Satan Wants You to Believe That Person Is THE ONE If . . .

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  • Is Satan trying to deceive you and make you marry the wrong person? What does the Bible say about spiritual warfare and relationships? Here are 3 signs Satan is trying to trick you into marrying someone that God does not want you to marry.
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  • @pastorswifeperspective7242
    @pastorswifeperspective7242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +817

    If you are watching now, Jesus Loves you, Loves you, Loves you... Even when you don't feel it He does love you

    • @mik7564
      @mik7564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Amen. Thank you!

    • @retrovcr777
      @retrovcr777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you, I needed to hear this

    • @enodaenasmith5256
      @enodaenasmith5256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ok thank u I needed it😭😭😭😭😭😣😣😣😣😣

    • @user-oc6kh6ts8s
      @user-oc6kh6ts8s 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you!
      Praise The Lord!

    • @adrienejones6353
      @adrienejones6353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank You soooo much🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😢😢♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @bluhcrih3127
    @bluhcrih3127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    Dear Lord
    Take Away My Scars
    Take My Heart
    Turn Me Into a Christian

    • @user-oc6kh6ts8s
      @user-oc6kh6ts8s 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amin

    • @benjaminmoua78
      @benjaminmoua78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen 🙏

    • @jessealvarez779
      @jessealvarez779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are a Christian by virtue of the fact that you choose to be. Now let Him help you. Learn your Father's voice as does a child and grow, including the growing pains, as a child does. Listen to your Father through your conscience, which is His Law written upon the human heart and ask Him to help you form your conscience as you do so. From your Catholic Christian brother,
      -Jesse
      God love you and bless you

    • @ayoungbrownrose
      @ayoungbrownrose 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen 🙏🏼✝️❣️

    • @ldwoods3237
      @ldwoods3237 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      In the powerful name of Jesus 🙏🏽

  • @createdfit6981
    @createdfit6981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +437

    "It's not a good sign if you are confused because you are overly depending on what you sense God is saying compared to what the evidence is telling you God is saying." Applied to me perfectly - so helpful!

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I'm so glad it was helpful!

    • @jeanclaireagudo1884
      @jeanclaireagudo1884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true.

    • @stevewoodson4635
      @stevewoodson4635 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Grande hermana

    • @mattr.1887
      @mattr.1887 ปีที่แล้ว

      Reminds me of when I left Christianity. I was trying so hard to make Christianity work, but all the evidence was telling me otherwise.

    • @vilmacabanbabilonia8214
      @vilmacabanbabilonia8214 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@uchexoThis person is using the concepts given in this video to justify not being a Christian. Faith is a grace and it's not a good sign when you imply that it's not good for you.

  • @thequadcleff4904
    @thequadcleff4904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    When I felt that God had revealed the one girl for me during prayer time (she was from my youth group) I didn't over-interpret anything or dig deeper into it I just simply grew more in God and I knew, because the bible says, that trust in God and he'll bless you. So I did. To this day I still haven't thought about it as much as I have done with other girls in the past because if it really was from God then I know it'll happen in his timing and if I obsess over it then firstly, it may take longer for God to deliver and secondly, it won't allow me to grow further in God.
    So, if you feel God has revealed something big in your life to you pray and don't think too much of it because chances are, it won't be the next day or in the next week. Maybe in the next year or few. The point is you don't know when it'll happen so why obsess over it now when you could be focussing on God and what he wants you to do now. In doing this, it may be closer than you think.

    • @annab.1146
      @annab.1146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen. Thank you so much for this. I so need to hear this. God bless you even more. Be safe always.

    • @mykeiladumas6397
      @mykeiladumas6397 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for this

    • @rini6847
      @rini6847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I agree. We need to concentrate more on God because if we won't then waiting for that person who you know is the one can cause depression and impatience and toxic thoughts. Always have faith and keep Jesus above everything.

    • @TAFProductions
      @TAFProductions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I had a choice between my crush and god one day ... Even tho I didint know I followed god's voice and let her go to another man....
      God helped me grow so much that she didint recognise me when she saw me .
      I wasn't ready then ..
      Maybe I'm not yet but I will follow god over everything!!!

    • @kokosimmons3761
      @kokosimmons3761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen!!!

  • @NickArcade
    @NickArcade 3 ปีที่แล้ว +291

    Never elevate a person's bad behavior above God! Put God first and you will have the strength to call out a person's inappropriate behavior and even walk away when things get terrible.

