The Overlooked Connection Between ADHD and Sleep

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  • People with ADHD often have problems getting to sleep, but is it the ADHD symptoms that causes the lack of sleep or lack of sleep that cause ADHD symptoms?
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  • @jemmac5433
    @jemmac5433 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16510

    you know the ADHD is real when you're watching this video and reading the comments at the same time when you should actually be asleep

    • @feeelf
      @feeelf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +440

      +1 but watching different videon on my phone and tv respectively while reading comments lol

    • @Mr6Sinner
      @Mr6Sinner 4 ปีที่แล้ว +191

      @@feeelf And listening to music

    • @arri159
      @arri159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +213

      And when you have to be up in just a few hours because you are a health worker and work in-spite of quarantine. Fun club this

    • @InderjitSingh12
      @InderjitSingh12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      lol

    • @muttzoone
      @muttzoone 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Jemma C
      It’s 2:35am here lol

  • @ronakino
    @ronakino 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5516

    Well, it’s hard to fall asleep when your brain won’t shut up.

    • @1bangdan121
      @1bangdan121 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Word, bare loud

    • @lilag3807
      @lilag3807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +201

      Seriously, my brain is so loud and annoying when I'm trying to sleep

    • @N3RDYG0GGLES
      @N3RDYG0GGLES 3 ปีที่แล้ว +281

      I know this comment is from a while ago but THIS. “Quiet your mind”? Nah mate I’ve constantly got sound or music replaying in my head like the phantom of the bloody opera.

    • @bamboozledpotat3784
      @bamboozledpotat3784 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      @@N3RDYG0GGLES yea me too I got the song "bone dry" stuck in my head and random past memories constantly replaying itself

    • @-cookiezila-461
      @-cookiezila-461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Well you wouldn't enjoy tinnitus

  • @RogueAstro85
    @RogueAstro85 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +490

    I told my mom for years that I felt better when I went to sleep at 12-2am and woke up around 10am. She never believed me until recently when she started looking into ADHD and realized that her whole immediate family likely has it, including her.

    • @miss_xenia_
      @miss_xenia_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      Classic 😅 which doesn’t help with getting diagnosed or accepting the connection since it’s just “normal” for the family 🙈🤪

    • @Dancestar1981
      @Dancestar1981 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      This works for me too but my family are always calling me lazy

    • @DawnDavidson
      @DawnDavidson 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      That is EXACTLY the range I default to when I am not required to keep a “more normal” schedule. Yes, I have ADHD, diagnosed about 12 years ago when I was just shy of age 49. It does not surprise me that this is yet another symptom related to ADHD.

    • @jean-francoisdaignault9612
      @jean-francoisdaignault9612 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Same!!! Those couple hours of silence and solitude after everyone has gone to bed… glorious.
      Whenever someone makes a comment or “joke” about my sleeping in I just think “laugh all you want, I wouldn’t trade that alone time for anything.”
      *sigh*… normies.

    • @alexandermcclure6185
      @alexandermcclure6185 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ...Well that explains a lot.

  • @jevvvNZ
    @jevvvNZ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +114

    Hands up all my fellow ADHDers who have to watch videos at 1.5-2x speed so you can concentrate enough :)
    Thank you Hank!

    • @DailyDose926
      @DailyDose926 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I had to pause and restart several times. It sucks not being able to concentrate 🥲

    • @alexandermcclure6185
      @alexandermcclure6185 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I watch videos at 1.5x so I can concentrate, and I watch Minecraft Letsplays at 2x because it's "too slow", meanwhile other people would probably have to slow down any videos that I edit so they could understand them. Ah, the joys of ADHD.

    • @michellewilliams9772
      @michellewilliams9772 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I'm watching this at 3:38am at 2x speed. I've never related so much to an entire comment section before.

    • @Ghs6
      @Ghs6 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      idk if i have adhd but but i had to close the comments so I'd stop reading them instead of the captions

    • @Tamaresque
      @Tamaresque 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yep. 1.5X if there is no talk - 1.25X if there is talk.

  • @RebakaChan
    @RebakaChan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30182

    every time I learn something about ADHD, my reaction is always "well that explains a lot"

    • @friendofallcats3544
      @friendofallcats3544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +847

      This is painfully relatable

    • @TheFiddleChuck
      @TheFiddleChuck 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      Same

    • @lupusgreywood
      @lupusgreywood 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Same

    • @jonfoskey5127
      @jonfoskey5127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Ditto...

    • @MazerTime
      @MazerTime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +201

      I highly suggest How To Adhd and Tottally ADD youtube channels.
      Watching them was a continues "oh... that explain it..." and learning to accept that adhd affect me much more than i realised

  • @carenrose6002
    @carenrose6002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2899

    Very glad not to hear the usual "oh, you've just got to avoid screen time after 8pm and magically you'll go to bed earlier"
    Like noooo, I've lived with this brain my whole life and I can tell you, I could sit in a dark room *all day long* but that time between midnight and 2am, I'll be *wide* awake.

    • @TheCatWrangler
      @TheCatWrangler 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      EXACTLY . Thank you, my thoughts exactly.

    • @Wendy-je9zf
      @Wendy-je9zf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      BRUH, RIGHT?!

    • @codename495
      @codename495 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      YES!

    • @no_peace
      @no_peace 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Every doctor i saw about it over like 10 years of my trying to get help told me the same thing and a lot of them were actually really aggressive about it. Then the sleep specialist diagnosed me with DSPD and it was like @&#$ YOU DOCTORS 🖕🏻

    • @no_peace
      @no_peace 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      I just wanna know what percentage of iRrEsPonSiBlE bEhAvIoR is literally a disease we can't identify yet

  • @Dormat25
    @Dormat25 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +356

    Regarding people who have a later sleep cycle; maybe there is no problem. Having people awake at more times of the night likely meant their ancestor tribe would live through the night. Maybe the real problem is forcing everyone to wake up at the same time.

    • @trif55
      @trif55 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      this, i'm quite happy falling asleep between 11pm and 4am and I can manage a few days on 4 or 5 hours then have a longer sleep

    • @Eagle3302PL
      @Eagle3302PL 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

      It really is, before industrialisation you'd sleep when you needed to sleep, napping was also a regular thing. Farmers would ofc work at the crack of dawn but then they'd take midday siestas to avoid the midday sun, so did hunter gatherers. Also it was quite common for people to go to sleep, wake up at night, hang around and do some chores for a few hours, then go back to sleep. Human night vision is actually not that bad, and since we discovered fire there was always a dim light source available.

    • @made.online2149
      @made.online2149 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

      Absolutely this. There is some loose genealogical evidence to state that what we now call ADHD might be the genetic remnants of ancestors who lived a nomadic lifestyle, hence why it's so prevalent in humanity rather than having been selected for.
      Most of my 'problems' with ADHD are actually problems with how it interfaces with modern society.

    • @SadisticSenpai61
      @SadisticSenpai61 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      As usual, it's the modern society's devotion to the clock that's the primary problem, not neurodivergent ppl.

    • @rayv98k
      @rayv98k 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Tell that to the people around me that keep pestering me with "maintaining a normal persons sleep schedule"

  • @samim6809
    @samim6809 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +137

    I'm watching 3 years later at 3:30 am. Was diagnosed with ADHA this year at age 56. There is so much to learn. As I do learn about it, I'm shocked no physician diagnosed me sooner. Only diagnosed after my youngest was diagnosed, and I started researching ways to help them. This led to my talking with my doctor and asking if I could have it also. So many aha moments since.

    • @e2b265
      @e2b265 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Well it’s not really a physician’s field, I don’t know your symptoms but most of them are stuff you can only really fully diagnose if you’re actually looking for it specifically, which is usually a psychiatrist thing.

    • @DawnDavidson
      @DawnDavidson 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yeah, I got diagnosed after going through the second and more definitive diagnosis of my own daughter. I think it’s pretty common, especially for women.

    • @HasanProd
      @HasanProd 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      me toooo, watching it at 2:50

    • @brighampitts
      @brighampitts 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      SAME. Its 2:57 rn for me

    • @xianvox22
      @xianvox22 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Literally came here to say pretty much the same thing. 2:43am, though. 😂

  • @MatthewStinar
    @MatthewStinar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1650

    As a teenager and young adult, I remember wishing I could adopt a 26 hour day instead of going to bed late and waking up tired.

    • @ladybaabaa3294
      @ladybaabaa3294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me too!

    • @TimeofRagnarok
      @TimeofRagnarok 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I know what you mean.

    • @kristyjnh
      @kristyjnh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I've literally had that thought before too

    • @ladybaabaa3294
      @ladybaabaa3294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      I used to daydream that I had a remote control that could pause time. I could sleep for a bunch of hours while time paused around me. I could also fast forward boring or unpleasant things and rewind and watch memories back (but not change them! Even my daydreams had rules at 10 years old. lol)
      I just realised that movie Click with Adam Sandler basically stole my daydream 30 years after I first had it. 😛

    • @ceilingfun2182
      @ceilingfun2182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Mine close to 2 hours too. After high school instead of forcing myself to sleep I slept whenever I feel like it. My sleep schedule cycles day and night in about a week period. Every day by sleeping by an hour and 45 minutes later than I did the previous day.

