sadly i adopted a cat from someone who didn’t get her spayed, or dewormed and she had fleas. but i’ve had her for two weeks and we got rid of the fleas and we are almost done deworming her next month. then i will get her spayed.
@Avdrxiy by doing that she just supported that "breeder". And please when you encounter situations like this educate the breeders and tell them to neuter their cats
The previous owner sounds so problematic/irresponsible. Did not spay/neuter cats, let kittens roam around & get fleas, says the kitten isn't "cute". Wth. That kitten is cute AF.
He’s actually not a bad owner of cats. Letting kittens roam sound is very very important at a young age. They need to learn. Fleas are common in literally every kitten my cat had fleas too do your research you aren’t allowed to keep animals unless you have a contract that you can breed so unless he didn’t have a contract it’s just fine
lil helpful tip here ! if you are adopting a new pet, try buying a medicine syringe for your pet and every few days or so fill the syringe with something like a treat (i use mashed bananas for my rabbit) so if your pet ever needs medication from a syringe, they won't try to avoid it because they'll associate the syringe with treats :) hope this helps (ty for 2.5k!)
Tip about the scratching, next time you see her scratching on furniture, pick her up and bring her to her cat scratcher, then move her paws up and down the scratcher to simulate her scratching it, it worked wonders on my kitten when I got the idea!
💥I find it interesting that most people care for animals (somewhat instinctively). Some people even have complete knowledge of animals’ needs - zoologists and veterinarians are great examples. Man, this is proof that God exists.❤️😌 God gave each of us the authority to “rule over”/take care of His creations…
And give her enough opportunity's to scratch on. We have a cat tree, 2 scratching boards, 2 mini scratching trees and a big climbing and scratching pipe
Tip from a person that's raised 15 kittens: Do not introduce your kitten into a large space in your home immediately. Isolate your kitten in a small room like a bathroom so it can feel 'safe' and less overwhelmed, and allow them to WANT to explore. Edit: I should mention, you dont just leave the cat in there alone! Spend as much time in there as possible. Eat on the floor, read, play switch, whatever. If you have another room that is also small, like a small bedroom, this is also good. But bathrooms are usually the perfect size.
I didn't look for a cat, my cat looked for me. I found this little kitten abandoned and scared in a street in the city centre, a black tiny cat in a dark night. I asked him 'what are you doing here on your own?', he jumped on my shoulder and came home with me! He's almost 20yo now, my best friend, my son with a tail, my biggest love!
@kutlwikutlwano hi kutlw, my cat says thank you! He's old now, doesn't run or play anymore, but he still loves a cuddle, good food and sleeping in our bed! I found him in December 2001 when he was 2 months old, so he'll be 20yo this coming October! 😻
This is a tip for future cute kitten owners when u want to bathe them, grab them with a flannel or small towel so they dont scratch you and instead of putting them directly under the tap, use a cup and pour water slowly on them, make it as relaxing as possible and go slowly, they will panic but the more calm you are the clamer they will get 🙏 ❤️
I could be wrong but also if you're doing the bath specifically for fleas vinegar is a really good option. Fleas can hold their breath underwater but the vinegar is very good at killing them.
@@marcelinevanmeter3173I’m not sure if this works as well but when me and my mom de-flea our cats, she fills up a small bowl with some water and some dish soap. when we put the fleas in the bowl, they’d stop moving in a matter of seconds, and you can see some red coming out of them so I’m not sure 🤷🏽♀️
As someone who never bathe their kitten before his rabies vaccine because me and my family are terrified of him scratching us like he scratched me in October and it’s April now and it’s a permanent scar now because he’s ten billion times more unpredictable than my last cat basically he goes to the spa every time he needs bath another tip is don’t get a kitten with my kittens personality if you’re a first time kitten owner
Adding onto this, make sure you only bathe your kitten (or cat) if you really NEED to. E.g if they have fleas, aren’t cleaning themselves properly (only usually happens with old or really ill cats), etc. They’re very good at keeping themselves clean and bathing them with water too much is actually bad for them. If you’re not sure talk to a vet! :)
Pro tips from someone who lived her entire life with cats: - NEVER such bleach on a space where you cat peed, specially on spaces where you don’t want them to pee again because they love the smell of bleach, use sanytol instead - teach them to go into their “cage” to go to the vet while they’re kittens by leaving their comfort items in it ( blankets, toys, catnip etc.. ) so you don’t struggle once you have to put them in - put just a little tiny bit of catnip or bleach into their litter box when they’re little to teach them to pee in it - get them used to have your finger in their mouth so you don’t struggle with giving them meds ( life changing I swear ) - also this is basic but PLEASE RESPECT THEIR BOUNDARIES, if you cat doesn’t want cuddles, let them be, if they wanna be alone let. Them. Be.
thank you!!! im getting my cat soon so thanks for these tips. do you have anymore tips also can i teach my cat to go outside and do his buisness bcs my dad said he cant do his buisness in the house but if im willing to teach him to go outside i can get one so do you have any tips
@@sw4nhearts cats usually pee after playtime, after waking up and after eating. I'd say just take them outside during these times, that's how I taught my cat anyway. They should start picking up on it soon, just make sure they're able to go outside by themselves (cat door) and you should be good to go. Hope this helped.
Quick tip about bleach. Pee has ammonia in it, and when bleach and ammonia mix it can make a toxic gas called mustard gas. So never clean up pee with bleach, and please do not put bleach in the littler box where you intend for your cat to pee. Sincerely, someone who has owned both cats and dogs and has had to clean up far too much pee in her lifetime. 😂
Quick tip for bathing! When you have to bathe a kitten, you should introduce them to all of the materials you will use. Also, before you let the kitten into the bathroom, have the faucet already running with warm water so they aren’t startled and turn into panic/survival mode when they hear it turn on. Let the kitten play with the water, and then slowly and soothingly bather them, using soft coos and words help. If you’re lucky, the kitten will actually stay calm in your hands, if not, they still will express their dislike for the bath, but they will be much less stressed and make things easier for both the kitty and the owner!
You can also put a towel in the tub since they start to panic when they're on a surface that they can't cling to. Also, if you don't want fleas to wander to the head, you should start washing the neck to make this "barrier" so they can't wander.(the kittenlady has a video on this)
I understand giving a bath to a kitten once but after that you shouldn’t bathe cats. They clean themselves regularly and their saliva helps them distribute normal body waxes and sebos
"She owns me more than I own her" - welcome your training is complete. You are now an official cat person. Thank you for learning this universal number one truth all cat people know.
@@kme3894 i hope this joke i have a cat if know how to care abt them feed and if being bad blow in ther face little bit and point out what its doing wrong
my cat has only scratched me once which was because whatever on the tv scared the crap out of her and she was laying on my lap. I have learned hands are for petting not play. (Use toys instead) Ps. my cat is 6 years old :3
even tho I agree to that, my mom actually bought a cat bed thinking that they wouldn't even give it a try. they do use it, which was mind blowing to me. it depends on the bed I think
Depends on the cat really - our cats have multiple sleeping spots all around the house - some of them are fancy cat beds and some of them are Amazon boxes
actually my cat loves her donut shaped bed, I put it on my bed and she likes to sleep there at night. And I paid it only 15 euros, washed it and disinfected it and it's amazing!
I highly recommend getting 2 kittens together! We previously adopted a single female kitten and we encountered a lot of the problems you did as well. The second time around, we adopted 2 kittens from the same litter and they keep each other company and get a lot of their energy out by playing with each other! They've learned that biting and scratching hurts each other so they rarely scratch or bite us :)
I really want to adopt from my local humane society, but I'm not sure if there are any littermates available. Is it okay to adopt two same-age kittens together from different litters?
@@aster5600 yes, I would double check with the adoption counselor at your locale humane society but I think if they are the same age and are kittens, it should be ok for the most part. There will probably be an adjustment period for them to get used to each other like @girls_abroad mentioned. Good luck with everything!
@Avdrxiy yes I know what you mean. I used to be hesitant to get two because it would cost more for food and supplies but I found that the benefit really outweighs the additional cost and some supplies can be shared between both cats. My two cats keep each other company, play with each other, and learn from each other (one of my boys is braver than the other and I think my one cat would not be as brave if not for his brother!). It's especially helpful if someone is not home all the time so they have each other to spend time with. Whether you and your family end up adopting the two kittens or two cats who are siblings, best of luck with your adoption journey
Unsolicited advice about scratching and biting lol: kittens learn from other cats (mothers and siblings) what is too rough when playing. They learn this because when they're too rough playing the other cat will cry and stop playing. So, if you have one kitten and it's being rough, even if it doesn't hurt right now (it will later lol) you should let out a high pitched sort of Yelp noise if it is being too rough and hurting or puts out it's claws too much. Don't pull your hand away because that could be seen as play. Just Yelp and usually it'll startle the kitten to stop. Then remove your hand and temporarily stop the play. Be consistent and your kitten will learn :)
Kalei Suzuki usually it’s best to get littermates or 2 solo kittens that may have been fostered together!! otherwise you can’t guarantee that the kittens will get along as well, although many kittens the same age are playful and can learn to like eachother! i would say wait until you can find a pair of littermates bc it will def be worth it🥰
Not only is this video great but the comments are a wealth of information. Thank you and everyone who has contributed tips in the comments! I may be getting one or two kittens tomorrow and I've never owned a cat in my life.
@@lyss2divine It has been amazing! I decided to get 2 kittens and they have grown so much in these last 6 months. They have their own personalities and there is never a dull moment. My biggest tip is just be gentle in everything it goes a long way. I can't imagine my life without these crazy cats!
Additional tips for others. If she had fleas, should’ve given her a bath first thing you brought her home. Then let her acclimate to a confined space such as the bathroom or bedroom before introducing her to the entire house. Cats aren’t like dogs, they feel more secure the longer they stay in a space.
i gave mine a dawn dish soap bath the first day he got home (we combed and found fleas) and he was so freaked out he pooped in the sink TT but the next day we brought him to the vet to have this flea treatment dripped down his spine, solved the problem, so easy
Yeah. My kitten was full of fleas and first I applied some Frontline because it was 8 pm, but the next day I gave her a bath and got rid of all the dead fleas that were left
And, cats generally don't like running water near their head. So its generally better to draw a small amount of warm water in the tub or sink, maybe an inch of water for a kitten. Then use a plastic tub or cup to gently get the kitten wet/clean. I know the kitten lady has uploaded a video on how to give kittens flea baths.
Cat litter pro tip: DONT USE REGULAR CAT LITTER, it smells bad really quickly and is super annoying to clean up. Insead use wood pellets. There are multiple tutorials on youtube that tell you how to use them. Even if you cat pees on them they'll just smell like wood, its really nice, I'm never going back to regular cat litter :) Also they are really eco-friendly!
I tried that, but my cat hated it... she did NOT want to step on the pellets, she hated the feeling. But playing with single pellets was fine =D Soooo unfortunately this might not work for all cats...
I recently stared the transition to pine litter and it's been amazing i totally recommend it, two of my cats didn't liked it at first but they already got used to it. The house doesn't stink, my nose doesn't hurt when im picking it up, the waste its not heavy and surprisingly its not messy either and i have the feeling that you save a lot of money.
You’re making me realize how lucky I am with the kitty I found. She’s so easy going and I hardly have any problems with her going to the bathroom outside her box or her biting. She never chews on anything outside of her toys. She cuddles at night. She’s the sweetest thing. I found her in July. She was estimated to be 8 weeks and was feral. She was totally sick, full of worms and flea ridden. I got all the medicine with research and now she’s totally healthy and happy. I’m not a cat guy in the slightest, but this little girl won my heart. I don’t even have a name for her yet. I was considering “Velcro” simply because she needs to be near me when I’m home.
same tbh her kitten sounds really difficult .. luckily I got lucky with all my cats and they’ve been very easygoing , never jumped on things , never knocked things down , always go in their litter box and never randomly bite or scratch when I pet them . I recently got a kitten and I’ve never had a kitten this young before , and she seems pretty well behaved so far but she does get super hyper but I’m hoping she’ll grow out of it lol.
