This guy who made this video…he just said what every guy would like to say about how guys really feel internally. It’s one of the deepest videos I’ve ever came across on TH-cam.
So true as a 40 year old man with a family of 5 and a depressed wife of 18 years it's good to here someone else say it. Because I have to be the strongest always.
This is actually true and that happens to me millions of times like when someone says you good I just say yeah I okay but I not because nobody will even care tbh nobody will😔
This is so true I can tell u that I’m going through it rn trying to stay strong my nan has cancer I’m depressed my dad almost lost he’s job, it helps me seeing this video thank you.
I just say I'm doing good and I've been giving everyone the same answer for 10 years and for 10 years I've lied to everyone. No one ever questions it since nobody seemed to care how I truly feel since they only came to me to talk about their feelings and problems or to help them with their homework. But also since I've lied to them i think they came to believe that I was truly doing well in life.
My man has 20 yrs of active service. We have been married 28 years and I'm 46 he is 48. 3 great kids. Yes he does struggle every day but it helps to say it. Tell yr wife then kids after they are older whatever u need. My kids all 3 love their Daddy w all their hearts and tells him. Talk to us we can help if she is a decent wife. Hold it all together through the hard and enjoy the happy.
Hey man i wanted to say this is so true i was never accepted as a kid in hokkie and now i play nasional hokkie and 2 provinsial hokkie teams i almost gave up when everybody rejected me and now i am the best of the best
Hard to keep pushing through ... i keep falling down when i get happy and i feel like i just don't matter to anyone. Im only alive to a promise made to a friend and to myself
I use to be at a point in my life where I had almost no emotion at all, like you could look at me and tell that I was not okay at all, people would ask me all the time “ are you okay.” I would respond with this answer all the time “yes I am doing just fine.” Because my mind thought that if I just open up a little bit, it will make others think I’m weak, so I suffered in silence for about 2 years, thinking of how I can fix this myself, this is one of my first times opening up, besides one of my best friends ever, and I have a very small friend circle, but he was someone who I could go to, and he would help me with whatever, I never spoke to anyone else but him about this. But 2 years later I have been doing better, last year my friend moved away and it all came back, I was back in the worst place possible, now that it is 2024, I have hit a point of just doing what I love most and shutting out the voices of the past, and looking to the bright side of things. “It’s a person who can see the bright side through the dark times when there ain’t one.”- NF
I wouldn't even say people don't care what we go through. I would say men often realize there isn't anything that can be done a lot of the time. Outside of having a heart-to-heart or just genuinely listening with undivided attention, we realize it is what it is and there often isn't anything other people can do to help, so we just keep the peace and say "I'm alright." Also often times, we say "I'm alright" because even if it isn't, it will be.
I thought it was just me I'm sorry for everyone who is also going though this but you just have to keep no matter what and know that you can always find help. 😢
And to the sexist woman who said we were sitting around waiting for something to happen, you are right. We are waiting for actual respect for the hard work we put into things
This really hits me where it hurts. I've been suffering depression for 3 years and no one but my family really cares. So I just started keeping it to myself. A man may need to be strong, but that doesn't mean a man can't sometimes be weak.
I have never related to something so much in my entire life. This is exactly how I feel on a daily basis. Thank you for this, I needed it. I'm alright too man
@@notmyname-vb8lb I'm just running outta "It is what it is" and losing hope. I've been super depressed lately and have been turning to po*n for fulfillment which obviously doesn't work but it's just putting me in a cycle of depression self hate and suicidal thoughts
I should start taking this advice. No matter how often I try to express how I feel, I just end up getting angry because I’m shown that no one really cares.
I'm mostly happy but someday are tough to just get out there. Lost my dad at 14, lost my mother at 24. Someday I just want to be with them. I love my life. I love my family/friends. I love my cat. I'll keep going out there because even if someday are pretty hard the gift I had in my life are worth all the pain I had and will live.
For those of us that 100% feels what he is saying to their core, knows. The demons we face grow in number, size, and intensity... daily. We not only feel like nobody cares, but we also feel if we say something to someone, we will then become a concern/burden to them or what we say will be used against us in the future - a sign people use to say "you're weak." So as usual, we suffer in silence. We decay mentally and physically until there is nothing left. I know for myself, I'm hanging on by a thread... just trying to make it to tomorrow in hopes it will be better and brighter. I hope if others have nobody, that we will connect with one another to hold each other up and keep moving forward. I love you my fellow brothers! #KeepMovingForward #MensMentalHealth
For all the girls who play games think of it as soon eternal the males are the doom slayer and society and the world are hells army we are fighting the entire army of hell by ourselves and no one wants to help us so please don’t just assume we’re ok or alright ask if we want to talk about what we’re going through don’t just let a man you know kill them selfs.
