Bunu izleyince anaokulunda bi kiza asik olmam aklima geldi. Eve gelip annemlere anlattigimda gülmüslerdi :) ancak 10 sene sonra ayni seyi soyledigimde tepki de ayni olmamisti
kendi hikayesini türkçe anlatmaması çok açık aslında; kim olduğunu fark ettiği ve olduğu hali ile kabul gördüğü yer kanada ve konuşulan dil ingilizce olduğu için, kendini ingilizcede daha iyi ifade edebiliyor. bu ielts sonucu 100 aman harika gramer ve aksan biliyor demek değil. psikolojik olarak kendini o dilde (ingilizce) olduğu gibi ifade edebiliyor demek. tavşan dağa küsmüş dağın haberi yok, insan ana diline küser miymiş canım'lara da hiç gerek yok. zaten video boyunca sosyal ve toplumsal anlamda yaşadığı gel-gitlerden, kimlik karmaşalarından bahsediyor. türkiye'de lgbti bireyler şu yada bu kalıba girmeye zorlanmadan, var oldukları gibi yaşayabilselerdi böyle bir durum olmayacaktı muhtemelen. neticede insan, onu var olduğu gibi kabul eden topluluklarda kendini rahat ifade eder ve o topluluğun bir parçası olarak hisseder.
thanks for your concern about me misunderstanding but i live in turkey so i know turkish!! sadece kanal uluslararası bir platformda yer aldığı için yorumumu ingilizce yapmıştım yine de teşekkürler
I live in Turkey, I am gay, lots of people know it. I try to be open about it because I don't want to hide who I am. But it is hard. My family is not ok about it. The whole country is not ok about it. I kinda fight with 'em. I just wish I was accepted by my family, and people I love, and not feel ashamed by it.
Living in Turkey, being gay or not, is hard. There are strict ideas about many things. I am not gay but still have problems with living in Turkey. Sad.
And if you ever get out of the mold the society put at you, most people will judge you, bully you, hate you etc. there are some people who’s cool about it too but still, it’s sad to see the judgement on their face.
You're a big role-model for all Turkish homosexual teenagers. Don't feel hesitant about making Turkish videos and big thanks for your mom writing these amazing subtitles❤
Türkçe konuşmamasından size ne? Ben 3 ay yurtdışında kalsam geri döndüğümde her bir kelimenin arasına ingilizce bir şeyler serpiştiriyorum. Eğer türkçeyi aktif kullanmıyorsa konuşmakta sıkıntı yaşaması ve bu yüzden ingilizce konuşmayı tercih etmesi gayet doğal.
3 ay kalıp türkçeyi unutman seni gerizekalı yapar bu kadar asimile olmaya yatkın ve asimilasyonu havalı görücek kadar aşağılık mısınız kadın için lafım yok kadın zaten yabancı yani yabancı olmasada artık yabancı olmuş bizimle işi olmaz ama sen türksün sende mi ingilizce konuşacaksın sırf 3 ay yurt dışında kaldın diye
Sadie çok tatlısın ses tonun cok guzel. diğer TH-camrlar gibi yapmacık değilsin. Kız arkadaşın ile ömür boyu mutlu olmani dilerim. İstanbul'dan kucak dolusu sevgiler 😘
İnsanın kendi özünü keşfetmesi harika bir duygu olmalı..sıradan insanların tarafından sana tarafsızca baktığımda ne istediğini bilen,kendini iyi tanıyan birini görüyorum şahsen.bu yüzden annen seninle ne kadar gurur duysa az:) bu tip videoların devamı gelsinnnn
Ama ilkokul dönemine kadar çocuklarda böyle bir durum vardır. Erkekler ve kızlar taraflaşırlar ve genelde kendi cinsleriyle takılırlar. Derste bile görmüştük
@@zei871 bu değişiklik gösterebilir ama çoğunluğa bakılınca çocukken tarikatlaşma söz konusu zaten o yaşlarda cinsel hormonlarımızı çok salgilamıyorduk yani hemcinsini herkesten çok sevsen bile isin içinde "cinsellik"olmadigi surece "eş'cinsel'" sayılmazsın bence
Videodan sonra değindiği şey çocukken erkekleri sevmemesi değil bence. Annesinin ona çocukluğunda gay sevgisinden hiç bahsetmeyip hetero ilişkilerden bahsetmesine rağmen çevrenin gerçek kimliğini etkilememesi. Ben böyle anladım
Hey. I cried when i watched this. Thank you a lot for sharing your experiences, you are not alone, we are not alone and we are all valid. Wish you a lovely, happy life.
Ben de Türküm. I am a bi and I know exactly what you mean! Up until middle school I had no idea that a woman could love another woman and not a man because nobody ever taught that to me! I don't say my parents are bad people or anything but the whole culture is looking at it like something that has to be fixed or never happen at all. But it does. We are who we are. And I am happy for everyone who came to understand themselves and have peace within. This is the first video I've watched from you and surely I subscribed. :)
Hey sedef. I know you’re talking about your experience but I don’t agree with you about being lesbian means having a male aspect. Or being lesbian means liking spending time with girls more. Gender and sexual orientations are separate things, i suggest you to read the literature more or several experiences of other people
Turkish korean japaness and mongolian are on the same category of language so all these language are pretty easy for me for example since i know one of them(turkish) but i do have to admit for an american person it must be hella hard cause the logic is completely different
But there's one thing missing here; in this age range, girls almost always try to exclude boys from their own little girl-groups. Because it is the age they start to realize there're human beings more different than them in a lot of areas, and it forces these little girls to stay away from them for a while before getting to know this kind named as "men." 😀 I think your reaction was normal regarding your age. It doesn't seem like it was something sexual then. But whatever; that's not the case, you were freaking cute!
Begümnaz Yürekli Exactly. My sister also hated boys growing up and now she does feel attracted to them. So I don’t think that the video from her childhood makes it very obvious, but by what Sadie said I understand that she did feel a different way very early on.
Hey Sadie, I like your videos a lot and also follow you and everything. But I have a question for you. How come that you cannot switch to Turkish when you moved to Cana not at a very young age? Cause I also was born and raised in Istanbul an I live in Munich/Germany since I was 14 but it never is a problem to me to switch to Turkish since it's my native language and I spoke it so long. :) Love and peace 👍😊
Ecem Irk she never said she forgot the language completely, she just said she has a hard time switching. It happens to the best of us. I’d lived in izmir for 18 yrs and i’ve been living in the uk for a year now and i do struggle when i’m interacting with my relatives. I can’t think of certain words etc.
Nilufer Sener First of all I did't ask her why she forgot the language completely but why does she a hard time switching. Secondly it doesn't make any sense in your case, it sounds a bit like 'being cool'. Come on just one year :D
Ecem Irk i just said i couldn’t remember certain words like idk “velayetname” would be a word i’d forget And Suuuure that’s being cool im out here showing off my mad english skillzzz to my relatives Yeah that makes sense
hey sadie, i’m homosexual too in turkey and this is so hard for all homosexual ppl. i hope one day turkey be proud for all homosexual ppl. by the way i love you xx
Hey Sadie I am happy that your audience is getting bigger. I have a girlfriend too (an Italian...). And I am Turkish living in a different country... Just like you... (we have a lot in common) I totally understand you. It feels pretty better being able to hold your girlfriend's hand in public without thinking twice. BTW* I just saw P's Vlog in Italian, it was great. Comunque P sei una persona meravigliosa. Tanti anni fa, ho fatto un programma di scambio (si chiama intercultura). Stavo in Italia per un anno. E stato un anno indimenticabile. Comunque... volevo dire che siete veramente bellissime. Vi voglio bene!
Hey Sadie, thanks for your video. Here my two cents about your little video that your mom recorded: I personally do not see it as a sign of being gay. I can remember and still see that when I was in that age girls and boys always felt/ feel awkward when they were/are asked about the opposite sex. Of course now you are clear in your mind that you're gay, but whatever you said in that video, was not different from every little girl and boy at that age. I don't want to make it too long here but you can Google for it why little kids don't like the opposite sex. It's a well known phenomenon and for me not something that proofs you being gay :) wish you the best
Theodor Zerbst Nahh it seemed a lot like gender dysphoria which usually ends up as adult homosexuality, I also have similar pattern in my chilhood videos.
