The older you get you will find that tradition is what memories are made of. I haven’t decorated for the past 3 year due to suffering grief over the sudden passing of my identical twin sister. This year I’m going to do it reluctantly but I do love beautiful things and my sister loved that about me. So my vote is decorate like a rock star!
Celebrate her life this year as you remember her. How about making a special ornament of tiny picture frames with sepia photos of the two of you or of her alone? I lost my beloved sister last year and still tear up when I think of her. Its her birthday Nov 19th and I will make a special party for her, a fairy tea in the woodlands.
What a blessed life you have-so much lovely all around you! Oh I wish I had gotten a push hair for my little Cairn boy! I also wish I had not worked so much while he was with me-I missed a lot. Oh the memories and “wishes”. He lived to 17 years old. My joy. How he is missed beyond measure. Holidays are upon us.. I never put up a big tree in my home. I have a table top one that is lovely. I live on the same property as my daughter and her family.. I help decorate their grand 12 foot tree. That is plenty of decorating!! You have a superior design sense and I love your color palette. Enjoy all that is now. Thank you for your videos..
Sorry for your loss Denise. I lost my partner 3 years ago and I truly understand your reluctance to participate in old traditions. The tree was something he and I did together. I too love to decorate and I may consider a small tree this year. Blessings to you 🙏
Don’t be embarrassed about using the push chair for Sophie, you are being a good dog owner and looking out for her best interests. Anyone that has a issue with that is not worth your time 😊. I enjoy watching your video’s especially with Sophie in the picture. You bring a calm peaceful escape to my hectic days. Thank you
Ahhh, Heaven…a cuppa Earl Grey, a scone with jam and cream…getting cozy on a comfy couch, by the light of many warm lamps…all I would need is a good book. ☕️📚
You are such a compassionate and emphatetic dog owner. Sophie's lucky to gave you and you're equally lucky to have her. Decorate as you feel Looking forward to your Christmas living room
So nice that you have gotten Sophie a pet stroller. And a nice one.😊There are cute waterproof stickers with a happy symbol of a dog with a mobility issue on it which alerts others . I have seen many pet-owners with older dogs that use pet strollers. So good for dogs as they age. They love it and it keeps them mentally stimulated. You are so good to Sophie and I feel she will live for many more years.
Nicolas, Grand Duchess of Edinburgh's New Town, living his enchanted life of Christmas baubles, tea, and scones. Sophie's pushcart is adorable, by the way.
I love to be out and about and see a beautiful dog like Sophie. It is not uncommon to see older pets in a pram, I bet she brings joy wherever she goes! ❤❤❤
I have only skipped the Christmas tree twice in 78 years (during Covid) since nobody was coming to visit. I did decorate the house and while it was super easy to get everything out and put it away, I missed the tree. Of course last year when I did put it up I realized how much work it was since I wire all the ornaments to the tree but was pleased in the end and the house really did feel more festive. Perhaps you could consider using your gold ornaments and introducing silver and white to make your tree compliment your living room as it is now. Don't forget that floral picks (not real ones) make fabulous fillers and only require that you know how to shove them into the tree.😂 If you want to add ribbon, you could cut lengths of a nice wired ribbon that compliments, roll it into a tight roll and then pull the middle out to make a spiraled length that can be wired to the tree - also a great filler. Can't wait to see what you do.
You could make a live centre piece arrangement for your table out of cedar, fir, red berries, white roses, dusty miller, fine branches, and ribbon. If the dish is low and long, it's the perfect shape for conservation over the dinner table. Just keep it watered like a Christmas tree, and it will last 2 to 3 weeks.
I have decorated with just wreaths and other Christmas decor. I think you should do whatever feels right in the coming weeks. Keep the tree simple and don't spend alot. Simple can be elegant as you have taught us all. Hugs to you and especially Sophie. ❤❤
Perhaps you should decorate the little courtyard in front of your door with a winter theme. It will be a delight for passersby and you still have a festive atmosphere long after Christmas!
Ahhh Nicholas it’s so lovely seeing Sophie. She looks so sweet and enjoyed her walk. The landscape of that beautiful old home is gorgeous in the Autumn colors. Thank you for taking us back there today. Love the tour of all the lovely ornaments and trees. To answer your question, I did not put up a tree on a couple years and to be honest even though I decorated for Christmas, I felt like I’d missed the beauty of seeing the tree, and all my collection of ornaments. It’s a personal choice, I’m sure whatever you decide will be done to perfection. As for your precious Sophie, enjoy every moment with her and know you are giving her the best life full of your kindness and love. I had my Bella for just over 14 yrs, I still miss her. But, I have my Lilly Rose now to share my life with. She is a delight and I love her too. We always hold our fur babies in our hearts forever. Take care and now it’s time for tea here in Northern California. ❤❤❤🐾🐾
Our Christmas tree is real from an inner city farm and our decorations are 30 yrs old as they are what my son has had all his life and Christmas is the best day of the year for him. So full of memories since his childhood.
I guess tradition lives deep in me . I always have decorated for Christmas even when I lived in a sleeping room and shared a bathroom in the hall . I am all for decorating!
A friend chose to shift from having one large tree and placed several small stands of decorated trees around her home and it is spectacular and chic. She changes it up every year and it is much easier as everything is smaller. You have many surfaces in your living area or dining area that you could use for this Nicholas and you are very good at arranging flowers so I am sure this talent would transfer.
I could never skip the tree. It’s the focal point to all my other Christmas decorations. In fact, I added a beautiful silver and white tree in my formal dining room and a woodland animal-themed tree for my covered porch. It is a lot of work but we really enjoy it. Hug Sophie everyday!! We lost our sweet Boston Terrier in September after 18 years. It’s not the same without him and we miss him terribly.
I’m Jewish but my husband is not, so we have fun melding our holiday traditions together. We don’t do a Xmas tree per se, but I have put together fallen branches that I embellish with faux frost (my concoction, not the store bought stuff), fairy lights and some small ornaments. Since my husband is of Norwegian ancestry, I’m going to surprise him with a Scandinavian style Xmas decor (doing my research lol). I personally don’t like over the top holiday decor, so I think this will make us both happy.
