how i defeated my stalker...

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ธ.ค. 2024

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  • @Idekwhattoput524
    @Idekwhattoput524 ปีที่แล้ว +4565

    I can’t imagine how terrifying having someone STALKING you is

    • @ttigbybtm
      @ttigbybtm ปีที่แล้ว +86

      It's very terrifying, these are crazy people that are like stalking other people and it's definitely not a normal behavior of a normal human being therefore it should not be normalized.

    • @demondog1097
      @demondog1097 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can🥲

    • @MyahLovesCoffees
      @MyahLovesCoffees ปีที่แล้ว +43

      It happened to me before and it was not fun I had to move 3 times😢

    • @Idekwhattoput524
      @Idekwhattoput524 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@MyahLovesCoffees Omg that’s scary did you ever call the police?

    • @Idekwhattoput524
      @Idekwhattoput524 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ttigbybtm i agree i think they are dangerous and need to be put in jail and get mental help.

  • @Short_circuited.
    @Short_circuited. ปีที่แล้ว +2419

    Years of being stalked?!? Jeez dude your brave!

  • @ceci-751
    @ceci-751 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +582

    ben is dressed like a victorian child

  • @kyuuuutieeee
    @kyuuuutieeee ปีที่แล้ว +1942

    DAMN, BEN SHOWERING US WITH CONTENT. For real though, keep yourself safe, we all care for and love you ben!

    • @who.is.mollie
      @who.is.mollie ปีที่แล้ว +4

      FR I LOVE GETTING CONTENT FROM HIM ❤❤❤

    • @trina....
      @trina.... ปีที่แล้ว +5

      fr fr 💯 😻‼

    • @JESUSLOVESYOU033
      @JESUSLOVESYOU033 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Jesus Christ loves us unconditionally+eternally!He cares for us so much that He sacrificed Himself on the cross for our sins!God is so good!💗✝️

    • @FlowersForRio
      @FlowersForRio ปีที่แล้ว +5

      BRO I LOVE YOUR QUACKITY PFP

    • @kyuuuutieeee
      @kyuuuutieeee ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FlowersForRio TYY

  • @cattlleyak
    @cattlleyak ปีที่แล้ว +898

    Bro I'm so proud of you, Ben. I'm so sorry you went through this, you deserve the universe. Love youuuu

    • @Monkeyinsecret
      @Monkeyinsecret ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love your pfp 🥰

    • @Zigsonline
      @Zigsonline ปีที่แล้ว

      YOU ARE EVERYWHERE

    • @defnotanerdbro
      @defnotanerdbro ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Monkeyinsecret THE RYTH COPYS ARE EVERYWHERE

    • @Court123_
      @Court123_ ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi man

    • @Janecox-pg9mn
      @Janecox-pg9mn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      this is gonna sound random, but ages ago i remember listening to one of bens podcasts and it was about like drugs and weed and how he did drugs kinda acidently and he was in an international country and then like missed his plane or somehting , and i found it very interesting but i cant find the episode. Do you know which one it is? please ...

  • @maddysophie0249
    @maddysophie0249 ปีที่แล้ว +943

    i’m genuinely so sorry this happened, you didn’t deserve this at all

    • @Janecox-pg9mn
      @Janecox-pg9mn ปีที่แล้ว +9

      this is gonna sound random, but ages ago i remember listening to one of bens podcasts and it was about like drugs and weed and how he did drugs kinda acidently and he was in an international country and then like missed his plane or somehting , and i found it very interesting but i cant find the episode. Do you know which one it is? please ...

    • @efwserfwerfds
      @efwserfwerfds 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Janecox-pg9mn its the one

    • @Janecox-pg9mn
      @Janecox-pg9mn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@efwserfwerfds wait sorry, do you mean that this video is the one i am trying to find?

