PLEASE DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Apart from these things please talk about female foeticide. Which is still happening as before. But people don't care. See the sex ratio at birth in 2011. In recent video of achrya prasant titled "Hindu ladki gayeb". He explained with data provided by govt that it is not rural phenomena and have no connection with being educated. Urban middle class having one or two children have the lowest sex ratio as per census. And NO it is not pbm of haryana only bihar,up, Rajasthan and many others are there too. 952 women per 1000 male are the LEAST possible natural sexratio( nature makes lesser women by default, this is the least)o. And many states fall far far below that line, surprisingly all of those state people are self proclaimed " Sanskari bhartiya Kattar" Muslm and Hindu. Astonishingly Their sex ratio is quite low. And no body points it out. It can be easily calculated by any lay man by seeing govt data that at least 1crore female foeticide and infanticide happened in last 20 yrs. And those states who have less population of female they start trafficking females from other states which didn't kill daughters. Now people are so ignorant in this issue. We are sitting in time bomb, having our sanskari hands soaked in blood of our daughters. These issues are real unsolved issues. Please focus on it. Thanks to achrya prasant to shed some light on it.
Ya and the male counterpart just dust off his responsibilities.... Only and only women suffers in these situations..... Finance, society ke taane, parents reputation your own reputation, female ke character pe question, career and bla bla bla.....
My mother was a single mother too I lost my dad before I was born. she raised me so well and am proud of her now am married and soon gonna give birth thanks to my mom that she gave me this life and i pray that may all the mother's in the world stay blessed and healthy. ❤
I dont think this woman should be portrayed as a role model. She led a rebellious life, got pregnant. Ofcourse we should not stigmatise but there is nothing to be proud of what she did either.
I feel that women who abort are also very strong and who don’t are strong as well its just a difference of opinion. I feel that how can having a baby before marriage is such a bad thing and after marriage it becomes a blessing? Also not everyone gets a fairytale ending so i just want to send strength and love to Anmol
lets not normalise kids out of wedlock reason being not all can handle it... having a baby is a big big big responsibility. not judging Anmol She can live how she wants it but please do not normalise kids out of wedlock
She's normalising and NOT glorifying. Normalising is a MUST since so many issues women deal with due to being a single mother, as simple as renting a house.
Normalising is not wrong stigmatising is ..... and anyway whoever is insecure enough that it may go against the so called societal regulations should really just mind their own business and by their own i do not mean of any relative either .....just their own
& what about peoples who marries have a kid with their wives and cheat with multiple women's Even if women takes divorce the kids stay with her indirectly she's also single mom Society judge them too What I'm trying to say is don't have child with a man who's not ready to bear equal responsibility
I couldn't believe this is what happened to her because in Splitsvilla she was loved and adored by everyone and was so full of life. All the best Anmol❤
@maverickmaven7168 nobody has a dream to make wrong choices and suffer...not everybody has a very favourable environment around them to help them differentiate between them...some people have toxic families, some have toxic parents, some have completely ignoring parents and some have overly pressurising parents which leads to frustration and confusion in life...sometimes you are fade up of being judged and criticized from very childhood and you get psychologically affected...we can appreciate that she is in right path now, she didn't killed her baby and committed suicide...she inspired that people can still change their bad habits and come back to normal life again...let's not degrade them...let's be sensitive...not everyone gets a proper guidance from very age
Look the way she is narrating the story.... sitting on other side of the screen only I could feel the depth of it. It feels as if things are happening just infront me . She is worth!
So in short ekta is responsible for this innocent girl going off track so early in life 😀😂 There can be many more good souls wrecked by this big brand🙂
I ham very happy it worked out for her, but for many it won't & they might not have her luck so don't advertise this as something very normal... the message should rather go out as not to get into this situation by being vulnerable. I fully support being a single parent but please don't have unsafe sex for pleasure that can result into something you might not handle... babies should be borne when one is ready and wants it but not in a situation where baby's very own existence is questioned. Anyway I am very happy for her, have a blessed life ahead!
Honestly went through something a little similar but unfortunately i chose abortion.. I didnt want to but I had to. You all have no idea how much it breaks a person emotionally! I salute this woman. It must have been hard for her. I can totally understand. Amazing that she shared her story that most of the people don’t. You are just amazing !
Yes same happened with me too and got forcefully aborted by my ex.. was and still in a pain its been approx 7 years bt i still get anxiety attack because of that everyday 😞
She has taken her life in a very positive way, she has been very open about her pain , she is crying and also being bold at the same time, she has had hardships all throughout. But all said and done her life is a lesson for all the young generations who abandone parents just because parents scold or don’t agree with their opinions. Parents are only loving even if they disagree with your point of view. Probably her parents have raised her so beautifully that she never gave up on her son even after facing such hardships. God bless her 👍
It’s not about being single or married. Parenting comes with so many responsibilities that it’s better to be financially independent before shouldering the responsibilities of another life. My husband and I waited for 7 years before we knew we could afford a kid, working our a$@s off in the meantime. But i understand that life happens. I hope she sails through this.
We are Assamese people, that's all. The environment we have grown up in is very different." But this kind of people possess a stupid modern mentality and never think about what will happen next before taking any step.
@@Priya-zp1qgI agree with you. Irresponsible when this people enjoy life. Without precautions they do everything n later the child has to bear everything. Child should get both parents love. Doing drugs n having sex without thinking about any consequences. N how come this people become inspiration to anyone
She is a bad example infront of girls who are genuine about there studies and dignified career. Girls always prefer ur books over boys . Premarital sex is ok its for pleasure one must discover and enjoy but unsafe sex is madness
I know many people/communities in the West who don’t indulge in premarital sex as it goes against their faith. We Indians have been greatly influenced by the Western way of life, courtesy their movies, tv serials etc. but they by large and to a great extent are morally sound than us.
Yeah right The audacity of pallavi to talk crap only about the girl and not even a word about the guy who was not man enough to face his consequences. You guys ... Your brain stinks
How is this inspiring ? She enjoys love and blessings from her parents, support of her sister, her child also deserves the same. Neither mother or father can singlehandedly give justice to both the roles. Thank god Anmol has not glorified anything like the interviewer. More power to her.
Got pregnant with an ex. Had no money during the delivery. What kind of inspiration is this. Maybe a woke type of inspiration. 😏 Single woman will not date single dad then don't expect that single men would date a single mother. She is playing the victim and blaming the ex. I don't want to talk about my ex bolke complain about him not being a good father and marrying someone else. This is just pseudo healing. He didn't want to become a father but you chose to have a son and then you try to blame him and manipulate him and his mother.
Sad to see that this is all you could hear in the story. Never mind. We all hear and see what we want. I choose to see light in dark. It’s a choice. Also, he didn’t wanted to be a father, it was his choice which I respected. I wanted to be a mother which was my choice. Had I really wanted to blame him trust me, you would be seeing his names in the headlines but we both made peace with each other the best way possible. Next time before judging someone, try using a different perception ❤
@@anmoljaycechaudhary I don't find you inspirational in any shape or form. Nonetheless good luck raising your son. Motherhood does bring out the best out of a woman so all the best for the future.
