I feel like when people say that, they're trying to convince themselves sometimes. It's not enough to say it. We have to live it. And that's with everything.
Most annoying thing is your relatives who are picky and judgmental will say " you don't look like ur grandma/mom/sister" or "why are u not like pretty like ur sister, mom etc.
Because sometimes sister is just so much prettier and will be able to marry more rich family’s son and bring more money back to mom and dad. It’s a very straightforward Asian family business model. Daughter’s beauty will define her market value.
Yikes, that's horrible. Parents comparing their children ("why can't you be good in school like your sister?") are making those children so unhappy. And making remarks like that about ones look is even worse - and short-sighted, too. "I've got my genetics and cheek-bones and eyes and skin from my parents, go complain to them!"
@@Edwinbraun20 I mean me and my cousin are almost the same looking. Just height and some other difference. But the lady just directly said we aren't pretty like our grandma" (I dont have a sis) It kinda hurts though
If a dark or dusky skinned person is born in India she or he will have to face colourism and racism till the day of dying.... Example- Me and millions of people .....
@@ntb1132 well tbh caste isn't actually involved in colourism. Eg- I have a friend who is from the top class of Brahmin but he is dark skinned ..people still do discriminate him saying kallu , he wasnt visible until the chalk powder fell on him..etc which is completely disgusting! Edit- well actually he is brown skinned..
I love my dark skin but I hate the way society try’s to make me feel like my skin color is a bad thing. 😂for me I got three kids, a good career, and a loving spouse. Meanwhile the others who hate on my dark skin are still looking for those things 😂😅love y’all and stay dark! 👊🏿
Everyone says it doesn't matter how dark your skin looks but knowing or unknowingly they still perfer white skin over dark.... Been through this and still I am
I think *most* people (not all) like someone who has a similar complexion and look as them. I personally like men with olive skin and dark hair and eyes because on a subconscious level I want my kids to look like me.
I have a very varied type and I find white People and black people similarly attractive and my most major celeb crushes are black 😂 I just find attractive people attractive and I honestly don't find super pale people attractive for some reason I prefer tan or dark skinned so yeah but thats just me
I’m so thankful that I found this video. When I was young, I was so insecure with my pretty brown skin. I often wished my skin would magically become white when I become older. I saw no one talking about colorism so I thought I was crazy for being insecure about my skin color.When I watched this video for the first time when I was 15, I cried. This helped me learn more about the racist history colorism came from and showed me I was never alone. Thank you ❤️
People really don't face the truth. It is preference, not racism. Is it colorism and racism that women of all races prefer white men? People love a comfortable lie that is so ridiculous. The truth doesn't care how you feel. People need to face uncomfortable truths.
I'm Blasian (Black and Korean). I always got talked abou because of my skin color. But my mom always told me "The darker the coal, the brighter it burns." She says it means that I stand out and I'm able to shine brighter than anyone else.
Your DNA, South india queen(pandya dynasty) married to Korean king that why one of you dark skin complex, i suggest to you to plz take DNA test. You will get..... from south india tamilnadu
@@kurlkweeenie ignored criticized and negativity people." be talented and bold people are more heavier than rich and racism people". My quote is 100% fact ,So love yourself
If you wanna feel insecure about dark skin, come to South Asia, I've been told to put fair and lovely on my face to make myself lighter, ever since I was small
In my country they rebrand fair and lovely as glow and lovely (it receive some critism from beauty community), I think my country finally realize you dont need to be "fair" to be lovely
@@sircookieknight8566 A lot of people bleach their skin because of two tones ect... not trying to be white like some people do, which is sad and very ignorant! Since people are waking up, maybe "The Holy Spirit is working across the world waking up these weak minded folks, making them see things clearer?"
I loved that they included people of different cultures... most of the time when people talk about black skin or racism they focus only on African-American...this shows that this is an issues faced amongst many cultures..it is nice to feel included in these discussions
In the Philippines, if you have dark skin, people will treat you fine (just fine lol) but if you have a light skin, they will treat you like a special person, and would also love to be friends with you. It's kinda sad tho
Maybe because she’s dark skinned girls... sometimes people say to me also, “your nose is quite big for a white guy”- maybe I wasn’t enlightened enough to get offended? 🤣
They want their skin tanned ...like not too fair nd not too dark...it's the same way with height... 5'5-5'6 is considered petite and beautiful while the rest r too short or too tall... Strange way people think tho
My first grade teacher called me i" this dark thing!!" in anger. I wasc6 years old. It shaped the way I view myself. 15 years later I started university in South Africa. In the dining hall were Xhosa women who worked for the university serving us lunch. Assuming I didn't understand their language since I was foreign, one said to the other " what beautiful dark skin this child has". From that day I saw myself differently. I've since come to own how I feel about my blackness. I love it!! I've always thought light skinned people age badly anyway because of the sun. The darker the berry. ...and all that
I am a Sri Lankan and was always asked why my skin was dark. I used to be embarrassed and lie that I went to the beach a lot and got sunburnt. I wish I could go back to my past self and tell her that she’d be ok and being brown was the best thing that ever happened to her. Don’t hide your culture and traditions, embrace them! Everyone is beautiful in their own ways.
Simple tool, don't answer rather ask a question in return why their color is like that why is not clear like milk? Funny though but a simple tool ask a question in return. You don't have to answer any, it's just the mindset you need to develop and nothing else
Everyone with a birth defect be like: lol nope 😂 I needed several surgeries to survive my first months. Definitely not perfect and I'm not pretending otherwise.
Funny thing is that the history white people have of colonialization, invasions, atrocities, slavery, and social discrimination in american society has absolutely nothing to do with why anybody hates white people. Let that sink in for a minute.
That is so wrong and rasict !! And you must realize that rasicm is a problem in all over the world . not all asians are rasict u will find the good and the bad everywhere also who exactly u mean in asia ?? asia is not only korea , japan and china....
You’re missing the point! You’re not even black or a woman so can it with that “it doesn’t matter what colour you are!” Obviously it does! And the only 1 is lying is people who say what you said!
I'm Vietnamese. When I was 7, my aunt was talking to my 5 year old cousin and didn't know I was listening and said to her, "You can't go outside and play. Do you want your skin to get dark like Suzanne's?"
amazing ! Same. I’m brown skinned and the white kids in my class would always think it would be funny to say they couldn’t see me when the lights were turned off and I laughed to hide how hurt I was. This was just last year and I’m a junior in high school😔
Oh boohoo, i'm white man in a black africa. Not even the white women will date me. Twenty-five years of democracy and equality and the people are still blaming the white man instead of pulling thumb from bum and making something of their lives. As a tax payer I am sick of freeloaders getting houses from the government for being black. Ever heard of "Broad-Based Black Empowerment Equity Act"? Ever heard of "Land Appropriation Without Compensation Act"? Ever heard about white farmers getting murdered in South-Africa? The population of white people in South-Africa is half of what we were when I started paying taxes. So do not give me this excrement about black people having a hard time.
My dark skinned 6 year old son came home crying the other day & said "mom I want to change my skin colour." I asked him why? He said "a girl told about me "yuck I hate his skin colour! He's so black!" That was so hurting to hear! Poor child! Even children can be so rude & racist?!
Yes, it's sad, but true. I am white myself, but a few years ago I used to walk my younger sister to her classroom, and in line I overheard 3 white little girls talking. They said: "I don't know if I should trust her, because she's black." And the other girls agreed. I was so utterly shocked that I still remember it to this day, and that was years ago. But you cannot blame the children, racism doesn't come naturally, blame their parents.
Family let that puberty hit that girl in a lil bit. She ain't gone feel like that then. Believe me she gonna have some dark meat b4 the curtains close.
Little children 6 and under form a lot of their skin color prejudices from what they hear at home. If a child doesn't like someone it's usually because they're mean, they're annoying, they won't share, or maybe because their hygiene isn't that good. Not because their skin color isn't the same.
Black is beauty, and those who think white is superior to black, just shows how ignorant they are because at least 60% of white people 's DNA is from Africa, so being black should make u feel proud and original. Anyway whiteness of the face isn't needed it's that of the heart pliz teach your kids don't give them a chance to resent their color and origin. Their color isn't a limitation
It just goes to show you there is NO logic or reason to racism. Those that hate and fear what's different don't care how beautiful you are inside or out. I pity those who wrap themselves in their shields of hate to protect them from their irrational fears; instead of opening their hearts and minds to get to know the many beautiful people and cultures of this world, even within their own countries. It honestly breaks my heart. I pray for healing for those who have been and continue to be hurt by such ignorance.
I’m kinda worried about that with my Girlfriends family, she’s light skin and I’m very darkskin like African Black. She even warned me about that which makes me uncomfortable
There is kind of an unspoken rule in my Latino family about not dating dark skinned/black people. I never cared. Those types of problematic attitudes end with me and my future children :)
"You want to be a singer? Your face is too black." A friend of mine told me that when I was like 9 years old in front of a class presentation. Though he was young too, and we're still friends, those words stuck with me. I'm now 32, and I quickly realized how much words like that really have an impact on one's confidence.
I’m an Indian (won’t share my skin color) but so many Americans have told me you’re really pretty for an Indian, at that time I felt sad instead of feeling good. It felt like insult. I told them women of India are far prettier than me (which is 100% true!)
Florence Jean, believe it or not, African women have more chances of marriages than black American women. If you go to Europe and meet African women migrants, only then would you see huge, huge, huge differences between them and black American women. Meet them in person and then see how many are wearing engagement rings, how many are talking about their wedding plans. Meet them in African migrant community in Europe and then you will see what is so clearly wrong with the black American women who have made themselves undateable and unattractive. The African women with the darkest skin have no problems in attracting men of all races for dates and marriages. Their greatest secret is their feminity. It is how they project their feminity to men, how they conduct themselves and what messages they send out.
