agreed, she got lucky in the fact that Emily assaulted her and she got to blow up their plans before they could make a play, but going against her lawyer definitely could’ve backfired
2nd story. Op needs to cut the bs and lay out boundaries. They should also move back To where they lived before. Fran is jealous and wants what op has.
They moved there to help his parents. Sounds like hubby knows OP well. He knows that she is too weak to cut off her sister. She might temporarily cut off Mom and sister. It wouldn't last. Do I trust Mom, Sister and hubby. NOPE. Personally I think OP needs to put a couple of cameras in the house.
I'm no expert, but that's not how prenuptial agreements work. while some may include a clause about infidelity it's primarily a contract or an agreement about how assets will be divided in case the marriage ends in divorce.
@ I would normally agree. But if Fran was expecting a big payout, even with a prenuptial agreement, and there was a complication. I suspect that Miss Fran is not being truthful.
@dianasmith8248 In my opinion, I think the husband had her sign a prenup, knowing well he was going to sleep around after the marriage. she doesn't sound very bright, so she probably signed the prenup, not knowing what she was getting into.
@@jwo122 That's what I figured. Just signed the paper like checking a TOS box on a website. Nobody reads all that stuff. Then, just thought she'd get everything, because that's how divorce tends to go.
2nd Story: This is another example of a golden child who peaked in high school. It's clear that Fran intended to live off of her husband by deciding to be a SAHW at 23. Now that she is 34 and has _nothing_ going for herself, what does she do? Try to get attention from her orbiter from her high school days. I guarantee that James is not her "best friend" and that she doesn't like "hanging out with her sister," she's just making excuses because James finally told her to buzz off.
I'm glad the OP in the 3rd story didn't say she'd overheard her brother crying. That wouldn't have been a good move. Vaguely phrasing it as her just "noticing he looked down" was the best way to approach it.
story 2: A prenup is a devastating weapon if you know how to use it and if there are no loopholes in the prenup that could be exploited to void it or against you.
also why did the spider not attack you in mincraft while you where in survivale mod although it later attacked you but still why did it not attack early on.
Story 2 pissed me off. OP is doormat for her sister and mother. Why doesn’t she lay down her boundaries from day 1? Honestly people need to learn to say no, when people overstep the boundaries laid out!
Second story: Frans apology is pure BS. Hang out with OP, when funny how she shows up with OP is not around. And lay down the boundary and law right there, no more coming over when OP is not around, no more staying the night and she has to be dressed modestly to be over there, not hanging out like a streetwalker looking for her next trick. Op needs to ban her sister for a while and make it clear that a monthly visit on a day she will be home is sufficient. As far as the mother, Op needs to look her dead in the eyes, calm and state: If you ever state anything like that again, or I find out you been trying to encourage my sister to destroy my marriage, you will regret it. You are getting older and as such, one day you will need your children. Do not make me think that I would be far better off without you. This is not a negotiation or a discussion but a statement of fact. Try me and you will find out how serious I am, and if I hear anything from anyone about this, I will conclude you will not want me as your daughter and cut you out of my life permanently and for good. Now both of you leave and think on what both of you have done.
2nd Story: nobody seems to care about the sanctity of marriage anymore, that some hypothetical scenarios are appropriate or even funny. Honestly despicable.
That first story man, that lady is an idiot. That confrontation she wanted so bad could have ended in disaster. She got extremely lucky. If they had just stayed calm, we would be hearing a very different update
This story sounds like it has a lot of drama and unexpected twists! It’s fascinating how life can take such surprising turns, and it must have been a rollercoaster of emotions for everyone involved. It’s also a reminder that high school moments, even the intense ones, don’t always define the rest of our lives. Wishing you and your spouse all the best in your marriage!
@@miceltusav88 I am a guy so no. I know a polished story when i see it. I would not be suprised if he is still in love with Fran or that a year or two from now we hear OP lamenting that her husband has been having an affair with Fran all along.
