How To Get Confidence like Tyler Durden

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  • Fight Club is easily one of the most influential movies in the past few decades. And why? because it's relatable. It tells the story of a depressed consumeristic man who finds his way into a less depressed consumeristic life by the means of a man named Tyler Durden.....
    yeah hes pretty much literally me.
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  • @Drpebba_
    @Drpebba_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Holy cow, the quality on this video is top tier. I can tell you're a credible source of advice just by the way you speak. It's Genuine. Never lose that, please!!

  • @katjaanderson769
    @katjaanderson769 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You have a great voice to listen to. And when you stop caring about what other people think (within reason: you don't have the right to hurt people) improves your life *dramatically*: you stop letting the opinions of "other people" affect your behavior, and how you feel about yourself. (And if Tyler were an out of shape dude, no one would have been inspired by him. Sorry, not sorry.) All the best.

  • @plabdien
    @plabdien 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    You have something really good going on here. Keep on the grind!

  • @minecraftspiderqueen
    @minecraftspiderqueen 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    Keep this up mate.
    If there is truth behind your words, then you will go far kid.

  • @adithyanb4895
    @adithyanb4895 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    Confidence is sexiest trait a man can possess.

  • @MarcusAlexander-hu8er
    @MarcusAlexander-hu8er 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love your vids, thank you bro

  • @joaqu7002
    @joaqu7002 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    This is actually really good advice

  • @markflakezCG
    @markflakezCG 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    (3:30)
    I once had long night conversations with a girl I had a crush on. To lighten the interaction and have a more open chat, I decided to have a small drink but with high percentage. Surprisingly, this worked for me, I was able to relax and communicate more freely. However, it's important to note that this approach isn't for everyone. Personally, I tend to feel less comfortable in conversations, with the exception of conversations with close friends and loved ones.
    Anyway.. I think you giving great Advice man! I will try to work on it.

  • @gloomys5435
    @gloomys5435 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    literally the point of fight club was to reject self improvement, just let go

    • @abreian
      @abreian  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

      as much as I agree, the next logical thing from “letting go” which idk what that means to you or anybody, is becoming the best version of yourself. Tyler’s quote about self improvement is referring to working towards a meaningless goal just because to give yourself some dopamine hit like masterbating. If someone is to find their purpose and work towards it, it is not meaningless, and it provides an outlet for fulfillment as well as not just looking for meaningless joy in the consumeristic dopamine filled world.

    • @arfius6134
      @arfius6134 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Tyler didn't tell to REJECT self improvement ...

    • @PapiStolet
      @PapiStolet 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      My theory when Tyler says self-improvement is bullshit and self-destruction is the answer is that getting out of your comfort zone and doing things you don't want to do, like when he says to space apes starting and losing a fight, that's true self-improvement is not the one that makes you feel good in the moment but has achieved long-term benefits. Accept self-destruction (improvement).
      Let me know your theory I’m interesting

    • @Beleth420
      @Beleth420 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I thought the point was to stop wasting your life and that its literally showing us, how men need purpose or we will become like that. Obviously everything is up to interpretation I've not actually watched it for about 6 years lol. Oh and that the current working climate and how we are as a society is ruining our mental and basically become zombified having stagnated in such a boring mundane 9-5 life when we used to have purpose not just a shitty job and be a wage slave being depressed all the time LOL. All these men come to tyler because they have nothing to live for. I think I need to rewatch now aha.

    • @PapiStolet
      @PapiStolet 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Beleth420 great thought mate, we just need a purpose in life :)

  • @PRODAMXL
    @PRODAMXL 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thats straight to point
    Btw your abs are insane dude 🔥

  • @loganleslie9814
    @loganleslie9814 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great physique brother.I respect you work ethic.

  • @realityisawasteland
    @realityisawasteland 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The intro is Awesome

  • @top_10________
    @top_10________ หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Anyone notice he wrote durdan instead of durden

  • @ajaykumar-ml1dt
    @ajaykumar-ml1dt 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    good content.

  • @speggie9628
    @speggie9628 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    😭😭the way these jokes be placed

  • @Squeshit
    @Squeshit 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Self improvement is masturbation. Now, Self destruction.

  • @Dandoskyballer
    @Dandoskyballer 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    Step 1: have split personality disorder.

    • @kaylebsingsstuff
      @kaylebsingsstuff 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Check, what's next?

