If you say: "If we all go together, we are gona fight" Then you annoy everyone and you end up fighting, you were technically right, but everyone will hate you. Then also, if you go to a theatre, and keep criticising everything, you are annoying. Then theres a thing called a "bias".
meanwhile i’m overly negative and not realistic, i believed i’d fail my english papers and i had so much anxiety, and had breakdowns about it. i got the highest score in my grade 💀 i also talk negatively so much that people probably think i’m attention seeking, i just wish i’d be more positive because i’m always positive about others but not myself
Agree, the more mentally mature i am the more vulnerable i am to feelings of hopelessness like there's no point to thinking to the future anymore and that explains my visible escapism like i just don't want to be in the present anymore and develop nostalgia for things that i lived in 2019 like it's the last of the truly great days
I didn't ask to be born into this world - I don't know what comes after. Just in case there's absolutely nothing after life, I wanna see this experience through till the end. Would be a shame not to act like this if it is the only shot I've got.
Stuff like this is why usually keep to myself when it comes to certain issues. I enjoy seeing other people loving life & optimistic no matter how life is hard. I don't want to take that away from them.
On the other hand If we were all on the same page, maybe our attempts to improve would be more likely to succeed. There is strength in unity. Even if the majority hate where they are. Example? The military.
yea, i kinda relate to this a lot, and i used to be so cynical and pessimistic, but i came to realize that not everyone is bad and not everyone will hurt you like those that hurt you. And that even if you are down in a dark pit, u can always find a way out if you try. i find that that mindset stopped me from being motivated and kept me from truly showing my loving nature towards people that i truly love and care about. so whoevers going through rough times and depression, take ur time, breathe, vision yourself free from that stressful situation, work towards it slowly 1 step at a time, and dont be afraid to find comfort from the people who truly loves you and would only want you to succeed. i would not have made it out from this dark pit without the people around me
Oh, that explains a lot. I think one of my favorite things about taking an antidepressant and bring myself out of that depression that I was in is that I can still find the nuggets of truth and logic, but not react to them in such downtrodden and negative way.
Truth tellers punch hole in peoples' facades, and do not engage in the magical thinking that most do. They don't suffer the endemic cognitive dissonance that plagues our society. As a result, they are often demonized and cast out of peer groups, looked down upon by family, and labeled derogatory names by those in charge. They often say what needs to be said when no one else is capable and often pay the price for saying it. We also know that this is a losing battle. No wonder we're depressed.
Dang, it’s true though, when you point out the truth to people there’s a good chance they ain’t gonna like it, even if you told them for their own good, it’s pretty harsh
I came to this realization fairly early on and is why I live by mottos, one of which being “Patience is a virtue”. People often aren’t going to realize I’m right and I have to wait for them to realize.
Yes! And then you have some negative core beliefs (like going to hell for being gay as example) and that twists everything to a bad thing, instead of looking at the positive things of reality.
And people say that depressed people are just being negative when they're just being cautious. Thinking nothing good will happen to them afterwards after being good for so long. And anime makes their reputation worst, somehow.
@@AfterthymeGaming and also if someone (like me) thinks that just bad things will happen then if something actually good happens only those who have suffer from disorders like this can feel the happiness at that point
I was like that, then I accepted complete and total defeatism. Now no more stress, anxiety, tension, or constant exhaustion. My worries and outlook on life is meaningless, I live to live and nothing more. No striving, but no struggling either; it set me free.
No life goals, sorta means your life is useless, as you wont change anything. 1 thing is not caring about meaningless stuff like getting rich or pointless society norms, but not caring about art, people, happiness means your no diffrent then dead.
@@EdinoRemeridonah he’s just figured it out. When nothing you do has an affect on the world. Everything you do ends up mattering to you and not others and therefore you’re mentally free. You have to read the words
@@Adama.1feeling nothing at all in some cases might be better than constant suffering worry and anxiety. Art of indiffrence to the point where one is as you said "living like dead" is usually a form of escapism and the longer you can maintain the "no thanks" viev on this the better for you
I have been going through this depressed realization from age 14 itself. It was really the lonelist journey i have ever been through😢. But today it made me to be self aware, improving problem predictions and solutions to it😊. Dont sit back and waste your life in sadness, instead fight back the depression , so that realization will come to you eventually after some hard experiences💪🦾💟
If it's someone you were in love with, it'll hurt regardless of if you cry or not. For me, it fills me with anger at them for hurting me and myself for trusting them. I still despise those who hurt me after lying to my face about how much they cared about me.
@@Adventist1997I have never experienced a feeling of crush or love. What is it like? I don't get why people drop everything that they're doing and focus on just one girl.
@@henloisiyu Actual love can be platonic or romantic. If you have a sibling that care about and want to help and stuff, that's true love. A romantic partner is a similar love but obviously involving extra feelings for them. Those feelings can easily be confused with lust rather than love.
@@EdinoRemerido There is not a single ruler in existence with the will AND ability to change things for the better. Due to the dominant ignorance of the masses, people are extremely easy to manipulate toward one political opinion, and it's usually the ones screwing the world up the most that gain the greatest traction. Acts of kindness are fleeting and short-lived, and ultimately meaningless when no real change is brought about. Life is a constant cycle of agony and temporary resolution, as it is the law of the world that matters always return to the worse, because human society is not built to be sustainable. There will always be significant differences in people's socioeconomic situations, and those with the most wealth look to secure their dominance. There are a great number of smaller-scale issues that people suffer from, from rough social life to questions of identity. And the world at large is coldly indifferent to these issues, rejecting questions in favour of authoritative assertions of status quo. I am the type of person this video talks about. I am the kind of person who would agree with the necessity of the abhorrent morals of Thanos and Eren. The world is broken, dysfunctional and in favour of those fitting its pre-defined mold, and the only way to fix it would be to deny the human nature. But nobody in real life would have such power, the means or conviction, and so those living in the shadow of this realization live in darkness, because we know the light is a conditional presence. We surrender to our powerlessnes. You wanted specific examples? There. The darkness of cold logic - there is no hope to affect the world around us because it is fundamentally broken.
This made me realise how much of a train wreck I am. Almost certainly has ADHD, given myself the terrible gift of p*rn addiction, depressed bordering suicidal and finally the self-hate stops me reaching out...
As someone who has battled depression I believe i gained a tremendous amount of introspective of going through the highs/lows of life and it really made the good days feel good and the bad days well… I learnt eventually to be more positive and I now settle on, “tomorrow is going to be a better day”. I work through my bad days. Try my best to make peace and at ease with the negatives going on in my life. And usually now with that my set, the next day feels like a W!
I battled depression. I convinced myself that live is not all bad and that good things will happen. But reality is they never did happen. Everything is just going downhill and my new found optimism just lead to more failure. Reality is that live is a shitty experience. 1/10.
