I feel like there is a lot of negative comments on this video and I don't understand it. Calm down people! This is just what works for her and her family! She listed 50! FIFTY! things. There are going to be a few you don't agree with. No need to be so hateful.
I guess it also kind of depends on what brings you joy in your life. For me .. art on the wall, and going to the movies are like my favorite things lol. But it’s good to evaluate our lives to see where we can simplify!
Mackenzie ASMR I’m with you! I went to art school and love having art on the walls. And even though I’m a mom and I hardly ever get to go anywhere I love going to the movies (even though I usually only do that like once a year at this point, but it is special when it happens).
I agree with both of you. We were given three beautiful prints at our wedding by a local artist, super special. “No to lotion” is a perfect example of lifestyle being a driving force in your purchases I have eczema and coconut oil just hasn’t been enough. My needs don’t match everyone’s life style.
Anti Ringlo So true! In just a month I save around $500 on having a library card instead of buying books. Most people who spend money on books would benefit from getting hold of a library card. Plus most libraries will take book suggestions if their catalogue doesn’t have the book you’re looking for. It also makes it much more special to treat yourself to some books on your birthday when you don’t buy them here and there throughout the year.
I buy most of my books at local charity shops, you can pick them up for around £1 or £2 each. Once I've read them I then give them to people I know who would enjoy them or donate them back to the charity shop. I love that cycle and knowing the little money I do spend on them goes back to a good cause.
I love the feeling of a new book to sit down and read at home so I have no time limit! But everyone has different interests so i guess it just depends if you enjoy them enough 🤗
Remember she's not saying this is for every one, just for her and as inspiration. I too love Spotify. I pay $144 a year and have unlimited music that three people use. No fuss. No cds. No ads because I hate the noise and influence of ads. But it doesn't work for Delilah and that's cool too.
I think these sorts of things are very relative. I agree with most of these, but plants books and music are immensely important to me. They bring me so much joy and happiness when I come home and can just relax. I just think these sorts of things are relative because you always wants things that truly bring joy into your home and life. If you don’t have joyful things in your home, it will feel empty and sad (learned this the hard way)
I haven't finished a book in almost 5 years. The reason why? Even though I love reading books, I just can't find the time anymore because of working as... wait for it... a researcher. Yes, shocking right. Instead of books, my soft library is now filled with academic journals. I feel like I found reading less relaxing now that all I do for work, which basically means around the clock 8 am to 5pm or much later, is reading. I've bought new books that I havent even opened and it just gathers dust in the shelves. So sadly, I am with Delilah on this one.
You can borrow books from library, also a lot of people just give their plants out for free, because they’re moving or just doesn’t want that plant anymore
I honestly felt this way about most of these things....20 YEARS AGO LOL! I think this is very realistic for such a young couple. Some things will change as they get older. But for now, this is excellent!
It’s so refreshing to see a real life person who happens to be a TH-camr not being such a consumer and wasteful. Every single video I watch on TH-cam now always has ads of products to buy and it always makes me feel like I don’t have enough stuff when in fact I already have a lot. You made me realize a lot of things are actually really not necessary! I totally relate, If you need a book go to the library, dvds are never used and just take up space and excessive makeup is just a huge waste of money! You made me feel so much better about this stuff than others who just put it in my face to want more and more. But I still need to listen to some of your tips like candles and soap containers.. candles really do smell artificial I need to switch to essential oils and it would be a big save if we just bought soap in bulk and reusable bottles instead of going to baths n body works:) etc
Loved this video. SO much yes. Two of my favorites are... Herbs. They're so expensive in the store and you barely use them all before they go bad. Instead I grow them in my garden. I harvest as needed during summer and in the fall before the snow falls I harvest the rest and dry it for the rest of the year. Also broths / stocks. You already have paid for the carrot skins and tops, the ends of celery and skins of onion. If you eat chicken then you have chicken bones and caucuses. Save them in the freezer and once your large bag is full boil on the stove with water and you'll have many liters to freeze for future use.
I would make one exception to the "no duplicates" rule. Shoes. If you find your perfect pair of shoes, the comfortable, repairable, lasting kind... wait a few months and buy another pair on sale. Because by the time you wear that first pair out, I promise you, they will no longer be available anywhere. I bought my perfect pair of work flats back in 2005. Pair 1 is still going strong, having had many different soles, but the upper is starting to wear through, which isn't repairable. For the next 15 years, I'll wear pair 2... and pair 3 will see me through to my hopeful retirement. For the space of two shoeboxes in the bottom of my closet, I have my perfect shoes for my entire working life, and never have to worry about it again.
I fully understand you opinion on formula, before I had my daughter I thought it was so strange mother's giving their baby's formula as apposed to breast milk, as their is so meany pros with breast milk, but one week after having my daughter I completely dryed up and had to resort to fomula, so I now understand that for some mom's formula is not a choice, but in the day and age I am so greatfull to have the choice. Loved this video and am guilty of alote of these points 😅 xxx
I agree. I think it's the assumption perpetuated in culture that you need to have formula. It's lessened over time but there are still some that try to discourage women from thinking their breast milk CAN be enough.
Not everyone has the work schedule, lifestyle, patience, personality, or even the physical ability to breastfeed. This push to breastfeed to the point of shaming mothers for using formula is plain ridiculous. As someone who struggled terribly with bf, I always appreciate bf women who don't cop a holier than thou attitude about it.
Brea McClymont yeah to me it’s always worth a shot(unless you’re super unhealthy yourself, I do believe you need to put effort into your diet so your milk can be more nutritious) but like for example my mom decided she didn’t wanna breastfeed. Plus his milk didn’t come in until I was 4 days old. She tried wrapping them but it hurt so bad and it was time for me to eat so she gave in a nursed me a few times but it still wasn’t enough and then I was formula fed
Such a good list!! Some other things we don't buy are microwavable meals, diapers (we use cloth and it should save us soo much money!), cleaning products (I've gotten along fine with just baking soda, vinegar, and castile soap), and greeting cards (I make them from scrap paper and old cards).
About the shoes: that’s great that you’re buying good quality shoes. But if you’re ever experiencing foot pain, make sure to wear some nice supportive sneakers over flats. They support the arch in your foot and reduce foot pain! Just a tip (for anyone actually haha)
We have such different life styles. I love pop !! I love makeup and skin care is so important to me !! I get my hair done 💁♀️ ever month. Its so interesting how other people live
me too. we use spotify all day everyday. White noise machine: check, No screen time for the baby music instead: check, Podcasts as background noise: check, daily news briefings: check. Can't imagine not having it on.
