Holy cow, the quality on this video is top tier. I can tell you're a credible source of advice just by the way you speak. It's Genuine. Never lose that, please!!
always tried to avoid any social interaction in rl, im autistic and cant even really talk to someone for longer than 3 second with other words than yes and no. Why would i care about others, its not my life its theirs idc what they do as long as it doesnt interfere negatively with my life
(3:30) I once had long night conversations with a girl I had a crush on. To lighten the interaction and have a more open chat, I decided to have a small drink but with high percentage. Surprisingly, this worked for me, I was able to relax and communicate more freely. However, it's important to note that this approach isn't for everyone. Personally, I tend to feel less comfortable in conversations, with the exception of conversations with close friends and loved ones. Anyway.. I think you giving great Advice man! I will try to work on it.
Learning martial arts is also another good way to enhance your confidence and being more accountable and responsible also will make you more masculine.
as much as I agree, the next logical thing from “letting go” which idk what that means to you or anybody, is becoming the best version of yourself. Tyler’s quote about self improvement is referring to working towards a meaningless goal just because to give yourself some dopamine hit like masterbating. If someone is to find their purpose and work towards it, it is not meaningless, and it provides an outlet for fulfillment as well as not just looking for meaningless joy in the consumeristic dopamine filled world.
My theory when Tyler says self-improvement is bullshit and self-destruction is the answer is that getting out of your comfort zone and doing things you don't want to do, like when he says to space apes starting and losing a fight, that's true self-improvement is not the one that makes you feel good in the moment but has achieved long-term benefits. Accept self-destruction (improvement). Let me know your theory I’m interesting
I thought the point was to stop wasting your life and that its literally showing us, how men need purpose or we will become like that. Obviously everything is up to interpretation I've not actually watched it for about 6 years lol. Oh and that the current working climate and how we are as a society is ruining our mental and basically become zombified having stagnated in such a boring mundane 9-5 life when we used to have purpose not just a shitty job and be a wage slave being depressed all the time LOL. All these men come to tyler because they have nothing to live for. I think I need to rewatch now aha.
You have a great voice to listen to. And when you stop caring about what other people think (within reason: you don't have the right to hurt people) improves your life *dramatically*: you stop letting the opinions of "other people" affect your behavior, and how you feel about yourself. (And if Tyler were an out of shape dude, no one would have been inspired by him. Sorry, not sorry.) All the best.
Tyler Durden doesn't care about hurting people. Why do you think this guy does? He is specifically promoting not caring about others, to avoid talking to them if possible.
I am convinced that Cliff Booth, from Once Upon a Time in Hollywood., is based on Tyler Durden. The casting of Brad Pitt dispels any doubts in my mind about this!
not completely true, the message he brings is great. Rip loose from consumerism and follow your dreams. become who you really want to be instead of constantly frying your brain with dopamine all day. Nevertheless, the way in which this is potrayed is very dramatic to make the movie interesting and to show the duality in the narrators own personality and tyler.
I agree that you don't want to be like bateman but you do want to be like Tyler durden in the sense that he wants people to break free from all of the things making them weaker in turn destroying the weakness and creating new strength.
Yeah, that's what women think men are like. We jut keep thinking we've found one who isn't. All of Tyler's traits are based on NOT CARING ABOUT ANYONE ELSE. No empathy. No affection. No compassion. No attempt to establish any connection. No desire to communicate with others. I wouldn't brag about any of that. I feel sorry for men who lack warmth and prefer to be cold.
American pyscho is a movies not abt killing ppl but how u should feed ur "good side" also ur hobbies amd ur bad side so u wont be the nice guy or full on bad guy anime shit Fight club just dp something that makes ur life better just not stressful hobbies just enjoy life
I think you missed the idea that Tyler was a psychotic delusion of an insane mind, and was not supposed to be someone to be emulated. You also missed the idea, if you were foung to emulate him, where he declares "self improvement is masturbation".
Everyone has their own Tyler durden, the narrators Tyler was everything that he wanted to be, not everyone's Tyler is out to destroy consumerism. You must become your own Tyler, be how you want to be, look how you want to look, speak how you want to speak, the more you do that the more you will let yourself become Tyler durden.
