Evil Mother-In-Law wants You GONE [Emotional] [Argument] [Loss] [MF4F] [Ft. Echoes Of The Mind]
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ม.ค. 2023
- Part 2 - • Kicking Out Your Evil ...
It's 6 months after the crash that robbed this world of our child, Raychell. I've been putting on a brave face, but you've been a wreak. Unable to eat, a sleep schedule that is out of sorts, and we haven't even touched her room. Now your rich Mother-In-Law has come by to push you out.
Written by u/Echos_of_The_Mind
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Can i say that you and Echoes of Mind make a great team together? Because its true!!
Make me super emotional.
Both of your acting skills are shining in here and was super cool listen to Echoes too (with their beautiful voice).
Congrats again, Mr. UTC!
And a great week for you all!
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Okay, but men who can support their wives >>>> 😩✨
🙌🙏🏻🙏🤲🏻
you mean men doing the bare minimum and being a human?
@@Eeemooo yeah which is sad that it's considered king behavior to be a basic thing everyone should do, its sad how we have to have low standards :/
I be reading so many Reddit stories of men being mama boys and not standing up for their wives/gfs when they’re literally being verbally abusive and harassed by those moms who think they’re entitled 😬
Hell yeah! ☺️🫶❤✨😊
“You can always have another one” this made my blood boil. A child isn’t a toy you toss around it’s a living person that you’d love and cherish
Ikr and also who knows the next one could be WAY different
Like me and my brother
according to my parents I was the easiest child they had even seen even as a toddler, I never did anything with the purpose of hurting others and very rarely had temper tantrums
then my brother has been going through a mean phase for like 3 years now he loves making you feel like you suck and he starts screaming if you look at him half the time
WHEN I HEARED THAT I KINDA CRYED
The line “ no one should say how long someone is allowed to grieve made me lose it, because on December 1st 2021 my cousin passes away and it’s still hard, thank you for that line
I am so sorry you have to go through this pain
@@XratedBassCannon thank you, it’s been hard on my aunt mostly, because she was 14, but what’s nice is if you search up “ Kiera knigge” you can see what she looks like and you can have memories
I lost my grandma Jan 2021& there are still days that I mourn her as if I just found out. It’s always YOUR time to grieve. No matter how long it is
Im so sorry for your losses, I hope for healing and blessings to come your way ❤️ take all the time you need 🙏❤️ I hope for the best
I agree i had an uncle pass away a few years ago and it is still really painful to know he is not here anymore
My dad is 50 and he works at a factory with a bunch of 25-year-olds. The only coworker around my dad's age lost his daughter a few years back. All the young coworkers were telling him to "Get over it, you still have two kids." My dad told them all to shut up, they had no idea what they were talking about. The only people who tell you to get over the death of your child either don't have kids, or didn't care for them as much as they should.
Very true. No parent should outlive their child.
Truer words have never been spoken
Losing a child is the worst emotional pain anyone can endure.
You could be proud of your dad and yourself too, he raised you well I think. 🫂❤️
@@ildikoboglarkanemeth8616 Don't worry. I am very proud of him. Thank you very much.
"NO one should say how long someone is allowed to mourn" Hit me hard. I lost my dad May 1st of 2022 to drugs. And I got angrily triggered but hearing you defend us really helped me and unlocked a kind of feeling that I really needed. THANK YOU
Your feelings are valid. I'm sorry for your loss. You have a lifetime to honor the love you to shared before his illnesses, because drugs are a disease.
@@UTC_Audio thank you so much! I’m definitely a new subscriber!
My cousin hasn't past, but she sure is close to deaths door. Shes not entirely healthy, but she's healthy enough to stay alive. As an 11 year old, she makes poor choices and decides to become a s*x addict at that age with many, many men whom are inexperienced and she almost got sick from it. She's 13 now, but I still worry.
11 YEARS OLD?? Holy- Im sorry Haantao..Sorry she worried you so much..
@@M0NOS_DAD I’m so sorry to hear that. I know you don’t know me but I’ll be here to listen!!
