My heart aches for those children whose voices get ignored when it comes to custody. My mother was/is quite mentally unwell and I was lucky enough to be able to talk to the judge one on one when I was around 11. Told him it is either living with my father or the orphanage. That was all that he needed to hear and I was put with my father. Thank you dad, for being the best father anyone could ask for ❤
It's a "much greater history" because woman on man violence mostly went unnoticed and unspoken about even more so the further back in the past you go. Remember, the statistics never include any of the unreported/unknown incidents.
Aswell as Alot of Male victim cases would get disregarded by Police, Teacher's, Etc etc So even if a man did come forward there is a chance he would denied
Correct! It was even frowned upon if it was mentioned that a woman put her hands on a man. Like it was down right shameful to admit it for men. You're supposed to 'take it like man', 'turn the other cheek', 'only weak men get beat on by a woman' sorta mentality. A 'real' man or tough guys just slung a crazy, violent woman over their shoulder like a sack of potatoes and dumped her in the mud or water to 'cool' her off lol. Heck even back in the 80's guys were called sissys, pu**ies, and an assortment of other colorful slurs if they got beat on by women or girls, but by gosh they were the worst kind of monster for daring to raise a hand to defend themselves or push them away. A guy could be bloodied to a pulp and if she had so much as a red mark he was trash. My Dad raised me with the mentality, if you think you're tough enough to hit like a man you better expect to be hit like a man. I raised my daughter the same way. My son was a little harder, to be honest. I taught him that he had every right to defend himself from physical violence but if it came to a situation that a woman was the instigator his best bet was to remove himself from the situation, because he'd almost always get the sh*t end of the stick with the law.
It's still no where close lmao if you really think women were hitting their husbands back when husbands were able to dump their wives at asylums for "hysteria," you're fucking delusional.
I don't remember his name but there was a TH-camr years ago that told his r*pe story on his channel. He had been to a party, gotten drunk, and gone to sleep. He woke up with a woman on top of him in the process of r*ping him. When he decided to open up about this to a female friend, she slapped him because "men can't be r*ped", and in her world he was making fun of r*pe victims by claiming to be one.
So one time I was out at the park with my nephew and niece, letting them run around, play, get their energy out. As the sun was setting I was walking home with them, this woman out of nowhere screams at me that I’m kidnapper (I am pretty much Aryan in appearance, blonde hair, blue eyes, my nephew and niece are mixed race). She even tried to call the cops on me. We live in a small, one-precinct town and my father used to be an officer (retired after 20 years), the only reason I didn’t get arrested that day was that the police knew who I was, they’ve known me since I was like 6 or 7 years old.
@@katwitanruna See I would but my Nephew is a bit of a knobhead and my niece is really sassy. They would both say they have no idea who I am because they think it’s funny.
I'm really grateful for being a Swede, as we have moved past the "the mom gets the kids" decades ago. The norm is shared cústody, unless someone is totally unsuitable (like my brothers ex who tried to kidnap my nephew). Nobody pays alimony either, you pay for the kids only if your ex have full custody and those aren't any fantasy numbers.
@@chrisrose323 Still not Sweden, as Socialtjänsten would set up meetings between the child and the parent. It's called umgängesrätt. Economy or standard of living have nothing to do with who gets the kids.
I actually have experienced sexism. back in high school, a girl had been having a bad day and decided since I was somewhat smaller than others to hit me several times. each time I told her that if she didn't stop, I would defend myself. after the 3rd hit, this time to my face, I punched her in the stomach. about 5 seconds later, the in-school police officer we had threw me to the into the wall and told me that he saw what I had done and was taking me to the front office to the principle. once there, despite me telling them how she attacked me, I was suspended for 3 days. after coming back, some of her male friends beat me up and the principle told me that I probably did something to provoke them. I told him the next time it happens, I will grab the nearest thing and beat them until paramedics were needed. I hated that school all 4 yrs I was there. she and her friends were never punished
Was physically and verbally abused by my sister all throughout school. When I went to my family about it, they just asked me what I did to upset her. I ended up having to lock myself in my room so she couldn’t get to me, and it became my haven. So even after all that is over, I was so messed up by years of abuse, I barely leave my room to this day. It’s where I feel safest.
If you don't want to get smacked, keep your hands to yourself. Today it is: "these hands are rated E for Everyone" and that's how it should be. No violence would be the best solution but that is not how this world works, sadly
That first story made me so happy. That is exactly the way those kinds of situations should play out. I wouldn't be surprised if that was the first time that woman had actually experienced the consequences of her actions. And the girl telling the story has a good head on her shoulders.
My stepdad has a story like this. Before marrying my mother, he had a kid with another women, said women manipulated his kid in order for him to hate his dad. It's been over 5 years now and court finally caught up and she could be facing big charges. But it took 5 years, and his kid will now surely need to go to a psychiatrist to get his trauma against my stepdad sorted out. So yeah, 5, years, a mentally abused kid. Pretty steep consequences for prioritizing a women with a single person behind her back in court.
Not me, but a tweet I saw made by a woman who said that she was pregnant, and would go get an X-ray at the hospital to see if it is, and I quote, "a girl or an abortion", will live on in my head for the rest of my life as one of the worst example of male sexism/misandry.
I remember once i saw a tweet where a woman had sayd she did the x-ray and discovered it was a boy and now she was sad, the comments on that tweet, i swear to God i thought i was on deep web or some shit for a moment, ot was insane.
Nothing I experienced, but my dad. He was bullied at work, something he never told us, but I did a surprise visit to him (I was around 13-14) and what I saw chocked me. The main thing they did was just freezing him out, completely ignoring his existence (unless they needed his special skills, my dad is a self-taught carpenter who was excellent at doing all those small and fine-detailed works with his bare hands and not the computer generated machines, which couldn't do all things necessary), but also doing things like trying to trip him or refusing to move out of the way, but there was the occasional snide remark too. My dad never said a thing, just bowed his head and bore it. I could not. I went into the secretary and was furious. Turned out she had tried to talk to the boss about it (she was an ok lady, but the only woman there, so I guess she didn't dare to speak up too much) and the boss had said that my dad just "needed to suck it up, it was just 'friendly teasing', he was a grown man, and not a girl, and should be able to handle it". I literally wanted to strangle that boss (especially since I myself was severely bullied at school and told by the principal it was my own fault for not fitting in). (We now know that my dad, just like myself, is autistic, which unfortunately explains why he was singled out.)
I absolutely hate the boys/men don't cry stereotype. I was mercilessly bullied for being on the sensitive side and crying being my natural reaction from kindergarten to elementary school. I was a bit too pampered by my mother on the emotional side in my early childhood so I was a crybaby for a long time but I rarely threw those fake crying hissy fits. I constantly heard from my family that I need to tolerate the bullying and not to cry although this was not said with sexism in mind. The one time I was kinda discriminated against as a male happened in 7th grade. We were out in the school yard with a friend talking. A 4th graders ball rolled to our feet. We didn't see anyone coming for it at first so I picked it up. A few seconds later comes the girl for the ball, demanding it a bit rudely. I say to her that I'll give it to her if she asks nicely. Her answer was kicking me in the knee and striking a nerve. I dropped the ball, she picked it up and ran away. I went after her and told my friend to come. I told him that she definietly ran to a teacher to exercise the privilige of being younger, so the teacher would defend her no matter what I say so I need someone confirming what happened (the girl was also a cousin of my friend and he knew how rude she can be). We went to where she ran to. She was hiding right behind the teacher. I should mention that she striking a nerve made me have a slight limp for the next 30 minutes and the teacher saw it. With an upset but not agressive tone explained to the teacher what happened and told her that I only came to get an apology. "But she's younger than you. She's a girl. She couldn't kick that hard. It shouldn't hurt you as a boy. You should suck up." These were her points. She told me the last one after I told her that she could clearly see I am standing on one leg because she struck a nerve. Overall it was more overprotecting the child but when someone tries to force me into a male stereotype I get really itchy palms. On another note I find cultural male societal role as somewhat of a discrimination. My main example is courtship. I have to initiate, I have to ask, I have to be the confident one. I'm kinda bad at initiating a conversation and most of the time too scared to ask someone out and girls who are comfortable with taking the lead are few and far where I live. EDIT: a word
My senior year i had a teacher that told us men couldn't be r@ped by a women because for a man to be able to have intercourse he has to be hard & if hes hard that means he wanted it. I tried making the argument what if a woman gets wet while being r@ped does that mean she wanted it because its a natural reaction if your feeling stimulation in that area because guys can get an erection just by accidentally rubbing it against something. He said real men know how to control it. Then i said what if the guy is out cold or tied up & the girl sodomizes him he said a woman couldn't overpower a guy. Everytime i tried giving examples how its possible he had an answer or rebuttal. The worst part about this was that the teacher was also a sheriff's deputy
My marridge was falling apart and my wife realized she couldn't make it out with our savings, the car, and our daughters. So she called a help line and said she unveiled a plan I had to unalive her and our children. She spun lies about mental instability, and cops were called. I'm unaware of all this, and come home from work with cops, being presented with a protective order, and was taken and held for 3 days at a mental hospital for psych evaluation. I was dismissed with a clean bill of mental health. But that gave my wife time to disappear with all of our belongings, both vehicles, all of our savings, all of my checking, and our daughters. I had no criminal history, no history with mental health struggles, and no history of any kind of abuse. But I was a male, and was thus innately capable of terrible things. The protective order was granted without evidence, which is a common occurrence in my state against men. But if it's against a woman, and children are involved, you need evidence to put an order in place. She called the cops on me several more times despite us not being in contact due to the protective order. Each time she lied to the cops about false claims of harming animals, theft, drugs ect, she received no reprocussions. Because I'm a male and thus capable of those things. I lost my job due to the amount of times the cops showed up at my work and requested I go with them over some new charge. I had no interactions with cops until this time in my life. I hate how I'm treated as guilty of the most foul crimes until proven innocent.