  • @bobbydelarosa5059
    @bobbydelarosa5059 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    PLEASE PRAY FOR MY SISTER AND THAT SHE HAS MORE FAITH IN GOD

    • @Sk8tingrn
      @Sk8tingrn ปีที่แล้ว

      praying😊

  • @christophermarshall5795
    @christophermarshall5795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    I honestly wish I had this info 4 years ago. I got into a bad, abusive marriage to a toxic, narcissistic woman who somehow hid the bulk of her issues till after the wedding. She was also bi-polar and refused to get help, so it went completely unchecked. Some of the signs were there, however I had never dealt with any of that in relationships before on that level. God had to rescue me in a crazy way. If I could send this video to my younger, more naive self, I would. You probably just saved someone's life with this one. Thank you so much.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      So glad you found this useful, I do hope it's helpful to people, God bless!

    • @samsnowman6668
      @samsnowman6668 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hey Christopher can I ask what kind of signs you noticed and what sort of abuse you experienced? I'm curious because I think someone might be going through something similar.

    • @mrk3058
      @mrk3058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Chris Im experiencing the very similar relationship without the marriage so blessed to read your story and thanks mark for taking the time to make the video. God bless all see y'all in the clouds

    • @stephenlechuga1124
      @stephenlechuga1124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@samsnowman6668 probably classic gaslighting as they call it. I call it simply being deceived.

    • @happymusic6910
      @happymusic6910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I would really love to hear your story. Hoping u cud share to us ur testimony in video someday

  • @daniellemarshall3251
    @daniellemarshall3251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    "Life gets complicated when we go our own ways"

    • @popper0077
      @popper0077 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do u like movies where the good guy shoots the bad guy and then he walks away with an explosion in the background and puts his sun glasses on?

  • @SandraD88100
    @SandraD88100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +337

    This is why I’m still single. I’m not saying that I don’t want to be in a relationship with someone who God truly wants me to be with but I don’t want to get my hopes up and go with my feelings but to really be led by the Holy Spirit to not fall into sexual sin again. Honestly it’s hard to find someone who loves God wholeheartedly without being forced to compromise my faith and purity. Either way I’m happy whether if He blesses me with a good godly man or not. I’m going to do my best to put God first. No matter how I feel. Thank you so much for your videos. Keep up the good work! 😊 God bless. 🙏

    • @OkJess0404
      @OkJess0404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same!

    • @MA-rg9tv
      @MA-rg9tv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Stay strong with the Lord!! Don't compromise your standards or Christian beleifs! -from your brother in Christ🎚

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Thanks for sharing this Sandy and God bless as you follow the Lord's will for your life!

    • @marijaalilovic6453
      @marijaalilovic6453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think God would always want us to be happy with someone, your feelings to matter! And God loves you, He would never want you to be with someone who you don't like/love and also find atractive. God wants someone for you who will fit perfectly. Don't settle. just wait.

    • @josephwhigham3490
      @josephwhigham3490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sandy you are right it can be hard to walk by faith especially when you're starting to follow him will. Walking by faith and not by sight means your faith will be tested during the faith walk. Praise God and keep enduring test because after it's tested and you conquer whatever the devil throws at you and don't fail to temptation... you'll receive an reward afterwards. Be patient and seek him in everything. He's knows the knows about us. When all don't truly know ourselves. God truly knows his creations. He created us

  • @genevievevision2life150
    @genevievevision2life150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    No man can keep apart what God has brought together. Pray and ask God for wisdom and discernment. He will reveal it all.🙏

  • @Chad_Hart
    @Chad_Hart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    They're "the one" alright, the one to destroy your life.

  • @Jezebel066
    @Jezebel066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I have known my husband my whole life. He came to me while leaving his wife. Looking back.. God would never send a married man to me! Even my mother who is a devout Christian was telling me he was the one. Now he’s divorcing me. After 3 yrs of emotional abuse. But he’s a good dad to my 3 kids & they love him. So even after he surprised me w divorce papers, I still fought to save my marriage. Even went to counseling after he filed. But he wouldn’t do the work & I guess it was just so he could hurt me again. Satan is in charge of my husbands life & I was so deceived. Please pray for me. I’ve chosen 3 evil men to marry now & I really thought I had healed when I met this one. He seemed so different. Until he told me he loved me after 2 wks.. guess I missed the red flags