@@mabus4910 As much as this current experience your are facing sucks ass.. It's very hard joys in life when you feel like everything is going wrong. The biggest thing you need to focus on are getting some small win's and starting alot of emphasis on them.
@@bh_92-k4tour entire society is built on delusion. Believing in a better tommorow i'd say is less delusional that believing in being rewarded after death by a father nobody Has ever seen. If it helps them go on through the day i'd say that its a healthy mindset to have.
I can often see when somebody speaks out of emotion instead of logic. They make up the logic, because they want to advocate for a certain thing. But the emotion was there first, and is the driving force.
@Adaobi-luv8_ If the emotion is the driving force, every bit of prossecuted logic will be biased. But if my statement is true or not, it shouldn't have much of an interference, since we, as humans, will continue to say, chat and act towards our own preference/convenience/happines, unless you transcend you humanity or idk
@@psychoduck4264 yea it is biased, but I’m saying that emotion is the motivation. Like you did it a certain thing because you wanted to not just cause you have to.
@@Adaobi-luv8_ Hmm, that does fits reality a little more, but tell me, what would be the difference on having emotions as driving force and being self-aware or not being self aware? Both ways you are just being guided by emotions, since they will have the major weight on decision taking, thx for explaining tho
@@psychoduck4264 when you’re self aware, you tend to make decisions where you think abt the goal, consequences, and process before you actually do anything. When you’re not self aware, you make spontaneous decisions without thinking it through until after it has happened.
As a psychologist, I think in such cases Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) might be more useful instead of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). In CBT you are trying to change the thoughts. In ACT you learn psychological flexibility (among others)
Being a depressed, autistic girl, its soooo important to keep a balance between cynicism and positivity, while still remaining open to new friends and true to your boundaries of not accepting abusive ones. Especially when everyone knows you're the best therapist, but keep in mind reciprocity and if they wont help that in return, you dont have to always be the hero for someone who wont treat you with the same kindness and love. Edit: 3:56 talks about balance
@mikicerise6250 oh it certainly is and I find myself not listening half the time 😅 but growth isn't linear and that's okay! Working on yourself takes time ❤️
I already knew I was overcoming my depression. This video helped me understand that I have been naturally intelligent since I started to have therapy to recover from my trauma. All strength to everyone dealing with any sort of trauma! We can do this!
As someone who has had depression before, as well as having CPTSD and being an AuDHDer, My default existence is partly-closed looking eyes, a sombre resting expression, and a low, matter of fact voice. I also happen to be goth, and this all tends to make people think I’m depressed occasionally. But I am not. Rather, I dress in dark garb as respects to those taken before their time, known to me and otherwise, the world over. I am at peace with the less rose tinted area of reality. I suppose that’s sort of the inverse to this: while no longer depressed, I can be quite insightful and deep at times, which I suspect is because I still retain that manner of seeing the entirety of the picture, good and bad in equal measure. Because that’s life. And that’s okay. TLDR; it’s fine to simply be objectively minded at times, instead of creating false hopes or needless worries.
Yes I am depressed, but that doesn't mean I don't want the world be to a happy place. Keep being happy and do what you can to better future generations to live longer and create things for our world without harming others or oneself in the process. I'm just depressed cus I'm afraid that world won't happen and it's hard to fight that pain with a smile sometimes. I keep trying to be nice either way.
Hey man. I know what it feels like in some levels. Just know God has a better world planned for you. This world was never meant for people like us in the beginning.
I've definitely seen an increase in self-awareness once depression hit me. I'm not especially good with social cues, but I can explain my rationality and flaws with ease. This also helps when there's a heated argument, I'll think of the facts before flipping out. Not the analytical type however 😅
I think a lot of this is a matter of perspective, like in the “why they failed a presentation” part, the depressed person may have given it everything they had and been perfectly prepared, but genuinely did fail because of bad luck. They would be more likely to attribute their failure to being unprepared, when it may have genuinely been something else. It is basically a question of “am I being realistic or pessimistic?”
I’ve wrestled with depression in the past, and I’ve also been in a place of hyper joy, neither are a good place to be at, but experiencing both definitely give you a balance of reality, and being content of doing your best to make a great outcome in all circumstances and be blessed in it. There’s definitely wisdom to take from it to be able to counsel yourself and help others with the experiences
Hyper joy isn’t a bad place to be at unless you’re experiencing a manic episode or hypomania or have a dopamine addiction, which isn’t joy??? What are you even saying?? I experience a deep profound joy every time I love something and it’s never been a problem
I can see the world realistic, understanding how the world works make you sad as you see people not helping themselves and ripple the problem for each other
Depression is often a safety mechanism against the trauma of reality as a whole. I've suffered from it for a long time now, when i was younger i sorta had a realization of how profoundly awful the world was. This only deepened as i became a lover of history and learning about the history of the earth. I despair at how our species is messing everything up.
I think my logic just works because when I was little like 1-7 we moved around a *lot* , like states over months, so at this point I try to assess what will happen to me if I move again (which I won’t but don’t trust that fact), I try to figure out my course of action to protect myself from being sad like I have before. So I think situations through and I acknowledge all possible outcomes.
I have this problem. And I try not to be TOO pessimistic. But when I have a compounding of bad days….i just don’t want to wake up in the morning. I also see no point in going to a therapist because they will just tell me what I already know lol. Just try and find the silver lining.
You know when a person says yoh that's deep , depressed people like myself will give you the most deepest taughts and quotes you ever heard , that's why I get that alot from my friend group
People who aren't in agitated (positive or negative) states see things less distorted than others, and are more realistic and consequently have a higher probability to be depressed. However, seeing life is suffering and meaningless in an overarching way doesn't mean that there's we can't assign it a worthwhile meaning. One such meaning is helping reduce suffering of those who can't help themselves.
I feel like this i know there isn't much i can do as i grew up in foster care, and i did not graduate high school. I have no doors open for me. I can't go back to school cause I can't afford it and need to work a lot because im working lower paying jobs. Im stuck I also have social anxiety to the point where going to the groceries is hard for me. Being a man, im ashamed of this.... i try to look at the bigger picture, but honestly, it just looks like 60 years of misery, so why even bother... Bieng, this logical, also makes me realize that S****** is not the answer, and i will have to work hard for my life, but is it worth it? Based on my experience, nothing ever works out, so why would this work? Im just laying here waiting for time to pass. Anyways im sorry for dumping this on you guys. i just have no one to talk to about these things.
