This is such a helpful video. I was diagnosed in 2023. Im currently recovering from my first surgery. It has been one of the most painful, depressing things I’ve gone through, but it feels like a light to have another person share their story. Thank you for sharing, there is such little education about this topic and so many people feel alone bc of that fact. I’m so proud of you for sharing! You’re beautiful and strong !
Lipodema is related to insulin resistance thus intermittent fasting and keto type diet can be helpful. Check out the work of Dr. Jason Fung on insulin resistance. May God bless you and all women (and men) dealing with this issue.
Women's heath is something that needs to be talked about more so thank you for making such an in-depth and informed video. Wishing you all the best & a speedy recovery! xx
Not being able to wear shorts during the summer is a bummer. I’m so glad to have found you and this video! You did a great job explaining everything. Blessings to you on your journey. ❤
Please wear your shorts. 🙏 I used to hide my legs for many years until I learned to love and accept my body. Now I wear my shorts and could care less what anyone thinks 😊
This has affected me my whole life. So please you were able to get help and surgery. It brings me so down. I avoid social situations and dressing up. it's robbed me of any self confidence. It's comforting to know I'm not alone. I hope I am able to afford the surgery one day.
@@kaykhanom live your life fully irrespective of size. God made you beautiful. Wear what you feel good in. Go out meet people and have fun. Don’t let it consume you. This is Gods test for you and you are going to ace it . Lots of love to you.
As a student nurse, this video was super informative. Thank you for teaching me something new. I also appreciate your personal story surrounding your diagnosis. It’s always helpful to understand the psychological effects of pathologies because it helps to understand my patients and to empathize better :) wish you all the best and I will be watching your journey with the surgery and recovery ❤
Not a lot of influencers have the courage to be honest about when they're doing an advert in exchange for free stuff and I think it's cool that you made everyone aware. Since I'm seeing this video well behind time I'm really looking forward to seeing the follow up videos - if I was watching this at the time, I'd have also said good luck with your surgery!
I was diagnosed with Lipoedema last year and the relief I felt in knowing why my arms and legs were always so different and disproportionate was intense. I’ve struggle with an ED for over 15 years and always thought it was my fault that my arms and legs barely looked any different and although I still struggle with my ED, it has definitely helped knowing it wasn’t my fault or anything I was or wasn’t doing. I’m so desperate to have surgery but I think it will be quite a while before I can afford it. Thank you so much for raising awareness for this. I feel like it needs much more recognition in the medical field and general society.
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! for bringing awareness to this disease. I was diagnosed 27 years ago when I was 10. I had my first 'lowers' surgery in April, have uppers surgery next month and arms a few weeks later. I see so many women with this disease who have no idea. I wouldn't wish this disease on anyone.
I chance found your video. It has explained the many detrimental comments from men i have known,including my ex husband. I always thought it was just my shape which i was unlucky enough to have inherited from my mother. I am now 67 years old, and while i would be over the moon to have the surgery, i will never be able to afford it and feel im probably too old now anyway. But how it would have changed my life and self esteem! No more hiding under the longest skirts i could find or pants long enough to cover my ankles. I had one ex partner ask me if there was something wrong with me that he should know about because my legs were disproportionate to the rest of my body. I felt so hurt. Unfortunately, he was only one of a number of men asking the same question. Needless to say, i have been single since my divorce 25 years ago. Thankyou
Same! I am also your age and have remained single since my 20's due to my legs. Interesting enough, I weight 138 pounds but the disparity between my toro and legs is ridiculous. I hate the summers.
I’m so glad I found your channel! I’m 53 and for the past few years my body shape has changed drastically and for a long time I felt so awful about myself. Why were my other menopause-aged friends who were overweight not covered in lumps and shaped oddly like I was? I know why now and have been educating myself all about Lipodema. I’m hoping to find a good doctor (I’m in America) to do the surgery before this progresses any further. In the meantime, I’m cutting carbs in the hope that I can lower the weight that I CAN control and be the healthiest I can be for the life-changing/life-restoring surgery I know I will have one day. God bless you and your bravery for speaking about your journey to help others along. Thank you!
I’m 55 and my troubles began when my thyroid went haywire at 30 years old. I shot up from 117 to 209 pounds in less than three years. I was finally diagnosed with hashimotos thyroid disease and bad hormone imbalance. At 48 years old, I finally found a doctor who got me on the right thyroid medication and hormone replacement therapy. I got down to 127 pounds and felt mentally great, but I noticed my arms developed very large bat wings and I can now feel lots of hard “beads” under my skin. My legs, knees, and ankles, are so lumpy and misshapen. Now at 55 and in menopause, no matter what I do, I am unable to lose weight. My legs look worse every day. My arms embarrass me, so I never wear short sleeves even in summer. Not one doctor has ever mentioned lipodema to me in my life. I’m also going to look in my area in the US for doctors who are knowledgeable about this. Good luck with your research!
@@SDsearchergood luck finding a doctor. Most women are self diagnosing this because doctors don’t recognize this disease. There’s a channel on here from a plastic surgeon in California that does this type of surgery. To be honest it’s all plastic surgeons I’ve seen. Which is fd up that we’re getting health advice from plastic surgeons and not actual doctors. Make that make sense. Good thing we all pay out the ass every year for health insurance, to then have to get answers from a plas surgeon and pay out of pocket thousands of dollars. 🤦♀️
My friend died during her lipedema op, 38 years old due to get married and wanted to look her best. A blood clot went to her brain and she never regained consciousness and died 5 weeks later. Give careful consideration and do extensive research of the risks involved. That said, i wish everyone well who has this surgery.
This is exactly the reason I would never do any invasive surgery, unless it was to save my life. Thank you for sharing. Your friend's story will be remembered. It really helps people like me, 29 years old, mom, and wife make more informed decisions.
How did you get your doctor to diagnose you? If I may ask. My Primary care doctor. She just says your fat, diet. Well I hardly eat, and still cam not lose weight. My feet ankles, legs are swollen. On my second Lasix medication. No weight loss. Just swollen legs face, arms legs feet. I am so sadden. My doctor will not let me get treatment for it. I am trying to find another doctor f9r a 2nd opinion.
@@lovepugs05 I saw you commented awhile ago so hopefully this is still helpful. I have a consultation with a specialist at a plastic surgery clinic that treats Lipedema specifically. I would look for Lipedema clinics and call to see if they diagnose. I called one place and they said I had to have a prior diagnosis before the consultation, but the one I'm going to diagnoses as part of the consultation. Unfortunately, I have to pay out of pocket, but in my area (the Pacific Northwest) I've found consultation prices to be $100-$300
I have been following you for years, but hadn’t watched in a while. This video just popped up today and I am so glad it did! I was diagnosed with Lymphedema 10 years ago and Lipedema 3 years ago. There is a huge community online for support that I have found helpful. I am hopeful to have surgery in the next few years. So proud of you!
I have watched you for many years. This video made me emotional for the simple fact of how brave you are to share your story and being so open. No doubt you have been through a lot and had to hide something so personal. that none of us knew about... So thank you for sharing. Im sure there are people who have this who may be at home suffering secretly as well. x
I’m extremely grateful that you made this video. I have lipedema and it started at puberty, got worse when I was put on birth control at 14, worse again with each pregnancy, and even worse when I was put on another birth control for endometriosis. Hormones play a huge role and I’ve been told it can get worse again at menopause. I’m 36 and will soon be having my first surgery which I wanted so much sooner but insurance doesn’t cover removal and my husband has always dismissed it as not important. It just destroys my confidence and self image.
the best of luck with your first surgery. i can't tell you how much confidence it's given me already 💖 im sorry your husband dismissed it. sending you love x
I've seen a short video from you with the surgery. It was the first time I've heard of the term "lipedema" and all my struggles for the past 24years finally got an answer. I never felt comfortable to wear short pants or skirts. All the exercise in the world didn't help me, I was a semi-pro swimmer and semi-pro handball player, my day consisted in 8-10hours of phisical training, 2-3h laisure time spend playing tennis or other sports and sleep. Never ever felt comfortable when going out to wear anything other than long pants. Never could fit a pair of boots on my calves other than military boots. Thank you kindly for sharing your story and bringing light into mine.
You are beautiful inside & out. Thank you for sharing. I’m 53 years old & thanks to you, I now understand why I look the way I look. I understand why I eat so clean & healthy and still look the way I look. Thank you!!!