Educating children in contact with art, widens their horizons and build the imagination. What I remember most from my family home and childhood were the books and art albums that I watched for hours and wall paintings that I stared at and built my own story. Also vinyls (Im much older then you) with fairy tales and my parents' music. It had a huge impact on my development. Now I am a mother of 2 boys and we have lots of books, paintings and lots and lots of music at home every day from morning to evening. But that's my experience and opinion.
Dear Delilah, as a literature student, hearing you say that books are a waste of money made me so sad :/ books are culture Delilah, 10 pages a day does not take a lot of time and it helps relax, it means some alone time and make you learn so much stuff! You should honestly try and find the time to read a couple pages a week xxxxx
She said she didn’t sent have time to read but she would love to if she had the time. I agree buying books is a waste of money because the books I own, I read them once, most of the time and then they just sit on the shelf. I love reading but unless you are going to reread the book over and over, I think it’s a huge waste of money to purchase.
@@strom51 But somebody took hundreds of hours to write them! And the book industry is struggling already, so the really good stuff that's a bit more challenging to read that a popular fantasy novel might not be published if people don't buy it. Where I live, a movie ticket (even the small arthouse places) is as much as a book. Yet I've never heard anyone use the same argument for the movies ("waste of money"). Also "no time to read" is often just "not up for it" by another name. That's completely fine, don't get me wrong. It's just that anybody who wants to has those few minutes before bed when they could read if they wanted to...
"Having to go for an appointment every few weeks and being an introvert ....." yes ! Totally me !! The idea of looking great with eye lash extensions is what could motivate me but...meeting new people in the saloon every couple of weeks...this is not worth it.
Absolutely love your look today! I'm a 22 year old woman too from England and you inspire me so much ❤️ your style, your home, your ways of life, you're wonderful ❤️ xx
Love the idea of making sure something has a place in your home before buying it, need to try that! We love wall art, but all of it has been made by myself or are pictures of the family too. This was a really helpful video!
We're all different. Different things are important to different people. When my kids were at home there was no way I could afford many of these things anyway. Its about thinking about how you use your money and all your resources wisely in ways that nurture you, those around you and your world. Spending less and making more inspires me. Sending love to you all xx
I also have never gotten a manicure or pedicure in my whole life and I refuse to! I totally 💯% agree with everything on your list except for books and plants. I don't buy actual books though, I buy the digital version.
I’m so glad you’ve switched from k-cups. I remember cringing every time I saw them in your videos because of how awful they are for the environment, but it wasn’t my place to say something.
🙋♀️ same! I never go to beauty salons! Save so much money! Never had my hair dyed, Paid for a haircut once in my life (I just have my sister cut my hair). I don’t drink alcohol or soda either! My husband also only buys flowers on occasion 3-4 times a year! Flowers are expensive! And they die in a couple days anyways Been to a movie theater 1 time in my life
fantastic suggestions! Ive been saying this to my Partner about lotto tickets! Also, I have been buying 1 glass container every time I shop to try and build up a good collection. im sick of waisting money on plastic that breaks.
During this quarantine I’ve literally only painted my nails once... it makes you really evaluate what you need/want to spend your time on. Also a great hack: only buy a base and top coat and use acrylic paint to make custom colours! Saves so much $$ and space
I’m so inspired to do another de littering and stop purchasing so many more things. I already share a lot of these no-buys with you but you’ve opened up my eyes to so many more!
We are very similar with clothing and accessories! I never wear jewelry, and I wear the same 2-3 pairs of shoes all year round. Simple is the way to go! Loved this video. I've become very much aware of my consumption recently and aim to cut back in all categories.
I basically agree with everything that you said. For me a lot of these decisions come from growing up poor and in small space. The only thing I really wish we could not spend money on is water, but tap water here is horrible, so we have to buy it, but we have reusable bottles for it.
Dasha Kshenskaya have you tried the berkey water filter?? We have one and love it. Our water tastes terrible from the tap also! Even if we used a filter for the refrigerator. But we were sick of buying plastic gallons of water every week and it has by far saved us so much money! ❤️
@@jessicaknizner7773 I'll look into it, thanks! I'm not sure I'll find the exact one here though. The filters that we can get here don't do a great job, the water is really bad (we live in a heavy industrial city, maybe that's why).
We are so similar . I’m a black woman and I do my own hair . I buy skincare , organic and inexpensive . I may spend $50 for a whole year on skincare . I do have Zoya nail polishes because they’re safer . I buy a stash for $50 once every few years (5) , and wear them on special occasions or when I feel to. With kids it washed of fast. Music - Spotify free TH-cam free. Books - free library books on e book versions , cloth diapers and washable sanitary pads for myself also. I soak my own feet and do my pedicure . I cut up my veggies and whatnot and freeze them myself . I dry herbs and make iced teas ! I’m super frugal and I grew up in the Caribbean being that way and it is a good way for myself to live . Skincare items can be the same items you use like those old coffee grinds can be a face scrub ! For me it’s Shea butter , a few oils , a coconut oil soap and if I feel a breakout I use witch hazel ! Makeup - I use it once in a while and I buy organic only . That’s another treat I spend $50 every 2-4 years on. I don’t buy candles ever - I use essential oils , spray bottles and freshen up. I use vinegar in my laundry for fabric softener. Castile soap covers laundry and cleaning . I don’t buy razors I recharge the one I have and sanitize for reusing . Fast fashion sucks too! I like buying clothes every few years and they can last : hence why I wash and air dry my clothing only . I don’t buy plastic shower curtain liners , only washable ones . No dryers .I can go on and on, I love your video ! Thank you
Scams -water bottles (use tap) -pads and tampons (use menstrual cup or period panties) -toilet paper (use a bidet) -engagement rings (I just hate rings and they're overpriced anyway.) -subscriptions (piracy isn't that bad, I'm sure disney will survive with its billionaire monopoly) -dish washers. I swear to god, I cannot put into words my hatred for dish washers. They don't even clean the dishes good. I can wash the dishes better than it and it saves so much time. Wow, I wrote this before I watched the video. This girl actually got most of these. Nice to see someone else recognizes those scams.