InfiniteBeach34 i can tell you that I had the exact same pattern. Also my friends. When I was in kindergarden I hated girls. We always stayed away from them. Now I am over 25 and only attracted to women. Just check on Google. You will see that this is a normal phenomenon within children and there are some good reasons for that. I wouldn't already diagnose gender dysphoria just based on a one minute video that you have seen from her childhood. I do think that when you look back as a gay person that you overrate such moments in your life just to find confirmation that you have always been like that but underrate or ignore all these moments where you did have "heterosexuals feelings".
Theodor Zerbst I honestly never ever had a straight attraction to a woman in my 20 something years of life, if I ever did I would make myself believe to easily blend in with the society and tell myself that I can be straight too, but no. Btw it is very dependent on culture, in Turkey like Sadie didnt mention, little kids dont have a repulsion for opposite sex, on the contrary they are highly encouraged to form romantic relationships with other sex by the society, parents and teacher, all in all we start life pretty straight here.
Videolarında bulduğum huzur u başka hicbiyerde bulamıyorum. Neden bu kadar rahatlattığın hakkında bi fikrim yok ses tonun, dusucelerin, dis gorunusun belkide enerjin bilmiyorum ama bildiğim tek şey bana iyi geliyosun ve iyi ki seni ve aileni tanımışım sedef 💙💚
Speaking out for LGBT rights or your sexuality is something we need and something we must be able to do in this world to be heard and be accepted. I stand for you, I stand for LGBT+ rights, and I stand for all the people who are marginalised. "Örgütlü bir halkı hiçbir kuvvet yenemez!" diyecek olup, "Sesini duyurmaktan vazgeçmeyecek olanları hiçbir kuvvet yenemez!" diyelim. :)
İyi ki varsınız. Türk lgbt bireylerin ( Kadın) sayısı oldukça az iken sizin olmanız bizlere umut ışığı saçıyor. Téşekkür ederiz... Benzer videoların gelmesi dileğiyle...
Çok sacma, ben doğma büyüme Avusturyadayim, hem türkcem hemde almancam süper. Üstelik hic aksanim da yok her iki dilde. Onun 6 yil içerisinde türkceyi unutmasi hic inandirici değil
Nan Ying Ben türkceyi yazili hic öğrenmedim. Sadece evde ailemle konuşarak ögrendim. Hayatımda hic türkce kompozisyon yazmadım. Konuşma dilim iyi demek istemiştim
Hey, Sadie! I can really relate to that. I grew up in a small city in Brazil and growing up the thing I wanted the most was just to be normal and to be accepted. I would ways tell my friends I had a crush in a guy even if I wasn't feeling anything for him. When I was around 15 I started to accept that I was attracted to women, but even then I kept that to myself. Then I really had a crush in a boy, that lasted for a long time. But it all changed when I moved from my hometown to São Paulo, to go to college. The firs day I moved to my dorm and I met a girl that was really happy when she saw my lockscreen (it was Lexa, a lesbian character). Some days after that she told me she was gay and I came out to her as bisexual, for the first time in my life at 19. At University people were completely different and open minded, so I felt good and safe. Now I am 21 and I still didn't came out to my parents, but I understand who I am and I'm proud of that. Also, last year I lived for 5 months in Turkey, but I never talked to anyone there about my sexuality.
Regarding lgbt in Turkey, I'm not gonna lie, I personally find it repulsive... However, one of my relatives died after receiving aides from her husband who was secretly gay, they both died. I think allowing lgbt to love freely will end lgbt marrying straight out of fear. I mean, I'd want to know if the woman I'm dating is straight or gay and not just hiding. It would be a shame after idk, 20 years of marriage and finding out she wants a divorce. So yeah, I support lgbt, but only so that you guys can have your love freely and we can have ours. God makes us the way we are. It's not my problem nor can I read the mind of God. It's none of my business
I am turkish and I live in germany . When Im in Izmir for vacation I see so many gay and trans people I always wonder how tolerant and "unextraordinary" they are compared to germany . I never see gay couples or (visibly)trans people here . Also the majority of minors are so close minded
This is so amazing and a clear representation of relationships in turkey what you said was soo true and it was actually sad to see people struggle because of the lack of knowledge in turkey(i am also Turkish)
Not liking man as a woman(or the other way around) is considered "not normal" and that is so wrong and so unacceptable because there is so many people that didn't know their sexuality because it wasnt something that was talked about or wasn't like accepted (although i would say as a country turkeys mindset is getting better at accepting people turkey still has a long way to go )
its not clear, when you was 3 years old, that you‘re gay. when I was young, I hated boys too.. and i I still hate them because of the nature.. they think otherwise like women.. but I love them too.. its completely different to have boys as friends and literally its less exhausting, the friendship
r/whooosh... That is not the *whole* point in that video. Her mom forces her to like *boys* and her mom didn't even talk about *GL* (girl love) in her childhood. So she growed without knowing girls can love girls, but she did. *This is the point*
Bi zaman sonra o dili konuşmaya konuşmaya körermesi gayet normal en emin olduğun şeyleri bile başka bir şeyle bastırabilirsin. Kafası bir zaman sonra ingilizce düşünüp yorumlamaya başlar ve diğerini körertir.
çok normal birşey ben dilbilimi okudum bilimsel olarak bir insan anadilini sonradan değiştirebilir bile bu mümkündür beyin kullanmadığı şeyi unutur atar yoksa zaten hepimiz şuana kadar öğrendiğimiz herşeyi hatırlıyor olurduk
Dear sadie, i'm a girl from iran. Our stories are same! I born in a culture which don't accept me. I couldn't accept myself for years bcause i was top student and stuff like that for many years, i tried to have a boy crush exactly at 12! I even wrote him lyrics, same as u... i had crush on my teachers all my teenage years... all the students in my school made fun of me that i was gay... but i didn't want to accepte. I was thinking i just love them bcause i'm so kind 😐😐😐 Finally i understood i'm gay. I accept myself at 19. I choosed butch style for 4 years to rebelle and show everyone my identity. But people made fun of me, throw garbage, cigarette at me in streets, stared at me and said hate words to me... Now i'm ok with myselfe. I look like me. I don't need special style to feel like myself or anything. I told my parents about me. I'm 24. And anytime i felt in love, i was alone. Anytime i felt in love, i end up crying. Bcause i grow up in a culture wich girls play with lesbians, this kind of relationship for them is like a game, ice cream, chocolate... they just want lesbians fall in love with them to tell the story for their boy crushes. look! Do you think that girl is hot? She's in love with me. and then boys say wooow and that girl feel like a queen. I'm 24, i never had gf, i never went to a romantic date, i never had anythig even close to love. And i feel like my heart is drowning in ocean of tears. Everynight i cry for my endless loneliness. Bcause i have no hope for finding true love. Because my soul and every cell of my body is alone. I don't have friend, i don't have partner, i don't have even me anymore, i lost me. Iost me during all this years. I just have my parents and i'm affraid to lose them. It is so hard to leave my country, cause our money became worthless. And i don't know any other lesbian here, like they don't exist. I was thinkig if i work for years i can move to turkey, i was researching about turkey condition and i find out, it's not much better than here. But dear sadie i wanna tell you: i never give up being myself even if that means i'm gonna die alone or crying for the rest of my life... never. Love from iran 🌈💙
Hayır değil resmen psikolojisi bozuk, çocuk aklıni/düsüncelerini olgun bir insanınkiyle bir tutuyo. Yaptıgi sese bak, sadece ilgi istiyo bukadar.. Yakında neden depresifim veya depresyon hakkındada video çıkarır..mis gibi hayatı varmış, dram yapıyo (keyin balık burcu bu kız)
