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In this day and age, there’s no reason for anyone to be ‘alone’, that that doesn’t mean coupled up. Meetup, volunteer, online classes, exercise/gym, etc. I understand if someone, for whatever reason, doesn’t want to participate but let’s not say the opportunities aren’t abundant. I’m more of an introvert, moved across the country, bought a place in a 55+ community, and was able to participate in activities where I interacted with people. I had a fabulous, fun single life for a long time with and without boyfriends. It’s a choice. The perfect person isn’t knocking on one’s door.
I get the point. Been working from home for several years now and also following a year-long online course. I appreciate all opportunities that online brought me *and* I think nothing beats meeting up in person🤗 developing an emotional connection is what matters to me most.
I am a vibrant energetic and young looking 72 year old woman and have been on dating sites for over 10 years. I have been gravely disappointed. I love your Mantra and I totally believe that if I'm meant to be with someone God will bring me the right person. I know so many people who are so desperate to find a companion and be in a relationship. I do live alone but I am never lonely. I've done the other work that needs to be done and now all I need is that very special man to enter my life. But if he doesn't, I'm okay with that too. Thank you so much for making me feel better about this issue.
I wouldn't chase love at all and especially not love in dating on line apps. Yuck. Sit back and stop being needy, wanting and in lack. Drop the line it's hard. If you give too much pressure in finding love it becomes frustrating and hard. Do you, enjoy you, love you and love will find you. It's called letting go. Let love come to you. Yes great advice. When you let go it comes in. I met my last person will out walking was very unexpected.
Making effort by joining groups , meet-ups and take up hobbies. Go dancing to the pub/ bar join their activities, art club, film club etc. it’s the best way! Just know what you want even on the apps I agree with Jonathan set the intention. I personally prefer to avoid the apps!
Here is how you meet people in the real world. You go into the real world and talk to people. The more people you meet and talk to and get to know, the more you know. And all these people know other single people. Eventually, not immediately, the subjct can come up if you ask if they know any single people who would be a good match for you. Never been on the dating sites, I meet all the men I have been in past relationships with in real life. Just met a man a couple days ago that could be a good potential. Also 💯 work on yourselves. So many people have this long list of what they want but don't offer the same in return. Be kind.
True re Gottmans understanding the meet up process, it’s not the part they specialize in, and I notice my married family and friends don’t seem to understand at all either.
Soooo true, if you’re not ready to take care of somebody, you’re not ready for relationship. Love that, healthy reciprocity concept. But, yes, you will feel that way only about a certain person. Not just anyone.
What’s a date? It’s been SO LONG since I had an actual “date” with someone who MIGHT TRULY be the tiniest bit interested in me that I can’t even remember how long it has been. I got divorced in 2015. I have only found 2 guys in 9 years, then they also just wanted to use me. 😂🤣😂🤣 So I don’t even try anymore. That last man (that I’d known for 20 years, just as friends) even ended up wanting us to be friends with benefits. It was the perfect example of a situationship. No I don’t guess it’s resonating with me, even as much as I love you Johnathon! My ex that I was married to would love to just hook up and he’s married again? Wtf?
I accept that if I was with a Man taking care of Him could be something I might encounter I’m fine with that It goes for emotional support as well I still believe in for better or worse , sickness/health Even though I’m not wanting marriage I have a chronic health condition myself I’m not seeking a care giver I do need somebody caring , compassionate and kind I have these qualities to share if I’m treated well 💕
We are living in Age Kaliyuga...time of chaos and loss of spirituality. God or your greater Power should be priority one's life. This lifetime is temporary. Souls aren't. When u live as a soul serving a greater power serenity and all you want comes your way including love. 🙏
I don't have enough time to just let things go by and I realize now I'm in a narrow category as I'm very interested in UFOs. Because I lived in a hot spot so I can't just say you know hey I'm into music and archeology too because, the UFOs were a long-standing thing in my part of town, and now because of the Congress and stuff coming out with it and David grush I all of a sudden I feel more like talking about it but I'm still living in a place where unless you've seen them for yourself it's still considered a fringe thing to even talk about. Happily I just got subsidized housing right in the nick of time I actually didn't get it I found one myself I had been on the list for 2 and 1/2 years and nothing was moving I had I was down to my last month's rent when I found it I I kid you not. I'm still Shell shocked from trying to figure out whether I was going to put a gun to my head or what and then all of a sudden finding myself moving into a new apartment I'm still in shock. Things are going real slow here although it's a nice place to live it's even more country and harder to find people with open minds. Because not only do I not have a spaceship I don't have a car either.lol
❤ Finding your last love is impossible , dating apps should be called hook-up apps. Once in a while , a match happens, but I agree that it is the most miserable process that makes me feel worse. I do like your mantra Jonathan. Thank you. Just because there are meet up groups , that doesn't mean you find dating possibilities either mostly single women that dont have strong soul connections either. If you dont have strong family ties, your basically doomed . The possibility of meeting your person especially while aging is far fetched. Thx though for trying to bring optimism through positive manifestation into the picture.
