An INSANELY PRACTICAL ADVICE on HOW TO STOP BEING BULLIED

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  • You might be knowing how it feels to be bullied by someone at school/college/work/home or anywhere else. It is one of those things that make you feel less of yourself. Watch this video to find out HOW YOU CAN STOP BEING BULLIED the right way. Bullies make you feel small by coming after your weaknesses and vulnerabilities. So, it is important that you stand up and confront your bullies. It is crucial for you to stop them once and for all. In this video, Prakhar shares his INSANELY PRACTICAL advice to deal with bullying and not let anybody destroy your self-worth ever.
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ความคิดเห็น • 406

  • @pratikedu8331
    @pratikedu8331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    This was needed, a lot guys go through this and don't know how to deal with it. Thanks Prakhar for putting it out so well

  • @Dr_KL31
    @Dr_KL31 3 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    I was bullied due to jealousy, hatred spread to the point that they wrote my name cursing me in walls of schools and roads of city. They were my own friends once. They couldn't see me growing. They fought with me. I was alone fighting with them. It's still a trauma to me.

    • @sahibdeepsaini1124
      @sahibdeepsaini1124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      You are truly strong that went through all this and are still on your foot

    • @Dr_KL31
      @Dr_KL31 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@sahibdeepsaini1124 🙂thankyou

    • @RitikRai-kc4oc
      @RitikRai-kc4oc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Hate usi se krte hain log jo hate krne layak hota hai.. feel proud like our PM..😂😂
      Kuchh shaastro mei toh yeh bhi kehte hain jab tk aap ek janam mein 1 crore dushman km se kam nahi bana lete, apko mukti nahi milegi..😎😎

    • @shoobsinator
      @shoobsinator 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I also kind of went through the same, when I was in 12th there was one piece of s#!t in my class who used to bully me by just calling me just the letter C (for chutiya), I was afraid to talk in front of girls at that time and he knew that, so he and his friends used to call me that a lot in front of girls and public to that point that I was afraid to go to school.
      It's been 7 years but I still get angry about it for no reason.
      Seriously man, trauma really is a bad fu©king thing. Your mental health really affects your physical being. Only solution to that is get strong as Prakhar said.

    • @Dr_KL31
      @Dr_KL31 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@RitikRai-kc4oc oh damn😂 1 crore dushman chahye ab mukti ke liye.

  • @demoncyborg98
    @demoncyborg98 3 ปีที่แล้ว +440

    I've ghosted my toxic friends and I feel much better.

    • @ritwikjain1419
      @ritwikjain1419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Cool bro. Same with me.

    • @shinchannohara4574
      @shinchannohara4574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Me too but now I dont have any friends...all the students in my class actively participate with that group ..but I can't. I feel lonely
      ..there r only few 2 -3 students who I talk with ..the ones who sit near me
      ..and also r not part of the group

    • @prashantKumar-lw4jg
      @prashantKumar-lw4jg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@shinchannohara4574 we can talk bro about this i have experience

    • @YashSharma-hi5wh
      @YashSharma-hi5wh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      only gays leave their friends

    • @groodox7410
      @groodox7410 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@YashSharma-hi5wh ??

  • @crimsonknight5200
    @crimsonknight5200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    I've never told anybody that i used to get bullied. I'm sure even those bullys don't realize how much they damaged my self esteem and confidence. It's so bad for me that i can't even face my classmates now. There are barely any friends that keep in touch. Most of them perceive me as a loser. Not that i didn't try to change that but being cornered since childhood has made me the way i am. Seclusion in school harmed my life so much that it's beyond repair. I don't think there perception will ever change about me . Being bullied makes you think you're inferior and normal people would think you're a loser. People stop approaching you once that happens. You get left out of friend circles, plans , hangouts. People say school life was a blessing where they enjoyed the most but for me it was like a disaster where i felt like i was just a living corpse . People say . Sure i made a few friends along the way who know me for what i truly am but still school was never a happy memory for me. To this day i wish my school life wasn't as bad as it was and wonder where would i be if i had a normal life but it's like that for some people ig. I used ti think that their bad karma will bite them someday and I'll live the gandhian way but it didn't turn out like that . Those people turned out to be just fine with normal lives while I'm the one who is suffering up to this day one way or the other. My life isn't half as joyful as their's and i don't think they'll ever reap for what they did. I wish i was normal and had more friends like they have. It's been two yrs since i paased out. My grades are far from a loser but my life is. It always seems as I'm missing out. I'min my 1st yr of college and things have gotten better s I'm not around those jerks anymore and i hope life pays me for all those years of fun and social life I missed out in my childhood.

