no-one really used it). It's neither positive nor negative, it's just.. odd.
@@esmee6308 well, I can't explain why people would want to hear their own name. Except for narcissists, they love to hear their own name, because they are their favorite subject.
I don't like to hear my name called, because my parents would frequently yell my name from far away with the expectation I come running to do their bidding. But then, I had childhood emotional neglect. Hearing my own name was never a good thing.
@@brocksamson3282 I had a similar childhood though 'luckily' my stepdad refused to use my name and used cow names instead in a way to mock me. So my name didn't get 'tainted' in such a way, but I still get some anxiety when my name is called, can't even imagine how horrid it must be for someone with your childhood.
However I do notice the positive reaction in others, it just feels so 'cheap' and awkward for me to use. :'')
I saw too many manipulators use names as a means of gaining trust so I naturally go on high alert if someone is using someone's name too often, especially my own...
ok but THE ART IN THIS VIDEO IS PERFECT.
"Eat, sleep, breed, repeat" - Master Oogway
😅😂😂
@Holl ywood of course ill support ya .... and if u get the mic shout out to me in your video ok 😉
@Comical Realm Animations that's a good wisdom
😅😅
"Quit taking all the credit"
- sun tzu art of war
That video/channel made me more relaxed about who I am. I was kind of tired and worried about other videos telling me in order to attract someone I have to treat them like crap.
1. I constantly am learning. Guess I'm sexy?
2. Relaxed and calmed body gesture you say? I kind of tend to go back & forth with this. Or rather it's situational and it depends.
3. Mindful discussions? Sure, or I guess I at least try.
4. Not checking my phone 24/7? They do say it's hard for people as young as me XD (but at least when I am genuinely interested, I won't go to my phone).
5. Don't try to be perfect, huh. "Perfectionist" me is triggered!!! XD
6. Say their name often, sounds right. I can agree with this one, both on the giving and receiving end.
Is the Psych2Go crew trying to imply that I'm sexier than I give myself credit for? XD
Yes, you are sexy!!!
that artstyle is so adorable i am crying
LOL the 6th habit reminded me of a cute thing that happened to me. I was on a camping trip and I had been sleeping for a while. Two other people were there with me but staying late & talking softly, then at some point they said something nice about me and I literally heard them, woke up, said "Thank you!" and fell back asleep. I giggle everytime I remember this
Haha, the last time I heard someone say something about me was that I was crazy and disgusting
“Thank you for going on this journey through life with me. There is nobody else who I would want by my side but you my angel.” - Unknown
Imagine animating this just for it to be an unlisted video (it was unlisted)
It's public now... but yeah... that'd be a waste of time for the animators
Lol
@🍉Suki-tan Hatsune✔️ Ig a week ago it was unlisted
Maybe because it was up for editing.
being calm is really attractive
so this guy in my class had a crush on me and asked me out for a date, and i asked him why he liked me so much. he liked me because i was careless, hopeless, dumb, clumsy and messed up. he said i made him feel responsible about me and he should take care of me lol
That sounds like a major red flag.
I just play the channel to go to sleep. Seriously a nice soothing voice. The channel have good tips for those who wants to be explore their options in handling these stuffs. Best to learn from experience.
"Time to get studying" *sigh*
School is very close to starting for me. :(
I just want to say that this video is incredibly well edited. It was a pleasure to watch.
Me:
*_*Gets notify of this video*_*
Me:
**Laughs in asexual**
@@JusTForFun-bh4es :)
** also laughs in asexual**
@@alyx_2912 :))))
I can see the phone thing as a problem. The only reason why I really use my phone as much as I do is because my date, that I've been with for six years, is long distance. I met them for the first time July, and that was the longest I've gone without using my phone.
When you have given up on love, you only care about looking smexy for yourself ❤️🍕
@Holl ywood be patient, if your song's good you'll get recognition
@@demonsuckafucka6828 it’s a bot
@@demonsuckafucka6828 has the exact same comment on someone else’s
@@nerfcontent9429 oh
And that's when love comes...it happened to me that way.
Voice is vibrational and can be soothing........it most definitely decreases anxiety!!
I now understand why I always have crushes on ppl who are not achievable 😂😂😂
Next up: How to tell when you have severe depression and/or PTSD. How does this channel cover... everything? Love it :)
The checking phone habit is so terrible! My ex is constantly on her phone and it drove me nuts. It's extremely difficult to have a conversation when the phone is vibrating, notification tones, and lighting up. Engage and be present!
I once had a date who would SnapChat her friend mid-date. There was no second time
My mother does this constantly, it drives my stepdad nuts. I eventually created the habit to draw out some flashcards to fill the time. My poor stepdad, he never really engages in conversation with me anyway but suddenly he had two of them. :'')
The art style is RADIATINGG💫
3:47 Brandon Routh who played Superman in Superman Returns more or less got the roll because he spilled coffee during his interview with the director. It proved that he could play Clark Kent. Kind a like in this video it made him more human and not only some perfect superior super hero.
