I have always felt that self development is crucial for the ethical and appropriate development of mediumship. However, I have noticed how the journey of mediumship, for me, has supported self development as necessary aspect in moving forward in this journey. Having, in the past, been a person who is much more comfortable standing in the background, find myself put in rather uncomfortable situations over recent years. My first time doing platform was a experience of sheer dread of total humiliation; however, once I just moved forward with it , much of the fear subsided. I am truly a work in progress and as uncomfortable as it is, I will force myself to step into those waters. Yes, Charlie, I will join in one of your platform classes soon! 😳
I am very new to doing all this but my sister said to me the other day that”do you remember the visual thing we used to do”… as children I would get my sister to think of a place and give cues like think of weather but don’t tell me etc and I would close my eyes and explain to her what I see. This was years ago and so rarely I was wrong!
Oh dear, no wonder I have a challenge unfolding evidence, I have Never been nosey, and I shy away from more than a sentence, or 2 in social situations. I appreciate this, as I want to serve spirit the best I can.
train the everyday mind, and this will simply move into the mediumship mind. if you see that its teaching you to bring you out of your comfort zone, sometimes its easier to deal with thanks for watching
This video is so funny. At a workshop, I was on platform, and I had a spirit lady, Violet, who loved pink I knew who I was with and gave Violet with her pink coat, to a lady in the congregation. The person running the workshop said I didn't have to give the colour, which surprised me. The lady said, Yes, I should give all detail as this ws evidence of her aunt. So, Yes, give it all. Thank you, Charlie
Eye-opening video. So I communicate with animals primarily. Last night I started asking more detailed questions so I could get more detailed answers. IT WORKED!!!♥️ Thank you!!!!!!
Please make more medium and advanced mediumship techniques, I was born an evidential medium but only reading for others for about 20 years. Thank you for your teachings
I’ve gotten better at breaking down my shyness with people and trying to brighten their day even if that’s just a hey there or hello or simple questions as you mentioned.
Or just be a Virgo (detail oriented) 😂 .. kidding. I agree. Being social enough (still abit of a hermit) and detail oriented has helped me in my development. Thanks again for the great video Charlie. 🤙🏾💜
Oh my gosh! This video is the best! My kids always tease me because I talk to people in the stores all the time. HA HA - I am definitely going to try this in my mediumship! I get things and always just assume well, that’s all there is. You have totally changed my perspective. Thank you so very much for this video! I need to not be shy with spirits as I’m not with people here LOL
I always understood not to interrogate when doing mediumship readings. I don't like to ask questions, I'd rather wait until spirit offers what is important for me to know to deliver a message to their loved one.
What he is saying is not about interrogating but about consciously practising to opening up the mind and expand our references in order to have that flow in communication with spirit, precisely what you explain that you waiting for. When we expand our knowledge in any aspect we hold that in our consciousness and then sprit can use it to their advantage when relaying things to us. I totally understand not wanting to ask to many questions, I prefer the natural flow as well when I do a reading. But spirit cannot give us what we do not understand, so it's fun to practise and grow :)
I think more of spirit as just another living human being. Communication is a two way street, right? How could we speak with anyone if we don't ask and answer questions. It's more fun being more involved.
AAAAAAAAAWESOME vid mate! thanks so much! I notice how strongly my relations with people draw a perfect parallel with spirit and how they come through thanks so much mate for the reminder!
LOVED this video! I want ALL the details of stories in everyday life😂 but in my mediumship I find when I ask spirit a question my conscious mind jumps in and answers random things. I’ve had more success just offering up my mind for them to impress their story..... BUT I SO wanna be nosey 😂 how Charlie???? Really loved the handbag story
become nosey in life, then mediumship will do it naturally just be you in mediumship, then everything you are will be present in mediumship thats why its a massive step in self development
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I totally agree with being nosy-more people than not love to talk about themselves and will be quite free with information. But like the living I do find that some spirits seem to be easier to talk to than others. Is it just me and the interpretation or are some really easier to understand?
