Hi Junaid, I occasionally watch your videos starting from your khalli walli bedroom videos from UAE. The amount of maturity your videos show now is astounding and commendable.
I watched full video, and appreciated how you gave him suggestions I found what else he should do ...... I think he must be patience. Ku k maa baap is age me ese hojaty hn. R ye bohat km time k liye hmare pas hn. Bs unse mohabbt s pesh ae. Bht ehsan kre. Uff tk na kahe. Chirhne k bjae mhbt s bt kre r piyar s smjhae. R unk sath time spend kre. Yes, job me dono husband wife bz hn jiski wjh s inhe b time nh milta Hoga to spend quality time. R parents b isolated feel krty hn. R father specially seems like in a little complexity and psychological issues because of the environment and circle change. Female to ghr pr hi rehti ai hn. Jbhi mother k liye itna issue nh. But father ko bahir wo mahol nh mil rha jisk wo use to rhy hn. Is situation me in dono husband wife ko specially husband ko apne father, mother r bacho k sath bhr park m jaen logon s unki dosti krwaen. Kch r Pakistaniyo k parents s ink interaction krwaden. Inki help krden. Ye na assume krlen k aba khud sb kren. Sometimes our parents also need guidance. Unki help krden. R uns ye expect na kren k wo apk ghr k Kam kren ya bchon ko smbhale . Ya blkl ESA LG rha wo ego issue bnalia h father ne. R ye bht normal h is age m.. wo bs khud ko tasalli dila rhy hn k mene b to iski prwarish ki h bchpn s lekr aj tk. Ab isk time h kr rha h to mjhe koi ehsan k bojh taly nh dbna. R jbhi proud r showoff krty. Jese mene koi ehsan nh Lia hua. Mera beta hi hai. R ab iski bari h krne ki. Allah ne b kaha maa baap k sath ehsan kro ehsan. Han mushkil h. But bht ajar h bht be inteha. I knw hum bht practically soch rhy hn r goro ko idealize kr rhy hn k wo thk krty. But Allah ne kch bhtr soch kr hi ye bt kahi h. Anyways, he must spend time with parents. Kch time k liye sath beth kr baten kren. Uns unk khof door krwae. Uns puchy k wo kia chahty r phr apni bt rkhy Pyr r ehtram s. Bht ajzi s. R Kam blkl expect na kre father s k wo kren. Wo baap bht proud hokr reh rhy hn bety k ghr m. Unk ya maan na tootne den. Unhe glfakhar h k mene is bchy ko itna prhaya likhaya r aj ye Mera beta hai Jo mjhe yhn le aya. Wo bht proud hn apne bchy pr r Dil s bht mutmain b. Bs hmare waldain ko apni feelings express krna nh ata r wo is trh ki harkaten krne lgty hn. Bs unhe AP maturity k sath smjhen. R let it go Wala muamla rkhty jaen.. dekhna wo khud bhtri ki trf ajaenge. R unse unk dar malum kren k wo kia chz s dety ya preshan ho rhy yehn. Q k ab wo slowly old age and death k qreeb ja rhy to ye Ek alag trh ki frustration hai. Hum to Dunia me magan Lekin unho ne sb krlia r ab moat k wait kr rhy. AP khud sochen ese time p insan ki kia feelings Hoti houngi??? K ab bs mRNA reh gya h Mera??? Unhe khd s AP Kisi productive activities m lga den. Specially phly unk dost bnwa den yehn pr. Unk sath language barrier b arha Hoga. Jis wjh s wo bhr b adjust nh ho pa rhy hounge. Jbhi blkl esi situation bn Gai ha. Allah apk muamlat asan kren. Lekin Jo b Bhai hn. AP AP d ghr walon r bchon s apne baba ki bht respect krwaen r mhbbt den. Ehmiyt den. R akele m baba ko smjhaya kren. Yqeenan wo bt smjhnge
What about the child? They are probably building their lives. And have to do things at certain times to make it in life. Also while they are young, they might want to go on trips and grow their intimate relationship with spouse but thats not gonna happen with parents who constantly create stress in the house. finally, unless you are absolutely paralized and bedridden, you should be able to work a job in the west, be it truck driving, uber, security, etc. Its not much money but it creates an ego boost and for the sake of one's self respect. And in turn the child doesn't feel burdened with household costs all the time when the older working parent brings home a few groceries without having to be told. I speak from experience, my dad is a working able bodied person who i got to come and live with us in my house (i say my because i had 0 support from parents financially) and he made more money than me but he never even brought some roti or gosht ever. his money went to his family. I wasn't charging rent or anything and didn't need the money either. But never a day went by where we were expected to feed him, do his laundry and take care of him. When asked about what the plan was to move the family to all live in the same city, or about selling their house, only excuses. Plus there were the tantrums of how so and so (rando family friend or relative) send their parents money so i should do the same. I would've send it if i got treated the same as my brother. My brother gets all the luxuries while abusing, cursing, etc. And they present him as good and me as bad to everyond.