We need a part 2, like a new pregnancy. They need some kind of happiness 🤧
Agreed 🥲
I agree!
That would be adorable
He’d totally be super protective 😂
YESSS
When he said “ To wake up in the hospital to find out your child is gone? You can’t help them or save them?” It reminded me of my little brother. We weren’t biological related but we fostered him for a little while and we called each other biological siblings. His mom got custody of him, and she had a drug addiction and she shot and killed him in her car. The night that happened I was having a sleepover with some friends of mine having a blast, not knowing the hell he was going through. The morning after that my mom called me into her room and told me he was dead. I cried for days about it. It’s been almost a year since he died and I’m still grieving. I hope he’s happy and safe in heaven, and that his mom is rotting in prison. I love you little brother and hope to see you again someday❤.
I am very sorry for your loss. To be accepted by a sibling like a biological relative must have been such a great feeling, and I am sure your little brother would want you to be as happy as you wish he is.
This audio was too good and reminded me of my parents who lost my baby brother, one of my aunties told them "You can have more kids!" and they said "We don't want more kids, we wanted him." made me cry for weeks!
I hope Robyn 🤞 your heart is a bit calmer. These stories are so complicated. I was a late teenager when my parents told me, between my older brother and me there was a little baby in my mother's tummy, but went away.
Greetings to everyone here who is suffering with this kind of things. Try to find the peace in your thoughts and heart 💓. Sometimes it is so hard, but please ☺️.
I understand the pain. My mom went through 2 consecutive miscarriages and I felt like my world came crashing crashing down because the pain felt just that bad and I am still mourning for them to this day :((
i understand that pain... my mother also had miscarriage... I had a older twin brother who died and I'm the only one who survived...my mother never mentioned him because every time we mentioned my twin brother she just suddenly got sad and emotional.... that's why we never mention him... I miss him so much...
I want to punch your aunt
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Hope you and your family are alright and I wish for things to get easier. The pain never goes fully away, but you kind of learn how to live with it with time. You never forget them, and with time you will realize you may do stuff for them, but it will get a little bit easier.
Dont let ANYONE tell you or make you feel like your emotions are not valid, mourn as much as you need, cry when you need it.
If it helps, my dad uses to lit a candle once a year for his nephew. And I also saw him release a balloon with a note for him into the air (the balloom with hellium). It helped him with his healing.
He still misses him, and its hard to talk about it, but I see him more him now
“No one should say how long someone is allowed to grieve” hit so hard! I lost my grandfather 10 years ago and I still can’t even talk about him without bawling. I loved him so so much.
That is very thoughtful.
When that mother said "You can have more children" I was going to yell at the top of my lungs "You don't even understand the feeling of losing a child, which is the worst pain a parent can endure, and even more so when they have a second child and all that child does is remind them of their late child, even though it isn't their fault" but too bad I have a migraine right now.
Sorry about that! Hope you had food, water and some nice rest last month!!
Not me wanting to BODY SLAM that woman into the ground as hard as I can for having the nerve to act like she hopes we're doing well once she sees we're out of bed. You two did an amazing job with this video, keep up the great work! 🤣 Also I teared up so much around the end
I would’ve hit that woman and blew up on her for her vile apathy and complete lack of sympathy and common sense. She’s failed epically as both a mother and a grandmother. She doesn’t deserve to be one.
@@BersealiaDreamheart Exactly!
The lion, the witch and the audacity of this bi-
@@_.ana._. I love this
The nerve of that woman saying that you can have more kids is disrespectful 😡
That line “no one is allowed to say how long you can grieve “ UGH THAT HURT 😭😭
Part2 please
I second that
I third that 🚄
Mann I'm literally crying..this is so perfect and voice of mother is really cool 🤭
That is also the voice of the author. Very talented.
Me personally, I would've threw hands if someone told me to stop grieving over my own child.