I took my 17 year old niece to a doctors appointment a couple of years ago as her mother (my sister) was working. When we arrived, the receptionist asked who I was. I explained that I'm her uncle. I was given a look that said she thought I was a perv. After a bit of an argument, I had to call my sister and get her to explain who I was. Even my niece telling her who I am wasn't enough. I didn't even get an apology.
Story 7: My own story of this topic is not my own as much as it is one of my uncles. Fair warning that it's pretty dark. But back in the 90s one of my uncles married a woman that was caught horrifically s^xually abusing the two kids he had with her; a boy and a girl. This abuse went on for years but somewhere along the line something happened that caused the daughter to need gynecological care even though she was pre-pubescent. Something was found and the authorities were involved. Long story short the police were quickly involved and the mother was taken into custody and the case went to trial. The mountain of evidence of her serial abuse was so blatant that when she went to trail the jury barely didn't even wasted time deliberating. For some insane reason that I still don't understand to this day the judge decided to recommend basically probation for their mother. And even more _sicking_ the state of NC social child services required that the mother be given supervised visitation. My uncle fought for years trying to get his now ex-wife denied access to his kids but the state of NC just kept insisting that 'kids need their mother'.
*metaphorically speaking, we'd never hit one another* My boyfriend and I were discussing this: I could hit him, and people wouldn't do anything. In fact, they'd likely think that he did something to deserve it. If he hit me, he'd be tackled to the ground, the Police would be called and I'd be taken away from him. Either both are wrong, or neither is. Gender shouldn't come into it.
I dotn care, man, woman, it etc. You hit me, you're catching my hands. My ex wife tried to pull that shit with me. Hit me in the head with a stick of wood and gave me a gash on top of my eye. I threw her to groud and she called the cops for domestic violence. Cops came and put me in cuffs. Thank God I has witnesses. I'm bleeding and she has a scratch, and they put me in cuffs.
Also, another story. My friend and I were having a movie marathon and fell asleep on the couch. I wake up to her having pulled my PJ'S down and is about to mount me. I freeze in shock, and it takes me a minute to realize what's happening. We had never done the dirty before, and I was not a willing participant. I tried saying no a handful of times before I pushed her off. I was afraid of pushing her off as I've been afraid since elementary school of using any physical force against girls. This event left some mental scars, and I eventually went to a therapist for it. I chose a female as I'm a bit more feminine and was afraid a male may not have treated it seriously. But she simply suggested I have condoms on hand in the future. I reiterated that I was not consenting, and was still waking up when the deed began. She seemed confused, and said it can be hard to get a condom on in those circumstances, but having it nearby will help. She just couldn't comprehend that I was raped because I'm a male.
Ageism, not sexism, but similar dynamics at play: my cousin (4 ish male) would physically attack me (9 ish female), my mom, and my infant sister. Like, he thought he was rough-housing, but he was being about as rough and brutal as if he was fighting for his life. My parents forbade me from attacking him back, and his father just laughed and said, "yeah, he does that" when I tried to complain to him (my cousin had older siblings who WERE allowed to fight back, so he had learned not to mess with them. His dad probably thought that if he was really hitting me THAT hard, I would hit him back regardless of the consequences. I had undiagnosed autism, though, and part of that was very rigid rule-following. My brain WOULD NOT LET me knowingly break a rule). Finally, my grandma told me I could fight back and she would take the heat for it. So I pinned my little cousin down and refused to let him up until he promised to leave me alone. The first time, it bought me about 10 minutes of peace, so I just did it again. Eventually he stopped.
I also have a story for this. I was 13 and me and 3 others guys were going to our friends birthday party (this friend was a girl) and we are having fun playing around in the front yard with a tennis ball when then she starts chasing me and throws me to the ground, after I get up as I shake it off and toss the tennis ball she kicks me in my junk and proceeds to laugh as I fall to the floor then she just says “oh get over it, it’s not like you can do anything about it” so I proceed to sit there and wait till my parents came to pick me up. still haven’t told anyone about it
I hate being circumcised but people tell me to "get over it" and then proceed to condemn female circumcision. All genital mutilation is wrong, regardless of the sex of the victim.
I would love to be a fly on the wall for the first time some guy pitched circumcision to his buddies. Just the sheer volume of incredulous looks and “you want to do WHAT with my dick?”
Agreed. 100%. There's no excuse for this unless the person is old enough to consent for whatever reason they want to. I don't recall consenting to anyone chopping off part of my penis as an infant.
Back when i was a trainee at a school i was told that under no circumstances i could go in the girls bathroom, even if someone was fighting or dying there. But the female teachers and trainee's were allowed to go to the boys restroom if something occured or even if a kid needed help peeing. Its even dumber than it sounds right now because they knew i am gay.
I had a teacher who lectured the class on how i was rude for using a laptop to type up notes and "typing when shes talking is rude". Yet when a female student did it, not a single shit was given.
Solution to what happened in story 28: block the punch and grip her hand VERY HARD so it hurts a bit and she stops, and if she complains to the teacher you can just say she punched you and you blocked
These hands are rated E for everyone; men, do not just take assault. People HAVE to learn that they are not protected from consequences. You might get jail, or other punishments. But for our own dignity, defend yourself.
There’s a far greater WRITTEN history of men, assaulting women. Women hit men all the time, men just don’t report it because they get laughed at. Men are not the main perpetrators of domestic violence. Let’s keep that in mind, please.
@@MsAnpassad you're ignoring that women are given majority say over children and men aren't given much, which is why there's consequence. Same when a man isn't doing a stereotypical man thing. Ita gender roles that's why
I didn't expect this one to start out so ominously. I love that you say people have the right to defend themselves, regardless of gender. My story is about how I'm not just male, but huge and hairy. I decided I had a calling in working with children. At the day care in college, I got the job of being the guy who opens the locks on the doors and the cook guy. I couldn't work with the children. I worked at Forever 21 with a friend, and I was the only one who had to scrub the bathrooms because I had strong arms and the girls complain. That came from the also male manager. Good guy though. Just didn't sign up to be a janitor. Even now, my coworkers are largely primarily female, and my supervisor constantly says how she's interested in seeing how my clients (children with Autism) will react to a giant child who happens to identify as male. Then there's the fact that it's more believable if I'm reported for harassment, not that I have a history as reported on my background check, but talking to me for like twenty minutes, you'll know I want nothing to do with intimacy. But what am I going to do about it?
A double standard that annoys me is that people assume a man is babysitting his own kids. If you are a parent, male, or female, you are parenting your kids, not babysitting your kids. In fact, my husband is a stay at home dad to our special needs son, and I work. I feel like men are treated horrible by women.
When I was 19 or so, I’m 30 now but I was at a house party. This girl came up to me and was asking for my ID. She kept saying I was jail bait so I told her to she was wrong and showed it. Thu out the night she was feeding me liquor and being flirty. Not gonna lie I liked the attention and she was chill over all so I went along with it. I blacked out and the next thing I know he friends were pushing my face into hers. We were making out somehow. I declined and told her to go away. It continued until I threw a fit. I kept saying that I didn’t know her and I didn’t like it. I blacked out again and found myself in the corner drunk off my ass, alone. I catch a glimpse of her with another dude so I figured I was safe. I ran out the front door barely and puked my brains out. I woke up af my friends house somehow lost and confused. To this day I don’t drink liquor and if someone hits one me that I don’t like I just walk away
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Rule for guys if a female is throwing punches at you run if she bruises her hand punching you in the face (depending on the state ) you can be the one charged with assault
I had a disagreement with my first wife while we weren't home and we had driven two cars. We left that location and headed home. She was following me and I decided to drive into a large park. My thought was if she doesn't follow me maybe we'll calm down before we see each other again. If she did follow me, there is less chance of the argument turning physical. She followed me. I packed. She parked. She came over and started punching the drivers window of the vehicle i was in. I eventually got out. We argued. It was years ago and I don't remember the details. All I remember is a woman coming over and asking if the police needed to be called. The wife (at the time) said yes. I put one of our kids in a car seat in the minivan and went home. My daughter said she was hungry so I fixed her a sandwich. Yeah. Dad's can do that. Anyway, the others cane home after a while. My stepdaughter told me that the police said if I keep up with my bs to call them again. To this day, u have no idea what the police were told. I could ask my ex or her kid what was said. But they'll probably deny the whole event abd they probably don't remember the details. My ex doesn't remember things correctly anyway. I hate this world.
16:14 'Don't be offended if it's a stranger' That logic is flawed. Would you say the same in a scenario where it's a white man saying, 'walk on, you don't speak to a white man unless he speaks to you first,' because I don't think so.
At my old job my exboss waa telling all my coworkers (I was the only man) to keep watch for people un vans because they can easily grab you etc etc. They all had cars and I walked home after dark. Of course Im not sayung they shouldnt be careful but it was strange I was the only one not told to be careful.
My situation is a little bit different. I'm a non-hetersexual cis male. At almost every job I've worked at, my female co-workers come to me with any of their problems, no matter how personal, because they're my girls and they know that I would happily get arrested for them if someone is harassing them. They even just come to me for hugs when they're overwhelmed. I'm honored to be given that level of trust and affection.
i have a story but ill make it quick, a had a gf and we talked together online but we went to the same school, eventually something happened and i broke up with her and the next day im called to the principals office for harassing, blackmailing, threatening, and coercing her into sending inappropriate pictures. because we were underage the police got involved but after a 10min check off all me texts and messages i was proven innocent, i was still expelled before i had to go to the station and even after wasn't allowed back st school. worst part is she got off scot free and was allowed to stay in school
another thing i forgot was i was kicked from my spirts team and for the next 6-8 months i was called a pedo, rspist, and creep by almost everyone at my new school
Well atleast on social media it's quite more common. Starting off just a minutes ago I was arguing with idk if It was a girl or a boy that was saying that all men are useless and easy to replace and that any of us dying doesnt Matter sh. It was on a TH-cam short about a guy who gave his Life for his daughter at the price of his own. This girl was straight up saying men should die. Proclaiming herself to be a feminist even thought nothing she was saying is what actually feminism represents. Yeah, social media is where all type of scum tends to raise their voice. I've found all type of people most times on TH-cam. From nazis to even small groups with crazy ideals that I didnt even knew that exist, such as I dont remember the name, but a group of people that beleive that women will control the world, but in a very paranoid way. They even got their own website. But on real Life? Not yet. I tend to avoid conflict unless I feel I had enough or It directly involves me
I remember that video. That girl was so vile and disgusting the way she spoke about her father. She was black her dad was white, and all she kept doing was degrading, and criticizing her father at his funeral, after he left her literally millions of dollars. It wasn’t good enough, and he lived his whole life for her. some people are just the absolutely the lowest form of vile,disgusting human being that you can imagine. Even the people in the audience couldn’t believe what they were hearing when this scumbag spoke nasty things about her father. It was truly messed up. I would not be surprised that she allowed messed up. Ideology to be put into her head, and she just did not have the capability of getting rid of it. It was disgusting and sad at the same time.