Sorry that you going through this. I relate to having social anxiety and feeling like life isn’t satisfying anymore. I think what helps me finding a purpose. Self care is important but I also seek to help others. Maybe you should joined an activity group with people have a similar hobby as you. Take care :)
@Adaobi-luv8_ I like helping others I did some volunteer work for the foster care i was at but now i cant do that anymore. But also I feel numb to the point where I just don't have any hobbies. Nothing existe me anymore. I come back from work and go to bed. Idk im kinda scared to go out. I know I should but I feel paralyzed. I just don't see the point if it's so people can stare at me, laugh at me and judge me for being a failure of a man. Not worth it. I'll stay home and rot thank you ahah Anyways, Thank you for taking to time to respond to me I really appreciate it.
@@Xavier1... I’ve definitely had a point where I was just like this. Nothing was exciting or fun. Sometimes when you can’t save yourself, you need someone else to help you. If you have a family or friend you trust, you should tell at least one of them. And honestly no one is a failure. The fact that you’ve volunteer work and you’re still alive is a success.
Well, certainly explains a lot…. Part of the reason, I love forecasting severe weather events! Love the videos! I share with those I know would benifit from seeing them! Thanks! 👍🏼 Keep up the good works!
As a pearson who struggled with depression, it's literaly how i felt - the pink glasses was taken off and i started seeing things how they really were. But this actually made me even more depressed. For example when you realise that riches export wars just to earn even more money, and those brainwashed minios are going to military, bc they pay them (and that's just tip of the iceberg) - how on earth you can be happy living in such an evil world, it feels literally like hell. At this point i feel like happiness is just ilussion, bc idk what you can be happy about living in such a world. But the fair point mentioned in the video is that in depression negative things are so amplified, that you can be blinded to positive ending of any situation, and you just dont see any light and loose hope. And loosing hope is so painfull, bc when you loose hope the only thing you want is death
FIRST, also, im going through a lot rn, my dad is aggressive towards me and i really dont know what to do. Im seeking for help of my friends and i cry a lot ab it
@@Adaobi-luv8_ after calling them, ofc my dad could explain himself, he lied and lied, i had panic attacks and they didnt believe me, now im scared to search for serious help
Depression does not equate to logic, in fact they are close to opposite of each other, the title is a bit misleading, only "depressive realism" would be more fitting to the topic of the video. But thanks for sharing this topic with us :)
This video seems well structured for being a really short one. At least it made sense to me, even though it only marked things with few words. I think I have some form of extreme pessimism, when I'm actually in situation that optimism would be really helpful to get back on my feet. I don't currently have life threating problems, but deep inside I'm convinced that long-term things are likely to get bad and would make all my efforts to stay strong, active and optimistic pointless. The problem is statistics only reinforce my pessimism. Sure for now the risk is still low, but it's growing with time. I feel I'm living my last days or more likely it feels like I'm dying slowly, like I'm dead already and just waiting in the Limbo. I have a specific and practical plan how to end it - I've been living with it for the last 2 and a half years. But it was supposed to be a way to save myself (and my closest) the slow degrading decline, before the inevitable ... but at the moment at least it seems the "inevitable" is postponed at least. So my final plan seems irrational. But so are my depression and apathy, and it seems they're currently ruling over me :/ How to find the focus and motivation to do the simple ordinary things that would sustain my life and would allow me to see the good things in it?
That's pretty spot on. Carrying the understanding of more brings along the understanding of more of what is going on that's wrong, and that can be tough to deal with.
From my experience, in the phase of depression, you see all the things that could go wrong. It's like escaping the matrix. Then I went to a psychologist, and he helped me reorient myself with the Matrix. Then I started seeing all the things that could go right. To live, it is essential for us to be optimistic.
Could you guys do a video about how some people just don’t change and HOW we could still try to help them / bring out the good in them? Or You know how some people do really bad things? Could you do a video on either how we can forgive them no matter what or give advice to those people about how they are messing up their own lives and the lives of people around them?
I've experienced both rationalism and depressive realism. The most simple difference is in rationalism. You don't lose hope, you don't give up on life, and you don't stop looking for a solution to your problem. Overall, you don't give up on yourself or your life. But in depression you lose hope and give up on both life & yourself.
A few (or alot) of comments are saying alot of stuff about their negative experiences which I find pretty interesting enough to make my own comment on it. My experience with this world is alot of things really. When it comes to my feelings, personally I don't feel too much. It feels abit numb, and empty, yet I have alot of goals and dreams. I wanna do alot of things despite how I may feel. My actions are towards the betterment of myself. With the way the world's headed, freedom is becoming everso restrictive. I don't see how I could make an huge impact on the world that would change it so drastically that you could make things better. So I don't bother overthinking in that department. When I see society as a whole with this generation of lesser minded people, they're all cattle. Moving along with this world's system and doing whatever it is they wanna try achieve. Going after meaningless goals that doesn't actually make them feel any better. They feel useless, and unfulfilled. That's my view on it atleast. If you think I'm talking about depression, it's not necessarily meant to be that way. I'm not a depressed person myself, but I sure as hell know I got a nihilistic view on this world when it comes to making a greater impact in the world. Especially how it will all be in the end. You can try changing things that could either start making a bigger impact on yourself, or maybe a whole group of people if your lucky, but anything bigger than that and it will be meaningless. You just won't be able to do it. Any and all impact made will only be on an individualistic scale, no matter how hard you try to make it more than that. (To sum it down, greater actions in this generation are meaningless). You can do small things, but your restricted from doing any greater things. You have no greater freedom. Things that would normally be shamed, are welcomed with open arms. So many studies and statistics support this if you decide to dig in deep further and look at the truth yourself. You just have to look in the right places. Tell me what your experience are! Would love to see different takes on this.
Yeah but in my case, it's the opposite... When I hangout with people and try and have fun my mood becomes better. Actually, being fun is really creative. You can understand how someone get through job if it's dull because they make it interesting to work😉
It also holds you back from making friends for fear of being judged or seen as odd weird or moody it's not that your angry at anyone your just angry at your self.
Preparing for failing is guaranteed faling thou mitigated one. I try to think for a way for the best positive solution. Sometimes, it takes me to think early into morning and with little to no solution (like now), but for the most part, it works well.
After watching this video, I feel the need to ask some questions: 1 Do you guys think those who are aggressive warhawks are now being portrayed as logical realists while those who are peace-loving doves are being portrayed as idealistic fools by the mainstream media? 2 Are peoples like Hange and Armin too optomistic to the point of being nothing naive and foolish idealists for refusing to see that Marley as a nation is nothing but a bully that likes to do whatever they wanted because they are the most powerful one around? The same can be said about Queen Calca from Overlord as well. 3 If what I said about the media in the first one is proven to be true, why the media promoted this kind of thing? Why promoted the idea of using violence and military actions as the solutions to all problems in the first place? I asked these questions because until recently, I used to be a depressive and aggressive warhawk who used what happened to me in the past, what I've read in history of humanity in general and my desire for equality for everyone to justify my aggressive personality and my "zero tolerance" policy against the bullies when feeling threatened. So was I wrong for being a warhawk? Was I wrong for believing in the school of thought known as Legalism that preached that all humans are inherently evil and very selfish creatures that needed to be controlled?