I've just been to my GP to talk about it and not sure what was I expecting but she basically laughed me off for finding something online and thinking I have it. She had no clue about lipedema. I proceeded to explain my symptoms and then she apologised and said she'd refer me to a specialist in the future but it made me feel so unheard. As if I was looking for an excuse. I feel like printing every piece of info and research about lipedema and sending it to the clinic. I'll definitely have to go way more prepared to the next appointment. I feels so wrong to teach your doctor about something. You really loose thrust in Irish doctors
It’s not just Irish doctors. They are not taught anything at all about lipedema in medical school, so they are clueless. They think we are making excuses for our weight, and just go deaf.
Here in California a patient had to sue a major medical provider because they denied surgery calling it 'cosmetic.' Ridiculous. I bet if this condition mostly impacted men it would be a different story.
Thank you soo much for sharing this video.. I have been diagnosed. I’m from Melbourne Australia and it’s not really recognised here. The surgeons here in Australia that do operate on lipedema are charging $20,000 for legs per surgery per section and arms is $14,000 for both arms. So thank you for sharing your surgeon as I’m looking at going to do it overseas when I’m really. All the best with your recovery and journey x
The beauty of your inner "self" shines far brighter than any diagnosis. My housemate has lipodema & this video has finally accepted the reality. Thank you so much for your bravery! ❤ I wish you every success! Bless you sweetheart! If I were your Mum, I would be so proud of you!
Please do not take this the wrong way. I’m not being condescending but this is so brave of you. The amount of research you’ve done and your honesty is so impressive and touching. I’m glad you’re tackling this and seeking a solution. I wish you the best and pray for a successful outcome.
When you posted your original video years ago that was the first I had ever heard of lipedema and gave me a possible answer to what I might be going through. It made me feel like I wasn’t alone in my struggle, thank you for that and for being so open with your struggles over the years. Wishing you all the love and luck on your surgeries and recovery x
i've always been so sad about my legs and seeing someone else have similar legs to mine and being confident to share it makes me feel so much better about mine. Knowing I'm not the only one
I watched your surgery video years ago, and when I was diagnosed with lipedema a year an a half ago I remembered that you mentioned it in your video. Just that minor mention of it made me feel like I was not alone with this illness. When you're talking about your view on yourself and your struggles with having lipedema it resonates with me, as I have had very similar experiences. It's so difficult to not be hard on yourself or judge your own body when having this condition, at least for me. I'm still working on accepting that I have it, but it's getting better. I hope to one day also undergo the surgery once I can afford it. I just want to thank you for talking about this and for opening up about your situation. I wish you good luck with your surgeries and speedy recoveries! I will continue to follow your journey! Thank you ❤
@@notjust_mrun Hi! From my own experience I didn’t feel any pain in my legs or arms until about 2 years ago. That’s when I started to feel a dull ache in my legs or a burning sore feeling in my arms. However, I mostly feel the pain if I haven’t worn my compression for a few days or if I have been eating unhealthy for a few days in a row. I think everyone is different regarding if they feel pain or not, and what symptoms they experience 🤍
Thank you for such an informative video. I have been on a journey losing weight after a diagnosis and questioned why some parts of me were staying the same. Thank you for sharing. 🙏
What kind of Specialist can diagnosis lipedema? I have seen Endocrinologist, Rheumatologist, Dermatologist, Internal Medicine (my Primary Care Physician, & General Surgeon over last 5 years. I am in constant pain in lower legs & bruises everywhere! The lipomas (?) are growing larger & more painful; new ones coming in often.
Thank you for making this video and i can feel that you care about people when you try to give them trigger warning and explaining what they are going to see. I don’t have problems seeing those but i do appreciate it. I wish you a painless and fast recovery both physically and mentally. Always supporting you💓
this is one of the many reasons why i love and adore you so much. it doesn't get more transparent than this and i can't thank you enough for being so honest and open about your struggles with weight/body image issues. the internet is such a dark place sometimes but just know that the people who troll you are most likely miserable and unhappy with themselves so they hide behind a screen. your legs are wonderful, they allow you to walk and get around which is what they're there for! you are so so worthy of happiness no matter how your body may look. i'm so happy you've finally figured out the right route to take in order to make your life a bit easier due to lipedema. if i was struggling with this condition as well i can confidently say that this video would mean so much to me. surely you are helping so many people out there who can relate to your story and i hope you know how incredible you are for doing so. you are such a light in this world and i just hope you never beat yourself up again for things that are out of your control
Hi there, so good you are Educating about lipodeama. Good luck with managing your condition. Lymphoedema (water logging and swelling under the skin) is also awful with very little support unless it is cancer related. There are 100%needs to be more support for lipodeama and Lymphoedema sufferers. Patients should not need to be travelling abroad for help.
Hey Gabs! I’ve followed you for years, I’m 37 mum of four and have always loved watching you grown and change. You are such a kind soul and I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through such a high level of unimaginable unkindness, bullying and trolling! It makes me sick to think of someone taking precious time wasting it on messaging/commenting mean things makes me so mad! Well done for sharing your story, you’ve come such a long way. Be proud of the wonderful woman you’ve become, and you will continue to thrive. You’re amazing wonderful beautiful and super talented and creative! Well done for doing this video! It must have been so hard xxxx
Thank you for posting this, I remember your original video 6 years ago and I’m grateful you’ve posted this too, always wishing you the best and virtually supporting you through this journey x
I appreciate you and Melanie Murphy both talking about your body journeys even Louise Pentland helps encourage people to be happy and healthy all round and its just so refreshing to hear. Thank you again for giving your time to educate about something so personal xx
Omg the blue spotty top and chunky necklace combo! I used to copy that look from you! 🤣🥰 Thank you for opening up and being so vulnerable, sending lots of love xxx
This made me emotional - you are so brave!! Thank you for sharing with us, awareness is so important and I know this is something a lot of people struggle with in various degrees. You are so beautiful and deserve to feel good about yourself, I’m really excited for you and your journey 🫶🏼 lots of love and hope you have a speedy recovery 🥰
I wish I could like this video more than once. I'm really proud of you for posting this video and for being so vulnerable. Wishing you a speedy recovery! ♥
I am just discovering information about this condition which I believe I have too. I have worked on improving my fitness for the last several years and I am in the best shape I’ve been in probably ever too, but my legs are still disproportionately larger than my body! I suspect this might also explain some adjacent health issues that my doctors have never been able to explain that involve my legs, and discomfort. I’m definitely about to do tons of research for myself, but I highly appreciated your video and I look forward to hearing about how your recovery goes, which I imagine must be out on your page. Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your story!
It's so strange because I was a ballerina in top shape in my youth and after the age 18 it just seemed like I was gaining weight from no longer doing such rigorous exercises a couple days a week. By the time I was 25 it was apparent that my legs were different and I finally recognized it in my mom. We have stage 1 but it had progressed a lot, and almost have stage 2 although my upper body has always remained thin. I have heard so many abusive words in my life about how I never exercised enough, even if I would 2-3 times a week and was not sedentary. After my second baby was born my diastasis recti was worse and I learned about lipedema. It seemed so unfair. After having PCOS acne all my adulthood that only changed when I became vegan and my cycle became normal, then I was faced with some leg condition that would be difficult to manage. I have always envied others for their thin legs, even larger women whose ankles were nicer than mine. But eventually I began having progress with doing lipedema lymph massage, doing daily leg flutters 5 mins x2 and also finally being able to wear comfortable compression socks. I really have had a lot of progress on it although it seems like an upward battle because it never ends as I always have to maintain an extremely healthy diet, and enough special exercises. But it is exhausting. I could always tell that other people wondered what was wrong with me, but now I am not as self conscious about it anymore... Phew... I am definitely glad there is more awareness as many people don't realize that they can make some improvements, especially if they catch it early on. I think extra sugars and Omega 6? (peanut butter) are linked to lipedema also.
Oh wow! I relate so much to your comment right down to being a ballerina 😮 when I was bullied for my legs as a teenager at school my mum told me they were that way because I did so much ballet they were more muscular. But having hated my heavy legs my whole life, I’m now 39 and realising I may have lipoedema but don’t know what to do about it.
@@itsmaggiemoomoo HUGS Maggie... It will take time but you will learn to heal the way you feel about your legs!! And truth is, my husband likes my legs and he's totally fit, so just saying people of all sorts probably find you a beautiful gem!!