Sophie is absolutely adorable, such a sweetie pie I think you should put up your Christmas tree, just don’t put any decorations on it if you are tired. The tree lit up is magnificent by itself and with other Christmas decor, you will not regret it.
Oh how gorgeous this Scottish house is ! The gardens and the view are stunning and unforgettable of beauty and I can already feel how peaceful it is and how the simple fact of coming to have a cup of tea is relaxing and good for the mental and physical health. For the Christmas tree perhaps simply a small one with not too much decorations would be good, not too tiring or expensive and easier to put off after Christmas. Hello from Paris ❤
Yes, oh yes, we are not putting our tree up this year. We both are recuperating from a late bout of COVID and are doing the fireplace, door and table settings. We are also going to be watching for a smaller, taller, thinner tree so we don’t have to climb as we get older. We are both 75 this year. We really enjoy our window into your world, we did Ireland for three weeks in 22 and Scotland for 2 1/2 months in early 23 and fell more in love with it than ever. You are a very fortunate, blessed young man and your content speaks to our hearts even at our age. God bless whatever or wherever you go!
I’ve thought about skipping putting up a tree twice. Once, when a loved one passed suddenly and then again last year when I was having major repairs done to my home. Both times I ended up putting up my tree and was so glad I did. It provided peace and comfort each time I walked into my home. When I do my full tree, it takes me 3 hours just to decorate it. I’ve been collecting ornaments since I was a small child and others were gifts, so I have many, many memories that hang on my tree. Last year, due to repairs, I couldn’t do ornaments; so I just filled my tree with lights, faux hydrangeas that I had and clip on candles that lit via batteries. It wasn’t “my” tree, but it was still beautiful and festive. I also put up a little simple decor, here and there. This year, I’ll be back in full holiday swing and will be starting to decorate shortly; which typically takes me a week (since I also work full time). I admit, it’s a lot of work and exhausting, asking myself why I go all out. My answer is because when all is said and done it’s worth the feeling I get when I’m home . It’s just me, but I’m worth it and I deserve the same festive and cozy experiences/feels as those who share their homes with others. I do usually have a small gathering of family or friends, but it’s mostly just me sitting by the tree in the evening and enjoying its ambience.
Lovely video Nicholas, please don't feel sad about Sophie getting older, my little dog Lucy is the same breed as Sophie and she is about to turn 18 so you have many years left, and she has the same little stroller ❤
First I must say Sophie is adorable. I'm very excited to see how you decorate this year, tree or no tree. I really enjoy the shopping please take us out for more.
Nicolas, I really enjoyed this video. Thank you for sharing your day with us. You have such a positive outlook on life, and you appreciate all the simple pleasures and details that surround you. Your love and concern for Sophie touches all pet-lovers. Trust your instincts and do what suits you best for celebrating Christmas. Tree or no tree this year, you will make it a memorable experience because you have the gifts of prudence and insightfulness. Keep taking us on your journey. All the best from New York City, Robert.
Hi Nicolas ! I just love the little excursions you and Sophie takes us on. Seeing all the decorations in John Lewis was fun, it was like a Winter Wonderland in that store. Thank you for the adventure. 😊
Sophie is adorable and so happy in the garden. Actually I tried to skip decorating a Christmas tree, BUT I heard a voice say, “You will not decorate for my Son?” I was sick that year. Needless to say, I decorated a tree for God’s Son. True and I e decorated ever since.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful sentiment. What an inspirational message about decorating a tree for Jesus Christ on his birthday. Many people that are suffering losses or difficult times will benefit from your message. Robert
Hi Nic, you may absolutely skip the tree. I am skipping mine this year. I bought beautiful lighted branches which I am putting in my fireplace along with flameless candles and several faux wrapped gift boxes. I want to share your concerns about Sophie. I have 2 shih tzu babies, 12 years old, brother and sister. I took them for their yearly checkup and the vet reminded me they are considered "elderly" dogs. But like precious Sophie, they are healthy and full of life! They are such lovely companions.❤️
Oh my goodness... your morning walk with Sophie was so sweet. She is so precious, I am sure it makes you sad to see her age. But what a beautiful life she has with you now. That's what counts. Yes.... to a tree. I think you just need to downsize. Maybe a tabletop one in a gorgeous terra cotta pot in a woodland , natural theme. Or a small one on the hearth in an urn. Just the visual of a tree is whats important, not the size. Plus a smaller tree is less cost to decorate, as you can use your gold ornaments as a base, and just fill in with a few new baubles. PLus you can get pine cones and branches to spray gold for practically nothing. The view out the back arched door at Gray Walls look like a painting... stunning!
Thanks, Nicolas! Scotland is truly beautiful! I live in Canada, which is also beautiful. It’s always a treat to see another country! Thanks for a relaxing video! Sophie is so cute! ❤😊
I wanted to add that I love Graywalls and prefer it to RT. Graywalls is so comforting, beautiful and elegant. Although RT is beautiful I think it’s a bit cold. Loved seeing the decorations in the store…🌲
I really enjoyed the video. And it was so nice to see Sophie having fun and keeping an eye on you. I am glad you got her a stroller so she can go out with you. Regarding the tree. You can always get a small table tree this year. But you do love decorating a tree. Whatever you decide I am sure it is going to be very festive and lovely . 🎄
You can definitely enjoy the holiday with the fireplace and wreaths only. I also sometime put up a tiny tree 3 -4 ft tall on a table to place small gift for friends Put larger gifts under the tablecloth or decorate with presents in empty corners. Enjoy your space with style.
I'm not able to decorate a tree this year due to scheduled surgery but I have touches of winter around me, pine cones in a basket, smoke & pine scented candles, pine cone topiaries spilling with moss. I've collected fall leaves, bark and lichen/moss that I will use for Thanksgiving and for Christmas I will spray the leaves gold and dip some of the pine cones in glitter.
