im super judgemental usually most the time about the people who need to be judged its usually a whole things about a dude at school being rude and other situations but i have always been someone who likes to see the bad in people first so its easier for me to see the good but i get what you're saying some poeple take it too far and some people are friends of minee
I think hating on everything takes too much energy. Sometimes it's better to leave things alone and move on. It's similar to how i feel about cringe culture, sometimes things are so ridiculous you have to laugh instead of taking it so seriously, also it's way better to let people be if they're not harming anybody. There are certain things we definitely can't/shouldn't ignore which is completely natural and fair depending on what it is. It's also unrealistic to think you won't have a single negative thought or petty things to say, some people suck ass and i will talk shit if i want to. So i won't hate on everything but i will hate on some things, after all i am bitter by nature.
one day i was being a hater (per usual) in math class and this kid looked at me and said "damn why are you so miserable" and i was like "woah why am i so miserable" inside my head ofc. and #1 that person has no room to talk bc hes a big hater and #2 i really do need to fix my attitude towards the world. im unhappy with myself, and everything irritates me so much that im just a big hater. we can get through our character development together ben 😭🤞🏼
i dont wanna sound dramatic but i mean this is drama mama after all; this is my favorite podcast episode ever. i absolutely adore your new approach on everything and how you just chose to be a lover. truly changes my perspective, thank you
MY DRAMA: my “best friend” kept sending me voice notes of her crying about a certain person. when i said i didnt have any way to help her because she would never listen to what i had to say, she would kick off at me and say she didnt want my help. its a situation where of she doesnt get what she wants then she kicks off. ive told her how she’s made me feel as this has happened for over a year now and now shes blanking me completely in person yet claims i’m her best friend over message even though ik this isn’t true. idk what to do anymore. lysm ben 💖
theres some people who need help but wont accept it when they NEED it or WANT it theres other ways to help tho like your solution "look gurly im sorry but i cant help you if you wont listen" or "gurlll...if you wont accept my help then....🤷🏾♀" or you could approach her with more options like "uh ok is there anythign you would want me todo in certain ways🧍🏾♀?" or " do you want me to give you solutions?🧍🏾♀" other than that if she doesnt stop shes either doing it for attention or really is hurt and cannot be helped.
my drama: so basically I was best friends with this girl (She was really senstive) and she had this friend who was rlly mean especially to me and my "best friend" would roll her eyes at me and such so i cut her off and she comes to me i tell her how i feel and she says she will do her best to do better and so all was good until...... she was asking about her birthday get together and i was like "well i dont wanna go bc so and so is going to be there and she hasnt apolgized for being mean but ill go bc ur my best friend" (obviously i told her to keep it a secret) the she goes off tells the girl and when i confront her she lies to me even though i heard them talking about it and she tries to apologize after i tell her that i know she is lying and i told her no u said sorry two days ago ur not rlly sorry and she went and cried and told her mom ( a teacher at our school) who then sent passive agressive texts to my mom and the girl and her friend are still mean to me to this day and its been like 6 months
My drama in a nutshell‼️: My grandparents kicked me out and then went to all my friends very strict parents saying i was being human tra*****ed and had s*x.
My entire freind group keeps making fun of my appearance and being rude for no reason, I don't know what to do because they are the only people I can hang out with during school (they are my only freinds) I have always been self conscious of my appearance and them calling me a boy and telling me I look like a boy is bringing down my self esteem, what do I do????
Heyy Ben my drama is, so my bestest friend moved 2 hours away and I know it’s not that far but I barely see her anymore, she’s making new friends and I’m scared she’ll forget me cause of our distance. Any tips?
my drama: i have theses two friends and one does like bad things at a young teen age. such as, drinking, drug type of things and etc. but lies alot too and i never know when to believe her what do i do?
MY DRAMA: my “best friend” kept sending me voice notes of her crying about a certain person. when i said i didnt have any way to help her because everything i already said wasn’t helpful to her she would kick off at me and say she didnt want my help. ive told her how she’s made me feel as this has happened for over a year now and now shes blanking me completely in person yet claims i’m her best friend over message even though ik this isn’t true. idk what to do anymore.
😂this is the first time that Ben has given Big Ramble energy. On another note, this gave me a different perspective on me questioning the stuff I interact with/to.