@@Ghoulastre those are not feminists. Feminazi more likely..how disgusting. There are extremists on both sides, always have been. Social Media just gave those AH a platform to present their stupidity. I have so many good men in my life and it is sad people think like this..women and men were created to complement each other - it takes both but a part of humanity seems to have forgotten about this.
Similar to story 19 though more racism rather than sexism, but there was a time when the gas station I work at ran out of fuel. As I'm going around getting things done like emptying trash and such for closing later a woman in Muslim garb pulled up and a little confused (and simply not reading the signs on the pump but that's normal in this situation) asks me why it's not working. When I explained to her, as I had already done almost 100 times that night, that we were out of fuel her immediate response was to question me if I was sure that we were out when I pointed out the signs and the fact that there wasn't really anyone else there her next response was "Well you know sometimes people are racist." I was literally stunned into silence and the only thing that went through my mind in those couple of seconds was "Who hurt you?" because the only way I can think that such a response can even cross someone's mind that quickly is if it's happened before or if it's planned maliciousness, and I'm a rather firm believer in the idea that one shouldn't attribute to malice what can just as easily be attributed to stupidity or simple miscommunication.
I did the harder chores for my younger brother like lifting wood and yard work so he didn't have to (I'm not a guy) and it made his dad upset. Chores shouldn't be gendered
Back at my old school there was rule the school introduced. The rule was that if there was a game after school such as basketball or volleyball you could not stay inside the school. This rule only applied if the game was a couple hours after school ended. So if a boy would try and stay after school they would get in trouble and could be suspended but if a girl did the school was fine with it. Almost every time the girls had a game a group of 10 would camp out in the school. Us boys thought this was unfair but our school wouldn’t do anything about it.
I've said it before and I'll never stop saying it: I love and respect you so much Mr. Facts. You're a ray of goddamn sunshine in a dark world and your comments are the reason why I watch your videos.
Not sure if this counts but I'm a trans guy but still a guy. A few months ago, my older sister smacked me on the ass, which both my mum and sister had done occasionally and I believe that I had expressed my dislike for it. I spun around and told her not to do that but she just laughed and walked away not taking it seriously. I followed my sister out to the living room and kept trying to get my sister to acknowledge what she'd done. Our living room and kitchen are both sort of conjoined and my mum was in the kitchen making dinner so she witnessed the argument. All my mum said was that my sister won't do it again etc. My sister had also said that I was overreacting which I also thought was bs because I knew that if it was the opposite way around how much trouble I'd be in and if a random guy had done that to her and if she was in my shoes in that current moment, how much shit he'd also be in. I walked away from the conversation cause I gave up on it. I then had a shower and I remember standing there thinking about how uncomfortable I was feeling because of what my sister had done and I knew that I was in the right even if no one could see it. And all I was trying to do was stand up for myself. I then came up with a plan to talk to my mum privately and explain to her how uncomfortable I felt. I then get out of the shower feeling confident and ready to tell my mum. It did not go well, I tried using the reasoning that if a guy had of done that etc etc. It just turned into another shouting match and stuff. I know that this isn't really as bad as any others but it still frustrates me to no end that it turned into that. All I wanted was my sister to even acknowledge me and an apology.
@@Diamondr11Bluewho the hell goes through expensive surgery to change their gender just to stare at womens' titties in the locker rooms how desperate must someone be?
Let see I had a lady kept cupping my biceps while I was working a football game And remind you I don’t like being touched sometimes and I was trying to get my job done, as well as being black and 21 and the woman was in her 50s old enough to be my mother But yeah she did it twice I told my supervisor and got laughed at seriously made me feel uncomfortable and embarrassed couldn’t even tell My higher up Since they’ll laugh and sweep This under the rug
I've had 2, more light-hearted examples of sexism lately. 1st is when a female co-worker can't find something and I help them find it. They frequently say 'I must have had a man look'. Like I, a man, didn't just find the thing they were looking for. 2nd is there are some women in my life that do the most simple, menial task and proudly declare 'I don't need no man!'. I mean, congratulations on opening that jar but I think the merits of men amount to more than opening jars.
My mother and father had a custody battle over me and my (older) sister. I'm pretty sure my sister was living with him at the time, I don't remember exact dates, though. I am female, for reference. I also have adhd and autism. My big sister has ADHD. My mum is married to my step dad, with a child, (lil sis), and my step brother. My dad didn't even leave to get the milk. He wasn't there. He came and saw us once in a while. Some holidays, birthdays, you know. He lived 4 hours away. When I turned 13, he apparently demanded custody of us, wanting to uproot us, and move us to christchurch. Then after my mum, (Obviously) said no, he moved down to our town, and took it fully to court. My grandparents on my mums side had recently died, and my big sister was struggling. She doesnt get along with my step dad. She moved in with dad. Long and short, I have to go 12 hours every second weekend, overnight every other one. I wanted to go to his place 4 hours every second week. My dad has used the unfairness of courts leaning towards mothers getting children for why he didn't get us. Which is not true. Which is another way it can harm. I think everyone should be viewed equally. He is my father, but he is practically a stranger. He bassically doesn't understand my disorder and dissability, and says I can just "Train myself out of them". I am uncomfortable with touch from him, because I never got to have those "imprinting years". Just something that started as relevant, but kinda dragged off. OPPS.
My friends roommate was watching a show and a woman had slapped a man and he did something she said he deserved to be hit. I looked at her and said since she hit him first can he hit her back sahe replied no. I asked her why not she said because a man can't hit a woman. I looked at her if you or any other came up and hit me my theory is "If a woman hits me in any way the woman better be prepared to be treated like a man. She said that's not right I go why. She replied a man shouldn't hit a woman. I told her a man shouldn't be hit by woman and that's as bad as a man hitting a woman
and women are wondering why men dont seek relationship and marriage. I only know one thing. if i ever life together with a woman, the house will be on my name and i will have my own car. So that if stuff goes down i dont have to worry.
@@LinLin-x4l Fun fact, It was men who gave women the basic right's along with few femenists, while also ALOT of women from back then didint want said right's as they wanted easy lives and not to work, understandably so..
16:30 "Don't take it personally if someone acts hateful towards you. You don't know what they've been through." Is a terrible take. Let's put that in a different light: Guy gets mugged at gunpoint, mugger was black, he proceeds to be immediately hostile towards black people, for fear of getting mugged. By that logic, this is a completely fair stance, but very few people would agree this is OK.
See my dad taught me that you should not hit a woman but If a woman was to hit you wouldn’t hit her as hard as you would to another man but I def would hit her hard enough to understand not to do it again. And I’m a gentle giant
I love your work and most of your comments, but here you made the same mistake that a lot of men encounter in their lives: their shit is downplayed, while for the women every excuse is sought to apologize their behaviour.
Right? It’s gotten so bad that OG feminists who’s been fighting for equality in the 50s came out to ask wtf modern feminists are doing and that this isn’t what they fought for.
This guy give such amazing advice. I encourage everyone to learn about the views of the other side of the political spectrum whenever you can, lest your vision of the world become skewed and one-sided.
"If you can just get away and get someone else to protect you"? Dude are you kidding me? What can someone else do that you're incapable of doing yourself? If you do somehow manage to get someone else to protect you, law enforcement or otherwise, they will almost assuredly employ force/violence to subdue your assailant. What difference does it make if you're the one doing it yourself vs a third party? I'll tell you: Absolutely nothing beyond the fact that you won't have to sit around and wait for a savior, in which time you'll probably end up murdered or at the very least severely injured. I'll just never understand the inclination to absolve people of agency, self-reliance, and personal accountability these days... The only person truly responsible for your safety is YOU (fun fact: law enforcement is NOT legally obligated to intervene or protect you in any situation). You are always the first responder to a threat on your person/well-being. While it is prudent to take advantage of any opportunity to escape and evade as soon as is safely possible, unfortunately this may not always be possible and one may be required to stand their ground and engage in a confrontation with an attacker. As such, I suggest one train, prepare, and equip themselves accordingly in order to prevent themselves from being victimized... Telling people to "find someone else to protect them"... Jeezus man, gimme a break. Frankly this is just downright dangerous and wildly unfeasible/unhelpful advice.
I always hate when parents try to cover up the past when they know they did something wrong. It's one of the easiest ways for me to tell that a parent has failed their child(s)
@@LinLin-x4l1- cut it with the asinine gatekeeping 2- no men never said sexism against women doesn't exist. 3- you final claim of women having it worse is likely total nonsense.
During January of 2019 my brothers and I and my oldest brothers friends family went sledding we started messing around and my oldest brothers friend got pissed off and he and his brother and sister started fighting us and the sister started punching him and he punched her back but when we got home my parents scolded my brother for hitting a women we all told them that she started punching him but my parents would not listen and he got grounded still pissed me off to see the girl get away with it my older brother is one of the best guys I’ve ever known very hard to see him get treated that way
Look, for me, it's equality. Equality means everything. Not just careers and pay, but jail time, and punishments. On average, women get much lighter sentencing for equal crimes, such as rape and domestic violence. Sure, it's more common for a man to do it to a woman, and I understand that, but when it comes down to the justice system, that shouldn't matter and the book should be thrown just as hard. Things like maternity leave need levelling out too, I have never understood why mum gets an immediate 12 months, and dad? Dad gets TWO WEEKS paternity? How is that anywhere near equal? As I say, I'm for equality, in all it's formats.