    • @yashstick2213
      @yashstick2213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hows your condition now?

    • @crimsonknight5200
      @crimsonknight5200 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@yashstick2213 hustling my way through! Them knowing I'm ahead of them in my life alone humbles them down! I'm fine now! I'm not the dumb guy like I used to be 7 or 8 yrs ago but the problem is that they still thought I was! Most things get better once you harden yourself up . I don't take shit from anyone anymore ! Sure it hurts when no one wishes you on your bday at the strike of 12 but I'm positive that things will change when I go to college this month. Things changed as soon as I got away from my schoolmates. They were like a shadow of my difficult past that continued to hinder me

    • @yashstick2213
      @yashstick2213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@crimsonknight5200 happy to hear that!

    • @dhruvvig5484
      @dhruvvig5484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We can totally relate bro

    • @ace819
      @ace819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hey man you sound like a fun guy. Let’s connect i would love to be friends with you. Hell my friends would love to he friends with you man. You sound honest and kind and people appreciate that

  • @papasimp5990
    @papasimp5990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    Joking around between friends is all fine , but you should draw a line that you don't want them to cross. If it's in a limit then it's good .

    • @yourcaptain2709
      @yourcaptain2709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      exactly dude and we often tend to increase our limits even after they crossed the line just to be good with friends

    • @papasimp5990
      @papasimp5990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@yourcaptain2709 tabhi toh "no" bolna seekhna zaruri hai

    • @shinchannohara4574
      @shinchannohara4574 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But how to find out the limit

    • @Nyo0
      @Nyo0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@shinchannohara4574 things about u that u can't change like ur height, looks, caste . Ofcourse there is a difference between when they just joke occasionally and when they bully u. So the best thing would be to just communicate ur discomfort, if they understand u and back off fine but if they still continue to joke about them u need to reconsider ur circle

  • @naveentaneja7199
    @naveentaneja7199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    My respect increased for you manifold. I myself went through a similar situation when guys from my "boys gang" twice my size ganged up against me and said things which they knew i was extremely sensitive about. I objected the moment they uttered those words. Two of them stoped but two continued but i could sense the power game had shifted a bit to my side..when their voice started to crack as if they weren't prepared for that situation. I left the conversation. I have met them a couple of times after this incident and we both know we aren't friends anymore.

  • @whysoserious3265
    @whysoserious3265 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Salute to those who faced these people with courage and confidence being against of all. Sad part is that everyone join their company nobody wants to invite, hangout and join bullied person. People say college years are for enjoyment but for bullied person these are hell. He keeps wishing to get it over. Nobody likes to join him, he wanted to hangout make friends but always alone at corner. When that time ends. He feels deeply hurt and curse those people that ruin his golden time. And he keeps living with that sadness entire life... it hurts really.

    • @ankushagrawal2850
      @ankushagrawal2850 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bhai tumne bilkul shi kaha log khte hai friends bnao college mai hangout kro skills pe work kro lekin Kuch logo ke liye school aur college curse hai.

    • @gauravkapse2661
      @gauravkapse2661 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ye Sach bat h me clg ke 1st year me hu aur abhi bhi face kar rha hu

    • @saurabhshrivastava5198
      @saurabhshrivastava5198 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@gauravkapse2661college may kaam hota hy Maharashtra may

  • @Beak12345
    @Beak12345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This video was successfully used by prakhar.....and he used it well .....kudos bhai...we all r with you

  • @SuperMario-jd9zt
    @SuperMario-jd9zt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Bully ka ek hi maksat hota hai . Baki doston me cool banana . Aur Jo bachha kuchh funny reaction de bully karane ke baad usse hi class ke Sare bachhe bully karate . Aur 2-3 bachhe bully karate hai. issiliye Baki bachhon ko lagata hai ki isska majak karake ham cool ban sakte hai. Kapil Sharma banana chahte hai Sab .

