A Survivor Story: Guerry Glover
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- Guerry shares his story of child sexual abuse, to provide a deeper understanding of the experience of survivors.
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Eddie Fischer is now known to almost 28,000 more people because of your strong testimony.
I can hear such pain in voice still. So sad. He's having trouble even finishing a sentence about it.
He still seems almost speechless
I agree... He is choking on his words it seems.
Uncomfortable
True. His speech still seems guarded.
And making excuses for why he couldn’t stop the abuse. As if he had a choice. I feel for him
Have you anything to say besides a smear of sarcasm? And that done for some thumbs up from fellow smirkers...another form of darkness to a survivor. Say something nice, can you?
Guerry, wow...thank you. Our stories are so similar. My attacker was the band director. 1979-80. The US Supreme Court read the case in the 0ct.'88 term. Kids should have the right to attend school in safety. Lotta good that did. It was sent back down through the system. He was hired in my small hometown after a neighboring district fired him for the same cruel behaviors, which they knew about pre-hire. He was given just probation, responsibility for SOME court costs which he did NOT pay & community service - which HE got to choose for himself. He chose to give private music lessons which is where his abuse began with me. Thirty-eight yrs later, he gets arrested yet again, just this March past. His arrest photo was in my hometown paper. But, I think he must be a free man bc his bail was only $75,000, which means he had to post only $7,500 to get out. Easy for him, he opened a music store to sell instruments & the like & to also give private lessons in order to fulfill his community service. He never stopped in all these decades even though I was not the only one who sued. And, our justice system hasn't stopped him either, thanks to Covid-19. He's been free as long as we have been on lockdown. Sounds eerily familiar. If anybody sees this, & cares, plz pray for justice. Isn't it past time?
I think the government BACKS pedophiles.
Talk about a failed justice system.
What and why do these schools and churches keep these Degenerates around and given unending chances? Are they also guilty of the same perhaps?
You can live the rest of your life knowing that your bravery has helped heal the other victims and you have been a savoir of the potential victims of his. I wish you all the best in life 💖
Hope you are able to heal from what this evil monster did to you and your friends. I felt the same way after my brother molested me. You are a hero to tell and try to stop him!
Guerry still cannot express fluently the magnitude of the evil doing from all those adult monsters.
I had a boyfriend who was molested by a coach when he was young. It affected his whole life
Good on you for fighting for your rights and the rights of others. You are amazing.
Sir: Thanks for your courage to come out and tell your story. You have our respect.
And thank you for all you did to free others who were abused by this man. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Thank you for your bravery to take on this mammoth. Society as a whole puts this kind of man on a medestal, and they attack anyone who breaks their illusion. You were up against a community. May there be more people like you in the world. Peace and love.
Your testimony is amazing. I also was victimized as a child, told the right person, who in turn did nothing. As a survivor I found myself exposing abuse of others throughout my life. At first they resented the exposure. Later they thanked me. It’s a terrible thing for anyone to deal with. These sins can be justly brought into the light by the weak and the brave alike. Sometimes justice prevails! God bless you and those who endured and escaped the damaging influences of this man.
... Because as he is speaking it's causing him to relive, feel those years of abusive emotions all over again.
I can't even watch this no more I'm sick to my stomach at only three minutes into the video.. please what is going on in this world..
Thank you💔💗😞 your story is helping so many people understand what a child and as a adult now go through,stay strong, Prayers for you continuously❤
You can see the pain on his face and hear the pain in Gerry 's voice.
I am sorry Guerry suffered as long as he did. I am hopeful his life is filled with happiness and love. I spit on Eddie Fischer (although he is not living...thank goodness) and the school. Very best wishes Guerry.
This should be a wake up call to many parents to watch out for those wolves who pretend to be helpful to children when they are secretly doing disspeakable activities with these children and ruin their lives forever. It is even worse when it is done by the "parent , "who is supposed to protect these children. I have not experienced this kind of pain but I respectfully admire adult as well as children who come out and speak about their painful experiences. It is not easy to come out and tell the world such a story but you do. You are heroes. Your stories help many people around the world. May God give you total healing as he has given you courage.
So sad this happened to you - Guerry You deserved better.
I am so glad you have come to realize the sly manipulation of this monster. Let any guilt go, because you were truly trapped. They use every trick they can think if, and come up with more as time goes by. They always make you think it's your fault. I am glad you broke free. And have helped save more from such a fate. That is bravery. You are a true hero.
Mr. Glover, you are very brave! Thank you for sharing your story, as hard as it is to do so 🙏🏼 Fellow survivor.