I thought that this video would help me try to find areas in my life where I could budget better. But this list was so specific NOTHING APPLIED TO ME. I also just stumbled upon this video so I have not been following the channel but I also think it offered some specific criticisms to ppl who use the items she no longer buys. So that is just some feedback I wanted to offer.
Yep. I am 32 and look younger than I did when I was into skin stuff in my early 20s. I wear makeup only on special occasions, I wear sunscreen/SPF only on days I actually spend outside, and I don’t wash my face everyday. Maybe every 2-3 days I use a very mild cleanser, and in the Canadian wintertime I have a light moisturizer I use every few days around my eyes/nose/mouth.
I used to have lots of knick knacks around... maybe not even as many or more than the average person but I’ve realized that it all just feels like clutter. Even the things that have meaning at this point! I prefer fewer decor items but like you said, if I do have any decor I try as hard as possible for it to be something functional (hooks with my few purses) or really meaningful, like the shadowbox my late grandfather built. It makes me love my space even more!
Love this! We have been trying to stop get soda, stop buying soda for the house, and stop getting things brand new and thrifting as well! You've actually been a huge inspiration for thrifting and I love seeing all your thrift hauls and seeing your finds. Thanks for this video! I love it!
If you want quality reasonable shoes, crocs are the bomb! I initially had a pair that I wore 95% of days all day for two years before they wore out! I just retired a pair of sandals I've had for 4 years. I haven't quite gotten rid of them because they're not 100% worn but are getting thinned out.
Cloth diapers save us so much money! Nora’s Nursery diapers are cheap and washer/dryer friendly! We rarely buy paper towels. We use cleaning cloths! Opening the windows/fans/layers instead of blasting A/C or heat! We use vinegar and rubbing alcohol in a glass spray bottle mostly to clean!
LoeppkysLife I recommend using the bamboo liners with them! That helped us until our girl started eating mostly solids. Also, I’m so excited that their business is going to get your amazing pictures! 😍
You are so pretty! Amazing video; I think it let a lot of people see inside the mind of a "minimalist". One thing, the plastic containers will really come in handy when Eloise is in school (unless you home school, which I think you could totally do). They eliminate so much waste and glass can't always be trusted with littles lol
You are wise and self-disciplined. We try to quit drinks with added sugar, e.g. fruit juice, sweet tea, soda. It is healthier and help save a lot of money over time.
I love this! Ditto on sooo many of these (almost all of it). Especially the mani's and pedi's thing, it also scares me to sit with a stranger for such a long time while they're touching my hands or feet. 😂
Could you PLEASE make a video about your menstrual cup experience?? I’ve been meaning to transition to it but I’m really hesitant because I’ve only ever used pads in my life and the thought of having to insert something up my body is just 😳
Happily Mikayla Thank you for those recommendations! I hate tampons and having to stick things up my vag during my period. If I could get some reusable pads, it would be sooooo helpful.
Our skin is used to it. Its windy 90% of the time as well, so I think us Canadians have just adapted to have oilier skin (not in a gross way) to protect it. But I get a dry face during winter so everyone is different
agree with all these things.....except the books.........I love to smell them esp old ones, I go to library for most of my books but those wonderful favorites I need in my home and I even use them to decorate
you can always buy books at the thrift store and or even at yard sales!! it’s the best!! one thing my parents did was make my own books out of paper and stable it together
Gifts: of course there is always some cost (mostly time) to homemade gifts, but I try to make majority of the presents I give. I makes gift-giving extra special for me and I hope the gifted also appreciate it
Thank you for mentioning that you are a Christian woman! I am too, but I find it hard to find people on the internet who align with my views. I am slowly dipping my toe into the sustainable lifestyle so I’m excited to have you as an influence!
There's a lot of stuff on your list that I don't buy as well. Unfortunately bottled and canned soda is non negotiable because it is all my husband will drink. I've seriously considered investing in a soda machine like at the gas station to save money in the long run.
I pretty much agree and already kinda do almost everything you mentioned. My husband loves books so he still buys those and I get them for him as gifts since they make him so happy. Luckily, he rereads books so it's not a complete waste. We also have this one brunch place we absolutely love near us so we splurge on breakfast every once in a while but besides that, we're pretty similar to your lifestyle
I don’t buy paper towels anymore! Instead, I bought reusable napkins on Etsy and I have a “Kliin” reusable and compostable absorbant napkin for any mess in the house🙂
I actually agree with every one of these 50 items! I may have a problem with buying too many books.... but I love a good book. I'm always reading. so it's valuable to me
I know it doesn’t help much with the saving money part but there are compostable k cups... more expensive but if you are a sleep deprived parent of a newborn it may be worth it. I will eventually go back to using a press when I have more spare time and free hands 😆 You are right that it does not taste as fresh from a k cup
Hair cuts! I cut my hair and my husband’s hair. It took a bit of trial and error but saves us so much money!! Also rags instead of paper towels. We still will keep paper towels in the house but mainly use rags and it saves lots of money.
Love this list! We do all pictures on our walls except for things that were given to us. We got a painting from my grandparents and it is so special after we bought our first house.
Love all your ideas for not only saving money but our environment. I understand since you have very young children not having time to read but reading and self care/time is very important to moms too so maybe download a book or go to library and put aside a little time for you :) I also don't like cut flowers but will go into my own yard and find, even pretty "weed" type plants to bring into the home at times, soy candles are healthier if wanting a candle but I agree essential oils are nice too.
So true about the coffees I dont drink them but my husband does. It would be awesome to just make from home cuz yes sometimes it doesnt turn out at a fast food place
i found some of these useful and i think i can implement this into my life, thank you for sharing what works for you and allowing us to take something from it :)
Is saying pop a Canadian thing? I'm originally from Kansas and everyone says pop! But whenever I go somewhere else I get made fun of for not saying soda 😂
It's a Midwestern thing. I'm from Northern Midwest and everyone says "pop" here. :) My husband is southern and laughs every time I say it since they say "soda" or "coke".
Not just a midwestern thing I’m from Missouri and say pop, my husband is from Wisconsin and says soda. We live in Maryland now and they mostly say soda
So glad I’m watching this! I need to change my spending lifestyle very much to help save money and want to do it young! Thank you for this and some inspiration! Also the homemade baby food sounds awesome to try!
If you don’t want magazine subscriptions you can get the ”pressreader” app. Log in with your local library card and you’re good to go and can read magazines and newspapers etc from all over the world.