    • @efwserfwerfds
      @efwserfwerfds 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Janecox-pg9mn no its the one

    • @Janecox-pg9mn
      @Janecox-pg9mn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@efwserfwerfds sorry sorry i still dont really get it; is this 'stalker video' the right one i was trying to find or if not, do you happen to know the title of the one i am trying to find?

  • @Maddi3247
    @Maddi3247 ปีที่แล้ว +2800

    Ben I’m sorry you went through this. You deserve fuckin the world

    • @who.is.mollie
      @who.is.mollie ปีที่แล้ว +47

      HE DESERVES EVERYTHING❤

    • @Maddi3247
      @Maddi3247 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@who.is.mollie YES HE DOES, he is LITTERALLY the only reason why I’m still alive rn

    • @who.is.mollie
      @who.is.mollie ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@Maddi3247 SAMEEE

    • @Maddi3247
      @Maddi3247 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@who.is.mollie BEN IS GODDDDDD

    • @cheeryslushclub
      @cheeryslushclub ปีที่แล้ว +40

      ​@@Maddi3247let's not take it that far.....

  • @carina.k_22
    @carina.k_22 ปีที่แล้ว +562

    i had a stalker for 4 years and it was a journey 🤠 i understand what you went through!

    • @Little_letter826
      @Little_letter826 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I'm glad your ok !

    • @lemonmeat
      @lemonmeat ปีที่แล้ว +89

      ive been stalked for 4 years and different people many times since i was 11, i wish stalking wasnt so common and normalized.. no one deserves it ever

    • @Little_letter826
      @Little_letter826 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      ​@@lemonmeatare you ok now ??? If so I'm glad but stay safe ❤❤❤

    • @Hisfavclairee
      @Hisfavclairee ปีที่แล้ว +11

      storytime

    • @ImHisRedFlag
      @ImHisRedFlag ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@Hisfavclairee💀

  • @Astra-d3f
    @Astra-d3f ปีที่แล้ว +659

    Having the guts to even think about stalking someone is so weird and embarrassing 😭😭💀

    • @crowbarhandler
      @crowbarhandler ปีที่แล้ว +56

      yeah like imagine though ☠️ even me following someone to give them something they dropped makes me feel embarrassed so idk how anyone can do that ☠️☠️☠️☠️

    • @dirwik
      @dirwik 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@crowbarhandler im pretty sure your just a introvert

    • @crowbarhandler
      @crowbarhandler 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @dirwik i now have a gad diagnosis so you're close

  • @joocXD
    @joocXD ปีที่แล้ว +977

    Remember, never ever say MY stalker, it makes them feels more entitled to you.

    • @miikaomocha
      @miikaomocha ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yup

    • @elisedoesart1081
      @elisedoesart1081 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      What would you say instead?

    • @joocXD
      @joocXD ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@elisedoesart1081 how I defeated a person who was stalking me

    • @lemonsideddice
      @lemonsideddice ปีที่แล้ว +118

      @@elisedoesart1081 Its better to say THE stalker or theres someone stalking me rather than i have a stalker

    • @taytertot-quit
      @taytertot-quit ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@lemonsideddicethats smart

  • @CrazyEights-bw6se
    @CrazyEights-bw6se ปีที่แล้ว +221

    This is absolutely horrible. Ben I am sorry you had to go through this you should never have to. I hope this stalker feels horrible and is filled with regret and shame for the rest of their life. You deserve so much more. WE LOVE YOU BEN😃

  • @orteney.
    @orteney. ปีที่แล้ว +117

    sidenote: ben u did great public speaking! u were so engaging and i loved all the little acting bits you did, i honestly would love if u did this more often

  • @AR1V11X
    @AR1V11X ปีที่แล้ว +138

    im so sorry you went through this ben, and I’m proud of you for staying strong through what happened. luv u ben!

  • @jsciaraa
    @jsciaraa ปีที่แล้ว +263

    this is actually crazy. i honestly feel bad for you. i feel bad that u had to experience this, i would never wanna know the feeling of being stalked.
    im glad that the mother found that out and grounded them, honestly its disgusting how people think stalking is okay.
    i cant imagine how uncomfortable u probably felt.

