Prosocial (Communal) Malignant Narcissist

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  • @bethmoore7722
    @bethmoore7722 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    Having been in a cult in the 1970s, I appreciate this. You have described the leader of that cult perfectly.

    • @irenegronegger8972
      @irenegronegger8972 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Do you know Anke Richter? She is a journalist specialized in cults. It is about a wide range from strict religious cults to softer esoteric movements. She publishes mostly in Englisch. She is German, roundabout 60 years old and lives in New Zealand.

  • @chernagast6754
    @chernagast6754 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    Oh look, you described the current American political season. I thoroughly enjoy your research and work, and even though I am a layperson in the world of psychology, I have learned a wealth of information from your lectures. Thank you very much for sharing your observations like this.

  • @desertlilly
    @desertlilly 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    Perfectly describes my hellish workplace.

    • @ivodols9244
      @ivodols9244 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      It perfectly describes my hellish volunteer workplace.

    • @MrTergugah
      @MrTergugah 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Haha (nervous laugh)...Sounds like most of the human population in general... Dangerous Bonobo chimps running amok, as- per-usual...Don't think there's much hope left for us 😢

  • @GreyCat827
    @GreyCat827 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I like your humor. Thank you for this video.

  • @helenas7416
    @helenas7416 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Thank you so much for this stunningly powerful and simultaneously horrifying expose of the publicly smooth yet psychologically terrorising predators in our midst. One of your best videos. Thank you immensely.

  • @InvisibleWarrior279
    @InvisibleWarrior279 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I believe they are the biggest threat as well. I believe I have known two of these people. One was a “high school principal” who eventually got fired and kicked out of the teaching profession for using the “school” as his own personal piggy bank. And the other was the head of his professional “alternative medicine” organization for his country. These people are the very high level, socially entrenched, well disguised con artists; the true Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde personalities.

  • @oneononehundred3912
    @oneononehundred3912 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    I would love to see an in depth video talk on the topic of BPD with HPD ASPD comorbidities, I have been in a long term relationship (now separated) with someone who exhibited these traits in the extreme and you have only one brief video on the topic from 6-years ago. I know it’s asking a lot but another video idea for the odd couples series or a new series on horror stories, with a male covert borderline (I exhibit these traits) would be very much welcomed. I hope you’ll consider this topic for a future video. I have learned a great deal from you Prof. Vaknin and for this I am eternally grateful. Thank You for sharing your incredible insights and knowledge.

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Search the comorbidities playlist.

    • @reflux043
      @reflux043 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@samvaknin​​ At 2:02, if someone isn't narcissistic, can you feel this exact way (what you describe) after years of physical/domestic violence and emotional/narcissistic abuse?

  • @christinec.2579
    @christinec.2579 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Great video through and through. Very informative and helpful. Thank you for your continued contributions

  • @GreyCat827
    @GreyCat827 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Yes...the threat is very relevant today; particularly in a political arena such as in the United States. A new season of uncertainty is upon us. Thank you for your video.

  • @JavierMares
    @JavierMares 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Never enough! Thanks for the phenomenal video, sadly shorter than one would like, but then it's hard to complain with all the videos available. Wishing Prof Vaknin and everyone a great day.

  • @DilfuzaKHaydarova-e1p
    @DilfuzaKHaydarova-e1p 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Thank you so much Dear Sam Vaknin

  • @macnchessplz
    @macnchessplz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Televangelists come to mind while listening to this (politicians as well).

  • @mariamelbay6735
    @mariamelbay6735 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Eindelijk, in de roos, cirkel voor mij compleet. Zeer inzichtelijk én de moeilijkste, de beste in zijn soort 😂 om tegen te strijden in deze maatschappij. Dankjewel en kijk uit naar meer sessies over dit thema

  • @wendymerrillperry9699
    @wendymerrillperry9699 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Totally agree. Big threat. Thank you!

  • @MidsummerDream-y8u
    @MidsummerDream-y8u หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My husband towards me now. Its like when he turned 40. But he now talks to himself so i don't know what he is. It's scary.

  • @andrehanekom5665
    @andrehanekom5665 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Good video doc

  • @someguy495
    @someguy495 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This describes me well

  • @joshuabeldo2656
    @joshuabeldo2656 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sam Vaknin was a beast,love your vids my man👁️🙏🏾😎

  • @deanadutcher5877
    @deanadutcher5877 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You just described my husband without ever having met him.