The loss of a child can be so traumatic and it can either bring a couple closer (because they're there for each other) or break them apart. Unfortunately, for my uncle and auntie it broke them apart. Their daughter (my cousin) died when she was one year and seven months old. She got sick suddenly and died within 48 hours. They had also suffered a still birth and the other twin had died after two weeks. So they went through a lot, they ended up always fighting even more than before. There was even gambling involved after and they separated and there was a lot of resentment from one side towards the other when he eventually moved on after years (not from the daughter because even now, over twenty years later he still gets teary eyed mentioning her). This was phenomenal work!
I lost my child almost two years ago, and I'm still not healed. Not even close. Hearing "No should say how long someone is allowed to grieve" was something I really needed to hear. I never knew I would need a video so much. Thank you for making it.
I'm so sorry for your loss..
I am too..I lost my dad's father and my best friend ...😔😭
I'm so sorry sanding you all the love in the world ❤❤❤❤ god bless you
the line "No one should say how long someone is allowed to mourn" hit me hard. The fact that my dad died 9 years ago still hurts me. Not only that I can't move on at all but also because I'm sad because I never got to experience what it feels like to grow up with a dad. My 18th birthday would be this year too, seeing how I don't have a father, I wouldn't be able to know how it feels like to be dancing with him on my debut
ROUND OF APPLAUSE!!! TEARS IN MY EYES 👏😭
The tears rolling down my face is no joke
“We just need time-“ advert: DELIVEROO IS ON TIME.
It’s been 7 years and my family refuses to speak of my godmother’s first two baby angels, but we’ve all started to cope, and she even got a few of those quote boards that say in her newborn son’s nursery things like “I was hand-picked by my older brothers from Heaven.”
That quote board is very sweet.
@@UTC_Audio aww thank you :] I honestly really love the audio as well btw 🧡
*Me as the wife* :👁👄👁🍿 the argument is finish already damn
Usually audios don’t make me emotional, but this one made her burst into tears 😭
Dude the tears that I got rolling down my face is insane! Please keep up the good work❤
Same😢
I just recently lost my nan she meant the world to me and you just saying that no one can tell you how long you can grief it made me feel a lot better about it
I'm sorry for your loss.
The fact that i want my future daughter to be named Raylyn this made me cry
On a real note you literally have the perfect acting voice
Thank you.
I agree Nesua!! I hope you didn't actually get emotional though UTC...
The way i uncontrollably sobbed during this, hearing you say “no one should say how long someone is allowed to grieve” had me remembering of when my great grandfather passed away, it was one of the hardest days of my life and I’m still grieving years later. But the pain of losing someone hurts more than anything, but we have to remember that their in a better and happier place now, and their passed soul will forever be with us.
knowing that my mum went thru this, i can only hope to never experience it. i can only dream of what could've been for that little boy and tho she may look, seem and be happy now, years later, that look of heartbreak and grief and loss is forever frozen in the very few photos we have of him. sending all my love out to everyone
This is really sad but also reassuring that he won't leave us, as something like this can ruin a relationship or marriage :(
And yeah I cried :( thanks UTC for a nice audio and for making me cry :(
Hope you are okay and have a nice Sunday :)
I am not s good actor, so when I say I was crying where it was not in the script, that is because of how touching it was.
@@UTC_Audio it was really good script to make even the VA cry ❤
Like Troy Bolton once said
“We’re all in this together”
sobbing. one of the best performances I've heard in all honesty, keep up the good work pls (even if it means ripping my heart out again)
This aint no basic audios..this right here is talent! I could feel the emotions straight through my phone and I’ve never felt like that while listening to any audios. I’m proud of the improvements wishing that this one will have a second part with an happy ending❤
I'm not a mother, but losing a loved one is heartbreaking, especially if that loved one is a child that was enjoying their lives happily
Yeah.My biological father died when I was about 2.My mom still hasn't stopped grieving.One day I came into my moms room to find her crying her eyes out with pictures of my dad.I get my grandma as quick as possible and she go's in there and screams at my mom because since my mom found another guy, she shouldn't care anymore,(its my step dads mom btw) .I was disgusted by what she said to my mother and I yelled at her to get out,even my stepdad told her (my grandmother) to leave.So,yeah,its not that easy to get over a death.