Im with you to brother im "alright" to 😢😢😢😭😢😢😭😭 and you dont have to hide it people can judge but no one should care about the non positive commect only care about the good people thqt care about you and if your not alright just no i fell sorry for you and i am with you to Love yall 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
I feel it that's why I like being alone I'm fighting what feels like a battle I can't win but I've been pushing forward for 14 years. I'm now 24 every year on my birthday I feel like I'm getting closer to winning but then I fall again. I'm alright tho
This makes me feel better as a person, I say “ I’m good” or “I’m doing well” etc. I’m not, I have a lot of mental stuff and as a man, you have to negate that stuff, but that stuff carry’s on with all other stuff. I feel like woman do have some stuff, but men’s and be on higher levels of mental pain.
Lately, I've been going through a lot. Sorry, I'm going to vent here. So I've liked this girl for a year, right? I've done so much for her, bought her gifts she's wanted since she was a kid. Took her to her first concert. And she had rejected me a month ago. I pointed out a guy staring at her st the concert. I asked her if she'd reject him as a joke. She said no. And so when you said this, I completely shattered and cried. I'm a fucking little baby aren't I 😅. Crying over a girl. Man that's embarrassing
"When your time comes to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song, and die like a hero going home
Nothing can be done if you don't physically advocate for yourselves just as women have done. Create shelters for only homeless men, shelters for men who have experienced DV, create male only gyms, fund research teams who focus on male therapy (whether it's talk therapy, wildlife therapy, etc.). Something. And if there are current male groups doing any of what I said or related, please let me know
I hate that my bf is going through some demons and feels that he can't say anything bc everyone tells him that no one cares and he's weak if it bothers him
My reason to keep going is my girlfriend and nothing else I will always love her and she’s the thing that keeps me sane through tough times I love her with all my heart and will never purposely make her sad and this is true because really the only people that actually care are your close friends not family
Yea I have a hard time everyday in life I change and it goes alr then it goes bad then I change again and I keep changing myself to see what people liked the most so what I did is just stay silent and don’t talk unless if you need to because theirs no reason to talk if they don’t even want to talk to you
This guy who made this video…he just said what every guy would like to say about how guys really feel internally. It’s one of the deepest videos I’ve ever came across on TH-cam.
Fr tho
I agree.
What’s the original video, i wish to know more about this depression
Yea
Man I’m glad someone can actually help us cuz what happens too me today
So true as a 40 year old man with a family of 5 and a depressed wife of 18 years it's good to here someone else say it. Because I have to be the strongest always.
I feel you brother I'm here for you
We're here for you man.
I'm with you mate I'm with you
Tough guy for keeping it together all this period.
Brother I feel you. You are not alone
Damn “I’m alright too”
i think inside every man is alright
@@imafortnitekid69no we’re not alright inside!
@@TOASTTHATGHOST2463no I think he meant "alright" in this shorts context which means *he's not*
I am alright too dude
He isn’t lying this is 100% the truth
This touched my soul I'm 47 and I always say I'm alright no matter what I'm going through because they don't really care
I always say what is going on I just hope 1 day someone will listen. Or ask something like whats going on
@@koengreen2540 say it tell us your story
We got this man .. CHIN UP .!! Too all my fella’s.
I’m tearing up rn this is one of the most truthful thing I have ever heard
"I'm alright too" hurt me
Stay strong my brothers
This is actually true and that happens to me millions of times like when someone says you good I just say yeah I okay but I not because nobody will even care tbh nobody will😔
Thanks Man.
This man said my whole life in less than a minute.
I'm going through heartbreak right now. I just tell people I'm "alright".
It's the same for me and I'm a girl my friends are fed up with me not talking about the hardships of go through everyday
This is so true I can tell u that I’m going through it rn trying to stay strong my nan has cancer I’m depressed my dad almost lost he’s job, it helps me seeing this video thank you.