Timestamps 1). Depressive realism 0:25 2). Heightened awareness 1:09 3). Self-evaluation 1:37 4). Explanatory style 2:02 5). Overgeneralization 2:32 6). Pessimism 2:51 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
There is one major difference between this world view and mine. That is while I acnowledge my flaws, one of my strengths happens to be fixing things, so I figure if anyone can do something about it 🤔
I can definitely relate to much of this when consiering my depression from the past, but i think the accuracy of negative predictions may also be partially a self fulfilling prophecy, id have to see the research
Good explanation. I mean it's actually a good point too when you mention Thanos and Eren perspectives, but would you consider giving some kinda warning about these spoilers? Keep up the good work, thank you for always educating us! ❤
A side of me is philosophical, questioning about the behind-of-scene of life but a depressed individual. Even if he has discriminatory (see difference) perception, almost everything doesn't matter to him. Even being kicked or punched, he doesn't feel anything. It's not cope. He would says "That has to happened" while the other part say "That shouldn't EVER happened". But he wants one thing: fun. Even on shittiest thing that's help with the "survival" of his being.
God bless us all. Man, the fact that content based on depression is constantly advertised to me is kinda funny, it’s almost like it knows me via other things I’ve searched, rip atleast im getting some self help in a sense, lol. Man reality though, I don’t get why people try to look at it too positively or too negatively, regardless I’ve been considered negative most my life, through what I say more often then not happens, nearly exact sometimes it is exact but sometimes it doesn’t happen at all like I figured it would, though that generally happens when Im having even less sleep then normal, thanks insomnia, rip I don’t know but at least for me I’m thankful there are people who at least care enough to make content like this to help others understand our depression and the connection between it and our logical sides. God bless us all.
Yeah i embrace truth and seek for it with it's consequences. I'm overzhinker,anxious, sometimes struggle with analyze paralyze. Better to work on myself
It could also be the other way around, having the rational thoughts (cause their in a bad situation) cause depression instead of the depression causing the rational thoughts
Ever just look at a picture of somebody dead just to start thinking of how useless everything we do is? How everything we change will slowly be destroyed by time just for us to be slowly forgotten by everybody? That's what I end up thinking about whenever I have free time, constantly, I'm not even depressed, it's just a constant thought on the back of my mind, if anything it makes me yearn for life even more, but still, it's not exactly fun to think about every day
It’s not like you get all the advantages. If you can think for yourself in a logical way you are more likely to be smart! Please try harder to cultivate happiness and be in touch with yourself emotional side
Kinda. I analyze and compartmentalize everything so that things make sense and i dont have to retrace my tracks. Mistakes can be avoided with self awareness. Im not really depressed. Just see things from a lot of angles and take everything into consideration. Those perspectives may discourage other people with underlying complexes around uncertainty or failure. Which is irrelevant. And sad lol
Did any of you think you may have it backwards? Logical, clear thinking people develop depression, not the other way around.... usually caused by the emotional small minded nitwits we have to deal with on a day to day basis.
I hate it when people mistake my realism for being negative. Then they hate it when I'm right.
Right.
When the weather is shitty, that's because of the weather broadcaster.
Ikr!
If you say:
"If we all go together, we are gona fight"
Then you annoy everyone and you end up fighting, you were technically right, but everyone will hate you.
Then also, if you go to a theatre, and keep criticising everything, you are annoying.
Then theres a thing called a "bias".
meanwhile i’m overly negative and not realistic, i believed i’d fail my english papers and i had so much anxiety, and had breakdowns about it.
i got the highest score in my grade 💀 i also talk negatively so much that people probably think i’m attention seeking, i just wish i’d be more positive because i’m always positive about others but not myself
Because most of the people can't handle truth.
Maybe logical people are just depressed because reality is shit.
Yep
You have a good point
Yes. The dog wags the tail, not the other way around...
Agree, the more mentally mature i am the more vulnerable i am to feelings of hopelessness like there's no point to thinking to the future anymore and that explains my visible escapism like i just don't want to be in the present anymore and develop nostalgia for things that i lived in 2019 like it's the last of the truly great days
Reality is the worst
Ah, rationality. A blessing... and a curse.
It is brother…it is.
the curse of knowing- too many lovecraftian stories explaining the concept of knowing a tad too much
@renaktar8246 you're a lovecraft fan me too
We live happily in ignorance
I didn't ask to be born into this world - I don't know what comes after.
Just in case there's absolutely nothing after life, I wanna see this experience through till the end.
Would be a shame not to act like this if it is the only shot I've got.
Depressice Realism 0:26
Heightened Awareness 1:10
Self Evaluation 1:38
Explanatory Style 2:03
Over Generalization 2:33
Pessimism 2:52
Thank you
Attack on Titan spoilers 3:20 😡
Stuff like this is why usually keep to myself when it comes to certain issues.
I enjoy seeing other people loving life & optimistic no matter how life is hard. I don't want to take that away from them.
On the other hand
If we were all on the same page, maybe our attempts to improve would be more likely to succeed.
There is strength in unity. Even if the majority hate where they are. Example?
The military.
yea, i kinda relate to this a lot, and i used to be so cynical and pessimistic, but i came to realize that not everyone is bad and not everyone will hurt you like those that hurt you. And that even if you are down in a dark pit, u can always find a way out if you try. i find that that mindset stopped me from being motivated and kept me from truly showing my loving nature towards people that i truly love and care about. so whoevers going through rough times and depression, take ur time, breathe, vision yourself free from that stressful situation, work towards it slowly 1 step at a time, and dont be afraid to find comfort from the people who truly loves you and would only want you to succeed. i would not have made it out from this dark pit without the people around me
I totally agree, the people around have been such great comfort and have helped me get out from that “dark pit” :)
Woww this is the best comment on the internet❤
Your username makes this somewhat funny. But awesome insight!
I can relate 💯 glad we are all working on our mental health 🤗
And I have no people around me.
That's why people think im intelligent
Same
@@jenniferselzer6485 yea same
I'm in this picture and I don't like it
Christ loves you beyond comprehension, turn to him❤❤❤
@@sam-md2so Jesus said you shall not spam under random comments. Get lost.
Oh, that explains a lot. I think one of my favorite things about taking an antidepressant and bring myself out of that depression that I was in is that I can still find the nuggets of truth and logic, but not react to them in such downtrodden and negative way.
