@zerse not really! Maybe not understand all men but you generally get an idea of how they are as there is a pattern of behavior. But of course each individual is different.
same, my parents never gave me "the talk" cause they never lied to me. i always knew where babies came from. dont get why parents think its so bad to tell people. fr, some kids are legit scared theyre gonna get pregnant if they like someone cause parents dont wanna talk about it.
I went with the honesty approach with my 4 kids. My youngest is 20 now and a few of mine are trying to start families, but there haven't been any unexpected surprises ❣️ And, my favorite part is, awkward moments or not, we can all talk about anything to one or another of us. If it is too much for them to tell me, they talk to each other openly. So I know they'll figure (almost) everything out that I did miss 😆
Great work. My son is three, about to turn four and he said a few weeks ago "daddy I want a beard like you so I can shave." (Exact words, he's very well spoken). It made me tear up a bit. I used to be rather emotionless and a borderline sociopath until I had kids. Now I'm so emotional over them and kids in general. I'll get them learning from this show when they're eight.
Girls: “why won’t the boys talk to us?” Look, we go through a whole mental plan just to speak to you. First we have to come up w/ something to say, then we have to think if the sentence conveys the right message, we then choose the best tone to suit our intentions, after that we second guess ourselves and wonder how you’ll react, so we then reword our sentence about 13 times like it’s college thesis, then comes the moment of truth on wether or not we let the phrase exit our mouths. 80% of the time we don’t. Keep in mind, this is just the formula for how we say “what’s up?” Or tell a joke to you.
Not always….Outta the blue got into a random silly Barney with some woman over a petrol pump. I felt bad and offered to buy her a coffee, we been married 9 years and have two great kids… and another kid too lol
One thing is kind of messed up about growing up as a boy. You are marked for life. Unless you can shake the past, move somewhere new and have good luck. Getting suspended, detention, failing a class, word gets around. Teachers will reinforce your perceived social cast, I was shy so I became a bit of a class clown. I wasnt rude or disruptive, just did really good impressions and witty sarcastic comments. But teachers would subtly ruin your life. "That's not the topic I gave you" but this is 4 weeks of work. "Either fail or do it again?" But hey you definately learn resilience strategies early as a male.
The locker room is not really true anymore (in the U.S.). It was true when older people, like The Infographic's shows writers, were kids. But I'm 20 years old, and have been in and out of locker rooms my entire life and have never seen a dick.
When it comes to the "emotionless male" thing, people tend to focus on the "don't cry" aspect of it (which I've literally never heard anyone seriously say, in my life), but the primary emotion that gets covered up is nervousness...not sadness. Hiding sadness is in there too, but it's not nearly as common. Learning to hide a lack of confidence is something most guys have to learn at some point, because you're gonna have a really hard time finding someone to be with romantically if you can't ask them out without being a nervous mess. Women will reject you and not even be nice about it. Can't look like a wuss in front of your friends, as a kid, so you better act tough even if you don't feel it. I could go on, but I think you get the picture.
You’ve never heard anyone say “boys don’t cry”? If you cried then everyone would just laugh at you and mock you forever. I want to know about where you grew up
@@maz1071 I've heard the expression, but never seen it used in a real-life situation. Crying got mocked, boy or girl, because children are terrible without having to discriminate.
This feels a lot different to a British school, boys in the changing rooms spray tons of Lynx Africa deodorant everyway instead of showering and we wip each other with our belts instead
In my school we don’t even use changing rooms anymore because because of covid so I can basically bring my own clothes two times per week, I only have to wear a school T-shirt.
My Dad had the "talk" with the first boy who took me to a dance. Corey just looked at him and said "I don't really understand what you're saying, because we're 12." I could hear Dad roaring with laughter from the other end of the house.
Never got how "Man up" turned into "Be emotionless". It means take care of your responsibilities, solve problems, take action. My dads "the talk" was handing me some condoms and a bag of weed, asking me what they were and saying "good man" when I answered correctly.
okay, but that dismisses the entire reason why men talk about their problem in the first place. if I, one man, can't solve my problems because they are too big, how am I supposed to solve them if society tells me to "man up" without actually giving me advice?
In high school I avoided showers like the plague and actually talked to a school counselor about it, sort of. I just dropped in a conversation, but they were very understanding about it and it turns out at my school, it wasn't really a requirement since a lot of students also refused to use the showers too, so they didn't enforce it and felt no need too. However, my senior year, I couldn't avoid it. My wrestling team just had a practice during the Christmas break and we were actually going on a trip to statewide wrestling tournament. We were all sweaty and the team in general decided everyone needed a shower since the bus wasn't scheduled to arrive for another 30 minutes. I tried to avoid it but the team insisted and oddly enough it was fine. I used every excuse I could but there was a rebuttal for each one. But in the end I was forced into the shower.
As a woman, never once saw any female using the shower in high school locker room! Between hair, make up, and the effort that would take to redo never saw anyone in that area, except female janitor..and me and my bff smoking devil's lettuce
My teachers used to try to embarrass me in front of people, or that’s what I felt like, except for my science teacher, I often got distracted because I have ADHD so I would struggle to get things done but my science teacher made it easier for me to get my work done and didn’t try to embarrass me in front of people and was pretty chill ngl
I have never understood the "you must fight after school if challenged" no you don't, I actually believe it's a mockery towards the bully if you don't show, it's like saying "You are not worth my time"
It's more the rep and ripples through the school. If you don't show up the whole school will find out and you could lose all sort of respect and be targeted by others. You may get bullied because they know they you won't stand up for yourself and if you stay in the same school district it'll follow you everywhere and you'll have to deal with it. These schools have their own internal systems that are cruel. Yes you may be able to play it off by doing what you say but also maybe not.
Boys' parents when we mention a girl: So have you thought about names for the kids? Girls' parents when they mention a boy: Stay away from him! He's the Devil himself!