Guerry, I'm sorry it took so long for someone to hear you and believe you. But you were brave and kept telling until they did. God Bless You. 🦋
Why are so many parents so damn naive... I blame the parents totally...You are the parent and you should never trust your children around anyone and not let oldest kids be around your small children period.
Where was this mans FATHER???
💔no words. So terribly heart wrenching
Thank you for sharing!! Super brave!!
I hope you have freedom, you truly deserve it!!💕
I hope he is healing every day!
Thank God for the Strength God have You to come Forward and keep at it Until Someone listened
So much ❤️ to you. I'm sorry that happened to you.
Hope others will count themselves extremely blessed to have not gone through what this brother went through, I have such a heart for the youth, beings they took us, four of us children away from my pop and mama, long story but The LORD in the meantime saved my mom and she Prayed us All into the kingdom and even my pop got saved before he passed away, our LORD Yahweh is so very good to All. Bless You and All who had a hard life as children.
I swear to Jesus. If anyone touches my boy, it will not be pretty.
We all need to stand up against all forms of child abuse. It’s gone on way too long.
I’ve watched this so many times I’ve lost count. I wish to God (knowing it will never happen) I could spend an afternoon talking to this guy 😢
Dreadful situation for youngsters.
Heartbreaking. I'm so sorry what you have been through. I don't know what to say. It's so evil.
The trauma is still so vivid. I hope to god you find peace with yourself because you have done nothing wrong. Sending 🙏
How on gods earth so many adults where protecting a child predator for so long&dont do nothing is just beyond me!! They are equaly responsible for protecting a monster like that!! Shame on them, theres a speacial place for all of them called hell!God bless this good&strong man! 🙏
Brave man.
God will restore the full dignity of all survivors and punish the abusers.
It is only a matter of time. I am praying for you every day. 🙏🏻
Children do not have the language. It’s trauma
About 1978 someone (this person will probably always live in fear) warned me to stay away from a Menlo Park gymnastics coach. The only reason I'm typing this, is the above video. He may still be working with kids or teens. 2018.
So very sorry for what you went through. I’m an incest survivor, I get it. At 5 or any age a child just can’t deal with what is happening to them. It’s too complex. 🙏
That “teacher/groomer” and school should be sued.
1975.
Rural community.
Cultural ethos very, very different.
No internet, no social media.
These stories all over the place, sadly.
My mother was raped as a school girl, and no one in her family even believed her.
Also why didn’t the parents put two and two together about Fisher! If this guy is supposed to “help” your child but he’s going from bad to worse. I would start looking at him! Helloooooo!
The father of the young man ...knew
Fischer should've gone straight to jail, not simply been fired! And then to be hired elsewhere! So aggravating! A known predator being passed on to be someone else's problem! The poor boys! :'( Someone was definitely in on the abuse, as in participating, not just turning a blind eye.
The hurt in his eyes and the pain in his voice is so loud 😢 I’m so sorry this happened to you.
It seems his parents were totally tuned out about him. I can't believe he's been drinking and his dad doesn't say anything? He's getting bad grades, again don't say what's going on? Talk to me. Asking other people to solve this kids problems? Don't take him or pick him up from rehab? Let someone else do it? Really strange. That's your kid. You can't go to a school and expect them to do anything. They will cover to keep scandal away from the school. That's millions of dollars. They hide it. He is extremely brave.
So brave!!
It makes my blood boil, when you get other people saying, "why didn't you say something", "why didn't you tell on him" etc, etc, etc.
Some (many people more than I'd like to think), are so bloody judgemental. How about they walk in his shoes for a day and then make a comment - I bet it would be a different judgement all together.
You are a stronger man than him.
Sue the school.
When it happens to males by other males that's got to be the most damaging.
How so?
Hay Arya .....It’s damaging to anyone, it’s plainly wrong to do. Not to anyone ever.
I don't understand why you would make a statement like this. It's less damaging when a father molests his own daughter?
Not so at all. The female is more than double the victim as she’ also has to worry about potentially carrying a child as a result of the horrific abuse. And it’s incredibly damaging to her soul as it would be to anyone. Just wrong and evil to do to anyone.
@@minnie7700 That sounds like my situation. My father, or biological grandfather prior to adoption, did from the time I was four or five up until he died, when I was twenty seven. That was a year ago and there are times I breakdown.
I just recently started talking about it to my adopted and biological mothers. I wish I spoke sooner, but the fear of him and what he'd do kept me back.