What is single dad? The consequences of pregnancy lies on the lady, if he wasn't ready to be a father he should have used protection, she is still being polite, he actually doesn't deserve any respect. And she is an inspiration because there are many many women who got married and their husbands left them who are raising the child alone, can u justify their husbands? If u r a woman then u should be ashamed of yourself. She didn't do anything knowingly, it happened, she just came across a bad guy and got pregnant and wanted to be a mother, what's wrong in it? For that she doesn't deserve to be happy? If u hv no idea how disgusting men r, shut up. Iam a gynaecologist and i face such women many times, majority men r trash whether married or unmarried bcz they don't get pregnant so they don't understand wht a woman goes through!
@@DrDivya-rq6re if you have unprotected sex then there is a possibility of pregnancy and the consequences lies on the woman so be careful when you have sex with someone, in this case it was breakup sex(not something that she was doing out of love). both are equally responsible but the consequences have to be faced by a woman more than a man. If he doesn't use a condom don't have sex with him. And don't lecture about condoms not having a 100% success rate, everyone knows that already. The truth is she was using drugs and alcohol at that time. She was not financially, mentally equipped to become a mother. No girl or woman should aspire to be like her. That was my point. Don't celebrate everyone publicly. She did a good job for herself but she is not a role model. Don't become so open minded that your brain falls out of your head.
She’s so brave and courageous. Also there’s so much trauma she’s living with, I hope she gets the help that’s much needed for her to heal the tears and tears of trauma. I pray that you get the love and compassion which you missed in your life.
No hate to anmol but the first guy she mentioned how PPL know u r unmarried single mom...he is curious as u have child but go on date ..he may just wanted to know are u married, divorcee, or just cheating...so please understand others too rather than defaming.
@thezoldics7648 she did admit her mistake, and the best growth comes from acknowledging the wrongs and no where is she promoting single parenthood at all. There is a lot of pain in her. So for her child, she is an amazing mom.
Throughout this video i was only wondering how can someone have unprotected sex with someone you are about to breakup. Isnt that stupid and careless.. But what i like is that she didn't choose abortion.. Motherhood is the best.
A drug addict, staying in a live-in, giving birth to a child out of marriage, ousted at the age of 14, being suicidal .. woah, everything about this woman is so inspiring ❤ liver touching story
Arnabo dada atleast she had the guts to keep the child because I have seen few girls who get abortion n then they leave boyfriend marry a guy rich, atleast she didn't do it. Somehow she is raising that boy it takes guts.. So u respect girls who r living a life with so much ugly history but not like her.
Absurd ..... You decide to make your mistakes something " inspiring" ... Inspiring what ... To run away from your home... Leaving your parents .... Taking drungs and all .... And having a kid by mistake .... It's good that you didn't want to end the child's life .... But the child would always be in a question.... Coz of your mistakes
All the comments of her being an inspiration and what not come across as foolish. This girl had a nice life going on, but for a petty reason she chose to leave her house and live a difficult life. People also fail to understand that she was not in the right mindset when she found out that she was pregnant because she had tried to kill herself just a few weeks before she found out. Also, just because you are the one carrying the child doesn’t mean you ask the guy to just fuck off, you didn’t make the baby on your own. How inconsiderate and selfish! Please don’t share stories of such idiots HoB.
Yeah. She was inconsiderate of him when he told to abort his own baby. 😬 I also don’t feel inspired after hearing her story because I’m not that strong to live as a single mother in our society. But u can see that she’s a strong women and a good mother.
She is pretty girl ..still have long life If she finds a good man...she can lead good life...but she must give advice to girls to not fall in trap of girl friend boy friend like fake romance n mustn't leave parents home
Why these kind of women are considered as idols?? Where is our world heading to? These type of people shouldn't be the example for today's generation. I know mistake happens. But everybody doing the same mistake and then starts blaming and starts doing drama. You are the one who is responsible for these kind of things. Atleast don't teach all those things to your baby.
True and humans of bombay are glorifying this arey lana h to un ladies ko lao jinke husband young age m chale gaye or unhone kaise bachhon ko raise kiya .
You ran away from your home at 14 and later in your 20's u got pregnant and had a baby alone. Are we supposed to inspired by this? There is nothing to be inspired, this is careless behaviour.
There is nothing inspirational about this ! It's as good as two random people ranting about their life. Making identity out of the process, which happens so naturally to so many people just shows how underachieved oneself is in life. I feel really pitty for such kind of people that some bad things happened in life is their only identity.
6:05 that story was amazing... You are really strong and resilient! ❤ More power to you! ❤ I am just relieved that the ex did not do any physical harm to you! 🧿 18:13 That crowdfunding story just restores our faith in humanity and goodness in people. ❤ Abortion is a women's prerogative and women should not abuse this right. I am happy that in India single motherhood is getting accepted. Not everyone is made for marriage but that doesn't mean that they should not become parents.
Love stories can sometimes lead us in a sadness so profound. I lived such a story in the past. It destroyed my life. This lady went to the verge of dying because of a bad love story. I admire her courage, of having able to build her llife back. Specially in a country where women who are alone with their child, are not accepted by all the people.
Hearing this story now I will stop contributing to crowdfunding...I mean what is this bullshit..a lady does mistakes makes her life horrible I'm a whim and then want a money through crowdfunding to handle her responsibilities...this is not a story of resilience and strength this is a story of why now a days contributing to crowdfunding is a waste of money..instead give that money to you maids and helpers
I understand her life choices were not great but you should not decide to stop crowdfunding on the basis of one story! That's a big stereotype you are creating. I am only saying this because when we are capable, we should do our bit for the causes we care for. And there are SO MANY unfortunate people/community animals who get some help and relief. If God made you capable of helping and gave you the maturity and compassion, don't lose it because of one story on the internet.
U should even care about what society says Look after your child work hard and promise yourself that U will not do drugs ever again or get pregnant again because if u go down your child will suffer Think carefully
She is a strong woman no doubt about it but it was her choise to raise a baby alone so she should not name or shame the father of a child. Sex is a mutual decision & so is having a child. I might be wrong, sorry for that but I think girls who wish to have & raise a child out of unplanned pregnancy, somehow want their partner to come back and take care of them. They have a soft corner for their partner & hope that the partner might return after having a child. Having a child is responsiblilty of both parents not one. If one says yes & other says no then there is no point in having a child just to prove to the world that I am strong, self independent & super mom. Why not to adopt a child then?
A grown up man should be man enough to accept if the women choose to keep the child . If it was your act , and it's not your body , then you should be man enough to face the consequences of your actions than running away like a coward and letting the girl suffer alone Sex is a mutual decision, but what a girl should do with her body is not a mutual decision. It's her body . A man has no say in if she should abort or have a child . A real man who is man enough will stand by her and support her no matter what decision she takes regarding her body . If you don't have enough b a l l s to stand up for your girl and pay child support or get married to her , don't get laid with her . Period
@@dosa83 Yes... But these days most people are in casual relationships. Had they been couples who decide to date & then marry that's a different tale then. Today's generation is more into hook up, ONS, flings, live-in, experimenting & enjoying and then blaming the patner throughout by portraying themselves as victims. No, i don't agree to this. Never!
@@selcouth7084 You are free to disagree, even in this , if it's the man's baby he should take responsibility for his act if the mother decides to keep the baby . If you went for ONS , and you were irresponsible to put your fluid inside a girl's womb, you should be ready to pay child support If you don't,you are not man enough For her he was in a relationship with her , he should have taken the responsibility than running away from his problems like coward.