My Bichon, Seán, is 11-years-old too. It is sad to see them get old, but 11 isn't super old for these little dogs. Sophie looks like she's doing well! I'm all for skipping the Christmas tree and instead putting up a wreath and other decorations. Traditions are great but there's good in taking a break from them when the joy has gone out of it and you're feeling a bit fatigued when you think of doing it. You can always go back to it next year if you want to. I HAVE skipped it before. 😊
Scotland lighting....is beautiful. I love that home and you are so fortunate to be able to access it so quickly. What a beautiful place in the world. Thanks for sharing this video. Well done. Yet again.
What a wonderful vlog. Love that we got to see so many different places. You can always get long branches from evergreen trees and just put them in a vase. Then just a few decorations.
I never had a Christmas tree since I moved out from my parents home. It just makes no sense for me without any family around. I am going home for Christmas and there is a beautiful tree waiting for me. Skip the tree if you want to, it's your home and your decision. I am sure your decoration will be beautiful anyway!
Almost every year I think that I won’t bother with a tree. And then I put it up and so enjoy sitting by it, lit or not, day or night, reading or listening to a podcast etc, and I am always grateful I go ahead with it. I take it down on the last day of Christmas and it always feels a little bittersweet. So do it, you’ll be glad in the end.
Yes, I have skipped my tree for the last 4 years. I had 3 in my house, but am now in a condo. I used a wreath on my mirrors in living room,dining room, and entrance hall. Of course I had one on my front door, I discovered that I really had to make my mantel stunning since there was no tree. It is different to not have a tree, but is doable. Happy Decorating!!!!
Nicolas. Can’t believe how much I love listening to you. Such a calm loving voice. Have been watching for about 2 yrs. Love your value of yourself & your life. You’re so easy in the eye too! lol. 🥰. Love the tours. Recipes. Crafts. Just everything. Wish I would have had your attitudes long ago in my life. Things would have been much easier. Just wanted to tell you. Yes! Love seeing Sophie! Just a darling!! Lost my miniature Schnauzer @ 11yrs. Looks lot like Sophie! Miss her SO much. & YES. Had push chair like Sophie’s! We would NOT want them to hurt! NO way!! Lots of people in US have these! No one looks anymore! lol. Have ordered your products! Love them. Ordering more! Yes. Toning down Christmas. I’ve done that few times. Relieves. Rejoices YOU TOO! A break. Whew. I’m the one who wrote long ago I had a RED Kitchenaide mixer as you. You answered. lol. Forget what. But was fun! Wish lived in England. Your fan from Texas. Originally from Wisconsin. Soon to be Washington state. Luv & Hugs. 😍
I love your showing the countryside, the businesses, lovely old world structures, etc. And, you have a knack for not hurrying thru same...kinda of like taking a leisurely stroll. Your episodes take me back to those wonderful times in England (especially the Cotswold).
Dear Elise, you do what is right for you, we love you whatever you do, ok. So have a wonderful December with family and friends and we will watch whatever you post up. Be happy 😊love from Starshower xxxx
As a minimilist I put up a tree with clear lights, no ornaments. I put a few Xmas decor on the shelves and Done! I like the simple look, less expensive and pet friendly.
We have enjoyed our Havanese, Sugar for 14 years and we have a stroller for her too. She has some heart issues and it breaks our hearts to even think about a day without her. But she loves getting out and about and it’s a blessing to have it for her. Enjoy Sophie and forget anyone who make look at sideways. She is your love! I have skipped tres for a few years and have gone all out with garlands, wreaths, candles galore and cozy throws. We have received so many compliments and it feels so comfortable and warm. Do whatever pleases you. ❤️
Loved the Christmas store tour! For the times we've not had a Christmas tree, we make a Christmas table scape - large wreath in the center, lots of candles, ornaments, holly around the wreath so it becomes textural. The idea is abundance on the table top but still room for dinner services. -- Love your new hair highlights! Was missing them! Thanks for the visit! xoxo
An informative video. There are times I have skipped the larger tree and put out my smaller one. More like a table tree. It brings out the festive mood without having to deal with a vast amount of preparations. The Holidays are one of my favorite times of year. I love that you care so much for Sophie. Never stop being that kind and generous person.❤
I'm glad to see😘🥰😇 Sophie again, she's adorable, a very sweet and intelligent dog. I was surprised that you have a lot of time with her. 11 years old. Take good care of her and she's grown up, Sophie.
Last Christmas we put our tree back in the den instead of in the formal living room and enjoyed it so much! I plan to do that again this year. Fun to make plans. I have ordered new lights. You will enjoy your tree so much!
You’re a good dog dad. Enjoy every moment you have with Sophie. Like people, it doesn’t matter the age or limitations, they need love and still have lots of love to give back. Never apologize for a pet’s limitations or illness.
I've skipped trees when I've had a house up for sale, but, other than that, I do a tree every year. But, if it's causing you stress, don't do it. The store with all of the ornaments was nice!
I skip the tree to do what you are suggesting… garland at the fireplace and wreaths here and there inside as well as the front door. You can put a strand of lights on a large plant I side too!
Once again another lovely pre Christmas video. You are very right, we all missed lovely Sophie. There is certainly nothing odd with having a push chair for Sophie. You are both enjoying your life together. Thank you for sharing your life. You inspire us all to make life better.
Nicolas, for the past few years, I've skipped having the requisite tree in my apartment - and I've been so much happier with the results of holiday decorating in different, subtler ways. A fresh garland easily brings the gorgeous greenery and scent of the outdoors inside, without having a massive, monolithic extra presence in the room; and a few well-chosen metallic, jeweled, handcrafted accent decorations & ornaments seem all the more special (and liveable) when carefully placed on their own, around & about the room - rather than massed together, clustered in one spot, fighting for attention. In this way, my Christmas decorations easily blend into celebrating the New Year as well, without screaming only one holiday. And whilst I understand that some people would never feel right giving up their tree, or changing the traditions their families always had, I've found that it's a simpler elegance that actually makes me feel more at ease and in my own home, and that I prefer that method of celebration in the midst of all the visual holiday hubbub and noise around my small haven - where it's still there for me to enjoy, just in the outside world.