Jokes on you. First time I hung out with a female friend, we went and saw that movie about the reincarnating dog. And yes I cried. And I am not ashamed.
Bro i felt that,as boys at school there were huge brawls between classes and most of us were never part of them,then they punished the whole grade of boys because "we were all trouble makers",it was horrible to experience, my voice also became deeper at 13 which was nice as it was earlier than my friends
Where I live, being emotional really isn’t a massive problem for me and other boys, the teachers and principals are fair and never ignorant to a situation, and I haven’t been physically attacked since 5th grade (stabbed by a pencil). But this video really makes me fortunate about being in this school, since the guy who wants you to fight him after school would probably immediately get suspended and would be immediately held accountable.
@@deemogame3719 im so sorry that you live in a miserable society thats different than his. But you shouldn't try to limit someone's emotion just because you live in a bad environment. Just let him express whatever he wants to. Either he's gonna get judged or not its none of our concerns
I mean I literally got my head split open by some other kid throwing a bottle at me so I had no other choice but to cry and judging by the expression of everyone else they didn't blame me. And btw when you said you got stabbed by a pencil in 5th grade the exact same thing happened to another kid in my class.
The thing is, the stigma, and often the expectation is that the boy will ask the girl out. Yeah, that is lame, and not always true for awesome people, but it still exists for many.
Yeah as I girl I think this is a great idea, not all men are always financially able to pay the bill even if they wanted to and I also think it should be more socially acceptable for girls to ask guys out.
Well, when I and my boyfriend go on a date, we pay for ourselves separately. We've been together for 3,5 years, engaged now, and it's always been like that. It's fair, I think.
As a Sophomore in High school, experiencing his first year in high school. My dad never had the “talk”. I can’t pull the girls but this year has been a monumental step in the right direction, just gotta keep on rolling baby, we got 2 years left and man am I ready to go off
@@RYMAN1321 I’m enjoying every minute of it, except the drama. Legit I get a birthday kiss from this Girl and she could’ve said no, but she somehow did it, and I kid u not she starts spreading these rumors about me, Girls are just different
One way to not get in trouble at school is to get an early reputation for trying to avoid and never causing trouble. That way unless it was seen by multiple people you can be a bit crazy but if it was only you and someone else than you are not very likely to be blamed
Man these struggles are specially American school struggles. Where I live, we don’t shower at school, and it’s rare to change in the changing room as we just wear our sports uniform to school.
I had a high pitched voice back at 2019. My last achievement before having a deep voice is my friends and I winning a choir group. This was a School Vs. School thing. There were a lot of schools and we won choir.
the part where someone had a stify in class is real haha i never got called but some other guy got caught by our technology/gym teacher in front of the whole class
I love how the bubble said, "you better threat my daughter with respect..." instead of "treat..." if y'all need an editor, I'd be happy to extend my services.
Bullies have never affected me. I’m one of the strongest people in my school but I like to isolate myself. When someone ever tells me “fight after school”, it’s a bad day for them and a broken nose or jaw.
@@onichan6897 nah people just lie about mental health problems they feel slightly more upset than usual for a week and diagnose themselves with depression
As a Cross Country runner who had 4 days a week of morning practice, the locker rooms were interesting to say the least. We didn’t have time to go home to shower so everyone just did it at school. There were usually about 7-10 of us who would all go into this room with showers on the wall (usually enough for all of us) this was obviously pretty awkward especially if you weren’t an upperclassmen who had done it before. I fortunately didn’t do morning runs until my sophomore year, so I didn’t get hazed. too bad. But the towel whipping would get a little hectic post shower. There were some stories of kids getting peed on in the shower by upperclassmen, or getting their towels taken and not given to them until pretty much once class started. Just stuff like that. But I assume this doesn’t happen in the girls locker rooms😂
Working as a teacher, many of these aren't gendered, especially bullying and misbehavior. I would rather someone frame this as a personal story though than drawing a picture framed as absolute.
You're totally missing the point of what was said in the video. Bullying part was showing that the bulied has to act manly and be able to take a fight. We girls, react to bullying in totally different ways and don't have the same pressure.
0:38 gym class is actually great in the morning as someone who has it at 7: 45, in the summer it's warm enough near the end but nearer to noon it's already sweltering, especially if you're running
@@LordGarlicBread No no worries, in fact, I’d much rather deal with protrusions than a sodden state of affairs. I suppose for boys, it’s more embarrassing, and for girls, it’s more annoying.
im 4 minutes in the video and I, a male, have never experienced the majority of these things... also, are locker rooms and food fights gender specific??
As a female I would say that the women's locker room wasn't chaotic at all nobody really did anything crazy but I dont think food fights are gender specific at all I've seen some girls start some pretty crazy food fights🤣🤣🤣.
Lol @ the dilemma with paying or not paying. Say you're totally willing to pay, but that if she would feel bad about you paying you're fine with splitting the bill. "Are you okay with me paying or would you prefer to split the bill? I'm comfortable with it either way." She might say she wants to pay, and all you have to do is say thanks and that it feels nice to be treated. 1) Shows communication and that you're comfortable problem solving by expressing your feelings and thoughts 2)You can't go wrong if she's the one choosing. 3) Leads to conversation and getting to know her. Not including her in decisions is a red flag for me.
Somewhat near correct, however at school for me the only thing taught socially & educationally was "that in life there is a social & economic ladder, I am not on it! And more than likely never will!" 15 years later & every memory or person from back then makes me cringe, thank god for the Internet, isolation & a touch of infographics
Men just flaunt their bodies when they're alone with someone or just when they feel muscular and good looking. They feel shy flaunting when it's in front of many and if they are not so muscular.. Usually
Mhm I understand the pain for sure I feel all the pain being a teenager boy and if I can go to all the pain and get though it then I bet everyone can, just don't think about it to hard or overdo it everything will go your way but it will take time so I will come sooner then you think :)
yep, you're definitely a teenager alright. you're in for a rude awakening when you get older. As an adult you find out the hard way that happy endings are exclusive to Disney movies
From a German perspective, this school cafeteria stuff was really unfamiliar. In Germany (at least in Bavaria, It could be different in other states) the school day lasts from 8am until 1pm, so you don't really eat at school. And everyone showering after PE isn't really a thing at my school, since you aren't at school for hours, and you can use deodorant to not smell, and just shower when you come home.