The school should be held accountable. How do you hire a teacher that just got fired for molesting a child. They should be sued. His parents were absent
EXACTLY. They must all be punished. The parents as well.
Amen!
Mr. Glover, I have the strength to listen to the women's story, their stories are so much like my own, but as I began to hear your story strength left me, my heart immediately broke, and my eyes filled with tears. I do pray you will know that there are women like me who admire you and never lose respect for you, and for all men no matter what their lives become, we always love and always believe in you all.
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Absolutely
Thank youuuu!!! I've been needing to hear a woman say that for YEARS! Many men are hurting too...but your the first woman to ever have empathy for us. Thank you thank you thank you.
Hi Guerry, My name is Betsy & l too was assaulted as a child, but not by a teacher, but by my eldest brother, 7 & a half years my senior. I was 5 & l cried & screamed & begged my mother for help, but she denied my reality & the rapes continued for 8 years, until he left for college. It took me until my late 20s to self destruct enough to get therapy & admit what had happened to me.
You tell your story with such awareness, it's obvious you've done a lot of work to heal. My heart goes out to you & all the boys that this man disregarded & disrespected in order to feed his sickness. I worry for children a great deal because l know that pedophiles are rampant everywhere in this world & l pray that we will find a way to stop the cycle.
I'm so sorry that you endured his abuse & wish you every possible good, as well as healing. Love to you & all of the boys that survived him.
Happened to my brother and to the day, he is a recovering alcoholic with a lot f issues. God bless him.
The school administrators need to pay too. Why aren’t they in jail?
@Isis Antelo. These pedophiles are organized. Maybe all the administrators were in on it.
There should be NO talking to schools and churches about a pedophile !!! When anyone hurts a child CALL LAW ENFORCEMENT !!!!!
A child does not have the bravery to go to a cop. They should be able to trust the school or someone in the church.
I say get a few together and give the creep a severe dose of reality for what he done, then deal with the cops later, because i doubt you would get the chance again. But that was Guerry's story and what a story it was, what a wonderful man Guerry is! I absolutely admire his courage and endurance to come all the way through it.
@@RBLong0928 I mean parents. A principal or a priest are not law enforcement. They should not be making any decisions about what to do to a pedophile. Only law enforcement.
@@RBLong0928 molliemollie wasn't suggesting the CHILD go to the police. She's saying the PARENTS need to report it to the police since schools are known to hide sexual predator teachers or coaches.
Law enforcement is no help. They are are pedophiles as well and are in the perfect position to turn a blind eye to other pedophiles or give the bastards a slap on the wrist
My thing is why would a school let a teacher like that into another school , knowing what he has done at the previous school putting more kids at risk
This man is a walking billboard for if an adult takes an unusual interest in your child’s life then something is not right about that. This is 100% no exceptions.
Yes, but it also severely taints the intentions of adults who are looking to mentor kids, too. I clicked with a kid at a residential where I worked. He was so broken and just wanted connection, so we talked a lot. We played video games during free time and I would talk to him a lot in the common area. I'd take him to the horse barn for therapy. There was NEVER EVER a thought of inappropriate behavior on either end (he's gay...) But someone started spreading rumors that we were sexually involved (which made no sense because we were never alone, always other staff around and cameras). It got me fired, despite it just being nasty rumors spread by a staff who didn't like me.
@@christinag.7801 It's not normal for an adult non parent to take too much interest in a child. At all.
@@cheril8891 It depends. There is unhealthy interest, and there is focused interest. Coaches take a focused interest in kids who are going to excel in their sport. Tv producers take a focused interest in kids who are going to sell their product. In that context, 'too much interest' is seen as producting their investment and helping the child to succeed.
Unhealthy interest is NOT the same thing, consistently requesting time alone, or 'secrets' or persistent physical contact, or inappriopiate conversations etc.
Bottom line is I don't think taking an interest in seeing a young student do well who came from a troubled background and helping them as they deal with things in life is wrong.
Of course, when a machine is invented that can read minds to determine whether an adult has sexual interest in children, then we can use that.
