Girl, this is the classic neglected child dream. The catch is that until you are with your own self as you wish these men to be, you will only get what you're getting now. Are you obsessed with yourself? Do you stick with yourself no matter what? Do you treat your body right? Your soul? Your mind? Etc etc. Don't mean to sound harsh, takes one to know one.
Yea she loves her self and is obsessed w her self as she should be she’s a beautiful REAL person but also she works hard puts her self out there takes risks and is successful!! She is the prize she wants to be treated like it by someone else. It’s fun to put yourself on a pedestal when you deserve it and you work hard as we all should, but it’s exhausting. Sometimes you want to be treated that way and appreciated by a man a divine feminine only can except a divine masculine.
if someone is single, doesn't mean that they are at fault. it could probably mean she hasnt met her match, yet. also you dont have to be obsessed with yourself for someone else to be obsessed with you.
Also, I'd like to add - posting this and explaining that you want a man obsessed with you could put you in danger for being an online influencer... Be safe out there
This is my opinion as a single 24 year old. I think wanting someone who's obsessed with you is valid, to the point where he's stalking you sounds unhealthy to me. Blocking someone is setting a boundary. If he finds a way to contact you either way, that's disrespecting you boundaries. From your lives last year, it sounds like you're quite picky with looks too. Imo, that standard is too high but that's just me and I'm pansexual so I experience attraction differently.
If there’s one thing I’ve learned being in the 30+ range it’s that those obsessive men have a slew of problems and are not healthy. They are not in love they have abandonment issues like you. Please grow up. A real masculine man will be there and be your protector. He would die for you. Not this obsessive break into your house. And why the hell would you block him On everything? Childish
A real masculine man wouldn’t engage in playing immature games like that, so she’s essentially pushing them all away with this ‘high standard’ and in turn protecting herself from experiencing an actual mature adult relationship. All because she’s truly avoiding facing these broken parts of herself. Living from your wounded comfort-zone will only lead to repetitive dead ends.
@@prismav facts. I did this childish crap in my twenties and it’s no wonder why things never worked out. When I found a genuine masculine man he made it clear he would not put up with it. But like I said that was in my twenties. She’s in her thirties and still acts very immature. Unfortunate because her channel is great and her readings always resonate with me. But her doing this is actually draining her energy and caused her channel to slowly fall apart
@@junopierre2988 i did the same in my 20s too and thats how i can spot the toxic behavior! And same - met a guy, he didn’t put up with my bs and we’re happily married 3 years now lol i also think her readings are awesome but i feel bad she can definitely still heal from that!
@@prismav awe that’s wonderful hun!! Congrats to you and your hubby 💕 and I agree, she can definitely heal from it. Once she does she’ll attract better suitors and be a better partner
You seem under the influence... Weird baby talk. Trust me, any guy that is obsessed in their 30s is not mentally mature. You probably need a lot of healing work on your end in order to attract the right guy for you. Youve mentioned it before in your live streams that youre 'crazy or toxic' so why do you expect to get a reasonable man? Lol. Heal. Work on yourself and love will find its way to you.
That's how I felt with her most recent pick a card reading. The weird baby voice, she seemed under the influence, and it was extremely unwatchable, so i clicked it off.
A guy that finds a way to contact you after you block him is a man who doesn’t respect boundaries. Men are probably picking up on this desperation and running for the hills. Some counseling might help figure out what you need to work on in attracting a true partner not a serial killer.
Sweetheart I am single at 53 and have been single since 2018 it's all good the only thing I miss is having a really great makeout session but other then that all good life goes on
I think it's normal to complain about being single or getting played. It happens to plenty of people. She's just being honest about it and realizes it. Lots of people are not lucky and have relationship problems.
