HOW WE MET & FELL IN LOVE IN FLORENCE, ITALY

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  • Thank you for leaving over 500 questions. This episode I started the Q&A and the most common questions were all about how Guido and I met, how we fell in love and got engaged so this one is for all the romantics out there. Hope you enjoy hearing a little more about our story.
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  • @KylieFlavell
    @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว +315

    Thank you for watching. I’ve filmed Part 2 of this Q&A so if you didn’t see your question answered, it could appear next time! 😘😘

    • @susanaramirez1335
      @susanaramirez1335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Your fiancé looks like a Medieval times prince. Hope you have a beautiful life together and never go to bed upset at each other. Give an take is the secret to a joyful marriage. Compromise is the word. Care for each other till the end. 😊 You must kiss a few frogs to get your prince. 😉

    • @KylieFlavell
      @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@susanaramirez1335 thank you Susana! This is excellent advice. 🙏

    • @amberp5207
      @amberp5207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      The most exciting part, is that this is just the start of a new chapter in your lives together. Now that’s Amore! Congratulations!♥️💍

    • @pamellasmith2503
      @pamellasmith2503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I have not been able to watch your past videos with others, I knew you and Guido were the perfect match 💙🙏🏻

    • @Beautytrends77
      @Beautytrends77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@KylieFlavell I can only hope to one day find a wonderfully put together man such as Guido!! You both are beautiful souls and when two beautiful souls come together magic happens. I wish you all the best!

  • @janparish8055
    @janparish8055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    I’m not surprised Guido fell in love with Kylie at the first meeting. I’m a 74-year old straight woman, and I fell for her the first time I saw her video making a lemon ricotta loaf lol! You guys are beautiful together and I wish you a lifetime of happiness!❤️

    • @KylieFlavell
      @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Haha! Ah you’re so very kind, Jan! Thank you! It was probably more the closeup shots of mascarpone melting on lemon loaf than me! 😂

    • @tc7486
      @tc7486 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@KylieFlavell No it was you! She speaks for me too and I’m 70! ❤️

    • @fanstream
      @fanstream 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😁👍

    • @crisnemitz1606
      @crisnemitz1606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@KylieFlavell Girl, what is it about you? I'm a 52 year old married mother of 2. You are truly the most beautiful girl I've seen, but it is more than your physical beauty. You really do shine brightly. Is it weird to have so many people with a girl crush on you? 😉
      I hope we get to see some of the wedding. ❤

    • @1958pobs
      @1958pobs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yep me too, I am 62 and a widow I feel the same, wholesome and beautiful, kind and insightful. 😘😘😘

  • @szelezsanistvan3753
    @szelezsanistvan3753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    "She transforms a rainy day into something beautiful and cosy!" That is the most beautiful compliment that Guido made you, Kylie!

  • @bernicebabe4154
    @bernicebabe4154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +627

    We met when we were 21 and it was just instinctive. Six months later we were engaged; a year after that we married and now, 55 years, four children and seven grandchildren later we still adore each other. We are blessed.

    • @KylieFlavell
      @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Magnificent! Congratulations to you both. I’m sure people reading this will find your story hopeful. ☺️

    • @FM-yk1yr
      @FM-yk1yr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So blessed! 💗

    • @jayreneeee
      @jayreneeee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Soooo sweet 🥺🥺🤍✨

    • @avaangel433
      @avaangel433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      God must have wanted it for you. He had other plans for me.

    • @intentionalliving7326
      @intentionalliving7326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😍🤗🌸

  • @Karelinish
    @Karelinish 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Beautiful story. My husband and I will be married 35 years in October. You said one thing we always attribute to our success. Never say anything you can’t take back. Never cross that line. Never joke about divorce. We hold each other’s heart in our hands. A precious trust.

  • @lesliecarnes8775
    @lesliecarnes8775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    I love how Guido acknowledges God when asked about wanting children. I agree with both your attitude and Guido's on dating, courtship, marriage, and family. So refreshing to hear a couple who value tradition and commitment. I am so happy for you both and pray for an abundantly blessed life together. I am looking forward to watching more of your lovely videos!

  • @billhansen2786
    @billhansen2786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    I am happy for both of you. Guido is a true gentleman. He is the luckiest man in the world, and I really mean that. Kylie is a gem. Everything a man dreams for - beautiful, warm, loving, sensitive, and a master chef. The saying goes, "good things come to those who wait". I was 34 when I got married, and I had almost given up hope. We have been married for 40 years.

  • @mfr336
    @mfr336 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I absolutely love to hear God included in the picture. I've been with my husband for twenty years, but we've only been married for seven, after our seventh child was born. When we finally committed ourselves before God, that's when we really fell in true love. We thought we loved each other before, but something magical took place at the altar. When we were prayed over, there was electricity, and we both felt it. We have a bond now that wasn't there before, it's like we're truly one.
    I also really love how old fashion you are, and unapologetically too! I have become the same way, and it's a beautiful thing.

  • @rebeccagutierrez1960
    @rebeccagutierrez1960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    How beautiful. My husband (RIP) also said he loved me even before we kissed- which by the way I waited 4 MONTHS before he even touched my lips!!!! I really tested him. We were happily married for 32 years. And kissed for all those years and more!!! Hahahaha. I miss him so much.