I remember I read Anmol’s story in 2021. I was having dinner at a restaurant with a friend & I couldn’t stop myself from reading Anmol’s story. The best thing I loved about her story is her courage, endurance and her maturity level. Off course life is not the way we all imagine to be. But leaving it & committing suicide is not the solution. More power to you Anmol & your son. @humansofbombay hope to see some more inspirational stories like this in the coming days.
Its humourous when then people defend their choice and glorify their misdid, I am sure she doesn't even mean the word struggle in this world.. There are hundreds of millions of women and girls having real struggle and we are here listening her struggle 😅
Right. People with a foolish modern mentality often fail to consider the consequences even once, let alone twice. Regardless of gender, it's always better to think twice before taking any action.
@@arnabghosh1949 dear just because you and I were born in an environment which restricted us of premarital sex, drugs etc. Everyone is not born or brought up in same environment...sometimes incompleteness or void from our very childhood leads us to various wrong paths in life....just telling your child to stay in limit is not enough...you need to give love , care and time to your children and need to understand and bond with them...not everyone gets such environment...some parents ignore their kids, some are highly toxic and some overly pressurise their kids without knowing that they are suffocating their child...some even see issues and fights between parents...all of these leads to frustration and confusion resulting to wrong paths or wrong choices....try to sympathise with them...we can't understand their life until and unless we are in their shoes
@@arnabghosh1949 Earlier I used to hate people who were involved in pre marital sex or make other wrong choices and I never had friendship with smokers too in mu college life but as I started to grow ,observe people and families all around I have understood that things are not as simple as we think...different people have different stories and experiences
She's very very honest. Have to give that to her. Not trying to build a fake, sugar coated narrative. But if you listen to the whole video, it shows a wonan who decided to have a baby essentially to fill a void in her life, needing something to live for. When the partner clearly told her that he doesn't want her to give birth to his baby, she told him he doesn't have any rights as he is just a sperm donor, as it's her belly her choice. And later she only is feeling bad that he is getting married, moving on, expecting the guy's mother to come visit the child and what not. And all the struggles she spoke about are her struggles. What about the child's struggle which has not yet started coz he is too young? Motherhood like this might be fulfilling for her, but it's very selfish for the child.
"I have seen many comments here that are so positive, but I don't understand this hookup culture, having sex before marriage. Actually, I hate it. The reason is that you can't trust someone blindly, even after marriage. I have seen husbands leave their wives, and wives leave their husbands, leaving their children behind, crying. Having a significant amount of your own money is very important. Before doing something, think twice. In the name of modernity, don't engage in activities that might cause long-term or even short-term suffering. The older generation is more educated about life than today's generation, those who have education and jobs. What guarantee is there that he/she will stay with you even after marriage? They may leave and get divorced. And if you're only thinking about being in a relationship, hoping they will stay with you, that's great😂😂. But why do you need to trust someone so much that you may suffer later?
I go back to your profile, once every month, my heart is full and so many of my questions have been answered through this podcast. Thankyou Anmol. YOU ARE AND INSPIRATION, AND DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU OTHER WISE !
Hi Anmol spending 34 mins on this youtube video was worth to watch I am so proud you, you are truly super women taking this big step by choosing to keep your baby and handling him all alone is not that easy for sure and A, seeing your partner giving up on you after knowing this and B, seeing him acting normal and living normal life is totally terrifying But you are such a bold women I must say and I have this suggestion that when your son will get old enough to understand what you have been through make sure you tell him everything so he’ll get to know what path he should follow, path of being like his strong mother or path of being like his coward father who was not strong enough to own his child up. Having sex is not an issue but I feel having sex with the right person who can stand with you is very important. Sending you so much strength and power Anmol.
There are thousands of single moms who fight to raise children, who have lived a disciplined life, got proper education and made a wonderful life for themselves and their children. Those women are inspiring. How can a deranged drug addict who made a series of wrong choices be 'inspiring'. At 26 one is not so young and naive. Please don't glorify such behaviour and lifestyle.
In tears... I m 21yo. Listening to this gives me more nd more resilience to face life. Wowwwww. I mean, this reallly really shifted my point of view towards gratitude yaar. I find myself always fucking complaining about circumstances, ppl around me, problem I m into nd everything. This for real gave me courage. I cant express completely what I feel internally right now. My belief in womanhood has grown stronger than ever. Idk how do I express but salute to everyone out there. Fighting, struggling, yet believing. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
She is a strong woman who made her own choices in life and she shouldn't be shamed for it...Its hard being a single mom that too out of wedlock ( cherry on the top).. But she is managing it all beautifully....May God give her strength and bless her and her son..
Girl plz plz Plz complete ur education n be financially independent .. Be safe whole sex unless u want to have a baby ... Motherhood shall be a choiy n not a thing that just happened ... ❤❤❤
What kind of this inspiring journey dude Society ko galat msg de rahi ho Before marriage sex then baby ye itna easy nhi hai aaj b Meri b 2 betiyan hai isliye soch samjhkar hi bol raha ho u r not inspiring at all Drug Sex Pregnancy Agar yehi inspire hona hai to humko nhi hona
Oho! Don’t take it personally. I’m sure no parents want such a thing for their kids but we all make our own choices. I don’t know how old your girls are but I wish them happiness and luck. No body is giving a wrong message. We are talking my strength, resilience and how I stood the ground. We make mistakes and we learn from them. That’s how we grow. ❤️ sending love you and to your daughters. ❤
@@anmoljaycechaudhary I am not taking personally who m I jo aapse inspire hunga I am not orthodox but jo aapne Kiya ye koi brave wala kaam nhi hai maine aise ladies b dekhi jiska koi nhi hai fir b apne bachco ko pal rahe hai mein unse inspire hona zyada pasand karunga aur ha mein try karunga meri beti jo 7 yr ki hai abhi se dost bne aur ye kadam na uthaye
No in another interview she told mohit and his wife helped her really hard during her pregnancy and they are even good friends so it can't be him surely
You r very strong woman,,,,you r so mature,,,you have changed the mind of society...you have choosen to be a mom at any cost .it shows the heart of mother can beat any heart
What is so glorifying in her story. She left her home at at the age of 14 and put her parents in an awkward situation. At the age when she required to focus on her study she was doing shitty things.. if she knows how to get pregnant then she must be knowing how to prevent pregnancy..there r so many pills available in mkt.. she seems to b very careless.. think abt the child who is deprived of his father's love. Children need both parents' love. Sometime we need to be very practical n rise above emotions.. these type of stories encourage teenagers to take wrong decisions.. teenage is very vulnerable age..
True knew that to prevent It is not like from 14 she was a virgin n suddenly the it happened Come on2024 ? Not a role model Take the child leave it on your boyfriends door and make sure he doesn’t escape from the responsibility and DNA test will not lie In this day and age He will marry a nice khandani girl and have good family Take dowry Come on do it Let him pay
We live in a society and have to live according to the norms of society. This is ridiculous.The child will be subject to bullying in school and society .Plz dont do this
@14:29 she says her ex is a nobody no need for his support etcetc @24:08 she's shocked that he took her words seriously that he's a nobody Gimme a break 😏😏😏
Awesome awkward of this glorifies of all the wrong choices in life... And what statement is that my baby my belly none of your 💩💩💩.. A man never disowns xome wht may. 2. You have a baby back home and ur roaming with guys on date. 3. Is this a mordern mom. Beta Tulsi kabi nahi badlegi... Par Mehir virani badalte rahenge. 4. The child has a suicidal and drug addicts as parents. Vicious circle normalised.