    • @whiteprisms3123
      @whiteprisms3123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Bless you and I hope everything works out well for you. Amen 😟🙏💗

    • @jenni431
      @jenni431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      We have all been deceived. America has been deceived. The devil wants to destroy families but he won't win. He knows that he is doomed. He is just looking for souls to drag us down with him

  • @Jesusislord930
    @Jesusislord930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Please pray for me friends at church are married and have kids. Yet I am still single. Please pray for me that God will provide a Godly beautiful wife as I would like to have kids🙏🙏🙏 as I would like to serve God with her together 🙏

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This may help: th-cam.com/video/mT1U5JwTEys/w-d-xo.html

    • @sharonmitchell4186
      @sharonmitchell4186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      God will give you a good wife just hang in there.. I'm looking for a good husband also

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ill pray for self control and discipline for you in case you meet her later in life or not at all if God wants you dedicated to himself.

    • @justinscott9733
      @justinscott9733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      He will! I’m still waiting for God to send a girl in my life. Just remember if God makes you wait then be prepared to receive more than you asked for.

    • @rajena5rajena680
      @rajena5rajena680 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@justinscott9733 waaaooo so kind of you thanku for very encouraging words yes it's good to keep on waiting upon the Lord n surely He gonnah do exceedingly more than we imagn.Be blessed n stay safe am also waiting upon the Lord.

  • @adventuresofxyz22
    @adventuresofxyz22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Put God first and everything will come after. Thanks so much for sharing Mark!

  • @papazola8771
    @papazola8771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    About a month ago, I broke up with a girl that I dated for 2 months. She was the first girl that I dated so it was quite special for me but I dated her knowing she wasn't a believer, idolised kpop stars, and even identifying herself as a bisexual. At first I thought we could have a serious relationship and there i would try convincing her to turn to Christ but I knew it is never a good idea to missionary date someone and even 2 Cor. 6:14 talks about it. I had to broke up with her and it still feels painful and sad for me to leave such a sweet girl but I know God has a plan for me and that I should deny myself and wait for His plans for me. Amen!

  • @candywilkins386
    @candywilkins386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    I was married for 31 years to an abusive man! I'm now divorced! Satan deceived me long enough!!! I married someone just like my dad because we marry what we think we are worth. I didnt ever know anything different! I'm so glad that God spoke to me and woke me up! Sometimes God breaks our heart to fix our vision!

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      God bless Candy!

    • @mirjanabosnjak8064
      @mirjanabosnjak8064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Your husband is the one for you, marriage is until death

    • @candywilkins386
      @candywilkins386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger please pray for me! I'm disabled from ex- husband and living with my abusive dad. My ex husband commited perjury and I got almost nothing after 31 years. I'm praying that God will replace everything that I lost!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 God is a way- maker,miracle worker,light in the darkness!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @jillwylie6767
      @jillwylie6767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Candy Willins I was in the same situation. It really is very Hurtful, when life goes wrong. But God has moved me on with my life. I am happier now.

    • @tsimonson49
      @tsimonson49 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mirjanabosnjak8064 God does not want women to be abused in a marriage. He told men to love their wives, not harm them physically or emotionally. Your comment is dangerous and it’s a comment that keeps many of us in abusive marriages believing we are sinful to ever leave them. But the truth is, a man who abuses his wife is NOT a saved man. When you are saved by Christ, you have conviction. Abusive men do not have conviction. I would know, I’m married to one and looking to exit as soon as I can. He has never physically harmed me, but he has emotionally caused me such distress that it has made me physically sick and it is destroying my mind and body. My body is God’s. I need to take care of it. My heart is God’s. I need to take care of it. Please do not continue to say things like this. There is a whole book I recommend if you believe someone should stay in a marriage regardless of the treatment within it. It is called “Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage” it’s by Natalie Hoffman.

  • @graceibelegbu189
    @graceibelegbu189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    While we all want to meet 'The One', let's not over idealize to the extent of losing touch with reality.
    Young men & ladies have lost excellent potential partners due to unrealistic perfectionism.
    In all these, BALANCE remains the watchword

    • @victoriambachu2400
      @victoriambachu2400 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Girl I agreee but at the same time if someone doesn’t meet the requirements from God, don’t they need to go

  • @kg7439
    @kg7439 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    When you have wishful thinking in your heart, BUT God sends you visions of your ACTUAL FUTURE if you don't submit... Don't lean towards your own understanding... It's less painful if you Accept and Surrender. 💯💯💯💯

  • @954BRii
    @954BRii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I know the sinner God took me away from is not the one, but devil wants me to think she is. No way falling for it.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      God bless as you seek the Lord

    • @954BRii
      @954BRii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger bless you too o my soul ✝️🖤🖤

    • @user-nj5cl6xs4n
      @user-nj5cl6xs4n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen, Im right there with you brother.