I just say I'm doing good and I've been giving everyone the same answer for 10 years and for 10 years I've lied to everyone. No one ever questions it since nobody seemed to care how I truly feel since they only came to me to talk about their feelings and problems or to help them with their homework. But also since I've lied to them i think they came to believe that I was truly doing well in life.
i always have the feeling to just idk
My man has 20 yrs of active service. We have been married 28 years and I'm 46 he is 48. 3 great kids. Yes he does struggle every day but it helps to say it. Tell yr wife then kids after they are older whatever u need. My kids all 3 love their Daddy w all their hearts and tells him. Talk to us we can help if she is a decent wife. Hold it all together through the hard and enjoy the happy.
Oh my god...the times...im battling and saw this im emotional..
I'm alright too man 🥲
😭😢😔
"I'm alright" too😢
Hope you’re doing good brother.
Hey man i wanted to say this is so true i was never accepted as a kid in hokkie and now i play nasional hokkie and 2 provinsial hokkie teams i almost gave up when everybody rejected me and now i am the best of the best
yeah ya know that sound like me at school trying to find a reason to keep going though i dont ever find one
Hard to keep pushing through ... i keep falling down when i get happy and i feel like i just don't matter to anyone. Im only alive to a promise made to a friend and to myself
I use to be at a point in my life where I had almost no emotion at all, like you could look at me and tell that I was not okay at all, people would ask me all the time “ are you okay.” I would respond with this answer all the time “yes I am doing just fine.” Because my mind thought that if I just open up a little bit, it will make others think I’m weak, so I suffered in silence for about 2 years, thinking of how I can fix this myself, this is one of my first times opening up, besides one of my best friends ever, and I have a very small friend circle, but he was someone who I could go to, and he would help me with whatever, I never spoke to anyone else but him about this. But 2 years later I have been doing better, last year my friend moved away and it all came back, I was back in the worst place possible, now that it is 2024, I have hit a point of just doing what I love most and shutting out the voices of the past, and looking to the bright side of things. “It’s a person who can see the bright side through the dark times when there ain’t one.”- NF
So deep and so true
I wouldn't even say people don't care what we go through. I would say men often realize there isn't anything that can be done a lot of the time. Outside of having a heart-to-heart or just genuinely listening with undivided attention, we realize it is what it is and there often isn't anything other people can do to help, so we just keep the peace and say "I'm alright."
Also often times, we say "I'm alright" because even if it isn't, it will be.
This is heartbreaking. I want you to know that I DO care, and I'm sure a lot of other people do too.
Cap
@@Hello-h9gyour brain exist, cap. It doesn't.
Real shit✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
U are the type of men that is deteriorating every possibility of a men to become a men
I mean to @cuzzo566
Right on.. this is so the truth..but I'm alright..
Thanks man
Thank you
I feel you aswell brother. I'm also alright
I’m not alright and I love you for showcasing it. Brotherly love sent to you and all that need it. Lord knows I need it lol….
bro we are here for you dont worry about it im alright to
this guy know the hardships and pain I go through
This is essentially everything I’ve ever wanted to say. 💪🏽
I thought it was just me
I'm sorry for everyone who is also going though this but you just have to keep no matter what and know that you can always find help. 😢
And to the sexist woman who said we were sitting around waiting for something to happen, you are right. We are waiting for actual respect for the hard work we put into things
This really hits me where it hurts. I've been suffering depression for 3 years and no one but my family really cares. So I just started keeping it to myself. A man may need to be strong, but that doesn't mean a man can't sometimes be weak.
I have never related to something so much in my entire life. This is exactly how I feel on a daily basis.
Thank you for this, I needed it.
I'm alright too man
Happy Mens mental health month and you the person who gave us this video thank you
Hey. Just so y'all know, I'm alright. And I need help, before I'm not alright.
Dude tell us we will respond we will support you. Everyone should hear what you need to say. So say it express your feelings.
@@notmyname-vb8lb I'm just running outta "It is what it is" and losing hope. I've been super depressed lately and have been turning to po*n for fulfillment which obviously doesn't work but it's just putting me in a cycle of depression self hate and suicidal thoughts
This is how I feel but I’m so scared
I'm alright to guys, I love y'all keep your head up we can do this!!
This is me every fuking day just a struggle nothing but put downs dead end job struggling to just stay alive FML
Im with you king, never give up, stay positive you got this
I should start taking this advice. No matter how often I try to express how I feel, I just end up getting angry because I’m shown that no one really cares.
I'm mostly happy but someday are tough to just get out there. Lost my dad at 14, lost my mother at 24. Someday I just want to be with them. I love my life. I love my family/friends. I love my cat. I'll keep going out there because even if someday are pretty hard the gift I had in my life are worth all the pain I had and will live.