  • @OpenMind3000
    @OpenMind3000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3064

    I have adhd but no trouble sleeping, but I go to bed at 6 in the morning 😁

    • @tristantheoofer2
      @tristantheoofer2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      im autistic and potentially also have adhd bc yeeee. meh circadian rhythms s l i g h t l y fucked up and by dat mean im a night owl lol. sleep at 1 wake up at 10. always been like dat. also whenever i miss a sleep cycle after abt 12-1 am my brains just adds 1 on lol.

    • @Lisa-fp1fu
      @Lisa-fp1fu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I Love how i find your comments everywhere 😂 Zufall ? Ich glaube nicht.

    • @a-ju7464
      @a-ju7464 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same

    • @ma.2089
      @ma.2089 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I feel like going to bed at 6 means you got trouble sleeping if you’re staying up cuz ur not tired

    • @a-ju7464
      @a-ju7464 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@ma.2089 the thing is I'm hella tired and I'm sure I could sleep immediately if I go to bed, but I'm sitting here, doing anything but not going to sleep

  • @steceymorgan814
    @steceymorgan814 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +251

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @Jennifer-bw7ku
      @Jennifer-bw7ku 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Does anyone know any good source to get them? I put so much on my plate and it definitely affects my stress and anxiety levels, would love to give shrooms a try.

    • @elizabethwilliams6651
      @elizabethwilliams6651 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, dr.sporesss

    • @eddiejohn8506
      @eddiejohn8506 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dr.sporesss is the best, he's been my go to for anything psychedelics.

    • @Jennifer-bw7ku
      @Jennifer-bw7ku 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is he on instagram?

    • @elizabethwilliams6651
      @elizabethwilliams6651 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes he is. dr.sporesss

  • @thermonuclearwarhead
    @thermonuclearwarhead 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    As a case study I closed all the blinds and just slept and woke whenever I felt like it during summer break for like 5 weeks when I was 16-17. Ended up sleeping as if the day/night cycle was 26/27 hours long. Funny how this backs my experience up so well. Oh, and yeah, I slept really well during that time, no issues.

    • @Tamaresque
      @Tamaresque 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Some people who have locked themselves away in a cave as an experiment had 26 hour cycles, too.

  • @IAmNumber4000
    @IAmNumber4000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4452

    Can confirm, I have ADHD and my sleep schedule can get real wild. If left to my own devices I will push my bedtime further and further back, a couple hours at a time, until I’m only awake when it’s dark out, then push it _further_ until I’ve come full circle to a normal sleep schedule.
    It’s tough when you’re trying to fall asleep but at 4:00 AM your eyes snap open when you realize you have a question that desperately needs to be answered by Google.

    • @Pai262
      @Pai262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +202

      Thats exactly what my roommate is doing. He has ADHD and there will be times where our waking times overlap and sometimes we're completely off.

    • @prinxen1733
      @prinxen1733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      *Look into Non-24 circadian rhythms?

    • @MikuHatsune-yv8yi
      @MikuHatsune-yv8yi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      Same!! I try to go to bed before 12-1AM but if I start going to bed when I'm actually tired it just gets later every night.

    • @MikuHatsune-yv8yi
      @MikuHatsune-yv8yi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@prinxen1733 That is exactly it, thank you.

    • @veefrain6232
      @veefrain6232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Thats how i pulled 2 all nighters/dayers in a week

  • @Monody512
    @Monody512 4 ปีที่แล้ว +524

    "…why you're watching it at 3AM…"
    Actually it's 6AM. *GET ON MY LEVEL*

    • @ThePhilipish
      @ThePhilipish 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I HAVENT SLEPT FOR THREE DAYS AND I'M HAVING COPIOUS AMOUNTS OF COFFEE AAAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA

    • @mrpixiledd2489
      @mrpixiledd2489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Its 8:30am... nerd hahahahaaaaaaaaa :(

    • @th3potatopal179
      @th3potatopal179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I will beat ur record tonight 😉 I will be back!

    • @jgerrard565671
      @jgerrard565671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@ThePhilipish the night's just getting started at 3am lmao

    • @ayaavalon6213
      @ayaavalon6213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ever do 2pm but u actually haven’t slept yet lol 😂

  • @CLAIR.L
    @CLAIR.L 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    As a 30 year old woman with adhd let me tell you how right you are and that while I've figured out a lot on my own, you've answered many questions I've had about myself. Now, if you all excuse me, I'm off to get some melatonin.

  • @c0urt_jest3r
    @c0urt_jest3r 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW VALIDATING THIS IS!!! i’ve struggled with falling asleep, staying asleep, and waking up for YEARS! i may even say my whole life, it just got worse the older i got

    • @Tamaresque
      @Tamaresque 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I can vouch for that. I'm 70. It's really annoying!

  • @veronicaaragon8610
    @veronicaaragon8610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1214

    The theory that people with ADHD would be look outs throughout history thickens

    • @mushmush4980
      @mushmush4980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      I didn't even know that, the plot is getting DEEP.

    • @BensCooking
      @BensCooking 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      ya idk that would make a lot of sense i get this weird feeling of fulfillment when i can look down on something from a high place (not a metaphor)

    • @Felinius
      @Felinius 3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

      It’s the “Hunter Brain” theory. That people with ADHD (among other neurodivergences) had an evolutionary niche in our hunter/gatherer days, wether it’s the “always on, hyper vigilance” of someone watching for predators, or the insomnia of being the one that watched the fires at night. I doubt there’s much credence to it, to be honest, and just a way to go “see, you were useful!”

    • @lach888c2
      @lach888c2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +187

      @@Felinius I’d say a much better explanation is that before the modern era of schooling, rigid work schedules and sedentary lifestyles ADHD would really not be all that noticeable. It’s a real disorder without modernity but it’s been severely exacerbated by modernity.

    • @Felinius
      @Felinius 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@lach888c2 Oh, I wouldn’t disagree in the least, I merely reiterate the theory I recently learned of myself, that falls in line with this.

  • @sidereon9793
    @sidereon9793 4 ปีที่แล้ว +880

    Hank: "Hopefully this helps explain why you're watching this at 3 in the morning"
    Me: "I'm so glad I'm watching this at 3 in the afternoon, not too long after waking up and starting my day"

    • @wmdkitty
      @wmdkitty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same.

    • @serinad9434
      @serinad9434 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Mood.

    • @merelymayhem
      @merelymayhem 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      oh dear, I wasn't even up at 3 pm yesterday and now it's 2am when I'm watching this

    • @iLLeag7e
      @iLLeag7e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Sleep when you're tired and get up to do stuff when you're rested... That should be the goal. The inconformity between your schedule and everybody elses can be mitigated and ultimately may become a non issue if one works towards that end. End result: You are happy and productive. As somebody who rarely falls asleep at the same time every night or day I can assure you that embracing my night owl tendencies and shaping my world around them instead of fighting to fit into the "natural rythym" that I simply DO NOT FEEL.. works well for me. Stay safe ppl

    • @dr.bandito60
      @dr.bandito60 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ditto

  • @cherithrasher30
    @cherithrasher30 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    I always feel a little left out in these ADHD/sleep issues. I have the other type of sleep issue, I’m always tired no matter when I go to bed (8pm or 2am) and I never have an easy time getting up to an alarm. If left to my own devices I end up on a weird delayed sleep schedule sleeping 2am to 12pm and feeling like garbage (mostly in college). But now as an adult I sleep from around 8/9pm to 6am and I still never want to get up to the dang alarm clock. I would still rather sleep til like 9/10am if I had a choice. I know so many other ADHDers have troubles falling asleep and staying asleep, but I can sleep as soon as my head hits a pillow and I don’t wanna get up. It’s like hypersomnia or something. Feels very opposite to most other ADHDers. I struggle with it so much I sometimes have nightmares about not being able to wake up, or about falling asleep without being able to stop myself (although, aside from a boring class, I’ve never fallen asleep in a dangerous situation driving/etc). Very strange.

    • @moomicus3118
      @moomicus3118 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I had the "always tired" part for a while as well and part of my treatment meds-wise was to take both a stimulant as well as an antidepressant that does both norepinephrine and dopamine. If you are on meds, talk to your doctor about it to see what they think!

    • @Plottoberry
      @Plottoberry 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Maybe your life is too intense. When my life is too intense, I need way more naps and sleep...

    • @hellokittyninja5968
      @hellokittyninja5968 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I go to sleep around 2a and wake up around 10a if life isn't stressful but if major stuff is going on (and it's often the case) I might need more sleep. And that doesn't even include naps. But yeah, I could almost always stay in bed longer. I can totally relate.