  • @leahanderson30
    @leahanderson30 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    A person may not be saved when you first get together, but they may give their lives to Christ

  • @elijahtruly7648
    @elijahtruly7648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    This verse helped me a lot when I started to look for signs about particular relationships.
    “For in many dreams and in many words there is emptiness. Rather, fear God.” ‭‭Ecclesiastes‬ ‭5:7‬ ‭NASB

  • @davidm.6128
    @davidm.6128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    There are so much evidences that can’t be ignored in this video! Once again, God bless you Mark!

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      God bless you too David, so glad it was relevant to you!

    • @alnisawilson
      @alnisawilson 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You look nice 🥰😍

    • @jss.2020
      @jss.2020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger what if someone is not married but has children with someone else, is that a clear sign?

    • @EMichaelBall
      @EMichaelBall ปีที่แล้ว

      @Jerry S. You asked this a while ago, but I’ll answer, anyway: There’s nothing Biblical either way that I’m aware of, but from a red pill perspective, it’s not wise. Just YT search “never date a single mother”.

  • @Liftercode
    @Liftercode 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This video came in the right moment. I have a crush on a atheist, but i told her not to talk to me... But it really hurts.

    • @ogjhernandez2537
      @ogjhernandez2537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bring her into Jesus Christ 🙏💛

  • @jacqulinecurrie4489
    @jacqulinecurrie4489 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Thank you Jesus for loving me even though I am not worthy

  • @isaacj2914
    @isaacj2914 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Another pastor said - rather than being focused on finding the one, focus on becoming the 'one' for your future spouse. So true

  • @ginatriana1523
    @ginatriana1523 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Spot on. Thank you. I plead with anyone in a toxic relationship to tune in to God, respect Him and yourself by getting out now!

  • @lalayatem3758
    @lalayatem3758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    We are all fearfully , wonderfully made in the Image of God( psalm 139:14). God spent good time on each and every one of you!❤️

  • @DIDUKNOW7777
    @DIDUKNOW7777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    Anything that tempts us in an area that's not scriptural is not God's will for your life. It's really just that simple. If someone is intentionally tempting you sexually to fornicate before making a covenant of commitment in marriage, you know this isn't God's will for your life. Therefore, he or she is not the one. Why? Because they arrogantly put what they think is right in front of what God says is right. So who's right? Man or God? GOD OBVIOUSLY.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yes, we must follow the Lord always

    • @lordschannel.
      @lordschannel. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      AMEN AMEN AMEN. SO WELL EXPLAINED. 🙏

    • @naomidenisepinedaspirit-bo7955
      @naomidenisepinedaspirit-bo7955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      needed this.....

    • @Queenteethtapper
      @Queenteethtapper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right on !! Currently I went through a similar situation but thank God he pulled me out of a situation that was bringing my relationship with God down

    • @lordschannel.
      @lordschannel. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Queenteethtapper SAME HAS HAPPENED WITH ME DEAR SISTER. I WENT THRU SO MUCH STRUGGLES FEAR ANXIETY. ONLY GOD DELIVERED ME FULLY. 🙏

  • @nihilvance3558
    @nihilvance3558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I got scammed with a toxic friendship 4 times in a row now.
    And now, I must be super duper careful with any kind of relationship.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes, it's wise to learn from the past

    • @roberthowell2502
      @roberthowell2502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      B Anxious 4 Nothing!
      God will give confirmation and remember:
      God's Word=
      God's Will👍🛡️

    • @bnt7526
      @bnt7526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God is always there for you. When I realised that, boy! I'm super happy.

    • @MichaelFazio
      @MichaelFazio 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just found out it's a literal command to guard our hearts.