Hey Sadie, I want to say that I can't believe there aren't more videos like yours, but knowing the tension in Turkiye right now, I have to say that your video is incredibly brave. I am half Turkish, but grew up in America during the year and Turkiye during the Summer. My mother calls it a "phase" and I could never tell my grandmother. I'm considering making a video about it because with all the lgbt awareness videos, there aren't enough about those who come from repressed cultures. I hope that if you go to Pride in Turkiye, that you stay safe because I've seen the footage and it looks scary, but hopefully you've been to one in America. Those are tons of fun! :)
"neyse biraz büyüyünce seversin" ya sırf şu bile sinirimi bozuyor genel olarak "evlenince" çocuk yapınca vs vs söylenen şeyler çok sinirlendiriyor beni sanki ilerde herkes robot gibi; bi adamla evlenecek şu kadar çocuk yapacak ve herkesin hayatı aynı olacak. her varsayımda ilerde senin çocuğun şöyle olsun, yok bilmem ne
Sedef seni gerçekten çok başarılı buluyorum. Ben Türkiye’de yaşasamda ve bu lgbt olayı Türkiye iyi karşılanmasada ben ailem tarafından böyle büyütüldüm 🌸 ve seni çok seviyorum ❤️
You’re a self-confident person and I loved it and also you were absolutely right about Turkish society’s sex standard but who cares?You’re gorgeous like other gay people.It doesn’t matter how you feel about your sex 🧡
Hi Sadie i really enjoy watching your videos but i actually really enjoy watching your videos more when we actually see you laughing and having a good time and not looking so down. Please keep up the vlogs with P aswell
Sadie, hi. I guess you made a video on this where I had commented about how ppl approach lgbt individuals in Turkey, but no longer I can access it, it seems. Np, anyways. I'm not here to comment on your own experience, opinions etc about the subject. But the thing is... Well, lets start with this... I'm living in a small town and even we have small casinos/clubs here where gay/trans musicians, vocalists take stage from season to season since my childhood. Ppl regularly go those places to kill some time with their family, children, friends etc. I don't know about your environment in Turkey, really. But there was Sisi (Seyhan Soylu), Bülent Ersoy, Serbülent Sultan,.. on tvs and radios 7/24, cause they were popular artists/performers/celebs of their age. Every marriage Bülent Ersoy made (more than few marriages she went through) were highly accepted in this society. No one poke their nose in even she was a mag. streamer also with her incredible talent in Turkish classical music. And Zeki Müren was most respected of all virtuoso for almost my entire life. He was in super mini skirts&shorts during his nation wide tour performances, even to smallest Anatolian villages... They were uploaded to YT, you can see it if you want (/watch?v=1Ax_-5JBlEM). And movies like Şabaniye, Gırgıriye; where leading actors were dressed like female singers and at a point one of their male fans falls in love with them. There, although they confess they are not really women, still they got the answer: 'Oh, no, it's not important, I'm readily into your personality, your talents; not your being feminine' ... They are cult movies indeed, I'm not talking about random stuff; all middle aged Turkish ppl would say if you asked. We, genx&geny&genz, were brought up watching and listening to these in Turkish tvs/radios/theaters. And you were brought up in İstanbul? Really, I couldn't believe my ears when you said you don't know anything about being gay while growing. Living in smallest town, where everyone knows eachother, i grew up knowing gay ppl, trans ppl etc, indulging/involving with eachother. So i needed to say smt here. My wish for you is being positive about life.
15 yıl türkiye de yaşayıp 5-6 sene de türkçeyi unutman gerçekten çok ilginç. 🙄 Aksanın olmadan nasıl bu kadar güzel ve akıcı ingilizce konuşabiliyorsun ?
Bilimsel açıdan bakacak olursak 7 yaşına kadar öğrendiğin tüm diller anadilin oluyor (detay için Noam Chomsky'nin LAD çalışmalarını okuyabilirsiniz) ve beyin hasarı almadıysan kolay kolay bu dili unutmuyor, dili konuşurken bir anda aksanlı konuşmaya başlamıyorsun. 15 yaşına kadar Türkiye'de yaşamış ve türkçe konuşmuş bir insanın bir anda 5 veya 10 senede dilini unutup kendini ifade edememeye başlaması tamamen tiyatro. Kaldı ki İngilizcesi de çok belli olmasa da aksanlı ve bazı kelimeleri türkçe aksanla telaffuz ediyor. Bu tarz triplere girmek garip, bir dili iyi konuştuğu mesajını vermek için başka bir dili kötü konuşuyormuş taklidi yapmana gerek yok.
Nur Gökçe ilginçtir şehirli Türk gençlerde hiç aksan olmuyor. Hatta Türklerde ayırt edici bir aksaan olmuyor. İlginç gerçekten. İngilizcede alman aksanı fransız aksanı italyan rus arap hint japon çin pakistan iran vs her türlü aksan var ama türk aksanını yapamıyor kimse kolayca.
I'm also curious about gay celebrities in Turkey. Are they out in the open? Or they're keeping it a secret for fear of being backlashed by their fans and the public in general? Curious to know because I can sense some Turkish celebrities who might be gay like Boran Kuzum to name a few.
Hey sadie You put some songs video before. I listened them and I really liked. Please put new video like this especially turkish songs.. your voice is perfect♥️
hi sadie, just wanted to say that i love your videos. i'm 19 and as far as i know i am straight who is super supportive of the lgbt+ community and i just love listening to peoples experiences and their journeys to find themselves. it's very unfortunate that there is still a lot of way to go but i hope one day we get to that point where everyone is excepting regardless of sex, sexuality and gender. I too grew up to the idea of being gay was abnormal and it was not even talked about around my environment. It still i guess which is pretty disturbing but if i ever become a parent, i will make sure my kid/s will have the right environment to find out who they are and i will be there to help and support them. I'm glad you are happy and i wish you and p. nothing but the best. take care :) ps. don't be sorry for not speaking turkish. just continue with the language you are more comfortable with. Some don't get why but i know, sometimes it is actually hard to speak a language you don't feel that connected to and that is okay.
Bunun normal bir sey oldugunu niye kimse anlamiyo..? İnsanlar kendinden farklı olanları niye sevmez ..? Ben okulda kankamın elini tuttuğumda bile (beyni yetmiyen ) ergen erkekler +sen lezbiyensin Diyip gülüyolar ve bende onlara ben lezbiyen deilim ama olsam bile bu sizi ilgilendirir mi ? Ve onlarin tek amaci etrafindakileri elestirmek Bi amaclari yok dedigin gibi kendini bilmek guzel sey:)
@@fifofuko1864 okulundaki kürtler derken kürt olduğunu kim söyledi bunu söyleyen anadan babadan türk !? Irkçılık yapmayalim lutfen ben niye sevmez diye sormuyorum sevmemelerinden sikayet ediyorum *_* açıklamaya gerek yoktu
Ben de anaokulundayken bi kıza aşıktım aga be. Çok güzel uzun sapsarı saçları vardı. İlkokuldayken de hoşlanmıştım. Of ya ben baya baya biseksüeldim AMA HERKESİN BÖYLE OLDUĞUNU SANIYORDUM DKJSHLKVHNERKTUU HERKESİN HERKESTEN HOŞLANDIĞINI SANIYORDUM VE BİSEKSÜEL OLDUĞUMU FARK ETTİĞİMDE BU HEP HAYATIMIN BİR PARÇASIYMIŞ GİBİ HİSSETMİŞTİM
Oğuz Jackson Orda yakışıklı olduğunu belirtmişdi neyse ve ayrıca karşı taraf kız ve ya erkek güzel/yakışıklı olunca insan ister istemez belirtir ama ilgi alanım erkekler olduğu için güzel bi kız gördüyümde vay güzel diyip geçiyoruz sadece ve bukonu kapanır ondan ötesi olmaz
Turkish to english took 1 year for me i was 7 years old and i had no one who spoket englis around it rlly weird and i couldnt live a life without it i would be so uneducated and i never knew there was a comuinity called LGBTQ+ i was an allie for 2 years and i was questioning for 3 months and now im pan but in the closet And ur story is the same as me i just am pansexual
I just read an wiki article about 🏳️🌈 in Turkey, it was legalized long time ago, i thought it would be so cool living in Turkey, after watching this video it turned out to be another story. I hope the best for you and you were so cute in that video. Love from China ❤️
I've watched some stories about it, it is usually completely legal, even to be transgender, but the people are what'll hurt you, not the law. a lot of places won't hire them, and many murders happen, especially to transgender women. the opposite of russia, where younger people are accepting, but the laws will hurt you.