@@cheril8891 I don't think so, often people that could not or ended up not having children and maybe don't have any nephews, especially elderly people, really like to be around kids. I've seen it with my eyes, my aunt became close friend with this man who lived alone with his mom and use to leave my cousin there overnight, and sometimes me and my sister too. My aunt didn't have much money at the time and worked a lot, the man was a real angel he bought my cousin toys that she couldn't have had otherwise and he and his mom were the kindest people ever. But I completely get what you're saying, I think there's much more consciousness nowadays about how widespread sexual assault is, so even though nothing happened and I have the sweetest memories of that house, now that I'm grown it really shocks me that my aunt and especially my mom that barely knew the guy (my aunt's family lived in a different city) allowed us to just stay there overnight, so many bad things could have happened. No way I'm taking those kinds of risks if I'll have children. Even though exceptions exist is definitely not worth taking the risk considering that the whole life of a harmless kid could be completely ruined. My boyfriend told me that a (male) friend of his brother offered to babysit his kids (3 and 5 years old) for free. No matter how close that friend of mine is I'm not leaving my 5 years old kid with a man who's not family or a professional on a weekly basis, and even for a professional I will always pick a woman (yes women can do it too but is FAR less common so lest's not be hypocrites). Especially if a child is 3 years old and can barely talk I'd be EXTRA careful, they're extremely vulnerable. Saving some money is not worth potentially ruining your kid's life
@Bubbles Butterfly It's one thing to have an interest in that child to succeed, where the adult holds themselves accountable and is in communication to the parents, etc. It's another to have interest and take them to locations privately after school activities, alone. There's a difference and parents need to be vigilant.
As one human to another, I’m so impressed with your bravery and courage. You are a warrior, Guerry! Thank you for your story.
What an amazing, beautiful strong man I am so grateful you made it and so sorry for your pain. Unbelievable to hear the monster followed you to your next school. You are a remarkable man.
❤...love and strength to you....you are amazing!!
So many children have been treated like this and it seems so common. It is such a crime.
This became a huge scandal, and Guerry is a brave man.
I’m amazed at the failure of adults in these stories. Why on God’s green earth after learning Fisher was a pedophile fire him! He’s a sick dude send him to prison! Call law enforcement are you kidding me?
So true&so sad! 😪
I feel so sorry for this poor man, This is a classic example of what has happened to so many people and had their lives ruined.
The moment we enact Zero Tolerance for pedophiles, so much SUFFERING and substance use would be unnecessary!!!
Exactly. It's like is society gonna start giving these monsters the what they deserve??
Wow! Thanks for sharing. After so much pain having the courage to be open and help so many it is amazing. We all need to be aware in protecting the children around us.
I cried listening to your story. I'm so very sorry that pretty much EVERYONE failed you. Please go have a good life. You deserve everything good to happen for you now. I hope you find peace.
why do adults turn a blind eye to helpless children.most children are so pure and beautiful.
because they are cowards
Veronica Morgan Because they are often secretly abusers themselves. Glass houses.
I think they are scared they will get the wrong person in trouble and ruin their lives, and thevabusers family life. So if they deny it, there is no trouble, no change in the status quo.
They're weak and selfish. They don't want to rock the boat. The Boomers have betrayed us.
ALL children are pure and beautiful
This man's parents are equally responsible for his plight, how could they not see their son was having serious issues?
Stop blaming the parents !!
Barbie who else is there to blame aside from the abuser???
It is astonishing how many times his parents let him down, didn't protect him, and kept handing him back to the abuser. And that school needs to be shut down.
Barbie: His parents were IMO...lazy and put way too much trust in the abuser/sexual predator, school and teachers. With that said, I want to know what drugs and or alcohol were the parents doing all these years? Any parent in their right mind would see their child’s suffering.
Parents concentrate on the other (good) kids
My love to you, Mr. Glover. My father molested six of my sisters. I had a big mouth and would blurt things out, so I think that's why I was not molested. He only beat me to near unconsciousness on a regular basis. Once, for two or three tense moments, he put his pistol to my forehead. He cocked it. We stared at each other for what seemed like eternity and I could see my death in the reflection of his eyes. I could clearly see him struggling with his desire to pull the trigger, probably thinking "jail" or "prison" holding him back. His eyes were jet black, his face was beet red. My mother intervened and that's the only reason I'm still alive. I was 11 years old. You see, he wanted a boy and I was the last child born, a girl. In retrospect, I sometimes think had he pulled the trigger I would have been much better off. He was an animal, perverted and angry.
You saw an open window into his soul.
I hope it taught you something,
and that you have gone far
on your Journey of Self-Discovery.
Best wishes, Zen
Thank God you are still here with us and May God hold your heart and bring you all the way through this to the other side. 🥲
Well done Guerry. You make so much sense.