Today's generation Sleeping with bf is fine, having baby of that bf is fine then breakup with that bf is fine, live in is fine but marriage is to be given serious thought ...pathetic
Since, you’re not aware. It was during Covid and everything was on lock down. And lol! Who says I earn too much I barely make a living but that doesn’t let my spirit down. Universe is looking out for me.
@@anmoljaycechaudhary Good that you are positive I too believe in Universe and it's signal, much spiritual and many things happen good. Just a suggestion to you just give inclination to spirituality whichever God you believe but start worshiping with whole heart trust me you will get the ways to solve your problems and your things will start improving 🙏📿
Guys if you want to choose your career or follow your dreams and for that you are standing up against parents,then it's ok but don't stretch things too far. Listen to parents advice as their wisdom helps a lot to make life smooth. I have seen many cases who did things their own way repented a lot in their late age.
I feel for the 3 year old child, I really hope he gets everything in life 😊My thoughts in general will be not to make children just because it will give one a reason to live or it will improve relations with the ex i.e. they will consider you brave, sympathise and start loving you again. A CHILD means so much responsibility towards them and the world we live in. But ofcourse I understand Anmol's unconventional story, I pray things turn better and best for her and especially for her little one. We have one life and we are entitled to live it the way we want, you are too good Anmol the way you narrated everything here and ofcourse how you faced everything in life.
I agree with you but after hearing the heartbeat of your own flesh and blood it is impossible to kill it😭 You can fight but cannot defeat the mother in you❤️
@@justanothergirl8106 But sometimes we need to rise above our emotions & take a practical decision both for our life & the one you cannot take care of after being born.
As much as i want to accept her life as struggle...i would really like your platform to bring out true stories of female struggle or empowerment. I myself went through a bad break up and know that it needs courage to get out of it but if a person (male/female) makes a series of bad choices he/she is bound to face struggles. She mentioned she was in brk up phase when she found out she was pregnant and that she had missed her period. What kind of break up phase involves sex? That too unsafe. I feel for the child born in such conditions 😕 No matter how much dedicated you are, one day he/she is gonna face tough questions. Everything is not about the parent. It's also about the child born who unfortunately doesn't get to choose the conditions he/she is born in.
Gurl things dont always the way you have been taught how it goes in your little world. Dont sympathise with the baby or the mother she doesnt need it ....maybe what you should do is try to understand the world outside of whats righr and wrong ...
Sincerely have no hate for her but she can be a good example of present live in relationship. Always the girl has to suffer. Live in a bad thing i don't understand the concept of livein if you love each other then why not you do a commitment by marrying but no they do this cause they want sex in life no love so it's a terrible thing.
I don't thing it's right to generalise live in like that. Take a case of two 22 year old who just started working and don't want a marriage right now but want to see if they can tolerate each other on a daily basis. Live in gives you the clarity if you can be with a person for the rest of your lives. A break up is far better than a divorce. Yeah but most people in the society have commitment phobia nowadays.
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You are so brave and so strong. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
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PLEASE DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.
Apart from these things please talk about female foeticide. Which is still happening as before. But people don't care. See the sex ratio at birth in 2011. In recent video of achrya prasant titled "Hindu ladki gayeb". He explained with data provided by govt that it is not rural phenomena and have no connection with being educated. Urban middle class having one or two children have the lowest sex ratio as per census.
And NO it is not pbm of haryana only bihar,up, Rajasthan and many others are there too. 952 women per 1000 male are the LEAST possible natural sexratio( nature makes lesser women by default, this is the least)o. And many states fall far far below that line, surprisingly all of those state people are self proclaimed " Sanskari bhartiya Kattar" Muslm and Hindu. Astonishingly Their sex ratio is quite low. And no body points it out. It can be easily calculated by any lay man by seeing govt data that at least 1crore female foeticide and infanticide happened in last 20 yrs.
And those states who have less population of female they start trafficking females from other states which didn't kill daughters.
Now people are so ignorant in this issue. We are sitting in time bomb, having our sanskari hands soaked in blood of our daughters. These issues are real unsolved issues. Please focus on it. Thanks to achrya prasant to shed some light on it.
Thank you so much for all your support 🩷
Please this type of Lady is going to suffer till end, as well men
Girls
Its not easy
Don't invite problems
Be careful
You are absolutely right. Don't glorify single mother status. What is the fault of the children ? They have to suffer throughout the life with stigma
Ya and the male counterpart just dust off his responsibilities....
Only and only women suffers in these situations.....
Finance, society ke taane, parents reputation your own reputation, female ke character pe question, career and bla bla bla.....
@@saraswatimeena6568 truee
@@saraswatimeena6568so true
@@saraswatimeena6568 But she told him that he was just a sperm donor.
My mother was a single mother too I lost my dad before I was born. she raised me so well and am proud of her now am married and soon gonna give birth thanks to my mom that she gave me this life and i pray that may all the mother's in the world stay blessed and healthy. ❤
I dont think this woman should be portrayed as a role model. She led a rebellious life, got pregnant. Ofcourse we should not stigmatise but there is nothing to be proud of what she did either.
What about the guy who did it on pretext of love, and left her , he is the one responsible for her suffering
Rebellious women are the best
True
Just exchange the roles nd u would have been praising the guy... Hypocrite!
Thanks for saying this. What stone age life are we celebrating ?
I feel that women who abort are also very strong and who don’t are strong as well its just a difference of opinion. I feel that how can having a baby before marriage is such a bad thing and after marriage it becomes a blessing? Also not everyone gets a fairytale ending so i just want to send strength and love to Anmol
If u had option to choose your parents, would u like a married couple of parents or unmarried couple of parents?
lets not normalise kids out of wedlock reason being not all can handle it... having a baby is a big big big responsibility. not judging Anmol She can live how she wants it but please do not normalise kids out of wedlock
She's normalising and NOT glorifying. Normalising is a MUST since so many issues women deal with due to being a single mother, as simple as renting a house.
Normalising is not wrong stigmatising is ..... and anyway whoever is insecure enough that it may go against the so called societal regulations should really just mind their own business and by their own i do not mean of any relative either .....just their own
Let's not normalise men being irresponsible too.
& what about peoples who marries have a kid with their wives and cheat with multiple women's
Even if women takes divorce the kids stay with her indirectly she's also single mom
Society judge them too
What I'm trying to say is don't have child with a man who's not ready to bear equal responsibility
But normalizing/glorifying forceful kids are ok huh???Mind your own business.
I couldn't believe this is what happened to her because in Splitsvilla she was loved and adored by everyone and was so full of life. All the best Anmol❤
Which yr splitsvilla
@@beautyinout4669 Splitsvilla Season 10
Thank you so much🩷
You can't understand someone until you've walked a mile in their shoes. Stop judging her. More power to her . Sending my love ❤
And how abt the choices u make in life. Wrong ❌ choice leads to wrong paths.