it will mean, you find some people easier to talk to than others in real life, and your taking that approach into mediumship. i see them as spirit, not as a human, and so i dont really come across this problem, maybe change the perspective :)
Yes I call my self a people watcher. I like to see how people react in certain situations I only take it in for my own knowledge to learn but yes I’m a nosey one!! 🤣🤣
But how does that not make you go into your thinking mind when you are doing that? That is what I don't understand. If you are "trying" then you are going into your thinking mind and away from the spirit person. So do you just ask, wait and allow for something to come? I am one who does not ask questions but just allows what they want to say to come so this is something I cannot quite understand as to how or why to do this. I understand it for if the sitter is asking for specifics but again then I feel like I would get into my head possibly but if it is us who wants it, is it not just our ego wanting more?
In psychology there is a technique of asking open questions to a client as a means of getting a person to open up about themselves verses a closed question. A closed question is usually a yes or no answer. Yes no answers tend to get mediums in their head because it is easy for the thinking brain to answer yes or no. Also yes no questions kind of end a discussion and there is a lack of an ability to get more information because of the finalized answer a yes or no response brings. However, what Charlie is talking about (I think) and what other teachers have talked about is taking more of an open question approach in terms of getting more of a story. For example when a medium receives information from a comminicator the medium says "Then what happened" or "Tell me more" or some version of this open ended questioning. There is less of a chance of a medium getting into their head and it still is in the vein of receiving information and telling the story. Many teachers call it different things (going deeper, getting more of the story, drilling down, getting more details, exausting the evidence and what Charlie calls dialing it in) but it is basically the same concept of the same principal. That is my understanding anyway. Maybe Charlie will say something different.
@@megandendinger6458 I think the greater point beyond the type of question is if you are not used to doing this in your everyday it may be a difficult transition to get deeper evidence in your mediumship. So if you are someone who doesn't ask questions normally of anyone in normal life, it may be difficult in your mediumship to get. Thus, doing this with people you know or meet will turn out to be helpful in communication with spirit. But I could be totally misunderstanding as well, but that is what I got from it.
Spirit people are individual , different characters, personalities so as on earth they might not want to answer questions they have their intelligence when they pass. I am puzzled to what is regarded as in your opinion , it is direct conversation with Spirit individuals that is all !! Embellishing content of course you ask for more and if you recieve silence then it is obvious nothing will be forth coming. Whether they are speaking as nothing to do with the Medium., it is their choice and their information is for the loved ones. You do not ask the recipient questions , as to what you are receiving , that could be classed as psychic. The Spirit world is eager and willing to work with us, that is why they choose their ambassadors before birth witness Gordon Higginson life story on the memorial website I advise to seek his videos on yt and see how he works.
i dont need to seek out his videos, to see bow it works, i myself know how it works, and it is most def not chosen before birth, that is a very egotiscal way of thinking. I will continue to work in my way, and like gordon, let my work speak for itself, as he did.
The more and more I do this, the more and more I realize it is like having a conversation with a friend. 🙂 Thanks for the video!
at last
I’m already inquisitive. I feel good about this mediumship ! Thanks Charlie !
I have always felt that self development is crucial for the ethical and appropriate development of mediumship. However, I have noticed how the journey of mediumship, for me, has supported self development as necessary aspect in moving forward in this journey. Having, in the past, been a person who is much more comfortable standing in the background, find myself put in rather uncomfortable situations over recent years. My first time doing platform was a experience of sheer dread of total humiliation; however, once I just moved forward with it , much of the fear subsided. I am truly a work in progress and as uncomfortable as it is, I will force myself to step into those waters. Yes, Charlie, I will join in one of your platform classes soon! 😳
I have always felt I was a journalist getting the true answers . I’m naturally curious about people so this does help
thanks for watching
I am very new to doing all this but my sister said to me the other day that”do you remember the visual thing we used to do”… as children I would get my sister to think of a place and give cues like think of weather but don’t tell me etc and I would close my eyes and explain to her what I see. This was years ago and so rarely I was wrong!