    • @mrdudeman57
      @mrdudeman57 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@kaylebsingsstuffreal

    • @Upuiff09
      @Upuiff09 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      step 2: HAVE SPLIT PERSONALITY DISORDER

  • @lordeddy05
    @lordeddy05 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank ya

  • @parkerbanks1704
    @parkerbanks1704 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Ik im late but along with being strong, confident and hot he also rejected self improvement, favouring destruction. Hence the paradox

  • @xxRetardGamingxx
    @xxRetardGamingxx 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    underrated song at the end

  • @auxfraudstar
    @auxfraudstar 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    MEN WHO WEAR THE BLUE RALPH LAUREN BATH ROBE WILL BE REMEBERED FOR MILLENIA 🗣🗣

  • @lionforlambs9167
    @lionforlambs9167 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good one❤😂

  • @paulomurici9075
    @paulomurici9075 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Peak soundtrack

  • @seynpurrp
    @seynpurrp 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    step number 1.
    have plot armour.

  • @Snewhy0
    @Snewhy0 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If u not prepared mentally don't do it. Do it , but prepare. Don't jump all in 😂

  • @AkshanshVerma-xu8nd
    @AkshanshVerma-xu8nd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro got the same abs genes

  • @shadowmomochiuchiha6839
    @shadowmomochiuchiha6839 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    "Self improvement is masturbation."

    • @TheP0dcastHub
      @TheP0dcastHub 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      "But self destruction" 🫰

  • @death8987
    @death8987 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Ima do these things and come back with the result

  • @warrior77-profi
    @warrior77-profi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Be yourself

  • @Ector2099
    @Ector2099 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    In both american psycho and fight club, the whole message is that people become futile by only focusing on "self improvement", but in my opinion, some aspect has become futile if you're only putting effort on that, and nothing else. No, self improvement is not masturbation, but masturbating on your ego with self improvement is.

  • @infaredx
    @infaredx 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +598

    The whole point of Fight Club was the same as American Psycho, you're not supposed to like him or want to be him.

    • @lukestreng3660
      @lukestreng3660 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +276

      not completely true, the message he brings is great. Rip loose from consumerism and follow your dreams. become who you really want to be instead of constantly frying your brain with dopamine all day. Nevertheless, the way in which this is potrayed is very dramatic to make the movie interesting and to show the duality in the narrators own personality and tyler.

    • @bigsmoke2287
      @bigsmoke2287 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

      I agree that you don't want to be like bateman but you do want to be like Tyler durden in the sense that he wants people to break free from all of the things making them weaker in turn destroying the weakness and creating new strength.

    • @ryken4456
      @ryken4456 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      I want to be like him.

    • @chefboyardee4674
      @chefboyardee4674 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      And look at what society has made men.

    • @minecraftspiderqueen
      @minecraftspiderqueen 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am him.

  • @Potter12349
    @Potter12349 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    one letter w

  • @Beasty_76
    @Beasty_76 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Buddy you missed the whole idea. You're not supposed to be like them. The characters itself like they are supposed to be. Be yourself.

    • @abreian
      @abreian  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It’s just a video about confidence at the end of the day man, im not saying to be exactly like Tyler Durden.

  • @minhkhang3274
    @minhkhang3274 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    whats at 6:00?

  • @ieatwater325
    @ieatwater325 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    3:29 dude what💀💀💀

  • @lumenknight5673
    @lumenknight5673 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    He’s not you where’s your homeless man mansion bruh?

  • @GUYISNOTNORMAL
    @GUYISNOTNORMAL 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    American pyscho is a movies not abt killing ppl but how u should feed ur "good side" also ur hobbies amd ur bad side so u wont be the nice guy or full on bad guy anime shit
    Fight club just dp something that makes ur life better just not stressful hobbies just enjoy life

  • @jesuslopez6873
    @jesuslopez6873 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    1. It's Brad Pitt

  • @vonthedon3
    @vonthedon3 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Interesting brother, never watched the movie but nonetheless good video

    • @abreian
      @abreian  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thanks for the support von, keep up the good content

    • @socialdestroyer
      @socialdestroyer 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      go watch it!!!!!

  • @Fightclubfan69
    @Fightclubfan69 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I still dont and will never get this masculinity shit

    • @kazattak
      @kazattak 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      dawg FR did these people understand the point of the movie 😭

  • @wwleoo
    @wwleoo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are telling me to get a gun?

  • @abdelmajidzaki-hw8ii
    @abdelmajidzaki-hw8ii 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What's the intro theme name ?

    • @supercringeteam6666
      @supercringeteam6666 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i dont remember but its something by mozart i think

    • @supercringeteam6666
      @supercringeteam6666 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      symphony 38 first movement

  • @justmeeagainn
    @justmeeagainn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    I think you missed the idea that Tyler was a psychotic delusion of an insane mind, and was not supposed to be someone to be emulated. You also missed the idea, if you were foung to emulate him, where he declares "self improvement is masturbation".

    • @radiogoon1354
      @radiogoon1354 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      Everyone has their own Tyler durden, the narrators Tyler was everything that he wanted to be, not everyone's Tyler is out to destroy consumerism. You must become your own Tyler, be how you want to be, look how you want to look, speak how you want to speak, the more you do that the more you will let yourself become Tyler durden.