Hi! We're somehow different when it comes to things to own or to buy (books, plants, etc.) but I still enjoyed watching your video until the end. 🧡 This is the first time I watched your video and I found myself giving a thumbs up and instantly subsrcibed to your TH-cam channel. 🧡 I love how you were just being yourself and I can't believe you're already a mother or have a family! You look so young! I look forward to more of your videos. 🧡
I totally agree about the books being a waste of space! Which is why I borrow ebooks from my local online library, it’s amazing. But Spotify is a must for me! I listen to music and podcasts daily, I couldn’t imagine not having music streaming, I’m a student so it’s only $5 a month!
Okay dude I work at Gap and the fact that you said it’s cheap and part of the fast fashion industry blows my mind. I have a 50% employee discount and I still can’t afford to buy anything.
Haha the plastic containers!!! I recently have gotten so mad Stu them my husband thinks it's hilarious. Im so over it. And not just the containers but sandwich bags too. I've been slowly switching to glass containers and cloth snack bags if i even need them.
Wiewiórka o świcie those she probably needed. You bleed for a very long time after giving birth, and it’s much blood 🩸... don’t think you could use reusable ones through that time..
@@diemeckerei3021 I only used disposable pads for the first couple of days I was in hospital, at home I only used cloth pads and they worked very well. Everyone's different
So as someone who is almost 17 I can honestly find this super useful i guess. I can see ways to save money as I get into college and past that living my own life with my boyfriend. Thanks for the very useful tips and insight for me to use in the future! I love your honesty and just great help! Your honestly are such a huge inspiration to me ! ( I hope this doesn’t weird 😂) 👍❤️
I am a ftm so I watched your previous videos and I'm hooked! 7 weeks into pregnancy and I love watching everything you post. Btw you don't need make up or enhancements. ♥
ALSO if you don't have one uploaded yet, could you do a video on the toys you use for your kiddos and why? I definitely agree that plastic flashy toys are no bueno, but I don't so much know how to explain it to somebody else!
So with fast fashion. how do you do that with kids like say you have family members that want to buy clothes or gifts for your kids? I am wanting to be more mindful and live more sustainable and I am trying to get as much information as possible.
1. K cups
2. Cheap coffees
3. Bottled drinks
4. Fast food
5. Drinks and desserts at restaurant
6. Alcohol
7. Pop
8. Prepackaged foods
9. Food items not on my grocery list
10. Baby food
11. Nail polish
12. Manicures and pedicures
13. Hair dye, extensions etc.
14. Cosmetic enhancements
15. Music subscriptions
16. Magazine subscriptions
17. Cable
18. DVDs
19. CDs
20. Books
21. Plants
22. Fresh flowers
23. Pads and tampons
24. Skincare
25. Lotions
26. Excessive Makeup
27. Candles
28. Jewellery
29. High heels
30. Cheap shoes
31. Clothing that is not modest
32. Clothing that isn't 100% perfect
33. Fast fashion and trendy items
34. Bright colours, patterns etc
35. Sale items
36. New items
37. Duplicate items
38. Anything that doesn't have a place in my home
39. Knick Knacks
40. Wall Art
41. Pillows
42. Seasonal decor
43. Seasonal scents
44. Disposable cutlery, cups etc
45. Lottery tickets
46. Movie tickets
47. Battery operated toys
48. Formula
49. Plastic food containers
50. Soap bottles
Phew! I'm glad I took notes :)
lost me at pads and tampons
@@geziellnash5776 she uses a menstrual cup, as do a lot of other women. It's a lot healthier for your body and for the planet! (And your wallet!)
Thank you for the list 🤗
Thank you!
Lost me at ‘modest clothing’ 😂
I feel like there is a lot of negative comments on this video and I don't understand it. Calm down people! This is just what works for her and her family! She listed 50! FIFTY! things. There are going to be a few you don't agree with. No need to be so hateful.
Justine Snyder, Exactly!!
Justine Snyder hahaha thank you 🤪
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Everyone is different. Just like her. There are no negative comments.
She is great but half these items are items she never bought anyways or doesn't like so how is it 50 items she cut out of her life to save money 🤔🤔🤔
alcohol is the biggest one for me. used to buy like 3-4 tall boys at $3 each, everyday. i am now 3 weeks completely sober and 6 months drug free 😸👍🏻
are you still sober? i’m trying to sober up but it’s hard
Im one year sober and it was HARD. But so worth it. Im saving so much money and feel a lot better
I guess it also kind of depends on what brings you joy in your life. For me .. art on the wall, and going to the movies are like my favorite things lol. But it’s good to evaluate our lives to see where we can simplify!
Mackenzie ASMR I’m with you! I went to art school and love having art on the walls. And even though I’m a mom and I hardly ever get to go anywhere I love going to the movies (even though I usually only do that like once a year at this point, but it is special when it happens).
I agree with both of you. We were given three beautiful prints at our wedding by a local artist, super special. “No to lotion” is a perfect example of lifestyle being a driving force in your purchases I have eczema and coconut oil just hasn’t been enough. My needs don’t match everyone’s life style.
I love eclectic wall art
I just disagree about the books.
There are libraries
@@antiringlo509 yes, in my house. 😉
Anti Ringlo So true! In just a month I save around $500 on having a library card instead of buying books. Most people who spend money on books would benefit from getting hold of a library card. Plus most libraries will take book suggestions if their catalogue doesn’t have the book you’re looking for.
It also makes it much more special to treat yourself to some books on your birthday when you don’t buy them here and there throughout the year.
I buy most of my books at local charity shops, you can pick them up for around £1 or £2 each. Once I've read them I then give them to people I know who would enjoy them or donate them back to the charity shop. I love that cycle and knowing the little money I do spend on them goes back to a good cause.
I love the feeling of a new book to sit down and read at home so I have no time limit! But everyone has different interests so i guess it just depends if you enjoy them enough 🤗
Remember she's not saying this is for every one, just for her and as inspiration. I too love Spotify. I pay $144 a year and have unlimited music that three people use. No fuss. No cds. No ads because I hate the noise and influence of ads. But it doesn't work for Delilah and that's cool too.