We need to change the name from sexual abuse to something more telling. Abuse sounds tame for the outcome that victims endure. What people who haven't been victimized don't know is that being sexually victimized once or over and over has life altering effects on EVERYTHING. Imagine a glass vase filled with pebbles. Fill that vase with water. Every surface of every pebble is touched by water. That's what sexual abuse does to a victim's life. It touches, alters, changes, breaks, ruins and devastates everything you are and were. The damage is so encompassing that it leaves a shell of a person behind. I'm sorry this happened to you Guerry. You were robbed of your childhood AND your adulthood just because someone thought that what they wanted was more important than your life and soul. I'm 63 and my life is a train wreck due to a pedophile. I hope you find resolution in knowing that you did the right thing and stopped him and I hope you find yourself. ♥️
More like acid not water. But genuinely life altering.
Beautiful said....the terminology needs to be changed. It's a living hell. It changes everything. I'm so sorry you have endured this sick abuse. My freaking heart....
That sounds like such a horrific set of circumstances & experiences that I'm amazed that he got through it. Not only survived but looks to have built a stable & productive life. & look at how hard he fought for other potential victims. Incredible.
That teacher was from hell.
I'm so proud of your for coming forward. You saved dozens of other boys and YOU ARE A HERO
Guerry I can hear the pain in ur words. I'm not gonna say what should of happened different or how people should of helped, because u already know that. But hey ur stronger then ever helping those who might be going threw the same thing. Helping others is wat really makes a difference. I'm glad u let the beach ball go....
Guerry, at 9 years old You were still a baby, forgive Yourself, You are love by GOD, the drinking was to excape the madness, it is a suicidal spirit, but GOD wants You to live and help others, Pray, study Your bible and love Your enemies. And let GOD deal with enemies. Be at peace, Shalom !
Jesus... that poor boy didn’t stand a chance
Parents, YOU and only YOU are responsible for the well-being of your child. If your child has issues then you seek help, but YOU need to be the source of help to implement that. You should supervise those around them. Especially if you child begins to act out. Then something is seriously wrong. And you don't pass that issue on to others to deal with. Maybe they were naive. But you have to know they were not connected to their child's emotional well-being. Out of touch is a very dangerous place to be with your kids. Sexual predators can see and sense that a mile away and they prey on that. Know what grooming is and teach your children how the predators work. Also helping your child to have healthy self esteem and clear boundaries, this will protect them. And them knowing that if someone hurts them in anyway they are not responsible and they can come to you for protection. And you will help them deal with it. And dont just end the abuse but help and validate the child. PLEASE STAY IN TOUCH WITH THEM DAILY.
I feel like women deal with fear of not being believed or killed, and men deal with fear of those things, AND being seen as gay, or worse, people thinking you are sexually attracted to kids.
It's unreal how the world coddles pedophiles smh like why??!!
I won't forgive and I can't forget. I hate the person who abused me and I hate my mothet for protecting him. It has damaged me, however I'm a survivor. I'm stronger then they are and always will be. I have Morales, something they never had and never will have.
Girl you are the type of person i know that great things will happen and maybe are happening in ur life now. Gods always with you and im not this amazing Christian girl but believing is seeing. When u ask God for guidance i know from experience he hears you. So my sweet Amy Evens,you are brave and i know from reading a paragraph of yours i would def love 2 be your friend. Good luck my friend. Keep being a brave survivor. Love you girl.
@@rachelroark2341 Thank you.
through this pain , look at the healer you are, bless you
@@plutonicfireball1559 Thank you for your kindness. You have given me a fresh perspective a new way of looking at myself in that way. For a long time I've just been a survivor but I've always wanted to find a way to start living. Peace, Love and Health to you, your family and your friends.
Dear sister, please don't allow hate to rule your life. Your anger is righteous, and it often protects us during times of crisis...for a time. Then, it begins to destroy you. By allowing the hate that was transferred from your abuser onto you, you are allowing him to continue to control your life. Forgiveness is not about excusing the evil behavior that was done to you. It is about setting yourself free from the chains of anger, resentment, and hurt. Anger is a surface emotion, and it covers up what is really there: hurt, frustration, betrayal, sadness. I am a survivor as well, and I promise you that your anger is keeping you from TRULY connecting and loving others. You may think that you are OK, but if you're still angry, you will never find peace. My anger destroyed my life for many years. I am currently watching it happen to my beloved niece, who hates her mother so much that she doesn't trust anyone, she drinks heavily, and she pushes away the people who love her the most. When we invite her to come and just hang out with us, she becomes angry, thinking that we're "guilt-tripping" her for not seeing us often enough, so she hurts when given love! We tell her that an invitation is not a guilt trip; it's simply an invitation! But her rage toward her mother has become rage and distrust of the entire world. Please understand that I am saying this with loving concern. Unchain yourself from the anger. Don't let him win. I love you and I hope you at least think about what I've said.
