It's quite sad looking back that so many of us have had to go through this emotional tsunami that is the narc relationship. Life is precious, time is precious, and having happy times and happy memories. Yet the narc brings so much darkness and pain into our lives. Thank goodness we are now healing. Thank you Andrew, a lovely message of recovery in this video. Blessings to you too, as you give so much in these videos Andrew, look after you too!! Sending love and support to all of us in this group. 💟💟💟💜💜💜🙏🕊🕊🕊🇬🇧 and especially to Andrew 💟💜
I definitely agree with you. I’ve grown so much, I now understand how and why the Narc was able to get close to me. The fact that I’d been looking for outside validation, due to my upbringing. Looking back, I see that the narc was turning me into a codependent person, with no voice, and I was a people pleaser. Now! I’m stronger than I’ve ever been! I don’t have an issue with telling people no. I take my time when getting to know new people, and I listen to my gut. It’s been 11 months since my break up, and I’m no longer afraid of being alone. Even after going through this, I don’t have a wall up. I just let people expose themselves.
This so resonate with me, I was brought up that way too, even now I still ppl first it's just who I am, if I try do otherwise I'm not happy, not as strong yet still struggling but I know for sure I'd never look back after the emotional pain a frustration I endured I'm determined to look ahead and keep my head above the water, thanks for sharing, means much
My first version was innocent and too trusting. The second version of me was a victim. The third version is.....what didn't kill me made me stronger. I like my stronger!
As I traveled down the rabbit hole on my healing path the 3rd version of me found the naive, optimistic, vulnerable, people pleasing, perfectionist, codependent 1st version of me. I picked her up and gave her a big hug and said it's ok it's not your fault you were just young, manipulated and you trusted the wrong person with your heart. Then as we proceeded forward we found the broken emotionally bruised and barely hanging on 2nd version of me. We helped dust her off and we all cried together. We thanked her for finding the courage to stand up and say NO MORE. We then reminded her that she was going to be alright if she kept pushing ahead, fighting and educating herself. We helped her through the fog and to break the trauma bond. After finding my way out of that rabbit hole the 3rd version of me looks at the first 2 with total respect and compassion for everything they went through. Likewise, I know that they look at me with great pride and applaud how far I have come in my fight for self awareness and recovery. The first two versions of me will always be a part of me. Their broken pieces are well on their way to being healed. I am confident that they can now lay back and rest knowing that this new empowered 3rd version is fully in charge and will NEVER let this abuse ever happen to us again in any capacity. This truly is the ultimate silver lining of surviving a npd abusive relationship. God bless everyone in this community that has had to endure this abuse. It's absolutely unacceptable and we can never let it define us. Stay strong the light is so much brighter as you continue to move ahead. Always remember you are never alone.🙏✨🕊️💪💛🦋
@@Tammy-hm9zr It truly is amazing. I woke up a few hours ago thinking about this video and my comment and fell back asleep, and then woke up to your reply hours later. Incredible🙏😇 I just rewatched this and listened to Andrew say again that there are no coincidences in life. I know I was meant to rewatch this video for several reasons today and I'm glad I did. This motivational video is a reminder to us all that we are in control of ourselves, our thoughts and our actions. After my personal awakening and awareness I learned that all of the answers to life's questions lie within me. It's a reminder of how important it is to trust your gut in any situation. When we are calm and composed we can look deep within so that we can respond and not react. When we let our rational side be our reason as opposed to our emotions we can be confident that the decisions that we make are right for us. Out of all my comments this is closest to my ❤️. It represents and validates my journey in its rawest, most vulnerable and authentic form. In thinking about this comment it reminded me of how naive that first first version was. If someone would have said to me something is not right here or I knew about narcissism and the red flags to look for it may have saved me 30 years of trauma. I knew something was wrong very early on, but I thought it was normal. As we all know now it was not. I'm over that and have fully accepted that this path was part of God's plan for me while I was in his waiting room. There was a lot of good that came out of those 30 years other then my suffering. I had a checklist and plan for my life at a young age and by my 30th birthday all my boxes had been checked. Even at my party I said that everything after that point was a bonus and it was. I know how blessed and lucky I was to have never pushed my dreams aside for the narscistist, but that is not the case for so many. Education and awareness is key and in the world where we live where sadly evil walks this planet in many shapes and forms the phrase "If you see something say something" applies. This education as Andrew describes is a superpower. Along with it comes a huge responsibility to use it wisely. By listening to others and sharing our own experiences we are planting the seeds that in time may blossom into their own awakening and awareness if need be.🌱 Thank you for your reply. It was further confirmation that I know what is right for me. We all have great strength within us. Andrew is an excellent educator and he reminds us that even though he may have the answers to our questions it is up to us to find the answers to them within ourselves. 🙏♥️💪
The most important version of me right now is the educated version of me, had a bitter lesson before I got here but I'm so grateful I got out alive, so I got another chance to make me better and so aware and alert, Thank you always 🙏🙏❤️💯
Great advice Andrew. I've done it and come out the other side. The hardest part was staying no contact with him. With self forgiveness and time I have healed.
Thank you for this video. I was born into a family of two Narcissistic parents. The version of me when I left home at the age of 18...a broken, torn and deeply confused person. I abused drugs and alcohol for years because I couldn't face the pain of the abuse I suffered. I had a littany of severely dysfunctional relationships including a 7 year marriage to a Narc. The now version of me is recognizing so-called covert/vulnerable Narcissism. In my mind the most destructive and deceitful type there is. Also very difficult to recognize because these people will show remorse (false, of course) and make you pity them. I have fallen for this nonsense for the last time. Taking back my power - my time, my sanity, my peace, joy and happiness. Taking care of and treating myself as special because I deserve true and honest friendships and love. Thanks again, Andrew. 🙏🌸
Yes, I do believe that version 3 is the best version of myself. As excruciatingly painful it has been, I needed to get to version 3. Version 1 was a result of an unresolved childhood trauma. And version 2 was an extension of version 1. Now, I am putting in the work necessary to produce the best version of me! I love this video! 👍🏻🙏
This is exactly the path and what happens. It is getting better and better every day. The self-confidence, self-trust and self-love are coming to us. What a blessed feeling. God bless you Andrew. ❤
Andrew, thank you for bringing the three versions to us. I spent all morning working on this. It has brought even more clarity, and I have been FREE 13 years! So fellow healing humans, we will never stop learning. Version 3 is awesome!
This is EXACTLY what happened in the abusive relationship I was in. Oh my God, Andrew, I can't believe that everything you said was everything I went through. So, I'm healing. I did my best to love him and take care of him. Thanks again, Andrew. I keep leaving comments so that maybe I can help someone else. I went through the dark night. I am healing. God bless you!!