    • @Ayzlxn
      @Ayzlxn 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No because this is literally me, I’m always tired bc of my terrible sleep schedule, I can sleep at 6pm if I wanted to, 11pm or even 5am

    • @salmam6184
      @salmam6184 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Honestly, I relate to this issue as well. I almost got no trouble falling asleep and no matter how long I sleep I still have a very hard time waking up. Being able to sleep for a bit more at the weekend is a big bliss for me.

  • @SanguiphiliaTV
    @SanguiphiliaTV 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I have never felt so seen by a video before, and while I have seen some attributes of ADHD and thought “Huh, maybe I have that”, nothing has ever made me want to get tested more than this video. It’s like you watched my specific sleep cycle and reported on it.

    • @yourfriendlyinternetmeatshield
      @yourfriendlyinternetmeatshield 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah, see my comment. Pretttttty sure the algorithm is watching us and keeping track of stuff and I'm not keen to it. It needs to keep it's nose outta my business. I wasn't looking for anything like this and now... it may have made a powerful enemy.....

  • @dacksonflux
    @dacksonflux 4 ปีที่แล้ว +831

    Who's heard this one,
    "Oh, well we're all just a little bit ADHD sometimes because of our phones and Facebook."

    • @fairyonice9504
      @fairyonice9504 3 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      Or, “We live in an ADHD world”. Yes, attention spans are getting shorter, but ADHD is about so much more than that. And it paints having ADHD as a negative, as if any of us can control it.

    • @ristopoho824
      @ristopoho824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Yea. Agree totally. And oh boy the hectic pace of the modern world makes it all so much worse. On the other hand, youtube and some calm person talking seems to be just about the only thing to make it even possible to concentrate to tasks like cleaning and making food, so there is that.

    • @c.Orange
      @c.Orange 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@ristopoho824 for me, a person with ADD I find fast electronic music like darksynth and such making me hyper focused on tasks, but, without something that stimulates me enough I go all ape mode.
      Also, hi there fellow finnish hooman.

    • @Dancestar1981
      @Dancestar1981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s been around even in human prehistory

    • @Dancestar1981
      @Dancestar1981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@ristopoho824 I hate the struggles with executive functioning

  • @Juice-iv5jx
    @Juice-iv5jx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2430

    I deal with the holy trinity: ADHD, depression, and anxiety. The struggle to sleep leads to me staying up for extended periods which causes the anxiety to kick in and then being up late with depression leads me to dark places. I wouldn't wish this cycle on anyone

    • @Snakepit_Media
      @Snakepit_Media 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I also have the three mind problems, they suck and I do agree that people shouldn't be given this, it's annoying and tiring. Hope people can get help for such problems, I have gotten some medication and it does somewhat help.

    • @Squabsss
      @Squabsss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Same! It really sucks, I also deal with some fears that are borderline paranoiac at times, honestly wouldn't give it to my worst enemy

    • @conner1466
      @conner1466 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Throw autism into the mix and it's a real party

    • @Telonelemon3
      @Telonelemon3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I had rough time growing up for the same reason. I got really into body building and boxing and started taking sleep medicine every night. Fixed it right up

    • @yourbroskijack
      @yourbroskijack 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don’t worry when you wake up ground yourself and rember where you are call your mom or even do somthing else like drawing or more comic reading

  • @nyxus_s
    @nyxus_s 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    This is actually super interesting. I've taken melatonin gummies for the last few years as I always had a hard time falling asleep, and they helped me feel more alert and awake the morning after. After being diagnosed with ADHD and seeing this video, it makes so much more sense why my symptoms are exacerbated on days I don't sleep well.

  • @travgames0113
    @travgames0113 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    As someone with ADHD, combined type and ASD, I'd love to see more studies on how sleep is different than people who dont have any of them.

  • @cesarmalon7829
    @cesarmalon7829 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1456

    I always say “I can’t focus enough to sleep” and no one understands what I mean 😭 RIP to all my fellow ADHD friends

    • @Armendosmaciato
      @Armendosmaciato 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I took a bit of ritalin now in hope to fall asleep soon xD damn tomorrow sucks

    • @animeloveer97
      @animeloveer97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Trueee

    • @Kalaydascope
      @Kalaydascope 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I used to stare at the light on my radio to focus on something specific. It helped quiet my brain. Now I do guided meditations. It’s taken a lot of practice, but falling asleep once I actually decide to lay down has been much easier as of the last year or so.

    • @MikeStonerUpUrs
      @MikeStonerUpUrs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Oh my god you put words to it 😧 I play a favorite tv show or a sleep podcast on my phone quietly so I have something to take my focus until I can fall asleep

    • @dutchdaleyy
      @dutchdaleyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@MikeStonerUpUrs exactly what I need. Our thoughts will keep us awake so what helps is a interesting podcast to take your mind off the fact you can’t sleep right 😃😀

  • @firalia
    @firalia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4284

    Time blindness is one of my biggest problems with sleeping on time personally, and the only way I manage to get to bed roughly on time is by auto-locking myself out of all my devices at a certain time. I also feel more awake at night than during the day for some reason.

    • @meghansullivan6812
      @meghansullivan6812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +308

      Yesssss my time blindness causes me to go to bed so late. There’s just so many more stimulating/fun things I’d rather be doing than sleeping!!

    • @OddWeird461
      @OddWeird461 2 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      You can auto lock yourself out of your devices?? This is something I need to figure out how to do. I have severe time blindness, an iPad, a nice phone and my brain “wakes up” the most at night. Falling asleep isn’t necessarily the issue. The issue is allowing myself to fall asleep.

    • @GohanMystik
      @GohanMystik 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      What are we the same

    • @iprobablyforgotsomething
      @iprobablyforgotsomething 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Hardcore nightowl, yep. Aka -- Delayed Sleep Syndrome. Possibly aggravated by Seasonal Effective Disorder (which can be either winter- OR summer-blues depression).

    • @deborahbarry8458
      @deborahbarry8458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I don’t feel so alone 🔸

  • @kellytaylor1779
    @kellytaylor1779 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Thanks Hank for calling me out on watching this at 1am 😅 I don't know if I have ADHD but I definitely struggle with traditional sleep schedule

  • @Hison-Dcarman
    @Hison-Dcarman 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    I could remember several years ago, I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Was actually diagnosed with ADHD. Not until my mom recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms.

    • @NetaZjdb
      @NetaZjdb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can you help me with the reliable source 🙏. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in Germany. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them

    • @SusanaGomez-mp8sk
      @SusanaGomez-mp8sk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      YES very sure of Dr.benfungi. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @NicoleCtirad
      @NicoleCtirad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      100% agree I used to have Psychosis and paranoid thoughts like "people thinking about me talking about me etc. Very odd behavior after getting off Adderall from 7-16. Antidepressants at 18-29. 31 now. I took way to much, but took about 20g of Gold caps (Psilocybin containing mushroom) I analyzed my entire life. The emotions that came out helped me understand behavior etc more. Wont ever need to do it again because I'm happy and contempt forever, but I wish more people did this to alter their perception of reality. Would help with healing much trauma

    • @Iiisslogan-co6np
      @Iiisslogan-co6np 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How do I reach out to him? Is he on insta

    • @TomSanders-qv8bv
      @TomSanders-qv8bv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes he's Dr.benfungi.Shrooms to me is a natrual healer. I know a guy who has used mushrooms in the same way and they have really helped him. mah dudes have safe trips all.

  • @o0Avalon0o
    @o0Avalon0o 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1822

    It's nice having people try to help instead of dismissing it or belittling us for the condition.

    • @cornlips7247
      @cornlips7247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Agreed.

    • @NomadicElfling
      @NomadicElfling 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      +

    • @asteriavlogs8312
      @asteriavlogs8312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hank has it!

    • @nathantripathy
      @nathantripathy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Love

    • @timothybradford4
      @timothybradford4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      I had a lady call me a drug addict for taking my ADHD meds at work.
      I'm sure she doesn't drink, smoke or take any painkillers or antibiotics ever when she needs them tss

  • @BMFMagnus
    @BMFMagnus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2378

    I’m actually watching this at 3am, and being called out like that was super-spooky. I have chills.

    • @vendel1
      @vendel1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Its 3am for me too

    • @Beemesworldx
      @Beemesworldx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      4:32 here lol

    • @emptypixels
      @emptypixels 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Literally the same thing just happened to me lol. So odd, I'm sure it's intentional based on some scientific study or something.

    • @Anieri
      @Anieri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Lol I felt like I was being called out

    • @alexchesloff
      @alexchesloff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      bro it's 5am and i was thinking the same thing

  • @brooklynnchick
    @brooklynnchick 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for your channel. Your work makes me a better informed and often a more sympathetic/patient human. My son is currently undergoing evaluations for learning difficulties, ADHD among them. You and your content give me more tools to help him and myself. Thank you for being an educator and advocate for so many topics!