Wow! Thanks for sharing! You learn something new every day!
All of these points are pretty spot on. I'd like to believe I'm doing all 6 of these all the time. I'm shy and tend to listen more than I speak, I make a point never to look at my phone unless the person I'm with has left the room (to avoid being rude), I try to use the person's name when I can (to avoid terms like "hey you, or yo"), I am a bit goofy naturally and always appear curious and interested in new things, facts, or a person's interests/ passions. This is also a good way to counter balance "always learning", as you can't have your nose in a book while out with someone, but active listening does teach you more about the person! And when you later demonstrate that you paid attention, oouuh boy do you appear attractive. Listening is good, but remembering is better. :P
When you start to learn stuff to impress your crush but it turns out to be helpful with your school too.
The learning one I believe is because of the subconscious understanding of POTENTIAL power.
So for instance: you’ll be more drawn to someone whose well off whose got good character traits vs. someone whose not well off with good character traits.
But if someone isn’t well off but is LOADED up with useful, practical knowledge that can be applied then they’ve got a lot of potential wealth.
I’ve been experiencing this first hand myself a lot lately, it’s amazing how much someone flips very quickly as soon as you start talking about subjects that indicate this understanding
Another tip in a loud room, don’t speak up so the person who you are dating can hear you better, rather keep your voice down so they have to move closer.
Saying your name yes, my girlfriend says my name often… I’m not sure why but I feel closer to her when we say each others names
I'll be honest here. Every single one of the six habits except number one was WAY simpler than I would have imagined. And NO, I Am NOT crushing or dating anyone. Just wanted to make that clear.
I do all of these, except for sometimes letting the calm demeanor slip. I don't know if it's made me sexier, but the people I date definitely stay in friendly contact... Which is *not* a consolation prize. Romantic or sexual relationships can be a lot more emotional labour than supportive friends.
I feel like these are all things attractive people do to be more attractive regardless of who is actually using these techniques
Her voice slips better into my mind than my depression
I looove the art in this video! So simple and fresh!
1. Always learning, check! There's always something new to learn. I never shy away from trying or learning something new. Very useful even at work, my superiors always love me because of this.
2. Relaxed and calmed body language gestures, working on it, im improving, slowly but surely.
3. Be mindful during discussions, check! always give your full attention to someone talking to you, especially if they are confiding to you something important.
4. They don’t check their phones 24/7, check! The phone is my tool, not the other way around. I use it when i need it but i can set it aside no problem.
5. Don’t try to be perfect, this one is still in-progress, its hard not to try to seem perfect infront of someone you like. We all have flaws but the media tries to convince us otherwise.
6. Say their name often, definitely something i have to wrok on more.
Learning a lot from all your videos Psych2Go, so thanks for all the information!❤
I don’t think I’ll ever need this but if somehow I do, thanks
You're welcome :) Glad to help!
this all is absolutely true and fine..no objections over any of the points
BUT STAY THE WAY YOU ARE....LOVE YOURSELF MORE THAN EVERYONE LITERALLY EVERYONE BUT BY THIS I DON'T MEAN THAT LOOK AT SOMEONE AS IF THEY ARE BELOW YOU
BUT LOVE YOURSELF AND ACCEPT THE CHANGES
we all will be fine...I hope for your best!! talk to me whenever you wish to I am right here and never give up...u all are precious just like gems
Last one seems pretty questionable to me. I'd imagine if someone had experience being bullied or something, hearing their own name randomly in a conversation somewhere (assuming they don't have any context) they could be conditioned to assume they're being badmouthed, and it would just make them feel anxious.
I can kinda relate to that, as whenever I got called by my name was just when my parents where mad or annoyed at me. Now whenever I'm talking with someone and they say my name randomly I start thinking if they are mad or annoyed... Shit how come I never realized that before??? 😂😂
Exactly my thoughts.
I get anxious quite fast when i hear my name randomly and not directed to me as a call to join the conversation.
It's hard to unlearn to think that people talk shit about you when you've experienced it for years.
Sounds like you have some inner work to do, rather than the point being actually questionable...
@@Lollilol1066 seems like you can't empathize so leave me alone 🤷
To me it sounds condescending.
“Always learning” because smart’s sexy!
However, don’t be too intelligent as “Don’t try to be perfect” was mentioned! Instead, try to pretend to subdue it a bit, and then listen to your partner more because it wouldn’t be surplus, trust me!
Therefore, let’s focus on how you’re gonna “Be mindful during discussions”!
And also don’t forget how the way “They don’t check their phone 24/7” ruined their attraction because you’re outta discussion but it’s still an online conversation and you’re involved in, so just bear it in mind!
Being smart also meant how you stayed using “Relaxed & calmed body language gestures” along your conversation, don’t be “fool” while expressing something if you’re being over-emotional!
Besides, “say their name ” in the conversation as it’ll attract more their attention, and simply because they love their name being called!