  • @biancayukkei
    @biancayukkei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Wow this was so timely and spoke to me. My ex recently reached out to me and although I shut it down right away, his simple text was enough to give me second thoughts and made me doubt if I had made a mistake in ending the relationship and if I let go of “the one” even though It happened months ago and I never had these doubts and thoughts until now - the enemy is really trying to confuse me! Praise God because this video reminded me of how ungodly the relationship was and really helped reaffirm my decision to stay away from him 🙏🏼

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amen Bianca! It's easy to look back and see things differently! But then God will help us see the truth again when we submit to him :)

    • @TAFProductions
      @TAFProductions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My crush is with a guy I know 8 years as much as I love her I would never do anything to make her doubt that I was the one.. because I love her.
      It's he's not the one for her I only pray to God that she will figure this out.

    • @franceshaggitt3104
      @franceshaggitt3104 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Are you ok now..

  • @eagle7757
    @eagle7757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16 KJV, Jesus Christ is the only way

  • @ladygood7384
    @ladygood7384 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you so much I’m single for long but what I believe God will connect me with a Good man, I’m a Christian who pray everyday, I know God loves me so much

  • @yontine
    @yontine ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I so needed this. This is confirmation on what I've been dealing with. God is not the author of confusion, so I don't need to continue to wonder in my head to cause my heart to become sick. Continue to keep me in prayer! Thank you for this.

  • @shellchristine4895
    @shellchristine4895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is my current relationship.....you just showed me that I’m really with the wrong one.....Thank you soooo much for this video

    • @joshyazel1200
      @joshyazel1200 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Did you ever end your relationship? The only reason I ask is women I know always say the same thing but never end them.

  • @erikaalisauskaite7697
    @erikaalisauskaite7697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    .. fleeing fornication helps save sound mind's clarity & avoid being tricked by devil...

  • @ericamalone3329
    @ericamalone3329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    6:29 Yes that's what the fruit of the spirit is! I thank God that everytime Im under attack by demonic people trying to get me to believe the One is somewhere in the shadows that its All a GAME. Thank you Lord for your discernment! In Jesus Mighty Name Amen

  • @msgigi5441
    @msgigi5441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much Mark! I needed this. It’s confirmation for me and so I’ve already l stopped all communication. I’m obedient. I’m not ashamed for putting this out here as I know I’m not the only one. It’s life and why we go to our Father for guidance. Thank you God for answering my prayers on this. Thank you Mark god delivering this message. May God continue to bless you and deliver his word. 💐🙏🏽🎶

  • @sarapynbiangmarwein7860
    @sarapynbiangmarwein7860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Brother Mark thank you so much. I am presently seeing someone and things are progressing fast in a way that we both have been introduced to each other's family. And today this video came up. I need prayer support....

  • @karismccann1984
    @karismccann1984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    WOW ! thank God none of these apply. i was praying about this last night. i felt like i was following what the devil wanted for me rather than God. i really think my bf is who God has for me. i can see us in the future in ministry together and i am just so excited for it. thank you mark :)

  • @dncprncss
    @dncprncss ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Getting lots of good conviction and wisdom by this video! It’s confirmation on what God was already saying to me.

  • @Hopitopter
    @Hopitopter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    WoW !!!! This called out all my red flags. THANK YOU.

  • @prettyfemme
    @prettyfemme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I've been with my partner for a little over a year now and I've been putting up with his verbal and emotional and mental abuse for quite some time now. Thank u. I truly thought he was the one. Now. I dont know anymore.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      If there is abuse in dating it will only get worse in marriage, much worse

    • @Starberzt482
      @Starberzt482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He’s not the one .

    • @sharonmitchell4186
      @sharonmitchell4186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have been in abusive relationship before about a year now I had prayed to God God showed me he wasn't the one.. he still wants to talk but I pushed him away now I'm doing better now.. you can to. Just pray to God he would help you he helped me

    • @amberparedes875
      @amberparedes875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He probably is a narcissist and they are filled with an evil spirit. I was with one and know first hand about emotional, verbal and mental abuse. These awful people never loved you from the beginning...it's Satan who is in them and wants to attack you. There are many videos about this.

    • @TAFProductions
      @TAFProductions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@amberparedes875 I love that there are women that think that way ... You are queen's and you deserve Kings!!!!!

  • @sharonmitchell4186
    @sharonmitchell4186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you Mark your ministry has been great to me.. pray for me so I can find the right one that God has plan for me..