But you didn't hear his story. You read a summarized, second-hand account of his response. You can't form an intelligent opinion about him based on that
Story 2 - OP please please don't be so complacent. The game is not over yet. Do not allow the cheating sister Fran at your place or even to sleep over. She is shameless and a desperate need of a rich husband to support her life. She knows James has crush on her so he is an easy target. Your mother is another sick person helping and encouraging the sick game. If not now, eventually James will give into her game. Before long youll hear Fran is pregnant by James. Move back to another city or completely stop your sister from your house. Meet up only when all the family get togethers Good luck!,
NTA: My stepmom was dating my uncle. When he came back from the Vietnam War, my stepmom had a child. He dumped her. She went for my dad when my parents divorced. (She was my mom’s maid of honor when my parents married) My uncle died 20+ years ago. At the funeral reception she said, “ what the hell am I going to do now?, in front of my dad. They are still married. They deserve each other. I will have a party when they die. My parents & stepparents abused me in every single way (verbal, physical, sexual, & mental). My siblings were verbally abused by our stepdad.
S2: Your sister is trying to get Op's husband back as he is high earner and was a doormat for her which she wants to get back again, and OP's mom is supporting her. Make boundaries with both of them.
Story 2 : I'd record them saying that shit, post it all online, and divorce. Especially as a quite young female high earner. Since i'm guy i'd do the same but wouldn't ever actibely pursue women as a male high earner, better chances to find love with my fellow bros
LAST STORY OP I AM AN OLDER SIBLING WHO HAS NEEDED HER YOUNGER SIBLING TO HELP A LOT ALMOST SINCE FOREVER . SO I AM SURE YOUR OLDER BROTHER WAS HAPPY THAT U COULD HELP HIM U SHOULD B PROUD OF YOURSELF
Relationships often face challenges, but there’s always a way to move forward. My marriage had its share of significant problems, but with the right help, my wife and I managed to resolve them and strengthen our relationship. Solutions are available if you’re willing to put in the effort and collaborate. Keep hope alive-answers are possible.
I’m struggling with serious issues in my relationship and can’t bear the thought of losing her. My love and desire to have her back in my life are immense. I’m willing to do whatever it takes and would be very grateful for any guidance or suggestions.
Saying farewell to someone you love dearly is never easy, but in my case, I had the assistance of a spiritual counselor who saved my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Why is the cheating sister’s name is always EMILY, Lily, Emma, etc (something innocent ig lol) and the cheating bc SO is JASON, Jake, James, etc (something white macho) 😂😂😂
Increíble cómo las decisiones del pasado pueden influir en el futuro. Cada historia tiene dos lados, ¡sería interesante conocer la perspectiva de tu hermana también! 🚀
I'm hoping the 1st one is fake. Otherwise I don't condone cheating but I can see how it may have happened if she's that dramatic about things. Not everything needs to be like the movies. Listen to your lawyers who you are paying for a reason, if they say don't do a thing don't do it, especially in front of your children! If real the op put having this Hollywood lifetime movie moment over what effects this might have on her children and for what?
She just found out she had been betrayed in the worst way possible, how sis that being dramatic about everything? And even if she was, how on earth can it make the betrayal, more understandable?
I find it baffling how most of these parents try to cover up these situations for their kids. I wish my parents told me of their issues when I was young so I can see how shitty people are. This whole protecting their innocence shit just don’t fly now a days.
Always listen to your lawyer if the lawyer is saying not to do something that would jeopardize your whole case.
agreed, she got lucky in the fact that Emily assaulted her and she got to blow up their plans before they could make a play, but going against her lawyer definitely could’ve backfired
2nd story. Op needs to cut the bs and lay out boundaries. They should also move back To where they lived before. Fran is jealous and wants what op has.
They moved there to help his parents. Sounds like hubby knows OP well. He knows that she is too weak to cut off her sister. She might temporarily cut off Mom and sister. It wouldn't last.
Do I trust Mom, Sister and hubby. NOPE. Personally I think OP needs to put a couple of cameras in the house.
@@lindah3803why signs has the husband shown for her to trust him
Story 2: I am thinking the complication with the prenup is the fact that Fran was actually the cheater and not her ex-husband.
I'm no expert, but that's not how prenuptial agreements work. while some may include a clause about infidelity it's primarily a contract or an agreement about how assets will be divided in case the marriage ends in divorce.