  • @rachelreeves6627
    @rachelreeves6627 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    As someone diagnosed with adhd at age 5, nearly 27 years ago, and as someone fascinated by all things biology and paleontology, I still hold (and this is also the analogy i use to explain how my brain works to neurotypicals) that adhd is a holdover/throwback to when society wasn't quite society as we see it now. Our brains think we are still on the Serengeti and we are the meerkat sentries of society. Always on guard to what is around us. Always ready to call it like it is, and keep everyone calm and organized in the chaos of something gone wrong, because chaos from taking in all the signals and cataloging those signals is what our brains know best.

  • @Cheeebez
    @Cheeebez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +545

    Flashbacks to 4 year old me staring at the ceiling wondering if I’m going to die earlier since I’m spending more of my awake time at night oof

    • @Meeeesje
      @Meeeesje 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Omg yes!

    • @randominternetfrog
      @randominternetfrog 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same

    • @KevDoy
      @KevDoy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same.

    • @lukemchugh719
      @lukemchugh719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg, so true. For me it was the same except thinking will not having enough sleep cause permanent brain damage.

    • @littlepixy2
      @littlepixy2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Old post, I know but I find it interesting that people with ADHD are largely considered not as aware as "normals" lol...at 4 years old, I would give myself stomach aches trying to comprehend the ideas of eternity and infinity.

  • @kiebahow442
    @kiebahow442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2619

    The ADHD kid: ...
    The insomniac: Finally, a worthy opponent. Our battle will be legendary.

    • @GoranAkuto
      @GoranAkuto 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      That actually works the other way too in all do honesty lol. The adhd kid just accepts it and says the same thing as the insomniac kid lol. How I know? I'm the adhd kid lol

    • @moonygacha8089
      @moonygacha8089 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      who can stay up the longest challenge but both of us are already really really tired but not enough to be able to sleep correctly

    • @neosmith8933
      @neosmith8933 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      ADHD and sensory seeking autism
      BOSS MODE

    • @paellamuncher
      @paellamuncher 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      when ur both

    • @kiebahow442
      @kiebahow442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@paellamuncher So this is the power of the gods.

  • @pokelover02
    @pokelover02 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh it’s Hank! Thank you, Hank! This info was extremely helpful and explains my entire life

  • @stephaniebates1504
    @stephaniebates1504 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Really nice episode, thanks!

  • @craniifer
    @craniifer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +806

    I'm just happy for the acknowledgement of ADHD. I get tired of the whole, "just focus more" nonsense from people.
    And yeah, I suddenly try and do everything at once an hour or two before bed.

    • @jessicapinto3817
      @jessicapinto3817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Yeah, like telling a clinically depressed person to "just be more positive" 🤷‍♂️

    • @ComicBookNostalgia
      @ComicBookNostalgia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      ROFL..exactly. Me n my daughter both are diagnosed. When people tell her that she says "o just focus, never thought of that"...lol

    • @lowlyworm9323
      @lowlyworm9323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I like ur pfp. Dunsparce :)

    • @lithiumkid
      @lithiumkid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      same! i'll do nothing all day and then before bed be like, well maybe i should go ahead and do that one thing. and, while i'm at it, maybe i'll tackle this, and that, and oh yeah i procrastinated on that too today, let me at least check it out and see if there's anything i can do real quick... and then it's 5:26am and i've just deep cleaned my car and organized my closet.

    • @ferretunicorn838
      @ferretunicorn838 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My dad says that when he has ADHD as well

  • @milenamartins21
    @milenamartins21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +617

    "and maybe even learned why you're watching it at 3 am" is the most relatable quote I've ever heard

    • @aster5600
      @aster5600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      ah so we're all here at 3 am huh

    • @rosabandera_home
      @rosabandera_home 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Did the TH-cam algorithm purposely show this to us at 3am lol

    • @ic5662
      @ic5662 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lol 2:53

    • @rosabandera_home
      @rosabandera_home 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      IC 😂😂

    • @DaLaMc1
      @DaLaMc1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I jumped when I heard him say that. Lol. It's 332am here now

  • @AFriskyGamer
    @AFriskyGamer 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'll have you know it was 2 am I was watching this at, thank you very much!

  • @JackClayton123
    @JackClayton123 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ADHD and sleep problems here (delayed sleep phase). I’ve been diagnosed before I was 5 with ADHD and have always sleep problems. I feel the sleep problems resulted from the ADHD, but they’ve always have been comorbid. I’ve managed to manage the sleep issues over the last few years, but the ADHD hasn’t changed.

  • @honeydew75
    @honeydew75 4 ปีที่แล้ว +781

    yeah I have ADHD and I have trouble sleeping... and my ADHD really gets wild if I don't sleep well, it's a whole cycle

    • @fionafiona1146
      @fionafiona1146 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ADD, if anyone would diagnose me but sleep isn't as available as I would want it.

    • @Psychol-Snooper
      @Psychol-Snooper 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I will always go to bed later and later every day, and always have to force myself to go to bed. And every single sound wakes me. (went to sleep at 6am today.) LOL

    • @YouthAmphia
      @YouthAmphia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same😔

    • @TheApdancer
      @TheApdancer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SAME.

    • @anime-girl9743
      @anime-girl9743 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Try drinking a little coffee or soda before sleep it might help it work for me

  • @ZekeDeLaMeme
    @ZekeDeLaMeme 2 ปีที่แล้ว +855

    Woke up at 6:30pm again today
    I swear every single problem I have is somehow magically connected to the ADHD

    • @nicolecorter3533
      @nicolecorter3533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Yeah I feel. People don't don't have ADHD have no idea how much it effects our everyday life.

    • @morganmonroee
      @morganmonroee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@nicolecorter3533 yess! when you try to explain it their like “oh that happens to me too” like no, this more than “happens” to me Bc it happens ALL the time, it’s a lifestyle I didn’t choose 🥲 and effects almost every aspect of my life. People just don’t get it

    • @sp00kyd4ddy6
      @sp00kyd4ddy6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You should get diagnosed so you can find ways to get better medically

    • @TreyChapo
      @TreyChapo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Try taking a few deep breaths to slow down your heart rate and try thinking about being in a fantasy world, this tends to helps me.

    • @abbie_joan
      @abbie_joan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i woke at 4 and have been awake since

  • @Bashfulvideos1
    @Bashfulvideos1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Glad you spoke about this, it makes it so much easier to explain to people that my sleep is messy

  • @calabrais
    @calabrais 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    5:36 I'm literally watching this at 3am 🙈😂 I haven't been diagnosed with ADHD (yet), but I've always felt I had it, and now hearing these sleep disorders I've had since i was a kid just further validates it. I completely agree with the bilateral comorbidities. From my experience neither one causes the other, they both stem from the same place, BUT each makes the other one worse.

    • @Dev-42
      @Dev-42 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      2:50am, close enough

    • @CraneInTheField
      @CraneInTheField 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1:45am This is a good reminder video that I forgot to take melatonin.

  • @IAmNumber4000
    @IAmNumber4000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    10 AM to 4 PM: I sleep
    2:00 AM to 4:00 AM: PURE CRACK ENERGY

    • @theremystics
      @theremystics 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I've never related so much to a comment in my life. If I have to wake up "early" and do the sleep hygiene thing and try to go to bed early without sleeping pills, I am just up tossing and turning and my brain is thinking of SO many interesting things at once. If I am on a "good sleep/wake schedule" (which can only happen via sleeping meds lol ime) it falls apart in less than a month. I just naturally sleep later (always have) so it is obviously not going to work out too often... PLUS in the morning/early afternoon, I am so unfocused and dysfunctional at a default... 2:00 is too early for a lot of things, because I remember everything when I wake up mentally at around 4:00pm It doesn't matter how early I woke up or went to bed, I just am simply not all there until 3:30-4 pm... When I'm falling asleep, & I take my sleeping pill before 3AM it won't work and I have to take another. But if I take it after 3:30, it works beautifully, and I don't need as much.

    • @animeloveer97
      @animeloveer97 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      100000% same

    • @jenk7138
      @jenk7138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same. Be tired AF at 10pm. 1am: like almost manic energy. Covid lockdowns really messed me up. I can't do anything at night like I used to. Further down the spiral ... 😕

    • @IAmNumber4000
      @IAmNumber4000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jenk7138 Ever tried smoking a fat bowl of indica at night? That always seems to help me

    • @34-dihydroxyphenethylamine8
      @34-dihydroxyphenethylamine8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah for me is from 11 PM to 2 AM

  • @Billi_crow
    @Billi_crow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    *Me, a person with ADHD watching this at 4am:* oh

    • @Billi_crow
      @Billi_crow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      5:35 EXPOSED

    • @Belboz99
      @Belboz99 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Man, I thought 1:30 AM was bad.

  • @Eeponae
    @Eeponae 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    a lot of this resonates with me. If you like it'd be cool to see you do more videos on adhd at some point

  • @nicc8230
    @nicc8230 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg! Glad i found this show i loved you crash course!

  • @sarahhiggins1515
    @sarahhiggins1515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3206

    This also doesn’t include the added challenge of executive dysfunction and hyperfocus when it comes to actually getting ready for bed. If you are reading a book or watching a show it can be difficult to stop in order to go to bed on time no matter how tired you are actually getting.