Nicolas, I think the little teapot ornament would be perfect to add to your collection ...even if it's on just a little tree in the kitchen! Love touring with you and Sophie, it's all quite lovely! Thank-You for sharing, your videos break up my day nicely! Always look forward to what you will be sharing next! Have a Beautiful Evening!
The glass decorations on my tree once were my grandmothers, then my parents and now mine. Would never think of changing them to match the decor of the room, be “modern” or follow theme trends. Everyone is different of course, but for me Christmas is all about tradition. Having said that, my house will never be without a tree to welcome the season, remember memories of the past and look to the exciting new year ahead.
It was so sweet that you opened with Sophie. My dog Gucci just past two weeks ago and I’m having such a difficult time. Like you she was with me constantly. She even came to work with me and had her pink bed there. Then 2 years ago my husband started with dementia and she was my one and only companion and kept me going. She was 13 and I’m just having such a hard time. Seeing your Sophie was so sweet. I know you enjoy her every minute and she’s very lucky to have you also. ❤
Hi Nicholas, love your videos….you are such a calming soul and your lovely sweet Sophie I adore! I think it’s great you take Sophie in her push cart….such a caring owner and that is a beautiful thing to witness. There is nothing better than the architecture, warmth and history of the marvellous places you venture too. Have a wonderful week….🥂😊
Your videos are so magical! I loved the shopping trip to see Christmas decorations and the tea with scones was charming as well. Of course, it's always lovely to take a walk in the garden with cute, little Sophie! Thanks Nicolas for a very fun video!
This will be my third year without a tree. I'm still missing it but love the extra time for other decorating moments throughout the home that would have been overlooked.
I’ve skipped a Christmas tree a few time and did the “trimmings” instead. It still looks beautiful and festive. I was also thankful when I didn’t have to take it down and stuff it back into its bag. Anyhow, go with how you’re feeling when the time comes.
I love how you care for Sophie. My dog will be eleven years old in January, so I can completely relate to you. I’m constantly trying to think of ways to make his life better.
Nicholas!! This was so lovely!! Sofie is so sweet and she does so well for her age. Greywalls is beyond beautiful. The light this time of year is one of my favorites. I live in Maine and although Scotland is about 600 miles due North of us our light is lovely too. It took my breath away to see yours. Thank you so much and see you soon. Oh, and we have scones often and love them just the way you do with Earl Grey as well jannieo
Beautiful ornaments! So this is my thought...if you are feeling to skip a tree this year, there is a reason you are feeling it. Skip the tree this year. Put up what you feel you desire to put up. Why? You will feel so fulfilled and comfortable and happy that you went with what you are feeling at this moment. Yes, I skipped a tree one year and it was for other reasons in my life, but I did. It was right for me and the Christmas turned out just as I wanted it. I did it that one year, but that was my turn. I LOVE Christmas soooo much as it is my favorite time of the year. And it makes me feel close to my wonderful gorgeous sweet late Mother. She did so much for Christmas every year. I am putting up my trees every year, but I am feeling to do it. So Nicolas, skip your tree. You will feel fulfilled if that is what you continue to feel from now until Christmas time this year. Blessings!!
Hello! So glad to see Sophie looking chipper. It endearing to hear the way you speak fondly of her, a worthy dog owner you are. I really like seeing the variety of holiday tree decor in the store where you are, so different from ours. I'll admit it makes me envious. Gold ornaments are always a great choice as they coordinate nicely with every other color and EVERYTHING! I so wanted one of those butterflies. As for your invitation for feedback: tree vs no tree..I suggest doing your whole house (minus the tree) as Stage 1 of decorating. Live with it for a week of two, then if you really miss it, add the tree as Stage 2. Doing in two parts may be less overwhelming and give you the chance to experience both. You can skip a tree, there is no crime in that. I never have but may just a small one this year. I understand the difficulty in carrying in a large heavy tree. I want to see my ornament collection though, so I was thinking of doing a vertical wall hanging of ornaments - ornaments tied to the end of nice ribbons hung from ceiling down the wall in vertical stripes. Or maybe tied and draped in swags from one corner of the room across the wall to the other. Challenge yourself and channel in ultimate designer inside you to come up with something that excites you and make this Christmas stand out from all the one before it - a treat for your creative spirit and something new for your longtime viewers.
I already see a brand new Christmas tree complete with new baubles along with the garland and wreath for the fireplace and door. There are baubles there calling your name! What’s better than uniting them with you into your hands to create a most festive,elegant and jolly Christmas 🎄🎅🚪❄️
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The older you get you will find that tradition is what memories are made of. I haven’t decorated for the past 3 year due to suffering grief over the sudden passing of my identical twin sister. This year I’m going to do it reluctantly but I do love beautiful things and my sister loved that about me. So my vote is decorate like a rock star!
Celebrate her life this year as you remember her. How about making a special ornament of tiny picture frames with sepia photos of the two of you or of her alone? I lost my beloved sister last year and still tear up when I think of her. Its her birthday Nov 19th and I will make a special party for her, a fairy tea in the woodlands.
I'm sorry for your great loss. 🖤 I am glad you made the decision to decorate this year!
Take a break with the tree Nicolas; I will enjoy watching your talents with the wreath and table.
What a blessed life you have-so much lovely all around you!
Oh I wish I had gotten a push hair for my little Cairn boy! I also wish I had not worked so much while he was with me-I missed a lot. Oh the memories and “wishes”. He lived to 17 years old. My joy. How he is missed beyond measure.
Holidays are upon us.. I never put up a big tree in my home. I have a table top one that is lovely. I live on the same property as my daughter and her family.. I help decorate their grand 12 foot tree. That is plenty of decorating!! You have a superior design sense and I love your color palette.
Enjoy all that is now.
Thank you for your videos..
Sorry for your loss Denise. I lost my partner 3 years ago and I truly understand your reluctance to participate in old traditions. The tree was something he and I did together. I too love to decorate and I may consider a small tree this year. Blessings to you 🙏
Don’t be embarrassed about using the push chair for Sophie, you are being a good dog owner and looking out for her best interests. Anyone that has a issue with that is not worth your time 😊. I enjoy watching your video’s especially with Sophie in the picture. You bring a calm peaceful escape to my hectic days. Thank you
I love little Sofie . You are so good to her.