@ I would normally agree. But if Fran was expecting a big payout, even with a prenuptial agreement, and there was a complication. I suspect that Miss Fran is not being truthful.
@dianasmith8248 In my opinion, I think the husband had her sign a prenup, knowing well he was going to sleep around after the marriage. she doesn't sound very bright, so she probably signed the prenup, not knowing what she was getting into.
@@jwo122 The worst thing is now they are not longer a guarantee. Judges in many first world countries can now toss prenups out the window in a whim.
@@jwo122 That's what I figured. Just signed the paper like checking a TOS box on a website. Nobody reads all that stuff. Then, just thought she'd get everything, because that's how divorce tends to go.
2nd Story: This is another example of a golden child who peaked in high school. It's clear that Fran intended to live off of her husband by deciding to be a SAHW at 23. Now that she is 34 and has _nothing_ going for herself, what does she do? Try to get attention from her orbiter from her high school days. I guarantee that James is not her "best friend" and that she doesn't like "hanging out with her sister," she's just making excuses because James finally told her to buzz off.
James had me worried until he stood up for his wife and kicked Fran out.
I'm glad the OP in the 3rd story didn't say she'd overheard her brother crying. That wouldn't have been a good move. Vaguely phrasing it as her just "noticing he looked down" was the best way to approach it.
story 2: A prenup is a devastating weapon if you know how to use it and if there are no loopholes in the prenup that could be exploited to void it or against you.
also why did the spider not attack you in mincraft while you where in survivale mod although it later attacked you but still why did it not attack early on.
Unless a judge decides 'nope, I don care' and tosses it out. In many first world countries judges can now do that.
Story 2 pissed me off. OP is doormat for her sister and mother. Why doesn’t she lay down her boundaries from day 1? Honestly people need to learn to say no, when people overstep the boundaries laid out!
Second story: Frans apology is pure BS. Hang out with OP, when funny how she shows up with OP is not around. And lay down the boundary and law right there, no more coming over when OP is not around, no more staying the night and she has to be dressed modestly to be over there, not hanging out like a streetwalker looking for her next trick. Op needs to ban her sister for a while and make it clear that a monthly visit on a day she will be home is sufficient. As far as the mother, Op needs to look her dead in the eyes, calm and state: If you ever state anything like that again, or I find out you been trying to encourage my sister to destroy my marriage, you will regret it. You are getting older and as such, one day you will need your children. Do not make me think that I would be far better off without you. This is not a negotiation or a discussion but a statement of fact. Try me and you will find out how serious I am, and if I hear anything from anyone about this, I will conclude you will not want me as your daughter and cut you out of my life permanently and for good. Now both of you leave and think on what both of you have done.
2nd Story: nobody seems to care about the sanctity of marriage anymore, that some hypothetical scenarios are appropriate or even funny. Honestly despicable.
That first story man, that lady is an idiot. That confrontation she wanted so bad could have ended in disaster. She got extremely lucky. If they had just stayed calm, we would be hearing a very different update
S2 OP is to gullible James is gaslighting her like a pro.
2nd Story: wow, most self-aware and emotionally mature OP I've seen in one of these, wow.
This story sounds like it has a lot of drama and unexpected twists! It’s fascinating how life can take such surprising turns, and it must have been a rollercoaster of emotions for everyone involved. It’s also a reminder that high school moments, even the intense ones, don’t always define the rest of our lives. Wishing you and your spouse all the best in your marriage!
Heard story 2 before Fran and OPs mom are assholes but James cannot be trusted his story is way to polished and practised.
That or he is sincere. Granted, I can tell you're the kind of person to think the man is always at fault
@@miceltusav88 I am a guy so no. I know a polished story when i see it. I would not be suprised if he is still in love with Fran or that a year or two from now we hear OP lamenting that her husband has been having an affair with Fran all along.
But you didn't hear his story. You read a summarized, second-hand account of his response.