Coming from a family that was narcissistic, and then marrying a narcissist. I didn’t know the difference until the last four years. I’ve been learning about narcissism finally realizing I need to get out of this mess. Being a true empath. thank you Andrew, for giving me all the tools that I’ve needed out of all the videos that I’ve watched, yours has been the clearest with definitions, and have given me a clear path defined my new life.
Hello Andrew! I agree with you 100% yes you are so right it does take a lot of time to heal you know this is to all your subscribers what those people have done to us has caused a lot of damage and you are right Andrew you become the first version of yourself you can get that back it takes a lot of work and that is because those people caused a lot of damage to us I really do believe you become a better person on the other side even better then the first version of yourself!!! Just keep educating yourself watch videos like this it pushes you in the right direction and like you said Andrew we have to put in the work ourselves to all your subscribers stay strong Our Lives will get a lot better you will appreciate every little thing in life! Thank you for another great video looking forward to your next one God bless you Andrew!🙏💛💪⭐👏💯🙌✔️🙏
This was well timed for me. Even though it has been years since I exited my narcissistic relationship I am just really getting to the core of healing. I didn't even realize that was the type of person I was dealing with until later. I escaped with a toddler in tow and was unknowingly pregnant. I had no job but I was blessed with family. Today I am on my way back to me. I finished my master's degree. I have my dream job. I am not 100% yet but each day a little closer. Thank you for your insight and wisdom. Blessed be.
I did lose something about myself while dealing with my ex narc . It changed me and I’m trying to develop something new . I’m not so open or friendly to new people , honestly after it being all about him I’m trying to do all about me !! I truly was in a time warp of eight years with him . It felt like Groundhog Day . I don’t want him back it’s been four months, I’m tired of reliving what he actually did to me and I’m trying to replace that with good ideas and days . Thanks again Andrew I’m working hard at this ..
I fully understand the Groundhog Day. I think that has been one of my biggest surprises along my healing path. It's that each day now is never the same. I get excited to see what new things I will learn or I will experience in nature. I truly embrace all of the little things that make each day unique and special. Maintain your boundaries and enjoy your new freedom. Explore things that make you happy. We all deserve to be kind to ourselves. Have a great night 🌃
A lot of the good we do is because of our upbringing , culture, family and our solid core value & belief system. Don't be too hard on yourself for staying with the Narc despite the red flags, you did try to love them because of the goodness in you . That is why they will never have what you have. To take revenge on the Narc become that good person once again with those same values you once had. Give all that love to yourself and someone else who deserves it. When the Narc sees you doing this it will completely destroy them.
Authenticity being crushed in narc relationships truly is a complex issue to heal. Thank you for highlighting it. It is something I am still struggle with. I am on a journey to reconnect with myself after re-experiencing my narc mother. Thank you for your videos. Theyre immensely helpful on my journey.
This video is so meaningful because after 20 years with The narc, half my life literally, The biggest regret is The time wasted. Here you show us a totally different perspective ... thank you Andrew! Saludos desde Argentina ❤
I felt like this in the beginning also. Now after a lot of education and inner work though I look back on these years with the narc as life lessons learned. I know I needed to live those years to get to where I am today. I truly love and appreciate my life now, so I look back with no regrets. I did my best then and I continue to do my best now. I think that's all we can really hope for is to just appreciate each and every day that God gives us for the amazing gift it truly is 💛
I remember when I was 4 years of age being gaslighted and treated badly by narcissistic parents. At 5, I remember my first day of school coming home and being called a fagget by my mom. My mom beat me for no reason. I’m 56 now and finally starting to learn the about the abuse and how it’s affected my life. I’m in the processes of healing with getting educated about narcissistic behavior. I’m in week 3. Thank you Andrew for your supportive videos. ❤️
The most difficult narcissistic relationship to deal with is the one you are romantically involved in... not just a brief relationship or affair but a longstanding relationship like marriage....It is extremely hard....breaks your heart in a thousand pieces....
Thank You For Sharing This Video With All of us. Education is So Very Relevant.Heade Games Time Is Almost done with this. Thank You For Being there for all of us.
It’s crazy I was a year out of a Narcissistic situation-ship. Did all the shadow inner work and some therapy. Didn’t date or sex for a year. Was manifesting all of my dreams and goals. Coming to me easy. Everything I asked for had come true. The minute I met him I was on a very high vibration so I figured I haven’t felt this way in a while in the romantic department so let me give it another chance. The minute we had our first conversation my body was screaming Narcc but I didn’t listen and said every man I meet is not a Narcc. Mind you in my head I kept calling him the pervious Narrcs name and still was dealing with triggers I didn’t know I had until getting with the new Narcc. Well my body was trying to warn me. I am now rebuilding myself again and now I have to take my time and listen. I started to believe I was becoming the Narrc. This video helps so much. Thank you! This time around I learned boundaries really learning to love me effectively communicating and listening to myself intuitively. I have learned a lot about myself and from your videos because they are direct. I did go into learning my attachment styles and everything before meeting the second Narcc and learned some information about Narcc but I didn’t want to accept it and believe that’s what it was until now.
Good stuff! I'm in the the awakening I just deal in positivity! My negativity senses are set high and I don't waste my time. I just enjoy life. If somebody comes along great but if it never happens I'm just going to enjoy my life!
This resonates with me. Everything about the narc in my life was necessary. It was the suffering I walked through that made me truly see what life means, from attachment to ideas of what life should be, or what is truly valuable in life, to how I want to live this meaningful life. Thank you narc. It’s just so sad that narcs exist and their destruction so damaging. their journey is far tougher than mine, and I forgive them. Here’s to healing and the ongoing journey from a place of love.💓
Wow this is speaking to me in various ways. I had a total hysterectomy 7 years ago age 43. Traumatic straight into the menopause. The change of life is a change. I sometimes long for the woman I was before.....but I struggled with pain! Why not embrace the new me????? Also, a Narcissistic lady Pastor abused me 3 years ago.....I left that church. Struggling to trust church leaders and tried to return there but it was never the same...I am different now but wiser!!!!!
I’ve. Got no problems anymore because I love it and thank you for all your help and love. Reality I’ve never been in the Bull and. Always. Looked. After. Myself and look The. World. Is. Behind. My. Back. I. Never. Let. Them. Succeed. Thank goodness for the Universe and Gods ❤😊❤ Love You. Brother. Best
The first version of myself always said " Why I can't I just feel as strong as I see myself?", second - "Why do I have to act so strong when it's never enough?", third - " I'm starting to feel what strength truly means" 💪 😌 ❤
I'm in the process of getting my paperwork together I already hired a lawyer I've been married for almost 40 years. I can't deal with it anymore. My relationship is not healthy for me or anyone else.