  • @jacobochieng7621
    @jacobochieng7621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks Pastor Mark for the revelation. The "debatable signs" is one have been battling with.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen Jacob, focus on the word of God most of all and pay attention to the actual events in life rather than just feelings and hopes in us

  • @tarynvairl8858
    @tarynvairl8858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is all the clarity I needed

  • @kristyanongmusikero1811
    @kristyanongmusikero1811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you Mark, God bless your ministry and your family!

  • @jamiejensen4287
    @jamiejensen4287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Mark. This was life changing.

  • @ancoisnaude4087
    @ancoisnaude4087 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you, will look out for the sighns, God always protect His children

  • @kombat7426
    @kombat7426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Are you reading my mind god bless you and this channel

  • @mr.abijah
    @mr.abijah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Last night I had a dream so this is perfect.

  • @kimbae11
    @kimbae11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you! God Bless you! When I was listening to an revival tonight while on the phone with my boyfriend, I yelled out that I want God to bring everything new into my life. And my boyfriend hung up and texted that he hopes all of my wishes comes through.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Keep trusting the Lord and putting him first, his plan is better than ours!

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your not a girlfriend, your a wife. If he's not being intentional. Moving towards marriage, you must walk away.

    • @kimbae11
      @kimbae11 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@danilaroche1156 Thank God I’m no longer with him

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kimbae11 Exactly. My ex pretended to love me and the Lord so he could try to get me into sexual sin. It didn't work. The enemy is upping the ante. Be cautious.

  • @EricaLaBelleTV
    @EricaLaBelleTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great video, I learnt so much, thank you so much however I’d also like to add that it’s not always that straight forward, there are times when God wants two people together but spiritual forces throw some of what you mentioned at them as attach to keep them apart.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      true, relationships are messy but sometimes they are just not meant to be too :) We all have to walk with God and be humble to hear :)

  • @mardkhar3261
    @mardkhar3261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you. And yes I have been in a certain relation and I thank God by his knowledge and wisdom he gave me, I'm free from the person. I have no choice but divorce. Do remember me people of God in your Prayer. May God contd to bless you and your ministry in Jesus name Amen

  • @daft_j
    @daft_j 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Growing into a relationship with someone I’ve been friends for a while, but recently dreamt of letting go of a guy who broke my heart years ago.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      God bless as you keep seeking the Lord and following him through all this

    • @graceibelegbu189
      @graceibelegbu189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The dream signifies the need to completely let go.
      So you can move on

    • @daft_j
      @daft_j 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@graceibelegbu189 In that dream, I told that guy that we can’t be together because there was too much damage to repair. There’s so much more that went on, which broke my heart like no one else. At the same time, I no longer want that guy in my life. I learned to cope with trauma and ended up happier without him. I also needed to resolve some unaddressed fears for the person I currently like

    • @graceibelegbu189
      @graceibelegbu189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@daft_j , sounds so much like my case.
      Too much damage that my heart couldn't bear, because I'm human.
      Though I kept seeing in the dream that the guy isn't bad in the core.
      But I just decided to go for a new person.

    • @blasiomuhinda5913
      @blasiomuhinda5913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@graceibelegbu189 I wonder why we as humans always want to seek new people. Is it so bad to just stay alone? If that is what God desires for us at a certain stage? Too many people are jumping from relationship to relationship.

  • @anniesjourney4303
    @anniesjourney4303 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for showing me signs although its hard for me to digest and painful ....but the pain I feel today cant compare to the joy that is coming tomorrow amen Hallelujah! !

  • @kareli1143
    @kareli1143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    GREAT message brother !✝️ Thanks ☺️ Blessings for you and your family

  • @tanyasemaan2847
    @tanyasemaan2847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome blessed content Mark. Amazing how The Lord has used you with this ministry. Praise God.

  • @camuyana
    @camuyana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I forced myself to be with this person because of the love that I had which was very blind and stayed for 42 years and took all sorts of abuse including several adulterous behaviors but not anymore I'm breaking loose and in a few months I will be filing for divorce. now I realize that God does not want me in a relationship where I am constantly worried if he will be unfaithful to me. this video really helped me out to realize that.

  • @user-oc6kh6ts8s
    @user-oc6kh6ts8s 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you kindly for this video!
    God bless you!
    Praise The Lord for all His care!

  • @Elizabeth84517
    @Elizabeth84517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you. I needed to hear this today. It was spot on.

