Dating Culture at BYU
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 ส.ค. 2019
- Edit: This was for a class and it couldn't go over 10 minutes so that's why the audio is so fast lol. And we were rushing last minute to turn it in on time so that's why the video is pretty crappy in general haha i apologize!
our computer shut down THRICE in the process and deleted the entire 10-minute video.... many MANY thanks to our friend in the BYU library media center tech support, you shall remain unnamed but we will never forget you
3:54 perhaps the most BYU looking guy you’ll come across
The guy eating a grape! I'm crying!! 😅
"Oh my heck!" I went to BYU in the 90s and dating was the same back then. I busted up laughing when you mentioned NCMO because I've not heard that in over 20 years!
Did you get married later on? Did you get married to someone at BYU? Did you date someone for a period of time? Give me the details hahaha
I can tell u went there the moment you said o my heck lol
8 different dates in 1 month! Wow!! Playing the field for sure haha
Be Happy, invest & stay healthy. Respect others and love will come.
I went to a southern baptist university and it was the exact same lol ring by spring and everyone pursuing that m.r.s. Degree
Omg! Slow down...youre speaking way too fast, narrators!
You can put any video at a slower speed
Lol and with ear piercing S’s
Asking for "normal" was a good question.
Dear lord slow downs did y'all take speed?
Ladies slow down lol. Great video
Brooo what😭 my university has sex events every year where you play trivia games about sex facts/safe sex/consent and you win condoms and sex toys 🤣 This video is so crazy to me, not in a bad way, just surprising how we can all be going to schools for the same careers and have complete opposite experiences
Tbf most of these people are in a cult...so it's gonna be different from what you've experienced
In the LDS Faith we don't talk like this. Please respect the religion and your HF first before you think about talking immaturely and disrespectfully.
@@briandm33 Good for you, that’s your faith not mine, this a public TH-cam video and I’m a grown women I can comment whatever I want. With that being said, I still didn’t disrespect your beliefs in any way, just explained how my school has a completely different experience. And to me Talking about sex is not immature. Encouraging people to be safe if they’re doing it and educating them on the topic is disrespectful to you? No one said you had to agree with me and I didn’t bash your beliefs so I’m confused…
This makes me depressed to move there for work... I'm already planning on transferring after a year there...
@@briandm33 lol ur mad and ur cult sucks ass
SOAKING IS AWESOME
Y’all rockin wit NICMO⁉️
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Hi what is NICMO
The guys are lying about how many dates they go on.
I wonder how many of them have tried soaking.
The pressure and deprivation the Church causes, causes young people to think they need to be in a relationship and/or married to be fulfilled. The deprivation and pressure makes them not know what they really want
i'm not even religious and i just don't hook up and what's wring with people who don't hook up?
@@Nopebrbra When did they say there was something wrong with people who don't hook up? They're saying that you tend to get a better sense of what you want when you're not pressured to go one direction only, and that you don't need to be married to be fulfilled in life.
"finding out what you want" is just code for sleeping around
nicmo.
What exactly does this ‘NCMO’ entail 😂😂
If I am correct, it entails everything besides heavy petting and making it to first base. Hope that helps clarify the "non-commital" portion of it. XD
Non-Commital MakeOut session
Did you ask about soaking?
I’d last a Day there as I’d always be really really drunk
I would have to be buzzed to enjoy myself at this school. This school is lame.
@@javiersanabria7513 dont be mad you got no game javier, i had no game i had no game, i had tattoooooooooooooo and highsocks tho
Why does NCMO sound kinda bad to say, “Nigmo’s” lmao
Who's down with N C M O, yea you know me!
everyone is very attractive
Damn I was thinking opposite🥴, but eh just difference of opinion
@@unnonybtbtv2400 Fr 😂
Planning on attending there but they all low-key ugly
@@unnonybtbtv2400 its the wholesomeness and huhwiiiiiiiiiiiiite ness too, for me it is, ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh hannah, and brittany and the mother and daughter who were not mother and dasughter so i want them as wives too! and thickyboss tho she married and red reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeed red tho. ooooooooooooooooooh and Daldon, daldon was a sweetien and respectful to women and me, the man was all american white its alright good man, probably has 6 kids now my boy my baby boy daldons old now
@@nobzwrld9380 dude so many baddies at chifila and mcdonalds and the smiths and walmart and hiking trails and joggers, they all smell like bleach and suntan lotion
What does it mean “have you ever participate in one?” Someone answer me
It was a follow up to the previous question. Do you know what a NCMO is? And then "Have you ever been in one before?" So it's asking "have you ever been in a NCMO?"