I feel for you, even though I'm a kid, I can really relate to this.
I’m in the streets tonight cause no one cares about me, I Thank you man. I can keep hearing this
this guy is spot on
he’s not lying i’m also just alright😔
For those of us that 100% feels what he is saying to their core, knows. The demons we face grow in number, size, and intensity... daily. We not only feel like nobody cares, but we also feel if we say something to someone, we will then become a concern/burden to them or what we say will be used against us in the future - a sign people use to say "you're weak." So as usual, we suffer in silence. We decay mentally and physically until there is nothing left. I know for myself, I'm hanging on by a thread... just trying to make it to tomorrow in hopes it will be better and brighter. I hope if others have nobody, that we will connect with one another to hold each other up and keep moving forward. I love you my fellow brothers! #KeepMovingForward #MensMentalHealth
I can definitely relate to this guy
Thanks bud, Im alright too
Marcus gears of war
For all the girls who play games think of it as soon eternal the males are the doom slayer and society and the world are hells army we are fighting the entire army of hell by ourselves and no one wants to help us so please don’t just assume we’re ok or alright ask if we want to talk about what we’re going through don’t just let a man you know kill them selfs.
Straight up gigachad
I'm all right too brother.
and I you are worthy.
Bro I’m 25 and I feel sometimes my life is over
I'm alright too
Bro things got emotional
I’m alright too every fucking day
Im with you to brother im "alright" to 😢😢😢😭😢😢😭😭 and you dont have to hide it people can judge but no one should care about the non positive commect only care about the good people thqt care about you and if your not alright just no i fell sorry for you and i am with you to
Love yall 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Oh and thank goodness for 🍺
im alright too
Im alright too
I feel it that's why I like being alone I'm fighting what feels like a battle I can't win but I've been pushing forward for 14 years. I'm now 24 every year on my birthday I feel like I'm getting closer to winning but then I fall again. I'm alright tho
This makes me feel better as a person, I say “ I’m good” or “I’m doing well” etc. I’m not, I have a lot of mental stuff and as a man, you have to negate that stuff, but that stuff carry’s on with all other stuff. I feel like woman do have some stuff, but men’s and be on higher levels of mental pain.
Defend this man
i’m alright too
Lately, I've been going through a lot. Sorry, I'm going to vent here. So I've liked this girl for a year, right? I've done so much for her, bought her gifts she's wanted since she was a kid. Took her to her first concert. And she had rejected me a month ago. I pointed out a guy staring at her st the concert. I asked her if she'd reject him as a joke. She said no. And so when you said this, I completely shattered and cried. I'm a fucking little baby aren't I 😅. Crying over a girl. Man that's embarrassing
thanks man
I’m alright to 😔
"Im alright"
"When your time comes to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song, and die like a hero going home
As a man, after watching this I almost cried knowing that I'm not the only one...
I m alright too... An Indian
I have everything to make me happy, but I still am alright, and I suppose many many many others are the same
Nothing can be done if you don't physically advocate for yourselves just as women have done. Create shelters for only homeless men, shelters for men who have experienced DV, create male only gyms, fund research teams who focus on male therapy (whether it's talk therapy, wildlife therapy, etc.). Something. And if there are current male groups doing any of what I said or related, please let me know
Everyday brother I wake up first thing I do is look for your video I've almost given up
I’m alright to brother
I hate that my bf is going through some demons and feels that he can't say anything bc everyone tells him that no one cares and he's weak if it bothers him
I'm alright
to all the men out there i hope your okay
and hey i'm all right too
I sir I’m alright to
My reason to keep going is my girlfriend and nothing else I will always love her and she’s the thing that keeps me sane through tough times I love her with all my heart and will never purposely make her sad and this is true because really the only people that actually care are your close friends not family
this made me cry
Thanks brother
Yea I have a hard time everyday in life I change and it goes alr then it goes bad then I change again and I keep changing myself to see what people liked the most so what I did is just stay silent and don’t talk unless if you need to because theirs no reason to talk if they don’t even want to talk to you
This should be on the tv right after they do the this is a test sound
I'm alright as well 😞
Hahahahaha..... I was here gents.... Farewell....
I am gay and when I watch this, it make my cry for all the man and especially for my father 😢😢
UK a lot of people may not even cear and thank I'm batching I'm not gonna say any thing about my feelings
As a woman I feel the same. I have a sticker on my bumper; no body cares, work harder.
I’m all right to bro
We have to act fine when we really aren’t