Thank you for this, my dad passed away in June and it really is hard losing someone close to you. I still struggle and wish he was still here. I just want him back
I am very sorry with your loss. You have a lifetime to honor his memory. No one should feel like there is a time limit.
@@UTC_Audio thank you. This actually means a lot. And thank you for making the audios because I find comfort in them, they have really helped
@@UTC_Audio wait I completely forgot I made this comment but I’m glad we talked last night. I’m looking forward to your future live streams, I’ll see you there and I’ll be lurking in your other videos
When you think you’re gonna love this asmr but instead it makes you cry-
you can have more children, but you can’t have the same child. You can’t have the same smile, voice, personality or even hobbies
The way our husband is defending ussss aaaa also someone mentioned it already and ima say I agree we need to find out we have another pregnancy
Wait you’re saying we lost a child??? Wow, your audio mama got balls
I wish your content is M4A so I could fully immerse myself into it, I really love the content and script you make. They feel so different from the other. Nonetheless, We love your great works king 👑🖤 Thank you very much for always serving 😊
I eagerly await the day TH-cam unlocks multi-audio tracks for my channel so I can include those options for listeners.
@@UTC_Audio Don't feel pressured. It may be just a selfish request from me so you don't have to!! Will still keep listening to your audios! I love them ☺🖤
It's something I've already made plans for, so don't feel like it's selfish to want to feel included.
It only took one video that was 8 minutes long for me too sit on my couch eat ice cream and cry while listening to this.. 8 minutes
This was amazing keep up the work ❤ and please a happy part 2
It is two in the morning and im sobbing, i have autism and i lost my dad when i was 9, i was never able to cope properly then at 14 my uncle, who i was incredibly close to, died in a truck accident and that completely destroyed my world, i dont even know why this made me cry so hard but 😢
I'm so sorry for your loss.
*me actually finding a heart warming boyfriend/husband video*
"Im impressed my child" 😌
It's rare to find an ASMR that's emotional, and I'm gonna grieve from this video. I'm devoted to this account, I love this. 😭
this hurts so much. I've never personally lost a child but I have lost my nephew a couple weeks after he was born but I never got to see him or my sister during that time. when she came home from the hospital it so heart broken to see her so sad and empty. no should feel the pain of the lost of a child and it should never be taken lightly.. your a good a voice actor you know. Can really her that broken pain in your voice when the character lashed out, it kinda broke me. sorry about the TMI but good job with the video.
I am honestly glad so many feel like this is a comfortable space to share their trials and pain. Thank you for the compliment.
awh this audio... the acting is so good omg. so much potential, seriously.
I lost my dog in september due to cancer and this audio really warms my heart, especially the sweet words. Thank you ❤
Sorry for your loss. Tha k you for listening.
This has to become a series or something. BC THAT WAS THE BEST ASMR I HAVE EVER LISTEN TO. 😍😍😍
his mother: I'm your mother Jordan
my name also being Jordyn: MOM?!
His voice- 😭❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Aww, thank you.
@@UTC_Audio your welcome
Stop, dude this got me in tears, fighting them with my life
I lost my daughter a few months ago in a car accident. She spent 2 days in the hospital before dying. I miss her everyday. My husband is mourning too. We loved her with all our hearts. Fly high Lillie, I miss you. 💕
I am so sorry for your loss. That is terrible.
this was so freaking good i legit cried when you were about to cry omgg
I've never had a an asmr make me cry like this. When he told me his dreams of her. It SENT me. I love this. Please make a part 2. One of the best rps ice ever her.
Omg! I can’t even imagine going through something like that. I just can’t! It breaks my heart that they’re suffering because of something like that happening. But it shatters me more because people are so rude and selfish to say certain things like that, especially if it’s coming from your own family members. People have absolutely no right to say how long you can grieve over something or someone. Because I know for certain that if they were in their shoes and someone was telling them that they be like “what the heck is wrong with you!” For anyone of you who has been through something like this I am so sorry and I will keep you and your family in my prayers ❤ God bless you all!