  • @meerubyvue1148
    @meerubyvue1148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It true! I had been tricked 10 years ago with my ex-boyfriend. I thought he was the one who is my true love, but at the end I know he doesn't love me as I thought. I decided to walk away after 10 years. I wasted my 10 years with him without loved. It was tricked by Satan. Now, I found myself trueself from God..and I am still waiting for God to bless me with a true love from the Lord. Satan sometime tried to tricked you fall into trap. Thank you for the video... God bless!

  • @safeesayvon7793
    @safeesayvon7793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    2 years now after my 1st break up, I am still single. Still am in touch with my ex, but i just don't have those strong feelings towards him anymore. I do want to get married and have a family but i am still not sure who is the person i will share my life with. Already in my late twenties. Please pray for us who are still in a confused state🙏🙏

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes, the one is rarely an ex. For others you won't know who is the one until you have more relationship experiences with them in dating. God bless!

    • @ismael1559
      @ismael1559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      “As for me and my house we will serve the lord”

  • @reynaro2496
    @reynaro2496 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Amen🙏🏼 let God takes us to his Love. God bless you 🥰

  • @ndifrekeetukudo9226
    @ndifrekeetukudo9226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I need your prayers I was in this kind of relationship for years, I finally got to break up but now after eight months I can't love anyone else.

  • @PikaPika9262
    @PikaPika9262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video definitely cleared somethings up for me about an ex of mine, thank you for posting this.

  • @DeanneSER
    @DeanneSER 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    TIMELY! Thank you!

  • @DanaeLaurenTolbert1
    @DanaeLaurenTolbert1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am so glad you did this. Because too many people are saying these men who got married were disobedient. What? Too many women are saying this. No you heard wrong. That's what happened to me. I projected my idolatry for marriage on this person. Until the dreams started to occur proving opposite with scripture. God said, "No."

  • @natashamiddlebrooks9561
    @natashamiddlebrooks9561 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was helpful for me Brother Mark! God bless!

  • @jessicaa92215
    @jessicaa92215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us.

  • @paul_333
    @paul_333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much Mark for being inspired by the Holy Spirit to speak to me and so many of us.

  • @kristinekristine4088
    @kristinekristine4088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Mark..Start my day with this video.God Bless.from Hongkong with❤

  • @rayashleigh494
    @rayashleigh494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I needed to hear this ❤️

  • @lapatriciapato
    @lapatriciapato 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Great video. I wish I could have seen it years before I married my emotionally abusive husband. I’ve endured so many years and I’m so tired. It’s so draining. We’re separated now, heading towards divorce.
    Do you have any videos on divorcing abusive spouses? Or any on divorce and remarriage?

  • @jeskahaley9616
    @jeskahaley9616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is a really really good one!!

  • @MissHeidi-lc3ti
    @MissHeidi-lc3ti 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Let go and let God intervene

  • @katyk6912
    @katyk6912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m not religious, I’m not even Christian actually, I’m born to a Jewish family but we are not religious therefore don’t pray.
    But I am in a weird and struggling situation with a man who is older than me, the situation with him made me feel hopeless and very very low, I would cry everyday for a month because of the man. My only solution was to pray, in my bed, late at night. I would close my eyes and desperately with my all heart ask god, and my angels to help me, to give me signs, to remove this relationship if it’s not meant for me.
    It has been a few days, and this channels videos started to being recommended to me on TH-cam. I have never searched for anything of that sort, but those videos kept showing up on my front page. I believe it’s a sign from god.
    These days, I had a fight with this man and he was acting very ugly towards me, I finally realized his true colors. As if something suddenly made sense.
    I started feeling negativity from him, and these days I decided I would block him from my life and move on.
    I also noticed, god made it easier for me to move on finally, he helped me to see this mans true colors, which I am very grateful.
    I am hurting, but atleast now I know this man is not perfect as I’ve been blinded all this time.
    Thank you god.

  • @goldenmerry3731
    @goldenmerry3731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    God bless you!

  • @planetg5499
    @planetg5499 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really thank you for doing these I haven't come across any content like yours and God bless you because I have questioned myself so many times even though I knew that I was abused. This type of information is so mundane and so crucial since we all are living real lives. Not many people either believe these or even though they have the information they use it to make their own lives better and share such knowledge to very little. You have no idea how much you have helped. Thank you!

  • @ft-decenadanamay5084
    @ft-decenadanamay5084 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Grabe ang galing same na same kami ng feeelings and experiance God bless for this videooo keeep it uppp🙌🙏👍👏

  • @sarahwashington00
    @sarahwashington00 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is pure blessing I NEEDED that

  • @nky88nscfl
    @nky88nscfl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you god for this message!!