$144 for music?! Then again...I pay $119 for music a year..sigh
Agree on some of those things but... not reading? Not listening to music? Not watching a movie that isn’t on Netflix??? I couldn’t live like that😂
Lotte
123movies
Popcorn time
Amazon prime
Watch series
@@OldSoulModLife what about paying the artists and creatives? what about supporting the arts, since we enjoy them so much?
Estrella Alonso I’m just offering places to watch shows. You can still support whoever you want however you want to
@@OldSoulModLife you support creatives by using the platforms, by paying for their content.
I think these sorts of things are very relative. I agree with most of these, but plants books and music are immensely important to me. They bring me so much joy and happiness when I come home and can just relax. I just think these sorts of things are relative because you always wants things that truly bring joy into your home and life. If you don’t have joyful things in your home, it will feel empty and sad (learned this the hard way)
As an English Major at University, books are my life. I collect antique books in addition to modern ones as well. How can someone live without books?
there's books online now.
Borrow from the library
I haven't finished a book in almost 5 years. The reason why? Even though I love reading books, I just can't find the time anymore because of working as... wait for it... a researcher. Yes, shocking right. Instead of books, my soft library is now filled with academic journals. I feel like I found reading less relaxing now that all I do for work, which basically means around the clock 8 am to 5pm or much later, is reading. I've bought new books that I havent even opened and it just gathers dust in the shelves. So sadly, I am with Delilah on this one.
Oh my gosh, no books, no flowers, no skincare, no candles, no plants,. How would I recharge after the day? Lol 😩
money apparently lol
Inasse Almechatt haha, they can keep my cents for the good things in life 👌🏻🌿
@@ashtonadairsummers4316 hey, i always say if it makes you happy and doesnt harm anyone else or yourself.. go for it :)
You can borrow books from library, also a lot of people just give their plants out for free, because they’re moving or just doesn’t want that plant anymore
I honestly felt this way about most of these things....20 YEARS AGO LOL! I think this is very realistic for such a young couple. Some things will change as they get older. But for now, this is excellent!
Delilah: ...in order to save money, to live better-
Me: WALMART
We love ALDI and the clearance rack at Target or JCP for clothes. We only shop for clothes we need though.
@@MrsWill-wd3mb the Samantha girl is referencing the WalMart motto which is "Save money, live better" lol
@@hattie.waltermire Oh. 😅 Clearly I don't watch cable either.
@@rosalyngummer6587 I just figured that's where their slogan is played primarily.
@@rosalyngummer6587 I mostly watch Netflix and I don't get Wal-Mart ads on TH-cam. That's a good point though. :-)
It’s so refreshing to see a real life person who happens to be a TH-camr not being such a consumer and wasteful. Every single video I watch on TH-cam now always has ads of products to buy and it always makes me feel like I don’t have enough stuff when in fact I already have a lot. You made me realize a lot of things are actually really not necessary! I totally relate, If you need a book go to the library, dvds are never used and just take up space and excessive makeup is just a huge waste of money! You made me feel so much better about this stuff than others who just put it in my face to want more and more. But I still need to listen to some of your tips like candles and soap containers.. candles really do smell artificial I need to switch to essential oils and it would be a big save if we just bought soap in bulk and reusable bottles instead of going to baths n body works:) etc
Loved this video. SO much yes. Two of my favorites are...
Herbs. They're so expensive in the store and you barely use them all before they go bad. Instead I grow them in my garden. I harvest as needed during summer and in the fall before the snow falls I harvest the rest and dry it for the rest of the year.
Also broths / stocks. You already have paid for the carrot skins and tops, the ends of celery and skins of onion. If you eat chicken then you have chicken bones and caucuses. Save them in the freezer and once your large bag is full boil on the stove with water and you'll have many liters to freeze for future use.
I would make one exception to the "no duplicates" rule. Shoes. If you find your perfect pair of shoes, the comfortable, repairable, lasting kind... wait a few months and buy another pair on sale. Because by the time you wear that first pair out, I promise you, they will no longer be available anywhere. I bought my perfect pair of work flats back in 2005. Pair 1 is still going strong, having had many different soles, but the upper is starting to wear through, which isn't repairable. For the next 15 years, I'll wear pair 2... and pair 3 will see me through to my hopeful retirement. For the space of two shoeboxes in the bottom of my closet, I have my perfect shoes for my entire working life, and never have to worry about it again.
Shoes can be tricky though. After pregnancy my feet don't fit to any pair I've got, so now I have to buy everything again😥
Hair color ...Plants.. books..skin care... Can't relate 😂
Haleigh Cleveland ahaha
Same. It's self care for Me.
You’re literally GLOWING Delilah! Amazing video as always 💕
your hair, your outfit, your attitude, you look so great delilah
Aw thank you 😘
Jalynn Newell agree! Loving the orange and brown
I fully understand you opinion on formula, before I had my daughter I thought it was so strange mother's giving their baby's formula as apposed to breast milk, as their is so meany pros with breast milk, but one week after having my daughter I completely dryed up and had to resort to fomula, so I now understand that for some mom's formula is not a choice, but in the day and age I am so greatfull to have the choice. Loved this video and am guilty of alote of these points 😅 xxx
I agree. I think it's the assumption perpetuated in culture that you need to have formula. It's lessened over time but there are still some that try to discourage women from thinking their breast milk CAN be enough.
Not everyone has the work schedule, lifestyle, patience, personality, or even the physical ability to breastfeed. This push to breastfeed to the point of shaming mothers for using formula is plain ridiculous. As someone who struggled terribly with bf, I always appreciate bf women who don't cop a holier than thou attitude about it.
Brea McClymont yeah to me it’s always worth a shot(unless you’re super unhealthy yourself, I do believe you need to put effort into your diet so your milk can be more nutritious) but like for example my mom decided she didn’t wanna breastfeed. Plus his milk didn’t come in until I was 4 days old. She tried wrapping them but it hurt so bad and it was time for me to eat so she gave in a nursed me a few times but it still wasn’t enough and then I was formula fed
Gaganpreet Kaur yesss exactly! Like I said, I’m not judging anyone for using it. We just don’t need to :)
@@gkaur1522 Definitely misread your comment. My bad. I agree.
I love this video !!! I am so guilty of writing a grocery list and coming out with more than I was suppose too 😳.. lol
This is why I love doing grocery pickup! No temptation!!
your nail polish will last so much longer if you get a really good top coat! Mine lasts like 2 weeks without chips when I paint at home
Such a good list!! Some other things we don't buy are microwavable meals, diapers (we use cloth and it should save us soo much money!), cleaning products (I've gotten along fine with just baking soda, vinegar, and castile soap), and greeting cards (I make them from scrap paper and old cards).
