RELAXING MY 4C NATURAL HAIR| NATURAL TO RELAXED AFTER 3 YEARS

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  • @DESTINYAMAYA711
    @DESTINYAMAYA711 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Even though I’m never relaxing my natural hair I still love watching these videos because the transformations are amazing and I enjoy them!❤

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww thank you so for watching

    • @anna.simon3
      @anna.simon3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i swear on my soul. my boyfriend ask me why i like watching the videos if im going to stay natural.

  • @chanelporter8227
    @chanelporter8227 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    It looks so much more thicker, longer, and healthier in it's natural state.

    • @MindHeartBodySoul
      @MindHeartBodySoul ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I have this type natural hair. It looks thicker than what it actually is. But when straightened…it’s such a disappointment. Lol! It’s called the ‘puff effect’.😂

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  ปีที่แล้ว +34

      It was healthy and thick but it was just too much and I didn’t have time to take care of it

    • @smileypc44
      @smileypc44 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      It’s called fine natural hair, it sucks. I have it too. I sometimes have to ask for only one pass with the flat iron when I straighten my hair at the salon to get some volume 😢

    • @chanelporter8227
      @chanelporter8227 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@smileypc44 I have the same hair texture, very very fine. I only flat iron on special occasion because Even with one pass and heat protectant I still get some heat damage. I won't dare relax it because it's so fragile and I'm afraid it will straight up fall out during the relaxing process. lol

    • @jollyrancherchick
      @jollyrancherchick ปีที่แล้ว +28

      It’s processed hair, of course it’s thinner than natural but it’s still healthy looking and long. Why the need to insult?

  • @0tismadaline
    @0tismadaline ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Gorgeous hair, welcome to the relaxed hair journey 😊

  • @kelishawilliams1233
    @kelishawilliams1233 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I think it your choice I have natural hair and it’s a lot of work my scalp is always hurting when combing I get headaches styling it ….yes it’s beautiful naturally but your the one to maintain it so if the perm is easier I totally understand ❤

  • @raunaiyambo8340
    @raunaiyambo8340 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Beautiful ❤️ keep us posted along with the new journey. xx

  • @neeshakaln
    @neeshakaln ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Absolutely gorgeous. I’m definitely coming over to be relaxed.❤❤❤

  • @evidenthustle
    @evidenthustle ปีที่แล้ว +17

    So many people are transitioning from natural to relaxed, am not complaining 😍

    • @tias.6675
      @tias.6675 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      People are TIRED lol.

    • @snoodysnoody8118
      @snoodysnoody8118 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@tias.6675what makes natural hair so hard?

  • @lesleyolo
    @lesleyolo ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow,it looks really really amazing and even better in person😍😍😍😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @shaneytjay
    @shaneytjay ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes… the whole process 💯 especially the Vaseline 🫡❤️

  • @Doll676
    @Doll676 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ur hair already looks good naturally to me

  • @TLCMEDIA1
    @TLCMEDIA1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Here to drop love 🔥🔥🔥

  • @natrlchallenge
    @natrlchallenge ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It looks so good!❤

  • @mekosmotivationalmessages
    @mekosmotivationalmessages ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You have such a beautiful smile and a welcoming presence

  • @vairirirakatuuo139
    @vairirirakatuuo139 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Looks very beautiful 😍👌❤

  • @Ms_Brendi_B
    @Ms_Brendi_B ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My hair looks like yours in its natural state....I'm in love with my fluffy hair....just wish it was longer...but its getting there❤🎉🎉

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It will grow just keep doing what you are doing and make sure it’s healthy xx

  • @pluffshangazi8487
    @pluffshangazi8487 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I tink its a lot more hard work taking care of relaxed hair

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It probably is but definitely doesn’t take as much time

    • @jbb8261
      @jbb8261 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      100% plus you have to avoid the rain, humidity, probably never swim or want to work out, you’ll constantly be processing new growth and exposing yourself to a literal carcinogen
      That’s why I just flat iron my natural hair when I need a break

    • @VeronicaVero-p2m
      @VeronicaVero-p2m หลายเดือนก่อน

      And what works for OTHER ppl DOESNT HAVE to work for others. Why yall care so much?!

  • @bossladi727
    @bossladi727 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful results

  • @Merline_Holland
    @Merline_Holland ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I got emotional when you were saying you were going to relax your hair… you have beautiful long hair ❤
    The bathroom part was ok lighting is good, not bad echo 😊

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww even I did for a minute but it had to be done and thank you so much xx

  • @MariaNdjodhi-ku9oj
    @MariaNdjodhi-ku9oj ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Looking beautiful ☺️

  • @KaylanJohannes
    @KaylanJohannes 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Slayyy

  • @thelmaprice7509
    @thelmaprice7509 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Do you.think you should wait a day just taking it out of braid do you think it would burn

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I didn’t wait and I didn’t burn but waiting could be a good idea.