    • @mahimmurulya5802
      @mahimmurulya5802 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And bullies have lot of issues at home. Controlling parents, being neglected and not loved etc. That's why they take it out on other kids in school

    • @SuperMario-jd9zt
      @SuperMario-jd9zt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@mahimmurulya5802 bro I suffered from bully in 6th class because I stammer while talking with new people And I was too fat in 6th and one more reason that was topper of my class . Then I joined Jim and things like these as prakhar said . And in 7th I changed my class . My 6th standard was harder than hell .

    • @arvindlohar5169
      @arvindlohar5169 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes

    • @Nishantkashyapvlog
      @Nishantkashyapvlog 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're absolutely right bro

    • @Bobthecat-v8x
      @Bobthecat-v8x 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@mahimmurulya5802 maybe no ... Cause the only reason is they are evil.

  • @NikhilKumar-lp3jh
    @NikhilKumar-lp3jh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I agree to the advice that it is better to distance yourself from bullies. Moreover, bullies are not really friends. Past is gone. Yes and we need to say No. I have found few good friends after decades and that's great. And we also need to understand that some people can live without friends. Tesla had no friends and Issac Newton, too. The good result of a solitude life is that you can develop your skills and get a good job and build a home and family. But thanks for reminding guys to tell a No.

  • @lol6434
    @lol6434 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Learn how to fight and start picking these "bullies" off one by one. All the bullies I have met were completely docile physically. They had NO IDEA about physical violence. When somebody talk shit to you, you better knock his teeth off.

  • @hemenkalita6582
    @hemenkalita6582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Perspective from a bully. Good to know how a bully thinks.

  • @mayanksinghshishodia
    @mayanksinghshishodia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    If you react emotionally if you say NO, then you'll be presented as a weak person and will be bullied even more
    So make sure you are ordering someone to STOP and not crying or begging to STOP

    • @demoncyborg98
      @demoncyborg98 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Better yet, ghost them.

    • @mayanksinghshishodia
      @mayanksinghshishodia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@demoncyborg98 Ghosting is very detrimental to a person's self worth, so we should never ghost anyone.
      Instead, confront people and leave

    • @mayanksinghshishodia
      @mayanksinghshishodia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Study Support Ghosting is never good
      The other person is also a human and are not aware of their actions, they completely deserve to know what's wrong. Instead you should confront

    • @mayanksinghshishodia
      @mayanksinghshishodia 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Study Support what you said in your latest comment isn't ghosting. Ghosting=Bina bataaye gayab ho jana
      You should always confront before cutting people of, there's no guarantee that they know the reason why they are being ghosted

    • @2wcxwip2b3bsaxq
      @2wcxwip2b3bsaxq 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bhai to karee kya no bolege and batayege bura lagta hai mat kro to aur maje lege wo log insult krege , aur unke group me khade hokar apna majak udawana aur smile karna kuch na keh pana aur pure din depressed aur gusse me rahna kya kree bhai batao

  • @gm-so2ld
    @gm-so2ld ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Came back to this video and damn, at the shwetabh example moment, it really took me back to the raw and real days

  • @bijusaikiabijusaikia5080
    @bijusaikiabijusaikia5080 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I was bullied by a group of my friends who were used to be my closed friends and it's hard to stand against a group.
    I don't know why they started doing this but I just said them no! and left them.
    Now I'm happier❤️

    • @JackSparrow-yw3kw
      @JackSparrow-yw3kw 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same happened with me... Feeling much happier now ❤️❤️

    • @2wcxwip2b3bsaxq
      @2wcxwip2b3bsaxq 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@JackSparrow-yw3kw akele ho ky aab Bhai

  • @amziax
    @amziax 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    I think you didn't cover the topic of bullying because bullying is something that is not people do to a friend ... but they act like a friend and tell you that they are your friend but this isn't true ...
    They just bully you because that's what gives them pleasure (a type of sadism imo) ...but irony is that when you say a single thing about them they're not gonna accept the same thing from you because it hurts them and if you do it then they'll bully you more and if you insist on stopping them then will either fight or leave you ...
    Imo , the person who bully you is not a real Friend whether he claims it or not ...they will never ready to accept the fact that their bullism is actually hurting you ...
    Leave this type of people ASAP for your own peace !

    • @Kalaivani0
      @Kalaivani0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💣💣💣

    • @amziax
      @amziax 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Kalaivani0 I'll take it as a compliment !