I hear you and I feel you all in this video. When I was in high school I used to ask dark skinned girls out on a date they used to say that I'm not light enough for them; When I ask light skinned and Brown Skinned girls out on a date they used to say that I'm not dark enough. In the Black community, we deal with Shadism. A Shadist is someone who is prejudice against someone base on shade: skin tone, a form of self-hatred within Black, Asian, Indian, and Latino communities who hate the skin tone they are in let for example light brown, medium brown, dark brown skin tones.Even in White Communities white people with fair skin hate other white people with dark tan skin. I'm a Brown skinned Black man who believe that women with yellow, tan, Brown, and dark skin are just as beautiful as white women too. To all the women who did me wrongly in the past, I forgive you. And I mean that from the heart too. True Beauty is not base on fair or light skin, true beauty comes from the heart; it is base on how you feel on the inside and different women with different skin colors are beautiful in their own ways. I hope someone read this positive message. I never mean to offend anyone. Forgive me if I did. Please don't flag or spam this message.
Larry Clegg i love it how you didn't just say that people of colour (yellow to black) that they are beautiful you said that everyone is beautiful white people and darker people. Lots of reapect to you
As an Indian, it's really disheartening to see the amount of fairness creams being advertised in my country. It's like the 21st century but we still promote crap like 'fair skin' or 'gora nikhar'. My skin tone, as per Indian standards, is apparently considered fair (which is something of pride apparently). So when I started competitive swimming, I got more tanned. This became a major concern for my relatives and they would suggest ways to lighten my skin (It was so ridiculous). Thankfully my parents and grandma always told me to be proud of my skin so I could just brush them off. But there are so many kids who hate their skin colour. I sure hope this perception changes.
I'm Indian too, and my natural skin color is what a lot of people refer to as "gehua" or "wheatish." I remember that on so many instances, my relatives and friends used to come up to me and say "ah, you'd be so pretty if you were a little lighter!" Then they would go on to suggest "homemade" ways of lightening one's skin. I wonder why Indians still have this in-built mentality?
Kaveri Sharma IKR. It's infuriating. These standards give us self esteem issues without even knowing the damage they're doing. I would like to tell you that your skin colour is lovely and screw people who say otherwise :D
Anisha Srikar As is yours! Your know what gets me though? Matrimonial ads. "Looking for a fair and beautiful bride..." That sentence will give my an aneurysm one day.
As someone who is a light brown skin, I didn't realize that my sister who is a medium brown skin got compared to me a lot. People would tell her not to go out in the sun. I also, remember my relatives telling me that my skin got lighter just because I took a bath.
I don't know why, but i've always been happy to be black. Even though people are always saying horrible offensive things to me, I never hated my skin colour. I just hope that people can be happy with themselves, no matter what anyone tells them. :)
the same here, I love me color and won't change it for the world.... you're beautiful just the way you are , heck we all are , yellow, white, blue , and even me as they will try to call me extra burned lol . one thing for is that God the creator Himself gave me loads of confidence , am blessed and I love my skin . love you as well and your skin . Sorry for long text
That is quite common in India.Parlours thrive on such requests.Sometimes it is ingrained in the minds of many women.Its all about self worth really.I have always believed that everybody has an interesting face.
2:19 shes right, I'm still hearing "jokes" like that now. Especially from people that are my race, they think it's okay because they're both black but no. They're the reason why some white people think its okay to make "jokes" like that, and always start off with "well my black friends said".
Stop Asking For My Name fr tho and I feel like when it's your own race that's even more of a slap to the face. For crying out loud if we can't stick together and support each other then what's the point anymore. I mean honestly what's up with that division.
Victoria Wright I beg to differ. I'm black, im a person, most of my family is black, each and every one of them is a person, together we are people, black people.
I was 9 and one day I was at the gas station with my dad and a white man told me "black girls can't be polite and elegant". I was a beautiful child and I was shy too and those words impacted my security about myself, now I'm 13 and the idea of falling in love makes me feel asquerous just for my skin color
veryserioz Actually if you look at the video they made about dating statistics middle eastern women were most likely to get responses from men, they’re both beautiful
@@lilysbox2139 I dunno. When I got tanned I'm very brown and I didn't get any bad treatment bcs of it. Ppl usually make assumptions that I have returned from vacation with sunbathing and get jelly :D
Dark-skinned people of all ethnicities, keep your head held high and don't be afraid to shine. As my dad always told me when I was a little girl, "You are magic and your skin is divine."
For me, facials features are a big factor. Color not much, but skin has to be healthy and glowing. So now if you ask me, which one you will choose if you are given a choice between dark skin and white skin person. I would go for a kind person.
No one at birth chose be a color. It's ridiculous that we discriminate against something that no one can help and doesn't need to help. (This also does apply to sexuality)
As a white person my parents never really mentioned racism to me as a young child. I remember having my first best friend and I was so exited and my parents asked why she was black as if they had expected I would only have white friends. I was confused and said its because she was born that way and my parents realized how they worded the question and dropped it. She was my first crush. Eventually we drifted apart and I had two new friends. People would look at me funny because I always hung out with these two black girls. I don't know if people thought I was weird or if they thought my friends were but either way I didnt care. Sadly, I don't see them as often anymore but this is my point. I didn't hear about people thinking black people were less-than so I never treated them as such. Of course education is important and I'm glad I've learnt some (definitely not all) of the history of racism because it is important. Education is the cornerstone of change. Change is possible. (this isn't me trying to say that I have a black friend so I'm not racist btw, although I sincerely hope I am not racist ever because racism NEEDS to end)
Wisdom really comes from the mouth of children, this comment is underrated, race should be the least of what concerns us.... good or bad, better or worse, a person is defined by how he thinks, how he acts up on that thought and how he behaves and presents himself.....and I say you are an outstanding person!
As a darker skinned Indian this hits home for me. I was adopted to white parents, and I felt ashamed growing up of my skin color to the point that I actually wanted to BE a blonde haired, blue eyed white girl. It took many years to finally be able to say that now I am proud of how I look and I think my brown skin is beautiful. But it took many painful years for me to realize that.
I'm am a darker Vietnamese which means i am of a "poorer class,and I work in the fields" I always wanted paler skin and I still do, but i feel better having darker skin in a sense
TeaKat Dark skin Is seen as undesirable In many places but we all can change that narrative by no longer buying Into that lie and embracing our own beauty.
Could not relate any more!! I'm Chinese adopted to white parents in a predominantly white neighbourhood. Growing up, I wanted to be white. I wanted to have blue eyes, with either blonde, black or brown hair. Now, I'm slowly learning to accept myself. It's still a work in progress, but I'm getting there.
I'm so sorry to hear that. I think dark skin is much nicer than most European skin colours (with the exception of those ivory coloured red heads. Lol). I know that hearing something once or twice from strangers won't undo your father's words and attitude which you suffered from birth, but I hope you come to see beauty in your skin colour.
My light skinned narccistic Indian parents made me the scapegoat child of the family when I was 3 years old. The reason : I was dark skinned while my younger brother was lighter skinned. He was the golden child and recieved all the affection while I on the other hand was not even hugged and was physically beaten a lot.
I am so happy as a mixed person that I saw so many colors growing up! My uncle was very dark, my dad medium , my mom is white … my entire family is mixed. My dad taught me to respect all.
I feel so lucky after hearing them speak. I am from from West Bengal, India and am naturally dark. My parents have never told me to use any kinds of bleaching creams. They did not even say anything like you are darker than the others or anything like that. They have always treated me as their child and not as their "dark child". I am so thankful to them. When I was younger like till about 8-9years old I did not even know racism existed as I never ever faced it. My friends have lighter skin than me but never in my life have they mistreated me. I hope everyone can live in a non racist surrounding just like me.🙏🙏
It's same for me too. I am from West Bengal and my parents never told me to do something to look more fair but one of my relatives says why I am getting tanned nowadays. If you see it's mostly the relatives and neighbors who always pass this kinds of statement
@@R_t-99 Even as a boy I faced this lol . I'm also from W.B. 17 years old but have made 0 girlfriend. I am actually not that dark kinda yellow but some of my friends use to make fun of me sometimes . So I always tried to stay away from them and now I have 0 close friends and I'm a loner and a Introvert. I don't even know what I'm gonna do with my life. My mind be racing but I don't even know what I'm chasing . I think there is only 2 other ways for boys to attract girls and it is 1> good face 2> great body What you think ? I'm sure you are girl so you might be able to help me . I personally believe that I have a good face so I'm working on my body rn . And for girls I can only suggest you girls to use make up and fairness creams. It's not gonna end unless our society stops thinking White skin = beauty.
Nowadays people are changing they won't tell you that you look bad just because you have dark skin because no one would like to hurt someone's feeling. But deep down no matter what they say they will have that thinking of White skin = beauty.
It's same for me too .. I didn't know what racism meant until I was 16 ....I'm from Bangladesh..by the way .. I think the white wash problem is a bit more severe in India than any Bangladesh.
Neuro melanin ( present in the brain ) counts waaaay more than what's on the outside lmao you have dark men with white grandfathers. So how strong is your connection to the universe
Not the only one. When I was 10, I had a Nigerian best friend, while being in primary school in Central Europe. She was bullied by some of my classmates, called all sorts of things from chocolate, through potato, down to poop. I remember getting into quite a couple of skirmishes, because I thought it was hurtful and mean and got into fights on her behalf to make them stop. And all the time, secretly I really envied her, because I thought her skin color was soooooo beautiful! She was really dark, and had this ruddy undertone, and I was in love with her skin. And yes, I was wishing if only I had that.
No you're not! They're all so amazing but it disgusts me how we have to build them up like this because of their skin tone. Everyone deserves confidence and to be complimented but our media today has made the world we live in one in which we have to reassure others that their skin colour is not a problem and that they're beautiful no matter what colour foundation they put on every morning or what shade of the rainbow their skin is. That is what disgusts me about the world.