    • @ethanwall6994
      @ethanwall6994 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      "People do it every day. They see themselves as they want to be. They just don't have the courage you have... to run with it," - Tyler Durden
      I think what he's trying to say is that Tyler Durden embodies what you want to become. So no, we're not literally becoming Tyler from the movie, rather, we are self-destructing who society and those around us are telling us who we are and letting go of all of the bullshit to become an authentic version of ourself free from fear

    • @minecraftspiderqueen
      @minecraftspiderqueen 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Mate, i am him.
      I don't think you understand.

    • @mstrslay3752
      @mstrslay3752 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@junij3524He probably meant that u shouldn't be like Tyler Durden, in the movie, as he promotes literal self destruction(1 hr sleep a day, starts a terrorist org, lives in a dilapidated house, steals human fat to make soap...) and discourages literal self improvement (improving ur physique (bus scene), getting a decent job, a decent home, sleep schedule...). I personally see it the way the two other people who replied see it tho, just explained what the guy commented is probably saying.

  • @silverleaf1261
    @silverleaf1261 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    TYLER IS SOMEONE ELSE

  • @someguyinazoo
    @someguyinazoo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Tyler Durden is an Ideal for lonely men,like the people who follow Andrew Tate is his everything they aren’t he’s strong charismatic and gets the women he wants. But I’m the end not even the Narrater could ache I’ve it instead he learned that Durden is wrong and learns who he is

    • @Ben-zg8xk
      @Ben-zg8xk 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Durden was a nihilistic extreme, the movie is a warning against this type of masculinity. Its funny that although tyler durden is supposedly anti modernity and anti consumerist, he represents everything that our society values in men. The point of fight club is for men to have a balance of the narrator and tyler durden, and to cultivate real human connection.

    • @aliimrankaya4952
      @aliimrankaya4952 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😅😂 You just wanna be good guy

    • @enthalpyart220
      @enthalpyart220 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      actually u should go for detail

  • @XBLxAviationX
    @XBLxAviationX 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🫵🏽🫡

  • @sikegaming8873
    @sikegaming8873 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    self improvement is masturbation ~ Tyler Burden

  • @Gmanj26
    @Gmanj26 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Best video, but how do you stay in his mindset?

    • @abreian
      @abreian  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      you must adapt into your own mindset, his mindset is only a template for confidence.

    • @Gmanj26
      @Gmanj26 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@abreian thank you bro, got it nailed now!

  • @cali9059
    @cali9059 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    tyler is not supposed to be a role model.

  • @kyle8175
    @kyle8175 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    drugs

  • @Arya-rg3xx
    @Arya-rg3xx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    self improvment is masturbation

  • @nervinokaras
    @nervinokaras 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    What's the difference between your mother and a washing machine?

    • @abreian
      @abreian  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      when I dump a load in the washing machine, it doesn’t follow me around for a week.

    • @GentlemanGaming1122
      @GentlemanGaming1122 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@abreian 😂😅 fucking hell that is funny.

  • @tipoftheiceberg7034
    @tipoftheiceberg7034 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro packin some BEEF in his draws wtf😅. But nah youre too young you dont realise that the message is DONT become that

  • @kefir8257
    @kefir8257 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You don't wanna be like him, stop.

  • @heltych
    @heltych 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    confidence is good when you have a clear purpose. no, being masculine is not a purpose.

  • @Wander06
    @Wander06 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Shit sounds like a castrated Tyler Durden

  • @jasminegrace8097
    @jasminegrace8097 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    U look like my ex

    • @abreian
      @abreian  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      who says I’m not

  • @umanuu
    @umanuu 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i feel you're missing the point of Tyler Durden's character by trying to be like him

    • @Thebootlegmariobros
      @Thebootlegmariobros 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Hes trying show how having some of tylers good traits can help in improvement

  • @lumenknight5673
    @lumenknight5673 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sigma the Alphas and Betas

  • @user-gr8mx4hc6q
    @user-gr8mx4hc6q 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You talk too much

  • @justheretoinspireyou5803
    @justheretoinspireyou5803 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The lips story is the most untyler durden thing ever Tyler was far from homosexuality

  • @infaredx
    @infaredx 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    also adding the clip of you licking your lips definitely wasn't necessary

    • @abreian
      @abreian  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      It certainly was necessary

    • @hasantnaz2235
      @hasantnaz2235 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@abreianof course it was necessary. It brought the while video together

    • @SpecialAbonnent
      @SpecialAbonnent 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Of course it was, it broke my nofap streak

  • @nonishah1069
    @nonishah1069 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If you're watching this your already lame