HEYY Ben my drama is, so I’ve had anxiety my whole life not gonna get deep into it but it’s getting worse idk what to do I can’t speaking to anyone really I tried getting into a school nurse for mental health but my mum found out and doesn’t think I need it , Idk what to do. Any tips?
Hi Ben, he is my drama, so my friend Sophie and Catherine broke up and then Catherine dated a boy named Emery for a little bit. Then he broke up with her now Catherine is starting to call Sophie names and stuff and Sophie starting to call her names and all of our friends are getting in the middle of this. Can we have your advice?
MY DRAMA RAMA so like I moved very far from where I’m used to being…like everyone here is country…and because of that it’s been so very difficult..that’s not the point tho 😀 Anyway this girl randomly started a rumor about me (it was the most horrid thing Istg) it was about me and my brother (BIOLOGICAL) making out 🥲 And because she’s known and stuff I can’t really talk against her or anyone bc they’ve all known each other for a long time…so they all go against me … So my question is should I stay in the school or should I like move schools (I have a solid 2-3 friends…I think) PS I LOVE YOUR PODCASTS THEY MAKE MY DAY BRO…I LOVE THE FACT YOUR SWITCHING UP LOLLL💕💕💕
Drama: My bsf last year ignored me all summer, and now pretends not to see me in the halls at school or ignores me when I wave to her. I sent her a text about it, and she still ignored me. Turns out, next quarter, we have a class together, and idk what to do about it. (Also, you read my drama about this same person on your Island Boys episode)
Ben i hope you know that you make a difference, every time i want to do SH i start one of your vids and most of the time it helps me to put the blade down. I really hope you realize that you make a big part in my mental health❤
Hey Ben! This isn't really new and this situation been going on for a while, and as a very socially awkward I was wondering if you had any advice for what happened. I had a classmate who made me very, very uncomfortable. He liked me for two years and teamed up his friend (we'll call him Alex) to try to get us in a relationship. Alex thinks i liked him but i never did. He won't ever really stop ranting about how rude he thinks I am for simply standing up for myself and telling him that he's making me uncomfortable.
my drama: i kid u not ben this JUST HAPPENED TODAY. my friend and i have this tradition every year we make christmas cookies and she literally invited some girl over i barely know(btw it’s at my house)and she texted me asking me if it was okay even tho my original friend hasn’t asked me at all if it was okay i said yes bc i’m nice, i have a hard time saying no to people. any advice?
Ben I’m so glad you made this video- as a therian, furry, lesbian and Demi girl I’m so sick and tired of people judging and hating on me for something that honestly doesn’t effect or hurt anyone. I hope more people will be like this ❤️❤️
@@Lilie_uhh ok that’s your personal opinion and I’ll respect that as long as people don’t go out of their way to make me feel shit about a hobby of mine then I don’t really mind
I love that Ben has transferred and recognised his wrongs! And he’s a lover now so I don’t need to be embarrassed to comment cause I’m a 9 year old,lol
MY DRAMA! my boyfriend told me he's a proshipper. it's not the worst type (like p*dophilia or z**philia) but it's still bad. how do i convince him to stop that? he already knows its wrong and bad for him. we're both teenagers. you're probably gonna think i should break up with him but idk i'm really depressed and he's the only person i have right now.
The fact that he posted this 21 hours after posting a video called "cursing everyone that i hate" is hilarious 😭
😭💀😂
Real
@imtodeluluuu chill on the caps
FOR REAL
FRRRRR
ben on drama mama: "im done being a hater"
ben's latest video on beoftheweek: "CURSING EVERYONE THAT I HATE"
imagine copying someones comment for likes
Fr
IKR!!
You're so real for this Ben bc I'm honestly tired of judging people just to fit in with my friends 💀
Ong
no same bc like why do have to be mean just to be friends w u 🤨🤨
Bro for real
im super judgemental usually most the time about the people who need to be judged its usually a whole things about a dude at school being rude and other situations but i have always been someone who likes to see the bad in people first so its easier for me to see the good but i get what you're saying some poeple take it too far and some people are friends of minee
LITERALLY IM GLSD SOMEONE SAID IT❤
BEN WHAT IS THAT JACKET😭
Umm a slaying chaqueta of course😶
(Jacket)
It is dope
it’s amazing
It is amazing
Chuuuya
THE KEYBOARD OUTFIT IS EVERYTHING
fr ( rah a wild mel fan 🗣‼)
WE WILL MISS YOU BEING A HATER 😭
SO TRUE 💔💔
@@realvinestaffWHOS THE REAL POMNI?