@@edgarallenhoe4656 sweet! I think the hyper kitty thing is a phase. I considered calling my kitten Forrest after Forrest Gump. I’ve been finding myself saying “Run Forrest Run!” When she gets into her zoomies.
Paige Mackensie it’s all about taste tbh some people find hairless cats cute I don’t personally I did always love calicos but many find that to be the lesser appealing color just like black often is a color that don’t get adopted
Please don't block your unders when you've brought a new kitten/cat home - they need to be able to hide at first to feel safe. It's really important to let them do this!
It’s better to first put them in a small room like a bathroom where they can calm down and get acclimated to a space that’s not overwhelming. Once they’re comfortable and confident, you can let them explore at their own pace and they usually won’t head under the first thing they come to.
My cat hid under the bed for more than 2 weeks so eventually we had to remove the mattress for her to be forced to get out. She still hid just somewhere else eventually we bought a cat tree and she hid in the little box of the tree. Now shes super confortable with us though even if it took a lot of time and patience and she escaped the house 3 times before we started letting her go outside (we wanted to make her an inside cat but she always escaped so now she goes out but only during the day)
@acidicoreo get your cat a little hiding place for me i had bought a cat tree that had a little box in it for the cat to sleep in. We put her in a room without a bed but she went in her cat tree
Im finally getting a kitten, I’ve literally been begging my parents since I was 3 years old after petting a cat for the first time (now 15) and after meeting him I became so obsessed with him I literally fell in love as soon as I laid eyes on him, so im preparing everything and educating myself just so I could make his environment comfortable and make him happy in general, im so excited 😆😆
@@jasminesoliman4499 amazing, he’s extremely playful and outgoing, he’s now comfortable enough to cuddle with me on my bed even tho it’s been only one month since I got him
We are in the same situation! I have been begging my parents since i was a kid and now they said i could adopt a kitten from my grandmother's house, though now i'm 17 ... I'm looking for videos for tips and everthing to make sure to raise him healthy and happy
RIght on. Just know they can cost money to keep in good health. Human society can get them fixed for 100, all shots for 60. Most regular vet visits can run hundreds if not more a pop. Care Credit is easy to get and can be used for vet bills. Keep that catbox clean every day dump it all atleast 1x a mo and put at least 4 inches of litter. Arm and hammer is great, no catbox smell. The cheap clay stuff reeks.
Facts on everything. I learned a lot getting my second cat. I’m mad the owner called the cat “not cute” like tf... Also be veryyyy careful letting your kitten chew chords. Lots of cats end up in the hospital for that. She’s a kitten so rn is perfect time to tell her “no”. If not it gets worse.
Potentially helpful thoughts ... I usually give my cats baths once a year in the summertime ( before they start super shedding) or if they get into something. I find that they are mostly frightened by the running water ( it's super loud to them), so I usually fill the bath or basin with two to three inches of warm water and then I bring them into the room. My cats actually enjoy the water itself but hate the noise. They'll actually walk into the shower with me. I trim their nails and brush their teeth and fur before baths. I give them tuna after and try to make it a nice day for them. The other thing I did when they were young is I got them on my schedule in terms of food. Since I work from home they eat three meals a day at 7:45, 3:00, and 7:45. Wet for brekkie and dinner and dry for lunch. To train them I made sure that when I woke up I didn't immediately feed them. I gave myself an hour to putter around the house and play with them and pet them. Even if I wake up late I try to wait at least 10 minutes. I have Alexa make a sound when it is time for them to eat and they react to that sound. Even though they do follow me around when it is close to dinner time... It has made it so that they can sleep with us at night but they don't bother us in the morning until Alexa says it's food time.
tbh I would recommend you to skip out on that kibble lunch, the wet food you're feeding twice a day should be sufficient, dry kibbles might fill their tummies but does nothing for their health, I also feed mine 2 meals/ day, 75g of supplemented raw meat each, but kittens are little eating monsters that need to be fed anytime they want (going through growth spurts)
@@Blue-me8vm they eat a high quality ( high protein/low phosphorus) grain free dry and since their wet food is like $3 per can its cost effective for me to feed that way. That way they each get one 6oz can plus an 1/8 of a cup of dry a day. My lazy one is 12lbs and my active one is 11lbs and those are healthy weights for their age and breed. They get raw meat as a treat only. Mostly wingtips. My younger one doesn't like raw meat ( except for chicken which he can't eat). It took a while to get the right mix for them. =)
AllFatoodledUp, ive also found traint my cats to a sound when feeding them makes it so much easier when I can’t find them. Sometimes they’ll just be sunbathing but I can’t find the but if I call ALL my animals come running and when they used to go outside they would get sort of lost but if we called they would come back a simple “here puss, puss, puss, puss puss, dinner”
tip: before bringing your new cat home, bring them to the vet first to do a health check especially if they’re outdoor cats or have been outside, so like for fleas and other health stuff. And also make sure to tell your vet that you have other animals and stuff like that
Things that helped my cats anxiety when i brought him home the first time: 1. Introduce ur cat to ur house ROOM BY ROOM. By doing this ur cat doesnt get overwhelmed. We kept my cat in the bathroom for the first few hours as I sat with him in the bathroom till he got more comfortable around me. Also place ur litter and food in the room you're doing this in. 2.Once your cat is more comfortable with your presence, open up the space a bit more. I opened him into my living room area. 3. He then slept in m room with the litter and food there so he felt comfortable sleeping near me. 4. Eventually we allowed him to free roam around the house and by this time he trusted us completely
this is exactly what i did with my kitten. first introduced her to the bathroom, then after a couple hours when i went to leave to get something, she ran out the bathroom door and introduced herself to the rest fo the home.
Heyy, me and my family is think about getting a cat, but both of my parents work and me and my brother go to school, so nobody is home during the day. Is it a problem? Should we not get a cat because of this?
@@lilibarabas3705 I wouldn’t let that be the reason you don’t get a cat. As long as the cat has food, water, a nice place to sleep, and some toys to keep them entertained the cat should be fine being left alone for a few hours while you/your family is not home. I almost forgot the most important part which keeping a clean litter box.
@@megleos2923 yes ofc! I would just want to give me cat the best life, and if it would be a big problem that we wouldn't be home i would rather not have one :) thank u for your answer, it helped a lot
🌸 these are some of my tips for any new cat owners 🌸 - on the first day or two, dedicate a whole room for the kitten full of food, water, litter, scratch poles and beds. (lets them adjust) - give them ONE name. - give them a bath within the 1st week of adopting. 🌸 enjoy your new cuddly friend and welcome to the cat community 🌸
@@poopoofarter there is no need for a bath unless they’ve been picked up from the street or otherwise neglected. the best way to know whether it is needed is to bring them to a vet as soon as you get it. like, always, ALWAYS bring a new pet to the vet as soon as possible, if its a kitten; their immune system will still be weak and developing and the chances of health problems are huge. but even with adults you need to know what you’re dealing with. but, truly, new kittens should not *need* a bath unless youve adopted them from someone irresponsible or you picked them up from outside somewhere.
tip: when you first bring your cat home put them in a small room like a bathroom and let them adjust to that first before giving them access to the whole house, it’s less overwhelming that way!
Yh thats a pro tip to transition them to their new environment if you give them their own little space and let them out once in a while they will feel confident to come out
And how much time should the new kitten be given to adjust to the new small environment like the bathroom as you've said? Days? Weeks? Months? And then you just start leaving the bathroom door open once in a while?
Exactly what I did ! I put him in the guest room and I slept there with him. Took him about a couple hours till he was sleeping on me and nibbling on my fingers. After he was comfortable to walk around the room and was litter trained I let him explore the rest of the house
@@paulngugi4994 when i got my kittens i let them stay in my room until they started eating, and using the litter box! we celebrated, gave them treats and they were so excited to go explore
i like the kindness you and your partner showed her when you were giving her a flea bath. She clearly was more settled down because of the ways you chose to interact with her.
My mom adopted two black kittens. They were the last to be picked in their litter because they weren't considered to be as pretty as the other kittens. They've grown up to be gorgeous dorky cats with beautiful golden eyes.
Kittens allllways go for your hands and leave you with scratches, as she gets older she will realize your hand is attached to you and slowly stop. I've always found that with kittens, although I know the attitude with torties is real heh. She is likely gonna attack a tiny bit when she isn't in the mood but I've always found as cats age they learn to be more gentle with you and generally only use their paws with no claws and lightly bite, my cat somtimes bites my hands when we play (I'm an idiot and somtimes use my hands as toys with them) so he will lightly bite me, but honestly he has never broken skin on purpose. Kittens are just alot less aware of how their claws can hurt you, but that's ok! It's just a phase all kitties go through and as life continues they notice their pet human doesn't like being bitten or scratched and will lighten up on you a bit. Also kittens tend to be alot more messy than cats, just like kids they are a bit akward and don't fully know how to control their body so they can end up making more messes with litter. Honestly though kittens are like children, they are messy, akward and aren't as aware that they can hurt others. But just as kids grow out of that phase, so do kittens.
Oh my gosh, your comment is such a relief. I'm so worried about my kitten who's always love to attack my hands and feet lol!! But yeah maybe it's a natural thing in kittens
i had the exact same experience with my new kitten ! first 2 nights were rough. she was very hissy and did not like any of us. but by the 3rd day she was still hissy .. but would let us pet her and interacted with us. she's still getting comfortable but from the first day we had her .. it's amazing how she's more comfy with us. i was so scared she hated us. i never owned a cat but dreamed and started getting stress as i wanted to give her an amazing life. so far so good and i hope everyday it gets better with her :)
I got my baby about a month ago from somebody who had found her on the street, starving and dirty and screaming for her momma. She was about a week old, still had her umbilical cord and everything. It was extremely hard work, but she’s around 6 weeks now and perfectly happy and healthy. I’m so happy you found such a sweet and beautiful cat🤍🤍
@@asadb1990 based around the fact that they said “almost all black” maybe they don’t like black cats? Just something I noticed. I love black cats, but some people don’t like them (for some reason lol)
Very weird like y do ppl care if they’re cute or not u trynna breed w it ? It’s like those ppl who say my kid better be cute like it’s very perverted and silly way to think , every animal and human is unique let’s celebrate that instead
PROTIP: If you adopt a cat thats been staying awhile in your local shelter, they can probably tell you the cats issues so you dont get surprises and you can prep for it. Plus theyre probably trained, vaccinated, and all fixed up too
tip: you can turn anything into a cat toy. take a sheet of paper and smash it into a ball. that's the ultimate cat toy. also: i know you already gave her a name but good names for cats are anything with s,x,,t,z, sh, it catches their attention and they recognize these sounds better
We've always had cats growing up, a few tips I've picked up over the years when meeting a new cat: a) let them come to you, on their own time.Being up in their grill puts them on edge immediately.encourage children to do the same and save tears later on. b) when a cat looks at you, make direct eye contact with them (don't look away), and slowly consciously blink.i count to 3 when blinking and do it a few times until they look away. This mimics natural cat on cat behaviour, and is a sign of trust (angry cats NEVER look away or blink at each other instinctively). c) let them have a few spots which are quiet, warm, snug and away from other pets, kids, noise. Don't invade these spaces. Let them feel safe there and come out for love and attention when they are ready-this will calm them long term! d) if you can't handle the energy and attention a kitten needs (its a baby after all!) Or the idea of committing to care for something for a full 15+years then instead, consider adopting a grown cat. They are often toilet trained at shelters, de-sexed, the shelter should be clear about their personality(so you know what your getting), and need loving homes too!
If you don’t want a cat to be on or jump up on a surface, put tin foil around the top of the surface . So when she jumps up on to it it will make a noise loud enough to send a message. After a few attempts she will get the message.
Cats actually do really enjoying collecting things they find and hiding them so like hair ties or any small things on the ground they can push around or grab. I used to have a cat who every night while my family was sleeping she would go around the house and pick up all the hair ties she found in everyone's rooms on the ground and then leave them in a pile on the living room floor.
