Perfect! Yes it is extremely important to set emotional boundries. A lot of that is pure manipulation. They want to be babied. Nobody needs that. Stay strong & stay happy.
I just want to know why they make it SO blatantly obvious they're in a bad mood, but when you ask them why they're in a bad mood, they snap back with, "I'M NOT IN A BAD MOOD." Like BRUH.
I think being an empath I take on other people’s emotions like they’re my own that’s why I need to take space in relationship so I can cultivate my own moods and feelings
CR Victory yeah me too! I find relationships more difficult then others so I tend to avoid it and stay by myself maybe one day I will change and want to be closer to someone and share my life like normal people do
Same. I'm currently watching this because I can't seem to go out anywhere with my boyfriend without him spoiling it with his mood and then it completely changes the way I'm feeling. I don't know if he does it on purpose but either way it's pissing me off because it works. It makes me just want to take off my dress and makeup and go put on a pair of sweatpants with a bowl of ice cream. Even though I've been looking forward to whatever it is we were going to go do for weeks. I'm so fed up with my partner dictating whether I'm in a good mood that day or not when it's not because of my actions and i cant avoid him for life unless we separated and if it's because of mental health he's completely unwilling to get it checked out.
RinnaRoo Ugh I deal with the same thing. I really don’t even know what to do. It’s exhausting. I’ve worked so hard on myself so it sucks being with someone who drains my energy.
Waw! You made this video for me! Everything you said rung so true for me. My husband looks miserable at the moment and I've asked him if he is ok and that it would seem that something is up. But he says he's fine... no eye contact... no chat... one word answers and I know that if I continue to ask him he will just get annoyed. But I feel it affecting me. I like to see him happy and chatty. I would make him smile in a heart beat but he's unobtainable right now and so I'm left with such negativity and feeling rotten and I don't want to feel this way. It's so difficult not to let it affect me. Thank you for your advice. I do naturally distance myself because I cant be around him when he is like this but I dont vocalise why. I will not be manipulated, so I need to stay strong. Ps he's not a bad person, he's an amazing person but the mood swings can be very difficult to navigate. Thank you again :)
I feel your pain? Is it going better for you since your message here 1 year ago? My hubby is a good man too but wow can he be moody and snappy. I walk away but I fear that we are growing apart because I am avoiding him too much. I’d rather be alone and happy.
Thank you very much for this explanation!!! I have a question: When is the point when you should leave a relationship with a moody partner? What if the partner's moods affect you? I know you are also responsible for your emotions but maybe a yogi monk could live in a negative environment and not be affected. I'm struggling to understand what is a healthy boundary for me. I am the one who always wants to save a relationship and I have issues recognising when the relationship gets too toxic/harmful for me, especially with a grumpy or moody partner. Thank you for your help.
Yes, my partner has been grumpy last 2 years. He’s 65, maybe an age thing ? I’m 52. I researched that some older people can get moody. He has anxiety problems and financial stress from his work, it’s all effecting me and I’m doing my best not to argue with him or he might snap back. Inside myself I’m sad about it, sometimes I feel like running away. Thanks for this video x
My partner isnt just grumpy, his mood changes from day to day, like every three days. He hasn't been diagnosed with bipolar or personality disorder. I worry his mood changes might mean he is not interested in me, or is interested in someone else...
I came across this video today thanks for explaining the part where to take Care of yourself and not own your partners emotions and we don’t have to change our mood to a lower vibration to match theirs .
Thank you so much. Just what I needed to hear and the 3 tips. Very helpful. It’s so true that the first thing I think of when my husband is in a “mood”, I’m asking myself “what did I do?”…it’s ridiculous I know!!
My hubby was in a completely bitchy mood the other day and I felt frustrated. I said to him ‘please take responsibility for your mood!’ He didn’t like this and was about to fire back when a big blob of snow fell off the roof and onto his head! Ha ha ha I said ‘wow Karma came fast’ lol I had to walk away before he really escalated but I felt some sort of power when that snow fell and landed on him 😂😂😂😂 I felt like I had some super power ha ha ha!
This was very helpful! I think a practice I may take is when my husband goes into his down moods, I’ll remove myself by going out or doing something for me, that way I’m comforting myself but also I don’t reward this behavior
This really helped me. Thank you so much. I’m newly married and had no idea how moody he was. He rushed me down the aisle and I bought into it. Now it’s a daily mood thing, and he’s absolutely in denial about needing any medical help, so I’ve felt helpless. What you said in your video is very helpful. I will work on this. Thank you.
Really needed to hear this!!! I am trying the same exact thing now after many years of taking on his problems on me. Just needed to know I was doing the right thing and if there is anything else I could do. Thank you for your advise!
