You know you’re healing when you can laugh at it and laugh at that clown. When you leave that fog that demon has you in… you will see it all SO clearly! I promise you!!! I bust out laughing at you Ms Telsha when you giggle and speak the truth! It’s hilarious bcuz it is SO true! These demonic clowns will never touch anything like us again in their miserable lives. And that my beautiful people is karma! God bless all of you BEAUTIFUL and STRONG survivors!!! Praise God!!! 🙏❤️
Love that!!! Same here, even though there are still a lot of days filled with pain, loneliness, desperation, anger.... one day I'll be over it!!! And finally find peace and happiness! We all deserve it!!!
When u leave the narcissist, they get full of hate and jealousy towards u. Because, they realize that u are a better person than they are and they can ever be.
@Maurice Wei Why spy and stalk ur ex narc? Catch ur sanity and just let them go. Before u get urselves into a whole lot of trouble. Let go and let GOD. Be pleased to have been with one of GOD’s creations , even though they were evil. And move on and find u a good person. Enjoy ur life while ur here and be happy and grateful daily.
Mine ruminated over his ex our whole marriage, in our counseling and therapy sessions they kept telling him he needed to stop bringing the old into our relationship. But he wouldn’t let her go. Even said my behaviors was hers and I was tricking and lying to him. He would randomly admit I was different. But then left me for someone more “like him”. I’m glad he’s gone. I’m just confused how these type of people are. I’m glad I’m not like them
I treated my narsisist excactly how he treated me, so I dont think he will ever be back😂😁 he told me his life was so calm when we were not together. Im moving on without that dusty weirdo. He will NOT be in my bed again. I dont sleep with demons.
BUT GOD!......When I walked away I started to see everything in HD. Some one who once stood 6 feet tall in my eyes is now 3 Ft & I don’t do midgets 🤣🤣🤣 I am so grateful that I can laugh & joke about the situation because it took a lot of healing for me to get here. I am a survivor ♥️
OMGGG ME TOO LOL he was about 5'6 or 5'7 40 year old man almosy bald, works in a fast food restaurant kitchen, which i didnt care , lives with family and i am 6'0 literally 30 athletic type of body, leader of a dept. for this nice company .. independend , my ownn place and etc...he always tried to talk to me ... till i gave him a chance and i actually got suprise how sweet he was and nice i felt inlove with his heart, i sae him superior, strong , loyal, my future love... my family espeecially my dad (who never has accepeted any gay partner i presented him) after i dumped him i didnt see him handsome no more... i saw him ugly, disgusting, gross... block block block bye !
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships it is & no matter what you seem to always care & love though you know their wicked & evil ways. It's unfortunate that they feel & treat us the total opposite/without worrying one bit!
They think like little kids, they only figure it out after they act out, and like a unlike normal kids (because they’re not and this is when they got sideways) never learned anything and rinse and repeat
No contact is uncomfortable in the beginning because you are so use to communicating with them, but then you start to feel better. When you go no contact you regain your power back and that’s a wonderful feeling. My ex narc has come full throttle by trying to contact me. I truly believe there’s trouble in paradise with his new/old supply that he left me for. I know it’s killing him that I’m not participating in this triangulation.
Welcome to the Tribe. Lol! Yes indeed. When my mind begins to reflect on that bird I’m going to hold up the space. That’s where you see my passion come out. I’m happy you enjoyed the video and.🌟💖
I took care of him for 13 years like he was my child to me breakfast lunch dinner clothes underwear socks everything he didn’t have when he came to me and still he was not satisfied so I had to divorce that guy and get him out of my lif
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 they act like you own them something, they are LAZY and DON'T WANT A JOB THEY feel like it's a privilege for others to cater to and take care of them. BEELZEBUB they really get it twisted in there LITTLE MINDS.
I dont know why this lady cracks me up🤣...maybe because Ive healed from the Narc abuse or is it because of how she speaks🤷♀️...she speaks TRUTH though but her verbage tickles me
Mine never slept - he would always tell me he never sleeps. I know his head was spinning all night and all day - they don't ever have a peaceful mind. That's why he self medicates all day and all night and I could see it getting worse.
My ex used to talk about her exes all the time ....they never forget you be sure of that , they never care but they sure know a good thing when they see it . Stay strong all , love from the UK. I said it and I mean it 😋
Mine talked shit about a recycled supply for the entire three years together. He knew as soon as things were going bad and she got out of prison, he would get her back.. Meanwhile, I am just feeling worthless and not understanding how a felon who treats the mother of his child so bad, he can be happy with?
Mine talked shit about his ex but not so bad about his ex ex. But none of them let him live with them. I did and gave him a job! He will never find me again!
Amen. 6 mo narc free./ PPO/ no contact/ changed phone number/address / divorce /. I asked God to make me invisible to my enemies. And he did just that . I thank you father God for getting me out 1 1/2 of marriage thank you Lord God I couldn't have done it without you.
Welcome to the Tribe. This is what I’m talking about that is awesome Sis. I’m happy you took your life back. Now watch God bless you tremendously with strength and favor.🌟💖
You're absolutely right the fact that they ruminate over us is no reason to return to the relationship but it is probably the only satisfaction that I will ever get after all that he put me through is knowing that he's ruminating over me! I'll take it! 🥰👍
Even though his mother disrespected me I know GOD'S words and commandments. She is my elder although I am 50. I didn't dishonor her, told her I was sorry she felt like she did and laid it at his feet. His mother sits her behind in Church every Sunday and boast of that proudly and that's what she does? I learned then....she's his ENABLER. Guess who has to answer for that. Surely not I. I did just what My FATHER said, LEAVE THAT PLACE WHERE YOUR LOVE AND PEACE IS NOT ACCEPTED, SHAKE YOUR FEET OFF AND TAKE YOUR PEACE WITH YOU. I'm not perfect but I've been raised to always live honorably, with morals, standards, values and integrity. Im SO good. 😀🙏🙏
And your dad Said All FACTS leave that place where your love and peace is not accepted! Man I love that! My dad told me 20 years ago and I still make this my motto “U Can’t Make Nobody Want U or U Can’t make Nobody Be With You! And remember that! Much ❤️
They fall into the biggest most immature self pity you have ever seen. Literally a walking cloud of doom but blaming everyone else. They have no insight to the point that beggars belief. They are like a toddler whose toys were taken away.