+Zdena Gabaľová I had a best friend who's dad was Jamaican and mother was Irish- we were planning our dream holiday and when we pretend "booked" flights she turned to me and said, " but Jess I can't go on a plane" when I asked her why she said "because no one will want to sit next to me" when I asked her again why she said "because I'm black." This is inconceivable to me, we were 11 and she had the idea in her head that she couldn't fly in a plane because her skin was a different colour to mine.
I am so sorry. You are beautiful the way you are. I know the way society has made it seemed it’s hard to accept yourself the way you are when you don’t fit the beauty standards. But trust me, society is beautiful only because of our differences. So keep your head up and know you are so damn amazing and worth it and you don’t need to change a single thing about you
Why? That means you have not educated yourself and know who you are. Once you do that you will start to feel extremely sorry for non-melanated people and walk with your head high. "The stone that the builder refuse shall be the head corner stone."
Absolutely can't stand it when white people try to insist that "racism doesn't exist anymore" just because slavery got abolished but the fact is, racism does still exist. And if we speak up about it, we'll get silenced. So that's why a lot of us still suffer from racism everyday In silence.
I’m white and grew up in california in a mostly hispanic school, I met a lot of white Mexicans, but the cultural differences and the fact that they mostly spoke spanish made me feel out of place, I wasn’t bullied, I was only teased a couple of times, I started tanning as I got older, I thought it would make me fit in more with the other kids, but it never really worked. If you’re black or brown just know you should be proud of your skin color. “We want what we don’t have and we neglect what we have”
I can't believe this is actually happening in world and that there are people who actually think so bad about dark skin. personally I think dark skin is the most beautiful thing ever. I hope one day this will end and people will stop thinking so bad
All skin colors are beautiful. Light, dark, and everything in between. Some people are just so terrible that they discriminate if your skin color isn't the same as theirs.
KPop is Life THERE NO CORRECT WAS TO SPELL ROMANISED WORDS STOP SLOOT SHAMING ME JIMIN I AM A KOREABOO But that heartu thing was Japanese influence lmao
mercy awour she isn’t considered dark skinned to me or in Indian standards I’m talking about a real dark skinned indian girl like the girl in the video that actually represents the people of India
when my mom and family taunt me on my skin colour its hurt but its okay its hurt when people say to us [family] your both daughter ARE PRETTY and its hurt when ppl say to my mom why she is black in your family, funfact my age is just 11 😀 but now im proude to be black skin infact i love black colour idc what other say to me
I never thought any of this. I never thought darker skin equated to ugliness or anything. I know I'm white so I should shut up, but I grew up in Philly and had primarily black, Indian and Korean friends. I never thought this stereotype. I hope this feeling goes away; lupita n'yung, idris alba, mindy kaling are all super hot and of darker skin tones. Let's make everyone feel beautiful but killing these stereotype
It's a misconception they put on themselves. They all are beautiful, beauty is simply subjective. Different places have different idealistics for beauty. And factually many white people especially in America seek to tan themselves because that's what they believe ideal beauty looks like.
I'm so glad that you never thought this way And no, you shouldn't shut up, every voice matters no matter the color. The problem is(at least where I am), is that most white people don't get it, or think that what we're saying is fake, since they're not the target audience. I did a presentation in school on the media and stereotypes on black females, and some people didn't know it was a thing.
It is not a misconception that "they" put on themselves. It's a misconception and misrepresentation that the media constantly portrays that subconsciously integrates into everyone's minds. And yes, they are all beautiful, yet the media tells a vastly different story.
In turkey they don’t treat dark skinned people badly but they’ll definitely treat you like some type of celebrity if you’re blonde. In my school teachers deadass picked favorites among girls by who was whiter
This is actually the common type of colorism in white majority countries between white people, there's this "competition" between blondes and brunettes (redheads faced a lot of mockery and discrimination), even Ibrahimovic who's 100% white (but Slavic who also face a lot of discrimination) said that he would've been treated better in Sweden had he been blonde. Why do humans just love to divide and dicriminate each other on the most ridiculous things???
+UK Gully tan is dark skin compared to being pale. dude I've seen these really pale girls put on some heavy tan on they look like a different race. anything that isn't pale is dark skin. and im pretty sure there has been discrimination with every type of skin tone and it doesn't have to be widely known.
Maybe not discrimination in a traditional sense, but obviously, you're not pale and haven't suffered some mean (or just naive, but hurtful) comments related to that: "Are you sick?", "You should get out in the sun more often" "Girl, just get some spray tan", "I prefer tanned skin, pale skin girls are NOT attractive", "You look like a vampire", "Yogurt-girl, haha!", "Poor you, I mean, I'm so lucky: I get out in the sun for 5 minutes and bam-I'm tanned! I don't even have to wear make-up during summer!"...It accumulates and can really hurt self-esteem, especially when you're a teenager.
Don't frame yourself based on what people say who don't know and love you. Don't even frame yourself in opposition to what people say who don't know and love you. Don't frame yourself based on something that others think should frame you...negative or positive. You are more than what you look like. What you look like should be the least of your motivations or preoccupations. Let others be who they are. Find the blessing in being who you are and utilize it for all it's value.
it doesn't really start at home, Juan. This a systemic cultural bias ingrained in the psyche of many to support white superiority. So even if your parents tell you that you re beautiful the way you are, the media and the world at large do not reflect that dichotomy. The myth that anything white is better than anything dark has to be dispelled. It is happening slowly as images of diverse people appear in commercials. Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder, but if someone consistently focuses your eye on one image as the standard to measure by, your perception is skewed. .
ovrjoyd4u2 get a clue! Colored people are not just in the kand of the white man! LOL Go to Asia and you will see whiteness is an image unforced by the inhabitants for thousands of years with or without European colonization. Even Europeans would rate themselves based on whiteness throughout history. For the same reasons as Asians and im sure most other cultures, white skin equates to wealth, because white skin could remain indoors out of the fields. Stop blaming whites for everything! Doing so only enslaves yourself to being a perpetual victim, that will never be happy or successful.
You really are either obtuse or illiterate. I blame no one for anything. If you think that the promotion of white supremacy is a myth, then shame on you. I already know the real truth, but that has not stopped the purporting of the lie. I am very happy and successful, but not because of my people's victimization, but despite it.
Yomi O. Exactly I've never had these problems growing up and I find it to be strange when I here people say these kind of things about there dark skin. I want to be like " who brain washed you"
Good for you !!! We teach our kids the same. The most racist thing you could do is produce this vile video. We need to stop this race to see who can be the biggest victim.
I’m a Hispanic woman with very light skin. When people look at me they don’t know that I’m 50% Native Central American, they think I’m white. My mother always fawned over me for my looks. She often showed me baby pictures of when I had blond streaks in my hair and my eyes were blue. She always treated me as prettier than my sister who has an olive complexion, jet black hair and dark brown eyes. As I got older I began to realize how cruel this was to my sister and I. My sister is beautiful, I never understood my moms attitude.
My heart broke when one of the guys said, "You're perfect just the way you are. And that's something that no one has ever told me." You are perfect just the way you are.
Not to devalue or invalidate their experiences or anything. But as a dark skin black woman, I really hate it when people expect me to be insecure abt being dark skin. Yes I've had comments abt my dark tone but I've always known that I'm beautiful. It just irritates me when ppl expect me to have a story abt how I wanted to bleach my skin when I've never felt this way.
elky360 I made a comment saying feeling bad about your skin color is a self esteem issue and people are coming for me saying I do not understand history, all while missing my point which is to love the skin you are in no matter how dark or light
People will come for you because you are dismissing the aspect and reality of colorism. The other comment is a separate issue from what you're speaking of. Sure for some it can be a self esteem issue but it is really a self-image issue which stems from colorism...please do not negate colorism as a REAL issue.
anointed2wait your comment is understandable, but I did not dismiss colorism as having an impact on how those people percieve themselves, however what I was saying is that it is more personal (hence 'self' was used), as if it wasn't all person who have faced 'colorism' would feel the same way
Judi Lynn thanks for understanding, it's not that I'm dismissing other people who feel that way, all I'm trying to say is that not all dark skin people feel that way, what this video failed to tell us is that some dark folks exude confidence and are proud of being dark and happy with the way they are
When she is told Her skin is too dark; I do not hesitate to offer, That the sun loved her so much It kissed her more Than the rest of us -Eman Cheema EDIT: people are getting triggered. Chill. We dark skins get hate so this makes us smile okay? This isn’t hating on light skins so calm down lol I think the PERSON WHO WROTE IT ISNT EVEN DARK LOL EDIT 2: seriously if you’re that triggered then write your own poem 😂😂😂😂😂 EDIT 3: I’m so glad this makes so many of you smile and feel good 😘
To the nonblack people saying “it doesn’t matter what colour you are!” Obviously it’s NOT TRUE! You’re not Black and some of you aren’t even women so who’s lying!? It’s not these folks!
my junior year 2014 I was Cinderella in our play hloka polka. some of the girls didn't like that I was a dark Cinderella. but I was happy and I loved it. and I felt beautiful
I think those girls were jealous of you. I was the only blond girl in my Japanese school, and they wouldn't let me play Alice in the school play because my hair was not black.
yes indeed lighter skin is preferred by some all over the world, its ignorant! but.......it is not a white problem, african americans do it too within their community, stop blaming whites for everything! that is racist too, blaming whites for all faults.
@nightwishnemo In India, it is different, most of the gods "were" black. It is when the persians ruled India that everyone got biased for white and the colour of gods got eventually changed from black to pale blue and brown to white so that the gods are not inferior.
The girl saying she was afraid to talk about her experiences because she didn’t want to make people uncomfortable is raw. It’s not even that she’s uncomfortable with her skin color. It’s that she knows she has to tiptoe around *everyone else’s discomfort* with even a conversation about it.