  • @Maddiecdrake
    @Maddiecdrake 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +301

    Ok so who is watching this summer of 2024 and thought of JOJO SWIA at the end 💀

    • @AdithiSuresh-p3k
      @AdithiSuresh-p3k 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      BRO THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING UNTIL I SAW THIS WAS A YEAR AGO 😭😭😭

    • @Shãð0w_8onnie
      @Shãð0w_8onnie 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Girl u got cams 🤨

    • @silly-1111
      @silly-1111 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      SAMEE

    • @LizBizEEEE
      @LizBizEEEE 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@AdithiSuresh-p3ksame, what that thing Taylor said
      Me karmas a b

  • @melanie9035
    @melanie9035 ปีที่แล้ว +338

    I’m sorry you went through this but the crowd not laughing AT ALL is crazy to me 😭

    • @Your-Average-Nerd
      @Your-Average-Nerd ปีที่แล้ว +21

      They did a laugh sometimes

    • @jackvideos1496
      @jackvideos1496 ปีที่แล้ว

      He lowered the audience noise.... are you stupid or sum?

    • @shutup6759
      @shutup6759 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      'LITERQALLY LIKE THQT WAS ALL I COULD THINK ABOUT WAS HOW SILENT THE CROWD WAS LIKE WHAT

    • @doorframe6716
      @doorframe6716 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      I feel like maybe the crowd noise didn't get picked up by the camera microphone as much as his voice did?

    • @kiwi-r6w
      @kiwi-r6w ปีที่แล้ว +55

      I was there they def were😭

  • @MeganOfWoe
    @MeganOfWoe ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Tbh, stalker stories always scare me ‘cause I was stalked online for years, and left me filled with immense paranoia. Really ruined how I trusted anyone. But, your vids always make me smile. Your energy is the best. xo

  • @mr.musiciann
    @mr.musiciann ปีที่แล้ว +71

    man, i feel so bad for people who have live through this. people dont even deserve this. and im also kinda wondering if his hands are actually shaking due to trying to explain this horrid situation he has been through or if its the tension of just being infront of people, i am so sorry for him. stay safe ben !

    • @gigibeal
      @gigibeal ปีที่แล้ว +2

      it couldve been a mix of both, cuz ik I would be shaking like that if i was i his situation too!! he's a trooper fr though

  • @Silly-p1c
    @Silly-p1c ปีที่แล้ว +47

    As someone who had a stalker for 8 years im so sorry

    • @GachaxxSai
      @GachaxxSai 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      8 years?! I'm so sorry

    • @AdithiSuresh-p3k
      @AdithiSuresh-p3k 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I’m so sorry, that must’ve been horrible :(

    • @dainvisibulman
      @dainvisibulman 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      lol

    • @berryhappypaws
      @berryhappypaws 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@dainvisibulman…

    • @Juniper-s8s
      @Juniper-s8s 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@dainvisibulman💀

  • @mariellaaa217
    @mariellaaa217 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    ok I know this is serious but, he sounds like that one middle school teacher who shares their most devastating stories. (don’t forget them eating the salad and crying)

    • @xclownieXDx
      @xclownieXDx ปีที่แล้ว +4

      OMG YES?!?!?! FR

  • @katherineisaacs5441
    @katherineisaacs5441 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Having a stalker is terrifying! I had a stalker a 30 year old man when I was 15! Never say my stalker it gives them a connection to you. When you say my to them they think you are saying that they are yours in their delulu mind.

  • @skulzz_0z
    @skulzz_0z ปีที่แล้ว +8

    my heart reaches out to you, ive had a stalker before and it was genuinely terrifying being in that situation. knowing somebody is always watching you and your every move, them going into detail and stalking to find your MOTHERS house, on top of all of your personal information. i hope your okay, its really scary. we love you ben.