Women☕
@maverickmaven7168 nobody has a dream to make wrong choices and suffer...not everybody has a very favourable environment around them to help them differentiate between them...some people have toxic families, some have toxic parents, some have completely ignoring parents and some have overly pressurising parents which leads to frustration and confusion in life...sometimes you are fade up of being judged and criticized from very childhood and you get psychologically affected...we can appreciate that she is in right path now, she didn't killed her baby and committed suicide...she inspired that people can still change their bad habits and come back to normal life again...let's not degrade them...let's be sensitive...not everyone gets a proper guidance from very age
@@maverickmaven7168 hope you understand
@@adwayduttagupta9887 some men also choose wrong path like some women day...don't keep so much hatred for any gender
Look the way she is narrating the story.... sitting on other side of the screen only I could feel the depth of it. It feels as if things are happening just infront me . She is worth!
So in short ekta is responsible for this innocent girl going off track so early in life 😀😂
There can be many more good souls wrecked by this big brand🙂
I ham very happy it worked out for her, but for many it won't & they might not have her luck so don't advertise this as something very normal... the message should rather go out as not to get into this situation by being vulnerable. I fully support being a single parent but please don't have unsafe sex for pleasure that can result into something you might not handle... babies should be borne when one is ready and wants it but not in a situation where baby's very own existence is questioned. Anyway I am very happy for her, have a blessed life ahead!
Words!! ❤ 📝
So so true
U have aged with maturing aspect. ❤ load of love❤
Those who support her in comment section...Would u guys support your own daughter or sister if she's unmarried and gets pregnant?
Honestly went through something a little similar but unfortunately i chose abortion.. I didnt want to but I had to. You all have no idea how much it breaks a person emotionally! I salute this woman. It must have been hard for her. I can totally understand. Amazing that she shared her story that most of the people don’t. You are just amazing !
You made the right choice for yourself and the baby.
So brave no mater ejat what hats off to ypu keep it up my poor en life short nothing permanent 😅😅😅😅dont give xindagi na milaga dubara nise na 😅😅
Bless you
Yes same happened with me too and got forcefully aborted by my ex.. was and still in a pain its been approx 7 years bt i still get anxiety attack because of that everyday 😞
Nothing unfortunate..never feel guilty please it's your choice either way.
Please choose your inspiration carefully!
Definitely. ❤
True💯
She has taken her life in a very positive way, she has been very open about her pain , she is crying and also being bold at the same time, she has had hardships all throughout. But all said and done her life is a lesson for all the young generations who abandone parents just because parents scold or don’t agree with their opinions. Parents are only loving even if they disagree with your point of view. Probably her parents have raised her so beautifully that she never gave up on her son even after facing such hardships. God bless her 👍
It’s not about being single or married. Parenting comes with so many responsibilities that it’s better to be financially independent before shouldering the responsibilities of another life. My husband and I waited for 7 years before we knew we could afford a kid, working our a$@s off in the meantime. But i understand that life happens. I hope she sails through this.
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We are Assamese people, that's all. The environment we have grown up in is very different."
But this kind of people possess a stupid modern mentality and never think about what will happen next before taking any step.
@@Priya-zp1qg your comment is uncalled for.
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@@Priya-zp1qgI agree with you. Irresponsible when this people enjoy life. Without precautions they do everything n later the child has to bear everything. Child should get both parents love. Doing drugs n having sex without thinking about any consequences. N how come this people become inspiration to anyone
How is this inspiring?! Take responsibility for own actions.
She is a bad example infront of girls who are genuine about there studies and dignified career. Girls always prefer ur books over boys . Premarital sex is ok its for pleasure one must discover and enjoy but unsafe sex is madness
You're absolutely right 👍
Absolutely correct
I know many people/communities in the West who don’t indulge in premarital sex as it goes against their faith. We Indians have been greatly influenced by the Western way of life, courtesy their movies, tv serials etc. but they by large and to a great extent are morally sound than us.
Yeah right
The audacity of pallavi to talk crap only about the girl and not even a word about the guy who was not man enough to face his consequences.
You guys ... Your brain stinks
How is this inspiring ? She enjoys love and blessings from her parents, support of her sister, her child also deserves the same. Neither mother or father can singlehandedly give justice to both the roles. Thank god Anmol has not glorified anything like the interviewer. More power to her.
Let's not normalise these things. Children need family. Children need loving mother and caring father. ❤
But hatsoff to her struggle❤
Got pregnant with an ex. Had no money during the delivery. What kind of inspiration is this. Maybe a woke type of inspiration. 😏 Single woman will not date single dad then don't expect that single men would date a single mother. She is playing the victim and blaming the ex. I don't want to talk about my ex bolke complain about him not being a good father and marrying someone else. This is just pseudo healing. He didn't want to become a father but you chose to have a son and then you try to blame him and manipulate him and his mother.
Sad to see that this is all you could hear in the story. Never mind. We all hear and see what we want. I choose to see light in dark. It’s a choice. Also, he didn’t wanted to be a father, it was his choice which I respected. I wanted to be a mother which was my choice. Had I really wanted to blame him trust me, you would be seeing his names in the headlines but we both made peace with each other the best way possible. Next time before judging someone, try using a different perception ❤
@@anmoljaycechaudhary I don't find you inspirational in any shape or form. Nonetheless good luck raising your son. Motherhood does bring out the best out of a woman so all the best for the future.
@@gaurishetye1822 ❤️
What is single dad? The consequences of pregnancy lies on the lady, if he wasn't ready to be a father he should have used protection, she is still being polite, he actually doesn't deserve any respect. And she is an inspiration because there are many many women who got married and their husbands left them who are raising the child alone, can u justify their husbands? If u r a woman then u should be ashamed of yourself. She didn't do anything knowingly, it happened, she just came across a bad guy and got pregnant and wanted to be a mother, what's wrong in it? For that she doesn't deserve to be happy? If u hv no idea how disgusting men r, shut up. Iam a gynaecologist and i face such women many times, majority men r trash whether married or unmarried bcz they don't get pregnant so they don't understand wht a woman goes through!
@@DrDivya-rq6re if you have unprotected sex then there is a possibility of pregnancy and the consequences lies on the woman so be careful when you have sex with someone, in this case it was breakup sex(not something that she was doing out of love). both are equally responsible but the consequences have to be faced by a woman more than a man. If he doesn't use a condom don't have sex with him. And don't lecture about condoms not having a 100% success rate, everyone knows that already. The truth is she was using drugs and alcohol at that time. She was not financially, mentally equipped to become a mother. No girl or woman should aspire to be like her. That was my point. Don't celebrate everyone publicly. She did a good job for herself but she is not a role model. Don't become so open minded that your brain falls out of your head.
What will she tell her son when he grows up and asks about his father?
She’s so brave and courageous. Also there’s so much trauma she’s living with, I hope she gets the help that’s much needed for her to heal the tears and tears of trauma. I pray that you get the love and compassion which you missed in your life.
No, she is not. She is just playing the victim card.
No hate to anmol but the first guy she mentioned how PPL know u r unmarried single mom...he is curious as u have child but go on date ..he may just wanted to know are u married, divorcee, or just cheating...so please understand others too rather than defaming.