İslam hakkında bilgimin çok iyi olduğu gibi bi iddiam yok ama İslam hoşgörü dinidir. Ve bu tercih değil doğuştan gelen bir durumdur. Kaldı ki tercih dahi olsa İslam dini hoşgörü ile yaklaşmamızı emrettiğinden dolayı müslümanların öyle yapması gerekiyordu. Ama maalesef eğitimsizlik sonucu gerçekten yüreği güzel insanlarımız böyle bölgelerde rahat yaşayamıyorlar. Ben de müslümanım ama sizi çok iyi anlıyorum. Allah yardımcınız olsun. 🙏
yani diyorsun ki 10.sınıfın sonuna kadar Türkiye'deydim ama nasıl olurda Türkçe'yi çok çabuk unutursun mu diyeyim ikinci plana atmışsın ama o senin ana dilin bence çok çabuk geliştirmeye bak
db ben 16 bitimi 17 basinda amerikaya geldim. Ingilizcem ayni bu kiz gibi belki daha bile iyi olabilir. Turkcemde bozulmalar var ama oyle kalkipta ingilizceden turkceye donerken beynime ahri giriyor demiyorum. Sacmaliyor biraz. Bir insan ana dilini asla unutmaz. Bozulmalar olabilir ama asla boyle birsey olmaz. Ustune ustluk anneside orda ben 5 senedir yalniz yasiyorum dusun 16dan 21e kadar.
kendini kendi soyundan soyutlamis ve ne dilini ne de soyunu resmen belirtmek istemiyor evet birileri karşı cikmis normal görmemiş lgbt bireyliğini ama bu kadar da abartmayalım sedefciğim :)
ya kız kanadada yaşıyor o dili konuşmak istiyor ne alaka 10. sınıfa kadar türkiyede diye türkçe mi konuşması lazım kendini en iyi nasıl ifade ediyorsa öyle konuşuyor işte zorunda değil türkçesini geliştirmeye anadili ingilizce olmuş İLK ÖĞRENDİĞİN DİL ANADİLİN DEĞİLDİR KENDİNİ EN İYİ İFADE EDEBİLDİĞİN DİL ANA DİLİNDİR!
The little Sadie was artistic within from her childhood. She want professionalism from early age. How is that possible? A child born with talent. That is Herstory, now look at the beauty she is absolutely stunning. 🌈Sadie got herself a beautiful P🌈 Their story is amazing. I am writing their love story.
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Bunu izleyince anaokulunda bi kiza asik olmam aklima geldi. Eve gelip annemlere anlattigimda gülmüslerdi :) ancak 10 sene sonra ayni seyi soyledigimde tepki de ayni olmamisti
Ben de xenaya aşıktım o zamanlar .😂
aynen ya
Clexa 😍
Oha clexa
Cophine ya' The 100`in allah cezasini verdi resmen
"Tatsiz olur hayat yalniz karilarla cekilmez" 😂😂😂😂
Ama doğru cekilmezz
Aliya B valla cok guzel cekilir :D
Sen işine bak güzel mesaj vermiş ablamız xD Nymeria Stark
Aa nymeria
laiklik be :D
kendi hikayesini türkçe anlatmaması çok açık aslında; kim olduğunu fark ettiği ve olduğu hali ile kabul gördüğü yer kanada ve konuşulan dil ingilizce olduğu için, kendini ingilizcede daha iyi ifade edebiliyor. bu ielts sonucu 100 aman harika gramer ve aksan biliyor demek değil. psikolojik olarak kendini o dilde (ingilizce) olduğu gibi ifade edebiliyor demek.
tavşan dağa küsmüş dağın haberi yok, insan ana diline küser miymiş canım'lara da hiç gerek yok. zaten video boyunca sosyal ve toplumsal anlamda yaşadığı gel-gitlerden, kimlik karmaşalarından bahsediyor. türkiye'de lgbti bireyler şu yada bu kalıba girmeye zorlanmadan, var oldukları gibi yaşayabilselerdi böyle bir durum olmayacaktı muhtemelen.
neticede insan, onu var olduğu gibi kabul eden topluluklarda kendini rahat ifade eder ve o topluluğun bir parçası olarak hisseder.
Çok haklısın..
umarım en kısa sürede bu güzel insanların bizden uzaklaşmasına gerek kalmadığı bir toplum oluruz
ok
What?
@cemares çok bekleyince istegim gerceklesir mi?
“ERKEKLERİ SEV Mİ YO RUM” if this ain’t me lmfao
A jinson shipper omg
actually i don’t ship jinson that hard but i adore them so much hehe guess i’m not loyal to my bias
wang gae park gae 'erkekleri sev mi yorum' = 'boys don't like'
thanks for your concern about me misunderstanding but i live in turkey so i know turkish!! sadece kanal uluslararası bir platformda yer aldığı için yorumumu ingilizce yapmıştım yine de teşekkürler
wang gae park gae lol 😂 that’s me too moo friend i just meet all turkish MooMoo’s 💕
Seni o kadar çok seviyorum ki bende bir kızım lezbiyen değilim ama bu tür şeyler bana normal geliyor ve LGBT yi sonuna kadar destekliyorum
habicik gubicik Keşke herkes senin gibi olsa :)
@@abcde8914 pardon? Rezillik ne acaba tam olarak açıklar mısınız, aptal ergen Bey?
I live in Turkey, I am gay, lots of people know it. I try to be open about it because I don't want to hide who I am. But it is hard. My family is not ok about it. The whole country is not ok about it. I kinda fight with 'em. I just wish I was accepted by my family, and people I love, and not feel ashamed by it.
Şeref Mert Arıkan Good luck and try to be safe
Folkert Van Dezen thank you
I'm sorry for you guy. I hope everything will be ok
kendine dikkat et
I know exactly what you mean🙁, and i hope that things will get easier for you❤
Living in Turkey, being gay or not, is hard. There are strict ideas about many things. I am not gay but still have problems with living in Turkey. Sad.
Türkiye de kadın olmak ( being a woman in Turkey )
And if you ever get out of the mold the society put at you, most people will judge you, bully you, hate you etc. there are some people who’s cool about it too but still, it’s sad to see the judgement on their face.
We are not arab. Turk. She is different but this is not bad, good. The Turk is very good human for good human.
Erlik Han ne demeye çalıştın acaba?
@@erlikhan5044 kim sana Arap dedi zaten
“My mom was like you need guy friends in your life
And i was like no no i dont” omg so me
You're a big role-model for all Turkish homosexual teenagers. Don't feel hesitant about making Turkish videos and big thanks for your mom writing these amazing subtitles❤
@@SumTrk sg
@@SumTrk kes
Türkçe konuşmamasından size ne? Ben 3 ay yurtdışında kalsam geri döndüğümde her bir kelimenin arasına ingilizce bir şeyler serpiştiriyorum. Eğer türkçeyi aktif kullanmıyorsa konuşmakta sıkıntı yaşaması ve bu yüzden ingilizce konuşmayı tercih etmesi gayet doğal.
3 ay kalıp türkçeyi unutman seni gerizekalı yapar bu kadar asimile olmaya yatkın ve asimilasyonu havalı görücek kadar aşağılık mısınız kadın için lafım yok kadın zaten yabancı yani yabancı olmasada artık yabancı olmuş bizimle işi olmaz ama sen türksün sende mi ingilizce konuşacaksın sırf 3 ay yurt dışında kaldın diye
Don’t lose yourself to a culture that doesn’t accept you 👏 This video is so relatable, Sadie. #respect
it's so much inspirational ! Thanks for existing Sadie💜💜💜
Sadie çok tatlısın ses tonun cok guzel. diğer TH-camrlar gibi yapmacık değilsin. Kız arkadaşın ile ömür boyu mutlu olmani dilerim. İstanbul'dan kucak dolusu sevgiler 😘
İnsanın kendi özünü keşfetmesi harika bir duygu olmalı..sıradan insanların tarafından sana tarafsızca baktığımda ne istediğini bilen,kendini iyi tanıyan birini görüyorum şahsen.bu yüzden annen seninle ne kadar gurur duysa az:) bu tip videoların devamı gelsinnnn
"I was so gay" Her gün bunu en az yüz kere tekrarliyorum
Me too
Gerçekten çocukken belliymiş ve çok tatlısın
Üstad burada ne arıyorsun sen ya
Mojo Jojo güzel olan her şeyde ben varım
Araba sevdası asdffgdffagagaga
Peki güzel olan her şey de sende var mı Üstadım?
