The Loss of a Child is so Hard... (We Miss Abel)

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  • @kwnativegirl
    @kwnativegirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2088

    I don’t know if you remember me, with all you are going through. I was the secretary every Saturday night when Abel was in the PICU. I heard of his passing this weekend and was DEVASTATED! (And then you popped up as a suggested video! I didn’t even know you had a channel!) I will be praying for both of you during this time, and I admit I’ll miss seeing you guys every weekend! But as you said, Abel is FINALLY healed! Blessings to you both. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 Love, Carie

    • @peachxtaehyung
      @peachxtaehyung 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      I am not the parents but i want to thank you for what you do. Rip Abel

    • @debbief7147
      @debbief7147 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      RIP Abel , you are whole now buddy . Prayers for your Mommy and Daddy 🙏🙏

    • @leilanimendez9741
      @leilanimendez9741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Miranda Stephens she was just a secretary 😂 she didn’t do anything lol

    • @jessicakosak4138
      @jessicakosak4138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      @@leilanimendez9741 I just wanted to let you know that taking care of those precious little ones who are sick requires a team effort from ALOT of people. I'm just telling you this so you know that the doctors and nurses cannot do their job without the help of sooooo many others. She most definitely did help care for him. It takes a village. Much love. ♥️

    • @leilanimendez9741
      @leilanimendez9741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jessica Kosak she didnt help care for him lmaoo what did she do but sign him in ? 😂 my moms a doctor and she tells me everyday they don’t do anything but make appts and sign people in and scan things. But whatever floats your boat lady :)

  • @brownsugar5162
    @brownsugar5162 4 ปีที่แล้ว +756

    “ The story is not over” he finished his purpose on earth and will continue giving happiness in heaven.

  • @fling3887
    @fling3887 4 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    he's running, laughing & playing in heaven

    • @katielouisecunninghamsmith4312
      @katielouisecunninghamsmith4312 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes he is I feel my daughter's are too I lost my special needs at 7 recently and my 3 month old daughter almost 16 years ago. They all the kids have passed are running free now

  • @brenna5202
    @brenna5202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +820

    “So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.” 2 Corinthians 4:18 ❤️

    • @bootie42
      @bootie42 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss he's with God and is no longer in pain you have a beautiful Angel he is in longer in pain. I pray for you and your family 🙏

    • @debbiedoestinyliving85
      @debbiedoestinyliving85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @GuessWho not only are you a self professed atheist you are hateful.

    • @katymahon6494
      @katymahon6494 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      GuessWho why would you even say that. If people believe in heaven and god let them believe. God is giving them so much Comfort as they go through this difficult time. That’s what matters

    • @itynotbity
      @itynotbity 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen! ♥️

    • @Katie-dq5jo
      @Katie-dq5jo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      GuessWho i am also atheist but this isn’t the time or place for this. A child died, allow the parents to find peace in their faith.

  • @lucejuiceable
    @lucejuiceable 4 ปีที่แล้ว +363

    I am pregnant right now and this is just breaking my heart to watch what a beautiful send off for him

    • @bellabelphin2011
      @bellabelphin2011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I am too. I’m due September 22nd. U?

    • @Timeira
      @Timeira 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yo u have your baby yet

    • @Timeira
      @Timeira 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bellabelphin2011 yo u soon to have your baby!

    • @livehappy222
      @livehappy222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm due Sept. 10 🥺

    • @simplysquishxroblox9163
      @simplysquishxroblox9163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Monica Denisse I hope birth for all y’all goes well

  • @tn8783
    @tn8783 4 ปีที่แล้ว +678

    I definitely don’t consider myself a religious person, but this really did open my eyes to the good sides of what religion can be. Media really has turned the majority of religion into something really bad and hateful, but this reassured me that it can still come with a lot of good. I wish you both the best

    • @lauren-gc2iy
      @lauren-gc2iy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      tn it's not a religion, it's a relationship. you're absolutely right, the media (and even some people who claim to be Christians) make it out to be so hateful but, God is love.

    • @mistid1485
      @mistid1485 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Read the Bible.