This is the same for Polish schools, School ranges from 8:30 to 1-3PM, There is lunch but it's just a small room with not enough space to perform any true fight, Showering after PE is also not a thing in here so yeah
it amazes me how different American schools are from Aussies like we dont have lockers or changing rooms or prom. we dont have locker to shove all our books in we just carry every thing in our bags, if ur like me and just have one book a pen and money to buy lunch then yeah its easy. i literally have the smallest bag for school. and grading is different too primary is 1-6 and high school is 7-12. and ya done
I have hair everywhere, why should i be shaving so much when i can't just shower properly. But if i could get 100% rid of armpit hair i certainly would.
Oh boy... I was, at times, somewhat wild as a boy. I remember getting called to the principals office every single day because something happened. I didn't even need to be in the same area, but it still was my fault.
I remember getting suspended for beating a kid up...he literally started punching me in the back of the head out of nowhere because he thought I liked his girlfriend. He lost the fight I got suspended for defending myself and the kids parents called the police and try to charge me with assault. Luckily there was cellphone footage of the whole thing. Not gonna lie I was pretty scared
Don't ever be afraid to stand up for yourself especially against a bully. Even when you fight him and loose but you hit him a few times. Next time he will leave you alone because he knows now you are gonna fight back and bullies don't like that
*Middle school,is the place where i wana just end my life because of being unrespected by everyone,be called in names by everyone,and being rejected just because of one small internal hobby.* -me, aviation expert.
Yes very true as a boy I remember the civil war in middle School the two 7th grade classes had a food fight over a disagreement on the 7th grade field trip than the mother of all food fights the food fight of Indian Ave 6th graders vs 7th graders vs 8th graders as the 7th graders we chose to put our difference aside and teamed up against the 6th and 8th graders
My son is turning 10 years old end of the year and he's already asking questions. He's an A student and reads a lot so he's now asking questions so I'm in full dad mode
Luckily being both gay and unathletic saved me from both dealing with women and those locker room stages. And being a recluse has also protected me from any major injuries (aside from the ones I cause just by being a clumsy buffoon). Though from what I can relate to this video is pretty accurate.
When I was at school, I stopped showering after the pe lesson because on the rare occasion somebody did take a shower, the other boys would literally try to kick the door down!
Its incredible how italian school is 100+ time harder. We dont even have events at school. When i was in middle school i knew only one thing: study for a whole week. We knew no girls or fun. Only study.
I snuck into my school's girl's locker room before. I was shocked and amazed at how luxurious it was. It was **exactly** the same size as the boy's locker room, but they each had separate shower stalls and separate changing rooms. I guess this was another example of "male privilege", right?
It’s also annoying and weird that female teachers can walk into the girls and boys changing room and the male teachers can just only walk into the boys changing room. Very weird.
I got in 2 fights in elementary but as soon as I got in high school and started weightlifting and playing football I never got in a fight again. Nearly everyone was my friend and those who weren't just stayed away from me. No one wanted to pick a fight with "big body/dump truck"
1:25 BRO THERE ARE SHOWERS IN SCHOOLS??? THAT'S HORRIBLE. Luckily for me. Here in Italy's schools there are no public showers. And the toilets have cabinets. Oh and also. No Prom! But in the end... no one asked for me to comment this, so I will just stay silent now.
I'm a girl, and honestly not all of this is men's only. Especially the locker room and paying for things, but maybe that's just a small town thing or something?
Oh those were the days. - when I was a small boy at high school - 2003-2008 - I was in most of all those circumstances. - Only had a single mother. Such horrific memories, though I was a - late developer - so girls then weren't in my interest. Yes for every bloke/guy who went through all this as I did, I feel for them. -- 😓😣 Schools in the UK aren't much different to the US - Except, fighting is rarer and we wear uniforms akin to businessmen/women
I do miss the old cell phones mind haha I had a Motorola flip open. Modern cell phones then only had 3 features - A screen with Literal buttons to operate it with 📲 The ability to text and call That was about it! 😂🤙
Honestly, as a black man who went to an all white school, all I can say is my daddy blessed me. I also showered next to the biggest white dude, and we became friends. Oh, we had some good ol times too. But at least the other boys were looking at both of us now and it felt less weird. Dont worry, it got more weird in senior year 😘
i like the typo where the dad says “you better be a gentlemen and THREAT my daughter with respect”
Gotta teach her to behave.
“You better behave or else I’ll respect you”
Gotcha disrespect her every moment I get
🤣 was going to come make a comment about that
Listen here you piece of greatness!
If you don’t go to the dance with me I’m gonna understand and walk away!
I had 7 brothers so I understand men pretty well and their struggles. There are pros and cons to being a man or a woman. You cannot get it all.
@zerse What do you mean?
@zerse not really! Maybe not understand all men but you generally get an idea of how they are as there is a pattern of behavior. But of course each individual is different.
don’t matter how many siblings u got u won’t know till you go through it
@Zuzu maybe her family is a very open family? Maybe she just means she has seen most social struggles? You never know.
Facts
My parents never ever gave me “the talk”. I just discovered it through my friends and the internet
same, my parents never gave me "the talk" cause they never lied to me. i always knew where babies came from. dont get why parents think its so bad to tell people. fr, some kids are legit scared theyre gonna get pregnant if they like someone cause parents dont wanna talk about it.
Same, I think they tried one time but I was just like yeah I already get the memo.