I've had my cat for 3 days now and I'm so thankful he warmed up to me immediately, especially since its also my first time having a pet. Thank you for ur tips and info^^
Tips: 1. To get your cat to scratch on it's scratcher, you can spray catnip on it or sprinkle some on top 2. To stop cat from scratching your personal items or any unwanted places, spray with any citrus scents or lavender 3. To stop cat from scratching you: •Get nail caps which people call "kitty soft paws" • maybe she's scratching you cuz you might be using your limbs to play with her (watch kitten lady and cat mojo on more tips cuz they're REALLY helpful) 4. Get a friend for your kitten preferably from a real rescue or shelter this time to be sure of health and personality. Getting a friend for your kitten lets you have more time for yourself, stops rough play like scratching and biting, makes them happier as well as more behaved and is honestly 3× more fun with HALF the work🤗 5. To stop urine spraying, spay uni cuz this usually fixes the problem
Just here to add that cats are normally neutered with 6 month of age, you definitely shouldn’t do it too early. Also: 1. to avoid cat’s jumping on tables use sticky tape in the beginning! 2. Always have some cat grass at home if your cats is an indoor cat to help with digestion and hair balls. It also encourages your cat to not chew up your other plants. Still only have non toxic plants at home, you never know what looks like a tasty treat to those fur balls. 3. I personally wouldn’t use nail caps, kittens should learn how to use their claws and what damage they do. Just never use your hands to play with them and stop giving them attention if they chew or claw your hands or feet. Some scratches are still to be expected with kittens, they are still learning, but if your adult cat is well socialized scratches shouldn’t be a common thing. 4. Yes yes YES, I’d always encourage getting two cats from the same litter or ones who already like each other at once, cats may be solitary hunters but they usually don’t live completely separate from others. Many shelters (at least in my country) often have pairs of cats they only adopt out together. Introducing a second cat later is also possible but a little harder, best do it when they’re still young, but there are lot’s of tips and guidances online!
Kitty soft paws is actually accepted by jackson galaxy and Gary weitzman (vet and ceo of SDHS) but as a last resort. It really is always better to let them express their natural instincts like scratching but only on a scratching post (since all cats are different they like scratching on different textures and Sides whether it be diagonal or lying down)
Oh, btw, cats are NOT afraid of water. The reason this is associated with them is because when a cat is not mostly in control of themself, they can freak out or develop a "fear." So when a cat is forced to take a bath and can't control what's happening, they freak out. Edit: You can also use scent-related things to keep your cat off counters!
Cats can pant for many reasons, some extremely serious (heart attack, poison, shock) and some completely normal (playing, minor stress, too warm) and often depends quite a bit on an individual cat's response. I highly recommend having a regular vet that you can consult about symptoms like panting, which can be very complex and difficult to diagnose without training.
They can also pant due to stress/anxiety which seems possible here since having these put on is a bit overstimulating for a cat. But always a good idea to ask your vet.
@@crov.0375 Yes! I saw that. She was probably playing with it too hard. One thing to do is check the paws. They sweat through their paws and if their paws are hot and wet it needs to slow down and rest. Give it a break from play.
yes. hello here from someone who has picked up cats on the street so many times I had no money left anymore and had to find GOOD homes for them. People having cats cats have kittens kittens get dragged into the city and thrown out of cars.
Gunjan Shukla it’s a good idea. dental cleaning are pricey but important an can be reduced with regular brushing. it’s still important to have their teeth examined at the vet though.
I can totally relate to you as a cat mum of two cats! The joy, happiness and love we got from our fur babes are far more than the “damage” they’ve done in the house lol. When you take them home, they officially becomes your family member, I couldn’t imagine my life without my fur babes❤! I feel so blessed that my cats are living a happy, healthy life with us😊.
A tip from a person who has two cats. BUY SCRATCHING POSTS! If you notice your cat trying to stretch up against something with their claws, put a scratching post there. Sometimes these can be expensive but it will save your furniture :)
Oh yes. Last week nori started scratching the corner in my kitchen this happened in the morning and after work I drove to the pet shop and bought a scratching pad for this corner. Both cats lice it and use it daily...
Hi!! I watched your video the day before adopting my 9 week old kitten Violet. It was so sweet and adorable and really helped me to go for it! And I am so so glad I did. I relate to so many things you said- the endless nick names, the surprising flood of joy and love, the anxieties.. Thank you so much for sharing and hope both you and Uni are happy and healthy!
guys don't let your cat out just in the middle of your house. they are SO much less anxious when you let them out in the bathroom with the door closed and just let them adjust to that room for the day, then introduce them to the rest of the house at their own pace. they're much less anxious this way and won't really hide.
just a tip: cats like to copy what their owner does so try getting a mini laptop! like trying to write! You can give them mini things and they enjoy spending time with you! of course not every cat will go along with it lol
I think a huge lesson i learned about cats is that all cats have different personalities. I adopted a cat thinking cats will be low maintenance, love cuddling, and less active as compared to dogs. My cat is the exact opposite. She demands specific food or she’d rather go hungry, she prefers to be alone and only ask for pets when she feels like it, and she demands for play time every night.
...and remember the cat beds you bought but they never use? That can be a very useful to stop them from going to certain areas. I gave up trying to make my cat sleep in the bed, so I put the cushion behind my PC so she wont go there, and it worked like wonder lol
This video helped me so much ❤️ This is my cat story: So I was never a cat lover. I liked them though. But few months back, my cousins adopted a cat. It was really sweet towards me and I really wanted to adore him. So my cousins inspired me to hold that cat as I was scared to hold it because it can scratch me. Then I held him and It was one of the best moments of my life. Then one day that cat came to me and sat on my lap and took rest. It was amazing!! I started to love cats so much that I was wanting one for myself as well. I prayed everyday so that my parents agree to let me adopt a cat as they’re not super fond of cats. Then few weeks ago, I saw a cat for adoption and it was meow at first sight and I was being crazy to adopt it. I was so scared that someone else might adopt it before me . I asked my parents and surprisingly they agreed and let me adopt it. So this September I adopted my cat and he is the sweetest little bean. It feels like he’s been made for me. He gives me new experiences everyday; makes me learn new things and makes me love him even more every time he goes to sleep. I learnt a lot about cats and I love them so much now. They’re so precious and They’re so adorable. I love each and every animal but cats are now on the top of the list. If you made it till the end , THANK YOU VERY MUCH. I really appreciate it.
how did you manage to convince your parents to let you get one? :( i'm currently trying to let them agree to get me one, for emotional support. Any tips?
@@lampgenso just find a time when they’re calm and tell them all the possible pros of having a cat.. also tell them how amazing they are and warm they are.. recently i found somewhere that living with a cat decreases the rate of heart problems. And I hope they’ll agree.. let me know update
Also, regular peeing on the bed (not spraying, which is standing up) isn't marking. It probably indicated that she didn't understand or like her litter box or its location initially.
her scratching problem is actually due to the fact that you separated her from her brothers and sisters too early. To make sure that kittens learn all the ways of being social and playing with others, they should stay together for the first three months of their life
my kitten is 6 almost 7 weeks and has a scratching problem. my dad rescued him from a dirt pile at 3 weeks old separated from his family. he’s such a sweet cat but he wants to scratch everyone. this makes so much sense
Ah i see my dad found my kitten in a broken abandoned car at his work place which is (destroying car parts). So my dad took the kitten home. It makes sense he wants to bite & scratch everything
my bf adopted his cat when she was ~5 weeks old and she has a major scratching problem rn (and frankly, doesn't know how to play nice). the only thing we really can do is keep her claws clipped, try to buy a scratcher to put near our couch, and get her energy out so that she doesn't have a major scratching/energetic episode. That being said, i grew up with a cat that was ~10 weeks old when my parents adopted him and i don't think he had a scratching problem. i'm not sure if a kitten needs to be with its siblings for 2-3 months, but at least 10 weeks is ideal.
In Sweden we have a rule saying that kittens are not to be separated from mom and siblings until they're 12 weeks. In the case of Uni she would have been moving way to early no matter what because of the man who owned the mama cat. At least she ended up with a loving and caring person who gave her all the patience she needed to develop into a beautiful young cat.
Don't worry about the scratching, they do stop scratching you as they get older, they learn to play without hurting you. As for beds, yep... don't waste money on beds unless you plan to buy a covered one (cocoon style!), for an uncovered sleeping option your bed, couch, cushioned chair, pile of clothes, pillow will do... but they do love a cocoon style sleeping option, I can almost guarantee if you buy her a cocoon style bed she will most definitely love it and use it :)
When she gets older I would definitely recommend having bath water already drawn and ready. All three of my cats love bath time now and feel less stressed. I also give them treats afterwards to reassure them that what was happening in the bathroom is a good thing. You did really good and amazing for a first-time pet/ cat owner. Jackson Galaxy and The Kitten lady are amazing people and their resources are so vital to new cat owners. :) Uni is adorable!
@@josebrivera1716 uhm, yes they groom themselves but occasionally they do need to be bathed in order to stay healthy. Especially for long-furred cats. You shouldn’t “never put them in water”
I had my owner for 16 years I never gave her a bath. She never did stink, get oily, or get sick. She went to her vet every year for her check up and shots. She was an indoor outdoor cat (spayed and had her own claws). She was a proud kitty and would let me know that she was a great hunter by leaving little carcasses at the door. There was only one time she brought in a live little mouse. She was having her fun with it then my husband tried to catch it and the cat got bored watching him and let him play. It was hilarious 😂😂. She passed and left a hole in my heart that I just recently filled with not one but two kittens. They thankfully have adopted us and fill our lives with laughter and amazement every day. To be owned by a cat 😺 is to know that you are loved. Thank you Lord for these precious animals.🙏 Thanks to everyone for the tips. I think each of us will learn the best way to manage our owners.💕
This is such a sweet video and a good guide! I'm priming myself to get adopted by another cat after my longtime feline owner passed away in the fall, and I'm now fully convinced that the one thing I need in my life right now is a kitten to spoil and love to bits. There really is no feeling like waking up with a tiny, purring bundle of fur on your head!
Watching you and your husband giving her the flea bath was probably one of the cutest things I've ever seen. And her meows. Awww. You're an awesome cat mom.
watching this video, i forget (and take for granted) that so many people grow up without exposure to pets. i had cats and dogs as a child so a lot of the topics covered are just common sense to me (again, cuz i grew up with animals). when you're introducing a cat to a new home, a popular strategy to help them acclimate is to start them off in just 1 room (usually a bedroom) and allowing them to get comfortable before you open up and introduce them to the rest of the home. also, during the bathing segment, it's good to note that running the water at a much gentler/quieter/softer level vs. full on would help avoid some of the struggle/fear. alternatively, you can also bathe them in the sink in a shallow bath (without constantly running the tap) and only turning the faucet on at a low level for the final rinse. it's unfortunate that the previous owners didn't do anything about fleas / deworming / fixing, but that's actually a fairly common issue when adopting very young kittens from average households vs. breeders vs. a pet store / shelter.
You are the most diligent cat Mum, she’s a very lucky (and very cute) little girl. She reminds me of a baby tortoiseshell cat I had as a kid who was the sweetest baby girl ever
A tip for new cat owners : never bath ur kitten with cold water always bath ur kitten with warm water coz if u bath ur kitten with cold water they may hate bath times and if u bath them with warm water they are calm and less stressed so always bath them with warm water since it’s safe and yes always use safe cat shampoo and put some toys or play some videos for cat in the tub to calm them down and they will be easily distracted hope it helps!💕
Also helps to hold them by the scruff if you’re giving a flee bath, helps them not move and mimics momma cat and to have warm water filled in two cups.
@@byabbs what else were they supposed to do? let her keep the fleas? i think if your cat truly needs a bathe for health reasons you should let them, however bathing them consistently is bad
FYI: Uni is 100% calico. Calicos are tricolor: white, black, and red. Tortoiseshells are duel color: black and red. Tortoiseshells don’t have any white. Calicos have thousands of different patterns. A calico can even have one primary color, with little touches of the other two colors. Another version of these colorations are the diluted versions, which are less intense colors. For example, grey instead of black and cream instead of red. I have a dilute calico named Bridgett. She is primarily charcoal, with white chest and belly, and cream markings on her collar bone and nose. Even though she’s almost entirely grey, the little touches of white and cream makes her a dilute calico.