Ahhh, Heaven…a cuppa Earl Grey, a scone with jam and cream…getting cozy on a comfy couch, by the light of many warm lamps…all I would need is a good book. ☕️📚
It wouldn’t be Christmas without a Nicolas Fairford Christmas episode!
Agree 😊🥰
You are such a compassionate and emphatetic dog owner. Sophie's lucky to gave you and you're equally lucky to have her.
Decorate as you feel
Looking forward to your Christmas living room
So nice that you have gotten Sophie a pet stroller. And a nice one.😊There are cute waterproof stickers with a happy symbol of a dog with a mobility issue on it which alerts others . I have seen many pet-owners with older dogs that use pet strollers. So good for dogs as they age. They love it and it keeps them mentally stimulated. You are so good to Sophie and I feel she will live for many more years.
So ,my lovely Xmas decorations
Nicolas, Grand Duchess of Edinburgh's New Town, living his enchanted life of Christmas baubles, tea, and scones. Sophie's pushcart is adorable, by the way.
I love to be out and about and see a beautiful dog like Sophie. It is not uncommon to see older pets in a pram, I bet she brings joy wherever she goes! ❤❤❤
We've all had that same thought as the pets we love get older. Wishing you both many, many more happy years together!
I have only skipped the Christmas tree twice in 78 years (during Covid) since nobody was coming to visit. I did decorate the house and while it was super easy to get everything out and put it away, I missed the tree. Of course last year when I did put it up I realized how much work it was since I wire all the ornaments to the tree but was pleased in the end and the house really did feel more festive. Perhaps you could consider using your gold ornaments and introducing silver and white to make your tree compliment your living room as it is now. Don't forget that floral picks (not real ones) make fabulous fillers and only require that you know how to shove them into the tree.😂 If you want to add ribbon, you could cut lengths of a nice wired ribbon that compliments, roll it into a tight roll and then pull the middle out to make a spiraled length that can be wired to the tree - also a great filler. Can't wait to see what you do.
You could make a live centre piece arrangement for your table out of cedar, fir, red berries, white roses, dusty miller, fine branches, and ribbon. If the dish is low and long, it's the perfect shape for conservation over the dinner table. Just keep it watered like a Christmas tree, and it will last 2 to 3 weeks.
We just lost our 18.5 year old Cavapoo. Yes they can live a longer life but never long enough.💕🌈
I have decorated with just wreaths and other Christmas decor. I think you should do whatever feels right in the coming weeks. Keep the tree simple and don't spend alot. Simple can be elegant as you have taught us all. Hugs to you and especially Sophie. ❤❤
Perhaps you should decorate the little courtyard in front of your door with a winter theme. It will be a delight for passersby and you still have a festive atmosphere long after Christmas!
Sophie's push chair is perfect for an older dog. Yes, my dog is now 17 years old...I love seeing all the holiday baubles! I say decorate the tree!!
Ahhh Nicholas it’s so lovely seeing Sophie. She looks so sweet and enjoyed her walk.
The landscape of that beautiful old home is gorgeous in the Autumn colors. Thank you for taking us back there today.
Love the tour of all the lovely ornaments and trees. To answer your question, I did not put up a tree on a couple years and to be honest even though I decorated for Christmas, I felt like I’d missed the beauty of seeing the tree, and all my collection of ornaments.
It’s a personal choice, I’m sure whatever you decide will be done to perfection.
As for your precious Sophie, enjoy every moment with her and know you are giving her the best life full of your kindness and love. I had my Bella for just over 14 yrs, I still miss her. But, I have my Lilly Rose now to share my life with. She is a delight and I love her too. We always hold our fur babies in our hearts forever.
Take care and now it’s time for tea here in Northern California. ❤❤❤🐾🐾
Our Christmas tree is real from an inner city farm and our decorations are 30 yrs old as they are what my son has had all his life and Christmas is the best day of the year for him. So full of memories since his childhood.
I guess tradition lives deep in me . I always have decorated for Christmas even when I lived in a sleeping room and shared a bathroom in the hall . I am all for decorating!
A friend chose to shift from having one large tree and placed several small stands of decorated trees around her home and it is spectacular and chic. She changes it up every year and it is much easier as everything is smaller. You have many surfaces in your living area or dining area that you could use for this Nicholas and you are very good at arranging flowers so I am sure this talent would transfer.
I could never skip the tree. It’s the focal point to all my other Christmas decorations. In fact, I added a beautiful silver and white tree in my formal dining room and a woodland animal-themed tree for my covered porch. It is a lot of work but we really enjoy it. Hug Sophie everyday!! We lost our sweet Boston Terrier in September after 18 years. It’s not the same without him and we miss him terribly.
I love how you can pop in to this lovely historic house for tea. It looks so cozy and relaxing.
I’m Jewish but my husband is not, so we have fun melding our holiday traditions together. We don’t do a Xmas tree per se, but I have put together fallen branches that I embellish with faux frost (my concoction, not the store bought stuff), fairy lights and some small ornaments. Since my husband is of Norwegian ancestry, I’m going to surprise him with a Scandinavian style Xmas decor (doing my research lol). I personally don’t like over the top holiday decor, so I think this will make us both happy.
Sophie is absolutely adorable, such a sweetie pie
I think you should put up your Christmas tree, just don’t put any decorations on it if you are tired. The tree lit up is magnificent by itself and with other Christmas decor, you will not regret it.
Good idea :)
I can't imagine Christmas without a Christmas Tree. I love your Balsam Hill Tree and I cannot fathom you not using it. Nice to see Sophie!!
I am so happy to see Sophie with you again.
The teatime was lovely!
Oh how gorgeous this Scottish house is ! The gardens and the view are stunning and unforgettable of beauty and I can already feel how peaceful it is and how the simple fact of coming to have a cup of tea is relaxing and good for the mental and physical health. For the Christmas tree perhaps simply a small one with not too much decorations would be good, not too tiring or expensive and easier to put off after Christmas. Hello from Paris ❤
Yes, oh yes, we are not putting our tree up this year. We both are recuperating from a late bout of COVID and are doing the fireplace, door and table settings. We are also going to be watching for a smaller, taller, thinner tree so we don’t have to climb as we get older. We are both 75 this year.