"People do it every day. They see themselves as they want to be. They just don't have the courage you have... to run with it," - Tyler Durden I think what he's trying to say is that Tyler Durden embodies what you want to become. So no, we're not literally becoming Tyler from the movie, rather, we are self-destructing who society and those around us are telling us who we are and letting go of all of the bullshit to become an authentic version of ourself free from fear
@junij3524He probably meant that u shouldn't be like Tyler Durden, in the movie, as he promotes literal self destruction(1 hr sleep a day, starts a terrorist org, lives in a dilapidated house, steals human fat to make soap...) and discourages literal self improvement (improving ur physique (bus scene), getting a decent job, a decent home, sleep schedule...). I personally see it the way the two other people who replied see it tho, just explained what the guy commented is probably saying.
tyler durden isnt a person, hes an idea. (that is of course modified because of other mental disorders the narrator has). the narrator is the person that everyone overlooks. durden is simply a shadow of who we strive to become
Mental illness,took 30yrs each time I watched "Movie" Durden is pit. The narrator in the BOOK basically with out saying is I stopped ALL M Y MEDS & I FEEL GREAT. In book its you watching you,movie Norton"tyler" wasn't not at all cool he stank never washed his close wore 2nd hand 5 cent 76 old man mismatch clothes,point=if you see your self and inject self confidence YOU'LL find out who YOU really were meant 2 be. Not mimic A CRAZY person
In both american psycho and fight club, the whole message is that people become futile by only focusing on "self improvement", but in my opinion, some aspect has become futile if you're only putting effort on that, and nothing else. No, self improvement is not masturbation, but masturbating on your ego with self improvement is.
Tyler Durden is an Ideal for lonely men,like the people who follow Andrew Tate is his everything they aren’t he’s strong charismatic and gets the women he wants. But I’m the end not even the Narrater could ache I’ve it instead he learned that Durden is wrong and learns who he is
Durden was a nihilistic extreme, the movie is a warning against this type of masculinity. Its funny that although tyler durden is supposedly anti modernity and anti consumerist, he represents everything that our society values in men. The point of fight club is for men to have a balance of the narrator and tyler durden, and to cultivate real human connection.
He's also Brad Pitt, i bet that helps a lot too.
Holy cow, the quality on this video is top tier. I can tell you're a credible source of advice just by the way you speak. It's Genuine. Never lose that, please!!
Confidence is sexiest trait a man can possess.
Arrogance is not attractive. Not caring at all about others and trying to avoid conversation isn't sexy. It's arrogant and rude.
@@do9138 not caring and avoiding convos isnt arrogance
always tried to avoid any social interaction in rl, im autistic and cant even really talk to someone for longer than 3 second with other words than yes and no. Why would i care about others, its not my life its theirs idc what they do as long as it doesnt interfere negatively with my life
And really strong Weed
@@do9138SIGMA MALES
You have something really good going on here. Keep on the grind!
Keep this up mate.
If there is truth behind your words, then you will go far kid.
(3:30)
I once had long night conversations with a girl I had a crush on. To lighten the interaction and have a more open chat, I decided to have a small drink but with high percentage. Surprisingly, this worked for me, I was able to relax and communicate more freely. However, it's important to note that this approach isn't for everyone. Personally, I tend to feel less comfortable in conversations, with the exception of conversations with close friends and loved ones.
Anyway.. I think you giving great Advice man! I will try to work on it.
Same
Step 1: have split personality disorder.
Check, what's next?
@@kaylebsingsstuffreal
step 2: HAVE SPLIT PERSONALITY DISORDER
Learning martial arts is also another good way to enhance your confidence and being more accountable and responsible also will make you more masculine.
literally the point of fight club was to reject self improvement, just let go
as much as I agree, the next logical thing from “letting go” which idk what that means to you or anybody, is becoming the best version of yourself. Tyler’s quote about self improvement is referring to working towards a meaningless goal just because to give yourself some dopamine hit like masterbating. If someone is to find their purpose and work towards it, it is not meaningless, and it provides an outlet for fulfillment as well as not just looking for meaningless joy in the consumeristic dopamine filled world.
Tyler didn't tell to REJECT self improvement ...
My theory when Tyler says self-improvement is bullshit and self-destruction is the answer is that getting out of your comfort zone and doing things you don't want to do, like when he says to space apes starting and losing a fight, that's true self-improvement is not the one that makes you feel good in the moment but has achieved long-term benefits. Accept self-destruction (improvement).