I am so tired of me having to take the anger....bad moods....moody mess from my Husband. He does not Express himself with the people who do him wrong....it get mad at me.
Love. Stay strong. Just do whatever makes you happy. Stop taking responsibility for his bad mood. He’s influencing and manipulating you with his bad mood. Don’t fall for it. It’s hard at first. You’ll learn it slowly. Good luck
what if I am in a bad mood too, I am barely holding together and then my boyfriend gets grumpy and talk to me in a very unpleasant manner, and upsets me even more.
With my wife, she incredibly moody....and when she gets into (what is very frequent) "her" mood...I ALWAYS step in front of that bus, something will be said that I find hurtful...and I will lash out and say something not so nice and then all of sudden the issue has become ME.....! It's like a damn trap and I always fall for it. Example: Me: "hey has was your day". Her: "dont worry about it". Me: Jeez I was just asking, why do you have to be so grumpy".... AND from there...I am in the wrong apologizing for becoming angry with her being angry....! Maybe it is me..... :-(
This is usually how I respond but then my partner will say I am talking to them like they are a child. I try hard to be understanding and well rounded in my responses in setting boundaries. But maybe part of it is me. Thanks for this. I will give this a try again!
Perfect! Yes it is extremely important to set emotional boundries. A lot of that is pure manipulation. They want to be babied. Nobody needs that. Stay strong & stay happy.
Well said 👏
I just want to know why they make it SO blatantly obvious they're in a bad mood, but when you ask them why they're in a bad mood, they snap back with, "I'M NOT IN A BAD MOOD." Like BRUH.
Lolol
Then they say you're the one being grumpy...like bruh!
My every day life lol
Manipulation
😂😂😂😂😂😂.Story of my life.
I think being an empath I take on other people’s emotions like they’re my own that’s why I need to take space in relationship so I can cultivate my own moods and feelings
Absolutely. Thank you for sharing.
Jasmine, you sound just like me. I’m an empath, and I need breaks from people especially my moody husband. Alone time rejuvenates my soul.
CR Victory yeah me too! I find relationships more difficult then others so I tend to avoid it and stay by myself maybe one day I will change and want to be closer to someone and share my life like normal people do
Same. I'm currently watching this because I can't seem to go out anywhere with my boyfriend without him spoiling it with his mood and then it completely changes the way I'm feeling. I don't know if he does it on purpose but either way it's pissing me off because it works. It makes me just want to take off my dress and makeup and go put on a pair of sweatpants with a bowl of ice cream. Even though I've been looking forward to whatever it is we were going to go do for weeks. I'm so fed up with my partner dictating whether I'm in a good mood that day or not when it's not because of my actions and i cant avoid him for life unless we separated and if it's because of mental health he's completely unwilling to get it checked out.
RinnaRoo Ugh I deal with the same thing. I really don’t even know what to do. It’s exhausting. I’ve worked so hard on myself so it sucks being with someone who drains my energy.
Waw! You made this video for me! Everything you said rung so true for me. My husband looks miserable at the moment and I've asked him if he is ok and that it would seem that something is up. But he says he's fine... no eye contact... no chat... one word answers and I know that if I continue to ask him he will just get annoyed. But I feel it affecting me. I like to see him happy and chatty. I would make him smile in a heart beat but he's unobtainable right now and so I'm left with such negativity and feeling rotten and I don't want to feel this way. It's so difficult not to let it affect me. Thank you for your advice. I do naturally distance myself because I cant be around him when he is like this but I dont vocalise why. I will not be manipulated, so I need to stay strong. Ps he's not a bad person, he's an amazing person but the mood swings can be very difficult to navigate. Thank you again :)
I feel your pain? Is it going better for you since your message here 1 year ago? My hubby is a good man too but wow can he be moody and snappy. I walk away but I fear that we are growing apart because I am avoiding him too much. I’d rather be alone and happy.
Thank you very much for this explanation!!! I have a question: When is the point when you should leave a relationship with a moody partner? What if the partner's moods affect you? I know you are also responsible for your emotions but maybe a yogi monk could live in a negative environment and not be affected. I'm struggling to understand what is a healthy boundary for me. I am the one who always wants to save a relationship and I have issues recognising when the relationship gets too toxic/harmful for me, especially with a grumpy or moody partner. Thank you for your help.
I’d like to know this also.
I also. Very wearing on a person!
Yes, my partner has been grumpy last 2 years. He’s 65, maybe an age thing ? I’m 52. I researched that some older people can get moody. He has anxiety problems and financial stress from his work, it’s all effecting me and I’m doing my best not to argue with him or he might snap back. Inside myself I’m sad about it, sometimes I feel like running away. Thanks for this video x
It is hard taking responsibility for your own mood with a grumpy person in the same house.Unless you move out temporarily.