About the shoes: that’s great that you’re buying good quality shoes. But if you’re ever experiencing foot pain, make sure to wear some nice supportive sneakers over flats. They support the arch in your foot and reduce foot pain! Just a tip (for anyone actually haha)
Good idea... cermet!!
Blue41e haha, thanks! 🤣
We have such different life styles. I love pop !! I love makeup and skin care is so important to me !! I get my hair done 💁♀️ ever month. Its so interesting how other people live
Love how much you're starting to talk about the environment. Just makes me love your channel even more
We love spotify. Its necessary for me. Especially since I get a student price and I get hulu and showtime with it.
me too. we use spotify all day everyday. White noise machine: check, No screen time for the baby music instead: check, Podcasts as background noise: check, daily news briefings: check. Can't imagine not having it on.
Is Hulu still available for students buying Spotify?
Your hat looks like the pumpernickel bread in the chex mix bag
The clearance rack or old navy’s biannual clearance get me EVERY TIME!!! You’re so right! I need to retrain my mind for sure
Totally agree! Now I only go to clearance racks with certain items in mind. If those aren't there than I'm not buying anything.
Educating children in contact with art, widens their horizons and build the imagination. What I remember most from my family home and childhood were the books and art albums that I watched for hours and wall paintings that I stared at and built my own story. Also vinyls (Im much older then you) with fairy tales and my parents' music. It had a huge impact on my development. Now I am a mother of 2 boys and we have lots of books, paintings and lots and lots of music at home every day from morning to evening. But that's my experience and opinion.
If you watch her newer videos she is trying to find art and plants and skincare. It’s kinda interesting to see how things changed over a year
@@Lizandjinx I'm very happy for this!
And I disagree with the books
They are most IMPORTANT THINGS IN MY LIFE
How often do you re-read your books? Just borrow from the library.
Not to everyone, please respect her opinion.
Dear Delilah, as a literature student, hearing you say that books are a waste of money made me so sad :/ books are culture Delilah, 10 pages a day does not take a lot of time and it helps relax, it means some alone time and make you learn so much stuff! You should honestly try and find the time to read a couple pages a week xxxxx
You can even buy them second hand!
I wish I could!
Libraries exist
She said she didn’t sent have time to read but she would love to if she had the time. I agree buying books is a waste of money because the books I own, I read them once, most of the time and then they just sit on the shelf. I love reading but unless you are going to reread the book over and over, I think it’s a huge waste of money to purchase.
@@strom51 But somebody took hundreds of hours to write them! And the book industry is struggling already, so the really good stuff that's a bit more challenging to read that a popular fantasy novel might not be published if people don't buy it. Where I live, a movie ticket (even the small arthouse places) is as much as a book. Yet I've never heard anyone use the same argument for the movies ("waste of money").
Also "no time to read" is often just "not up for it" by another name. That's completely fine, don't get me wrong. It's just that anybody who wants to has those few minutes before bed when they could read if they wanted to...
"Having to go for an appointment every few weeks and being an introvert ....." yes ! Totally me !! The idea of looking great with eye lash extensions is what could motivate me but...meeting new people in the saloon every couple of weeks...this is not worth it.
Absolutely love your look today! I'm a 22 year old woman too from England and you inspire me so much ❤️ your style, your home, your ways of life, you're wonderful ❤️ xx
Love the idea of making sure something has a place in your home before buying it, need to try that! We love wall art, but all of it has been made by myself or are pictures of the family too. This was a really helpful video!
We're all different. Different things are important to different people. When my kids were at home there was no way I could afford many of these things anyway. Its about thinking about how you use your money and all your resources wisely in ways that nurture you, those around you and your world. Spending less and making more inspires me. Sending love to you all xx
I also have never gotten a manicure or pedicure in my whole life and I refuse to! I totally 💯% agree with everything on your list except for books and plants. I don't buy actual books though, I buy the digital version.
I’m so glad you’ve switched from k-cups. I remember cringing every time I saw them in your videos because of how awful they are for the environment, but it wasn’t my place to say something.
What are k cups?
Keurig coffee cups. They’re single use single serving plastic coffee things
🙋♀️ same!
I never go to beauty salons! Save so much money!
Never had my hair dyed, Paid for a haircut once in my life (I just have my sister cut my hair).
I don’t drink alcohol or soda either!
My husband also only buys flowers on occasion 3-4 times a year! Flowers are expensive! And they die in a couple days anyways
Been to a movie theater 1 time in my life
fantastic suggestions! Ive been saying this to my Partner about lotto tickets! Also, I have been buying 1 glass container every time I shop to try and build up a good collection. im sick of waisting money on plastic that breaks.
During this quarantine I’ve literally only painted my nails once... it makes you really evaluate what you need/want to spend your time on.
Also a great hack: only buy a base and top coat and use acrylic paint to make custom colours! Saves so much $$ and space
When you said pop I was so confused. But then I realized you were talking about soda
Have you considered cloth diapers? You can get them in usually perfect conditions second hand and are better for the environment.
I’m so inspired to do another de littering and stop purchasing so many more things. I already share a lot of these no-buys with you but you’ve opened up my eyes to so many more!
We are very similar with clothing and accessories! I never wear jewelry, and I wear the same 2-3 pairs of shoes all year round. Simple is the way to go! Loved this video. I've become very much aware of my consumption recently and aim to cut back in all categories.
I basically agree with everything that you said. For me a lot of these decisions come from growing up poor and in small space. The only thing I really wish we could not spend money on is water, but tap water here is horrible, so we have to buy it, but we have reusable bottles for it.
Dasha Kshenskaya have you tried the berkey water filter?? We have one and love it. Our water tastes terrible from the tap also! Even if we used a filter for the refrigerator. But we were sick of buying plastic gallons of water every week and it has by far saved us so much money! ❤️
@@jessicaknizner7773 I'll look into it, thanks! I'm not sure I'll find the exact one here though. The filters that we can get here don't do a great job, the water is really bad (we live in a heavy industrial city, maybe that's why).