    • @dhruvvig5484
      @dhruvvig5484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙌🙌🙌

    • @leoyn7156
      @leoyn7156 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He took a fight he is weaker than me but he says bande aa rahe hain abhi ruk

    • @maerifatimyknowledge5685
      @maerifatimyknowledge5685 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@leoyn7156same 😢

  • @primus9445
    @primus9445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    You know this is right there is a man he confront his bullying 35 years later in the same school in which he was bullied and the man who bullied him become the principal ,the things is all these years he carried this trauma of being bullied with him and neither he got his revenge nor he moved on from that past,it's like he just got stuck in there and principal was laughing when he was telling this. Do the things at the right time it's your life don't carry trauma

  • @Abhi-hd9fj
    @Abhi-hd9fj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Prakhar is the big brother we all need❤

  • @mks2870
    @mks2870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is one of the best video you have ever made hands down 🙌🏻💯

  • @architkumar9411
    @architkumar9411 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Wowww.....an amazing session .....i have also being bullied in my early but now i know how to deal with that ignorance is not always the bliss u have always have to set the limit

    • @2wcxwip2b3bsaxq
      @2wcxwip2b3bsaxq 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bhai aab agar koi disrespect feel krayee to kya krte ho ap

  • @ruturajyadav7
    @ruturajyadav7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Prakhar,my G...!!!!!
    Happy that you said and put it out...Totally accept with the thought process.....!!! Much Love Buddy...Great Video♥🤎👍

  • @sanchitwadehra
    @sanchitwadehra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I was the person who was usually bullied in every group before my 6th class I was like why should I have a conflict with someone so I would just go by ignoring the thing but I slowly found that my ignorance gave birth to more such people and I thought that why is it just me so what I did was I put myself in the shoes of a person who was the bully and I thought when would this person stop shitting and I exactly came to the same conclusion as Prakhar from then on I started fighting with some people and would usually take up conflict but then I noticed that this behaviour was going out of my hand I was becoming the bully I realised this in 8th class and so from 9th class, I really started taking control of my behaviour and I achieved the personality which was the solution to this problem as said by prakhar

    • @AmanSingh0699
      @AmanSingh0699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @SUAR TH-camr There is always a bigger fish. Wait karo jab tak tumhe koi thikane laga sake. Then you would be able to relate.

    • @RitikRai-kc4oc
      @RitikRai-kc4oc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @SUAR TH-camr Kya age hai bhai?

  • @shreyasranjan7147
    @shreyasranjan7147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you very much bro. This video was very much needed.

  • @the_ashhar
    @the_ashhar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Man, this was a gem 💎 advice
    I was one who used to be on the victim end (for around a month, when i was introduced to a new friend circle). And man that phase was a battle in my head, "how to get out & retaliate" was a continuous thought.
    But fortunately i made my way out, because 1 that person was a real friend 2 i figured out 'kaise reponse me wit/humour k saath lete hai' 3 i reduced the amount of offence that i use to take.
    Now my personality has changed, atleast i feel, to a great degree.
    Prakhar ❤️

  • @ankurmazumder5590
    @ankurmazumder5590 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Damn... that "no" really hit me for some reason...

  • @SachinYadav-qv4nr
    @SachinYadav-qv4nr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Bhai was following you for more than 6 months
    But today, the kind of relate I got from this video is 1000%.I have been bullied from my childhood, till my graduation. Due to this continuous scenario I stopped making friend, stopped indulging to new groups, just because wo purane wale grp ki yade humiliation fir se wapas aajata tha. And you pointed out very accurately, absolutely spot on that i never said NO, I never said no ki I had fear that log mughe judge krenge, mai dost kho dunga and what not. And is chakkar mai my self esteem was fucked up, I was not able to discuss this issue with others just because I thought they will see me as a loser.
    Thank you so much prakhar bhai, somewhere I knew this thing in my mind, but it was scattered with no meaning. Thank uh for compiling it for me, and giving and assurance that saying NO is not wrong.
    Thank you bhai thank you so much🙏🙏

    • @papasimp5990
      @papasimp5990 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bhaii martial arts seekh, physically aur mentally strong banega 💪🏻

    • @SachinYadav-qv4nr
      @SachinYadav-qv4nr 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bhai without being boastful, mai already street fighting sikh chuka hu n have gained preety much strength and muscle as well
      Physical strength is not the issue, issue is the social tension

    • @RYFMuzic
      @RYFMuzic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@papasimp5990 best because usme fight le le k confidence bhot high rehta.