Mojo Jojo Onu Muallim Naci'ye sor
Hahha annen çok tatli ya yalniz karilarla hayat cekilmez jdjsksjsk
Ama ilkokul dönemine kadar çocuklarda böyle bir durum vardır. Erkekler ve kızlar taraflaşırlar ve genelde kendi cinsleriyle takılırlar. Derste bile görmüştük
Trran quila doğru bende bunu düşünen tek kişi miyim diye düşündüm :)
@@zei871 bu değişiklik gösterebilir ama çoğunluğa bakılınca çocukken tarikatlaşma söz konusu zaten o yaşlarda cinsel hormonlarımızı çok salgilamıyorduk
yani hemcinsini herkesten çok sevsen bile isin içinde "cinsellik"olmadigi surece "eş'cinsel'" sayılmazsın bence
değiştir ben geyim ama hiç erkeklerle takılmazdım
benim okul hayati boyunca hep tam tersi oldu ve hala da öyle :D
Videodan sonra değindiği şey çocukken erkekleri sevmemesi değil bence. Annesinin ona çocukluğunda gay sevgisinden hiç bahsetmeyip hetero ilişkilerden bahsetmesine rağmen çevrenin gerçek kimliğini etkilememesi. Ben böyle anladım
Hey. I cried when i watched this. Thank you a lot for sharing your experiences, you are not alone, we are not alone and we are all valid. Wish you a lovely, happy life.
Ben de Türküm. I am a bi and I know exactly what you mean! Up until middle school I had no idea that a woman could love another woman and not a man because nobody ever taught that to me! I don't say my parents are bad people or anything but the whole culture is looking at it like something that has to be fixed or never happen at all. But it does. We are who we are. And I am happy for everyone who came to understand themselves and have peace within. This is the first video I've watched from you and surely I subscribed. :)
AkemiChikaa aynen öyle!
Hey sedef. I know you’re talking about your experience but I don’t agree with you about being lesbian means having a male aspect. Or being lesbian means liking spending time with girls more. Gender and sexual orientations are separate things, i suggest you to read the literature more or several experiences of other people
angeryybirb but it’s been scientifically proven that estrogen and testosterone influence sexual attraction
Twilight_RS comforming to socially constructed ideal male roles doesn’t imply high testosterone
angeryybirb i know that
Turkish is the hardest language i think as an american who grew up in turkey 😂😂
I’m learning it nowadays and damn hard and confusing
Gosh think about it learning Japanese is hard
Am learning it too now its very hard
I'm an american who lives in turkey and I can relate so much
Turkish korean japaness and mongolian are on the same category of language so all these language are pretty easy for me for example since i know one of them(turkish) but i do have to admit for an american person it must be hella hard cause the logic is completely different
But there's one thing missing here; in this age range, girls almost always try to exclude boys from their own little girl-groups. Because it is the age they start to realize there're human beings more different than them in a lot of areas, and it forces these little girls to stay away from them for a while before getting to know this kind named as "men." 😀 I think your reaction was normal regarding your age. It doesn't seem like it was something sexual then. But whatever; that's not the case, you were freaking cute!
Begümnaz Yürekli Exactly. My sister also hated boys growing up and now she does feel attracted to them. So I don’t think that the video from her childhood makes it very obvious, but by what Sadie said I understand that she did feel a different way very early on.
Hey Sadie, I like your videos a lot and also follow you and everything. But I have a question for you. How come that you cannot switch to Turkish when you moved to Cana not at a very young age? Cause I also was born and raised in Istanbul an I live in Munich/Germany since I was 14 but it never is a problem to me to switch to Turkish since it's my native language and I spoke it so long. :) Love and peace 👍😊
Ecem Irk she never said she forgot the language completely, she just said she has a hard time switching. It happens to the best of us. I’d lived in izmir for 18 yrs and i’ve been living in the uk for a year now and i do struggle when i’m interacting with my relatives. I can’t think of certain words etc.
Nilufer Sener First of all I did't ask her why she forgot the language completely but why does she a hard time switching. Secondly it doesn't make any sense in your case, it sounds a bit like 'being cool'. Come on just one year :D
Ecem Irk i just said i couldn’t remember certain words like idk “velayetname” would be a word i’d forget
And
Suuuure that’s being cool im out here showing off my mad english skillzzz to my relatives
Yeah that makes sense
Ikiniz de türksünüz neden yanıtlarda ingilizce tartışıyorsunuz ki dhdgdgdhdvsbsvzhsvz
Minga 089 😁🖐🏽
hey sadie, i’m homosexual too in turkey and this is so hard for all homosexual ppl. i hope one day turkey be proud for all homosexual ppl. by the way i love you xx
Burak Sağlam hi... i wanted to ask something.
no i never been there but i like to bangkok sure
daha önce sanalda mıydın?
no i never been there but i like to bangkok evet
İnstagramın varmı? Varsa söylermisin :)
Weldone my dear, I done the same. Turkey has lots to learn about humanity, whole world still needs learn about accept our differences!!
Hey Sadie I am happy that your audience is getting bigger. I have a girlfriend too (an Italian...). And I am Turkish living in a different country... Just like you... (we have a lot in common) I totally understand you. It feels pretty better being able to hold your girlfriend's hand in public without thinking twice. BTW* I just saw P's Vlog in Italian, it was great. Comunque P sei una persona meravigliosa. Tanti anni fa, ho fatto un programma di scambio (si chiama intercultura). Stavo in Italia per un anno. E stato un anno indimenticabile. Comunque... volevo dire che siete veramente bellissime. Vi voglio bene!
This video gives me soo much power, I live in china where has a unfriend attitude towards to homosexual.😓
Bu kanalında izlediğim ilk video bi ara görmüşüm ve kaydetmişim iyi ki izledim keşke kanalını daha önceden keşfetseymişim çok tatlısın ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hey Sadie, thanks for your video. Here my two cents about your little video that your mom recorded: I personally do not see it as a sign of being gay. I can remember and still see that when I was in that age girls and boys always felt/ feel awkward when they were/are asked about the opposite sex. Of course now you are clear in your mind that you're gay, but whatever you said in that video, was not different from every little girl and boy at that age. I don't want to make it too long here but you can Google for it why little kids don't like the opposite sex. It's a well known phenomenon and for me not something that proofs you being gay :) wish you the best
Theodor Zerbst Nahh it seemed a lot like gender dysphoria which usually ends up as adult homosexuality, I also have similar pattern in my chilhood videos.
InfiniteBeach34 i can tell you that I had the exact same pattern. Also my friends. When I was in kindergarden I hated girls. We always stayed away from them. Now I am over 25 and only attracted to women. Just check on Google. You will see that this is a normal phenomenon within children and there are some good reasons for that. I wouldn't already diagnose gender dysphoria just based on a one minute video that you have seen from her childhood.
I do think that when you look back as a gay person that you overrate such moments in your life just to find confirmation that you have always been like that but underrate or ignore all these moments where you did have "heterosexuals feelings".
Bullshit
TheAyrik that's a great way to discuss something
Theodor Zerbst I honestly never ever had a straight attraction to a woman in my 20 something years of life, if I ever did I would make myself believe to easily blend in with the society and tell myself that I can be straight too, but no. Btw it is very dependent on culture, in Turkey like Sadie didnt mention, little kids dont have a repulsion for opposite sex, on the contrary they are highly encouraged to form romantic relationships with other sex by the society, parents and teacher, all in all we start life pretty straight here.