Let me know your theory I’m interesting
I thought the point was to stop wasting your life and that its literally showing us, how men need purpose or we will become like that. Obviously everything is up to interpretation I've not actually watched it for about 6 years lol. Oh and that the current working climate and how we are as a society is ruining our mental and basically become zombified having stagnated in such a boring mundane 9-5 life when we used to have purpose not just a shitty job and be a wage slave being depressed all the time LOL. All these men come to tyler because they have nothing to live for. I think I need to rewatch now aha.
@@Beleth420 great thought mate, we just need a purpose in life :)
I'm a girl but I find Tyler very inspiring
really?
@ yes
@@eyes1168 can i get your insta i want to know your perspective of tyler durden
@@eyes1168 Can i have ur insta i want to know your perspective on tyler
@@eyes1168 give me your insta i will discuss tyler with you
You have a great voice to listen to. And when you stop caring about what other people think (within reason: you don't have the right to hurt people) improves your life *dramatically*: you stop letting the opinions of "other people" affect your behavior, and how you feel about yourself. (And if Tyler were an out of shape dude, no one would have been inspired by him. Sorry, not sorry.) All the best.
Tyler Durden doesn't care about hurting people. Why do you think this guy does? He is specifically promoting not caring about others, to avoid talking to them if possible.
i think overcoming every negative things or obstacle in our lives is a definition of confidence ✨
This is actually really good advice
Self improvement is masturbation. Now, Self destruction.
Ik im late but along with being strong, confident and hot he also rejected self improvement, favouring destruction. Hence the paradox
People who prefer destruction get what they want -- destroyed. Notice who survives in Fight Club.
The intro is Awesome
Thats straight to point
Btw your abs are insane dude 🔥
Love your vids, thank you bro
I am convinced that Cliff Booth, from Once Upon a Time in Hollywood., is based on Tyler Durden. The casting of Brad Pitt dispels any doubts in my mind about this!
Who is Tyler durden? And why are u showing blank backgrounds with no one
Learn from different peoples from which you inspire the most and collect all the stuffs to be a better version of yourself
The whole point of Fight Club was the same as American Psycho, you're not supposed to like him or want to be him.
not completely true, the message he brings is great. Rip loose from consumerism and follow your dreams. become who you really want to be instead of constantly frying your brain with dopamine all day. Nevertheless, the way in which this is potrayed is very dramatic to make the movie interesting and to show the duality in the narrators own personality and tyler.
I agree that you don't want to be like bateman but you do want to be like Tyler durden in the sense that he wants people to break free from all of the things making them weaker in turn destroying the weakness and creating new strength.
I want to be like him.
And look at what society has made men.
I am him.
MEN WHO WEAR THE BLUE RALPH LAUREN BATH ROBE WILL BE REMEBERED FOR MILLENIA 🗣🗣
😭😭the way these jokes be placed
Anyone notice he wrote durdan instead of durden
step number 1.
have plot armour.
If u not prepared mentally don't do it. Do it , but prepare. Don't jump all in 😂
Great physique brother.I respect you work ethic.
Yeah, that's what women think men are like. We jut keep thinking we've found one who isn't. All of Tyler's traits are based on NOT CARING ABOUT ANYONE ELSE. No empathy. No affection. No compassion. No attempt to establish any connection. No desire to communicate with others. I wouldn't brag about any of that. I feel sorry for men who lack warmth and prefer to be cold.
vr makes me stronger
"Self improvement is masturbation."
"But self destruction" 🫰
3:29 dude what💀💀💀
Ima do these things and come back with the result
Oi mate what happened
Hey bro how is it?
wsp
Be yourself
good content.
That's why i pay my internet bills 💸
American pyscho is a movies not abt killing ppl but how u should feed ur "good side" also ur hobbies amd ur bad side so u wont be the nice guy or full on bad guy anime shit
Fight club just dp something that makes ur life better just not stressful hobbies just enjoy life
I think just have fun with it.
Bro got the same abs genes
1. It's Brad Pitt
Me every 1am
He’s not you where’s your homeless man mansion bruh?
I think you missed the idea that Tyler was a psychotic delusion of an insane mind, and was not supposed to be someone to be emulated. You also missed the idea, if you were foung to emulate him, where he declares "self improvement is masturbation".
Everyone has their own Tyler durden, the narrators Tyler was everything that he wanted to be, not everyone's Tyler is out to destroy consumerism. You must become your own Tyler, be how you want to be, look how you want to look, speak how you want to speak, the more you do that the more you will let yourself become Tyler durden.