If ya want, a good other way is to just call your cat a tortie w/white (kinda also as white is a different gene than any other cat colour)! In the end, coat is not what matters. I don't even see the term calico thrown around the genetics-related chats I see anyway, no idea how about you. Tortoiseshell is a different gene combination, white is a different gene - and calico is just a name, same as tortie/torbie! I personally more often call cats calico when they're a black tortie with white and kinda big spots around their body, but that's just my opinion. also, fun fact, grey cats are actually called blue!
@@Colbyw74 Ginger can also be called red in cats. Like when you say someone has naturally red hair. - you don't mean red as like a tomato. "Orange" cats being called red (or red tabbies, but that colour always has stripes anyway) is actually genetically correct.
Fun fact from someone who breeds papered Maine coones: You’re wrong. Tortoiseshells can absolutely have white, it is a very rare coloring but it exists, the more common ones are a torbie with white, which is a tortoiseshell with tabby markings. I have two of these and they are VERY expensive, rare coloring especially for a breed like a registered Maine coone. Please don’t misinform people.
I know this video was 2 years ago now but super important for anyone getting a cat: Citruses (lemon, lime, grapefruit, etc) and Onions (onions, shallots, garlic, etc) are both little-known toxins to cats. It's unlikely that they'll ever go for either on their own, but for their safety, make sure they're stored away and never within reach of your cat
Me like: “it takes weeks for cats to get used to a new environment?!?” Me: my kittens just came out of their carriers and just started running around the room going like OH HI WHATS YOUR NAME?? and OMG CAN I EAT THIS? IS THIS A TOYY!!! Which is totally different from my older cat who is very calm and sorts shy
It really matters how well they were socialized in their early weeks, that's when kittens develop their skill set&attitude to all new things for their whole lives. Responsible breeders familiarize their kittens to traveling, vets, children, being handled&groomed&medicated and all kinds of different stressors they might face in life before sending them to their new homes so they will adapt well and have a happier life.
We adopted a kitten a month back and have had incredibly similar experiences. Can’t help but fall in love with them , however challenging the ride turns out to be .
“I’ve seen so many pictures of kittens by now, but I’ve never felt so emotionally attached to one” me exactly!!!! I adopted my kitten from a place that was quite far from where I live, I could have gotten one from a closer place, but I already fell in love with her since the first time I saw her 🥰 and goshhhh is she so attached to me, love it!!!!
Start trimming her nails at a young age, so she gets used to it. I recommend trimming spaghetti in front of her then slowly trim nails with treats! ^-^
@Peer Gynt not if they're an outdoor cat. If you have them only indoors, it's highly recommended. Had I not trimmed my cats claws, the wooden floor wouldn't have survived.
Ally if an animal does not use a scratching post much(older cats that are not as active fit into this) then you should clip their nails cuz they DO curve and can cause damage. this goes for a variety of animals, as i said before.
Ally I think you have trimming nails confused with declawing a cat. The nail is not the finger of a cat, their finger/paw bones are inside their paw. They can still grab onto things with clipped nails they’re just not as sharp. We clip our kittens nails once a week and they’re like fish hooks by the next week. It’s not just an American thing, cat owners do this everywhere. Stop being weird.
My calico Cleo adopted me when I went to an animal shelter to adopt her black and white sister. She just jumped into my hands and said can we pick up some chicken wings on the way home. It’s been the best two months of my life with her and everything you described in this video is literally what I’m dealing with every day. Initially I wasn’t a cat person, but now I call Cleo the love of my life. She brought so much joy into my hectic life. I love your tricolor kitten. She is adorable and the person who called her ugly has no idea what beauty is! Much love! 🐈🐾❤️
Can’t believe i finished your almost 30 mins video, your voice is so beautiful, very informative content and encouraged me to get a cat already, love you uni!
The cat guy saying she wasn’t cute made me so mad!! Reminds me of when I got my cats a couple years ago, the family that seen them before us didn’t want them because they were too big, they were 3 months old!!
I'm getting my first ever adopted kitten today. Same with you, never grew up with cats and dogs or whatsoever so I'm clueless too so, let's see how it goes. Thanks for the video! Really helpful
Hola! We adopted 2 kittens 10months ago (1 boy, 1 girl) and they just had their first litter last month ❤️ At first it will be a sruggle especially the "grooming" part (though cats groom themselves more often), but as time goes by, you and the cat should have that rhythm.
the person that said that “pets look a LOT like their owners” was right. you both are REALLY PRETTY :) this video is very informative. this taught me a lot
This kitten is simply gorgeous. The reason to be shy, I guess, was because the fleas making her very uncomfortable, and also worms due to fleas infestation. You did an excellent job.
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Gosh...the original owner is so irresponsible. Not spaying/ neutering the cats and fleas?!!! Terrible!
Bruh ikr, were the cats even wormed? And why would you let NEO-NATAL motherfricking cats outside? Also, the kittens weren't cute? Wha-
Yeah he was willing to give 5 week old kittens away
sadly i adopted a cat from someone who didn’t get her spayed, or dewormed and she had fleas. but i’ve had her for two weeks and we got rid of the fleas and we are almost done deworming her next month. then i will get her spayed.
@Avdrxiy by doing that she just supported that "breeder". And please when you encounter situations like this educate the breeders and tell them to neuter their cats
@@lynn6777 i know sorry i forgot to put the "" second time
The previous owner sounds so problematic/irresponsible. Did not spay/neuter cats, let kittens roam around & get fleas, says the kitten isn't "cute". Wth. That kitten is cute AF.
Yeah, such a bad owner :/
Let's talk about how kittens need to stay with their mother for 12 weeks
That’s actually not true
He’s actually not a bad owner of cats. Letting kittens roam sound is very very important at a young age. They need to learn. Fleas are common in literally every kitten my cat had fleas too do your research you aren’t allowed to keep animals unless you have a contract that you can breed so unless he didn’t have a contract it’s just fine
@@cxddly_hazza1341 he didn’t breed them though, he let his cats go out and they got pregnant because he didn’t spay them.
lil helpful tip here ! if you are adopting a new pet, try buying a medicine syringe for your pet and every few days or so fill the syringe with something like a treat (i use mashed bananas for my rabbit) so if your pet ever needs medication from a syringe, they won't try to avoid it because they'll associate the syringe with treats :) hope this helps (ty for 2.5k!)
this is so smart omg
Thank you so much 😊
I appreciate this tip so much!
that's a great tip, thank yoU!
I really want to adopt a cat from the shelter soon if my parents agree, however, there are no cats OR dogs, which I guess is a good thing.
Tip about the scratching, next time you see her scratching on furniture, pick her up and bring her to her cat scratcher, then move her paws up and down the scratcher to simulate her scratching it, it worked wonders on my kitten when I got the idea!
Thank you!
Also if that fails, put some catnip on the post ever so often.
💥I find it interesting that most people care for animals (somewhat instinctively).
Some people even have complete knowledge of animals’ needs - zoologists and veterinarians are great examples.
Man, this is proof that God exists.❤️😌
God gave each of us the authority to “rule over”/take care of His creations…
And give her enough opportunity's to scratch on. We have a cat tree, 2 scratching boards, 2 mini scratching trees and a big climbing and scratching pipe
tysm!!
Tip from a person that's raised 15 kittens:
Do not introduce your kitten into a large space in your home immediately. Isolate your kitten in a small room like a bathroom so it can feel 'safe' and less overwhelmed, and allow them to WANT to explore.
Edit: I should mention, you dont just leave the cat in there alone! Spend as much time in there as possible. Eat on the floor, read, play switch, whatever. If you have another room that is also small, like a small bedroom, this is also good. But bathrooms are usually the perfect size.
I totally tried to do this. But within a couple hours he was sticking his nose out of my bedroom and after one tour, slept right on the couch!
Samantha For real. My strays hate being isolated but my other cats hate the strays.
@@themileyj isnt that good? sounds like hes already comfortable with your space
@@vivtsang7152 It is, and he is :) Just wanted to bring up a data point
What if you live in a studio apartment or something where it’s all one room and there aren’t any smaller rooms?
Girl this is EXACTLY what I needed
is your sister ever gonna give back the cat she stole from you?
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hey Fukuisaurus!
I didn't look for a cat, my cat looked for me. I found this little kitten abandoned and scared in a street in the city centre, a black tiny cat in a dark night. I asked him 'what are you doing here on your own?', he jumped on my shoulder and came home with me! He's almost 20yo now, my best friend, my son with a tail, my biggest love!
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This is the nicest story I have heard in a while. You have made me so happy Cristina Livi-Harris. Thanks!
@@paulngugi4994 Thank you Paul, my cat and I are happy to make you happy!
@kutlwikutlwano hi kutlw, my cat says thank you! He's old now, doesn't run or play anymore, but he still loves a cuddle, good food and sleeping in our bed! I found him in December 2001 when he was 2 months old, so he'll be 20yo this coming October! 😻
@@cristinalivi-harris3267 oh wow 2001 was a long time ago, tell your cat I said hello!
This is a tip for future cute kitten owners when u want to bathe them, grab them with a flannel or small towel so they dont scratch you and instead of putting them directly under the tap, use a cup and pour water slowly on them, make it as relaxing as possible and go slowly, they will panic but the more calm you are the clamer they will get 🙏 ❤️
I could be wrong but also if you're doing the bath specifically for fleas vinegar is a really good option. Fleas can hold their breath underwater but the vinegar is very good at killing them.
@@marcelinevanmeter3173I’m not sure if this works as well but when me and my mom de-flea our cats, she fills up a small bowl with some water and some dish soap. when we put the fleas in the bowl, they’d stop moving in a matter of seconds, and you can see some red coming out of them so I’m not sure 🤷🏽♀️
As someone who never bathe their kitten before his rabies vaccine because me and my family are terrified of him scratching us like he scratched me in October and it’s April now and it’s a permanent scar now because he’s ten billion times more unpredictable than my last cat basically he goes to the spa every time he needs bath another tip is don’t get a kitten with my kittens personality if you’re a first time kitten owner
Yeah.... I'd just fill the basin of the sink. The faucet is super loud to them. Especially as a kitten
Adding onto this, make sure you only bathe your kitten (or cat) if you really NEED to. E.g if they have fleas, aren’t cleaning themselves properly (only usually happens with old or really ill cats), etc. They’re very good at keeping themselves clean and bathing them with water too much is actually bad for them. If you’re not sure talk to a vet! :)
Pro tips from someone who lived her entire life with cats:
- NEVER such bleach on a space where you cat peed, specially on spaces where you don’t want them to pee again because they love the smell of bleach, use sanytol instead
- teach them to go into their “cage” to go to the vet while they’re kittens by leaving their comfort items in it ( blankets, toys, catnip etc.. ) so you don’t struggle once you have to put them in
- put just a little tiny bit of catnip or bleach into their litter box when they’re little to teach them to pee in it
- get them used to have your finger in their mouth so you don’t struggle with giving them meds ( life changing I swear )
- also this is basic but PLEASE RESPECT THEIR BOUNDARIES, if you cat doesn’t want cuddles, let them be, if they wanna be alone let. Them. Be.
thank you!!! im getting my cat soon so thanks for these tips. do you have anymore tips also can i teach my cat to go outside and do his buisness bcs my dad said he cant do his buisness in the house but if im willing to teach him to go outside i can get one so do you have any tips
@@sw4nhearts cats usually pee after playtime, after waking up and after eating. I'd say just take them outside during these times, that's how I taught my cat anyway. They should start picking up on it soon, just make sure they're able to go outside by themselves (cat door) and you should be good to go. Hope this helped.
@@dannydevito5558 thank you so much!!
Quick tip about bleach. Pee has ammonia in it, and when bleach and ammonia mix it can make a toxic gas called mustard gas. So never clean up pee with bleach, and please do not put bleach in the littler box where you intend for your cat to pee. Sincerely, someone who has owned both cats and dogs and has had to clean up far too much pee in her lifetime. 😂
Never ever use bleach with your cat. It's toxic for them
What kind of monster says that she’s not cute? She’s divine
😅 calling them a monster wont help the situation
Ikr I love his colors
@@k_kookphoriax_682 her*
It's probably coz of its color
@@hershe7310 I don’t even get that bc I saw her coloring on the thumbnail and saw how beautiful she was immediately.