    • @kaitlyn.elizbeth291
      @kaitlyn.elizbeth291 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      tn as a religious person, it hurts a lot knowing that so many people see us as horrible or think that all priests are horrible people, of course it also hurts so much to think that the really horrible priests go against everything we stand for and are only there to get to children it’s truly sickening. I hope that someday people will understand that religion can be good.

    • @kaitlyn.elizbeth291
      @kaitlyn.elizbeth291 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      tn as a religious person, it hurts a lot knowing that so many people see us as horrible or think that all priests are horrible people, of course it also hurts so much to think that the really horrible priests go against everything we stand for and are only there to get to children it’s truly sickening. I hope that someday people will understand that religion can be good.

    • @mistid1485
      @mistid1485 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@kaitlyn.elizbeth291 Personally I don't see religious people as bad. It depends what they do with their religion.
      But there are certain things in the Bible that I just don't understand. And it seems that most Christians either deny those parts of the Bible and turn a blind eye...or they use it to justify hate or violence.

  • @ausrajasinskaite6687
    @ausrajasinskaite6687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +489

    “Blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall see God.”
    - ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭5:8‬‬

  • @AubsAndreya
    @AubsAndreya 4 ปีที่แล้ว +462

    I’m not religious but this video was one of the most beautiful things I’ve seen and the closest I’ve felt to god in a long time

    • @debbiedoestinyliving85
      @debbiedoestinyliving85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He is talking to you about something. #itsnotaReligionItisLIFE. #LOVEYA

    • @hxcknall_
      @hxcknall_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I'm not religious either (nor I was or will be) but I do support those who can find in their faith a way to cope with things in life (as long as they aren't hurting others). They find peace in that, who am I to tell them otherwise?

    • @LaReyna
      @LaReyna 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Praise God !

    • @nicolesaylor4027
      @nicolesaylor4027 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You don't have to be religious to believe in n God and his miracles!

    • @theserenecrane
      @theserenecrane 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly!! Thanks for sharing!

  • @SherryVasquez97
    @SherryVasquez97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    I just envisioned Abel crawling in heaven and then seeing God and God saying "come here abel come here"and him just crawling super fast towards God with a huge smile on his face and laughing

    • @LadyLoLinda
      @LadyLoLinda 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      cherry bomb You just made me cry ❤️ So beautiful!

    • @debbiedoestinyliving85
      @debbiedoestinyliving85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The smile that isnt hindered with tubes, pain or swollen.. He was cute with them anyways.. #thatSMILE

    • @MelB868
      @MelB868 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He is 3 years old he can walk and run up there.

    • @choosnau
      @choosnau 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is.... pretty creepy

    • @Forever7fiction
      @Forever7fiction 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      i'm not even religious and yet that made me cry

  • @deborahruthbarlow1695
    @deborahruthbarlow1695 4 ปีที่แล้ว +833

    Our deepest condolences. Our son, Brennen, died in August 2019. He killed himself. We sobbed for weeks. The pain lessens, but that hurt sticks with you.

    • @susanthomas413
      @susanthomas413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Deborah Ruth Barlow peace be with you

    • @sierrasaleste
      @sierrasaleste 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Deborah Ruth Barlow I’m so sorry for your loss 💔
      My sister & i had a childhood friend who took her own life as well because of people sexually harassing her & bullying her she was 15 or 16 I miss her a lot i always think about her & in hopes she’s at peace ❤️🥺

    • @deborahruthbarlow1695
      @deborahruthbarlow1695 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks 😊

    • @jessicac391
      @jessicac391 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤗

    • @johnnyemitchell8539
      @johnnyemitchell8539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Deborah Ruth Barlow so sorry for your loss. Our son died Sept. 2017. I didn’t think we would ever be able to smile or laugh again. But slowly, ever so slowly, we are healing. Like you said the pain lessens but that hurt will be with us forever. I know we will get to see our boys again.

  • @yazmine7975
    @yazmine7975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    When they said he’s finally healed 😭😔❤️

  • @jillop2614
    @jillop2614 4 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    “When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life so that when you die, the world cries and you rejoice.”...R.I.P Abel

  • @christindubin3434
    @christindubin3434 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I lost my daughter. She was 1 lbs 3 oz when born. She lived for 5 minutes. About a year after she was born, I woke up one morning overcome with happiness and joy that she was with God. I wasn't sad anymore. I'm so happy you were Abel :) to feel this way right away. He is always with you. He is healed!