Bro if you don't get into toxic situationships or only attract green flags and the world ain't throwing challenges at you, then are you actually living or staying in your safety life easy mode bubble? 😭
You’re not her doctor. She’s allowed to express herself however she feels. You don’t know what she may or may not be going through. Her concerns and venting is valid. Not your place to “worry”
Girl for relationship to work out love is not enough u need commitment faith trust values u need to grow together you jave to be compatible even if he is so obsessed with u it wont last long but u need more than that to sustain a relationship
As a NN Scorpio stellium in the 6H (Sun & Pluto in 7H) w venus rx in sco, I completely understand it. Lol one day a guy who gets ur humor, loves and can't get enough of u, will come. Even tho I haven't had that yet, I believe in them. U keep putting out what u wanna manifest in the world. It will work :)
Freya...Freya...Freya...use to think it was a bright star, but then I realized what I was looking at was Venus...and then the three sisters of fate told me it was you...
Be careful what you wish for ….you don’t want a connection like that …they will drain your energy and tap into you years later …it is a horrible soul tie and you will be battling to break it ….healthy love is not obsession …never is
Your standards are that of a 13 year old. That's why you're 30 and single. And you should very fake like you're trying to be sexy or whatever. You're beautiful and you don't need to sound like Paris Hilton to attract a good man. Be real with yourself and the men you want to date, and don't cause stand just to see if they'll come chasing after you because you want them to. That never works if a happy long term relationship is your goal. Good luck ❤
But what's so wrong about being 30 and not wanting an "30 yr old people, healthy, ready to get kids or whatever" relationship? I instead seek the passion of the youth, the intense emotions. Everything else I can give myself
@@astroailis5215 she never asked anyone a question. i think you shud take silly videos as silly. besides, she can afford a therapist. she doesnt need nameless people to advice her on relationships.
As a woman in her feminine energy I agree we want someone that gives us that fulfillment that fiery passion & to make us feel complete. You’re absolutely right & we’re all different we desire differently in a man. A lot of the times ego gets in the way of all that & it becomes a power struggle
not too much to ask, someone who loves you should be ‘obsessed’ aka give you all of the attention and support you desire out of their own will. don’t settle for less. better to be alone than with someone who isn’t making you 100% content. don’t give up❤
You are brave in a beautiful sense because I deeply feel the same, but I won't share it here because people will react as they are reacting. But I feel you, I relate 🤍
Girl......how narcissitic can a person get? The honeymoon phase doesnt last forever in any relationship. The best relationship is when you both are lovers as well as friends. Seriously.......go get therapy for your daddy issues.
Oof obsession is not healthy or love 😢 My bf thinks of me all the time but we're interdependent, we have our own goals, hobbies, lives and we grow together. I used to want toxic love because love that was stable and consistent seemed "boring" to me. When I started to value myself and build a loving relationship myself, that's when I attracted true love. I was trying to manifest a man for so long until I stopped trying and manifested self-love instead. Then he showed up 😅 You’re wonderful Anita! I love your videos ❤❤❤ your ideal match is out there!
Obsession is not a healthy base for any kind of a relationship, let alone a loving one. Perhaps this is why God or Universe keep you single to protect you from a toxic or dangerous partner. Do work with yourself, my dear girl. Relationships need respect and boundaries and mutual feelings of admiration to last. ❤
There are so many variables in love for it to work imo. Either God gives it to us easily and on a silver platter gracefully or it’s better to be single, free, creative and enjoy the love of God and the universe that is always beaming through us.
Ignore the haters- we all have our own healing to do. I know you've been doing a lot of healing Anita and it's ok to want what you want. As a woman who is sensitive and desires to be needed deeply by her man, I still find myself writing about this in my music. I'm not a confident I can do this on my own type of bitch. Yes I am confident and believe in myself, but I still want to be obsessed over in a way that we would both die for each other. You have your own wants and needs and who cares if other people think it's unhealthy. If it fulfills you and makes you happy 🤷♀️
Haha I can relate to this unfortunately! 😸 I crave strong passion and crazyness too. Normal men are no fun and I don’t know how to be with them cause I get bored. But it seems that relationships that last for a really long time are more like a calm, stable base. And are more centered around soft love than on passion 🌹.