Some white people have destroyed this planet with their wickness. People hating their skin while a lot of whites are tanning their skin.. OMG, the craziness in this world
On paper, people normally say “Black is Beautiful” but in reality, the story is not always the same.
i'm glad you brought this up.
Sadly
That's true😢
I feel like when people say that, they're trying to convince themselves sometimes. It's not enough to say it. We have to live it. And that's with everything.
Albino is beautiful
Most annoying thing is your relatives who are picky and judgmental will say " you don't look like ur grandma/mom/sister" or "why are u not like pretty like ur sister, mom etc.
Because sometimes sister is just so much prettier and will be able to marry more rich family’s son and bring more money back to mom and dad. It’s a very straightforward Asian family business model. Daughter’s beauty will define her market value.
Yikes, that's horrible. Parents comparing their children ("why can't you be good in school like your sister?") are making those children so unhappy. And making remarks like that about ones look is even worse - and short-sighted, too.
"I've got my genetics and cheek-bones and eyes and skin from my parents, go complain to them!"
@@Edwinbraun20 I mean me and my cousin are almost the same looking. Just height and some other difference. But the lady just directly said we aren't pretty like our grandma" (I dont have a sis)
It kinda hurts though
Your profile pic and your comment is same
Ikr! Brainless idiots
If a dark or dusky skinned person is born in India she or he will have to face colourism and racism till the day of dying....
Example- Me and millions of people .....
Castes
@@ntb1132 well tbh caste isn't actually involved in colourism. Eg- I have a friend who is from the top class of Brahmin but he is dark skinned ..people still do discriminate him saying kallu , he wasnt visible until the chalk powder fell on him..etc which is completely disgusting!
Edit- well actually he is brown skinned..
Omg... you’re so negative
@@Edwinbraun20 she's speaking facts actually. Look it up.
Yeah but you gotta stay strong. I myself faced it being an indian
I love my dark skin but I hate the way society try’s to make me feel like my skin color is a bad thing. 😂for me I got three kids, a good career, and a loving spouse. Meanwhile the others who hate on my dark skin are still looking for those things 😂😅love y’all and stay dark! 👊🏿
They are insecure and want to push people down because they’re afraid to admit they have a problem with themselves 😂
Haha well said 😂❤
Back to fields 👴👴
Everyone says it doesn't matter how dark your skin looks but knowing or unknowingly they still perfer white skin over dark.... Been through this and still I am
I think *most* people (not all) like someone who has a similar complexion and look as them. I personally like men with olive skin and dark hair and eyes because on a subconscious level I want my kids to look like me.
I have a very varied type and I find white People and black people similarly attractive and my most major celeb crushes are black 😂 I just find attractive people attractive and I honestly don't find super pale people attractive for some reason I prefer tan or dark skinned so yeah but thats just me
@@AlyxAesthetics that's cool that you are open to like
Depends on the person, if she/he likes more one type into ok, there's nothing wrong, beauty is something personal
Not true.
“ i was the only black angel walking in the street and I was proud of it “
All Black people should have this mentality.
💯
❤
@@c-onethirty um chile
im very dark, my beauty is my perspective nobody else, and yes i stay in sun, just to get darker..ikeep being darker, love my darl color,
@@truth803 who hurt u?
I’m so thankful that I found this video. When I was young, I was so insecure with my pretty brown skin. I often wished my skin would magically become white when I become older. I saw no one talking about colorism so I thought I was crazy for being insecure about my skin color.When I watched this video for the first time when I was 15, I cried. This helped me learn more about the racist history colorism came from and showed me I was never alone. Thank you ❤️
People really don't face the truth.
It is preference, not racism.
Is it colorism and racism that women of all races prefer white men?
People love a comfortable lie that is so ridiculous.
The truth doesn't care how you feel.
People need to face uncomfortable truths.
I'm Blasian (Black and Korean). I always got talked abou because of my skin color. But my mom always told me "The darker the coal, the brighter it burns." She says it means that I stand out and I'm able to shine brighter than anyone else.
Your DNA, South india queen(pandya dynasty) married to Korean king that why one of you dark skin complex, i suggest to you to plz take DNA test. You will get..... from south india tamilnadu
@@Rajkumar-ul7ko no my father is
African American my mom is Korean
@@kurlkweeenie ignored criticized and negativity people." be talented and bold people are more heavier than rich and racism people". My quote is 100% fact ,So love yourself
@Lying Dog-Faced Pony Soldier African-American is the appropriate
way to say Black
I have 3 cousins who are Blasian( Black,/ S.Korean too. They have 2 sisters who are foremost black. All 5 of them treat each other with equal love..
Yall like dark mode in everything except skin
😒😟
Preach sis! 🙌
Exactlyy
Thats is so true
My phone is on dark mode rn 😂😂
If you wanna feel insecure about dark skin, come to South Asia, I've been told to put fair and lovely on my face to make myself lighter, ever since I was small
same.. i used to bleach my skin but i stopped.
Nah the entire asia
Same I had bad breakouts because of it
In my country they rebrand fair and lovely as glow and lovely (it receive some critism from beauty community), I think my country finally realize you dont need to be "fair" to be lovely
@@sircookieknight8566 A lot of people bleach their skin because of two tones ect... not trying to be white like some people do, which is sad and very ignorant! Since people are waking up, maybe "The Holy Spirit is working across the world waking up these weak minded folks, making them see things clearer?"
I loved that they included people of different cultures... most of the time when people talk about black skin or racism they focus only on African-American...this shows that this is an issues faced amongst many cultures..it is nice to feel included in these discussions
I love how that lady was like 'I was the only black angel and I was proud of it' yeah u go!
YES AS SHE SHOULD 👑
I almost cried fr
@@sonyaharjani But that wouId make her Iook racist!
@@truth803 and how would you know you never ever been in haven so how would u know huh.
@@truth803 stfu
In the Philippines, if you have dark skin, people will treat you fine (just fine lol) but if you have a light skin, they will treat you like a special person, and would also love to be friends with you. It's kinda sad tho
Either it’s due to Spanish people
Or a general preference to white people
@Nikki Gonzales Yes now that I think a bout it america has played a big role
as someone whos lightskin and grew up here, i can confirm
As a black man, Philippinos treat me as their bro, unlike the Chinese, Koreans, and Arabs.
@Nikki Gonzales "Influence of Western Culture?" How about SPANISH COLONIZATION of The Philippines from 1521-1898?"🤔🤔
I am a dark skinned pakistani girl and this issue is real in our country.
Mujhe Nahi Lagta I don't have issues and I have a bit light brown face
@Ray Pardesi I am really sorry for you. I did get bullied once but not for my complexion but because students enjoyed it
I feel your pain sister . the situation is the sam in India too 😢
zeenat123 yes, the whiter you are, more beautiful you are
Same in India sis
Being dark skinned is tough
Regardless of gender
I was nicknamed Shaka in school
Exactly 😂😁
Why do you think it's hard
"Oh , you're really pretty for a dak-skinned girl. "
~~ whyyy "for a dark skinned girl."
Frrr
The disrespect
Army💜
@@KAVYAG-zx6dx yesss 💜💜💜
Maybe because she’s dark skinned girls...
sometimes people say to me also, “your nose is quite big for a white guy”- maybe I wasn’t enlightened enough to get offended? 🤣
What’s up with western people wanting to be dark skinned and eastern people wanting to have light skin? Wtf
You always want what you dont have.
@@Rouxgarou96 true
Western people only started thinking tan skin was beautiful like less than 100 years ago
They want their skin tanned ...like not too fair nd not too dark...it's the same way with height... 5'5-5'6 is considered petite and beautiful while the rest r too short or too tall... Strange way people think tho
In Easter culture fair skin is considered to be angelic/ a sign of wealth
My first grade teacher called me i" this dark thing!!" in anger. I wasc6 years old. It shaped the way I view myself. 15 years later I started university in South Africa. In the dining hall were Xhosa women who worked for the university serving us lunch. Assuming I didn't understand their language since I was foreign, one said to the other " what beautiful dark skin this child has". From that day I saw myself differently. I've since come to own how I feel about my blackness. I love it!! I've always thought light skinned people age badly anyway because of the sun. The darker the berry. ...and all that
blessed40years 🥰
To each his own, but I thank God everyday for not being black.
CarteBlanche why
@@BretteBaker probably because it's hard. Some people know they can't stand up to something.
@@annotter2150 maybe. but i thought of bhad bhabbie when she said that
I am a Sri Lankan and was always asked why my skin was dark. I used to be embarrassed and lie that I went to the beach a lot and got sunburnt. I wish I could go back to my past self and tell her that she’d be ok and being brown was the best thing that ever happened to her. Don’t hide your culture and traditions, embrace them! Everyone is beautiful in their own ways.
Simple tool, don't answer rather ask a question in return why their color is like that why is not clear like milk? Funny though but a simple tool ask a question in return.
You don't have to answer any, it's just the mindset you need to develop and nothing else
" AND FINALLY, I WAS AN ANGEL !" she SLAYS !
She had blue eyes though
+XShadowshot black people can have blue eyes , it's normal in some African ethnicities
+Clairia Irimbere what I meant is that having colored eyes is associated with being white sometimes
+XShadowshot contacts.
Yeah I found her story sad but sweet
This made me cry. We’re all made perfect before our first breath. We’re getting it, it’s a beautiful thing.
❤❤❤❤❤ i cried too
Everyone with a birth defect be like: lol nope 😂
I needed several surgeries to survive my first months. Definitely not perfect and I'm not pretending otherwise.
worded just correctly
I don't get it. I see all women the same sexy yet these people who hate by skin are evil y'all are human
We're all made perfect? Who put that crazy idea in your head?
you wanna feel insecure for having dark skin?come to asia 😒
Funny thing is that the history white people have of colonialization, invasions, atrocities, slavery, and social discrimination in american society has absolutely nothing to do with why anybody hates white people. Let that sink in for a minute.
can you speak in mizo
@norma bean
Try expressing that to a marxist professor.