    • @Sarah-hj4jj
      @Sarah-hj4jj 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was born at 1lb 3 oz too at 21 weeks. Happy to hear she lived as long as she did. I am so sorry she passed away. So happy God healed you. God bless.

  • @tdmccreerymccreery2907
    @tdmccreerymccreery2907 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    My heart is with you. Yesterday was the 6th anniversary of my daughters passing. She was special needs and they said she would never make it out of the hospital after she was born. She passed just shy of her 9th birthday. Abel was a miracle just like my daughter was. They were each one of God’s greatest gifts you could ever receive. Sending love and light your way💕

  • @mimu1044
    @mimu1044 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    God knows what hes doing ❤️ I lost my baby at 8 months pregnant.. and theres no words to describe the pain... but God is a healer... and he will heal your hearts.. just like he did with mine. Now you will remember him but just remember you will see him again ..

  • @sarapetuya3325
    @sarapetuya3325 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I lost my special needs child almost 5 years ago. I was struggling until I had a dream of her skipping around god and family! I know she is at peace. It doesn’t get easier but you learn to walk through it.

  • @ambitious2915
    @ambitious2915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    Jesus said “Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs to the kingdom of heaven. Matthew 19 vs 14 .....I am sorry for your lost and may God cover you both and may you find comfort in him 🙏🏽

  • @brenna5202
    @brenna5202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    I cannot even imagine the heartbreak you are feeling but also the joy and peace of knowing he is safe with Jesus no longer in any pain, free from the medication and tubes! Jesus makes all the difference in how you deal with things. You have hope, strength, and a greater understanding. It’s ok to cry 💙 Amen about Spring! Amen!!! I will be praying for peace, strength, and everlasting comfort. ❤️ your sweet boy is in the BEST place! In the arms of our Savior Jesus ❤️ I cannot wait you meet him in Heaven one day!

  • @merinbabu1760
    @merinbabu1760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Just imagine.. he is in fathers lap.. pain free, stress free.. just love and peace

  • @yvonnesio4580
    @yvonnesio4580 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I love his name 💙 I lost my daughter on March 06th, 2020 (1st time parent as well) & I believe Jesus got yours and mine ❤️ safe and sound in His arms. ☺️ sleep tight Abel. Don’t forget to visit your parents. 💛

    • @keirajayne__
      @keirajayne__ 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yvonne Sio I’m sorry for your loss 💛 I hope you’re doing better and know God is looking after them x

    • @marissaphelps3917
      @marissaphelps3917 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      God is watching over you. Don’t give up and keep going on and stay strong.so sorry for your loss and God bless you

    • @alexmolina7033
      @alexmolina7033 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so sorry 😞 my son was born that day, I just cried being thankful for my baby

  • @kendratyson7441
    @kendratyson7441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I’m crying like a baby over here.
    Abel is such a precious life. I’m so glad you guys got to be his parents. I know you guys loved him, and still do.

  • @ericasalas759
    @ericasalas759 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Keep living for him. He’s so much more alive in heaven with the Lord. He’s more a kid now than he’s ever been. He’s out of pain. Rest parents, rest

  • @ranellemanning3473
    @ranellemanning3473 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I'm amazed by your strength you have together.

  • @babas123
    @babas123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    hey is safe with god don’t worry he is an angel he is in heaven god bless your family and u guys !!!!! 🥺🥺🥺😭😭😘😘😘😘😘

  • @MC-kz1mo
    @MC-kz1mo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    You need to lean on eachother. Hold one another when one is falling apart. Comfort and hug eachother when one is crying. You both are in this together! Your marriage is being tested as well by God. Stick together!

  • @ninac2789
    @ninac2789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    No parent should ever have to do something like this. I am so sorry for you, but you did the right thing. God bless you guys.

  • @anishalanghorn2573
    @anishalanghorn2573 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    That garden scene...whew....i have chills that was so beautiful. Im glad you all were able to have that moment with him.