We are so similar . I’m a black woman and I do my own hair . I buy skincare , organic and inexpensive . I may spend $50 for a whole year on skincare . I do have Zoya nail polishes because they’re safer . I buy a stash for $50 once every few years (5) , and wear them on special occasions or when I feel to. With kids it washed of fast. Music - Spotify free TH-cam free. Books - free library books on e book versions , cloth diapers and washable sanitary pads for myself also. I soak my own feet and do my pedicure . I cut up my veggies and whatnot and freeze them myself . I dry herbs and make iced teas ! I’m super frugal and I grew up in the Caribbean being that way and it is a good way for myself to live . Skincare items can be the same items you use like those old coffee grinds can be a face scrub ! For me it’s Shea butter , a few oils , a coconut oil soap and if I feel a breakout I use witch hazel ! Makeup - I use it once in a while and I buy organic only . That’s another treat I spend $50 every 2-4 years on. I don’t buy candles ever - I use essential oils , spray bottles and freshen up. I use vinegar in my laundry for fabric softener. Castile soap covers laundry and cleaning . I don’t buy razors I recharge the one I have and sanitize for reusing . Fast fashion sucks too! I like buying clothes every few years and they can last : hence why I wash and air dry my clothing only . I don’t buy plastic shower curtain liners , only washable ones . No dryers .I can go on and on, I love your video ! Thank you
Scams
-water bottles (use tap)
-pads and tampons (use menstrual cup or period panties)
-toilet paper (use a bidet)
-engagement rings (I just hate rings and they're overpriced anyway.)
-subscriptions (piracy isn't that bad, I'm sure disney will survive with its billionaire monopoly)
-dish washers. I swear to god, I cannot put into words my hatred for dish washers. They don't even clean the dishes good. I can wash the dishes better than it and it saves so much time.
Wow, I wrote this before I watched the video. This girl actually got most of these. Nice to see someone else recognizes those scams.
I thought that this video would help me try to find areas in my life where I could budget better. But this list was so specific NOTHING APPLIED TO ME. I also just stumbled upon this video so I have not been following the channel but I also think it offered some specific criticisms to ppl who use the items she no longer buys. So that is just some feedback I wanted to offer.
Yep. I am 32 and look younger than I did when I was into skin stuff in my early 20s. I wear makeup only on special occasions, I wear sunscreen/SPF only on days I actually spend outside, and I don’t wash my face everyday. Maybe every 2-3 days I use a very mild cleanser, and in the Canadian wintertime I have a light moisturizer I use every few days around my eyes/nose/mouth.
I used to have lots of knick knacks around... maybe not even as many or more than the average person but I’ve realized that it all just feels like clutter. Even the things that have meaning at this point! I prefer fewer decor items but like you said, if I do have any decor I try as hard as possible for it to be something functional (hooks with my few purses) or really meaningful, like the shadowbox my late grandfather built. It makes me love my space even more!
Love this! We have been trying to stop get soda, stop buying soda for the house, and stop getting things brand new and thrifting as well! You've actually been a huge inspiration for thrifting and I love seeing all your thrift hauls and seeing your finds. Thanks for this video! I love it!
I love reading, but have only have ever purchased 3 or 4 books total in my life. I firmly believe using your public library.
If you want quality reasonable shoes, crocs are the bomb! I initially had a pair that I wore 95% of days all day for two years before they wore out! I just retired a pair of sandals I've had for 4 years. I haven't quite gotten rid of them because they're not 100% worn but are getting thinned out.
Candles, skincare, books, plants..can't go without..they just make me happy!
I also switched to a menstral cup and love it. I really want to stop buying bottles beverages and eating out as often.
Cloth diapers save us so much money! Nora’s Nursery diapers are cheap and washer/dryer friendly!
We rarely buy paper towels. We use cleaning cloths!
Opening the windows/fans/layers instead of blasting A/C or heat!
We use vinegar and rubbing alcohol in a glass spray bottle mostly to clean!
I ordered some cloth diapers from there! We’re in the process of transitioning, or at least we’re going to try :)
LoeppkysLife I recommend using the bamboo liners with them! That helped us until our girl started eating mostly solids.
Also, I’m so excited that their business is going to get your amazing pictures! 😍
I love dressing modest and finally for the longest time I thought I am the only one who cares, you made me feel so good about myself now, 🙏
You are so pretty! Amazing video; I think it let a lot of people see inside the mind of a "minimalist". One thing, the plastic containers will really come in handy when Eloise is in school (unless you home school, which I think you could totally do). They eliminate so much waste and glass can't always be trusted with littles lol
What do you mean you don't buy lotion? What do you put on your body? Only coconut oil?
You are wise and self-disciplined. We try to quit drinks with added sugar, e.g. fruit juice, sweet tea, soda. It is healthier and help save a lot of money over time.
I love this! Ditto on sooo many of these (almost all of it). Especially the mani's and pedi's thing, it also scares me to sit with a stranger for such a long time while they're touching my hands or feet. 😂
Could you PLEASE make a video about your menstrual cup experience?? I’ve been meaning to transition to it but I’m really hesitant because I’ve only ever used pads in my life and the thought of having to insert something up my body is just 😳
If you’re more comfortable with pads, you can get reusable pads or period underwear! I use a mix of the three
Happily Mikayla Thank you for those recommendations! I hate tampons and having to stick things up my vag during my period. If I could get some reusable pads, it would be sooooo helpful.
Tess Moffett I got a couple of mine off Etsy!
Wow! Never thought I'd find someone so similar to me... i just kept nodding to almost every item on your list!
Ok but how do you live in Canada and not have to wear lotion in the winter
Our skin is used to it. Its windy 90% of the time as well, so I think us Canadians have just adapted to have oilier skin (not in a gross way) to protect it. But I get a dry face during winter so everyone is different
Cannot disagree more. I’m Canadian and have eczema, therefore, I need to moisturize daily if not my hands bleed.
agree with all these things.....except the books.........I love to smell them esp old ones, I go to library for most of my books but those wonderful favorites I need in my home and I even use them to decorate
you can always buy books at the thrift store and or even at yard sales!! it’s the best!! one thing my parents did was make my own books out of paper and stable it together
Gifts: of course there is always some cost (mostly time) to homemade gifts, but I try to make majority of the presents I give. I makes gift-giving extra special for me and I hope the gifted also appreciate it
Thank you for mentioning that you are a Christian woman! I am too, but I find it hard to find people on the internet who align with my views. I am slowly dipping my toe into the sustainable lifestyle so I’m excited to have you as an influence!