Head is still spinning from a 6 mth narc relationship. Went 2 weeks of no contact and in a moment of weakness I contacted her. It went south quickly...10 times worse.....major pain for that week.......3 weeks of no contact now and I'm starting to feel like myself again. Never again !
The last thing I told my ex wife; "My life continues to get better and better, while yours continues to spiral down the toilet bowl with no chance for improvement, ever. I win."
Completely hit me hard!! These thoughts running thru my head as to WHY. Now learning what a narcissist is. Is like a complete blow in the chest. Now learning to let go, move on, self love and never looking back. Your right every time I went back it was worse. I'm glad I found your videos.
Welcome to the Tribe. Bless you my sister I completely understand it is a lot to take in that a person was so abusive and never loved you. I’m happy you found this channel as well. Stay tuned as we all grow learn and heal together.🌟💖
Stay strong. It’s all games to them. The more you go back it’s digging the rabbit hole deeper. They will suck you into their world of darkness. Us empaths are too good of people to be tortured.
@@nadiaroyce8009 now after 15 yrs of narc marriage & opening my eyes that's exactly how it felt like torture & walking on eggshells around him. He bread crumbed me for yrs & took so much. All it took was his bro & fam to interfere now all of a sudden I was no good for him.
It sure is a blow to the chest to realize that someone you've loved unconditionally never loved you like they once claimed and an even bigger blow to accept that they filled your head with lies and used you the entire time. Accepting the truth that the life I built with him was a false reality he created with endless lies knocked me out BUT little did I know; accepting the truth as painful as it was, was actually a blessing. The truth revealed that I never loved him, I loved the man he pretended to be and he was never going to love me or our children the way I deserve to be loved!
Welcome to the Tribe. Sis thank you so much beautiful soul I appreciate the encouragement and I’m happy that you were encouraged as well. Bless you it’s all true about you and us here in this beautiful tribe.🌟💖
I know my soon to be ex spouse is gonna regret it when he finds out no one is going above and beyond for him or put up with the crap like I did which some women would call me crazy for doing. But when its your husband you dont mind but I learned the hard way ! I feel for whoever has to come behind me 😂
Welcome to the Tribe. Oh yes he will he will never find another you. That’s right you feel sorry for whoever it is that comes behind you because they are gonna get it from that narc.🌟💖
Y'all I'm glowing on a daily basis!!!! Forget the narcs!!!!! I'm loving and living my BEST Life!!!!! My kids are happy!!! Praises goes up!!!!! Thank you God!!!!!!!!!!
They Seethe over EVERYTHING that you said or did - they never get over it. Yes, they can't get you out of their mind when you are gone. They thought you were going to keep taking the abuse. When you walk, they are in instant turmoil in their mind. No other supply will take your place. Thank you Telsha, your videos are really helping me get through this. You are an angel.
Lights out, door locked and chained, bridge blown, cell number and email addresses DELETED! I was SHUTTING IT DOWN while I was there! It's possible to beat the Narc at their own game once you wake up and add your chapter to the END of their game book! Narc who? 😏
That's right coach TEA. Once you peep the Narc's game book, it's easy to write the last chapter, published, printed and SERVED UP, royally! That's the emotional injury they will never forget!
The only way they could get a partner is thru lying and being fake. Then the only way they can keep someone around is thru fear, creating confusion and getting victims to feel sorry for them. How pathetic!!
In my OVER 25 years of having a cell phone I have NEVER received so many anonymous chain calls REPEATEDLY from odd area codes from all over...only to call them back and its a disconnected line. And his Aunt is still sending me text messages and scriptures🙄😒...then he'll call 6 weeks later at 435a. WHAT IS THIS?! This cycle has been happening since I put him out and divorced him 9 months ago
Welcome to the Tribe. Oh yes I believe you because this is exactly what they do once they are discarded. All the fake social media profiles random phone calls it’s ridiculous. Be encouraged I’m happy you got away.🌟💖
Omg!....Dr. April I’m going through the same thing. It’s been a year since I discarded the narcissist & this man still calls me from all kind of spoof number’s & sends text messages acting like he’s a woman telling me to stay away from her man. I’ve had this number for 10 years & never have I received calls like this & unfortunately I can’t change it because my business is linked to it but lord knows I want to be left alone & narcissist never give up.
😭😭😭😭😭😭 that’s why I I changed my number then he found my snap chat started trying to call me on there girl I blocked him no contact he doesn’t get access to me
My ex who is and has been diagnosed as PTSD, BIPOLAR, SCHIZOPHRENIC listened to family...however...I NEVER met his family. They are in another state. Yes met mom over the phone, was with him a year and a half, but never occupied the same space with family members. So I realize whatever his Mother would say about me, whatever his cousin would say to him about me....HAD TO COME FROM HIM LYING ABOUT ME, DISCUSSING ME, MANUFACTURING THINGS ABOUT ME to them. STRAIGHT UP TRASH...I got the fudge on QUICK!