  • @nikkieanderson2750
    @nikkieanderson2750 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is nikki anderson I wear my hair naturally

  • @uuhokololowoshindonga5072
    @uuhokololowoshindonga5072 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Watching from 🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦

  • @MilkaMedina-je2bt
    @MilkaMedina-je2bt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Me suscribo al canal

  • @M_family18
    @M_family18 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am done with natural, definitely will try the same relaxer ❤

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  ปีที่แล้ว

      I was just as tired honestly, didn’t have time to take care of my natural hair and relaxing it has definitely helped. Keep me updated on how you get on x

  • @Somethingaboutmary1
    @Somethingaboutmary1 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Im bout to relax mine to.... im nervous to mess it up. Been natural since 2012.

    • @masksenpai5889
      @masksenpai5889 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just be careful and watch how to do it right.

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  ปีที่แล้ว

      I would say do your own research and find a way that works with your hair to keep it healthy. Good luck

  • @juniorarik001
    @juniorarik001 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great 👍

  • @nalya225
    @nalya225 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Le problème n’est pas tant de vouloir avoir les cheveux lisses, le problème est le produit utilisé pour le faire. Vous protégez vos mains avec des gants 🧤 car le défrisant peut être nocif pour elles, mais vous l’appliquez directement sur le cure chevelu ce qui est pire 😢 j’avoue que j’ai du mal à comprendre le concept. M’enfin chacun fait ce qu’il veut tant que ça vous rend heureux.

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh well 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @Crissy991
    @Crissy991 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just relaxed my hair you first time

  • @mayafisher12
    @mayafisher12 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They have lawsuits out now about us relaxing our hair now 👀 but people still relax their hair ??? I’m confused as a black woman. But great video though. I like the quality of it🎉🤞🏿💕

    • @CP-gq7en
      @CP-gq7en ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lawsuits about what

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lawsuit?

    • @TheStacksFamily
      @TheStacksFamily ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So what it’s a lawsuit for almost everything. No one cares.

    • @crapbag426
      @crapbag426 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@TheStacksFamilyignorance is bliss 😂

    • @jollyrancherchick
      @jollyrancherchick ปีที่แล้ว +2

      People aren’t informed on what suit actually entails (as in what sicknesses or side effects are being experienced) so you can’t be confused about women trying to make life easier for themselves when you can’t even tell them what problems it causes.

  • @belliciahenry6638
    @belliciahenry6638 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    3:22 3:26 3:30 3:32 3:32 3:32

  • @nicolenickibarnes9958
    @nicolenickibarnes9958 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi I’m new to the channel

  • @Bridgetbreee
    @Bridgetbreee ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Will be joining you soon❤

  • @lisa-pz2px
    @lisa-pz2px ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yall im so tempted

  • @staciep2638
    @staciep2638 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You made it too bone straight!,it will be proned to breakage

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  ปีที่แล้ว

      I did 😩but so far it’s going well, it has more volume not as flat hopefully it stays that way

    • @staciep2638
      @staciep2638 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@selmaslifestyle yes it will,after each relaxer it will be flat for a few days

  • @jounithakapciak123
    @jounithakapciak123 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful xx ,
    Come do my hair too 😊

  • @debrasloan5541
    @debrasloan5541 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why don’t you wet set your hair and sit under a dryer , your permed hair will look and feel better

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I will have to try this, Thank you for suggesting

    • @debrasloan5541
      @debrasloan5541 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@selmaslifestyle 😊

  • @ii_amjae8471
    @ii_amjae8471 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love it ❤. You need to trim your hair tho

  • @Neilabakin
    @Neilabakin ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m about to do mine

  • @Jojodancer20100
    @Jojodancer20100 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Flat

  • @nikkieanderson2750
    @nikkieanderson2750 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is nikki anderson I been married for nineteen years I do my own hair your hair is to short

    • @jbb8261
      @jbb8261 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      What a weird comment to make

  • @dezzydivine25
    @dezzydivine25 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was natural for 4 years transitioned for 1 year
    I thought I would take better care of it this time around relaxing it but I ended up with breakage and now I’m going back natural 🙄 I hate I permed it but ❤️🫶🏽
    Good luck on your journey it’s nice either way