Oh jeez I hope it wasn’t adult videos because that can mentally scar a kid
It’s only supposed to be for 18+ anyway
I went with the honesty approach with my 4 kids. My youngest is 20 now and a few of mine are trying to start families, but there haven't been any unexpected surprises ❣️ And, my favorite part is, awkward moments or not, we can all talk about anything to one or another of us. If it is too much for them to tell me, they talk to each other openly. So I know they'll figure (almost) everything out that I did miss 😆
me too
Great work. My son is three, about to turn four and he said a few weeks ago "daddy I want a beard like you so I can shave." (Exact words, he's very well spoken). It made me tear up a bit. I used to be rather emotionless and a borderline sociopath until I had kids. Now I'm so emotional over them and kids in general. I'll get them learning from this show when they're eight.
Only few more years til they can watch him too,aye
Girls: “why won’t the boys talk to us?”
Look, we go through a whole mental plan just to speak to you. First we have to come up w/ something to say, then we have to think if the sentence conveys the right message, we then choose the best tone to suit our intentions, after that we second guess ourselves and wonder how you’ll react, so we then reword our sentence about 13 times like it’s college thesis, then comes the moment of truth on wether or not we let the phrase exit our mouths. 80% of the time we don’t. Keep in mind, this is just the formula for how we say “what’s up?” Or tell a joke to you.
And then The girl says"no i dont want to hear ur terrible jokes...
Can’t we just say both sides are equal gawdamn 💀
Not always….Outta the blue got into a random silly Barney with some woman over a petrol pump. I felt bad and offered to buy her a coffee, we been married 9 years and have two great kids… and another kid too lol
@@qaz2240 there not the equal tbh
@@aidandiederich8718 they are equal tbh
One thing is kind of messed up about growing up as a boy. You are marked for life. Unless you can shake the past, move somewhere new and have good luck. Getting suspended, detention, failing a class, word gets around. Teachers will reinforce your perceived social cast, I was shy so I became a bit of a class clown. I wasnt rude or disruptive, just did really good impressions and witty sarcastic comments. But teachers would subtly ruin your life. "That's not the topic I gave you"
but this is 4 weeks of work.
"Either fail or do it again?"
But hey you definately learn resilience strategies early as a male.
Teachers love to crush the soul of any student who is not a conforming robot.
this applies to everyone but yes it is worse with men
You were a God in my HS if you got OSS lol
Seems like a problem for weak betabois. Guessing you've already been told this: Man up.
Very well put 👍🏻
Man. I'm a female but I love learning about this stuff. It really helps give you a new perspective on things and how others go through life
Right? It's really interesting to see this side!
Oh so you like watching us suffer nice
@@Awizard_on_the_internet puberty is hard for both sides, that's why I like watching stuff like this so I'm not one sided
@@equinoxx1813 ok that fair
Ah yes, females watching us suffer
I changed school every year and rolled with every school's rules so I somewhat amazed to learn about what most boys go through.
Why change school every year?
The locker room is not really true anymore (in the U.S.). It was true when older people, like The Infographic's shows writers, were kids. But I'm 20 years old, and have been in and out of locker rooms my entire life and have never seen a dick.
@@Robot404_ will they it to you when asked?
@@OxOx_XoXo1 they could have a parent in the military, or they just live in an area full of different types or schools they switched ro
When it comes to the "emotionless male" thing, people tend to focus on the "don't cry" aspect of it (which I've literally never heard anyone seriously say, in my life), but the primary emotion that gets covered up is nervousness...not sadness. Hiding sadness is in there too, but it's not nearly as common.
Learning to hide a lack of confidence is something most guys have to learn at some point, because you're gonna have a really hard time finding someone to be with romantically if you can't ask them out without being a nervous mess. Women will reject you and not even be nice about it.
Can't look like a wuss in front of your friends, as a kid, so you better act tough even if you don't feel it.
I could go on, but I think you get the picture.
Ye confidence is important
You’ve never heard anyone say “boys don’t cry”? If you cried then everyone would just laugh at you and mock you forever. I want to know about where you grew up
@@maz1071 I've heard the expression, but never seen it used in a real-life situation. Crying got mocked, boy or girl, because children are terrible without having to discriminate.
@@themetalone7739 for me whenever any boy cried everyone would say that boys don't cry and to man up, I've even seen teachers say that to little kids.
@@maz1071 Might be a difference in time/place. I grew up in the 90s and early 2000s, in Maine and New Hampshire.
This feels a lot different to a British school, boys in the changing rooms spray tons of Lynx Africa deodorant everyway instead of showering and we wip each other with our belts instead
Lol exactly
In my school, first one to leave got to pick the next P.E session, so you know that someone is gonna start using deoderant as soap and water
In my school we don’t even use changing rooms anymore because because of covid so I can basically bring my own clothes two times per week, I only have to wear a school T-shirt.
@_Oceans_Edits_ lucky
@_Oceans_Edits_ yeah exactly, been there for a year and never wanna go back lol
My Dad had the "talk" with the first boy who took me to a dance. Corey just looked at him and said "I don't really understand what you're saying, because we're 12." I could hear Dad roaring with laughter from the other end of the house.
He was probably like he is pure enough you passed the test my boii
Who is Corey?
@@thiagogregory1 The boy who came to collect me for the dance.
I guess your dad went through puberty when he was 12!
@@EdwardM-t8p I'd say that's about right. I was well into puberty at 12, but Corey wasn't.
Never got how "Man up" turned into "Be emotionless". It means take care of your responsibilities, solve problems, take action. My dads "the talk" was handing me some condoms and a bag of weed, asking me what they were and saying "good man" when I answered correctly.
Yo dad had just had a whole stash of weed on him ready 😂
@@Keegan.999 lol
okay, but that dismisses the entire reason why men talk about their problem in the first place. if I, one man, can't solve my problems because they are too big, how am I supposed to solve them if society tells me to "man up" without actually giving me advice?