My partner isnt just grumpy, his mood changes from day to day, like every three days. He hasn't been diagnosed with bipolar or personality disorder. I worry his mood changes might mean he is not interested in me, or is interested in someone else...
I came across this video today thanks for explaining the part where to take
Care of yourself and not own your partners emotions and we don’t have to change our mood to a lower vibration to match theirs .
Thank you so much. Just what I needed to hear and the 3 tips. Very helpful. It’s so true that the first thing I think of when my husband is in a “mood”, I’m asking myself “what did I do?”…it’s ridiculous I know!!
My hubby was in a completely bitchy mood the other day and I felt frustrated. I said to him ‘please take responsibility for your mood!’ He didn’t like this and was about to fire back when a big blob of snow fell off the roof and onto his head! Ha ha ha I said ‘wow Karma came fast’ lol I had to walk away before he really escalated but I felt some sort of power when that snow fell and landed on him 😂😂😂😂 I felt like I had some super power ha ha ha!
😂😂😂🤣
😂😂😂
Thanks for the laugh 🤣🤣🤣
This was very helpful! I think a practice I may take is when my husband goes into his down moods, I’ll remove myself by going out or doing something for me, that way I’m comforting myself but also I don’t reward this behavior
Points 2 its a great advice because all the time since two years when i got married i feels his bad or unpredictable moods is my mistake
It could be Narcisisstic Personaliy Disorder.....so miserably moody along with all of the other things that come with NPD
This really helped me. Thank you so much. I’m newly married and had no idea how moody he was. He rushed me down the aisle and I bought into it. Now it’s a daily mood thing, and he’s absolutely in denial about needing any medical help, so I’ve felt helpless. What you said in your video is very helpful. I will work on this. Thank you.
What ended up happening with your relationship?
Really needed to hear this!!! I am trying the same exact thing now after many years of taking on his problems on me. Just needed to know I was doing the right thing and if there is anything else I could do.
Thank you for your advise!
I love this thank you so much exactly what I needed after this long past week.
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! FOR THIS!!!! I’m going through this right now and it’s so difficult. Thank you for teaching me about this.
This was so helpful❤️ thank you!
Glad it was helpful!
It's an extremely great advice .
Thank you very much indeed for your daily educative information
I am so tired of me having to take the anger....bad moods....moody mess from my Husband. He does not Express himself with the people who do him wrong....it get mad at me.
Love. Stay strong. Just do whatever makes you happy. Stop taking responsibility for his bad mood. He’s influencing and manipulating you with his bad mood. Don’t fall for it. It’s hard at first. You’ll learn it slowly. Good luck
what if I am in a bad mood too, I am barely holding together and then my boyfriend gets grumpy and talk to me in a very unpleasant manner, and upsets me even more.
Go to 4:55.
That’s very sound advice … thank you 💐
With my wife, she incredibly moody....and when she gets into (what is very frequent) "her" mood...I ALWAYS step in front of that bus, something will be said that I find hurtful...and I will lash out and say something not so nice and then all of sudden the issue has become ME.....! It's like a damn trap and I always fall for it. Example: Me: "hey has was your day". Her: "dont worry about it". Me: Jeez I was just asking, why do you have to be so grumpy".... AND from there...I am in the wrong apologizing for becoming angry with her being angry....! Maybe it is me..... :-(
The 3 water zodiac signs are the worst in this topic
Yup my husband is a Pisces and the high and lows are so hard to deal with.
@@Thefairyvixen very difficult sign
AGREED 😩 dealing with a Cancerian here, my mom’s one too and the similarities are undeniable. Send help 🤣
This is usually how I respond but then my partner will say I am talking to them like they are a child. I try hard to be understanding and well rounded in my responses in setting boundaries. But maybe part of it is me. Thanks for this. I will give this a try again!
Thanks for sharing!!
Great advice
This is great info thank you.
Very helpful 👌☺.
Thank you so much!
my bf is like a dead fish...haha
It was really helpfull thank you so much
11:09 what to say
i want to be a good girlfriend for my boyfriend, but i get moody so easily. i feel bad for him. im scared he will leave me one day because of it
Let me tell you one thing .. he is definetly going to dump you! Nothing sucks more than a moody partner ! Its draining ! Go to therapy
Mine is very moody especially with work he admitted it’s messing with us smh
What do you do when your loved 1 always moan and never be grateful for good things that come their way?
Skip to 5:00 🕔 💕☺️
First 2 minutes crap
Get to the point
3 minutes to get into the actual subject? You talk to much filler get to the point please.
Your presentation seems too cookie cutter... too fake and automated