    • @KylieFlavell
      @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      How beautiful! Thank you for sharing this. ♥️♥️♥️

    • @goodshepherd3438
      @goodshepherd3438 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @consume honey
      I also I a beautiful husband he was Jewish and me French Canadian
      We fell in love I was 17years old and my husband 19years old
      We married just before I turn 18 and my husband just before he 20.
      2008 he pass away from cancer
      We wore married 45years
      If he will be living I would be married 59years
      I never date it .
      I love my husband and still love him
      He lives in my heart
      I love watching Kylie videos
      Such comfort to me
      My dad mom was born in Tuscany in Barga Luca
      So i happen to LOVE ITALY to
      LOVE NEVER DIE
      SO I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND U MISSING HIM.I DO TO.THANK GOD I AM STRONG. I TRY NOT TO CRY TO MUCH.
      MY HUSBAND WOULDN'T WANT TO CRY TO MUCH.
      I HAVE KIDS AND GRANDKIDS AND 2 1/2YEARS AGO I BECAME
      A GREAT GRANDMA
      GOD IS SO GOOD ❤🇨🇦

    • @intentionalliving7326
      @intentionalliving7326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So sweet! 😍 much love your way 🤗☀️✨

    • @originalmix2546
      @originalmix2546 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rw4898 indeed so. :/ and Women by their(our) attitude and behavior educate men, in a way tho, what kind of attitudes are ok and what are not ok. Men like to put up tests too many times, often - to see, with what kind of lousy-ness they can pass.

    • @helencavanagh8119
      @helencavanagh8119 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautiful 💙

  • @taliagreenberg5228
    @taliagreenberg5228 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Two incredibly highly aware, emotionally intelligent people, kind people!!
    Long life and health to you and your family!!!

  • @gracegiven5093
    @gracegiven5093 3 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    Guido's final statement is something every woman longs to hear. May God bless you both profusely...

    • @KylieFlavell
      @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      💘💘💘 Thank you Grace.

    • @tc7486
      @tc7486 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Agree. Made me cry.

    • @hoops8534
      @hoops8534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@tc7486 Me too ♥️😭

    • @KaterinaFerrara
      @KaterinaFerrara 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Tears! I’m with the criers on this one! ❤️

    • @intentionalliving7326
      @intentionalliving7326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙌🏻

  • @andromedamaxima1543
    @andromedamaxima1543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Guido is so mature, so masculine, brave yet gentle and sensible. This is what a gentleman should look like. Very intelligent and charming man who knows how to recognize a high value woman when he sees one. He gives and receives respect. And Kylie, you are a classic beautiful feminine woman that’s why you attracted a wholesome masculine man. Never pay attention to the latest flavor of feminism that is very destructive for women, despite what they say. You do very well in cooking and caring for your home, your man and your family while still being such a creative person who is a star on what you do!! YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFULLY ELEGANTLY on the right place. Just follow your heart and instinct.
    “My mother loves you and my father who is grumpy, he cheers up when he sees you.” , that’s emotional intelligence right there! 💛
    May God keep blessing this wonderful relationship because it was made in Heaven.

    • @zinebjalal1628
      @zinebjalal1628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree with every word you said!

    • @50mostromantic35
      @50mostromantic35 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I respectfully disagree

    • @snaubdca7yebf
      @snaubdca7yebf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Feminism in its latest guises, antifa, modernism, the culture wars, all such enemies of women.

    • @cosettapessa6417
      @cosettapessa6417 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@snaubdca7yebf true

  • @mindygrote746
    @mindygrote746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    His last statement brought tears to my eyes. What a beautiful thing to say to your future wife. You must save this video for your children to view. So happy for you both!!

    • @normapajares7995
      @normapajares7995 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I totally agree SAVE THE VIDEO. Hugs and love

  • @k.johnson1256
    @k.johnson1256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Oh my gosh, when he called you "sparkly and shiny" that just warmed my heart! Thank you for sharing this rather personal video, I just smiled all the way through. :)

  • @lindalagarce8996
    @lindalagarce8996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    Chivalry is a lost gesture many men have given up, so sad but I’m glad that Guido shows it to you and isn’t afraid to do it.

    • @Mayesyy
      @Mayesyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      A lot of entitled women have given less reason to be chivalrous.

  • @lindawentink2725
    @lindawentink2725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Love this. 🥰 ' he s always thinking about my welfare' . Sweet man.Guido so eloquently explains his experience/feelings Kylie. May your future together be gentle and wonderful🤗

  • @tschw
    @tschw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    “Give them the gift of a mother like you” Wow!!! And I thought you were the poet with your dreamy inspiring videos. You’ve got competition.

  • @wende.with.an.e
    @wende.with.an.e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I actually felt my heart swell with his last comment, that came from such a beautiful place. I wish everyone could experience this type of love. So happy for you two.

  • @sjoankel1826
    @sjoankel1826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    What all girls should be taught...find a life partner that treats her like a precious ruby and respects her :) You have a very special relationship ♥

    • @junehitchcock170
      @junehitchcock170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I think it should be be for both boy and girl - both should treat each other as precious jewels. Not one-sided. So both should be taught this about life partners.

    • @clairelivefreeordie2551
      @clairelivefreeordie2551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It sounds as though she's not only very beautiful but smart & travelled the world & had other meaningful relationships before meeting her Mr Right 🤗

    • @maryannknox7158
      @maryannknox7158 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes so important

  • @kennethkauzlaric8948
    @kennethkauzlaric8948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    My mother as always told me, Things happen when they're supposed to". You never find what you need when you're for it. Love finds you, when you least expect it.