1:36 Grow up sir. Women have learned to hit a man or otherwise harm him. Counting on the man to defend himself or strike her back. This will allow the woman to achieve "domestic violence victim status" in the eyes of law enforcement and society
something i always says which is sexist is cross dressing. if a woman crossdresses normally they can be seen as cool and a tomgirl. if a man cross dresses thats when the problems happen. i hate it and it hurts me as i want to cross dress so badly and yet if i even try ill be made fun of or possibly beaten within an inch of my life. its scary to feel all those looks expecially when i already get alot of hateful looks for having long hair or constantly made fun of for it an example of this is how my neice can cross dress as a guy and have short hair but i havent heard any of my family complain or make fun of them for that. i have long hair and its the only part of me i genuinely like. It hurts as im constantly made fun of for it and ive asked people so many times to stop and yet... it keep going. luckily for once when in public i got complimented for my hair. right when i was feeling at my lowest and that no one likes it and i should shave it despite loving having long hair
Why did he try to find excuse for the woman in this stories Like you know they're at fault but you try to find excuses Someone is pointing a gun at you ?
Story 1 reminded me of my childhood, when my mother would beat the shit out of me. I would get punched, kicked, slapped, and slammed to the wall, all whilst being told that "I wasn't owning up to my actions" whenever I tried to block out of fear. Thank God I called CPS on that shit, or else the one-way toxic violence train will keep on chugging along.
Something I heard someone say recently: misandry is never not going to be transphobic. If all men are dangerous monsters, if all men are violent, and that can never be changed... where does that leave trans women, whom large swaths of society perceive as "changing?" Not in a good place. Doesn't really apply to anything in this video other than the general subject matter but it really opened my eyes and I thought other people in this nice man's comments might appreciate thinking about it, too.
It was a long time ago when I was about 15, my mother was cleaning a fish tank I had in my room since I had no idea how to work the equipment my parents used to do it, usually both my parents worked together to do this so the job went faster but my dad was at work at the time. me in my infinite autistic wisdom said “shouldn’t we wait for dad to do this?” I meant it as “shouldn’t we wait for dad so this goes faster?” but I guess my mom heard “shouldn’t we wait for dad so he can do this?” or something on that line. My mother then stopped what she was doing, looked me dead in the eye and said “just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I always need help.” It blew me away since afaik no one in our house has ever said anything of that caliber to her before and she also had a disorder that made it so she sometimes moved a lot slower due to chronic pain, she assumed just because I was a guy I was insinuating that dad had to be there to help her do everything and I was too floored to explain what I meant, she still cleaned the tank and I just sat there not wanting to say something to upset her further. The event has stuck with me since
Anyone got tips on mental health Care I think mine is declining cuz I literally just heard someone close to my family died and I didn't feel anything I've heard my dad got stabbed right outside my door and I was like okay and the person who did to him lives within my house will technically not my house I come over here but still and I just don't care about any of it even want to hear such horrible things rape murder drugs violence I hear all vintage be like I don't care not my problem any tips on getting better
Just wanted to clear things up regarding self defense. Depending on where you live legally it is self defense if you are protecting yourself. If you are being attacked you can use enough force to stop yourself from being attacked. Once you are no longer being attacked, if you keep going you can be charged with assault. Example being you are being robbed. You knock them down. They stay down. If you start stomping on them then that’s bad. They are no longer a threat. This is coming from someone who has taken multiple classes regarding laws of all different varieties
I’m guilty of making sexist statements about my husband when we were engaged. I was helping him get his debts on track and get payments set up, and I was speaking to a lot of women when I was doing this. I found that by making these kinds of statements, I got a lot more help from the women I talked to because they understood that some men just aren’t good at handling their finances, especially when they’re in their 20’s. I did apologize to my fiancé, and I explained that it had nothing to do with him. But he told me that he didn’t take it personally at all, and he was just really grateful for the help. I will also make sexist comments about myself to be funny at times in order to cut tension for a laugh. It’s helpful.
I was eating breakfast with my fwb at a hotel her job paid for. My boss called me to ask a question at the same time the server came with the check. Apparently she tried to hand it to me but I wasn't paying attention obviously and my fwb tried to take the check to pay the server looked at her like she was crazy and tried to had ot to me again until my fwb just snatched it from her hand and put her card in it. This is to say sometimes guys can be treated to meals too and not expected to pay for everything. I do pay for stuff as well. We alternate paying for outings Another is im driving my female coworker home from an event we had to do out of staye since she dont have a car. She as been annoying me the whole time and disrespecting the boundaries i set for my car. I stop at McDonald's to get food and only order what i wanted cuz i was getting being petty so when we get to the window to pay she tries to ask can she add a snoothe. I told the guy dont do it cuz she didnt have cash on her and she sucks at paying people back. The guy who thinks we are a couple says "look man this isnt a fight thats gonna go well for ubin the long run" i told him we are coworkers and there is nothing between us at all. He still tries to say its just what you gotta do. Now im getting irked so i tell him if i see any other charges on my card besides what i ordered then we will have a problem as well as saying if he wants to defend her so much he can drive her home. He got real quiet after that
Story one: equal rights, equal fights is what I always say(mainly in regards to self defense) however, no one should go through abuse, regardless Another point, I got a question for some of the stories about fathers who are spending time with their kids or men who work with children, mainly towards the women: Why is it OK to outrightfully call a man a p*do or a predator when they're just having time with the kids, be it any profession that involves children, but if someone treated your son that way, it's not okay?
Thank you I was looking for your comment, he just kept making excuses and adding details, like we get it People shouldn't hit people. But this is about Men hitting back in self-defense or telling their stories of abuse cause to them by Women, this was a frustrating video to hear.
Look at his nails, and then listen to his comments defending the sexist people. He's clearly trying to be "woke" as they say for views, so he can make a quick buck.
i think giving gifts to the soon to be bride thing comes from the aristocratic past of the world where men were very rich and women told to marry them even if they didnt love them but were given gifts to help them feel like it was worth marrying a rich man they dont even love
My heart aches for those children whose voices get ignored when it comes to custody. My mother was/is quite mentally unwell and I was lucky enough to be able to talk to the judge one on one when I was around 11. Told him it is either living with my father or the orphanage. That was all that he needed to hear and I was put with my father. Thank you dad, for being the best father anyone could ask for ❤
So heartwarming toed this all ...
It's a "much greater history" because woman on man violence mostly went unnoticed and unspoken about even more so the further back in the past you go. Remember, the statistics never include any of the unreported/unknown incidents.
Aswell as Alot of Male victim cases would get disregarded by Police, Teacher's, Etc etc
So even if a man did come forward there is a chance he would denied
Correct! It was even frowned upon if it was mentioned that a woman put her hands on a man. Like it was down right shameful to admit it for men. You're supposed to 'take it like man', 'turn the other cheek', 'only weak men get beat on by a woman' sorta mentality. A 'real' man or tough guys just slung a crazy, violent woman over their shoulder like a sack of potatoes and dumped her in the mud or water to 'cool' her off lol. Heck even back in the 80's guys were called sissys, pu**ies, and an assortment of other colorful slurs if they got beat on by women or girls, but by gosh they were the worst kind of monster for daring to raise a hand to defend themselves or push them away. A guy could be bloodied to a pulp and if she had so much as a red mark he was trash.
My Dad raised me with the mentality, if you think you're tough enough to hit like a man you better expect to be hit like a man. I raised my daughter the same way. My son was a little harder, to be honest. I taught him that he had every right to defend himself from physical violence but if it came to a situation that a woman was the instigator his best bet was to remove himself from the situation, because he'd almost always get the sh*t end of the stick with the law.
@@LinLin-x4lwhat exactly are you arguing here, just asking for clarification
It's still no where close lmao if you really think women were hitting their husbands back when husbands were able to dump their wives at asylums for "hysteria," you're fucking delusional.
@@LinLin-x4ldamn you’re in all of these replies making this shit about you
I don't remember his name but there was a TH-camr years ago that told his r*pe story on his channel. He had been to a party, gotten drunk, and gone to sleep. He woke up with a woman on top of him in the process of r*ping him. When he decided to open up about this to a female friend, she slapped him because "men can't be r*ped", and in her world he was making fun of r*pe victims by claiming to be one.
In America the definition of rape has penetration. So sexual assaulted not necessarily rape. Still sad
So one time I was out at the park with my nephew and niece, letting them run around, play, get their energy out. As the sun was setting I was walking home with them, this woman out of nowhere screams at me that I’m kidnapper (I am pretty much Aryan in appearance, blonde hair, blue eyes, my nephew and niece are mixed race). She even tried to call the cops on me. We live in a small, one-precinct town and my father used to be an officer (retired after 20 years), the only reason I didn’t get arrested that day was that the police knew who I was, they’ve known me since I was like 6 or 7 years old.
The only time I would be concerned about someone kidnapping is if the kids arrived with someone else
Easy fix for that. Ask the kids who you are. Tsh.
@@katwitanruna See I would but my Nephew is a bit of a knobhead and my niece is really sassy. They would both say they have no idea who I am because they think it’s funny.
I'm really grateful for being a Swede, as we have moved past the "the mom gets the kids" decades ago. The norm is shared cústody, unless someone is totally unsuitable (like my brothers ex who tried to kidnap my nephew). Nobody pays alimony either, you pay for the kids only if your ex have full custody and those aren't any fantasy numbers.
@@chrisrose323 So give me an example then.
@@chrisrose323 Still not Sweden, as Socialtjänsten would set up meetings between the child and the parent. It's called umgängesrätt.
Economy or standard of living have nothing to do with who gets the kids.
@@chrisrose323 You removed it because you realised that you were wrong. You didn't even bother giving an example.
Bye!