  • @nikhilpareek159
    @nikhilpareek159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Prakhar is solving Vedants problem

    • @nikhilpareek159
      @nikhilpareek159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Raj Kalita bhai pta h, yh joke tha bro... Kewal words se actual intent smjh nhi ata shayad isiliye aapko shayad kuch or laga

    • @unknown_truck
      @unknown_truck 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao

  • @SuperMario-jd9zt
    @SuperMario-jd9zt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Prakhar ne Kabhi asali bully ko Dekha hi Nahi .

    • @SuperMario-jd9zt
      @SuperMario-jd9zt 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @SUAR TH-camrbro mai frame of reference ke hisab se kah Raha tha . Issane bully Kiya Hoga Saha Nahi Hoga.

    • @sir_abhishek
      @sir_abhishek 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Bro mne abhi tak jitne bhi videos dekha bullying p khas kr k india m bnne hue usme ye bolte h ignore kro bully ko jo ki sabse stupid advice h...I was bullied when I was in primary school this guy used to insult me a lot & if I said anything he used to hit me...I tried everything I told him to stop, I told my teachers, I told principal even but no use.. finally I told my father my father said tu kyu wapas nhi bolta agar teri insult krta h vo...to mne bola ki vo marta h muje ...so my father told me to hit him back ...I said that I would be punished by teachers if I start a fight..my father said just hit him & if u get suspension or anything he will see himself. Next time when he hit me I fuckin stabed that mf with my pencil that day he came to knew what pain is... Than he hit me again I hit him back & back & principal called our parents ..my father said that where were u when he was just getting bullied..& my son will hit that boy again if he do any shit. Sometimes u just have to hit back & learning to hit back hard is the key

    • @SuperMario-jd9zt
      @SuperMario-jd9zt 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sir_abhishek Sahi Kiya brother. Mera bhi same case tha lekin Sara class mere khilaf tha pure ek Saal tak . Ek bande ke vajah se Jo pahale Mera best friend tha aur class me sab uski bahot sunte the .

    • @SuperMario-jd9zt
      @SuperMario-jd9zt 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sir_abhishek mere Saath bhi same hua issiliye Maine class change Kar di

    • @androidbot3695
      @androidbot3695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sir_abhishek I'm gonna be like your father the day I have kids. "Tu Bhid Ja, Main Hoon Tere Saath" 👍🏼

  • @Raj_jsr_23
    @Raj_jsr_23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Best part of the video / answer of the video , very much important 08:35

  • @arkogolder
    @arkogolder ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bhaiya... Aap ke bajah se mujhme vo ulta Jawab dene ki aadat chale gayi...Mai to bas ab un logo(chole ne vale) ko "no" bolke aur jyada hua to 2 khich ke jhapad mar ke samjha deta hu.....
    Thanks a lot brother....

  • @King-tm9fy
    @King-tm9fy ปีที่แล้ว +5

    @4:00 breaks my heart today

    • @harshit73
      @harshit73 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bhai Kasam se itna bura lagta hai

  • @ITSMRMINE
    @ITSMRMINE ปีที่แล้ว +2

    that was really out of the box and quite realistic, thanks a lot for this video. a lot of ppl deal with this

  • @jashkathiria5092
    @jashkathiria5092 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for making this video prakhar. I really needed this.

  • @yashasyash2829
    @yashasyash2829 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One of the best videos i ever watched
    Thank you 😊

  • @miss.sakshiii
    @miss.sakshiii 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i think you should be a part of society and having fun in each moment is memorable, ofcourse being immature will fck u up everywhere and with everyone. First realize life is going to end. Second feel comfort within you not around you. Third live/work/say/do/mean worth , and mostly do one thing Relax guys relax everythings won't happen as you imagine.

  • @staraptor67
    @staraptor67 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Till 7th i was being submissive wich kinda took toll on my self esteem. When time came to change my school i thankfully realised this that u should show anyone by mistake also that u can be soft target. 7th was the last time i got bullied

    • @spoonman5051
      @spoonman5051 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Staraptor: physical sweeper with over 100 base attack & speed stat.
      Ability:- intimidate
      Hidden ability:- reckless

    • @caonima3372
      @caonima3372 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@spoonman5051 wah

    • @spoonman5051
      @spoonman5051 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@caonima3372 mann hogaya isliye bol dia vai

  • @rohitavhad2592
    @rohitavhad2592 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I don't think Dosti mein insult karnaa zaruri hi hai

    • @XD.Xd6
      @XD.Xd6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Ha bhai thora bohot thick hain... But limit is limit...