Recognizing that you have had enough and accepting that the relationship is unhealthy is the first step to move forward to a more full, happier and healthier life. Best of luck to you as you begin your healing journey. Remember as you begin to navigate it the path is not linear. There will be good days and bad and that's normal. You are not alone 💛
Andrew thank you so much for the three versions. I think of thos all the time. I was 17 years old when I met the narcissist. I was sooo unhappy at this young age. I knew something was terribly wrong. I was sooo young and happy before I met this person. He took away everything from me. I look forward to the third version sooo much. I am looking forward to be free, peaceful, and prosperous again. This has taught me to e humble, to love myself which I am learning to do for the first time in my life. I want my light to shine AGAIN. I want to live the life that I was born to live. Please continue helping us Andrew. We are blessed to have you in our lives. May Father God bless, guide and light our paths to a fulfilled and happy life I pray this prayer every single day and I have faith that it will come pass.
Narcissistic abuse is deeply tied with a spiritual awakening. After version 2, the soul shock of this experience opens your blocked chakra (which deals with self love), and allows the prana energy to enter into the higher realms. This brings huge awareness during version 3 (super powers as Andrew calls it 🙂) and it is real. The forth version is Samadhi. Enlightenment ❤️
8;39 - 8:40 Not being authentic to yourself! That was exhausting, demeaning and self-depreciating; that wasn't a life!!! And, Andrew, great to see your sunny smile!
I never wanted to work on anything harder than healing right now. I need this version of me back so bad. It's only been a few weeks. And sometimes I feel like I'm drowning. I watch your videos everyday before and after work. Just to know I'm worth it. Thank you I u andrew ❤
Andrew today is difficult. I do have boundaries You are right I take care of me first. Tonight for some reason is difficult. I am going to make it. Thank you Andrew. I needed tonight to hear you.
Great video Andrew and totally agree with you. Having to go through the second version of myself is lonely and painful right now...but the end result is coming out happier, stronger and in all authenticity and peaceful version of myself is the version I'm becoming. It's a long road but you get there! 😊💖🙏.
Wow, what a video! Thank you Andrew.🙏 So true and important to come out of the isolation post narc abuse and express yourself. This is my first time posting a comment on your channel and from now on am going to make a purposeful effort to share and post freely! A sign and step in the right direction going forward to recovery.😁 Also to help get rid of the shame and guilt...please God! Thank you again for such a great video and insight!😇😇😇
Welcome Penny. By sharing your story you are helping yourself and others. When members share and learn from each other it is a continued reminder to the community that we are not alone and are surrounded by people who get it and get us. Stay blessed💛
Thank you for your video ,all your videos ,it helps me alot , thank you for being here for helping us all here & thank you everyone here for your comments . Blessed you all !!
Wow I have experienced all of the things that you're talking about so many years waisted but I have learned to recognize the signs and I now know what boundaries mean Thanks to you! Keep up the good work
I did not know about narcissism. It’s a shame that I do now . But I accept it as part of the lessons of life. It has certainly changed my opinions on many things. I am cautious and guarded. Once you’ve been thru this abuse you don’t go back to being the happy go lucky person that I was. But I guess as I grow older I find that the new me is probably better to be cautious as folk take more advantage of you as you become older. I am a switched on older person and now folks behaviours are noted and nothing is un noticed, I observe . So maybe this is in a strange way is a good way to adapt . This doesn’t mean I’m not the fun loving person I used to be I am just wiser 😊
Andrew, Any ideas for legal action for me? I've literally had my whole life ruined by broken women/relationships? Found out recently through counciling that I'm codependant, apparently a magnet for trouble. I'm doing EMDR to rid my body of trauma...doing the work! I definitely was the giver and she was the taker... exactly how you described in this video. Appreciate you and your passion to help others understand these very fraudulent, people. Thanks!
It's the same with me. I am now discovering for the first time who I am. How to love myself with all my perceived flaws, labels, feelings, thoughts, actions - perfectly imperfect. I believe things happen for me. I am 50 years old and I have had some journey in this life. Wow! I know how much I have to offer because of what I have survived. The rest of my life is here now. God bless everyone. Much love. 🙌💗🌹
I am almost 6 months out and starting to feel much better. I still have tears from ruminating. I feel sorry for them because they will never know True Love. I am learning to love myself through all this knowledge. Amen Andrew love you much. Would love To see you smile cause your still healing yourself. We will never forget the tools we learned. Thanks 🙏 😮💨
Hi Lovely Andrew 🤩This is an amazing video to listen to and I could recognise where I am in the healing path..the third version of filling my cup of love and truly realising I must come first..😃👍its a revelation I've only just started to awaken to. At the same time..my boundaries are not strong enough and come into laser sharp focus yet again but with a more steely determination to stick with them..come what may. So true how important the self care and self love is..create abundance here..then give out to others 😃👍Fabulous information Andrew..Bless you every day..😇🙏🥰🧡nameste 😇🙏
I definitely get it Andrew , the third version of me is the better version of me from the first version of me !!! I know you get what I mean . I know there can still be triggers at times , but I use those times to remind me of the third version of me ! I feel so good and so positive now Andrew . I've got a committed source . And I'm doing it right now . Education , insight , steadfast ! Totally understanding the reasons for NO CONTACT !! Everything about me starts falling in place . I really do like the third version that I am becoming !!! 🙏💪🙌😄
Andrew, thank you so much for sharing your ideas, your life experiences and your beautiful Being. Really helps to go through transformation. Every word resonates. Also I wish you happiness.
Hi Andrew, thank you so much for being there at the right time with so many of my questions being answered.Sadly I was in a relationship with a narc for over 31 years. Like you said I had no idea he was a narc and didnt know his form of behaviour was a trait or condition.I came across you only a couple of months ago now and again as you said this was no coincidence..... You have given me sooo much in all of your videos I have watched and there have been many. I cried out so loud and so much as that light bulb went on in fact it was more like a bolt of lightening. I lost everything I had ever worked for in every area of my life including myself and watching and listening to your videos as given me that ray of hope. and I am sorry if this is a little long but its my first step of courage to open up and make those 'little changes' you mentioned so I would like to thank you from my heart for all the amazing work you are doing for all of us out there,.....I live in a tiny hamlet in England UK and its amazing I came across you. It shows how love can travel and reach those who need it..... sending so much love back.
my only best friend died 5 yrs. ago & so I miss the Validation that I needed, then & now. This was 2015 when the Narcissist had invited me to Ecuador for, in her words; "a trip of a lifetime". She love bombed me cuz she wanted some herbals & other stuff delivered. I will not ruminate. Only from being under her roof could I begin to see that controlling, attention seeking, etc. drama side of her. She was no longer needing to publicly impress her cohort of flying monkeys here in Vancouver. Yet she came back here to do the smear campaign of me. I had no words to describe her behaviour until I got educated from your videos.