I think hormones play a big part , i have stage 1/2, it started around 51. But now that i am more informed about what is going on , i pretty much live on a ketogenic lifestyle
Honestly, thank you thank you thank you for sharing your story. My mom and I got diagnosed with lipedema in 2020 and it was a blessing to hear that it wasn’t our faults after hearing for years that we “just needed to work out and diet to lose the weight”My mom got her surgeries in the U.S in 2020 and it changed her life. Lipedema needs to be discussed more and you are a hero for those of us wishing to see more inclusivity in media. Wishing you all the best in this next chapter!!! We are rooting for you :)
I wish I knew you personally. I do hope that you continue to work on your mental health. I have lipedema in my arms and legs. So I get it. My frustration is when people tell me that I should do .... and not have a clue on what this condition really is. Thank you for being so transparent. I send love and blessing to you.
omgg it's very likely i have the same in my arms & legs (never wore a tank top in my life wohoo) & i'm so scared bc i can't afford the surgeries 😞 i'll watch the video when i'm ready bc it's a bit too triggering rn but i wish you the best on your journey!! you're so strong for dealing with it x
I’ve been watching you since the beginning and I am so proud of how you’ve grown over the years. I hope this surgery is everything you need it to be. Thank you for sharing about such an important topic!
Thank you soo much…I am in tears as I didn’t not know I have this….i am in my 40’s and have made bullying myself normal, yes due what others used to tell me,I just joined them. I pray, I get the money to get these surgeries done. Thanks again🙏🏼
It's so nice and selfless that you have decided to share this journey and the pics/vids with us. I'm sure for anyone going through the same thing, this will help so much. I hope all of your surgeries go well and that you finally get to live the happier, carefree life that you want and deserve. xx
ohh I’m so sorry to hear you’ve been going through this for so long, but thank you for raising awareness about it! I have never heard about it before! I hope recovery is going well for you, excited to follow your journey, sending love 🫶🏼🫶🏼
Thank You, Thank You. You are amazing. I have this lipodema also. Its miserable. The older i get the worst it gets. Its crippling me. Thank You Sweet Soul. You are beautiful and amazing. Sending You lots of love and happiness 😊🩷
It is great to hear all these fantastic things. I SO admire your courage and tenacity to help yourself. Sometimes it’s all up to us and the NHS just takes a back seat, so be it. These days almost EVERYONE a has some kind of aesthetic procedure to the point where most of the time I just ignore it. 95% probably unnecessary. And they never give up and become human monsters. Your situation is entirely different. It’s a medical as well as a mental procedure and I commend u for recognizing the need for both. Unbelievable sensitivity on the subject; amazing never give up attitude when u know there is obviously correct treatment for your condition. Very, very impressive. I am thrilled for you, keep up the good work.
Lipodema is related to insulin resistance thus intermittent fasting and keto type diet can be helpful. Check out the work of Dr. Jason Fung on insulin resistance. May God bless you and all women (and men) dealing with this issue.
I’m sorry theNHS hasn’t been more helpful for you. I suspect if this condition mainly affected men rather than women it would be a completely different story.
Many conditions that mainly affect women have a massive amount of misinformation and are the least funded. Historical mysogony still affects this. Many conditions were catagorised as female hysteria and are only now, through proper research, having the true cause revealed. Case study ME, Fibromyalgia, Endometriosis ect.
@@kham6006ipoedema is considered extremely rare in men, men have to have very high oestrogen levels or very low testosterone levels in order to have lipoedema. Just bc you know a man with it doesn’t mean it’s an equal opportunity disease, it’s literally caused by female hormones, you’re making yourself look stupid.
@K Ham Lipedema does affect women a whole lot more. There are many underlying conditions that cause it to happen within women. It can affect men, but it is extremely rare in males. Men who do have this condition all have one thing in common. Their testosterone levels are too low, and they have increased estrogen levels. Your nephew should have a blood test taken and have his hormones balanced out!
@@kham6006 go educate yourself and put on some reading glasses. The comment at which you snapped made a very VALID point. Men are absolutely NOT the most affected gender 🤌🤌🤌🤌
so proud of you! you are one of the best people to follow and watch on social media. you’re such an inspiration. followed you for years and have always had so much respect for you and always will
Thank you for educating us! I personally don't have lipodema, but I've been through bullying as a teenager & kid, so I know how much this affects you, even through adulthood. For me, my acne prone skin is still an insecurity & something I've spent a lot of money on... What makes me mad, is that Lipodema surgeries often aren't covered by insurance. I just looked it up for Germany and it is possible to get it covered if you have stage 3! But that only changed a couple years ago....
You're so amazing, Gabriella. I cannot believe all that you've gone through and what you're doing to better yourself. As someone who has spent the last two years finally living the life I have wanted to live, though not in the same way as you, I know the strength it takes to make those choices and it's a lot. Cannot wait to see you on the other side of this, stronger and more confident then you already are. Sending so much love your way ❤❤❤❤
gabby i wish you all the best. My first operation is on February 13th and at least 3 more will follow. I have lipedema everywhere except calves. I really hope that the surgeries will help us. I send you a lot of strength and patience!
I have watched you since the very beginning and I’m so proud of you for speaking up about your experience so openly! I hope you know that you’ll be helping so many people with this!!! Thank you!
Thank you for sharing all of this. As someone who has followed you for YEARS, I'm so proud of the long way you've come even though I don't personally know you. I'm so sorry you had to go through all that and take so long for someone to recognise your health problem. Thank you for educating all of us, coming from someone who's studying to become a doctor, I had no idea lipedema exists but I really do hope the awareness for it increases because there's not enough people taking women's issues seriously. I hope this really changes your life for the better and you finally get the peace you deserve
Gabbie I’m so fucking proud of you. I know that this was incredibly hard for you to share and you’re so brave. I’ve been watching you for so long and seeing this shift in you (being who you are unapologetically) makes me so incredibly happy and proud. I hope this surgery/process is everything you wish for and more. As someone who has been in a larger body and a smaller body I appreciate you sharing. Sending you all the love❤
It is so nice to see a youtuber be honest for once and letting everyone know that you guys are human as well! I have watched your videos forever and think you're such a beautiful person. I cannot wait for you to be comfortable and confident in your body! Wishing you so much luck and wishing for safe and healthy recoveries from your surgery
Thank you for sharing. I think I've always struggled with this, but has become very prominent since my hysterectomy. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story.❤
Really admire you talking about this and spreading awareness as I had no idea of the condition and what people go through with it, more people to know this exists. Thank you for sharing your story 💖
It's so strange because I was a ballerina in top shape in my youth and after the age 18 it just seemed like I was gaining weight from no longer doing such rigorous exercises a couple days a week. By the time I was 25 it was apparent that my legs were different and I finally recognized it in my mom. We have stage 1 but it had progressed a lot, and almost have stage 2 although my upper body has always remained thin. I have heard so many abusive words in my life about how I never exercised enough, even if I would 2-3 times a week and was not sedentary. After my second baby was born my diastasis recti was worse and I learned about lipedema. It seemed so unfair. After having PCOS acne all my adulthood that only changed when I became vegan and my cycle became normal, then I was faced with some leg condition that would be difficult to manage. I have always envied others for their thin legs, even larger women whose ankles were nicer than mine. But eventually I began having progress with doing lipedema lymph massage, doing daily leg flutters 5 mins x2 and also finally being able to wear comfortable compression socks. I really have had a lot of progress on it although it seems like an upward battle because it never ends as I always have to maintain an extremely healthy diet, and enough special exercises. But it is exhausting. I could always tell that other people wondered what was wrong with me, but now I am not as self conscious about it anymore... Phew... I am definitely glad there is more awareness as many people don't realize that they can make some improvements, especially if they catch it early on. I think extra sugars and Omega 6? (peanut butter) are linked to lipedema also.
Gabrielle you are a trooper. My daughter has been suffering for last 4 yrs. We noticed that at 40 was going when diagnosed with perimenopause, her limps began to enlarge. I live in Los Angeles, California with no luck with a medical facility that is knowledge. Thank you for openly sharing your medical information. God bless you! Louise
thank you Gabriella ..., you have just expressed so well all of my passed 30 years experience ... thank you thank you thank you ❤️🙏 i am looking forward to hear about your surgeries and find out how the outcome ! un GROS MERCI ! lucie
Thank you for sharing. Now that I am almost 66 years old I realized since puberty I have Lipodema. I have it in my arms and legs. I have 6 sisters in which none had this problem. We all had a weight problem however they were all heavier in their belly and had thin legs and arms. I feel it is too late in life for surgery so I will continue swimming and walking when the pain is bearable. So glad they have a name for this. Good luck with your surgery. You are beautiful with or without surgery.
I am your age,and my sister used to tease me as my leg looked like a tree.Thanks God it didn’t affect my self esteem. It’s good to know I am not alone.