  • @laikenl1092
    @laikenl1092 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I am very sorry for you loss. Loosing a loved one is very hard. God and Jesus are taking care of him now. May you rest in peace Abel❤️👼🏽 May you fly high

  • @MyFamJam28
    @MyFamJam28 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    :( passed away on my brithday. I cant imagine losing one of my boys. My heart goes out to your family. I send all my love and support to you.

  • @sarai040394
    @sarai040394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    As a new mom of a baby boy, this really breaks me. Literally balling & ive never even seen your guys’ video but this one..I’m sorry for any pain or sadness you’ve endured but thankful to God for the strength & peace He has given you guys.

  • @nursewilson1213
    @nursewilson1213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    “And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.”
    ‭‭Revelation‬ ‭21:4‬ ‭KJV‬‬
    This is one of my favorite Bible verses. I’m an oncology nurse and this always comes to mind when someone is finally able to live! You two are so inspirational. God is with you! Prayers for healing!

  • @caskat3441
    @caskat3441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I was your waitress at chedders a few weeks. Back my team told me your story and it was so amazing to see how strong y'all were in such a hard time. I wish the best for y'all while you move Foward god bless y'all

  • @Amanda-ob9jx
    @Amanda-ob9jx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I'm in the hospital after having emergency surgery on a incarcerated hernia, and all's I've been doing is binge watching all your video's with baby boy in them, he's loved by so many people and touched so many in the world with the little bit of time he was here!!! #GODISABEL

  • @Cookieeikooc61
    @Cookieeikooc61 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    When you showed him playing with his ball in hospital, I burst into tears. I have no words x

  • @mel.1990
    @mel.1990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As a mom, I was avoiding watching this video because I knew that I would see it from your perspective and it would hurt. I’m so sorry that you had to go through this.. no parent should ever have to go through this. Be strong 🤍

  • @prettylydiii
    @prettylydiii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    this depicts religion in such a comforting, amazing way, it almost makes me miss having the reassurance that comes with a strong religion. I've been so touched by Abel's story, and will always remember to be a better person because of that blessed little boy ❤

  • @jaewilliams4019
    @jaewilliams4019 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    A true testimony of God’s grace 🙏🏾 Abel is healed by the blood of Jesus. Thank you both for sharing his story. Rest well Abel ❤️

  • @J.Sherea
    @J.Sherea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    “With spring everything that is dead comes back to life” that gave me chills. I will continue to pray for you guys. I just started watching you guys 2 days ago and I love how humble you guys are. Peace and healing to you both. 💞

    • @lucejuiceable
      @lucejuiceable 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beautiful words 😊 it is beautiful that spring is a symbol of life and hope and Abel will be restored by Spring and at peacex

  • @efuaadepaeshun2099
    @efuaadepaeshun2099 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    There's a greater testimony ahead. God strengthen you

  • @miasalinas4915
    @miasalinas4915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Not saying they feel no pain.. but how can you record this without crying like wow that’s some strong faith . Rip Abel 🦋🍯

    • @ashleymarie8223
      @ashleymarie8223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She is crying

    • @equine_maiaxox825
      @equine_maiaxox825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      In shock maybe

    • @oogieboogie7002
      @oogieboogie7002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      At least they got a 10 min video out of it

    • @yoohyeonforever7067
      @yoohyeonforever7067 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She was crying

    • @keirajayne__
      @keirajayne__ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ashley Marie yes but they were strong because although she cried, she continued to talk about him. She may not have wanted to continue but she did 💛

  • @Siehna
    @Siehna 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I lost my dad last week.
    I can't imagine how hard it is for you right now.
    I hope you will heal. Abel was lucky to have experienced love and you are still parents to a child that made loving him so easy.
    I wish you strength, hope and love. For you and all of your family.