Ive listened to this so many times. And everytime it reminds me of my daughter that passed away at 8 months old. Everytime it helps me realize at the end that its true she is always here.
WHAT, THIS ONE IS MAD EPIC I NEED PART 2
My gosh loved this masterpiece can we please have a part 2?
this audio really comforted me. I lost my two year old cousin four years ago and even if I think I had the time to grieve sometimes I just can't help but cry and the fact that she didn't have the time to live and experiment things. Thank you for making this asmr I appreciate you a lot for this ❤❤❤
I am continuously blown away by the amount of emotion and heart you put into your audios. And Echoes, does such a fantastic job writing these scripts. I've never suffered the loss of a child, but it's something that no one truly should have to go through. And grief is entirely different for everyone. Don't let anyone dictate how long it takes for you to mourn.
I love his voice ❤️
This hit very very hard my dad died November 21 2022 and my ex best friend said “Addyson!he is gone you need to stop being so sad and depressed your being “Dramatic”
I was so close to screaming and like a week ago a kid came up to me and said “you come to school to learn but you can’t learn to get a dad” I cried so hard that day!I just hate people sometimes!
Those people are lucky enough to never have to understand. I am sorry for your loss. Before thanksgiving has to be a very hard time to lose someone, but there's never a good time. There's no expiration date on feelings. Take as long as you want and need.
I remember my father once told me that
Where he was working there was a couple that lost their little child and when he heard when would be the funeral.
When the funeral was held, my father appeared with a wreath and was there for them at that moment, some of them looked at him weird but most of them and the couple looked at him with respect cuz they (my father and the couple) didnt know each other yet he went to the funeral. Even thought my father dont know the loss of a child yet he was there for them.
A class act.
So so nice 🫂💖.
I feel so bad for Jordan and his listener.. I hope they can have another child someday in honor of Rachel and they can become a happy family with a healthy child, and maybe they can get counseling to help with the loss 😢❤
I lost my mother last week And that line “no one should say how long someone is aloud to grieve” like just really hit me
I am very sorry for your loss.
@@UTC_Audio 💗💗
Man, this made me cry, not only because I imagined the whole scenario (and I'm not even a mom), but also because I know there are people that have been trough this.
I want the second part ASAP please. you are genius. You have beautiful and creative ideas. Keep going 👍🏼 ❤️❤️❤️❤️
please this made me cry 🤚🏾😭
I was trying so hard not to cry listening to this😭
But I love it❤️
“no one is allowed to say how long someone is to grieve” made me lose it. I lost one of my dearest friends earlier this week. I’ve cried more in these past three days than I have this entire year. Thank you, this helped more than I thought it would,
Take as long as you need. I am sorry for your loss.
i was bawling by the end 😭
this is literally my wort nightmare, as someone who wants kids in the future, this is something i hope me and no one should ever experience
Idk why I started crying this was so sentimental😭😖
Thank you thank you thank you!!!🥰😊 Your content is so varied and that's why you deserve more than this, your act, your voice, your edit and the hard work you put in all of your videos are sooo underrated, you will be recognised soon
Tears were literally streaming down my face the whole time I was listening to this but the part where he said, "no one should decide how long someone is allowed to grieve" I was definitely bawling my eyes out quietly since my sisters were sleeping. That line made me remember my grandma and how she's been coping with the death of my grandpa in August of 2022. She's barely left the house since we lost grandpa. And its just so sad to see her cry so much everytime we talk about grandpa with her. She would say that grandpa doesn't visit her in her dreams but he visits us in ours then she would start crying, missing grandpa all over again. Its been hard transitioning and coping throughout the holiday season since grandpa was our chef and grandma really depended on him greatly. So yeah. This audio just really struck me. And I guess its the hormones since its that time of the month for me and I've been really emotional lately becoz of it.😅🤦🏻♀️ But really love the audio and script tho!!! Def 10/10😚
This made me cry, honestly the both of you are amazing actors. Like I'm sobbing rn. Please keep it up!😭❤️
I just woke up and I am already crying 😭 damm this was amazing 👏
this is such a unique rp!! I love it 😤
This was such a beautifully executed vid😱😱😱 Stellar work my g!! The amount of emotion in this vid is amazing... Keep up the amazing work!! Also, I would definitely like to see a part 2 of this🙏🙏❤️❤️
THIS IS SO GOOD BUT IT BROKE MY HEART IN SO MANY WAYS. if i was there ngl, i would've already smacked that evil mom away.