There's a lot of stuff on your list that I don't buy as well. Unfortunately bottled and canned soda is non negotiable because it is all my husband will drink. I've seriously considered investing in a soda machine like at the gas station to save money in the long run.
I so appreciate you sharing about modest clothing. That’s something I’ve been wanting to do recently and you’ve given me the courage to do so!
I pretty much agree and already kinda do almost everything you mentioned. My husband loves books so he still buys those and I get them for him as gifts since they make him so happy. Luckily, he rereads books so it's not a complete waste. We also have this one brunch place we absolutely love near us so we splurge on breakfast every once in a while but besides that, we're pretty similar to your lifestyle
Save money, live better is the life motto 💰✨
I don’t buy paper towels anymore! Instead, I bought reusable napkins on Etsy and I have a “Kliin” reusable and compostable absorbant napkin for any mess in the house🙂
I actually agree with every one of these 50 items! I may have a problem with buying too many books.... but I love a good book. I'm always reading. so it's valuable to me
I know it doesn’t help much with the saving money part but there are compostable k cups... more expensive but if you are a sleep deprived parent of a newborn it may be worth it. I will eventually go back to using a press when I have more spare time and free hands 😆 You are right that it does not taste as fresh from a k cup
P.s. I love your channel!
Hair cuts! I cut my hair and my husband’s hair. It took a bit of trial and error but saves us so much money!! Also rags instead of paper towels. We still will keep paper towels in the house but mainly use rags and it saves lots of money.
Love this list! We do all pictures on our walls except for things that were given to us. We got a painting from my grandparents and it is so special after we bought our first house.
Love all your ideas for not only saving money but our environment. I understand since you have very young children not having time to read but reading and self care/time is very important to moms too so maybe download a book or go to library and put aside a little time for you :) I also don't like cut flowers but will go into my own yard and find, even pretty "weed" type plants to bring into the home at times, soy candles are healthier if wanting a candle but I agree essential oils are nice too.
Shout out for menstrual cups! Also, I can see those eyelashes from here so no extensions needed lol
So true about the coffees I dont drink them but my husband does. It would be awesome to just make from home cuz yes sometimes it doesnt turn out at a fast food place
Wow finally someone like me I don't need all this stuff life's to short
i found some of these useful and i think i can implement this into my life, thank you for sharing what works for you and allowing us to take something from it :)
Is saying pop a Canadian thing? I'm originally from Kansas and everyone says pop! But whenever I go somewhere else I get made fun of for not saying soda 😂
I think it’s typically a Canadian thing!
It's a Midwestern thing. I'm from Northern Midwest and everyone says "pop" here. :) My husband is southern and laughs every time I say it since they say "soda" or "coke".
@@whatonearth394 my grandma is from the south so my mom always calls it coke too! It will forever be pop to me 😂
Not just a midwestern thing I’m from
Missouri and say pop, my husband is from Wisconsin and says soda. We live in Maryland now and they mostly say soda
Hey Hanz in the south everything is “coke” ahahhha
So glad I’m watching this! I need to change my spending lifestyle very much to help save money and want to do it young! Thank you for this and some inspiration! Also the homemade baby food sounds awesome to try!
If you don’t want magazine subscriptions you can get the ”pressreader” app. Log in with your local library card and you’re good to go and can read magazines and newspapers etc from all over the world.
Hi! We're somehow different when it comes to things to own or to buy (books, plants, etc.) but I still enjoyed watching your video until the end. 🧡 This is the first time I watched your video and I found myself giving a thumbs up and instantly subsrcibed to your TH-cam channel. 🧡 I love how you were just being yourself and I can't believe you're already a mother or have a family! You look so young! I look forward to more of your videos. 🧡
Notification gang ♥️ thanks for sharing these helpful tips with us!
So good to know I am not the only one! Besides books that I love and coffee that I don’t drink! We are pretty similar. 💖 God bless your heart.
I totally agree about the books being a waste of space! Which is why I borrow ebooks from my local online library, it’s amazing. But Spotify is a must for me! I listen to music and podcasts daily, I couldn’t imagine not having music streaming, I’m a student so it’s only $5 a month!
You should get Fracture to sponsor you - they print pictures onto glass
Okay dude I work at Gap and the fact that you said it’s cheap and part of the fast fashion industry blows my mind. I have a 50% employee discount and I still can’t afford to buy anything.
Antique jewelry is so so dainty and delicate and I love it.
I can't believe somebody is so simmilar to me!! Like all 50 points, match, match! Greetings from mommy living in Japan 🐾
Haha the plastic containers!!! I recently have gotten so mad Stu them my husband thinks it's hilarious. Im so over it. And not just the containers but sandwich bags too. I've been slowly switching to glass containers and cloth snack bags if i even need them.
I switched to all glass and I love them!
How did you deal with postpartum without pads? I thought moms need them, I was thinking about those reusable ones.
Wiewiórka o świcie those she probably needed.
You bleed for a very long time after giving birth, and it’s much blood 🩸... don’t think you could use reusable ones through that time..
@@diemeckerei3021 Thank you!
@@diemeckerei3021 I only used disposable pads for the first couple of days I was in hospital, at home I only used cloth pads and they worked very well. Everyone's different
We bought this refillable cup for Kcup and it’s convenient if you don’t feel like brewing coffee.
I can relate with the clothing. I only wear black white or gray. My outfits are so easy to pick and buy
So as someone who is almost 17 I can honestly find this super useful i guess. I can see ways to save money as I get into college and past that living my own life with my boyfriend. Thanks for the very useful tips and insight for me to use in the future! I love your honesty and just great help! Your honestly are such a huge inspiration to me ! ( I hope this doesn’t weird 😂) 👍❤️
I am a ftm so I watched your previous videos and I'm hooked! 7 weeks into pregnancy and I love watching everything you post. Btw you don't need make up or enhancements. ♥
You just gained another subscriber!! Love this video! SO excited you popped up in my suggested list!! 😄
ALSO if you don't have one uploaded yet, could you do a video on the toys you use for your kiddos and why? I definitely agree that plastic flashy toys are no bueno, but I don't so much know how to explain it to somebody else!
So with fast fashion. how do you do that with kids like say you have family members that want to buy clothes or gifts for your kids? I am wanting to be more mindful and live more sustainable and I am trying to get as much information as possible.