@@felavirgo2792 yes...mizoram ah pawh "ngo se chu a hmelthra ang" tih an la ching viau,ngo hi kan la ngaisang mah mah i ti ve lo maw ka thrian?
That is so wrong and rasict !! And you must realize that rasicm is a problem in all over the world . not all asians are rasict u will find the good and the bad everywhere also who exactly u mean in asia ?? asia is not only korea , japan and china....
It doesn't matter what colour your skin is. All you have to do is be friends with those who want to be your friend. Its very simple!
I swear this video is the dumbest thing I’ve ever seen
You’re missing the point! You’re not even black or a woman so can it with that “it doesn’t matter what colour you are!” Obviously it does! And the only 1 is lying is people who say what you said!
Who wants to be friends with who is Powerfully influenced by colorism.
I'm Vietnamese. When I was 7, my aunt was talking to my 5 year old cousin and didn't know I was listening and said to her, "You can't go outside and play. Do you want your skin to get dark like Suzanne's?"
That statement is something you would have expected to hear during the Pioneer Days in the United States. Wow. Just wow.
@Amelia Jones Nowadays?
@Amelia Jones How is there more impact today? Parents used to scream at and beat their children with belts and switches back in the day.
I have light skin tone, and I'm very jealous of dark skin people, they looks strong against the sun, not like my vulnerable one
I'm Vietnamese too
Im in saigon and its rare to see locals having dark skin
Well, I am darker than all these people in the interview but guess what, I wish I was darker.
i love my dark skin & i’ll never trade it for anything else.
You know what First Name Last name I do love you
Me too
@@riamdiaw6805love you too. are you Senegalese?
@@cheikhtv3840 yeah of course. What about you?
The amount of racist jokes and name calling I've had to endure throughout my life is actually sad. I'm black, deal with it.
amazing ! Same. I’m brown skinned and the white kids in my class would always think it would be funny to say they couldn’t see me when the lights were turned off and I laughed to hide how hurt I was. This was just last year and I’m a junior in high school😔
Im sorry, i know what getting teased over something you cant control feels like. You’ll get through it dark skin is beutiful
Oh boohoo, i'm white man in a black africa. Not even the white women will date me. Twenty-five years of democracy and equality and the people are still blaming the white man instead of pulling thumb from bum and making something of their lives.
As a tax payer I am sick of freeloaders getting houses from the government for being black.
Ever heard of "Broad-Based Black Empowerment Equity Act"? Ever heard of "Land Appropriation Without Compensation Act"?
Ever heard about white farmers getting murdered in South-Africa? The population of white people in South-Africa is half of what we were when I started paying taxes.
So do not give me this excrement about black people having a hard time.
Andrew Nel did you watch this video just to argue with people in the comments?
I love you
We dark skin people are beautiful
My dark skinned 6 year old son came home crying the other day & said "mom I want to change my skin colour." I asked him why? He said "a girl told about me "yuck I hate his skin colour! He's so black!" That was so hurting to hear! Poor child! Even children can be so rude & racist?!
Yes, it's sad, but true. I am white myself, but a few years ago I used to walk my younger sister to her classroom, and in line I overheard 3 white little girls talking. They said: "I don't know if I should trust her, because she's black." And the other girls agreed. I was so utterly shocked that I still remember it to this day, and that was years ago. But you cannot blame the children, racism doesn't come naturally, blame their parents.
Sena/GachaStudio yes true the parents must be talking such things in front of the kids.
Family let that puberty hit that girl in a lil bit. She ain't gone feel like that then. Believe me she gonna have some dark meat b4 the curtains close.
Little children 6 and under form a lot of their skin color prejudices from what they hear at home. If a child doesn't like someone it's usually because they're mean, they're annoying, they won't share, or maybe because their hygiene isn't that good. Not because their skin color isn't the same.
Black is beauty, and those who think white is superior to black, just shows how ignorant they are because at least 60% of white people 's DNA is from Africa, so being black should make u feel proud and original. Anyway whiteness of the face isn't needed it's that of the heart pliz teach your kids don't give them a chance to resent their color and origin. Their color isn't a limitation
The weird part is everybody in this video is attractive
It just goes to show you there is NO logic or reason to racism. Those that hate and fear what's different don't care how beautiful you are inside or out. I pity those who wrap themselves in their shields of hate to protect them from their irrational fears; instead of opening their hearts and minds to get to know the many beautiful people and cultures of this world, even within their own countries. It honestly breaks my heart. I pray for healing for those who have been and continue to be hurt by such ignorance.
Yes, they are. Unfortunately they don't see themselves that way, because of racism.
Yeah that's what I was thinking too
Why is it “weird”?
How come it’s “weird”?
When the girl said "I was the only black angel walking in the street" I kind of tear up at the same time I felt proud.
*woman or *lady
But yeah✨
love having dark skin and curly hair. People have to love themselves as they are ❤ Jesus i love you
My boyfriends family was upset that he was dating someone so dark... that’s traumatic. Especially when I’m as attractive as I am.
Love the confidence...yaaaa
I’m kinda worried about that with my Girlfriends family, she’s light skin and I’m very darkskin like African Black. She even warned me about that which makes me uncomfortable
There is kind of an unspoken rule in my Latino family about not dating dark skinned/black people. I never cared. Those types of problematic attitudes end with me and my future children :)
Tensai Kodai that’s awesome. End the cycle
Keep up the confidence! 🥰
my black friend made everyone call him dark lord
lol
That is sad and funny
+Nia Za why sad?
Queen A In my country it is also mean as an insult.
I agree. It might seem funny but sometimes those things could be a cover for internal pain and shame.
"You want to be a singer? Your face is too black." A friend of mine told me that when I was like 9 years old in front of a class presentation. Though he was young too, and we're still friends, those words stuck with me. I'm now 32, and I quickly realized how much words like that really have an impact on one's confidence.
You're very handsome Luke. 🤗💖
That's funny since the music industry is basically run by black people
Michael Jackson , Tupac , Dr Dre , Snoop Dogg , Biggie : are we a joke to you?
You are beautiful the way you are.
@@tourougyass3046 Today
I’m an Indian (won’t share my skin color) but so many Americans have told me you’re really pretty for an Indian, at that time I felt sad instead of feeling good. It felt like insult. I told them women of India are far prettier than me (which is 100% true!)
Being dark skin as a woman is tough. You even have the darkest men bashing your same dark skin
M J love that someone pointed this out.
M J, really? My brother is white and he finds black women very attractive.
M J exactly
very true!
Florence Jean, believe it or not, African women have more chances of marriages than black American women. If you go to Europe and meet African women migrants, only then would you see huge, huge, huge differences between them and black American women. Meet them in person and then see how many are wearing engagement rings, how many are talking about their wedding plans. Meet them in African migrant community in Europe and then you will see what is so clearly wrong with the black American women who have made themselves undateable and unattractive. The African women with the darkest skin have no problems in attracting men of all races for dates and marriages. Their greatest secret is their feminity. It is how they project their feminity to men, how they conduct themselves and what messages they send out.
I hear you and I feel you all in this video. When I was in high school I used to ask dark skinned girls out on a date they used to say that I'm not light enough for them; When I ask light skinned and Brown Skinned girls out on a date they used to say that I'm not dark enough. In the Black community, we deal with Shadism. A Shadist is someone who is prejudice against someone base on shade: skin tone, a form of self-hatred within Black, Asian, Indian, and Latino communities who hate the skin tone they are in let for example light brown, medium brown, dark brown skin tones.Even in White Communities white people with fair skin hate other white people with dark tan skin. I'm a Brown skinned Black man who believe that women with yellow, tan, Brown, and dark skin are just as beautiful as white women too. To all the women who did me wrongly in the past, I forgive you. And I mean that from the heart too. True Beauty is not base on fair or light skin, true beauty comes from the heart; it is base on how you feel on the inside and different women with different skin colors are beautiful in their own ways. I hope someone read this positive message. I never mean to offend anyone. Forgive me if I did. Please don't flag or spam this message.
It was like for example, not let for example. That spell check list always change some of the words I typed.
Larry Clegg i love it how you didn't just say that people of colour (yellow to black) that they are beautiful you said that everyone is beautiful white people and darker people. Lots of reapect to you
Larry Clegg
Larry Clegg lol its called colorism not shadism lol
In the Caribbean it's called colorism. And when it relates to social class/economic status disparity it's the pigmentocracy. Our greatest curse.
As an Indian, it's really disheartening to see the amount of fairness creams being advertised in my country. It's like the 21st century but we still promote crap like 'fair skin' or 'gora nikhar'. My skin tone, as per Indian standards, is apparently considered fair (which is something of pride apparently). So when I started competitive swimming, I got more tanned. This became a major concern for my relatives and they would suggest ways to lighten my skin (It was so ridiculous). Thankfully my parents and grandma always told me to be proud of my skin so I could just brush them off. But there are so many kids who hate their skin colour. I sure hope this perception changes.
on the other hand, campaigns like #unfairandlovely is positively lovely to me
I'm Indian too, and my natural skin color is what a lot of people refer to as "gehua" or "wheatish." I remember that on so many instances, my relatives and friends used to come up to me and say "ah, you'd be so pretty if you were a little lighter!" Then they would go on to suggest "homemade" ways of lightening one's skin. I wonder why Indians still have this in-built mentality?
Anamika Mahesj certainly! I should have mentioned that but thank you for doing so. We should talk about more campaigns like that.
Kaveri Sharma IKR. It's infuriating. These standards give us self esteem issues without even knowing the damage they're doing. I would like to tell you that your skin colour is lovely and screw people who say otherwise :D
Anisha Srikar As is yours! Your know what gets me though? Matrimonial ads. "Looking for a fair and beautiful bride..." That sentence will give my an aneurysm one day.
I’m so confused. Everyone in this video is gorgeous.