There’s no rule that says you have to be in a relationship by any age. You have to start by being obsessed with yourself and actually loving yourself so you don’t waste any time on the kind of guys you’re describing. You’ll be able to nip it in the bud pretty early on when you can clearly tell they’re not treating you the way you want to be treated. Be obsessed with yourself in a positive way and I ASSURE you the people and relationships you attract will do a180
I swear they don't even vibe with her energy so why watch her? I feel like this channel is more for people who embrace the growing but also laugh about the toxic, yk? Like rockstars and shit 💀
34 years old here single since my 30! Got that standart too! This is the result for putting the wrong people on a estale foot now "craving situation" please someone notice my value. Wanting to count not feeling unwanted, so the strong opposite of what once hurt, would be a stalker with that notion of respect ones boundaries "I want to love you because you are a precious gem and I am the lucky one who found this tresure" Its just a way to protect yourself. But in the end yes one extrem to another isn t good, a guy like this would be full of insecurites.... so not a "strong man" who save the day, so if you re like me on this you won t feel attracted at all it will be more like being repulsed by them. The idea of someone who say I love you I love you every 15 min is appealing, but at some point when you really have it, it s like oki I get it! thanks how boring !! Leave me alone you are annoying with your no conversation at all! Because I love you I love you is not a conversation! You as my man why are you lowering yourself :O !! Ill protect my own self at this point cause you ll be too busy saying I love you ! are you good ? I love you ....... If you have the same type of issue as me (I ll write the rest with we in case), we need to realize that this is somehow selfish love (the same kind we received at some point), we shouldn t enter any relationship with this kind of desire. But, What if you are just waiting for someone with who you ll feel at ease to connect with that will meet your need and vice versa. Asking to "Life"/The univers/God to have someone who will turn his personnality and action all in your direction wouldn t be fair unless you are ready to do the same. I m pretty sure you want to stay who you are and do what you do, same for the other one... sadly XD mutual respect mutual recognition Your standart aren t wrong they protect you and when you ll find someone worth it who give you your value for real not only in the honeymoon phase youll probaly wont need a stalker anymore!! The question is: Is there anyone who doesn t express selfish love nowday... 4 years at being single I didn t meet anyone who wasn't in a relationship or wanting a relationship for "co-dependency reason" ...... I guess that fantacy about a stalker is the healthiess relationship you can found XD PS: sorry for the bad english :'( I am a french speaker !! I do understand english but using it is something else!!! And sorry for the long comment!! I ll accuse jupiter in my 3th house!!!
As a guy nearing retirement age, I did not find the right person until over 10 years ago. I am also born in the year of the dragon, and, looking at any info on dragons, they are supposed to marry late in life. This was not necessarily by choice, but this is what happened.
Well sis you shouldn’t settle but also you shouldn’t be with someone you have the need to block. 😅 like my husband is obsessed with me but also same and I could never block him 😂😂
Girl you need a man who puts God first then you. You need a man who is obsessed with God first you second. If he puts anything or anyone else before you, he ain’t it. I’ve lived in Los Angeles Hollywood is Satan’s playground. I promise it’s easier to find a decent man with morals and peace of mind away from the big cities. Also it’s fun to be the small town hottie, I think it would help you release some of the body dysmorphia 💓 the world already feels so fake but LA is so spiritually dead. There are gems everywhere of course, but for me lately, with the way the world has changed, I’ve been feeling way better in the south. Girllll get you a cowboyyyy 🤠 I love you 💕
We need you to stay with us well and alive not on a true crime murder mystery show (serious but also I hope this makes you laugh 😅) 🥺 Please stay safe, Anita/Star Girl 🖤🩷🖤💛💜💛