I'm a girl and my dad tells me to man up and i say no imma woman up💀🤚
@@ghoshtanisha8343 that's not funny
In high school I avoided showers like the plague and actually talked to a school counselor about it, sort of. I just dropped in a conversation, but they were very understanding about it and it turns out at my school, it wasn't really a requirement since a lot of students also refused to use the showers too, so they didn't enforce it and felt no need too. However, my senior year, I couldn't avoid it. My wrestling team just had a practice during the Christmas break and we were actually going on a trip to statewide wrestling tournament. We were all sweaty and the team in general decided everyone needed a shower since the bus wasn't scheduled to arrive for another 30 minutes. I tried to avoid it but the team insisted and oddly enough it was fine. I used every excuse I could but there was a rebuttal for each one. But in the end I was forced into the shower.
@phil robichaud Cheers from the United State known as Wisconsin.
Wow 1 day ago.
As a woman, never once saw any female using the shower in high school locker room! Between hair, make up, and the effort that would take to redo never saw anyone in that area, except female janitor..and me and my bff smoking devil's lettuce
Did you use someone elses shower stuff?
@@grantwalter2243 Just some shampoo and body wash(the kind in the bottle). I think we had the air dryers to stand under which wasn't too bad.
"threat my daughter with respect" Yes sir of course all the threats going to your daughter will be nothing but the utmost respectful 🙏
My teachers used to try to embarrass me in front of people, or that’s what I felt like, except for my science teacher, I often got distracted because I have ADHD so I would struggle to get things done but my science teacher made it easier for me to get my work done and didn’t try to embarrass me in front of people and was pretty chill ngl
I have never understood the "you must fight after school if challenged" no you don't, I actually believe it's a mockery towards the bully if you don't show, it's like saying "You are not worth my time"
It's more the rep and ripples through the school. If you don't show up the whole school will find out and you could lose all sort of respect and be targeted by others. You may get bullied because they know they you won't stand up for yourself and if you stay in the same school district it'll follow you everywhere and you'll have to deal with it. These schools have their own internal systems that are cruel. Yes you may be able to play it off by doing what you say but also maybe not.
kinda yeah... ive skipped school fights... and escaped fighting a few.... but its like even the bully forgets about it sometimes...
thought processes like this have to come from places that don't really have smoke fr.
I'd just downright say no right then and there lol
@@Zaron_Gaming never wait till after school. If we're fighting we're doing it now!
Boys' parents when we mention a girl: So have you thought about names for the kids?
Girls' parents when they mention a boy: Stay away from him! He's the Devil himself!
Foosball is the devil Bobby
Lol bruhhh 🤣🤣🤣
Opposite for me lol
my parents didnt ask me that, I don't know what my girlfriends parents thought though!
Already got names…
Jokes on you. First time I hung out with a female friend, we went and saw that movie about the reincarnating dog. And yes I cried. And I am not ashamed.
ohh I seen that one
A Dogs Purpose? That movie was horrendously saddening. I have no shame crying to that, after all everyone in the theater was with me.
@@lead_head @Link's True Power honestly ☹ if a male cried to that with me they'd have my heart idk why 💀
That and Marley and me
Good for you! I'm glad you chose to be a REAL guy and show your emotions. It's only human...
Bro i felt that,as boys at school there were huge brawls between classes and most of us were never part of them,then they punished the whole grade of boys because "we were all trouble makers",it was horrible to experience, my voice also became deeper at 13 which was nice as it was earlier than my friends
Where I live, being emotional really isn’t a massive problem for me and other boys, the teachers and principals are fair and never ignorant to a situation, and I haven’t been physically attacked since 5th grade (stabbed by a pencil). But this video really makes me fortunate about being in this school, since the guy who wants you to fight him after school would probably immediately get suspended and would be immediately held accountable.
That's amazing. Now that's a good school I'm glad.
Bro your so gonna be bullied by society if you don't control your emotions
@@deemogame3719 im so sorry that you live in a miserable society thats different than his. But you shouldn't try to limit someone's emotion just because you live in a bad environment. Just let him express whatever he wants to. Either he's gonna get judged or not its none of our concerns
I mean I literally got my head split open by some other kid throwing a bottle at me so I had no other choice but to cry and judging by the expression of everyone else they didn't blame me. And btw when you said you got stabbed by a pencil in 5th grade the exact same thing happened to another kid in my class.
Where do you live if you don't mind me asking?
Haha hearing all this stuff makes me a decorated boy veteran.
Do you even know what a veteran means
@Aayush Alt just making sure
@@chipping9255 you know about jokes?
@@erik8727 it’s not that it’s just people are always using that word and making that word to seem as it’s a joke
@@chipping9255 i guess so
“Threat” my daughter with respect at 3:45. Your spellchecker needs a pay cut 😂
No, you must threaten her with respect make her truly fear you through pure unadulterated respect.
Whoever thought to go out on a date is the one who's paying. If a girl asked you, she's paying and if a guy did he's paying. Simple enough.
Yeah
The thing is, the stigma, and often the expectation is that the boy will ask the girl out. Yeah, that is lame, and not always true for awesome people, but it still exists for many.
Yeah as I girl I think this is a great idea, not all men are always financially able to pay the bill even if they wanted to and I also think it should be more socially acceptable for girls to ask guys out.
Well, when I and my boyfriend go on a date, we pay for ourselves separately. We've been together for 3,5 years, engaged now, and it's always been like that. It's fair, I think.
@@majajedrzejczyk7992 I was thinking the same, it's the best option.
As a Sophomore in High school, experiencing his first year in high school. My dad never had the “talk”. I can’t pull the girls but this year has been a monumental step in the right direction, just gotta keep on rolling baby, we got 2 years left and man am I ready to go off
Speaking from experience, enjoy it while you can because it’ll all be over before you know it
@@RYMAN1321 I’m enjoying every minute of it, except the drama. Legit I get a birthday kiss from this Girl and she could’ve said no, but she somehow did it, and I kid u not she starts spreading these rumors about me, Girls are just different
It feels like you are telling your personal experiences 😂😂
might have not happened to you but all of this for sure did to me
@@Ratmasa such things happen in American schools, that guy doesn't look American atleast by name!