Best part of the interview is that she stayed real and did not glorify the struggles and give a more larger than life narrative #awesome
@thezoldics7648 she did admit her mistake, and the best growth comes from acknowledging the wrongs and no where is she promoting single parenthood at all. There is a lot of pain in her. So for her child, she is an amazing mom.
Throughout this video i was only wondering how can someone have unprotected sex with someone you are about to breakup. Isnt that stupid and careless.. But what i like is that she didn't choose abortion.. Motherhood is the best.
A drug addict, staying in a live-in, giving birth to a child out of marriage, ousted at the age of 14, being suicidal .. woah, everything about this woman is so inspiring ❤ liver touching story
And guess what girls are glorifing this... What is the fate of the child... The child deserve a family dear.
Hahah
@@maverickmaven7168 Yes ofcourse.
@thezoldics7648 Ofcourse I am being sarcastic. Even in my wildest dreams, I can't call this woman inspiring!
Arnabo dada atleast she had the guts to keep the child because I have seen few girls who get abortion n then they leave boyfriend marry a guy rich, atleast she didn't do it. Somehow she is raising that boy it takes guts..
So u respect girls who r living a life with so much ugly history but not like her.
Absurd ..... You decide to make your mistakes something " inspiring" ... Inspiring what ... To run away from your home... Leaving your parents .... Taking drungs and all .... And having a kid by mistake .... It's good that you didn't want to end the child's life .... But the child would always be in a question.... Coz of your mistakes
true!
Absolutely true, you need to own your consequences!
Absolutely true
So true ... Don't know how is this inspiring? People deliberately make mistakes inspite of knowing the consequences
Well said . It's never inspiring.
Did she really hear the heartbeat just after one missed period?
All the comments of her being an inspiration and what not come across as foolish. This girl had a nice life going on, but for a petty reason she chose to leave her house and live a difficult life. People also fail to understand that she was not in the right mindset when she found out that she was pregnant because she had tried to kill herself just a few weeks before she found out. Also, just because you are the one carrying the child doesn’t mean you ask the guy to just fuck off, you didn’t make the baby on your own. How inconsiderate and selfish! Please don’t share stories of such idiots HoB.
Oh god! I feel nothing my pity after reading such comments. Sigh!! Sending you love ❤
@@anmoljaycechaudharyyeah okay.
finally somebody said this.
Yeah. She was inconsiderate of him when he told to abort his own baby. 😬
I also don’t feel inspired after hearing her story because I’m not that strong to live as a single mother in our society. But u can see that she’s a strong women and a good mother.
She is pretty girl ..still have long life
If she finds a good man...she can lead good life...but she must give advice to girls to not fall in trap of girl friend boy friend like fake romance n mustn't leave parents home
This should have been in Hindi too or with subtitles.
Why these kind of women are considered as idols?? Where is our world heading to? These type of people shouldn't be the example for today's generation. I know mistake happens. But everybody doing the same mistake and then starts blaming and starts doing drama. You are the one who is responsible for these kind of things. Atleast don't teach all those things to your baby.
Exactly. This type girls are dangerous for our society
True
True and humans of bombay are glorifying this arey lana h to un ladies ko lao jinke husband young age m chale gaye or unhone kaise bachhon ko raise kiya .
I totally agree
I agree ...
You ran away from your home at 14 and later in your 20's u got pregnant and had a baby alone. Are we supposed to inspired by this? There is nothing to be inspired, this is careless behaviour.
There is nothing inspirational about this ! It's as good as two random people ranting about their life.
Making identity out of the process, which happens so naturally to so many people just shows how underachieved oneself is in life.
I feel really pitty for such kind of people that some bad things happened in life is their only identity.
Bulls-eye !!
Hats off to you Anmol for coming out so strong 💪
Also kudos to the presenter for being such a good listener.
Thank you for your support 🩷
6:05 that story was amazing... You are really strong and resilient! ❤ More power to you! ❤ I am just relieved that the ex did not do any physical harm to you! 🧿 18:13 That crowdfunding story just restores our faith in humanity and goodness in people. ❤ Abortion is a women's prerogative and women should not abuse this right. I am happy that in India single motherhood is getting accepted. Not everyone is made for marriage but that doesn't mean that they should not become parents.
Love stories can sometimes lead us in a sadness so profound. I lived such a story in the past. It destroyed my life. This lady went to the verge of dying because of a bad love story. I admire her courage, of having able to build her llife back. Specially in a country where women who are alone with their child, are not accepted by all the people.
Hearing this story now I will stop contributing to crowdfunding...I mean what is this bullshit..a lady does mistakes makes her life horrible I'm a whim and then want a money through crowdfunding to handle her responsibilities...this is not a story of resilience and strength this is a story of why now a days contributing to crowdfunding is a waste of money..instead give that money to you maids and helpers
And there were no complications involved...she had the chance to abort but was looking to keep it ....thats a joke
I understand her life choices were not great but you should not decide to stop crowdfunding on the basis of one story! That's a big stereotype you are creating. I am only saying this because when we are capable, we should do our bit for the causes we care for. And there are SO MANY unfortunate people/community animals who get some help and relief. If God made you capable of helping and gave you the maturity and compassion, don't lose it because of one story on the internet.
U should even care about what society says Look after your child work hard and promise yourself that U will not do drugs ever again or get pregnant again because if u go down your child will suffer Think carefully
The best sugar coating to ur mistake... Inspiring my A*s
She is a strong woman no doubt about it but it was her choise to raise a baby alone so she should not name or shame the father of a child.
Sex is a mutual decision & so is having a child. I might be wrong, sorry for that but I think girls who wish to have & raise a child out of unplanned pregnancy, somehow want their partner to come back and take care of them. They have a soft corner for their partner & hope that the partner might return after having a child. Having a child is responsiblilty of both parents not one. If one says yes & other says no then there is no point in having a child just to prove to the world that I am strong, self independent & super mom. Why not to adopt a child then?
A grown up man should be man enough to accept if the women choose to keep the child .
If it was your act , and it's not your body , then you should be man enough to face the consequences of your actions than running away like a coward and letting the girl suffer alone
Sex is a mutual decision, but what a girl should do with her body is not a mutual decision. It's her body . A man has no say in if she should abort or have a child .
A real man who is man enough will stand by her and support her no matter what decision she takes regarding her body .
If you don't have enough
b a l l s to stand up for your girl and pay child support or get married to her , don't get laid with her . Period
@@dosa83 Yes... But these days most people are in casual relationships. Had they been couples who decide to date & then marry that's a different tale then. Today's generation is more into hook up, ONS, flings, live-in, experimenting & enjoying and then blaming the patner throughout by portraying themselves as victims. No, i don't agree to this. Never!
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You are free to disagree, even in this , if it's the man's baby he should take responsibility for his act if the mother decides to keep the baby .
If you went for ONS , and you were irresponsible to put your fluid inside a girl's womb, you should be ready to pay child support
If you don't,you are not man enough
For her he was in a relationship with her , he should have taken the responsibility than running away from his problems like coward.
@@dosa83you’re absolutely right…I’m glad someone understands all this. Men are insensitive many a times.