    • @Atoll-ok1zm
      @Atoll-ok1zm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +210

      Hyperfocus is the killer. I got super into a web novel and chewed through like 140 chapters in 3 days.

    • @nathanatoragaming8075
      @nathanatoragaming8075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Dude I read through an entire book in one day, from 9 am to 6 am I just read the book and got through like a 300-400 page book it was nuts, I just never felt tired

    • @alexandrahenderson4368
      @alexandrahenderson4368 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yeah so when i was in HS still
      I got up at 0600 and watched a drama til 0600... Realized it was Saturday morning and had to see my little sister and brother. So stayed up til 2200... Because I was just so busy I couldn't sleep

    • @alexandrahenderson4368
      @alexandrahenderson4368 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Being in the military like this... Sucks. I literally got rid of all my streaming services...

    • @SpiritKat1
      @SpiritKat1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah I do that

  • @rm9308
    @rm9308 4 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    These were the people who stayed up all night watching out for leopards and vikings while the farmers slept.

    • @spookyboy8127
      @spookyboy8127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      leopard watcher is a kickass title and I’m happy to claim it

    • @wildstorm1323
      @wildstorm1323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This

    • @meaningfulmindfulness15
      @meaningfulmindfulness15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Man, I was having that thought too. What if it's genetic/ancestral remnants of people who would resist sleep for the survival and benefits of the village/tribe/settlement. I'm thankful my ADHD has helped me notice suspicious activity or other weird things late at night when everyone else is asleep. It's reassuring that I'll be able to sound an alarm or be there to protect members of my family at 3 a.m. or something.. A blessing and a curse, I suppose. Brains are wired weirdly.

    • @kermitleninja7310
      @kermitleninja7310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@meaningfulmindfulness15 i thing it was the case. They were night owls, and also the other one (people who go to bed early, and wake up early) the problem is that we don't talk about them cause society said this was the only way to live a healthy life
      Tbh i'm truly jealous of them, i wish i could go to bed early, but even when i sleep 2 hours i can't. It took me years to realise this was a real problem, and not that i was just lazy to get a proper sleep schedule

    • @meaningfulmindfulness15
      @meaningfulmindfulness15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@kermitleninja7310 yeah, I've always been a night owl, even as a kid. Followed me into my adult years, I worked behind the bar for 6 years or so too, so it actually really helped closing late on weekends. I'd find myself sitting outside our apartment around 3:30-4 in the morning feeling charged up and happy that all the bar noise was gone. It was crazy to feel how quiet everything is at that time of the day.. Something about it felt so serene. The wind-down was rough and I'd always fall asleep closer to 6 am.
      The habit is hard to shake.. Haven't been back to work lately, but the sleeping is still I think my biggest health flaw. If I could sleep a little more, I'd be able to train a little harder with my fitness/recovery time.
      I'm happy to know I'm not alone

  • @iGotBulletproof-Insomnia
    @iGotBulletproof-Insomnia 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bold of you to assume! I'm watching this in the afternoon, thank you, sir. You know. After delaying getting out of bed for two hours and now rushing to get to work.

  • @i3looi2
    @i3looi2 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is eye opening to my current situation.
    I had mild symptoms of ADHD since I was a kid .. but generally focusing was not that big of an issue (rather was not able to focus on school courses I did not enjoy)
    However , recently (past 1-2 years) I have a hard time to focus on my daily job (programming) which I always loved and was proefficient.
    I Do think bad sleep habits from the last 10+ years have skyrocketed my ADHD.

    • @alezanders
      @alezanders 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Symptoms manifest differently for everyone of course, but I’ve been told that only being able to focus on subjects you enjoy is also a symptom of ADHD. That’s how it was my entire childhood, but it also came with periods (a few hours at most) of hyperfixation on the interesting subjects which is how that interest usually manifested. I don’t know whether you have those, but if you do that might be another ADHD thing!

  • @nintando
    @nintando 4 ปีที่แล้ว +394

    I've found that playing something with words in the background as I fall asleep helps my over active brain to latch on to whatever I'm listening to instead of running wild

    • @FaerieDust
      @FaerieDust 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Hah, I'm the opposite - I focus on the words and can't relax, because if I zone out I'll miss what they're saying 🤦 I do guided meditations though, where the first half is someone talking and the second half just the sound of waves that I can regulate my breathing to. Focusing on the waves hits the perfect spot of keeping me focused enough that my mind doesn't wanter too much, but not so focused that I can't fully relax.

    • @jasonpeng5798
      @jasonpeng5798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@FaerieDust I used to try guided meditation to quell my ADHD but then like 30 minutes there's always a midroll ad that plays and just destroys everything

    • @Jellylamps
      @Jellylamps 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I always need a video in the background unless I’m extremely tired

    • @FaerieDust
      @FaerieDust 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Jellylamps My mom is the same - if she can't sleep she'll put on a TV show or something. I can't do it, I keep myself awake if there's any kind of narrative involved

    • @melimsah
      @melimsah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I never was able to do this for 30 years of my life, and thought my ex was crazy for doing it (he loved falling asleep to Bob Ross videos), or my older brother or roommates who would only sleep with a tv show on (Scrubs for my brother). But for some reason, in the last couple of years I started doing it with podcasts and longer TH-cam videos and now I can't go to sleep without them. (I also just got diagnosed with ADHD, and I know at least my ex had ADHD too).

  • @ngltbhimo
    @ngltbhimo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +361

    The fact that ADHD affects nearly everything in your life means whenever I say "yeah that's because of my ADHD" to someone they say "dude you can't use ADHD as a reason for everything". Anyone else ever hear this?

    • @Dice-Z
      @Dice-Z 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I'm sure a lot hear this especially with all the naysayers, but without context it's hard to judge whether you are right or not.

    • @Tika927
      @Tika927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Neurodevelopmental disorders are in a class of their own for a reason - they are not some outside disease affecting “you” - they ARE a part of you. ADHD literally affects how your brain grows and develops. For me, my ADHD feels like a set of tinted glasses - it fundamentally affects every aspect of how I experience and view the world. Sure, to other people I can look “normal” in many contexts, and I often feel normal as well, but that doesn’t mean it’s not still a part of me - not always in a negative way, either. Now, 2 yrs after diagnosis (& a lot of moping/mourning) I’m at a point where I can recognize good things about my ADHD too, which is why viewing it as part of me rather than some “thing” that I “have” has been helpful to learning how to manage everyday life. It’s hard to explain that to others, though (I think my family still secretly thinks I’ll wake up as a brand new, cured person someday)

    • @emmad4308
      @emmad4308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Tika927 you have worded this so beautifully thank!

    • @svp5thechad408
      @svp5thechad408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If it bothers you, you have to change it

    • @Tika927
      @Tika927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@svp5thechad408 you just cured my ADHD, thanks

  • @aehill
    @aehill 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my thank you for this. I know this is older but i appreciate the education you have offered here 😁

  • @gamessongs2762
    @gamessongs2762 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How interesting! Thanks for the video.

  • @warriorcatskid003
    @warriorcatskid003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +427

    WAIT! you’re telling me getting “tired-hyper” is an ADHD thing

    • @Carewolf
      @Carewolf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yes, that is basically what it is. Just all the time.

    • @agapiosagapiou
      @agapiosagapiou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It happens! Our bodies pumps adrenaline to survive. It gets to fighting mode.

    • @Carewolf
      @Carewolf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@agapiosagapiou ADHD is too low adrenaline though. So instead the brain constantly switches focus, always looking for something new, because concentrating on one thing would mean sleep.

    • @lydiah3018
      @lydiah3018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I used to do this at school dances! I'd be exhausted and then suddenly find myself with a burst of energy! That's when things would get wild.

    • @luciferangelica
      @luciferangelica 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      anything is if it sells pharmaceuticals

  • @MrMikeauto0722
    @MrMikeauto0722 2 ปีที่แล้ว +819

    My girlfriend was recently diagnosed with adhd. She can be sound asleep and snoring but if I move or change the channel on the TV she becomes wide awake like she was never asleep to began with. It's really wild how it seems like she's never really fully asleep.

    • @Ec-pb1tl
      @Ec-pb1tl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Thats me HAHAH

    • @doloresrio
      @doloresrio 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@Ec-pb1tl me too!
      I wake up with the slight, indirect light that comes through my heavy but light-colored curtains when my across the way neighbors go to the bathroom, which does not face my window. Never could sleep with TV on though, not to mention channel surfing! I hope Michael's wearing headphones...

    • @volaalov6254
      @volaalov6254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I have to be sleep deprived to fall into deep sleep and that's not even a guarantee. My mum can rock up to my house at 6am and I'm already sitting up.

    • @tubax926
      @tubax926 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@volaalov6254 that's me buddy

    • @bowtiepotato554
      @bowtiepotato554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same 😆

  • @jennymulhall816
    @jennymulhall816 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve had sleep issues since childhood, childhood insomnia, sleepwalking… my poor parents!
    I was diagnosed with ASD1/ADHD at 48 and the medication has been life changing. ❤️

  • @juanibiapina
    @juanibiapina 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've postponed clicking on this video for months. I did it today to find it's Hank! For the love of God put Hank on the cover and I'll click instantly!!!!