Girl at 1:40 looks tall
nvm... 😒😦
You miss out on soo many things when it comes to getting serious at such a young age. The level of maturity and personality play such a key role in a person's beliefs and choices in who they choose to date and think of as a partner. What dateing truly comes down to is their connection to their Heavenly Father and a greater desire to create better choices in life. I couldn't even date under the age of 25 years old simply bc of maturity level and if you ask the Heavenly Father directly you'd find out quickly what he expects of everyone bc of seeking a mature partner bc of their desires in worshipping him and not the desires of the world. Now that I think about my youth and dateing in the gospel I had to stop myself from looking at my friends less bc they thought they needed to date or get serious under the age of 25 due to their identity in all things. The thinking better part in everything changes a person's desires to do better and to learn how to create more mature choices. Some people will not even marry in this lifetime bc of the right person comeing along to be that type of person. But in all honesty marriage isn't for kids or anyone under 22 years old. That age is still a kid in my book.
you miss out on alot of over rated selfish boomer hippie trash things. but yes
I am learning more and more why men are leaving all churches.... this was depressing
the kind of men who want to have shallow meaningless relationships and are emotionally and spiritually stunted little boys are the ones who find this depressing.
@bigmikeobama5314 SIGN language doesn't work on us anymore. Shame insults guilt and the need to be right. Satan is already in the church I'm the form of f3m1n1sm and solidified by your 501c3 status. This world belongs to Satan and youre all a part of that system. Young men should read all corinthians and learn that God does not like s1mps by way of Samson and king ahab.....
@@bigmikeobama5314 read that Bible more. God doesn't like s1mpz
The narrator speaks WAY too fast!!!
Holy hell, I can't believe America is real. These people will never get to live a day in their lives.
exactly what im thinking
Yall act like this is all America
BYU may as well be considered it's own country 😅
Everything seems horrible and boring and depressing
It is!! We have high rates of depression and related diseases because of it
Nothing like trying to make a huge financial decision to get married just to have sex. That is like you getting a $20k pay raise and you go out and get a $60k car before you even get the first check. Marriage is a financial disaster for guys
@@brianwaller9454 No s**t, Sherlock. I have not paid one cent in credit card interest since I split up with my ex 9/15/2001
i sincerely hope you stay well away from them then. dont ruin the last bastion of good decent wife material women left in america the way your libt ardism has ruined everything else
How many y'all soaked and jumped? 🤣
Bro I’m confused are they really embarrassed to say they made out w someone they weren’t married to?😂
Lol my thoughts exactly!
because your not supposed to be kissing people your not commited too
@@Sandrinarhondayeah but how do you figure out who you like? What if you marry someone and after figure out you guys aren’t sexually compatible at all
every woman is sexually compatible with every man lol. its not a complicated act, they prioritize things that are actually important, they dont think like a vain pissant and prioritize sex over a family and morality. all of the nay-saying comments on this video only vindicate and validate their way of life even more
i felt in love with my lds friend in high school. i stupidly got a little obssesed and that fricked her out. she promised me to go on a date if i change my behavior, im doing my mission over summer. she said that she is not planning on going to byu yet. During my mission i hope to learn how not to be like i was. Im not saying we have to marry but at least an opportunity to show that i change d. maybe later but im not thinking that. she was special because as a southamerican she turned me into a lds.
I’m deaddddd
Cool she got you into a cult
@@stephen1078 joining a religion or a cult just for a girl has to be the stupidest thing ever. It reminds me of the film Starship Troopers, the guy in that joined the military purely for a girl. And she left him 🤣
@@mikesully110 frll
Yikes
yer ou brideau
Interesting video
goo goo gah gah ncmo mommy
hiii
Who cares if you have had a ncmo? Get out there, date around, and live. Oooof. They treated it like it was the sin of sins 😂.
cuz in the church anything sexual is considered next to murder
Hello brothers and sisters. How is life ? I am crazy about the book of Mormon. Who wants to teach me the lessons ? Thanks abu Aly
Wait, why do the girls feel the need to drop out of college when they get marriage?
cuz most of them have babies ASAP and they are told to be stay at home moms bc that is the most important station for a woman
@@veronicahaney6005 well i dont see mormon pullin 211s 187 and the 3x they did in my life time they almost did, poor cows they dd nothing wrong obama
Is there an LGBT club at BYU then? lol
If you mean club as in "a heavy stick with a thick end, especially one used as a weapon," then yeah, I bet there is.