    • @papasimp5990
      @papasimp5990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@XD.Xd6 thicc 😂😂

    • @XD.Xd6
      @XD.Xd6 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @SUAR TH-camr bro mera first of all koi dost hain bhi nhi... Bcoz the main thing is your work and your goals ... Sab dost chale jayenge but app ka kaam kabhi app ko choor k nhi jayega

    • @XD.Xd6
      @XD.Xd6 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @SUAR TH-camr haaa... In which class u r in ?

    • @jatinkaul3366
      @jatinkaul3366 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@XD.Xd6 well, nothing is permanent,not even the work...

  • @dontmind4215
    @dontmind4215 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thanku prakhar soo ooooo much, you taught me to say no . love you broooo

  • @sanatanify03
    @sanatanify03 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    video literally made me cry. true words throughout fr

  • @sarimsongster9033
    @sarimsongster9033 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kis problem ka solution kis video mei mil jaaye 🤨 islie saari video dekho doston .. Thumbs up bro 🤜

  • @rajeshdinda5539
    @rajeshdinda5539 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is the most practical advice i got on this topic 🤯

  • @tejas1846
    @tejas1846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I dont know why i am feeling ashamed after watching this video 😭 i am that guy who roasts people left and right in my friend’s group just to get a funny punchline out of it. My intent is not to hurt any one but at the same time maybe i dont empathise enough. Everyone used to bully me in my childhood thats why maybe i have created this defence mechanism i dont know man but next time i will not be so rude with my friends for sure !

  • @SamikBhattacharyaOfficial
    @SamikBhattacharyaOfficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Straight up truth being spoken! I respect you for that. You earned a subscriber.

  • @hydershaikh7380
    @hydershaikh7380 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is an amazing video is simply awesome, it has bought so much of value to me, thanks Prakhar!!!

  • @technitz
    @technitz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Pure Gold!

  • @AryanGupta-ti4dc
    @AryanGupta-ti4dc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    VERY GOOD POSSIBLE EXPLANATIONS

  • @sachinpatro7236
    @sachinpatro7236 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank u so much for the video!

  • @TheBitcoinBurner
    @TheBitcoinBurner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One of the Best Video🔥🔥🔥

  • @siddharthajain6944
    @siddharthajain6944 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Super video. Thanks.

  • @mayanksinghshishodia
    @mayanksinghshishodia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    That hypermuscular thing happened with me lol😂
    Though I'm not that muscular xD

  • @jonasgreene1680
    @jonasgreene1680 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stand up straight with your shoulders back

  • @shreyasahani385
    @shreyasahani385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Talk about girls perspective as well.we don't shit on each other and friendship never feels real as well.

    • @ankuumusic
      @ankuumusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Idk why but i can't imagine any girl taking stand or holding back for her friends, idk why is that

    • @akhilsingh9884
      @akhilsingh9884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sherya, he is a male. He understands us better. You should take your query to some female youtubers like him they may understand you better and give you better solution. Pls don't force this gender neutral bs here and let him be.

    • @shreyasahani385
      @shreyasahani385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@akhilsingh9884 I m not putting up any bs here, my point was I want to have the same dynamics with girls that boys have with boys.

    • @newlegend6132
      @newlegend6132 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shreyasahani385 I am here for you 😀 ...

    • @numeroheer
      @numeroheer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Shreya Sahani the reason why women don't have such dynamics is that women are more insecure and they are trained to be number one all the time

  • @Indianguy108
    @Indianguy108 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    brooooooo kyaa bolun main every video of yours is damn good

  • @sumitshady
    @sumitshady 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Much needed video thanks bro🙏

  • @mihirmaheshwari2138
    @mihirmaheshwari2138 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Brother , friendly way me bolna or serious way me bolna dono me difference hai boht

  • @neelashara3502
    @neelashara3502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Bro i think u explained a different thing here cause bullying is serious thing! Nd a lot us are suffering from bullying is when a guy just beat u up daily to look cool among everyone nd treat you like shit not this frndly insults! I would love if u make a video on actually bullying

    • @shakshiagrawal1050
      @shakshiagrawal1050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @SUAR TH-camr I'm agree with you even when I was in school lot's of boys do make a fun of me they really insult me a lot

    • @rajeshdinda5539
      @rajeshdinda5539 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Neel Ashara bro completely agree with u but its also a type that crosses line and become that bullying about which u r talking

  • @hars6029
    @hars6029 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My fav video of prakhar!