Am sorry you are in pain, you can & will heal from the pain, it does take time sitting through painful memories but please remember this the narcissist was Wrong, you should have been treated with love & respect. Self love, self forgiveness, keep watching Andrews videos, they have helped me heal & understand It's difficult, gang in there, do the work you can & will be happy again Take Care
You can do it. Believe me the best of you is right in front of you. You might not see it right now. The pain is worth it when you break free. You will see the beautiful light...
We’ve all been there. I stopped taking care of myself completely. I didn’t even realize how much I had abandoned myself. I’m only just starting to enjoy the process of taking care of myself. It will come in time, keep fighting.
I found you yesterday. He left in a blaze of drama 3 days ago. You gave me my lightbulb moment. You're saving me. Thank you will never be enough ❤️❤️❤️
And the really hurtful thing will be that he purposefully created the drama because he had a new source of supply already lined up. It is heartbreaking, but in time you could view it as a real gift to you. The sooner you are out, the better. Do not let him hoover you back in. Stand firm, even if you are in shock and disbelief.
When I was with my ex narc I turned into a female version of him, which is someone I wasn’t. He was into anything sexually horrible and I went along with as I was in a fog and I told myself that he’s just kidding and we’ll be a normal couple soon. My light bulb moment was when I realised that being deviant was his normal and I was just a body for him to act out what he wanted. He was grooming me to sleep with him and I wouldn’t which when I broke up with him, he was very angry and hoovered me for four months but I didn’t respond. He turned around and sent me a letter saying that he broke up with me because I’m a #%*~ which is what he was trying to turn me into anyway. 13yrs later and I occasionally have flash backs.
Another great video and 💯 on point. EVERYBODY who had to go through a narcissistic relationship, knows already by reading the TITLE, what you will refer to in the video. Thank you again! 🌺🕊
Thank you Andrew for the recommendation on this video. I watched it and got it..I had no clue up till a month ago.4 years in two out.Still hurts..Thank you.
Andrew: "They will put you on hold......" Me: Every. Single. Time. I stopped saying "Andrew's best video ever" quite a long time ago. I go back and listen to the videos recorded before I found the channel as often as I can......if I was still saying that~~THIS ONE!!! Thank you, dear soul.
It's quite sad looking back that so many of us have had to go through this emotional tsunami that is the narc relationship. Life is precious, time is precious, and having happy times and happy memories. Yet the narc brings so much darkness and pain into our lives. Thank goodness we are now healing. Thank you Andrew, a lovely message of recovery in this video. Blessings to you too, as you give so much in these videos Andrew, look after you too!! Sending love and support to all of us in this group. 💟💟💟💜💜💜🙏🕊🕊🕊🇬🇧 and especially to Andrew 💟💜
Thank you Amanda.. sincerely 🙏🙌💯❤️
I definitely agree with you. I’ve grown so much, I now understand how and why the Narc was able to get close to me. The fact that I’d been looking for outside validation, due to my upbringing. Looking back, I see that the narc was turning me into a codependent person, with no voice, and I was a people pleaser. Now! I’m stronger than I’ve ever been! I don’t have an issue with telling people no. I take my time when getting to know new people, and I listen to my gut. It’s been 11 months since my break up, and I’m no longer afraid of being alone. Even after going through this, I don’t have a wall up. I just let people expose themselves.
Thank you for sharing this Turquoise..💯🙌🙏😊
I admire your success!
God bless You on this journey...💝
This so resonate with me, I was brought up that way too, even now I still ppl first it's just who I am, if I try do otherwise I'm not happy, not as strong yet still struggling but I know for sure I'd never look back after the emotional pain a frustration I endured I'm determined to look ahead and keep my head above the water, thanks for sharing, means much
🙏🏾may god keep you strong and your awesome..
My first version was innocent and too trusting. The second version of me was a victim. The third version is.....what didn't kill me made me stronger. I like my stronger!
Beautiful 💪💪💪
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thanks, Andrew. Some of the credit goes to you! You made me realize that I'm doing great without him! Thank you. :)
As I traveled down the rabbit hole on my healing path the 3rd version of me found the naive, optimistic, vulnerable, people pleasing, perfectionist, codependent 1st version of me. I picked her up and gave her a big hug and said it's ok it's not your fault you were just young, manipulated and you trusted the wrong person with your heart. Then as we proceeded forward we found the broken emotionally bruised and barely hanging on 2nd version of me. We helped dust her off and we all cried together. We thanked her for finding the courage to stand up and say NO MORE. We then reminded her that she was going to be alright if she kept pushing ahead, fighting and educating herself. We helped her through the fog and to break the trauma bond. After finding my way out of that rabbit hole the 3rd version of me looks at the first 2 with total respect and compassion for everything they went through. Likewise, I know that they look at me with great pride and applaud how far I have come in my fight for self awareness and recovery.
The first two versions of me will always be a part of me. Their broken pieces are well on their way to being healed. I am confident that they can now lay back and rest knowing that this new empowered 3rd version is fully in charge and will NEVER let this abuse ever happen to us again in any capacity. This truly is the ultimate silver lining of surviving a npd abusive relationship.
God bless everyone in this community that has had to endure this abuse. It's absolutely unacceptable and we can never let it define us. Stay strong the light is so much brighter as you continue to move ahead. Always remember you are never alone.🙏✨🕊️💪💛🦋
Thank you for sharing this Christine 🙏💯🙌
I relate. All my "selves" are integrated into this new wise and strong, independent woman. 💗💫👌🏻👸🌸
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@@Tammy-hm9zr It truly is amazing. I woke up a few hours ago thinking about this video and my comment and fell back asleep, and then woke up to your reply hours later. Incredible🙏😇 I just rewatched this and listened to Andrew say again that there are no coincidences in life. I know I was meant to rewatch this video for several reasons today and I'm glad I did. This motivational video is a reminder to us all that we are in control of ourselves, our thoughts and our actions. After my personal awakening and awareness I learned that all of the answers to life's questions lie within me. It's a reminder of how important it is to trust your gut in any situation. When we are calm and composed we can look deep within so that we can respond and not react. When we let our rational side be our reason as opposed to our emotions we can be confident that the decisions that we make are right for us.