  • @clique53
    @clique53 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Seeing and hearing Guido talk about you is amazing. Nice to see a fellow man speak openly. Hold her forever my friend.
    I’ve been married to my beautiful wife for 23 years. I’m holding her forever.

    • @KylieFlavell
      @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @cassiopeiastoll416
    @cassiopeiastoll416 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    My boyfriend is Italian and also always walks on the side where the cars are, always always putting me first :) this was so lovely and sweet

    • @suesummers8813
      @suesummers8813 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My husband does that too...

    • @theelizabethan1
      @theelizabethan1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It astonishes me that so many males do not seem to understand the reasoning behind this custom/etiquette/practice.

  • @unrulycrow6299
    @unrulycrow6299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This sort of video typically makes me cry, because it honestly talks about things I need to actively understand and learn as an autistic woman - someone who stryggles with expressing my emotions, as well as interacting with people (long term experience with rejection and bullying/harrassement from others, difficulty to connect and maintain connections, masking constantly to try and fit in, bad events that left heavy scars with their own set of trauma on top... With the perk of being high functional, which means I've always been aware something was off without fully understanding why, which is very distressing and caused long term, sever social anxiety and depression). Despite my parents having lived together for decades, I also didn't exactly have the most nurturing childhood, because I went through years of emotional abuse and neglect, on top of growing up as an undiagnosed autistic person who basically had to master the subtle art of survival if I didn't want to drown. All of that started being adressed when I pushed for the autism diagnosis at 24, got it at 25 and was lucky enough to find a therapist specialised in autism not far from home (a rarity in France, even in the Parisian region). This very therapist is the first person who aknowledged my background of abuse and took it into account during our appointments (a nice change from constantly falling through the cracks and being failed by everybody around me while believing I was the one failing others), she helped me tremendously for the last 4 years.
    Because of that background, people are still difficult to handle for me, and for now, at 28, my goal is mostly to finally free myself from my family's clutches, set strict boundaries and start living my own life. In a way, I'm doing now what people tend to do when they're 14yo, which is quite weird. I also long for a proper relationship, something similar to what you and Guido have (hello, fellow old souls), but I'll have to overcome my fear and distrust, and the other may need to have as much patience with me as they'd have with an angry-but-really-scared stray cat. There's still this fear that I'll either attract someone unpleasant who sees through the cracks and leads me to a new cycle of abuse and dehumanistion, or that I'll be deemed "not enough" despite my best efforts.
    So seeing this video made me cry, because it explains things, it explains what I need to look for, and how to determine what I need vs what I want in a person. I'll be looking forward to the next part of that wonderful Q&A!

    • @KylieFlavell
      @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow, what an incredible journey you’re on. It seems like you have wonderful self-awareness and initiative and clarity. I wish you all the best in your pursuit of trust. I made a video a few years ago here on this channel called Softness and Light: How To Trust Again. Maybe it might resonate with you. Some people we can open to can seem like one step forward and unfortunately leave us three steps backward but there are so many gentle souls out there - I know because I read thousands of emails from them from around the world - and if you can pick yourself up each time and find the courage to give someone new a chance, I believe eventually you will find that person who will probably fall in love with the very fact that you have mastered how to deal with autism. And when you find that person who loves you for the battles you’re fought, it is like being able to just take your hands off the steering wheel you’ve been gripping onto so tightly all your life and let someone drive a little of the way and enjoy being a passenger in safe hands. I wish this for you with all my heart. 😊

    • @DennisNerinckx
      @DennisNerinckx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For what it's worth, I want to say that I have had similar experiences like you. Also a late autism diagnosis and a whole journey of mental health problems.
      From what you wrote, I think you are truly on the right road to happiness. Steadily keep working at those ghosts from the past. It will learn you to stay more and more true to yourself.
      It still may take some time for a good relationship to arrive. That might feel unjust or hopeless. But keep the focus on yourself. Play open card with people about who you are, even if you fear they will reject you for it.
      Your work will pay off. Your life will get better. The fact that you are watching these videos is proof that you still have beauty in you. In time, it will flourish over the anger and distrust.
      I wish you lots of courage and all the best!

  • @megflat2981
    @megflat2981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Guido is precious! He is a very lucky man to have such a wonderful partner! Both of you are adorable!!!

    • @KylieFlavell
      @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks so much Meg! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @maxinerobson5336
    @maxinerobson5336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So many reasons why I love this video, Kylie, but one the greatest things was hearing that Guido was able to be vulnerable enough to seek therapy. Let’s hear it for men ‘doing the work’ 🙌 Sending warmest wishes from 🇬🇧 ❤️

    • @KylieFlavell
      @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes! I put that in hoping it might inspire other men to abandon the stigma it has in some people’s minds or to at least consider it as an option not just in a case of crisis but as a way to prevent conflict from even arising. 😊💙

  • @sprezzatura8755
    @sprezzatura8755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    It's clear that both Kylie and Guido come from loving two-parent households. This is also what they will pass down to their children. They will set a fantastic example and continue the family tradition. The Great Adventure begins! God bless and well-done! 💘

    • @andromedamaxima1543
      @andromedamaxima1543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      YES!! beautiful wise words! i can already imagine their beautiful kids!! how cheerful and happy!!! that brightness that Guido spotted on Kylie, will be multiplied hundred fold! Can we imagine?! That’s the kind of brightness that lights the world! 💛

    • @intentionalliving7326
      @intentionalliving7326 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙌🏻😍

  • @DennisNerinckx
    @DennisNerinckx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really impressed by the maturity of you and Guido! You showed that your quality is far, far, faaar above any online hate you might get. Respect!