These videos are the closest thing I’ll get to talking to people about my depression
Thank you
Truth tellers punch hole in peoples' facades, and do not engage in the magical thinking that most do. They don't suffer the endemic cognitive dissonance that plagues our society. As a result, they are often demonized and cast out of peer groups, looked down upon by family, and labeled derogatory names by those in charge. They often say what needs to be said when no one else is capable and often pay the price for saying it. We also know that this is a losing battle. No wonder we're depressed.
Dang, it’s true though, when you point out the truth to people there’s a good chance they ain’t gonna like it, even if you told them for their own good, it’s pretty harsh
What's funny to me, in the end they all float down here.
I came to this realization fairly early on and is why I live by mottos, one of which being “Patience is a virtue”. People often aren’t going to realize I’m right and I have to wait for them to realize.
What makes it harder is you know it’s a losing battle, and you’re aware how it casts you out, but you still can’t help but tell the truth.
@@ironDsteele Just realized I’m an anarchist. This is the theme song of anarchy.
I've actually started noticing my logical mind is what seems to be dragging me down more than anything. I'm glad this video dropped
Cause they saw reality as it was/is and don't delusion themselves
Delusion themselves..
*Delude themselves, That's what you mean
That's a fact 💯
Yes! And then you have some negative core beliefs (like going to hell for being gay as example) and that twists everything to a bad thing, instead of looking at the positive things of reality.
@@DasHeino2010Uh.. no..
Me: Wait....WAIT- THAT'S WHY I'M SO KNOWLEDGEABLE!? Dam:(
I’m dumb as hell is reason I feel depressed
I must b a genius 😂
"Lmao, I'm a fucking genius."
"..." ":["
Being logical and knowledgeable are two diffrent things.
Yeah they see end result a lot faster and if it’s worth the energy or not
And people say that depressed people are just being negative when they're just being cautious. Thinking nothing good will happen to them afterwards after being good for so long. And anime makes their reputation worst, somehow.
Yes but like always, it’s the journey who really matter, the issue is, once you start to see it, it’s hard to look away
@@AfterthymeGaming and also if someone (like me) thinks that just bad things will happen then if something actually good happens only those who have suffer from disorders like this can feel the happiness at that point
I was like that, then I accepted complete and total defeatism. Now no more stress, anxiety, tension, or constant exhaustion. My worries and outlook on life is meaningless, I live to live and nothing more. No striving, but no struggling either; it set me free.
You live like you are dead. No thanks
No life goals, sorta means your life is useless, as you wont change anything.
1 thing is not caring about meaningless stuff like getting rich or pointless society norms, but not caring about art, people, happiness means your no diffrent then dead.
@@EdinoRemeridonah he’s just figured it out. When nothing you do has an affect on the world. Everything you do ends up mattering to you and not others and therefore you’re mentally free. You have to read the words
@@esotericshiv he doesn't specify that it matters to him.
@@Adama.1feeling nothing at all in some cases might be better than constant suffering worry and anxiety. Art of indiffrence to the point where one is as you said "living like dead" is usually a form of escapism and the longer you can maintain the "no thanks" viev on this the better for you
I have been going through this depressed realization from age 14 itself. It was really the lonelist journey i have ever been through😢. But today it made me to be self aware, improving problem predictions and solutions to it😊. Dont sit back and waste your life in sadness, instead fight back the depression , so that realization will come to you eventually after some hard experiences💪🦾💟
Wait there’s a robot arm emoji?
🦾🦿Oh there’s a leg too
If I go trough a breakup of some kind, I don’t spend my time crying. If they don’t want me, that’s fine.
If it's someone you were in love with, it'll hurt regardless of if you cry or not. For me, it fills me with anger at them for hurting me and myself for trusting them. I still despise those who hurt me after lying to my face about how much they cared about me.
@@Adventist1997I have never experienced a feeling of crush or love. What is it like? I don't get why people drop everything that they're doing and focus on just one girl.
@@henloisiyu
Actual love can be platonic or romantic. If you have a sibling that care about and want to help and stuff, that's true love. A romantic partner is a similar love but obviously involving extra feelings for them. Those feelings can easily be confused with lust rather than love.
If that's not emotional growth, I don't know what is...
I'm the same but it is mostly spiteful.
The greatest cause of depression is the inability to see past the horror of reality.
What's even that bad about reality?
@@EdinoRemerido I hope you keep thinking like that.
@@bruh-ir3po you can't name a specific thing?
@@EdinoRemerido that it is based on often evil occult doctrines?
@@EdinoRemerido There is not a single ruler in existence with the will AND ability to change things for the better. Due to the dominant ignorance of the masses, people are extremely easy to manipulate toward one political opinion, and it's usually the ones screwing the world up the most that gain the greatest traction.
Acts of kindness are fleeting and short-lived, and ultimately meaningless when no real change is brought about. Life is a constant cycle of agony and temporary resolution, as it is the law of the world that matters always return to the worse, because human society is not built to be sustainable. There will always be significant differences in people's socioeconomic situations, and those with the most wealth look to secure their dominance.
There are a great number of smaller-scale issues that people suffer from, from rough social life to questions of identity. And the world at large is coldly indifferent to these issues, rejecting questions in favour of authoritative assertions of status quo.
I am the type of person this video talks about. I am the kind of person who would agree with the necessity of the abhorrent morals of Thanos and Eren. The world is broken, dysfunctional and in favour of those fitting its pre-defined mold, and the only way to fix it would be to deny the human nature. But nobody in real life would have such power, the means or conviction, and so those living in the shadow of this realization live in darkness, because we know the light is a conditional presence. We surrender to our powerlessnes.
You wanted specific examples? There. The darkness of cold logic - there is no hope to affect the world around us because it is fundamentally broken.
This made me realise how much of a train wreck I am. Almost certainly has ADHD, given myself the terrible gift of p*rn addiction, depressed bordering suicidal and finally the self-hate stops me reaching out...
As someone who has battled depression I believe i gained a tremendous amount of introspective of going through the highs/lows of life and it really made the good days feel good and the bad days well… I learnt eventually to be more positive and I now settle on, “tomorrow is going to be a better day”. I work through my bad days. Try my best to make peace and at ease with the negatives going on in my life. And usually now with that my set, the next day feels like a W!
I battled depression. I convinced myself that live is not all bad and that good things will happen. But reality is they never did happen. Everything is just going downhill and my new found optimism just lead to more failure. Reality is that live is a shitty experience. 1/10.
@@mabus4910 As much as this current experience your are facing sucks ass.. It's very hard joys in life when you feel like everything is going wrong. The biggest thing you need to focus on are getting some small win's and starting alot of emphasis on them.
This is just delusional on a whole other level….
@@bh_92-k4tour entire society is built on delusion. Believing in a better tommorow i'd say is less delusional that believing in being rewarded after death by a father nobody Has ever seen. If it helps them go on through the day i'd say that its a healthy mindset to have.
I can often see when somebody speaks out of emotion instead of logic.