Quick tip for bathing! When you have to bathe a kitten, you should introduce them to all of the materials you will use. Also, before you let the kitten into the bathroom, have the faucet already running with warm water so they aren’t startled and turn into panic/survival mode when they hear it turn on. Let the kitten play with the water, and then slowly and soothingly bather them, using soft coos and words help. If you’re lucky, the kitten will actually stay calm in your hands, if not, they still will express their dislike for the bath, but they will be much less stressed and make things easier for both the kitty and the owner!
thanks
You can also put a towel in the tub since they start to panic when they're on a surface that they can't cling to.
Also, if you don't want fleas to wander to the head, you should start washing the neck to make this "barrier" so they can't wander.(the kittenlady has a video on this)
Tysm this is reeeeally helpful!!!
I understand giving a bath to a kitten once but after that you shouldn’t bathe cats. They clean themselves regularly and their saliva helps them distribute normal body waxes and sebos
Yep thx I am getting some baby cats today at 3:00 so this is great tip
"She owns me more than I own her" - welcome your training is complete. You are now an official cat person. Thank you for learning this universal number one truth all cat people know.
the absolute truth 😂
Or no one owns the others. Kind of wild we still say that
@@sola_aWe are the butlers and the cats allow us to serve them, how about that framing? 😊
@@kme3894 i hope this joke i have a cat if know how to care abt them feed and if being bad blow in ther face little bit and point out what its doing wrong
Having cat that scratches you is the only toxic relationship worth staying lmao
I TOTALLY agree with u lol
true.
This little girl need's a friend..
YES
There are ways not to get scratched though 😊 not so much to avoid other toxic relationships
my cat has only scratched me once which was because whatever on the tv scared the crap out of her and she was laying on my lap. I have learned hands are for petting not play. (Use toys instead) Ps. my cat is 6 years old :3
honestly, cat beds are a scam, cuz I'll buy a 75 dollar bed and my cat will still want to sleep on our 18 egg carton.
even tho I agree to that, my mom actually bought a cat bed thinking that they wouldn't even give it a try.
they do use it, which was mind blowing to me. it depends on the bed I think
True! But i Think it depends on cat and bed✨
My foster kitten literally sucks on her expensive cat bed and sleeps on the floor. It's adorable.
Depends on the cat really - our cats have multiple sleeping spots all around the house - some of them are fancy cat beds and some of them are Amazon boxes
actually my cat loves her donut shaped bed, I put it on my bed and she likes to sleep there at night. And I paid it only 15 euros, washed it and disinfected it and it's amazing!
I highly recommend getting 2 kittens together! We previously adopted a single female kitten and we encountered a lot of the problems you did as well. The second time around, we adopted 2 kittens from the same litter and they keep each other company and get a lot of their energy out by playing with each other! They've learned that biting and scratching hurts each other so they rarely scratch or bite us :)
I really want to adopt from my local humane society, but I'm not sure if there are any littermates available. Is it okay to adopt two same-age kittens together from different litters?
@@aster5600 yes, I would double check with the adoption counselor at your locale humane society but I think if they are the same age and are kittens, it should be ok for the most part. There will probably be an adjustment period for them to get used to each other like @girls_abroad mentioned. Good luck with everything!
@Avdrxiy yes I know what you mean. I used to be hesitant to get two because it would cost more for food and supplies but I found that the benefit really outweighs the additional cost and some supplies can be shared between both cats. My two cats keep each other company, play with each other, and learn from each other (one of my boys is braver than the other and I think my one cat would not be as brave if not for his brother!). It's especially helpful if someone is not home all the time so they have each other to spend time with.
Whether you and your family end up adopting the two kittens or two cats who are siblings, best of luck with your adoption journey
Unsolicited advice about scratching and biting lol: kittens learn from other cats (mothers and siblings) what is too rough when playing. They learn this because when they're too rough playing the other cat will cry and stop playing. So, if you have one kitten and it's being rough, even if it doesn't hurt right now (it will later lol) you should let out a high pitched sort of Yelp noise if it is being too rough and hurting or puts out it's claws too much. Don't pull your hand away because that could be seen as play. Just Yelp and usually it'll startle the kitten to stop. Then remove your hand and temporarily stop the play. Be consistent and your kitten will learn :)
Kalei Suzuki usually it’s best to get littermates or 2 solo kittens that may have been fostered together!! otherwise you can’t guarantee that the kittens will get along as well, although many kittens the same age are playful and can learn to like eachother! i would say wait until you can find a pair of littermates bc it will def be worth it🥰
Not only is this video great but the comments are a wealth of information. Thank you and everyone who has contributed tips in the comments! I may be getting one or two kittens tomorrow and I've never owned a cat in my life.
All the best, wishing you and your kittens much health and happiness!
How are the kitties now?
how has it been ? i’m getting my first ever pet kitten today and i’m anxious i won’t be a good cat mom🥹
@@lyss2divine It has been amazing! I decided to get 2 kittens and they have grown so much in these last 6 months. They have their own personalities and there is never a dull moment. My biggest tip is just be gentle in everything it goes a long way. I can't imagine my life without these crazy cats!
@@Gnarpgnarp554 They are doing so well! Both of them own the place. I just live here and pay the rent and get cuddles when they want them lol
cant believe they said she wasnt cute.. she has the most perfect color combination ever.. its beautiful
TRUE
i think they were just joking 😅😂
I think they said she wasn’t cute because of the flea
The little top of her muzzle 🥺 its so cuteee
She wasn't cute because shes is adorable not cute
Additional tips for others. If she had fleas, should’ve given her a bath first thing you brought her home. Then let her acclimate to a confined space such as the bathroom or bedroom before introducing her to the entire house. Cats aren’t like dogs, they feel more secure the longer they stay in a space.
i gave mine a dawn dish soap bath the first day he got home (we combed and found fleas) and he was so freaked out he pooped in the sink TT but the next day we brought him to the vet to have this flea treatment dripped down his spine, solved the problem, so easy
So true. Fleas are really dangerous for kittens.
Yeah. My kitten was full of fleas and first I applied some Frontline because it was 8 pm, but the next day I gave her a bath and got rid of all the dead fleas that were left
And, cats generally don't like running water near their head. So its generally better to draw a small amount of warm water in the tub or sink, maybe an inch of water for a kitten. Then use a plastic tub or cup to gently get the kitten wet/clean. I know the kitten lady has uploaded a video on how to give kittens flea baths.
I did this too ! Thanks to KittenLady right here on youtube!
Cat litter pro tip: DONT USE REGULAR CAT LITTER, it smells bad really quickly and is super annoying to clean up. Insead use wood pellets. There are multiple tutorials on youtube that tell you how to use them. Even if you cat pees on them they'll just smell like wood, its really nice, I'm never going back to regular cat litter :) Also they are really eco-friendly!
I use these and I agree that they are amazing. I'm saving so much money!!
@@em-ml7zq Very true, thats another fact I forgot to mention! Especially since one bag seems to last forever compared to regular litter :)
I ues cat litter
I tried that, but my cat hated it... she did NOT want to step on the pellets, she hated the feeling. But playing with single pellets was fine =D
Soooo unfortunately this might not work for all cats...
I recently stared the transition to pine litter and it's been amazing i totally recommend it, two of my cats didn't liked it at first but they already got used to it.
The house doesn't stink, my nose doesn't hurt when im picking it up, the waste its not heavy and surprisingly its not messy either and i have the feeling that you save a lot of money.
You’re making me realize how lucky I am with the kitty I found. She’s so easy going and I hardly have any problems with her going to the bathroom outside her box or her biting. She never chews on anything outside of her toys. She cuddles at night. She’s the sweetest thing. I found her in July. She was estimated to be 8 weeks and was feral. She was totally sick, full of worms and flea ridden. I got all the medicine with research and now she’s totally healthy and happy. I’m not a cat guy in the slightest, but this little girl won my heart. I don’t even have a name for her yet. I was considering “Velcro” simply because she needs to be near me when I’m home.
same tbh her kitten sounds really difficult .. luckily I got lucky with all my cats and they’ve been very easygoing , never jumped on things , never knocked things down , always go in their litter box and never randomly bite or scratch when I pet them . I recently got a kitten and I’ve never had a kitten this young before , and she seems pretty well behaved so far but she does get super hyper but I’m hoping she’ll grow out of it lol.
@@edgarallenhoe4656 sweet! I think the hyper kitty thing is a phase. I considered calling my kitten Forrest after Forrest Gump. I’ve been finding myself saying “Run Forrest Run!” When she gets into her zoomies.
@@blackfishgaming7145 how's kitty going?
@@ipupi8784 She's wonderful.
To mean by saying you "hardly have". ? That means you do have "SOME" problems of Cat not using litter box?
I can't believe that cat wasn't considered 'cute" by someone.
I have a calico that looks similar and she’s BEAUTIFUL but so many people say that calicos like her aren’t cute😭 so weird
Maybe because of the mixed colours..but THAT! is one of the cutest kitten EVERRR! 😣❤️
reverse psychology
she’s literally so CUTE
Paige Mackensie it’s all about taste tbh some people find hairless cats cute I don’t personally
I did always love calicos but many find that to be the lesser appealing color just like black often is a color that don’t get adopted
Please don't block your unders when you've brought a new kitten/cat home - they need to be able to hide at first to feel safe. It's really important to let them do this!
It’s better to first put them in a small room like a bathroom where they can calm down and get acclimated to a space that’s not overwhelming. Once they’re comfortable and confident, you can let them explore at their own pace and they usually won’t head under the first thing they come to.
But block the places under the wires.
@@kwnji7667 We wrapped a towel around accessible wires and that worked really well :)
My cat hid under the bed for more than 2 weeks so eventually we had to remove the mattress for her to be forced to get out. She still hid just somewhere else eventually we bought a cat tree and she hid in the little box of the tree. Now shes super confortable with us though even if it took a lot of time and patience and she escaped the house 3 times before we started letting her go outside (we wanted to make her an inside cat but she always escaped so now she goes out but only during the day)
@acidicoreo get your cat a little hiding place for me i had bought a cat tree that had a little box in it for the cat to sleep in. We put her in a room without a bed but she went in her cat tree
the first thing You need to do when giving a flea bath is make a ring of shampoo around the kittens neck, so the fleas wont escape to the cats head.
Thank you so much for this advice
You mean, so that the fleas won’t flee to the cat’s head? ;)
@@truptit1251 haha yessss!
Or give them capstar if you don't want to bathe them
Oh wow smart!
Im finally getting a kitten, I’ve literally been begging my parents since I was 3 years old after petting a cat for the first time (now 15) and after meeting him I became so obsessed with him I literally fell in love as soon as I laid eyes on him, so im preparing everything and educating myself just so I could make his environment comfortable and make him happy in general, im so excited 😆😆
how’s it going?
@@jasminesoliman4499 amazing, he’s extremely playful and outgoing, he’s now comfortable enough to cuddle with me on my bed even tho it’s been only one month since I got him
hi i’m getting my first ever pet kitten today and i’m excited but nervous, any advice ? how long did your cat take to use the litter box ??
We are in the same situation! I have been begging my parents since i was a kid and now they said i could adopt a kitten from my grandmother's house, though now i'm 17 ...
I'm looking for videos for tips and everthing to make sure to raise him healthy and happy
RIght on. Just know they can cost money to keep in good health. Human society can get them fixed for 100, all shots for 60. Most regular vet visits can run hundreds if not more a pop.
Care Credit is easy to get and can be used for vet bills. Keep that catbox clean every day dump it all atleast 1x a mo and put at least 4 inches of litter.
Arm and hammer is great, no catbox smell. The cheap clay stuff reeks.
Facts on everything. I learned a lot getting my second cat. I’m mad the owner called the cat “not cute” like tf...
Also be veryyyy careful letting your kitten chew chords. Lots of cats end up in the hospital for that. She’s a kitten so rn is perfect time to tell her “no”. If not it gets worse.
yummy kitten
@@realvinestaff ??