  • @kwnana
    @kwnana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I am almost 30, and one year ago I broke up with the man I thought I was going to marry and have family with because I found out he cheated. I was super broken..still somehow putting my pieces together and as your friends kind of given up on love - especially with the context that we live in.
    Listening to your story (together with some deep inner work the past year haha) light up this small spark in my heart that maybe, maybe, one day, somewhere he will be exactly there for me and I will be exactly there him.
    I wish you both all the best!! Health, love, happiness and wonderful kids!! And thank you for lifting us higher during our week with your videos!!

  • @samanthac5872
    @samanthac5872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Kylie, I recently became a Patreon after finding your channel earlier this year. This raw, open and honest conversation just confirmed to me why I and so many others choose to support you and the work that you do. Thank you so much!

    • @KylieFlavell
      @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Samantha. I truly appreciate it! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @cristinadowney7565
    @cristinadowney7565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    As a married woman for 42 years I know there will definitely be many sunny days and some rainy ones but mutual respect will be the glue that holds and cements the love. Clearly you are both already committed to cherish and respect each other. Wishing you a glorious life together❤️

  • @jodic7760
    @jodic7760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sorry, I have to comment again. I am so impressed with both of you! You have more wisdom than most people twice your age. You know, you say you love fairytales, well, I’m going to speak to you as if you were my child. My darling girl, you are living your own, beautiful fairytale. Most people mistake passion for love, but passions can fade. What you two have is true love! I really couldn’t be happier for you both.

  • @angieb85851
    @angieb85851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I remember so vividly going on my first date with my husband and when he reached for my hand at the end of the date feeling the “electric shock” it was something I had never felt before and there was no other way to describe it. Wishing you both much love and happiness

  • @magneticgoddess1116
    @magneticgoddess1116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kylie~ I’ve gone to the Oscar Nominations Short films every year for many years now, mostly I go to the animated shorts (means using cartoon , Pixar or claymation ) but have seen the Live Action (just means using real people) many times. I can Honestly say, seriously you have what it takes to enter and then some. You’re the type of cinematic creator that the Oscar shorts are looking for~ please check it out and try it. I’m so happy for you Sweetie, you’ve had to courage to live your dreams and show others how to too. Much love from America❤️❤️

    • @magneticgoddess1116
      @magneticgoddess1116 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Btw? I am more than happy to say that when the gates clear and Americans are let into Italy, I’m ready to stay in your darling renovated section of the home. I don’t even have to wonder will it feel magical, clean or be romantic (lol even if I’m alone still by then😊) I know it will. So all you gotta do is say the word, I’ll book my flight, book my time there, and be off! I don’t know how I will get to your location from the Firenze airport but I’m sure it can be figured out😁❤️

  • @terryhuetter7487
    @terryhuetter7487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Bravo! Brava! The best love story of the decade. Compliments especially to Guido for being so open about his feelings. Calling you a gift to his future children is profound. God's blessings on your marriage.

  • @amberabrahams6344
    @amberabrahams6344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I loved Kylie dialogue towards the end about men going for therapy...and them having to work on themselves to become better so they can treat their loved ones better.

  • @helenrumjanek2415
    @helenrumjanek2415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I had this love with my recently deceased husband. We were from opposite sides of the planet , however we were culturally intellectually and passionately in sync!! You guys look like a perfect match. All the very best' Slangevar '(Scottish Gaelic cheers)

  • @mariacasella979
    @mariacasella979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    The electric shock you both felt was God's touch or presence telling you he is bringing You2 together

    • @KylieFlavell
      @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🌞🌞🌞

    • @michellesj3962
      @michellesj3962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen!!!🙏🏻

    • @thesaint2022
      @thesaint2022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      *Maria Casella* - Yes, you have discerned correctly, for while Kylie has yet to be filled with the Holy Spirit (and which I am praying will happen to both her and Guido), God was nonetheless answering the unspoken prayer of her heart, which was to encounter true love. When God answered Kylie's heart's desire, the Spirit of God confirmed this through the experience they shared when they first touched, for they were (in a manner of speaking) touching their destiny.

    • @sunshinedayz7032
      @sunshinedayz7032 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      3

    • @originalmix2546
      @originalmix2546 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thesaint2022 amazing comment :) Now, since by your comment I see, that you are a christian, I want to ask you something ( I am myself, to be perfectly frank, on a fence with my legs on God's side, hence I don't understand many things from Bible, just yet) but I want to ask to you this --> is it truly so, according to the Paul's letters, at least, -- that some people are destined for marriage and that is indeed God's gift and other people can be alone all life, that is their God's given destiny? Is this true or have I mistaken? I am myself pretty comfy on my own, been single for a long time now and got used to it. But at times, I really long for having that god given partner, long for being loved truly and sharing my lifetime with special someone that is just most suited for me and well...only God knows who that is and how to connect us both. I have just stepped in my early 30-ies. no kids either. Should I pray to God to give me love or take my current single and alone position as His will and just let it be even if that is until end of my days? And, risking sounding foolish, but - can extended singleness (and loneliness) be God's personal punishment for me OR maybe a result of a curse? I live in such region, where witchcraft is blooming and mostly women tend to visit magicians and fortune tellers. Sometimes I think, someone has done something to me, since I struggle a lot to establish close relationships, whether those be romantic or even friendships with my peers. I thank you for reading this through.