Out of all my comments this is closest to my ❤️. It represents and validates my journey in its rawest, most vulnerable and authentic form. In thinking about this comment it reminded me of how naive that first first version was. If someone would have said to me something is not right here or I knew about narcissism and the red flags to look for it may have saved me 30 years of trauma. I knew something was wrong very early on, but I thought it was normal. As we all know now it was not. I'm over that and have fully accepted that this path was part of God's plan for me while I was in his waiting room. There was a lot of good that came out of those 30 years other then my suffering. I had a checklist and plan for my life at a young age and by my 30th birthday all my boxes had been checked. Even at my party I said that everything after that point was a bonus and it was. I know how blessed and lucky I was to have never pushed my dreams aside for the narscistist, but that is not the case for so many. Education and awareness is key and in the world where we live where sadly evil walks this planet in many shapes and forms the phrase "If you see something say something" applies. This education as Andrew describes is a superpower. Along with it comes a huge responsibility to use it wisely. By listening to others and sharing our own experiences we are planting the seeds that in time may blossom into their own awakening and awareness if need be.🌱
Thank you for your reply. It was further confirmation that I know what is right for me. We all have great strength within us. Andrew is an excellent educator and he reminds us that even though he may have the answers to our questions it is up to us to find the answers to them within ourselves. 🙏♥️💪
The most important version of me right now is the educated version of me, had a bitter lesson before I got here but I'm so grateful I got out alive, so I got another chance to make me better and so aware and alert, Thank you always 🙏🙏❤️💯
Welcome Monica 💯🙌🙏
Thank you Monica Green for sharing. Brings hope.
AMEN!!!!
Grateful to be alive resonates so much with me. New appreciation and understanding of importance of spirituality
Yes I am a good Soul and person. Yes he is dangerous.
Great advice Andrew. I've done it and come out the other side. The hardest part was staying no contact with him. With self forgiveness and time I have healed.
Thank you for sharing this R W..💯🙌🙏
Stay strong!
Thank you for this video. I was born into a family of two Narcissistic parents. The version of me when I left home at the age of 18...a broken, torn and deeply confused person. I abused drugs and alcohol for years because I couldn't face the pain of the abuse I suffered. I had a littany of severely dysfunctional relationships including a 7 year marriage to a Narc. The now version of me is recognizing so-called covert/vulnerable Narcissism. In my mind the most destructive and deceitful type there is. Also very difficult to recognize because these people will show remorse (false, of course) and make you pity them. I have fallen for this nonsense for the last time. Taking back my power - my time, my sanity, my peace, joy and happiness. Taking care of and treating myself as special because I deserve true and honest friendships and love. Thanks again, Andrew. 🙏🌸
Welcome always Monya..🙏💯🙌
Yes, I do believe that version 3 is the best version of myself. As excruciatingly painful it has been, I needed to get to version 3. Version 1 was a result of an unresolved childhood trauma. And version 2 was an extension of version 1. Now, I am putting in the work necessary to produce the best version of me! I love this video! 👍🏻🙏
Beautiful Kristine 🙏💯🙌
This is exactly the path and what happens. It is getting better and better every day. The self-confidence, self-trust and self-love are coming to us. What a blessed feeling. God bless you Andrew. ❤
We are now number 1, 2 & 3 - a magical formula for life💫thank you
Welcome Carol 🙏💯🙌
Andrew, thank you for bringing the three versions to us. I spent all morning working on this. It has brought even more clarity,
and I have been FREE 13 years! So fellow healing humans, we will never stop learning. Version 3 is awesome!
Welcome 🙏🙏🙏
24 months post narc. I am now the 3rd version of myself!!!!! Didn't think I'd make it, but I did!!!!! Thank u, Andrew!!
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This is EXACTLY what happened in the abusive relationship I was in. Oh my God, Andrew, I can't believe that everything you said was everything I went through. So, I'm healing. I did my best to love him and take care of him. Thanks again, Andrew. I keep leaving comments so that maybe I can help someone else. I went through the dark night. I am healing. God bless you!!
You will never know how much you have helped me. Thank you!
Welcome K..🙏💯🙌😊
There is much to be enjoyed being wiser in your autumn years 💕
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There really is Lynn. Agree totally!
Coming from a family that was narcissistic, and then marrying a narcissist. I didn’t know the difference until the last four years. I’ve been learning about narcissism finally realizing I need to get out of this mess. Being a true empath. thank you Andrew, for giving me all the tools that I’ve needed out of all the videos that I’ve watched, yours has been the clearest with definitions, and have given me a clear path defined my new life.
Welcome 🙌🙏☀️
It definitely changes you as a person, It takes me ages to trust people, but I can never really let myself get close to anyone ♥️.
Hello Andrew! I agree with you 100% yes you are so right it does take a lot of time to heal you know this is to all your subscribers what those people have done to us has caused a lot of damage and you are right Andrew you become the first version of yourself you can get that back it takes a lot of work and that is because those people caused a lot of damage to us I really do believe you become a better person on the other side even better then the first version of yourself!!! Just keep educating yourself watch videos like this it pushes you in the right direction and like you said Andrew we have to put in the work ourselves to all your subscribers stay strong Our Lives will get a lot better you will appreciate every little thing in life! Thank you for another great video looking forward to your next one God bless you Andrew!🙏💛💪⭐👏💯🙌✔️🙏
Thank you for sharing this beautiful message Giuseppe.. I appreciate your kindness and honesty 💯🙌🙏
This was well timed for me. Even though it has been years since I exited my narcissistic relationship I am just really getting to the core of healing. I didn't even realize that was the type of person I was dealing with until later. I escaped with a toddler in tow and was unknowingly pregnant. I had no job but I was blessed with family. Today I am on my way back to me. I finished my master's degree. I have my dream job. I am not 100% yet but each day a little closer. Thank you for your insight and wisdom. Blessed be.
Beautiful empowering message of courage and resilience 💯🙏🙌💯
I did lose something about myself while dealing with my ex narc . It changed me and I’m trying to develop something new . I’m not so open or friendly to new people , honestly after it being all about him I’m trying to do all about me !! I truly was in a time warp of eight years with him . It felt like Groundhog Day . I don’t want him back it’s been four months, I’m tired of reliving what he actually did to me and I’m trying to replace that with good ideas and days .
Thanks again Andrew I’m working hard at this ..
I fully understand the Groundhog Day. I think that has been one of my biggest surprises along my healing path. It's that each day now is never the same. I get excited to see what new things I will learn or I will experience in nature. I truly embrace all of the little things that make each day unique and special. Maintain your boundaries and enjoy your new freedom. Explore things that make you happy. We all deserve to be kind to ourselves. Have a great night 🌃
Continue to become educated and awakened 🙏💯🙌😊💯
It’s over and I’m moving forward. No more will be abused!! Strict boundaries are in place. It’s about time for me.