I advise him to send his father back to Pakistan for few days alone or you should take him for visit every week where old people come for fitness sessions.
Agreed what Junaid Bhai discussed, defiantly need some type of activities, I would humbly add that you spend a day every week or at least few hours with Tableghee Jamaat then after few weeks have him join with you hope it will help.
Too many desi patterns expect their kids to be their retirement plan. And some husband take it upon themselves to provide all to their parents at the cost of their marriage, kids, etc. these parenrs will take and take.
Definitely seems like psychological problem. Take him to a therapist I can understand it will be a challenge. There are other ways too like remote therapy session
Ab samaj aya ka kom ka asa halat kue han. Chayee imran khan prime minister be que na ban gaye, kom ka kuch ni ho sakta, Kue ka awam he jahil hy. 1 video yaad hy, itnee saree videos ma inta kuch Bhai na samajaya hy vo yaad ni hy
@@MuhammadUzairShoukat Imran Khan aur PTI ka tou tazkira hi nhi kiya mainy. Moujuda Goverment ki policies sy mulk mazeed crisis my jaa rha hai aur is waqt inki promotion krna ghlt hai. Puray mulk ky haalat aik taraf aur Punjab mei 2 metro 4 sarky banany ko aap sai kehty hain
Hi Junaid, I occasionally watch your videos starting from your khalli walli bedroom videos from UAE. The amount of maturity your videos show now is astounding and commendable.
I watched full video, and appreciated how you gave him suggestions I found what else he should do ...... I think he must be patience. Ku k maa baap is age me ese hojaty hn. R ye bohat km time k liye hmare pas hn. Bs unse mohabbt s pesh ae. Bht ehsan kre. Uff tk na kahe. Chirhne k bjae mhbt s bt kre r piyar s smjhae. R unk sath time spend kre. Yes, job me dono husband wife bz hn jiski wjh s inhe b time nh milta Hoga to spend quality time. R parents b isolated feel krty hn. R father specially seems like in a little complexity and psychological issues because of the environment and circle change. Female to ghr pr hi rehti ai hn. Jbhi mother k liye itna issue nh. But father ko bahir wo mahol nh mil rha jisk wo use to rhy hn. Is situation me in dono husband wife ko specially husband ko apne father, mother r bacho k sath bhr park m jaen logon s unki dosti krwaen. Kch r Pakistaniyo k parents s ink interaction krwaden. Inki help krden. Ye na assume krlen k aba khud sb kren. Sometimes our parents also need guidance. Unki help krden. R uns ye expect na kren k wo apk ghr k Kam kren ya bchon ko smbhale . Ya blkl ESA LG rha wo ego issue bnalia h father ne. R ye bht normal h is age m.. wo bs khud ko tasalli dila rhy hn k mene b to iski prwarish ki h bchpn s lekr aj tk. Ab isk time h kr rha h to mjhe koi ehsan k bojh taly nh dbna. R jbhi proud r showoff krty. Jese mene koi ehsan nh Lia hua. Mera beta hi hai. R ab iski bari h krne ki. Allah ne b kaha maa baap k sath ehsan kro ehsan. Han mushkil h. But bht ajar h bht be inteha. I knw hum bht practically soch rhy hn r goro ko idealize kr rhy hn k wo thk krty. But Allah ne kch bhtr soch kr hi ye bt kahi h. Anyways, he must spend time with parents. Kch time k liye sath beth kr baten kren. Uns unk khof door krwae. Uns puchy k wo kia chahty r phr apni bt rkhy Pyr r ehtram s. Bht ajzi s. R Kam blkl expect na kre father s k wo kren. Wo baap bht proud hokr reh rhy hn bety k ghr m. Unk ya maan na tootne den. Unhe glfakhar h k mene is bchy ko itna prhaya likhaya r aj ye Mera beta hai Jo mjhe yhn le aya. Wo bht proud hn apne bchy pr r Dil s bht mutmain b. Bs hmare waldain ko apni feelings express krna nh ata r wo is trh ki harkaten krne lgty hn. Bs unhe AP maturity k sath smjhen. R let it go Wala muamla rkhty jaen.. dekhna wo khud bhtri ki trf ajaenge. R unse unk dar malum kren k wo kia chz s dety ya preshan ho rhy yehn. Q k ab wo slowly old age and death k qreeb ja rhy to ye Ek alag trh ki frustration hai. Hum to Dunia me magan Lekin unho ne sb krlia r ab moat k wait kr rhy. AP khud sochen ese time p insan ki kia feelings Hoti houngi??? K ab bs mRNA reh gya h Mera??? Unhe khd s AP Kisi productive activities m lga den. Specially phly unk dost bnwa den yehn pr. Unk sath language barrier b arha Hoga. Jis wjh s wo bhr b adjust nh ho pa rhy hounge. Jbhi blkl esi situation bn Gai ha. Allah apk muamlat asan kren. Lekin Jo b Bhai hn. AP AP d ghr walon r bchon s apne baba ki bht respect krwaen r mhbbt den. Ehmiyt den. R akele m baba ko smjhaya kren. Yqeenan wo bt smjhnge
Exactly 💯
Mashallah!