As someone who has been bullied all her life for her weight my heart breaks for you because I’ve been there too. It’s honestly amazing how strong you are and I know it can’t have been easy to talk about something you feel insecure about but just by doing this you are helping so many people, feel seen and know they aren’t alone. Just by bringing attention to this condition. Wishing you a speedy recovery and all the best for your journey xx
I never comment on videos but I just want to say a massive thank you for spreading awareness. Like you I’ve also had a sleeve but my legs are huge compared to the rest of me. I’m a size 10 top and 20-22 bottom and I can’t shift any more weight! Doctors have always ruled this out as just a weight problem but you pushed me to go and again speak to my GP who is now agreeing with me and can now see that it is definitely Lipoedema!
Thank you for sharing and spreading this message. I am also saddened by how much we torture ourselves before diagnosis and the opportunities we've passed up. I am hoping to have surgery as well at some point so I will be keeping this doc in mind when the time comes.🤞
I thank you so much for spreading awareness about this awful disease. I was diagnosed a year and a half ago, everything makes sense now! Unfortunately mine is quite severe in all of my limbs and with the 60% chance surgery cannot help me… 90 grand is so much money for 40% chance of it working 😢 xx
Bravo! Thank you for sharing all of this for anyone else dealing with it but also for those of us who need to understand better and be more compassionate about this struggle. Also, it is so refreshing to hear a young woman (or any woman) to say “x” size is more suitable and healthy for them than some smaller size. That is such a mature and healthy view that I hope to hear more often. Hoping you are recovering well from your first surgery.
Thank you so, so, so much for this. I’m at the tail end of a horrible relationship with food and exercise as a result of my struggle with this. I just moved to the UK so i’m getting into continuing my journey here. Your video felt like you were talking directly to me- very cozy and safe.
Me too! Same age and I had no idea that I had it. My knees have been so painful that I had to stop doing crossfit even though I know exercise is important. Even walking a few miles takes a bit to recover from. I hope you have found ways to manage it. I am on that path now.
Love this video. I have only recently been diagnosed with lipederma too. And have had it since puberty. Think your great for raising awareness of it. Hope the surgery goes well xx
I have watched you since you used to wear the outfit you described, I wanted to dress like you so badly! This is such a brave thing to show us all, and good for you for getting the surgery to make you feel your best self! 💕💕
This is the video I needed today and didn’t realize it. Thank you for sharing your journey Gabby! It’s amazing to see how much you’ve blossomed emotionally and physically over the years. ❤
Thank you for sharing this. It’s such a personal topic and I know how hard it can be to put yourself out there. People can be so cruel and not even know what health issues we suffer in silence. I wish you the best of luck❤
Your youtube short made me realise this is what me and all my maternal side of the family have!! This makes me so happy to know the pain isnt normal, the heaviness isnt my fault, and theres stuff I can do about it!
Thank you for sharing! It was so helpful for me to hear ur experience!Your experience is similar exactly to my lifetime story. I’m 27 years old now. And I was unsatisfied with my body since my childhood. I spent my whole life at gyms.. all my trials resulted with failure. I was disappointed and depressed for years and years! Still searching and trying to find a solution. Thanks a lot
I was there and 16 in 2014 and the hate was disgusting and insane. I'm so proud of u and how far you e come and how much you have grown in confidence. You have always been beautiful Gab I'm so glad you're feeling it
A lovely lady, and I love the hints of (what sounds like) a northern accent coming through. (I am not from the UK). Having watched the whole video, I think you are so switched on and amazingly brave for your young age! Thank you for the education and all the best!
Wow Gabby. Massive respect for being so open and raising awareness. Our relationships with our bodies can be so so difficult. Wishing you all the very best for your surgeries. Really hope you get the outcome you want x
Aww Gabbie!!! You’re beautiful inside and out, so sorry you’ve had to endure such nasty comments throughout the years! Really proud of you for sharing your story❣️ wishing you a speedy recovery, can’t wait for you to feel as beautiful as you are!! xx
Wow this is the video I have been looking for. I’m 3.5 years post op gastric sleeve and you’re right nothing I do have moved my big legs. I came across on instagram about lipedema and your the first you tube video I have come across. Away to watch more of your videos. Thanks so much for sharing.
Can't even put into words how happy and relieved I am for you, this is gonna be a massive change in your quality of life!! Hope the pain is manageable and you're doing ok after the 1st surgery! All my love to Spain! ❤️❤️
Okay but I am so proud of you for being so open about this. I've watched your channel for years and I know how hard this has all been on you (within reason, obviously you haven't shown it all). This is incredible and I'm happy you're able to do this for yourself. I hope it does everything you want it need it to do. Fingers crossed for you!
Amazing that you are doing what you need to do to better your life. You mentioned the surgery is being kindly gifted I did see a comment from a "Carlie M" who has lipoedema but can't afford surgery. Maybe you could pay it forward? You don't have to but its a nice suggestion. Good luck with your surgery x
So eloquently and delicately put, every step of the way. This vulnerability is incredible and as a long time subscriber, so happy for any peace of mind and comfort this journey will bring you. Wishing you the best ❤️
Hi Gabbie! Thank you so much for this video. it so brave of you to share such personal part of your life, thanks for being so open and vulnerable. Wish you all the best❤
so happy for you Gabriella, you deserve a life without feeling self conscious, you're gonna look and feel banging ! can't wait to see you living your best life once you've recovered 💞
I had to wait until I was mentally ready to watch this video but I knew I wanted to! I'm so proud of you (and I truly hope you are proud of yourself!) For talking about your struggles in this video! I've been watching you since you were still living at home with your parents and I've been so appalled over the years watching faceless people on the internet attacking you over your appearance, your surgeries and your health.. who attacks someone over their health!? You have come so far since those early days! You've become such a confident bright person in recent vlogs and it makes me so happy to see! I'm so happy you're getting the help you need for your lipidema and I wish you all the best for any remaining procedures ❤❤❤❤ you're an amazing person and you deserve happiness like everyone deserves ❤ lots of love from a long time follower in Australia ❤
You are incredible. You educated me at the same as you helped me understand what it’s like for someone to go through this on a personal level. Thank you so much for making this video 💛
I'm so sorry for you. Thank you for the awareness you're bringing to people suffering with the same issues. You're a beautiful person. I hope that you'll find peace and that the surgeries will be successful.
You have been through hell and back and I appreciate you sharing this difficult part of your journey. If you are ready to share this beyond your subscribers, would you consider including "lipedema" in the title of this video? I am certain it will help many people who are searching for videos when they themselves get diagnosed. Sending love.💓
Thank you for your brave sharing! I really appreciate the education; I never knew what caused lipodemia before. I am so glad that you have chosen what will empower you to feel better and look the way you want to.
I wish you all the best for your surgery and recovery❤️ I've heard how painful and uncomfortable lipedema is. I can't imagine how hard it must be to live with this every day. You're so strong! Sending you lots of love❤️
This is such a helpful video. I was diagnosed in 2023. Im currently recovering from my first surgery. It has been one of the most painful, depressing things I’ve gone through, but it feels like a light to have another person share their story. Thank you for sharing, there is such little education about this topic and so many people feel alone bc of that fact. I’m so proud of you for sharing! You’re beautiful and strong !
How do you feel after your surgery?
Lipodema is related to insulin resistance thus intermittent fasting and keto type diet can be helpful. Check out the work of Dr. Jason Fung on insulin resistance. May God bless you and all women (and men) dealing with this issue.
Women's heath is something that needs to be talked about more so thank you for making such an in-depth and informed video. Wishing you all the best & a speedy recovery! xx
Not being able to wear shorts during the summer is a bummer. I’m so glad to have found you and this video! You did a great job explaining everything. Blessings to you on your journey. ❤
Please wear your shorts. 🙏 I used to hide my legs for many years until I learned to love and accept my body. Now I wear my shorts and could care less what anyone thinks 😊
Im 63 amd wore them for the first time thus summer very liberating
This has affected me my whole life. So please you were able to get help and surgery. It brings me so down. I avoid social situations and dressing up. it's robbed me of any self confidence. It's comforting to know I'm not alone. I hope I am able to afford the surgery one day.
@@kaykhanom live your life fully irrespective of size. God made you beautiful. Wear what you feel good in. Go out meet people and have fun.
Don’t let it consume you. This is Gods test for you and you are going to ace it .
Lots of love to you.
This is such a great partnership between you and the doctor to bring awareness to people suffering from this.