Thank you so much to both of you 😊.
You are so talented and seriously a high class Gentleman 🎩!
With this type of audios you could form your community's thoughts so much well and drow attention to the real life's meanings. I trying to say what is in my heart ❤️. UTC, 🫂 dear Sir, you are amazing! 🙏🥹❤️
WOAH! this is such a good asmr…sounds so realistic! amazing!!
Amazing collab
Dang I cried...
Love this!!🖤 Please do more of these!!🖤 This made me so emotional in some way and it made me think about somebody I lost too but it was a friend of mine I have known for 4 years thank you for this!!🖤
is it possible to throw hands with a person that's not even real? No?...danget..
I need to stop mourning over a character that never even existed- holy sh*t-
Amazing! You really do bring scripts to life! You both did so good! the emotions in your voice felt so real! I loved it! The script the Audio Great job! Hope you’re doing well!
Wow wth I wanted to fall asleep but now I am crying and it’s 3am
Nice audio, very well done
This man as my whole heart :’) 🫶🏾🫶🏾
YOU'RE FREAKIN GOOD I LOVE IT. I'M SO GOING TO LISTEN TO YOU MORE.
This is amazing ❤❤ this had me balling my eyes out 😭😭
"will you let me finish"
*Me ready to throw my laptop out of my window*
But jokes asaide this really had me tearing up even though it's not my reality. But lots of love to those who might go throug this right now. And hopefully those arn't to many.
Okay this made me cry so much especially because I have experienced this before I lost my child in a crash and MY mother decided to come over and tell me I need to stop crying and get back to work or else I won’t make it anywhere in life.
I am so so sorry for your loss. Originally the script was written so the dad was the one coming over to talk, but I convinced echos to flip the gender so she could voice the mother. I can't imagine the strength needed to want to listen to something so close to such real pain. I hope you feel better.
@@UTC_Audio Thank you and it was years ago and I am still quite hurt it’s really true no one should ever put a limit on how long you can be sad it is very different for everyone and effects everyone differently. Also I don’t this it helps I was r@ped 4 months before this. Amazing videos keep up the work!
I hate people like that like how she was calling us names and trying to say we're holding back Jordan from the company and then when we walk out she's like" I hope you we'll dear" I flipping hate people like that
Is almost like saying, "Bless your heart."
@flowermoon child I do too. I lost my oldest girl at 6 weeks and 4 days along. I think about how she would look like and if she would be naturally protective of her little sister. She would have been 9 this May. My ex husband didn't even bother to remember her name!!!! She was our first and now we have a happy,healthy,just turned 6 last year,little girl and I used to tell her that she had a big sister she's going to see in Heaven waiting on all of us to join her up there. Now,I will be back with her when I come home to them for good. He has gotten married again(after we divorced after almost 14 years of marriage)and would have had twins with his 2nd wife if she hadn't had one of them stillborn. It broke us to have lost her and my depression increased and after our 2nd little girl it came back stronger than ever. He moved on with her and I am just happy to be living with my little girl full time again. I am actually happy she can give him more babies if he wants them. I get his love(in a different way now)and get to be with our little girl fully again. I think we can all be happy together even if it looks weird to other people. If they don't like it,oh well,then don't look at us!!!!! Sorry for it being a long post.
Dude! The amount of emotion you put into this was absolutely stunning! And the concept for the video was brilliant and refreshing. It was different, and that’s what drew me in, the voice acting is was got me to stay. Very much well done!
It was a very special script, and I'm glad you liked it.
When she said''You can make more'' i got so pissed but somthing abt your voice calmed and relaxed me,Great acting,both of you^^