  • @riverrr7764
    @riverrr7764 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Btw Ben, don’t address them as “MY stalker” say THE stalker. Because any attention to them Is good attention. Any labeling or roll you give them that’s attached to you at all, they will take that roll

    • @GrapeCheez2
      @GrapeCheez2 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Who keeps telling y'all that?! That's so obnoxious. Doesn't matter.

    • @chocolaterain2977
      @chocolaterain2977 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@GrapeCheez2 the fact you care enough to comment that on every comment you see about it is obnoxious

  • @stay_oddinary-
    @stay_oddinary- ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Just stay safe! People shouldnt normalize stalking its really stupid and disgusting

    • @a1lysonc
      @a1lysonc ปีที่แล้ว +3

      OFF TOPIC BUT SUNNO YOUR PFPP

    • @stay_oddinary-
      @stay_oddinary- ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yea my bae 😗

  • @Claire13137
    @Claire13137 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I’m so sorry that you had to go through this ben. You didn’t deserve it! I Love you so much Ben!! ❤

  • @ENNARD444
    @ENNARD444 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    I love seeing bens viewers on video laughing from his jokes. Make me feel like im not the only one with dumb humor.

  • @Kez-The-Pez
    @Kez-The-Pez ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Im not famous, in fact I dont have a single friend. But I've had three different men sneak pictures of me. Maybe it's because im shy thst they think they'll get awsy with. Last week at me day job in the hospital, i was in the room with a patient. They asked if the nurse would close the door and draw his curtains so he could get some shut eye. He did not sleep. I rushed to get out of there but it still took me almost thirty minutes to finish cleaning the other half of the room. When i came back to make the bed, he was (mastering the bate) if you know what i mean. He wasn't old and delirious like most would be. He was forty, cognitive, and knew what he was doing.
    Scary experience but that was the first time I've told my supervisor of anything abnormal happening. It went too far to let it go and it absorbed me until i told them.

    • @GachaxxSai
      @GachaxxSai 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm so sorry you went through that some people are gross..

  • @riro7170
    @riro7170 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    hearing ben's cheesy side comments "irl" is even more chaotic 😭😭

    • @paytonsme
      @paytonsme 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol the cringe i cant do it

  • @efpetrou
    @efpetrou ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Im so sorry you had to go through all this!!
    You are amazing!!!

  • @selmita
    @selmita ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I'm deeply sorry you experienced this. I can't imagine how it was. You deserve way better. I'm so proud of you for always sharing such things with us, many people struggle to express their traumatic experiences, and it can really damage their mental health. It's so good to speak about such things, and you always do. It has encouraged me and probably others to speak about their mental health. You've helped me and others alot. I appreciate you so much, wish you the best!

  • @whois_valentina
    @whois_valentina ปีที่แล้ว +49

    reminder: never call them YOUR stalker, makes them feel more entitled to you

    • @burntcrumbs
      @burntcrumbs 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I absolutely love this advice, fully agreed.

    • @GrapeCheez2
      @GrapeCheez2 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      They feel entitled anyways. A word won't change a thing.

  • @Almanolsoe
    @Almanolsoe ปีที่แล้ว +18

    DANM BEN I'm really sorry you went through that, no one deserves it especially not you. I wish you the best, we all love you sm, take care

  • @myballscanfart30
    @myballscanfart30 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    “You guys won’t stalk me right? “
    “ WANNA BET!?”

    • @Idk_tbh124
      @Idk_tbh124 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂

    • @Idk_tbh124
      @Idk_tbh124 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fr😂😂😂

    • @quixels367
      @quixels367 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      OMG YINYANG FROM INANIMATE INSANITY (Twenty three!)