We really enjoy our window into your world, we did Ireland for three weeks in 22 and Scotland for 2 1/2 months in early 23 and fell more in love with it than ever. You are a very fortunate, blessed young man and your content speaks to our hearts even at our age. God bless whatever or wherever you go!
I hope you are soon feeling back to full strength, ❤❤❤
So good to get Sophie out in the fresh air. Better to take her out in the push chair than to not take her out at all! ❤
I’ve thought about skipping putting up a tree twice. Once, when a loved one passed suddenly and then again last year when I was having major repairs done to my home. Both times I ended up putting up my tree and was so glad I did. It provided peace and comfort each time I walked into my home. When I do my full tree, it takes me 3 hours just to decorate it. I’ve been collecting ornaments since I was a small child and others were gifts, so I have many, many memories that hang on my tree. Last year, due to repairs, I couldn’t do ornaments; so I just filled my tree with lights, faux hydrangeas that I had and clip on candles that lit via batteries. It wasn’t “my” tree, but it was still beautiful and festive. I also put up a little simple decor, here and there.
This year, I’ll be back in full holiday swing and will be starting to decorate shortly; which typically takes me a week (since I also work full time). I admit, it’s a lot of work and exhausting, asking myself why I go all out. My answer is because when all is said and done it’s worth the feeling I get when I’m home . It’s just me, but I’m worth it and I deserve the same festive and cozy experiences/feels as those who share their homes with others. I do usually have a small gathering of family or friends, but it’s mostly just me sitting by the tree in the evening and enjoying its ambience.
Lovely video Nicholas, please don't feel sad about Sophie getting older, my little dog Lucy is the same breed as Sophie and she is about to turn 18 so you have many years left, and she has the same little stroller ❤
First I must say Sophie is adorable. I'm very excited to see how you decorate this year, tree or no tree. I really enjoy the shopping please take us out for more.
Shopping was such a treat. Thanks for taking us with you.
Nicolas, I really enjoyed this video. Thank you for sharing your day with us. You have such a positive outlook on life, and you appreciate all the simple pleasures and details that surround you. Your love and concern for Sophie touches all pet-lovers. Trust your instincts and do what suits you best for celebrating Christmas. Tree or no tree this year, you will make it a memorable experience because you have the gifts of prudence and insightfulness. Keep taking us on your journey. All the best from New York City, Robert.
Hi Nicolas ! I just love the little excursions you and Sophie takes us on. Seeing all the decorations in John Lewis was fun, it was like a Winter Wonderland in that store. Thank you for the adventure. 😊
Sophie is adorable and so happy in the garden. Actually I tried to skip decorating a Christmas tree, BUT I heard a voice say, “You will not decorate for my Son?” I was sick that year. Needless to say, I decorated a tree for God’s Son. True and I e decorated ever since.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful sentiment. What an inspirational message about decorating a tree for Jesus Christ on his birthday. Many people that are suffering losses or difficult times will benefit from your message. Robert
Loved this.
Hi Nic, you may absolutely skip the tree. I am skipping mine this year. I bought beautiful lighted branches which I am putting in my fireplace along with flameless candles and several faux wrapped gift boxes. I want to share your concerns about Sophie. I have 2 shih tzu babies, 12 years old, brother and sister. I took them for their yearly checkup and the vet reminded me they are considered "elderly" dogs. But like precious Sophie, they are healthy and full of life! They are such lovely companions.❤️
Oh my goodness... your morning walk with Sophie was so sweet. She is so precious, I am sure it makes you sad to see her age. But what a beautiful life she has with you now. That's what counts. Yes.... to a tree. I think you just need to downsize. Maybe a tabletop one in a gorgeous terra cotta pot in a woodland , natural theme. Or a small one on the hearth in an urn. Just the visual of a tree is whats important, not the size. Plus a smaller tree is less cost to decorate, as you can use your gold ornaments as a base, and just fill in with a few new baubles. PLus you can get pine cones and branches to spray gold for practically nothing. The view out the back arched door at Gray Walls look like a painting... stunning!
Absolutely you can have Christmas without a tree i use cedar branches on table and on wreath very festive and with blue and gold bobbles.
I totally understand that you are conscious about Sophie’s age, she is so adorable and if she is gone it will be such a heartbreaking thing 😢❤
Thanks, Nicolas! Scotland is truly beautiful! I live in Canada, which is also beautiful. It’s always a treat to see another country! Thanks for a relaxing video! Sophie is so cute! ❤😊
Gorgeous place to have afternoon tea.Thank you for showing us. I felt so sad and had a tear when you was talking about Sophia. Sophie is so sweet.
I wanted to add that I love Graywalls and prefer it to RT. Graywalls is so comforting, beautiful and elegant. Although RT is beautiful I think it’s a bit cold. Loved seeing the decorations in the store…🌲
I really enjoyed the video. And it was so nice to see Sophie having fun and keeping an eye on you. I am glad you got her a stroller so she can go out with you.
Regarding the tree. You can always get a small table tree this year.
But you do love decorating a tree.
Whatever you decide I am sure it is going to be very festive and lovely . 🎄
Sophie is adorable thank you for taking me on tour of the Christmas store and the country house for tea enjoy your weekend .
You can definitely enjoy the holiday with the fireplace and wreaths only. I also sometime put up a tiny tree 3 -4 ft tall on a table to place small gift for friends Put larger gifts under the tablecloth or decorate with presents in empty corners. Enjoy your space with style.
I'm not able to decorate a tree this year due to scheduled surgery but I have touches of winter around me, pine cones in a basket, smoke & pine scented candles, pine cone topiaries spilling with moss. I've collected fall leaves, bark and lichen/moss that I will use for Thanksgiving and for Christmas I will spray the leaves gold and dip some of the pine cones in glitter.
Thank you for bringing us along for tea time. Always a pleasant escape.