  • @neutron417
    @neutron417 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Irony Irony IRONY IRONY

  • @sarazanmaikaguya9047
    @sarazanmaikaguya9047 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thanks a lot prakhar

  • @rajattripathi5
    @rajattripathi5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Kya dost hai tu...tere jaisa dost kisi ko naa mile

  • @SurajGupta-zq7rt
    @SurajGupta-zq7rt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    0:09 what if your male friends insults you only when others are around?

    • @siddhant6546
      @siddhant6546 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Suraj Gupta then they are not your true friends

    • @gautamsharma8291
      @gautamsharma8291 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tu bhi kr

    • @Unbiased1224
      @Unbiased1224 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly

  • @daipayanchakraborty2738
    @daipayanchakraborty2738 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Bro, you don't have to make it more complicated than it is. It's all about dominance both mentally and physically, tu kamzor hn tho tera hi katega, either leave or deal with it, until you form a resolution with each other. And this is coming from a person who was actually bullied a lot in school days.

  • @darthvaderr8
    @darthvaderr8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Prakhar ka jo dost usay bully karta tha
    Prakhar uspe legal case lagadeta tha

  • @anirudhupadhyay695
    @anirudhupadhyay695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Golden words brother🙏

  • @shubham16169
    @shubham16169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video can heal traumas.

  • @Anmolsingh-rk3wy
    @Anmolsingh-rk3wy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am introvert but I don't let my friends shit on me, because I have a dominant personality.

  • @Ankit-d9f4u
    @Ankit-d9f4u ปีที่แล้ว +3

    In short , just fight them with all you have got

  • @jogindermalhotra7937
    @jogindermalhotra7937 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice topic

  • @prakashyadav21676
    @prakashyadav21676 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Swetabh and prakhar ❤🤝🔥

  • @RitikRai-kc4oc
    @RitikRai-kc4oc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The other thing is guys shittest over each other and evaluate the level of confidence the other person looses or not.. If they are confident with their actions even after that, they will be tested more until and unless the other person stands for himself and replies back with the same intensity of disrespect and emotional change. More intensity means he is irritated feminine which means he looses, and less intensity means less confidence so he looses.
    Aage wale ki itni tabbiyat se lelia karo haste haste khaskar jab woh leader/alpha ho.. ki uske baad koi faltu bolne ka soche nahi.. and then water it from time to time.. And rest of the time be super busy in demonstrating your leadership skills and group provider.
    Male life is full of struggles, conflicts and competition. We do not talk about many of these things directly but if somebody who is not habitual to all these things, will feel it like a war and then he should better behave like a warrior King.

  • @NaincySingh-u2w
    @NaincySingh-u2w 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What if a girl face this problem this is only for boys or male

  • @vrushabhborkar6261
    @vrushabhborkar6261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was very helpful...🔥

  • @satyamtamrakar8744
    @satyamtamrakar8744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    After recent Sandeep Maheshwari controversy much relevant now 😅😅

  • @DashingNayan
    @DashingNayan 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Prakhar Sir,
    Kuch friends pehle se planning karke rakhte hai, ki fala aadmi ke maze lenge +
    Mere kahi senior hai 2-3 saal badey Jo baat baat mein argument karke thapad mar dete hai,
    Baad mein yaar / dost kehte hai mujhe,
    So mene baas apne upar kaam karna start Kiya, tagdi body banyi, library jata hu, kama bhi raha hu...
    Aab kisi ki ek nahi sunta..

  • @indianflippingart9593
    @indianflippingart9593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There's the bullying you are talking about and then there's real bullying

  • @omjha6573
    @omjha6573 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Are bhaiya apke jaise hi kisi ko dundh raha tha ❤️❤️❤️

  • @parshantsharma118
    @parshantsharma118 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I live alone and have no friends.That's why I never get bullied.