LOL, IKR!? LET US ALL APPRECIATE WHAT GOD GAVE US!!!
Aww. You’re such a sweetheart
Aww 😍true
ikr
Nope
As someone who is a light brown skin, I didn't realize that my sister who is a medium brown skin got compared to me a lot. People would tell her not to go out in the sun.
I also, remember my relatives telling me that my skin got lighter just because I took a bath.
I don't know why, but i've always been happy to be black. Even though people are always saying horrible offensive things to me, I never hated my skin colour. I just hope that people can be happy with themselves, no matter what anyone tells them. :)
***** Thank you! I'm very happy you don't feel that way. I hope others will understand, and love themselves as well.
Same.
the same here, I love me color and won't change it for the world.... you're beautiful just the way you are , heck we all are , yellow, white, blue , and even me as they will try to call me extra burned lol . one thing for is that God the creator Himself gave me loads of confidence , am blessed and I love my skin . love you as well and your skin . Sorry for long text
Your profile pic says something else
Wako bangz He's a youtuber, and I like him a lot. So, I put him as my profile picture. :D
I feel sad for the indian girl who said her mom bleached her skin as a child
That is quite common in India.Parlours thrive on such requests.Sometimes it is ingrained in the minds of many women.Its all about self worth really.I have always believed that everybody has an interesting face.
Vicky Morgan I too got bleach on my skin by my mom when I was just like 13 or 14 year old..... And yes I am an Indian too.
What it's like to get bleach on skin. I am 12 years old and I'm also indian.
When I was small my skin was so light but when I slowly grow my skin started become a little darker now my skin is little darker and brown.
you should feel furious on why the pale skin society pressure us brown skin people to have a lighter skin just to have respect from anywhere.
I'm really happy they talked about discrimination against dark skinned people who are not just black.
2:19 shes right, I'm still hearing "jokes" like that now. Especially from people that are my race, they think it's okay because they're both black but no. They're the reason why some white people think its okay to make "jokes" like that, and always start off with "well my black friends said".
Stop Asking For My Name fr tho and I feel like when it's your own race that's even more of a slap to the face. For crying out loud if we can't stick together and support each other then what's the point anymore. I mean honestly what's up with that division.
Imani Mbibouth exactly, we are all that we have.
Stop Asking For My Name there is no such thing as black people
Victoria Wright I beg to differ. I'm black, im a person, most of my family is black, each and every one of them is a person, together we are people, black people.
I was 9 and one day I was at the gas station with my dad and a white man told me "black girls can't be polite and elegant". I was a beautiful child and I was shy too and those words impacted my security about myself, now I'm 13 and the idea of falling in love makes me feel asquerous just for my skin color
I love that they included darkskin for other races and not just what darkskin is considered to the black race
veryserioz
Actually if you look at the video they made about dating statistics middle eastern women were most likely to get responses from men, they’re both beautiful
veryserioz ok bigot
I was bullied due to my skin tone. I am Asian, being fair is a big thing. Always considered unattractive...
Im so sorry for that:(( im an asian too and it sucks that we, asian people still experience discrimination because of our race and skin color:((
Huh? I am asian too and all my childhood I got silly comments like "gosh, you are so pale! Are u ill??" Not all Asia was influenced by the west.
@@LalaLa-ze7kv same lol , i live in America and they keep accused me of bleaching my skin ( idk bleach can be passed on genetically smh )
@@LalaLa-ze7kv or maybe because.. you just happened to be in the opposite side?
I doubt dark skinned ppl in your area never experience colorism..
@@lilysbox2139 I dunno. When I got tanned I'm very brown and I didn't get any bad treatment bcs of it. Ppl usually make assumptions that I have returned from vacation with sunbathing and get jelly :D
Dark-skinned people of all ethnicities, keep your head held high and don't be afraid to shine. As my dad always told me when I was a little girl, "You are magic and your skin is divine."
#woke
preach it
+KPop is Life you got no jams~
+Dina Jones Boy I've got more jams then you will ever have
+KPop is Life true
For me, facials features are a big factor. Color not much, but skin has to be healthy and glowing. So now if you ask me, which one you will choose if you are given a choice between dark skin and white skin person. I would go for a kind person.
The blue-haired lady... I'm so proud of her for believing in herself despite of what the public said.
I know right I love how she likes being different + dark pple get great tans
+A.J. TH-cam not really im some what white but i tan great.
+pinkgalah yeah but dark have tan all year
+Mananeao SD No, we tan, it's just not as noticeable since we're already dark. You could have a tan right now and you probably wouldn't notice.
IKR I almost cried
Beautiful story
No one at birth chose be a color. It's ridiculous that we discriminate against something that no one can help and doesn't need to help. (This also does apply to sexuality)
!!!!!!
I think people discriminate the culture
Agreed, it's crazy
+Matthew Nam People discriminate against culture and skin. Even people with the same culture proliferate colorism within their community.
And that you can be proud of something like that, crazy
As a white person my parents never really mentioned racism to me as a young child. I remember having my first best friend and I was so exited and my parents asked why she was black as if they had expected I would only have white friends. I was confused and said its because she was born that way and my parents realized how they worded the question and dropped it. She was my first crush. Eventually we drifted apart and I had two new friends. People would look at me funny because I always hung out with these two black girls. I don't know if people thought I was weird or if they thought my friends were but either way I didnt care. Sadly, I don't see them as often anymore but this is my point. I didn't hear about people thinking black people were less-than so I never treated them as such. Of course education is important and I'm glad I've learnt some (definitely not all) of the history of racism because it is important. Education is the cornerstone of change. Change is possible. (this isn't me trying to say that I have a black friend so I'm not racist btw, although I sincerely hope I am not racist ever because racism NEEDS to end)
Man...that sucks. I hope you have an amazing time 🥺
Wisdom really comes from the mouth of children, this comment is underrated, race should be the least of what concerns us.... good or bad, better or worse, a person is defined by how he thinks, how he acts up on that thought and how he behaves and presents himself.....and I say you are an outstanding person!
You did great job.
😭😭😭😭 THIS IS SO SAD!!! I can’t imagine being in a situation like that!
This is so sad :(
I was recommended this and it's been 7 years. Has much changed? Nope.
As a darker skinned Indian this hits home for me. I was adopted to white parents, and I felt ashamed growing up of my skin color to the point that I actually wanted to BE a blonde haired, blue eyed white girl. It took many years to finally be able to say that now I am proud of how I look and I think my brown skin is beautiful. But it took many painful years for me to realize that.
I'm a dark skinned Indian too and I feel your pain.
I'm am a darker Vietnamese which means i am of a "poorer class,and I work in the fields" I always wanted paler skin and I still do, but i feel better having darker skin in a sense
TeaKat Dark skin Is seen as undesirable In many places but we all can change that narrative by no longer buying Into that lie and embracing our own beauty.
Could not relate any more!! I'm Chinese adopted to white parents in a predominantly white neighbourhood. Growing up, I wanted to be white. I wanted to have blue eyes, with either blonde, black or brown hair. Now, I'm slowly learning to accept myself. It's still a work in progress, but I'm getting there.
ellie ross I think oriental people are beautiful! I'm Indian and feel the same you do. But we are who we are and theres nothing wrong with that!
As a darkskin Vietnamese, this hits me so hard! Even my dad would shame my for my skin
Sue Valerie Pham he’s the one who gave u it 😂😂😂😂
I'm so sorry to hear that. I think dark skin is much nicer than most European skin colours (with the exception of those ivory coloured red heads. Lol). I know that hearing something once or twice from strangers won't undo your father's words and attitude which you suffered from birth, but I hope you come to see beauty in your skin colour.
Hey! I’m Viet too and have dark skin. I bet you’re really pretty :) your skin color is beautiful just the way it is. Dark skin Viets unite!
My light skinned narccistic Indian parents made me the scapegoat child of the family when I was 3 years old.
The reason : I was dark skinned while my younger brother was lighter skinned. He was the golden child and recieved all the affection while I on the other hand was not even hugged and was physically beaten a lot.
Are people just Writing comments so people just feel bad for them
Being Indian (Bengali) I understand the Indian girl 😢and it's true
Edit:Thank's for the likes guys and comments
Damn we have the same name-
@@SITANSHUKAR woah that's cool
Exactly
Same here
I thought Indians were dark skinned?
I am so happy as a mixed person that I saw so many colors growing up! My uncle was very dark, my dad medium , my mom is white … my entire family is mixed. My dad taught me to respect all.
I feel so lucky after hearing them speak. I am from from West Bengal, India and am naturally dark. My parents have never told me to use any kinds of bleaching creams. They did not even say anything like you are darker than the others or anything like that. They have always treated me as their child and not as their "dark child". I am so thankful to them. When I was younger like till about 8-9years old I did not even know racism existed as I never ever faced it. My friends have lighter skin than me but never in my life have they mistreated me. I hope everyone can live in a non racist surrounding just like me.🙏🙏
It's same for me too. I am from West Bengal and my parents never told me to do something to look more fair but one of my relatives says why I am getting tanned nowadays. If you see it's mostly the relatives and neighbors who always pass this kinds of statement
@@R_t-99 Even as a boy I faced this lol . I'm also from W.B. 17 years old but have made 0 girlfriend. I am actually not that dark kinda yellow but some of my friends use to make fun of me sometimes . So I always tried to stay away from them and now I have 0 close friends and I'm a loner and a Introvert. I don't even know what I'm gonna do with my life. My mind be racing but I don't even know what I'm chasing . I think there is only 2 other ways for boys to attract girls and it is
1> good face
2> great body
What you think ? I'm sure you are girl so you might be able to help me .
I personally believe that I have a good face so I'm working on my body rn . And for girls I can only suggest you girls to use make up and fairness creams. It's not gonna end unless our society stops thinking
White skin = beauty.
Nowadays people are changing they won't tell you that you look bad just because you have dark skin because no one would like to hurt someone's feeling. But deep down no matter what they say they will have that thinking of
White skin = beauty.