    • @SON_OF_HADES_3
      @SON_OF_HADES_3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That was my fav part bro😂😂

  • @iramahozuki
    @iramahozuki ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I haven't watched the full video yet but I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. Love your blog channel ^^

  • @ToriSellers1
    @ToriSellers1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can tell that ben was SOOOOO ANXIOUS😂 i luv his personality❤

  • @jincyjoseph3987
    @jincyjoseph3987 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    im addicted listening to your episodes/podcasts

  • @itztyara4414
    @itztyara4414 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I cant believe u went through that..😢. I hope ur okay, luv u ben❤

  • @ElviraPorter-n8s
    @ElviraPorter-n8s ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I feel so bad that Ben had to go through that. He doesn’t deserve to go through such a terrifying experience. I, personally, have never been stalked, but I might just know how terrifying this can be, and genuinely, Ben doesn’t deserve this. He deserves everything good in the world, he’s the best person ever and he has the best sense of humor imo. I feel genuinely bad…and for YEARS?! Jeez!! He’s so brave for going through this. Love u Ben, we’re all here for u

  • @who.is.mollie
    @who.is.mollie ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Ben istg getting this notification that you posted litterally makes my day. Podcast timeeee… ❤

  • @salaminuggies
    @salaminuggies ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Sadly this is they horror of being a famous person you will get stalker creepy messages as well as people. But people don't deserve to deal and or have to witness this sort of thing. And it will mentally drain you and terrify you and you constantly have to look over your back. and I'm sorry again how you and others deal with this!

  • @buhbyela
    @buhbyela ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Never label a stalker by saying "My stalker" it would make them feel more bound to you.

  • @herseythebun-bun348
    @herseythebun-bun348 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    pretty crazy how he went to living in his mom’s basement making TikTok’s to this

  • @mlolzz
    @mlolzz ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Ben is in his Karen era🥰
    also Ben that must be terrifying to have someone stalking you but I’m glad your okay

  • @Pjs_phone
    @Pjs_phone ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ben i feel so bad about how you had SOMEONE STALKING YOU and I just want to say that you don’t deserved that you have made my bad days fade away as you make funny videos, I love your work and I hope good things happen in your life❤

  • @1m4oooo
    @1m4oooo ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Ben deserves the world, I’m so sorry this happens to you :(

  • @bellacase5756
    @bellacase5756 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Is it just me or was the crowd so dead. Like babes you have BEN infront of you. LIKE BE EXCITED

    • @AdithiSuresh-p3k
      @AdithiSuresh-p3k 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      LITERALLY LIKE-

    • @XxstarvolkxX
      @XxstarvolkxX 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I think it was because of the mic, im sure the crown was quite loud, i mean he had a MICROPHONE.. so maybe his audio only came in

    • @AdithiSuresh-p3k
      @AdithiSuresh-p3k 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Maybe ​@@XxstarvolkxX

    • @heartsforbrenda
      @heartsforbrenda 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Im 99% sure that they just didnt pick up on the mic

  • @chillhuman8389
    @chillhuman8389 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    “WANNA BET IS THAT WHAT YOU SAID”
    That was the best ending 😂😂

    • @Idk_tbh124
      @Idk_tbh124 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Fr

  • @cryystal.
    @cryystal. ปีที่แล้ว +33

    "Hey there's somebody at your front door trying to kill you to death" makes perfect sense 💀💀💀

  • @ilydiana6
    @ilydiana6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    youre such a great storyteller i love it

  • @charleyandre1
    @charleyandre1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Firsttt I love when Ben posts a podcast episode and I’m gonna listen/watch it tmr bc I start schoolll😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @Straykidsluv65
    @Straykidsluv65 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Bro he looks terrified speaking infront of everyone he is literally shaking and eyes are watering

  • @sugardolls-ilysm
    @sugardolls-ilysm ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ben I’m so sorry..I can’t believe someone would stalk you, u are the most kindest person ever who ever did that should be very sorry

  • @duck-loves-tea
    @duck-loves-tea 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    25:18 “calling all oomies! Team omie zoomie!” Tell me I was not the only one who thought of that PLZ 😭😭