  • @thinkforyourselfjohn3167
    @thinkforyourselfjohn3167 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    L♥️VE is something you do. This is my 2nd time watching your testimony of how you and Guido met. What a beautiful blessing to have met someone that cares for your well being and genuinely loves you Kylie. Impressed with your values and level of maturity. God continue to Bless your unity and may your love continue to grow for each other with each passing day.

  • @sofia2moro
    @sofia2moro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What God has joined together let no One separate.. clearly a match made in heaven..God bless you both

  • @raphaelaela1855
    @raphaelaela1855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    You are both made from the same clay, cut from the same cloth. No surprise there was an Eletric reaction when the non physical became physical for the first time. LOVE IS REAL! And it’s a gift to witness your story unfold. Thanks for sharing! We are honored 🙏🏼💕

    • @KylieFlavell
      @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So kind!!! Thank you Raphaela! 🙏💙💙💙💙💙💙

  • @Abd12312
    @Abd12312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved Guido's expression... especially when he said, " You think you know what you're looking for. but you don't really know what you are looking for until you see it, and then you say 'This is what I was looking for'." Love is hard to find ... and you 2 are truly blessed. Stay Blessed 🙌 ❤

    • @elianese9319
      @elianese9319 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is exactly what happened to my wife and I. Didn't know till we found each other

  • @melissalyons6936
    @melissalyons6936 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Guido made me cry, such a sweet and profound sentiment that you would be the best present he could ever give his future children 🥰 He’s a keeper!!!

    • @gs032009
      @gs032009 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He wasn't truly honest, check his body language. Or about his mother, check 24'30'''''.

    • @TheBTG88
      @TheBTG88 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gs032009 - Trying to be a fly in the ointment is not an aspirational life goal.

  • @susanlombardo8444
    @susanlombardo8444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Quote from Guido 🥰
    “If I want to give a present to my future children, would be giving them a mother like YOU!”
    SO BEAUTIFUL! 🥲
    ❤️🇮🇹❤️🇮🇹❤️🇮🇹❤️🇮🇹❤️
    Blessings to You Both!!!

  • @josefinacoloma2851
    @josefinacoloma2851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The electric shock it’s real. We felt it the day we met. It was love at first sight. We have been together for 30 yrs, married for 26, with 3 kids. Guido is a catch! He knows your value and shows it. Congratulations!

  • @anitas5817
    @anitas5817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love what you said about the ease of your relationship - my husband and I have been happily married for 31 years. It’s easy. We have occasionally had some conflict but we are always safe and secure with each other and have never been intentionally hurtful. Happiness to you both.

  • @paulfreitag7772
    @paulfreitag7772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Congratulations to you both! It's heartwarming to hear the stories about how two people fell in love. It gives me hope, even at 52, that I may still find love. I'm moving to Florence in October. So maybe there could be someone out there for me in my new country. I guess I do have a bit of hope left. ❤🇮🇹

    • @KylieFlavell
      @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That’s wonderful to hear! Wishing you beauty and good fortune and romance in this exciting new chapter! ♥️

  • @Yanallure
    @Yanallure 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love this channel, the cinematography and beautiful personality of Kylie always makes my day.

  • @kathystaursky4063
    @kathystaursky4063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Your story is beautiful ❤️ My husband is from Italy yet spent a summer in the exact neighborhood where I lived in the U.S. when he was a young teenager. We didn’t meet for over 25 years after that, but it always reminds me what a small world it is! Here he was right in my neighborhood, maybe we even saw each other , who knows? Yet he lived in another country. And yet me meet 25 years later and get married ❤️

  • @fresh6281
    @fresh6281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kylie, I have been relishing your videos for the past few years - your talent is stunning - but this is my first time commenting. Thank you for taking the risk of sharing your love story with us. I had tears in my eyes at several moments while listening (just like the tears that sprang to my eyes at the end of your whimsical engagement announcement). I'm so glad that Guido is willing to go on camera and share with us as well; it adds such dimension to your story and allows us to feel like we're on the journey with you both. When you mentioned your appreciation of his chivalrous mannerisms (like guarding you from the busy street side), it reminded me of what stood out to me on the first date I went on with my husband: he stood when I got up from the dinner table to use the powder room and when I returned. One hardly sees a man do that anymore and it made such an impression on me. I wish many blessings upon you and your beloved Guido. I hope you continue to share your love story with us as time goes on. xoxo

  • @wallihaley5194
    @wallihaley5194 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Kylie, you are such a beautiful soul and give so much joy to everyone who is fortunate enough to see your videos. I wish you and Guido a lifetime of happiness.