I remember I read Anmol’s story in 2021. I was having dinner at a restaurant with a friend & I couldn’t stop myself from reading Anmol’s story. The best thing I loved about her story is her courage, endurance and her maturity level. Off course life is not the way we all imagine to be. But leaving it & committing suicide is not the solution. More power to you Anmol & your son. @humansofbombay hope to see some more inspirational stories like this in the coming days.
Thank you for watching. We have so many more inspirational stories coming up- please subscribe and turn notifications on:)
Thank you for all your love ❤️
Its humourous when then people defend their choice and glorify their misdid, I am sure she doesn't even mean the word struggle in this world..
There are hundreds of millions of women and girls having real struggle and we are here listening her struggle 😅
Right
Exactly...galtian sabse hoti hai...apne galat decision ko struggle ka naam dekar hideout karna sahi nahi ...
Right. People with a foolish modern mentality often fail to consider the consequences even once, let alone twice. Regardless of gender, it's always better to think twice before taking any action.
So brave Anmol - it is not easy to have a child out of wedlock in India!
Why to have one is the real question
@@arnabghosh1949 dear just because you and I were born in an environment which restricted us of premarital sex, drugs etc. Everyone is not born or brought up in same environment...sometimes incompleteness or void from our very childhood leads us to various wrong paths in life....just telling your child to stay in limit is not enough...you need to give love , care and time to your children and need to understand and bond with them...not everyone gets such environment...some parents ignore their kids, some are highly toxic and some overly pressurise their kids without knowing that they are suffocating their child...some even see issues and fights between parents...all of these leads to frustration and confusion resulting to wrong paths or wrong choices....try to sympathise with them...we can't understand their life until and unless we are in their shoes
@@arnabghosh1949 Earlier I used to hate people who were involved in pre marital sex or make other wrong choices and I never had friendship with smokers too in mu college life but as I started to grow ,observe people and families all around I have understood that things are not as simple as we think...different people have different stories and experiences
What's so brave and strong about this..?
she wanted the child even when she had chance to abortion.
Or uper se she did crowdfunding to raise the baby🤕
The reason why education and financial independence is necessary. So that we dont mistakes and ruin our and other's life.
She's very very honest. Have to give that to her. Not trying to build a fake, sugar coated narrative. But if you listen to the whole video, it shows a wonan who decided to have a baby essentially to fill a void in her life, needing something to live for. When the partner clearly told her that he doesn't want her to give birth to his baby, she told him he doesn't have any rights as he is just a sperm donor, as it's her belly her choice. And later she only is feeling bad that he is getting married, moving on, expecting the guy's mother to come visit the child and what not. And all the struggles she spoke about are her struggles. What about the child's struggle which has not yet started coz he is too young? Motherhood like this might be fulfilling for her, but it's very selfish for the child.
Yeah. Sperm donors don't need to behave like a husband
Motherhood is a choice and it's should be a woman's choice, her body her right
Exactly
Whoever this girl is ... Amazing single word ... Whatever happened with her is not a matter but what matter is the way she handle everything ❤
Thank you for supporting🥺❤️
"I have seen many comments here that are so positive, but I don't understand this hookup culture, having sex before marriage. Actually, I hate it. The reason is that you can't trust someone blindly, even after marriage. I have seen husbands leave their wives, and wives leave their husbands, leaving their children behind, crying. Having a significant amount of your own money is very important. Before doing something, think twice. In the name of modernity, don't engage in activities that might cause long-term or even short-term suffering. The older generation is more educated about life than today's generation, those who have education and jobs. What guarantee is there that he/she will stay with you even after marriage? They may leave and get divorced. And if you're only thinking about being in a relationship, hoping they will stay with you, that's great😂😂. But why do you need to trust someone so much that you may suffer later?
I go back to your profile, once every month, my heart is full and so many of my questions have been answered through this podcast. Thankyou Anmol. YOU ARE AND INSPIRATION, AND DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU OTHER WISE !
Thank you for all your support ❤️
It's salman who made her pregnant
Ye Splitsvilla wali hai na.... Divya priyank wali season ki? . Waisi hi lag rhi hai...
Yess
Yes
What an interview! Such a strong, resilient woman!
We absolutely agree!
Thank you for all your support ❤️
I remember her from Splitsvilla 😍.
I loved her in that show as well, such a strong girl ❤
Thank you ❤️
I feel she made so many wrong decisions and suffered .. happy atleast she found a reason to live and love ..
Hi Anmol spending 34 mins on this youtube video was worth to watch I am so proud you, you are truly super women taking this big step by choosing to keep your baby and handling him all alone is not that easy for sure and A, seeing your partner giving up on you after knowing this and B, seeing him acting normal and living normal life is totally terrifying But you are such a bold women I must say and I have this suggestion that when your son will get old enough to understand what you have been through make sure you tell him everything so he’ll get to know what path he should follow, path of being like his strong mother or path of being like his coward father who was not strong enough to own his child up. Having sex is not an issue but I feel having sex with the right person who can stand with you is very important. Sending you so much strength and power Anmol.
She’s so inspiring I literally cried listening to her
Was in tears when i saw this, i have been following her since years and she is truly an inspiration
Thank you for all the support ❤️
Ur baby is just so proud of u that his mother is so strong😢
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Momdad ke saath rehti to aesa nahi hota....this is not joke this is your life
This girl has a lot of free time replying to each and every person who may not agree to her views .
Not nice Ma'am.
Correct hai . Too much free time
Yeah, right, she is attention seeker.
There are thousands of single moms who fight to raise children, who have lived a disciplined life, got proper education and made a wonderful life for themselves and their children. Those women are inspiring. How can a deranged drug addict who made a series of wrong choices be 'inspiring'. At 26 one is not so young and naive. Please don't glorify such behaviour and lifestyle.
In tears... I m 21yo. Listening to this gives me more nd more resilience to face life. Wowwwww. I mean, this reallly really shifted my point of view towards gratitude yaar. I find myself always fucking complaining about circumstances, ppl around me, problem I m into nd everything. This for real gave me courage. I cant express completely what I feel internally right now. My belief in womanhood has grown stronger than ever. Idk how do I express but salute to everyone out there. Fighting, struggling, yet believing.
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She is a strong woman who made her own choices in life and she shouldn't be shamed for it...Its hard being a single mom that too out of wedlock ( cherry on the top)..
But she is managing it all beautifully....May God give her strength and bless her and her son..
What good are these stories??
For those who are suffering from same or have mental health issues.
Girl plz plz Plz complete ur education n be financially independent ..
Be safe whole sex unless u want to have a baby ...
Motherhood shall be a choiy n not a thing that just happened ...
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Excited to hear more such stories!!
We have so many more incredible episodes in store! ❤
No doubt she is brave and had that courage to keep the child but, I am really sorry 😞 this is not inspiring at all.
So inspiring. Cannot imagine the pain she must have been through. More power and strength to her ❤
Thank you🥺❤️
Her child will do same thing like his mother .the she will understand her parents pain she caused.