You can't form an intelligent opinion about him based on that
@@briancoolbreezeexactly
Story 2 - OP please please don't be so complacent. The game is not over yet. Do not allow the cheating sister Fran at your place or even to sleep over. She is shameless and a desperate need of a rich husband to support her life. She knows James has crush on her so he is an easy target. Your mother is another sick person helping and encouraging the sick game. If not now, eventually James will give into her game. Before long youll hear Fran is pregnant by James. Move back to another city or completely stop your sister from your house. Meet up only when all the family get togethers Good luck!,
NTA: My stepmom was dating my uncle. When he came back from the Vietnam War, my stepmom had a child. He dumped her. She went for my dad when my parents divorced. (She was my mom’s maid of honor when my parents married) My uncle died 20+ years ago. At the funeral reception she said, “ what the hell am I going to do now?, in front of my dad. They are still married. They deserve each other. I will have a party when they die. My parents & stepparents abused me in every single way (verbal, physical, sexual, & mental). My siblings were verbally abused by our stepdad.
S2: Your sister is trying to get Op's husband back as he is high earner and was a doormat for her which she wants to get back again, and OP's mom is supporting her. Make boundaries with both of them.
Story 1: Sounds like a great fucking movie ngl. I'd love to watch this on netflix.
And it’s as real as one lol
Story 1: GET SCREWED CHEATERS!
Story 2 : I'd record them saying that shit, post it all online, and divorce.
Especially as a quite young female high earner.
Since i'm guy i'd do the same but wouldn't ever actibely pursue women as a male high earner, better chances to find love with my fellow bros
Always trust your instincts. If something feels off, it probably is.
S2: her hormones? Wtf does that mean. She isn't pregnant sooooo???
Story 1 he didn’t want to pay child support and alimony for the affair……..
You don't need them you are strong 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
STORY1
OP I HAVE MY FINGERS
CROSSED FOR U WISH U
GOOD LUCK
Story2: yup hes going to cheat on her
Probably already is, op is either blind or in willful denial
Someone tell the minecraft guy how to split stacks. Watching them make ladders was painful :D
LAST STORY
OP I AM AN OLDER
SIBLING WHO HAS
NEEDED HER YOUNGER
SIBLING TO HELP
A LOT ALMOST SINCE
FOREVER . SO I AM
SURE YOUR OLDER
BROTHER WAS HAPPY
THAT U COULD HELP
HIM U SHOULD B
PROUD OF YOURSELF
Relationships often face challenges, but there’s always a way to move forward. My marriage had its share of significant problems, but with the right help, my wife and I managed to resolve them and strengthen our relationship. Solutions are available if you’re willing to put in the effort and collaborate. Keep hope alive-answers are possible.
I’m struggling with serious issues in my relationship and can’t bear the thought of losing her. My love and desire to have her back in my life are immense. I’m willing to do whatever it takes and would be very grateful for any guidance or suggestions.
Saying farewell to someone you love dearly is never easy, but in my case, I had the assistance of a spiritual counselor who saved my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'll immediately search for her online. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring about positive changes for me; I miss her deeply.
You should.
Why is the cheating sister’s name is always EMILY, Lily, Emma, etc (something innocent ig lol) and the cheating bc SO is JASON, Jake, James, etc (something white macho) 😂😂😂
Story 3 was so fuckin sweet.
Nothing to do with the stories, but the way the person is playing Minecraft is absolutely stressing me out
Increíble cómo las decisiones del pasado pueden influir en el futuro. Cada historia tiene dos lados, ¡sería interesante conocer la perspectiva de tu hermana también! 🚀
I'm hoping the 1st one is fake. Otherwise I don't condone cheating but I can see how it may have happened if she's that dramatic about things. Not everything needs to be like the movies. Listen to your lawyers who you are paying for a reason, if they say don't do a thing don't do it, especially in front of your children! If real the op put having this Hollywood lifetime movie moment over what effects this might have on her children and for what?
She just found out she had been betrayed in the worst way possible, how sis that being dramatic about everything?
And even if she was, how on earth can it make the betrayal, more understandable?
I find it baffling how most of these parents try to cover up these situations for their kids. I wish my parents told me of their issues when I was young so I can see how shitty people are. This whole protecting their innocence shit just don’t fly now a days.
S2 sounds like mom was also a cheater, I wonder if the sisters are even full sisters or half sisters.