They make up the logic, because they want to advocate for a certain thing. But the emotion was there first, and is the driving force.
Yea you can tell at times but I also think you can be logical while having emotions as a driving force. It’s all abt self awareness :)
@Adaobi-luv8_ If the emotion is the driving force, every bit of prossecuted logic will be biased. But if my statement is true or not, it shouldn't have much of an interference, since we, as humans, will continue to say, chat and act towards our own preference/convenience/happines, unless you transcend you humanity or idk
@@psychoduck4264 yea it is biased, but I’m saying that emotion is the motivation. Like you did it a certain thing because you wanted to not just cause you have to.
@@Adaobi-luv8_ Hmm, that does fits reality a little more, but tell me, what would be the difference on having emotions as driving force and being self-aware or not being self aware? Both ways you are just being guided by emotions, since they will have the major weight on decision taking, thx for explaining tho
@@psychoduck4264 when you’re self aware, you tend to make decisions where you think abt the goal, consequences, and process before you actually do anything. When you’re not self aware, you make spontaneous decisions without thinking it through until after it has happened.
As a psychologist, I think in such cases Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) might be more useful instead of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). In CBT you are trying to change the thoughts. In ACT you learn psychological flexibility (among others)
Cock and Ball Torture Therapy.
Being a depressed, autistic girl, its soooo important to keep a balance between cynicism and positivity, while still remaining open to new friends and true to your boundaries of not accepting abusive ones. Especially when everyone knows you're the best therapist, but keep in mind reciprocity and if they wont help that in return, you dont have to always be the hero for someone who wont treat you with the same kindness and love.
Edit: 3:56 talks about balance
I agree, the balance is important
It's nice to have like-minded people...
I strive to have the same policies.
@mikicerise6250 oh it certainly is and I find myself not listening half the time 😅 but growth isn't linear and that's okay! Working on yourself takes time ❤️
Im also autistic and depressed, I wish it would be easyer to find others people like us and build connections and friendships.
I have no filter, that doesn't mean I have no mercy.
I actually wondered about this question my whole life, thanks for providing the scientific insights :)
This video reminds me of Arthur Arcturus. Arthur Arcturus was a TH-camr who was grounded in depressive realism, especially in his later videos.
I already knew I was overcoming my depression. This video helped me understand that I have been naturally intelligent since I started to have therapy to recover from my trauma. All strength to everyone dealing with any sort of trauma! We can do this!
As someone who has had depression before, as well as having CPTSD and being an AuDHDer, My default existence is partly-closed looking eyes, a sombre resting expression, and a low, matter of fact voice. I also happen to be goth, and this all tends to make people think I’m depressed occasionally.
But I am not. Rather, I dress in dark garb as respects to those taken before their time, known to me and otherwise, the world over. I am at peace with the less rose tinted area of reality. I suppose that’s sort of the inverse to this: while no longer depressed, I can be quite insightful and deep at times, which I suspect is because I still retain that manner of seeing the entirety of the picture, good and bad in equal measure. Because that’s life. And that’s okay.
TLDR; it’s fine to simply be objectively minded at times, instead of creating false hopes or needless worries.
1:47 loving the Dazai reference
Yeah!! I was surprised to see him here❤
Loved it
And two of them at that. Also, they have Chuuya when the video made the comparison between those with depression and normal ones. 😂
@@Phillia_crochet YEAH right lol
And i loved it ❤️
I love chuuya he’s my fvrtt💗
Never did I think I would see Dazai and Chuuya in a Pysch2Go video
frr
“It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.” ~Jiddu Krishnamurti
Yes I am depressed, but that doesn't mean I don't want the world be to a happy place. Keep being happy and do what you can to better future generations to live longer and create things for our world without harming others or oneself in the process. I'm just depressed cus I'm afraid that world won't happen and it's hard to fight that pain with a smile sometimes. I keep trying to be nice either way.
Hey man. I know what it feels like in some levels. Just know God has a better world planned for you. This world was never meant for people like us in the beginning.
I've definitely seen an increase in self-awareness once depression hit me. I'm not especially good with social cues, but I can explain my rationality and flaws with ease. This also helps when there's a heated argument, I'll think of the facts before flipping out. Not the analytical type however 😅
I think a lot of this is a matter of perspective, like in the “why they failed a presentation” part, the depressed person may have given it everything they had and been perfectly prepared, but genuinely did fail because of bad luck.
They would be more likely to attribute their failure to being unprepared, when it may have genuinely been something else.
It is basically a question of “am I being realistic or pessimistic?”
Gojo be everywhere except his own manga 💀
Yeah i was also laughing after seeing him :)
I’ve wrestled with depression in the past, and I’ve also been in a place of hyper joy, neither are a good place to be at, but experiencing both definitely give you a balance of reality, and being content of doing your best to make a great outcome in all circumstances and be blessed in it. There’s definitely wisdom to take from it to be able to counsel yourself and help others with the experiences
Hyper joy isn’t a bad place to be at unless you’re experiencing a manic episode or hypomania or have a dopamine addiction, which isn’t joy??? What are you even saying?? I experience a deep profound joy every time I love something and it’s never been a problem
Depression is my teacher. Pessimism is the wisdom I've learned. My happiness was a delusion that prevented me from seeing the truth.
I can see the world realistic, understanding how the world works make you sad as you see people not helping themselves and ripple the problem for each other
I love all the anime references so much
Thank you for noticing!!
Fr I did not expect a bungo gay cats reference
"Are you depressed because you are logical, or are you logical because you are depressed?"
Depression is often a safety mechanism against the trauma of reality as a whole. I've suffered from it for a long time now, when i was younger i sorta had a realization of how profoundly awful the world was. This only deepened as i became a lover of history and learning about the history of the earth. I despair at how our species is messing everything up.
I think my logic just works because when I was little like 1-7 we moved around a *lot* , like states over months, so at this point I try to assess what will happen to me if I move again (which I won’t but don’t trust that fact), I try to figure out my course of action to protect myself from being sad like I have before. So I think situations through and I acknowledge all possible outcomes.
Me too. However I tend to veer towards the worst outcome as being fact .
@@karyne826 Yeah, for me it’s just a probability, I never assume that the best outcome is 100% but I never assume the worst outcome is either
Under a minute,i actually needed this video! Thx!
Let us know what you think afterwards!
2:24 liked the detail here, the most depressed sensei
I have this problem. And I try not to be TOO pessimistic. But when I have a compounding of bad days….i just don’t want to wake up in the morning.
I also see no point in going to a therapist because they will just tell me what I already know lol. Just try and find the silver lining.