As a student nurse, this video was super informative. Thank you for teaching me something new. I also appreciate your personal story surrounding your diagnosis. It’s always helpful to understand the psychological effects of pathologies because it helps to understand my patients and to empathize better :) wish you all the best and I will be watching your journey with the surgery and recovery ❤
Not a lot of influencers have the courage to be honest about when they're doing an advert in exchange for free stuff and I think it's cool that you made everyone aware. Since I'm seeing this video well behind time I'm really looking forward to seeing the follow up videos - if I was watching this at the time, I'd have also said good luck with your surgery!
I was diagnosed with Lipoedema last year and the relief I felt in knowing why my arms and legs were always so different and disproportionate was intense. I’ve struggle with an ED for over 15 years and always thought it was my fault that my arms and legs barely looked any different and although I still struggle with my ED, it has definitely helped knowing it wasn’t my fault or anything I was or wasn’t doing. I’m so desperate to have surgery but I think it will be quite a while before I can afford it.
Thank you so much for raising awareness for this. I feel like it needs much more recognition in the medical field and general society.
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! for bringing awareness to this disease. I was diagnosed 27 years ago when I was 10. I had my first 'lowers' surgery in April, have uppers surgery next month and arms a few weeks later. I see so many women with this disease who have no idea. I wouldn't wish this disease on anyone.
I also have Hoshimotos, which I also wouldn’t wish on anyone. Having the two combined, as I do, is soul crushing 😞
I chance found your video. It has explained the many detrimental comments from men i have known,including my ex husband. I always thought it was just my shape which i was unlucky enough to have inherited from my mother. I am now 67 years old, and while i would be over the moon to have the surgery, i will never be able to afford it and feel im probably too old now anyway. But how it would have changed my life and self esteem! No more hiding under the longest skirts i could find or pants long enough to cover my ankles. I had one ex partner ask me if there was something wrong with me that he should know about because my legs were disproportionate to the rest of my body. I felt so hurt. Unfortunately, he was only one of a number of men asking the same question. Needless to say, i have been single since my divorce 25 years ago. Thankyou
Same! I am also your age and have remained single since my 20's due to my legs. Interesting enough, I weight 138 pounds but the disparity between my toro and legs is ridiculous. I hate the summers.
That’s sad, I wish you the best in your next life.
I’m so glad I found your channel! I’m 53 and for the past few years my body shape has changed drastically and for a long time I felt so awful about myself. Why were my other menopause-aged friends who were overweight not covered in lumps and shaped oddly like I was? I know why now and have been educating myself all about Lipodema. I’m hoping to find a good doctor (I’m in America) to do the surgery before this progresses any further. In the meantime, I’m cutting carbs in the hope that I can lower the weight that I CAN control and be the healthiest I can be for the life-changing/life-restoring surgery I know I will have one day. God bless you and your bravery for speaking about your journey to help others along. Thank you!
Are you confusing Lymphoedema with lipodema?
Veronica it is clear u did not watch the video properly or are too silly to understand this is not lymphoedema
I’m 55 and my troubles began when my thyroid went haywire at 30 years old. I shot up from 117 to 209 pounds in less than three years. I was finally diagnosed with hashimotos thyroid disease and bad hormone imbalance. At 48 years old, I finally found a doctor who got me on the right thyroid medication and hormone replacement therapy. I got down to 127 pounds and felt mentally great, but I noticed my arms developed very large bat wings and I can now feel lots of hard “beads” under my skin. My legs, knees, and ankles, are so lumpy and misshapen. Now at 55 and in menopause, no matter what I do, I am unable to lose weight. My legs look worse every day. My arms embarrass me, so I never wear short sleeves even in summer. Not one doctor has ever mentioned lipodema to me in my life. I’m also going to look in my area in the US for doctors who are knowledgeable about this. Good luck with your research!
@@SDsearchergood luck finding a doctor. Most women are self diagnosing this because doctors don’t recognize this disease. There’s a channel on here from a plastic surgeon in California that does this type of surgery. To be honest it’s all plastic surgeons I’ve seen. Which is fd up that we’re getting health advice from plastic surgeons and not actual doctors. Make that make sense. Good thing we all pay out the ass every year for health insurance, to then have to get answers from a plas surgeon and pay out of pocket thousands of dollars. 🤦♀️
@scray00, FYI: Plastic surgeons ARE real doctors
My friend died during her lipedema op, 38 years old due to get married and wanted to look her best. A blood clot went to her brain and she never regained consciousness and died 5 weeks later. Give careful consideration and do extensive research of the risks involved. That said, i wish everyone well who has this surgery.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend.
❤ sorry to hear of your friend loss of life 🙏🏻
@@rubberbiscuit99 Thank you for your empathy.
@@EmbracingReality Thank you for your empathy.
This is exactly the reason I would never do any invasive surgery, unless it was to save my life. Thank you for sharing. Your friend's story will be remembered. It really helps people like me, 29 years old, mom, and wife make more informed decisions.
I was just diagnosed at 37 and I’m sad that doctors don’t know about this and no one diagnosed me earlier. Thanks for your video it’s very helpful
How did you get your doctor to diagnose you? If I may ask. My Primary care doctor. She just says your fat, diet. Well I hardly eat, and still cam not lose weight. My feet ankles, legs are swollen. On my second Lasix medication. No weight loss. Just swollen legs face, arms legs feet. I am so sadden. My doctor will not let me get treatment for it. I am trying to find another doctor f9r a 2nd opinion.
Im 63 and just now finding out about it.
@@lovepugs05 I saw you commented awhile ago so hopefully this is still helpful. I have a consultation with a specialist at a plastic surgery clinic that treats Lipedema specifically. I would look for Lipedema clinics and call to see if they diagnose. I called one place and they said I had to have a prior diagnosis before the consultation, but the one I'm going to diagnoses as part of the consultation. Unfortunately, I have to pay out of pocket, but in my area (the Pacific Northwest) I've found consultation prices to be $100-$300
I have been following you for years, but hadn’t watched in a while. This video just popped up today and I am so glad it did! I was diagnosed with Lymphedema 10 years ago and Lipedema 3 years ago. There is a huge community online for support that I have found helpful. I am hopeful to have surgery in the next few years. So proud of you!
I have watched you for many years. This video made me emotional for the simple fact of how brave you are to share your story and being so open. No doubt you have been through a lot and had to hide something so personal. that none of us knew about... So thank you for sharing. Im sure there are people who have this who may be at home suffering secretly as well. x
thank you 💞🥹
@@velvetgh0st 💜
I’m extremely grateful that you made this video. I have lipedema and it started at puberty, got worse when I was put on birth control at 14, worse again with each pregnancy, and even worse when I was put on another birth control for endometriosis. Hormones play a huge role and I’ve been told it can get worse again at menopause. I’m 36 and will soon be having my first surgery which I wanted so much sooner but insurance doesn’t cover removal and my husband has always dismissed it as not important. It just destroys my confidence and self image.
the best of luck with your first surgery. i can't tell you how much confidence it's given me already 💖 im sorry your husband dismissed it. sending you love x
I've seen a short video from you with the surgery. It was the first time I've heard of the term "lipedema" and all my struggles for the past 24years finally got an answer. I never felt comfortable to wear short pants or skirts. All the exercise in the world didn't help me, I was a semi-pro swimmer and semi-pro handball player, my day consisted in 8-10hours of phisical training, 2-3h laisure time spend playing tennis or other sports and sleep. Never ever felt comfortable when going out to wear anything other than long pants. Never could fit a pair of boots on my calves other than military boots. Thank you kindly for sharing your story and bringing light into mine.
You are beautiful inside & out. Thank you for sharing. I’m 53 years old & thanks to you, I now understand why I look the way I look. I understand why I eat so clean & healthy and still look the way I look. Thank you!!!
I've just been to my GP to talk about it and not sure what was I expecting but she basically laughed me off for finding something online and thinking I have it. She had no clue about lipedema. I proceeded to explain my symptoms and then she apologised and said she'd refer me to a specialist in the future but it made me feel so unheard. As if I was looking for an excuse. I feel like printing every piece of info and research about lipedema and sending it to the clinic. I'll definitely have to go way more prepared to the next appointment. I feels so wrong to teach your doctor about something. You really loose thrust in Irish doctors
Why I don’t go to the doctor. I get treated like I don’t have a mind of my own, just a silly old lady
It’s not just Irish doctors. They are not taught anything at all about lipedema in medical school, so they are clueless. They think we are making excuses for our weight, and just go deaf.
Get a different doctor. Fire your doctor
Here in California a patient had to sue a major medical provider because they denied surgery calling it 'cosmetic.' Ridiculous. I bet if this condition mostly impacted men it would be a different story.
OMG I'm so sorry. My nd actually was the one that told me I had it.