"Erkekleri sevmiyorum! 😖" Oh my gosh you were sooo cute when you were younger 🤗❤
Love you from Greece 😊❤
💕
Videolarında bulduğum huzur u başka hicbiyerde bulamıyorum. Neden bu kadar rahatlattığın hakkında bi fikrim yok ses tonun, dusucelerin, dis gorunusun belkide enerjin bilmiyorum ama bildiğim tek şey bana iyi geliyosun ve iyi ki seni ve aileni tanımışım sedef 💙💚
Speaking out for LGBT rights or your sexuality is something we need and something we must be able to do in this world to be heard and be accepted. I stand for you, I stand for LGBT+ rights, and I stand for all the people who are marginalised. "Örgütlü bir halkı hiçbir kuvvet yenemez!" diyecek olup, "Sesini duyurmaktan vazgeçmeyecek olanları hiçbir kuvvet yenemez!" diyelim. :)
I've been waiting for this kind of video for so long, thanks Sadie 💙
Çok güzel bir video olmuş, güzel kardeşim benim, cesaretin icin tebrikler. #Loveislove ♥️🌈♥️
İyi ki varsınız. Türk lgbt bireylerin ( Kadın) sayısı oldukça az iken sizin olmanız bizlere umut ışığı saçıyor. Téşekkür ederiz... Benzer videoların gelmesi dileğiyle...
Merhaba 😊 Anladığım kadarıyla liseye kadar türkiyede büyümüşsün. Neden türkçe konuşmakta zorlanıyorsun merak ettim?
Yillardir turkce konusmadigi icin kelimeleri hatirlamiyordur buyuk ihtimal yani beyni ingilizce dusunuyor turkce cumle kurmakta zorlaniyor
Çok sacma, ben doğma büyüme Avusturyadayim, hem türkcem hemde almancam süper. Üstelik hic aksanim da yok her iki dilde. Onun 6 yil içerisinde türkceyi unutmasi hic inandirici değil
Aliya B valla bunu diyen.kendisiydi videosunda turkce konusmadigi icin zorlaniyor cumle.kurarken
süper derken gramer polisi tenhada yakalar... "hem de" olucak.
Nan Ying Ben türkceyi yazili hic öğrenmedim. Sadece evde ailemle konuşarak ögrendim. Hayatımda hic türkce kompozisyon yazmadım. Konuşma dilim iyi demek istemiştim
Hey, Sadie! I can really relate to that. I grew up in a small city in Brazil and growing up the thing I wanted the most was just to be normal and to be accepted. I would ways tell my friends I had a crush in a guy even if I wasn't feeling anything for him. When I was around 15 I started to accept that I was attracted to women, but even then I kept that to myself. Then I really had a crush in a boy, that lasted for a long time. But it all changed when I moved from my hometown to São Paulo, to go to college. The firs day I moved to my dorm and I met a girl that was really happy when she saw my lockscreen (it was Lexa, a lesbian character). Some days after that she told me she was gay and I came out to her as bisexual, for the first time in my life at 19. At University people were completely different and open minded, so I felt good and safe. Now I am 21 and I still didn't came out to my parents, but I understand who I am and I'm proud of that. Also, last year I lived for 5 months in Turkey, but I never talked to anyone there about my sexuality.
turkey is a beautiful place! just came back from there!! ❤️❤️
sonlara doğdu ağladım. böyle bir video yaptığın için teşekkür ederim
Regarding lgbt in Turkey, I'm not gonna lie, I personally find it repulsive... However, one of my relatives died after receiving aides from her husband who was secretly gay, they both died.
I think allowing lgbt to love freely will end lgbt marrying straight out of fear. I mean, I'd want to know if the woman I'm dating is straight or gay and not just hiding. It would be a shame after idk, 20 years of marriage and finding out she wants a divorce.
So yeah, I support lgbt, but only so that you guys can have your love freely and we can have ours. God makes us the way we are. It's not my problem nor can I read the mind of God. It's none of my business
Thats possibly the least repulsive homophobic comment in history.
I‘m glad I could relate to this. Thank you so much for coming forward and talking about this topic, Sedef x
Yay I get so happy everytime you upload 💕 Also, I'm from Canada haha
Kendini bulmusun bu cok güzel birsey❤️ videonu cok begendim bizimle paylastigin icin tskler. 🙏🏻
I am turkish and I live in germany . When Im in Izmir for vacation I see so many gay and trans people I always wonder how tolerant and "unextraordinary" they are compared to germany . I never see gay couples or (visibly)trans people here . Also the majority of minors are so close minded
Süeda Black because its izmir. Izmir is the most peaceful and acceptable city in istanbul
@@slayldrm2695 in Turkey not in Istanbul.
laber nicht, in der Türkei wirds nicht gerne gesehen, gerade weil wir moslems sind
Sıla Yıldırım The fuck? Istanbul isn’t a country. Istanbul is also a city in a Turkey, and it’s SOOO far from Izmir. Izmir is a city in Turkey.
This is so amazing and a clear representation of relationships in turkey what you said was soo true and it was actually sad to see people struggle because of the lack of knowledge in turkey(i am also Turkish)
Not liking man as a woman(or the other way around) is considered "not normal" and that is so wrong and so unacceptable because there is so many people that didn't know their sexuality because it wasnt something that was talked about or wasn't like accepted (although i would say as a country turkeys mindset is getting better at accepting people turkey still has a long way to go )
its not clear, when you was 3 years old, that you‘re gay. when I was young, I hated boys too.. and i I still hate them because of the nature.. they think otherwise like women.. but I love them too.. its completely different to have boys as friends and literally its less exhausting, the friendship
r/whooosh...
That is not the *whole* point in that video. Her mom forces her to like *boys* and her mom didn't even talk about *GL* (girl love) in her childhood. So she growed without knowing girls can love girls, but she did.
*This is the point*
Sadie we love u / Sadie seni seviyoruz ❤️ lots of love from Turkey 💐
Anadilin türkçe 15 yaşına kadar türkiyede kalmışsın yani zorlanman biraz tuhaf geldi bana
Işıl aynen bende şaşırdım
Bi zaman sonra o dili konuşmaya konuşmaya körermesi gayet normal en emin olduğun şeyleri bile başka bir şeyle bastırabilirsin. Kafası bir zaman sonra ingilizce düşünüp yorumlamaya başlar ve diğerini körertir.
çok normal birşey ben dilbilimi okudum bilimsel olarak bir insan anadilini sonradan değiştirebilir bile bu mümkündür beyin kullanmadığı şeyi unutur atar yoksa zaten hepimiz şuana kadar öğrendiğimiz herşeyi hatırlıyor olurduk
Gayet normal bu iki yil amerikada kaldim ve bazen turkce kelimelerde sasirmaya baslamistim
same...
You're wonderful. Thank you for expressing yourself in such a deep and caring way. My best wishes 💜💜💜
Dear sadie, i'm a girl from iran. Our stories are same! I born in a culture which don't accept me. I couldn't accept myself for years bcause i was top student and stuff like that for many years, i tried to have a boy crush exactly at 12! I even wrote him lyrics, same as u... i had crush on my teachers all my teenage years... all the students in my school made fun of me that i was gay... but i didn't want to accepte. I was thinking i just love them bcause i'm so kind 😐😐😐
Finally i understood i'm gay. I accept myself at 19. I choosed butch style for 4 years to rebelle and show everyone my identity. But people made fun of me, throw garbage, cigarette at me in streets, stared at me and said hate words to me...
Now i'm ok with myselfe. I look like me. I don't need special style to feel like myself or anything. I told my parents about me.
I'm 24. And anytime i felt in love, i was alone. Anytime i felt in love, i end up crying.
Bcause i grow up in a culture wich girls play with lesbians, this kind of relationship for them is like a game, ice cream, chocolate... they just want lesbians fall in love with them to tell the story for their boy crushes. look! Do you think that girl is hot? She's in love with me. and then boys say wooow and that girl feel like a queen.
I'm 24, i never had gf, i never went to a romantic date, i never had anythig even close to love. And i feel like my heart is drowning in ocean of tears. Everynight i cry for my endless loneliness. Bcause i have no hope for finding true love. Because my soul and every cell of my body is alone. I don't have friend, i don't have partner, i don't have even me anymore, i lost me. Iost me during all this years. I just have my parents and i'm affraid to lose them. It is so hard to leave my country, cause our money became worthless. And i don't know any other lesbian here, like they don't exist. I was thinkig if i work for years i can move to turkey, i was researching about turkey condition and i find out, it's not much better than here. But dear sadie i wanna tell you: i never give up being myself even if that means i'm gonna die alone or crying for the rest of my life... never.