Guerry Glover, what a good man you are to have gone to lawyer, Gregg Myers, to start working for equal consideration and justice for all young people who were abused--and stopping others from becoming among the already abused. That was very brave and decent of you.
your bravery and courage surely saved a child (if not many) from the same fate. Thank you for sharing
God Bless you! I feel your pain! I can hear it in your voice...big hug to you!
I am so deeply inspired by this man's courage.
I can tell you are still so full of pain and thankful you survived and are sharing this. I am a middle school teacher who grew up innocent and protected, loved, all that, and realize I am so naïve about these things. As a mom, I’ve tried to pay attention & protect my own children but think how easily these awful things still happen to kids. I’ll protect my students anyway I can.
You're so brave and strong to be telling your story. I'm so sorry and so angry that this happened to you. I truly believe that the monster who hurt you, and those like him, are worse than murderers.
Tmarie PI that’s why convicted murders kill them in prison.
Seems odd to me that fathers don't sit their sons down and explain to them what to do if a man tries to engage them in sex. AND teach them how to fight, defend themselves. Case after case it's always some sweet submissive polite-do-the-right-thing child getting abused. They should be taught it's okay to be *rude* to any man that does things like that. Lots of kids don't defend themselves or fight because their parents teach them that fighting is wrong. It IS but not if it's against a man getting sexual with them, that becomes defending yourself. I'd give my son permission to slug any man that did that to him, teacher, coach or whatever.
R I g h t .
That’s what I teach my son. Scream. Shout. Bite. Be rude. No one touches you!
🌿Thank you, Sir, for your courage, and for being such a beautiful person, a beautiful man! May your story encourage many others who see your video, to speak up asap, if they're experiencing something like you experienced, or something similar. You're absolutely right, sparing "EVEN ONE" person from abuse, makes a HUGE DIFFERENCE. And you were...and ARE...that difference!
Yahweh, God Mightily Bless You in your life. And all of those you Love as well. In Yeshua's Holy Name. Amen.👑
Elise, aka Godgirl
You courageous man. I am so deeply sorry that this happened to you. I have never been through what you have endured, but I am trying to love and support a man who has. Thank you for helping me to understand better. Thank you for sharing your incredibly difficult story. Love from Australia.
You are a hero for stopping this monster. An absolute hero. The people who hid and protected this guy in his crimes bear such guilt. You are one strong guy. If you haven’t found Jesus yet please know that He can heal you completely.
Good Lord how does a child survive such abuse.
He cant finish a sentence
Thank you for sharing your story. I was married to a man who was sexually abused as a child. Unfortunately he never got help and we divorced due to his promiscuous behavior with women. I believe this was to prove his masculinity to himself. Sad.
He should have been in prisoner a lot earlier but you did great.
I can understand and relate so much to this. The predators look for kids that have nice parents. Its like a sixth sense to them.They also look for cracks in families and prey on them. I don't blame you one tiny bit for drinking! I would too. I had a drinking problem later on age 21-26. It was a slow death. But drinking sure helped me get through some serious crap. I am so sorry for your childhood! You have a world of support and empathy. You are helping so many people. You are so brave. A truly beautiful person! PS I love your science project. Thats so awesome!!!
My heart breaks for you and the hell you endured. I hope you can heal.
Well done Sir. You are resilient as hell.
I think lots of times, we see people drinking or taking drugs and we judge them, but we don't realize that often they need to use these substances to ease their pain.
Hi I am proud of you. I was a victim and I am a survivor because God washed away all the hurt and pain. I never got Justice as far as court, however I forgave my abuser and give the person over to God the pain is gone and I am free!!! SO sorry you are still hurting. It was satan who try to tear your life apart. But your still standing. Pray trust God he will heal the pain. Hugs your in my prayers!!
godskidable I can’t really understand how can you forgive a animal like that, my abuser, I just think about him as a animal, because it is not a person.
So where was God when the abuse was happening? He let it happen to an innocent but NOW he'll help? Do you not see an issue with that kind of thinking?
I could forgive, but justice demands punishment. Especially to put these incurables away so they can't hurt anyone else. I will say, if anyone touches my granddaughter, God Himself won't be able to save their life.
Yes. Only GOD can and he does
@@debbymccormack6525 God was there. He gave them red flags and they ignored them.