  • @kaydenstuff
    @kaydenstuff 4 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    I guess this would explain why it's like pulling teeth trying to sleep earlier than 2 am and I need to have the lights off a few hours before I go to sleep

    • @RmcBlueSky
      @RmcBlueSky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I do that. Have lights out @ 10 fall sleep @ 2 and wake up @ 5 then fall back to sleep @8. And miss my 10 am appointment. If you ask why not just stay awake from 5...I try that but by 2pm I'm so sleepy that I have trouble focusing on driving. The warmth of the sun makes it worst. I'm thinking of getting a mini RV so that I can sleep on location to accommodate my sleep patterns and the world I'm living in. The plus about ADHD is that we can do multi thinking.

    • @TheCatWrangler
      @TheCatWrangler 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@RmcBlueSky Omg you sound just like me. I also have to be in the pitch dark for like 4 hours, then dont fall asleap till like 4, even when im really trying hard to go to bed early for weeks at a time. I notice that I get the deepest sleep from about 6-9am... when most people are waking up. I cant even explain how difficult it is for me to wake up in the morning. Like a honestly feel incredibly drowsy until sunset. And I often miss 10 or 11am appointments as well. It's incredibly frustrating. Society wasnt made for people like us, and we get called lazy. But i think it's clear that there is something off with our circadian cycles, or perhaps there are other factors at play too. Wish I knew what they were.

    • @celticphoenix2579
      @celticphoenix2579 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I can go to bed at 10pm but no matter what I do I only fall asleep at 1am on an average night, midnight on a good night or 3am on a bad night. I have found that my body responds to certain vocal pitches by getting sleepy so now when I struggle to sleep I turn on TH-cam and watch time team. This works best when you have TH-cam premium so the ads don't interrupt things and wake you up again with the pitch change. To deal with the light and the odd drive to watch even though I'm using it to sleep, I use a sleep mask or just close the flap on the phone case. Doing this I can be asleep within an hour of going to bed.....usually......that is if I didn't do something stupid and have caffeine after 5pm.

    • @kevinrobles5665
      @kevinrobles5665 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I tried but woke up and now I'm here at 3 AM.

    • @SeanKula
      @SeanKula 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Use a blue screen filter on your phone it'll put you to sleep fast

  • @kalisiee
    @kalisiee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +392

    this makes so much sense why 7 year old me would spend 2 hours tossing and turning, attempting to sleep but failing miserably

    • @tubax926
      @tubax926 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yup. Sleep was a terrible thing for me in my early childhood. My adhd got better as I grew up and now it's very tame. Problem is I still need to take precautions to ensure I get good sleep or else my entire day will be screwed up.

    • @jasmintea8825
      @jasmintea8825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @sicawhoremanchester6821
      @sicawhoremanchester6821 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same! Then when I did go to sleep around 1 am I'd wake up at 4 am, and be like "CEREAL!" And would run the day off 3hrs of sleep

    • @NoTaboos
      @NoTaboos 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No; it was because you never had any WONDER during the day.

    • @ADMNtek
      @ADMNtek 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      same here. and now that I'm 35 my circadian rhythm is almost non-existant. with me only taking naps before and after work.

  • @QrayzHD
    @QrayzHD 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    In my experience ADHD = Trying to get the most dopamine hits out of the day before falling asleep. Binge eating is also very common in ADHD, you're essentially getting Dopamine hits but have trouble stopping, and funnily enough some ADHD meds reduce appetite too.

  • @gdemirjian
    @gdemirjian 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I found a large contributor to my sleep issues (restless leg especially) was low blood ferritin (iron storage and utilization). I need an infusion annually the past few years (age 55-58). I definitively have a form of ADHD. I believe it has helped make me great at multitasking, but I also have deviancy and addiction issues. All this combined with a strong type-A personality has been a blessing and a curse throughout my 58 year life.
    Great video. Heartfelt comments.

  • @nikkylyn5829
    @nikkylyn5829 3 ปีที่แล้ว +471

    Having ADHD as a scholar looks like; watching a video that mentions a medical syndrome, wondering if there's a link between that and ADHD, googling it, finding a link, researching studies about it on a database, beginning to write a research paper about it, and promptly abandoning it an hour later. Only to work on a completely different, incomplete project.

    • @Anonarchist
      @Anonarchist 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      and the project you were actually supposed to be working on this whole time is due in an hour.

    • @JaydedCammie
      @JaydedCammie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I feel so called out

    • @celia8709
      @celia8709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Get out of my head 😂

    • @AmberAmber
      @AmberAmber 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Nikky Ramos - I've asked my mum for YEARS If she'd given away a twin I ought to know about. I think I've just found my twin!!!!
      😁🤣💟💕

    • @cyberbrook55
      @cyberbrook55 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Actually 🤕

  • @Boris_Chang
    @Boris_Chang 4 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Yup. It’s like I just cannot turn off my mental processing until I am exhausted.

    • @alicomando1195
      @alicomando1195 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      mee too
      That Thing Decides

    • @KRAFTOMEEZY
      @KRAFTOMEEZY 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I wake up in the most random parts of my home for this very reason.

    • @ralfwashington1502
      @ralfwashington1502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah in the summer I find a fast hard bike ride an hour or 2 before bed helps since I tire myself out. Winter......well then I'm crap out of luck or go to the gym

    • @11shoopdawhoop
      @11shoopdawhoop 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alicomando1195 and yet you are just as much that Thing as it is not, without contradicting itself. Or yourself in this case.
      You are as much in control as you are not. It doesn't cancel eachother out, yet they are definitely opposites, I can promise you that. Consider it. The more you figure this riddle out, the greater the reward will be. You're doing great, it's your default to do your best after all! Keep it up and have fun with this puzzle.

    • @alicomando1195
      @alicomando1195 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@11shoopdawhoop My Average DSPD-Non24 Is 24 Hours And About 48 Minutes

  • @Elliana2002
    @Elliana2002 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ugh. Im in a horrible mood tonight, and im not gonna get into that. But now im smiling and shaking my head, and thinking about how great science is, and how glad I am that Hank Green tells me about it.
    It is 3am and I have severe undiagnosed ADHD.

  • @fabenyc
    @fabenyc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love the way the print on the panels of his shirt lines up! It’s all I can think about. Ugh!

  • @byrongsmith
    @byrongsmith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +281

    "...why you're watching it at 3am"
    ✅ I recognise myself in this picture and I don't like it.

    • @aurisb3800
      @aurisb3800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It’s 5:30 help

    • @myewzek2913
      @myewzek2913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I watched the whole video and didn’t even notice he said that lmao I wonder how much I actually heard

    • @RustyGonzo
      @RustyGonzo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aurisb3800 It's five months later. Have you gone to bed yet? I'm worried.

    • @aurisb3800
      @aurisb3800 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RustyGonzo luckily yes

    • @RustyGonzo
      @RustyGonzo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aurisb3800 Oh thank God.

  • @hinduhillbilly
    @hinduhillbilly 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1301

    I was diagnosed with ADHD last year at the age of 62. Every time I discover another connection to my behavior I realize there's an explanation for what I always considered character flaws. Why didn't I discover this decades ago?

    • @TheoRae8289
      @TheoRae8289 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

      Doctors tend to either ignore it or brush it off as something you'll grow out of

    • @ANNEMARGARET0319
      @ANNEMARGARET0319 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

      Because when we grew up in the 70s… Only boys had ADHD 😆
      And of course what I mean by that is girls present differently. (I was that flaky girl, the chatty Cathy, the daydreamer, always late, etc. ) I was diagnosed two years ago at the age of 56!

    • @katarh
      @katarh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Because decades ago they didn't realize it was an actual medical problem. At best, it was considered a personality quirk, but most doctors and medical professionals were happy to explain it away as actual character flaws. Something that we could fix if we just tried harder. Something we could change if we had the willpower.
      Anyway, I pop a 1.5 mg melatonin gummy around 10PM and it puts me to sleep by midnight, which lets me get the seven and a half hours of sleep I need to get up and clock into work-from-home at 8AM, around the same time I take my ADHD meds so I can actually try to focus on work. This pattern seems to be working well for me, but if I ever have to go back into the office, I suspect I'll need to shift everything up an hour.

    • @hinduhillbilly
      @hinduhillbilly 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ANNEMARGARET0319 No one ever suspected that I had ADHD because I managed to get good grades. My younger sister was born in 1971 and had the identical problems as my brother who was diagnosed but the doctors literally told my mom that girls don't have ADHD.

    • @AmputeeAdele
      @AmputeeAdele 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I feel like that and I'm only 36! It's crazy we can live with conditions like these for decades but no-one recognised our symptoms as being anything other than important..hopefully better awareness for these disorders moving forward into 2023/24 and onwards so people don't have to struggle and suffer in silence 🤫

  • @mrs.g7795
    @mrs.g7795 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    THIS IS EXPLAINS SO MUCH

  • @drumarr221
    @drumarr221 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That was spooky. I am watching this at 3am... I Love your videos.