What kind of this inspiring journey dude
Society ko galat msg de rahi ho
Before marriage sex then baby ye itna easy nhi hai aaj b
Meri b 2 betiyan hai isliye soch samjhkar hi bol raha ho u r not inspiring at all
Drug
Sex
Pregnancy
Agar yehi inspire hona hai to humko nhi hona
Correct
Oho! Don’t take it personally. I’m sure no parents want such a thing for their kids but we all make our own choices. I don’t know how old your girls are but I wish them happiness and luck. No body is giving a wrong message. We are talking my strength, resilience and how I stood the ground. We make mistakes and we learn from them. That’s how we grow. ❤️ sending love you and to your daughters. ❤
@@anmoljaycechaudhary I am not taking personally who m I jo aapse inspire hunga I am not orthodox but jo aapne Kiya ye koi brave wala kaam nhi hai maine aise ladies b dekhi jiska koi nhi hai fir b apne bachco ko pal rahe hai mein unse inspire hona zyada pasand karunga aur ha mein try karunga meri beti jo 7 yr ki hai abhi se dost bne aur ye kadam na uthaye
Kindly comment on men who leave their wife after marriage with a child? There are many such cases.
@@DrDivya-rq6re men b galat hote hai main yeh nhi kehta but aurat b galat hai aajkal
"My belly, my baby, you're nobody" hit me hard.
Toh sperm liya kyu usse lol
Does she is talking about Mohit Splitsvilla bf maybe because he got married last July 😢
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No.. other guy
No in another interview she told mohit and his wife helped her really hard during her pregnancy and they are even good friends so it can't be him surely
You r very strong woman,,,,you r so mature,,,you have changed the mind of society...you have choosen to be a mom at any cost .it shows the heart of mother can beat any heart
What is so glorifying in her story. She left her home at at the age of 14 and put her parents in an awkward situation. At the age when she required to focus on her study she was doing shitty things.. if she knows how to get pregnant then she must be knowing how to prevent pregnancy..there r so many pills available in mkt.. she seems to b very careless.. think abt the child who is deprived of his father's love. Children need both parents' love. Sometime we need to be very practical n rise above emotions.. these type of stories encourage teenagers to take wrong decisions.. teenage is very vulnerable age..
Finally someone said it! I was looking for this comment! HOB is simply glorifying stories!
True knew that to prevent
It is not like from 14 she was a virgin n suddenly the it happened
Come on2024 ?
Not a role model
Take the child leave it on your boyfriends door and make sure he doesn’t escape from the responsibility and DNA test will not lie
In this day and age
He will marry a nice khandani girl and have good family
Take dowry
Come on do it
Let him pay
Never waste anyone’s life and time…. It’s a big sin!!!
We live in a society and have to live according to the norms of society. This is ridiculous.The child will be subject to bullying in school and society .Plz dont do this
More power to you! Thank you for sharing this story ❤️
@14:29 she says her ex is a nobody no need for his support etcetc
@24:08 she's shocked that he took her words seriously that he's a nobody
Gimme a break 😏😏😏
Delivering the baby was your choice, now don't play the victim card that he didn't marry me, how can he abandon me etc....
Awesome awkward of this glorifies of all the wrong choices in life... And what statement is that my baby my belly none of your 💩💩💩.. A man never disowns xome wht may.
2. You have a baby back home and ur roaming with guys on date.
3. Is this a mordern mom. Beta Tulsi kabi nahi badlegi... Par Mehir virani badalte rahenge.
4. The child has a suicidal and drug addicts as parents. Vicious circle normalised.
How many times have you cried to be so strong 😢
Today's generation Sleeping with bf is fine, having baby of that bf is fine then breakup with that bf is fine, live in is fine but marriage is to be given serious thought ...pathetic
Facts spilled! 🙌🏻
Saw a single realistic comment amongst all the impractical ones
Marriage is not for everyone. This is a fact too.
Exactly my thought
@@luckyseven786 it depends on what you want to do with your life.
What she do for her living as her instagram says she spends so much but here she says she raised funds for delivery ?
Since, you’re not aware. It was during Covid and everything was on lock down. And lol! Who says I earn too much I barely make a living but that doesn’t let my spirit down. Universe is looking out for me.
@@anmoljaycechaudhary Good that you are positive I too believe in Universe and it's signal, much spiritual and many things happen good. Just a suggestion to you just give inclination to spirituality whichever God you believe but start worshiping with whole heart trust me you will get the ways to solve your problems and your things will start improving 🙏📿
She could have aborted and moved on but still had the baby true mom
Show name is humans of Bombay…. Or itna English jaise hum foreign m reh rhe h … Hindi m karo na interview jise log samjh sake 🤨
This must have been so tough. So much more power to her.
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Thank you ❤️
Guys if you want to choose your career or follow your dreams and for that you are standing up against parents,then it's ok but don't stretch things too far.
Listen to parents advice as their wisdom helps a lot to make life smooth. I have seen many cases who did things their own way repented a lot in their late age.
Such a heartfelt, inspiring story ❤ More power to you 💫
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Leaving home at 14 is a highly stupid idea.
I would support her but this is far away from 'inspiring'
I feel for the 3 year old child, I really hope he gets everything in life 😊My thoughts in general will be not to make children just because it will give one a reason to live or it will improve relations with the ex i.e. they will consider you brave, sympathise and start loving you again. A CHILD means so much responsibility towards them and the world we live in.
But ofcourse I understand Anmol's unconventional story, I pray things turn better and best for her and especially for her little one. We have one life and we are entitled to live it the way we want, you are too good Anmol the way you narrated everything here and ofcourse how you faced everything in life.
I agree with you but after hearing the heartbeat of your own flesh and blood it is impossible to kill it😭 You can fight but cannot defeat the mother in you❤️
@@justanothergirl8106 But sometimes we need to rise above our emotions & take a practical decision both for our life & the one you cannot take care of after being born.
incredibly strong woman.
As much as i want to accept her life as struggle...i would really like your platform to bring out true stories of female struggle or empowerment. I myself went through a bad break up and know that it needs courage to get out of it but if a person (male/female) makes a series of bad choices he/she is bound to face struggles. She mentioned she was in brk up phase when she found out she was pregnant and that she had missed her period. What kind of break up phase involves sex? That too unsafe. I feel for the child born in such conditions 😕 No matter how much dedicated you are, one day he/she is gonna face tough questions. Everything is not about the parent. It's also about the child born who unfortunately doesn't get to choose the conditions he/she is born in.
Gurl things dont always the way you have been taught how it goes in your little world. Dont sympathise with the baby or the mother she doesnt need it ....maybe what you should do is try to understand the world outside of whats righr and wrong ...
Honestly speaking ....she is such a strong woman srsly .... N I pray to lord giveher blessings 🎉❤ m her baby🙏🙌
Such a powerful episode!
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For those who wants to know this:
Salman sherwani - The father of the baby.
Looks the same like the kid and also got married recently.
Moral of the story don't see ekta kapoor serial
This lady needs counseling. Here, I can see all signs of depression.
Sincerely have no hate for her but she can be a good example of present live in relationship. Always the girl has to suffer. Live in a bad thing i don't understand the concept of livein if you love each other then why not you do a commitment by marrying but no they do this cause they want sex in life no love so it's a terrible thing.
I don't thing it's right to generalise live in like that. Take a case of two 22 year old who just started working and don't want a marriage right now but want to see if they can tolerate each other on a daily basis. Live in gives you the clarity if you can be with a person for the rest of your lives. A break up is far better than a divorce. Yeah but most people in the society have commitment phobia nowadays.