  • @barbaraunderwood1762
    @barbaraunderwood1762 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I know the loss of my baby daughter. We never stayed n our apartment again. My Mother, Brother & Sister packed up all Crystals belongings so we wouldn’t have to . Just 2 weeks before we had family portraits made & they came n. I’ve lost 3 children. Crystal was my 2nd baby, the first I gave up for adoption. My stepson was killed by a drunk driver & my 22 year old son was murdered. That was beautiful the way u allowed him to go. My other children were raised knowing they had siblings. U did a fantastic job on explaining things. What a beautiful tribute to Abel. Those things they gave u r beautiful & so sweet to do that. God Bless You in your time of grieving & stay safe with what’s going n this old world. Another 🌹bud n Gods garden. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @marycook1644
      @marycook1644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Barbara Underwood 🐣 I can’t describe how sorry I am for you and your family ! We lost an adult son to Cystic Fibrosis and our lives will never be the same. To lose more than one is horrible. Maybe Lord willing you will meet the child you placed for adoption . Maybe have the DNA testing so they can find you . Blessings and love to you Barbara from California . With tears streaming down my face . 🦋 👑

    • @kaitlyn.elizbeth291
      @kaitlyn.elizbeth291 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Reading this broke my heart, my mother lost a baby due to miscarriage and she described it as it felt like her heart was ripped out and I couldn’t imagine feeling that once, much less three times. Prayers go out to you and I hope your children are feeling the grace of god in heaven❤️

    • @julieswatosh8472
      @julieswatosh8472 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Miss Barbara this comment made me bawl so hard me as a mother of 5 beautiful babies, this should be a reason we appreciate what we got in life

  • @joancast3790
    @joancast3790 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I love how you speak. God is real and what you speak is real, i hope people are touched and changed thru your testimony and how you are carring yourself thru in this hard time and yet have peace and understanding on what God allows and is doing in your life.

  • @claudiaramirez4762
    @claudiaramirez4762 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys admirable...no doubt you were chosen to care for this little angel on earth as I’m sure he’s guiding and caring for you from above. Rest In Peace Sweet Abel🙏🏼

  • @L.Metcalfe23
    @L.Metcalfe23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I feel like you guys lool relieved. Relieved that your baby is safe, well rested and whole. Rejoice in that and now care for yourself and heal.

  • @Rosalind14456
    @Rosalind14456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I cried the day I saw the post... My heart still aches. Rest in peace Abel. It's because of Abel and his story that I pray.

    • @marycook1644
      @marycook1644 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rosie N. 🦋 The Lord loves you so much ! Anyone who I have heard about having a near death experience always says when they see heaven they can’t believe the overwhelming love they feel . And the beautiful music . Maybe you should look up some of these stories . Blessings to you from California. 💐 🦅 🌹

  • @empret7704
    @empret7704 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    That's a new way of looking Rest in Paradise ... that brings me comfort, thank you.

    • @marycook1644
      @marycook1644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      EmPret 🦋 I imagine for a boy we could say RUN in Paradise ! Blessings from California . 🐯

  • @hannahatiq5135
    @hannahatiq5135 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My sister has special needs and she passed at the age of 14 unexpectedly fly high ❤️

  • @pachiecakes8467
    @pachiecakes8467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Watching y’all is like watching a flashback of my own grief of loosing my special needs baby 12 years ago, he was 6 years old. Y’all have done an amazing job with your angel and I KNOW exactly how you feel, I’m glad I can watch someone I truly relate to ❤️❤️❤️

    • @katielouisecunninghamsmith4312
      @katielouisecunninghamsmith4312 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes I lost my special needs daughter not long ago at 7 years old it hard I know I lost my other daughter at 3 months

  • @fml5234
    @fml5234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Your lil boy is with our creator in heaven, where he is loved and looked after by all the angels.. may god give you peace and patience and ease your pain and bless you with many more happiness x

  • @evelynk8930
    @evelynk8930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    GOD GAINED ANOTHER ANGEL! ♥️ so sorry for your loss, you will meet again one day 🤝

  • @Dewalsh929
    @Dewalsh929 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    REST IN PARADISE ABEL, FLY HIGH LITTLE ONE😇💜💙

  • @pizzapartytime1826
    @pizzapartytime1826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I’m so sorry for your loss! But always remember that God has a plan.