Makes me wish I was born in one of the Nordic countries, my country is awful
I actually have experienced sexism. back in high school, a girl had been having a bad day and decided since I was somewhat smaller than others to hit me several times. each time I told her that if she didn't stop, I would defend myself. after the 3rd hit, this time to my face, I punched her in the stomach. about 5 seconds later, the in-school police officer we had threw me to the into the wall and told me that he saw what I had done and was taking me to the front office to the principle. once there, despite me telling them how she attacked me, I was suspended for 3 days. after coming back, some of her male friends beat me up and the principle told me that I probably did something to provoke them. I told him the next time it happens, I will grab the nearest thing and beat them until paramedics were needed. I hated that school all 4 yrs I was there. she and her friends were never punished
Keep in mind that people like that will pay their debts to society. Karma is real. I experience it.
Did you ever get to keep your word
Was physically and verbally abused by my sister all throughout school. When I went to my family about it, they just asked me what I did to upset her. I ended up having to lock myself in my room so she couldn’t get to me, and it became my haven. So even after all that is over, I was so messed up by years of abuse, I barely leave my room to this day. It’s where I feel safest.
It makes me so angry ...
If you don't want to get smacked, keep your hands to yourself. Today it is: "these hands are rated E for Everyone" and that's how it should be.
No violence would be the best solution but that is not how this world works, sadly
They want equality they deserve to receive equal punches
Equal rights and lefts
That first story made me so happy. That is exactly the way those kinds of situations should play out. I wouldn't be surprised if that was the first time that woman had actually experienced the consequences of her actions. And the girl telling the story has a good head on her shoulders.
My stepdad has a story like this. Before marrying my mother, he had a kid with another women, said women manipulated his kid in order for him to hate his dad. It's been over 5 years now and court finally caught up and she could be facing big charges. But it took 5 years, and his kid will now surely need to go to a psychiatrist to get his trauma against my stepdad sorted out. So yeah, 5, years, a mentally abused kid. Pretty steep consequences for prioritizing a women with a single person behind her back in court.
Not me, but a tweet I saw made by a woman who said that she was pregnant, and would go get an X-ray at the hospital to see if it is, and I quote, "a girl or an abortion", will live on in my head for the rest of my life as one of the worst example of male sexism/misandry.
I remember once i saw a tweet where a woman had sayd she did the x-ray and discovered it was a boy and now she was sad, the comments on that tweet, i swear to God i thought i was on deep web or some shit for a moment, ot was insane.
Nothing I experienced, but my dad. He was bullied at work, something he never told us, but I did a surprise visit to him (I was around 13-14) and what I saw chocked me. The main thing they did was just freezing him out, completely ignoring his existence (unless they needed his special skills, my dad is a self-taught carpenter who was excellent at doing all those small and fine-detailed works with his bare hands and not the computer generated machines, which couldn't do all things necessary), but also doing things like trying to trip him or refusing to move out of the way, but there was the occasional snide remark too. My dad never said a thing, just bowed his head and bore it. I could not. I went into the secretary and was furious. Turned out she had tried to talk to the boss about it (she was an ok lady, but the only woman there, so I guess she didn't dare to speak up too much) and the boss had said that my dad just "needed to suck it up, it was just 'friendly teasing', he was a grown man, and not a girl, and should be able to handle it". I literally wanted to strangle that boss (especially since I myself was severely bullied at school and told by the principal it was my own fault for not fitting in). (We now know that my dad, just like myself, is autistic, which unfortunately explains why he was singled out.)
I absolutely hate the boys/men don't cry stereotype. I was mercilessly bullied for being on the sensitive side and crying being my natural reaction from kindergarten to elementary school. I was a bit too pampered by my mother on the emotional side in my early childhood so I was a crybaby for a long time but I rarely threw those fake crying hissy fits. I constantly heard from my family that I need to tolerate the bullying and not to cry although this was not said with sexism in mind.
The one time I was kinda discriminated against as a male happened in 7th grade. We were out in the school yard with a friend talking. A 4th graders ball rolled to our feet. We didn't see anyone coming for it at first so I picked it up. A few seconds later comes the girl for the ball, demanding it a bit rudely. I say to her that I'll give it to her if she asks nicely. Her answer was kicking me in the knee and striking a nerve. I dropped the ball, she picked it up and ran away. I went after her and told my friend to come. I told him that she definietly ran to a teacher to exercise the privilige of being younger, so the teacher would defend her no matter what I say so I need someone confirming what happened (the girl was also a cousin of my friend and he knew how rude she can be). We went to where she ran to. She was hiding right behind the teacher. I should mention that she striking a nerve made me have a slight limp for the next 30 minutes and the teacher saw it. With an upset but not agressive tone explained to the teacher what happened and told her that I only came to get an apology. "But she's younger than you. She's a girl. She couldn't kick that hard. It shouldn't hurt you as a boy. You should suck up." These were her points. She told me the last one after I told her that she could clearly see I am standing on one leg because she struck a nerve. Overall it was more overprotecting the child but when someone tries to force me into a male stereotype I get really itchy palms.
On another note I find cultural male societal role as somewhat of a discrimination. My main example is courtship. I have to initiate, I have to ask, I have to be the confident one. I'm kinda bad at initiating a conversation and most of the time too scared to ask someone out and girls who are comfortable with taking the lead are few and far where I live.
EDIT: a word
My senior year i had a teacher that told us men couldn't be r@ped by a women because for a man to be able to have intercourse he has to be hard & if hes hard that means he wanted it. I tried making the argument what if a woman gets wet while being r@ped does that mean she wanted it because its a natural reaction if your feeling stimulation in that area because guys can get an erection just by accidentally rubbing it against something. He said real men know how to control it. Then i said what if the guy is out cold or tied up & the girl sodomizes him he said a woman couldn't overpower a guy. Everytime i tried giving examples how its possible he had an answer or rebuttal. The worst part about this was that the teacher was also a sheriff's deputy
Technically the definition of rape includes penetration so men technically can’t be raped. Sexual assault is the term used. Both are horrible
@@ked49 false. That's the legal definition, not the real definition. Any non consenting acts penitration or not IS r
My marridge was falling apart and my wife realized she couldn't make it out with our savings, the car, and our daughters. So she called a help line and said she unveiled a plan I had to unalive her and our children. She spun lies about mental instability, and cops were called. I'm unaware of all this, and come home from work with cops, being presented with a protective order, and was taken and held for 3 days at a mental hospital for psych evaluation. I was dismissed with a clean bill of mental health. But that gave my wife time to disappear with all of our belongings, both vehicles, all of our savings, all of my checking, and our daughters. I had no criminal history, no history with mental health struggles, and no history of any kind of abuse. But I was a male, and was thus innately capable of terrible things. The protective order was granted without evidence, which is a common occurrence in my state against men. But if it's against a woman, and children are involved, you need evidence to put an order in place. She called the cops on me several more times despite us not being in contact due to the protective order. Each time she lied to the cops about false claims of harming animals, theft, drugs ect, she received no reprocussions. Because I'm a male and thus capable of those things. I lost my job due to the amount of times the cops showed up at my work and requested I go with them over some new charge. I had no interactions with cops until this time in my life. I hate how I'm treated as guilty of the most foul crimes until proven innocent.
Hey buddy I’m guessing it’s dyslexia. But it’s marriage*
@@K1R13T0Or he is a non native speaker and that's how the sound is written in his language and he accidentally wrote it that way
@@phoenixoflight224 true, but either way, it’s better to correct someone then let them get embarrassed in the future
I took my 17 year old niece to a doctors appointment a couple of years ago as her mother (my sister) was working. When we arrived, the receptionist asked who I was. I explained that I'm her uncle. I was given a look that said she thought I was a perv. After a bit of an argument, I had to call my sister and get her to explain who I was. Even my niece telling her who I am wasn't enough.
I didn't even get an apology.
Best to go back if possible and demand one.
@@fiyahquacker2835 report the worker too that's discrimination!
Story 7: My own story of this topic is not my own as much as it is one of my uncles. Fair warning that it's pretty dark.
But back in the 90s one of my uncles married a woman that was caught horrifically s^xually abusing the two kids he had with her; a boy and a girl. This abuse went on for years but somewhere along the line something happened that caused the daughter to need gynecological care even though she was pre-pubescent. Something was found and the authorities were involved. Long story short the police were quickly involved and the mother was taken into custody and the case went to trial. The mountain of evidence of her serial abuse was so blatant that when she went to trail the jury barely didn't even wasted time deliberating. For some insane reason that I still don't understand to this day the judge decided to recommend basically probation for their mother. And even more _sicking_ the state of NC social child services required that the mother be given supervised visitation. My uncle fought for years trying to get his now ex-wife denied access to his kids but the state of NC just kept insisting that 'kids need their mother'.
North Carolina?
*metaphorically speaking, we'd never hit one another*
My boyfriend and I were discussing this: I could hit him, and people wouldn't do anything. In fact, they'd likely think that he did something to deserve it. If he hit me, he'd be tackled to the ground, the Police would be called and I'd be taken away from him. Either both are wrong, or neither is. Gender shouldn't come into it.
I dotn care, man, woman, it etc. You hit me, you're catching my hands.
My ex wife tried to pull that shit with me. Hit me in the head with a stick of wood and gave me a gash on top of my eye. I threw her to groud and she called the cops for domestic violence. Cops came and put me in cuffs. Thank God I has witnesses. I'm bleeding and she has a scratch, and they put me in cuffs.
Also, another story. My friend and I were having a movie marathon and fell asleep on the couch. I wake up to her having pulled my PJ'S down and is about to mount me. I freeze in shock, and it takes me a minute to realize what's happening. We had never done the dirty before, and I was not a willing participant. I tried saying no a handful of times before I pushed her off. I was afraid of pushing her off as I've been afraid since elementary school of using any physical force against girls. This event left some mental scars, and I eventually went to a therapist for it. I chose a female as I'm a bit more feminine and was afraid a male may not have treated it seriously. But she simply suggested I have condoms on hand in the future. I reiterated that I was not consenting, and was still waking up when the deed began. She seemed confused, and said it can be hard to get a condom on in those circumstances, but having it nearby will help. She just couldn't comprehend that I was raped because I'm a male.