Hope it be more detailed and classified 😊!
P/s: Did you guys try the way ending your sentence with the symbol “!”?
It’s also a good way I applied to keep someone continuing and drive someone wild during the conversation!
Checking your phone would be rude to then anyways, so I'd just put it on "do not disturb" and *shablam* 😎
1. Always learning.
2. Relax and calm. Not threatening queues. Speaking slowly. Calmer gestures.
3. Mindful comments.
4. Don't check your phone 24/7. Emotionally present.
5. Don't try to be perfect.
6. Say their name often.
I don’t know about saying someone’s name often during conversation. It’s kinda creepy actually when you’re having a conversation and they keep saying your name
Depends on how often, Nathan.
@@unotwotriquatre 😂😂👍
She has the greatest female narration voice ever. Hand down.
Me squeaking at the sight of Terushima Hanazawa 🌻
I will practice the name calling next time. I questioned myself why some guys I have talked kept saying my name over and over and I enjoyed it. I love it.
Me, an aromantic: hmmm yes i definitely need this...
I think I'm an ↑, myself.
lmaooo
saying peoples names makes them happy that's nice to know.
Why these videos makes me feel more single?
Because not everyone's in a relationship and that's totally okay. Videos about gay romance doesn't invaidate any other orientation, nor do videos about straight romance invalidate anyone else. It's just a topic at hand that you can't relate to, and you shouldn't have to relate to every video.
Singles Unite! :P
I'm as single as a... uh... single person.
@@thetruegoldenknight unite sure but separately because no one wants us.
A woman that you're interested laughing is just chef's kiss. Something subconsciously just turns me the hell on when she's laughing (generally at a joke I made), maybe it's some sort of biological marker in my head that tells me everything is at ease in that moment? I dunno, but seeing her laugh makes me smile, which makes me more attracted to her.
Oh god I have all 6 traits! This makes my day so much better :D
Oh yeah I definitely NOT checking my phone too often but I check this channel everyday
I do these things, and I still haven’t been in a relationship 🧐🤔
A sexy voice definitely drives someone crazy!
1. Intelligence
Me: I'm already playing a game to which I've already lost.
#7 Participating in the conversation really well and listening well too
How do you define intelligence? 😂 How can you consider one person as ”more intelligent” than another? Just because they know more about a specific topic that they've read about? Isn't true intelligence good problemsolving and the ability to argument for your opinions in a nuanced way? Just practice what you like and feel confident in that. Don't sit and read books just to be loved ❤️ be open to new things and learn from others is always a good thing, but it's the openness and kindness that is attractive, not your status as ”intelligent”! 😘 (excuse my bad english)
whoever does the art is a dork and im here for it! mob psycho is one of my favorite animes
I can summarize this video in one step.
Step 1: Be Derek Zoolander
Step 2: If you are not Derek Zoolander then be really, really, really, ridiculously good looking.
So I'm gonna apply this with the girl I like
“Omg you’re not checking your phone!?!?! TAKE MY CHILDREN!”
Why does that sound like something from a cartoon?
I agree with you all of headline especially "Always learning" that I learn a new thing everyday.
Hey phy2go can you do a vid on MADD?
(mixed anxiety-depression/depressive disorder) I’ve have currently be diagnosed with this and I don’t what it really is and google is not helping
Hey Yogi Da Bear, thanks for reaching out. It's best you ask your health professional regarding questions about that disorder. We hope you're doing okay.
Oh! I thought you meant MAD like that dank, fever dream magazine franchise.
@@Psych2go lol I don’t have money and if i did go to professional help i think some things would go down in a bad way (im 15 btw) but yeah I understand
Okay ur voice is a whole meditation vibe
When someone is talking to you about their sad things or problematic things, as a listener/supporter what to say? I mean how can I be a great supporter or a great advicer? Also what shouldn’t I say to someone when he/she is talking about their bad feelings? Help Psych2go!!💙
Helps to be an Empath. Also helps to be good at inspiring others and making them see how they can overcome and grow from their issues. Life is a never ending leason.
I'd think that if your not a particularly strong person, how can you help someone with more issues than yourself be strong. Far too often I've seen people let their problems get the better of them. And everytime I questioned why so few if any, just said Fkit and said their not gonna let this get the better of them.
P2Go is probably gonna tell you something marshmallowy and soothing. But probably something fairly obvious to most people.
Having dealt with my fair share of bipolar or otherwise depressed people, they never change regardless of how you help them. They have to overcome it on their own, you cannot fix their problems for them. They have to choose to overcome. What's the saying, you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make em drink untill he wants te.
@@M3l_0N666 Thanks.
1. Be attractive.
2. Be attractive.
3. Be attractive.
4. Be attractive.
5. Be attractive.
6. Be attractive.
I was expecting tips like "play with your hair" or "touch your lips" or even "make eye contact".
these were just tips to be likeable, not sexy.