Gurl you confuse obsession with caring about you. Seeking obsession to fill a hole in your heart. But I feel like it‘s difficult for you to accept that (I‘m hearing a little „oh fck of man“ or sth like that). Deep down I feel like I see a little Girl Trying to get the love she desperately needs. God bless you. Within a year, you will grow so much and dictate your life with banging confidence and not giving any fcks anymore. But I‘m also hearing it‘s important to not shut off completely on an emotional level. There is one man out there, seeking your love. He is absolutely not your type. 😅🤣 But you will feel the obsession. He won‘t need to show you. 😊
You can’t say you’re still single because you’ve been in many relationships by this point. And you got at least two of them to marry you which is by American standards ‘blessed’ because as far as I know they don’t like marriage. So yeah that’s just my weird two cents. Sorry if I offended anyone. I used to think the same way but then I thought nah…I should start saying I’ve in two many bad relationships by this point. 😂
Okay? I just scrolled thru all these comments. Regardless of what tf y’all think MAY or MAY NOT being going on w Anita there is a way to approach that kind of topic without being a major fricken ssahole!!!! I’m just sayin. Beyond that. I like you sharing personal videos with us. It’s one of the reasons I had your patreon because you would tell us a bit about your life and share some of your experiences with us ! Also, if y’all think she’s doing a babg voice or trying to sound seductive, have you ever thought about the fact that Anita herself has MANY personas and that’s not necessarily a bad thing, and this could just be ONE of them. Kind of like nicki Minaj with Roman ? Or Beyoncé with Sasha fierce ? I’m just sayin. Or MAYBE she just fucking wanted to talk like that.
You will always be single because no man can handle the woman who is reall successful and beautiful and intuitive . A man is sad these days . You need a dr a do you need a surgeon to call you in between surgeries and tell you how hot he is for you how hot you are you need somebody that’s extremely smart extremely busy and still makes time for you
Maybe your doing something that attracts superficial guys. If you didnt look so glam maybe you could see who you attract without make up. You would still look nice.❤
You can have high standards and always have a man if your personality is appealing. If you give off the vibe of being too good or distant it’s instant repellant. Unless the guy has mommy issues and wants to work hard to appease you and possibly be abused. But you’re not going to want that either. Then you’ll say you always attract the worst men. Giving off a cold cool bitch vibe online impresses other girls but to men it’s a turn off. Just giving real ass advice here.
sounds like you’re still single at 30 because the universe and angels know you still have a lot of healing to do
Girl, this is the classic neglected child dream. The catch is that until you are with your own self as you wish these men to be, you will only get what you're getting now.
Are you obsessed with yourself? Do you stick with yourself no matter what? Do you treat your body right? Your soul? Your mind? Etc etc.
Don't mean to sound harsh, takes one to know one.
Yea she loves her self and is obsessed w her self as she should be she’s a beautiful REAL person but also she works hard puts her self out there takes risks and is successful!! She is the prize she wants to be treated like it by someone else. It’s fun to put yourself on a pedestal when you deserve it and you work hard as we all should, but it’s exhausting. Sometimes you want to be treated that way and appreciated by a man a divine feminine only can except a divine masculine.
if someone is single, doesn't mean that they are at fault. it could probably mean she hasnt met her match, yet. also you dont have to be obsessed with yourself for someone else to be obsessed with you.
@@timelyferry good luck with that
Also, I'd like to add - posting this and explaining that you want a man obsessed with you could put you in danger for being an online influencer... Be safe out there
wow, Stargirl died just so this chick could yap about absolute nonsense..
😂
This is my opinion as a single 24 year old. I think wanting someone who's obsessed with you is valid, to the point where he's stalking you sounds unhealthy to me. Blocking someone is setting a boundary. If he finds a way to contact you either way, that's disrespecting you boundaries. From your lives last year, it sounds like you're quite picky with looks too. Imo, that standard is too high but that's just me and I'm pansexual so I experience attraction differently.
you are allowed to feel what you feel, but she is also allowed to feel attraction a different way. no one is better than the other.
@@timelyferry I did clarify that this is just my opinion. She asked what we think. You're completely right though.