Love from iran 🌈💙
keep being strong! i’m a gay turkish teenager and i hope your country will be a better place in the future
@@kursad8725 oh thanks 😍💙
@@romaint5416 i know many lesbian ad gay in iranian kurdistan
Gerçekten kendini bulma yolunda çok iyi ilerlemişsin TEBRİKLER 😊😊😊😊😊
Sen mükemmel bir insansın
Melisa Anlaş sen beni koca youtube da nasıl buldun allah için ya
😂😂😂 guldurdunuz beni kizlar
Pırıl Anlaş hahahaha 😂😂
Hayır değil resmen psikolojisi bozuk, çocuk aklıni/düsüncelerini olgun bir insanınkiyle bir tutuyo. Yaptıgi sese bak, sadece ilgi istiyo bukadar.. Yakında neden depresifim veya depresyon hakkındada video çıkarır..mis gibi hayatı varmış, dram yapıyo (keyin balık burcu bu kız)
qylin 11 sizin bu saçma sapan önyargılarınızdan bıktım
izlediğim en samimi en hoş videoydu
every lesbian there is at least 1 boy in their life. and that boy grow up to be gay. 🤣🤣🤣 i had seen that many times happen.
That's me! My childhood crush is a gay man!
luckylisa44 😁😁😁 u are not alone
Speak to your self not everyone
Is he a boy or a girl?
Hey Sadie, I want to say that I can't believe there aren't more videos like yours, but knowing the tension in Turkiye right now, I have to say that your video is incredibly brave. I am half Turkish, but grew up in America during the year and Turkiye during the Summer. My mother calls it a "phase" and I could never tell my grandmother. I'm considering making a video about it because with all the lgbt awareness videos, there aren't enough about those who come from repressed cultures. I hope that if you go to Pride in Turkiye, that you stay safe because I've seen the footage and it looks scary, but hopefully you've been to one in America. Those are tons of fun! :)
"neyse biraz büyüyünce seversin" ya sırf şu bile sinirimi bozuyor
genel olarak "evlenince" çocuk yapınca vs vs söylenen şeyler çok sinirlendiriyor beni sanki ilerde herkes robot gibi; bi adamla evlenecek şu kadar çocuk yapacak ve herkesin hayatı aynı olacak. her varsayımda ilerde senin çocuğun şöyle olsun, yok bilmem ne
Sedef seni gerçekten çok başarılı buluyorum. Ben Türkiye’de yaşasamda ve bu lgbt olayı Türkiye iyi karşılanmasada ben ailem tarafından böyle büyütüldüm 🌸 ve seni çok seviyorum ❤️
thank you for your videos！！helps a lot！
seninle çok gurur duyuyorum, Sedef. Just keep being yourself 🌹
Türkiyede saat 3:40 ve ben...
Büşra NMZ 4:48💪✋
Büşra NMZ 5:35
06 : 13 2. uykusuz günüm :)
Büşra NMZ 10:49
Niye uyumuyoruz biz arkadaş ya djndnfnfmcnf
You’re a self-confident person and I loved it and also you were absolutely right about Turkish society’s sex standard but who cares?You’re gorgeous like other gay people.It doesn’t matter how you feel about your sex 🧡
For me I knew I liked girls when I looked at the bra section of the Bay catalougue🤣!
Hi Sadie i really enjoy watching your videos but i actually really enjoy watching your videos more when we actually see you laughing and having a good time and not looking so down. Please keep up the vlogs with P aswell
Yorumlara türklere sövmüşler mi diye geldim ya allaahh zuaopaahhahalaçaiözçwöz
Sadie, hi. I guess you made a video on this where I had commented about how ppl approach lgbt individuals in Turkey, but no longer I can access it, it seems. Np, anyways. I'm not here to comment on your own experience, opinions etc about the subject. But the thing is... Well, lets start with this... I'm living in a small town and even we have small casinos/clubs here where gay/trans musicians, vocalists take stage from season to season since my childhood. Ppl regularly go those places to kill some time with their family, children, friends etc. I don't know about your environment in Turkey, really. But there was Sisi (Seyhan Soylu), Bülent Ersoy, Serbülent Sultan,.. on tvs and radios 7/24, cause they were popular artists/performers/celebs of their age. Every marriage Bülent Ersoy made (more than few marriages she went through) were highly accepted in this society. No one poke their nose in even she was a mag. streamer also with her incredible talent in Turkish classical music. And Zeki Müren was most respected of all virtuoso for almost my entire life. He was in super mini skirts&shorts during his nation wide tour performances, even to smallest Anatolian villages... They were uploaded to YT, you can see it if you want (/watch?v=1Ax_-5JBlEM). And movies like Şabaniye, Gırgıriye; where leading actors were dressed like female singers and at a point one of their male fans falls in love with them. There, although they confess they are not really women, still they got the answer: 'Oh, no, it's not important, I'm readily into your personality, your talents; not your being feminine' ... They are cult movies indeed, I'm not talking about random stuff; all middle aged Turkish ppl would say if you asked. We, genx&geny&genz, were brought up watching and listening to these in Turkish tvs/radios/theaters.
And you were brought up in İstanbul? Really, I couldn't believe my ears when you said you don't know anything about being gay while growing. Living in smallest town, where everyone knows eachother, i grew up knowing gay ppl, trans ppl etc, indulging/involving with eachother.
So i needed to say smt here. My wish for you is being positive about life.
15 yıl türkiye de yaşayıp 5-6 sene de türkçeyi unutman gerçekten çok ilginç. 🙄 Aksanın olmadan nasıl bu kadar güzel ve akıcı ingilizce konuşabiliyorsun ?
Nur Gökçe Hafif aksanı var
InfiniteBeach34 ben çok iyi ingilizce bilmediğim için farkedemedim 😊
Bilimsel açıdan bakacak olursak 7 yaşına kadar öğrendiğin tüm diller anadilin oluyor (detay için Noam Chomsky'nin LAD çalışmalarını okuyabilirsiniz) ve beyin hasarı almadıysan kolay kolay bu dili unutmuyor, dili konuşurken bir anda aksanlı konuşmaya başlamıyorsun. 15 yaşına kadar Türkiye'de yaşamış ve türkçe konuşmuş bir insanın bir anda 5 veya 10 senede dilini unutup kendini ifade edememeye başlaması tamamen tiyatro. Kaldı ki İngilizcesi de çok belli olmasa da aksanlı ve bazı kelimeleri türkçe aksanla telaffuz ediyor. Bu tarz triplere girmek garip, bir dili iyi konuştuğu mesajını vermek için başka bir dili kötü konuşuyormuş taklidi yapmana gerek yok.
Nur Gökçe Aksani var hatta basta turk oldugunu bilmiyodum cok sasirdim
Nur Gökçe ilginçtir şehirli Türk gençlerde hiç aksan olmuyor. Hatta Türklerde ayırt edici bir aksaan olmuyor. İlginç gerçekten. İngilizcede alman aksanı fransız aksanı italyan rus arap hint japon çin pakistan iran vs her türlü aksan var ama türk aksanını yapamıyor kimse kolayca.
I'm also curious about gay celebrities in Turkey. Are they out in the open? Or they're keeping it a secret for fear of being backlashed by their fans and the public in general? Curious to know because I can sense some Turkish celebrities who might be gay like Boran Kuzum to name a few.
Cok tatlisin 😂arkadaslarini say 1.2.3.4.5.6.7
Asosyallik seviyem sfjkkgfssfhf
This video motto is “Find yourself and be happy” yeyy👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Young you were so cute💖
what a strong person u are. and so lucky to have such a wonderful mother 💕
Also in turkish television and music industries there are a lot of transgenders and gay men when in germany there isnt
Süeda Black out of topic but wow ilk defa benim dışımda bir süeda :o
Süeda Black Marc Forster? Wann hast du jemals den Fernseher angeschaltet?
Hey sadie You put some songs video before. I listened them and I really liked. Please put new video like this especially turkish songs.. your voice is perfect♥️
Aksanın liseye kadar Türkiyede yaşamış birine göre çok güzel ve akıcı 😄
hi sadie, just wanted to say that i love your videos. i'm 19 and as far as i know i am straight who is super supportive of the lgbt+ community and i just love listening to peoples experiences and their journeys to find themselves. it's very unfortunate that there is still a lot of way to go but i hope one day we get to that point where everyone is excepting regardless of sex, sexuality and gender. I too grew up to the idea of being gay was abnormal and it was not even talked about around my environment. It still i guess which is pretty disturbing but if i ever become a parent, i will make sure my kid/s will have the right environment to find out who they are and i will be there to help and support them.