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Been through the fire and thankfully came out stronger and much happier
Beautiful Fiona 🙏💯🙌😊
A lot of the good we do is because of our upbringing , culture, family and our solid core value & belief system. Don't be too hard on yourself for staying with the Narc despite the red flags, you did try to love them because of the goodness in you . That is why they will never have what you have. To take revenge on the Narc become that good person once again with those same values you once had. Give all that love to yourself and someone else who deserves it. When the Narc sees you doing this it will completely destroy them.
Omg I agree so much with this! 🎯🎯 I feel so at peace now, I can finally be myself! And celebrate me!! This is my year!!
Beautiful 🙌🙌💯🙏
Authenticity being crushed in narc relationships truly is a complex issue to heal. Thank you for highlighting it. It is something I am still struggle with. I am on a journey to reconnect with myself after re-experiencing my narc mother.
Thank you for your videos. Theyre immensely helpful on my journey.
Welcome Clt..💯🙌🙏
This video is so meaningful because after 20 years with The narc, half my life literally, The biggest regret is The time wasted. Here you show us a totally different perspective ... thank you Andrew! Saludos desde Argentina ❤
I felt like this in the beginning also. Now after a lot of education and inner work though I look back on these years with the narc as life lessons learned. I know I needed to live those years to get to where I am today. I truly love and appreciate my life now, so I look back with no regrets. I did my best then and I continue to do my best now. I think that's all we can really hope for is to just appreciate each and every day that God gives us for the amazing gift it truly is 💛
Welcome Marina..🇦🇷🇨🇷🙏🙌😉🙌
I remember when I was 4 years of age being gaslighted and treated badly by narcissistic parents. At 5, I remember my first day of school coming home and being called a fagget by my mom. My mom beat me for no reason. I’m 56 now and finally starting to learn the about the abuse and how it’s affected my life. I’m in the processes of healing with getting educated about narcissistic behavior. I’m in week 3. Thank you Andrew for your supportive videos. ❤️
Welcome 🙏💯🙌
Thank you so much for this hope!!!! Making it worth doing the work!!!
Absolutely correct 💯🙌🙏
Thank you, I needed to hear this.
Welcome 🙏💯🙌
The most difficult narcissistic relationship to deal with is the one you are romantically involved in... not just a brief relationship or affair but a longstanding relationship like marriage....It is extremely hard....breaks your heart in a thousand pieces....
I understand completely..💯🙌💯
Thank You For Sharing This Video With All of us. Education is So Very Relevant.Heade Games Time Is Almost done with this. Thank You For Being there for all of us.
Welcome Monique 🙏💯🙌
🎉 its a hard pill to swallow.. 🎉 My heart is open. Im a winner.❤❤
Me,myself and I......acceptances,perseverances and commitments.
Wash,rinse repeat 🙂
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It’s crazy I was a year out of a Narcissistic situation-ship. Did all the shadow inner work and some therapy. Didn’t date or sex for a year. Was manifesting all of my dreams and goals. Coming to me easy. Everything I asked for had come true. The minute I met him I was on a very high vibration so I figured I haven’t felt this way in a while in the romantic department so let me give it another chance. The minute we had our first conversation my body was screaming Narcc but I didn’t listen and said every man I meet is not a Narcc. Mind you in my head I kept calling him the pervious Narrcs name and still was dealing with triggers I didn’t know I had until getting with the new Narcc. Well my body was trying to warn me. I am now rebuilding myself again and now I have to take my time and listen. I started to believe I was becoming the Narrc. This video helps so much. Thank you! This time around I learned boundaries really learning to love me effectively communicating and listening to myself intuitively. I have learned a lot about myself and from your videos because they are direct. I did go into learning my attachment styles and everything before meeting the second Narcc and learned some information about Narcc but I didn’t want to accept it and believe that’s what it was until now.
Beautiful message Alexis.. thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌
Good stuff! I'm in the the awakening I just deal in positivity! My negativity senses are set high and I don't waste my time. I just enjoy life. If somebody comes along great but if it never happens I'm just going to enjoy my life!
Beautiful G B..🙏🙌💯
Good on you, G B. 🤸♂️🙂
Positivity is the path to brighter and happier days and we continue to move forward each day✨
This resonates with me. Everything about the narc in my life was necessary. It was the suffering I walked through that made me truly see what life means, from attachment to ideas of what life should be, or what is truly valuable in life, to how I want to live this meaningful life. Thank you narc. It’s just so sad that narcs exist and their destruction so damaging. their journey is far tougher than mine, and I forgive them. Here’s to healing and the ongoing journey from a place of love.💓
Thank you for sharing Rango..🙏💯🙌
I no longer look for the magic pill. I am stronger, wiser and more beautiful thanks to every narcissist in my life. I even wrote a book!
Beautiful Beth..thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌
Wow this is speaking to me in various ways. I had a total hysterectomy 7 years ago age 43. Traumatic straight into the menopause. The change of life is a change. I sometimes long for the woman I was before.....but I struggled with pain! Why not embrace the new me????? Also, a Narcissistic lady Pastor abused me 3 years ago.....I left that church. Struggling to trust church leaders and tried to return there but it was never the same...I am different now but wiser!!!!!
Beautiful growth 🙏💯🙌
THANK YOU!!!! GOD BLESS YOU!
Thank you 🙏 💯🙏
I’ve. Got no problems anymore because I love it and thank you for all your help and love. Reality I’ve never been in the Bull and. Always. Looked. After. Myself and look The. World. Is. Behind. My. Back.
I. Never. Let. Them. Succeed. Thank goodness for the Universe and Gods ❤😊❤ Love You. Brother. Best
If we don’t take care of ourselves first we’re no good to others. I’m ready to love again!!
Beautiful growth 🙏💯🙌😊
Love and light 🙏❤️🙏
Yes..💯🙌🙏
The first version of myself always said " Why I can't I just feel as strong as I see myself?", second - "Why do I have to act so strong when it's never enough?", third - " I'm starting to feel what strength truly means" 💪 😌 ❤
Beautiful growth 🙏💯🙌
I'm in the process of getting my paperwork together I already hired a lawyer I've been married for almost 40 years. I can't deal with it anymore. My relationship is not healthy for me or anyone else.
Recognizing that you have had enough and accepting that the relationship is unhealthy is the first step to move forward to a more full, happier and healthier life. Best of luck to you as you begin your healing journey. Remember as you begin to navigate it the path is not linear. There will be good days and bad and that's normal. You are not alone 💛
Sending healing energy and strength Larry..🙏💯🙌
Andrew thank you so much for the three versions. I think of thos all the time. I was 17 years old when I met the narcissist. I was sooo unhappy at this young age. I knew something was terribly wrong. I was sooo young and happy before I met this person. He took away everything from me. I look forward to the third version sooo much. I am looking forward to be free, peaceful, and prosperous again. This has taught me to e humble, to love myself which I am learning to do for the first time in my life.