If there’s one thing I’ve learned being in the 30+ range it’s that those obsessive men have a slew of problems and are not healthy. They are not in love they have abandonment issues like you. Please grow up. A real masculine man will be there and be your protector. He would die for you. Not this obsessive break into your house. And why the hell would you block him
On everything? Childish
A real masculine man wouldn’t engage in playing immature games like that, so she’s essentially pushing them all away with this ‘high standard’ and in turn protecting herself from experiencing an actual mature adult relationship. All because she’s truly avoiding facing these broken parts of herself. Living from your wounded comfort-zone will only lead to repetitive dead ends.
@@prismav facts. I did this childish crap in my twenties and it’s no wonder why things never worked out. When I found a genuine masculine man he made it clear he would not put up with it. But like I said that was in my twenties. She’s in her thirties and still acts very immature. Unfortunate because her channel is great and her readings always resonate with me. But her doing this is actually draining her energy and caused her channel to slowly fall apart
@@junopierre2988 i did the same in my 20s too and thats how i can spot the toxic behavior! And same - met a guy, he didn’t put up with my bs and we’re happily married 3 years now lol i also think her readings are awesome but i feel bad she can definitely still heal from that!
@@prismav awe that’s wonderful hun!! Congrats to you and your hubby 💕 and I agree, she can definitely heal from it. Once she does she’ll attract better suitors and be a better partner
@@junopierre2988 thank you love! Same to you!
You seem under the influence... Weird baby talk. Trust me, any guy that is obsessed in their 30s is not mentally mature. You probably need a lot of healing work on your end in order to attract the right guy for you. Youve mentioned it before in your live streams that youre 'crazy or toxic' so why do you expect to get a reasonable man? Lol. Heal. Work on yourself and love will find its way to you.
That's how I felt with her most recent pick a card reading. The weird baby voice, she seemed under the influence, and it was extremely unwatchable, so i clicked it off.
A guy that finds a way to contact you after you block him is a man who doesn’t respect boundaries. Men are probably picking up on this desperation and running for the hills. Some counseling might help figure out what you need to work on in attracting a true partner not a serial killer.
Sweetheart I am single at 53 and have been single since 2018 it's all good the only thing I miss is having a really great makeout session but other then that all good life goes on
I am getting worried about your mental health at this point.
Yes she’s always complaining about being single or getting played by men: it’s disturbing
I think it's normal to complain about being single or getting played. It happens to plenty of people. She's just being honest about it and realizes it. Lots of people are not lucky and have relationship problems.
Bro if you don't get into toxic situationships or only attract green flags and the world ain't throwing challenges at you, then are you actually living or staying in your safety life easy mode bubble? 😭
You’re not her doctor. She’s allowed to express herself however she feels. You don’t know what she may or may not be going through. Her concerns and venting is valid. Not your place to “worry”
You are right. She really needs to work on her daddy issues.
Girl for relationship to work out love is not enough u need commitment faith trust values u need to grow together you jave to be compatible even if he is so obsessed with u it wont last long but u need more than that to sustain a relationship
Exactly she is missing out the point
Exactly she is missing out the point
Well this was odd
She probably relapsed. Definitely something always off with her lately .
As a NN Scorpio stellium in the 6H (Sun & Pluto in 7H) w venus rx in sco, I completely understand it. Lol one day a guy who gets ur humor, loves and can't get enough of u, will come. Even tho I haven't had that yet, I believe in them. U keep putting out what u wanna manifest in the world. It will work :)
Freya...Freya...Freya...use to think it was a bright star, but then I realized what I was looking at was Venus...and then the three sisters of fate told me it was you...
Be careful what you wish for ….you don’t want a connection like that …they will drain your energy and tap into you years later …it is a horrible soul tie and you will be battling to break it ….healthy love is not obsession …never is
Your standards are that of a 13 year old. That's why you're 30 and single. And you should very fake like you're trying to be sexy or whatever. You're beautiful and you don't need to sound like Paris Hilton to attract a good man. Be real with yourself and the men you want to date, and don't cause stand just to see if they'll come chasing after you because you want them to. That never works if a happy long term relationship is your goal. Good luck ❤
But what's so wrong about being 30 and not wanting an "30 yr old people, healthy, ready to get kids or whatever" relationship? I instead seek the passion of the youth, the intense emotions. Everything else I can give myself
@@nihalnihal9356 okay, but I wasn't talking to you. My comment was my answer to the question she asked.