  • @13pathoo
    @13pathoo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I could never go throw the pain of losing a child. You guys are so strong. Baby Abel is in heaven now so happy and healthy. 💕

  • @drewsedora1451
    @drewsedora1451 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I’m crying like he’s my own omg it just breaks my heart because I have a little girl who just turned one and I couldn’t even imagine. But I’m so happy that he is no longer hurting or suffering. God has definitely gained a beautiful angel. 🙏🏼💙 god bless you guys and Abel.

    • @barelyexisting777
      @barelyexisting777 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Drewsedora same I came across this video out of nowhere and I just put my 14 month old son to sleep. I cried so hard I couldn’t even see rn as I am typing. God bless them and Abel.

  • @taviaa.66
    @taviaa.66 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    You're ability to still reverence God and glorify him is astounding and so beautiful. Your story has challenged me personally to trust the plan of the Lord and learn on him even more 🙏🏽

  • @shalesalejandro
    @shalesalejandro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I lost my first born son on March 19, 2016. He was stillborn sure to Trisomy 13. It was a peaceful time after he arrived. We held him in peace because he was whole and happy in heaven just like Abel. Yes, please sit and cry when you need to. It will definitely take time. Praying for you! It is wonderful how far reaching our baby's stories can be. Thousands of people watched the video my husband made on our son Job David. People still comment how he touched their lives. It brought me great comfort. Wishing you all the best!

  • @chatee9457
    @chatee9457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I’m so proud of how you guys are holding up at this time. I love the positive outlook. Everyone grieves differently, but you are projecting positive energy. You guys are strong and loving parents and have done an incredible job with Abel. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ali.irizarry09
    @ali.irizarry09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My best friend died in June of this year and it was sad and so heartbreaking knowing that she’s not here but it’ll get better knowing that there not in pain and with god. You don’t have to watch them suffer anymore. Good luck to your family it’ll get better I promise.❤️❤️❤️ May god be with you.

  • @sambamm9684
    @sambamm9684 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Seen this on my recommendation and just couldn’t scroll without watching , and here I am crying . So sorry for your loss , but like you said he’s at peace no longer on meds , he’s w god . Playing w all the babies up in heaven and taking care of you guys 💙🥺 beautiful video

  • @Susanluc59
    @Susanluc59 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Abel lived the life he was given. He lived it with love and with energy and with beauty. He was given this specific amount of time to be able to show you these things, and once those things were accomplished, his time here was done. His light will never be diminished, just because he is not here . His light will shine forever.

  • @millyhamilton2140
    @millyhamilton2140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This couple is the cutest and most strongest couple. God loves you guys and your son, and he will take care of Abel. Abel was a miracle child, he was loved by everyone and he is happy now with no pain in heaven. God bless you guys🙏

  • @TheKnuddlz
    @TheKnuddlz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can't stop crying and I'm so so sorry for your loss. He is an Angel 😢❤️❣️

  • @peanut1613
    @peanut1613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I'M SO SORRY ABOUT ABEL. BUT HIS SPIRIT WILL CARRY ON IN YOUR HEARTS FOREVER UNTIL YOU MEET AGAIN IN HEAVEN. STAY STRONG AND KEEP HIS MEMORY ALIVE. GOD BLESS YOU .

    • @veronica35ism
      @veronica35ism 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      PEANUT16 my condolences too the family

  • @Emma-kr3ib
    @Emma-kr3ib 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m so sorry guys. Your baby was the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen and he is in a better place now. 🥺❤️

  • @elitor1021
    @elitor1021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I've been a Christian since I'm 12 years old, at my mother's passing at my age 16 I steered away from God. I'm 31 now and I still havent gone back home to him. To see the amazing faith and strength in both of you is truly inspiring. That throughout the worst circumstances that is losing a child you guys can still praise him with such affirmation and joy. Thank you guys for providing such a great testimony. Your family is Gods work at his best!. I wish I could personally meet you both. God is good all the time... all the time God is good. That significance of angel Abels passing is such a honest and true work of the Lord. This has me in deep thought, of instead of asking why my mom passed when I was at such a young age? Just have deep prayer and try to understand the process of his work and not feel so hurt.
    Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
    God bless you both and give you peace and most of all strength to see you through this process. And keep your faith intact like it is. You guys have huge purpose.
    Xoxo. 🙏🏼🥰🤗

    • @marycook1644
      @marycook1644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jilly Rodriguez 🦋 That is so horrible to lose your mom at such a young age. What can comfort you is to hear about people who were clinically dead and through medical intervention were brought back. They say the overwhelming presence of the Lord’s LOVE is amazing . Hearing that made me very comforted. Blessings to you from California . 🐻

    • @elitor1021
      @elitor1021 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marycook1644 thank you so much! Much love from New York

  • @Astrow-c5c
    @Astrow-c5c 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Rest in peace baby 😢 deepest condolence to his family..