Question::: With so many men on the dating sites, and they want to make contact with you. How do you know for sure if they are really a nice guy that you would like to give a chance, but then when you talk for a long time ( after a year) you find out he only wants money, so then you have wasted a year out of your life to find out he was only a scammer. How long do you give them a chance to prove they are really a nice guy?
I only chat with someone for a week or 2. By then, if he hasn't suggested a meeting, I move on. Or I would suggest we meet. I'm not wasting my time. I don't want a pen pal!
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In this day and age, there’s no reason for anyone to be ‘alone’, that that doesn’t mean coupled up. Meetup, volunteer, online classes, exercise/gym, etc. I understand if someone, for whatever reason, doesn’t want to participate but let’s not say the opportunities aren’t abundant. I’m more of an introvert, moved across the country, bought a place in a 55+ community, and was able to participate in activities where I interacted with people. I had a fabulous, fun single life for a long time with and without boyfriends. It’s a choice. The perfect person isn’t knocking on one’s door.
Good point...
I get the point. Been working from home for several years now and also following a year-long online course. I appreciate all opportunities that online brought me *and* I think nothing beats meeting up in person🤗 developing an emotional connection is what matters to me most.
I am a vibrant energetic and young looking 72 year old woman and have been on dating sites for over 10 years. I have been gravely disappointed. I love your Mantra and I totally believe that if I'm meant to be with someone God will bring me the right person. I know so many people who are so desperate to find a companion and be in a relationship. I do live alone but I am never lonely. I've done the other work that needs to be done and now all I need is that very special man to enter my life. But if he doesn't, I'm okay with that too. Thank you so much for making me feel better about this issue.
My pleasure 🙏
I wouldn't chase love at all and especially not love in dating on line apps. Yuck. Sit back and stop being needy, wanting and in lack. Drop the line it's hard. If you give too much pressure in finding love it becomes frustrating and hard. Do you, enjoy you, love you and love will find you. It's called letting go. Let love come to you. Yes great advice. When you let go it comes in. I met my last person will out walking was very unexpected.
Thanks for sharing 👍🏼
You’re right…. It is absolute cluster “F”
in the dating world of 60’s.
I hear that Susan. In all demographics. 😄
Humans are a mess... lol
"The right person will find me" I appreciate that mantra. I will add it to my daily meditation and prayer. Thank you Jonathan😊
You are so welcome
Making effort by joining groups , meet-ups and take up hobbies. Go dancing to the pub/ bar join their activities, art club, film club etc. it’s the best way! Just know what you want even on the apps I agree with Jonathan set the intention. I personally prefer to avoid the apps!
Indeed
Here is how you meet people in the real world. You go into the real world and talk to people. The more people you meet and talk to and get to know, the more you know. And all these people know other single people. Eventually, not immediately, the subjct can come up if you ask if they know any single people who would be a good match for you. Never been on the dating sites, I meet all the men I have been in past relationships with in real life. Just met a man a couple days ago that could be a good potential. Also 💯 work on yourselves. So many people have this long list of what they want but don't offer the same in return. Be kind.
Amen 🙏
I Will be honest the dating apps have Never been to appealing to me.
Love, love, love, Marianne Williamson's "A return to Love".
She speaks TRUTH.
Me too
That right person will find me.
I seriously needed to hear this today. "The right person will find me." I thought maybe they did, but he was not the right person
He will
True re Gottmans understanding the meet up process, it’s not the part they specialize in, and I notice my married family and friends don’t seem to understand at all either.
Yes, but I wished they would talk about it...
I believe IF we spend our time investing in ourselves. the right person will come into our life - IF they are meant to be there.
Agreed!
Invest in those that invest in you!
Soooo true, if you’re not ready to take care of somebody, you’re not ready for relationship. Love that, healthy reciprocity concept. But, yes, you will feel that way only about a certain person. Not just anyone.