I unsubscribed from you a year ago you, irritating see you comment 🙄.
One of my kitties passed away because of it, no matter what we did. Please never let it happen!!!
@@alicebloomfield4295 awwww :(
When you washed your cat for flees it would've been best to 1st make a ring of soap around its neck so the fleas don't escape to its face
I’m a once
Exactly.
That didn’t work for me.
Wow that’s so smart I should try to my fluffy cat
Yes I actually learned that from kitten lady
Potentially helpful thoughts ...
I usually give my cats baths once a year in the summertime ( before they start super shedding) or if they get into something. I find that they are mostly frightened by the running water ( it's super loud to them), so I usually fill the bath or basin with two to three inches of warm water and then I bring them into the room. My cats actually enjoy the water itself but hate the noise. They'll actually walk into the shower with me. I trim their nails and brush their teeth and fur before baths. I give them tuna after and try to make it a nice day for them.
The other thing I did when they were young is I got them on my schedule in terms of food. Since I work from home they eat three meals a day at 7:45, 3:00, and 7:45. Wet for brekkie and dinner and dry for lunch. To train them I made sure that when I woke up I didn't immediately feed them. I gave myself an hour to putter around the house and play with them and pet them. Even if I wake up late I try to wait at least 10 minutes.
I have Alexa make a sound when it is time for them to eat and they react to that sound. Even though they do follow me around when it is close to dinner time... It has made it so that they can sleep with us at night but they don't bother us in the morning until Alexa says it's food time.
tbh I would recommend you to skip out on that kibble lunch, the wet food you're feeding twice a day should be sufficient, dry kibbles might fill their tummies but does nothing for their health, I also feed mine 2 meals/ day, 75g of supplemented raw meat each, but kittens are little eating monsters that need to be fed anytime they want (going through growth spurts)
@@Blue-me8vm they eat a high quality ( high protein/low phosphorus) grain free dry and since their wet food is like $3 per can its cost effective for me to feed that way. That way they each get one 6oz can plus an 1/8 of a cup of dry a day. My lazy one is 12lbs and my active one is 11lbs and those are healthy weights for their age and breed.
They get raw meat as a treat only. Mostly wingtips. My younger one doesn't like raw meat ( except for chicken which he can't eat).
It took a while to get the right mix for them. =)
AllFatoodledUp, ive also found traint my cats to a sound when feeding them makes it so much easier when I can’t find them. Sometimes they’ll just be sunbathing but I can’t find the but if I call ALL my animals come running and when they used to go outside they would get sort of lost but if we called they would come back a simple “here puss, puss, puss, puss puss, dinner”
@@Blue-me8vm I heard that dry kibble is good for teeth hygiene
tip: before bringing your new cat home, bring them to the vet first to do a health check especially if they’re outdoor cats or have been outside, so like for fleas and other health stuff. And also make sure to tell your vet that you have other animals and stuff like that
Things that helped my cats anxiety when i brought him home the first time:
1. Introduce ur cat to ur house ROOM BY ROOM. By doing this ur cat doesnt get overwhelmed. We kept my cat in the bathroom for the first few hours as I sat with him in the bathroom till he got more comfortable around me. Also place ur litter and food in the room you're doing this in.
2.Once your cat is more comfortable with your presence, open up the space a bit more. I opened him into my living room area.
3. He then slept in m room with the litter and food there so he felt comfortable sleeping near me.
4. Eventually we allowed him to free roam around the house and by this time he trusted us completely
this is exactly what i did with my kitten. first introduced her to the bathroom, then after a couple hours when i went to leave to get something, she ran out the bathroom door and introduced herself to the rest fo the home.
something about the cat being "close to black & not looking too cute " bothers me. what does that even mean
😕
sadly black cats have a really negative reputation. I have a Black calico and a black cat which i love so much and i wish it wasn’t like that
@@helenpurdy3993 Why? 🤔
@@yakimewoof8978 people often claim black cats bring “bad luck” which is completely false
@@helenpurdy3993 exactly! my cat actually gave me happines, not bad luck. he's as black as night
as a cat owner who has had cats for 5+ years i really felt when she said “i honestly think she owns me more than i own her”
Heyy, me and my family is think about getting a cat, but both of my parents work and me and my brother go to school, so nobody is home during the day. Is it a problem? Should we not get a cat because of this?
@@lilibarabas3705 I wouldn’t let that be the reason you don’t get a cat. As long as the cat has food, water, a nice place to sleep, and some toys to keep them entertained the cat should be fine being left alone for a few hours while you/your family is not home. I almost forgot the most important part which keeping a clean litter box.
@@megleos2923 yes ofc! I would just want to give me cat the best life, and if it would be a big problem that we wouldn't be home i would rather not have one :) thank u for your answer, it helped a lot
I've Been a cat owner my whole life! Before i was born i had a sweat sugar kitty, she died really recently and we just got her ashes :(
@@Lego-dy5he I’m sorry for ur loss 😢
🌸 these are some of my tips for any new cat owners 🌸
- on the first day or two, dedicate a whole room for the kitten full of food, water, litter, scratch poles and beds.
(lets them adjust)
- give them ONE name.
- give them a bath within the 1st week of adopting.
🌸 enjoy your new cuddly friend and welcome to the cat community 🌸
why do they need a bath when u get them?? also how often do u need to bathe it
@@poopoofarter ^^
@@poopoofarter there is no need for a bath unless they’ve been picked up from the street or otherwise neglected. the best way to know whether it is needed is to bring them to a vet as soon as you get it.
like, always, ALWAYS bring a new pet to the vet as soon as possible, if its a kitten; their immune system will still be weak and developing and the chances of health problems are huge. but even with adults you need to know what you’re dealing with.
but, truly, new kittens should not *need* a bath unless youve adopted them from someone irresponsible or you picked them up from outside somewhere.
Or if they somehow managed to knock a can of paint and roll on it. Ask me how I know 😅
tip: when you first bring your cat home put them in a small room like a bathroom and let them adjust to that first before giving them access to the whole house, it’s less overwhelming that way!
Yh thats a pro tip to transition them to their new environment if you give them their own little space and let them out once in a while they will feel confident to come out
And how much time should the new kitten be given to adjust to the new small environment like the bathroom as you've said? Days? Weeks? Months? And then you just start leaving the bathroom door open once in a while?
@@paulngugi4994 i think a week
Exactly what I did ! I put him in the guest room and I slept there with him. Took him about a couple hours till he was sleeping on me and nibbling on my fingers. After he was comfortable to walk around the room and was litter trained I let him explore the rest of the house
@@paulngugi4994 when i got my kittens i let them stay in my room until they started eating, and using the litter box! we celebrated, gave them treats and they were so excited to go explore
Who called this cat ugly
Some blind blobfish
I just want to "talk" with them. ;)
some rude coldhearted dork!!
Hi we have the same name🙂
@@zzainabsss OMG we do. ;)
"Ugly" cats are a myth, there's not such a thing as an "ugly" cat
Beauty is only in the eye of the beholder 😍
You seen the "blink motherf*cker" meme?
*"ma it looks like grandma!"*
julia they feel nice tho they feel like velvet
julia they are actually one of the sweetest breed
i like the kindness you and your partner showed her when you were giving her a flea bath. She clearly was more settled down because of the ways you chose to interact with her.
dog: they feed me & care for me, they must be god
cat: they feed me and care for me, I must be god
Lmaoo so accurate
lol i broke the 100 tie and made it 101
Yaaasss
This is so accurate.. you know sometimes I don't know If she's
the pet, or I'm the pet🙂😂 love her tho
@@silacakmak8631 Ooh Zuko✨
I named my cat Kenma because she's a calico cat and it reminds me of Kenma😂
“I honestly think she owns me more than I own her”
ALL CAT PARENTS FELT THAT LMAO 😂
@Lallu whats with the hostility karen?
@Lallu you literally got triggered cuz this person made a joke lmao
@Lallu 💖✨🌟your not helping your argument✨🌟💫 lmao✨🎆🦄
@Lallu is a 🤡🤡🤡
@Lallu umm please chill
My mom adopted two black kittens. They were the last to be picked in their litter because they weren't considered to be as pretty as the other kittens. They've grown up to be gorgeous dorky cats with beautiful golden eyes.
I'm SO glad to hear that your mom adopted black kittens! People are SO superstitious that many black cats don't get adopted because of it. So sad!!
I love black kitties
Firstly, I don't think I've ever seen a cat with such peculiar face markings, I absolutely love how she looks
It also means sleep
She is a Torti kitten
Kittens allllways go for your hands and leave you with scratches, as she gets older she will realize your hand is attached to you and slowly stop. I've always found that with kittens, although I know the attitude with torties is real heh. She is likely gonna attack a tiny bit when she isn't in the mood but I've always found as cats age they learn to be more gentle with you and generally only use their paws with no claws and lightly bite, my cat somtimes bites my hands when we play (I'm an idiot and somtimes use my hands as toys with them) so he will lightly bite me, but honestly he has never broken skin on purpose. Kittens are just alot less aware of how their claws can hurt you, but that's ok! It's just a phase all kitties go through and as life continues they notice their pet human doesn't like being bitten or scratched and will lighten up on you a bit. Also kittens tend to be alot more messy than cats, just like kids they are a bit akward and don't fully know how to control their body so they can end up making more messes with litter. Honestly though kittens are like children, they are messy, akward and aren't as aware that they can hurt others. But just as kids grow out of that phase, so do kittens.
Oh my gosh, your comment is such a relief. I'm so worried about my kitten who's always love to attack my hands and feet lol!! But yeah maybe it's a natural thing in kittens
@@pan2635 It's natural bur that might become a problem if you do not correct it. Especially is you got your kitten too early
@@pan2635 don't play with you're hands it will be a problem
THANK
@tracey hi!
Are you getting a kitten?! I just got one girly!
@@lillylava5569 I would love a dog ^^
Are you finally taking home the black cat BananaJamana got for you? :0
@@faneverythingawesome what a name!
Dude I’m literally getting a cat in like 15 hours I can’t wait
me rn
Me too
Omg me to!! What coler is your cat?
@@ghost-d3q me too, im so scared. im getting my little black kitten this weekend and i can’t wait!
@@nunilover aaww! I'm getting a black one and a orange one! Both kittens and very small!
i had the exact same experience with my new kitten ! first 2 nights were rough. she was very hissy and did not like any of us. but by the 3rd day she was still hissy .. but would let us pet her and interacted with us.
she's still getting comfortable but from the first day we had her .. it's amazing how she's more comfy with us.
i was so scared she hated us. i never owned a cat but dreamed and started getting stress as i wanted to give her an amazing life. so far so good and i hope everyday it gets better with her :)
Best wishes for you ~
I'm about bring a cat to my house , any advices ?
I believe she's a calico cat because they have 3 colors including white. Tortoiseshell cats do not have white fur :) congrats on y'all's bb
Torties can have white! The main distinction is that calicos have clumps of color and torties have the red and black more muddled and mixed together.
@@samanthakirkpatrick8981 tortie is orange and black, calico is orange black and white, tortie and white is a tortie with white spots so
I got my baby about a month ago from somebody who had found her on the street, starving and dirty and screaming for her momma. She was about a week old, still had her umbilical cord and everything. It was extremely hard work, but she’s around 6 weeks now and perfectly happy and healthy. I’m so happy you found such a sweet and beautiful cat🤍🤍
Says cat isnt "cute" Proceeds to send a pic of the cutest cat
Yup
i think some owners don't find multi color kitten as attractive as single colored
@@asadb1990 based around the fact that they said “almost all black” maybe they don’t like black cats? Just something I noticed. I love black cats, but some people don’t like them (for some reason lol)
Very weird like y do ppl care if they’re cute or not u trynna breed w it ? It’s like those ppl who say my kid better be cute like it’s very perverted and silly way to think , every animal and human is unique let’s celebrate that instead
Me preparing to see an ugly cat: ... wait that is the cutest cat in the world
I became a cat dad today. Found myself the cutest baby kitten that looks like a little baby leopard
congrats!! How’s the kitten? :)
congrats uve had ur cat for 3 months
That would be a Torti cat..I have one as well ☺️
You got a bengal cat ?