  • @yolizen9980
    @yolizen9980 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    But then he doesn’t care about his followers

  • @virginiaceballos144
    @virginiaceballos144 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    You described my ex in Israel …. He stole my money just with lies ….

  • @AwhisperNth3wnd
    @AwhisperNth3wnd 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Isn't this also true of victims of narcissistic abuse. I mean if they were isolated away from friends, family and work. Wouldn't this make it difficult for a victim to reenter society and maintain functionality. At the same time would most likely be going through all the stages of grief.

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Search the comorbidities playlist for CPTSD and watch the NA Healing playlist.

  • @1506magda1
    @1506magda1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Profesor Vaknin, I assume that, as with every other type of narcissist, the best way to stay sane is to go no contact, am I right?
    Do prosocial narcissists ever hoover?

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Yes and yes.

    • @1506magda1
      @1506magda1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@samvaknin Thank you

  • @femalemisanthrope
    @femalemisanthrope 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You described my mother (borderline Narcissist) 1:1

  • @29parallelnorth
    @29parallelnorth 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Oh, you know my ex that has had me as the respondent of his corrupt circus divorce with his ‘men’s only’ lawyer.

  • @xSnowyOwlx
    @xSnowyOwlx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Finally ❤bateman style

  • @music7433
    @music7433 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I see I am the communal malignant in/ group . My family , especially children , in forever, friends I. If loyal, others who demonstrate exceptional intellect adventure perspective. I do hold all others in contempt but I do t like that - what is the alternative .
    Anyways - having a meeting with my ex husband to exchange kids tmrw at Disney World. He is clearly a
    Malignant narcissist - ignores everyone (see our kids 10 to 0 days a year) but seems to be good at his job, shocked why kids are “alienated “
    How to deal? How to best not affect the kids ?

  • @carolmiles7474
    @carolmiles7474 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Age 78 always opening buisness going around the world, Nothing works he gets investors . .Then broke again ,leaves woman to do buisness pays no rent ,Illegal immigrant very good a conning people,

  • @yolizen9980
    @yolizen9980 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    So DJT

  • @Snorli77
    @Snorli77 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    hey Sam! is it child abuse when a parent forces you to stay in another country but the child wants to go back to their home country? Best regards!

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Children do not have the right to make such decisions.

  • @Lostsoul_111
    @Lostsoul_111 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😂 Oh no

  • @caml2004
    @caml2004 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Is the insignificant other's recovery of the prosocial malignant narcissist abuse more prolonged due to the element of exclusion from the group which would activate a core feeling of being ostracized?

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes, among other reasons. Also the feeling of menace is much heightened.

  • @deadwolf3607
    @deadwolf3607 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    What makes a 20 yo man want to be with a 30-40 yo woman?
    Is it simply a maturity thing or is there something subconscious?

    • @carolmiles7474
      @carolmiles7474 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Money ,pays no rent .Or next to nothing .Maybe owns a house or her own flat etc check it out.deadwolf3607

    • @carolmiles7474
      @carolmiles7474 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@deadwolf3607 probably owns flat car etc ,Better life for him . He will come back on and off.

    • @deadwolf3607
      @deadwolf3607 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@tittat9351
      Doesnt make sense, getting an older woman is much harder. Even couple of years older is almost impossible to see

    • @deadwolf3607
      @deadwolf3607 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@tittat9351
      So how does your first comment stand now? I dont even get why you wrote the second comment

    • @deadwolf3607
      @deadwolf3607 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@tittat9351 i heard of cougars, but the man is far more likely to just go for a younger woman.And again, if he cant get someone his age and someone younger he aint getting an older woman. Maybe since im from the Balkans I never see it, but the stats say its rare even in western countries

  • @elizabethsesso9356
    @elizabethsesso9356 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    ..could be where the so-called mob mentality comes from..?...that is, mob mentality begins with this type of person...

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Time to watch the video.

  • @apubanerjee5496
    @apubanerjee5496 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

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  • @Mybloomingiris
    @Mybloomingiris 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Are there somatic narcissists who are prosocial covert malignant narcissists? I look forward to more videos on this topic!

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No.

  • @29parallelnorth
    @29parallelnorth 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I just had a vision 😳the next phase of all these TH-cam narcissist gaslighter sociopath videos will be an emphasis on the victims that fall prey which will have (pronoun here) fall prey again after spending years healing. It’s all tragic. Let’s just stop talking about it to not feed the monster

  • @Lovelyinternetperson
    @Lovelyinternetperson วันที่ผ่านมา

    14:20 Literature