I want my light to shine AGAIN. I want to live the life that I was born to live. Please continue helping us Andrew. We are blessed to have you in our lives.
May Father God bless, guide and light our paths to a fulfilled and happy life I pray this prayer every single day and I have faith that it will come pass.
Welcome always 🙏💯🙌
Damn, so true.. i didn't know what it was till last year from tic toc
Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌
Narcissistic abuse is deeply tied with a spiritual awakening. After version 2, the soul shock of this experience opens your blocked chakra (which deals with self love), and allows the prana energy to enter into the higher realms. This brings huge awareness during version 3 (super powers as Andrew calls it 🙂) and it is real. The forth version is Samadhi. Enlightenment ❤️
Thank you ❤️❤️🙏🙏
8;39 - 8:40
Not being authentic to yourself!
That was exhausting, demeaning and self-depreciating; that wasn't a life!!!
And, Andrew, great to see your sunny smile!
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Thanks, Andrew! 🌞 👍🏼 Dead on! 👍🏼 Additionally, the self-absorbed evil narcissistic individual is pleased with their atrocious tactics.
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Thank you Karen 🙏🙌💯
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 🎶 🙏 🎶
As always thank you for your great video today!
Welcome Barbara 🙌💯🙏
Thank you Andrew, I am onto the third version of myself. I agree with everything you’ve said. I am amazing. You are amazing.
Thank you for sharing this Shelia 🙏💯🙌
Thank you for posting these educational videos. It is a long path....
Welcome.. I understand 💯🙌🙏💯
I can’t express to you how grateful I am for your videos.
Thank you 🙏
I never wanted to work on anything harder than healing right now. I need this version of me back so bad. It's only been a few weeks. And sometimes I feel like I'm drowning. I watch your videos everyday before and after work. Just to know I'm worth it. Thank you I u andrew ❤
Continue on the path.. you are doing great Maria..🙏💯☀️🙌
Andrew, this made me cry and for all the right reasons...amazing to meet you as well. A true empath. Thank you x
Welcome ☀️🙌😊
Andrew today is difficult. I do have boundaries You are right I take care of me first. Tonight for some reason is difficult. I am going to make it. Thank you Andrew. I needed tonight to hear you.
Welcome always 🙏💯🙌☀️💪😊
Great video Andrew and totally agree with you. Having to go through the second version of myself is lonely and painful right now...but the end result is coming out happier, stronger and in all authenticity and peaceful version of myself is the version I'm becoming. It's a long road but you get there! 😊💖🙏.
Thank you Daljit 🙌🙏💯
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 🙏.
Wow, what a video! Thank you Andrew.🙏 So true and important to come out of the isolation post narc abuse and express yourself. This is my first time posting a comment on your channel and from now on am going to make a purposeful effort to share and post freely! A sign and step in the right direction going forward to recovery.😁 Also to help get rid of the shame and guilt...please God! Thank you again for such a great video and insight!😇😇😇
Welcome Penny. By sharing your story you are helping yourself and others. When members share and learn from each other it is a continued reminder to the community that we are not alone and are surrounded by people who get it and get us. Stay blessed💛
Thank you so much Christine. We really are not alone in this journey🙏🙂
@@pennykruger2970 Have a good night 🌃
@@christine11347 You too Christine😴❤
Welcome Penny.. you are doing great.. one day at a time moving forward always.. thank you for sharing this 💯🙏🙌
exactely right what you are saying!
thank you for sharing.
hugs and kisses
Thank you 🙏🙌🙏
screw the narcs... we are awesome
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Thank you for your video ,all your videos ,it helps me alot , thank you for being here for helping us all here & thank you everyone here for your comments . Blessed you all !!
Welcome Sue..🙏🙌💯
Thank you, Andrew. I can DO this! 🥰🙏
Yes you can Eloise 🙏💯🙌
You can ….. you can’t believe how strong you are till you’ve no other choice , but you’ll do it 👍
@@julessoultrain If that's for me, Julia, I'm claiming it. Thank you, and bless you!! 🥰
in the case of those who were born in a narcissistic family, there is no #1... nothing to go back to... it all has to be built from scratch.
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Another great, great video Andrew
Thank you..💯💜😌
Wow. It's like you were there. You have been, only way you know. Thx , again🙏
Welcome 🙏💯🙌
Wow I have experienced all of the things that you're talking about so many years waisted but I have learned to recognize the signs and I now know what boundaries mean Thanks to you! Keep up the good work
Thank you Regina..🙏🙌💯
I did not know about narcissism. It’s a shame that I do now . But I accept it as part of the lessons of life. It has certainly changed my opinions on many things. I am cautious and guarded. Once you’ve been thru this abuse you don’t go back to being the happy go lucky person that I was. But I guess as I grow older I find that the new me is probably better to be cautious as folk take more advantage of you as you become older. I am a switched on older person and now folks behaviours are noted and nothing is un noticed, I observe . So maybe this is in a strange way is a good way to adapt . This doesn’t mean I’m not the fun loving person I used to be I am just wiser 😊
Thank you for sharing this Lynn..🙏🙌😉💯🙏
You're good man. Words just flow. I hope i can explain it that eloquently one day. Thank you!
I appreciate your kindness and sharing this 💯🙏🙌
FOR THIS!💐💐💐🙏🏽
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Andrew, Any ideas for legal action for me? I've literally had my whole life ruined by broken women/relationships? Found out recently through counciling that I'm codependant, apparently a magnet for trouble. I'm doing EMDR to rid my body of trauma...doing the work! I definitely was the giver and she was the taker... exactly how you described in this video. Appreciate you and your passion to help others understand these very fraudulent, people. Thanks!
My hope is you are continuing to become educated and empowered.. sending you healing energy and strength 🙏🙌💯
I’ve had only #2 and #3. Absolutely needed #2 to have #3. Yet extremely sad never to know #1
Thank you for sharing this Doug..💯🙌🙏
It's the same with me. I am now discovering for the first time who I am. How to love myself with all my perceived flaws, labels, feelings, thoughts, actions - perfectly imperfect. I believe things happen for me. I am 50 years old and I have had some journey in this life. Wow! I know how much I have to offer because of what I have survived. The rest of my life is here now. God bless everyone. Much love. 🙌💗🌹
All true! Thanks Andrew 👏❤️🙏🧘♀️🙌
Welcome Paula 🙌💯🙏
I am almost 6 months out and starting to feel much better. I still have tears from ruminating. I feel sorry for them because they will never know True Love. I am learning to love myself through all this knowledge. Amen Andrew love you much. Would love To see you smile cause your still healing yourself. We will never forget the tools we learned. Thanks 🙏 😮💨
Welcome Donna..🙏🙌💯
I truly think this is their Karma to never know true love.