OH MY GOD THE GOJO REFERENCE THANK YOU SO MUCH 🙏🙏
It all makes sense now, thank you
Nice, my depression has a silver lining
Depression is somewhere like when you don't feel much and that's why we start thinking logically because before that we only think emotionally
You know when a person says yoh that's deep , depressed people like myself will give you the most deepest taughts and quotes you ever heard , that's why I get that alot from my friend group
Can confirm 😔 But thank you for this video. I’ve been gaslit so many times for this
People who aren't in agitated (positive or negative) states see things less distorted than others, and are more realistic and consequently have a higher probability to be depressed.
However, seeing life is suffering and meaningless in an overarching way doesn't mean that there's we can't assign it a worthwhile meaning.
One such meaning is helping reduce suffering of those who can't help themselves.
I feel like this i know there isn't much i can do as i grew up in foster care, and i did not graduate high school. I have no doors open for me. I can't go back to school cause I can't afford it and need to work a lot because im working lower paying jobs. Im stuck
I also have social anxiety to the point where going to the groceries is hard for me. Being a man, im ashamed of this.... i try to look at the bigger picture, but honestly, it just looks like 60 years of misery, so why even bother...
Bieng, this logical, also makes me realize that S****** is not the answer, and i will have to work hard for my life, but is it worth it? Based on my experience, nothing ever works out, so why would this work? Im just laying here waiting for time to pass. Anyways im sorry for dumping this on you guys. i just have no one to talk to about these things.
Sorry that you going through this. I relate to having social anxiety and feeling like life isn’t satisfying anymore. I think what helps me finding a purpose. Self care is important but I also seek to help others. Maybe you should joined an activity group with people have a similar hobby as you. Take care :)
@Adaobi-luv8_ I like helping others I did some volunteer work for the foster care i was at but now i cant do that anymore.
But also I feel numb to the point where I just don't have any hobbies. Nothing existe me anymore. I come back from work and go to bed. Idk im kinda scared to go out. I know I should but I feel paralyzed. I just don't see the point if it's so people can stare at me, laugh at me and judge me for being a failure of a man. Not worth it. I'll stay home and rot thank you ahah
Anyways, Thank you for taking to time to respond to me I really appreciate it.
@@Xavier1... I’ve definitely had a point where I was just like this. Nothing was exciting or fun. Sometimes when you can’t save yourself, you need someone else to help you. If you have a family or friend you trust, you should tell at least one of them. And honestly no one is a failure. The fact that you’ve volunteer work and you’re still alive is a success.
@Adaobi-luv8_ thank you for the encouragement I appreciate it a lot
@@Xavier1... you’re welcome:)
Well, certainly explains a lot…. Part of the reason, I love forecasting severe weather events!
Love the videos! I share with those I know would benifit from seeing them! Thanks! 👍🏼
Keep up the good works!
As a pearson who struggled with depression, it's literaly how i felt - the pink glasses was taken off and i started seeing things how they really were. But this actually made me even more depressed. For example when you realise that riches export wars just to earn even more money, and those brainwashed minios are going to military, bc they pay them (and that's just tip of the iceberg) - how on earth you can be happy living in such an evil world, it feels literally like hell. At this point i feel like happiness is just ilussion, bc idk what you can be happy about living in such a world. But the fair point mentioned in the video is that in depression negative things are so amplified, that you can be blinded to positive ending of any situation, and you just dont see any light and loose hope. And loosing hope is so painfull, bc when you loose hope the only thing you want is death
I love the anime references, it feels like it's made for me rather then the cold offices of the therapists. Thank you.
This is why I assume the worst all the time.
Conclusion would went better with:"It is possible to see both grey clounds and the silver lining".
FIRST, also, im going through a lot rn, my dad is aggressive towards me and i really dont know what to do. Im seeking for help of my friends and i cry a lot ab it
You are first!!!
@@Psych2go i need help💔😭
@@RTYT7777is there any other family member or friends you can talk to for help?
@@Adaobi-luv8_ i had adhd meds who caused me to become delusional, i called the police because i believed my dad abused me
@@Adaobi-luv8_ after calling them, ofc my dad could explain himself, he lied and lied, i had panic attacks and they didnt believe me, now im scared to search for serious help
Depression does not equate to logic, in fact they are close to opposite of each other, the title is a bit misleading, only "depressive realism" would be more fitting to the topic of the video. But thanks for sharing this topic with us :)
Ignorace is bliss... sadly im not Ignorant
Yes, we're carrying the negative burdens of the world while everyone is blissfully oblivious
This video seems well structured for being a really short one. At least it made sense to me, even though it only marked things with few words.
I think I have some form of extreme pessimism, when I'm actually in situation that optimism would be really helpful to get back on my feet.
I don't currently have life threating problems, but deep inside I'm convinced that long-term things are likely to get bad and would make all my efforts to stay strong, active and optimistic pointless.
The problem is statistics only reinforce my pessimism. Sure for now the risk is still low, but it's growing with time.
I feel I'm living my last days or more likely it feels like I'm dying slowly, like I'm dead already and just waiting in the Limbo.
I have a specific and practical plan how to end it - I've been living with it for the last 2 and a half years.
But it was supposed to be a way to save myself (and my closest) the slow degrading decline, before the inevitable ... but at the moment at least it seems the "inevitable" is postponed at least.
So my final plan seems irrational. But so are my depression and apathy, and it seems they're currently ruling over me :/
How to find the focus and motivation to do the simple ordinary things that would sustain my life and would allow me to see the good things in it?
Try to try in trying of the try in the try
That's pretty spot on. Carrying the understanding of more brings along the understanding of more of what is going on that's wrong, and that can be tough to deal with.
Completely!!!!
thanks for this!( I dont need it my friend does) your videos are very helpful, and are explained simply! new sub!!
Glad I could help!
From my experience, in the phase of depression, you see all the things that could go wrong. It's like escaping the matrix. Then I went to a psychologist, and he helped me reorient myself with the Matrix. Then I started seeing all the things that could go right. To live, it is essential for us to be optimistic.
Great video 👍
Could you guys do a video about how some people just don’t change and HOW we could still try to help them / bring out the good in them?
Or
You know how some people do really bad things? Could you do a video on either how we can forgive them no matter what or give advice to those people about how they are messing up their own lives and the lives of people around them?
I've experienced both rationalism and depressive realism. The most simple difference is in rationalism. You don't lose hope, you don't give up on life, and you don't stop looking for a solution to your problem. Overall, you don't give up on yourself or your life. But in depression you lose hope and give up on both life & yourself.
A few (or alot) of comments are saying alot of stuff about their negative experiences which I find pretty interesting enough to make my own comment on it.
My experience with this world is alot of things really. When it comes to my feelings, personally I don't feel too much. It feels abit numb, and empty, yet I have alot of goals and dreams. I wanna do alot of things despite how I may feel. My actions are towards the betterment of myself. With the way the world's headed, freedom is becoming everso restrictive. I don't see how I could make an huge impact on the world that would change it so drastically that you could make things better.