  • @sallyflavell6221
    @sallyflavell6221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So lovely to see the sweetness of new love in these delightful young romantics! Gives me hope for the world to see such a strong example of respectful, kind love in our often harsh and brash world. Love and blessings for future brightness xxx

  • @sallyo100
    @sallyo100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    As someone who is marrying for the first time, at 52, I can say to all those younger people out there to keep working on yourself and all that you wish to offer to others. There is superficial attraction and then there is that true compatibility that can take many years to manifest in front of you. My fiance is a widower and will be 61 when we marry. We discovered so many things in common but we would never have got together when we were younger because our life paths were on quite different tracks. I am so happy to be with my fiance and I can tell you that every day of happiness when you are older is a complete gift. You all have so much to look forward to; stay positive.

    • @quicksilver2446
      @quicksilver2446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Its true, NEVER give up on finding love, at any age !!!

    • @intentionalliving7326
      @intentionalliving7326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is so sweet 😍 Thank you for sharing this 🤗☀️✨

    • @TD-vb6il
      @TD-vb6il 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So happy for you that you've found this gift of love and companionship. Many happy blessings! Xx

  • @jillspeck6400
    @jillspeck6400 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m much older than you. But your channel - and this post, in particular - has given me hope. There may still be a chance for love. thank you.

  • @googolmom
    @googolmom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Lovely, Kylie! Thank you for sharing your love for each other with us. Ok Guido, your last sentence, “wanted to give a present to my children ... “. Oh my goodness, so beautiful that brought tears to my eyes. I’m so happy for your happiness and True Love! 🤗❤️

  • @MarilialGomes
    @MarilialGomes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh Kylie, I must say I cried listening to this beautiful story of your journey! So grateful to share a piece of all this beauty that you create in life.

  • @ciaobella8963
    @ciaobella8963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I am so very happy for you Kylie and Guido because it is clear to me after listening to you both in this video, that God has given each of you the desires of your heart, way above and beyond all you could imagine. That is who our Father is, if we only believe. May every blessing be yours forever. Sending love and hugs from Lunigiana, Tuscany.

  • @tiblanes
    @tiblanes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    That’s pretty much one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever heard: « If I want to give a gift to my future children, it would be giving them a mother like you. » I wish you both a long, happy, loving life together. You both deserve it.

  • @MonicaCasalmoo
    @MonicaCasalmoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kylie, Guido how kind and beautiful of you to share with us this deeply personal story. Within today´s social media show offs your story stands out for coming across so refreshingly genuine and full of profound feelings. I wish you the happiest of futures together. Sincere congratulations on your engagement. If you ever come to Galicia please let me know, it would be lovely to meet you in person. All the best, you are awesome!

  • @taniasummers4656
    @taniasummers4656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Guido is so precious, he made me laugh at the response to “who said I love you first?” 😂 thanks for sharing!

  • @robertjureit2574
    @robertjureit2574 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kylie. I came across your TH-cam site by chance. I watched several of your videos. Backwards, from your baby announcement,to when your meet Guido. In listening to your life story, much of which is like mine. EXCEPT. You found your soul mate. I am currently 68, and have never even come close to finding my soul mate. Realize i grew up like you,wanting what your parents have. A beautiful 50+ years,of loving relationship. I just wanted to say how happy i am for you both. Still to this day, i cry,because i never found THAT PERSON. LOVE TO YOU BOTH.

    • @littlelittlesmirf7657
      @littlelittlesmirf7657 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Don't cry. If we love Jesus we will reach such degrees of eternal glory that all the passing earthly loves, riches and successes will instantly appear insignificant in comparison.
      God is everything that matters. And eternal life is all we must aim to obtain while living on this earth.
      If you offer your sufferings to the Lord, He will heal you and you will glorify Him.
      Peace be with you, Robert.

  • @tallyho101
    @tallyho101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Love this and you both! He’s so handsome and looks like Leo DiCaprio a little. You are such a gem

  • @lauranoelle6028
    @lauranoelle6028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "It's possible for someone to be nurturing and romantic but also discerning and prudent." THANK YOU!!! It took me longer than it should have to come to this realization. I'm glad you are so discerning and prudent and patient in finding a lifelong partner!

  • @nadinetasmania
    @nadinetasmania 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Giving a mother like you" - beautiful! A mother who can do anything, will excel at what she does best whilst creating a home for all. That is not losing power - whatever power is being presented as right now - that harnessing power. In a partnership. For goodness sake, if we don't bring our best to the table, whatever that is - society will suffer. Love to you both x

  • @robkennedy3087
    @robkennedy3087 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    First off... Congratulations to you both!! Such a beautiful couple. Next, I know what you mean about a place drawing you back. I used to go to a particular part of Dublin, business meetings would bring me there. It was near the ocean. I used to feel such calm, but at the same time longing. I would go back to the centre of the city where I lived & the feeling would disappear. But when I would return to that same place maybe a week or so later, my heart would long so much & at the same time I'd feel such peace. In November of this year I will be 19 years together with the love of my life. That place I spoke about, that feeling of longing but at the same time peace. Turns out, my forever love lived a half mile up the road from where I use to stand & think to myself, what is that feeling? ❤️❤️✌️ Your channel is amazing!!! Again Congratulations to you both.

    • @KylieFlavell
      @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Thank you Rob and congratulations - 19 years is a wonderful achievement together. It’s lovely to know you understand this idea of looping back to a destination. Sometimes I feel there’s a giant planet and so many new places to see but other times I’ve felt that if you’re lucky enough to experience a town or a country that gives that sense of serenity you describe, then life’s short and one should get back to wherever the soul resonates most deeply.