@blackyw796 WE'RE ALL POMNI
@@Fizzymilkshakee WAIT.. WHO AM I? WHERE .. AM I??!?
im the real one!@@blackyw796
I think hating on everything takes too much energy. Sometimes it's better to leave things alone and move on. It's similar to how i feel about cringe culture, sometimes things are so ridiculous you have to laugh instead of taking it so seriously, also it's way better to let people be if they're not harming anybody.
There are certain things we definitely can't/shouldn't ignore which is completely natural and fair depending on what it is.
It's also unrealistic to think you won't have a single negative thought or petty things to say, some people suck ass and i will talk shit if i want to. So i won't hate on everything but i will hate on some things, after all i am bitter by nature.
one day i was being a hater (per usual) in math class and this kid looked at me and said "damn why are you so miserable" and i was like "woah why am i so miserable" inside my head ofc. and #1 that person has no room to talk bc hes a big hater and #2 i really do need to fix my attitude towards the world. im unhappy with myself, and everything irritates me so much that im just a big hater. we can get through our character development together ben 😭🤞🏼
Ben: “I am no longer a hater”
Bens newest video from his BENOFTHEWEEKS channel:
*I disagree*
everytime ben says there's some annoying sound in the bg there's always nothing there 😭
Hello Ben, I absolutely love your video's they got me through 2020! ❤
cool
i dont wanna sound dramatic but i mean this is drama mama after all; this is my favorite podcast episode ever. i absolutely adore your new approach on everything and how you just chose to be a lover. truly changes my perspective, thank you
agreed and OH MY GOD I LOVE YOUR PFP HDJKASHDJAK
@@-mxndxght-rxxn- AHAHH TYSMM
MY DRAMA:
my “best friend” kept sending me voice notes of her crying about a certain person. when i said i didnt have any way to help her because she would never listen to what i had to say, she would kick off at me and say she didnt want my help. its a situation where of she doesnt get what she wants then she kicks off. ive told her how she’s made me feel as this has happened for over a year now and now shes blanking me completely in person yet claims i’m her best friend over message even though ik this isn’t true. idk what to do anymore.
lysm ben 💖
sometimes i think listening is enough maybe? ask her if she expects something from you as she vents out to you.
theres some people who need help but wont accept it when they NEED it or WANT it theres other ways to help tho like your solution "look gurly im sorry but i cant help you if you wont listen" or "gurlll...if you wont accept my help then....🤷🏾♀" or you could approach her with more options like "uh ok is there anythign you would want me todo in certain ways🧍🏾♀?" or " do you want me to give you solutions?🧍🏾♀"
other than that if she doesnt stop shes either doing it for attention or really is hurt and cannot be helped.
@@harshehyeah i thought that to begin with but if i didnt give help she’d kick off at me so its difficult 🫤
thanks tho :))
@@mr.bojangles3696yep already said all that to her and she still does it, thanks sm tho :))
As my mama always says, “get bitter or get better.”
Bens outfit is giving silly keyboard vibes🤓
love how Ben is inspiring and encouraging people to be fun criminals
BEN PLS POST A FULL VERSION OF THE DRAMAMAMA THEME ❤️❤️
Omg yessssss
Really appreciate the message
Making my day better with every Ben video
im not done being a hater
1:23 yeah I'm the same. I'm always like *"wtff"* *"get of ur moms phone"* *"eww"* *"I need bleach"*
I have been a lover sense my mother died (2.5 years ago) it’s like a door opened and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been ❤️❤️
i'm sorry :(
I need ben to be my priest at my wedding
What
@@corruptedsociety_did you listen to the episode??
ben is embracing his inner keyboard 🛐🛐
LAMAKOONSJSSEI
Toe
my drama: so basically I was best friends with this girl (She was really senstive) and she had this friend who was rlly mean especially to me and my "best friend" would roll her eyes at me and such so i cut her off and she comes to me i tell her how i feel and she says she will do her best to do better and so all was good until...... she was asking about her birthday get together and i was like "well i dont wanna go bc so and so is going to be there and she hasnt apolgized for being mean but ill go bc ur my best friend" (obviously i told her to keep it a secret) the she goes off tells the girl and when i confront her she lies to me even though i heard them talking about it and she tries to apologize after i tell her that i know she is lying and i told her no u said sorry two days ago ur not rlly sorry and she went and cried and told her mom ( a teacher at our school) who then sent passive agressive texts to my mom and the girl and her friend are still mean to me to this day and its been like 6 months
That boba gonna make Ben lose November 💔
My drama in a nutshell‼️: My grandparents kicked me out and then went to all my friends very strict parents saying i was being human tra*****ed and had s*x.