@@R_t-99 Those are ignorant racist people that think like that and is very brainwashed!
It's same for me too .. I didn't know what racism meant until I was 16 ....I'm from Bangladesh..by the way .. I think the white wash problem is a bit more severe in India than any Bangladesh.
I'm going to be honest I seriously found half of the people starring here really beautiful
Omg I was thinking the exact same thing! They're all so hot😂 #unfairandlovely
i found all of them beautiful....
cool..? wow what a surprise..?
I found all
Half? Umm honey, whats wrong with the other people exactly?
I'm so glad that woman got to be an angel😄😢
Yeah, me too
😂
@@MaxThrills Her blue features looks cool too
No i no i no no BONER Viagra boner
They are absolutely right, giving chance to darker skin people in main roles can definitely bring changes, hope that day come ASAP(•_•)
Doesn’t that already happen nowadays?
But everyone of these people are attractive
*Edit: wow didn't realise personal preference was so controversial.*
@David Drake- What? I don't know what you mean to say
So true man the dark guy looks good
Nah.
Right? Especially the Ghanaian and Indian girls.
Gross
Didn't most people in the bible have darker skin ?!
Jesus was a brown person but they white washed him :/
@@smallfartmaster RIGHTT
@@smallfartmaster YEAH exactly
Yea different shades of brown tho
Yeah not to mention Jesus is from Israel so he's actually asian or middle eastern looking guy
the lady woth the blue hair made me tear up. 😢"I was an angel. and my mommy was proud . and I was proud!' ❤❤❤
Ik same ❣
right omg
Alice InCrazyLand she wasn't even black.....
+Inferno Network it was darked skin people not "black"
She's puerto rican
And as a ginger child I HATED being pale as paper... we grow up snd learn to value what is deeper than skin... we get over ourselves, not society.
"I say the darker the flesh and the deeper the roots...."
-Tupac Amaru Shakur
dyami gerhold lol and the oldest tribe of ppl alive are light skin
Well,Where ever tupac is now, he's definitely not worryingabout darker flesh or any flesh...…..
THE KEMET KUSH GOD Who are they?
Adnan I the San ppl
Neuro melanin ( present in the brain ) counts waaaay more than what's on the outside lmao you have dark men with white grandfathers. So how strong is your connection to the universe
Im i the only one who thinks dark skinned people are beautiful and their skin is just amazing?
Not the only one. When I was 10, I had a Nigerian best friend, while being in primary school in Central Europe. She was bullied by some of my classmates, called all sorts of things from chocolate, through potato, down to poop. I remember getting into quite a couple of skirmishes, because I thought it was hurtful and mean and got into fights on her behalf to make them stop. And all the time, secretly I really envied her, because I thought her skin color was soooooo beautiful! She was really dark, and had this ruddy undertone, and I was in love with her skin. And yes, I was wishing if only I had that.
Zdena Gabaľová i just dont get why some people dont accept others the way they are and that irritates me sooooo much
No you're not! They're all so amazing but it disgusts me how we have to build them up like this because of their skin tone. Everyone deserves confidence and to be complimented but our media today has made the world we live in one in which we have to reassure others that their skin colour is not a problem and that they're beautiful no matter what colour foundation they put on every morning or what shade of the rainbow their skin is. That is what disgusts me about the world.
+Zdena Gabaľová I had a best friend who's dad was Jamaican and mother was Irish- we were planning our dream holiday and when we pretend "booked" flights she turned to me and said, " but Jess I can't go on a plane" when I asked her why she said "because no one will want to sit next to me" when I asked her again why she said "because I'm black." This is inconceivable to me, we were 11 and she had the idea in her head that she couldn't fly in a plane because her skin was a different colour to mine.
Konstantina La
Brown and black is beautiful ✊🏼✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿
Thank you!💕 I'm brown.
Skin Tone is a an ancestral compliment 🥰
Thx I’m black the 2 or 3 one is my skin tone
If you say so......
@@sonogabri1 wdym its true we dont need your negative energy here
The heck with causing discomfort☝🏿☝🏿 in a vitally important subject.....Comfort is why people stay in ignorance ....here Sis⚘️⚘️⚘️⚘️⚘️
I'm dark skinned. And I resonate with this. My self worth and esteem is completely demolished.
i am so so sorry you deserve so much better :(
I am so sorry. You are beautiful the way you are. I know the way society has made it seemed it’s hard to accept yourself the way you are when you don’t fit the beauty standards. But trust me, society is beautiful only because of our differences. So keep your head up and know you are so damn amazing and worth it and you don’t need to change a single thing about you
Why? That means you have not educated yourself and know who you are. Once you do that you will start to feel extremely sorry for non-melanated people and walk with your head high. "The stone that the builder refuse shall be the head corner stone."
@@sonyaharjani wow thank you, your reply put another genuine smile of the day on my face. Thank you
Poor bb ;-;
We all (black and brown) can relate to this no matter where we live.
Racism is still here, people just don't talk about it or express it.
Yup, Indian right here
Aren't Brahmins and Thakurs fair if not white?
As dark brown indian gal, i agree
Absolutely can't stand it when white people try to insist that "racism doesn't exist anymore" just because slavery got abolished but the fact is, racism does still exist. And if we speak up about it, we'll get silenced. So that's why a lot of us still suffer from racism everyday In silence.
I don't think it's is about black or brown but the facial structure, height, physique etc.
This made me happy to be a " dark skinned" Puerto Rican.
I'm half Puerto Rican my moms dad is the dark one
+SolarCrazier gtfo
fellow dark skinned puerto rican here too
Same here! Melanin must be poppin 💕
🇵🇷✊🏼✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿💖✨
I’m white and grew up in california in a mostly hispanic school, I met a lot of white Mexicans, but the cultural differences and the fact that they mostly spoke spanish made me feel out of place, I wasn’t bullied, I was only teased a couple of times, I started tanning as I got older, I thought it would make me fit in more with the other kids, but it never really worked. If you’re black or brown just know you should be proud of your skin color. “We want what we don’t have and we neglect what we have”
I can't believe this is actually happening in world and that there are people who actually think so bad about dark skin. personally I think dark skin is the most beautiful thing ever. I hope one day this will end and people will stop thinking so bad
we are all equal
All skin colors are beautiful. Light, dark, and everything in between. Some people are just so terrible that they discriminate if your skin color isn't the same as theirs.
+Maia Kentner I know right? every skin tone is so beautiful and there's nothing to be ashamed of.
+Jogailė nesvarbu Right 😊
I think white skin is the most beautiful
What dark skin people didn’t know is
Dark skin is the original human color
Jeevika Bhardwaj Neanderthal and Human Interbreeding
@Jay Bee yes evolution
@@jeevika.bhardwaj evolution
@@jeevika.bhardwaj Lol aren't you Indian? You lowkey wannabe White right, btw majority of Indians do. I'm a dark skinned Indian btw.
@Jay Bee i'm pretty sure the first humans were african.
Healthy skin in more important than the colour
Christina Reynolds bruhhhhh
Christina Reynolds why is it not important?
Fatima15 i was asking why health isnt that important look at the comment i replied too
@Christina R enjoy skin cancer
One thing about being Asian is that your skin can get pale as fu** and dark as fu** depending on sunlight exposure.
It really hurts my heartu when Koreans call dark Koreans "foreigners".
Like I honestly get really pissed off.
same tbh :( all skin colour of Koreans are beautiful ^-^
I know its so fucked up!! *hearteu and you sound like a koreaboo when you say that word.
KPop is Life THERE NO CORRECT WAS TO SPELL ROMANISED WORDS STOP SLOOT SHAMING ME JIMIN I AM A KOREABOO
But that heartu thing was Japanese influence lmao
no if it's Japanese it should be 'kokoro" because it's like kawaii in terms of weeaboos using them
Katie Crossing Fine. I'll just use xin so this can be settled once and for all.
Til this day I have never seen a dark skinned Indian actress playing a major movie role in Bollywood films.. I would love to see that !
Priyanka chopra is a well known dark skinned actress from Indian i thought you should know
Priyanka is more like brownish-caramel
mercy awour she isn’t considered dark skinned to me or in Indian standards I’m talking about a real dark skinned indian girl like the girl in the video that actually represents the people of India
Dream Star for sure! They have long ways to go when it comes to accepting your skin color no matter the color
@Abidjanaise most of the indian are not dark we are brown....north indians are lighter brown and south indians are darker brown .....
dark skin is so beautiful and I'm so hurt that people are demonized for having it
@bláth báistí. Lol ikr, you can blame media for that.
that's bc darkskinned people aren't actually people
Duke God has sent me to tell you..your not in his list..devil is dancing your in his list.thats scary than being black.
@@kairuannewambui8456 *you're* an idiot
Duke You aren’t funny. That’s quite an unsettling thing to hear implied from someone so in-apprehensive.
when my mom and family taunt me on my skin colour its hurt but its okay its hurt when people say to us [family] your both daughter ARE PRETTY and its hurt when ppl say to my mom why she is black in your family, funfact my age is just 11 😀 but now im proude to be black skin infact i love black colour idc what other say to me
I never thought any of this. I never thought darker skin equated to ugliness or anything. I know I'm white so I should shut up, but I grew up in Philly and had primarily black, Indian and Korean friends. I never thought this stereotype. I hope this feeling goes away; lupita n'yung, idris alba, mindy kaling are all super hot and of darker skin tones. Let's make everyone feel beautiful but killing these stereotype
*feel beautiful by killing these stereotypes
It's a misconception they put on themselves. They all are beautiful, beauty is simply subjective. Different places have different idealistics for beauty.
And factually many white people especially in America seek to tan themselves because that's what they believe ideal beauty looks like.