@@cufflink44 💀
@Tyler G well yes, but no
NICMO???? 🤨
Can you please explain me what nicmo means ?
Salwa None committed make out
Do they sell alcohol there?
Haha no. They just started selling caffeinated drinks like Coca Cola couple years ago.
@Tyler G Its quite impressive how Utah borders Nevada and Colorado and still fights tooth and nail to be preserve its Mormonism. I have to give y'all that.
@Tyler G That shit's ridiculous. Move to Vegas or Denver, bro
@@ayeayeronmolay3699 lies................... they sell it 11AM-7pm, dude i worked overnights used to pay coworkers to buy it for me before my day off
Those are reformed Mormons right? Doesn’t that religion think that being black is a curse?
Yup. Even converts who ate not white are 2nd class and not dated by the predominant white majority
Yep. Curse of Cain. God turned him black.
can you name any crime stats that would invalidate that claim?
Certain BYU students aren’t allowed to date at all
hawt
Brigham Young taught that Adam was God.
"Now hear it, O inhabitants of the earth, Jew and Gentile, Saint and sinner! When our father Adam came into the garden of Eden, he came into it with a celestial body, and brought Eve, one of his wives, with him. He helped to make and organize this world. He is Michael, the Archangel, the Ancient of Days! about whom holy men have written and spoken--He is our Father, and our God, and the only God with whom we have to do. Every man upon the earth, professing Christians or non professing, must hear it, and will know it sooner or later." Journal of Discourses, vol. 1, p. 50
It's been pretty much opposed by the church since Young died. Not to mention that's not what this video's about.
@@AttacMage i know about jesus and the marriage thing, my azteca relatives told me
Ncmo 🙄 so friends with benefits except not really a good friend and not much benefit. Wow, sad.
Bunch of soakers
Literally no one does that lmao
@@goaliegrizz8925 3 of my friends did, one did strcitly hand things only and justified it, he had 3 nicknames he hated it was hilarious HJH JH HJHH wheeeeeeeeeeew im loling from the memories homies rolled up to dudes moms house 2am yelling "come out with her hans up HAND(wont repeat dudes name)" oh yeah and JackJobs for short
go on a mission get married quick or the mormons look down on you a old cult
People date at BYU?
You talk so fast i don't know how anyone can understand you
Mormons on lock.... SHEEEESH
Ofcourse the yourger kids don't like it, the older ones understand it more
Isn't 99% of the population one religion kinda the opposite of lack of diversity? How on earth are you going to get exposed to different ideas if everyone thinks similarly. Also, BYU's population save for a few ethnic sports players and a few Pacific Islanders is resoundingly white compared to any other school. Please don't delude yourselves into thinking you are "diverse".
@Tyler G go to a different school then, no?
@Tyler G Lol
Ms Crusader, I think that's the whole point. Parents don't want their kids being exposed to ideas, people, and cultures that are outside of Mormon religious tenants.
Girl at 1:35 said the word "like" out of context 9 times in 30 seconds. Maybe BYU should teach her how to properly communicate a sentence in the English language. (Full disclosure: most university students in America are in the same predicament, sadly)
Language changes overtime get over it
Gladiator Toast old English was practically German and is completely non understandable to a modern English speaker. It changes so much it’s pretty much a different language
Corrina Slade that’s almost certainly what was going on here
Corrina Slade I make a conscious effort to not use “filler words” like Um or uhh or like, but if I was very nervous too I’m sure I’d be slipping up
Utah accent.. once you've lived here long enough it almost becomes your normal vocabulary
Learn about safer sex practices and just go have sex with each other. No spouses, no kids, no STI’s, you can have all of the fun without any of the problems. All you need to do is get rid of the guilt, or let go of this whole god thing.
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yeah so inspiring forcing people to just give their bodies in an attempt to have fun , there are other ways to have fun than sex okay. smh I hope I never become a speckle of you.
@@Sandrinarhonda no one’s forcing you to do anything