Exactly what I needed. I've been feeling this way for many months but it's hard to let go because we love each other very deeply but are just in different places. He wants to build a family with me but I don't think we are compatible any more ):
These are not example of out growing somebody. These are sign of lack of communication and selfishness. Relationship is about trade off and if a women leave a man for these reason than she deserves to be single
All points seems nice but i don't agree with different interest... 2 person can have different interest but they can similarly enjoy.. eachother's interest.. that's all
I agree, there's nothing wrong with having different interest unless they cause conflict in relationships. Things like political, religious, and even certain lifestyle interest can and do sometimes create big divides in relationships.
He want's to stay in bed late well into afternoon on days off sometimes talking for hours on end about nothing in particular. She'd rather get up at a decent time after a good nights sleep to do energy and breathing exercises and meditation routine together as a couple to help start off the day energized and feeling productive. She speaks in specifics and gives examples when making points to help him realize areas of possible growth and or drive the message home. He speaks in generalities and sometimes gets annoyed when she asks questions to better understand the point or message. She sometimes gives in to inertia but at times doesn't feel fulfilled by this theme in the relationship. Will this work for a fulfilling future? Is this a healthy compromise and dynamic or has one party outgrown the relationship?
There is room for compromise here if both parties are willing. Maybe let him sleep in some days but he needs to be willing to also get up early and engage in couple activities as well on his days off. As far as communication styles, that is where most couples find challenges. If the relationship is worth it, you can find the middle ground, but if you feel like you have outgrown the relationship then you know what you may need to do.
This is a painful realization. As of right now I’m hoping my partner chooses to grow with me. We still need to have the talk, saying how I feel about the relationship. But it is very sad & hard when you envisioned a future with the person. At the end of the day you have to choose what makes you happy and healthy. I thought the points in this video was very good. Thanks for putting to light a topic that not many people talk about. I think the video can improve by using anecdotal examples. Thank you!
Everything she just said is what I’m going through.
Exactly what I needed. I've been feeling this way for many months but it's hard to let go because we love each other very deeply but are just in different places. He wants to build a family with me but I don't think we are compatible any more ):
Shell J It sucks but it happens sometimes. Best of luck to you! Thanks for sharing.
@@charleneeckstein7213 thank you
These are not example of out growing somebody. These are sign of lack of communication and selfishness. Relationship is about trade off and if a women leave a man for these reason than she deserves to be single
I'm here bc I see this happening now
It saddens me that we broke up and maybe I outgrow him 😢
Num 1 hits me hard
I believe a lot if not all is true
You should be guilty if you have became family, more than lovers.
All points seems nice but i don't agree with different interest... 2 person can have different interest but they can similarly enjoy.. eachother's interest.. that's all
I agree, there's nothing wrong with having different interest unless they cause conflict in relationships. Things like political, religious, and even certain lifestyle interest can and do sometimes create big divides in relationships.
He want's to stay in bed late well into afternoon on days off sometimes talking for hours on end about nothing in particular. She'd rather get up at a decent time after a good nights sleep to do energy and breathing exercises and meditation routine together as a couple to help start off the day energized and feeling productive. She speaks in specifics and gives examples when making points to help him realize areas of possible growth and or drive the message home. He speaks in generalities and sometimes gets annoyed when she asks questions to better understand the point or message. She sometimes gives in to inertia but at times doesn't feel fulfilled by this theme in the relationship. Will this work for a fulfilling future? Is this a healthy compromise and dynamic or has one party outgrown the relationship?
There is room for compromise here if both parties are willing. Maybe let him sleep in some days but he needs to be willing to also get up early and engage in couple activities as well on his days off.
As far as communication styles, that is where most couples find challenges. If the relationship is worth it, you can find the middle ground, but if you feel like you have outgrown the relationship then you know what you may need to do.
This is a painful realization. As of right now I’m hoping my partner chooses to grow with me. We still need to have the talk, saying how I feel about the relationship. But it is very sad & hard when you envisioned a future with the person. At the end of the day you have to choose what makes you happy and healthy. I thought the points in this video was very good. Thanks for putting to light a topic that not many people talk about. I think the video can improve by using anecdotal examples. Thank you!