Sure do! ONLY when you go NO CONTACT! Cuz they want that control back! Been 2 whole years and this clown is STILL tryna contact me 😂😂 Have him blocked from every angle but he always finds a way. I just ignore it and move on with life. He’s on fake burner number #26 now, countless phony accounts and more. You really start to see just how desperate, and psychotic, they will become for that supply.
I had his child faithful loyal supportive love GOD he discarded us cause he couldn't manipulate or control us d new supply cam have him cause he dont love his kids
You should be giving talks to crowds of 100k. The BEST narcissistic abuse and recovery coach on youtube. Hands down!! THANK YOU for empowering us to be STRONGER than victims.
Welcome to the Tribe. Amen I receive that. Thank you so much beautiful soul for the encouragement. I’m here to help and want to see all of these beautiful soul healed. You’re so welcome - be encouraged. Continue shinning brightly.💎🌟💖
Im reaching the point he is becoming died to me. This was a very hard way, 8 months after i finally be abble to leave him. The hardest thing a woman can do leave the man she loves behind. There was nothing there for me, love was absent. I could see it for 6 months untill i got that conclusion. I returned from there with no money even to eat. I already got work achieve many things and i have no regret of leaving him. I hope the women that are still in those relationshit be abble to awake up and release from that hell. The pain is deep but lots of benifits arrive after we get out. my healing is finally arriving. Let them in the life they choose. We are Gods daughters not narc slaves. We have the dutie towards God to have a life of constrution and love and share with our own kind. Doesnt matter ask ourselfs why they did it, they did it cause its theyre bad nature that was rooted in evil. We just have to dodge our path from people like that. We are a wonderfull of nature cause we can love and our love produces great things
My Ex Narc, Once told Me, I was Weak! He Underestimated Me! I Snatched that Generator, & Hauled Buggy! And I'm Not Looking Back! Thank God, For a Better Wisdom, God Got Me!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 He told me if I Changed my Number; That he was Coming by! Now That I Know the Truth; I Wants No Parts of Him! He was a Liar ,& Munipulater! And Nothing I Done was Ever, Ever, Good Enough! I Ain't Got Nothing to Give him, Not even my Energy! I Ain't got Time, for his Foolishness, Anymore! I'm Giving him the Peace Out , Sign, Bye!!!✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽
You said it .. that Bird could never sleep with the conscious on his mind. He would stay up all weekend and he wasn’t even abusing drugs. Always was in his head.. “I’m thinking” he said I’ve got A lot to think about
That’s only if the Narcissist tells the truth the they were left..... That doesn’t happen. The person who helped the Narcissist cheat would have to know the truth. That the Grade A left him or her. In order for the Supply who helped them cheat to pick at him for losing. Most of the time, the Narc lies n says they were the ones that left that person. They are so afraid of the truth.... just my opinion. Thanks for the video
@@samekajames Exactly! Bcuz they don’t want to face the truth that they were responsible for messing up the relationship. I wish you well. Departing was not easy for me. I hope things are ok with you❤️🙏🏾
You are on point! I'm trying to let go. She's sick and playing on feelings. Running back and forth. I think I need a psychiatrist. I'm mentally exhausted.
SPEAK 🗣 IT! U speaking absolutely the TRUTH! I like how u break down the TRUTH. THANKS FOR THAT! YES! He will 4EVER! Remember me , I know this. That’s right NEVER! Find another me. That’s right ima keep shining & glowing. SELF LOVE THE BEST LOVE ❤️ 💯🙂
YES!! They want someone like us but hey won't get someone like us when all of us gonna wake up! Thank you for the great insights Queen! Your work is as always much appreciated! You enlighten us every week! Luv you all Tribe
Exactly! I know a friend who was dumped by the narc and married another unknown lady. But soon after that pathetic narc came back and started crossing my friend's path, calling texting etc.. Now saying they made a mistake and will get a divorce.. What a joke!!
Yup his aunt yelled at me and said if u don’t like how he’s treating you leave him. Called me an enabler and told him you two are not supposed to be together she doesn’t love you. His cousin told Me if you don’t want to find stuff he’s doing to you.. stop Looking!!! 😣😟
I was a grade A supply .. he went to find a younger women but his not satisfied.. he disrespect her on a regular telling Everyone on social media that he do not want to marry her and he want a older woman I believe he want to continue using her but he don’t want her because she have nothing to bring to the table besides her youth..She also have an addiction
Get it girl, you are on fire 🔥, the narc will self destruct, they want to come back where it’s nice and peaceful, and where the supply is off the chain, I say forget about them and keep it moving
Thank You! I have been the stablizing source since the beginning of time..... all the narcissist did was take advantage of me. I got smart and withdrew my supply. Happy as ever!
How are you tea you speak the gospel truth this is why I left this person I had enough of the bull crap and when I would get severely angry at him then he would apologize and put the problem on medication and I said don't use medication as an excuse I'm am glad for this content it made me realize I never was at fault it was him and I was so good too this person it was disgusting tea I'm just continuing to go on with my life and once againkarma will serve him and I don't want nothing to do with him I even changed my cell number cold turkey I can't be bothered with him no more
I remember when he started pulling away from me and treating me badly. I remember saying to him "I waiting for you to leave me" I also literally remember telling him exactly what he would be saying to me. Then boom, one night he called me and regurgitated everything I knew he would say and I wished him the best. His mother also called me to inform me that she was writing a book and wanted to read me some of it to which she read to me what was going on and that she knew he was cheating on me. She changed our names in her book then after reading it to me she asked me what I thought and I fully understood I just didn't let her know that I heard her loud and clear and knew what she was doing and what was going on. I was just sitting back and watching them think that they were playing me. I wanted to see just how malicious they could be and said okay, I smiled and never begged for an explanation.