  • @historyandmore9555
    @historyandmore9555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    7:40 to 8:15 best part

  • @vickygupta4263
    @vickygupta4263 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have said "No" to many people...still got bullied and insulted for setting limits

  • @gauravkapse2661
    @gauravkapse2661 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    11:20 true line

  • @Yashsingh36707
    @Yashsingh36707 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Always set limits even if they’re your family members

  • @chapriwizard2451
    @chapriwizard2451 ปีที่แล้ว

    The way you talking by taking pause is insaane ❤️

  • @Newsyyyfast
    @Newsyyyfast หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro today i watched ur video
    And i have done the job
    Now i am feeling satisfied 😌

  • @shubhamdingra2449
    @shubhamdingra2449 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Live conciously thats the answer to everything... Every problem

  • @manitaposwal7776
    @manitaposwal7776 ปีที่แล้ว

    thankyou bhaiya for this 🙏.

  • @thatmilkywayguy5456
    @thatmilkywayguy5456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    YEAR LATER,THE GUY PORTAYED HOW TO DEAL A BULLY?

  • @Theshubhamsenkiya
    @Theshubhamsenkiya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Okay so here you maybe after recent bullied happened by a big Motivational TH-cam creator to prakhar & how he handle it is you could learn from this video.

  • @nithinkurian5145
    @nithinkurian5145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love this advice

  • @dalesteyn7715
    @dalesteyn7715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Salute sir 👍❤️

  • @joysharma5304
    @joysharma5304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man! Seems u are talking about me!Thanks!

  • @yashxxxxxxxx
    @yashxxxxxxxx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1.To test friendship (koi bada nhi hai dosto me)
    2.To test personality

  • @harikrishnanrajamohan6578
    @harikrishnanrajamohan6578 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    amazing channel

  • @coolbedz7109
    @coolbedz7109 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My friends when they are together, make fun of me relentlessly. But when i am alone with my one friend, he acts friendly. Now i think, they remove frustration and then act friendly. When they act freindly, they say, maza hi kr rehe teh, bura mat le.

    • @Marvaleditz2
      @Marvaleditz2 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bhai aak dam same to same howa hai mere sath

  • @ambujtiwari1221
    @ambujtiwari1221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Noice..needed it

  • @dimplemaini
    @dimplemaini 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is made for Vedant in Raw and Real

  • @lucyyeasmin9270
    @lucyyeasmin9270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It requires a whole rebirth to say a simple NO. It's about personality. That's why often it becomes tough for a bully victim to say NO

  • @ommm408
    @ommm408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I priorly tackled procastinaton for atleast 1&1/2 months. But it happened just happened.
    Andi didn't knew how it happened.
    But now I know clearly what happened

  • @EverythingAnythin
    @EverythingAnythin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I don't talk a lot when dealing with other people even with my friends like how group of friends generally pull each others legs for fun but i can't do that, i dont know why i cant do it, sometime i feel guilty even before saying something to a friend. And this attitude leads to represent me as someone who can be easily oppressed and when i back fire i just go off with cutting out the friendship and all or some thinks that i am not interested in their talks so they distend me, its not like i dont wanna indulge in the conversation but i like to stay quiet even if i had to say something.
    Can anybody from prakhar's team reach out my problem to him or any stranger can give me some advice about how to correct that because now i feel like kinda alone though i have friends.

    • @manojpal8967
      @manojpal8967 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      DM prakhar on instagram n share your problem

    • @anmoljyoti6072
      @anmoljyoti6072 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same problem it's my nature being quiet but it often interpret by few that I'm weak but if I backfire I become rude

    • @ameesha10
      @ameesha10 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's just your good nature that holds you back from saying anything bad to them. It means you are innocent and react hastily. All you need is calmness in your mind. Even if they disrespect you, just counter with the same intensity of disrespect and emotional change. Don't go to those people who don't want to be because they never realize your worth. Being quiet is the most powerful thing only a few have. There is nothing wrong with being a quiet person. Just cut those people from your life and live alone. Do your stuff, master it and become much great to those nonsense people. Stay away from them as far as you could. When you learn to live alone, you will be the most powerful person. You discern great. and when people realize your worth, they will come up to you and respect you and it ok if you can't find genuine people. Be with yourself and your family, that matters only.

  • @Funny-zn9hz
    @Funny-zn9hz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really it's very big problem

  • @roydipankar01
    @roydipankar01 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Right time I got this video