Fuck this ... And now we turn it around.
Ageism, not sexism, but similar dynamics at play: my cousin (4 ish male) would physically attack me (9 ish female), my mom, and my infant sister. Like, he thought he was rough-housing, but he was being about as rough and brutal as if he was fighting for his life.
My parents forbade me from attacking him back, and his father just laughed and said, "yeah, he does that" when I tried to complain to him (my cousin had older siblings who WERE allowed to fight back, so he had learned not to mess with them. His dad probably thought that if he was really hitting me THAT hard, I would hit him back regardless of the consequences. I had undiagnosed autism, though, and part of that was very rigid rule-following. My brain WOULD NOT LET me knowingly break a rule).
Finally, my grandma told me I could fight back and she would take the heat for it. So I pinned my little cousin down and refused to let him up until he promised to leave me alone. The first time, it bought me about 10 minutes of peace, so I just did it again. Eventually he stopped.
It still is sexism, the “boys will be boys” mentality. Like so many thing is just awful to be reinforcing into a child’s mind
I also have a story for this.
I was 13 and me and 3 others guys were going to our friends birthday party (this friend was a girl) and we are having fun playing around in the front yard with a tennis ball when then she starts chasing me and throws me to the ground, after I get up as I shake it off and toss the tennis ball she kicks me in my junk and proceeds to laugh as I fall to the floor then she just says “oh get over it, it’s not like you can do anything about it” so I proceed to sit there and wait till my parents came to pick me up. still haven’t told anyone about it
I hate being circumcised but people tell me to "get over it" and then proceed to condemn female circumcision. All genital mutilation is wrong, regardless of the sex of the victim.
Most fgm doctors are women too
I would love to be a fly on the wall for the first time some guy pitched circumcision to his buddies. Just the sheer volume of incredulous looks and “you want to do WHAT with my dick?”
Agreed. 100%. There's no excuse for this unless the person is old enough to consent for whatever reason they want to. I don't recall consenting to anyone chopping off part of my penis as an infant.
Back when i was a trainee at a school i was told that under no circumstances i could go in the girls bathroom, even if someone was fighting or dying there. But the female teachers and trainee's were allowed to go to the boys restroom if something occured or even if a kid needed help peeing. Its even dumber than it sounds right now because they knew i am gay.
I had a teacher who lectured the class on how i was rude for using a laptop to type up notes and "typing when shes talking is rude". Yet when a female student did it, not a single shit was given.
Solution to what happened in story 28: block the punch and grip her hand VERY HARD so it hurts a bit and she stops, and if she complains to the teacher you can just say she punched you and you blocked
I just go for the crusher: hold their fingers and focus as much strength as possible into your and and then squeeze.
These hands are rated E for everyone; men, do not just take assault. People HAVE to learn that they are not protected from consequences. You might get jail, or other punishments. But for our own dignity, defend yourself.
There’s a far greater WRITTEN history of men, assaulting women. Women hit men all the time, men just don’t report it because they get laughed at. Men are not the main perpetrators of domestic violence. Let’s keep that in mind, please.
Men are the main perpetrators of domestic violence that's absurd.
@@donnamichelerichey2878it happens to men far more
In a relationship if a woman does something wrong it’s a man’s fault, but if a man does something wrong it’s the man’s fault AND I DONT FUCKING GET IT
@@LinLin-x4l Exactly. And if a man are absent due to working a lot, he's providing for his family, while a woman is a bad mother.
@@LinLin-x4lsomehow it just seems like your pulling out nothing but false gatekeeping logs.
@@MsAnpassad you're ignoring that women are given majority say over children and men aren't given much, which is why there's consequence. Same when a man isn't doing a stereotypical man thing. Ita gender roles that's why
@@fiyahquacker2835 what he say
The main character of the first story is a hero.
I didn't expect this one to start out so ominously. I love that you say people have the right to defend themselves, regardless of gender. My story is about how I'm not just male, but huge and hairy. I decided I had a calling in working with children. At the day care in college, I got the job of being the guy who opens the locks on the doors and the cook guy. I couldn't work with the children. I worked at Forever 21 with a friend, and I was the only one who had to scrub the bathrooms because I had strong arms and the girls complain. That came from the also male manager. Good guy though. Just didn't sign up to be a janitor. Even now, my coworkers are largely primarily female, and my supervisor constantly says how she's interested in seeing how my clients (children with Autism) will react to a giant child who happens to identify as male. Then there's the fact that it's more believable if I'm reported for harassment, not that I have a history as reported on my background check, but talking to me for like twenty minutes, you'll know I want nothing to do with intimacy. But what am I going to do about it?
A double standard that annoys me is that people assume a man is babysitting his own kids. If you are a parent, male, or female, you are parenting your kids, not babysitting your kids. In fact, my husband is a stay at home dad to our special needs son, and I work. I feel like men are treated horrible by women.
women get looked down on if they don't parent right. That's bc kids default to mothers , it's gender roles. Nobody has it fair
When I was 19 or so, I’m 30 now but I was at a house party. This girl came up to me and was asking for my ID. She kept saying I was jail bait so I told her to she was wrong and showed it. Thu out the night she was feeding me liquor and being flirty. Not gonna lie I liked the attention and she was chill over all so I went along with it. I blacked out and the next thing I know he friends were pushing my face into hers. We were making out somehow. I declined and told her to go away. It continued until I threw a fit. I kept saying that I didn’t know her and I didn’t like it. I blacked out again and found myself in the corner drunk off my ass, alone. I catch a glimpse of her with another dude so I figured I was safe. I ran out the front door barely and puked my brains out. I woke up af my friends house somehow lost and confused. To this day I don’t drink liquor and if someone hits one me that I don’t like I just walk away
Probably drugged as well
I can't speak for others but the reason I subscribed to your channel is because I appreciate your insight and I enjoy your personality and sense of humor. I don't think you should apologize for your commentary or for how long your comments are. I like your channel because I enjoy hearing your opinions on the subjects you speak about. Thank you and again you're appreciated.
Rule for guys if a female is throwing punches at you run if she bruises her hand punching you in the face (depending on the state ) you can be the one charged with assault
I had a disagreement with my first wife while we weren't home and we had driven two cars. We left that location and headed home. She was following me and I decided to drive into a large park. My thought was if she doesn't follow me maybe we'll calm down before we see each other again. If she did follow me, there is less chance of the argument turning physical.
She followed me. I packed. She parked. She came over and started punching the drivers window of the vehicle i was in.
I eventually got out. We argued. It was years ago and I don't remember the details. All I remember is a woman coming over and asking if the police needed to be called.
The wife (at the time) said yes. I put one of our kids in a car seat in the minivan and went home.
My daughter said she was hungry so I fixed her a sandwich. Yeah. Dad's can do that.
Anyway, the others cane home after a while. My stepdaughter told me that the police said if I keep up with my bs to call them again.
To this day, u have no idea what the police were told. I could ask my ex or her kid what was said. But they'll probably deny the whole event abd they probably don't remember the details. My ex doesn't remember things correctly anyway.
I hate this world.
16:14
'Don't be offended if it's a stranger'
That logic is flawed. Would you say the same in a scenario where it's a white man saying, 'walk on, you don't speak to a white man unless he speaks to you first,' because I don't think so.
You don't know if he is mentally ill. So not flawed.
@@MsAnpassad so racism is just okay if it's from strangers?
@@whatswrongman Woosh!
@MsAnpassad I guess the modern left is such a joke I wasn't sure if you were serious or not
@@whatswrongman You still don't get it....🙄
At my old job my exboss waa telling all my coworkers (I was the only man) to keep watch for people un vans because they can easily grab you etc etc. They all had cars and I walked home after dark. Of course Im not sayung they shouldnt be careful but it was strange I was the only one not told to be careful.
"She ran up to me saying, Her: "Call the cops!!" Me: "Yeah, yeah, of course, hope they have handcuffs that fit you," Her: *Shocked Pikachu Face*
My situation is a little bit different. I'm a non-hetersexual cis male. At almost every job I've worked at, my female co-workers come to me with any of their problems, no matter how personal, because they're my girls and they know that I would happily get arrested for them if someone is harassing them. They even just come to me for hugs when they're overwhelmed. I'm honored to be given that level of trust and affection.
These stories are why i dont just believe women. They know they can get away with so much andnthe world will defend them
Best to go neutral by still help with the situation, not fall into mob mentality and not taking sides until all evidence is presented.
Story 14: "cheapass" "golddigger" guy on date:almost dies on food
i have a story but ill make it quick, a had a gf and we talked together online but we went to the same school, eventually something happened and i broke up with her and the next day im called to the principals office for harassing, blackmailing, threatening, and coercing her into sending inappropriate pictures. because we were underage the police got involved but after a 10min check off all me texts and messages i was proven innocent, i was still expelled before i had to go to the station and even after wasn't allowed back st school. worst part is she got off scot free and was allowed to stay in school
another thing i forgot was i was kicked from my spirts team and for the next 6-8 months i was called a pedo, rspist, and creep by almost everyone at my new school
i understand nobody will read this but i hope someone might, if u see this, thank u
Look, I was taught by my parents that you never hit a woman, but if they hit you first, you have the right to defend yourself
At 2:30 how do you know, men report abuse far less than women and it usually doesn't get filed anyways so the stats are heavily squeued.
Well atleast on social media it's quite more common.
Starting off just a minutes ago I was arguing with idk if It was a girl or a boy that was saying that all men are useless and easy to replace and that any of us dying doesnt Matter sh.
It was on a TH-cam short about a guy who gave his Life for his daughter at the price of his own.
This girl was straight up saying men should die.
Proclaiming herself to be a feminist even thought nothing she was saying is what actually feminism represents.
Yeah, social media is where all type of scum tends to raise their voice.
I've found all type of people most times on TH-cam.