Roblox looking ah jacket 💀
My entire freind group keeps making fun of my appearance and being rude for no reason, I don't know what to do because they are the only people I can hang out with during school (they are my only freinds) I have always been self conscious of my appearance and them calling me a boy and telling me I look like a boy is bringing down my self esteem, what do I do????
If you can try and make new friends because true friends shouldnt make fun of you
all the exclamation points😭
he ended the toxic gossip train???
Says ben after posting a video cursing his enemies
this channel does more than my pills will ever do 💀
jacket is crazy
is this how Canadians pronounce Toyota 21:51 LMAO
The jacket is giving icepack🥰
Heyy Ben my drama is, so my bestest friend moved 2 hours away and I know it’s not that far but I barely see her anymore, she’s making new friends and I’m scared she’ll forget me cause of our distance. Any tips?
my drama: i have theses two friends and one does like bad things at a young teen age. such as, drinking, drug type of things and etc. but lies alot too and i never know when to believe her what do i do?
BEN WHAT IN TARNATION IS THAT JACKET PLEASE😭😭🙏🙏
this is beautiful, I recently had a similar realization and now im slightly more confident to be myself.
MY DRAMA:
my “best friend” kept sending me voice notes of her crying about a certain person. when i said i didnt have any way to help her because everything i already said wasn’t helpful to her she would kick off at me and say she didnt want my help. ive told her how she’s made me feel as this has happened for over a year now and now shes blanking me completely in person yet claims i’m her best friend over message even though ik this isn’t true. idk what to do anymore.
someone already said this..?
starting Thanksgiving early 😝😝 but no, really, ur spreading so much positivity. It's really beautiful
No cP. That jacket is🔥🔥🔥
IM CRYING THE JACKET
its funny watching this podcast right after watching the vid that he posted on his other channel about cursing people he hates lmao
LUV THE FIT ❤
where did u get the coat? I NEED IT
😂this is the first time that Ben has given Big Ramble energy. On another note, this gave me a different perspective on me questioning the stuff I interact with/to.
HEYY Ben my drama is, so I’ve had anxiety my whole life not gonna get deep into it but it’s getting worse idk what to do I can’t speaking to anyone really I tried getting into a school nurse for mental health but my mum found out and doesn’t think I need it , Idk what to do. Any tips?
9:30 hm?? what??? we're just gonna ignore that?!????
Realizing the jacket is a big ass keyboard😭😭
Love your costume ben 😍😍😍‼️‼️
Hi Ben, he is my drama, so my friend Sophie and Catherine broke up and then Catherine dated a boy named Emery for a little bit. Then he broke up with her now Catherine is starting to call Sophie names and stuff and Sophie starting to call her names and all of our friends are getting in the middle of this. Can we have your advice?
i think ben isn’t a hater anymore
hmmm im not sure🤔🤔
Maybe...
“ hellOOOOOOOOOOOO.” Majestic voice Ben. Majestic
not you saying this after posting a video where you're "cursing everyone you hate"😭😭
Ben I love u sm ur my idol u inspired me to not be ashamed of myself thank you I love you! ❤
MY DRAMA RAMA
so like I moved very far from where I’m used to being…like everyone here is country…and because of that it’s been so very difficult..that’s not the point tho 😀
Anyway this girl randomly started a rumor about me (it was the most horrid thing Istg) it was about me and my brother (BIOLOGICAL) making out 🥲
And because she’s known and stuff I can’t really talk against her or anyone bc they’ve all known each other for a long time…so they all go against me …
So my question is should I stay in the school or should I like move schools (I have a solid 2-3 friends…I think)
PS I LOVE YOUR PODCASTS THEY MAKE MY DAY BRO…I LOVE THE FACT YOUR SWITCHING UP LOLLL💕💕💕
realest because if you hate something why waste energy on it
Exactly
Drama: My bsf last year ignored me all summer, and now pretends not to see me in the halls at school or ignores me when I wave to her. I sent her a text about it, and she still ignored me. Turns out, next quarter, we have a class together, and idk what to do about it. (Also, you read my drama about this same person on your Island Boys episode)
Ben i hope you know that you make a difference, every time i want to do SH i start one of your vids and most of the time it helps me to put the blade down. I really hope you realize that you make a big part in my mental health❤
That jacket is dope💯😎
WHERE’S YOUR JACKET FROM??
ilysm ben you even make that jacket look hot
i haven’t checked up on this podcast in a while, what is happening
Stuff, im not really sure either tho i have followed the pod for along time🤡
Hey Ben! This isn't really new and this situation been going on for a while, and as a very socially awkward I was wondering if you had any advice for what happened.