  • @julietzadorozhnyy8658
    @julietzadorozhnyy8658 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    idk if ben is scared or happy on the stage cuz you can see the fear in him when hes holding that mic and shaking💀 6:32 starts there until 6:38 it ends💀💀 7:17

    • @Oddvfx_
      @Oddvfx_ ปีที่แล้ว +16

      He was prob nervous 😭 i sawl that to

    • @julietzadorozhnyy8658
      @julietzadorozhnyy8658 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Oddvfx_ loll

    • @lilmofo4607
      @lilmofo4607 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I mean personally I’d be shitting my pants if I were him

  • @gabrielmassey4615
    @gabrielmassey4615 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    0:32 that outfit slays

  • @Lumlnlte
    @Lumlnlte ปีที่แล้ว +21

    sorry you went through that, you deserve the world
    stay safe

  • @camrn9811
    @camrn9811 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    BEN why did you literally slay this outfit ❤❤❤

  • @C4PYMATIONS
    @C4PYMATIONS ปีที่แล้ว +9

    benoftheweek is a W, keep defeating rats bro

  • @ashleymay_
    @ashleymay_ ปีที่แล้ว +4

    that seems so terrifying yet the kid falling and the karen mom’s message was the comedic cherry on top haha!

  • @NOTLEAH66
    @NOTLEAH66 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Ben omg I hope you are okay!! We are all here for you dont forget that ❤❤

  • @CharlyMirror
    @CharlyMirror ปีที่แล้ว +3

    im so sorry this happened some people r just really messed up out there. glad ur okay tho

  • @majutab33
    @majutab33 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    ur way of telling storys is amazing

  • @Not.here_1000
    @Not.here_1000 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey ben, I love all the drama in your life and I listen to your spotify podcasts

  • @riro7170
    @riro7170 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "stuck between a rock and a place that's harder" had me on the floor 😭 Ben's great

  • @P0ppyS33d_
    @P0ppyS33d_ ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m so sorry you went through that Ben :((

  • @blueforeverrez
    @blueforeverrez ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Never address a stalker as "My stalker" call them "The stalker." - BOZE 😼😼

    • @bubbybubbybubbyy
      @bubbybubbybubbyy ปีที่แล้ว

      YESSS HAHA

    • @burntcrumbs
      @burntcrumbs 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Or "A Stalker" to make them sound even less menacing

  • @bee_sauce
    @bee_sauce ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was half expecting him to say “my name is Benjamin thank you for coming to my TedTalk”

  • @hazebue3522
    @hazebue3522 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    24:53 he predicted the future because it sounded like Ben said “Karmas a --“

  • @Lorelei725
    @Lorelei725 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Honestly,people expect that there favorite TH-camr is gonna just let them in there house and hangout and make videos When there NOT AND ITS SO UNCOMFORTABLE FOR THE PEOPLE,THEY DONT KNOW EACHOTHER AND PEOPLE NEED TO RELIZE THIS MAKES PEOPLE VERY UNCOMFORTABLE AND STUFF
    and i hope ben wont quit,if he decides to do it,its ok bc we want the best for him!

  • @B4leyy
    @B4leyy ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I LOVE UR VIDEOS SO FREAKING MUCH BEN

  • @mayplays8290
    @mayplays8290 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    6:14 I don’t know why but I loved this so much

  • @vonztein
    @vonztein ปีที่แล้ว +9

    being stalked is my worst nightmare 🫡

  • @tootiiluu
    @tootiiluu ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Ok it’s rlly scary being stalked by someone but a child saying Beddover of the week😭😭😭

  • @ILovesCats-r6e
    @ILovesCats-r6e 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Everyone’s saying you’re brave for dealing with a stalker. (Which you are) but you’re even more brave for going out on that stage in front of everyone.