☺️ your a kind person
I'm so glad that you never thought this way And no, you shouldn't shut up, every voice matters no matter the color. The problem is(at least where I am), is that most white people don't get it, or think that what we're saying is fake, since they're not the target audience. I did a presentation in school on the media and stereotypes on black females, and some people didn't know it was a thing.
It is not a misconception that "they" put on themselves. It's a misconception and misrepresentation that the media constantly portrays that subconsciously integrates into everyone's minds. And yes, they are all beautiful, yet the media tells a vastly different story.
In turkey they don’t treat dark skinned people badly but they’ll definitely treat you like some type of celebrity if you’re blonde. In my school teachers deadass picked favorites among girls by who was whiter
Well if they treat "whiter" girls better then they automatically treat darker ones worse than them, meaning bad in comparison
Aynen öyle
This is actually the common type of colorism in white majority countries between white people, there's this "competition" between blondes and brunettes (redheads faced a lot of mockery and discrimination), even Ibrahimovic who's 100% white (but Slavic who also face a lot of discrimination) said that he would've been treated better in Sweden had he been blonde. Why do humans just love to divide and dicriminate each other on the most ridiculous things???
@Neva Muhayyer That was me all through my childhood. Black in the Summer when I tanned very dark. White in the winter when I lost my tan.
Same but they pick the cuter looking girls, And there is me a large ass clumsy me
dark skin people want to be pale, pale people want to be dark skin.the grass is always greener on the other side ain't it?
Tide Pods not interchangeable
+UK Gully tan is dark skin compared to being pale. dude I've seen these really pale girls put on some heavy tan on they look like a different race. anything that isn't pale is dark skin. and im pretty sure there has been discrimination with every type of skin tone and it doesn't have to be widely known.
Tide Pods I am pale and I like it.
Tide Pods I don't want to be pale though
Maybe not discrimination in a traditional sense, but obviously, you're not pale and haven't suffered some mean (or just naive, but hurtful) comments related to that: "Are you sick?", "You should get out in the sun more often" "Girl, just get some spray tan", "I prefer tanned skin, pale skin girls are NOT attractive", "You look like a vampire", "Yogurt-girl, haha!", "Poor you, I mean, I'm so lucky: I get out in the sun for 5 minutes and bam-I'm tanned! I don't even have to wear make-up during summer!"...It accumulates and can really hurt self-esteem, especially when you're a teenager.
Don't frame yourself based on what people say who don't know and love you. Don't even frame yourself in opposition to what people say who don't know and love you. Don't frame yourself based on something that others think should frame you...negative or positive. You are more than what you look like. What you look like should be the least of your motivations or preoccupations. Let others be who they are. Find the blessing in being who you are and utilize it for all it's value.
Black is an elegant colour.
Ew. !!!!!
@@anthonylouis9824 ur. Ewww
@@anthonylouis9824 yeah cause I'm sure pasty skin is much better....
Not really
Admire it really is. Whites are pasty and boring.
It starts at home people. Teach the children not to hate themselves.
it doesn't really start at home, Juan. This a systemic cultural bias ingrained in the psyche of many to support white superiority. So even if your parents tell you that you re beautiful the way you are, the media and the world at large do not reflect that dichotomy. The myth that anything white is better than anything dark has to be dispelled. It is happening slowly as images of diverse people appear in commercials. Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder, but if someone consistently focuses your eye on one image as the standard to measure by, your perception is skewed. .
ovrjoyd4u2 get a clue! Colored people are not just in the kand of the white man! LOL Go to Asia and you will see whiteness is an image unforced by the inhabitants for thousands of years with or without European colonization. Even Europeans would rate themselves based on whiteness throughout history. For the same reasons as Asians and im sure most other cultures, white skin equates to wealth, because white skin could remain indoors out of the fields. Stop blaming whites for everything! Doing so only enslaves yourself to being a perpetual victim, that will never be happy or successful.
You really are either obtuse or illiterate. I blame no one for anything. If you think that the promotion of white supremacy is a myth, then shame on you. I already know the real truth, but that has not stopped the purporting of the lie. I am very happy and successful, but not because of my people's victimization, but despite it.
you go grl !! yeah!
We don’t hate ourselves. In psychology it’s called race resonance. Look it up. lol
I'm dark skin. But I'm also black born in the US. My parents taught me to love myself. Simple
Yomi O. Exactly I've never had these problems growing up and I find it to be strange when I here people say these kind of things about there dark skin. I want to be like " who brain washed you"
How fortunate you both are.
Cocoa Real dude am i darkskin or lightskin
well we’re not all that lucky
Good for you !!! We teach our kids the same. The most racist thing you could do is produce this vile video. We need to stop this race to see who can be the biggest victim.
I’m a Hispanic woman with very light skin. When people look at me they don’t know that I’m 50% Native Central American, they think I’m white. My mother always fawned over me for my looks. She often showed me baby pictures of when I had blond streaks in my hair and my eyes were blue. She always treated me as prettier than my sister who has an olive complexion, jet black hair and dark brown eyes. As I got older I began to realize how cruel this was to my sister and I. My sister is beautiful, I never understood my moms attitude.
My heart broke when one of the guys said, "You're perfect just the way you are. And that's something that no one has ever told me."
You are perfect just the way you are.
Not to devalue or invalidate their experiences or anything. But as a dark skin black woman, I really hate it when people expect me to be insecure abt being dark skin. Yes I've had comments abt my dark tone but I've always known that I'm beautiful. It just irritates me when ppl expect me to have a story abt how I wanted to bleach my skin when I've never felt this way.
elky360 I made a comment saying feeling bad about your skin color is a self esteem issue and people are coming for me saying I do not understand history, all while missing my point which is to love the skin you are in no matter how dark or light
People will come for you because you are dismissing the aspect and reality of colorism. The other comment is a separate issue from what you're speaking of. Sure for some it can be a self esteem issue but it is really a self-image issue which stems from colorism...please do not negate colorism as a REAL issue.
anointed2wait your comment is understandable, but I did not dismiss colorism as having an impact on how those people percieve themselves, however what I was saying is that it is more personal (hence 'self' was used), as if it wasn't all person who have faced 'colorism' would feel the same way
Judi Lynn thanks for understanding, it's not that I'm dismissing other people who feel that way, all I'm trying to say is that not all dark skin people feel that way, what this video failed to tell us is that some dark folks exude confidence and are proud of being dark and happy with the way they are
Sajola sash Oh I totally understood your point. :D
When she is told
Her skin is too dark;
I do not hesitate to offer,
That the sun loved her so much
It kissed her more
Than the rest of us
-Eman Cheema
EDIT: people are getting triggered. Chill. We dark skins get hate so this makes us smile okay? This isn’t hating on light skins so calm down lol I think the PERSON WHO WROTE IT ISNT EVEN DARK LOL
EDIT 2: seriously if you’re that triggered then write your own poem 😂😂😂😂😂
EDIT 3: I’m so glad this makes so many of you smile and feel good 😘
miss0mayhem thanks :)
I'm dark skin and this made me smile lol imma use that.💋
Ashley Mitchell helps me when I read this when I feel upset 😭❤️
N O ❤
We the dark skinned race, are children of the sun.
To the nonblack people saying “it doesn’t matter what colour you are!” Obviously it’s NOT TRUE! You’re not Black and some of you aren’t even women so who’s lying!? It’s not these folks!
I am white British. I think black white and every other shade is beautiful. But the greatest beauty comes from the inside.
True Susan!
Truth 🙌
well that’s not the first thing people judge and see you for. it’s not that easy to just end discrimination based on the colour of ur skin ...
Amen
@John Doe it is tho
my junior year 2014 I was Cinderella in our play hloka polka. some of the girls didn't like that I was a dark Cinderella. but I was happy and I loved it. and I felt beautiful
You are beautiful :)
that's amazing :)
You go girl !
Mexican is not a race
I think those girls were jealous of you. I was the only blond girl in my Japanese school, and they wouldn't let me play Alice in the school play because my hair was not black.
White skinned people are beautiful. Dark skinned people are beatiful everyone is beautiful like damn
yes indeed lighter skin is preferred by some all over the world, its ignorant! but.......it is not a white problem, african americans do it too within their community, stop blaming whites for everything! that is racist too, blaming whites for all faults.
@nightwishnemo Makes no sense. How can they idolized a skin colour they did not even know exist?
@nightwishnemo In India, it is different, most of the gods "were" black. It is when the persians ruled India that everyone got biased for white and the colour of gods got eventually changed from black to pale blue and brown to white so that the gods are not inferior.
I'm not sure, maybe it's just your taste ...
Gurl they are talking about dark skinned people, wtf.
The girl saying she was afraid to talk about her experiences because she didn’t want to make people uncomfortable is raw.
It’s not even that she’s uncomfortable with her skin color. It’s that she knows she has to tiptoe around *everyone else’s discomfort* with even a conversation about it.
Is it just me? Or by incidence everyone in the video is pretty? 😍
Maybe. Everyone is beautiful.
I think every one of them is gorgeous! WOW..Stunning
@@ideasareLIMITLESS you had
They all are Beautiful...and so are you!!!
OMG yes they are all beautiful.
At the end of the day we all bleed the same color.
yes...purple
Watch Dark Girls please colorist exists son look it up
I AM BLUE BLOOD
we do but people don't understand that we all bleed red but because I'm not white / light I'm made to feel like I'm worth nothing
+Laverne Paulino but it's not even like that
Thank you buzzfeed. Colorism is an issue worldwide. You can't talk about racism without mentioning colorism.
True comment section is...awful
+NobodyKnowsAnything How can they stop giving a duck when people continue to be racist and treat them badly?
Some white people have destroyed this planet with their wickness. People hating their skin while a lot of whites are tanning their skin.. OMG, the craziness in this world
ahem.
+Theblackbumblebee yes in today's world black features are shown like big lips and dark skin but black people aren't shown its so sad
This kind of restored my faith in humanity, seeing that at least some poeple are capable of accepting themselves for who they are. Respect