I haven’t cried in years. Being a guy is great.
We're allowed at funerals and ball games
@@doublethomas8415 And everywhere else? Lol
its not lol
@@doublethomas8415 I didn’t even cry at my grandpa’s funeral and he was my best friend.
@@BMoney8600 wow you’re so cool..
"You better be a gentlemen and threat my daughter with respect" That typo made me grin
The worst one is being a victim of misandry but not getting any attention because men are always guilty.
Right lol
Word
Happened a lot :)
Happened a lot :)
Everything is always the man's fault. We get nothing except the blame and the bill.
One way to not get in trouble at school is to get an early reputation for trying to avoid and never causing trouble. That way unless it was seen by multiple people you can be a bit crazy but if it was only you and someone else than you are not very likely to be blamed
Man these struggles are specially American school struggles. Where I live, we don’t shower at school, and it’s rare to change in the changing room as we just wear our sports uniform to school.
Boys bathroom gives me flashbacks to Normandy
Yes
@@rdr2v1nce7 I’ve got a plan
infographics: boys don't cry
me after watching Avengers endgame in 2019: its enough to make a grown man cry and that's ok
Everyone gonna be crying and screaming When we see toby in the new Spiderman movie too lol.
endgame was funny wym
They cry when i shame their small pp
@@OxOx_XoXo1 bruh
Yeah!
Everyone cried after that!
There is no shame in it!
Bro, infographic show seems more 'intense' lately 🧐
Agreed
Yes
THE WORST WAYS TO DIE IN PAIN!!!!!!!!!!!
Sus
Always has been
I had a high pitched voice back at 2019. My last achievement before having a deep voice is my friends and I winning a choir group. This was a School Vs. School thing. There were a lot of schools and we won choir.
My friends say that i can make my voice wave bass if I want to
My voice still hasn't changed that much but i ound too bad my voice is like distorted a little
3:45 : "You better be a gentlemen and threat my daughter with respect."
Me: Excuse me, what, typo?
Honestly, the infographics show did an amazing job on this video, I could relate to just about everything.
the part where someone had a stify in class is real haha i never got called but some other guy got caught by our technology/gym teacher in front of the whole class
What do you mean caught it’s not like he can control other then mentally trying to think thoughts to stop it
@@TimmyTheTuna its cause he was busy misbehaving while he has a stiff one the he was asked to leave the class 😂
@@Faust_ZA uh ok…
.... good job. Embarrassing a child in front of a class for something he can't control. People like that don't deserve to be a teacher
I love how the bubble said, "you better threat my daughter with respect..." instead of "treat..." if y'all need an editor, I'd be happy to extend my services.
its just a typo though. these guys pump out tons of vids, i dont mind
Woah calm down all you’ve done was a PowerPoint presentation it’s just a typo these guys make so much vids their editor has to work every day
Freudian slip?
0:54 Why is there a female teacher in the boys changing rooms ☠
Call the cops... CALL THE COPS THEY CAN'T KNOW THE SECRETS OF THE BOYS LOCKER ROOM!
Bullies have never affected me. I’m one of the strongest people in my school but I like to isolate myself. When someone ever tells me “fight after school”, it’s a bad day for them and a broken nose or jaw.
Same, The thing with bullies is they will leave you alone if you fight back, even if you get beat up.
Please make a video on the struggles of Introverts and Ambiverts! I'd love that! Btw, this one was great! 🔥
I don't think that's a good idea. It'll just appease the crowd of people falsely claiming to be introverts just to seem quirky and get attention
@@leafy126.5 They probably are introverts. We are loud on the internet but in real life, we don't talk that much lol
@CARNAGE lol
@@onichan6897 nah people just lie about mental health problems they feel slightly more upset than usual for a week and diagnose themselves with depression
@@LebronShaqthe2nd introversion is not a mental problem and you can determine if you're an introvert or an extrovert depending on how you socialize.
You detailed the boyhood experience down to a science.
Remind me why I really loved my childhood.
No taxes, no responsibilities, free food, water, and shelter.
So true i hate my life in Germany this is NK
If one is born male, every one will dream of one day Wanting to be the strongest in the world
To Go Beyond... PLUS ULTRA!
Baki Hanma
Yup!
Putin is that kind of guy
I'm your 69 like!
As a Cross Country runner who had 4 days a week of morning practice, the locker rooms were interesting to say the least. We didn’t have time to go home to shower so everyone just did it at school. There were usually about 7-10 of us who would all go into this room with showers on the wall (usually enough for all of us) this was obviously pretty awkward especially if you weren’t an upperclassmen who had done it before. I fortunately didn’t do morning runs until my sophomore year, so I didn’t get hazed. too bad. But the towel whipping would get a little hectic post shower. There were some stories of kids getting peed on in the shower by upperclassmen, or getting their towels taken and not given to them until pretty much once class started. Just stuff like that. But I assume this doesn’t happen in the girls locker rooms😂
4:45 wait...what..I never..WHAT
This video is relatable af . 😵😵😂😂
we are proud to gift the 2021 award to the Infographics show for the 'most relatable channel ever'!
Me in high school: Ok the liking girls thing will kick in any minute ... aaaaany minute ...
Me now: Oooohhhhh ... I'm gay!
Dang 😭 😭
Yep, that's me too haha!
Get well soon
@@paullussman8423 Same, you're cute 💖
@@bonebrothmerchant2007 😭😭 stop
Working as a teacher, many of these aren't gendered, especially bullying and misbehavior. I would rather someone frame this as a personal story though than drawing a picture framed as absolute.
You're totally missing the point of what was said in the video. Bullying part was showing that the bulied has to act manly and be able to take a fight. We girls, react to bullying in totally different ways and don't have the same pressure.
men and women are treated differently it’s. a fact either way you look at it.