My Bichon, Seán, is 11-years-old too. It is sad to see them get old, but 11 isn't super old for these little dogs. Sophie looks like she's doing well! I'm all for skipping the Christmas tree and instead putting up a wreath and other decorations. Traditions are great but there's good in taking a break from them when the joy has gone out of it and you're feeling a bit fatigued when you think of doing it. You can always go back to it next year if you want to. I HAVE skipped it before. 😊
Scotland lighting....is beautiful. I love that home and you are so fortunate to be able to access it so quickly. What a beautiful place in the world. Thanks for sharing this video. Well done. Yet again.
What a wonderful vlog. Love that we got to see so many different places. You can always get long branches from evergreen trees and just put them in a vase. Then just a few decorations.
Yes we have missed Miss Sophie! 💕
You will love decorating the tree as Christmas gets near.
Cannot wait to see your place decorated for Christmas!! 🎄🎅🏼
Super beautiful Christmas decorations! I do enjoy. Thank you!❤
I never had a Christmas tree since I moved out from my parents home. It just makes no sense for me without any family around. I am going home for Christmas and there is a beautiful tree waiting for me. Skip the tree if you want to, it's your home and your decision. I am sure your decoration will be beautiful anyway!
Almost every year I think that I won’t bother with a tree. And then I put it up and so enjoy sitting by it, lit or not, day or night, reading or listening to a podcast etc, and I am always grateful I go ahead with it. I take it down on the last day of Christmas and it always feels a little bittersweet. So do it, you’ll be glad in the end.
Yes, I have skipped my tree for the last 4 years. I had 3 in my house, but am now in a condo. I used a wreath on my mirrors in living room,dining room, and entrance hall. Of course I had one on my front door, I discovered that I really had to make my mantel stunning since there was no tree. It is different to not have a tree, but is doable. Happy Decorating!!!!
Love Sophie. Graywalls Hotel is beautiful. The light is magnificent. I enjoy these tours. More please....
Nicolas. Can’t believe how much I love listening to you. Such a calm loving voice. Have been watching for about 2 yrs. Love your value of yourself & your life. You’re so easy in the eye too! lol. 🥰. Love the tours. Recipes. Crafts. Just everything. Wish I would have had your attitudes long ago in my life. Things would have been much easier.
Just wanted to tell you. Yes! Love seeing Sophie! Just a darling!! Lost my miniature Schnauzer @ 11yrs. Looks lot like Sophie! Miss her SO much. & YES. Had push chair like Sophie’s! We would NOT want them to hurt! NO way!! Lots of people in US have these! No one looks anymore! lol.
Have ordered your products! Love them. Ordering more!
Yes. Toning down Christmas. I’ve done that few times. Relieves. Rejoices YOU TOO! A break. Whew.
I’m the one who wrote long ago I had a RED Kitchenaide mixer as you. You answered. lol. Forget what. But was fun!
Wish lived in England. Your fan from Texas. Originally from Wisconsin. Soon to be Washington state. Luv & Hugs. 😍
I love your showing the countryside, the businesses, lovely old world structures, etc. And, you have a knack for not hurrying thru same...kinda of like taking a leisurely stroll. Your episodes take me back to those wonderful times in England (especially the Cotswold).
Over the years the tree gets smaller but still there and very much enjoyed. 🎄✨ yes the house is very charming and cozy, lovely🌹
Dear Elise, you do what is right for you, we love you whatever you do, ok. So have a wonderful December with family and friends and we will watch whatever you post up. Be happy 😊love from Starshower xxxx
The Old School style is one of my favorites and will never go out of style.
As a minimilist I put up a tree with clear lights, no ornaments. I put a few Xmas decor on the shelves and Done! I like the simple look, less expensive and pet friendly.
That does sound beautiful!
Always look forward to your video's for a calming break in the day.
Your intro/outro music is very well chosen, calming and slightly nostalgic. It fit the tone of the video perfectly.
This one video I could watch again. What a graceful life you lead.
We have enjoyed our Havanese, Sugar for 14 years and we have a stroller for her too. She has some heart issues and it breaks our hearts to even think about a day without her. But she loves getting out and about and it’s a blessing to have it for her. Enjoy Sophie and forget anyone who make look at sideways. She is your love! I have skipped tres for a few years and have gone all out with garlands, wreaths, candles galore and cozy throws. We have received so many compliments and it feels so comfortable and warm. Do whatever pleases you. ❤️
Loved the Christmas store tour! For the times we've not had a Christmas tree, we make a Christmas table scape - large wreath in the center, lots of candles, ornaments, holly around the wreath so it becomes textural. The idea is abundance on the table top but still room for dinner services. -- Love your new hair highlights! Was missing them! Thanks for the visit! xoxo
Enchanting...
An informative video. There are times I have skipped the larger tree and put out my smaller one. More like a table tree. It brings out the festive mood without having to deal with a vast amount of preparations. The Holidays are one of my favorite times of year. I love that you care so much for Sophie. Never stop being that kind and generous person.❤
I wonder if Edinburgh has lovely thrift shops that sell Christmas decor? That could be interesting, inspiring and economical.
I'm glad to see😘🥰😇 Sophie again, she's adorable, a very sweet and intelligent dog. I was surprised that you have a lot of time with her. 11 years old. Take good care of her and she's grown up, Sophie.
Last Christmas we put our tree back in the den instead of in the formal living room and enjoyed it so much! I plan to do that again this year. Fun to make plans. I have ordered new lights. You will enjoy your tree so much!
You’re a good dog dad. Enjoy every moment you have with Sophie. Like people, it doesn’t matter the age or limitations, they need love and still have lots of love to give back. Never apologize for a pet’s limitations or illness.
So good to see Sophie! I saw one of the push chairs recently and thought it was a great idea.
I've skipped trees when I've had a house up for sale, but, other than that, I do a tree every year. But, if it's causing you stress, don't do it.
The store with all of the ornaments was nice!
I skip the tree to do what you are suggesting… garland at the fireplace and wreaths here and there inside as well as the front door. You can put a strand of lights on a large plant I side too!