I had a classmate who made me very, very uncomfortable. He liked me for two years and teamed up his friend (we'll call him Alex) to try to get us in a relationship. Alex thinks i liked him but i never did. He won't ever really stop ranting about how rude he thinks I am for simply standing up for myself and telling him that he's making me uncomfortable.
@Click_Profile_for_more_info.46
It says "joined nevember 3rd 2023"...
Im dead, the last video he posted on his main was “im Cursing people i hate” 😭😭😭
what the fuck is the computer key jacket my dude...
It looks awesome asf.
Loved the vid! You’re so real for this. 🙏
my drama:
i kid u not ben this JUST HAPPENED TODAY. my friend and i have this tradition every year we make christmas cookies and she literally invited some girl over i barely know(btw it’s at my house)and she texted me asking me if it was okay even tho my original friend hasn’t asked me at all if it was okay i said yes bc i’m nice, i have a hard time saying no to people. any advice?
No one is gonna talk about the jacket like SLAAYY
love how his last video was cursing everyone he hates
love the keyboard jacket ben
BEN I FREAKING LOVE THE JACKET
Beep bap boop bitch that jacket is so high tech I’m in lovee
That's a nice jacket
the fact nobody has said anything about the jacket is hilarious live laugh love ben
@Click_Profile_for_more_info.46 bsfr get out bendoveroftheday
Hello Ben, I know you won't see this but, your videos kept me alive when times were ruff, so ty and ilysm💗
10 out of 10 on bens keyboard jacket 😭
for someone done being a hater, the video title was rather aggressive..
Ben in this video is me when i take an extra depression pill
Bro why you wearing a keyboard💀/j
love the sweater keyboard.
BOY WHAT IS THIS JACKET 💀
It took me 7:30 minutes to realize your jacket is a keyboard
6:20
I don’t see the Instagram post😮
BEN THAT JACKET🎉💀😊
r u thoooo??
Ben I’m so glad you made this video- as a therian, furry, lesbian and Demi girl I’m so sick and tired of people judging and hating on me for something that honestly doesn’t effect or hurt anyone. I hope more people will be like this ❤️❤️
I hope you're kidding...
@@-whatiswrongwithyou why??
I'm an absolute ally bro🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 but I can't with the furry thing respectfully
@@Lilie_uhh ok that’s your personal opinion and I’ll respect that as long as people don’t go out of their way to make me feel shit about a hobby of mine then I don’t really mind
@@Tiger_teeth I don't get it, why do you like being a furry. Like what is so fun about it. And again, what is a demi girl?
It took me so long to realise that bens "coat" is a keyboard 😂
I love that Ben has transferred and recognised his wrongs! And he’s a lover now so I don’t need to be embarrassed to comment cause I’m a 9 year old,lol
i dont think benoftheweek is appropriate for 9 year olds little guy
But that’s ur opinion,I don’t want to fight with 99 year old dudes so would you leave me alone?
watch what you want. everyone was 9 once and heaps of teenagers were on the internet way before 9
Thanks but I had permission before I watched this stuff. Thanks for understanding anyway 🙏
MY DRAMA! my boyfriend told me he's a proshipper. it's not the worst type (like p*dophilia or z**philia) but it's still bad. how do i convince him to stop that? he already knows its wrong and bad for him. we're both teenagers.
you're probably gonna think i should break up with him but idk i'm really depressed and he's the only person i have right now.
"Today: Never gonna be a hater again.... But tomorrow: Who tf knows"
- Ben
lmfaoo
Uh...Ben, I don't see any new post on your IG.
The jacket waht
I would love to own a keyboard jacket, dont gatekeep Ben
Update 25:55 I am at this point in the video… thank you for not gatekeeping
His sweater 💅🏼✨❤
Nice jacket 😭
good for you ben, good for you.