  • @vivienneabrahams-aliveriot6647
    @vivienneabrahams-aliveriot6647 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That was so heartwarming to witness.. That true love still exists in a world that is so transient

  • @kathylaug5234
    @kathylaug5234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Guido is so charming and he has great hair😂😂

  • @elsakendallmysojournal2398
    @elsakendallmysojournal2398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’ve just spent the most lovely Sunday evening catching up on your last few videos, Kylie. The opening shot of Florence in this one is simply sublime. I appreciate very much all the beauty and love you bring to the world, and your and dear Guido’s comments and thoughts about relationships are wondrous and wise. Your combined care, respect, humility and gratitude comes shining through. What a beautiful story you wove together in this film. Boundless blessings to you both. I’m so happy for you! 🤗 ❤️ 💫

  • @imanjoseph612
    @imanjoseph612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I am so happy for you and Guido. What a beautiful relationship you two have, one that we all strive to have. I wish you many, many years of happiness, love, health, and joy. I think the most beautiful characteristics about you are how pure your heart is, and how talented you are.

  • @celinaderose
    @celinaderose 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing your beautiful story, wishing you both much happiness ❤️ the best gift a father can give to his children is to love and respect his wife. I married my husband ( of Italian descent ), 33 years ago and have felt such mutual love and respect: a true blessing!

  • @dianneschmidt5417
    @dianneschmidt5417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Absolutely enchanting! I love Guido, and the two of you as a couple, even more than ever. Wishing you a lifetime of happiness together. May your home be filled with love and an abundance of beautiful children. Much love to you both.

  • @jacquelinewatson671
    @jacquelinewatson671 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been with my Australian husband for 36 years, marrying him was the smartest thing I ever did. Your relationship sounds so similar to ours, we have never called each other names, or sworn at each other, we talk about the problem and where it's coming from, not blame. Slow burn is great, being best friends is perfect, deep love happens slowly, I personally think it's the type that lasts. Someone said to me once, "your husband sweeps the path in front of you, he always has and he always will" I thought that was beautiful - I do everything in my power to do the same for him. I think you have built yourself a strong foundation of which to build a long an happy life together, I wish you both well on your path.❤

  • @lynnegunn3478
    @lynnegunn3478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    How wonderful, that such happiness has come your way: your life experiences and emotional maturity is extremely generous and am sure younger people will learn much from watching your channel. Thank you Guido and and Kylie.

  • @martymcgrady5535
    @martymcgrady5535 ปีที่แล้ว

    I found you yesterday and I am obsessed with your videos and spirit. I am the mama of 5 grown children and 5 grandbabies. My husband is a gift from God and we cherish our entire story. Your videos are the type we are trying to make for empty nesters. Beautiful videography and content. Peaceful! God Bless you.

  • @pattyt7776
    @pattyt7776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Really the true test of a marriage is not when things are going well-that’s easy- but when you hit the rough patches that happens in a lifetime. That’s when you really honor your vows of commitment and the promises you make to each other. It’s clear that you and Guido have everything you need to build a wonderful life together, whatever may come. How lovely that you found each other! ❤️❤️

  • @cathlynpollom2545
    @cathlynpollom2545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Man the hungry hunter knows that when a man recognizes what he’s been watching for he needs to be the ardent pursuit. It is in fact elemental and visceral. So he was quite serious from the get-go. I understand this. It is a good thing and actually very romantic.

  • @BehindtheseEyes
    @BehindtheseEyes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I could listen to Guido and You talk /share for hours...... a word that comes to mind when He is attempting to describe your essence is Effervescent❣ Guido is a Gracious Man who has met his SOULMATE..... sounds very cliche but these relationships do exist. Thank you for Sharing..... Part 2, Yes!

    • @KylieFlavell
      @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!! 😘😘😘

  • @marygyeszat1980
    @marygyeszat1980 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the fact that Guido choose all the right words to describe your early days in your relationship, even though it was his second language, it it so beautiful. Thank you Mary from California

  • @christinaboyle8722
    @christinaboyle8722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "If I want to give the greatest gift to my future children it would be giving them a mother like you" omg that was so sweet and precious! Congratulations again on your engagement, I am so joyous at seeing your true happiness and very real, healthy, beautiful love

  • @eliagron8750
    @eliagron8750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh, so sweet and beautiful. "The best present for his children giving them a mother like you.". I wish you both the best. Congratulations on your upcoming marriage. Blessings for all the family.

    • @KylieFlavell
      @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you! You’re so kind. 🌷🌸💘🌿🌞

  • @gracie2375
    @gracie2375 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your love story. You said so many things well about relationships that resonate well. One great saying about words: “Words are like toothpaste, you can’t put it back in the tube”!!! 😊

  • @theelizabethan1
    @theelizabethan1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank God for insightful intermediaries who are willing to act with discernment when they sense something very special!

  • @niurabrigit1415
    @niurabrigit1415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you sooo much, Kylie and Guido, for the gift that this is! I was moved to tears (and laughter!) many times...and you have reminded me so beautifully and so eloquently that manifesting love really means continually becoming our best possible selves...and that love will follow...perhaps, or maybe per forza, when we least expect it. My 58 year-old heart has been deeply and immeasurable inspired by your story! Grazie infinite!❤️

    • @KylieFlavell
      @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m SO happy to read this!!! 🌞 Thank you!