0:38 gym class is actually great in the morning as someone who has it at 7: 45, in the summer it's warm enough near the end but nearer to noon it's already sweltering, especially if you're running
nothing is worse than puberty kicking in
in the middle of class
puberty kicked in yo!
Must be really traumatize
@@LordGarlicBread Yeah, but girls don’t have to worry about an obvious visible protrusion.
@@LordGarlicBread No no worries, in fact, I’d much rather deal with protrusions than a sodden state of affairs. I suppose for boys, it’s more embarrassing, and for girls, it’s more annoying.
@@TripMX I think they're both the same level of embarrassment if noticed. The problem could be, is that one is more frequent than the other.
The pig in the zip part brought back my childhood truma. Even listeining to that part sent shivers down my spine.
im 4 minutes in the video and I, a male, have never experienced the majority of these things...
also, are locker rooms and food fights gender specific??
For real
As a female I would say that the women's locker room wasn't chaotic at all nobody really did anything crazy but I dont think food fights are gender specific at all I've seen some girls start some pretty crazy food fights🤣🤣🤣.
Lol @ the dilemma with paying or not paying.
Say you're totally willing to pay, but that if she would feel bad about you paying you're fine with splitting the bill.
"Are you okay with me paying or would you prefer to split the bill? I'm comfortable with it either way."
She might say she wants to pay, and all you have to do is say thanks and that it feels nice to be treated.
1) Shows communication and that you're comfortable problem solving by expressing your feelings and thoughts
2)You can't go wrong if she's the one choosing.
3) Leads to conversation and getting to know her.
Not including her in decisions is a red flag for me.
Somewhat near correct, however at school for me the only thing taught socially & educationally was "that in life there is a social & economic ladder, I am not on it! And more than likely never will!"
15 years later & every memory or person from back then makes me cringe, thank god for the Internet, isolation & a touch of infographics
"If the father is cleaning his shotgun when you show up for your date..."
*Ms. Infographics: Shows a repeating rifle, not a shotgun*
It could be a lever action shotgun. They make shotguns like that too, especially .410
Ways you know this video is made by an American...
That would explain all the screams of horrors I heard from the boy's locker rooms
And then they would just come to gym class like nothing happened???
As someone from middle east, only the first two to three minutes apply for me, lol. When you get to the dating part everything is different 😂
Yall have showers? this seems kind of dated because most american schools dont let students shower like that together
how is it different
@@lindsey7951 we don't
3:30
Me a gay man: I don’t have such weaknesses
no fr😭
For REAL i have like so many girl best friends to choose from 😭
Men just flaunt their bodies when they're alone with someone or just when they feel muscular and good looking. They feel shy flaunting when it's in front of many and if they are not so muscular.. Usually
Mhm I understand the pain for sure I feel all the pain being a teenager boy and if I can go to all the pain and get though it then I bet everyone can, just don't think about it to hard or overdo it everything will go your way but it will take time so I will come sooner then you think :)
yep, you're definitely a teenager alright.
you're in for a rude awakening when you get older. As an adult you find out the hard way that happy endings are exclusive to Disney movies
@@TheRealDemocat yep ! RUDE AWAKENING !!!
This is an interesting video for us females. Some things are annoyingly similar and some things are not things we are bothered by.
From a German perspective, this school cafeteria stuff was really unfamiliar. In Germany (at least in Bavaria, It could be different in other states) the school day lasts from 8am until 1pm, so you don't really eat at school. And everyone showering after PE isn't really a thing at my school, since you aren't at school for hours, and you can use deodorant to not smell, and just shower when you come home.
A similar thing but usually 8pm-3pm, and we don't have the Cafeteria thing. At least I haven't experienced anything like it. I am from Australia.
This is the same for Polish schools, School ranges from 8:30 to 1-3PM, There is lunch but it's just a small room with not enough space to perform any true fight, Showering after PE is also not a thing in here so yeah
it amazes me how different American schools are from Aussies like we dont have lockers or changing rooms or prom. we dont have locker to shove all our books in we just carry every thing in our bags, if ur like me and just have one book a pen and money to buy lunch then yeah its easy. i literally have the smallest bag for school. and grading is different too primary is 1-6 and high school is 7-12. and ya done
I have hair everywhere, why should i be shaving so much when i can't just shower properly.
But if i could get 100% rid of armpit hair i certainly would.
Shave it off, I do.
@@squirrelcovers6340
I trim mine 💀💀💀
Shaving gets them wicked itchy at the slightest hint of sweat. 🤣
Hair removal cream bro you'll be hair free for a couple weeks
Just be careful looking down and getting it on your beard if you have one
Pit hair was a biological mistake. But yeah, I suggest trimming real short, bald turns scratchy like beard stubble real fast and its far more active
Through the years I've been watching you guys I've learned so much. Now i see why school is pretty much useless 😂😂
2:36 my school has cameras everywhere yet they still punish everyone around the troublemaker cause it’s easier for them
School has reached the new low
Ima attach a god dang camera to my head as proof then if they try to suspend me and the boys the school is getting covered in tp.
3:43 THREAT MY daughter with respect, yep got it🤣💀
3:45 "You better be a gentleman and "threat" my daughter with respect" LOL
First time I ever shaved was in Basic Training, I didn't get everything and the Drill Sargent made me dry shave in front of everyone. Not very fun.
Did the same at basic too.
*Infographics show.. awesome video yet again*
Oh boy... I was, at times, somewhat wild as a boy. I remember getting called to the principals office every single day because something happened. I didn't even need to be in the same area, but it still was my fault.
I remember getting suspended for beating a kid up...he literally started punching me in the back of the head out of nowhere because he thought I liked his girlfriend. He lost the fight I got suspended for defending myself and the kids parents called the police and try to charge me with assault. Luckily there was cellphone footage of the whole thing. Not gonna lie I was pretty scared
@@toedrag-release yeah, schools don't like selfdefence..... best thing is to defend yourself and then call the police so they can document it.