Once again another lovely pre Christmas video. You are very right, we all missed lovely Sophie. There is certainly nothing odd with having a push chair for Sophie. You are both enjoying your life together. Thank you for sharing your life. You inspire us all to make life better.
Nicolas, for the past few years, I've skipped having the requisite tree in my apartment - and I've been so much happier with the results of holiday decorating in different, subtler ways. A fresh garland easily brings the gorgeous greenery and scent of the outdoors inside, without having a massive, monolithic extra presence in the room; and a few well-chosen metallic, jeweled, handcrafted accent decorations & ornaments seem all the more special (and liveable) when carefully placed on their own, around & about the room - rather than massed together, clustered in one spot, fighting for attention. In this way, my Christmas decorations easily blend into celebrating the New Year as well, without screaming only one holiday. And whilst I understand that some people would never feel right giving up their tree, or changing the traditions their families always had, I've found that it's a simpler elegance that actually makes me feel more at ease and in my own home, and that I prefer that method of celebration in the midst of all the visual holiday hubbub and noise around my small haven - where it's still there for me to enjoy, just in the outside world.
Nicolas, I think the little teapot ornament would be perfect to add to your collection ...even if it's on just a little tree in the kitchen! Love touring with you and Sophie, it's all quite lovely! Thank-You for sharing, your videos break up my day nicely! Always look forward to what you will be sharing next! Have a Beautiful Evening!
A faux tree with just lights is simple yet very beautiful. Simplicity can be beautiful.
The glass decorations on my tree once were my grandmothers, then my parents and now mine. Would never think of changing them to match the decor of the room, be “modern” or follow theme trends. Everyone is different of course, but for me Christmas is all about tradition. Having said that, my house will never be without a tree to welcome the season, remember memories of the past and look to the exciting new year ahead.
It was so sweet that you opened with Sophie. My dog Gucci just past two weeks ago and I’m having such a difficult time. Like you she was with me constantly. She even came to work with me and had her pink bed there. Then 2 years ago my husband started with dementia and she was my one and only companion and kept me going. She was 13 and I’m just having such a hard time. Seeing your Sophie was so sweet. I know you enjoy her every minute and she’s very lucky to have you also. ❤
Hi Nicholas, love your videos….you are such a calming soul and your lovely sweet Sophie I adore! I think it’s great you take Sophie in her push cart….such a caring owner and that is a beautiful thing to witness. There is nothing better than the architecture, warmth and history of the marvellous places you venture too. Have a wonderful week….🥂😊
I always do cream first...as you say, it is like the butter....then I put on the jam.
Your videos are so magical! I loved the shopping trip to see Christmas decorations and the tea with scones was charming as well. Of course, it's always lovely to take a walk in the garden with cute, little Sophie! Thanks Nicolas for a very fun video!
Dear little Sophie I hope you have many lovely moments ahead to treasure with her.
This will be my third year without a tree. I'm still missing it but love the extra time for other decorating moments throughout the home that would have been overlooked.
Lovely calming video with sweet Sophie.
A tree is cheerful and the lights add a nice touch to the house.
I’ve skipped a Christmas tree a few time and did the “trimmings” instead. It still looks beautiful and festive. I was also thankful when I didn’t have to take it down and stuff it back into its bag. Anyhow, go with how you’re feeling when the time comes.
I love how you care for Sophie. My dog will be eleven years old in January, so I can completely relate to you. I’m constantly trying to think of ways to make his life better.
Nicholas!! This was so lovely!! Sofie is so sweet and she does so well for her age. Greywalls is beyond beautiful. The light this time of year is one of my favorites. I live in Maine and although Scotland is about 600 miles due North of us our light is lovely too. It took my breath away to see yours. Thank you so much and see you soon. Oh, and we have scones often and love them just the way you do with Earl Grey as well jannieo
To me personally, Christmas tree is essential! Put it up, even just a mini one 🎄
Beautiful ornaments! So this is my thought...if you are feeling to skip a tree this year, there is a reason you are feeling it. Skip the tree this year. Put up what you feel you desire to put up. Why? You will feel so fulfilled and comfortable and happy that you went with what you are feeling at this moment. Yes, I skipped a tree one year and it was for other reasons in my life, but I did. It was right for me and the Christmas turned out just as I wanted it. I did it that one year, but that was my turn. I LOVE Christmas soooo much as it is my favorite time of the year. And it makes me feel close to my wonderful gorgeous sweet late Mother. She did so much for Christmas every year. I am putting up my trees every year, but I am feeling to do it. So Nicolas, skip your tree. You will feel fulfilled if that is what you continue to feel from now until Christmas time this year. Blessings!!
Hello! So glad to see Sophie looking chipper. It endearing to hear the way you speak fondly of her, a worthy dog owner you are. I really like seeing the variety of holiday tree decor in the store where you are, so different from ours. I'll admit it makes me envious. Gold ornaments are always a great choice as they coordinate nicely with every other color and EVERYTHING! I so wanted one of those butterflies. As for your invitation for feedback: tree vs no tree..I suggest doing your whole house (minus the tree) as Stage 1 of decorating. Live with it for a week of two, then if you really miss it, add the tree as Stage 2. Doing in two parts may be less overwhelming and give you the chance to experience both. You can skip a tree, there is no crime in that. I never have but may just a small one this year. I understand the difficulty in carrying in a large heavy tree. I want to see my ornament collection though, so I was thinking of doing a vertical wall hanging of ornaments - ornaments tied to the end of nice ribbons hung from ceiling down the wall in vertical stripes. Or maybe tied and draped in swags from one corner of the room across the wall to the other. Challenge yourself and channel in ultimate designer inside you to come up with something that excites you and make this Christmas stand out from all the one before it - a treat for your creative spirit and something new for your longtime viewers.
So happy to see Sophie again...enjoy the beautiful autumn 🍂 season and love your life 😊
I already see a brand new Christmas tree complete with new baubles along with the garland and wreath for the fireplace and door. There are baubles there calling your name! What’s better than uniting them with you into your hands to create a most festive,elegant and jolly Christmas 🎄🎅🚪❄️
Thanks, Nicolas! Wish I was there to enjoy tea with you!