Thank you soo much for sharing this video.. I have been diagnosed. I’m from Melbourne Australia and it’s not really recognised here. The surgeons here in Australia that do operate on lipedema are charging $20,000 for legs per surgery per section and arms is $14,000 for both arms. So thank you for sharing your surgeon as I’m looking at going to do it overseas when I’m really. All the best with your recovery and journey x
The beauty of your inner "self" shines far brighter than any diagnosis. My housemate has lipodema & this video has finally accepted the reality. Thank you so much for your bravery! ❤ I wish you every success! Bless you sweetheart! If I were your Mum, I would be so proud of you!
So proud of you gabbie, I really hope this will help you feel more body confident. You deserve the world❤️
aww thank you 💕
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Please do not take this the wrong way. I’m not being condescending but this is so brave of you. The amount of research you’ve done and your honesty is so impressive and touching. I’m glad you’re tackling this and seeking a solution. I wish you the best and pray for a successful outcome.
thank you so much 💞
When you posted your original video years ago that was the first I had ever heard of lipedema and gave me a possible answer to what I might be going through. It made me feel like I wasn’t alone in my struggle, thank you for that and for being so open with your struggles over the years. Wishing you all the love and luck on your surgeries and recovery x
i've always been so sad about my legs and seeing someone else have similar legs to mine and being confident to share it makes me feel so much better about mine. Knowing I'm not the only one
don't be sad about your legs hun.
I watched your surgery video years ago, and when I was diagnosed with lipedema a year an a half ago I remembered that you mentioned it in your video. Just that minor mention of it made me feel like I was not alone with this illness. When you're talking about your view on yourself and your struggles with having lipedema it resonates with me, as I have had very similar experiences. It's so difficult to not be hard on yourself or judge your own body when having this condition, at least for me. I'm still working on accepting that I have it, but it's getting better. I hope to one day also undergo the surgery once I can afford it. I just want to thank you for talking about this and for opening up about your situation. I wish you good luck with your surgeries and speedy recoveries! I will continue to follow your journey! Thank you ❤
sending so much love to you. i know how hard it is to live with so my heart goes out to anyone else struggling 💖
Hey can you please tell me if lipedema is necessarily painful? Because I have the symptoms. The same kind of legs and hips but no pain
@@notjust_mrun Hi! From my own experience I didn’t feel any pain in my legs or arms until about 2 years ago. That’s when I started to feel a dull ache in my legs or a burning sore feeling in my arms. However, I mostly feel the pain if I haven’t worn my compression for a few days or if I have been eating unhealthy for a few days in a row. I think everyone is different regarding if they feel pain or not, and what symptoms they experience 🤍
Thank you for such an informative video. I have been on a journey losing weight after a diagnosis and questioned why some parts of me were staying the same. Thank you for sharing. 🙏
What kind of Specialist can diagnosis lipedema?
I have seen Endocrinologist, Rheumatologist, Dermatologist, Internal Medicine (my Primary Care Physician, & General Surgeon over last 5 years. I am in constant pain in lower legs & bruises everywhere!
The lipomas (?) are growing larger & more painful; new ones coming in often.
Thank you for making this video and i can feel that you care about people when you try to give them trigger warning and explaining what they are going to see. I don’t have problems seeing those but i do appreciate it. I wish you a painless and fast recovery both physically and mentally. Always supporting you💓
thank you 💞 sending you love x
this is one of the many reasons why i love and adore you so much. it doesn't get more transparent than this and i can't thank you enough for being so honest and open about your struggles with weight/body image issues. the internet is such a dark place sometimes but just know that the people who troll you are most likely miserable and unhappy with themselves so they hide behind a screen. your legs are wonderful, they allow you to walk and get around which is what they're there for! you are so so worthy of happiness no matter how your body may look. i'm so happy you've finally figured out the right route to take in order to make your life a bit easier due to lipedema. if i was struggling with this condition as well i can confidently say that this video would mean so much to me. surely you are helping so many people out there who can relate to your story and i hope you know how incredible you are for doing so. you are such a light in this world and i just hope you never beat yourself up again for things that are out of your control
Hi there, so good you are Educating about lipodeama. Good luck with managing your condition. Lymphoedema (water logging and swelling under the skin) is also awful with very little support unless it is cancer related. There are 100%needs to be more support for lipodeama and Lymphoedema sufferers. Patients should not need to be travelling abroad for help.
Hey Gabs! I’ve followed you for years, I’m 37 mum of four and have always loved watching you grown and change. You are such a kind soul and I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through such a high level of unimaginable unkindness, bullying and trolling! It makes me sick to think of someone taking precious time wasting it on messaging/commenting mean things makes me so mad! Well done for sharing your story, you’ve come such a long way. Be proud of the wonderful woman you’ve become, and you will continue to thrive. You’re amazing wonderful beautiful and super talented and creative! Well done for doing this video! It must have been so hard xxxx
Thank you for posting this, I remember your original video 6 years ago and I’m grateful you’ve posted this too, always wishing you the best and virtually supporting you through this journey x
thank you so so much 💓
I remember that video too!
I appreciate you and Melanie Murphy both talking about your body journeys even Louise Pentland helps encourage people to be happy and healthy all round and its just so refreshing to hear. Thank you again for giving your time to educate about something so personal xx
Omg the blue spotty top and chunky necklace combo! I used to copy that look from you! 🤣🥰
Thank you for opening up and being so vulnerable, sending lots of love xxx
This made me emotional - you are so brave!! Thank you for sharing with us, awareness is so important and I know this is something a lot of people struggle with in various degrees. You are so beautiful and deserve to feel good about yourself, I’m really excited for you and your journey 🫶🏼 lots of love and hope you have a speedy recovery 🥰
thank you so much jenny ♡
You're brave. Bless you, wishing you a speedy recovery! It's a life changing thing to go through.
🥺 thank you 💕
I wish I could like this video more than once. I'm really proud of you for posting this video and for being so vulnerable. Wishing you a speedy recovery! ♥
thank you!!! ♡
I am just discovering information about this condition which I believe I have too. I have worked on improving my fitness for the last several years and I am in the best shape I’ve been in probably ever too, but my legs are still disproportionately larger than my body! I suspect this might also explain some adjacent health issues that my doctors have never been able to explain that involve my legs, and discomfort. I’m definitely about to do tons of research for myself, but I highly appreciated your video and I look forward to hearing about how your recovery goes, which I imagine must be out on your page. Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your story!
It's so strange because I was a ballerina in top shape in my youth and after the age 18 it just seemed like I was gaining weight from no longer doing such rigorous exercises a couple days a week. By the time I was 25 it was apparent that my legs were different and I finally recognized it in my mom. We have stage 1 but it had progressed a lot, and almost have stage 2 although my upper body has always remained thin. I have heard so many abusive words in my life about how I never exercised enough, even if I would 2-3 times a week and was not sedentary. After my second baby was born my diastasis recti was worse and I learned about lipedema. It seemed so unfair. After having PCOS acne all my adulthood that only changed when I became vegan and my cycle became normal, then I was faced with some leg condition that would be difficult to manage. I have always envied others for their thin legs, even larger women whose ankles were nicer than mine. But eventually I began having progress with doing lipedema lymph massage, doing daily leg flutters 5 mins x2 and also finally being able to wear comfortable compression socks. I really have had a lot of progress on it although it seems like an upward battle because it never ends as I always have to maintain an extremely healthy diet, and enough special exercises. But it is exhausting. I could always tell that other people wondered what was wrong with me, but now I am not as self conscious about it anymore... Phew... I am definitely glad there is more awareness as many people don't realize that they can make some improvements, especially if they catch it early on. I think extra sugars and Omega 6? (peanut butter) are linked to lipedema also.
Oh wow! I relate so much to your comment right down to being a ballerina 😮 when I was bullied for my legs as a teenager at school my mum told me they were that way because I did so much ballet they were more muscular. But having hated my heavy legs my whole life, I’m now 39 and realising I may have lipoedema but don’t know what to do about it.
@@itsmaggiemoomoo HUGS Maggie... It will take time but you will learn to heal the way you feel about your legs!! And truth is, my husband likes my legs and he's totally fit, so just saying people of all sorts probably find you a beautiful gem!!
@@angela_somanythings5670 thank you so much for your kind reply ❤️
I think hormones play a big part , i have stage 1/2, it started around 51. But now that i am more informed about what is going on , i pretty much live on a ketogenic lifestyle
@@angela_somanythings5670 being vegan is one of the worst things you can do for your health.