@@astroailis5215 she never asked anyone a question. i think you shud take silly videos as silly. besides, she can afford a therapist. she doesnt need nameless people to advice her on relationships.
As a woman in her feminine energy I agree we want someone that gives us that fulfillment that fiery passion & to make us feel complete. You’re absolutely right & we’re all different we desire differently in a man. A lot of the times ego gets in the way of all that & it becomes a power struggle
This standard would put the men that actually qualify at risk of arrest.
sexy
go to jail for me. yaaas
I really hope you're trolling lol
I hope u find that guy. I think there’s plenty of men who would do that. Some are in their “what do you bring to the table” mentality.
not too much to ask, someone who loves you should be ‘obsessed’ aka give you all of the attention and support you desire out of their own will. don’t settle for less. better to be alone than with someone who isn’t making you 100% content. don’t give up❤
You are brave in a beautiful sense because I deeply feel the same, but I won't share it here because people will react as they are reacting. But I feel you, I relate 🤍
She's not right in the head
It's always the really ugly people who say this
I get it, you want the guy youre into to chase the living crap out of you, but not THAT guy
Thought you were married once before, when you were an exotic dancer. I've seen that in one of your videos back in Stargirl time.
Girl......how narcissitic can a person get? The honeymoon phase doesnt last forever in any relationship. The best relationship is when you both are lovers as well as friends.
Seriously.......go get therapy for your daddy issues.
you need to stop giving therapy advice to people. you are not qualified.
@@timelyferry Actually i am. Mind your business.
Because as modern women, we dont need to settle for abusive man babies for financial support
we need passion, we need romance.
Oof obsession is not healthy or love 😢 My bf thinks of me all the time but we're interdependent, we have our own goals, hobbies, lives and we grow together. I used to want toxic love because love that was stable and consistent seemed "boring" to me. When I started to value myself and build a loving relationship myself, that's when I attracted true love. I was trying to manifest a man for so long until I stopped trying and manifested self-love instead. Then he showed up 😅 You’re wonderful Anita! I love your videos ❤❤❤ your ideal match is out there!
Obsession is not a healthy base for any kind of a relationship, let alone a loving one. Perhaps this is why God or Universe keep you single to protect you from a toxic or dangerous partner. Do work with yourself, my dear girl. Relationships need respect and boundaries and mutual feelings of admiration to last. ❤
There are so many variables in love for it to work imo. Either God gives it to us easily and on a silver platter gracefully or it’s better to be single, free, creative and enjoy the love of God and the universe that is always beaming through us.
Omg Anita I am the same way. But my other requirement is I need to be obsessed with him too 🙃
Even I'm single 32 with no feeling for love I'm happy
Every fat average Jill will be In A relationship because average is what this world excepts
Ignore the haters- we all have our own healing to do. I know you've been doing a lot of healing Anita and it's ok to want what you want. As a woman who is sensitive and desires to be needed deeply by her man, I still find myself writing about this in my music. I'm not a confident I can do this on my own type of bitch. Yes I am confident and believe in myself, but I still want to be obsessed over in a way that we would both die for each other. You have your own wants and needs and who cares if other people think it's unhealthy. If it fulfills you and makes you happy 🤷♀️
Haha I can relate to this unfortunately! 😸 I crave strong passion and crazyness too. Normal men are no fun and I don’t know how to be with them cause I get bored. But it seems that relationships that last for a really long time are more like a calm, stable base. And are more centered around soft love than on passion 🌹.
Guilty 🙋♀️
There’s no rule that says you have to be in a relationship by any age.