  • @erraticonteuse
    @erraticonteuse 4 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    I only got diagnosed when I started taking melatonin and realized that a "good night's sleep" was not in fact a myth.

    • @ellgonzales6165
      @ellgonzales6165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Howd you get a good nights sleep?

    • @moominsmother39
      @moominsmother39 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ellgonzales6165 if you're of legal age I recommend cbd for sleep! If not then good luck getting good amounts of sleep as a youth in the school system :( in all of high-school and middle school I really only got between 3-5 hours of sleep max in between all the school work, stress, and adhd probs:(

  • @Saphyu
    @Saphyu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +453

    You know what might be another symptom of ADHD? Me watching this (and almost all youtube videos) at 2x speed to get all of the information because my brain wants all of the information faster.

    • @GaelissFelin
      @GaelissFelin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      i do this mostly with particularly boring videos or videos with slow speakers. i never have to do it with a hank video bc he already speaks at my ideal speed! but i 100% get you there

    • @sofiavelasco8177
      @sofiavelasco8177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I tend to play it at 1.25 lol. Can't pay attention if its to slow, zone out if it's to fast🤣

    • @floreschris5574
      @floreschris5574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow🤯, big brain as girl🤯🙏📈💯☁️

    • @WCCXtra
      @WCCXtra 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sofiavelasco8177 , yeah that's my range too. I'll do 1.5x sometimes and rewind or slowdown every now and then if I missed something.

    • @amorky8391
      @amorky8391 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is why audiobooks drive me crazy sometimes. If I can get the ebook I always do so, even if I've also got the audiobook. Sometimes I just need to read it faster.

  • @UnguessedGlory
    @UnguessedGlory 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    12:34 am, thank you very much!

  • @twitchster77
    @twitchster77 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think, looking back, my sleeping issues have had the most profoundly negative effects on my life. Through my entire life I've had issues with falling asleep, staying asleep and nightmares.
    It's hard to function when you're so damn tired.
    I feel so grateful to have a med provider who has been so patient with finding a combination of meds that help me with many of my issues (add, bipolar and sleep).

  • @spikeybunny6577
    @spikeybunny6577 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1056

    I completely agree with the delayed circadian rhythm thing. When it gets dark and everyone else is getting sleepy it’s like I just start waking up &/or getting amped! I can feel it, like I’m getting psyched up for something!

    • @khashmeshab
      @khashmeshab 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just take maletonin sublingual pills once. It's amazing. After around 20 minutes, you'd "feel" the night! You'd suddenly feel that it's too late to be awake and it's time to sleep. Wonderful!

    • @digitaldritten
      @digitaldritten 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +182

      yeah it's so frustrating, I'm exhausted and feel so fatigued all day and then when I'm finally starting to feel awake and alert NOPE it's bedtime!

    • @youtube__handle
      @youtube__handle 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

      ​@@digitaldrittenIKR?!
      When it's time to bed , I feel like working. All day I'm lifeless.
      Gosh, it's maddening.

    • @gnatdagnat
      @gnatdagnat 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      I think there's an "environment" where this is "fixed" or perhaps at least put to healthy use and downsides mitigated. Buuut I don't know if it exists in society :(
      I don't know what we should do

    • @beadedunicorn
      @beadedunicorn 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

      What if the "night owls" are genetically predisposed to be the overnight protectors of the "early birds". It would make some sense in early human evolution.

  • @_Aceus_
    @_Aceus_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2214

    This would explain why I can’t sleep unless I’m so exhausted I don’t notice myself fall asleep. I’m not saying I have ADHD for sure, I haven’t gotten confirmation about if I do, but I have a lot of the symptoms, including some rare ones, and I have trouble sleeping, making it harder for me to wake up early in the morning for school. Usually because of this, we end up a little bit late.

    • @jellystickyslime9681
      @jellystickyslime9681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      honestly same, I don't know why but I have to spend about what feels like an hour trying to get to sleep to actually sleep. But even then I'm not even sure if that does anything because I don't exactly remember which point in time I would fall asleep at.

    • @sarangcrochets9583
      @sarangcrochets9583 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      SAME !

    • @robertmcmahon4549
      @robertmcmahon4549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Yep same,with adhd your brain is overactive so makes relaxing and sleep really tough.sometimes wish i could just switch my brain off!

    • @ihatethisusernameupdate
      @ihatethisusernameupdate 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Same here. For years I legit had to just lay in the dark and stare at the ceiling for 2+ hours until I finally fell asleep. It’s why at this point I don’t bother trying to go to sleep before I start feeling like my brain is malfunctioning.
      Honestly it could just have to do with some other things I 100% have, but I dunno.

    • @ohfxckiraged485
      @ohfxckiraged485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      you can have even rare symptoms but it can be just coincidence. But anyway if you have think that you have adhd, go to doctor. Cuz adhd is disorded

  • @mandyjb77
    @mandyjb77 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s 2 am, thank you very much!

  • @iamsheel
    @iamsheel 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It explains the crazy sleep patterns I've been having in my life.
    OMG AND THE RESTLESS LEG SYNDROME TOO!!

    • @plan4life
      @plan4life 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I know what you mean. Can I make a suggestion? I used to get a lot of restless legs but since I have given up caffeine (no tea, coffee or chocolate) I get significantly less. I also have greatly reduced my sugar intake (which affects my breathing too) and try not to do anything too taxing on my brain in the evenings as an overactive mind seems to go hand in hand with these symptoms as I continue to do the mental activity in my head when I am trying to go to sleep.

  • @mgailp
    @mgailp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    i was diagnosed ADHD as an adult. One of my college ed class profs suggested I be tested because she saw some of the signs. Since I retired, I've been able to usually let my body decide my sleep pattern. I've discovered I run on a 32 hour 'day.' Sometimes I sleep at night, sometimes during the day, but I usually sleep 11-12 hours and then am up 20-22 hours before being ready to sleep again.

    • @PARADOXsquared
      @PARADOXsquared 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Omg. That sounds so much like my sleep patterns.

    • @JaxsonGalaxy
      @JaxsonGalaxy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This is very similar (maybe the same) as me! It feels good to not be alone in this but it's still nearly impossible for me to do much of anything.

    • @shilpvaishnav
      @shilpvaishnav 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      it's awesome that you're able to live in the way that's best for your body now after retiring :) i wish society would allow for us to do what our bodies need, before retiring..

    • @Ebbagull
      @Ebbagull 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      SAME!! I realized as a child that my internal day is not 24 hours, but 30+ hours! Trying to sleep the same time every day is an exercise in futility!

    • @TheCatWrangler
      @TheCatWrangler 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      oh my god I've literally never heard anyone else say this, but this is EXACTLY how I function! I told my mom about his last week and she told me I was crazy. But I swear my body is wired for like a 30 hour day! I wake up naturally around 11 and stay groggy or sleepy until about 5pm, when I finally become really awake. I have the most energy in the day between like 8pm-12am and then I am very awake naturally until about 6am. But I make myself go to sleep earlier than that obviously. I probably fall asleep between 3 and 4 every night. But if I could I would just push each day 3 or 4 hours further out. It is so nice to actually hear other people say they have this experience as well. Thank you guys so much for sharing. I'm going to look into this a little more.

  • @demirkafasutlac2343
    @demirkafasutlac2343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    It takes me 2 hours to sleep every night cause my thoughts won't stop.

    • @bettyanne3057
      @bettyanne3057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I had this problem. Corrected it by a breathing technique. Take a deep long breath to a slow count of five. Exhale slowly and fully to a count of six. Repeat this till you are asleep. I am amazed how well this works. I usually am asleep by the fifth repetition.
      Hope it works for you.

    • @erz85
      @erz85 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I used to have that problem too and it sucked! Melatonin has helped SO MUCH. Also stretching before bed to relax my muscles and drinking chamomile tea help when I'm super antsy.

    • @rib_rob_personal
      @rib_rob_personal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      For me, when I finally go "hey, I should sleep" I have to day dream and come up with a story because otherwise I can't sleep. It puts me out in like 10 minutes.

    • @benjaminshulman2407
      @benjaminshulman2407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@bettyanne3057 I've tried this so many times but I always get distracted and stop counting

    • @mars_ffs
      @mars_ffs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@rib_rob_personal i do this too but i always get way too into the story lol. so instead of just lying awake doing nothing for hours i end up lying awake daydreaming for hours so it's useless anyways💀💀

  • @Zericef
    @Zericef 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I agree with delayed circadian rhythm but I've also experienced my whole life a particular trouble with waking up at the right time too, even with an alarm.

  • @TheRealNenharm
    @TheRealNenharm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So the Algorithm really wanted me to watch this and has been trying to get me to watch it for a few days. Worth.