Good evening beautiful...I simply love your spirit..we have the same thought process...mind strength..and I thought I was the only one who called the ratchet...birds...hood booger...and Alley rat are also the names of the kinds of individuals the DUMPED loves so much.
I wish I read this when I dated a narcissist....I broke up with him he popped up at my job like 4 months after we broke up.... like I was supposed to feel special... gurl bye!
Thank you for shedding light and giving us clarity! I loved ❤️everything you said! Such a powerful message of hope for all narc survivors. You are amazing! 🤩 The Tea on NPD rules like a queen! 👑💕
I've always wondered if THAT BIG BIRD😂😂 was ruminating even with the new younger supply! I have 3 kids by the narc & still ruminate years later but now i feel like when I'm doing it It's because he's doing it because i can't understand for the life of me why that demon would cross my mind!!
I needed this god worked in my life through you today god bless you this BIRD is coming to town I received through a message that’s no longer my business thank you for the video .
You are speaking about me down to the T honey!! It’s mind blowing! I raised that bird’s siblings like they were mine, took care of his family while he was out with an F grade supply who is lazy, smokes weed all day, calls off work 24/7, cheated on her partner with the bird, and the list goes on and on. Let me tell ya, he had to find the complete opposite of me cuz he knows he ain’t never gonn find another one like me. Except he mistaken my unconditional love for unconditional boundaries and discarded that bird along with his nasty cheap detergent smelling a$$ back up supply. 🤮
You know you’re healing when you can laugh at it and laugh at that clown. When you leave that fog that demon has you in… you will see it all SO clearly! I promise you!!! I bust out laughing at you Ms Telsha when you giggle and speak the truth! It’s hilarious bcuz it is SO true! These demonic clowns will never touch anything like us again in their miserable lives. And that my beautiful people is karma! God bless all of you BEAUTIFUL and STRONG survivors!!! Praise God!!! 🙏❤️
He thought he was breaking me down..
Dumb bird underestimated me...
He built a warrior !
Period!
Ok bc bayyyybay lol in telsha voice lol 😂
Love that!!! Same here, even though there are still a lot of days filled with pain, loneliness, desperation, anger.... one day I'll be over it!!! And finally find peace and happiness! We all deserve it!!!
Amen sister
Powerful words.
Absolutely spot on. Let them rot it’s what’s they deserve 👍
When u leave the narcissist, they get full of hate and jealousy towards u. Because, they realize that u are a better person than they are and they can ever be.
You are absolutely correct speak on it brother. It’s the truth🌟💖
Oh wow
Wow
WOW!
@Maurice Wei Why spy and stalk ur ex narc? Catch ur sanity and just let them go. Before u get urselves into a whole lot of trouble. Let go and let GOD. Be pleased to have been with one of GOD’s creations , even though they were evil. And move on and find u a good person. Enjoy ur life while ur here and be happy and grateful daily.
Never go back!! It’s like a dog going back to his 🤮 vomit! But I was the best thing that ever happened to him
Mine ruminated over his ex our whole marriage, in our counseling and therapy sessions they kept telling him he needed to stop bringing the old into our relationship. But he wouldn’t let her go. Even said my behaviors was hers and I was tricking and lying to him. He would randomly admit I was different. But then left me for someone more “like him”. I’m glad he’s gone. I’m just confused how these type of people are. I’m glad I’m not like them
I treated my narsisist excactly how he treated me, so I dont think he will ever be back😂😁 he told me his life was so calm when we were not together. Im moving on without that dusty weirdo. He will NOT be in my bed again. I dont sleep with demons.
BUT GOD!......When I walked away I started to see everything in HD. Some one who once stood 6 feet tall in my eyes is now 3 Ft & I don’t do midgets 🤣🤣🤣 I am so grateful that I can laugh & joke about the situation because it took a lot of healing for me to get here. I am a survivor ♥️
Lol!!🤣🤣🤣. Speak on it Sis - I love it.🌟💖
😀😘♥️
YES!!!!😊
Yeesss! Same here!!
OMGGG ME TOO LOL he was about 5'6 or 5'7 40 year old man almosy bald, works in a fast food restaurant kitchen, which i didnt care , lives with family and i am 6'0 literally 30 athletic type of body, leader of a dept. for this nice company .. independend , my ownn place and etc...he always tried to talk to me ... till i gave him a chance and i actually got suprise how sweet he was and nice i felt inlove with his heart, i sae him superior, strong , loyal, my future love... my family espeecially my dad (who never has accepeted any gay partner i presented him) after i dumped him i didnt see him handsome no more... i saw him ugly, disgusting, gross... block block block bye !
I wish I honestly could forget we ever met!
AND myself
Same
I would love to do that as well Sister. It was one on the worst experiences in life dealing with that bird.🌟💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships it is & no matter what you seem to always care & love though you know their wicked & evil ways. It's unfortunate that they feel & treat us the total opposite/without worrying one bit!
@@samanthaadkins5551 exactly until we are gone forever and the rumination starts for them lol.
one of my narcs said he hopes he gets dementia…he doesn’t want to remember his wickedness…
That's something only a narc can come up with 😂😂😂
Never underestimate your opponent. He thought he could walk all over me and I showed him by blocking him and never looking back.
But did he ever look back at you? He ever return?
If he does return Why would you want a life of always in your head.. Hmmm . What? Do you want too wake up every day thinking/ feeling miserable 😕
They think like little kids, they only figure it out after they act out, and like a unlike normal kids (because they’re not and this is when they got sideways) never learned anything and rinse and repeat
No contact is uncomfortable in the beginning because you are so use to communicating with them, but then you start to feel better. When you go no contact you regain your power back and that’s a wonderful feeling. My ex narc has come full throttle by trying to contact me. I truly believe there’s trouble in paradise with his new/old supply that he left me for. I know it’s killing him that I’m not participating in this triangulation.