You have to start by being obsessed with yourself and actually loving yourself so you don’t waste any time on the kind of guys you’re describing. You’ll be able to nip it in the bud pretty early on when you can clearly tell they’re not treating you the way you want to be treated.
Be obsessed with yourself in a positive way and I ASSURE you the people and relationships you attract will do a180
Why are these comments so judgemental 😳👀🙄🥺
I swear they don't even vibe with her energy so why watch her? I feel like this channel is more for people who embrace the growing but also laugh about the toxic, yk? Like rockstars and shit 💀
exaclty. everyone thinks they are a therapist nowadays!!
As someone with bpd I get this and I married someone who is obsessed with me which really helps my disorder tbh.
Honestly? Same girl. Where is the passion gone? The tension? The I am thinking about you 24/7? Everything is so boring nowdays damn.
"I keep stabbing myself in the leg. Is it my fault that I can't walk?"
Please leave your face alone.
Keep your standards high babe don’t lower them😘
Hey Anita, when will you upload September reading? Eagerly waiting 🥺
Girrrl, I feel you 😭🖤
34 years old here single since my 30! Got that standart too! This is the result for putting the wrong people on a estale foot now "craving situation" please someone notice my value.
Wanting to count not feeling unwanted, so the strong opposite of what once hurt, would be a stalker with that notion of respect ones boundaries
"I want to love you because you are a precious gem and I am the lucky one who found this tresure"
Its just a way to protect yourself. But in the end yes one extrem to another isn t good, a guy like this would be full of insecurites.... so not a "strong man" who save the day, so if you re like me on this you won t feel attracted at all it will be more like being repulsed by them.
The idea of someone who say I love you I love you every 15 min is appealing, but at some point when you really have it, it s like oki I get it! thanks how boring !! Leave me alone you are annoying with your no conversation at all! Because I love you I love you is not a conversation! You as my man why are you lowering yourself :O !! Ill protect my own self at this point cause you ll be too busy saying I love you ! are you good ? I love you .......
If you have the same type of issue as me (I ll write the rest with we in case), we need to realize that this is somehow selfish love (the same kind we received at some point), we shouldn t enter any relationship with this kind of desire.
But,
What if you are just waiting for someone with who you ll feel at ease to connect with that will meet your need and vice versa.
Asking to "Life"/The univers/God to have someone who will turn his personnality and action all in your direction wouldn t be fair unless you are ready to do the same.
I m pretty sure you want to stay who you are and do what you do, same for the other one... sadly XD mutual respect mutual recognition
Your standart aren t wrong they protect you and when you ll find someone worth it who give you your value for real not only in the honeymoon phase youll probaly wont need a stalker anymore!!
The question is: Is there anyone who doesn t express selfish love nowday... 4 years at being single I didn t meet anyone who wasn't in a relationship or wanting a relationship for "co-dependency reason" ...... I guess that fantacy about a stalker is the healthiess relationship you can found XD
PS: sorry for the bad english :'( I am a french speaker !! I do understand english but using it is something else!!! And sorry for the long comment!! I ll accuse jupiter in my 3th house!!!
As a guy nearing retirement age, I did not find the right person until over 10 years ago. I am also born in the year of the dragon, and, looking at any info on dragons, they are supposed to marry late in life. This was not necessarily by choice, but this is what happened.
what about the year of pig?
@@timelyferry I am not sure when pigs should marry but they are thought to be more compatible with rabbits and wild boars in the Eastern zodiac.
Well sis you shouldn’t settle but also you shouldn’t be with someone you have the need to block. 😅 like my husband is obsessed with me but also same and I could never block him 😂😂
This matrix punishes beauty
I love this channel but is it me or is it getting a lil weird here? Idk something seems off. Hope everything’s ok.