@@toedrag-release the school rushing out of their classroom to defend the bully: 🏃
@@toedrag-releaseWow, like a true coward, punching you from behind. He deserved what you gave him.
Don't ever be afraid to stand up for yourself especially against a bully. Even when you fight him and loose but you hit him a few times. Next time he will leave you alone because he knows now you are gonna fight back and bullies don't like that
*Middle school,is the place where i wana just end my life because of being unrespected by everyone,be called in names by everyone,and being rejected just because of one small internal hobby.*
-me, aviation expert.
Yes very true as a boy I remember the civil war in middle School the two 7th grade classes had a food fight over a disagreement on the 7th grade field trip than the mother of all food fights the food fight of Indian Ave 6th graders vs 7th graders vs 8th graders as the 7th graders we chose to put our difference aside and teamed up against the 6th and 8th graders
And to think there are starving people in the world and we are over here throwing food at each other as a weapon
@@PerfectStorm1986 we were kids most kids don't know best till taught learn your place Karen
Congratulations on hitting 11M guys!! Keep up the work👊🏻
My son is turning 10 years old end of the year and he's already asking questions. He's an A student and reads a lot so he's now asking questions so I'm in full dad mode
Sexplanations is a good channel to watch on TH-cam that could help you with that, she has some good videos on the anatomy
Luckily being both gay and unathletic saved me from both dealing with women and those locker room stages. And being a recluse has also protected me from any major injuries (aside from the ones I cause just by being a clumsy buffoon). Though from what I can relate to this video is pretty accurate.
2:26 so true dude
When I was at school, I stopped showering after the pe lesson because on the rare occasion somebody did take a shower, the other boys would literally try to kick the door down!
You had a door?
It happens to the best of us men
Yes
I know how they feel I feel the exact same way when I’m around girls it’s aqward and when a girl says she likes me I feel so uncomfortable
1:53 for us its "after school is after school" once u hear that its wraps
Its incredible how italian school is 100+ time harder.
We dont even have events at school.
When i was in middle school i knew only one thing: study for a whole week.
We knew no girls or fun. Only study.
I snuck into my school's girl's locker room before. I was shocked and amazed at how luxurious it was. It was **exactly** the same size as the boy's locker room, but they each had separate shower stalls and separate changing rooms.
I guess this was another example of "male privilege", right?
Pervy much?
why would you snuck into a girl's locker room in the first place...?
something wrong w you bro
Why do girls get more respect?
Funny because I’ve been on military bases that only had male designated change rooms. I guess that’s female privilege, right?
Get over yourself.
Of course girls always get treated better. I guess teenage boys r just savages that don't deserve that luxury.
This sounds more like a personal problem not the entirety of boys problems
Willing to confirm, these are pretty typical US male experiences. Can't think of a single one that didnt affect me at one point or another.
exactly
Girls, in general, are afforded more privacy.
@@TheRustedShackleford how bout gay kids in the US how are they generally treated by straight boy classmates?
@@romella_karmey not very good depends on where you are in the US, ik my school the boys use gay as an insult
It’s also annoying and weird that female teachers can walk into the girls and boys changing room and the male teachers can just only walk into the boys changing room. Very weird.
True
I got in 2 fights in elementary but as soon as I got in high school and started weightlifting and playing football I never got in a fight again. Nearly everyone was my friend and those who weren't just stayed away from me. No one wanted to pick a fight with "big body/dump truck"
Nice!
Bro casually roasted every minute
The worst thing about school is that when you get bullied, the entire class follows
Ye
1:25 BRO THERE ARE SHOWERS IN SCHOOLS??? THAT'S HORRIBLE.
Luckily for me. Here in Italy's schools there are no public showers. And the toilets have cabinets.
Oh and also. No Prom!
But in the end... no one asked for me to comment this, so I will just stay silent now.
Do you not do any sports class?
I'm a girl, and honestly not all of this is men's only. Especially the locker room and paying for things, but maybe that's just a small town thing or something?
do you agree its harder for a boy to get a girl, ,girl always have more choices than boys
I don’t know my sexuality so always lock myself in stall , better than dealing with low frequency moments.
Why do people keep conflating "men dont cry" with "men are supposed to be emotionless"? Thats not what it means.
Oh those were the days. - when I was a small boy at high school - 2003-2008 -
I was in most of all those circumstances. - Only had a single mother.
Such horrific memories, though I was a - late developer - so girls then weren't in my interest.
Yes for every bloke/guy who went through all this as I did, I feel for them. -- 😓😣
Schools in the UK aren't much different to the US - Except, fighting is rarer and we wear uniforms akin to businessmen/women
I’m sure you have more than one uniform though right ?
So you don’t have to keep cleaning just one ?
@@RYMAN1321 lol
Der!
😂😂
Yes I had 3 in fact haha
I do miss the old cell phones mind haha
I had a Motorola flip open.
Modern cell phones then only had 3 features -
A screen with Literal buttons to operate it with 📲
The ability to text and call
That was about it! 😂🤙
Most intense typo I've ever read... "Threat my daughter with respect" 🥶
"Middle school dance"
I am in high school and I have still not had any physical interaction with any girl
Pog
I’m graduated and am in the same boat
Honestly, as a black man who went to an all white school, all I can say is my daddy blessed me. I also showered next to the biggest white dude, and we became friends. Oh, we had some good ol times too. But at least the other boys were looking at both of us now and it felt less weird.
Dont worry, it got more weird in senior year 😘
5:18 “hey nice cocktail” 😂😂
The thing I could relate to is the not being able to cry part because I’m apparently not allowed to because it’s somehow wrong 😑
but ur gril
@@chopsyoutube your point, my dads the one that makes me feel like it’s wrong which makes since because he’s a guy but it doesn’t make it right 😆
American culture lol