Stay the course sister!
I bet he is miserable
Good on you stay strong, and yes he will be going crazy without you
I'm going thru no contact now it's tuff but it's a no for me I'm good 3 years of abuse 🐦🐦🐦🐦🐦
“this was something you were supposed to pass through. not stay in” is exactly what I needed to hear this morning!
Welcome to the Tribe. Amen beautiful soul. It’s the truth.🌟💖
AMEN
I don't have to do him anything he has already done it to himself
Love the way she is calm and pleasant in the beginning, then it escalates to "mother bear" mode! So much truth & reasoning.
Welcome to the Tribe. Lol! Yes indeed. When my mind begins to reflect on that bird I’m going to hold up the space. That’s where you see my passion come out. I’m happy you enjoyed the video and.🌟💖
She is my example of how we are bad in the best. Oh yes 🙌 My Queen
I just love listening to this lady.
Omg this video was out of this world amazing . I cried listening to it. Massive motivation wow 🤩 thank you and you are the🥰 queen of the 🌎
I took care of him for 13 years like he was my child to me breakfast lunch dinner clothes underwear socks everything he didn’t have when he came to me and still he was not satisfied so I had to divorce that guy and get him out of my lif
Took care of mine the same way. I had a grown man child!
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 they act like you own them something, they are LAZY and DON'T WANT A JOB THEY feel like it's a privilege for others to cater to and take care of them. BEELZEBUB they really get it twisted in there LITTLE MINDS.
@@shirleyrussell7089 yes!!!
I dont know why this lady cracks me up🤣...maybe because Ive healed from the Narc abuse or is it because of how she speaks🤷♀️...she speaks TRUTH though but her verbage tickles me
Welcome to the Tribe. Lol!😂 I’m happy you enjoyed the video I got a great laugh that’s funny.🤣🤣🌟💖
That's why they can't sleep! Thank you ☺️
The family doesn’t want to deal with the Narc. So they want the Narc to get you back.
True. They know their family member is mentally disordered because they've been dealing with it all of their lives.
100 percent true
Mine never slept - he would always tell me he never sleeps. I know his head was spinning all night and all day - they don't ever have a peaceful mind. That's why he self medicates all day and all night and I could see it getting worse.
My ex didn't sleep either. His head was always spinning. He was also terrified of dying alone.
I bet when he sees his demons friends coming to welcome him to his eternal destination he will be sorry
My ex used to talk about her exes all the time ....they never forget you be sure of that , they never care but they sure know a good thing when they see it . Stay strong all , love from the UK. I said it and I mean it 😋
Mine talked shit about a recycled supply for the entire three years together. He knew as soon as things were going bad and she got out of prison, he would get her back.. Meanwhile, I am just feeling worthless and not understanding how a felon who treats the mother of his child so bad, he can be happy with?
Mine talked shit about his ex but not so bad about his ex ex. But none of them let him live with them. I did and gave him a job! He will never find me again!
Never let them move in or give them any thing..not even a glance is deserved
Amen. 6 mo narc free./ PPO/ no contact/ changed phone number/address / divorce /. I asked God to make me invisible to my enemies. And he did just that . I thank you father God for getting me out 1 1/2 of marriage thank you Lord God I couldn't have done it without you.
Welcome to the Tribe. This is what I’m talking about that is awesome Sis. I’m happy you took your life back. Now watch God bless you tremendously with strength and favor.🌟💖
Amen I receive it in Christ Jesus Mighty name amen.
lol went “blackout”! Perfect terminology! I went total blackout :-) He can’t find nor contact me anymore
Amen....they ruminate about the Supply they lost..not you personally..its all about them..
You're absolutely right the fact that they ruminate over us is no reason to return to the relationship but it is probably the only satisfaction that I will ever get after all that he put me through is knowing that he's ruminating over me! I'll take it! 🥰👍
Even though his mother disrespected me I know GOD'S words and commandments. She is my elder although I am 50. I didn't dishonor her, told her I was sorry she felt like she did and laid it at his feet. His mother sits her behind in Church every Sunday and boast of that proudly and that's what she does? I learned then....she's his ENABLER. Guess who has to answer for that. Surely not I. I did just what My FATHER said, LEAVE THAT PLACE WHERE YOUR LOVE AND PEACE IS NOT ACCEPTED, SHAKE YOUR FEET OFF AND TAKE YOUR PEACE WITH YOU. I'm not perfect but I've been raised to always live honorably, with morals, standards, values and integrity. Im SO good. 😀🙏🙏
And your dad Said All FACTS leave that place where your love and peace is not accepted! Man I love that! My dad told me 20 years ago and I still make this my motto “U Can’t Make Nobody Want U or U Can’t make Nobody Be With You! And remember that! Much ❤️
They fall into the biggest most immature self pity you have ever seen. Literally a walking cloud of doom but blaming everyone else. They have no insight to the point that beggars belief. They are like a toddler whose toys were taken away.
It push me into a better me!!
Amen!!🌟💖
He too busy manipulating n fooling d new supply I saw rt through him got tired of providing for a 30yr old n d disrespect I couldn't accept
Head is still spinning from a 6 mth narc relationship. Went 2 weeks of no contact and in a moment of weakness I contacted her. It went south quickly...10 times worse.....major pain for that week.......3 weeks of no contact now and I'm starting to feel like myself again. Never again !
I fed and clothed him and his daughter for years and paid for holidays for them and got no thanks for it never again will I do it
The last thing I told my ex wife; "My life continues to get better and better, while yours continues to spiral down the toilet bowl with no chance for improvement, ever. I win."