I'm glad you are happy and i wish you and p. nothing but the best. take care :)
ps. don't be sorry for not speaking turkish. just continue with the language you are more comfortable with. Some don't get why but i know, sometimes it is actually hard to speak a language you don't feel that connected to and that is okay.
Bunun normal bir sey oldugunu niye kimse anlamiyo..? İnsanlar kendinden farklı olanları niye sevmez ..? Ben okulda kankamın elini tuttuğumda bile (beyni yetmiyen ) ergen erkekler
+sen lezbiyensin
Diyip gülüyolar ve bende onlara ben lezbiyen deilim ama olsam bile bu sizi ilgilendirir mi ?
Ve onlarin tek amaci etrafindakileri elestirmek
Bi amaclari yok dedigin gibi kendini bilmek guzel sey:)
okulundaki kürtler senin için bir otorite olmamalı. ayrıca insanlar kendilerine benzemeyenleri sevmez. işin doğası bu.
@@fifofuko1864 okulundaki kürtler derken kürt olduğunu kim söyledi bunu söyleyen anadan babadan türk !? Irkçılık yapmayalim lutfen ben niye sevmez diye sormuyorum sevmemelerinden sikayet ediyorum *_* açıklamaya gerek yoktu
Thank you for sharing your story. Some parts reminded me of my own journey navigating my sexuality and gender journey. 💙 from South Africa.
Thumbs up from Turkey
İlk defa bir videonu izliyorum ve çok etkilendim gerçekten çok akıcı ve harika konusuyorsun
Bu ne ya korku filmi gibi cocukluk videosu
Shebnem Hasanova neden?
Kahkaha attım. İlginç bir şekilde ben de aynı şekilde hissettim.
Harbiden ya
Eski çekim sonuçta ve filmlerde de bu şeyi yapıyorlar o yüzdendir
aynen, çok sevimsiz bir çocuk.
I love your confident. I love your open-mind. Much love
Kanadada saat kaç şu an çünkü kim saat 3.30 da video atar ki
ROS DELİSİ aramızda 16 saat var
Burak Sağlam kanada okadar uzakmı ya
ROS DELİSİ galiba
ROS DELİSİ Time zone açısından en fazla 12 saat aramız olabilir
Mete Eroğlu fanboy musun?
Seni seviyorum, güçlü kal. I proud of you honey 🐝🌻🍯
Üniversite sınavından geldim bakım videooo varr
I live in Canada too , I’m a total straight guy, but, whatever I’m an LGBT member ... Kalbim seninle ❤️ and ur brave
i loved this video!!!!!!
Ben de anaokulundayken bi kıza aşıktım aga be. Çok güzel uzun sapsarı saçları vardı. İlkokuldayken de hoşlanmıştım. Of ya ben baya baya biseksüeldim AMA HERKESİN BÖYLE OLDUĞUNU SANIYORDUM DKJSHLKVHNERKTUU HERKESİN HERKESTEN HOŞLANDIĞINI SANIYORDUM VE BİSEKSÜEL OLDUĞUMU FARK ETTİĞİMDE BU HEP HAYATIMIN BİR PARÇASIYMIŞ GİBİ HİSSETMİŞTİM
O erkek acaba çokmu yakışıklı😂😂les arkadaşı bile kendine aşık olduysa NERDESİN KENDİNİ BELİRT EĞER OKUYORSAN
Oğuz Jackson Orda yakışıklı olduğunu belirtmişdi neyse ve ayrıca karşı taraf kız ve ya erkek güzel/yakışıklı olunca insan ister istemez belirtir ama ilgi alanım erkekler olduğu için güzel bi kız gördüyümde vay güzel diyip geçiyoruz sadece ve bukonu kapanır ondan ötesi olmaz
Msss Naz_ yakışıklı olduğunu düşünmüyorum öyle olsa bile senin aradığım bir erkek profiline sahip değildir büyük ihtimalle
Alp Emüroğlu ya sadece yorum yaptım ya önemli olan adam olması
Msss Naz_ ilgi alanı mı kssbvdb bunu bir daha söylesene z😂😂😂 belki tercih dersin😂😂
-GZU -MCSR niye senin ilgi alanın erkekmi
Great video Sadie. You are brave and sure about yourself. Kudos!
Almanyadan selamlar💗
Videonun sonlarında kendimi tutamadım😢
Sana mutluluklar diliyorum hayatında
Saat 5:15 geciyor suan almanyada ve ben suan bu videoyu izliyorum hahahaha
Turkish to english took 1 year for me i was 7 years old and i had no one who spoket englis around it rlly weird and i couldnt live a life without it i would be so uneducated and i never knew there was a comuinity called LGBTQ+ i was an allie for 2 years and i was questioning for 3 months and now im pan but in the closet
And ur story is the same as me i just am pansexual
buraya bi seyler yazmısım bi yıl önce...
İamin Gülce mi
değil
hahahahaha bixesuel hahahaha
Türkiyede lgbt bireyler nasıl tanısıyor ?
I just read an wiki article about 🏳️🌈 in Turkey, it was legalized long time ago, i thought it would be so cool living in Turkey, after watching this video it turned out to be another story. I hope the best for you and you were so cute in that video.
Love from China ❤️
I've watched some stories about it, it is usually completely legal, even to be transgender, but the people are what'll hurt you, not the law. a lot of places won't hire them, and many murders happen, especially to transgender women. the opposite of russia, where younger people are accepting, but the laws will hurt you.
Allah yardımcın olsun ne diyelim
kes
İslam hakkında bilgimin çok iyi olduğu gibi bi iddiam yok ama İslam hoşgörü dinidir. Ve bu tercih değil doğuştan gelen bir durumdur. Kaldı ki tercih dahi olsa İslam dini hoşgörü ile yaklaşmamızı emrettiğinden dolayı müslümanların öyle yapması gerekiyordu. Ama maalesef eğitimsizlik sonucu gerçekten yüreği güzel insanlarımız böyle bölgelerde rahat yaşayamıyorlar.
Ben de müslümanım ama sizi çok iyi anlıyorum. Allah yardımcınız olsun. 🙏
yani diyorsun ki 10.sınıfın sonuna kadar Türkiye'deydim ama nasıl olurda Türkçe'yi çok çabuk unutursun mu diyeyim ikinci plana atmışsın ama o senin ana dilin bence çok çabuk geliştirmeye bak
db çoğunluğu kendinden nefret eden bir milletin dilini bilmese de olur.
db ben 16 bitimi 17 basinda amerikaya geldim. Ingilizcem ayni bu kiz gibi belki daha bile iyi olabilir. Turkcemde bozulmalar var ama oyle kalkipta ingilizceden turkceye donerken beynime ahri giriyor demiyorum. Sacmaliyor biraz. Bir insan ana dilini asla unutmaz. Bozulmalar olabilir ama asla boyle birsey olmaz. Ustune ustluk anneside orda ben 5 senedir yalniz yasiyorum dusun 16dan 21e kadar.
db aslında güzel konusuyor ama zorlandığı icin degil istemediği icin konusmuyor bence.
kendini kendi soyundan soyutlamis ve ne dilini ne de soyunu resmen belirtmek istemiyor evet birileri karşı cikmis normal görmemiş lgbt bireyliğini ama bu kadar da abartmayalım sedefciğim :)
ya kız kanadada yaşıyor o dili konuşmak istiyor ne alaka 10. sınıfa kadar türkiyede diye türkçe mi konuşması lazım kendini en iyi nasıl ifade ediyorsa öyle konuşuyor işte zorunda değil türkçesini geliştirmeye anadili ingilizce olmuş İLK ÖĞRENDİĞİN DİL ANADİLİN DEĞİLDİR KENDİNİ EN İYİ İFADE EDEBİLDİĞİN DİL ANA DİLİNDİR!
The little Sadie was artistic within from her childhood. She want professionalism from early age. How is that possible? A child born with talent. That is Herstory, now look at the beauty she is absolutely stunning.
🌈Sadie got herself a beautiful P🌈
Their story is amazing.
I am writing their love story.