Some days Andrew, I am pushing towards a three, and other days, I am a two and a half. But I am never, ever going to be a two again!
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Hi Lovely Andrew 🤩This is an amazing video to listen to and I could recognise where I am in the healing path..the third version of filling my cup of love and truly realising I must come first..😃👍its a revelation I've only just started to awaken to. At the same time..my boundaries are not strong enough and come into laser sharp focus yet again but with a more steely determination to stick with them..come what may. So true how important the self care and self love is..create abundance here..then give out to others 😃👍Fabulous information Andrew..Bless you every day..😇🙏🥰🧡nameste 😇🙏
Beautiful progress and growth Kim..💯💯🙌🙏
👌Perfect spoken.
Thank you 🙏 😉💯
Thank you
Welcome 🙏
I definitely get it Andrew , the third version of me is the better version of me from the first version of me !!! I know you get what I mean . I know there can still be triggers at times , but I use those times to remind me of the third version of me ! I feel so good and so positive now Andrew . I've got a committed source . And I'm doing it right now . Education , insight , steadfast ! Totally understanding the reasons for NO CONTACT !! Everything about me starts falling in place . I really do like the third version that I am becoming !!! 🙏💪🙌😄
Beautiful growth Candida 🙏💯🙌
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thanks to you ! 🕊️✌️😄💪
Andrew, thank you so much for sharing your ideas, your life experiences and your beautiful Being. Really helps to go through transformation. Every word resonates.
Also I wish you happiness.
Welcome 🙏💯🙌
Thank you ❤❤❤
Hi Andrew, thank you so much for being there at the right time with so many of my questions being answered.Sadly I was in a relationship with a narc for over 31 years. Like you said I had no idea he was a narc and didnt know his form of behaviour was a trait or condition.I came across you only a couple of months ago now and again as you said this was no coincidence..... You have given me sooo much in all of your videos I have watched and there have been many. I cried out so loud and so much as that light bulb went on in fact it was more like a bolt of lightening. I lost everything I had ever worked for in every area of my life including myself and watching and listening to your videos as given me that ray of hope. and I am sorry if this is a little long but its my first step of courage to open up and make those 'little changes' you mentioned so I would like to thank you from my heart for all the amazing work you are doing for all of us out there,.....I live in a tiny hamlet in England UK and its amazing I came across you. It shows how love can travel and reach those who need it..... sending so much love back.
Welcome 🙏
SPOT ON
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THANK YOU AND BLESSINGS!
Welcome 💯🙌☀️
Hello Andrew!
I just discovered your channel! Thank you!! Very helpful right now!
Welcome to the community Kathy..🙏💯🙌
100% true
Great empowering words of advice and encouragement 👏 Andrew. Thanks so much once again for your time and effort in making this informational video. 😇😇
Welcome Doreen 💯🙏🙌
Goosebumps 🙏❤ I understand this, thankyou
Welcome 🙏
my only best friend died 5 yrs. ago & so I miss the Validation that I needed, then & now. This was 2015 when the Narcissist had invited me to Ecuador for, in her words; "a trip of a lifetime". She love bombed me cuz she wanted some herbals & other stuff delivered. I will not ruminate. Only from being under her roof could I begin to see that controlling, attention seeking, etc. drama side of her. She was no longer needing to publicly impress her cohort of flying monkeys here in Vancouver. Yet she came back here to do the smear campaign of me. I had no words to describe her behaviour until I got educated from your videos.
Thank you for sharing this Diane..🙏💯🙌
The smear campaign is so insidious. I have only found out some of it, but the friends who remain, are friends...
I don't know if I will make it. I can't even take care of myself anymore.
You are amazing and loved.. we are here for you 💯🙏🙌
Hang in there.
Am sorry you are in pain, you can & will heal from the pain, it does take time sitting through painful memories but please remember this the narcissist was Wrong, you should have been treated with love & respect. Self love, self forgiveness, keep watching Andrews videos, they have helped me heal & understand
It's difficult, gang in there, do the work you can & will be happy again
Take Care
You can do it. Believe me the best of you is right in front of you. You might not see it right now. The pain is worth it when you break free. You will see the beautiful light...
We’ve all been there. I stopped taking care of myself completely. I didn’t even realize how much I had abandoned myself. I’m only just starting to enjoy the process of taking care of myself. It will come in time, keep fighting.
I am looking forward to becoming that beautiful butterfly I once was.... Form my heart to yours thank you......
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I found you yesterday. He left in a blaze of drama 3 days ago. You gave me my lightbulb moment. You're saving me. Thank you will never be enough ❤️❤️❤️
Sending you healing energy and strength..💯🙌🙏🙏
And the really hurtful thing will be that he purposefully created the drama because he had a new source of supply already lined up. It is heartbreaking, but in time you could view it as a real gift to you. The sooner you are out, the better. Do not let him hoover you back in. Stand firm, even if you are in shock and disbelief.
Excellent … thank you!
Welcome Linda..🙏💯🙌
When I was with my ex narc I turned into a female version of him, which is someone I wasn’t. He was into anything sexually horrible and I went along with as I was in a fog and I told myself that he’s just kidding and we’ll be a normal couple soon. My light bulb moment was when I realised that being deviant was his normal and I was just a body for him to act out what he wanted. He was grooming me to sleep with him and I wouldn’t which when I broke up with him, he was very angry and hoovered me for four months but I didn’t respond. He turned around and sent me a letter saying that he broke up with me because I’m a #%*~ which is what he was trying to turn me into anyway. 13yrs later and I occasionally have flash backs.
Thank you for sharing this insight 🙏💯🙌
Thanks for the video Andrew! 🙏❤
Welcome Ina..🙏🙌💯
Another great video and 💯 on point. EVERYBODY who had to go through a narcissistic relationship, knows already by reading the TITLE, what you will refer to in the video. Thank you again! 🌺🕊
Thank you for sharing Bettina..🙏💯🙌
this is brilliant - thank you for it and your generosity
Welcome Christine 🙌💯🙏
Thank you thank you thank you Andrew for this video. This one hit me hard. Looking forward to my 3rd version of myself.
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Thank you Andrew for the recommendation on this video. I watched it and got it..I had no clue up till a month ago.4 years in two out.Still hurts..Thank you.
Welcome Lori..🙌💯🙏
Andrew: "They will put you on hold......"
Me: Every. Single. Time.
I stopped saying "Andrew's best video ever" quite a long time ago. I go back and listen to the videos recorded before I found the channel as often as I can......if I was still saying that~~THIS ONE!!! Thank you, dear soul.
Thank you Andrew. Gary
Welcome Gary..🙌💯🙏