Completely hit me hard!! These thoughts running thru my head as to WHY. Now learning what a narcissist is. Is like a complete blow in the chest. Now learning to let go, move on, self love and never looking back. Your right every time I went back it was worse. I'm glad I found your videos.
Welcome to the Tribe. Bless you my sister I completely understand it is a lot to take in that a person was so abusive and never loved you. I’m happy you found this channel as well. Stay tuned as we all grow learn and heal together.🌟💖
Stay strong. It’s all games to them. The more you go back it’s digging the rabbit hole deeper. They will suck you into their world of darkness. Us empaths are too good of people to be tortured.
@@nadiaroyce8009 now after 15 yrs of narc marriage & opening my eyes that's exactly how it felt like torture & walking on eggshells around him. He bread crumbed me for yrs & took so much. All it took was his bro & fam to interfere now all of a sudden I was no good for him.
It sure is a blow to the chest to realize that someone you've loved unconditionally never loved you like they once claimed and an even bigger blow to accept that they filled your head with lies and used you the entire time. Accepting the truth that the life I built with him was a false reality he created with endless lies knocked me out BUT little did I know; accepting the truth as painful as it was, was actually a blessing. The truth revealed that I never loved him, I loved the man he pretended to be and he was never going to love me or our children the way I deserve to be loved!
Nothing like a good deep dive with the tribe. I love each and every one of you guys so dearly.
Thank you so much. Loads of love and light right back to you.🌟💖
@@vee7739 🤗💕🤗💕
DITTO, WE 💝 YOU FOR FREE AD WELL.
They love ❤️ what they got ! They love that you love them ! They love the respect they got from being a fake family person!!!
This. Yes.🌟💖
He would not of seen his kids if it weren't for me
My baby loves you. When I now say...'I said it and I mean it', he lights up the room with laughter.
Welcome to the Tribe. That is so awesome give that sweet baby a hug and kiss for me. Thank you so much for being here.🌟💖
I be saying it too.
Facts
I am and you are unforgettable, irreplaceable, and invaluable. Cold, beautiful.......inside and out.
Welcome to the Tribe. Sis thank you so much beautiful soul I appreciate the encouragement and I’m happy that you were encouraged as well. Bless you it’s all true about you and us here in this beautiful tribe.🌟💖
I know my soon to be ex spouse is gonna regret it when he finds out no one is going above and beyond for him or put up with the crap like I did which some women would call me crazy for doing. But when its your husband you dont mind but I learned the hard way ! I feel for whoever has to come behind me 😂
Welcome to the Tribe. Oh yes he will he will never find another you. That’s right you feel sorry for whoever it is that comes behind you because they are gonna get it from that narc.🌟💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships They will and please dont call me when you catching all that hell you gave me 😂
@@MrsDavis-vm8tq that part!😂
Y'all I'm glowing on a daily basis!!!! Forget the narcs!!!!! I'm loving and living my BEST Life!!!!! My kids are happy!!! Praises goes up!!!!! Thank you God!!!!!!!!!!
I really like how you put that it's not a relationship it's an addictionship
AMEN SISTER. THANK YOU
They Seethe over EVERYTHING that you said or did - they never get over it. Yes, they can't get you out of their mind when you are gone. They thought you were going to keep taking the abuse. When you walk, they are in instant turmoil in their mind. No other supply will take your place. Thank you Telsha, your videos are really helping me get through this. You are an angel.
Lights out, door locked and chained, bridge blown, cell number and email addresses DELETED! I was SHUTTING IT DOWN while I was there! It's possible to beat the Narc at their own game once you wake up and add your chapter to the END of their game book! Narc who? 😏
Now this is what I’m talking about yes indeed Sis!! All of this right here!!🌟💖
That's right coach TEA. Once you peep the Narc's game book, it's easy to write the last chapter, published, printed and SERVED UP, royally! That's the emotional injury they will never forget!
@@shakawarrior8753 yes indeed Sis. This part right here.🌟💖
What, Narc, you thought I wasn't going to clap back? 😎👏
@@shakawarrior8753 lol!!😎🙌🏽💃🏽
I love this women ❤️
I love you back beautiful soul thank you so much.🌟💖
The only way they could get a partner is thru lying and being fake. Then the only way they can keep someone around is thru fear, creating confusion and getting victims to feel sorry for them. How pathetic!!
Needed this. 🤍 I know God got my back 😊
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes he does always Sis. Bless you.🌟💖
YES! I AM COMPLETELY COVERED BY JESUS
In my OVER 25 years of having a cell phone I have NEVER received so many anonymous chain calls REPEATEDLY from odd area codes from all over...only to call them back and its a disconnected line. And his Aunt is still sending me text messages and scriptures🙄😒...then he'll call 6 weeks later at 435a. WHAT IS THIS?! This cycle has been happening since I put him out and divorced him 9 months ago
Welcome to the Tribe. Oh yes I believe you because this is exactly what they do once they are discarded. All the fake social media profiles random phone calls it’s ridiculous. Be encouraged I’m happy you got away.🌟💖
Omg!....Dr. April I’m going through the same thing. It’s been a year since I discarded the narcissist & this man still calls me from all kind of spoof number’s & sends text messages acting like he’s a woman telling me to stay away from her man. I’ve had this number for 10 years & never have I received calls like this & unfortunately I can’t change it because my business is linked to it but lord knows I want to be left alone & narcissist never give up.