  • @theserenecrane
    @theserenecrane 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He always was an angel. This HUGE soul was sent to bless us. You shared him and we are all better because of that. Thank you and bless you as you heal. I will never forget this story. 💗

  • @amandak2898
    @amandak2898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just came across this today I am so soooooo sorry for you guys. God bless you guys !! Life is hard sometimes and we have to go through hard things like this and we don’t know why. He is in a better place now and he will not suffer anymore. I am sure that god will take care of him and make him not suffer. It was just breaking my heart that you had to go through this. I hope all the best for you and I send all of my best wishes. Rest In Peace Abel❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ahmadbahrami8331
    @ahmadbahrami8331 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You r gonna meet him one day while he's happy and healthy, I pray God give you a healthy child God bless you for all your efforts

  • @allivynopoison2829
    @allivynopoison2829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I saw the morning routine and I'm just hearing of this but now he is not in pain . Rest in peace Abel

  • @rachelolvera4495
    @rachelolvera4495 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Im sorry for your loss. At least he’s resting in the arms of the Father.

  • @squishes1234
    @squishes1234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    😢 this reminded me of my first born. Micro preemie, on ventilator and good only knows how many meds she was on. It was such a hard time for me and my husband. It is a very personal healing moment.

  • @loratommy8670
    @loratommy8670 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    How could you thumbs down this video?
    Thank you for your testimony, you will see him again. Whole and perfect in heaven.

  • @kosmik_goddess_sumoochi
    @kosmik_goddess_sumoochi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm so sorry 💔 my heart breaks for u & I know the horrible feeling of losing a child... My daughter passed away July 1 2020....my prayers are with u ...❣️

    • @safaaafereen9966
      @safaaafereen9966 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aw I'm so sorry for ur loss😭😭Heaven has gained another Angel xx💜R.I.P❤

  • @shanimorrison8730
    @shanimorrison8730 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I cryed this must be so hard i couldn't imagine.... condolences to you both and your family hes an amazing lil boy that butterfly was beautiful.... Abel is your guardian angel and such a beautiful angel he is....sending love from Australia

  • @deannamarie3108
    @deannamarie3108 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My twin girls were born at 23 weeks last June and thankfully we got “lucky” and they have overcome all major health issues still a battle on the way but watching ur guys life has helped me stay positive I’m so thankful and so amazing at this video it has brought me peace as well with my daughter (still alive) it’s so beautiful to see you guys talking like this it makes my heart so happy for you guys so much love and prayers sending ur way from me and my husband

  • @dorapierce4377
    @dorapierce4377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I am so very sorry, He is with God I am so glad you have your faith and each other you all will be in my prayers💖💖

  • @rebeccaarnett976
    @rebeccaarnett976 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    These are some of the most strongest human beings I’ve ever seen. My heart reaches out to y’all’s family. I literally cried my eyes out watching this. Momma and dad, I am praying, for good things to come your way, things to remember how strong Abel was. Such a beautiful story! Love and prayers to y’all! ❤️🙏🏽

  • @griseldaarias4671
    @griseldaarias4671 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are both so amazing. A lot of us don’t realize the power of the most high God. We must pray for a happy death and not be afraid because he is preparing a place for you and me. Able is an angel In
    heaven ❤️🙏

  • @gabrielasanchez8833
    @gabrielasanchez8833 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You two are so strong love how you two are leaning on each other during this time . Pretty sure you guys still get tons of comments . Just know everyone is rooting for you