Girl yesss, nonchalant men are lame
Its a fine line though. If I dont like them the stalking would gross me out
i am pretty sure she meant the situation where you playfully block someone everywhere because of a silly fight and then wait for them to contact you.
yes iam single and iam 27 yesterday was mine birthday and virgin lol keep up dont give your body to anyone
Girl you need a man who puts God first then you. You need a man who is obsessed with God first you second. If he puts anything or anyone else before you, he ain’t it. I’ve lived in Los Angeles Hollywood is Satan’s playground. I promise it’s easier to find a decent man with morals and peace of mind away from the big cities. Also it’s fun to be the small town hottie, I think it would help you release some of the body dysmorphia 💓 the world already feels so fake but LA is so spiritually dead. There are gems everywhere of course, but for me lately, with the way the world has changed, I’ve been feeling way better in the south. Girllll get you a cowboyyyy 🤠 I love you 💕
We need you to stay with us well and alive not on a true crime murder mystery show (serious but also I hope this makes you laugh 😅) 🥺 Please stay safe, Anita/Star Girl 🖤🩷🖤💛💜💛
Relatable !!
What the 😂😂, not sure if green flags or red
its all green
Gurl you confuse obsession with caring about you. Seeking obsession to fill a hole in your heart. But I feel like it‘s difficult for you to accept that (I‘m hearing a little „oh fck of man“ or sth like that). Deep down I feel like I see a little Girl Trying to get the love she desperately needs. God bless you. Within a year, you will grow so much and dictate your life with banging confidence and not giving any fcks anymore. But I‘m also hearing it‘s important to not shut off completely on an emotional level. There is one man out there, seeking your love. He is absolutely not your type. 😅🤣 But you will feel the obsession. He won‘t need to show you. 😊
❤❤❤❤❤❤our torch bearer
Guys I think this is supposed to be sarcastic and comical, not literal...
This that old back in the day black and white TV show love
You can’t say you’re still single because you’ve been in many relationships by this point. And you got at least two of them to marry you which is by American standards ‘blessed’ because as far as I know they don’t like marriage. So yeah that’s just my weird two cents. Sorry if I offended anyone. I used to think the same way but then I thought nah…I should start saying I’ve in two many bad relationships by this point. 😂
DATE MEEEEEEEE
Okay? I just scrolled thru all these comments. Regardless of what tf y’all think MAY or MAY NOT being going on w Anita there is a way to approach that kind of topic without being a major fricken ssahole!!!! I’m just sayin.
Beyond that. I like you sharing personal videos with us. It’s one of the reasons I had your patreon because you would tell us a bit about your life and share some of your experiences with us !
Also, if y’all think she’s doing a babg voice or trying to sound seductive, have you ever thought about the fact that Anita herself has MANY personas and that’s not necessarily a bad thing, and this could just be ONE of them. Kind of like nicki Minaj with Roman ? Or Beyoncé with Sasha fierce ? I’m just sayin. Or MAYBE she just fucking wanted to talk like that.
Get checked for autism or a peronality disorder like BPD
High standards keep you from wasting your time 🖤
Your so real for that 😂❤ I love the crazy ones 💗
I’m still single at 30 also
Art thow okay? 😅
You will always be single because no man can handle the woman who is reall successful and beautiful and intuitive . A man is sad these days . You need a dr a do you need a surgeon to call you in between surgeries and tell you how hot he is for you how hot you are you need somebody that’s extremely smart extremely busy and still makes time for you
What 😥
This is why you're single. I notice men only tend to act this way about women who are 18 - 28.
Maybe your doing something that attracts superficial guys. If you didnt look so glam maybe you could see who you attract without make up. You would still look nice.❤
You’re so pretty ❤ men have no taste
why are we the same 😂
Trait 1 is why ur single. Mystery solved :)) yw
Oh
tf is a Chad lol
language angry virgin guys started using to refer to big, handsome and masculine men who supposedly get all the girls
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You can have high standards and always have a man if your personality is appealing. If you give off the vibe of being too good or distant it’s instant repellant. Unless the guy has mommy issues and wants to work hard to appease you and possibly be abused. But you’re not going to want that either. Then you’ll say you always attract the worst men. Giving off a cold cool bitch vibe online impresses other girls but to men it’s a turn off. Just giving real ass advice here.
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