Dang, hold up 😳😳, do they all do those super early morning calls/texts? I was thinking Insomnia🤔🤣
😭😭😭😭😭😭 that’s why I I changed my number then he found my snap chat started trying to call me on there girl I blocked him no contact he doesn’t get access to me
Your a gem helping so many good people worldwide not only heal but stand up proud & strong .......love your way ❤🇦🇺
My ex who is and has been diagnosed as PTSD, BIPOLAR, SCHIZOPHRENIC listened to family...however...I NEVER met his family. They are in another state. Yes met mom over the phone, was with him a year and a half, but never occupied the same space with family members. So I realize whatever his Mother would say about me, whatever his cousin would say to him about me....HAD TO COME FROM HIM LYING ABOUT ME, DISCUSSING ME, MANUFACTURING THINGS ABOUT ME to them. STRAIGHT UP TRASH...I got the fudge on QUICK!
I felt every word you were saying, still healing but her and her family can never harm me again. I'm gone now no looking back🤞🏾
Sure do! ONLY when you go NO CONTACT! Cuz they want that control back! Been 2 whole years and this clown is STILL tryna contact me 😂😂 Have him blocked from every angle but he always finds a way. I just ignore it and move on with life. He’s on fake burner number #26 now, countless phony accounts and more. You really start to see just how desperate, and psychotic, they will become for that supply.
Amen!! I sure did!! You will look for me but you won't find me!! Period!! Lol
I mean never find you again.🌟💖
I had his child faithful loyal supportive love GOD he discarded us cause he couldn't manipulate or control us d new supply cam have him cause he dont love his kids
Yes and they never have any appreciation for a beautiful person like yourself it’s just sad. They never deserved us.🌟💖
Love your style! Motivating to continue no contact, blocking and staying silent. Keep up the good work.
Lights Out!!!!!!
This!🌟💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships , yes. Yes!. 🙌
My Sister knows what she's talking about! #BLAM
Yes Sis that part Sis. These birds are just insane.🌟💖
Yes, she is!!!!! Preaching and teaching!!!
This woman of God.thank you for your truth and knowledge for helping a woman like me.
Welcome to the Tribe. You’re so welcome. I’m happy you enjoyed the video. Thank you for being here with us.🌟💖
I love this lady! She has lifted my spirit these past few weeks. I'm so glad I ran across your videos.
The way those words were need wow. After 8 years of being told I was lazy, useless, fat, ugly, unworthy, unlovable, a liability etc etc
Bless you and that’s exactly how they abuse you. I’m so happy you got away.🌟💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships thank you x
My ex Narc would put me down too. We are so much stronger than them narcissist.
I left mine on "Read" lmao That guy was CRAZZZYYYY.
You should be giving talks to crowds of 100k. The BEST narcissistic abuse and recovery coach on youtube. Hands down!! THANK YOU for empowering us to be STRONGER than victims.
Welcome to the Tribe. Amen I receive that. Thank you so much beautiful soul for the encouragement. I’m here to help and want to see all of these beautiful soul healed. You’re so welcome - be encouraged. Continue shinning brightly.💎🌟💖
Im reaching the point he is becoming died to me. This was a very hard way, 8 months after i finally be abble to leave him. The hardest thing a woman can do leave the man she loves behind. There was nothing there for me, love was absent. I could see it for 6 months untill i got that conclusion. I returned from there with no money even to eat. I already got work achieve many things and i have no regret of leaving him. I hope the women that are still in those relationshit be abble to awake up and release from that hell. The pain is deep but lots of benifits arrive after we get out. my healing is finally arriving. Let them in the life they choose. We are Gods daughters not narc slaves. We have the dutie towards God to have a life of constrution and love and share with our own kind. Doesnt matter ask ourselfs why they did it, they did it cause its theyre bad nature that was rooted in evil. We just have to dodge our path from people like that. We are a wonderfull of nature cause we can love and our love produces great things
Thank you. There are no blessings on the ground! ❤
My Ex Narc, Once told Me, I was Weak! He Underestimated Me! I Snatched that Generator, & Hauled Buggy! And I'm Not Looking Back! Thank God, For a Better Wisdom, God Got Me!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
He told me if I Changed my Number; That he was Coming by! Now That I Know the Truth; I Wants No Parts of Him! He was a Liar ,& Munipulater! And Nothing I Done was Ever, Ever, Good Enough! I Ain't Got Nothing to Give him, Not even my Energy! I Ain't got Time, for his Foolishness, Anymore! I'm Giving him the Peace Out , Sign, Bye!!!✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽
His dad loved me. I’ve blocked him and the whole family
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You said it .. that Bird could never sleep with the conscious on his mind. He would stay up all weekend and he wasn’t even abusing drugs. Always was in his head.. “I’m thinking” he said I’ve got
A lot to think about
That’s only if the Narcissist tells the truth the they were left..... That doesn’t happen. The person who helped the Narcissist cheat would have to know the truth. That the Grade A left him or her. In order for the Supply who helped them cheat to pick at him for losing. Most of the time, the Narc lies n says they were the ones that left that person. They are so afraid of the truth.... just my opinion. Thanks for the video
U are so right ... my narcissist goes around like he left me 🤔 and he divorcing me ... when it’s the complete opposite
@@samekajames Exactly! Bcuz they don’t want to face the truth that they were responsible for messing up the relationship. I wish you well. Departing was not easy for me. I hope things are ok with you❤️🙏🏾
You are on point! I'm trying to let go. She's sick and playing on feelings. Running back and forth. I think I need a psychiatrist. I'm mentally exhausted.
I needed this Lord knows I did.