"People do it every day. They see themselves as they want to be. They just don't have the courage you have... to run with it," - Tyler Durden
I think what he's trying to say is that Tyler Durden embodies what you want to become. So no, we're not literally becoming Tyler from the movie, rather, we are self-destructing who society and those around us are telling us who we are and letting go of all of the bullshit to become an authentic version of ourself free from fear
Mate, i am him.
I don't think you understand.
@junij3524He probably meant that u shouldn't be like Tyler Durden, in the movie, as he promotes literal self destruction(1 hr sleep a day, starts a terrorist org, lives in a dilapidated house, steals human fat to make soap...) and discourages literal self improvement (improving ur physique (bus scene), getting a decent job, a decent home, sleep schedule...). I personally see it the way the two other people who replied see it tho, just explained what the guy commented is probably saying.
tyler durden isnt a person, hes an idea. (that is of course modified because of other mental disorders the narrator has). the narrator is the person that everyone overlooks. durden is simply a shadow of who we strive to become
bro is brad pitt
Interesting brother, never watched the movie but nonetheless good video
thanks for the support von, keep up the good content
go watch it!!!!!
Buddy you missed the whole idea. You're not supposed to be like them. The characters itself like they are supposed to be. Be yourself.
It’s just a video about confidence at the end of the day man, im not saying to be exactly like Tyler Durden.
You are telling me to get a gun?
Peak soundtrack
Thank ya
whats at 6:00?
Just be a figment of your imagination like Tyler durden
Good one❤😂
I watched your videos and I like it so much I am thumbnail designer and video editor also a movie lover I will love to edit your videos
What's the intro theme name ?
i dont remember but its something by mozart i think
symphony 38 first movement
Bro, if you are sub5 no one will talk to you. Taje that into account wheb you build your flawless theory of confidence
Best video, but how do you stay in his mindset?
you must adapt into your own mindset, his mindset is only a template for confidence.
@@abreian thank you bro, got it nailed now!
TYLER IS SOMEONE ELSE
self improvement is masturbation ~ Tyler Burden
Mental illness,took 30yrs each time I watched "Movie" Durden is pit. The narrator in the BOOK basically with out saying is I stopped ALL M Y MEDS & I FEEL GREAT. In book its you watching you,movie Norton"tyler" wasn't not at all cool he stank never washed his close wore 2nd hand 5 cent 76 old man mismatch clothes,point=if you see your self and inject self confidence YOU'LL find out who YOU really were meant 2 be. Not mimic A CRAZY person
one letter w
In both american psycho and fight club, the whole message is that people become futile by only focusing on "self improvement", but in my opinion, some aspect has become futile if you're only putting effort on that, and nothing else. No, self improvement is not masturbation, but masturbating on your ego with self improvement is.
self improvment is masturbation
ur kidna a legned bro
What's the difference between your mother and a washing machine?
when I dump a load in the washing machine, it doesn’t follow me around for a week.
@@abreian 😂😅 fucking hell that is funny.
Tyler Durden is an Ideal for lonely men,like the people who follow Andrew Tate is his everything they aren’t he’s strong charismatic and gets the women he wants. But I’m the end not even the Narrater could ache I’ve it instead he learned that Durden is wrong and learns who he is
Durden was a nihilistic extreme, the movie is a warning against this type of masculinity. Its funny that although tyler durden is supposedly anti modernity and anti consumerist, he represents everything that our society values in men. The point of fight club is for men to have a balance of the narrator and tyler durden, and to cultivate real human connection.
😅😂 You just wanna be good guy
actually u should go for detail
Shit sounds like a castrated Tyler Durden
I still dont and will never get this masculinity shit
dawg FR did these people understand the point of the movie 😭
tyler is not supposed to be a role model.
Wrong
But he Is
🫵🏽🫡
i feel you're missing the point of Tyler Durden's character by trying to be like him
Hes trying show how having some of tylers good traits can help in improvement
drugs
Sigma the Alphas and Betas
confidence is good when you have a clear purpose. no, being masculine is not a purpose.
You talk too much
The lips story is the most untyler durden thing ever Tyler was far from homosexuality
You don't wanna be like him, stop.
Bro packin some BEEF in his draws wtf😅. But nah youre too young you dont realise that the message is DONT become that
U look like my ex
who says I’m not
also adding the clip of you licking your lips definitely wasn't necessary
It certainly was necessary
@@abreianof course it was necessary. It brought the while video together
Of course it was, it broke my nofap streak
@@SpecialAbonnent bruhh what you said ?