  • @julianamac4217
    @julianamac4217 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you, I so wanted clarity on this topic.

  • @amyjjewel
    @amyjjewel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Needed this 🤍🤍

  • @FronaldChettiar
    @FronaldChettiar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't know if this is a coincidence or not but someone had just texted me the verses Galatians 5:24 - 25. It was about the time I started this video and the video does speak about verses from Galatians 5:19 - 23.
    God, I pray unto you. Bless me father and annoint me with your word so that I can always walk on the path you've chosen for me.

  • @pamelabrigham5605
    @pamelabrigham5605 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SO GLAD THE LORD TAKES THE WHEEL EVERYTIME AND SETS US FREE AND BACK TO WHERE WE BELONG WHEN WE NEVER FORSAKE HIM HOWEVER DEVISTATING THE SEPARATION MAY BE AT FIRST IT'S DIFFICULT AT TIMES TO FIND THE TRUTH AND TRUE BALANCE OF LOVING AND ESTEEMING OTHERS BEFORE YOURSELF

  • @lordschannel.
    @lordschannel. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    GOD BLESS YOU SO MUCH BRO 🙏
    ALL GLORY BE TO JESUS.❤️

  • @youtubearepussys7530
    @youtubearepussys7530 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can be a bit of a cynic but these vids help keep that under control. Thanks Batman.

  • @addanotheraccount2614
    @addanotheraccount2614 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is really a good one.

  • @sarapalin4137
    @sarapalin4137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks for sharing this mark. My sister is in a relationship my family and I don’t agree with. This man is using her and they had dated for 3 months and he had broke it off and was with someone for a while and then they became friends quote unquote. So now they have decided to move in together and are looking for a place. He told her that he had only seen her as a sister or friend and once she told him that she couldn’t remain just friends because she loved him only then did he claim to love her back and also told her that he wasn’t attracted to her initially because of her weight. But now can look past that. Please pray for me and my family. This is very difficult.

  • @mercynivah2928
    @mercynivah2928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wish i had such a video in 2017, it would have saved me from a lot of pain and heartache

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We just need to pay attention to the Holy Spirit more. We don't need to have a video tell us what we already know. We just choose to ignore what we know. Because we feel like we have to have that person.

    • @mercynivah2928
      @mercynivah2928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ladennayoung2939 very true. 💯

  • @mercygraceful4924
    @mercygraceful4924 ปีที่แล้ว

    Respect and Praise to the most high for Calling out verbal, physical or emotional abuse.
    The world and religion has misguided others and they themselves have been mislead.

  • @SimplyLivingInFaith
    @SimplyLivingInFaith 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank You for this!!

  • @agnezahegyi508
    @agnezahegyi508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you!this video was helpful.

  • @watchmanstella1197
    @watchmanstella1197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was asking God to give me a sign yesterday n u know what I got it now......
    TNK u GOD JESUS YESHUA
    N happy new year to all my dear brothers n sisters in Christ.
    God bless
    Amen

  • @daniellamantia7324
    @daniellamantia7324 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for your relationship advice God bless you

  • @SandraLily2
    @SandraLily2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    First, thank you to my Lord and Savior, Jesus, for directing me to this ministry.
    Second, thank you Mark for giving me the biblical perspective I have been so desperately looking for. I have had passive suicidal depression for at least 9 months now, after leaving a 10 year marriage to my "soul mate" whom I painfully discovered to be a narcissistic abuser. Your videos quite literally have saved my life. God bless you and again, thank you from the bottom of my (now mending 😄, broken) heart.

  • @rich6402
    @rich6402 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this video!

  • @akd8532
    @akd8532 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think that sometimes the "one" can also be a person who is stuck in a toxic cycle with another person and may actually marry that person in spite of the level of toxicity that is present because children are involved. I think in this event, it would be better to focus on "your" walk with God and pray about it. Sometimes, that person is still your person, but they and you just aren't ready for each other yet. I know this because this was me. I thought I had to deny my own heart instead of choose it, get away from that abusive person, and heal so I would be a healthy version of myself in my walk with God. for my kids as well as the both of us.

  • @angeldotcrick3554
    @angeldotcrick3554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you. Thank you

  • @LiFE-ETERNAL
    @LiFE-ETERNAL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Super timely lol