Welcome to the Tribe. Amen be encouraged. Continue shining brightly. I’m happy you enjoyed the content.🌟💖
SPEAK 🗣 IT! U speaking absolutely the TRUTH! I like how u break down the TRUTH. THANKS FOR THAT! YES! He will 4EVER! Remember me , I know this. That’s right NEVER! Find another me. That’s right ima keep shining & glowing. SELF LOVE THE BEST LOVE ❤️ 💯🙂
Love this video!!! Thank You 🤗 I needed To Hear This. I AM A GRADE A SUPPLY 💯 GOD IS GOOD AT ALL TIME. HE FAVOURED ME, And I Give HIM THE GLORY🙏
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Yes I did ❤ Thank you ❤️ Just like the Mediterranean Sea ❤
When you mentioned food when they were hungry...taking care of the children like they were our own...omg....
Yes.✨💖
YES!! They want someone like us but hey won't get someone like us when all of us gonna wake up! Thank you for the great insights Queen! Your work is as always much appreciated! You enlighten us every week! Luv you all Tribe
Exactly! I know a friend who was dumped by the narc and married another unknown lady. But soon after that pathetic narc came back and started crossing my friend's path, calling texting etc.. Now saying they made a mistake and will get a divorce.. What a joke!!
This is how these birds operate they are just ridiculous. Yes what a joke.🌟💖
Yup his aunt yelled at me and said if u don’t like how he’s treating you leave him. Called me an enabler and told him you two are not supposed to be together she doesn’t love you. His cousin told
Me if you don’t want to find stuff he’s doing to you.. stop
Looking!!! 😣😟
I was a grade A supply .. he went to find a younger women but his not satisfied.. he disrespect her on a regular telling Everyone on social media that he do not want to marry her and he want a older woman I believe he want to continue using her but he don’t want her because she have nothing to bring to the table besides her youth..She also have an addiction
I’m sure you were Sis. These birds are so greedy they will mess over grade A supply only to still be miserable in the end.🌟💖
Dumb & stupid 2! Young & naive!
Get it girl, you are on fire 🔥, the narc will self destruct, they want to come back where it’s nice and peaceful, and where the supply is off the chain, I say forget about them and keep it moving
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I'm hoping my narc calls so I can do the discard first...I'm thinking he's gonna discard first
Omggg at 13:22 minutes 🙏🏽does anyone see the white dove flying over this video Wow 🕊️🕊️🕊️
Thank You! I have been the stablizing source since the beginning of time..... all the narcissist did was take advantage of me. I got smart and withdrew my supply. Happy as ever!
How are you tea you speak the gospel truth this is why I left this person I had enough of the bull crap and when I would get severely angry at him then he would apologize and put the problem on medication and I said don't use medication as an excuse I'm am glad for this content it made me realize I never was at fault it was him and I was so good too this person it was disgusting tea I'm just continuing to go on with my life and once againkarma will serve him and I don't want nothing to do with him I even changed my cell number cold turkey I can't be bothered with him no more
I remember when he started pulling away from me and treating me badly. I remember saying to him "I waiting for you to leave me" I also literally remember telling him exactly what he would be saying to me. Then boom, one night he called me and regurgitated everything I knew he would say and I wished him the best. His mother also called me to inform me that she was writing a book and wanted to read me some of it to which she read to me what was going on and that she knew he was cheating on me. She changed our names in her book then after reading it to me she asked me what I thought and I fully understood I just didn't let her know that I heard her loud and clear and knew what she was doing and what was going on. I was just sitting back and watching them think that they were playing me. I wanted to see just how malicious they could be and said okay, I smiled and never begged for an explanation.
Good evening beautiful...I simply love your spirit..we have the same thought process...mind strength..and I thought I was the only one who called the ratchet...birds...hood booger...and Alley rat are also the names of the kinds of individuals the DUMPED loves so much.
Hello beautiful soul thank you for the support and encouragement. Lol! All describe these birds too lol. Great minds think alike.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Thank you Queen..KEEP REIGNING...WE LOVE YOU.
@@carlissable thank you so much beautiful soul. I love you all to life.✨💖
AWESOME MESSAGE!!!
I wish I read this when I dated a narcissist....I broke up with him he popped up at my job like 4 months after we broke up.... like I was supposed to feel special... gurl bye!
Thank you for shedding light and giving us clarity! I loved ❤️everything you said! Such a powerful message of hope for all narc survivors. You are amazing! 🤩 The Tea on NPD rules like a queen! 👑💕
You look stunning.
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you Sis! Thank you also for watching and supporting the channel beautiful soul.🌟💖
We woke up because it was God filling our cups instead of the nuts!
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I went no contact and loving it. He is fb friend with my sister keep posting pictures and things.
I've always wondered if THAT BIG BIRD😂😂 was ruminating even with the new younger supply! I have 3 kids by the narc & still ruminate years later but now i feel like when I'm doing it It's because he's doing it because i can't understand for the life of me why that demon would cross my mind!!
You have the gift of 3 lovely children who will give you all the love he couldn’t and then some !!
@@Rigoletta53 exactly! No regrets ... Thank you😊 they are 3 good boys
I don't consider myself Grade A; but, I am one of his favorite victims.
Awesome, Awesome, Aweso.e, this video just changed my life. I love her.
I needed this god worked in my life through you today god bless you this BIRD is coming to town I received through a message that’s no longer my business thank you for the video .
Bless you Sis keep your head up. That bird is doing enough ruminating for both of y’all. I’m happy this lifted your spirits.🌟💖
You are speaking about me down to the T honey!! It’s mind blowing! I raised that bird’s siblings like they were mine, took care of his family while he was out with an F grade supply who is lazy, smokes weed all day, calls off work 24/7, cheated on her partner with the bird, and the list goes on and on. Let me tell ya, he had to find the complete opposite of me cuz he knows he ain’t never gonn find another one like me. Except he mistaken my unconditional love for unconditional boundaries and discarded that bird along with his nasty cheap detergent smelling a$$ back up supply. 🤮