From nazis to even small groups with crazy ideals that I didnt even knew that exist, such as I dont remember the name, but a group of people that beleive that women will control the world, but in a very paranoid way.
They even got their own website.
But on real Life? Not yet. I tend to avoid conflict unless I feel I had enough or It directly involves me
I remember that video. That girl was so vile and disgusting the way she spoke about her father. She was black her dad was white, and all she kept doing was degrading, and criticizing her father at his funeral, after he left her literally millions of dollars. It wasn’t good enough, and he lived his whole life for her. some people are just the absolutely the lowest form of vile,disgusting human being that you can imagine. Even the people in the audience couldn’t believe what they were hearing when this scumbag spoke nasty things about her father. It was truly messed up. I would not be surprised that she allowed messed up. Ideology to be put into her head, and she just did not have the capability of getting rid of it. It was disgusting and sad at the same time.
@@ronbeyak9886 Worst of all we're talking about different people, but seems they are two coins of the same face.
@@Ghoulastre those are not feminists. Feminazi more likely..how disgusting. There are extremists on both sides, always have been. Social Media just gave those AH a platform to present their stupidity. I have so many good men in my life and it is sad people think like this..women and men were created to complement each other - it takes both but a part of humanity seems to have forgotten about this.
Similar to story 19 though more racism rather than sexism, but there was a time when the gas station I work at ran out of fuel. As I'm going around getting things done like emptying trash and such for closing later a woman in Muslim garb pulled up and a little confused (and simply not reading the signs on the pump but that's normal in this situation) asks me why it's not working. When I explained to her, as I had already done almost 100 times that night, that we were out of fuel her immediate response was to question me if I was sure that we were out when I pointed out the signs and the fact that there wasn't really anyone else there her next response was "Well you know sometimes people are racist." I was literally stunned into silence and the only thing that went through my mind in those couple of seconds was "Who hurt you?" because the only way I can think that such a response can even cross someone's mind that quickly is if it's happened before or if it's planned maliciousness, and I'm a rather firm believer in the idea that one shouldn't attribute to malice what can just as easily be attributed to stupidity or simple miscommunication.
I love the quote “Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity”
Yes. I had to wake up early my childhood to brush off, warm up cars, and shovel. Because I'm a boy
I did the harder chores for my younger brother like lifting wood and yard work so he didn't have to (I'm not a guy) and it made his dad upset. Chores shouldn't be gendered
Back at my old school there was rule the school introduced. The rule was that if there was a game after school such as basketball or volleyball you could not stay inside the school. This rule only applied if the game was a couple hours after school ended. So if a boy would try and stay after school they would get in trouble and could be suspended but if a girl did the school was fine with it. Almost every time the girls had a game a group of 10 would camp out in the school. Us boys thought this was unfair but our school wouldn’t do anything about it.
I've said it before and I'll never stop saying it: I love and respect you so much Mr. Facts. You're a ray of goddamn sunshine in a dark world and your comments are the reason why I watch your videos.
I feel like every other interaction with a woman has a hint of resentment. Just males existing seems to be an annoyance to them.
basically third/forthwave+ feminism in a cuntshell.
Gee, I wonder why.
@@Yes-bn6yy you mean that thing the entire male half of society does to make it seem like women haven't always had a boot on our throats?
Maybe not resentment but fear represented as anger to try and “scare” men away
If everywhere you go smells like shit, look under your shoe. - Abradolf Lincler
My teacher always favored the girls and if the girls did something bad the boys would get punished for it.
Cuz it used to happen vice versa. Punishing the newer kids for the old kids mistakes
Teacher on some weird shit
Not sure if this counts but I'm a trans guy but still a guy. A few months ago, my older sister smacked me on the ass, which both my mum and sister had done occasionally and I believe that I had expressed my dislike for it. I spun around and told her not to do that but she just laughed and walked away not taking it seriously. I followed my sister out to the living room and kept trying to get my sister to acknowledge what she'd done. Our living room and kitchen are both sort of conjoined and my mum was in the kitchen making dinner so she witnessed the argument. All my mum said was that my sister won't do it again etc. My sister had also said that I was overreacting which I also thought was bs because I knew that if it was the opposite way around how much trouble I'd be in and if a random guy had done that to her and if she was in my shoes in that current moment, how much shit he'd also be in.
I walked away from the conversation cause I gave up on it. I then had a shower and I remember standing there thinking about how uncomfortable I was feeling because of what my sister had done and I knew that I was in the right even if no one could see it. And all I was trying to do was stand up for myself. I then came up with a plan to talk to my mum privately and explain to her how uncomfortable I felt. I then get out of the shower feeling confident and ready to tell my mum. It did not go well, I tried using the reasoning that if a guy had of done that etc etc. It just turned into another shouting match and stuff.
I know that this isn't really as bad as any others but it still frustrates me to no end that it turned into that. All I wanted was my sister to even acknowledge me and an apology.
Doesn't count. You're a bio woman
It counts, and that sucks.
@@Diamondr11Blue seriously?
@@tomboyhorse1236 stay out of real women's locker rooms you pervs
@@Diamondr11Bluewho the hell goes through expensive surgery to change their gender just to stare at womens' titties in the locker rooms
how desperate must someone be?
Let see I had a lady kept cupping my biceps while I was working a football game
And remind you I don’t like being touched sometimes and I was trying to get my job done, as well as being black and 21 and the woman was in her 50s old enough to be my mother
But yeah she did it twice I told my supervisor and got laughed at seriously made me feel uncomfortable and embarrassed couldn’t even tell
My higher up
Since they’ll laugh and sweep
This under the rug
I've had 2, more light-hearted examples of sexism lately. 1st is when a female co-worker can't find something and I help them find it. They frequently say 'I must have had a man look'. Like I, a man, didn't just find the thing they were looking for.
2nd is there are some women in my life that do the most simple, menial task and proudly declare 'I don't need no man!'. I mean, congratulations on opening that jar but I think the merits of men amount to more than opening jars.
I dont need a man. I'm aromantic.
My mother and father had a custody battle over me and my (older) sister. I'm pretty sure my sister was living with him at the time, I don't remember exact dates, though. I am female, for reference. I also have adhd and autism. My big sister has ADHD. My mum is married to my step dad, with a child, (lil sis), and my step brother. My dad didn't even leave to get the milk. He wasn't there. He came and saw us once in a while. Some holidays, birthdays, you know. He lived 4 hours away. When I turned 13, he apparently demanded custody of us, wanting to uproot us, and move us to christchurch. Then after my mum, (Obviously) said no, he moved down to our town, and took it fully to court. My grandparents on my mums side had recently died, and my big sister was struggling. She doesnt get along with my step dad. She moved in with dad. Long and short, I have to go 12 hours every second weekend, overnight every other one. I wanted to go to his place 4 hours every second week. My dad has used the unfairness of courts leaning towards mothers getting children for why he didn't get us. Which is not true. Which is another way it can harm. I think everyone should be viewed equally. He is my father, but he is practically a stranger. He bassically doesn't understand my disorder and dissability, and says I can just "Train myself out of them". I am uncomfortable with touch from him, because I never got to have those "imprinting years". Just something that started as relevant, but kinda dragged off. OPPS.
If you give someone too much power they will abuse that power
Story 19: What I'm getting out of all this is that "good evening" is offensive but a "fuck you" is always appropriate greeting. Noted.
My friends roommate was watching a show and a woman had slapped a man and he did something she said he deserved to be hit. I looked at her and said since she hit him first can he hit her back sahe replied no. I asked her why not she said because a man can't hit a woman. I looked at her if you or any other came up and hit me my theory is "If a woman hits me in any way the woman better be prepared to be treated like a man. She said that's not right I go why. She replied a man shouldn't hit a woman. I told her a man shouldn't be hit by woman and that's as bad as a man hitting a woman
and women are wondering why men dont seek relationship and marriage. I only know one thing. if i ever life together with a woman, the house will be on my name and i will have my own car. So that if stuff goes down i dont have to worry.
get a pre-nub aswell
@@logf1062yea and a lot of those get thrown out cause "i was forced to sign under duress"
@@LinLin-x4l Fun fact, It was men who gave women the basic right's along with few femenists, while also ALOT of women from back then didint want said right's as they wanted easy lives and not to work, understandably so..
@@logf1062 a what?
@@LinLin-x4l you are spelling wrong...
16:30 "Don't take it personally if someone acts hateful towards you. You don't know what they've been through." Is a terrible take. Let's put that in a different light:
Guy gets mugged at gunpoint, mugger was black, he proceeds to be immediately hostile towards black people, for fear of getting mugged. By that logic, this is a completely fair stance, but very few people would agree this is OK.
1:00 Tell that to the cops and legal system.
See my dad taught me that you should not hit a woman but If a woman was to hit you wouldn’t hit her as hard as you would to another man but I def would hit her hard enough to understand not to do it again. And I’m a gentle giant
6:25 IT TOKK THEM THAT FUCKING MUCH TO SEE THAT SHE WAS UNFIT TO BE A MOTHER?!?!?!?! I can see why aliens haven't visited us now
For the meme's Equal rights deserve equal left But in all seriousness it as long as you're defending yourself Legally, who cares what they are.
I love your work and most of your comments, but here you made the same mistake that a lot of men encounter in their lives:
their shit is downplayed, while for the women every excuse is sought to apologize their behaviour.
Being a feminist is about caring for everyone who is discriminated wrongly. 🤦🏾
No it isn't 😮
Right? It’s gotten so bad that OG feminists who’s been fighting for equality in the 50s came out to ask wtf modern feminists are doing and that this isn’t what they fought for.
@@_.hybrids._1680 Tbh feminism isn't needed in the WESTERN WORLD..
Yes… your point is?
Wait sorry, misunderstood the comment, ignore me
Listen to the reader telling men to just suck it up....
Yeah like what😭😭😭
This guy give such amazing advice. I encourage everyone to learn about the views of the other side of the political spectrum whenever you can, lest your vision of the world become skewed and one-sided.