  • @techtricksforwindows5121
    @techtricksforwindows5121 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    When he said "And maybe even learned why you're watching it at 3am" it felt almost like a forth-wall break for me

    • @TheAyanamiRei
      @TheAyanamiRei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He said that when my clock was LITERALLY 3am on my laptop

  • @KatR264
    @KatR264 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1417

    While unemployed as an adult, I’m finding that sleep definitely drifts due to hyper focus. Daylight is not that important personally (especially for sleep-cycles during the summer); but if I stop doing an activity I’ve been hyper-focused on for hours, like for a bathroom break, the need to sleep comes from nowhere and hits me like a truck! Hyper focus seems to be a very powerful sleep suppressant very consistently with me.

    • @Radical_Rainbow
      @Radical_Rainbow 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

      Yes! Sometimes I am scared of stopping what I am doing because I know I'll develop a sleepy feeling if I do.

    • @Gratn
      @Gratn 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      For my entire life when it was near the time I would go to sleep and I had to do something I didn’t want to do such as homework or something mundane my body and mind would completely shut down

    • @MannenFromNorth
      @MannenFromNorth 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      im scared to stop working even when i come home. just making and eating dinner is enough to go right to sleep, then sleeping schedule is fucked and work will be hell

    • @JustMeAri
      @JustMeAri 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You're right, the same happens with me

    • @c.r.k.7162
      @c.r.k.7162 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I actually sleep better during the day than at night, but I still hated working night shift 😕

  • @deborahbarry8458
    @deborahbarry8458 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks!

  • @doismilho
    @doismilho 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    that ending really got me. it's thursday 4am. I'm watching this as I go to my bed.

  • @rebeccaparsons3864
    @rebeccaparsons3864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    "…why you're watching it at 3AM…"
    ooh it's only 1:30, I'm ahead of schedule

    • @gwendolenlynch2561
      @gwendolenlynch2561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I looked up at my clock and it was 02:55 … I had that moment of "How on earth did he know?!?!"

    • @nicoleeaves2153
      @nicoleeaves2153 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Eeeyyyyy. Me too when he said that!

    • @mariahlove4405
      @mariahlove4405 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Its 1:30 for me too🤣🤣

    • @KitsuneFyora
      @KitsuneFyora 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      1:05 here lmao

    • @SMPandanic
      @SMPandanic 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And I'm behind by 3 hours

  • @lolitarisas
    @lolitarisas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    Thank you for addressing adult ADHD, it is often omitted or simply ignored by essays, studies or explanation videos.

    • @Anomen77
      @Anomen77 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      What do you mean? I thought ADHD kids popped out of existence when reaching adulthood.

    • @Wazzaptheone
      @Wazzaptheone 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I am really glad they mentioned adult ADHD. Most people forget that many kids with ADHD continue to have it as adults, and so many studies are only done on children. So much more research needs to be done in adults!

    • @JoelRiggs
      @JoelRiggs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you! I was diagnosed at age 30, and it's made a world of difference. Symptoms seem to morph as we age, as well. A handful of older adults I've talked to take a small dose of stimulant before bed... it has helped their "everywhere" thoughts to chill out enough so sleep can settle in.

    • @lolitarisas
      @lolitarisas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@JoelRiggs I also got diagnosed as an adult, but when they explained everything to me, so much about my past, my upbringing, my time at school... Made perfect sense. It made me feel like not only I wasn't crazy, I wasn't alone in my feelings.

    • @hankanderson8633
      @hankanderson8633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Anomen
      “It’s my 18th birthday!!! I can’t wait to-“
      _pop_

  • @nidhisawant4313
    @nidhisawant4313 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This delayed circadian rhythm cost me a LOT. In my 12th grade I literally missed most of my classes because of this and almost got failed 🥲 Fortunately I did not fail and got admitted into a college but my grades were so low that I ended up in a college and stream I did not want to study in.

  • @Itsanit_Isnt_It
    @Itsanit_Isnt_It 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love that this was recommended to me at 2am.

  • @limalicious
    @limalicious 4 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    THIS IS TARGETING ME. I FEEL TARGETED.

  • @washulis
    @washulis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    "... and maybe finding out, why you are watching this at 3am."
    Well, its 2am here, but i still feel called out right now anyway. Rude, Hank :D

    • @PlutoniumBoss
      @PlutoniumBoss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      2:36 as I post now. HE KNOWS.

    • @zaraevans1766
      @zaraevans1766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      *checks time* ... 2:16 😬

    • @Knight39er
      @Knight39er 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      2:01 am for me

    • @sdfkjgh
      @sdfkjgh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      2:54 am, and it looks like I won't be getting to sleep for at least another 18 hours.

    • @purvaka
      @purvaka 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I came here to say this! LMAO

  • @xanderunderwoods3363
    @xanderunderwoods3363 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have severe ADHD, and my sleep is totally screwed up. This explains sooooo much

  • @rodent2807
    @rodent2807 2 ปีที่แล้ว +764

    every time i tried to sleep in silence as a kid I couldn't,i remember spending hours tossing and turning,nothing really helped until i started sleeping with my earbuds in, listening to podcasts and stuff. sitting in silence made my thoughts race,so listening to people talk about things helped,like a lot,now i can't sleep without earbuds

    • @flava157
      @flava157 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Me too I play piano music on my phone or else I will stay awake thinking for 8 years

    • @therisashow
      @therisashow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Same. I use a guided sleep meditation. My parents used to take us on car rides when my siblings and I were babies if they couldn’t get us to sleep. The lull of the car engine somehow knocking us out. We also slept or napped wherever they were, so often in busy rooms with all the adults talking. We’d pass out like that. Without the mild/guided external stimulation my mind runs wild for hours…

    • @nekochadechu
      @nekochadechu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same--now i can't sleep without earphones and its kinda bad for my ears but its either that or no sleep ahsksk

    • @SnowxXxAngel
      @SnowxXxAngel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same, I have relaxing/meditative music playing overnight and if my laptop dies at any time, I wake pretty quickly after....

    • @JanMaynz
      @JanMaynz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My Grandparents were always listening to the TV in the living room, and while I couldn't usually hear what was being said, I could hear people talking, their tone of voice, etc, and it was soothing. Now, I need SOME sort of noise. Preferably one that isn't totally consistent. I usually go with a fan. But, if I try putting on something that changes TOO much, I find myself focusing on it, and struggling to sleep. I can't put on podcasts and the like because I'll be so busy listening that I just... won't sleep. It's a frustrating balancing act. When I ran off to college for a semester, I found the sound of traffic to be pretty much perfect. There wasn't tons where I was staying, so it wasn't crazy, but there was enough that it was consistent and at a good volume. Alas, then I had to move back home where traffic is rare and far enough away that a police siren passing by on the nearest main road is barely noticeable. *sigh* Rez problems.

  • @RaindropsBleeding
    @RaindropsBleeding 4 ปีที่แล้ว +398

    Joke's on you, Hank. I'm watching this at 9am after going to bed at 5am. I swear if the world allowed me to go to bed at 5am and get up at 1pm I would

    • @shanakahope1685
      @shanakahope1685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That happened to me last night. I just wasn't tired. Sleeping in feels amazing.

    • @rasengan124
      @rasengan124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      My current schedule. The problem is I miss actually living

    • @lithiumkid
      @lithiumkid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      if there's any way you can try to make your life fit around that schedule, do it, commit to it, it'll change your life.

    • @darylsonofdeadbeat1349
      @darylsonofdeadbeat1349 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeesssssssssss that's me! My natural schedule is 4am-11am

    • @TheEmmakathryn
      @TheEmmakathryn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Whole reason I worked in bars for so long.
      Turns out it doesn't help as much with... other life stuff.

  • @killymxi
    @killymxi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    5:37 - I'm watching this at 3;23, definitely checks out.

  • @tardarsauce3355
    @tardarsauce3355 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This explains why I always have trouble falling asleep since high school and possibly before

  • @johntheherbalistg8756
    @johntheherbalistg8756 2 ปีที่แล้ว +434

    What I always say about sleep is "I don't fall asleep, I go to sleep. Sleep is an active, rather than passive, thing that I have to do. It won't happen on is own, most of the time"

    • @Dice-Z
      @Dice-Z 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That.. doesn't really help. Not for most people, anyway.

    • @AnaseSkyrider
      @AnaseSkyrider 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      I always say "Sleep is a thing my body does when it physically can't do anything else, which is why it takes until I suddenly can barely maintain consciousness for me to not be wide awake"

    • @kat3217
      @kat3217 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@Dice-Z most ppl don’t have adhd. Op makes sense

    • @Axl4325
      @Axl4325 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Dude same, I never go to sleep out of being really tired, I just decide "Yep, I can`t afford to keep being awake better turn off the PC"

    • @lizstolte2634
      @lizstolte2634 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Axl4325 no for real!! I can be violently exhausted (as I am now and I have to wake up in 90 minutes fml) and I’ll stay up if I’m entertained but if I’m bored I’ll just go to bed or take a nap instead existing in boredom or silence lol