  • @EmilyBoltz
    @EmilyBoltz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm not kidding when I say this is the.most romantic story I have heard - maybe it's because you both were not really looking. The spark at the end of the evening. The first date. It's so beautiful. I'm not crying by the way. ❤️

  • @beckylivermore3262
    @beckylivermore3262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That....Was....BEAUTIFUL!!!!! Thank you so much!!!

  • @NowYouSimi
    @NowYouSimi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I had to chuckle, because when I found out my boyfriend had been to therapy before it made me not only more attracted to him but also understand where his emotional compassion and intelligence came from 😆 He’s French, so I get what you mean about it still not being so common culturally- but thank you for including this! I think that it helps to lessen the stigma for therapy. We all have mental health, and understanding ourselves, triggers, etc, really ameliorates the quality of life 🥰
    Congratulations again and thank you for the lovely content as always!

    • @KylieFlavell
      @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, so true! Glad you can relate! 🥰🙏

  • @antonioilliano6814
    @antonioilliano6814 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Watching you how respectful you are of nature, all food in general, and how you naturally prepare them, it must make the Almighty God so happy to see how his creations are loved, appreciated and enjoyed with true LOVE. Thank you for being you!
    You are a special person. 💕

  • @sharonc1326
    @sharonc1326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh wow! Thank you for sharing this! You always inspire me to use more unique and articulate words, but right now the word that keeps coming into my mind is “beautiful”. Your heart, your artistic creations, your relationships, all that you touch. I look forward to watching what you and Guido build and cultivate together! 💕❤️💕

  • @connihudson1578
    @connihudson1578 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ive been married 49 years. My husband has and still moves, so he is on the outside nearesr the dangeroua situations. What a sweet reminder of his love. Thanks.

  • @nahlamodita1498
    @nahlamodita1498 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Couldn’t click faster at the notification 🥰, waited since the announcement of the Q&A.

  • @AndNowIWrite
    @AndNowIWrite 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    American living in Portugal here.....I've been watching your videos for a bit and truly enjoy your content. I'm sure it wasnt easy revealing so much, but what a lovely memory you've created! I can relate to having my body guided to the inside as we walk as my husband does the same, he also lays on my side of the bed to warm it, he has many gestures of love. You have done a wonderful job of capturing not just your emotions, but sage relationship advice. ❤

  • @TheresAGirlInTheGardens
    @TheresAGirlInTheGardens 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Kylie and Guido, this is so beautiful!! Thank you for sharing with us 🤍🤍

  • @autummsun
    @autummsun หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is nice ! I m the same way, my bf and I have been together 7 years now and there was no spark. But there was respect. And we have been slowly growing together and we are so happy because each day we feel like our love grows and grows. We did not meet until our late 40s so it’s never too late.

  • @ayanamadrone
    @ayanamadrone 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think that we would be friends :) Feeding people is my love language as well. Your relationship is so full and such a comfort to see.

  • @desaferra
    @desaferra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I usually am a silent viewer, but your channel Kylie, is the most full of un superficial content and inspires good energy and that the world it's not ugly, but still have grace, deep thoughts and esthetic. Congratulations! Beautiful story! Virtual hugs from Albania

  • @SamFournier
    @SamFournier 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Such a beautiful love story, you can see how much you love one another and it brings me so much joy! I agree that communication is such an important quality to have in a relationship and I’m so grateful to have that with my husband. I hope to have the pleasure to cross paths with you beautiful souls one day. So happy you found one another!

  • @samanthakarl8916
    @samanthakarl8916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kylie, this is the first time I have written on here to you..Thank you for being so incredibly brave, both you and Guido for sharing these deep personal responses and views. I am so happy that you found someone Kylie, who sees that "shine" and appreciates it and wants to protect it. The usual thing as we women know, is to draw in a monster who wants to distinguish it. So I am so happy you found one of the rare ones. And also just as a side note, wow, Guido's English is amazing. It's easy to forget but of course he is speaking in another language to his own. And he is able to express such complex feelings in another language, that possibly I couldn't do in English. So Bravo Guido! You are both so emotionally intelligent and are building such a strong foundation for your relationship, that no one will be able to tear it down. Both of you, just don't ever forget what a precious rare gift you've been given in each other, So simply, always look after it. Congratulations and I wish you nothing but love and more love x

    • @KylieFlavell
      @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you with all my heart, Samantha! 🌸🌸🌸

  • @anitaevans2432
    @anitaevans2432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I should be fast asleep now but just had to watch this! I am delighted for you both Kylie. Your videos always make me feel warm & happy...& this one is so special. Thank you!

    • @KylieFlavell
      @KylieFlavell  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ooh thank you! I’m flattered that you stayed up! Now let’s both go to sleep! It’s 2am here. 😘🌜✨

  • @carlajoseph785
    @carlajoseph785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you both for sharing your love story with us..... and in doing so bringing some light and joy into lives in dire need of both❤️❤️❤️🙌🏾

  • @joancaruso170
    @joancaruso170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Well that is a beautiful story indeed! When the right person comes into your life it all goes hand in hand. Thank you for sharing your story of something that is personal.

  • @SusanNexus
    @SusanNexus 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kylie!!!!! That spark/shock happened to my husband and I also!!!!!! It is a REAL THING!!! SUPERNATURAL THING!