Impressive Perspective
What about the child? They are probably building their lives. And have to do things at certain times to make it in life. Also while they are young, they might want to go on trips and grow their intimate relationship with spouse but thats not gonna happen with parents who constantly create stress in the house. finally, unless you are absolutely paralized and bedridden, you should be able to work a job in the west, be it truck driving, uber, security, etc. Its not much money but it creates an ego boost and for the sake of one's self respect. And in turn the child doesn't feel burdened with household costs all the time when the older working parent brings home a few groceries without having to be told. I speak from experience, my dad is a working able bodied person who i got to come and live with us in my house (i say my because i had 0 support from parents financially) and he made more money than me but he never even brought some roti or gosht ever. his money went to his family. I wasn't charging rent or anything and didn't need the money either. But never a day went by where we were expected to feed him, do his laundry and take care of him. When asked about what the plan was to move the family to all live in the same city, or about selling their house, only excuses. Plus there were the tantrums of how so and so (rando family friend or relative) send their parents money so i should do the same. I would've send it if i got treated the same as my brother. My brother gets all the luxuries while abusing, cursing, etc. And they present him as good and me as bad to everyond.
@asadb1990 they are again our responsibility in any condition, but definitely, they should also value your efforts and support you.
I guess father is watching tiktok daily that is seriously an addiction. Cut off internet he will work for time pass
My father watches tiktok daily
@a907174 Yes, tiktok is a plague
I agree with you 13:00
I advise him to send his father back to Pakistan for few days alone or you should take him for visit every week where old people come for fitness sessions.
When will new askganjiswag come ???
Agreed what Junaid Bhai discussed, defiantly need some type of activities, I would humbly add that you spend a day every week or at least few hours with Tableghee Jamaat then after few weeks have him join with you hope it will help.
Bhai, yeh paid vlog hai ?
Ya Shahzad gias will tell us
I would say one of the best responses to a question... literally. Men live miserable lives because of labeling and tackling responsibilities. 22:00
Too many desi patterns expect their kids to be their retirement plan. And some husband take it upon themselves to provide all to their parents at the cost of their marriage, kids, etc. these parenrs will take and take.
Definitely seems like psychological problem. Take him to a therapist I can understand it will be a challenge. There are other ways too like remote therapy session
You know when you say supervisa, it gives away the country
And insurance cost too
Sounds like canada to me. Only canadians are lately ashamed to mention country. If it was europe or usa, they would've happily mentioned the name.
Make a video on 2 and haft years completion of Army Government 😮
Bhai ask ganjiswag per video kub aaigee ?????
Mr.junaid you are right...but I think if he can afford ,I suggest to send back both of his parents to pakistan and arrange a house help..
Check thyroid levels of his father? He might have depression due to hypothyroidism.
His father has some psychological issues my father did had same issues and in the end he had tumor
Lota of government...😂
Tackle ab tere jaise log awam ko guide kare 😂😂😂
TU krde phir imrandu
Hah. Goverment sai rishwat kha kr un ki tareef krnay wala patwari💼⛓💰
Ab samaj aya ka kom ka asa halat kue han.
Chayee imran khan prime minister be que na ban gaye, kom ka kuch ni ho sakta,
Kue ka awam he jahil hy.
1 video yaad hy, itnee saree videos ma inta kuch Bhai na samajaya hy vo yaad ni hy
Or patwari patwari hota hy, chayee imran khan ka he que na ho.
Ap ko sai ko sai or galat ko galat khana chia
@@MuhammadUzairShoukat Imran Khan aur PTI ka tou tazkira hi nhi kiya mainy. Moujuda Goverment ki policies sy mulk mazeed crisis my jaa rha hai aur is waqt inki promotion krna ghlt hai. Puray mulk ky haalat aik taraf aur Punjab mei 2 metro 4 sarky banany ko aap sai kehty hain