PROTIP: If you adopt a cat thats been staying awhile in your local shelter, they can probably tell you the cats issues so you dont get surprises and you can prep for it. Plus theyre probably trained, vaccinated, and all fixed up too
It took my cat about 5 years to get where he is now. He was abused as a kitten but now he is doing so much better and is way less scared! ☺️
So happy to hear
Aww poor baby. Its terrible and horrible that anyone could abuse such a cute little feline bub.
tip: you can turn anything into a cat toy. take a sheet of paper and smash it into a ball. that's the ultimate cat toy.
also: i know you already gave her a name but good names for cats are anything with s,x,,t,z, sh,
it catches their attention and they recognize these sounds better
Yess.. also if the name ends with an 'ee' sound they'll respond better.. like Julie, kitty, Jessie etc
Sonaそな OMFG so her tip was to start with a t, and yours said to end in ee- im naming the kitten i’m gonna adopt toby
@@ekramm219 lol Good one 😉
Another awesome toy is anything expensive that is ordered online. They love the boxes that it comes in.
I just got a cat today, I’m naming her Slinky :)
We've always had cats growing up, a few tips I've picked up over the years when meeting a new cat: a) let them come to you, on their own time.Being up in their grill puts them on edge immediately.encourage children to do the same and save tears later on.
b) when a cat looks at you, make direct eye contact with them (don't look away), and slowly consciously blink.i count to 3 when blinking and do it a few times until they look away. This mimics natural cat on cat behaviour, and is a sign of trust (angry cats NEVER look away or blink at each other instinctively).
c) let them have a few spots which are quiet, warm, snug and away from other pets, kids, noise. Don't invade these spaces. Let them feel safe there and come out for love and attention when they are ready-this will calm them long term!
d) if you can't handle the energy and attention a kitten needs (its a baby after all!) Or the idea of committing to care for something for a full 15+years then instead, consider adopting a grown cat. They are often toilet trained at shelters, de-sexed, the shelter should be clear about their personality(so you know what your getting), and need loving homes too!
If you don’t want a cat to be on or jump up on a surface, put tin foil around the top of the surface . So when she jumps up on to it it will make a noise loud enough to send a message. After a few attempts she will get the message.
Or spray some lemon
The audio of y’all bathing her is literally so precious
Fr😭
“it’s ok it’s ok.” so precious 😭
It really is so cute I love how both are helping 🥹🥹🥹
Cats actually do really enjoying collecting things they find and hiding them so like hair ties or any small things on the ground they can push around or grab. I used to have a cat who every night while my family was sleeping she would go around the house and pick up all the hair ties she found in everyone's rooms on the ground and then leave them in a pile on the living room floor.
That's quite useful actually lol
i lose mine all the time, that would be so helpful lol
I can confirm. One of my cats like to play with rocks and one day* I found four rocks in a line under the bed
@@archangel4679 omg that’s so cute!
@@em_888 Ikr!
I've had my cat for 3 days now and I'm so thankful he warmed up to me immediately, especially since its also my first time having a pet. Thank you for ur tips and info^^
if you go to google images and look up "ugly kitten" the ones they're calling ugly are CUTE/ so there's no such thing as an ugly kitten.
There no such thing as a ugly cat
Tips:
1. To get your cat to scratch on it's scratcher, you can spray catnip on it or sprinkle some on top
2. To stop cat from scratching your personal items or any unwanted places, spray with any citrus scents
or lavender
3. To stop cat from scratching you:
•Get nail caps which people call "kitty soft paws"
• maybe she's scratching you cuz you might be using your limbs to play with her (watch kitten lady and cat mojo on more tips cuz they're REALLY helpful)
4. Get a friend for your kitten preferably from a real rescue or shelter this time to be sure of health and personality. Getting a friend for your kitten lets you have more time for yourself, stops rough play like scratching and biting, makes them happier as well as more behaved and is honestly 3× more fun with HALF the work🤗
5. To stop urine spraying, spay uni cuz this usually fixes the problem
Just here to add that cats are normally neutered with 6 month of age, you definitely shouldn’t do it too early.
Also:
1. to avoid cat’s jumping on tables use sticky tape in the beginning!
2. Always have some cat grass at home if your cats is an indoor cat to help with digestion and hair balls. It also encourages your cat to not chew up your other plants. Still only have non toxic plants at home, you never know what looks like a tasty treat to those fur balls.
3. I personally wouldn’t use nail caps, kittens should learn how to use their claws and what damage they do. Just never use your hands to play with them and stop giving them attention if they chew or claw your hands or feet. Some scratches are still to be expected with kittens, they are still learning, but if your adult cat is well socialized scratches shouldn’t be a common thing.
4. Yes yes YES, I’d always encourage getting two cats from the same litter or ones who already like each other at once, cats may be solitary hunters but they usually don’t live completely separate from others. Many shelters (at least in my country) often have pairs of cats they only adopt out together. Introducing a second cat later is also possible but a little harder, best do it when they’re still young, but there are lot’s of tips and guidances online!
@@toff1568 Thanks for helping me out🤗 i may have forgot a "few" things😅
I would not recommend the cap for the claws, they can take them off and eat them
Kitty soft paws is actually accepted by jackson galaxy and Gary weitzman (vet and ceo of SDHS) but as a last resort. It really is always better to let them express their natural instincts like scratching but only on a scratching post (since all cats are different they like scratching on different textures and
Sides whether it be diagonal or lying down)
@@sweetss7703 ohh, ok!
I love her lil fur bits sticking out behind her ears. That is.. ADORABLE.
Oh, btw, cats are NOT afraid of water. The reason this is associated with them is because when a cat is not mostly in control of themself, they can freak out or develop a "fear." So when a cat is forced to take a bath and can't control what's happening, they freak out.
Edit: You can also use scent-related things to keep your cat off counters!
Dogs have masters and cats have staff
People dont own cats. Cats own them
As someone who owns both, this is only true if you let it
Kinda true
Fr
Also, cats don't usually pant!!!!! they're not like dogs, it your cats panting too much it means she's overheating too much.
I'd doubt check that tho.
They can pant after a long play session tho, I'd advise that you give them water after
Only time I've seen a cat panting was when one of our cats was getting into labour. Also stressed cats can pant.
Cats can pant for many reasons, some extremely serious (heart attack, poison, shock) and some completely normal (playing, minor stress, too warm) and often depends quite a bit on an individual cat's response. I highly recommend having a regular vet that you can consult about symptoms like panting, which can be very complex and difficult to diagnose without training.
They can also pant due to stress/anxiety which seems possible here since having these put on is a bit overstimulating for a cat. But always a good idea to ask your vet.
@@crov.0375 Yes! I saw that. She was probably playing with it too hard. One thing to do is check the paws. They sweat through their paws and if their paws are hot and wet it needs to slow down and rest. Give it a break from play.
number one tip from someone who has fostered over 200 cats and kittens: spay and neuter your frickin animals. PLEASE.
Avdrxiy ugh that’s so gross 🤢💀
yes. hello here from someone who has picked up cats on the street so many times I had no money left anymore and had to find GOOD homes for them. People having cats cats have kittens kittens get dragged
into the city and thrown out of cars.
this is the first thing i thought.
What about brushing kitty teeth? Should we brush them or nah?
Gunjan Shukla it’s a good idea. dental cleaning are pricey but important an can be reduced with regular brushing. it’s still important to have their teeth examined at the vet though.
I can totally relate to you as a cat mum of two cats! The joy, happiness and love we got from our fur babes are far more than the “damage” they’ve done in the house lol. When you take them home, they officially becomes your family member, I couldn’t imagine my life without my fur babes❤! I feel so blessed that my cats are living a happy, healthy life with us😊.
"Its not so cute-"
URHENEYGDJ THEY IS ALL CUTE- IT CAN BE HAIRLESS AND ILL GIVE IT ENDLESS AMOUNTS OF LOVE AND AFFECTION
IKR! and sphynx cats, too, people dont like them cuz theyre hairless BUT DO YOU KNOW HOW AFFECTIONATE THEY ARE-
A tip from a person who has two cats.
BUY SCRATCHING POSTS! If you notice your cat trying to stretch up against something with their claws, put a scratching post there. Sometimes these can be expensive but it will save your furniture :)
Oh yes. Last week nori started scratching the corner in my kitchen this happened in the morning and after work I drove to the pet shop and bought a scratching pad for this corner. Both cats lice it and use it daily...
I accidentally “trained” my cat not to scratch me or attack me and now he attacks everyone but me and my dad 🤣
How did you train her?
My cats barely use their claws anymore
Unless when playing with something
how omg
I didn’t really train him he just doesn’t scratch me anymore
Hi!! I watched your video the day before adopting my 9 week old kitten Violet. It was so sweet and adorable and really helped me to go for it! And I am so so glad I did. I relate to so many things you said- the endless nick names, the surprising flood of joy and love, the anxieties.. Thank you so much for sharing and hope both you and Uni are happy and healthy!
guys don't let your cat out just in the middle of your house. they are SO much less anxious when you let them out in the bathroom with the door closed and just let them adjust to that room for the day, then introduce them to the rest of the house at their own pace. they're much less anxious this way and won't really hide.
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I tried but when I had my kitten he wanted to explore everything and was already climbing into peoples laps 😂
@@dylankylee5127 aw so cute
Can I put him at fist in my room, I can tell my siblings to not go in there
@@lilylovely2478 yeah that’s a secluded room and it’s ok to slowly let your siblings see the cat
just a tip:
cats like to copy what their owner does so try getting a mini laptop!
like trying to write! You can give them mini things and they enjoy spending time with you!
of course not every cat will go along with it lol
When your cat watched you go toilet it's because she wants to protect you since you're venerable at that stage and won't easily protect yourself
Do u mean vulnerable?...
Really?
Because my cats follow me everywhere HAHAHAHA
@@chelseacasuga9400 no I’m asking if you meant to use the word “vulnerable” bc you wrote “venerable” which means something else
Wut
Watched this video when I was getting a cat,
caring for a cat, and when she died.❤
Love u Bubbles
How could anyone say that angel isn't cute? She's cute and beautiful.
I think a huge lesson i learned about cats is that all cats have different personalities. I adopted a cat thinking cats will be low maintenance, love cuddling, and less active as compared to dogs. My cat is the exact opposite. She demands specific food or she’d rather go hungry, she prefers to be alone and only ask for pets when she feels like it, and she demands for play time every night.
...and remember the cat beds you bought but they never use? That can be a very useful to stop them from going to certain areas. I gave up trying to make my cat sleep in the bed, so I put the cushion behind my PC so she wont go there, and it worked like wonder lol
This video helped me so much ❤️
This is my cat story:
So I was never a cat lover. I liked them though. But few months back, my cousins adopted a cat. It was really sweet towards me and I really wanted to adore him. So my cousins inspired me to hold that cat as I was scared to hold it because it can scratch me. Then I held him and It was one of the best moments of my life. Then one day that cat came to me and sat on my lap and took rest. It was amazing!! I started to love cats so much that I was wanting one for myself as well.
I prayed everyday so that my parents agree to let me adopt a cat as they’re not super fond of cats. Then few weeks ago, I saw a cat for adoption and it was meow at first sight and I was being crazy to adopt it. I was so scared that someone else might adopt it before me . I asked my parents and surprisingly they agreed and let me adopt it.
So this September I adopted my cat and he is the sweetest little bean. It feels like he’s been made for me. He gives me new experiences everyday; makes me learn new things and makes me love him even more every time he goes to sleep.
I learnt a lot about cats and I love them so much now. They’re so precious and They’re so adorable.
I love each and every animal but cats are now on the top of the list.
If you made it till the end , THANK YOU VERY MUCH. I really appreciate it.
Typical. Who is able to resist a cat? LOL :)
Aww this is so sweet 🥰
how did you manage to convince your parents to let you get one? :( i'm currently trying to let them agree to get me one, for emotional support. Any tips?