Exactly
The right person will find me !!!🙏💛✨
Indeed
Thank you for your perspective on why the dating apps seem to want to punish us …Lol!
My pleasure
Hi Jonathon! I had great time at your mixer. Hope we can make San Diego happen!
Thank you
Patty
awe... thank you for coming. If you put together a group of people, I'll drive down there.
But i do believe that if you dont put yourself at risk to meet someone you Will never give yourself a chance to start over again.
Indeed
I m in my single era, so done with dating aps
What’s a date? It’s been SO LONG since I had an actual “date” with someone who MIGHT TRULY be the tiniest bit interested in me that I can’t even remember how long it has been. I got divorced in 2015. I have only found 2 guys in 9 years, then they also just wanted to use me. 😂🤣😂🤣 So I don’t even try anymore. That last man (that I’d known for 20 years, just as friends) even ended up wanting us to be friends with benefits. It was the perfect example of a situationship. No I don’t guess it’s resonating with me, even as much as I love you Johnathon! My ex that I was married to would love to just hook up and he’s married again? Wtf?
Have you examined why you haven't been asked out on a date?
I accept that if I was with a Man taking care of Him could be something I might encounter
I’m fine with that
It goes for emotional support as well
I still believe in for better or worse , sickness/health
Even though I’m not wanting marriage
I have a chronic health condition myself
I’m not seeking a care giver
I do need somebody caring , compassionate and kind
I have these qualities to share if I’m treated well 💕
YES!
We are living in Age Kaliyuga...time of chaos and loss of spirituality. God or your greater Power should be priority one's life. This lifetime is temporary. Souls aren't. When u live as a soul serving a greater power serenity and all you want comes your way including love. 🙏
Interesting...
I just Googled it... there are 400,000+ years left in that cycle. UGH!
Haha
Big Hugs Jonathon 🤗
WOW! Thank you, and much appreciated. Any chance you can share this video with friends?
I don't have enough time to just let things go by and I realize now I'm in a narrow category as I'm very interested in UFOs. Because I lived in a hot spot so I can't just say you know hey I'm into music and archeology too because, the UFOs were a long-standing thing in my part of town, and now because of the Congress and stuff coming out with it and David grush I all of a sudden I feel more like talking about it but I'm still living in a place where unless you've seen them for yourself it's still considered a fringe thing to even talk about. Happily I just got subsidized housing right in the nick of time I actually didn't get it I found one myself I had been on the list for 2 and 1/2 years and nothing was moving I had I was down to my last month's rent when I found it I I kid you not. I'm still Shell shocked from trying to figure out whether I was going to put a gun to my head or what and then all of a sudden finding myself moving into a new apartment I'm still in shock. Things are going real slow here although it's a nice place to live it's even more country and harder to find people with open minds. Because not only do I not have a spaceship I don't have a car either.lol
Meet in bars in 20s But what did midlife people do to meet before online dating? Probably church.
Sometimes...
Hi Jonathon, I'm not on any dating apps, 😅❤😊
🙏👍🏼👌
Yay! Neither am I. 😁
❤ Finding your last love is impossible , dating apps should be called hook-up apps. Once in a while , a match happens, but I agree that it is the most miserable process that makes me feel worse. I do like your mantra Jonathan. Thank you. Just because there are meet up groups , that doesn't mean you find dating possibilities either mostly single women that dont have strong soul connections either. If you dont have strong family ties, your basically doomed . The possibility of meeting your person especially while aging is far fetched. Thx though for trying to bring optimism through positive manifestation into the picture.
Yes I cant take this?😊❤I have hope johnathon❤
🙏
Question::: With so many men on the dating sites, and they want to make contact with you. How do you know for sure if they are really a nice guy that you would like to give a chance, but then when you talk for a long time ( after a year) you find out he only wants money, so then you have wasted a year out of your life to find out he was only a scammer. How long do you give them a chance to prove they are really a nice guy?
Ask a very deep question in the first communication...
I only chat with someone for a week or 2. By then, if he hasn't suggested a meeting, I move on. Or I would suggest we meet. I'm not wasting my time. I don't want a pen pal!
Question-how did your in person meet-up social go?
Went well...
omghosh yes I am!!!
Gotcha
Why didn't Linda just say can you not please say okay dokey? Isn't that more adult?
My guess is... if she liked him, she would not have minded.
@@JonathonAslay yes I guess it was just an excuse.
I need to add a full body pic on my profile but so very tired of being fetishized.
Men are visual...
Whiney stuff, let's blame the parents...
Why?
❤