Goddamn sir that is a HUGE mustache
"If you can just get away and get someone else to protect you"? Dude are you kidding me? What can someone else do that you're incapable of doing yourself? If you do somehow manage to get someone else to protect you, law enforcement or otherwise, they will almost assuredly employ force/violence to subdue your assailant. What difference does it make if you're the one doing it yourself vs a third party? I'll tell you: Absolutely nothing beyond the fact that you won't have to sit around and wait for a savior, in which time you'll probably end up murdered or at the very least severely injured. I'll just never understand the inclination to absolve people of agency, self-reliance, and personal accountability these days... The only person truly responsible for your safety is YOU (fun fact: law enforcement is NOT legally obligated to intervene or protect you in any situation). You are always the first responder to a threat on your person/well-being. While it is prudent to take advantage of any opportunity to escape and evade as soon as is safely possible, unfortunately this may not always be possible and one may be required to stand their ground and engage in a confrontation with an attacker. As such, I suggest one train, prepare, and equip themselves accordingly in order to prevent themselves from being victimized...
Telling people to "find someone else to protect them"... Jeezus man, gimme a break. Frankly this is just downright dangerous and wildly unfeasible/unhelpful advice.
I always hate when parents try to cover up the past when they know they did something wrong. It's one of the easiest ways for me to tell that a parent has failed their child(s)
Way more than women do, actually. I’m a woman and I see how guys get mistreated
It’s ok to treat guys like shit. That’s what we’re here for. 😢
@@jlyo1991 simp lord
@@jlyo1991noo as a woman this shouldn't be how it is. We should all be equal
Maybe instead of saying
“Our problem is worse so you can’t complain”
We actually work together so no one has to have these terrible experiences
@@LinLin-x4l1- cut it with the asinine gatekeeping 2- no men never said sexism against women doesn't exist. 3- you final claim of women having it worse is likely total nonsense.
During January of 2019 my brothers and I and my oldest brothers friends family went sledding we started messing around and my oldest brothers friend got pissed off and he and his brother and sister started fighting us and the sister started punching him and he punched her back but when we got home my parents scolded my brother for hitting a women we all told them that she started punching him but my parents would not listen and he got grounded still pissed me off to see the girl get away with it my older brother is one of the best guys I’ve ever known very hard to see him get treated that way
Look, for me, it's equality. Equality means everything. Not just careers and pay, but jail time, and punishments. On average, women get much lighter sentencing for equal crimes, such as rape and domestic violence. Sure, it's more common for a man to do it to a woman, and I understand that, but when it comes down to the justice system, that shouldn't matter and the book should be thrown just as hard. Things like maternity leave need levelling out too, I have never understood why mum gets an immediate 12 months, and dad? Dad gets TWO WEEKS paternity? How is that anywhere near equal? As I say, I'm for equality, in all it's formats.
Break the silence. Break the cycle.
1:36 Grow up sir. Women have learned to hit a man or otherwise harm him. Counting on the man to defend himself or strike her back. This will allow the woman to achieve "domestic violence victim status" in the eyes of law enforcement and society
is there a version where these guys dont pop up almost every story saying what we already think?
Story 13....Oh my god
something i always says which is sexist is cross dressing. if a woman crossdresses normally they can be seen as cool and a tomgirl. if a man cross dresses thats when the problems happen. i hate it and it hurts me as i want to cross dress so badly and yet if i even try ill be made fun of or possibly beaten within an inch of my life. its scary to feel all those looks expecially when i already get alot of hateful looks for having long hair or constantly made fun of for it
an example of this is how my neice can cross dress as a guy and have short hair but i havent heard any of my family complain or make fun of them for that. i have long hair and its the only part of me i genuinely like. It hurts as im constantly made fun of for it and ive asked people so many times to stop and yet... it keep going. luckily for once when in public i got complimented for my hair. right when i was feeling at my lowest and that no one likes it and i should shave it despite loving having long hair
The cops didn't believe me that my ex best the shit out of me both times, even though i was bruised and bleeding
Why did he try to find excuse for the woman in this stories
Like you know they're at fault but you try to find excuses
Someone is pointing a gun at you ?
Story 1 reminded me of my childhood, when my mother would beat the shit out of me. I would get punched, kicked, slapped, and slammed to the wall, all whilst being told that "I wasn't owning up to my actions" whenever I tried to block out of fear. Thank God I called CPS on that shit, or else the one-way toxic violence train will keep on chugging along.
Equal rights means equal lefts
Can we stop gatekeeping sexism?
No one is gatekeeping sexism
@hayamirin6795 lmao yes they are
This video alone is filled with examples of people doing exactly that
@@hayamirin6795 did you watch the video?
@@smiwey Yeah
Wym
No means no. Maybe means no. Yes means no half the time.
Regardless of gender or orientation.
Something I heard someone say recently: misandry is never not going to be transphobic. If all men are dangerous monsters, if all men are violent, and that can never be changed... where does that leave trans women, whom large swaths of society perceive as "changing?" Not in a good place. Doesn't really apply to anything in this video other than the general subject matter but it really opened my eyes and I thought other people in this nice man's comments might appreciate thinking about it, too.
It was a long time ago when I was about 15, my mother was cleaning a fish tank I had in my room since I had no idea how to work the equipment my parents used to do it, usually both my parents worked together to do this so the job went faster but my dad was at work at the time. me in my infinite autistic wisdom said “shouldn’t we wait for dad to do this?” I meant it as “shouldn’t we wait for dad so this goes faster?” but I guess my mom heard “shouldn’t we wait for dad so he can do this?” or something on that line. My mother then stopped what she was doing, looked me dead in the eye and said “just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I always need help.” It blew me away since afaik no one in our house has ever said anything of that caliber to her before and she also had a disorder that made it so she sometimes moved a lot slower due to chronic pain, she assumed just because I was a guy I was insinuating that dad had to be there to help her do everything and I was too floored to explain what I meant, she still cleaned the tank and I just sat there not wanting to say something to upset her further. The event has stuck with me since
Anyone got tips on mental health Care I think mine is declining cuz I literally just heard someone close to my family died and I didn't feel anything I've heard my dad got stabbed right outside my door and I was like okay and the person who did to him lives within my house will technically not my house I come over here but still and I just don't care about any of it even want to hear such horrible things rape murder drugs violence I hear all vintage be like I don't care not my problem any tips on getting better
I used to say “Oh their dad is taking care of the kids today.” He’s their parent, not their babysitter.
Just wanted to clear things up regarding self defense.
Depending on where you live legally it is self defense if you are protecting yourself. If you are being attacked you can use enough force to stop yourself from being attacked. Once you are no longer being attacked, if you keep going you can be charged with assault.
Example being you are being robbed. You knock them down. They stay down. If you start stomping on them then that’s bad. They are no longer a threat.
This is coming from someone who has taken multiple classes regarding laws of all different varieties
Sounds like a wimp wrote those
Hello! Wishing everyone a good day!
thanks... I guess?
Who knew MrMainlyFacts would have such a sexy moustache
But what you mean by
I’m guilty of making sexist statements about my husband when we were engaged. I was helping him get his debts on track and get payments set up, and I was speaking to a lot of women when I was doing this. I found that by making these kinds of statements, I got a lot more help from the women I talked to because they understood that some men just aren’t good at handling their finances, especially when they’re in their 20’s. I did apologize to my fiancé, and I explained that it had nothing to do with him. But he told me that he didn’t take it personally at all, and he was just really grateful for the help. I will also make sexist comments about myself to be funny at times in order to cut tension for a laugh. It’s helpful.
I was eating breakfast with my fwb at a hotel her job paid for. My boss called me to ask a question at the same time the server came with the check. Apparently she tried to hand it to me but I wasn't paying attention obviously and my fwb tried to take the check to pay the server looked at her like she was crazy and tried to had ot to me again until my fwb just snatched it from her hand and put her card in it. This is to say sometimes guys can be treated to meals too and not expected to pay for everything. I do pay for stuff as well. We alternate paying for outings
Another is im driving my female coworker home from an event we had to do out of staye since she dont have a car. She as been annoying me the whole time and disrespecting the boundaries i set for my car. I stop at McDonald's to get food and only order what i wanted cuz i was getting being petty so when we get to the window to pay she tries to ask can she add a snoothe. I told the guy dont do it cuz she didnt have cash on her and she sucks at paying people back. The guy who thinks we are a couple says "look man this isnt a fight thats gonna go well for ubin the long run" i told him we are coworkers and there is nothing between us at all. He still tries to say its just what you gotta do. Now im getting irked so i tell him if i see any other charges on my card besides what i ordered then we will have a problem as well as saying if he wants to defend her so much he can drive her home. He got real quiet after that
Story one: equal rights, equal fights is what I always say(mainly in regards to self defense) however, no one should go through abuse, regardless
Another point, I got a question for some of the stories about fathers who are spending time with their kids or men who work with children, mainly towards the women:
Why is it OK to outrightfully call a man a p*do or a predator when they're just having time with the kids, be it any profession that involves children, but if someone treated your son that way, it's not okay?
I've also heard equal right and equal lefts as in these hands
@@harryh4h720I go with "I am always down to fight but I won't without a good reason".
I like the quote “Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity”
men are taught there value differently across the world but on average id say they are marketed as lesser to girls
Welp, I guess being alone sounds like winning the lottery.
why did mainly facts guy keep taking the sides of the people being sexist lol
Cause he's a white knight simp
Thank you I was looking for your comment, he just kept making excuses and adding details, like we get it People shouldn't hit people. But this is about Men hitting back in self-defense or telling their stories of abuse cause to them by Women, this was a frustrating video to hear.
Look at his nails, and then listen to his comments defending the sexist people. He's clearly trying to be "woke" as they say for views, so he can make a quick buck.
@@HopeReviews"you're cringe, shush*
@@Jahito_EBT Why don't you shush no one was talking to you clown
i think giving gifts to the soon to be bride thing comes from the aristocratic past of the world where men were very rich and women told to marry them even if they didnt love them but were given gifts to help them feel like it was worth marrying a rich man they dont even love