  • @blobby.the.fat.dinosaur
    @blobby.the.fat.dinosaur 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Him coming in to talk about his trauma is so funny to me ngl

    • @GachaxxSai
      @GachaxxSai 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      real

  • @olgathecupcake3473
    @olgathecupcake3473 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hi ben!!! I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS AND I BELIEVE THAT THIS EPISODE IS GONNA BE AMAZING 🎸🎸🎸

  • @cora2479
    @cora2479 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    im so sorry ben that this happened to you. nobody deserves to be stalked unless youre a serial killer and the police are looking for you lmao. but for real nobody should go through this

  • @ivy-noodle4615
    @ivy-noodle4615 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The way his hands are shaking 😭 ❤️ telling the story

  • @MagicJest
    @MagicJest ปีที่แล้ว +5

    (13:51) "Hey, there's someone at your front door, trying to 🎵𝓴𝓲𝓵𝓵 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓽𝓸 𝓭𝓮𝓪𝓽𝓱 ✨"
    -benoftheweek, 2023.

  • @SatyrToon
    @SatyrToon 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Something everyone here should know, even if THIS one was children:
    Never call a stalker "my stalker." That can often make things worse as it appears to them as you "claiming" them and putting them in in their own spot in your life.
    This can make them feel more entitled to you.

  • @lyla9595
    @lyla9595 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Ben I’m sorry you went through this :(

  • @molly.cakess
    @molly.cakess ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The fact that he’s talking about something that you could die because of so casually 😃
    No fr it’s scary I’m sorry for you ben

  • @littlemushwoom1367
    @littlemushwoom1367 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love how he didn’t lose his sense of humor while he was on stage

  • @corneliakjrsgaard7988
    @corneliakjrsgaard7988 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Congratulations with 300.000 subscribers🎉🎉

  • @alilopez-g1h
    @alilopez-g1h 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Whoever said “wanna bet” is wild🙏

  • @kamryn308
    @kamryn308 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    YESSS BEN GOOD JOB OF BEATING THE STALKER

  • @lemonsideddice
    @lemonsideddice ปีที่แล้ว +4

    im so sorry this happened to you also dont refer to them as MY stalker because that makes them feel that theyre still like connected to you or whatever if that makes sense its better to refer to them as THE stalker

  • @holylordfrogbean
    @holylordfrogbean ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Stalkers need to get a life or something, you cannot watch people sleep and think what you're doing is legal. People need to find a better way to appreciate their favorite icons. I'm glad you dealt with them. You always do a good job, and you did this while putting out content for us. What a king👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻!!!

  • @SCARAMOUCHE_L0VER5
    @SCARAMOUCHE_L0VER5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thats horrifying im srry you had to go through that

  • @benitas_queen
    @benitas_queen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    ben dover of the week 😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @all.about_ellie
    @all.about_ellie 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    “yall know what hockey is right?” Ben they have an NHL team 😭😭

  • @polarbear2758
    @polarbear2758 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The Fact That Nobody In The Audience Laughed Yet Somehow I Am Litterary On The Floor

  • @catarinaboers794
    @catarinaboers794 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    18:02 you knwot hat m9m is one of the stalkers moms, laughing at their kid. Shes haveing s great time 😂

  • @Angel_pancake.
    @Angel_pancake. ปีที่แล้ว +6

    People really just don’t know when to quit.😟

  • @Millticker
    @Millticker 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    that one lady is having the time of her life in the crowd

  • @Goku_Editsgod
    @Goku_Editsgod หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    5:52 "Not to like doxx my mommy"

  • @BasilFay
    @BasilFay 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    3:42 I literally started dying of laughter here bro😭

  • @oolianz
    @oolianz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i am so sorry you went through this.

  • @Iknoweverything-yc4wx
    @Iknoweverything-yc4wx ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sorry you got stalked, love the fit tho

  • @kimdraxla
    @kimdraxla ปีที่แล้ว +2

    omg im sorry that happened, im glad you're safe now