@@lampgenso just find a time when they’re calm and tell them all the possible pros of having a cat.. also tell them how amazing they are and warm they are.. recently i found somewhere that living with a cat decreases the rate of heart problems. And I hope they’ll agree.. let me know update
@@amrinamaisa801 thank you so much:) i will definitely update you!:)
Also, regular peeing on the bed (not spraying, which is standing up) isn't marking. It probably indicated that she didn't understand or like her litter box or its location initially.
her scratching problem is actually due to the fact that you separated her from her brothers and sisters too early. To make sure that kittens learn all the ways of being social and playing with others, they should stay together for the first three months of their life
my kitten is 6 almost 7 weeks and has a scratching problem. my dad rescued him from a dirt pile at 3 weeks old separated from his family. he’s such a sweet cat but he wants to scratch everyone. this makes so much sense
Ah i see my dad found my kitten in a broken abandoned car at his work place which is (destroying car parts). So my dad took the kitten home. It makes sense he wants to bite & scratch everything
my bf adopted his cat when she was ~5 weeks old and she has a major scratching problem rn (and frankly, doesn't know how to play nice). the only thing we really can do is keep her claws clipped, try to buy a scratcher to put near our couch, and get her energy out so that she doesn't have a major scratching/energetic episode. That being said, i grew up with a cat that was ~10 weeks old when my parents adopted him and i don't think he had a scratching problem. i'm not sure if a kitten needs to be with its siblings for 2-3 months, but at least 10 weeks is ideal.
In Sweden we have a rule saying that kittens are not to be separated from mom and siblings until they're 12 weeks. In the case of Uni she would have been moving way to early no matter what because of the man who owned the mama cat. At least she ended up with a loving and caring person who gave her all the patience she needed to develop into a beautiful young cat.
My kitten has scratching problem too, she's a stray cat, I found her when she's 2 months old in a pile of rocks & woods alone & sick 😔
Don't worry about the scratching, they do stop scratching you as they get older, they learn to play without hurting you.
As for beds, yep... don't waste money on beds unless you plan to buy a covered one (cocoon style!), for an uncovered sleeping option your bed, couch, cushioned chair, pile of clothes, pillow will do... but they do love a cocoon style sleeping option, I can almost guarantee if you buy her a cocoon style bed she will most definitely love it and use it :)
When she gets older I would definitely recommend having bath water already drawn and ready. All three of my cats love bath time now and feel less stressed. I also give them treats afterwards to reassure them that what was happening in the bathroom is a good thing. You did really good and amazing for a first-time pet/ cat owner. Jackson Galaxy and The Kitten lady are amazing people and their resources are so vital to new cat owners. :) Uni is adorable!
Never bath a cat in water. They groom themselves. You are traumatizing your cat.
@@josebrivera1716 uhm, yes they groom themselves but occasionally they do need to be bathed in order to stay healthy. Especially for long-furred cats. You shouldn’t “never put them in water”
Don’t spread misinformation please! /nm
I had my owner for 16 years I never gave her a bath. She never did stink, get oily, or get sick. She went to her vet every year for her check up and shots. She was an indoor outdoor cat (spayed and had her own claws). She was a proud kitty and would let me know that she was a great hunter by leaving little carcasses at the door. There was only one time she brought in a live little mouse. She was having her fun with it then my husband tried to catch it and the cat got bored watching him and let him play. It was hilarious 😂😂. She passed and left a hole in my heart that I just recently filled with not one but two kittens. They thankfully have adopted us and fill our lives with laughter and amazement every day. To be owned by a cat 😺 is to know that you are loved. Thank you Lord for these precious animals.🙏
Thanks to everyone for the tips. I think each of us will learn the best way to manage our owners.💕
This is such a sweet video and a good guide! I'm priming myself to get adopted by another cat after my longtime feline owner passed away in the fall, and I'm now fully convinced that the one thing I need in my life right now is a kitten to spoil and love to bits. There really is no feeling like waking up with a tiny, purring bundle of fur on your head!
I died when kitten was like:
"this is it, *this is how i die* "
Same
Watching you and your husband giving her the flea bath was probably one of the cutest things I've ever seen. And her meows. Awww. You're an awesome cat mom.
watching this video, i forget (and take for granted) that so many people grow up without exposure to pets. i had cats and dogs as a child so a lot of the topics covered are just common sense to me (again, cuz i grew up with animals). when you're introducing a cat to a new home, a popular strategy to help them acclimate is to start them off in just 1 room (usually a bedroom) and allowing them to get comfortable before you open up and introduce them to the rest of the home. also, during the bathing segment, it's good to note that running the water at a much gentler/quieter/softer level vs. full on would help avoid some of the struggle/fear. alternatively, you can also bathe them in the sink in a shallow bath (without constantly running the tap) and only turning the faucet on at a low level for the final rinse. it's unfortunate that the previous owners didn't do anything about fleas / deworming / fixing, but that's actually a fairly common issue when adopting very young kittens from average households vs. breeders vs. a pet store / shelter.
You are the most diligent cat Mum, she’s a very lucky (and very cute) little girl. She reminds me of a baby tortoiseshell cat I had as a kid who was the sweetest baby girl ever
Get her a friend! Cats learn from each other. It's not too late. She's still a kitten. Great video!
A tip for new cat owners : never bath ur kitten with cold water always bath ur kitten with warm water coz if u bath ur kitten with cold water they may hate bath times and if u bath them with warm water they are calm and less stressed so always bath them with warm water since it’s safe and yes always use safe cat shampoo and put some toys or play some videos for cat in the tub to calm them down and they will be easily distracted hope it helps!💕
I think they used dish soap. 😳
You don’t bathe cats period.
Also helps to hold them by the scruff if you’re giving a flee bath, helps them not move and mimics momma cat and to have warm water filled in two cups.
Can I ask something should I Only give it a bath in the summer cause my mom told me that the don't take a bath in winter at all
@@byabbs what else were they supposed to do? let her keep the fleas? i think if your cat truly needs a bathe for health reasons you should let them, however bathing them consistently is bad
FYI: Uni is 100% calico. Calicos are tricolor: white, black, and red. Tortoiseshells are duel color: black and red. Tortoiseshells don’t have any white.
Calicos have thousands of different patterns. A calico can even have one primary color, with little touches of the other two colors.
Another version of these colorations are the diluted versions, which are less intense colors. For example, grey instead of black and cream instead of red.
I have a dilute calico named Bridgett. She is primarily charcoal, with white chest and belly, and cream markings on her collar bone and nose. Even though she’s almost entirely grey, the little touches of white and cream makes her a dilute calico.
Fun fact : calico is not a breed, just a pattern
If ya want, a good other way is to just call your cat a tortie w/white (kinda also as white is a different gene than any other cat colour)! In the end, coat is not what matters.
I don't even see the term calico thrown around the genetics-related chats I see anyway, no idea how about you. Tortoiseshell is a different gene combination, white is a different gene - and calico is just a name, same as tortie/torbie!
I personally more often call cats calico when they're a black tortie with white and kinda big spots around their body, but that's just my opinion.
also, fun fact, grey cats are actually called blue!
fun fact u are colorblind calicos are black, orange, white idk where u got red if u rnt colorblind tho
@@Colbyw74 Ginger can also be called red in cats. Like when you say someone has naturally red hair. - you don't mean red as like a tomato. "Orange" cats being called red (or red tabbies, but that colour always has stripes anyway) is actually genetically correct.
Fun fact from someone who breeds papered Maine coones: You’re wrong. Tortoiseshells can absolutely have white, it is a very rare coloring but it exists, the more common ones are a torbie with white, which is a tortoiseshell with tabby markings. I have two of these and they are VERY expensive, rare coloring especially for a breed like a registered Maine coone. Please don’t misinform people.
I know this video was 2 years ago now but super important for anyone getting a cat: Citruses (lemon, lime, grapefruit, etc) and Onions (onions, shallots, garlic, etc) are both little-known toxins to cats. It's unlikely that they'll ever go for either on their own, but for their safety, make sure they're stored away and never within reach of your cat
Idc if I sound over dramatic, but she is the CUTEST CAT I HAVE EVER SEEN BEFORE, WOW SHES BEAUTIFUL
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Me like: “it takes weeks for cats to get used to a new environment?!?”
Me: my kittens just came out of their carriers and just started running around the room going like OH HI WHATS YOUR NAME??
and
OMG CAN I EAT THIS?
IS THIS A TOYY!!!
Which is totally different from my older cat who is very calm and sorts shy
Omg same I got a kitten and my kitty just ran out and explored
And also first replied
I LOVE that. I love hyper cats so much
It really matters how well they were socialized in their early weeks, that's when kittens develop their skill set&attitude to all new things for their whole lives. Responsible breeders familiarize their kittens to traveling, vets, children, being handled&groomed&medicated and all kinds of different stressors they might face in life before sending them to their new homes so they will adapt well and have a happier life.
what is your cats breed!
the subtitles while giving her a flea bath i’m dying 😩
Ikr it was hilarious only the subtitles though like this is how I die 🤣🤣🤣I am sorry lol
I'm concerned you picked her up with all those fleas! Why didn't the owner at the time treat them!
@@melissap439 yes she was homeless, and the foster women didn’t know how to
We adopted a kitten a month back and have had incredibly similar experiences. Can’t help but fall in love with them , however challenging the ride turns out to be .
“I’ve seen so many pictures of kittens by now, but I’ve never felt so emotionally attached to one” me exactly!!!!
I adopted my kitten from a place that was quite far from where I live, I could have gotten one from a closer place, but I already fell in love with her since the first time I saw her 🥰 and goshhhh is she so attached to me, love it!!!!
Start trimming her nails at a young age, so she gets used to it. I recommend trimming spaghetti in front of her then slowly trim nails with treats! ^-^
@Peer Gynt not if they're an outdoor cat. If you have them only indoors, it's highly recommended. Had I not trimmed my cats claws, the wooden floor wouldn't have survived.
@Ally you're supposed to regularly trim their nails, they can grow inwards. this goes the same for multiple animals.
Ally if an animal does not use a scratching post much(older cats that are not as active fit into this) then you should clip their nails cuz they DO curve and can cause damage. this goes for a variety of animals, as i said before.
Ally I think you have trimming nails confused with declawing a cat. The nail is not the finger of a cat, their finger/paw bones are inside their paw. They can still grab onto things with clipped nails they’re just not as sharp. We clip our kittens nails once a week and they’re like fish hooks by the next week. It’s not just an American thing, cat owners do this everywhere. Stop being weird.
M mpb I agree
My calico Cleo adopted me when I went to an animal shelter to adopt her black and white sister. She just jumped into my hands and said can we pick up some chicken wings on the way home. It’s been the best two months of my life with her and everything you described in this video is literally what I’m dealing with every day. Initially I wasn’t a cat person, but now I call Cleo the love of my life. She brought so much joy into my hectic life. I love your tricolor kitten. She is adorable and the person who called her ugly has no idea what beauty is!
Much love! 🐈🐾❤️
Can’t believe i finished your almost 30 mins video, your voice is so beautiful, very informative content and encouraged me to get a cat already, love you uni!
The cat guy saying she wasn’t cute made me so mad!! Reminds me of when I got my cats a couple years ago, the family that seen them before us didn’t want them because they were too big, they were 3 months old!!
They are all cute.
I'm getting my first ever adopted kitten today. Same with you, never grew up with cats and dogs or whatsoever so I'm clueless too so, let's see how it goes. Thanks for the video! Really helpful
How has it been with your cat so far?
How is it going I’m getting a cat tomorrow!!
Hola! We adopted 2 kittens 10months ago (1 boy, 1 girl) and they just had their first litter last month ❤️ At first it will be a sruggle especially the "grooming" part (though cats groom themselves more often), but as time goes by, you and the cat should have that rhythm.
@@sfcreatives_academy ah I see, I’m glad to hear things are going well for you :) I may be adopting a kitten in a few weeks time!
the person that said that “pets look a LOT like their owners” was right. you both are REALLY PRETTY :)
this video is very informative. this taught me a lot
This kitten is simply gorgeous. The reason to be shy, I guess, was because the fleas making her very uncomfortable, and also worms due to fleas infestation. You did an excellent job.