Honestly, thank you thank you thank you for sharing your story. My mom and I got diagnosed with lipedema in 2020 and it was a blessing to hear that it wasn’t our faults after hearing for years that we “just needed to work out and diet to lose the weight”My mom got her surgeries in the U.S in 2020 and it changed her life. Lipedema needs to be discussed more and you are a hero for those of us wishing to see more inclusivity in media. Wishing you all the best in this next chapter!!! We are rooting for you :)
Who did your mom’s surgery? I’m in Florida.
Hey can please know How much swelling got away after the surgery?
I wish I knew you personally. I do hope that you continue to work on your mental health. I have lipedema in my arms and legs. So I get it. My frustration is when people tell me that I should do .... and not have a clue on what this condition really is. Thank you for being so transparent. I send love and blessing to you.
omgg it's very likely i have the same in my arms & legs (never wore a tank top in my life wohoo) & i'm so scared bc i can't afford the surgeries 😞 i'll watch the video when i'm ready bc it's a bit too triggering rn but i wish you the best on your journey!! you're so strong for dealing with it x
I’ve been watching you since the beginning and I am so proud of how you’ve grown over the years. I hope this surgery is everything you need it to be. Thank you for sharing about such an important topic!
Thank you soo much…I am in tears as I didn’t not know I have this….i am in my 40’s and have made bullying myself normal, yes due what others used to tell me,I just joined them. I pray, I get the money to get these surgeries done. Thanks again🙏🏼
i am SO proud of you for opening up about this! ❤ you’re giving hope to more people than you even know with the information you’ve shared here
It's so nice and selfless that you have decided to share this journey and the pics/vids with us. I'm sure for anyone going through the same thing, this will help so much. I hope all of your surgeries go well and that you finally get to live the happier, carefree life that you want and deserve. xx
ohh I’m so sorry to hear you’ve been going through this for so long, but thank you for raising awareness about it! I have never heard about it before! I hope recovery is going well for you, excited to follow your journey, sending love 🫶🏼🫶🏼
So amazing of you to be so vulnerable and share this!! Thank you so much ❤️ Sending all the love xoxo
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Your openness and honesty are genuinely incredible. I'm really excited for you. I hope your recovery is going well.
Thank You, Thank You. You are amazing. I have this lipodema also. Its miserable. The older i get the worst it gets. Its crippling me. Thank You Sweet Soul. You are beautiful and amazing. Sending You lots of love and happiness 😊🩷
It is great to hear all these fantastic things. I SO admire your courage and tenacity to help yourself. Sometimes it’s all up to us and the NHS just takes a back seat, so be it. These days almost EVERYONE a has some kind of aesthetic procedure to the point where most of the time I just ignore it. 95% probably unnecessary. And they never give up and become human monsters. Your situation is entirely different. It’s a medical as well as a mental procedure and I commend u for recognizing the need for both. Unbelievable sensitivity on the subject; amazing never give up attitude when u know there is obviously correct treatment for your condition. Very, very impressive. I am thrilled for you, keep up the good work.
Lipodema is related to insulin resistance thus intermittent fasting and keto type diet can be helpful. Check out the work of Dr. Jason Fung on insulin resistance. May God bless you and all women (and men) dealing with this issue.
I stay away from sugar except fruit. I have this condition.
Everyone is different, different diets work for different bodies.
@@Thewritingisonthewallforusallnot even fruit sugar is sugar, it doesn’t matter the source.
I’m sorry theNHS hasn’t been more helpful for you. I suspect if this condition mainly affected men rather than women it would be a completely different story.
It does affect men. My nephew has it -stop w the fake oppressed woman syndrome
Many conditions that mainly affect women have a massive amount of misinformation and are the least funded. Historical mysogony still affects this. Many conditions were catagorised as female hysteria and are only now, through proper research, having the true cause revealed. Case study ME, Fibromyalgia, Endometriosis ect.
@@kham6006ipoedema is considered extremely rare in men, men have to have very high oestrogen levels or very low testosterone levels in order to have lipoedema. Just bc you know a man with it doesn’t mean it’s an equal opportunity disease, it’s literally caused by female hormones, you’re making yourself look stupid.
@K Ham Lipedema does affect women a whole lot more. There are many underlying conditions that cause it to happen within women.
It can affect men, but it is extremely rare in males. Men who do have this condition all have one thing in common. Their testosterone levels are too low, and they have increased estrogen levels.
Your nephew should have a blood test taken and have his hormones balanced out!
@@kham6006 go educate yourself and put on some reading glasses. The comment at which you snapped made a very VALID point. Men are absolutely NOT the most affected gender 🤌🤌🤌🤌
so proud of you! you are one of the best people to follow and watch on social media. you’re such an inspiration. followed you for years and have always had so much respect for you and always will
Thank you for educating us! I personally don't have lipodema, but I've been through bullying as a teenager & kid, so I know how much this affects you, even through adulthood. For me, my acne prone skin is still an insecurity & something I've spent a lot of money on...
What makes me mad, is that Lipodema surgeries often aren't covered by insurance. I just looked it up for Germany and it is possible to get it covered if you have stage 3! But that only changed a couple years ago....
You're so amazing, Gabriella. I cannot believe all that you've gone through and what you're doing to better yourself. As someone who has spent the last two years finally living the life I have wanted to live, though not in the same way as you, I know the strength it takes to make those choices and it's a lot. Cannot wait to see you on the other side of this, stronger and more confident then you already are. Sending so much love your way ❤❤❤❤
gabby i wish you all the best. My first operation is on February 13th and at least 3 more will follow. I have lipedema everywhere except calves. I really hope that the surgeries will help us. I send you a lot of strength and patience!
oh my gosh good luck!! 💞💞
I have watched you since the very beginning and I’m so proud of you for speaking up about your experience so openly! I hope you know that you’ll be helping so many people with this!!! Thank you!
Thank you for sharing all of this. As someone who has followed you for YEARS, I'm so proud of the long way you've come even though I don't personally know you. I'm so sorry you had to go through all that and take so long for someone to recognise your health problem. Thank you for educating all of us, coming from someone who's studying to become a doctor, I had no idea lipedema exists but I really do hope the awareness for it increases because there's not enough people taking women's issues seriously. I hope this really changes your life for the better and you finally get the peace you deserve
Gabbie I’m so fucking proud of you. I know that this was incredibly hard for you to share and you’re so brave. I’ve been watching you for so long and seeing this shift in you (being who you are unapologetically) makes me so incredibly happy and proud. I hope this surgery/process is everything you wish for and more. As someone who has been in a larger body and a smaller body I appreciate you sharing. Sending you all the love❤
It is so nice to see a youtuber be honest for once and letting everyone know that you guys are human as well! I have watched your videos forever and think you're such a beautiful person. I cannot wait for you to be comfortable and confident in your body! Wishing you so much luck and wishing for safe and healthy recoveries from your surgery
Thank you for sharing. I think I've always struggled with this, but has become very prominent since my hysterectomy. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story.❤
Really admire you talking about this and spreading awareness as I had no idea of the condition and what people go through with it, more people to know this exists. Thank you for sharing your story 💖
thank you! im glad you've learned something from this video 💞
It's so strange because I was a ballerina in top shape in my youth and after the age 18 it just seemed like I was gaining weight from no longer doing such rigorous exercises a couple days a week. By the time I was 25 it was apparent that my legs were different and I finally recognized it in my mom. We have stage 1 but it had progressed a lot, and almost have stage 2 although my upper body has always remained thin. I have heard so many abusive words in my life about how I never exercised enough, even if I would 2-3 times a week and was not sedentary. After my second baby was born my diastasis recti was worse and I learned about lipedema. It seemed so unfair. After having PCOS acne all my adulthood that only changed when I became vegan and my cycle became normal, then I was faced with some leg condition that would be difficult to manage. I have always envied others for their thin legs, even larger women whose ankles were nicer than mine. But eventually I began having progress with doing lipedema lymph massage, doing daily leg flutters 5 mins x2 and also finally being able to wear comfortable compression socks. I really have had a lot of progress on it although it seems like an upward battle because it never ends as I always have to maintain an extremely healthy diet, and enough special exercises. But it is exhausting. I could always tell that other people wondered what was wrong with me, but now I am not as self conscious about it anymore... Phew... I am definitely glad there is more awareness as many people don't realize that they can make some improvements, especially if they catch it early on. I think extra sugars and Omega 6? (peanut butter) are linked to lipedema also.
Congratulations that you are fighting back. Yes!!! I am happy for you.