Oh dear, no wonder I have a challenge unfolding evidence, I have Never been nosey, and I shy away from more than a sentence, or 2 in social situations. I appreciate this, as I want to serve spirit the best I can.
train the everyday mind, and this will simply move into the mediumship mind. if you see that its teaching you to bring you out of your comfort zone, sometimes its easier to deal with
thanks for watching
This video is so funny. At a workshop, I was on platform, and I had a spirit lady, Violet, who loved pink I knew who I was with and gave Violet with her pink coat, to a lady in the congregation. The person running the workshop said I didn't have to give the colour, which surprised me. The lady said, Yes, I should give all detail as this ws evidence of her aunt. So, Yes, give it all. Thank you, Charlie
Eye-opening video. So I communicate with animals primarily. Last night I started asking more detailed questions so I could get more detailed answers. IT WORKED!!!♥️ Thank you!!!!!!
Please make more medium and advanced mediumship techniques, I was born an evidential medium but only reading for others for about 20 years. Thank you for your teachings
This one is pure genius. I’m shocked at the evidence you say you/we can get, wow, name on license number, really? Great video.
I’ve gotten better at breaking down my shyness with people and trying to brighten their day even if that’s just a hey there or hello or simple questions as you mentioned.
great to hear, keep breaking the boundaries :)
Or just be a Virgo (detail oriented) 😂 .. kidding. I agree. Being social enough (still abit of a hermit) and detail oriented has helped me in my development. Thanks again for the great video Charlie. 🤙🏾💜
lol, thanks for watching
Oh my gosh! This video is the best! My kids always tease me because I talk to people in the stores all the time. HA HA - I am definitely going to try this in my mediumship! I get things and always just assume well, that’s all there is. You have totally changed my perspective. Thank you so very much for this video! I need to not be shy with spirits as I’m not with people here LOL
I always understood not to interrogate when doing mediumship readings. I don't like to ask questions, I'd rather wait until spirit offers what is important for me to know to deliver a message to their loved one.
What he is saying is not about interrogating but about consciously practising to opening up the mind and expand our references in order to have that flow in communication with spirit, precisely what you explain that you waiting for. When we expand our knowledge in any aspect we hold that in our consciousness and then sprit can use it to their advantage when relaying things to us. I totally understand not wanting to ask to many questions, I prefer the natural flow as well when I do a reading. But spirit cannot give us what we do not understand, so it's fun to practise and grow :)
@@barbaraallin9186 makes sense! Thank you.
@Intuitive Diane it's all about using our Clairs - makes sense. Thanks Diane!
I think more of spirit as just another living human being. Communication is a two way street, right? How could we speak with anyone if we don't ask and answer questions. It's more fun being more involved.
Thanks Charlie. Yes, mediumship development is personal development!
thats why i say "everyday mediumship"
Thank you always for these reminders👍🏻
You are so welcome
You are amazing fella
AAAAAAAAAWESOME vid mate! thanks so much! I notice how strongly my relations with people draw a perfect parallel with spirit and how they come through thanks so much mate for the reminder!
Really good advice Charlie 😁, I hope you come to Australia,, one day soon!
trying to get it up and running, very difficult being this far away and organising
Great video and advice, thanks.
Hi Charlie ! I really hope you are ok, safe and well ..... you haven’t posted for a long time on TH-cam. Best wishes to you !
LOVED this video!
I want ALL the details of stories in everyday life😂 but in my mediumship I find when I ask spirit a question my conscious mind jumps in and answers random things. I’ve had more success just offering up my mind for them to impress their story..... BUT I SO wanna be nosey 😂 how Charlie????
Really loved the handbag story
become nosey in life, then mediumship will do it naturally
just be you in mediumship, then everything you are will be present in mediumship
thats why its a massive step in self development
Thank you.
Very accurate and interesting indeed !