So I don't bother overthinking in that department. When I see society as a whole with this generation of lesser minded people, they're all cattle. Moving along with this world's system and doing whatever it is they wanna try achieve. Going after meaningless goals that doesn't actually make them feel any better. They feel useless, and unfulfilled. That's my view on it atleast.
If you think I'm talking about depression, it's not necessarily meant to be that way. I'm not a depressed person myself, but I sure as hell know I got a nihilistic view on this world when it comes to making a greater impact in the world. Especially how it will all be in the end. You can try changing things that could either start making a bigger impact on yourself, or maybe a whole group of people if your lucky, but anything bigger than that and it will be meaningless. You just won't be able to do it. Any and all impact made will only be on an individualistic scale, no matter how hard you try to make it more than that.
(To sum it down, greater actions in this generation are meaningless). You can do small things, but your restricted from doing any greater things. You have no greater freedom.
Things that would normally be shamed, are welcomed with open arms. So many studies and statistics support this if you decide to dig in deep further and look at the truth yourself. You just have to look in the right places.
Tell me what your experience are! Would love to see different takes on this.
It's an artifact of the world being a pretty unhappy place to exist, and awareness of the hedonic treadmill
I'm also a bit logical, but i'm rather feeling boredom than depression, because i'm always kinda lazy and i felt no fun at all even when going out.
Yeah but in my case, it's the opposite... When I hangout with people and try and have fun my mood becomes better. Actually, being fun is really creative. You can understand how someone get through job if it's dull because they make it interesting to work😉
@@PicFitpit maybe you're an ambivert
It's a belief and determination to make certain that people you care most about are happy without you.
It also holds you back from making friends for fear of being judged or seen as odd weird or moody it's not that your angry at anyone your just angry at your self.
Preparing for failing is guaranteed faling thou mitigated one. I try to think for a way for the best positive solution. Sometimes, it takes me to think early into morning and with little to no solution (like now), but for the most part, it works well.
After watching this video, I feel the need to ask some questions:
1 Do you guys think those who are aggressive warhawks are now being portrayed as logical realists while those who are peace-loving doves are being portrayed as idealistic fools by the mainstream media?
2 Are peoples like Hange and Armin too optomistic to the point of being nothing naive and foolish idealists for refusing to see that Marley as a nation is nothing but a bully that likes to do whatever they wanted because they are the most powerful one around? The same can be said about Queen Calca from Overlord as well.
3 If what I said about the media in the first one is proven to be true, why the media promoted this kind of thing? Why promoted the idea of using violence and military actions as the solutions to all problems in the first place?
I asked these questions because until recently, I used to be a depressive and aggressive warhawk who used what happened to me in the past, what I've read in history of humanity in general and my desire for equality for everyone to justify my aggressive personality and my "zero tolerance" policy against the bullies when feeling threatened. So was I wrong for being a warhawk? Was I wrong for believing in the school of thought known as Legalism that preached that all humans are inherently evil and very selfish creatures that needed to be controlled?
Timestamps
1). Depressive realism 0:25
2). Heightened awareness 1:09
3). Self-evaluation 1:37
4). Explanatory style 2:02
5). Overgeneralization 2:32
6). Pessimism 2:51
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
no wonder thx! this was very helpful😊
There is one major difference between this world view and mine. That is while I acnowledge my flaws, one of my strengths happens to be fixing things, so I figure if anyone can do something about it 🤔
I can definitely relate to much of this when consiering my depression from the past, but i think the accuracy of negative predictions may also be partially a self fulfilling prophecy, id have to see the research
I can't believe this 💘so I have been depressed too many times.
Good explanation. I mean it's actually a good point too when you mention Thanos and Eren perspectives, but would you consider giving some kinda warning about these spoilers?
Keep up the good work, thank you for always educating us! ❤
A side of me is philosophical, questioning about the behind-of-scene of life but a depressed individual. Even if he has discriminatory (see difference) perception, almost everything doesn't matter to him. Even being kicked or punched, he doesn't feel anything. It's not cope. He would says "That has to happened" while the other part say "That shouldn't EVER happened".
But he wants one thing: fun. Even on shittiest thing that's help with the "survival" of his being.
God bless us all.
Man, the fact that content based on depression is constantly advertised to me is kinda funny, it’s almost like it knows me via other things I’ve searched, rip atleast im getting some self help in a sense, lol.
Man reality though, I don’t get why people try to look at it too positively or too negatively, regardless I’ve been considered negative most my life, through what I say more often then not happens, nearly exact sometimes it is exact but sometimes it doesn’t happen at all like I figured it would, though that generally happens when Im having even less sleep then normal, thanks insomnia, rip I don’t know but at least for me I’m thankful there are people who at least care enough to make content like this to help others understand our depression and the connection between it and our logical sides.
God bless us all.
Just have to accept things as they are
This is true. When I was depressed I was more depressingly realistic. Now I’m a bit more optimistic
Yeah i embrace truth and seek for it with it's consequences. I'm overzhinker,anxious, sometimes struggle with analyze paralyze. Better to work on myself
It could also be the other way around, having the rational thoughts (cause their in a bad situation) cause depression instead of the depression causing the rational thoughts
Ever just look at a picture of somebody dead just to start thinking of how useless everything we do is? How everything we change will slowly be destroyed by time just for us to be slowly forgotten by everybody? That's what I end up thinking about whenever I have free time, constantly, I'm not even depressed, it's just a constant thought on the back of my mind, if anything it makes me yearn for life even more, but still, it's not exactly fun to think about every day
Your comment
You have a very soothing voice.
It’s not like you get all the advantages. If you can think for yourself in a logical way you are more likely to be smart! Please try harder to cultivate happiness and be in touch with yourself emotional side
I became an atheist after being so depressed for 8 months
I used to live alone, had no friends and family isn’t supportive or understanding
Thank you for exposing me!!
I don’t want to self diagnose myself but I have majority of the signs explained…
I really don’t want to check if I am
"Nothing ever goes as planned in this accursed world..."
-a quote that was said by a wise man that i believe-
Booom
Logic makes you aware and reality is sad and depressing ignorance is a bliss
0:43 Gojo 😭
It's too real I'm not smart but in comforting someone and talking reality and what going to happen ❤
Kinda. I analyze and compartmentalize everything so that things make sense and i dont have to retrace my tracks. Mistakes can be avoided with self awareness. Im not really depressed. Just see things from a lot of angles and take everything into consideration. Those perspectives may discourage other people with underlying complexes around uncertainty or failure. Which is irrelevant. And sad lol
Did any of you think you may have it backwards? Logical, clear thinking people develop depression, not the other way around.... usually caused by the emotional small minded nitwits we have to deal with on a day to day basis.
This makes so much sense😮