Gabrielle you are a trooper. My daughter has been suffering for last 4 yrs. We noticed that at 40 was going when diagnosed with perimenopause, her limps began to enlarge. I live in Los Angeles, California with no luck with a medical facility that is knowledge. Thank you for openly sharing your medical information. God bless you! Louise
Contact Dr. Karen Herbst in Tucson, Arizona. She seems to be the leading researcher on this disorder.
thank you Gabriella ..., you have just expressed so well all of my passed 30 years experience ... thank you thank you thank you ❤️🙏 i am looking forward to hear about your surgeries and find out how the outcome !
un GROS MERCI !
lucie
Thank you for sharing.
Now that I am almost 66 years old I realized since puberty I have Lipodema. I have it in my arms and legs. I have 6 sisters in which none had this problem. We all had a weight problem however they were all heavier in their belly and had thin legs and arms.
I feel it is too late in life for surgery so I will continue swimming and walking when the pain is bearable. So glad they have a name for this.
Good luck with your surgery. You are beautiful with or without surgery.
I am your age,and my sister used to tease me as my leg looked like a tree.Thanks God it didn’t affect my self esteem. It’s good to know I am not alone.
As someone who has been bullied all her life for her weight my heart breaks for you because I’ve been there too. It’s honestly amazing how strong you are and I know it can’t have been easy to talk about something you feel insecure about but just by doing this you are helping so many people, feel seen and know they aren’t alone. Just by bringing attention to this condition. Wishing you a speedy recovery and all the best for your journey xx
I never comment on videos but I just want to say a massive thank you for spreading awareness. Like you I’ve also had a sleeve but my legs are huge compared to the rest of me. I’m a size 10 top and 20-22 bottom and I can’t shift any more weight! Doctors have always ruled this out as just a weight problem but you pushed me to go and again speak to my GP who is now agreeing with me and can now see that it is definitely Lipoedema!
Thank you for sharing and spreading this message. I am also saddened by how much we torture ourselves before diagnosis and the opportunities we've passed up. I am hoping to have surgery as well at some point so I will be keeping this doc in mind when the time comes.🤞
I thank you so much for spreading awareness about this awful disease. I was diagnosed a year and a half ago, everything makes sense now! Unfortunately mine is quite severe in all of my limbs and with the 60% chance surgery cannot help me… 90 grand is so much money for 40% chance of it working 😢 xx
I’ve been following you for years and remember you wearing that outfit. I wish you so much luck for your surgery’s, speedy recovery ❤️🩹 💕
Bravo! Thank you for sharing all of this for anyone else dealing with it but also for those of us who need to understand better and be more compassionate about this struggle. Also, it is so refreshing to hear a young woman (or any woman) to say “x” size is more suitable and healthy for them than some smaller size. That is such a mature and healthy view that I hope to hear more often. Hoping you are recovering well from your first surgery.
Thank you so, so, so much for this. I’m at the tail end of a horrible relationship with food and exercise as a result of my struggle with this. I just moved to the UK so i’m getting into continuing my journey here. Your video felt like you were talking directly to me- very cozy and safe.
Thank you for your videos. I just found out that I have lipedema. I'm 58. All these years suffering with it.
Me too! Same age and I had no idea that I had it. My knees have been so painful that I had to stop doing crossfit even though I know exercise is important. Even walking a few miles takes a bit to recover from. I hope you have found ways to manage it. I am on that path now.
Love this video. I have only recently been diagnosed with lipederma too. And have had it since puberty. Think your great for raising awareness of it. Hope the surgery goes well xx
I have watched you since you used to wear the outfit you described, I wanted to dress like you so badly! This is such a brave thing to show us all, and good for you for getting the surgery to make you feel your best self!
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This is the video I needed today and didn’t realize it. Thank you for sharing your journey Gabby! It’s amazing to see how much you’ve blossomed emotionally and physically over the years. ❤
Thank you for sharing this. It’s such a personal topic and I know how hard it can be to put yourself out there.
People can be so cruel and not even know what health issues we suffer in silence.
I wish you the best of luck❤
Your youtube short made me realise this is what me and all my maternal side of the family have!! This makes me so happy to know the pain isnt normal, the heaviness isnt my fault, and theres stuff I can do about it!
Thank you for sharing! It was so helpful for me to hear ur experience!Your experience is similar exactly to my lifetime story. I’m 27 years old now. And I was unsatisfied with my body since my childhood. I spent my whole life at gyms.. all my trials resulted with failure. I was disappointed and depressed for years and years! Still searching and trying to find a solution. Thanks a lot
I was there and 16 in 2014 and the hate was disgusting and insane. I'm so proud of u and how far you e come and how much you have grown in confidence. You have always been beautiful Gab I'm so glad you're feeling it
I love that you shared this. I hope for the best recovery for you ! And I pray no matter how it turns out you find peace with yourself ♥️
A lovely lady, and I love the hints of (what sounds like) a northern accent coming through. (I am not from the UK). Having watched the whole video, I think you are so switched on and amazingly brave for your young age! Thank you for the education and all the best!
Wow Gabby. Massive respect for being so open and raising awareness. Our relationships with our bodies can be so so difficult. Wishing you all the very best for your surgeries. Really hope you get the outcome you want x
Aww Gabbie!!! You’re beautiful inside and out, so sorry you’ve had to endure such nasty comments throughout the years! Really proud of you for sharing your story❣️ wishing you a speedy recovery, can’t wait for you to feel as beautiful as you are!! xx
Wow this is the video I have been looking for. I’m 3.5 years post op gastric sleeve and you’re right nothing I do have moved my big legs. I came across on instagram about lipedema and your the first you tube video I have come across. Away to watch more of your videos. Thanks so much for sharing.
Can't even put into words how happy and relieved I am for you, this is gonna be a massive change in your quality of life!! Hope the pain is manageable and you're doing ok after the 1st surgery! All my love to Spain! ❤️❤️
Okay but I am so proud of you for being so open about this. I've watched your channel for years and I know how hard this has all been on you (within reason, obviously you haven't shown it all). This is incredible and I'm happy you're able to do this for yourself. I hope it does everything you want it need it to do. Fingers crossed for you!
Amazing that you are doing what you need to do to better your life. You mentioned the surgery is being kindly gifted I did see a comment from a "Carlie M" who has lipoedema but can't afford surgery. Maybe you could pay it forward? You don't have to but its a nice suggestion. Good luck with your surgery x
So eloquently and delicately put, every step of the way. This vulnerability is incredible and as a long time subscriber, so happy for any peace of mind and comfort this journey will bring you. Wishing you the best ❤️
Hi Gabbie! Thank you so much for this video. it so brave of you to share such personal part of your life, thanks for being so open and vulnerable. Wish you all the best❤
thank you!! ♡
so happy for you Gabriella, you deserve a life without feeling self conscious, you're gonna look and feel banging ! can't wait to see you living your best life once you've recovered 💞
I had to wait until I was mentally ready to watch this video but I knew I wanted to! I'm so proud of you (and I truly hope you are proud of yourself!) For talking about your struggles in this video! I've been watching you since you were still living at home with your parents and I've been so appalled over the years watching faceless people on the internet attacking you over your appearance, your surgeries and your health.. who attacks someone over their health!? You have come so far since those early days! You've become such a confident bright person in recent vlogs and it makes me so happy to see! I'm so happy you're getting the help you need for your lipidema and I wish you all the best for any remaining procedures ❤❤❤❤ you're an amazing person and you deserve happiness like everyone deserves ❤ lots of love from a long time follower in Australia ❤
You are incredible. You educated me at the same as you helped me understand what it’s like for someone to go through this on a personal level. Thank you so much for making this video 💛
I'm so sorry for you. Thank you for the awareness you're bringing to people suffering with the same issues. You're a beautiful person. I hope that you'll find peace and that the surgeries will be successful.
thank you so much 💖
You have been through hell and back and I appreciate you sharing this difficult part of your journey. If you are ready to share this beyond your subscribers, would you consider including "lipedema" in the title of this video? I am certain it will help many people who are searching for videos when they themselves get diagnosed. Sending love.💓
thank you 💖 yes i am going to add that in a couple of days xx
Thank you for your brave sharing! I really appreciate the education; I never knew what caused lipodemia before. I am so glad that you have chosen what will empower you to feel better and look the way you want to.
Wow! I'm Spanish and i'm so glad you have found a doctor here!!!! Wish you the best Gabriella, you deserve the best.
I wish you all the best for your surgery and recovery❤️
I've heard how painful and uncomfortable lipedema is. I can't imagine how hard it must be to live with this every day.
You're so strong!
Sending you lots of love❤️
thank you so much 💞