  • @leoniegabriella5969
    @leoniegabriella5969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am literally crying my heart out, what a beautiful strong soul. Angel on earth has now been called home, to somewhere so much more beautiful than here, this is so beautiful. Sending all my love to you & your family 🧡🧡🧡🌈

  • @brittanykelly3726
    @brittanykelly3726 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    He looks just like his momma, god was ready for this precious, precious baby. 👼🏻🙌🏻❤️

  • @gabrielaklauer1440
    @gabrielaklauer1440 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is how God picks His favorites, He sends challenges to those who can handle them, to those He loves the most. He sent you guys an angel to take care of temporarily and now He is taking care of Abel. No words can describle the pain and sadness. I am so sorry for your loss.

  • @samiradanesh2726
    @samiradanesh2726 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m so mama & dada! I just became a mother and I could not imagine going threw losing a baby but man you guys have God. You’re strength is amazing!

  • @jamescochrane589
    @jamescochrane589 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As I am a single father myself I am so sorry to hear that Abel is gone but I am with god and god is with you both may the Lord God bless you and keep you blessed are those who have lost a child and may the Lord keep you in his name amen

  • @cristinaxo1121
    @cristinaxo1121 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Came across this video and you’re both strong individuals! ✨ Abel was fortunate to have you as parents. Fly high baby Abel. 🦋🖤

  • @SimplyRomy11
    @SimplyRomy11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That sign that says “god is Abel” is just beautiful. I pray for all of you 💋🥺

  • @biancabarba1321
    @biancabarba1321 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just came upon this while being led and knew it was meant for you and your family. God bless ... Hebrews 11:4 ... And by faith Abel still speaks, even though he is dead.

  • @julietrueman1462
    @julietrueman1462 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a sweet little boy he was. Thank you for sharing your everyday life with Abel. He's flying high with the Angels. Good bless you both❤️

  • @Noname78624
    @Noname78624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I admire you strength my god, I’m not a mother but I can’t imagine what you are going through. This came up in my suggestions and i’m currently working from home and bawling my eyes out. I pray for your healing ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lucy7214
    @lucy7214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    It didn't happen to me but I feel emotional after hearing that Abel pass away

  • @allisonm1193
    @allisonm1193 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Both of you guys' strength through God is so amazing! I can't imagine what you guys are going through. Thank you for sharing Abel's beautiful journey with us ❤

  • @chicalima
    @chicalima 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been following your story for only 2 weeks. I have a heart warrior who is 6 month old. He is my miracle. I thank you for your strengthen. I pray for you. Your Abel is a miracle.

  • @aniktwin875
    @aniktwin875 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just saw your first video last week and I just came across this video about Abel's passing. I had a miscarriage on 3/17/20 and your words were so encouraging in this video. The word PEACE stuck out to me. God has never failed us yet. He will never give us more than we can bare. My condolences to your entire family.

  • @hannahjoy4843
    @hannahjoy4843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jesus loves Abel and Abel is in heaven with our Father 💙🦋 thank you Jesus for being so faithful and kind

  • @carleyprater2440
    @carleyprater2440 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You’re both absolutely incredibly beautiful. Abel has opened my heart to new peace and grace for the outlook in my life. May God continue to comfort you in this time, and forever more. God bless you. God bless Abel.

  • @shannonnicole8008
    @shannonnicole8008 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My heart hurts for you, but I am also so at peace to know that Abel is with Jesus! Angels will raise him up. You will see him again 💕 He is precious to Jesus

  • @helenrussell5634
    @helenrussell5634 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so so sorry. Strangely enough I just came across one of your videos yesterday for the first time, and I remember thinking what a cute little boy he was. As soon as I saw him he made me smile. I could see how happy and full of joy he was!
    Then today I came across this video. I can't tell you how sorry I am, especially as I too lost my first son at the age of 4 months to cerebral meningitis. I am sure though that they are running and laughing together with all the other little children , may they all rest in eternal peace and joy with our Lord.
    God bless you both.

  • @taymck416
    @taymck416 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Videos like this put life into perspective. I have been so ungrateful recently and watching your video has reduced me to tears. I've learnt a lesson today to be thankful for my life and how blessed I have been. God bless your angel boy💙