6.5 hours into answering the comments, while we was working in geneva
thanks for watching
and a bigger thank you for being my voice in Geneva
Thank you love light and blessings x
thanks for watching
No worries it's my pleasure I like the way you say it as it is. Hope you have a great day x
Love the videos and Lives! I recommend that anyone who is interested in learning a no-nonsense approach to Mediumship, which is available to everyone, not just a chosen few, that you peruse all of Charlie's catalogue of videos and lives. Subscribe, like, share and save to a playlist so you can peruse time and time again.
Very good points...
Hi Charley. I love to work like this.
To mention, 'Detail' above is mis-spelt 🙃
Lol great concept! I love to get the “backstory” and dig deeper in my readings :)
I totally agree with being nosy-more people than not love to talk about themselves and will be quite free with information. But like the living I do find that some spirits seem to be easier to talk to than others. Is it just me and the interpretation or are some really easier to understand?
it will mean, you find some people easier to talk to than others in real life, and your taking that approach into mediumship. i see them as spirit, not as a human, and so i dont really come across this problem, maybe change the perspective :)
Thank you , 🙏
thanks for watching
I'm totally noZy, haha. Great to know this is useful in mediumship! My kids hate it!
😂😂😂😂😂
Yes I call my self a people watcher. I like to see how people react in certain situations I only take it in for my own knowledge to learn but yes I’m a nosey one!! 🤣🤣
But how does that not make you go into your thinking mind when you are doing that? That is what I don't understand. If you are "trying" then you are going into your thinking mind and away from the spirit person. So do you just ask, wait and allow for something to come? I am one who does not ask questions but just allows what they want to say to come so this is something I cannot quite understand as to how or why to do this. I understand it for if the sitter is asking for specifics but again then I feel like I would get into my head possibly but if it is us who wants it, is it not just our ego wanting more?
In psychology there is a technique of asking open questions to a client as a means of getting a person to open up about themselves verses a closed question. A closed question is usually a yes or no answer. Yes no answers tend to get mediums in their head because it is easy for the thinking brain to answer yes or no. Also yes no questions kind of end a discussion and there is a lack of an ability to get more information because of the finalized answer a yes or no response brings.
However, what Charlie is talking about (I think) and what other teachers have talked about is taking more of an open question approach in terms of getting more of a story. For example when a medium receives information from a comminicator the medium says "Then what happened" or "Tell me more" or some version of this open ended questioning.
There is less of a chance of a medium getting into their head and it still is in the vein of receiving information and telling the story. Many teachers call it different things (going deeper, getting more of the story, drilling down, getting more details, exausting the evidence and what Charlie calls dialing it in) but it is basically the same concept of the same principal. That is my understanding anyway. Maybe Charlie will say something different.
I understand and use this technique when I feel is needed but it seems like he is referring to being more specific with the questions.
@@megandendinger6458 I think the greater point beyond the type of question is if you are not used to doing this in your everyday it may be a difficult transition to get deeper evidence in your mediumship. So if you are someone who doesn't ask questions normally of anyone in normal life, it may be difficult in your mediumship to get. Thus, doing this with people you know or meet will turn out to be helpful in communication with spirit. But I could be totally misunderstanding as well, but that is what I got from it.
Good thing I ask lots of questions and want to get down to the nitty gritty with people. LOL
@@megandendinger6458 LOL! Exactly!
Spirit people are individual , different characters, personalities so as on earth they might not want to answer questions they have their intelligence when they pass. I am puzzled to what is regarded as in your opinion , it is direct conversation with Spirit individuals that is all !! Embellishing content of course you ask for more and if you recieve silence then it is obvious nothing will be forth coming. Whether they are speaking as nothing to do with the Medium., it is their choice and their information is for the loved ones. You do not ask the recipient questions , as to what you are receiving , that could be classed as psychic. The Spirit world is eager and willing to work with us, that is why they choose their ambassadors before birth witness Gordon Higginson life story on the memorial website I advise to seek his videos on yt and see how he works.
i dont need to seek out his videos, to see bow it works, i myself know how it works, and it is most def not chosen before birth, that is a very egotiscal way of thinking. I will continue to work in my way, and like gordon, let my work speak for itself, as he did.